CELEBRITY MAMMA MIA! FASHION SHOOT AT THE PALAZZO HOTEL, MONTECASINO WITH CARMEN PRETORIUS AND STEPHEN JUBBER
TRUE LIFE CELEBRITY WEDDING OF NEELS & ELOISE CLASEN
WIN
DOUBLE TICKETS TO MAMMA MIA!
EXCITING DESTINATIONS HONEYMOON AND WEDDING VENUES IN ZAMBIA, MOZAMBIQUE, SOUTH AFRICA & NAMIBIA.
BRIDE OF ESSENCE COMPETITION
WIN
AN EIGHT NIGHT HONEYMOON IN SA & NAMIBIA TO THE VALUE OF R35, 000
READ THESE EXCITING 66 PAGES OF WEDDING COLOUR, FUN, AND THE VERY LATEST IN BRIDAL FASHION AND MORE... ONLINE... NOW FOR FREE
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EDITORS VOICE
EDITORS VOICE Enjoy this fabulous second issue with MAMMA MIA! Other celebrity treats include the True Life wedding of Neels & Eloise Clasen, and the wedding memories of Anrich Herbst, Murray Todd, Gina Shmukler, Marlee van der Merwe, Paul Rotherham, Leanne Manas, Nianell, Amy Kleinhans-Curd, and Wolfgang Riebe ... read their take on weddings and marriage.
This issue brings you a stunning fashion shoot by Professional Fashion Photographer Graeme Wyllie at the fabulous Palazzo Hotel, with the beautiful Carmen Pretorius and her MAMMA MIA co-star Stephen Jubber... prepare for them to Wow you in the latest SA bridal fashions from GF Bridal Couture. We had an incredible response to our first issue with over 38 000 unique page views at last count, and valuable support from both the wedding and the tourism industries. Our aim is to continue to reach a wider global market at a more affordable price, and to remain passionate and enthusiastic while appreciating everyone involved. We would like to thank everyone in this issue, our SA celebrities, contractors, contributors, sponsors and advertisers, you have been incredible and we have been so fortunate to work with you all. Thank you for your valuable support and time and sharing your special moments
with us. Every page is spectacular, we hope you enjoy turning from one to the next. Get fit and healthy and lose centimetres before your special day with Adventure Boot camp for women, it is addictive. Discover new corners of Africa, Zambia, Mozambique and Namibia and incredible locations and venues for your weddings and honeymoons. Visit the USA with Stacey & Sinclair and enjoy their New Jersey, African American Wedding, Share ‘being Pregnant and getting married with Nicolette & Warren. Vote for our fabulous photographers; and help them to WIN an incredible two night stay at Samara Private Game Reserve. Thank you to Samara for providing this wonderful prize for our winning photographer and their partner. Readers can WIN a South Africa & Namibia HONEYMOON to the value of R35000 in the Bride of Essence Competition, plus online wedding coordination
for your special day with Brides Essence & Weddings in Africa and a gift for the bride from Cazabella Jewellery. Thank you to all our valuable sponsors - Court Classique Hotel in Pretoria, Thaba Ya Batswana Eco Lodge in Johannesburg, The Palazzo Hotel, Montecasino in Johannesburg, Uris Safari Lodge in Namibia, GocheGanas Private Game reserve in Namibia and the Namibian Tourism Board who have sponsored a return flight from, South Africa to Namibia. This is a fantastic prize for one lucky reader and her groom to be. 9 Lucky readers can also WIN double tickets to the South African Production of MAMMA MIA! To all our Brides and Grooms- Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honouring each other. Romans 12:10 NLT. LOL Justine
MORE ABOUT CHERRY BERRY BLUE PUBLISHING SA
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Contents FEATURES
Plan B Wedding Insurance 3, 14 Adventure Bootcamp for Women 6, 7 SABIA Vow Awards 15 Paean of praise for Gautrain 9 African Romance 31, 34, 35 Travelling while Pregnant 37 Bouquet trends 56, 57 Flowers for all seasons 57
PROMOTIONS & COMPETITIONS
MAMMA MIA! 4, 5, 16-29, 32, 33, 63 Win Double Tickets to the MAMMA MIA! 4, 5 Win a Honeymoon to the value of R35, 000. 8 Photographers Competition 58, 59,60,61,62
CELEBRITY MAMMA MIA! TRUE LIFE CELEBRITY WEDDING OF NEELS & ELOISE CLASEN
TICKETS WIN DOUBLE TO MAMMA MIA!
Book car rental, Buy Wine, Book Accommodation, Buy Wedding Insurance
TRUE LIFE WEDDING COUPLES Ties that Bind – 10,11,12,13
Amy Kleinhans- Curd & Andrew Anrich Herbst & Mia, MAMMA MIA! Leanne Manas & Marc Menelaou Marlee van der Merwe & Frans, MAMMA MIA! Gina Schmukler & Paul, MAMMA MIA! Wolfgang & Sonia Riebe Murray Todd & Jo Galloway, MAMMA MIA! Nianell & Andrew Paul & Zina Rotherham Expectant Bride Nicolette Da Costa & Warren Schmidt, 36 Getting Married in the USA Stacey Oakley & Sinclair Davis, 33 True Life Celebrity Wedding Neels & Eloise Clasen, MAMMA MIA! 32, 33
Editorial Design Concept, Production & Layout: One2love.co.za, Plettenberg Bay
HONEYMOON AND WEDDING VENUES IN ZAMBIA, MOZAMBIQUE, SOUTH AFRICA & NAMIBIA.
BRIDE OF ESSENCE COMPETITION
WIN
AN EIGHT NIGHT HONEYMOON IN SA & NAMIBIA TO THE VALUE OF R35, 000
Brides Essence Fashion Shoot 16 - 29
SHOPPING 14
Editor: Justine Engelbrecht
EXCITING DESTINATIONS
READ THESE EXCITING 66 PAGES OF WEDDING COLOUR, FUN, AND THE VERY LATEST IN BRIDAL FASHION AND MORE... ONLINE... NOW FOR FREE
FASHION SHOOT
PUBLISHER Cherry Berry Blue Publishing SA, Johannesburg, South Africa
FASHION SHOOT AT THE PALAZZO HOTEL, MONTECASINO WITH CARMEN PRETORIUS AND STEPHEN JUBBER
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COVER DETAILS Venue: Palazzo Hotel, Montecasino, Johannesburg Celebrity Models: Carmen Pretorius & Stephen Jubber Photographer: Graeme Wyllie Make up & Hair: Desire Fouche Couture: GF Bridal Couture and GF Menswear
DESTINATION SECTION
Zambia -David Livingstone page 38, 39 Thorntree River Lodge 40, 41 Mozambique - Rani Resorts 42 Barra Resorts, Flamingo Bay 43 South Africa - Thaba Ya Batswana IFC, 8, 52 Lukimbi 50 Bundu Country Lodge 51 Palazzo Hotel 8, 16-, 29,30, 53 Samara 54,55 Namibia 8,44,45,46, Gocheganas 8, 48, 49 Uris Safari Lodge 8, 47
ALPHABETICAL LIST OF ADVERTISERS, SPONSORS & CONTRIBUTORS Adele Kok Photography 60 Adventure Bootcamp for women 6,7 African Romance 31,34,35 Amy Kleinhans- Curd & Andrew 13 Anrich Herbst & Mia, MAMMA MIA! 11 Bundu Country Lodge 51 Cazabella 8,64 Chantal Matthee, Lloyd Orr Communications / Namibia Tourism 8,44,45,46 Court Classique Hotel 8 David Livingstone Safari Lodge 38,39 De Denne Guest House 14 Debra de Souza, MAMMA MIA! Production 4,5,16,29,32,33,63 Desire Fouche, Make- Up Artist 16-29,63 Dr Tina Meyer, Airport Clinic, OR Tambo International 37 Fairtrade 1 First Car Rental 14
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Flamingo Bay, Barra Resorts 43 Gautrain 9 Gina Schmukler & Paul, MAMMA MIA! 11 Gocheganas Game Reserve 8,48,49 Graeme Wyllie, Photographer 16,29,63 Grapefuel 14 Jacqui Flint, BabyLove 37 Leanne Manas & Marc Menelaou 12 Lukimbi Game Reserve 50 Marlee van der Merwe & Frans, MAMMA MIA! 11 Monet Flowers 56,57 MultiFlora 57 Murray Todd & Jo Galloway, MAMMA MIA! 11 Neels & Eloise Clasen, MAMMA MIA! 32,33 Nianell & Andrew 12 Nicolette Da Costa & Warren Schmidt 36
Pamela Christine-Feirsinger van Heerden 61 Paul & Zina Rotherham 11 Plan B wedding insurance 3,14 Rani Resorts 42 SABIA South African Bridal Industry Academy 15 Samara Game Reserve 54,55,58 Stacey Oakley & Sinclair Davis 33 Star Photography 62 Thaba Ya Batswana IFC,8,52 The Palazzo Hotel 8,16-29,30,53 Thorntree River lodge 40,41 Three Cities Hospitality Group IFC,8,14,52,38,39,40,41 Uris Safari Lodge 8,47 Wolfgang & Sonia Riebe 13 Zoom Photography 59
Website design: www.bridesessence.com, One2love. co.za, Plettenberg Bay Feature writers: Gina Hartoog, Hendrina Westoll. Contributing Photographers: Zoom Photography, Adele Kok Photography, Star Photography, Pamela-Christine Feiersinger-van Heerden Photography, Graeme Wyllie. Advertising: Justine Engelbrecht e-Published 2010 © Bi-Annually by Cherry Berry Blue Publishing SA, All rights reserved. Email: info@bridesessence.com Advertising enquiries: sales@bridesessence.com Mobile: 0744408668 Mornings only: 011 615 66 63 Brides Essence is registered by Cherry Berry Blue Publishing SA ISSN 2079-5815 While every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy of information in this edition of Brides Essence, no responsibility can be accepted for quality of goods and services supplied by advertisers. The publisher accepts no responsibility for material submitted by any client for reproduction, in regard to all relevant laws and regulations. Concept, text, covers and title of Brides Essence is Copyright © and may not be reproduced by any process without the prior written permission of the publisher. The Publisher would like to thank all photographers, contributors, sponsors, advertisers and all parties involved for this fabulous second edition.
INSURANCE
Every little girl dreams of her wedding day but one can never be prepared for those unforeseen wedding disasters. Now for the first time in SA PlanB, underwritten by Mutual and Federal Risk Financing Ltd, offers cover for those unpredictable calamities that can ruin what should have been ‘your perfect day’.
