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Most ladies have wound up made up for lost time in poisonous, unfortunate relationship with insecure men. Despite the fact that the majority of them could never let it out, truly men have exceptionally delicate consciences that can be effortlessly broken. Many have low confidence and a delicate conscience that are attempting to cover up no matter what. In any case, what precisely are these indications of instability in a man?

You meet a new guy and he appears to be incredible. He gets you, gives you roses, opens your entryway, takes you to an exquisite café, and unendingly praises you for the duration of the night. He consistently lets you know, his voice bound with suspicious miracle, that he can't really accept that you consented to go out with him since you're so out of sight his league. He deals with you like a princess, and it's all so complimenting.

It's an invigorating change to feel so valued, particularly in the event that you have an example of dating rascals, and you started believing that perhaps he's "the one."

Yet, at that point things head south, and his sweet mindfulness goes to overpowering fixation. It no longer feels like he loves and esteems you; it seems like tyrannical possessiveness. It takes all your energy to guarantee your man (and afterward console him again and again) that you love him, and it's draining the life out of you. Shockingly, insecure men are all over the place. Also, if your sweetheart or spouse with does most, or all, of the accompanying things, he's presumably one of them.

He never specifies any companions and doesn't spend time with anybody yet you. Outside of work, he has no interests or diversions. He doesn't go out much, play any games, take any classes, volunteer or go to chapel. At the point when he isn't with you, he's sitting at home thinking about you. Or then again perhaps he had companions and side interests all at once; however he surrendered them all to go through consistently with you.

He's persuaded you're not over your ex, regardless of whether you've been separated/separated for quite a long time and the main sentiments you have for him are dissatisfaction, feel sorry for, abhorring, appall, and a pinch of lingering scorn.

Early in the relationship, he declares his undying affection for you. You could fly through the air while yelling, "He adores me! He cherishes me! He cherishes me!" But the normal piece of you feels like, "He adores me? Stand by, what? This is our subsequent date. That is insane talk."

You're his reality, the focal point of his universe, his purpose behind living. From the start, it might appear to be complimenting to be esteemed so profoundly, however being the focal point of one's reality isn't so amazing. That is an excess of strain to satisfy.

He oftentimes asks you inquiries like, "Do you love me?" He looks for praises. At that point when you guarantee him that you do discover him alluring, he doesn't trust you. Everybody likes to hear that they're adored, pretty, skilled, alluring, and savvy and wanted, yet his requirements go past those of most of us. He for the most part

experiences low confidence, which unexpectedly is the main thrust behind a large number of his uncertain practices.

He's desirous of the time you go through with your companions. He doesn't care for you to meet associates after work for party time, he doesn't care for you going out on the town to shop with sweethearts, and paradise prohibit you have any dispassionate associations with men. He habitually calls and messages to look at up on you when you're without him.

He plays such a game wherein he takes steps to leave or say a final farewell to you. He makes statements as, "I don't feel needed" or, "I don't think you truly love me." He would truly not like to cut off the association; he's trusting you'll implore him to remain. On the off chance that you do, it approves his delicate personality. In the event that you don't, he'll take it all back and do whatever he can so he doesn't lose you. He's simply trying your commitment to him and requesting that approval he so longs for. Ultimately, you'll either be stuck in this unfortunate relationship or you'll feel worn out on this little game and readily let him leave whenever he undermines it.

As indicated by him, his exes never truly cherished him. He demands that in each past relationship, he was the guiltless casualty. Nobody cherished him. They used him and undermined him. This might be valid and the motivation behind why he's so shaky, or it could be in his mind in view of his frailty.

He's consistently mindful the exact moment you post an image on Facebook, a tweet, or an Instagram post. He follows you and consistently watching what you're doing. He may even get vexed on the off chance that he peruses what you're up to on Facebook when you didn't let him know actually prior to presenting it for everybody on read. Except if you're Kim Kardashian, there's simply something somewhat frightening about being followed.

He investigates your shoulder when you get a book. He may casually ask who you're messaging or he may by and large interest to see you’re mobile.

