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Meet Author, Mitch Aguirre From interviewing and spending time with some of the most successful people in history from politics, business, and sports, including President Donald Trump, Cindy Crawford, Magic Johnson, Mary Kay Ash, Dan Quayle, Jenny Craig, and dozens more, Mitchell gained rare insight into the mindset, decision-making acumen, and other key traits to attaining success. However, all this research and knowledge gained from being a faithful follower of self-help products, Mitchell realized that self-help products continue to sell because their advice continues not to work. He also studied the causes of failure of 75 formerly well-respected and successful leaders, like himself, including billionaires, corporate executives, politicians, celebrities, and more—people who were once at the pinnacle of success but failed and went to prison.
A New Type of Self-Help Book Unlike traditional self-help products that fail to address the negatives within us. Deserving Victory details The 5 Devices of Failure and how to neutralize their effect in our thinking and actions. This opens the door to successfully applying the proven habits of the super successful—and attaining the life you want and deserve. Deserving Victory is the product of 20 years of research, study, and interviews with history’s most successful achievers and failures. It unveils proven insights to success NEVER before presented. Learn more about his book and get a copy at ... www.deservingvictory.com
From studying the causes of the “Successful Failures,” Mitchell uncovered five distinct negative mental habits that our ego uses to sabotage us. These habits prevent us from effectively applying positive and proven advice, thus causing poor decision making, which prevents success and causes failure. He grew to realize that unless these five negative mental habits are dealt with, we will never fully apply the critical advice and input necessary to ensuring success. Mitchell considers this to be the missing link to attaining what you want in life.l. Check out Mitch's LinedIn profile HERE: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mitchell-aguirre-03a43a1/
ESTATE PLANNING WILLS -v- TRUSTS So many people delay creating an estate plan because they don’t think they own enough, they’re not old enough, or they just don’t want to think about it. It does not matter how large or small your estate is, in either case, there is plenty of unfinished business for your loved ones to take care of upon your incapacity or untimely death. This is why you should take action now to plan your estate. • First, estate planning provides a road map to accomplish unfinished business. It prevents your family from having to guess or, even worse, quarrel. • Second, estate planning keeps your and your family’s affairs private. Without a proper estate plan, your family’s matters are sorted out publicly through the probate process. • Third, you probably also want to control how and to whom your assets are distributed and not leave it up to a probate court to make a public decision for you. An estate plan can help accomplish your goals by you expressing, in writing, who you want to receive your assets and when you would like them to receive those assets. • Fourth, an estate plan can also include health care directives to give you a voice about your medical treatment when you may not be able to speak for yourself. • Fifth, you can create an estate plan now, and change it as life goes.
LAST WILL AND TESTAMENT: In Nevada, whether you die with or without a Last Will and Testament, your estate will be subject to the probate process if your assets meet the statutory limits. If you die without a Will, Nevada Statute dictates who can represent your estate as Administrator, and who reaps the rewards of your hard-earned assets. These ‘heirs’ may or may not be the person(s) you would like to benefit from your estate and sometimes may be individuals you did not know existed. Conversely, if you have a valid Will, the person(s) you named in your Will are generally appointed by the Court as your Executor(s), and your assets are distributed to your named beneficiaries upon final approval by the Court. RECOVABLE LIVING TRUST: A Revocable Living Trust (RLT) is an effective tool for preserving privacy, eliminating the need for probate
and preparing your estate for ease of transition upon your death. The RLT is established by written agreement and records the arrangement wherein you transfer ownership of your property into the Trust during your lifetime. The RLT is created by the Trustor (you), who generally also serves as Trustee, and retains ownership and complete control of all assets transferred. The RLT offers flexibility for you to manage your estate, is revocable and may be amended by you during your lifetime Drafting and funding a RLT is more expensive than executing a simple Will; however, avoiding probate makes the RLT the better investment. Estate Planning Chair, Delwyn Webber, Esquire, Black & LoBello Law, 10777 W. Twain Avenue, Suite 300, Las Vegas, NV 89135, (702)869-8801
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How To Brand Yourself As A Thought Leader When you are perceived and received as a thought leader, you will find it easier to attract better, more qualified clients. Moreover, you will generate more referrals and invitations as a speaker at prestigious events and conferences. There's a strong correlation between being a good content creator (making clear, nuanced, defensible content) and being regarded a genuine thought leader. The Derivation of Authority Interestingly, the word authority is derived from the word author. Dictionary.com defines the word author as, “the maker of anything; creator; originator.” When you create clear, nuanced, and defensible content which resonates in the hearts and minds of your audiences, you elevate your status as an authority; a thought leader. Content creators (authors, bloggers, hosts of shows, podcasters, etc.) create a higher level of trust in the minds of
audiences and prospective clientele.
