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16 ask the expert Where can you find kids-eat-free deals in Southwest Florida?

20 in the kitchen Quick breads are an easy way to feel accomplished this holiday season

23 dining out Binto Thai offers fast casual in Bonita Springs

24 kid stuff Everglades Wonder Gardens reopens with new attractions

32 more ways to play outside Three new installations provide outdoor fun for families

35 Myles of inspiration He graced the Jumbotron in Times Square in New York City and he’s the namesake of a new nonprofit that aims to help families after a diagnosis of Down syndrome

Pickleball is growing in popularity among kids; here’s how to play

29 spotlight Frederick Massey, a Riverdale High student, talks about how an unexpected kidney transplant changed his life

editor’s note

our contributors

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me time

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40 snapshots

39 safety corner

47 around town

Tips to keep kids safe in the kitchen

48 calendar 50 last look

43 travel

26 teens

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What to expect at Walt Disney World Resort this holiday

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49 voices Junior Achievement takes lessons in financial literacy, work readiness and entrepreneurship online

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Myles Levy, of Lehigh Acres, is the inspiration for Myles’ Message, a new nonprofit that focuses on supporting families with a child diagnosed with Down syndrome. PHOTO BY AMANDA INSCORE

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Volume 21, Issue 11 Dedicated to serving the families of Lee and Collier counties 2442 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd. Fort Myers, FL 33901 swflparentchild.com Regional VP, Sales William R. Barker General Manager Kathryn Robinson Kinsey kathryn@swflparentchild.com Editor Pamela Smith Hayford (239) 335-0448 pamela@swflparentchild.com Art Director Lindi Daywalt-Feazel ldaywalt@gannett.com

Editorial Contributors Mike Braun, Angela Fisher, Randy Kambic, Noel Konken, Jean Le Boeuf, Anne Reed, Andrew Sodergren, Andrea Stetson Photographer Amanda Inscore Vice President/Advertising Sales Shawna Devlin Specialty Publications Team Coordinator Dennis Wright dennis@swflparentchild.com

A LITTLE INSPIRATION FOR 2020

his month, we bring you the stories of two amazing kids living here in Southwest Florida, one an infant who appeared on the Jumbotron in Times Square for Down syndrome awareness month and the other a high school football player whose future plans changed dramatically when he suddenly needed a kidney transplant. In this time of flux, this weird year called 2020, we can all look to these kids and their families for inspiration. Life didn’t go as planned for either one of them. When Myles’ mom, Maddie, was pregnant with him and she got the diagnosis, she had no idea what it meant. She was scared. But she pressed on. She took one step after another, researching, learning, and now she’s created a nonprofit to help other parents of children with Down syndrome. Frederick Massey was going to be a football star until his kidneys started to fail him, seemingly out of the blue. He had to have a kidney transplant over summer. Were there dark days? Yes. But did he give up? No. He’s working out again and talks about helping the football team in other ways, like extra motivation. And he talks about eventually participating in other sports. We’re all facing difficult times in one way or another this year. When you’re having a dark day or feeling down, look to Maddie, look to Frederick, and take heart that the future might not go exactly as you plan, but it will be what you make of it. PHOTO BY BRIAN TIETZ

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| contributors

APPAREL • SHOES • JEWELRY • DECOR & MORE!

eet the contributors to this issue of Southwest Florida Parent & Child magazine.

Michael Braun • Myles’ Message

• Michael Braun writes for The News-Press, part of the USA Today Network. He’s a dad, a grandfather and proud owner of a collection of Star Wars movie stills and the blueprints for the starship Enterprise.

Angela Fisher • Voices • Angela Fisher is the president and CEO of Junior Achievement of Southwest Florida. She has a passion for providing opportunities for youth and assisting in building a better community for the region. Randy Kambic • 3 Ways to Play

C O M P A N Y

Outside • Contributing writer Randy Kambic covers a variety of topics, including travel. He was a writer and a public relations executive in the New York area for about 25 years before moving here in 2007. He has written for Gulfshore Life, Gulfshore Business, Times of the Islands magazines, Natural Awakenings magazine and The NewsPress. He enjoys tennis, the outdoors and the people of Southwest Florida.

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Noël Konken • In the Kitchen • Noel Konken, a registered dietitian, is a clinical pediatric dietitian at Golisano Children’s Hospital of Southwest Florida.

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Jean Le Boeuf • Dining Out • Jean Le

Boeuf is the pseudonym used by a local food lover who dines at restaurants anonymously and without warning, with meals paid for by The News-Press and Naples Daily News. Follow the critic at facebook.com/jeanleboeufswfl or @ JeanLeBoeuf on Twitter and Instagram.

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writer, wife, runner, mother of three and dogmom of two. Originally from the Midwest, she lives in Estero and loves watching the wildlife in her backyard.

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Looking for something to do? Our website has plenty of ideas. There’s our calendar and list of attractions, but we also have lists of ways kids can continue to learn at home and features about local organizations hosting online events and activities.

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ROAD TRIP SAVIORS Make your next road trip a little less chaotic and a little more enjoyable with these recommendations from Reviewed.com.

STAY CHARGED • If your car doesn’t have a USB port, you’ll need a way to keep your phone powered up when on the road. This car charger from Anker has over 9,000 rave reviews. It can charge two phones at once yet sits flush with your dashboard. It’s also made with scratch-resistant metal. $9.99 at Amazon.com.

RUN A TIDY SHIP • Road trips come with lots of stuff. Keep it all organized with these genius pockets. The ULEEKA organizer slips right over your headrests. Reviewers rave that they have plenty of space for all their essentials and that they’re wellmade. $21.99 on Amazon.com.

GET HOOKED • Keep your purse or grocery tote from tipping over at every turn with these headrest hangers from IPELY. They have over 7,000 reviews thanks to how sturdy and easy-to-install they are. Just flip them under the headrest when not in use. $7.95 for a 2-pack on Amazon.com.

FOLLOW YOUR NOSE • Kids stink. Especially on a road trip. Solution: this essential oil travel diffuser by InnoGear. It sits in the cupholder and plugs into the USB port. Shoppers say it’s tiny but mighty (i.e. it’s powerful enough to cover up odors) and they like that it’s easy to swap out the oils. $19.99 on Amazon.com.

DATE NIGHT

• Set the mood for romance with a stroll through the Edison and Ford Winter Estates as elegant Christmas lights twinkle in the night all around you. Yes, the Estates is great to visit with the kids, but it can also be a romantic evening with just you and your honey. The Estates is open 5:30 to 9 p.m. for Holiday Nights, starting Friday, November 27.

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ROAD TRIP READY These great finds will keep the kids comfortable and entertained the whole way. We hope. KEEP IT ORGANIZED

• This travel tray from LillyCrafted helps keep play organized — and all those pieces from falling to the floor, eliciting that dreaded “Moooooommm!” from the backseat. Numerous pockets are great for storing electronics, drawing supplies and other items. $35.49 on Amazon.com.

NAP IN COMFORT • It’s

all fun and games until someone falls asleep. Leeroy the Lion travel pillow from Yondi connects under the chin to keep little heads from bobbing forward. It also has a Trunki Grip to attach a favorite blanket. $15.99 at trunki.com.

ENGAGE AN AMAZING PUZZLE • This

SAY ‘NO’ TO BOREDOM • The Unbored Travel Kit keeps kids busy with games and activities, like car bingo and memory challenges. There’s a book light for night games, a map with stickers to track your route, recipes for snacks to pack before the trip and a cinch bag to keep it all together. Recommended for ages 8 and older. $29.95 at mindware. orientaltrading.com.

should keep the kids busy a while. The Amaze maze from Think Fun changes every time you play thanks to shifting pathways. Plus, there are no pieces to lose. It’s a great solo activity in the car. Recommended for ages 8 and older. $11.99 on Amazon.com.

EMBRACE THE CLINGY • Windows become a play surface when Squigz are on board.

These little suckers, made of food-grade silicone rubber, suction together or to a nonporous surface and give a satisfying pop when pulled apart. Assemble them to create a rocket, jewelry, vehicles — whatever the imagination conjures. Add Squigz Toobz for even more fun. For ages 3 and older. Squigz starter kit is $25.95 at fatbraintoys.com.

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Ever wish you could bring home the children’s museum exhibits? The Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples now offers classroom STEAM kit rentals for schools, groups and families to use at home or in class. Designed for students from prekindergarten to fourth grade, the easy-to-transport kits help teachers, parents and group leaders delve deep into science, technology, engineering, art and math. They’re designed to be used by up to 20 children at once, but also work well for home schools. All kits are sanitized before each rental. The cost starts at $35 for one day, $50 for two days, up to $95 for five days. Get details at cmon.org.

IMAG REVIVES ICONIC

SNACK HOUSE

Bright Day Big Blocks STEAM Kit

randparents can experience a taste of nostalgia with their grandkids in the latest addition to the IMAG History and Science Center in Fort Myers. In late October, the center was busy turning its café into a snack bar-size version of the iconic Snack House, which graced downtown Fort Myers from 1949 to 1993. The original 1950s sign has been refurbished, there’ll be memorabilia on exhibit and a whole lot of tradition. The museum is open noon to 7 p.m. Fridays, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturdays and noon to 5 p.m. Sundays.

WELCOME 2021 WITH A CALENDAR THAT BENEFITS LOCAL ENVIRONMENTAL PROJECTS The 2021 “Leave the Scene Clean” calendar from Keep Lee County Beautiful is now available — to buy individually or as a school fundraiser. This year, the calendar features some of the best student artwork submitted over the past 30 years. You can have one delivered to you by visiting klcb.org/ leave-the-scene-clean-calendar.html. The calendar is $3, plus shipping of $3. Public, private and home schools looking to raise money for environmental projects with the calendars can email tisha@klcb.org or call 239-334-3488.