He intermittently feels like you're concealing something from him in case you're on your PC or telephone, regardless of whether you're simply browsing your work email or messaging a sweetheart a formula for lasagna.

He can't exactly shake his doubts that you're undermining him. He may blame you for playing with the server, engaging in extramarital relations with an associate, or simply searching for somebody better.

It isn't really that he doesn't confide in you; it's more about him feeling like he's insufficient for you so it's simply a question of time until you discover somebody better. We

Sania Malhotra was jogging at a faster pace than usual. The music was ringing in loud through the headphones. Last night’ s images were emerging before her eyes. It was a night that she wouldn ’t forget. It was a night when she had to make a choice.

The sky was playing hide and seek with different hues of oranges. Sania Malhotra was jogging at a faster pace than usual. The music was ringing in loud through the headphones. Last night’s images were emerging before her eyes. It was a night that she wouldn’t forget. It was a night when she had to make a choice. The choice was very obvious, but not an easy one.

She jogged till her breathing became heavy. Her panting became louder. She ran and ran and then halted abruptly at the dead end of the road. her heart yearned for Naziya, her childhood friend who was left behind in this journey. Naziya completed her BSc degree in their hometown Amritsar. They would catch up whenever Sania would visit Amritsar. But slowly the time gaps increased and phone calls decreased.

“Ma, have you got any news of Naziya?” Sania inquired.

“No, beta, I just heard from her buaji that her family is planning to move to the Gulf.”

Her calls were answered by the operator’s crisp Voice, “The number you are calling does not exist.”

Years rolled by. However, Sania would search for her best friend in social media profiles. And

“Aaaaaahhhhhhh...No... No...NO!” Sania was shouting with tears rolling out of her eyes. She was alone.

She had always excelled in studies. An engineer in electronics and communication, Sania successfully cleared the SSB exam and was commissioned as an officer in the Army. After one year of rigorous training at OTA Chennai, she was commissioned in Corps of Intelligence. She was now posted as a Major in one of the intelligence units of the Indian Army at New Delhi. She had befriended a lot of fellow women officers. Yet

Why did I search for you? I lost you again, Naaz.

one fine day she got that friend request from Naziya. She couldn't believe her eyes. She checked out Naziya’s profile. The introvert girl had now become an author. Her wheatish complexioned oval face carried the same pair of wide, deep vocal eyes. Sania immediately connected with her. This was followed by an exchange of messages and the numbers. Naziya was residing at Hyderabad.

“I will call you as soon as I step out of my office,” Sania messaged her.

“Trrrng trrrng.”

“Hello.” Sania paused for a second to hear the voice. It was the same even after so many years.

“Hello... Naaz...I mean is that really you?”

“Sani... How much I missed you in all these years.”

“You just vanished from the scene. Idiot, I have been searching for you for so long.

“Yeah, it is a long story. Will tell you someday when we meet.”

“Yes, we should meet as soon as possible.”Sania was excited.

“You are looking pretty these days, Sania, for a change. Saw your pictures on Facebook.”

“I was always. Just that you always stole the limelight with your eyes, sweetheart.”

“And you still didn’t find anyone after me to handle you I guess. Still single and rocking, Sania.”

“Yes, Naaz. And what about you?”

“Hmm... Single you can say. ”

Sania didn’t probe any further. She knew that words will pour out at the right time. That was so like Naaz.

They would call up almost every alternate day. Also WhatsApp messages and video calls. The distance of years was getting covered up with technology.

After a few months, the moment of the reunion came.

“Yes, you heard it right, Sania. I will be there for almost a fortnight, baby.”

“Wow...I want to hug you right now.”

“Yes. My room is booked at the Holiday Inn. We can spend our evenings together.”

“I am not meeting you then. How dare you stay at a hotel?”

“Come on, Sania, don’t be a baby.”

“Hey Naaz, we are singles and no men to bother us. We can have a ball. You are not staying at a hotel. Only at my place. Matter closed,” Sania said with an authority.

