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Does your child perk up and become a li le more active when the temp is down? Is he/ she keeping enough fluids down to keep his/ For all children older than � months of age, her urinary frequency close to normal? Is your when do you need to worry? Do you need to child breathing comfortably? call the doctor right away? Well, that depends. If the answers to the above questions are The height of the fever is not the most reassuring, then we may tell you that you don’t important factor to pediatricians when we see need to come in to the office right away. Keep a patient with fever. What we want to know your child comfortable, push the fluids, and is this: call your pediatrician for any worrisome signs Are you able to get the fever down with or symptoms, or if the fever lasts longer than ibuprofen or Tylenol? (note: the reason to try to �- days. Having said that, it’s important to use reduce fever is to keep your child comfortable. your gut instinct. If you are worried, come on Fever itself is not dangerous in any way, and in. That’s what we are here for.
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27 election 2020 Cindy Banyai and Heather Fitzenhagen, two Southwest Florida moms, are running for Congress
33 school choice What you need to know before picking your child’s school
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37 anniversary Southwest Florida Parent & Child magazine celebrates its 20th anniversary
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How to score better on the math section of the SAT or ACT
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23 kid stuff Explore the arts for free during Community Days at Artis—Naples
Our Top 12 picks among Florida’s familyfriendly resorts
57 voices Dr. David Butler talks supplemental drinks and picky eaters
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cuddly pudge of coos and smiles, my little one was 7 months old when I left my reporting job to edit Southwest Florida Parent & Child magazine in 2005. My older child was 3. I enjoyed my work covering environmental issues for The News-Press, but when this opening came along, I couldn’t pass it up. True, I hoped it would mean a more flexible Luna and work schedule; racing to day care before closing Cosmo and then back to the newsroom to meet daily deadlines was stressful. More than that, I saw an opportunity to shape an entire publication. I wanted to help other Southwest Florida parents. I aimed to make the magazine a valuable resource for parents of all ages in our area. I wanted to show people the amazing things there are to do for families here. I wanted to give readers information they could use, like our feature on School Choice and what to ask when visiting school open houses (page 33). I wanted to introduce them to other parents doing inspiring things, like Cindy Banyai and Heather Fitzenhagen, two moms who are running for Congress (page 27). Over the years, I’ve seen our region diversify and grow, just as my children have grown. There are more fun things to do here now than 20 years ago. A children’s museum in Naples, Zoomers near Fort Myers Beach and HeadPinz exploded onto the scene, just to name a few. My oldest is now 17, a senior in high school ready to conquer the world. He’s madly applying to universities and scholarships and eyeing an eventual career in the military. My 14-year-old is in her first year of high school, pursuing academics and art. Her talent took her father and I by surprise and has amazed us over the last year. By far, I am not the perfect parent, but I hope I’ve given my kids enough to succeed and be happy in life. I hope I’ve succeeded, too, in giving you a valuable resource, a little inspiration and a whole lot of opportunity for fun. PHOTO BY BRIAN TIETZ
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Meet the contributors to this month’s issue of Southwest Florida Parent & Child magazine. Gina Birch • Dining Out • Gina
Birch is perhaps best known to Southwest Floridians for the nearly two decades she spent on the former 96.9 WINK FM morning shows of Alexander & Bennett, then Bennett and Birch. With a degree in broadcast journalism, she has always loved sharing stories, whether over the airways or in print. Her passions include travel, food, wine and shoes.
Dr. David Butler • Voices: The
Picky Eater • Dr. David Butler is a pediatrician with Physicians’ Primary Care of Southwest Florida and the father of a picky eater. His offices are at 9350 Camelot Drive, Fort Myers, and 5700 Lee Blvd., Lehigh Acres. Parents can contact him at 239-481-0570 or ppcswfl.com.
Anne Reed • Spotlight: Moms on the
Ballot • Anne Reed is a writer, wife, runner, mother of three and dog-mom of two. Originally from the Midwest, she lives in Estero and loves watching the wildlife in her backyard.
Andrea Stetson • School registration, Kid Stuff and Teens • Andrea Stetson writes for magazines and newspapers throughout Southwest Florida. She has also been a news producer and writer at television stations in Fort Myers, Miami and Scranton. Andrea lives in North Naples with her husband, daughter, dog and eight bunnies. Her son recently graduated from Georgia Tech. Tom Swiersz • Ask the Expert • Tom Swiersz has been a mathematics professor for over 35 years and currently teaches at Hodges University in Fort Myers. He welcomes questions about math and the SAT or ACT. You can contact him at 239244-5296 or tswiersz@hodges.edu. Jennifer Thomas • Travel: Top 12 Family Resorts • Jennifer Thomas is a freelance travel writer who has extensively explored the U.S. and destinations abroad. A journalism graduate from Bowling Green State University and an Air Force veteran, she is the owner of the FSR Ventures public relations firm and Beauty Results PR. Jennifer lives in Fort Myers with husband Bill, daughter Kylie, and golden retriever Rosebud.
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Harriet the eagle launches second children’s book The bald eagle momma that gained international fame on the SWFL Eagle Cam has a new book: “Harriet’s Next Adventure.” Thousands of people watch Harriet raise her family high in a tree on the Pritchett family property in North Fort Myers. Last spring, Ginnie Pritchett McSpadden, co-founder of the Eagle Cam and mom to a young son, wrote “A Day with Harriet” and recently released the sequel. Both books are available at adaywithharriett.com for $14.99 each or $25.99 for both.
Exhibit explores alligator wrestling Before Florida roadside attractions, even before European settlers, alligator wrestling existed here. Native Americans in the South hunted gators for their meat. A new exhibit at the Seminole Tribe of Florida’s Ah-Tah-Thi-Ki Museum explores the history of this practice. To celebrate the opening of “Alligator Wrestling: Danger. Entertainment. Tradition.” the museum is hosting a reception 1 to 4 p.m. Saturday, January 11 with a catered lunch, entertainment, speakers, an alligator wrestling show and the screening of “Allapatah,” a documentary about alligator wrestling. The event is included with regular museum admission, which is $10 for adults, $7.50 for students or $30 for a family of two adults and up to four children ages 5-18; ages and 4 and younger admitted free. For details, visit ahtahthiki.com or call 863-902-1113.
Is VPK worth it? Prekindergarten is so important, the FutureMakers Coalition put $33,000 toward a campaign to inform parents and encourage them to enroll their 4-year-olds in a Voluntary Pre-K, or VPK, program. VPK is free in Florida. The goal of the FutureMakers Coalition is to transform the local workforce by increasing the number of residents with degrees, certificates and other high-quality credentials by 2025. And that starts before kindergarten. The campaign, “Power of Pre-K,” plans to use children’s books, posters and rack cards written by the Early Childhood Parent Communication Workgroup and illustrated by local cartoonist Doug MacGregor to highlight the importance, availability and access to free, quality VPK. “Our kindergarten teachers can tell the difference between children who have attended prekindergarten programs and those who haven’t,” says Scott Bass, superintendent of schools in the Glades County School District. To learn more, visit schoolreadySWFL.org or call 239-274-5900.
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FSW child care center moves to new location The Children’s Learning Center at FSW, the Child Care of Southwest Florida facility on the Florida SouthWestern State College campus in Fort Myers, is expected to be in its new location this month. The new 5,064-square-foot center at 37 Barkley Circle off Summerlin Road in south Fort Myers can accommodate up to 100 children, from infants to prekindergarten, plus an after-school program for students in kindergarten through fourth grade. Scholarship assistance is available at the center.
Sick? Going to urgent care? Call ahead to avoid the wait A new service called On My Way aims to help patients get medical care without a long wait. Housed as a feature in My Chart on the Lee Health app, patients can check wait times, make an appointment and secure a place in line at a Lee Health urgent care center. It works sort of like call-ahead seating at restaurants. To start, the service is available at the Lee Convenient Care locations at 1682 N.E. Pine Island Road in Cape Coral and 4771 S. Cleveland Ave. in Fort Myers. Plans are to have it at all four clinics. Details at leehealth.org.
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Low-income families have a new option for health care. Island Coast Pediatrics recently announced it has joined the Vivida Health Medicaid plan. Island Coast is a private pediatric practice that has been in Lee County for nearly 30 years, operating offices in Fort Myers, Cape Coral and Estero. Vivida Health is a Medicaid Provider Service Network that provides access to health care for eligible children, expectant mothers, elderly adults, low-income families and those with disabilities in Charlotte, Collier, DeSoto, Glades, Hendry, Lee and Sarasota counties. For details about the practice, visit icpeds.com. For Vivida Health, visit vividahealth.com.
The Smithsonian’s National Portrait Gallery is holding a Teen Portrait Competition open to ages 13-17 living in the U.S. and its territories. It’s free to enter, but students are limited to one portrait in photography per person. Works must be emailed to NPGTeenPortraitCompetition@si.edu by January 15. The winning works go on display this spring. “We hope that teens will submit works that highlight their experiences and perspectives,” says Caitlin Blake, teen programs specialist at Smithsonian’s National Portrait Gallery. “The Portrait Gallery is listening, and we want to hear what America’s teens have to say. We want to help amplify the voices of the next generation.” Get details, rules and requirements at npg.si.edu/teenportrait-competition-rules-requirements.
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New partnership protects pets of abuse victims Victims of abuse who hesitate to leave because they don’t want to abandon their pets now have help. Operation Pet Rescue and Abuse Counseling and Treatment created a partnership where OPR will take in pets so that abuse victims can enter a shelter, especially in an emergency, and know their pet is safe. ACT says up to 70 percent of abuse victims do not leave their abuser because they would have to leave their pet behind. More information is available at actabuse.com.
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Thomas Swiersz is a mathematics professor at Hodges University in Fort Myers. He’s been teaching math for over 35 years. You can contact him at 239-938-7805 or tswiersz@hodges.edu.
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ur fourth and youngest daughter, Annie, is nearing her senior year of high school. We feel a lot of emotions — excitement, joy and a healthy dose of wonder about what the future holds. Annie plans to attend college, and if you’re also a parent of a high school student interested in attending college, then you’ve probably heard that SAT or ACT test results play a significant role in college and scholarship applications. It is common for high school students to feel a bit intimidated or stressed about taking these standardized college entrance exams. SW FL Parent & Child asked me to share a few tips to help alleviate some of the stress, optimize your child’s study plan for testing success and, ultimately, help them earn the scores that they hope to achieve.
First, both child and parent need to keep a positive attitude and view these tests as an opportunity for your child to demonstrate to colleges and scholarship programs that they are equipped to succeed at the collegiate level. A positive attitude will help your child remain confident and diligent in preparing for these tests. Second, students can achieve their desired score by learning the essential skills and content covered on the tests through practice and more practice. Here, I’ll focus on testing skills that students need to correctly solve the problems on the mathematics sections of the SAT and ACT tests. Plus, I’ll touch on how to avoid common mistakes. One common mistake is wasting time trying to memorize too many facts and formulas. Memorizing a bunch of isolated math facts will not be very effective, because these tests are not designed to assess how
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well a student has memorized a large set of facts; rather, a majority of the problems can be solved by applying basic math skills and problem-solving techniques. There are several application problems on the math test in which the student must analyze a situation, devise a plan to solve the problem, determine how to represent the problem mathematically, and then find the solution. Students will not be able to solve application problems by just memorizing math facts. These tests require a thorough understanding of a relatively small number of math topics that can be applied to solve myriad problems. For example, the fundamental concept of slope can be used to solve several types of problems that are likely to appear on the SAT and ACT tests. Understanding slope as a rate of change can be used to solve problems involving graphs, sets of data points or information given as a linear function. To solve any of these problem types involving slope, the student only needs to use, at most, a couple of formulas relating to
slope — the real key to solving the problem and choosing the correct answer is to understand the essential concept of slope as a rate of change so the student can properly set up any slope-related problem and solve it with confidence. Another common mistake is that students do not choose the most efficient approach. Students often believe there is only one method to solve a math problem when, in reality, there are usually several approaches than can be used to correctly solve the problem. What do you do when a student instinctively solves a problem by using a strategy that’s not the most efficient? The student needs to understand how their method is both valid and related to the most efficient technique. Then they will be able to draw a connection between their approach and the most efficient technique to, ultimately, understand and apply the more efficient procedure. Since the student will naturally revert back to their initial approach, they must have a good understanding of the efficient approach to apply it and be most successful on test day. This can be accomplished through a directed study plan that focuses on problem solving. This emphasizes the student’s need for a mastery of basic math concepts to apply in different contexts, rather than the memorization of formula lists and solutions for particular problem types. A third common mistake students make is that they misunderstand the question. Students need to read the problem carefully and identify exactly what the question asks. Taking a few seconds to carefully read the problem and understand what you need to find should help in applying the most efficient
method to solve the problem as well. Because there are several types of problems based on the same fundamental concept, your child must practice a variety of questions with different contexts to ensure that they will be able to correctly solve similar-but-different problems on the test. Therefore, it is not only critical that your child work as many practice problems as possible and seek help when they are not able to correctly solve a particular problem, but that they are also guided to understand “trigger phrases” and other identifiers of problem types. Your student must have the resources that will help them understand the question, choose the most efficient method, and not solely rely on memorization. For many students, it is critical they work with a tutor who will help them with these issues. Moreover, because there are several types of problems testing the same fundamental concept, practicing a variety of questions in many different contexts is the best method to ensure that the student will be able to correctly solve the various problems on test day. Therefore, the best method to prepare for these tests is to work on as many practice problems as possible, receive help when the student is struggling, and follow a guided practice schedule that emphasizes efficient and effective study methods to build essential problem-solving skills. I could go into much greater depth with these concepts. If you would like further explanation of any of the topics discussed, please contact me. I’ll also continue to write articles for SW FL Parent & Child online (swflparentchild.com) to discuss in detail strategies to help your child achieve their desired results on the math sections of the SAT and ACT tests.