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PHOTOS SPECIAL TO SW FL PARENT & CHILD

BRING THE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM TO YOU

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FISH ART CONTEST PUTS CALL OUT FOR CREATIVE KIDS

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The Florida Fish and Wildlife Conservation Commission and Wildlife Forever have opened the Florida State-Fish Art Contest to students in grades K-12. Winners will be selected from four age categories. State winners get prizes and advance to the national level. Entries must include a 9-by-12 piece of art that features any fish from the Official Fish List and, for grades 4-12, one written page about the fish. Deadline to enter is March 31, 2021. Get details and entry form at statefishart.org.

STROLL ALONG A VIRTUAL PLANT TRAIL The J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge on Sanibel Island debuted its newest Plant ID on the Go virtual vegetation trail in October. QR codes placed along Wildlife Drive, Indigo Trail, Baily Tract and the Perry Tract can be scanned with a mobile device to learn more about the plant life on the trail. Learn more at dingdarlingsociety.org/ articles/ding-at-home. TOP RIGHT: A beach bean flower on the J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge’s Perry Tract adjacent to Gulfside City Park. • BOTTOM RIGHT: Shiny-leaved wild coffee on Wildlife Drive at the J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge on Sanibel Island.

SHUTTER BUGS INVITED TO CAMERA CLUB The Fort Myers Camera Club welcomes photographers of all skill levels and ages (as long they can work a camera) to their meetings the first and third Friday each month from November 7 to April 9. The Zoom meetings feature speakers, instruction, critiquing images and competitions. The club also does socially distanced outings. Annual membership is $30. Get details at ftmyercc.com.

NEW CHARTER SCHOOL ANNOUNCES LOCATION The Naples Classical Academy, a new K-12 charter school, announced the location for its campus, expected to open in time for the next school year. The Optima Foundation is building the school at 10270 Immokalee Road, just east of Collier Boulevard in North Naples. The $20 million campus is to be two stories tall with 70,000 square feet of space. The academy follows a curriculum that uses explicit phonics and grammar, classic literature and the Socratic method of instruction. The firstround applications are due December 31, 2020. For details, visit naplesclassical. org.

NEW DENTAL OFFICE OPENS IN GOLDEN GATE Healthcare Network expanded its pediatric dental care program to the Nichols Community Health Center in October. The Healthcare Network pledges to not deny care based on insurance or income. It accepts Medicaid and offers a sliding fee scale for qualified patients.

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| ask the expert

WHERE

KIDS

EAT FREE These Southwest Florida restaurants offer kids-eatfree deals (or nearly free).

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or many families, budgets are even tighter this year, so it can be helpful to know where and when to get free kids’ meal deals when dining out. We updated our annual list of area restaurants that offer free (or nearly free) kids’ meal specials. If

you know of one that’s not listed, email us at editor@swflparentchild.com. As we learn of more, we’ll add them to our list online at swflparentchild.com.

APPLEBEE’S For locations, visit applebees.com. » On Sundays, kids’ menu meals for ages 12 and younger are $1.99. May vary by location.

BEEF ‘O’ BRADY’S 7385 Radio Road, Naples; 239-348-2100 beefobradys.com » Kids’ meals are $1.99 all day on Tuesdays.

BOB EVANS Locations include Cape Coral, Fort Myers, Naples and Port Charlotte. For details, visit bobevans.com. » Kids eat free every Tuesday after 4 p.m. with purchase of adult entrée. Dine in only.

BUBBA’S ROADHOUSE & SALOON 2121 S.W. Pine Island Road, Cape Coral; 239-282-5520 bubbasroadhouse.net » Kids 10 and younger eat free from

» Kids 10 and younger eat free from the kids’ menu 4 to 10 p.m. Tuesdays (days may vary by location) with the purchase of an adult entrée at participating locations. Limit two kids’ meals per adult entrée purchase.

the kids’ menu on Mondays. Find terms and kids’ menu online under Daily Specials link. Limit of two kids’ meals per adult entrée purchase.

BURGERFI 16441 Corporate Commerce Way, Fort Myers; 239-703-7851 1514 Immokalee Road, North Naples; 239-631-5647 12712 Tamiami Trail E., Naples; 239331-3606 6881 Daniels Parkway, south Fort Myers; 239-215-9870 burgerfi.com » Every Tuesday, kids 12 and younger eat free from the kids’ menu with purchase of adult meal.

DUFFY’S SPORTS GRILL 13721 S. Tamiami Trail, south Fort Myers; 239-590-8631 627 Cape Coral Parkway W., Cape Coral; 239-205-6771 21253 Stoneybrook Golf Blvd., Estero; 239-301-0944 (This location is temporarily closed due to COVID-19) duffysmvp.com » Kids eat free every Wednesday with the purchase of an adult meal.

BURNTWOOD TAVERN Mercato, 9110 Strada Place, North Naples; 239-631-8964 burntwoodtavern.com/naples » Kids eat free on all day on Mondays.

DENNY’S 9340 Marketplace Road, Fort Myers; 239-768-5488 dennys.com

HURRICANE GRILL & WINGS 6345 Naples Blvd., Naples, 239-513-9900 756 S.W. Pine Island Road, Cape Coral; 239-800-3141 hurricanewings.com » Kids 12 and younger eat free on Saturdays all day with purchase of an adult meal.

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MILLER’S ALE HOUSE 4400 Kernel Circle, Fort Myers; 239-931-4160 Gulf Coast Town Center, 10065 Gulf Center Drive, Fort Myers; 239-461-9334 6320 Hollywood Blvd., Naples; 239591-0125 millersalehouse.com » One free kids’ meal per adult entrée purchase on Tuesdays. For ages 12 and younger. Dine-in only.

MOE’S SOUTHWEST GRILL For locations, visit moes.com. » Kids eat free Sundays with the purchase of an adult combo meal (includes queso or guacamole and a drink). One free kids’ meal per adult combo purchased. May vary by location.

NICK & STELLA’S FAMILY SPORTS PUB 15271 McGregor Blvd., south Fort Myers; 239-466-9493 nickandstellas.com » On Tuesdays, kids 12 and younger eat free from the kids’ menu.

PERKINS For locations, visit perkinsrestaurants. com. » Varies by location but usually kids 12 and younger eat free 4 to 10 p.m. on Tuesdays with the purchase of one adult entree. Call your local Perkins for details.

» Kids 4 and younger get a free piece of chicken and fries with an adult meal purchase.

RUBY TUESDAY 9001 Park Royal Drive, Fort Myers, 33908; 239-267-8988 rubytuesday.com. » After 5 p.m. on Tuesdays, one free kids’ entrée with one adult entrée purchased. Participation varies by location.

SHRIMP SHACK 13361 Metro Parkway, Fort Myers; 239-561-6817 shrimpshackusa.com » Kids 10 and younger eat for $2.99 Monday and Wednesday with the adult purchase of a regularly priced entree. Beverage not included.

SKYLINE CHILI

For locations, visit pinchersusa.com. » Kids younger than 12 get one free kids’ menu entrée per adult entrée ordered (minimum purchase of $14.99). Valid at all locations.

5100-323 S. Cleveland Ave., Fort Myers; 239-278-3929 710 Ninth St. N., Naples; 239-6495665 skylinechili.com » Kids eat free on Thursdays, 4 p.m. to close, with purchase of an adult meal.

RIB CITY

STEAK ‘N SHAKE

For locations, visit ribcity.com.

Locations in Cape Coral, Fort Myers,

PINCHERS

Naples and Port Charlotte. For details, visit steaknshake.com. » No longer offers a kids-eat-free deal; however, the restaurant now offers free fries to everyone, no minimum purchase required.

STEVIE TOMATO’S SPORTS PAGE 9510 Marketplace Road, Fort Myers; 239-939-7211 814 S.W. Pine Island Road, Cape Coral; 239-573-7877 15215 Collier Blvd., Naples; 239-3524233 stevietomato.com » On Wednesdays, Kids 12 and younger eat free with adult meal purchase. Details vary by store.

TEXAS ROADHOUSE 8021 Dani Drive, south Fort Myers; 239-561-7427 6815 Collier Blvd., Naples; 239-4171111 New location: 3005 Terracap Way, Estero; 239-256-2290 texasroadhouse.com » At the Fort Myers location, kids’ meals are half off on Tuesdays. In Naples, kids’ meals are half off with free dessert and activity on Mondays. The Estero location has kids’ meals for $1.99 on Tuesdays. All are with the purchase of an adult entrée.

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GIVE THANKS FOR

QUICK

BREADS You don’t have to be a seasoned baker to join the quarantine bread-baking craze. And you don’t need yeast.

BY NOËL KONKEN

Find a rec ipe for Bana na Bread on page 22.

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ith more time on our hands during quarantine, households have resorted back to reviving traditional skills: crocheting, vegetable gardening, jigsaw puzzles and of course baking. My friends and neighbors seem to have transformed into artisan bakers overnight. I’ve seen it all. Focaccia that looks like it could

FAST FACTS

Quick breads are any baked item that uses a chemical leavening agent, such a baking powder or soda, instead of yeast or eggs. The name speaks for itself. Quick breads can be made in a jiffy and do not require long rising times. Their recipes typically include flour, fat, liquid, sweetener and a leavening agent. Quick breads include (but are not limited to): • Loaf breads (like banana and zucchini bread)

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• Muffins • Cornbread • Biscuits • Scones • Pancakes • Cookies

hang on a museum wall. Or sourdough starters treated like the new family pet. But me? I never could quite master the skill or patience required to create that perfectly crusted, golden bread loaf. The true unsung hero in my personal boulangerie these past few months has been the consistent, the versatile, and the comforting quick bread. Quick breads allow a greater

margin of error, which means they offer more creativity, flexibility and different skill levels — including young bakers. And let’s be honest, nothing else quite welcomes us to the holiday season like the warm aroma of pumpkin spice or apple cinnamon muffins rising in the oven. So let’s lose the yeast and not stress this holiday season while baking delectable quick breads to share.