For most people, their wedding day is one of life’s highlights and often involves a significant financial investment. When wedding plans are made, one has to take into account most eventualities. But… how do you plan for the unthinkable? The simple fact of the matter is that you can't. PlanB will reimburse you for any irrecoverable expenses incurred by you in respect of transport, catering, accommodation, photographs, flowers , hired wedding attire of the wedding party as a result of unavoidable cancellation. Also covered are lost deposits due to non-appearance of suppliers, loss or damage to wedding dress, wedding rings or stolen gifts. . Wedding costs have soared in recent years and the global recession is placing an enormous strain on people’s finances. Combine these two facts with the unpredictability of the factors influencing a successful wedding, and the need for a product such as PlanB, becomes immediately apparent. Available not only to the individual but to all wedding suppliers such as coordinators, venues, photographers and florists etc. throughout SA to offer to their clients. Suggesting a back-up such as PlanB is providing the best advice. PlanB, is an affordable solution suitable for all couples and entails four packages with cover ranging from R75 000 to R200 000. Considering that the wedding insurance premium is minor and only a ONCE-OFF payment, compared to the cost of the wedding itself, the PlanB policy should be an integral part of your wedding budget. www.planbinsure.co.za For more info contact marilyn@planbinsure.co.za or jeanine@planbinsure.co.za.
There are some things we can’t insure
FROM AS LITTLE AS A ONCE‐OFF PREMIUM OF R2750 YOU CAN GET WEDDING INSURANCE FOR: • • • •
LOSS OR DAMAGE to wedding dress/attire, wedding rings, flowers and gifts RE‐ARRANGEMENTS COSTS for arranging equivalent alternate services to avoid wedding cancellation CANCELLATIONS to recover deposits paid in case of failure of key wedding services PUBLIC LIABILITY including all legal costs arising from injury, deaths and property damage
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PROMOTION
A mother. A daughter. 3 possible dads. and a trip down the aisle you’ll never forget! Writer Catherine Johnson’s sunny, funny tale unfolds on a Greek island. On the eve of her wedding, a daughter’s quest to discover the identity of her father brings 3 men from her mother’s past back to the island they last visited 20 years ago! Experience the wonderful, irresistible storytelling magic of ABBA’s timeless songs in the world’s number one smash hit musical MAMMA MIA! Enjoyed by over 42 million people in more than 270 major
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cities around the globe, MAMMA MIA! is the most successful theatrical production ever! From sets to costumes and the multi-talented artists themselves, MAMMA MIA! is proudly South African. Award winning actress Gina Shmukler is the mother of the bride, Donna Sheridan. Joining her on stage is South Africa’s youngest theatre sensation, 20 year old Carmen Preto-
rius cast as the bride-to-be, Sophie; theatre and television award winning actress, Ilse Klink is the no-nonsense Rosie and acclaimed stage and television star, Kate Normington plays the role of the wealthy, multi-divorcee Tanya. Cape Town actor and 2008 IDO Hip Hop World Championships team finalist dancer, Stephen Jubber plays Sophie’s fiancée, Sky. Popular Afrikaans actor and soapie-star Anrich Herbst who began his television career
PROMOTION
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LUCKY READERS CAN WIN DOUBLE TICKETS TO MAMMA MIA! VALUED AT R390 PER TICKET. TELL US IN NO MORE THAN 300 WORDS ABOUT YOUR DREAM ISLAND WEDDING! EMAIL YOUR ENTRY TO MAMMAMIA@BRIDESESSENCE.COM.
*Tickets are valid for weekday performances (Tues, Wed, and Thurs) of MAMMA MIA! At 20h00 at the Teatro MonteCasino. The tickets are not transferable, nor may they be exchanged for cash or for any other performance. Tickets are subject to availability and must be taken during the period 05 October – 30 November 2010. * Judges decision is final. Tickets not collected will not be replaced.
SOME FASCINATING WORLDWIDE MAMMA MIA! FACTS AND FIGURES THE STAGE SHOW •
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MAMMA MIA! has been seen by OVER 42 MILLION PEOPLE worldwide. MAMMA MIA! has already grossed OVER $2 BILLION at the Box Office. MAMMA MIA! has premiered in more cities worldwide faster than any other musical in history, opening in more than 270 major cities since the first production in London ten years ago.
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as the young son, “Wimpie” in the hit series Orkney Snork Nie and went on to play major roles in Egoli and Isidingo, will delight audiences in the role of the charismatic, Sam Carmichael, one of Sophie’s three possible fathers. Murray Todd is Bill Austin and Neels Clasen as Harry Bright, another possible father of the bride. MAMMA MIA! has a broad appeal to audiences of all age’s guaranteeing everyone, at every performance of this world-wide MEGA-hit will be “having the time of their lives” and singing along to all time favourites such as ‘I do, I do, I do’. With music and lyrics by Benny Andersson and Björn Ulvaeus, MAMMA MIA! is written by Catherine Johnson and directed by Phyllida Lloyd. MAMMA MIA! has choreography by Anthony Van Laast, production design by Mark Thompson, lighting design by Howard Harrison, sound design by Andrew Bruce and Bobby Aitken, and musical supervision, additional material and arrangements by Martin Koch. Big Concerts and Showtime Manage-
ment, in association with NGM London by arrangement with Judy Craymer, Richard East and Björn Ulvaeus for Littlestar in association with Universal present MAMMA MIA! Book at Computicket. This enchanting tale of love, laughter and friendship opened at Artscape, Cape Town on Sunday, 15 August 2010 . From curtain up, the show enjoys rave reviews and standing ovations. MAMMA MIA! opens at the Teatro at Montecasino on 2 October 2010. Book now by calling Computicket on 083 915 8000, book on line at www.computicket.com or visit your nearest Computicket outlet. For all Teatro group hospitality bookings contact Montecasino Hospitality & Corporate Events on 011 510 7905 or montecasino.hospitality@tsogosun.com. Hospitality Packages available from Dudley Horn, Warwick Hospitality and Events, Johannesburg office, Tel: 011 467 8400, email: Dudley@ warwickhospitality.co.za Keep up to date with MAMMA MIA! on Twitter and Facebook or visit www.mammamiasa.co.za
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MAMMA MIA! The Movie has made history as the highest grossing movie of all time at the UK and Irish box office. It is also the highest grossing film ever released in Hungary, Iceland and Norway. It is the highest grossing musical film worldwide and internationally. It is the No.1 musical of all time in 44 countries: including UK, Germany, Spain, Sweden, Australia and Korea. It opened No.1 in 35 countries.
THE MOVIE SOUNDTRACK •
MAMMA MIA! The Movie Soundtrack released July 2008 and became the biggest album released by Universal in 2008, and has now sold in excess of 6.3 million copies globally. The soundtrack is Platinum status or above in 30 markets from continents including Africa, Asia, North America, Europe and Australia.
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HEALTH & BEAUTY
ADVENTURE BOOT CAMP
CALLING ALL BRIDES! Take up the challenge and be a thinner, fitter, more confident Bride... Adventure Boot Camp for women - Inspires and motivates women throughout South Africa to create positive changes within themselves. There is no better time than just before the most important and special day of your life. Brides Essence Editor Justine decided to take up the challenge and here is her story... At School the only sports I ever enjoyed were swimming and water polo. I lived for the beach and loved to water-ski; I was not that good at ball or land sports and definitely never ran anywhere. At 19 I found myself jogging three mornings a week on the Sea Point Promenade with a friend, and doing exercise classes and swimming 40 lengths in the pool at the then Health and Racquet club with my sister. I weighed 49 kg and looked and felt pretty good. In the years that followed I went to gym intermittently with no dedicated plan or program. When I got married at 25...I weighed 51kg and maintained between 51 – 54 kg during the 8years I spent living in the SA bushveld only picking up and losing 11 kg when I had my first child at 29 years. In my early thirties I started exercising again, doing yoga twice a week and Aerobics/Tai-Bo classes three times a week, and at 34 around the time I got a divorce I was dedicated to exercising, and maintaining my weight... this was the one time in my life that I can say I had complete control over my body. I then met my current husband at 35 and I stopped exercising completely, at 36 I stopped smoking and at 37 years I fell pregnant and picked up 26kg’s. I never lost enough weight after the birth and all these combined to result in a lot more ‘Me’ than I had ever anticipated. It helps to achieve this state when you have a man that loves you and thinks that you look wonderful any which way. So I eased myself into a second marriage at 39, a heavier bride with two beautiful children. At 40 one has a sense of complacency that would not have become the frenetic 20 year old that I once was, except for the fact that I have some incredible pairs of size 32 denims. My collection of
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too small ‘JFK’ pants are yearning for the labels to be ripped off, and the fabulous classics that I bought in the 90’s from ‘Daniel Hechter’ that have just never dated are as good as new -waiting to be worn, once again! We contacted Adventure Boot Camp as a test for all you ‘Brides to be’ and I decided to sell myself to the challenge of ‘Guinea Pig’. Well, I am so glad I did... In the last 4 weeks, I have smiled a lot. I have laughed; I have met some dynamic and interesting women. I have sweated and endured, and I have frozen as the Johannesburg winter nights are pretty chilly. I have skipped, run, jumped and tried and tested every muscle group in my body especially the ones I never knew I had. Exercising in a group is not only fun it is motivating and disciplining. Kerry Lester who takes the Adventure Boot Camp in Bedfordview where I joined is inspiring and not only that, she is dedicated and she makes you feel comfortable. Everyone is equal, no matter how unfit or overweight. She really takes the time to make you feel fantastic; she guides you through each movement and task and corrects or motivates each and every individual in the class. Not only that she will remember something you told her the week before...Kerry thank you...but you are not rid of me yet I have just registered for Camp No 2.
YOU ARE ASKING WHAT I ACHIEVED? In Week One and Week 4 of Adventure Boot Camp we did a timed run, timed push ups and timed sit ups and we measured ourselves. By
the end of Week 4, bearing in mind I missed 4 camp days due to unforeseen circumstances. I had increased my running time by just under 1 minute, I increased my push ups by 14, I did not increase my sit ups ( I attest this to the cold air). I lost 1 cm on each arm, 4cm on my chest, 3 cm on my waist so I am eventually acquiring shape and 2 cm on both my left and my right thigh – I am ecstatic. Just in-case you ask, no I did not diet, although I did increase my water intake. I love fruit and vegetables and have forever been a salad freak. I drink green tea and have a weakness for skinny cappuccinos. I only buy fat free milk and fat free yoghurt, I am not big on take-way food and I only eat chicken and fish. I stopped eating red meat about 11 years ago and I am sure that the decrease in protein along with a slowed metabolism (from quitting smoking after 21 years) did play a role in my weight gain.
is absolutely no excuse. I promise you Brides to be – you will be so glad you did! If you are coming from overseas to get married here, why not come a month early and do a camp, there is no better way of getting to know our country than sweating it out with great South African Women. Adventure Boot Camp for Women and Brides Essence are calling all brides to take up the ABC Challenge. Register now on www.adventurebootcamp.co.za or call their National Head Office on 021 447 2746.