ASK THE EXPERT We welcome questions from readers. Ask us anything. We’ll find the answer. Send your question to editor@swflparentchild.com with “Ask the Expert” in the subject line.
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DISCOVER HONG KONG CUISINE Ginger Bistro introduces higher end Chinese food to the Cape in a family-friendly setting. BY GINA BIRCH
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f your experience with Chinese cuisine revolves around those pintsized, fold-up containers full of noodles and sweet-and-sour sauces, there’s a chance you might not really know the complexities of Chinese food — or Ginger Bistro. Originally opening in Fort Myers in 2015, Ginger Bistro expanded to Cape Coral last year, offering the first taste of higher end, Hong Kong-style cooking to the area. The family-run business is led by Gin Liang, whose grandfather was a dim sum chef in Hong Kong for some 40 years. When the family moved to New York City in the ’90s, it operated one of the largest restaurants in Chinatown at the time. “I wanted to cook since I was young,” Liang says. “There is a lot of labor in this cuisine, a lot of prep. It takes a lot of energy and is very physical.” Many of the sauces take hours to make and use numerous ingredients. And working a traditional wok takes strength and speed. When you step past the hostess stand and into the Cape Coral restaurant, it’s not the eggplant-colored high-back chairs or modern lighting that catch your eyes, but a glass window, from behind which hangs prepared Peking ducks and Hong Kong-style barbecue ribs. There’s also a tank of live lobsters, a balance of water to the fire. It takes 12 hours to marinate and
Ginger Bistro Where: The Shops at Surfside, 2366 Surfside Blvd., Unit C-101, Cape Coral; original location at 4650 Cleveland Ave., Suite 8, Fort Myers Hours: 11 a.m. to 9:30 p.m. daily Prices: Dim sum $3.50-$4.95 a dish, average lunch $9; appetizers, entrees $10$22, $37 for the Peking duck Phone: 239-558-8865 in Cape Coral; 239-689-3113 in Fort Myers Online: gingerbistrousa.com
slightly dehydrate the ducks to get the skin nice and crisp. Liang is careful not to reveal the exact process or blend of seasoning — it’s something you just have to experience. Served with steamed buns, traditional hoisin sauce, cucumber and onion, add a slice of duck to build your own perfect bite. It’s a dish for sharing. In fact, most dishes are suited for sharing, especially the dim sum. Forty selections are available for lunch; select pieces are offered as a dinner appetizer. “I learned on weekends how to do dim sum,” Liang says. “Then I gave up on school and went to work. This kind of cooking is not easy because there are so many ingredients.” The ginger soup buns are not only an art to make but also to eat. The dumplings are full of chicken broth, ginger and pork, steamed for 12 minutes and come out hot. Liang’s tip on
tackling them: Take a small bite from the side, carefully slurp the soup, then dip the dumpling in a side sauce of vinegar and ginger that’s said to be good for digestion. The dim sum menu is full of dumplings, rolls and wontons. However, not all choices are savory. The egg custard tarts are creamy, not overly sweet and hugged by a flaky shell. They are delightful with any of the imported black teas served at Ginger Bistro. Other specialties include clay pot dishes, another Hong Kong tradition. The beef short ribs in black pepper sauce come out sizzling, filling the table with aromas of soy and spice. The meat is slightly sweet and reminiscent of Korean barbecue. Vegetables are given much respect here. Chinese eggplant is sweet rather than bitter, and when cooked with peppers and other veggies in garlic sauce, the result is not only a feast for the stomach but the colors make it a feast for the eyes as well. XO sauce is a Ginger Bistro signature. Made with exclusive ingredients such as dry-aged scallops and shrimp, aged prosciutto and more, the complex sauce is particularly good in fried rice, the scallop and asparagus entrée or by request in other dishes. The menu at Ginger Bistro is extensive, and easy to navigate even for diners who don’t know a lot about Hong Kong-style food. This is a comfortable spot to learn.
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Jais Tollette is a recipe developer and food writer for gratetful.com, part of the USA Today Network.
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HOT CHOCOLATE Vegan Mexican hot chocolate recipe provides a healthier twist on a wintry favorite.
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n any random survey of everyone’s favorite guilty-pleasure food, choco late undoubtedly would top the list. It’s one of the most popular confections in the world, with chocolate makers dominating the Global Top 100 Candy Companies list by candyindustry.com. But in truth, chocolate isn’t really a guilty pleasure at all: In its purest form, chocolate is loaded with nutrients. So, in honor of this exciting fact, here’s a healthy version of Mexican hot chocolate loaded with mood-elevating and brain-boosting ingredients that will satisfy your cravings.
What, exactly, is chocolate Chocolate is a highly concentrated powder made from chocolate liquor, a paste derived from cocoa beans — the fruit of the cacao. Many of us are used to chocolate in bar form, which is typically highly processed and loaded with additives like sugar, milk and artificial flavors. This version of chocolate is not healthy. If you’re going to pick up a chocolate bar, dark chocolate is a better bet; it has less sugar and provides more of the health benefits of the cacao fruit. If you want to truly reap the benefits of the cacao plant, go for raw cacao powder. This superfood contains high amounts of sulfur, magnesium, phenylethylamine, flavonoids and antioxidants, which help keep you focused and alert, lower blood pressure, reduce inflammation, burn fat, and my personal favorite: foster a great mood.
‘Chocolate caliente’ This healthy version of hot chocolate is called chocolate caliente in Mexico. That’s because the cacao plant originated in the equatorial regions of the Americas and was probably first cultivated by the indigenous Mayan, Tolec and Aztec peoples more than 3,000 years ago. In Mexico, hot chocolate is traditionally prepared with whole milk and tablets of “table chocolate,” which is available in most Mexican grocery stores. These tablets contain a mix of chocolate, cinnamon and sugar.
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Mexican Hot Chocolate Makes 4 servings
INGREDIENTS
Oat milk (makes 4-5 cups): » 1 cup rolled oats (gluten-free or regular) » 5 cups water » ¼ teaspoon salt » 1-2 Medjool dates, pitted (optional) » 1 tablespoon light oil, optional (vegetable, grapeseed, sunflower seed, walnut etc.) Hot chocolate: » 2 cups oat milk » 2 cups water » 1/ cup cacao powder 3 » ¼ cup sweetener (Medjool dates, agave, maple syrup and raw cane sugar all work well) » ½ tablespoon cinnamon + 1 cinnamon stick » 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
or vanilla bean powder » 1/8 teaspoon of cayenne pepper (optional) » Pinch of salt
DIRECTIONS
Oat milk: 1. Add all ingredients to high-powered blender and blend until well blended, about 1 minute. 2. Strain through nut-milk bag. 3. Store milk in fridge for up to 5 days. Shake well before use. 4. Yields 4-5 cups. Hot chocolate: 1. Add 2 cups oat milk and
2 cups water to saucepan with stick of cinnamon. Heat over medium-low heat until cinnamon is fragrant, about 5-10 minutes. 2. Once fragrant, remove cinnamon stick and add liquid
and remaining ingredients to blender. 3. To serve, simply pour hot chocolate into mugs. 4. Top with dollop of whipped coconut cream and dash of cacao powder.
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« in the kitchen (continued) This month’s recipe uses cacao powder to avoid the processed sugar but includes the cinnamon, which also has brainboosting benefits. To make this vegan and complete its healthy profile, homemade oat milk replaces cow’s milk.
The good-foryou ingredients All in all, this hot chocolate recipe is not only healthy but packed with ingredients that can help lift your spirits: Cacao powder: Cacao stimulates the brain to release particular neurotransmitters, which help elevate and regulate mood. Cacao produces two chemicals when consumed. One is phenylethylamine (PEA), an adrenaline-related chemical that the body produces when excited, quickening the pulse and increasing focus and awareness. The other is anandamide, a lipid known as the “bliss
molecule.” Oats: Oats contain high levels of the amino acid tryptophan, which is converted to serotonin in the body and helps promote relaxation and anxiety relief. Cinnamon: Cinnamon battles inflammation, which is believed to be a leading cause of depression and anxiety.
Tips for making oat milk Preparing your own oat milk is quite simple, but here are a few tips to make this recipe its best. » Many recipes advise soaking the oats before making the milk, but this makes the oat milk somewhat slimy and not as appetizing. Also, not soaking makes oat milk a five-minute process. » Use a high-powered blender, such as a Vitamix or Blendtec. Standard (lowpowdered) blenders are great for smooth-
ies and other liquids, but they typically don’t have enough power to adequately blend nut and grain milks. » Blend the ingredients on high until completely smooth (about 60 seconds). » The dates are for sweetness, so adding more dates will make your oat milk sweeter, but you can leave them out if you prefer. » The oil is also optional, but the oil emulsifies while blending, making the oat milk creamier and thicker. » If you don’t have a nut-milk bag, you can use cheesecloth or paper towels over a fine mesh sieve, or even a clean cotton t-shirt. » Once you strain the milk, taste it. It will be very creamy and thick. If you prefer a thinner consistency, simply add water as desired. » Store your oat milk in an airtight container in the fridge for up to five days. Some separation will occur; just shake it well before using.
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kid stuff »
EXPLORE THE ARTS — FOR FREE On Community Days, the Artis—Naples campus opens for free to everyone, the perfect opportunity for families to explore the arts. BY ANDREA STETSON
If you go What: Community Day
Where: Artis—
Naples, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples
When: The winter
Community Day is 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday, January 18. Then the spring Community Day takes place 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday, May 23.
Cost: Free Phone: 239597-1900
Online:
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hink of Artis—Naples and one might conjure images of plush seating in a large luxury theater, Broadway-on-tour shows, concerts by the Naples Philharmonic and artwork. It can also be quite expensive. But twice a year Artis—Naples invites the public to enjoy a wide menu of the arts during Community Days, and it’s all free. “The idea is that the whole community can come,” says Ashley Mirakian, vice president of marketing. Families love the opportunity to explore the place for free. Danielle and Frank Chaprnka bring their 10-year-old daughter Paloma to Community Days. “There are different ways for the kids to explore,” Danielle says. “There is painting, music, all sorts of different avenues.” Danielle says her daughter enjoys both the traditional arts activities and the special guest events. At a previous Community Day, Paloma met a dog wolf from Shy Wolf Sanctuary. Then she had fun with music and painting. “It’s the instruments they get to explore,” Danielle says. “The music they get to enjoy.
It is just all free. It is just such a great way to have my daughter interact with different forms of art.” Ashley says Artis—Naples wants children and their families to explore the many aspects of art. There are instruments for people to try. Cadence Music brings an assortment for an activity they call Instrument Zoo. There are also exhibitions to view, live music and various types of artwork to create. “My kids are 3 and 5, and they love it,” Ashley says. “It is really meant for everyone.” The winter Community Day on January 18 will be extra special, Ashley says. The Baker Museum, which has been closed since it was damaged by Hurricane Irma in September 2017, will be open. “We have a very exciting exhibition on impressionism that is on loan to us,” Ashley says. Colorful Chihuly glass sculptures under the museum’s glass ceiling — a favorite for children — returns as well. “The free activities include live music, hands-on art experiences and access to the galleries,” Ashley says. “It is so cool. Kids really love the campus.”
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teens »
Amber Usher reaches into the touch tank at the Ostego Bay Marine Science Center to turn over a horseshoe crab that had flipped upside down.