It was almost a decade later that they were face to face. At the airport, Sania was too excited to see her. Naaz had always been a composed person. However, that day she permitted herself to be a little melodramatic.

Saniya celebrated with a peg of scotch which left Naaz gaping.

“It is my army way, gal! A toast to our friendship, my love,” Sania was dancing around.

“I would prefer to toast with a Coke,” Naaz grinned.

“At this point of life, I am content. I am serving my country. Nothing else matters more.”

“Yes, I feel so proud to see you as a woman officer, strong and independent.”

“Tell me how you ended up writing stories, Naaz. And what about marriage and all?”

“Ammi and Abbu wanted to marry me off seven seas away. But destiny had some other plans. So here I am scribbling others stories. And finally trying my hand making a documentary on Chandni Chowk,” Naaz laughed it off.

“I hope there is no story of heartbreak here.”

“No. Not at all,”Naaz said in a matter of fact way.

Sania knew Naziya was lying. She thought of leaving the topicist there.

“Naaz you have your lunch on time. I will be back by evening. Meanwhile, if you need to go out for your research work to Chandni Chowk, you can take buddy Vasantlal with you.”

Naaz was busy reading.

“Are you listening to me?”Sania shrugged her shoulders.

“I will go by a taxi. I would be covering the area on foot, Sania. So, no need of Vasantlal, ”Naaz waved a warm bye to her friend.

Naaz along with her Handycam, a rucksack and a diary, toured the alleys of Chandni Chowk. Sania never accompanied her. In the evening, Naaz would share little stories she had found there. Soon, the fortnight was over and it was time for Naziya to leave.

“Sania, I am going to cherish this for all my life.”

“Stop being so filmy. We will be spending time like this more often. At least till the day marriage happens.”

It was the last weekend of their rendezvous.

“Sani, let us spend the Sunday with our old-time memories. We can fool around doing window shopping, paani puri, chaat and lot more.”

“ That sounds so cool.”

“Also, I want to visit Delhi Haat. Dinner and shopping there will be the best way to end the day.”Naziya chalked out the plan.

Next morning, both of them twinned up their apparel. They glammed up their looks with a dash of make-up and headed towards the streets of Delhi to recreate the memories. Naziya carried along the Handycam in her handbag to capture their moments.

It was dinner time at Delhi Haat.

“Why don’t you shift to Delhi, babes? It will be so much fun.”

“Life is not always fun, Saani. We both will be busy. Things will be back to the way they once used to be. You left me alone for your engineering.”

“Naziya, I had to. You know how important it was for me. And you went away with your parents to the Gulf without even meeting me.”

There was a silence.

“Okay, forget it. Show me the Handycam. Let me see how my newbie documentary director captured my beauty,” Sania leaped to take Naziya’s handbag.

The bag was nowhere.

“Oh man! I guess I lost my bag!” Naziya gasped.

Sania started to search for it under their table and nearby. It was gone.

“Let it be, Sani I have my phone with me. I always carry my wallet in my jeans pocket. So my credit cards are safe.”

“What about the Handycam and your recordings of Chandni Chowk?”

“They are safe. I have uploaded them on my laptop.”

After dinner, Sania was not comfortable.

“Wait, I remember, you went to that handicraft shop to have a look. It was just before our dinner...”

Sania took hurried steps in that direction.

“Let it be. Someone might have picked it up by now.”Naziya was hesitant.

“The shopkeeper might have kept it safe. Let me check or else I will inform the police. Your Handycam is a costly one, babe.”Sania was getting serious.

And, before Naziya could say anything, she disappeared into the crowd.

Sania was standing in front of the Rajasthani stall. She started scanning the place with her military trained eyes.

At the corner of the stall, there was a bench. Under the bench, the tancoloured leather handbag lay peacefully. Sania heaved a sigh of relief.

“Naaz, I have got it! You absentminded dumb, you left it there,” she started shouting from a distance.

As she reached the table, Naaziya was nowhere to be seen. She looked around. It was getting scary. Her friend was missing. She dialled Naziya’s cell number.

“The number you are calling is switched off.”