MIXING MAGIC MUFFIN METHOD: Uses liquid fat, such as melted butter or oil. First mix the dry ingredients together separately from the wet ingredients in two bowls. Promptly add the liquid ingredients to the dry ingredients and stir until just combined. Do not overmix; the batter should appear slightly lumpy. Use this method when you desire a soft, cake-like texture for loaf breads, cornbread, muffins or pancakes. BISCUIT METHOD: Uses fat

that is chilled. First cut the fat into the flour prior to adding any liquid ingredients. You can use a pastry cutter or your hands to break the fat into small bits. Use this method when you desire a flakey texture for scones or biscuits. CREAMING METHOD: Uses fat that is softened at room

temperature. First combine and beat the sugar with the fat to incorporate air prior to adding any additional ingredients. Use this method when you desire a rich, tender texture for cake, cookies or shortbreads.

HASTY HEALTH HACKS While it is always OK to indulge in some of our favorite holiday baked treats, experimenting with some simple substitutions to make our batters, well, better for us are fun ways to experiment in the kitchen. It is recommended before making nutritious substitutions to

start with a recipe you’ve had previous success with for the best product. • Substitute up to half of the flour with whole wheat four to add more fiber. • Reduce the sugar by a quarter — most of the time you can’t tell the difference. • Replace half the fat with

a lower-calorie and more nutritious alternative such as applesauce, Greek yogurt or canned pumpkin. • Use miniature chocolate chips and limit to nearly half the amount to still get the fulfillment of rich chocolate scattered throughout.

Noël Konken, a registered dietitian, is a clinical pediatric dietitian at Golisano Children’s Hospital of Southwest Florida.

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RECIPE:

Noel’s Famous Banana Bread

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INGREDIENTS • 4 ripe bananas • ½ cup brown sugar • ½ cup granulated sugar • ½ cup Greek yogurt • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract • ½ cup vegetable oil • 2 cups flour (can substitute ½-1 cup with whole wheat flour) • 1 teaspoon baking soda • ¼ cup mini chocolate chips DIRECTIONS 1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. 2. Grease the inside of a loaf pan and set aside. 3. In a large bowl, mash the bananas. Add sugar, yogurt, vanilla and oil. Mix well. 4. In a separate bowl, mix the flour and baking soda together. 5. Add the banana mixture to the dry ingredients until just combined. 6. Gently fold in the chocolate chips. 7. Promptly pour mixture into the prepared pan and bake for 50-60 minutes.

PROMPT PROBLEM-SOLVING BITTER, SOAPY TASTE: Too much baking powder or soda, or it was not adequately combined with ingredients. • Fast fix: Sift the leavening agent with dry ingredients.

TOO DENSE: This could be caused by the batter not getting cooked immediately, a damaged leavening agent or overmixing. • Fast fix: Place batter in oven more quickly, store leavening agents in a dry,

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temperature-controlled environment, mix only until just combined. CRUST IS TOO THICK: Too much sugar or low oven temperature. • Fast fix: Adjust the

sweetener in your recipe, adjust to higher oven temperature. TOUGH TEXTURE: Overmixing. • Fast fix: Mix only until just combined.

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FAST-CASUAL THAI FOOD?

At the new Binto Thai restaurant in Bonita Springs, Thai food gets the fastcasual treatment. And our critic says: Why not? | BY JEAN LE BOEUF

felt a brief disconnect walking into Binto Thai. The Bonita Springs restaurant looked like a juice bar or a homier version of Chipotle. A chalkboard of daily specials hung on the left wall, listing curries and soups and something called “heavenly beef.” It overlooked a handful of simple tables and a counter lined with bottles of fish sauce and samples of soft drinks. Behind that counter, a masked cook appeared and disappeared behind sizzling clouds of steam. I couldn’t see what he or she was doing, but I could smell it: garlic, ginger, the tingle of chili peppers. My mouth watered. I began to connect the dots. Fast-casual Thai food? My interest had been piqued, as had my appetite. A server in a mask and face shield emerged from the kitchen, holding menus in her gloved hands, smiling brightly with her eyes. “Are you two here for dine-in or takeout?” she asked my friend and me. I looked around at the empty dining room, then glanced at the tables outside simmering in the soggy afternoon heat. I shrugged at my friend. She shrugged back. Our way of saying, “Eh. Why the heck not?” We chose to dine in, for the first time in a very long time. “Welcome to Binto Thai,” the server said. Binto opened in late February, back when the world seemed slightly less terrifying. The restaurant bills itself

BINTO THAI 28811 S. Tamiami Trail, No. 4, Bonita Springs • Opened: late February • Price: Average dinner entree is less than $15 • Call: 239-676-8683 • Web: bintothai.com • Hours: 11 a.m.-3 p.m., 5-8 p.m. Monday-Friday; noon-3 p.m., 5-8 p.m. Saturday; closed Sunday • Etc.: Beer and wine served; online ordering for takeout; delivery via Grubhub

as a Thai-style “street food cafe,” a subtle distinction that shows in dishes of tom sum salad made with crunchy matchsticks of papaya; in rich kow soi, a curried noodle soup from northern Thailand; and in a dessert of silky mango and sticky rice laced with coconut cream. If you’ve grown accustomed to the same handful of Thai dishes (I’m guilty of ordering far too many rounds of pad thai and panang curry as my takeout standards), then Binto is a delicious way to expand your Thailand horizons. Or don’t. My pad thai was wonderful, its tender noodles fragrant with scallions and tangy lime. My panang curry (listen, some habits are hard to break) was great, too, the slight heat of its chilies softened by lush coconut milk. From there, I expanded, with that tom sum salad bursting with juicy tomatoes and the soft crunch of peanuts,

with tom kha soup bright with galangal, with orders of garlic-ginger rice and of savory, comforting pad see ew crafted with broad noodles and soysauce laden gravy. Binto offers a classic Thai iced tea clouded with sweet plumes of condensed milk. Lunch meals start with the soup of the day and little vegetablestuffed egg rolls. And every Binto meal ought to start with the aforementioned “heavenly beef,” strips of flank steak sauteed till their outsides are chewycrisp, their insides marvelously tender. Binto serves this ½-pound nest of meat with a side of its rice-vinegar slaw. It’s a killer combination that takes you far away from this world, if only for a few bites. Our dishes came out quickly, as did a later takeout order. While the restaurant has a fast-casual setup, our server took care of us just as a sit-down server would, refilling drinks, clearing plates, bringing boxes for leftovers. Fast-casual restaurants have been the fastest growing sector of the restaurant industry in recent years. In the age of COVID-19, they appear to have cemented their place in our collective palates, promising convenience and food that’s a step up from paperwrapped burgers and fries. We’re used to fast-casual sandwich joints, fast-casual burrito spots, even fast-casual sushi. Why not fast-casual Thai food? Especially if it’s as good as Binto Thai.

Jean Le Boeuf is the pseudonym used by a local food lover who dines at restaurants anonymously and without warning, with meals paid for by The News-Press and Naples Daily News. Follow the critic at facebook.com/jeanleboeufswfl or @JeanLeBoeuf on Twitter and Instagram.

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WHAT’S NEW AT THE EVERGLADES

WONDER GARDENS? The Bonita Springs attraction reopens with an array of new exhibits, including a lorikeet aviary where visitors can feed the colorful birds. | BY ANDREA STETSON

Kai Williams, 8, Joey Gorman, 4, Ara Gorman, 2, and Kieran Williams, 4, feed the lorikeets at the Everglades Wonder Gardens in Bonita Springs.

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ozens of colorful lorikeets waddle along a branch and then swoop down to land on a guest’s head. These friendly creatures examine sunglasses, cellphones and hair as they climb on shoulders, arms and heads. The Everglades Wonder Gardens recently reopened with an array

of new interactive exhibits. One of the most popular is the lorikeet aviary. Guests can walk through the lorikeet habitat and purchase little cups of nectar for the birds to eat. Bright blue, orange, yellow and green feathers make these friendly birds look like a painted picture. “This is awesome,” said Kai Williams, 8, as he fed the lorikeets on a recent visit. “It’s so great,” added his mother, Sarah Williams. “This whole place is amazing.” Ara Gorman, 2, was scared at first and put her cup of nectar on the ground. But after a few minutes, she bravely walked over to the colorful birds to feed them. “It’s fun,” she said. The attraction in Bonita Springs also added a honeycreepers habitat. Honeycreepers are another colorful bird that’s smaller than the lorikeet. Their aviary is expected to open to visitors this month (November), and like the lorikeets, guests will be allowed to walk through. That’s just the beginning. There’s also a relatively new teahouse and a butterfly and orchid pavilion. The flamingo area has a new waterfall and beach. The peacocks had babies this summer and the little ones are now strutting around. Both the flamingos

and the peacocks wander loose throughout the gardens and can be fed by guests, giving people close-up interactions. People can also feed the alligators from a distance. “The peacocks are great,” says Zawi Borsa, the gardens’ event manager. “They have babies right now. In November they will be medium size. There is interaction with birds like Casey, who talks and interacts and dances. Sometimes Buddha the iguana walks back and forth with the kids. He will move his head and nod at them. Peanut and the other parrots are so funny.” The Everglades Wonder Gardens also has tortoises, an array of other birds, snakes and reptiles. “I think there are learning experiences around every corner,” says David Webb, executive director. “It is perfect for social distancing. It is a very safe place to visit. This is a perfect opportunity to provide a safe space for families.” Zawi says the new teahouse gives the bonus of hosting special events, including baby showers, weddings and birthday parties. “We have a lot of kids’ parties in there,” she says, “and it is very competitive with other places. For two hours, it is $200 for 20 people, and you can bring your own food. That includes the access to the entire place. It is like an educational birthday party, and it is outdoors, which is better with the whole COVID thing.”

“I think there are learning experiences around every corner. It is perfect for social distancing. It is a very safe place to visit. This is a perfect opportunity to provide a safe space for families.” — DAVID WEBB, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR.