LEARNING TO BE A
MARINE SCIENTIST Student interns at the Ostego Bay Foundation Marine Science Center span a wide range of school levels, from middle school to college.
STORY AND PHOTOS ANDREA STETSON
amson Hall, 13, tests the salinity of a fish tank and then records the results. Sometimes he cleans the tanks, adds water, performs a test for ammonia levels, and other tasks. Samson is one of several teenage interns at the Ostego Bay Foundation Marine Science Center near Fort Myers Beach. The middle school, high school and college interns here are all interested in science and marine life and find volunteering at the center to be less like a job and more like a hobby they enjoy. “I like being able to learn,” says Sampson, a Cypress Lake Middle School eighth-grader. “I like to learn to care for my own tank and to have a future in marine biology. It is a good start.” Samson says he has also learned about the local ecosystem while volunteering at Ostego Bay. “I think it is fantastic,” says his father, David Hall. “I think it is great there is a group out there teaching kids about the local water and the uniqueness of the local estuaries. I am not from the area, so it was great to see him learn about the uniqueness of the estuaries here.” Joanne Semmer, president of the Ostego Bay Foundation, says the four current interns are an integral part of the small marine center. “I couldn’t operate without them,” she says. “Amber can do everything. I try to let her manage the younger interns. Part of her experience here is management, and she does a wonderful job with that. She does tank water-quality testing, she takes care of the tanks and feeds the critters, greets the people and does tours. Even the middle-schoolers
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do water-quality testing. They do a lot of science. If we find something interesting, we research it together.” Recently Joanne and the interns found an unusual creature attached to a shipment of shrimp they received to feed to their fish. None of them had ever seen anything like it. “We found a little specimen, and we all researched it,” she says. “We found out it was a parasitic isopod. We were all excited. We didn’t know what it was, so we did the research, and we figured out what it was. We learn something new all the time. That’s what we are here for.” The small marine science center, tucked under the Matanzas Pass Bridge, features interactive exhibits, aquariums, a touch tank and other displays that feature marine life and local ecosystems. Kendall Conti, 13, an eighth-grader from Gateway Charter School, used her artistic skills to paint a children’s table at the center. She also tests water and cleans tanks. “Redesigning the displays is one of the best things,” Kendall says. “I learned about how many fossils there are in Florida.” Emily Stens, 16, a junior at Fort Myers High School, says it is the perfect place for her to volunteer because she loves marine science and wants to be a marine biologist. “I just like the environment there,” she says. “It is a lot of fun to work there with the other volunteers. I have learned a lot.” Emily says she tried volunteering at other places, but they did not interest her. When her mother brought her to Ostego Bay, she knew that was the right place. “And I learned so much from it,” she says. “It is interesting to me, so that is why I do it.” Amber Usher, 19, a senior at Florida Gulf Coast University, has been interning at the center since September. She began there to get the 120 volunteer hours required for her major but continued to volunteer even after she reached that goal. “One of my classmates told me about this place,” Amber says. “I came and checked it out, and I loved the atmosphere and all the people and all the animals in the exhibits. It is definitely my element.” Since she is older than the other interns, Amber also gets to lead educational tours. She comes up with ideas for new exhibits and then helps create them. “I did all new labels for the wall,” Amber describes. “We are working on a stone crab exhibit. We are working on a sea roach exhibit. It looks like a cockroach, but it lives in the sea.” Amber is set to graduate in May with a degree in marine science and a minor in biology and hopes to work somewhere like Ostego Bay.
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with the Ostego Bay Foundation Marine Science Center, call 239-765-8101. The center is at 718 Fishermans Wharf on San Carlos Island, just before the bridge to Fort Myers Beach.
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omen dominate. In population, that is. The 2017 American Community Survey by the U.S. Census Bureau found that women outnumber men in 40 states. That includes Florida, where females make up 51.1% of the population, 51.7% if you only look at the adult population. And yet, when it comes to politics, women are underrepresented. The Florida Legislature consists of 160 seats; only 48 of those are filled by women, a mere 30%. That beats the numbers for the United States Congress, where only 126 of the 535 members are women (23.6%). Two women in Southwest Florida are hoping to turn the tide and increase the number of women in the U.S. House of Representatives by one seat. Cindy Banyai, a Democrat, and state Rep. Heather Fitzenhagen, a Republican, are running for the District 19 congressional seat, which is currently occupied by U.S. Rep. Francis Rooney, who is not seeking re-election. They are the only women in what quickly became a fast-expanding field of eight candidates by mid-December. Besides being women, one other thing sets them apart from the rest of the candidates: motherhood.
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Cindy Banyai, the mother of three young children who range in age from 2 to 10, floated the idea of running for Congress to her group of mom friends first. When she officially declared she was running in September, she made her social media handle @SWFLMom2020. It was a way to, straight out of the gate, let everyone know who she was: a young mother running for Congress. That fact was met with its own set of challenges. “Not only are women underrepresented,” Cindy says, “but moms are underrepresented. The biggest thing that I hear is, ‘What are you going to do? How are you going to do this with kids?’” It seems to be a common question, not just from detractors, but from wellmeaning supporters. And it has a very easy answer — multitasking. “The same thing I’ve been doing my whole life as a mom,” she says. “I get up every morning and feed everyone, take care of them, take care of the household chores, take care of the cat box — everything I normally do every day. You just do those things except for now I shift some of my time to my campaign.” To make time in her already-packed schedule, Cindy scaled back on her consulting work. She teaches at Florida Gulf Coast University in the Department of Political Science and Public Administration. And she plans to continue to work with the International Association for Community Development, which she represented at last year’s United
Nations General Assembly. She brought her children and their sitter to New York for the week and explored the city each day with her family. Just normal things a mom would do while also attending sessions at the U.N. Many of the issues that are important to her, like health care, are tied to events in her family, like her youngest daughter Evie’s battle with autoimmune hemolytic anemia. Her background in nonprofits, policy and advocacy are all central to who she is as a person and as a candidate, but in the end, it all comes back to being a mom and putting that out there first and foremost. “It was important to put mom in there because there are not enough of us doing this. Because we are so busy, because we are the default parent, because we are expected to be everything to everyone all the time. And I get very upset about that … Why do people ask what I’m going to do with my kids? I’m going to do what I do all the time, which is be the best parent I can be. It’s an unfair double standard. I don’t feel like we should dissuade people who are good candidates and who are really committed to their community from engaging in public service because they are moms.” Eight years ago, Heather Fitzenhagen was in a similar position. When she started her campaign for state representative in 2011, her youngest child was 10 years old. If anyone asked her what she was going to do with her kids if she was elected, she doesn’t recall. “People have gotten a little bit more savvy as to — they don’t overtly ask
that question,” she says. “They may have some concerns lurking, but they don’t ask it now because they are a little bit more delicate. My personality is such that I would have ignored anyone who asked me. I always worked before; I had my first child when I was 35. Most mothers work at some level, doing something.” Heather worked as an attorney for a firm in the compliance department, which required a significant amount of travel. She was able to balance her work life with motherhood when she had her son, but when her daughter arrived three years later, she transitioned to being a stay-at-home mom. When her children were both school-age, she started volunteering more in the community. “As a result of being more involved civically, I met a lot of people,” she explains. “Redistricting came along, and we got a new seat in Southwest Florida. People said, ‘Why don’t you run for that?’ I realized my qualifications were just as strong as anyone else’s, because I cared about my community. It was the next level to impact the community in a positive way.” She won the election and has served as the District 78 representative in the Florida House of Representatives since 2012. She views her time as a representative with children in elementary school, middle school and then high school as a great experience for her family. “I kept my kids as close as possible while working on the campaign,” she says. That continued once she was
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Democrat Cindy Banyai, center, poses for a portrait with her children, Evie Banyai, 2, JT Banyai, 6, and Ani Banyai, 10, at home in Fort Myers.
Q&A WITH EVIE
We sat down with Cindy Banyai’s youngest daughter, Evie, for a quick lightning round of questions in between her painting sessions.
What is your favorite color? Black. • What’s your favorite thing to say? You’re welcome. • What’s your favorite show? “Word Party.” • What’s your favorite movie? “Coco.” • Favorite thing about mommy? She is my mommy.
THE NEW MOM
Political candidates need a hook, something that grabs the attention of the public and draws them in. For Cindy Banyai, who is running for the U.S. House of Representatives District 19, it could be her time spent as a professional boxer. There is plenty of symbolism found in her old white gloves. They speak of tenacity, perseverance, focus, hard work, never backing down from a challenge, taking a hit and getting back up. All qualities that are an essential part of not just running for office, but getting the job done once you’re elected. But if you push a little bit past boxing gloves, you get to something that speaks more of determination, hard work, late nights and taking hit after hit and getting back up — motherhood. Cindy is one of two moms running for the District 19 seat. The other is current state legislator Heather Fitzenhagen. While voters are familiar with the latter, they might not know as much about Cindy. Cindy’s life in Southwest Florida started 11 years ago. She moved to Fort Myers in December 2008, got married in 2009 to her high school sweetheart, then spent 2009 wrapping up her doctorate while expecting her first child. “Ani was due October 24,” she recalls, “and she was born the 30th. I got my dissertation done three days before she was born. I was feverishly typing to finish it, because I knew once the baby came I wouldn’t have time. » Continued on page 31
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« spotlight (continued) elected. “Both my daughter and my son were pages in Heather Fitzenhagen Tallahassee each year, so they would come up and really got to know the lay of the land, who was who. They grew up in Tallahassee.” Now that her children are older (her daughter is a freshman in college) and she has started her campaign for the District 19 seat, she still faces some of the same challenges of motherhood. She is the default parent and a master multitasker. “Motherhood helps you be prepared for everything,” she says. “You become an excellent planner. I tell my getting more women — and moms — kids, I’d rather get something done involved in politics. today, because tomorrow, something “It’s still a man’s world in politics, could come up and the house of cards but I think it’s evolving,” Heather says. could come tumbling down. It’s the “The Republican Party is struggling same in politics — be prepared because a bit. We don’t have as many women you know something will come up that are on the path to elected office for that you didn’t allow time for in your some reason. The numbers don’t lie. I schedule.” think we need to start earlier, even in With two terms under her belt in schools, in civics. We need to make clear the state house, which is more difficult, from the very beginning that women politics or motherhood? have an important role and that they “My answer would change day to can be elected in our country, too, or day,” she says with a laugh. “Because in your community by being on the you just don’t know. Some days you school board or on the city council. If have a really rough day in politics but you love your city, then you can make a a great day as a mom, and the next day difference and bring your experience to you could be pulling your hair out and that. I think that it’s important to make just want to put your head down.” sure that message gets across that young Perhaps what is more difficult is girls know, from an early age, that this
is an option and one that is valued.” Heather talks about this when visiting schools and speaking with students and explaining her role as a state representative. She uses obscure laws as a way to grab the students’ interest and then talks about the history of the law and how those laws come to pass. It’s not just a way to educate students on legislations; it’s also a way for young girls to meet a female legislator and see it as a possible career path. She also hopes that her work as a state representative and her campaign for the House of Representatives inspires other mothers to run for office. “Women are 50% of the population,” she says. “We have a lot of experiences as mothers that men simply don’t have. We are the ones that are going to the doctor with the kids, so we would know when it comes to health care what we are encountering. We’re probably the ones who have to figure out what the rules are if we are remodeling the kitchen — we are that person. We interact with the issues that are changing in the legislation, so why wouldn’t we want to bring all of that to the table? We know more because we interact with it … We have so much more knowledge that would be helpful in passing the right laws. I hope that more women will get involved.”