I ended Week 4 with an Adventure Boot Camp Certificate with Most Improved as Miss Jolly Roger – that was for my smiles! Thanks Kerry! I am nowhere near where I want to be to squeeze back into those blue suede’s I used to love or those ‘fab’ size 32 jeans; although I am busy with my second Adventure Boot Camp and I am more enthusiastic than ever; looking forward to continuing to lose centimetres; feeling energetic, fitter and healthier. Brides Essence challenges you to join the Adventure Boot Camp for Women today. Be inspired and motivated; with camps all around SA there
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COMPETITION
Win
...an incredible Honeymoon in South Africa and Namibia to the VALUE OF R35, 000 ENTER NOW: ARE YOU SA’S BRIDE OF ESSENCE?
COURT CLASSIQUE
Win an eight night honeymoon with flights return from South Africa to Namibia, plus enjoy Online wedding coordination for your special day from Brides Essence Magazine and Weddings in Africa and a Stunning Swarovski Crystal Necklace for the winner from Cazabella, as well as the opportunity to model in the Brides Essence May 2011 Issue 3 Fashion Shoot. The Bride of Essence and her Groom will spend the first night of their honeymoon at the fabulous four-star, Court Classique Suite Hotel in Pretoria in the Honeymoon Suite, they will enjoy a sumptuous breakfast before departing self-drive to Three Cities incredible Four Star Thaba Ya Batswana Eco Lodge & Spa where they will enjoy two nights on a bed and breakfast basis. To round off the South African leg of their honeymoon they will be indulged in one night’s stay
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including Dinner and Breakfast at the stunning Five Star Palazzo, Montecasino Hotel in Johannesburg.
Bride of Essence, submit a head and shoulders and full length pic of yourself as well as your contact details.
They will then depart self-drive to the airport where they will fly courtesy of Namibia Tourism Board to Windhoek. They will self-drive to Uris Safari Lodge A treasured discovery on your way to Etosha National Park and will spend two nights on a Dinner bed and breakfast basis, here they will enjoy a bottle of house wine each night as well as individual bush spa treatments for both the bride and the groom, they will also be indulged with a sundowner nature drive on the night of their choice. From Uris safari lodge they will depart self-drive to the luxury Gocheganas nature reserve and wellness village for 2 nights, all meals are included and the perfect way to end the perfect honeymoon with a Crystal bath for two before flying home, relaxed and ready to settle into married life.
In order to qualify you need to be planning on getting married in South Africa from March to August 2011.
To be the Bride of Essence - Tell us in no more than 250 words why you are SA’s
Email your entry to competition@ bridesessence.com.Closing Date 01 January 2011. *Final Entries drawn by the 14th February 2011. *Judges decision is final *Prizes are not redeemable for Cash. *Prize is valid for 6 months. *Booking dates are subject to availability. *Prizes not collected cannot be replaced.
TRANSPORT
A paean of praise for Gautrain
WRITER: HENDRINA WESTOLL
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South Africans tend to be perennial pessimists when we are promised good things. Be honest – think back. How did you react when you first heard that we had won the right to host the World Cup? Certainly, there was joy and excitement, but wasn’t it tinged with a large dollop of scepticism? It was no different when Gautrain was announced. Doubt and criticism floated over the country like the spaceship from the movie District 9! Controversy bounced back and forth, covering every aspect of the design, construction, operation and future vision until we didn’t really know what to think or believe. It is almost as though we are hesitant to get proud and excited about our country and our achievements. The irony is that now that Gautrain is up and running – smoothly and efficiently, I might add – it’s all “ho-hum” and everyone is already
just taking it for granted. But this is really no ordinary commuter train. South Africa has notched up an amazing world-beater with the construction of Gautrain, defying all the critics, enrapturing the believers and wowing visitors from all over our globe. Gautrain is now an acknowledged leader in its field, on a par with modern links like the Canada Line Rapid Transit, Gotthard Base Tunnel and London Crossrail. It’s been selected as a TOP 100 Global Project for its dynamism and potential to transform regional mobility. It is the largest Public-Private-Partnership in Africa and the largest rail infrastructure project under construction in the world. Its socioeconomic development strategy will ensure that previously disadvantaged groups benefit from the project. The list of awards it has already garnered is really impressive. Countless
Gold Quill awards from the African Region of the International Association of Business Communicators for its excellent media, communication and marketing strategies; international awards for Excellence in Project Management, for Innovation in Rail and Transit at the Best Practices for Sustaining Infrastructure Conference in Baltimore; a prestigious Fulton award for Excellent Use of Concrete; a Greening of the Construction Supply Chain award from the Chartered Institute of Logistics and Transport and SA Consumer Goods Council – and the list goes on and on. Gautrain has also scored a coup with its informative and entertaining websites. The official “Gautrain” site www.gautrain.co.za has clear, concise information about the Gold Card needed for travel: how and where to purchase it, how to secure it, how to load it, what benefits it offers – even comparisons with how much a trip on the Gautrain
will cost compared to a journey in your private car. All the details any potential traveller needs are easily located and understood. Visitors can also access all necessary information from the Call Centre on 0800 428 87246. And the sites for Kids and Learners are delightful! Take a look at www. mytrain.co.za and www.kids.gautrain.co.za. Exquisitely designed, packed with fascinating facts and information, they are entertaining, instructive and fun-filled. The first phase from Sandton to OR Tambo International Airport is complete. The second phase to Pretoria through Midrand will be ready next year. If you have not been for a ride on the Gautrain yet, you must make a point of doing so. You will not be disappointed – it really is impressive!
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TRUE LIFE BY GINA HARTOOG
Ties that bind
South African celebrities share their special memories with us. Every wedding is a unique event, a combination of individual taste and character. Brides Essence Feature Writer Gina asked some well-known South African personalities about their take on weddings, romance and what it means to stay together.
NEWLY WEDS MAMMA MIA Actor Anrich Herbst, well-known for his roles in Orkney Snork Nie and Egoli, will play the role of the charming Sam Carmichael in the South African stage production of MAMMA MIA! Anrich and Mia van der Merwe were married in September 2009. They have a baby son. BE: Where were you married and what made your day special? Anrich: “Mia and I were married at the Mount Grace Hotel. Mia expertly organised the entire event. I think the atmosphere is what really stands out for me. We had about 100 guests, mainly close family and friends. It was the little things that really made it a great day...my suit and the most expensive tie I have ever had in my life! Everything came together perfectly.” BE: What is your take on love and marriage? Anrich: “I definitely believe in marrying
for love. This isn’t my first marriage so I know what it is like when things don’t work out. Having said that, I think things are different for us. We have a son Kristiaan ... and that changes the dynamics a bit. It changes the way you see things and making things work becomes essential. It’s not just the two of us... there is another little person to consider.” BE: What message would you give to couples starting out together? Anrich: “Don’t lose yourself. Keep your individuality within the marriage. You are probably madly in love right now and that is great, but remember that you both have friends. It’s not about living for you but rather living as yourself, together.” BE: What part of South Africa would you still like to discover and why? Anrich: “I think the south eastern Drakensburg... with the greenery, the water, big trees. I’d love to take time out to discover that.”
MARRIED FOR 1 YEAR RADIO DJ Radio DJ Paul Rotherham has been a part of the Rude Awakening team on 94.7 Highveld Stereo for ten years. Paul met Zina in 2008 and the couple were engaged the same year. BE: Were you born in South Africa? Paul: No, I was born in Stratford-Upon-Avon in Warwickshire in England. We came to South Africa in 1983 and Benoni has
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been my home ever since… although British by birth, I really consider myself South African. BE: What is your take on love and marriage? Paul: “Having met my wife and soul mate, it’s all about partnership and being in a safe place where you can be yourself and feel totally secure in your love for each other. Marriage means building a wonderful life together and I’m very lucky to have
found an incredible partner where all of this is reality!” BE: Did you get married in South Africa and if so where? Paul: “At Toadbury Hall in Muldersdrift.” BE: What stands out most in your mind about the day? Paul: “Our wedding was intimate with only our closest friends and family there to witness and celebrate our special day with us. The atmosphere in the small cha-
pel was incredible, from the processional right through to the exchanging of the rings.” BE: Where did you go on honeymoon? Paul: “We had family here from the UK so we chose to delay our honeymoon and spend time with them. We are planning a holiday to Mauritius later this year and who knows, maybe we will come back with a honeymoon baby!”
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there was lots of singing and dancing.”
Wedding bells rang for celebrity couple Murray Todd and Jo Galloway in 2008 at The Westcliff Hotel. The couple met on the set of That’ll be the Day: The Buddy Holly Story. Murray will play Bill in MAMMA MIA!
BE: How would you sell South Africa to an international couple looking to have a destination wedding? Murray: “You can go anywhere in this country to find a beautiful location and there’s a great chance that it will be sunny. We have great food, great service...and far as other overseas destinations are concerned I think you get great value for your money here.”
BE: Were you born in South Africa? Murray: “Yes, on the East Rand in Benoni.” BE: Tell us what happened just before your wedding. Murray: “The guy who was making our rings took them and our money and disappeared. On the morning of the wedding (which happened to be Easter Sunday) we were running around Cresta looking for rings. I got a ring but the only one we could find for Jo was a plastic ring. In the end the day went very well. It was a beautiful time and Jo and I felt that we were just surrounded by love. We had about 130 guests. I had four bestman and she had four brides-maids .We both come from performing families so
BE: Where did you go on honeymoon? Murray: “We went to Bali for 12 days then on to Singapore for six days to hook up with a South Africa musical production there.” BE: What is your take on love and marriage? Murray: “On the day you definitely put everything in and mean it went you say that it’s forever. My wife and I believe in the institution of marriage very much. For some people it just doesn’t work but for us it definitely does.”
an evening wedding. Just being up there at that time of the day was very special. People came from all over to attend. It was very important for me to have a choir and we had a really beautiful one. There was a beautiful atmosphere and the food was great. I think music was an important part of the day. Paul is in the industry and he knew what he wanted.”
MARRIED FOR 3 YEARS MAMMA MIA! Award-winning actress Gina Shmukler will take the stage as mother-of-thebride Donna Sheridan in MAMMA MIA! With a list of impressive performances behind her name, Gina has captured the hearts of audiences around the world. Gina and her husband Paul have been married for three years. BE: Tell us about your wedding. What stands out most in your mind? Gina: “I lived in America for seven years. I came back to South Africa just one month before the wedding... so that was already quite a change. We got married at Koyama, a martial arts dojo, on the top of Northcliff Hill. It was a traditional Jewish ceremony...