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BEC MING A PICKLEBALL POWERHOUSE As the game grows in popularity, Southwest Florida teens are picking it up and taking home the gold. | BY ANDREA STETSON

Morgan Brown, 13, practices pickleball at Veterans Community Park in Naples. Morgan plays in tournaments, takes lessons and practices after school.

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ickleball isn’t just for retirees. It’s a sport that’s gaining momentum among children and teenagers, too. Many local teens have become so proficient at the sport that they are winning medals in tournaments around Florida and the nation. Morgan Brown, 13, of Naples, has been playing pickleball for three years. She has numerous medals, including ones from the national championships in Palm Springs, California, and the Southern Tropics Tournament in East Naples. She began playing at age 10 be-

Jorja Johnson and Morgan Brown stand on top of the podium wearing their gold medals after winning the women’s 3.5 division at the Southern Tropics Tournament in East Naples in March.

cause her mom and other family members were enjoying the sport. “I would play with my family a little bit because my family was obsessed with it,” Morgan says. “But I had no hand-eye coordination then.” She wasn’t serious about the sport until a player was injured at one of her mom’s tournaments. “I would always go to my mom’s tournaments, and then one day someone fell on the courts and then someone asked me to play,” Morgan says. “If that person didn’t fall, I never would have gotten to play.” That first tournament sparked a greater interest for Morgan. She began taking lessons, joining youth clinics and spending hours practicing. “I used to play every day in the mornings, but now because of school, I don’t play as much,” she admits. “Homework takes up so much of my time.” Still Morgan manages to get in some practice and win games — and even place among the top players in tournaments. In November 2019, she medaled in Junior Girls Singles and Junior Girls Doubles at the USA Pickleball National Championships in Palm Springs, California. In early March, she and partner Jorja Johnson won gold at the 3.5 level in Women’s Doubles in the Southern Tropics Tournament at East Naples Community Park. Jorja, 14, won another gold medal in October at the 3.5 level in the Texas Open Pickleball Championships. Jorja has been playing for three years and was introduced to the sport by a friend. “I just think that anyone can pick it up,” Jorja says. “I think anybody can play it, not necessarily at a high level, but you can just pick up games and

you don’t have to schedule. I like pickleball because I get to play with all my friends and meet so many new people. It’s just great. I love it.” Jorja practices about three times a week for three hours at a time. “It depends on how much homework I have,” she says. The tournament in Texas was the first time Jorja had competed in singles. With the pandemic, many tournaments are keeping people separated by having only singles divisions. “This is my first time playing a singles tournament, but I really liked it. I thought it was fun,” she says. Morgan says she prefers playing doubles. “I play singles just for fun and I played at nationals, but it is not my favorite thing to do,” Morgan says. “I like doubles better. If you get mad, you have someone to cheer you up.” Yet just being on the court is cheery for Morgan. “I don't like running, so it doesn't require a lot of running,” she says. “It is more fun than tennis. I like the paddle better. I have more control when I hit the ball soft rather than hard. You can meet so many different people. It is such a social game.” Morgan especially likes dinking the ball gently into the court’s kitchen area. “Dinking is so much easier than banging,” she says. “Banging, the ball usually will come back faster. So you have to have fast hands for that. The dinking is having the control, getting it where you want, getting it low enough, getting it where they can’t attack it.” Morgan is now rated as a 4.0 player. Getting there took a lot of work. She does cardio exercises, sideways running sprints and she watches a lot of pickleball videos.

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“She (her instructor) makes me do cardio,” Morgan says. “I don’t like that, but it has definitely helped me. Going side to side on the courts has definitely helped me. And if it hits the nets and rolls down, you have to be able to get that ball.” Those strategies help her when she plays for fun and during tournaments. Morgan enjoys competing but says tournaments can be stressful at first. “When you first get there and you see everyone there, I get nervous at first,” Morgan admits. “Once I am warmed up, I am fine. I am playing for fun.” She also gets help from her dad, despite his death several years ago. “When I do get nervous,” she says, “I just think of my dad because he al-

ways calms me down, like he is watching over me.” Morgan’s mother, Sharon, loves that her daughter plays pickleball. “It gets them out of the house and off the computers and it is something you can do as a family,” she says. “Moms and dads play, and some grandparents play, so the whole family can play together. It is a good wholesome sport and we just enjoy it.” Justin Oster, 14, of Naples, has been playing pickleball for four years and has also competed in tournaments. “I like playing with other people,” he says. “You improve your athletic skills. It’s now the fastest growing sport in the states. It is a fun overall game.” Morgan has some tips for teens who want to play.

“Stay positive,” she says. “If you get down on yourself, you play horrible the rest of the game, which I learned the hard way. Everything is difficult, but it is also easy.” The teenagers all recommend pickleball to other teens. “I would tell them to play because it is fun and it gets them outside and it is not a hard game to learn,” Morgan explains. “It is a hard game to get really good at, but once you get the aspect of hitting the ball over the net, it is really easy to learn.” “It’s just a great sport to pick up with your friends,” Jorja says. “It is fun to do especially since everything is closed down with the pandemic, but pickleball is open and you get lots of great exercise.”

WHAT IS PICKLEBALL?

Pickleball is a sport that combines elements of tennis, badminton and pingpong and is played both indoors and outdoors with a paddle and plastic ball with holes. History: Pickleball was invented in 1965 on Bainbridge Island near Seattle. Three dads invented the game for their bored children and named the sport after their dog. Court: The game is played on a court that is 44 feet long and 20 feet wide. There is a 7-foot nonvolley zone, called the kitchen, on either side of the 36-inch-high net.

HOW TO PLAY: • Pickleball can be played as either singles or doubles, though doubles are much more popular. • Serve must be underhand and the ball must land diagonally crosscourt in the area between the non-volley zone and the baseline. • Points are only scored by the serving team.

• Games are normally played to 11 points, win by 2. • If a point is scored, the server switches sides and serves from that side. • When the first server loses the serve, the partner then serves. (The first serving side of the game has only the first server and when the point is lost the serve goes to the other side.) • The second server continues serving until their team loses the point and then the serve goes to the opposing team. • Once the service goes to the opposing team (at side out), the first serve is from the righthand court and both players on that team can serve and score points until their team commits two faults. • When the ball is served,

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the receiving team must let it bounce before returning, and then the serving team must let it bounce before returning, thus two bounces. • After the ball has bounced once in each team’s court, both teams may either volley the ball (hit the ball before it bounces) or play it off a bounce (groundstroke). • The two-bounce rule eliminates the serve and volley advantage and extends rallies. • The nonvolley zone is the court area within 7 feet on both sides of the net where volleying is prohibited. This rule prevents players from executing smashes from a position within the zone. • A dink is a soft shot on a bounce. An effective dink arcs downward as it crosses the net creating a more difficult shot

to return. • An overhead smash is a hard, overhand shot directed downward into the opponent’s court, usually as a return of an opponent’s lob, high return or high bounce. • A lofted shot sends the ball high overhead and deep. • The drop is a soft shot hit off a bounce from deep in the court, intended to land in the opponent’s kitchen preferably close to the net. • Groundstrokes are typically the most powerful and most accurate shot, therefore, the most used from at or near the baseline. • Volleys are a ball hit in the air before it bounces onto the court. • If you lose 11-0 you have been pickled.

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Frederick Massey, 18, studies on his laptop at his Lehigh Acres home. Last November, he was diagnosed with kidney failure and had to go on dialysis for several months before receiving a kidney transplant from the Memorial Transplant Institute in Hollywood.

‘I WAS ALWAYS HEALTHY’

Riverdale High teen survives kidney failure, gets new lease on life after transplant. | BY ANDREW SODERGREN

eyonka Sapp couldn’t fathom what was happening to her son. Frederick Massey was a promising sophomore linebacker and safety for the Riverdale football team last fall — a healthy athlete with a seemingly bright future ahead of him. The trouble began subtly, as she began getting calls from school that

Frederick was falling asleep in class and didn’t want to do much work. “That was so unlike him,” she recalls. “His energy level and effort had always been so good.” He started losing his appetite and finally, the swelling started. “He had swelling all over his face and hands,” she says. “And his eyes were yellow and dilated. I knew I had to get him to the doctor.”

If Beyonka hadn’t gotten Frederick checked that day in December, he could have died. When he arrived in the emergency room, his blood pressure was 200 over 130, almost twice the normal of 120 over 80. “The first thing I did when I got to the hospital was pray to Jesus to please help my son,” she says. “I had no idea what was wrong with him and why this was happening.”

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Dr. Juan Arenas and the staff at Memorial Transplant Institute meet with kidney transplant recipient Frederick Massey following his July 25 surgery.

youngster’s demeanor before surgery, saying it served him well throughout the process. “He was a very tough kid, very stoic,” says Dr. Juan Arenas, head surgeon at Memorial Transplant Institute. “He came in and knew exactly what was going to happen. Some patients are very apprehensive or scared, especially people his age. He was all business, almost like ‘let’s get this done so I can get on with my life.’ He’s been very positive and has a supportive mom. They’ve both had a good attitude and outlook through everything.” Frederick’s surgeon said his longterm prognosis is positive. “If he takes care of himself with his diet and never stops his prescriptions, he easily can have these kidneys 25 to 30 years,” the doctor says. “If he stays obedient to the program, I expect him to do really well.” The news Frederick had a donor couldn’t have come at a better time. During the previous eight months, the frequent dialysis treatments were taking their toll. “The dialysis (treatments) took everything out of me,” he says. “I didn’t want to do anything, and I could barely move. The treatments kept me alive but

also were life-taking at the same time.” Beyonka marveled at her son’s strength but worried about his mental state. “There were days he didn’t want the blinds open,” Beyonka says. “Everything had to be dark. It definitely took a toll on him. How could it not?”