“WE DON’T HAVE AS MANY WOMEN THAT ARE ON THE PATH TO ELECTED OFFICE FOR SOME REASON. THE NUMBERS DON’T LIE. I THINK WE NEED TO START EARLIER, EVEN IN SCHOOLS, IN CIVICS. WE NEED TO MAKE CLEAR FROM THE VERY BEGINNING THAT WOMEN HAVE AN IMPORTANT ROLE...” — HEATHER FITZENHAGEN 30 » JANUARY 2020 » SWFLPARENTCHILD.COM
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It was so intense I had carpal tunnel in both my wrists. It’s true! I couldn’t hold her.” Cindy flew back to Japan, where she had attended university, when Ani was 4 months old to defend her Ph.D. and graduate in 2010. Prior to moving to Florida, Cindy worked with one of her professors who was a consultant to the Japanese government. “I was working with him on projects helping governments around the world become more efficient and effective. I was designing policy from the national level down to the local level,” she says. Her work was primarily in Asia, but she also worked on projects in South America and Africa. “That’s kind of where I got this idea — wouldn’t it be great to have someone in Congress who knows how to design policy that’s efficient and effective?” Cindy says with a tinge of a laugh to her voice. She started her own business — Banyai Evaluation and Consulting — which allowed her to be an independent consultant in the nonprofit sector with a fluid schedule as she continued to parent her growing family. In other words, a job that allowed her to be a multitasking mom. On the day of our interview, multitasking meant having a cup of coffee while chatting with a reporter at her home mid-Saturday morning as her oldest child, Ani, was out volunteering with Cindy’s husband, middle child JT was playing video games and 2-year-old daughter Evie was painting at a craft table near us and occasionally hopping over to show off her artwork (and painted hands). So why, with so much already on her multitasking plate, would she add politics? “It makes a lot more sense when I explain part of what I have been doing working with nonprofits,” she says. “When we talk with nonprofits, we say, listen, the highest-level capacity of an organization is advocacy. We know you can design great programs and do great work with the people you want to serve, but ultimately there is a limitation to it. Your hands are tied at some point … If you never get to the point where you are advocating for certain policy shifts to eliminate systemic barriers, you are always going to be running on a Mobius strip.”
Family-friendly art festival Bring the entire family to this fabulous FREE outdoor art festival. Publix Art Yard is full of arty opportunities for kids of all ages. Make-and-take projects at Kids@Art, buying artwork for $5 at Young Art Collectors, painting a unique artwork are all fun. All-New in 2020, kids can decorate and take home a free bike helmet. The Publix Youth Stage has a variety of great stage performances by youth dance and music groups.
More Fun Art To See In the center of the festival 40 teams high school students create temporary works of art on the pavement using simple chalk pastels in the Chalk Block. Across the street 8 Middle Schools teams and 4 professional artists installed We Are Overflowing to showcase recycle efforts. At the west end of the festival 400 high school artists exhibit and compete in Art Under 20 for $10,000 in annual cash awards.
If you go:
What: Southwest Florida’s premier art festival featuring over 200 nationally ranked artists. Publix Art Yard: Centennial Park at fountain Where: Downtown Fort Myers on Edwards Drive When: February 1 & 2, 2020, Saturday 10 am - 5 pm & Sunday, 10 am – 4 pm Cost: FREE general admission Parking: Bright Event Parking signs and flags
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education »
CHOOSING A
SCHOOL A quick overview of what to look for and what to ask when choosing a school in Southwest Florida — your Blinkist of School Choice. BY ANDREA STETSON
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bigail Rivera is busy visiting elementary schools in Lee County as she researches which schools to list on her School Choice application. “I look at the school statistics in regards to their test scores and reviews on how well their students are doing,” Abigail says. “I look to see the areas that the schools are located and if I approve of the area.” During the tours she has a list of criteria she wants to explore. “While I do the tours, I look first at the security of the school,” Abigail explains. “For example, is there complete fencing, does the school require a buzzer or code to enter or can anyone just walk in? I look at the cleanliness of the school and the overall child behavior. Do the teachers seem in control? Does the principal or a school head seem to be aware of what is going on in their school? I’m not going to lie, it’s been a headache.” It is a lot more stressful for parents in Lee County than in neighboring Collier or Charlotte counties. In Collier and Charlotte, a zone is drawn around each school and children in that zone attend that school. If they want a different school, they apply for out-ofzone. Lee County is divided into three large zones, which are then divided into three subzones that each contain numerous schools. Every Lee County Public School student going into kindergarten, sixth and ninth grade and anyone new to the district must apply for School Choice. Parents list schools within their zone in order of preference and then hope their children get a top choice. About 82 percent get their No. 1 selection. Before listing choices, conscientious parents will do research, tour schools and talk with other parents and school officials. “My child has been in amazing day care for over two years,” Abigail says. “They require fingerprints to access, and the teachers and staff have been awesome, so just finding another fit for my daughter is stressful. Safety is a high priority along with a healthy learning
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environment.” Abigail says she has looked at Mirror Lakes Elementary School, because it’s close to home. She’s also looking at Edison Park Creative and Expressive Arts School and some private schools. Soretta Ralph, director of student assignment for Lee County Public Schools, says there are several things parents should look for before selecting their choices. For elementary school children, the director suggests: » Whether schools are closer to home, or as some parents might prefer, closer to work » Whether the school has uniforms, depending on parent preference » Start time » After-school care and before-school care, if needed. “It all depends on the family and what their current needs are,” she says. Her criteria change when it comes to middle and high schools. “Middle schools have different programs and different career academies,” Soretta says. “Generally that is what middle school parents ask about. Because middle schools have a late time, some middle schools have before-care to meet those parent needs.” For high schools, Soretta suggests parents consider the various career academies offered at the different schools. There are career academies in fields such as culinary, veterinary and health services along with various trades. “I think parents need to be aware of that,” Soretta says. “Students that don’t get into the school with the career academy they want will try to get a waiver for a certain career academy. We decided to design a waiver that is career academy specific. We want to make sure they are enrolled in the career academy and stay in those classes. We want to make sure we are meeting their academic needs and career wishes.” Parents also need to look at which schools offer the advanced International Baccalaureate and Cambridge AICE programs. “Those are separate applications done in January and February,” she explains. Acceptance to those programs allows a student to bypass the School Choice process. Some schools with arts programs, such as North Fort Myers High School, have a similar opportunity.
Lee County Who must register: Any child going into kindergarten, sixth grade or ninth grade and anyone new to the district.
Center, 2855 Colonial Blvd., Fort Myers. It’s open 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Monday through Friday.
When to register: Open enrollment for the 2020-21 school year runs January 13 to February 28. Applications are mailed January 10 for eighthgraders going into high school, January 16 for fifth-graders going to middle school and January 24 for students who pre-registered for kindergarten.
What you need to register: Unless
Where to register: For many
students, enrollment takes place online. Pre-printed applications and a PIN code are mailed to current School District of Lee County students in fifth grade, eighth grade, and to those who preregistered for kindergarten or those eighth-graders currently attending private school who pre-registered to attend public school for ninth grade. Anyone new to the district must visit the Student Enrollment Office inside the Lee County Public Education
you’re already in the district’s system, you’ll need a physical exam dated within the last year, Florida Certificate of Immunization, proof of address (current utility bill or lease), original birth certificate, Social Security card (if available), custody documents (if applicable) and parent photo ID.
Siblings: If siblings are linked in the
student information system, children are automatically enrolled in the school of their older sibling. Parents who don’t want sibling enrollment must apply during open enrollment.
How enrollment works: The School District of Lee County is divided into three zones: south, east and west. Each zone is split into three subzones (barrier islands are their own subzones). Parents
rank schools in their subzone. At the end of open enrollment, students are placed in schools giving priority to children with siblings at that school, proximity to school (within 2 miles gets highest priority, 5 miles next highest) or special needs. Remaining applicants are enrolled through a lottery.
Online: leeschools.net (select “Enroll”
icon)
More information: Parents with questions can email studentenrollment@leeschools.net. Include your specific inquiry and other pertinent information such as full name and date of birth of student, current school and your contact information. Be as specific as possible. “Communicating via email allows parents to receive a more-immediate reply as emails are read by department administrators and replied to throughout each day,” says Executive Director Soretta Ralph.
Collier County Who must register: Any student who is new to the district, entering kindergarten or changing schools.
When to register: New students and
kindergartners can register into summer. The priority window for Out-of-Zone and School Choice requests is January 10 through February 15.
Where to register: For all students, the process starts online at portal. collierschools.com. Students new to the district will then need to gather the required documents and visit a
registration location.
What you need to register: Parent
or legal guardian photo ID, birth certificate or passport, physical exam, Florida Immunization Form, Social Security card (if available), proof of address, proof of custody, report cards from previous schools, IEP/504 Plan (if applicable).
How enrollment works: A zone is drawn around each school and children in that zone attend that school. If they want a different school, they apply for
Out-of-Zone. Out-of-Zone requests under Parental Choice are for parents or legal guardians with documented needs or hardships. Approval is subject to capacity. Parents without a need or hardship can make a School Choice request. Out-of-Zone applications submitted during the priority window take priority over School Choice applications. Transportation is not provided by the district.
Online: collierschools.com (look for “School Registration” in the lower left rail)
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Siblings are automatically enrolled in the school of their older sister or brother. If the parents want them at the same school, they don’t have to apply for School Choice. However, if they want a different school, they must apply. “Make sure they are linked with the same address,” Soretta stresses. “The address is how they are linked.” It’s hard to say how many schools parents should tour. Soretta says it depends on the individual family. She does suggest touring a school 2 miles and 5 miles from home. Students who live 2 miles or less from a school get a top priority. Living 5 or fewer miles gets a second priority. Soretta also wants parents to understand that if they get their second or third choice, they do not get on a waiting list for their first choice. Waiting lists are only for students who get fourth choice or beyond.
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Reassignment forms are available at any Charlotte County Public School, the Charlotte County Public Schools Murdock Center or online.
What you need to register: Proof of residence, proof of birth date, proof of
immunizations, physical exam.
How enrollment works:
School attendance areas allow parents to enroll their children in a school other than the zoned school. A student may attend a school outside of their zone if the school is not already full. Students currently attending a school other than their zoned school no longer have to renew the reassignment application each year. Parents must always start the reassignment process at the school of residence.
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SW FL PARENT & CHILD
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People often ask us about our origin story. Here it is.
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BY PAMELA HAYFORD wenty years ago, I was a newlywed 27-year-old reporter joining The News-Press in Fort Myers as an environmental writer. My husband and I found a house to rent in Cape Coral despite people warning us it was for the “newlywed and nearly dead.” I’m glad we didn’t listen. Cape Coral has been a great place to raise our two children. We didn’t have to worry about which elementary school our kids got accepted to — they all had great reputations. And the city grew so much that after a few years we realized we weren’t going “over the bridge” to Fort Myers to shop or go to dinner. Little did I know that first year here, on the other side of that bridge, a mom of two young children was producing this parenting magazine out of her house. The first issue — dated December 1999/January 2000 — landed just before our move here in February 2000. Of course, the idea for Southwest Florida Parent & Child germinated long before the first issue. “We belonged to the Connie Ramos-Willi YMCA, and we were ams with Christoph er and Natalie relatively new to this area,” says the magazine’s founder, Connie RamosWilliams. Her kids were 8 and 6. “I was and events. running into a lot of families on the side Connie’s son, Christopher, is on the lines of games … and a lot of parents that cover of the first anniversary issue. Headwere going through the same things we lines tout home schooling, teen scene and were going through.” top toys. Advertisers included schools, What’s there to do for families in doctors, financial advisers, shops, magiSouthwest Florida? Which doctors should cians such as Professor Patches and Teco we go to? How do you register for school? Arena, which became Germain Arena and “I thought, why should I rely on is now Hertz Arena. somebody else to do this? Let me take this “Not only was I loving parenting my resource and create this,” she says. own children, I got to do something I It took about six months to launch. truly loved, and that was being around Connie’s daughter, Natalie, graces the other parents and children,” Connie says. first cover. Inside, stories explore ways to “A lot of hard work, but it was a labor of include your kids on New Year’s Eve cellove.” ebrations, what you can do about speech I got to see that labor of love first hand problems, safety in schools, dining deals when I became editor in 2005 and got
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1999 » Connie Ramos, a south Fort Myers mom, gets the idea to create a resource for parents and files article of incorporation for Southwest Florida Parent & Child magazine December 1999/January 2000 » The first bimonthly issue of SW FL Parent & Child
January 2001 » George Bush becomes president
September 2001 » The attack on the World Trade Center
SEPTEMBER 2012
February 2004 » Connie marries Rick Williams and becomes a step-mom to Lauren, then 14, and Stephanie, then 24 April 2004 » The magazine begins to publish monthly
August 2004 » The News-Press
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August 2006 » Pluto demoted to
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2007 » Connie and Rick establish CONRIC PR & Marketing
June 2007 » Apple debuts the iPhone November 2008 » Barack Obama
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to work with Connie for a couple of years before she pursued another passion. In 2007, with her husband, Rick Williams, she created CONRIC PR & Marketing, CONRIC being a mashup of their first names, to meet another need: helping small businesses with marketing and rebranding. “I love watching what you are doing with the magazine every single month,” she tells me, and I’m sure I blushed. “You’ve carried on that legacy. I still hear parents say how incredible it is to have that as a resource.” Our team today consists of people who aim to give this publication as much heart as Connie. There’s General Manager Kathryn Robinson Kinsey, who is also the editor of Grandeur
Magazine, Art Director Lindi Daywalt-Feazel, Specialty Publications Team Coordinator Dennis Wright, and photojournalist Amanda Inscore. Our gratitude goes out to the great writers and columnists who have written for us over the years, to the advertisers who support our work and to the readers for giving us purpose. Over the next year, in each issue, we’ll feature a Q&A with people from the covers of Southwest Florida Parent & Child, like Abby Fletcher, then a Cape Coral 12-year-old opera singer on her way to Carnegie Hall. This month, we start with the girl who started it all: Natalie Ramos (who, by the way, is 28 and living in New York City).