BE: What message would you give to couples starting a life together? Gina: “It gets better after the first year. Our first was the most difficult, not only with getting married but also with me moving back to Jo’burg after been away for so long. My message is to just be patient and hang in there. It makes a huge difference if you want to make things work. Don’t be frightened by change.” BE: Where did you go on honeymoon? Gina: “We went to Xai Xai in Mozambique. I wanted a honeymoon in Africa. It was the most glorious place, right across the road from the beach and there was no one in sight. We spent a week without TV or interruptions, just us, some good books and together time.”
MARRIED FOR 4 YEARS MAMMA MIA! Marlee van der Merwe is a talented singer, dancer and choreographer and will be part of the MAMMA MIA cast. Marlee and Frans have been married for four years. BE: Were you born in South Africa? Marlee: “I was born in Phalaborwa.” BE: Did you get married in South Africa and if so where? Marlee: “We got married on a Thursday evening at Avianto in Muldersdrift. BE: What stands out most about your special day? Marlee: “The week before the wedding it was raining all the time. That day dawned sunny and there were butterflies everywhere. We wanted to do things differently and I think this is what made the day special. We had our photos taken before the ceremony, as the sun was setting. I didn’t walk down the aisle to the Wedding March but asked a friend to play the violin. She walked down and we followed behind. My attendants carried small lamps with candles. We had a lot of candles everywhere, it was really beautiful. We gave every guest a chilli plant not chocolates and we gave the bouquet and the garter with a bottle of wine to the couple at our wedding who was married the longest. The day was intimate and special.” BE: Where did you go on Honeymoon? Marlee: “We went on a cruise to Bazaruto Islands...it was absolutely gorgeous. After that we spent some time in the Drakensberg.”
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MARRIED FOR 5 YEARS SABC 2 PRESENTER Leanne Manas, popular SABC 2 Morning Live presenter, and her husband Marc Menelaou were married at the Lebanese Maronite Church in September 2005. The couple celebrated their reception at the Liban Conference and Banqueting Centre next door. They have a son, Alexandro. BE: What made your wedding an event to remember? Leanne: “What was different about our wedding was the fusion between Greek Orthodox and Lebanese Maronite religious ceremonies. We had a joint service and it was a real education for our guests that were not too familiar with the traditions. The whole wedding build up was special. I was involved in everything. I really wanted to be a part of every detail. I did not want to just leave it up to a wedding planner and then arrive on the day. The actual day was incredible... arriving at the church and standing at the top of the aisle realising this day was all about the beginning of the rest of our lives! It was a scary moment, but exhilarating at the same time.” BE: How would you sell South Africa to an international couple looking to have a destination wedding? Leanne: “You can have any type of wedding your heart desires. If you want a beach – you have hundreds of the best beaches in the world to choose from. We have world class venues that cater for all different types of needs – both religious and cultural. Getting married in the great African bush under African sky with the big five watching on is possibly a dream come true for anybody and is more than possible in South Africa. You can even have a shark diving wedding!” BE: What is your message to couples starting out together? Leanne: “Enjoy every moment of the experience. You will have loads of arguments of little stupid things in the preparations, but that is very normal. The main thing is that you savour every moment in the build up and when the day arrives, stop worrying about everything and bask in the glory of all your hard work! It is the most special day of your life that will live with you forever. Do not wish it away – because hopefully it will be a once in a lifetime adventure.”
MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS SINGER Angel-tongued songbird Nianell and her husband Andrew Thompson tied the knot in the Magaliesburg a little over 10 years ago on Freedom Day. Nianell’s fifth album Sand & Water is now available. The couple have triplet daughters. BE: Where were you born? Nianell: “I was born in Omaruru, Namibia.” BE: How long have you been in South Africa? Nianell:” I came to SA in 1990” BE: Tell us about your day. What was unique and amazing about it? Nianell: “It was a very intimate wedding with only 40 guests – mainly close family and some dear friends. We did the ceremony in a small chapel at the venue. My colour for the day was burgundy. I remember when I had to do my vows I
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felt so emotional and at one point I kept quiet for a long time, just trying to compose myself. Later that night in our room Andrew said to me that he thought I had changed my mind about marrying him. The reception was great and my sister Riana sang for us. Instead of a wedding cake, we had a treasure box filled with Ferrero Rocher chocolates, which we handed out personally to everyone.” BE: You’ve just celebrated 10 years together. Tell us more... Nianell: “We renewed our vows at Valley Lodge. It was almost the same as our wedding but this time my colour was lilac. Because I’m so used to planning events, it took me about three to four days to arrange everything.” BE: What part of SA would you still like to discover and why? Nianell: “Clarens. I believe it snows there and I’ve never seen snow.”
MARRIED FOR SIXTEEN YEARS EX- MISS SOUTH AFRICA It was back in 1992 that Amy Kleinhans-Curd won the Miss SA title. Amy is the also founder of Dial-a-Teacher, a telephonic helpline for children. Leighton and Amy have been married for 16 years and have three children and a foster daughter. BE: Where were you married? Amy: Cape Town BE: What stands out most about your day? Amy: “Taking our wedding pictures on the beach at sunset.” BE: What is your take on love and marriage? Amy: “I believe in the institution of marriage purely because I believe its God’s wish for us to have one partner and also it is a wonderful environment in which to raise children. The family unit within marriage is a strong pillar of society given that the marriage should be a place of security, love and support to both partners.” BE: What is your message to brides and grooms starting a life together? Amy: “My advice would be to remember that each couple works according to their own ‘recipe’. What works for one won’t work for another. Be careful of having preconceived ideas of how things ‘should’ work. Instead keep the line of communication open at all times regardless of which area you dealing with and secondly there is so much you can learn from your partner so try and keep yourself as flexible as possible so that you can enrich one another’s lives wherever possible.”
years and had been living in Milton Keynes in England. I received an offer to work on cruise ships and ‘eventually’ asked Sonja to marry me it was now or never. We got married in the most romantic place on earth... Bletchley Magistrates Court in England... (I am being very sarcastic - it must be one of the ugliest towns in the UK). I still wore my stage outfit and we have exactly one picture of that day.”
MARRIED FOR TWENTY YEARS ILLUSIONIST Popular illusionist, motivational speaker and author Wolfgang Riebe married his wife Sonja over 20 years ago in the United Kingdom. Wolfgang enthrals audiences around the globe with his mind-blowing magic and special brand of comedy. BE: Tell us about your wedding. What was unique about it? Wolfgang: “We had been engaged for seven
BE: Where did you go on Honeymoon? Wolfgang: “Well, the beginning of our relationship and the long engagement may have been a bit weird, but we made up for it on our honeymoon. A week after we got married we left on an 11-month contract on the original ‘Love Boat’. We spent six months in the Caribbean and six months in Alaska. As a headline act on the ship, I only did about two shows per cruise – with Sonja as part of the act. The rest of the time we were full passengers. It taught us to communicate and be honest with each other and gave us 24 hours per day to really get to know each other.” BE: How would you sell SA to an international couple looking to have a destination wedding? Wolfgang: “The South Africa tourism board has a logo: ‘The whole world in one country.’ Today, after having worked in 125 different countries, from Vietnam to the Antarctic, I can honestly say
that South Africa is indeed that. Objectively I feel that we have everything in this beautiful country of ours.” BE: What is your take on love and marriage? Wolfgang: “In many respects, the fact that Sonja and I were able to travel the world together and discover many of its secrets as a couple, has brought us so very close and enabled us to grow together. Today I am 46 and she is turning 52. Every single day I wake up thankful for every moment together. We had our girls very much later in life, they are now 13 and 11 and find that as a more mature couple, we enjoy them so much more and they have added a new facet to our relationship which is so magical.”
Photography credits: Anrich & Mia Herbst – Shaun Strydom Murray Todd & Jo Galloway - Jo Spies Nianell & Andrew (anniversary) -Marihes van Rooyen Paul & Zina Rotherham - Greg Reynolds Leanne Manas & Marc Menelaou – Elizabeth Olivier Kahlau
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WEDDING CALAMITIES - OOPS! You ask yourself – what can possibly go wrong? • Do not leave your gifts unattended, there have been incidents where gifts, envelopes with cheques and cash have never been seen again. • What about the wedding cake falling or being knocked over, as we have seen in the movies by a hapless guest having an oops. • Stolen Dress – you are kidding – Who would? • An unavoidably torn or damaged wedding dress! • Make sure your rings are safe and sound; imagine your wedding rings are stolen… • Last minute cancellations, certainly a venue would not do this, but what if they double booked you by mistake or cancelled at the last minute? • Lost photographs, runaway photographer...surely not. • Non arrivals – minister, photographer, wedding cake, florist etc – make sure they all have directions to the church and venue. • Electricity for the Music...electricity failures with no backup! • Your marquee is damaged due to a storm or wind… South Africa now has a Plan B for all the wedding calamities that have happened in the past and those that may happen in the future – let them not happen to you! Book your Wedding Insurance here now by clicking on the Plan B logo
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true life celebrity wedding ELOISE CLASEN, MEMBER OF THE MAMMA MIA! ENSEMBLE & NEELS CLASEN,WHO PLAYS THE LEADING ROLE OF HARRY BRIGHT IN MAMMA MIA! SHARE THEIR SPECIAL WEDDING DAY WITH US. THEIR WEDDING TOOK PLACE ON A FAMILY FARM OWNED BY THE EX-SPRINGBOK RUGBY PLAYER JOHAN SPIES ON SATURDAY 9 JANUARY. A marquee tent was erected in a Poplar tree forest on the Ermelo farm. It was decorated with self-made mobiles, fairy lights and natural wild flowers all in shades of green, brown and off-white. The whole wedding had a true ‘Boere-wedding’ feel; each of the 150 guests received an enamel plate, bowl and mug. The mugs were all that was available for guests to drink out of, regardless of their drink of choice, there was an open bar and almost every guest had a turn to play bar man. Potjiekos was served as the main course and for dessert Malva Pudding and custard, both enjoyed out of the provided enamel crockery. The Potjie was kept warm the whole evening and the dessert was put on the tables after the homemade breads and watermelon jam were enjoyed. Both the Bride and Groom had a retinue of six people – and Eloise’s party included two men who were aptly dressed in their casual outfits and sneakers. Eloise arrived on horseback, walking across the field while the congregation waiting in the forest watched her with her bridesmaids and ‘brides-men’. The
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ceremony did not take long and with the exchange of a ring and a dog tag the couple was wed. From the moment the couple were introduced for the very first time as Mr. & Mrs. Clasen; the dance-floor opened and the party began. From then on it was the throwing of the garter and bouquet (caught by two male guests, this made the dance thereafter quite interesting). The speeches were also condensed into one touching message from the newlywed couple. The cake was a tower of “Koeksisters.” It was an extraordinary day - weather-wise and the whole forest was encompassed in a huge bubble of love. Overwhelmed, the Clasens had the BEST day of their life!! This is the first time they are in a musical together since getting married. Here is more about our special celebrity MAMMA MIA couple. Eloise Clasen graduated from the T.U.T Musical Theatre department in 2006. Thereafter, she has been seen in numerous hit musicals including “Fiddler on the Roof ”, “Hairspray”, “Saturday Night Fever”, “Beautiful Creatures”, “Let There Be Rock” (Sun City), “Footloose” and Janice Honeyman’s pantomime “Pinocchio”. Eloise also starred in the Kyknet soap opera, “Villa Rosa” as the feisty Petro as well as on the hit SABC2 Comedy, “Kompleks”. She also starred in leading roles in the productions of Throwing Punches and The Pirate King. Her versatility, in all spheres of the perform-
ing arts has almost logically lead to her exploits as choreographer in Rent at Tshwane University of Technology. Eloise is having the time of her life in MAMMA MIA! Neels Clasen started his professional career in 1999. He has performed in numerous national theatrical productions, including three Janice Honeymann pantomimes, five Barnyard shows, BOYBAND, ANNIE, FAME and most recently WE WILL ROCK YOU, for which he was nominated for a Naledi award in the category, Best Male Performance in a Musical, for his portrayal of the villain, Khashoggi. This production toured Asia in 2007 & 2008 a period where Neels had the tremendous pleasure of working with the international comedic and writing genius, Ben Elton. He has extensive television experience and was seen in three series of SOUL BUDDYZ and presented CINEMAGIC with Barry Ronge. Other series include DIE CASPER RASPER SHOW and IETERMAGO (Kyknet), ISIDINGO and ZERO TOLERANCE (SABC2). He was also co-writer and actor in the Kyknet series, BLIKSKOTTEL (2003) as well as the SABC 2 series KOMPLEKS and KOMPLEKS 2 that he also co-directed. KOMPLEKS 2 was nominated in four categories at the annual SAFTA awards, including Best Comedy Series and Best Comedy Writing. Neels played a lead role in the American thriller SLASH, and starred in the German feature film SILENCE OF THE WHALES. Furthermore, he had the great honour of briefly working alongside Tim Robbins in the film CATCH A FIRE. Between 2001 and 2007, he was employed as lecturer at the Tshwane University of Technology’s Musical Theatre Department. In recent years he has worked extensively as writer and director for The Barnyard Theatres, uShaka Marine World and the Peermont Resort Group, culminating in the creation of Emperor’s Palace’s revue show, SPOTLIGHT. He is enjoying every minute of this chance to be on stage again, in MAMMA MIA. Enter the Brides Essence MAMMA MIA! Competition Now and win tickets to see them perform. Wedding Photographs were taken by Jo Spies.