Football family Frederick was destined to be a Riverdale Raider. His older brother, Derek Sapp, was a linebacker for the 2018 squad that went 12-1 and won the Class 7A-District 12 title. “We’ve always looked out for Freddie,” Riverdale coach James Delgado says. “He was a talented player with a high ceiling, which is what you often see when you’ve got a younger brother who has an older brother on the team. Athletically, he could do a lot of different things — a tough and physical kid. If he didn’t have these health issues, he’d be contributing for us now on and off the field.” Frederick received some playing time as a sophomore, filling in at safety and linebacker. After his transplant, playing football would be too risky

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Frederick was diagnosed with atypical hemolytic uremic syndrome, a congenital disease amongst the rarest causes of kidney failure but more commonly seen among teenagers. The disease causes abnormal blood clots to form in small blood vessels in the kidneys. These clots can cause a myriad of health issues if they restrict or block blood flow — including kidney failure. The disease is often caused by a combination of environmental and genetic factors — including medications, chronic diseases, infections and a compromised immune system. “I was shocked when I found out,” Frederick says. “I didn’t know how this happened to me. I was always healthy. The doctors said I needed a new kidney and that I’d have to go on dialysis.” Frederick, 18, experienced grueling dialysis treatments three times a week for nearly eight months, sapping his energy and once steely resolve. But after a particularly draining 11-hour dialysis treatment in July, he and Beyonka got the call their family had been waiting for — Frederick was approved for a kidney transplant. He received his new kidney July 25 via Memorial Transplant Institute at the Joe DiMaggio Children’s Hospital in Hollywood, giving him a muchimproved long-term prognosis. The surgery was the milestone 100th kidney transplant performed by Memorial Transplant Institute since it opened in 2017. Beyonka says she was in constant contact with Grethchen Abdulreda, nurse practitioner and transplant coordinator at Memorial, about Frederick’s treatment plan. She often eased any concerns the family had regarding the surgery. “I can’t thank the team of doctors and nurses enough for all they did for my son in the months leading up to and especially during the surgery itself,” Beyonka says. “We couldn’t have asked for better care. We’re truly blessed.” Frederick’s surgeon lauded the

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according to his doctor. But that doesn’t mean he can’t play other sports. Dr. Arenas cited former Miami Heat star Alonzo Mourning and American Olympic gold medal-winning hurdler Aries Merritt as athletes who have come back to compete at a high level after a kidney transplant. “I wouldn’t recommend football for anyone with a kidney transplant, because you’re putting yourself at risk nearly every play since it’s such a high-contact sport,” Dr. Arenas says. “The transplant itself is very superficial, implanted in the groin … You’re risking exposure and damage to the kidney with repeated, direct contact.” The surgeon says Frederick could play other sports, especially citing track and field, swimming, basketball, soccer

and tennis as sports with much lower risks for damage than football. Just two months after his surgery, Frederick is working out again. He’s able to run and do some light weightlifting while he heals. That’s in stark contrast to the eight months of dialysis treatments where his energy level was almost non-existent. “For a while, I couldn’t do anything at all,” he says. “So being able to run and do push-ups, sit-ups, it feels good to be able to get back into shape. I feel like myself again.” He may not be able to play football anymore, but Frederick still loves the game and wants to stay around it once he gets the go-ahead for returning to school. Frederick has been relegated to hospital homebound for his education

this year as he recovers from surgery. “I’d love to help out the team any way I can,” he says. “Maybe help give them some extra motivation. I’m hoping I can do other sports like track and maybe basketball (next year).” His former coach says he’d love to have him around when he is healthy enough. “Freddie has taken all this in stride,” coach says. “I haven’t seen him in his lowest of lowest points, but any time I’ve talked to him he’s been nothing but positive. He may not be able to play football anymore, but he still wants to share his story and inspire people. He has a unique perspective and is wise beyond his years. He’s been given an incredible gift, and I know he’ll take advantage of it.”

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Andrew Sodergren writes about sports for the Naples Daily News, part of the USA Today Network. He’s been with the community paper since 2005, covering sports and news.

Frederick Massey, 18, lower center, poses for a portrait with some members of his family including, from left, Catherine Jones, grandmother, Trekessia Green, aunt, Precious Sapp, sister, Yolanda Toomer, aunt, Eric Sapp, brother, Beyonka Sapp, mother, Shyra Walker, step parent. Massey was a seemingly healthy teenager, playing as a sophomore safety/linebacker for the Riverdale High School football team. Last November, he was diagnosed with kidney failure and had to go on dialysis for several months before receiving a kidney transplant from the Memorial Transplant Institute in Hollywood. SOUTHWEST FLORIDA PARENT & CHILD » NOVEMBER 2020 » 31

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PLAY OUTSIDE These Southwest Florida attractions have new outdoor activities that beckon families to have fun. | STORY AND PHOTOS BY RANDY KAMBIC outhwest Florida teems with outdoor settings — parks, nature trails, natural preserves, beaches —affording parents many ways to experience fun activities with their children while following current health guidelines. Three area institutions recently installed new, outdoor, family, informative and entertaining attractions to add to our options.

THE WATER WALL

Installed over summer, three towering blue- and silver-colored connected sections imaginatively depict the Caloosahatchee River. It facilitates functional environmental restoration as it sweeps up water from the adjacent pond and filters it before allowing it to trickle back down to the bottom. The system serves plants and soil at the base of the dazzling structure before the water eventually makes its way to the river. “My hope is the Caloosahatchee Water Wall becomes a distinguishing work of art for the Alliance while also providing the larger community with an understanding of the interconnections between the very special natural water systems of the

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Caloosahatchee River as well as our responsibility to take on damaging environmental human impacts,” says Michael, who has studios in Delray Beach and Vermont and has earned numerous awards plus fellowships from the National Endowment for the Arts and the John Simon Guggenheim Foundation. The ArtsPark, which is free and open to the public to visit and explore, is one of many upgrades undertaken by the Alliance in the last couple of years, including new sidewalks and pathways, enhanced landscaping, LED lighting and painting of the main building, which houses many art gallery shows, classes — many currently being offered online due to the pandemic crisis — and special events. “The wall mirrors what we have been doing on the inside — using the arts to begin, amplify and continue conversations that explain complex issues in easy-to-understand ways,” says Executive Director Lydia Black. Location: 10091 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers • Details: 239-939-2787 or artinlee.org

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The Caloosahatchee Water Wall by acclaimed artist Michael Singer in the 10acre ArtsPark section of the Alliance for the Arts, in Fort Myers, provides a spectacular work of art to admire and an outdoor “classroom” that can inform and inspire onlookers of all ages to take their own positive actions in preserving water quality.

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FOSSIL HUNT

Along with its many indoor exhibits, displays, a 3D theater and virtual reality experience, the IMAG History & Science Center, in Fort Myers, is also well known for using its outdoor grounds to afford additional interactive learning and entertaining experiences for the entire family. A Caloosahatchee Fossil Hunt exhibit opened in mid-March; it had been in the works well before the pandemic hit. Visitors can purchase bags that contain soil and sediment unearthed from midden waste piles and shell heaps that naturally contain amber, fish vertebrae, shark teeth, coral, fossilized limestone and archaeological remains. In their quest for fossils, guests can empty their bag into a sluice tray, outfitted with a screened bottom, and place part of it into a long, narrow, trough-like channel with continually flowing water from a connected water tower. The process washes away soil and other loose sediment and reveals various fossil treasures. While showcasing the ancient relics and eliciting calls of “Eureka!” from youngsters, the activity informs about our area’s geology, biology, archaeology and natural history, aided by an informative fossil chart. “It’s like panning for gold,” says Richard Smith, a marketing executive with IMAG.

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“Besides being fun and exciting,” adds Shelby Baucom, IMAG’s deputy director, “the Caloosahatchee Fossil Hunt is educational in that it introduces children of all ages to discovering our past.” It complements other outdoor exhibits that include Backyard Nature, a walking path surrounded by native Florida plants; the Lake Okeechobee Caloosahatchee River Experience, which features a two-section aquarium of native and non-native fish, a display that demonstrates the operation of the river’s locks and a table for guests to build and launch their own tiny wooden boats; the Fisheye Lagoon, home to many varieties of birds, fish and turtles (along with tortoises on an adjacent patch of land) amidst the peaceful scenery; and Aquaponics, which displays the harmony of combining fish and conventional plant farming. The museum is open on a modified schedule and upholds health and safety guidelines. Location: 2000 Cranford Ave., Fort Myers • Details: 239-243-0043 or theimag.org.

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BIG GAME OF CHESS

Besides its many interactive and informational indoor exhibits, displays and activities, the Golisano Children’s Museum of Naples’ outdoor area, called the Johnsonville Backyardville, was expanded last year with the installation of a 9-square-foot, plastic-based chessboard. Along with gaining an understanding of the game, the large-scale play format allows participants to enhance their eyehand coordination in maneuvering the up-to-2-foot-high, lightweight, plastic chess pieces and their social skills. “Chess is a complex and strategic STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Art and Math) activity

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for sure, but with the addition of our oversized board, it becomes fun for the entire family,” says Beth Housewert, director of play and learning at the museum. “We love seeing even our youngest visitors playing and learning with our chess set. What may begin as a gross motor practice of lifting our large pieces (that are as big as some of our youngest visitors) over time will turn into a contemplative game filled with skill building including patience, strategy, competitiveness and fun.” Backyardville features many other activities including a hedge maze labyrinth (that “builds curiosity and practices problem solving by traveling through it,” according to Beth) that

features a surprise at its center, a water play area, an amphitheater for children to do either staged or impromptu “performances,” a chalkboard amidst an Art Abounding space, a rolling hill, a playground, climbing apparatus and more. Items at some of the recreational stations are swapped out and sanitized daily. In normal times, group events are organized on some of the pieces, but these have been curtailed due to the coronavirus crisis, and parents have been carefully letting their children use the areas more on an individual basis. Location: 15080 Livingston Road, Naples • Details: 239-514-0084 or cmon.org

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MYLESTONES Lehigh Acres little one sparks awareness for Down syndrome as mom launches local nonprofit to help families. BY MICHAEL BRAUN

Myles Levy is the namesake of Myles' Message, a nonprofit that aims to give families of Down syndrome children information and support. PHOTOS BY AMANDA INSCORE SOUTHWEST FLORIDA PARENT & CHILD » NOVEMBER 2020 » 35

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Myles Levy is one of 500 kids with Down syndrome featured in the National Down Syndrome Society 2020 Times Square Video.

yles Levy is as adorable a kid as you’d ever want to see. His natural cuteness, bright eyes and ubiquitous smile beamed on full display when the Lehigh Acres infant’s photo and those of more than 500 other children with Down syndrome flashed across the Jumbotron in Times Square in New York City as part of Down Syndrome Awareness Month in September. One-year-old Myles, the son of single mom Maddie Levy, 21, was among more than 2,000 submissions to the National Down Syndrome Society vying to be part of the organization’s Times Square video. “Overall, we’ve been super lucky,” says Myles’ grandmother, Lisa Levy, “He’s just the sweetest thing.”