Making The Transition To Thought Leader
In addition, asking questions also increases your perceived credibility in more direct ways. As it turns out, curiosity is among the top traits needed for success in business. Showing your curiosity while involving your audience helps you build the credibility necessary to become a thought leader. Some of the content you should be looking to author is:
Transitioning your brand to one as a true thought leader requires a strategy, execution, and continuation. In other words you will need to muster up some insight, intelligence, and persistence. Becoming a thought can take some time, but offers handsome rewards.
Facebook Live video YouTube video Blogging Writing a book or ebook Podcasts TV or radio show Involve Your Audience Did you know that your readers will perceive you as more credible if you openly ask question for yourself or your audience to answer? It's called the Benjamin Franklin Effect: if you ask someone a question, they will like you more. .
My best advice is this: find the content format you are most comfortable with and start. Yes, at first it will seem difficult. You may come across as uncomfortable. But the only way through those tough moments is to persist, reiterate, and learn. Over time, you will become better and better. Your audience will see you grow and you move through your content journey. And if your content is good (on the road to becoming great), you will position yourself as a thought leader. Best, Edwin Dearborn CEO of Premiere Lead Systems https://premiereleadsystems.com/
Bio: The Orange County Register referred to Edwin Dearborn as a “Marketing Expert”. Edwin has been featured in Entrepreneur, Social Media Today and other national media outlets. Edwin was formally educated in marketing and public relations in Hollywood, CA in the early 1990’s.
SERVING VS SELLING What that means and why you want it in your business: Learn tools and techniques to help you get the results you want. Excerpt from # 1 Best Seller “Bookings When you Have no Bookings” on Amazon.com
Learning how to Serve vs. Sell and using the ASK TELL ASK approach will have your Sales Soaring this holiday Shopping Season. How can we learn to sell our self, our products, and our business opportunity better? Keep this in mind. *Selling is nothing more than the exchange of energy” The person with the most Energy WINS! When you’re offering your product, your services, your business opportunity, you are meeting needs and serving. Solving a problem. Are YOU NERVOUS when you are doing this? Nervous energy is INTERNAL, that means in your mind “it’s all about you!” When it’s all about you, it makes it Selling, trying to convince someone that they need to purchase something from you. So you need to take that nervous energy and reverse it by thinking to yourself, “How can I serve her?” When you give up the mindset that “it’s all about you” you don’t have to convince anyone, you don’t have the nervous energy… why? Because when you make it about them you are “SERVING”. Consider this, F.A.Y.C. = Forget about yourself completely!! Don’t stand in the mirror talking, practicing your smile, the tone of your voice, that doesn’t make you money! Get out there and serve. A Serving Heart brings the money to you. When people know that you truly care about their needs and their wants, they want to buy from you. You are doubling your work load when you engage with someone selling to them instead of serving them. You end up dropping the ball. When you walk away, thinking to yourself “oh I’ll get back with her later”. Then you have to reengage at a later time and say everything you need to say again and reconfirm she understands and wants it. You’re doubling the work. Ask for the booking, the cash, the opportunity to serve now, close the deal!