Natalie Ramos
The very first child to model for the cover of SW FL Parent & Child magazine, Natalie Ramos is the daughter of the magazine’s founder, Connie Ramos-Williams. Natalie was 8 years old, attending second grade at Saint Andrew Catholic School in Cape Coral, when the first issue published. The “On the Cover” section said, “Her hobbies include: piano, soccer, tennis and swimming. She has a brother, Christopher, who is 6 years old.”
Where is she now? She’s living in: New York City
Age: 28 Occupation: Program
Manager at SS&C Technologies
Tell us about yourself. What do you enjoy doing now? I enjoy traveling and experiencing new places, food and cultures. In 2019, I was fortunate enough to visit six different countries across Europe, Asia and India. My favorite destinations tend to be those that are close to a beach with great music and seafood!
What do you love about growing up in Southwest Florida?
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Growing up in Southwest Florida, I enjoyed the sunshine, boating and family time most. There was a strong sense of community that provided inspiration and motivation to reach for my dreams. It was through one of my internships at Doc Ford’s, that I was offered the opportunity to move to New York City to pursue my career.
What’s one piece of advice an adult gave you while you were growing up that was really good advice? My mom always told me that I could achieve anything if I work hard and believe in myself. This often gives me the confidence and courage to pursue my dreams even when they may seem unattainable.
That was then… A lot changes in 20 years. Here’s a look at what a few things cost at the time of our first issue in January 2000, back when $100 had the same buying power as $152.37 today: Disney: $46 for adults, $37 for kids for a one-day Walt Disney World ticket Stamp: 33 cents
(they’re 55 cents now in case you haven’t written an actual letter in a few years)
Rent: $641 was the median gross rent in Florida (“gross” means it includes utilities)
Gasoline: $1.25 for a gallon of regular unleaded
Milk: $2.82 for a gallon of whole milk Ground chuck:
$1.93 for a pound
Salary: In 2000, minimum wage was $5.15. If you made $50,000 in 2000, you’d need to make $76,187 today to have the same buying power. SOURCES: U.S. Department of Labor, U.S. Census Bureau, U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics and AllEars.Net
entertainment »
Gator Mike’s main zip line stretches 550 feet and can reach speeds of 26 miles per hour.
WOOHOOO!
Adventure aerial park debuts at Gator Mike’s in Cape Coral with outdoor zip lines, ropes course and rock climbing wall. STORY AND PHOTOS BY CHARLES RUNNELLS
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« entertainment (continued) Tre Sovich admits it: speed through in 20 minHe was a little scared utes. Others might take an when he climbed up that hour or more — especially 45-foot tower at Gator people who are scared to Mike’s Family Fun Park step out onto the swinging and stepped up to the platforms, inch their way brand-new zip line. across a narrow tightrope “It was a little nerveor shoot down a zip line. wracking,” says the Cape Ropes course guide Tim Coral 12-year-old. Hennessy gives people this But then he grabbed advice: Just stay calm and the handle bars, stepped enjoy the experience. “Just off the ledge and zoomed take your time,” he says. down the 550-foot zip “Have fun.” line — past the mini-golf So far, the 36-foot-high course and arcade buildrock climbing wall and the ing, over the pond and all main zip line appear to be the way to the other side the most popular attracof the park. Tre Sovich, 12, of Cape Coral, zips down the main zip line at Gator tions. Mike’s in Cape Coral. The 550-foot zip line can reach speeds of 26 miles And he couldn’t stop Cameron Gonzalez, per hour. smiling the whole way 9, of North Fort Myers, down. tried out the approximately “It was awesome!” he says. a more “family-friendly” option with 38-foot-tall zip line recently and loved it. His friend Xavier Tyner, 13, feels the riders in a seat instead of dangling from “I was scared when I first got on,” she same way. “It makes you feel like you’re handlebars and a harness. And, Gator says. “I didn’t think it would hold me.” really flying,” he says. “It was amazing!” Mike’s has four ziplines: The big one But her second time through? No That’s what Gator Mike’s new zip and three smaller ones that are part of fear at all. lines, rock climbing wall and aerial the ropes course. “It was fun!” she says. “It went fast.” ropes challenge course are all about: HeadPinz Entertainment Center in Visitors don’t have to worry about Conquering your fears, getting an south Fort Myers has a ropes course, but safety, though, Peterson says. Each peradrenaline rush and having a whole lot that one’s smaller and inside. The Gator son gets a 10-minute-or-so tutorial about of fun. Mike’s course sprawls outside across using the equipment before they’re The new aerial park opened Thanks- much of the fun park’s 10-acre property. allowed on the zip line or the ropes giving weekend, and word’s still getting “There’s nothing like this in the course (sometimes referred to by Gator out about its first-of-its-kind attractions area,” Peterson says. “The closest to Mike’s as a “challenge course”). in Cape Coral. But general manager Jeff what we have here is probably two Designed by Illinois company ExpePeterson says thrill seekers will love it. hours away. We wanted to bring someriential Systems Inc., the aerial park uses “It’s gonna test everybody’s fear of thing here that nobody has.” a “click it” harness system with tethers heights and their ability and their agilThe ropes course features 14 difand two snap hooks that attach you at ity,” Peterson says. “Plus it’s also a thrill ferent obstacles mounted high above all times to the safety cable above. Only ride in itself with the zip line. You’re the ground, including three zip lines one hook can be detached at a time, reaching 26 miles per hour.” totaling about 650 feet in length, swing- meaning people are always clipped to Nothing else compares to this in ing platforms suspended from ropes, a the cable until they reach the end. Southwest Florida, he says. balance beam, tightropes and more. “It’s physically impossible for you The Shell Factory in North Fort How long it takes to get through the to come off the wire,” Peterson says. Myers has a zip line, but that’s billed as course depends on the person. Some can “When you’re on, you’re on.”
IF YOU GO
What: New aerial park with zip lines, rock climbing wall and an aerial ropes course • Where: Gator Mike’s Family Fun Park, 35 N.E. Pine Island Road/State Road 78, Cape Coral (formerly Mike Greenwell’s Family Fun Park) • Aerial park hours: 4 to 8 p.m. Monday-Thursday, 4 to 10 p.m. Friday, 2 to 10 p.m. Saturday, 2 to 8 p.m. Sunday • Cost: $25 for the ropes challenge course, $16 for two zips on the main zip line, $10 for five minutes on the rock climbing wall. Combination prices are also available, including $40 for all three. • Details: 574-4386 or gatormikes.com
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IS THERE A GUN IN THE HOUSE?
Whether you own a gun or not, following these safety tips could save your child’s life. BY DR. JILL HUSSON MARTINEZ
A
s parents, we’re responsible for keeping our children safe. That’s why it is crucial for us to ensure firearms in our homes are stored safely and responsibly. Similarly, it is vital for us to ask other adults if they own guns and how these guns are stored when our children visit their homes. In America, approximately 4.6 million households with children under the age of 18 contain at least one gun that is kept loaded and unlocked where children could access it. About 350 children per year gain access to a firearm and unintentionally shoot themselves or someone else. Additionally, nearly 40 percent of gun deaths in the US are suicides, with about 600 children and teenagers dying by gun suicide per year, and this number is rising. This is an issue we all need to
worry about, because whether or not it is your gun, it could happen to your child. To address this, Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America volunteers have implemented the BeSMART program to reduce these firearm deaths and injuries. This program encourages anyone with a firearm in a home with children present to do the following: » Secure all firearms in homes and vehicles by using appropriate gun locks and storing guns and ammunition separately. » Model responsible behavior around guns, since children are naturally curious and will follow an adult’s behavior. » Ask about proper firearm storage before a child visits a friend, family member or caregiver who may have a gun present in their home. » Recognize that suicides make up many firearm-related deaths among
Dr. Jill Husson Martinez is the chapter lead for Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America, Fort Myers.
teenagers and remove any weapons from the home if there is a concern that an adolescent is at risk. » Tell others to BeSMART so they can help keep every child safe. An overwhelming majority of unintentional shootings by children could have been prevented by proper firearm storage. Guns should be stored unloaded and separate from ammunition, secured with cable locks or locked in lock boxes or safes. Ensure that any guns are properly stored in this manner before a child visits another home, and please don’t hesitate to have this conversation with other parents. By encouraging conversations about responsible gun storage, we can help other adults learn about the simple steps that everyone — gun owners and non-gun owners alike — can take to prevent these tragedies. For more information and links to the data, visit besmartforkids.org.
Safe Kids is a nonprofit coalition of agencies and organizations dedicated to eliminating preventable childhood injuries. Visit safekidsswfl.org.
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SNOWFEST » Nester Gutierrez, 10, slides down while three kids climb on the snow mountain during the 34th annual Snowfest on Saturday, December 7, at Golden Gate Community Center in Golden Gate. Photo by Wangyuxuan Xu
BOXES OF JOY »
RotaKids, a group of students at St. Andrew Catholic School in Cape Coral who work with the local Rotary, partnered with Cross Catholic Outreach to send joy around the world. With the help of the student body, RotaKids filled 52 Boxes of Joy, which have been sent to children in Guatemala, El Salvador, Nicaragua, Haiti and Dominican Republic. The boxes are filled with toys, clothing, school supplies, a rosary and the story of Jesus. Photo courtesy of St. Andrew Catholic School
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CODING THE FUTURE » State Sen. Lizbeth Benacquisto visited three Lee County schools in December to code with students: Gulf Elementary, Paul Laurence Dunbar Middle School and Dunbar High School. She encouraged students to consider coding or computer science for their college studies or careers because of a need for highly skilled employees in those areas. Courtesy of School District of Lee County
WINTER BLUES » Jaiden Marino, 4, of Cape
Coral, was on the cover of our December 2018 issue. Here he is now with his little sister, Ari. Photo courtesy of Emma Marino
HAPPY HOLIDAYS » Bell Tower kicked off the 2019 holiday season with its third annual community Tree Lighting on December 6. Here: Santa Claus greets children at Bell Tower. Photo by Richard Westran/3 Roses Media
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FOOD DRIVE » St. Andrew Catholic School students of the National Junior Honor Society conducted a food drive for the Cape Coral Caring Center. After a week of collections, families contributed some 380 items. Courtesy of St. Andrew Catholic School
REPRESENTING FLORIDA » The 2020
Miss Teen Florida Global United States is 16-year-old Melissa Olivia, of Cape Coral (left). She will represent the state of Florida at the Miss Teen Global United States Pageant this July in Orlando. Audrey Fisher (right) won the 2020 Little Miss Florida Legacy US pageant held in Orlando in November. This spunky 8-year-old will represent Florida at the Little Miss Legacy US Pageant this Summer. She is also a professional model with Envy Models and Talent. Photos Byron Price/special to SW FL Parent & Child
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FIELD DAY » Estero High School
student, Peyton Auld,18, leads the congo line with Cypress Lake High student Anna Miller in the annual Special Olympics Field Day on Friday, December 6 at Cypress Lake High School. All 14 Lee County public high schools participated in the two-hour event. Field Day is part of Cypress Lake’s “Be A Buddy” program which integrates students with disabilities and mainstream students through their joint involvement in activities and events. The program currently has more than 400 members. Photo by Andrew West
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CHRISTMAS PARADE » Kids
gawk at the Avow Hospice float in the city of Naples Christmas Parade, which brought thousands of spectators to Fifth Avenue South, to see marching bands, floats, civic organizations, dance troupes and numerous office seekers passing on a beautiful night. Photo by Lance Shearer
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LI’L SAND SCULPTORS » From left to right, Aubree Pattillo, 9, Sean Tang, 9, Dylan Nguyen, 11, and Camden Pattillo, 4, play in the sand in the kids’ area during the 33rd annual American Sand Sculpting Championship at Wyndham Garden Hotel in Fort Myers Beach on November 24. Photo by Alex Driehaus
SAINTS AND SINNERS » St. Andrew Catholic School held its second annual Saints and Sinners Gala fundraiswer in late November. Support from the evening will help upgrade of technology in the school, improve school security and boost athletics and the school’s STREAM initiative.