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The Times Square video kicked off Down Syndrome Awareness Month during the NDSS New York City Buddy Walk. The timing couldn’t be more perfect. As Myles caught the attention of local media, Maddie had launched a nonprofit to help families get information and connection after a Down syndrome diagnosis: Myles’ Message. “My family and I searched a lot for these resources,” Maddie says. In October, Myles’ Message launched a website, mylesmessage. com, and Smallcakes in Fort Myers created the Myles Filled with Love cupcake to help raise money for the nonprofit. Maddie expects to have the group’s official 501(c)(3) status soon.

Maddie & Myles That Myles is loved and nurtured to the max is no secret at the Levy household. Maddie and her parents

have the little boy in their focus day and night. “Myles brought us all closer and made us better,” Lisa says. For every step he makes progress on, such as sleeping through the night or hitting age-appropriate functions, his mom makes a note. She calls those advances his “Mylestones.” “He’s doing great,” Maddie adds. “He’s sitting. He can’t crawl yet, but you put him down and he gets around. He rolls and scoots backwards. He’s very chill.” Myles goes to several therapies twice a week and takes part in a water safety lesson. “He loves the pool,” his mom says. “He doesn’t necessarily love the lessons.” Maddie’s introduction to her son was not something she feels the mother of a child with Down syndrome should have to experience and hopes creating the nonprofit will provide resources and help for parents like her.

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“I want to do something for other moms,” she says, “so they have a shoulder to lean on.” Maddie was on her first day on the job at a local day care center when she got a call about her pregnancy. “They told me he was a boy and he had Trisomy 21, at the same time,” she says. “I had no idea what that was.” “She called me in tears,” Lisa adds. Maddie says she knew absolutely nothing about Trisomy 21, which is one of three versions of the chromosome-based Down syndrome. “I never had anything in life that would connect me to that. It was just the fear of the unknown. ‘Oh, my gosh, what is wrong with my baby,’” she says. “I really thought they were calling me with a death sentence.” Lisa says her daughter was made to feel as if something was wrong. Maddie says she was constantly asked if she wanted to terminate her pregnancy. “It was never an issue. There’s nothing

that was going to change my mind,” she stresses. “Just because our babies have an extra chromosome doesn’t mean their lives aren’t worth living.” Maddie says her experience at first was very negative and it’s that mindset she would like change. She hopes creating Myles’ Message will be the venue. She is grateful for the dedication of her own pediatrician, Dr. Angela d’Alessandro, who is now Myles’ doctor. “She was very supportive,” Lisa says, adding that Dr. d’Alessandro gave her daughter the right words of encouragement during the pregnancy.

Myles’ Message Maddie sees Myles’ Message as helping form a community around families with a child who has Down syndrome, change the delivery diagnosis from doctors and caregivers, provide realistic expectations of raising a child with Down syndromes and offer accurate resources.

What is Down syndrome? In every cell in the human body, there is a nucleus, where genetic material is stored in genes. Genes carry the codes responsible for all our inherited traits and are grouped along rod-like structures called chromosomes. Typically, the nucleus of each cell contains 23 pairs of chromosomes, half of which are inherited from each parent. Down syndrome occurs when an individual has a full or partial extra copy of chromosome 21. This additional genetic material alters the course of development and causes the characteristics associated with Down syndrome. A few of the common physical traits of Down syndrome are low muscle tone, small stature, an upward slant to the eyes, and a single deep crease across the center of the palm — although each person with Down syndrome is a unique individual and may possess these characteristics to different degrees or not at all.

Maddie Levy plays with her son Myles, 1, at their Lehigh Acres home.

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She has an Instagram page, @mylesmessagenonprofit, with more than 3,000 followers, and a Facebook page, through which she is building support for the nonprofit group. On the nonprofit’s website, Maddie lists numerous resources for families with a child with special needs. “My family and I spent months looking for things just like these,” Maddie says of the resources. There’s also a moms’ panel available for support. She plans to eventually host luncheons or a moms’ night out, “just to get families together,” she says. The organization’s first project, The Imprint Project, aims to help medical care providers deliver news of a diagnosis that’s accurate and hopeful. Maddie’s team created a postcard for medical staff to give to families to help them find the information Maddie spent so much time seeking and researching. “We have begun our medical outreach and have been incredibly well received thus far,” Maddie tells us via email in October. “The words these professionals use at the time of a diagnosis are forever imprinted on a parent’s heart. I want those words to be hopeful.” Maddie recently graduated with an associate degree from Florida SouthWestern State College and plans to get an education degree, possibly special education, at Florida Gulf Coast University. But, for now, Myles is Maddie’s world and she plans to make sure his walk through it isn’t fraught with problems. “The moment Myles was born, and they put him on my chest,” she says, “I felt like I could take a deep breath and he was mine and nobody could tell me anything else.”

Michael Braun writes for The News-Press, part of the USA Today Network. Connect with him at MichaelBraunNP (Facebook), @MichaelBraunNP (Twitter) or mbraun@news-press.com. Pamela Hayford also contributed to this report. Journalism matters. Your support matters. Subscribe to The News-Press.

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RECIPE FOR SAFETY

Before you serve a Thanksgiving meal, it’s essential to serve up safety in the kitchen.

here’s nothing like spending time in the kitchen cooking a delicious meal for family and friends or an appetizing treat for yourself. But do you know the important steps to take long before anyone takes the first bite?

SAFETY RULES FOR THE GROWN-UPS • Teach your children to stay a safe distance from hot stoves and appliances. • Avoid carrying or holding a child while cooking on the stove. • Kids love to reach, so use the back burner of your stove. • Turn pot handles away from the edge. • Remind yourself to check on food frequently by using a timer, especially when baking or simmering. • Check to make sure appliance cords are coiled and away from counter edges. • Take an extra second to make sure hot foods are away from the edge of

your counters as well. • Stay close when you are using a grill or turkey fryer. • Wear short, close-fitting or tightly rolled sleeves when cooking. • Take a minute to test your smoke alarms. • Teach your kids how to cook safely.

SAFETY RULES FOR THE KIDS 1. Always ask an adult’s permission before cooking in the kitchen. This may seem obvious at first, but as your kids get more comfortable and independent in the kitchen they may forget to ask at times. 2. Wash your hands. Little hands often carry big germs. Clean hands are very important to food safety and should be the first step before touching any food or appliance. 3. Clean as you go. Cleaning spills and messes as you go will prevent slips and falls. Plus, it makes it easier to have a clean kitchen at the end. 4. Use a potholder or towel to

carry and hold hot items. Trying to handle hot plates, pots or appliances can cause burns or cause you to drop food on the floor. Try getting a colorful towel or potholder that is just for them so they will be excited to use it. 5. Practice good knife safety tips. Try using plastic to-go knives at the toddler age, then at the preschool and kindergarten years upgrade to more kid-friendly plastic knives. 6. Ask before you lick. Kids like to lick EVERYTHING — plates, spoons, their fingers (even the countertops — we don’t judge). To make sure they don’t consume raw ingredients that can make them sick, let your kids know that they have to ask before they can lick. 7. Listen, Listen, Listen. This really should be rules No. 1, 2 AND 3. Cooking with your kids is a great way to build listening skills and practice following directions. This is a great way to make sure they don’t harm themselves in moments of excitement because they touched something that may be hot, sharp or slippery.

Safe Kids is a nonprofit coalition of agencies and organizations dedicated to eliminating preventable childhood injuries. Visit safekidsswfl.org.

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GREAT SHOT • Soccer Shots Southwest Florida and Lipman Family Farms partnered up to bring the fundamentals of soccer and character development to children who attend Joseph H. Messina Children’s Center in Fort Myers. Lipman Family Farms provided a grant for the program. Soccer Shots provides the instruction. The Messina Center is part of the nonprofit Child Care of Southwest Florida. Photos Special to SW FL Parent & Child

HEAVENLY AUTUMN • Giuliana Gehring enjoys the fall setting at Naples Heavenly Evergreens pumpkin patch on Immokalee Road in North Naples. The farm is known for its pumpkin patch and Christmas trees. Photo by Mike Gehring, special to SW FL Parent & Child

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BRUCE T. GORA SCHOLARSHIP RECIPIENT • The Alliance for the Arts named Cypress Lake High School graduate Sydney Gabrielle Hudson this year’s Bruce T. Gora Scholarship recipient. Sydney hosted a guitar circle at summer arts camps and she studies music at Florida Gulf Coast University. Photo courtesy of Alliance for the Arts

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BACK IN THE SADDLE • The Naples Therapeutic Riding Center celebrated its reopening and the conversion of its Volunteer House from an open-air spot for observers to a climatecontrolled enclosure that still allows for viewing of the covered arena with a ribbon cutting in September. The renovation was made possible by a $25,000 grant from Arthrex. Photos special to SW FL Parent & Child

EXPLORING SOUTHWEST FLORIDA • The historic

Mound House on Fort Myers Beach reopened October 6, and the first group through the door was a dozen fourth and fifth graders from Summit Christian School in Fort Myers. The students learned about the Calusa through a tour and activities. Here, the students identify shells the ancient Calusa used to build the Mound House shell mound.