This is how. Let’s get into Selling vs. serving….. What does that mean? Selling is: A. Self-driven (it’s about you) B. We talk “at them,” not to them. We are not finding out their needs, we just want the sale were not trying to solve anything for them. C. “It attempts control” You’re telling them what “They Need” instead of asking what “their needs are” D. We are the decision maker, we aren’t letting them Decide for themselves what they are looking for. E. We experience rejection, were too money driven, It closes off the deal. It closes the person off. You are having to ask and beg for the sale, the booking, the opportunity to showcase your business. Serving is: A. We are Customer Driven. We are finding out “What” they need in a product or “HOW” We can help them. B. We talk “with them” not at them. What do you need? What Can I do for you regarding your personal needs in (your product) or for gifts that you may need? How can I help? C. We don’t experience rejection! That’s huge! Why? Because by finding out their needs and wants we are “Opening up our relationship with them” We are connecting with them and they feel like we care. When they feel like you care, they want to do business with you again and again. When we know what they want, then they are in. We just need to get the payment. D. This is abundance Driven. Your abundant in helping them, caring about what they need and helping them solve a problem such as a gift they may need, (they avoiding running around town,
they avoid spending too much money, you guide them through the pricing process, they can get the items for free if they can’t afford them so they can give the gifts away for free. If someone says NO, don’t be upset, you can always say, “No problem, but Mary I don’t think I really heard what your needs are at this time, what can I do for you now at this time or Please don’t hesitate to contact me to help you in the future! The formula to make Serving vs. Selling work is: ASK, TELL, ASK! What do I mean by this? You’re going to “ASK” what they want. You’re then going “to tell” by resaying what ‘you’ heard them say and offer some suggestions, then you’re going to ask again. It goes something like this: Hi Mary, I’m Heather Pich with Tocara Company, I’m the jewelry girl, I love or say (I am an expert at) helping women put together great looks for themselves or for a ‘gift or two you might need? “How” can I help you? (Did you notice how I asked a “What and a HOW” question only! You want to only use “WHAT and HOW” Why? Because when you ask a “Why” question you end up getting a long drawn out story. You don’t want that, you want to cut to the chase) (Then you wait and let your potential customer answer, listen) Then you’re going to “TELL” when you talk again. “So Mary I’m hearing you say that you are maybe looking for a great pair of earrings that you can wear everyday correct? Le Do you like to wear earrings that are smaller and either sit on the earlobe or just hang below? Or do you like something bolder that dangle and show up better with your outfit?” (Wait to hear her response) Now “Tell” “So Mary you’re looking for something long and dangly, it sounds like you want something that is more for every day wear, do you want something that is more subtle or more bling? Has more color or is all silver? (Wait for her response) then “Tell” again.
“Ok great, you’re looking for something for every day wear and I have various price ranges which can be from $29.00 up to $89, what price area do you think you’d like to be in?” (Wait for her response) then respond “Great, let me show you a few things” You proceeds to show her a few items, let her try them on, get the feel for them and then……. “Ask” “Which earrings from these choices do you think you’d like best? Get response and then proceed to close the deal by asking : “ok Great, can I write those up on an order form for you and would you like to browse some more or should I close you out?” You can pay with MC Or visa or write me a check. How would you like to do it? What works best for you?” (Don’t be shocked… You just asked for the money and the sale all while you were helping her out and making her feel comfortable) So you “ASK, TELL, ASK and in the end you ASK for the money. But you found out her need first. If you don’t ask for the money, you’re not going to get the sale. You must learn to ask! You can use this same model when you’re sponsoring someone. Just change the wording. Happy Holiday selling! With this method, you will close more sales at each show while giving each guest the best customer service and remember People don’t remember what you say… They remember how you make them Feel! ��
Heather Pich is a # 1 Best Selling Author/Sales Trainer/Life Coach and mentor. She was out in the field in the direct sales industry for 15 years building a multi million dollar organization and a Sales coach/trainer doing workshops and mindset coaching for all types training in the industry as well as regular sales coaching techniques. Feel free to reach out to her with questions or comments at Heatherepich@gmail.com or www.instantlybooked.com
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Overcoming the Personal Costs of Running Your Business by Steven Herbert, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Since coming to Vegas, I’ve come across many stories from therapy clients, close friends, and networking interviews of the many unique challenges faced by business owners. Unfortunately depression is often the result of these challenges. Some estimates suggest one third of business owners suffer depression at some point in their career. “What???” you ask. “The business owners I know are happy and confident all the time!!” Promoting a business requires a certain amount of confidence, cheer, and portraying success. What if beneath that tough outer layer is loneliness and burnout combined with poor coping and supports? And how did those nasty things get there?