She sat on the bench hopelessly. During that moment of silence, a strange sound caught her attention.

“Tick-tock...Ticktock...Tick-tock”. She followed the frequency of the sound. It was coming from the tan-coloured handbag. Naaz’s handbag.

Her trembling hands opened the zip. A red and blue light was blinking inside. It was attached with the Handycam. Sania felt a spine-chilling numbness running through her body.

Sania was shocked to see a bomb inside her best friend’s bag. But, within few seconds, her sharp mind started working. First, she called her unit officer, Captain Sonakshi. The next move was to make people safe without creating a panic. With the help of local police constables, she evacuated the area in a short time.

The tragedy was averted.

But a deeper tragedy had struck Sania’s life. There were so many questions. Naziya couldn’t be a part of this. Where was she? Was she safe?

At the headquarters, Sania was counselled by her commanding officer and given a warning letter.

The next day's Headlines read -

“DARKEST NIGHT; BRIGHTEST STAR! Army officer saves thousands of lives yesterday night. Bomb blast averted.”

Her trust was shaken. She started digging Naziya’s stuff at her home. Naziya was gone. But her belongings were there. The salwar kameez, burqas, some books, Cds, wires, fanatic literature and tool boxes, gloves, eye gears etc. Slowly the reality started to sink in.

Then began Sania’s hunt. Her eyes were hungry for Naaz’s sight. She had tracked her down. After all, Sania was an intelligence officer. She knew all the holes where the moles could hide. Naziya was picked up from a hideout in Chandni Chowk. Two more women accomplices were arrested. "Darkest night...”Sania muttered to herself. Naziya’s dark truth was going to dawn upon her.They sat facing each other. Sania was in her crisp uniform. Naaz was in printed salwar kameez with a hijab over her head.

“Why, Naaz? Why?”

“Because you were my shield. Nobody would be suspicious on me when I was accompanied by you,” Naaz said in a grim voice.

“I am...No...I was your best friend, a childhood friend.”Sania’s pain showed in her voice.

“I don’t have friends anymore."

“This is foolishness. You have been misled, Naaz. This is your motherland. How could you?”

“How could they? How could they put my abbu in jail while immigrating? Just because we have the last name belonging to a specific community.”Naaz broke down. “We were tagged as traitor’s daughters. Abbu died of asthma in jail, without medicine and care. Is this the kind of dignity your law offers to the countrymen? Can I ever feel home in such circumstances in my own country?”

Sania left Naaz with the interrogating officers.

Present day.

On her table, lay a neat white envelope with her statement inside it.

“Ravi, we have to go to the police station. Take out the Gypsy please.”

In the Gypsy , she took out her phone. A smiling selfie clicked at the Delhi Haat was staring at her. She touched the delete icon.

Sometimes it is better to give up yearning for the past. Why did I search for you? I lost you again, Naaz. Not to time, but to a wrong ideology. I have lost my ability to trust. The thoughts kept on hammering inside Sania’s head.

Sania took hurried steps in that direction. “Let it be. Someone might have picked it up by now. ”Naziya was hesitant. “The shopkeeper might have kept it safe. Let me check or else I will inform the police. Your Handycam is a costly one, babe. ”Sania was getting serious.

By Ramzi

We live in tough times. It takes lot of understanding and work to remain together in a relationship and there are positive bunches of allurement out there. Our innovative, twist high speed tech culture is skilled at rearing limited capacity to focus, apparently guiding us to the "following best thing". Notwithstanding that, our minds are regularly guided by the "delight pleasures" that looks to abrogate what causes emotional or mental distress and agony. We have gotten molded to incline toward that which causes us to feel better and satisfies our prompt requirements, and experience issues remaining with that which is difficult and uneasiness inciting—particularly connections.

Be that as it may, futile sex aside (no judgment!), sex additionally ends up having a fairly significant impact on seeing someone. It's the nonverbal communication between two individuals. It's the motivation behind why individuals look for cultural assent and enter relationships. Past intercourse is at the forefront of everybody's thoughts. With a billion in number populaces, we sure appear to do it a great deal however then for what reason would we say we aren't discussing it more? What role does desire play seeing someone nowadays?