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SCOUTS IMPROVE PARK • Boy Scout Troop 110 installed four sets of hammock stands at Caloosahatchee Regional Park on October 3, as part of an Eagle Scout project. Photo by Edward J. Pelegrino, special to SW FL Parent & Child

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GOLD AWARD • Six Girl Scouts from Lee County earned the highest honor available to Girl Scouts, the Gold Award. The Gold

Award is earned by girls in grades 9-12 who demonstrate leadership in developing meaningful, sustainable solutions to local, national or global challenges. From left: Carolina Cicotte, of Fort Myers High, organized a program to build 20 boat stands for her school’s sailing club. • Isabella Ramirez’s project incorporated monthly bike and pedestrian safety events to teach adults and children how to safely share the road. Isabella is a student at Fort Myers High School. • Melissa Gonzales, of East Lee County High School, hosted a seminar that encouraged open and honest conversations about child sexual abuse, and she created an ongoing blog with resources for victims. • Recent Bishop Verot High School graduate Shavonne Schrikel created a short video to help a quadriplegic man share his story and inspire others. • Savannah Duff, of Fort Myers High, organized live musical performances at local memory care facilities after learning that listening to nostalgic music can help trigger the memory of Alzheimer’s and dementia patients. Photos courtesy of Girl Scouts of Gulfcoast Florida

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WHAT TO EXPECT AT

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The holiday fanfare at Florida’s beloved parks might look and function a bit differently this year, but the magic is still there. | BY ANNE REED

loridians are accustomed to holidays filled with sand instead of snow and swaying palms instead of decorated pine and fir trees. We rely on twinkling holiday light displays and the occasional chilly morning to rev up our holiday spirits. In previous years, our Midwest-transplant family traveled to Walt Disney World and immersed ourselves in Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party, complete with holiday cookies and lights, parades of

wooden soldiers with shoes clacking on the asphalt, and snow. OK, it’s not snow; it’s a strange bubbly foam concoction that rains down on the crowd, but still — it’s Disney magic, and for many Florida families, that magic has become part of their holiday traditions. The beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic brought the closure of Walt Disney World for almost four months. When the parks re-opened in July, Walt Disney World Resort debuted new health and safety measures along with reduced hours,

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some resort closures and a true game-changer when it comes to planning your trip: the Disney Park Pass Reservation System. It’s still in play this holiday season, along with other changes, so if you are hoping for a little Disney holiday magic this season, check out our tips and tricks to help you make memories — at a safe, social distance.

Reservation system

Capacity is limited at all four theme parks, which means that, to go to a particular park on the day of your choosing, you must make a reservation using the Disney Park Pass Reservation System in advance. This new policy affects everyone, from annual passholders to ticketed guests, and makes further use of the My Disney Experience app. Once you’ve logged in to your account on the app or on disneyworld.com, you’ll link your tickets or annual pass to your account, then have access to a calendar of available reservation dates for Magic Kingdom, Animal Kingdom, Epcot and Hollywood Studios. Parks with newer sections, like Toy Story Land and Star Wars: Galaxy’s Edge at Hollywood Studios, reach reservation capacity quickly — so the sooner you make reservations, the better. Park hopping is no longer an option, since you can only reserve one park per day, and Extra Magic Hours, once

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a perk for staying on property at a Walt Disney World Resort hotel, are not available. Tip: If you are going on multiple days, reserve your party’s spots at Hollywood Studios and/or Magic Kingdom first, as those seem to be the most popular, according to daily checks on the My Disney Experience app. Trick: If you really dislike crowds and are going on a weekend, which is peak attendance whether there’s a pandemic or not, opt for Epcot or Animal Kingdom, which are seeing lower attendance but still have plenty of holiday magic to share.

Health and safety procedures

When the parks re-opened in July, cast members (employees) were newly trained and ready for the new environment. Everyone, including guests (over age 2) and cast members, must wear an appropriate face covering over their nose and mouth at all times — except when eating and drinking. The face covering policy extends to Walt Disney World Guest Transportation. Other transportation protocols include capacity limits, physical barriers and social distancing, and, for those who travel in their own vehicles to the parks, parking lot trams are not in operation.

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travel | When entering the parks, once guests pass through security, the next stop is temperature screenings. Anyone displaying a temperature over 100.4 degrees Fahrenheit are directed to another location for additional screening and, if their temperature again reads 100.4 or higher, they and their party will not be granted access to the park. Physical distancing is encouraged everywhere, with plexiglass dividers separating rows of waiting riders and ground markings for line queues. Capacity isn’t just limited to parks; shop and restaurant capacity restrictions are in place, which means some popular stops on your trip may have a well-marked line for guests to wait their turn. Tip: Lines for rides look a lot longer than they actually are, because each party is spaced 6 feet apart in line. For popular attractions, pay attention to the cast member holding the sign that notes your expected wait time, and don’t be afraid to ask them if that estimated time is really right. Also, be ready for your fellow guests to gently (or as we saw, not-so-gently) remind other people in line to mind their spacing. Trick: Download the Play Disney Parks app on your phone before you go. It includes games, trivia and other experiences that are perfect for keeping your party entertained while you wait. Or download an old favorite, the Heads Up! app, which is perfect for standing in long lines and entertains not just your party, but those around you as well.

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Food and drink

If you weren’t familiar with mobile ordering before using the My Disney Experience app, get ready. Prior to the pandemic, guests could order items from quick-service locations, which could shave five minutes or more off the wait time for Dole Whip at Aloha Isle. In addition to mobile ordering, many Walt Disney World restaurants minimize contact through reduced-contact menus and mobile check-in for dining. Menus for quick-service restaurants at the theme parks were already contactless, available in the My Disney Experience app or displayed on signage. Select table-service locations now offer contactless menus by providing guests with a QR code that they can easily scan with a mobile device to view a digital menu. Checking in for reserved dining has also transitioned to the mobile app. Guests can check in via the mobile app or by scanning a QR code located in the restaurant’s lobby area, then following prompts to complete check in. When their table is ready, a notification is sent to their phone. Tip: Make sure you pack water because during our visit in August, water fountains were not available for use. You can ask for ice water at quick-service spots, which is a good option for refilling water bottles if it’s a particularly warm day. Trick: Check menus ahead of time and check which restaurants are open — even your favorite quick-service options. Not all restaurants are open, likely due to reduced capacity, and all are operating at reduced capacity with tables marked off for social distancing in quick-service restaurants and fewer tables available for tableside dining. If you have a favorite, check the app to see if it’s open so you aren’t crying over missing the mac-and-cheese stand in Animal Kingdom.

Holiday extras

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the castle and mourn their loss. Instead, focusing on the positive and the magic and memories you can still make is key. Walt Disney World Resort refers to this season as reimagining holiday traditions, with celebrations starting November 6 at all four theme parks, select resorts and Disney Springs. It’s a good year to slow down and really take in the decorations at each park, from the 1940s vintage Christmas vibe at Hollywood Studios to the traditional holiday decorations at Magic Kingdom, where newly painted Cinderella’s Castle will undergo a transformation each night. Projections will transform the castle into different holiday colors and themes, including a jolly Christmas sweater, making a cheery backdrop for family photos. Character experiences may have stopped due to the pandemic, and parades are suspended as well, but guests will still see their favorite Disney characters in their holiday finest floating by on flotillas (pontoon boats) at Animal Kingdom or in motor cavalcades at the other parks. Santa Goofy will make an appearance for character dining at Hollywood & Vine with Minnie Mouse at Hollywood Studios. And, at Magic Kingdom, the famous toy soldiers will march with the Main Street Philharmonic on Main Street, U.S.A. EPCOT will host its first International Festival of the Holidays, which will not include the Candlelight Processional this year. Instead, guests can enjoy food and drink from holiday kitchens around the World Showcase and a new show at the World ShowPlace pavilion called “JOYFUL!” Other seasonal treats will be available throughout the parks and are usually teased out on Disney blog posts and social media. Tip: Look up those holiday treats and know their location ahead of time. If you have teens, they’ll want to Instagram or Snapchat the treats while their little siblings TikTok dance in the background and embarrass them. Also check those prices because social media-worthy seasonal snacks can be a bit of a sticker shock. Bigger tip: Dress in your holiday outfits for the parks. It helps the mood of everyone in your party so, if someone has a bit of a Grinch moment over things they miss from years past, it’s hard to stay sad if your parents are jingling around in ugly Christmas sweaters.

Make magic

The beauty of returning to the parks after their pandemic closure is that it felt like a little breath of normal. So, while it might not be the giant, over-the-top holiday magic you’ve experienced in years past, it’s still magic, and it’s what you make of it. A simplified, scaled-back trip means that you spend more time doing things together and less time pushing through crowds or jockeying for prime parade-viewing positions. If 2020 has taught us one thing, it’s that little moments count more, even when those are celebrated behind masks sporting your favorite Disney characters’ faces.

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RALLY FOR THE ENVIRONMENT The Rookery Bay Research Reserve in Naples has two family-friendly, socially distanced events coming up. The first, the Classic Car Show, features a variety of antique, classic and muscle cars, food trucks and activities for all ages outdoors on Saturday, November 14. The learning center is closed, but restrooms will be open. Registration is requested in advance. The event takes place 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the reserve, 300 Tower Road, Naples. Masks required. Admission is $10 for adults, free for ages 12 and younger. The Rookery Bay Road Rally on December 6 has participants start at 10 a.m. at the Naples Botanical Garden and leave in their own vehicles at one-minute intervals. Drivers follow route directions that take them along the boundaries of the reserve, which makes up about 40 percent of Collier County’s coastline. Some checkpoints have fun activities. Where the route ends is a surprise, but there’ll be prizes and other activities when you get there. Entry fee is $40 per vehicle or $10 per person for groups in commercial vans or buses. All participants get free passes to the learning center and the botanical garden.