Let’s get into some of those unique challenges I alluded to earlier. For business owners, many personal relationships are blended with business ones. There’s a certain level of emotional trust that might be missing. While other family relationships might get neglected due to the demands of the business. In other words, it can get lonely at the top! And while many relish the opportunities for eating out and drinking (even traveling!!) when fostering business relationships, too often this comes at a cost. Did I mention this is Vegas? There are many opportunities to deal with the wrong crowd, develop a bad coping habit to numb any negative emotions, and generate an interesting new medical condition for your doctor to ponder … from poor diet, secondhand smoke, poor sleep, excessive alcohol or other agent. On top of this, owners value their independence are used to being in charge — asking for help just doesn’t come naturally!
Personal Cost Continued When issues do arise, they tend to not get the attention they deserve. Think of normal issues like grief, a complaining spouse, health, or a teenager son or daughter with academic struggles. How does an owner find sufficient time and energy for these? Many things can be therapeutic, but positive change is difficult — or difficult to maintain (or it would’ve been done already). While therapy may not be the final answer, it’s a great first step to getting unstuck. Therapy … Provides a steady & safe relationship, a confidant.
Depression in the C-Suite Publisher's notes we never really know what is going on behind the scenes, even with people we know well, and how depression is a real and serious issue for so many entrepreneurs. Raising capital, balancing budgets, managing deadlines, and problem solving in general can create stress. This is a real aspect of the entrepreneurial lifestyle.
Teaches skills needed to improve valuable personal relationships.
Stress is go and bad. An old adage fits here: "Everything in moderation." On the flip side stress can help you perform well under pressure, pushing you to rise to the occasion. And that can be good thing when pitching a new product to investors, interviewing for a new job or speaking on stage before a sea of staring onlookers.
Improves sense of control over life’s obstacles.
Checkout these 2 TED Talks:
Can be fun, entertaining, and relaxing while gaining these benefits.
"Having feelings isn't a sign of weakness -- they mean we're human, says producer and activist Nikki Webber Allen. " Here is the link for her talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/nikki_webber_ allen_don_t_suffer_from_your_depressio n_in_silence
Answers what to do with a negative emotion. Helps build an identify apart from the business.
Steven Herbert, MS, LMFT Center for Marriage & Personal Therapy 7331 W. Charleston Blvd, #140 Las Vegas, NV 89117 702-831-8819
Sangu Delle is an entrepreneur and clean water activist from Ghana. When stress got to be too much for TED Fellow Delle, he had to confront his own deep prejudice: that men shouldn't take care of their mental health. Here is the link for his story: https://www.ted.com/talks/sangu_delle_t here_s_no_shame_in_taking_care_of_yo ur_mental_health
From Coach Christi You can BE, Do, and HAVE anything you want in life. If you're going through some tough times right now... Promise yourself this one thing. NEVER EVER EVER QUIT! It doesn't matter... -where you're at right now who or what you know -how much money you have in the bank -how good or bad your credit is -what side of the tracks you were born on -if you have a high school/college degree -if you've experienced great success and lost it all -if you've peaked in your career and don't know where to go from here What matters is your commitment to... GET BACK UP EVERY TIME YOU GET KNOCKED DOWNÂ ...is it going to be easy? No. (although we have processes that can make it easier!!!) 50% of success happens from just showing up... so promise me one thing... NEVER QUIT!!! (say it! I WILL NEVER QUIT, I WILL STAY IN THE GAME NO MATTER WHAT!) XOXO Christi
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Let’s Talk Setting Healthy Goals! SHEI SMALL
Changing your unhealthy habits is never easy, at least not as easy as procrastinating or putting off doing what is best for your body. If you truly want to see the results you wish for, the best way to do that is to set realistic goals. Having goals will put you on the fast track to success with your healthy lifestyle plan. Talk to your doctor or medical professional before you set goals. These individuals will be able to help you set healthy goals that you'll be able to reach with a little hard work. They'll also be able to point out goals that could result in dangerous eating or exercising habits. Poor eating can easily turn into an eating disorder, and when combined with unhealthy amounts of exercise, it can cause your body to weaken and make you prone to injury. When setting healthy life goals, try to come up with a plan that will allow you to reach your goals, but not without effort. As you reach your small goals you will need to evaluate and adjust them so that you can achieve the most improvement for your efforts. The