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FLORIDA RESORTS Travel writer and mom Jennifer Thomas gives us her Top 12 family-friendly resort picks. BY JENNIFER THOMAS s we roll into a new decade and a new year, family travel might be one of your resolutions regardless of age of your children. Maybe you always retreat to your favorite Florida destination, or maybe you are looking to explore a new area and resort in the sunshine state. To help you with your travel resolution planning, below are 12 family-friendly resorts located throughout our sunshine state — a few classics and even a new one or two to sample. The best part is that some are in our “backyard,” while others are just a day trip away.
South Seas Island Resort
An ultimate staycation for both parents and kids, South Seas Island Resort offers marine life exploration, water fun (think water slides), sunset celebrations, a candy shop, pier-side fishing, water sports and more. One unique feature: South Seas partnered with Sanibel Sea School, a marine conservation nonprofit; kids ages 6-13 are introduced to the wonders of the marine world through hands-on ocean experiences. It’s a much more elevated and memorable experience than a typical “kids” camp. The accommodations are vast, too, depending on your family size, from a typical resort room to a multibedroom villa — whether near the marina, tennis courts or beachfront. Gulf carts are available for rent, too, to help you traverse this expansive resort property; however, a complimentary guest shuttle is easy to use. • Online: southseas.com • Phone: 866-565-5089 or 239-472-5111 • Address: 5400 Plantation Road, Captiva Island, Florida 33924
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The Westin Cape Coral Resort at Marina Village
Another nearby option for the entire family, including your furry members, is in Cape Coral. Pets up to 45 pounds receive the Westin Heavenly Pet Treatment, so it’s a vacation for them, too. Known for its access to 400 miles of navigable canals and waterways, The Westin Cape Coral Resort at Marina Village offers both a relaxing and adventurous tropical escape for families seeking an all-immersive nature experience, from private fishing charters, kayaks, paddleboards, and dolphin and sunset cruises. For young water-loving guests, children can head to the adjacent Tarpon Point Marina for a two-day “Learn to Sail” course. The resort also offers the Westin Kids Club Discovery Room. • Online: marriott.com • Phone: 239-541-5000 • Address: 5951 Silver King Blvd., Cape Coral, Florida 33914
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The Naples Beach Hotel & Golf Club
An expansive beach and golf retreat for families, The Naples Beach Hotel & Golf Club overlooks the sparkling waters of the Gulf of Mexico. The beachside resort also has an onsite championship golf course, worldclass spa and award-winning tennis center. Additional offerings include a beachfront pool complex with two pools. Plus, for guests there are no resort fees, and valet parking is free. For families, the resort has a complimentary Beach Kids Club for ages 5-12. The program offers daily activities, such as games, sandcastle building, beach walks, sports and swimming. (Note: There is a charge for lunch, arts and crafts, and certain seasonal activities.) • Online: naplesbeachhotel.com • Phone: 239-261-2222 • Address: 851 Gulf Shore Blvd. N., Naples, Florida 34102
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JW Marriott Marco Island Beach Resort
This Marco Island family paradise is another personal family favorite due to the soft, sandy beaches and activities. One of our recommended favorites is the guided tours on personal watercraft through the mangrove islands. In the resort’s Tiki Tribe Discovery Day Camp, ages 5-12 learn about the ecosystem of the Ten Thousand Islands. The Sailing & Shelling tour provides a chance to spot American white pelicans, bald eagles, dolphins, manatees and other wildlife. A new kids’ offering is a complimentary kids and teens yoga program for ages 4 and older. This hour-long, indoor yoga experience teaches kids practices they can incorporate into their daily lives. For those wishing to skip the sand, the multiple resort pools serve as a refreshing oasis, including a main resort pool and a Tiki Kids pool with waterslide and waterfall. After the sun goes down, attend the sunset celebration with a live fire dancer show that pays homage to the Balinese inspiration and design aesthetic of the resort. Another family activity is the new 10K Alley, a combination gastropub and state-ofthe-art gaming emporium (Note: The space is adults-only after 10 p.m.).
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• Online: jwmarco.com • Phone: 239-394-2511 • Address: 400 S. Collier Blvd., Marco Island, Florida 34145
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Sandpearl Resort
Vacation at the Sandpearl begins upon arrival when parents are greeted with a glass of champagne or a mimosa while smaller guests are offered apple cider and supplies to build a sandcastle during their stay. Camp Ridley engages kids with activities, scavenger hunts, and arts and crafts that educate them about Florida wildlife and attractions. Each night the club’s mascot, Ridley the Turtle, selects a child to ring the historic Sunset Bell. There’s also nightly s’mores by the beachside fire pit and weekly swim-in movies in the lagoon-style pool. The nearby Clearwater Marine Aquarium is home to the stars of Warner Bros.’ “Dolphin Tale” movies. To help foster together time while dining at the beachfront Caretta on the Gulf, families can opt for the new “Tech-Free Treasure Chest” where their digital devices are stowed. The reward for going techfree an entire meal — free dessert.
• Online: sandpearl.com • Phone: 727-441-2425 or 866-384-2995 • Address: 500 Mandalay Avenue, Clearwater Beach, Florida 33767
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Four Seasons Resort Orlando at Walt Disney World Resort
Four Seasons is Central Florida’s first and only Five Diamond property — and it offers guests an unparalleled way to experience the theme park capital of the world. Four Seasons provides Disney connectivity, including an on-site character breakfast (with Mickey, Minnie and Goofy) and access to Extra Magic Hours. The incredible destination resort offers award-wining dining, an amazing spa, 18 holes of Tom Fazio golf, a 5-acre water park, tennis and more. Its full-day, complimentary kids’ club for ages 4-12 offers daily supervised swim time and themed activities. For the most luxurious accommodations (and great for large families), the resort offers the Royal Suite, which can expand up to a 9-bedroom residence. Reserve the Royal and Presidential suites, and the entire 16th floor (21 guest rooms),
for the Ultimate Suites Experience package. You may have stayed in Orlando before, but not like this. • Online: fourseasons.com/orlando • Phone: 407-313-7777 • Address: 10100 Dream Tree Blvd, Lake Buena Vista, Florida 32836
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Disney’s Riviera Resort
How many Disney resorts have you experienced? Well, Disney has a new family-based resort that just debuted in December. The Riviera Resort is a deluxe Disney Vacation Club property that immerses guests in the grandeur and enchantment of the European Riviera. It has 300 family-friendly vacation homes, including deluxe studios, one- and two-bedroom villas and grand villas. There are also Tower Studios for two. Topolino is the Italian name for Mickey Mouse, and the new, signature table-service restaurant perched on the rooftop of the Riviera is aptly called Topolino’s Terrace — Flavors of the Riviera. The restaurant, featuring dishes infused with French and Italian flavors, is set to become one of the most stunning dining experiences at Walt Disney World. It offers picturesque vistas of the nighttime spectaculars of nearby Epcot and Disney’s Hollywood Studios. Guests at the Riviera also have a new way to travel to Epcot and Hollywood Studios: the Disney Skyliner, a stateof-the-art gondola system. In addition to the Skyliner station at the resort, the system conveniently connects Disney’s Hollywood Studios and Epcot to Disney’s Art of Animation Resort, Disney’s Pop Century Resort and Disney’s Caribbean Beach Resort.
• Online: disneysrivieraresort.com • Phone: 407-934-7639 • Address: 1080 Esplanade Ave., Lake Buena Vista, Florida 32830
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Club Med Sandpiper Bay
I had the pleasure of traveling to the only Club Med property in Florida while on business, and during my stay, I just recall thinking what a playground for kids! Located along the St. Lucie River, this all-inclusive family resort now offers Spectacular Months, a dynamic lineup of events that include Circus-tacular months (March and April), which focus on the acrobatic arts with circus-
travel (continued) » themed activities like flying trapeze, trampoline and face painting. Yearround, kids can enter the unexpected world of Cirque du Soleil at the resort’s creative playground inspired by the world-renowned acrobatic shows, CREACTIVE by Cirque du Soleil, where trained Club Med staff teach acrobatic activities like aerial, flying trapeze and tightrope. What kid would not like to go to circus school? Also to note for new parents, this Club Med property offers child care for children as young as 4 months. • Online: clubmed.us • Phone: 855-233-0138 • Address: 4500 S.E. Pine Valley St., Port Saint Lucie, Florida 34952
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TradeWinds Island Grand
With two resorts on property, the petfriendly Island Grand and the RumFish Beach Resort, TradeWinds on St. Pete Beach is a beach bonanza. The more family-friendly side, the Island Grand has the High Tide Slide (200 feet long), RedBeard the Pirate show, a gyrosphere, bungee trampoline, KONK kids’ club (ages 4-12), paddleboats, kiddie pools, an ice cream shop and more. During the pirate show, kids transform into swashbucklers, search for hidden treasure, make their own shark-tooth necklace, and hear tales of high-seas exploits from TradeWinds’ pirate Capt. RedBeard. The resort also features the Triple WipeOut Surf Simulator — surfing on land — and sunset campfire s’mores. Families can learn more about fishing and wildlife from Capt. Tim, who hosts shore fishing and beach walks and even conducts behind-the-scenes tours at RumFish Grill to show guests the inner workings of the signature 33,500-gallon tank. Kids 8 and older can dive in and explore this marine life aquarium in the Swim with the Fishes program led by experts from the Marine Exploration Center of St. Petersburg, who introduce swimmers to the variety of fish coexisting in the giant tank including a lime green moray eel, a stingray, angelfish, black drums and more. Young guests can seek their own treasure at the new TW Treasure Mining Co. sluice. Purchase a bag of gems, fossils or seashells then sift through the earthen mixture for hidden island treasures. • Online: tradewindsresort.com or justletgo.com • Phone: 866-5878538 or 727-363-2212 • Address:
5500 Gulf Blvd., St. Pete Beach, Florida 33706
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Sandestin Golf and Beach Resort
Sandestin offers a superb natural location on the Northwest Florida Gulf Coast, also known as the Emerald Coast, and it has seemingly unlimited resort amenities and activities. You are sure to find many memorable ways to fill your days and nights, whether it is Sandestin’s 7 miles of beach and bay, four championship golf courses, 15 world-class tennis and pickleball courts, 123-slip marina with dozens of water sports, deep sea fishing, shops, dining options (from casual to dinner cruises to gourmet), four swimming pools, miles of beautiful hiking and bicycle paths or Club KZ for ages 4-12. New for 2020, Sandestin is expanding kids’ activities between the Village of Baytowne Wharf (a 28-acre waterfront town center) and the Baytowne Marina with the addition of a miniature golf course, Ferris wheel and playground for kids. This resort has a massive 4th of July celebration — Red, White and Baytowne — complete with live music, lawn games, kids’ crafts, face painting and, of course, fireworks. • Online: sandestin.com • Phone: 800-622-1038 • Address: 9300 Emerald Coast Pkwy W, Miramar Beach, FL 32550
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Hawks Cay Resort
Hawks Cay Resort, an iconic destination in the Florida Keys, reopened in August 2018 following a $50 million renovation. This is a resort our family has ventured to many times to soak in the Keys lifestyle and for our now 14-year-old to enjoy the resort’s on-site dolphin program. Situated roughly halfway between Key Largo and Key West, guests enjoy offshore, flats and backcountry fishing in the aquamarine water, diving, kayaking, kiteboarding and standup paddleboarding, a Cliff Drysdale tennis program and the Dolphin Connection program. Dolphin Connection lets guests encounter a pod of bottlenose dolphins in their natural environment. You can also become Trainer for a Day, which is even available for kids younger than 4 with their parent. Our
daughter, Kylie, participated in the Dockside Dolphin program when she was 4 and was able to feed, play and interact with the dolphins. Still to this day, she remembers the names of each dolphin she encountered. New to the resort is a cast of characters that include Captain Hawk, Priscilla the Pirate Queen, Clarence the First Mate and Koral the Mermaid. They pop up around the resort to play games and make kids smile, but they also have a Swashbuckling Pirate Show a couple of times a week. Also new this year, the resort offers complimentary use of paddleboard and kayaks in the Saltwater Lagoon.