GETTING MARRIED IN THE USA! HOW DO I BEGIN TO DESCRIBE OUR NUPTIALS? SIMPLY AMAZING! Bride: Stacey Oakley Groom: Sinclair Davis Date: 9th May IN THE BRIDES WORDS: “Our love was not one that had a fairytale beginning or even middle but it is one that will definitely have a fairytale ending.” “We met in college (I was his orientation leader). He was the handsome new guy and I was the popular always active older student. We developed a strong friendship over the next 4 years. In 2005 that changed. The friendship love soon grew into a romantic love that was unstoppable and unbreakable. I knew he had my back and he for sure knew I had his. He proposed on Oct. 20 2007 and we planned our wonderful May wedding.” “We got married in Clifton New Jersey, which isn’t too far from where we live in Teaneck New Jersey. We love Teaneck, as it offers diversity and is only 15 minutes from NYC. We have the choice of travelling easily into the city and retreating to the quiet life of the suburbs. New Jersey offers culture and opportunity; festi-
vals, farmers markets, sporting events and beaches make it a great place to live.”
vows a light shined through the clouds and I knew it was her.”
“Our Wedding venue was the Valley Regency. We would highly recommend this venue to any engaged couple looking to plan an elegant wedding! They were open, helpful, and offered us everything we could have asked for and more, they were great at problem solving and really took care of us and our guests ensuring our wedding day was memorable.”
‘Our entire day was filled with LOVE. Family from far and near came to share in our happiness and for that we were and are truly humbled.’
THE WEDDING DAY: “All the weather forecasts called for rain and clouds. In fact it was raining for the entire week leading up to the wedding. Our outdoor wedding seemed to be doomed but I had no fear. I am a strong believer in the declaring and claiming and I had been claiming a dry morning for our ceremony. I took a drive that night just to get the nerves out and to "talk" to my mom. I told her more than anything all I wanted was for her light to shine. I begged her to let me know that she was there watching over us and happy with us. Sure enough the rain stayed away for our ceremony and some may call it a coincidence but as I was holding my soon to be husband’s hand during the ceremony and we were saying our
Stacey says, ‘Thank you for letting me share this story and reliving that beautiful day again.” We have always said we want to be an example to our friends and those that watch us from a distance, to show that true love can and does exist in the African American community. It is possible and we are an example that it is.” VENDORS: Reception: Valley Regency, Clifton NJ / Music: Elite Sound Entertainment, Saddle Brook NJ / Florist: Avenue Flowers & Gifts, Elizabeth NJ / Cake: Le Petit Gateau, Park Ridge NJ / Photographer: Chris Mastalia Photography, West Orange NJ - Photographs supplied by the bride / Dress (designer/ store): Anne Barge, Kleinfelds, NYC,NJ /Bridesmaid/flower girl dresses (designer/ store): Belsoie, Nonchalance, Morristown NJ / Groom’s tuxedo: Biltmore Tuxedos, Ridgewood.
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TRUE LIFE
BY GINA HARTOOG
Expectant bride Nicolette Da Costa was 16 weeks pregnant when she married Warren Schmidt at an intimate ceremony in Gauteng. Nicolette Da Costa and Warren Schmidt planned to have a baby and live together for a few years before tying the knot. When Nicolette found out that she was expecting, the couple’s plans changed. “I thought perhaps we should get married,” Nicolette recalls. “But I did not really want the stress of planning a wedding later in my pregnancy so we decided to get things done as soon as realistically possible.” Nicolette had about eight weeks to plan her wedding and she roped in her family to help with the arrangements. “I was in my first trimester and feeling a little more tired than usual,” she says. “But thankfully I had a great support system. My sister and mom pitched in to help and this took a lot of pressure off me.” Nicolette chose to wear her sister’s wedding gown. Small adjustments were made for a perfect fit and the sleeves were removed to give the dress a different look. Her shoes were also carefully chosen. “I’m a reflexologist,” she laughs. “I know your feet come first, so I chose a flat pump and added an insole to make sure I was very comfortable.” Looking back, Nicolette says that it was her good support system that was the key in keeping things on track before the wedding. “Another important point is to keep perspective and stay within your budget,”
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she advises. “You have to be looking further down the line with the baby coming. We chose to keep things simple and the end result was a wedding with class and flare.” The couple were married at the Germiston Golf Course in May.
FOUR WAYS TO MAKE IT A FABULOUS DAY 1. Diarise the date – some brides decide on a first trimester wedding when they are not showing, while others feel too ill with morning sickness to even contemplate a wedding. Any time during the first, second or early third trimester is fine. Avoid planning a wedding in the third trimester phase, especially in summer and in case baby decides to make an early appearance. 2. Find the perfect dress – if you are in your first or early second trimester, you
will probably be able to wear a standard wedding gown. If you are going to be further along, have a look at the many maternity wedding dresses available. These dresses are designed with a bump in mind and accentuate curves in the right places. Colour is a personal choice. Choose your shoes carefully to avoid backache and swollen feet. 3. Tweak the menu – Ask the caterers to include a few bottles of non-alcoholic champagne or grape juice and ensure you skip the spicy food. You can always keep heart-burn medication handy on the day, just in case you need it. 4. Test the ring - from about 22 weeks you may notice that your fingers start to swell. This can make your engagement ring very tight and you should remove it. If you do not already have a wedding band, you can order it in the same size as your engagement ring. You may need to purchase a ‘dummy’ ring to use at the ceremony if yours no longer fits.
TRAVEL TIPS
pic supplied by Denize Nazilowski Star Photography
BY GINA HARTOOG
Travelling while Pregnant A POSITIVE PREGNANCY TEST; A PACKED SUITCASE AND A FABULOUS WEDDING DESTINATION. YES, YOU CAN! Pregnancy should not be a reason to shelve your dreams for an exotic wedding. Provided you select the destination carefully, get the right information from your doctor or care-giver and plan the trip at the right time, you can have the wedding you desire. South Africa offers a myriad of different venues for a destination wedding – from the tranquillity of the bushveld to the beauty of the sea or the splendour of a five-star venue. The climate in winter is temperate and summers are hot. No vaccinations are required to enter South Africa, unless you fly in from a Yellow Fever endemic country. This live vaccine is contraindicated in pregnancy and you will not be able to receive it.
PLANNING YOUR TRIP If you have an African bushveld wedding in mind, you must find a venue which does not fall within the country’s malaria area. “Pregnant women must avoid travel to malaria areas during pregnancy,” says Dr Tina Meyer, an aviation medicine
practitioner at the Airport Clinic at OR Tambo International Airport. “Malaria in pregnancy increases the risk of maternal death, miscarriage, stillbirth and low birth weight with associated risk of pre-term birth.” Plan your wedding around your pregnancy and select the best time to travel. “This is probably from around week 16 in the second trimester,” says Jacqui Flint, owner of Baby Love, a baby routine and sleep guidance programme. Flights from Europe and the United States to South Africa generally take between 10 and 18 hours. “Commercial flights are normally safe for pregnant women but most airlines will not accept pregnant women for bookings from about week 36 for a single pregnancy,” adds Dr Meyer.
TRAVEL HEALTH CARE Make an appointment with your doctor or caregiver to discuss your travel plans. “It is essential that all early pre-natal examinations be carried out prior to travel, in order to rule out any possible complications,” says Dr Meyer. Ask about any precautions you can take for diarrhoea and your risk for pre-eclampsia, which may increase with air travel. Venous thrombosis during long
flights may be a concern. Your doctor may suggest an aisle seat so that you can walk around every hour or so. Know your blood group before you depart and follow up with your travel health insurance to make sure your pregnancy (and your baby in case of pre-term birth) is covered. Ask your doctor or travel agency for the contact details of a reputable hospital in a city close to your hotel. Whether you are taking a long flight or travelling within the country by car, a few guidelines can make it a more comfortable journey. “Take a cushion for the small of your back,” advises Jacqui Flint. “For car travel, plan your route beforehand and stop regularly for breaks. Keep yourself hydrated by drinking lots of bottled water.” The African sun is fierce, even in winter, so pack a good sunscreen with a high sun protection factor. “The production of melatonin increases during pregnancy and you are more likely to burn,” says Jacqui. Most doctors advise against tanning while pregnant. Include a few loose, cotton tops and dresses in your travel wardrobe as you often feel much hotter than normal when pregnant.