most important thing to keep in mind is balancehealthydoersllc@gmail.com. If your goals are too easy you may become frustrated by not seeing the results you think you should be seeing. If your goals are too difficult to reach it may cause you to give up your plan completely. There’s a fine line between pushing yourself too much or not enough. If you are trying to lose weight you may want to avoid setting a number goal, work towards several different goals. Set goals to cover your overall health along with the inches you want to lose from your waist or other areas, the pants size you'd like to be able to wear, and other health factors, like a certain cholesterol or blood pressure level you want to achieve. Set both long term and short-term goals and you'll be well on your way to a healthy body and a healthy life. .Shei Small Wellness & Lifestyle Coach healthydoersllc@gmail.com
DON’T SIGN ANYTHING Attorney Rena McDonald Most leases can be negotiated or “worked-out” by an experienced attorney. Owning a business doesn’t make you
The most common occurrence of this
an expert in anything else. One of
is when business owners sign a
the most common issues that see is
personal guaranty for a lease. We
business owners who are being
have seen many cases where the
personally sued after defaulting on a
business owner personally
lease that they have personally
guaranteed their lease agreement
guaranteed.
and when the business could no longer pay, the landlord filed
The main reason you create an LLC or
litigation against the owner
incorporate is so that you are
personally. The owners were
personally protected from all the
personally sued for all outstanding
debts and liabilities that a business
amounts, including interest, late fees
incurs during its lifetime. This is
and attorney’s fees and costs.
commonly referred to as a corporate veil and it typically applies to all
Most states have laws in place to
corporations and limited liability
protect both the landlord and the
companies in Nevada. But this “veil”
tenant. Typically, these laws place
can be pierced. There are several
limits on issues like premature lock-
factors that can allow a creditor to
out and interruption of utilities.
pierce the veil; including comingling of funds and not having an adequate
However, there are no laws that
operating agreement or bylaws. But
protect the business owner from
the most common way to pierce this
being pursued personally if they have
veil is when a business owner signs a
signed a personal guaranty. Even the
personal guaranty. When you sign a
most altruistic of landlords is going
personal guaranty you are promising
to make sure that their agreement is
the creditor that if the business fails
drafted to offer themselves the most
to pay its debt you will be personally
protection possible in the event that
liable; even if your business closes.
you default on your agreement.
DON’T SIGN ANYTHING Cont'd
Your best bet is to hire legal counsel
You can’t squeeze blood from a
before you sign a lease but if you
turnip and once they understand that
find yourself in this position or fear
holding you hostage in your lease or
that you may soon default on your
guaranty will provide them with no
lease there are steps that can be
benefit they begin communicating.
taken to prevent or settle litigation.
More often than not, once you retain
Many business owners are fearful
an attorney the landlord will also
that their only option is to file a
retain an attorney and the debt is
bankruptcy; however, we see this as
resolved quickly thereafter because
a last step. There are other options
experienced attorneys understand
that can be pursued prior to filing
that negotiating a settlement
bankruptcy. Most leases can be
benefits all parties. 98% of all lease
negotiated or “worked-out” by an
disputes are resolved through a lease
experienced attorney. Typically in a
work-out.
lease work-out, the landlord agrees to accept a percentage of the funds
Rena McDonald, Esq, has been
owed in exchange for the tenant
negotiating on behalf of business
terminating the lease early. Often
owners for nearly 14 years and she
times if the business owner can prove
understands that the best defense is
that they do not have sufficient
a great offense. We urge you to
income or savings the landlord will
never sign an agreement without first
accept monthly payments along with
having it reviewed by an attorney.
a promissory note.