Online: hawkscay.com • Phone: 888-395-5539 • Address: 61 Hawks
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The Breakers
An historical resort that debuted in 1896, The Breakers has transformed through the decades. The luxury oceanfront hotel built by Henry Morrison Flagler was the grand dame of formality and, while it has maintained its reputation for luxury, it is now very much a resort for families. Even with its palatial, Italian Renaissance design, the hotel welcomes discerning families with the warm hospitality of an inn. The Breakers’ Family Entertainment Center includes an arcade and a Camp Room, which features a 1,000-gallon salt water aquarium filled with indigenous marine life. Families can engage with bicycle rentals, a playground, kayaking, snorkeling, banana boat rides, a kids’ introduction to scuba diving program and four pools (one specifically for families, the Active Pool with zero-depth entry). For your tennis or golf pros in the making, The Breakers offers golf and tennis junior programs. Not quite at that level? Consider playing Family Fun Golf on the Ocean Golf Course. Finally, a family vacation is not complete without a visit to Mary Lily’s, where you’ll find sweet treats and indulgences like locally made Italian gelato and a curated selection of specialty chocolates and candies. This whimsical shop brings out the kid in everyone. The name also plays homage to Flagler’s wife.
Online: thebreakers.com • Phone: 833-507-6635 • Address: One South
County Road, Palm Beach, Florida 33480
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Big fireworks to light up Southwest Florida The Seminole Casino Hotel Immokalee plans to light up the sky Saturday, January 18 with its Celebration in the Sky fireworks show, billed as the largest land-based fireworks show in Southwest Florida. It’s choreographed to lights and a custom soundtrack and produced by Zambelli Fireworks, also known as the First Family of Fireworks. They’ve been producing pyrotechnics for more than 100 years and have entertained U.S. presidents and people around the world. The event is free for all ages. Fireworks start at 9 p.m. Guests are encouraged to bring chairs to the viewing area. Food and drinks will be sold on-site. The Seminole Casino Hotel Immokalee is at 506 S. First St., Immokalee.
Star Wars takes over the IMAG Do. Or do not. There is no try. The IMAG History & Science Center in Fort Myers is going all out in creating a Star Wars-themed family night Saturday, January 11. Dine at the Mos Eisley cantina, help the Mandalorian find “the child,” build lightsabers, train with Darth Vader and Obi-Wan Kenobi, build and race droids on Tatooine and learn how to use the Force. There’s also pilot training on flight simulators in the Star Wars Launch Bay with Han Solo, Chewbacca and Poe Dameron. “STEM WARS: The F=m(a) Awakens” takes place 5:30 to 9:30 p.m. Saturday, January 11. Admission is $30 for members, $40 for nonmembers. Register at theimag.org or by calling 239243-0043.
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‘Hamilton’ performer to lead Masterclass You know that big “Hamilton” show coming to Southwest Florida this month? It comes with a big perk for locals ages 10 and older. Lisa Finegold, a performer in the Broadway National Tour of “Hamilton,” is leading a Masterclass at Curtain Call Studios in south Fort Myers. The class is 10 a.m. to noon Saturday, January 25. Those who take the class get to work directly with Lisa Finegold on dance with an emphasis on storytelling, musicality and style. A native of St. Petersburg, Florida, Lisa has performed on Broadway, in numerous National Tours, and on TV. Her favorite credits include “Head Over Heels,” “Rock of Ages,” “Wicked” and “Hamilton.” Enrollment for the Masterclass is available at curtaincallstudios.com.
It’s festival time The grounds of St. Andrew Catholic School in Cape Coral and the neighboring church are the place to be January 16-19. The place is packed with carnival rides, games, food vendors and entertainment. Admission is free, and ticket prices for food, rides, games and raffles vary. Ride bracelets, which give you unlimited rides all four days, are $60 in advance. It’s a major fundraiser for the school. Hours are 6 to 10 p.m. Thursday, January 16; 6 to 11 p.m. Friday, January 17; noon to 11 p.m. Saturday, January 18, and noon to 10 p.m. Sunday, January 19. The school is at 2628 Del Prado Blvd., Cape Coral. Free parking is available on the church grounds and at The Breeze, Busey Bank and Fifth Third Bank. Get details and ride bracelets at sacsfestival.com.
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Wednesday, Jan. 1 Free Guided Nature Walks » 9 a.m. and 10 a.m. The Conservancy of Southwest Florida offers free guided nature walks at Clam Pass (9 a.m. Monday-Saturday through April) and Briggs Boardwalk (10 a.m. daily through March). 239262-0304. conservancy.org/offsite/nature-walks Lovers Key First Day Hike » 9-11 a.m. Lovers Key State Park, 8700 Estero Blvd., Fort Myers Beach. Ring in the New Year with a relaxing guided hike on the Black Island Trail. Reservations required. 239-463-4588. Night Lights in the Garden » 6-9 p.m. through January 5. Naples Botanical Garden, 4820 Bayshore Drive, Naples. The gardens are lit for the holidays and local artists perform. (No Night Lights festivities December 24, 25 or 31.) 239-3251354. naplesgarden.org
Thursday, Jan. 2 Day Camps for Grades K-5 » 9 a.m.-4 p.m. January 2, 3, 6 and 7. Day camp options include Mad Science Lab, Chemistry Magicians and Grossology. theimag.org School Break Camp: 3D Printing and Design » 9 a.m.4 p.m. January 2-3. Edison and Ford Winter Estates, 3583 McGregor Blvd. Fort Myers. The “Wild Wizard” is in. Explore the Estates and topics in STEAM (science, technology, engineering, art and math), history and the natural world. In this session, participate in creative 3D design challenges. Registration required, online or via Leeanne Criswell at 239-334-7419. $90 for members, $100 for nonmembers. edisonfordwinterestates.org
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Friday, Jan. 3 Fort Myers Seafood & Music Festival » January 3-5. River District, 1400 Hendry St., Fort Myers. Hours: 4-10 p.m. January 3, 11 a.m.-10 p.m. January 4 and 11 a.m.-6 p.m. January 5. Free admission. RESALE & CONSIGNMENT
Saturday, Jan. 4 Naples New Year’s Art Show » 10 a.m.-5 p.m. January 4-5. Fifth Avenue South, Naples. More than 250 professional artists from around the country, plus music, Kid’s Zone, food and refreshments. Free admission; donations appreciated. Hot Works Estero Fine Art Show » 10 a.m.-5 p.m. January 4-5. JetBlue Park, 11500 Fenway South Drive, Fort Myers. A juried fine art and fine craft show. Free admission, free parking; optional $5 donation supports Institute for the Arts & Education. The event’s Youth Art Competition for grades K-8 or ages 5-13 is integrated within the art show. Rookery Bay’s Science Saturdays » 9 a.m.-1 p.m. every Saturday. Rookery Bay NERR and Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Road, Naples. Unleash your inner scientist or marine biologist with hands-on discoveries for all ages. Includes eco-crafts, a presentation, featured film and “Lessons in Laboratories” program (11 a.m.). $5 for adults, free for ages 12 and younger. rookerybay.org. Storytime and Activities featuring “Grumpy Monkey” » 11 a.m. Barnes & Noble at Coconut Point, 23130 Fashion Drive, Estero. Jim the chimpanzee is in a terrible mood and
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Sunday, Jan. 5 Hooters River, Roots & Ruts » 8 a.m. Caloosahatchee Regional Park, 19130 N. River Road, Alva. There’s a 10-mile trail run, two-person relay and 5K fun run. Benefits GiGi’s Playhouse, trail maintenance and local high school running programs.
Monday, Jan. 6 Birthing from Within Childbirth Education Class » 6-8:30 p.m. Mindful Birth Services and Doula Care, 11276 Reflection Isles Blvd., Fort Myers. Four-week class that goes in-depth with pain-coping tools and a pain-coping mindset. Registration required. 239-560-2403. mindfulbirthservices. com Estuary “Adventures”: Bountiful Birds » 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Rookery Bay NERR and Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Road, Naples. Student day camp for school vacation day. For grades 8-12. $50. Registration required. rookerybay.org.
Tuesday, Jan. 7 Basic Sign Language Class » 6:30-7:30 p.m. every Tuesday. Sally J. Pimentel Deaf & Hard of Hearing Center, 1860 Boy Scout Drive, Fort Myers. Sessions are designed to help parents and siblings learn basic American Sign Language, or ASL, to understand the needs of a deaf or hard of hearing family member. Free. 239-461-0334 voice phone, 239-247-5821 video phone.
Wednesday, Jan. 8 After School Junior Golf » 5:30-6:30 p.m. every Wednesday. Alico Family Golf, 16300 Lee Road, Fort Myers. For ages 6-18. The After School Junior Golf program teaches fundamentals and proficiency no matter the level of junior golfer. 239-334-4653. alicofamilygolf.com EXPLO Info Meeting » 6:30-8 p.m. The Ritz-Carlton, Naples, 280 Vanderbilt Beach Road, Naples. EXPLO is a nonprofit “education innovator that brings curiosity, engagement and humanity to teaching and learning.” Hosted by program heads, the executive director, or directors of admission, EXPLO info meetings give families the opportunity to ask questions and get a first-hand feel for the programs.
Friday, Jan. 10 Gopher Tortoise Walk » 10-11 a.m. Lovers Key State Park, 8700 Estero Blvd., Fort Myers Beach. Join a park ranger on a leisurely walk along an island trail and learn about gopher tortoises. Included with regular admission fees: $8 for vehicle with 2-8 people, $4 for one person in a vehicle, $2 for
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pedestrians and cyclists. Reservations required. 239-4634588. YA Book Club featuring “Reverie” » 7 p.m. Barnes & Noble at Coconut Point, 23130 Fashion Drive, Estero. Explore compelling stories and characters. The January selection is “Reverie,” a bold, alternate-reality adventure where characters are forced to examine the secret worlds they hide within themselves.
Saturday, Jan. 11 Escape This Bookstore! Event » 2 p.m. Barnes & Noble at Coconut Point, 23130 Fashion Drive, Estero. Explore the newest addition to the exciting “Escape This Bookstore!” series. Decide your destiny by solving puzzles and riddles to pass each challenge and get to the next adventure. For ages 8-12. Naples Children’s Business Fair » 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Gulf Coast High School, 7878 Shark Way, Naples. Young entrepreneurs, ages 6-17, showcase and sell their product or service to the public. Working with the Greater Naples Chamber, children learn free-market principles, how the workforce drives the local economy and relish in the rewards of their hard work. Proceeds benefit the Leadership Collier Foundation. Bring cash to shop the businesses. Suggested $5 donation for general attendees. napleschamber.org/childrensbusinessfair.html Our Mother’s Home Open House » Noon-5 p.m. Our Mother’s Home, 7438 Carrier Road, Fort Myers. Our Mother’s Home is kicking off a year-long 20th anniversary celebration with an open house. Learn more about the program, enjoy light hor d’oeuvres and drinks and take a tour of the home. Our Mother’s Home helps teen mothers and their children. To RSVP, call 239-267-4663. STEM WARS: The F=m(a) Awakens » 5:30-9:30 p.m. IMAG History & Science Center, 2000 Cranford Ave., Fort Myers. A Star Wars family night that features the Mos Eisley cantina, the Mandalorian, lightsaber building, racing droids, pilot training on simulators and more. $30 for members, $40 for nonmembers. 239-243-0043. theimag.org YMCA Kid’s Night Out » 5-10 p.m. second Saturday, September-May. Greater Naples YMCA, 5450 YMCA Road, Naples. Parents can enjoy a night out while the kids ages 6 months to 12 years have fun at the YMCA. $20 per child for members, $35 per child for guests. Dinner included. Upcoming dates: February 8, March 14, April 11 and May 9. Registration required. greaternaplesymca.org/ kidsnightout.html
Tuesday, Jan. 14 Manatee Talk » 10-11 a.m. Lovers Key State Park, 8700 Estero Blvd., Fort Myers Beach. Meet with a park naturalist for a talk about manatees. Included with regular admission fees: $8 for vehicle with 2-8 people, $4 for one person in a vehicle, $2 for pedestrians and cyclists. Reservations required. 239-463-4588. Mommy & Me Dance Class » 5:15-5:45 p.m. Dance Dimensions of Southwest Florida, 922 N.E. Eighth St., Fort Myers. For ages 16 months to 3 years. 239-573-7837. capecoraldance.com
calendar » Thursday, Jan. 16 Dueling Pianos Show » 7-8:30 p.m. Cape Coral Yacht Club, 5819 Driftwood Parkway, Cape Coral. Always a soldout show, reservations recommended. $15 in advance, $18 at the door. 239-574-0806. “Getting to Know You” Club Tour & Lunch » Noon. Boys & Girls Club of Collier County, 7500 Davis Blvd. Naples. Learn more about the Boys & Girls Club of Collier County. Lunch provided at no cost by The Blue CanTEEN, Boys & Girls Club of Collier County’s food truck. RSVP via Eventbrite or email Heidi Overman at hoverman@bgccc.com. St. Andrew Catholic School Festival » January 16-19. St. Andrew Catholic School, 2628 Del Prado Blvd., Cape Coral. Carnival rides, games, food vendors and entertainment. Free admission. Ticket prices for food, rides, etc., vary. Ride bracelets are $60 in advance. sacsfestival.com
Friday, Jan. 17 National Kid Inventor’s Day » 5:30-7:30 p.m. Edison and Ford Winter Estates, 3583 McGregor Blvd. Fort Myers. An evening of hands-on science activities for the whole family. Discover robotics, the science of sound, and test your inventive skills in the Smithsonian Spark!Lab. Free admission. Does not include a tour or admission to the historic property. 239-334-7419. edisonfordwinterestates.org Festival of Birds » January 17-19. Rookery Bay NERR and Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Road, Naples. Explore the environment through guided field trips, birding walks, buggy rides and boat tours. Cost: $20-$145. Registration required. rookerybay.org. Walk on the Wild Side » 10-11 a.m. Lovers Key State Park, 8700 Estero Blvd., Fort Myers Beach. Join a park ranger for a guided hike along Black Island Trail. Included with regular admission fees: $8 for vehicle with 2-8 people, $4 for one person in a vehicle, $2 for pedestrians and cyclists. Reservations required. 239-463-4588.