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ZAMBIA
DISCOVER ZAMBIA
An imperial establishment David Livingstone would have called home
The colonial styled four-star David Livingstone Safari Lodge & Spa, a place of grandeur and royalty, is situated 5km from Livingstone and 7km from Victoria Falls known as Mosi-oa-Tunya - the Smoke that Thunders - one of the most impressive natural wonders of the world and Africa's adventure capital. The lodge has a state of the art conference centre and 72 well appointed en-suite rooms, 5 luxury loft suites with private jacuzzi, satellite TV, telephones, internet and air conditioning, all overlooking the mighty Zambezi from private balconies. The Camelot Spa offers a wide variety of
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Meals are served at Kalai restaurant - a culturally inspired setting situated in the main lodge with contemporary Afro-Arabian meals, freshly flavoured, aromatic and healthy - and at Gwembe Terrace around the pool by the river while watching the magnificent African sunset.
Tunya National Park; Jet Extreme powering through Zambezi’s rapids in Bakota Gorge; Helicopter and micro light flights for fantastic experiences over the falls and river channels; horse riding; tours to the falls; picnics on Livingstone Island; game drives; canoeing; white water rafting; tandem kayaking; abseiling; bungi-jumping; elephant encounters, and the Victoria Falls Steam Train with an adventurous voyage across the majestic falls.
Activities in the area include: cruises on the Lady Livingstone, a three-decker vessel perfect for viewing hippos and crocodiles; walks with lions in Mosi-oa-
Zambia has something for everyone and Three Cities Hospitality Group has the perfect Honeymoon and wedding destinations from which to choose.
treatments while guests relax and listen to the falls tumbling down from a short distance.
ZAMBIA
Place of the elephant ZAMBIA
PROTECTOR SPIRIT OF AFRICA
SET INSIDE THE OA TUNYA NATIONAL PARK, ZAMBIA, 12.5KM FROM LIVINGSTONE, A FEW KILOMETRES UPSTREAM FROM THE FAMOUS VICTORIA FALLS, THORNTREE RIVER LODGE KNOWN AS ‘HOME OF THE ELEPHANT’ OFFERS A RIVETING BUSH EXPERIENCE WITH BREATHTAKING VIEWS OVER THE ZAMBEZI RIVER.
Zambia is regarded as the continent's greatest destination with pristine wilderness areas ranging from the mighty Victoria Falls to the popular National Parks of the Luangwa and Zambezi valleys with great adventure activities and game viewing opportunities. Thorntree River Lodge is perfectly positioned in this area with nine secluded, comfortable and spacious suites, all with private en-suite bathrooms and thatched verandas overlooking the Zambezi. Meals are served al fresco African style, quietly under the stars on a private and
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secluded section overlooking the river, or in the main lodge where guests interact socially around the communal dining room table with flickering candles in true African tradition and spirit, sharing their day’s experiences and travel stories, reminiscing on the lives of famous explorers. Thorntree River Lodge offers stimulating wildlife adventures: up-close and personal encounters with elephants; cruises on the Lady Livingstone, a three-decker vessel perfect for viewing hippos and crocodiles; walks with lions in Mosi-oa-Tunya National Park and Masuwe Estate; hikes
in the rainforest on the lip of the fall’s chasm; helicopter 'Flight of Angels' trips with fabulous vistas of the falls, river and its many islands; picnics on Livingstone Island; game drives; canoeing; white water rafting; tandem kayaking; abseiling; and bungi-jumping. Click on the Three Cities Hospitality Group logo on our shopping page and book your fabulous Zambia honeymoon or wedding.
MOZAMBIQUE Tel: 011 463 6313 Email: info@raniresorts.com www.raniresorts.com
Mozambique with Rani Resorts
Palms swaying, Palms sweating, Romantic kisses, Dreamy sunsets and soft sandy beaches… Now that's what honeymoons are made of!
the father-in-law and decided it is far more rewarding to spend the ‘honeymoon’ with the beautiful bride! The word ‘honeymoon’ evokes feelings of a carefree escape filled Did you know that, in ancient with romance and complete couGreece, the newly married hus- ple contentment. As the good old band had to spend time with his Greeks were aware, it is a time to father-in-law during the first full enjoy, and focus on one another moon of his marriage? During this without any influence from the time the two chatted and got to outside world. Rani Resorts, the leading know each other. As part of their male-bonding experience, they island resort and hotel group in dined on special foods and drinks Mozambique, has developed its - the most popular of which was own resorts in unique, unspoilt a beer made from honey. This island, beach and wilderness ritual became known as the ‘hon- locations that set them apart eymoon’ and was about preparing from mainstream destinations, a young man's mind and body for yet remaining committed to the fertility and fatherhood. In mod- support and development of susern times, we have 9/23/10 simply ditched ani Brides Essence Horizontal 10:51 AMtainable Page 1ecosystems as well as the
local communities. Easily accessible from South Africa, Mozambique is close in proximity and offers a safe environment for those wishing to discover its untouched beauty and splendour. From idyllic Indigo Bay Island Resort and Spa in the Bazaruto Archipelago in the south, to magical Matemo and Medjumbe Islands in the jewellike Quirimbas Archipelago in the north; African adventure, private island-style romance and soul-tosole rejuvenation awaits. Good luck to all the bridesto-be! Even though this can be a stressful time; remember to love, laugh and live. For life is not about the numbers of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. C
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Flamingo Bay Water Lodge FLAMINGO BAY WATER LODGE IS SITUATED IN THE PRISTINE TIDAL BAY OF INHAMBANE 485KM NORTH OF MAPUTO, THE CAPITAL OF MOZAMBIQUE. The lodge is situated on stilts on the crystal clear waters of the warm Indian Ocean. This eco-paradise is home to flocks of flamingo’s, tropical fish and the very rare dugong. The sunsets at Flamingo Bay are nothing less than breathtaking. Our luxury water chalets are spacious and well appointed with balconies, wide opening sliding doors and air-conditioning. The chalets and furniture are constructed from beautiful local hardwoods from Mozambique. Each chalet is situated on stilts in the crystal clear tidal
waters of Inhambane Bay. Sunbathing, swimming, snorkelling and boating may be enjoyed directly from each chalet. The main building and chalets are connected by wooden walkways where golf carts are available to ferry guests. The main building can also be accessed from the land and is fronted by the tidal waters of the bay. A secure parking area is available for guests vehicles. An elegant restaurant overlooks the inviting swimming pool which merges into the view across the bay. Enjoy cocktails on the spacious pool deck while watching the sunset or enjoy your meals in the morning or evening either indoors or outdoors. The gourmet restaurant offers sumptuous meals spe-
cialising in local dishes of Mozambique including fresh prawns, fish, crabs and calamari, which are all caught locally. The well stocked bar is a gathering point attracting guests to share their days experiences and enjoy the magical sunsets. An upstairs area enhances the view as the day draws to a close.
OTHER SERVICES OFFERED Conference Facilities: Seating up to 60 cinema style, audio visual equipment is available. Weddings: We also cater for weddings, cocktail parties and special functions. Sparkling swimming pool on site. Spa: daily treatments and massages Curio Shop: Basic toiletries, clothing and curios.
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NAMIBIA
HONEYMOON HEAVEN!
Namibia
THE WEDDING VOWS HAVE BEEN SAID AND THE RECEPTION IS OVER. IT IS TIME FOR THE NEWLY MARRIED COUPLE TO HEAD OFF HAPPILY EVER AFTER INTO THE SUNSET TO…NAMIBIA!
The decision regarding a honeymoon destination is never an easy one and there are so many options to consider… Local versus international, relaxed or active, beach or desert, fly or drive… the considerations are countless! Situated right on our doorstep, Namibia provides the ideal honeymoon destination, which is easily accessible and it has a wide range of activities and accommodation to suit each couple and their individual requirements and budget. Traditionally known as the land of contrasts, Namibia is easily accessible with daily flights from South Africa into its major centers. A bonus for visitors is that a costly visa is not necessary for travel into Namibia; a South African
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passport will suffice and Namibia accepts Rand’s, although its official currency is the Namibian Dollar. This ensures that there aren’t any nasty surprises with regards to foreign exchange rates, and with one Namibian Dollar equal to one Rand it provides the perfect destination for a cost effective international holiday. Although Namibia’s peak tourism season is its winter months from May-September, its climate provides the perfect getaway no matter what time of the year you are looking to explore its rugged, natural beauty. From hot summer days lounging at the pool with a cocktail in your hand or enjoying a hot air balloon ride while sipping on champagne and enjoying the views over Sossusvlei’s famous dunes, to quad biking adventures in Walvis Bay or even a real African style safari in Namibia’s world renowned Etosha region, Namibia’s range of activities throughout the year will have you returning annually to experience the adventures of a lifetime!
No honeymoon is complete without a little pampering for her and some adventure for him! Spas and beauty centres across Namibia will treat her to some royal pampering and “TLC” – not to mention the variety of shopping opportunities available, from urban shopping malls to off- the-beaten track local craft markets. For him, a range of deep-sea fishing, shark cage diving, 4x4 driving courses and angling are available, as well as the ever popular golfing option. Indulge your partner with some mouth watering cuisine! Whether you prefer a romantic dinner for two under twinkling stars in the middle of the Namib Desert or a quick bite at one of Namibia’s fine restaurants, cafes or pubs, the selections are endless! Accommodation options range from Bed & Breakfasts, Guest Houses and self-catering choices, to luxury lodges and game lodges with elegant hotel choices in the city, including some of the major chains such as Protea Hotel and the Hilton group, with choices to suit each budget and need. If your perfect honeymoon consists of sand dunes and romantic dinners under a canopy of stars, then a visit to Sossusvlei is a given, as you and your new spouse experience desert accommodation at its very best, with options ranging from the renowned Sossusvlei Lodge to the Wilderness Camp.
For a seaside holiday with just the perfect amount of activities to ensure you are entertained but not overwhelmed by too many options, Swakopmund is the way to go! Namibia’s second largest town, Swakopmund provides honeymooners with an intimate and soulful town to enjoy and experience, after a travel through the beautiful Namib Desert. For a bush experience second to none, Etosha has honeymooners spoilt for choice with its wide variety of luxury accommodation, from the Etosha Tented Camp, Bush Camp or even the out of the world, “float on clouds” Tree Top Camp. Namibia is also a wonderful wedding destination, and is the perfect place to say “I do”, Namibia provides prospective brides and grooms with the choice of a wedding under the stars, on the beach or even in Sossusvlei’s dramatic red dunes. For all these reasons and so many more, Namibia provides the perfect honeymoon destination, no matter the time of year, budget or requirements. For further information on how to make your honeymoon to Namibia an unforgettable one, contact the Namibia Tourism Board on (011) 702 9607 or namibia@ lloydorr.com Information and photographs supplied by Chantal Matthee, Namibia Tourism Board.