When it comes to sex/desire, the snare is to get dependent on the prompt delight of joy, to confuse that with the genuine passionate association, and to confound what happens in the closeness of actual inclusion with the closeness of a relationship created over the long run. Individuals frequently attempt to persuade themselves that they're "enamored" because an essential need is in effect briefly fulfilled.

They will in general need to fortify this satisfying relationship and struggle to inspect it for what it truly is. Perhaps if they could that they might, they can at last search out accomplices that are eventually more advantageous to their sound turn of events. Somebody, they could truly be enamored with for a lifetime. Try not to misunderstand. Sex and desire are basic parts of a strong relationship.

Beyond attraction and love, which are the undeniable basics for a strong, long haul relationship, there's the need to create a connection to your accomplice— the concrete that holds a relationship together over a long period. You need to discover approaches to truly like the individual you're focused on being with. So here are some fundamental practices/propensities for a fruitful, submitted, and cherishing relationship.

You were keen on getting some answers concerning each other when you initially met. You posed inquiries and you tuned in. The capacity to tune in and interest in your accomplice is vital to supporting your relationship. Try not to expect that you don't need to invest the energy tuning into your accomplice since you have a deep understanding of them. Individuals change throughout a relationship.

Put forth a deliberate attempt to fraternize. Regardless of how occupied or harried, you are, "check-in" with one another consistently. It could be a brief call to simply say "hi," "I love you," "what are you up to." Plan time together alone—without the children, and certainly unplugged.

Focus on the positive. Recall and like everything you loved about your accomplice from the earliest starting point. Decide to see your unfurling coexistence as an excursion, an experience maybe. Now and then life runs easily and things are incredible, yet at times it's truly unpleasant. Having an inspirational demeanor makes life's vulnerabilities and "the obscure" something to anticipate instead of something to fear.

One reason romantic connections are so private is a result of sex. There is no other relationship where having sex is a shared movement to this degree, hence the desire and what follows are what separates them. (Attaching can't be known as a relationship in this unique circumstance.)

Isolating love from lust can be a troublesome task, particularly in long haul connections. What you feel when you're intimate with your

accomplice is frequently a combination, the lines are obscured. However, they don't need to figure it out consistently. Lovemaking may start as a type of desire, exist as communication and be an act of love. It doesn't need to be a very much isolated action.

People are as matter of course, shaky creatures. At the point when they are seeing someone, hold question concerning numerous things. They question their selfesteem continually. One of the inquiries that keep reoccurring is 'Am I alluring? Is my accomplice pulled in to me?'

Lust and its demeanor can work in consoling the two accomplices about their allure. It helps support their confidence and along these

lines makes them a safer accomplice.

A drawn-out relationship is regularly a custom of decision. You awaken each day and decide to be with the individual you love. There are incredible force and duty there. Thinking about desire, the craving you feel for your accomplice as a piece of this decision is significant. Realizing that you're with somebody you love and who sets your spirit ablaze consistently is an engaging inclination to encounter.

While we have perceived how significant desire is seeing someone, would be unreasonable to give it superfluous significance. Desire is incredible; however, it isn't all that matters. But you don't want to rip each other's garments off each time you are separated from everyone else, doesn't mean you are not in a caring relationship. Desire is simply essential for the entire game.

A genuine partnership has numerous elements. You can't engage in sexual relations and still be particularly enamored, to give it incomparability over genuineness, dedication and building coexistence would be mistaken. Taking a gander at desire and sex in a fair manner is the thing that will keep your relationship enduring.

You can have intercourse with anybody, whenever. These are fundamental impulses. Being enamored is a considerably more mind-boggling undertaking, regularly colossally fulfilling, however at times exceptionally troublesome and attempting. Genuinely loving somebody implies setting aside the effort to comprehend, acknowledge, and acknowledge a critical other for who and what they are. Like methods regarding, respecting, and refining the adoration you already have. We