Walks and runs go virtual The Cape Coral Turkey Trot has been a Thanksgiving Day tradition for more than 40 years. This year, it and others, like the City of Palms River Run and the Lazy Flamingo Half Marathon and 2-Person Relay, are going virtual. But you can still reap the rewards and help local charities. Find race information at runsignup. com. A walk that’s newer to the area but directly helps children and families is the Southwest Gulf Coast Virtual Walk for Apraxia. Childhood apraxia of speech is a motor speech disorder that makes it difficult for children to speak. Participants are invited to walk in their own areas and join in a virtual ceremony on Saturday, November 7. For details, visit apraxiakids.org/walk-for-apraxia-splash-page.

'Ding' Darling Day reimagined “Ding” Darling Day is typically celebrated in October at the J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge on Sanibel Island. Due to safety concerns from COVID-19, the event was rescheduled for Tuesday, December 1, in conjunction with the refuge’s 75th anniversary celebration. Staff envisions a day of outdoor activities for all ages along Wildlife Drive and Indigo Trail. Admission to Wildlife Drive will be free all day. For the latest details, visit dingdarlingdays.com.

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| things to do FRIDAY, NOV. 6 Fashion Show » Baby Basics of Collier County is hosting a virtual fashion show to raise money to help families in need. Tickets are $35. babybasicscollier.org

SATURDAY, NOV. 7 Babcock Ranch Art Show » Guests enjoy art outdoors, socially distanced, 9 a.m.-4 p.m. in Babcock’s Founder’s Square, 42850 Crescent Loop, Babcock Ranch. Tickets are required for ages 6 and older, $5 per person. Parking is free. babcockranchartshow. com Family Camp Out » A fun night

Keep Lee County Beautiful’s 27th annual marine cleanup focuses on monofilament fishing line and other fishing debris, 8 a.m.-1 p.m., includes volunteer appreciation lunch. Personal watercraft appreciated. Takes place at three locations: the Mound House on Fort Myers Beach, Salty Sam’s Marina and Bunche Beach. Register online. klcb.org/monofilament-madness.html

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Participants are encouraged to walk in their local area and attend a virtual ceremony November 7. Registration is $20 for adults, $15 for students 18 and older, $10 for children and free for children with apraxia. apraxia-kids. org/walk-for-apraxia-splash-page

of camping with your family under the trees along the shore of this riverside park. Bring your own tent, food, camping gear, games, bikes and scooters. There will be s’mores to enjoy and games. 2 p.m. November 7 to 10 a.m. November 8 at Jaycee Park, 4125 S.E. 20th Place, Cape Coral. Reservations required. 239-549-4606. $20 per tent. fb.com/3540228409342165.

WINK Taste of Lee 2020 » This riverside event highlights the restaurants of Lee County and includes entertainment with a children’s area, music and featured businesses. 11 a.m.-6 p.m. November 7 and 11 a.m.-5 p.m. November 8 at Centennial Park, 2000 W. First St., Fort Myers. $10 for ages 3 and older. bscevent.com

Family Adventures » Explore everything fun at the Mound House in this outdoor activity led by staff. All participants must wear a mask. $2 per person, free for members. Takes place at 11 a.m. November 7, 21 and 28 and at 1 p.m. November 24 at the Mound House, 451 Connecticut St., Fort Myers beach. Weather permitting. For ages 5 and older. 239765-0865. moundhouse.org

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Family Fun Kayak Tour »

This kayak tour guided by an environmental educator is fun for the whole family. See birds, dolphins, manatee and other wildlife while paddling through the Estero Bay mangroves. Each family must have a child between ages 6 and 11 to qualify. Masks required. $25 for ages 13 and older, $15 for ages 6-12; equipment and Mound House admission included. 9:30 a.m. November 7 and 28 at the Mound House, 451 Connecticut St., Fort Myers beach. Registration required. 239-765-0865. moundhouse.org

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Home School at Edison Ford » A

home-school science and engineering series that combines instruction with hands-on activities. This month’s topic is space. Students will build a solar viewer and learn about the science of light. 11 a.m.-noon at the Edison and Ford Winter Estates, 2350 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers. $10 each or $60 for the series for members, $15 and $95 for nonmembers. For grades 4-6 and grades 7-8. Masks required. Limit 10.

SATURDAY, NOV. 14 Rookery Bay Classic Car Show » See a variety of antique, classic and muscle cars, 9 a.m.-2 p.m. Plus, food trucks and activities for all ages. $10 for spectators 13 and older, free for ages 12 and younger. Park at the Walmart Super Center, 6650 Collier Blvd., Naples and catch the shuttle to the Rookery Bay Environmental Learning Center, 300 Tower Road, Naples. Registration requested.

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Wolfstock: BrewFest and Food Truck Rally » This fundraiser for Shy

Wolf Sanctuary’s expansion features a live concert, food trucks and auction, 3-6 p.m. Attend in person or watch the concert on the group’s Facebook page. For details, visit shywolfsanctuary.org/wolfstock2020

TUESDAY, NOV. 17 Hope’s Brave Hearts for the Holidays » Hope Healthcare created

this virtual event for children ages 7-12 who have lost a loved one in the past year. The children are divided into age groups for this free, fivepart series that helps children learn to cope with feelings of grief and discover healthy ways to express their emotions. The sessions are held via Zoom at 4 p.m. on Tuesdays starting November 17. To register a child age 7-9, contact Jessica.Eastham@ HopeHCS.org. For ages 10-12, contact Diana.SanMiguel@HopeHCS. org. hopehcs.org

MONDAY, NOV. 23 School Break Camp » When

School is out, the “Wild Wizard” is in. Students explore topics in STEAM, history and nature in this day camp, 9 a.m.-4 p.m. November 23-25. This week’s theme: Art & Animation. For students in grades 1-6. $135 for members, $150 for nonmembers. edisonford.org

FRIDAY, NOV. 27 Holiday Nights at Edison Ford

» Thousands of lights, hundreds of historic decorations, and one unique holiday experience. An animated tree at the Ford House, lights, holiday music, live music, 5:30-9 p.m. November 27 to January 3 at the Edison and Ford Winter Estates, 3583 McGregor Blvd., Fort Myers. Lee County residents get $5 off self-guided admission on Monday nights. Admission is $20 for adults, $10 for teens, $2 for children, free for members. Tours are extra. Masks required. edisonfordwinterestates.org

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CHANGING COURSE

Junior Achievement of Southwest Florida, which teaches financial literacy, work readiness and entrepreneurship, shifts to virtual methods to inspire brighter tomorrows. | BY ANGELA FISHER

here’s no doubt that going school is different this year, and families have had to grapple with new challenges and questions about their children’s education. Does my child go to school in-person, do they attend virtually, or do they do a mixture of both? Will these significant changes impact their learning? Junior Achievement of Southwest Florida has asked these questions right along with you. That’s why we accelerated our program offerings to continue delivering an impactful and important curriculum for students and educators in the 2020-2021 school year under the current unusual circumstances. A survey from Junior Achievement by research firm ENGINE Insights showed that two-thirds of teens (66%) were concerned about attending school in-person, with a significant percentage (39%) responding that they were “extremely” or “very” concerned. It’s likely that your child, and you as their parent, shared these concerns as you made decisions earlier this fall. We, along with you, want the best for our local students and want them to feel confident as they continue

their education. So, we developed two new virtual program delivery models available this school year to continue to provide them with the tools, resources and support they need to navigate these uncertain times. Our volunteer-delivered, kindergarten-through-12th-grade virtual programs foster work-readiness, entrepreneurship and financial literacy skills and use experiential learning to inspire students in our community to dream big and reach their potential, despite our current challenges. Did you know that Junior Achievement students are 30% more likely to get a bachelor’s degree, and 67% more likely to get an advanced degree? They’re also 14% more likely to start their own business, 143% more likely to be business owners, and earn 20% more than their peers. I would encourage you to speak with your children’s teachers and determine how they can implement our new programs in their classrooms. We’re here to help them as well as they tackle new ways of teaching this year. In addition to our formal programming, Junior Achievement of Southwest Florida has made free online resources, such as activities and videos, available to parents. Many of you are

tackling virtual learning with your children for the first time. You can easily access these resources at jaswfl.org. We couldn’t do this critical work without the help of our valuable volunteers and sponsors. With our new virtual programming, we have the potential to reach more students than ever before. Volunteering has also been made simpler as it can be done from the home or office, or even prerecorded. Those interested in volunteering can visit our website to submit a volunteer form and be contacted by an education manager. All our volunteers receive training, connection to the classroom, content to share with students and support to ensure the process goes smoothly. Funding is also vital to continue this critical work helping to shape our future generations and providing support to parents like you, as well as our outstanding educators. Donations and sponsorships of all levels are welcome and can be made easily on our website. Our ultimate goal is to support the dreams of our youth and instill in them that anything is still possible. If we demonstrate our belief in them together, they will believe in themselves, too. After that, the sky is the limit.

Angela Fisher is the president and CEO of Junior Achievement of Southwest Florida. She has a passion for providing opportunities for youth and assisting in building a better community for our region.

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NEW MIDDLE SCHOOL Owen-Ames-Kimball Company hosted a topping off ceremony for the new Lehigh Acres Middle School on September 23. A topping-off ceremony is held when the last beam is placed atop a structure during construction. About 1,400 students enrolled at Lehigh Middle will move into the new facility at 651 Sunrise Blvd., Lehigh Acres, in fall 2021. Here, Principal Brian Gibson addresses the audience. PHOTO BY KINFAY MOROTI, HOPEFUL IMAGES

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Your heart care heroes.

Dedicated to saving little lives every day. leehealth.org/pediatric-cardiology

Because every child is special.

SWFL Parent & Child Magazine November 2020

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