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NAMIBIA
LOVE IS IN THE AIR
IN NAMIBIA
Photographs courtesy of Chantal Matthee Namibia Tourism Board (011) 702 9607 or namibia@lloydorr.com.
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SAFARI LODGE NAMIBIA WEDDING PLANNER
12 MONTHS BEFORE: [1] Decide on your wedding date (have optional dates, so as to ensure availability at the lodge). [2] Book your ceremony & venue, caterer, singer, musician, reception, entertainment, photographer, videographer and florist through Uris Safari Lodge Namibia
NINE MONTHS BEFORE: [3] Order your wedding Cake, finalise your guest list; notify overseas guests. [4] Book your
transport for the wedding day. [5] Book your wedding-night accommodation at Uris Safari Lodge. [6] Discuss menu options with the caterer at Uris Safari Lodge Namibia.
TWO MONTHS BEFORE: [7] Finalise the seating plan for your reception. [8] Finalise your menu.
FOUR WEEKS BEFORE: [9] Confirm guest numbers with reception venue, caterer and
accommodation. [10] Confirm your wedding date & specifications for your cake, photographer, musicians, and entertainers.
ON YOUR WEDDING DAY: [11] Spend some quality time on your own or with your mom and enjoy the happiest day of your life. All of the above services mentioned can be booked through Uris Safari Lodge Namibia, Tel: +264 67 687060/1 or email: reservations@ uris-safari-lodge-namibia.com
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NAMIBIA
“Place of Camel Thorns, abounding with Candlepod Acacias” GOCHEGANAS A LUXURIOUS NATURE RESERVE AND WELLNESS VILLAGE Set on a hilltop and surrounded by the majestic beauty of the mountains, with sweeping views onto an awesome Namibian landscape with its blend of Namibian architecture, cuisine and wildlife, Gocheganas depicts the true style of Africa. The wellness village offers understated elegance designed to put the mind, body and soul at ease and you will experience well being in harmony with nature. Combine this with the beauty of the surrounding landscape, luxurious amenities, a wide variety of wildlife and you will have the Namibian experience of a lifetime. Gocheganas is a mere 29km from the Capital of Namibia – Windhoek, the perfect destination for honeymooners and travellers. www. gocheganas.com / reservations@gocheganas.com
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Experience the Quintessence of relaxation while enjoying an unforgettable HONEYMOON in the luxurious Gocheganas Private Nature Reserve & Wellness Village.
Find yourselves on a hilltop surrounded by the majestic beauty of the mountains, indulge in the sweeping views of the Namibian landscape from your private balcony and discover a unique and private wildlife experience.
Tel: +264 61 224 909 | Fax: +264 61 224 924 reservations@gocheganas.com www.gocheganas.com
SOUTH AFRICA
Weddings Steeped in Romance and Luxury at Lukimbi LUKIMBI SAFARI LODGE IS A PRIVATE LODGE IN THE WORLD RENOWNED KRUGER NATIONAL PARK IN SOUTH AFRICA; IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A WEDDING OR A HONEYMOON STEEPED IN ROMANCE AND LUXURY THEN LUKIMBI IS THE PERFECT CHOICE. The suites overlook the Lwakahle River and the open plains beyond it. Each suite is individually decorated and boasts a lounge and an
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outside deck, ideal for relaxing on hot sunny afternoons. The bathrooms allow for a very special kind of game viewing as they too overlook the bushveld. Lukimbi has a private chapel which is built in the extensive gardens; it has open sides in order to enhance the entire ceremony with the peace and the tranquillity of the African bush. ‘Imagine being driven to your wedding in an open vehicle, getting married under a Jackalber-
ry tree, whilst being serenaded by an African bush choir; once your vows and rings have been exchanged and a gourmet celebratory meal enjoyed; you and your partner can dance under the Southern Cross with your honeymoon suite only a few steps away to welcome you as a perfect end to your unforgettable day.’ For more information or to book this romantic bushveld sojourn - Contact: info@lukimbi.com / www.lukimbi. com
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Experience the Tranquillity & Splendour of Bundu Lodge
VOTED BEST LODGE IN THE LOWVELD FOR 5 CONSECUTIVE YEARS. "Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner. " Amy Bloom Situated within the Bundu Rockies Wildlife Estate, which is home to more than 30 animals and over 300 bird species, Bundu Lodge offers guests and visitors a taste of Lowveld life, only a stone’s throw away from Nelspruit which is on the magnificent Panorama Route. This area is home to a prolific diversity of natural, cultural and historic gems, offering travellers some of the most spectacular scenery and views South Africa has to offer. This beautiful three star lodge is set in surroundings with breathtaking views making it the ideal, unique property to compliment your special day. Bundu Lodge offers amazing and affordable wedding packages that include the venue and the chapel, whether it is the romantic Chapel or the memorable “Wedding Rocks”. For the ultimate in
romantic weddings, the packages include the Honeymoon suite, complimentary for the honeymoon couple on their first night, with a gift from Bundu of champagne on ice and engraved glasses for your memorable evening together. Bundu is not only honoured to host your wedding but invites the bridal couple to return on their wedding anniversary to enjoy a complimentary evening on a bed only basis. Bundu Lodge boasts 114 en-suite rooms, of which almost half have a 4 star grading; all rooms are serviced daily; air-conditioned and have Satellite TV. The a la carte restaurant hosts up to 400 guests for all occasions and functions, serving the most succulent meals. Warm hospitality, friendly and personal service in the backdrop of the Bushveld and beautiful gardens combine to ensure the memories of your special day will be cherished forever. For more information you can contact: Banqueting - Karin Roos Email: banqueting@bundulodge.co.za Tel: 013 7581222 Fax: 013 7581208 website: www.bundulodge.co.za
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A little bit of bushveld in the urban jungle
Thaba Ya Batswana Eco Lodge & Spa is a rare and valuable jewel, surrounded by the southern Johannesburg metropolis, which captures the spirit of the African renaissance. It is situated in the Klipriviersberg Nature Reserve area and has an abundance of indigenous trees, plants, birds and wildlife. The Tswana name meaning "Mountain of the Tswana people" is an apt description due to the discovery of Tswana
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settlement ruins that date back 300 and 600 years. The historic remnants of the Tswana people are scattered throughout the eco lodge where visitors are able to observe it from many of the paths and trails. At Thaba Ya Batswana we are passionate about professional service-oriented hospitality. This along with our beautiful facilities and breath taking natural surroundings ensures that Thaba ya Batswa-
na is the venue of choice for both the corporate and leisure markets. Bookings and enquiries can be made on the shopping page by clicking on the Three Cities Hospitality Group logo.
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Suite Dreams AT THE PALAZZO HOTEL PRESIDENTIAL SUITE
The Presidential Suite at the 5 star Palazzo Hotel, Montecasino surpasses luxury and elegance with its Tuscan opulence and natural warmth making it the perfect romantic getaway for special occasions. The suite ensures absolute seclusion whilst surrounding you with plush sophisticated decor consisting of Italian artwork, silk curtains, high thread count linen and wood carved finishes. Views extend over the landscaped gardens, koi pond and cascading fountains that flow down to the sparkling oversized pool. This magnificent one bed-roomed suite has a marbled en-suite bathroom with Victorian bath, double shower and dressing area. The private lounge and dining room seats eight guests, there is a library/study and a working kitchen for the dedicated butler. Take in a Thai massage offered by the hotel either in the privacy of your suite or down at the pool in secluded gazebo’s. A stay in the Presidential Suite will be a night to remember forever. For more information call 011 510-3000 or visit www.palazzomontecasino.com Enter the ‘Bride of Essence’ Competition and be the lucky Bride and Groom to win a fabulous Honeymoon night at The Palazzo Hotel.