Saturday, Jan. 18 Bonita Springs Mini Faire » 10 a.m. Centers for the Arts Bonita Springs, 10150 Bonita Beach Road S.E., Bonita Springs. A family-friendly celebration that features local doit-yourself science, art, rockets, robots, crafts, technology, music, hands-on-activities and more. Tickets start at $8 for adults, $3 for ages 5-18, free for ages 4 and younger. VIP tickets include Maker Party on Friday evening. Free parking. bonitasprings.makerfaire.com Celebration in the Sky » 9 p.m. Seminole Casino Hotel Immokalee, 506 S. First St., Immokalee. Billed as the largest land-based fireworks show in Southwest Florida. Free admission. Food will be sold onsite. Lessons in Manners for the Generations Etiquette Class » 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Edison and Ford Winter Estates, 3583 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers. Learn proper introduction, handshakes and dining etiquette during a three-course meal. Each student receives a workbook and certificate of competition. Classes taught by Suzanne Willis, who teaches etiquette at The Ritz-Carlton hotels throughout the nation.
$75 for members, $85 for nonmembers. Register online at ecommerce.edisonfordwinterestates.org or call 239-3347419. Storytime and Activities featuring “Nobody Hugs a Cactus” » 11 a.m. Barnes & Noble at Coconut Point, 23130 Fashion Drive, Estero. Hank is the prickliest cactus in the entire world, and everyone stays away from him. But he is beginning to discover that being alone can be, well, lonely. Activities to follow. Woodland Nature Montessori School Open House » 10 a.m.-1 p.m. In the Iona House at Calusa Nature Center, 3450 Ortiz Ave., Fort Myers. Touted as the only nature Montessori school in the five-county area, the school opens its doors to the public. woodlandnaturemontessorischool.com
Sunday, Jan. 19 Concert in the Park » 2-4 p.m. Cambier Park, 755 Eighth Ave. S., Naples. Free; donations appreciated. Features Naples Philharmonic violinist Glenn Basham and vocalist Jodi Keogan. Basham will premiere a special arrangement of Sinatra songs written by Lou Del Gatto as well as the showy Vittorio Monti “Csardas.” naplesconcertband.org
Tuesday, Jan. 21 Musical Interludes with Ben Rosenblum Jazz Piano » 5:30-7 p.m. Marco Island Center for the Arts, 1010 Winterberry Drive, Marco Island. $25 for members, $30 for nonmembers. 239-394-4221. marcoislandart.org Squirrel Appreciation Day » 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Rookery Bay NERR and Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Road, Naples. Squirrels plant an estimated 1 billion oak trees. Celebrate with buy-one-get-one-free admission. Regular admission is 45 for adults, $3 for ages 6-12, free for kids younger than 6. 239-530-5940. rookerybay.org.
Thursday, Jan. 23 The Southwest Florida-Cuba Connection » 6-8:30 p.m. IMAG History & Science Center, 2000 Cranford Ave., Fort Myers. As part of its Distinguished Speakers Series, awardwinning author Robert N. Macomber gives the talk “Florida and Cuba: 500 Years” and will be available to sign books. Includes premiere of “Cuba: Journey to the Heart of the Caribbean.” theimag.org
Friday, Jan. 24 Sensational Sharks » 10-11 a.m. Lovers Key State Park, 8700 Estero Blvd., Fort Myers Beach. Join a park ranger for a talk about sharks. Included with regular admission fees: $8 for vehicle with 2-8 people, $4 for one person in a vehicle, $2 for pedestrians and cyclists. Reservations required. 239-463-4588.
Saturday, Jan. 25 Chalk Art » 2-5 p.m. Marco Island Center for the Arts,
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« calendar 1010 Winterberry Drive, Marco Island. Free. 239-394-4221. marcoislandart.org ClamJam of Southwest Florida Seafood & Music Festival » 10 a.m.-7 p.m. January 25 and 10 a.m.-5 p.m. January 26. German America Social Club, 2101 S.W. Pine Island Road, Cape Coral. Live music, food and vendors. $9 in advance, $10 at the gate; free for ages 12 and younger. Free parking. No coolers. No pets. Kids’ activities include rock climbing wall, face painting, bounce houses and rides. clamjamswfl.com Family Art Labs » 10 a.m.-noon fourth Saturday of each month. Alliance for the Arts, 10091 McGregor Blvd. Fort Myers. Explore something new every month: art making, gallery activities, games and more, all inspired by artworks on view in the gallery, famous artists, national holidays and artistic traditions around the world. Additional dates: February 22, March 28, April 25 and May 23. artinlee.org Family Health & Fitness Day » 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Cape Coral Yacht Club, 5819 Driftwood Parkway, Cape Coral. Learn about local health, wellness and fitness programs in Southwest Florida. There will be demos, so be prepared to break a sweat. Family walk at 11 a.m. and activities for all ages. Free. 239-574-0806. “Hamilton” Masterclass » 10 a.m.-noon. Curtain Call Studios, 15250 S. Tamiami Trail, Units 119-120, Fort Myers. Lisa Finegold, a performer in the Broadway National Tour of “Hamilton,” is leading a Masterclass for ages 10 and older. curtaincallstudios.com Jammin’ in Cultural Park » 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Cultural Park, 528 Cultural Park Blvd., Cape Coral. Features Signal III, Soulixer and Sheena Brook. Food trucks and vendors on-site. Cape Coral History Museum will be open. General admission to Jammin’ is $15 in advance, $20 at the gate for adults, $5 for ages 4-12, free for ages 3 and younger. VIP tickets are $40 in advance, $50 at the gate, and include a meal, dessert and two drink tickets. capecoralhistoricalmuseum.org/ JammininCulturalPark Our Mother’s Home 20th Anniversary Celebration » 5-11 p.m. The Plantation Golf and Country Club, 10500 Dartington Drive, Fort Myers. A dinner fundraiser for Our Mother’s Home with cocktail hour, silent auction, dancing and live music. $100. ourmothershome.com Storytime and Activities featuring “How to Catch a Dragon” » 11 a.m. Barnes & Noble at Coconut Point, 23130 Fashion Drive, Estero. Celebrate Lunar New Year with a story. The wily dragon will have to avoid trap after trap as the kids run through paper lanterns, red envelopes, fireworks and more. Color your own paper lantern to take home.
Wednesday, Jan. 29 The Elephant Storytelling Showcase: Stories You’ll Never Forget » 7 p.m. Alliance for the Arts, 10091 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers. Ten storytellers recount a variety of family-friendly narratives from personal tales to folktales. Recommended for adults and children ages 6 and older. $15
for members, $20 for nonmembers. 239-939-2787. artInlee. org/elephantstories
Friday, Jan. 31 Alligator Program » 10-11 a.m. Lovers Key State Park, 8700 Estero Blvd., Fort Myers Beach. Join a park ranger for a talk about alligators. Included with regular admission fees: $8 for vehicle with 2-8 people, $4 for one person in a vehicle, $2 for pedestrians and cyclists. Reservations required. 239-4634588. Ghost Walk » 6:45 p.m. Koreshan State Park, 3800 Corkscrew Road, Estero. The history of the Koreshans comes to life as actors in period costumes guide you through the historic settlement. Enjoy a treat from a Koreshan recipe and watch the Fairbanks Morse diesel engine light up the night. Shows are every 15 minutes, last show starts at 8 p.m. January 31, February 1, 7 and 8. $25. friendsofkoreshan.org/ product/ghost-walk-tickets
Saturday, Feb. 1 ArtFest Fort Myers » 10 a.m.-5 p.m. February 1-2. Downtown Fort Myers waterfront. Work from national artists, entertainment and children’s art activities. Kids can buy art for $5, make art projects and more in the Publix Art Yard. Art Under 20 is an exhibit that features student artists. There’s also a street chalk area. Free admission. On Friday, January 31, there’s a limited opening night celebration, 6-9 p.m., with VIP area. artfestfortmyers.com Ave Maria Blues, Brews & BBQ » 12:30 p.m.-5:30 p.m. Ave Maria Welcome Center, 5076 Annunciation Circle, Immokalee. Live music, food trucks, children’s activities and a car show. Free admission. Free parking. 239-352-3903. avemaria.com/events The Great DuBois » 7:30-10 p.m. BIG Arts Center, 900 Dunlop Road, Sanibel. The Great DuBois: Masters of Variety is a fast-paced, high-energy two-person circus show for all ages. Michael DuBois and Viktoria Grimmy can also be seen in the 2017 film “The Greatest Showman.” bigarts.org The Screaming Orphans Outdoor Concert » 5:30 p.m. Alliance for the Arts, 10091 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers. Food and music that blends pop rock with traditional Irish music. $25 in advance, $35 at the gate, free for ages 12 and younger. Lawn chairs and blankets encouraged. No cooler. No pets.
Tuesday, Feb. 4 Homeschool Day: Uplands to the Sea » 9:30 a.m.-noon. Rookery Bay NERR and Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Road, Naples. Learn about marine science from the reserve’s educators. For grades 1-10. Regular admission is 45 for adults, $3 for ages 6-12, free for kids younger than 6. Registration required. 239-530-5940. rookerybay.org.
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Dr. David Butler is a pediatrician with Physicians’ Primary Care of Southwest Florida in the Fort Myers office, 9350 Camelot Drive, and the Lehigh Acres office, 5700 Lee Blvd., 239-481-0570. ppcswfl.com
The Picky Eater Dr. David Butler, a pediatrician and father who’s been there, offers a few tips.
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any people have encountered a child fitting the description of “picky eater.” Maybe you have a child who plays this role. Perhaps you are one of the parents I see who has pleaded, begged, bribed or bargained with their child to eat the food you have prepared. You might have even made airplane or train sounds trying to get one bite of food into your child’s mouth. I have been there as a parent, and I see many of you in the same predicament every day. Several manufacturers make supplemental drinks targeted for picky eaters. The advertising for these products is loaded with buzz words and phrases like “healthy” and “balanced diet.” I frequently use these drinks in my practice. However, I only recommend them for specific patients. It is anecdotal evidence, but most picky eaters I see have an appropriate height and weight for their age even though they have a horrible diet. These
are not the children who will benefit from the supplemental drinks. Most of these supplements contain more than 250 calories per 8 ounces. This is a huge excess of calories for a child with an already appropriate weight. These children need better foods instead of more calories. Some parents use these drinks as meal replacements for their children. This has the potential to make your child a “pickier” eater. These drinks are heavily sweetened and sometimes contain large amounts of sugar. By giving these supplements, we are giving in to our children with something sweet. They also lack important things a growing body needs from a well-balanced diet, such as fiber. Furthermore, these drinks are not marketed as meal replacements. The manufacturers state in their advertising they should not be used as meal replacements. What does a pediatrician and father of a picky eater ultimately recommend? First: patience. It can take several tries for a child to develop a taste for some
foods. Second: get your child involved. Make meals fun! Get your children to help prepare meals. Create your own food pyramid and let them make selections from each category to create a meal. Take your child to the grocery store and have them help you shop. Let them see the foods and how they are prepared. Include your child in meal preparation and serving the food. If you are going to reward your child’s eating habits, don’t reward with candy. Reward with healthy things, like going to the park or a trip to a museum. These not only give your child a good example but teach them how to make healthy choices as they get older. Also, don’t be afraid to consult your pediatrician, especially if you have concerns about weight or if your child is experiencing gastrointestinal symptoms. A picky eater is a challenge, but you are not alone. Remember, the habits you teach your child today influence their choices tomorrow.
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