Having an experienced attorney review your lease agreement prior to
If this does not seem like a viable
signing can only increase the
option you may be able to sublet or
protection of your business and
assign your lease to another
personal assets. Call us today to set
business..
up your free consultation at 702.448.4962.
While they may be hostile or difficult to communicate with, the truth is that
This article is for informational
most landlords will want to resolve
purposes only and does not
these issues.
constitute legal advice or representation. For additional information or to set an appointment please contact our office.
CREATING YOUR OWN CHARGE by Nadine Lajoie
IWe have all experienced times in where we have felt despondent and unmotivated. It is during these times that we must focus our attention inward to really discover the root of our unhappiness. Through doing a simple meditation at home we can connect with ourselves and begin to feel the wellspring of inspiration and joy that exists within us. I shared my experiences and hurdles, as well as my "motorcycle meditation" to help you overcome any kind of challenge or depression in my thoughtfelt book, Win the Race of Life. I suggest a
inside each of us there is a great capacity for strength and forward momentum. As women, we are responsible for creating our own charge and finding our own happiness. One way that we can overcome adversity and find harmony is by tapping into our individual energy and charging our "batteries";.
specific meditation with rock and energetic music to bring you to a different and wonderful place. A meditation can be guided and visual, or it can be simple and quiet too.
The next time you are feeling low, try this exercise. Find a place in your home where you can relax in peace. That means no television, radio or other distractions! This is your time to connect with yourself and it should be regarded as a special time. Turn the lights down low and light a favorite candle. You may even want to gather together a few items that you find to be lovely and soothing: a feather, shell or figurine.
Settle into a comfortable position and
xbatteries and move forward with our
close your eyes. Take deep, full
lives, ready to take on each new
breaths inward and slowly exhale. Just
challenge that comes our way.
focus on your breath and let your
Anytime that we feel sluggish or
mind wander. Imagine a beautiful
low energy, we can come back to this
blue sky and place each rising
power source and recharge!
thought onto a single white cloud and watch it drift away. The goal is to
If you need more inspiration or
quiet the voice in your mind; to
motivation, subscribe to Nadine's
seek comfort in the silence of
monthly newsletter by visiting
yourself.
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Spend as much time as you can
Contact Nadine directly if you need
clearing your mind. It will not be an
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easy task but the internal sense of
speaking, trainings and coaching
peace is well worth the effort. By
programs at 949-421- 7562.
connecting with ourselves in this way we can really charge our
By Murielle Fellous
Mirror work without a mirror
I know that in appearance, these situations are just what you may call facts of life, or the result of what's on the market but this is far from the truth.
The truth is, you are in an elevator and you stop at the wrong floor.
This elevator is your energy frequency elevator, you stop at the level at which you vibrate.
If you are one who worked on herself for a while or are a fan of personal and spiritual growth, you may have heard about mirror work and may even have tried it. In my experience doing mirror work is extremely powerful
If you have heard about the law of attraction you may say: "I will change my thoughts and manifest something else", accurate but incomplete.
because, as Louise Hay, the mother of mirror work, used to say, it reaches a part of you deep inside that is craving for your love and attention.
Considering that we create our life from our subconscious mind 95% of the time, you have no ideas what thoughts are creating it, you just see the results, hence the importance of
What you may not be aware of is the other
looking in the big mirror.
kind of mirror work, the one you are doing every day in your life. You see, the world is your mirror. Everywhere you go and everyone you see corresponds to a reflection of inner parts of you of which you are conscious or not. It's all you, the situations that challenge you, the people that push your buttons, the seemingly random encounters, the beauty of the sunset... they all are mirroring you and
What life is reflecting to you is the direct results of these unconscious thoughts that are running behind the curtain. Each thought will create a cascade of biochemicals in your body, making you feel a certain emotion, and this emotion is sending a frequency in the Universe, matching you with the "floor" that vibrate at the same frequency.
giving you information about who you really are and how you think "when you're not listening".
What do I mean and how to decipher that wonderful information?
You just have to find the thought... easier said than done!