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Samara WEDDING & HONEYMOON AT
Every girl dreams of her wedding…the dress, flowers, food and of course, the venue. Samara Game Reserve is an internationally renowned, multi-award winning game reserve comprising 70 000 acres of Karoo bushveld. Owned by Mark and Sarah Tompkins it has been restocked and is home to cheetah, White rhino, zebra, giraffe, springbok, black wildebeest and the elusive Aardvark to name a few species. Only two and a half hours drive from Port Elizabeth, Samara Game Reserve provides the perfect wedding and honeymoon destination. The game reserve offers the exclusive choice of flying directly to its private airstrip. Samara also offers guests a choice of three accommodation options, namely the Lodge, Manor House and the Mountain Retreat, all providing private, personal attention to their guests, who may arrive as strangers but always leave as friends. For your important day, Samara offers a unique location for intimate weddings, situated at the base of the Sneeuberg Mountains and on the edge of the legendary Plains of Camdeboo. There is a choice of venues to suit the style of your special event and perfection is ensured by the professional team who will offer you and your guests’ personal, but unobtrusive service. The venue choices include: Early morning wedding ceremony at the Karoo Lodge or Manor House, followed by breakfast and a game drive; mid-morning ceremony and brunch on the mountain top overlooking the plains of Camdeboo followed by a sundowner game drive; late afternoon wedding ceremony at Karoo Lodge and dinner on the verandah, pool side or boma braai under the stars; or late
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afternoon wedding ceremony in the bush and dinner surrounded by flickering hurricane lamps at a bush venue. For the most romantic honeymoon, Samara Game Reserve invites you to unwind, relax and rediscover old-fashioned romance amongst the timeless beauty of the Great Karoo. You will be treated to the most luxurious accommodation and special honeymoon treatment. The Lodge is a classic version of the original Karoo farmhouse, with its wide verandah the perfect place to enjoy sundowners while indulging in the magnificent African sunset. A comfortable living room complete with log fire for those cold winter evenings, and a bar and dining room complete the picture. Samara’s Karoo kitchen provides tantalising treats to tempt the taste buds as well as providing a variety of dining options including room service meals, dinner in the boma or even a romantic picnic under the stars! The Karoo Lodge boasts six suites with large en-suite bathrooms whose stylish interiors are decorated with numerous antiques, 19th Century South African lithographs, large comfortable four poster beds and indigenous animal skins. Spa treatments are available in the com-
fort and privacy of your air conditioned suite. Break the warm summer days with a refreshing swim in the swimming pool or challenge your spouse to a lively game of tennis! The Manor House provides exclusive accommodation for a party of eight guests with its luxurious en-suite accommodation. Air conditioned suites boasting indoor and outdoor shower facilities offer breathtaking views over the Karoo landscape. An infinity pool descending into a natural waterhole provides guests with front row seats for game viewing as animals visit the water hole early morning and evening for a refreshing drink or dip. The Mountain Retreat, secluded, wild and very remote with limited electricity provides the exact ingredients needed for the perfect romantic getaway! Leisurely walks to explore the ancient landscape where rare Khoisan paintings of cheetah preside, the Mountain Retreat in the valley of the Bushman, provides the ideal getaway for couples and families looking for a wilderness experience. Situated in an isolated part of the reserve, solitude and privacy are the flavours of the day. Check in is handled at the Karoo Lodge and guests are treated to a 30 minute drive through the Karoo landscape enroute to the Mountain Retreat. The 250 year old Barn and this Victorian homestead offer five beautiful suites including a veranda with a jacuzzi overlooking the endless and breathtaking views of the Karoo and for your dining pleasure, the boma, with its rustic, outdoor feel, you will feel right at home in this bushveld getaway! With an experienced ranger on hand for the guided walks, a Karoo style chef to tantalise those taste buds and a housekeeper to see to all your requirements,
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all you have to do is to sit back and enjoy the spectacular surroundings and treasure the memories of your special Samara experience. For the ultimate relaxation on your honeymoon, the spa at Samara offers guests the perfect opportunity to experience pure bliss. With spectacular views of the mountains and a magnificent watering hole where the game and birds regularly come to have a drink and play in the water, you cannot help but relax. Under the experienced hands of their professional therapist, all tension and stress will be eased away and with body and facial treatments available, you will soon be as tranquil as the surroundings. You can have luxurious relaxation in the heart of the Karoo amidst endless panoramic views over the plains of the Camdeboo. Enjoy the sounds of silence in the African bush during daily game drives and
indulge in pampering sessions for two in a luxurious spa. Personal attention and “that little added extra” from the conscientious staff will create lasting memories. Romantic nights under the stars with your loved one; mouthwatering cuisine at every meal well appointed staff and opulent accommodation are just a few reasons to head for Samara, the wedding and honeymoon heaven of game reserves… For wedding and honeymoon specials contact Samara lodge on lodge@samara.co.za or +27 (0) 49 89 10 880. Visit their website at www.samara.co.za Information and Photographs supplied by Chantal Matthee, General Manager Lloyd Orr Communications – on behalf of Samara Private Game Reserve Tel +27 11 7029601 Fax +27 11 463 4830, Email chantal@ lloydorr.com
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FLOWERS
BY GINA HARTOOG
*Bouquet trends Something old and something new.... we look at the latest fashion trends in bridal bouquets. THE POSY The language of flowers was used in Victorian times by lovers wanting to exchange messages of romance without their chaperones understanding their secrets. Bridal bouquets did not contain flowers but were made up garlic, herbs and other vegetables. These arrangements were carried as a protection against evil. It was probably Queen Victoria’s own wedding that sparked a change in tradition when edible flowers were introduced into the bouquet. Soon vegetables and herbs lost their magic influences and beautiful, colourful and symbolic flowers replaced them in the wedding bouquet.
The traditional posy was a bunch of flowers grouped together and secured in place with tape and ribbon. For decades brides have used the posy as their bouquet of choice but new fashion trends have brought fresh ideas. Flowers like carnations and baby’s breath, which were once part of the posy, are no longer used, while roses, exotic flowers and daisies are popular again. The stem of the posy can be short or long but must suit the bride’s dress and physique. Sonja Judeel
The centre of the posy, usually constructed from tightly packed roses in a single colour, is edged on the outside with another flower in a contrasting colour. Gerbera daisies are a popular choice for the outside ring of flowers. The look is striking and suits a more formal wedding.
STYLES OF BOUQUETS There are many different types and styles of bouquets available, something to suit the individual taste of every bride and as well the theme and ambience of the wedding. Fashion trends come and go, and so do styles in floral art.
We asked Sonja Judeel, of Monet Flowers in Centurion, Johannesburg to tell us more about the latest bouquet trends.
* BEIDEMEIER BOUQUET
* LOOSE AND LOVELY This is a natural ‘wildflower’ look, where the traditional tightly packed single flower posy is replaced with a mixture of flowers of different lengths and finished off with ribbon. More exotic flowers can be used in these bouquets. They suit a less formal wedding and flowing, ball-room wedding gowns.
Crystal-tipped florist pins which hold flowers in place in the bouquet have replaced traditional pearl pins. Modern wedding gowns also tend to have more beadwork and less pearls.
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Erika - Tyme Photography
* CRYSTAL PINS
Flowers for all seasons
Information supplied by: Sonja Judeel, Monet Flowers. Contact: 082-880-4229; www.monetflower.co.za
A SINGLE FLOWER Brides who like simplicity or who do not want to carry a heavy or full bouquet may choose a single flower. The look suits a modern wedding and an elaborate dress. Most brides select a single white lily; the rose is also a common choice. Any flower is suitable, provided it fits in with the other flowers chosen for the attendants’ bouquets and table settings. Sunflowers are making a striking comeback.
International imports and exports of cut flowers make it very easy to get the exact flowers you want at your wedding. Many flowers are seasonal and may only be available for a few weeks of the year. Florists are able to import flowers from overseas if they are not available here at a specific time, but you must be willing to pay a premium price. If you are working on a budget it is essential to know exactly what flowers are available in your wedding season. Flower prices also increase dramatically around Valentine’s Day and Mother’s Day when the demand for cut flowers rises sharply.
* CONTRASTING COLOUR A single bloom in bright pink or red will stand out against a white or cream wedding gown.
Aneen - Jaco Ferreira Photography
Nicolette - Status Studio
OVER-ARM BOUQUETS
To keep bouquet costs down, florists suggest choosing the majority of blooms from those that are available all year. You can add a few flowers unique to your wedding season for a touch of exclusivity.
Flowers with long stems, like long-stemmed roses, arum lilies and orchids are grouped together and secured with ribbon. The bride cradles the bouquet against her upper body, with the blooms flowing down over her elbow. Fewer flowers are required for this type of bouquet, so it can be a more costeffective option then other bouquet types. It fits in with a modern wedding and looks very elegant with a tighter fitting wedding dress.
* TWO SIDES
SPRING – erica’s; iris; daffodils; jasmine; some proteas; tulips; strelitzias; zinnias; ranunculus; poppies; snowdrops ; arum lilies; azaleas; sweet peas; freesias; camellias.
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Flowers can be secured underneath to hang over the bride’s elbow and her forearm, creating a ‘double-headed’ look with very few stems and greenery showing.
SUMMER – sunflowers; delphiniums; peonies; gladiolus; daisies; cornflowers; agapanthus; Michaelmas daisies.
* LESS IS MORE A few beautiful exotic blooms, like orchids, can be collected together and secured with ribbon for graceful, over-arm look.
The wristlet bouquet is slightly bigger than a corsage. Many brides now have a wristlet bouquet made for the reception. It allows the bride to use both her hands when greeting guests, cutting the cake and dancing but still keeps the beauty, colour and intimacy of flowers close by for the photographs.
LATE SUMMER INTO AUTUMN – some proteas; blue delphiniums; hydrangeas; Jaco Ferreira Photography
THE WRISTLET BOUQUET
South African rose growers cut down on their production during the winter as costs to heat the hot houses are high. This does not mean that you cannot have roses at your winter wedding. Tjaart Kilian, quality control manager at Multiflora, one of South Africa’s largest flower markets, says although most of the roses supplied to the market are grown locally, the company imports a large number of roses in winter to keep up with the demand. This means that roses are available in most colours all year round. Other flowers like daisies, chrysanthemums, gerberas, asters, lilium and orchids also enjoy all-year round availability.
WINTER – erica’s; iris; some proteas; tulips; amaryllis. A detailed flower list of blooms available in different seasons can be found at www.multiflora.co.za
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CONTRIBUTORS FASHION SHOOT PHOTOGRAPHER - GRAEME WYLLIE Graeme specialises in commercial photography, he has been a published photographer for four years. Prior to shooting for various publications, and advertising agencies, he freelanced as an assistant photographer working for both international and local photographers. He quickly learnt his trade and took inspiration and advice from every photographer with which he worked. Graeme’s favourite things to shoot are anything conceptual, travel, environmental portraits of “real-people”, food and of course fashion. You can find more examples of Graeme’s work on www.graemewyllie.co.za and enjoy his work in our MAMMA MIA! Palazzo Hotel, Montecasino Fashion Shoot.
MAKE UP ARTIST - DESIRE FOUCHE Desire has been a make-up artist for 2 years. She has worked on publications such as Cosmopolitan, Longevity, Soccer Life, FHM, a variety of Caxton publications such as Bona, Food & Home, Woman & Home and many more … and now Brides Essence! Her experience also includes runway and TV shows and weddings! Her favourite type of work includes the rush of runway/catwalk, lifestyle, fashion and bridal! You can see examples of Desire’s work in this issue’s Fabulous MAMMA MIA! Fashion Shoot. oakelfrost@yahoo.co.za
MAMMA MIA’S SOPHIE – CARMEN PRETORIUS Carmen studied voice under Desire van Der Walt since the age of 9.After appearing in numerous Northcliff High School productions (Nick Jourdaan), Carmen left Matric early to compete in HSM Spotlight SA and landed her first professional role as Gabriella Montez in Disney's High School Musical Live On Stage (produced by Pieter Toerien and Hazel Feldman). Carmen went on to land the part of Ariel Moore in Bernard Jay's stage production of Footloose (2009 Directed by Karen Bruce) and thereafter she was cast in the role of Mulan in the junior production of the Disney tale. This year she is thrilled to have made her TV debut as the ditsy Chantel on Kyknet's Getroud Met Rugby.
MAMMA MIA’S SKY – STEPHEN JUBBER Stephen completed a bachelor of law degree at the University of Cape Town in 2006, spent a bit of time in the USA thinking about life, and promptly started a theatre career on his return. Theatre credits include: Dominic in In Briefs, Salerio in The Merchant of Venice, Aladdin in Aladdin and His Magic Lamp, Little Jack Horner in Nursery Rhyme Time, Leo in Dalliances, Mongo in High School Musical, Barry in New Boy and Dymotron in The Night before Christmas. Stephen has been fortunate to tour to the Dublin International Theatre Festival with Dalliances, Shanghai with High School Musical and Germany and Slovenia to compete in the Hip Hop World Championships with his dance crew Hitsquad. This year Stephen acted in his first feature film playing Evan in The Lost Future and kicked a football around the Johannesburg Theatre in The Boys in the Photograph. Stephen is a qualified dance teacher and a founding member of the coolest a capella singing group around, D-Seven. Based in Cape Town, Stephen hits the surf whenever time allows, and when in colder climates, is an avid snowboarder.
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