Fortunately even if you can't identify your sabotaging thoughts with absolute clarity, there is a way to change, reverse engineering!
There are certain obvious factors t
Look at your results and guess what story would a person have to tell himself/herself to
Do you have areas or situations in your life or
create this kind of outcome.
business where you tend to experience struggle over and over despite your best effort?
I personally had to learn it the hard way. Through my history of painful relationships, which I created one after another, until one
Do you do business with difficult clients or may be no clients at all?hat are easily uncovered. For example:Â
day, when it became evident that I could no longer ignore these results in my life by pretending that it would somehow magically get better at some point. At that time a love
Do you, like some of my clients, tend to attract one dysfunctional relationships after another in your business or other areas of your in life?
relationship ended so painfully that, for the first time in my life, I got depressed and woke up crying one night. I will always remember that night, this is the night my life changed for
Do you find yourself constantly rushing and never seem to find the time to enjoy life due to a never-ending list of "obligations"?
good. This is the night I promised myself that would figure out how to never go through thaI
Are You A Bossy Girl? Many people think being bossy is a negative attribute, but if you really think about it, isn’t the alternative worse?
If you aren’t being a boss, someone else will end up bossing you around and, honestly, it’s much more fun to give the orders than it is to take them.
You
Bossy people get sh*t done and don’t let anything get in their way.
They run their lives the way life is supposed to be lived and aren’t concerned with anyone else’s opinion.
They want things done a certain way and won’t accept anything less. It’s probably the most efficient and beneficial way to live.
Go
Being bossy translates into every aspect of their lives, and that’s what enriches them.
From sex to relationships to business and life in general, being bossy gets you much further ahead of the game than you realize.
Girl!
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t ever again, or I would stay alone until I died.
A- acknowledge what it going on in the
That promise was a turning point. I went back
moment. Become aware of it.
to studying the subconscious mind and how to rewire my brain.
D- discard that though. Let it go, just affirm silently or out loud if you are alone (stronger
That journey started with reverse engineering.
intent) that it is the "old you" and you no
Although I had no idea about the exact story
longer want to stop on that floor.
that was leading me to attract and choose the wrong partners, I knew what a person would
D-design a new reality, define a new thought.
have to think and how she would have to
One that serves your goals or desires. Go up a
behave to create what I wanted.
floor and feel the difference in your body. Even if it is only a hope for now, it will open
She would have to implement regular self-love
the door and implant a new belief.
practices in her life to strengthen her selfworth at a brain level. So that the thoughts
Declare that you intend to become more and
and the behaviors that derived from them
more aware. Our brain is a magnificent
would support her, even when she was
machine, and when you give it a mission, a
functioning on auto pilot 95% of the time.
devoted servant. Declare it now and declare what you want on
Despite the fact that I didn't have 100% clarity about the unconscious programs that created
paper every night before going to sleep. Write
the unwanted, I could gain 100% clarity about
a mantra that corresponds to the reality you
what I wanted and how to be the one to
want to create and repeat, repeat, repeat
vibrate at that level and develop the
with feelings.
This is a tool that I now use in every area of my
As it happened to me, some of my clients
life and I teach my clients to do the same.
successfully replaced beliefs like "People don't want to pay for my products" with "People
What if you applied that in your life? In your
want my products and they pay willingly".
business? It is just a question of stopping at the right What if you could gain clarity about what kind
floor and looking in the big mirror to stay on
of clients you want to attract and no longer
track".
settle for what comes? You will get the clues if you pay attention... What if you had the courage to refuse the thoughts that don't serve you and install new ones? discernment to say no to all the rest. Here is the first step to a new wiring.
Our brain learns with both repetition and emotion, so the next time you hear yourself tell someone that "it is difficult to attract clients
who can afford your prices" refuse this idea. Practice what I call the ADD method, an acronym to explain the process. Become ADD about the thoughts that don't support you, do not focus on them.
Her coaching involves powerful questions leading to self discovery, Emotional Freedom Techniques or Tapping, and energy work, as well as using imagery as a way to open the dialogue with the subconscious mind. To get more tools about the emotional side of business or mindset shifters join her group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1232725903521080/
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