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JUNE 2010 FASHION FOR YOU • YOUR HOME • YOUR LIFESTYLE

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COVER FEATURES 47 St. Jude Dream Homes 38 Travel Knoxville

THE HOUSE OF YOUR DREAMS

KNOXVILLE TRAVEL GUIDE

Each year, the St. Jude Dream Home Giveaway raffles off homes across the country, raising more than $150 million in its 19 years. Learn about Tennessee’s three houses, located in Nashville, Chattanooga and Memphis, and why they’re the homes of your dreams.

For those not fortunate enough to call this charming city home, we’ve got a guide to Knoxville’s hotspots. Prepare yourself for some of the best hummus you’ll ever taste and be sure to stroll Market Square, an outdoor hub lined with restaurants and boutiques.

42 At Home With Norbert Putnam THE MUSIC MAKER

What started with his father’s bass and three chords developed into the legendary career of Norbert Putnam. From recording with Elvis and working in the studio with Joan Baez to opening for the Beatles on their first U.S. tour, this notable Tennessean helped pioneer the state’s music scene.

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75 Summer Entertaining Guide TWO PERFECT SUMMER PARTIES

Host a party that will have your friends reminiscing for months to come with insider tips, recipes and do-it-yourself projects from Soirees in Chattanooga and You’re Invited Gifts, Paper and Events in Nashville.

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SELF 20 GREAT GIFTS FOR DAD Show your dad how much you care this Father’s Day with these fantastic finds.

Whether he loves to grill or show off his impeccable fashion sense, At Home Tennessee has already done the shopping for you.

22 THE FASHIONABLE MAN A well-dressed man can be hard to find, but with help from these Tennessee shops, styling from head to toe is made easy.

Learn the hottest trends for this season and where to pick up those items with this men’s summer fashion guide.

24 CELEBRATING MUSIC AND HIGH FASHION Fashion designer Isaac Mizrahi showed his upcoming collection to raise money for music education at the Nashville Symphony’s Spring Fashion Show. Get the scoop on the event and see what looks are in store for fall 2010.

26 GROOMING GEAR Help your man achieve a well-groomed look with the best in men’s products. Treat him to a close, clean shave and say goodbye to razor burn forever, or teach him the ways of skin care.

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34 28 WHOLE BODY WELLNESS Learn why stretching is an important component for a healthy body and find out the truth behind good and bad fats in this month’s fitness section.

30 UNDERSTANDING PEDIATRIC CANCER While survival rates have increased drastically, pediatric cancer is still the number one cause of death in children.

Find out the disease basics here.

TRAVEL 34 ULTIMATE MAN GETAWAYS Tents with heated floors? A golf getaway with your close friends? Or maybe an extreme angling getaway is more appealing. The man in your life (and possibly you, too) won’t be able to resist these three ultimate destinations.

FOOD 68 A TASTE OF TENNESSEE BARBECUE Whether you prefer hickory smoked or Kansas City style (or classic Rendezvous ribs, of course) Tennessee has it all when it comes to barbecue. Add these joints to your itinerary and begin sampling some of the state’s great flavors.

COMMUNITY 88 WAITING FOR OIL All eyes are on the oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico. While much of the news surrounding the spill remains unclear, Coast residents, along with the rest of the nation, are waiting and preparing for an impact.

90 REBUILDING TENNESSEE At Home Tennessee’s Mandi Gaskin reflects on the 2010 flood and what community members are doing to help rebuild in the affected counties.

Find out what you can do too.

IN THIS ISSUE 12 PUBLISHER’S NOTE 62 by invitation—THE SOCIAL PAGES 72 COOKING CLASS 86 SEE AND DO 92 BOOK REVIEW

94 HAPPENINGS 97 SOURCES 98 ESSAY

June 2010 • Vol. 9 No. 3 PUBLISHER/EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Margaret Monger - mmonger@athometn.com

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Heroes for Hope

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ur June issue has traditionally highlighted the homes of Tennessee celebrities who, for some, are viewed as heroes. This June we are featuring three homes in Tennessee built for heroes from all over the world. The homes featured benefit the researchers, doctors, staff, patients and families of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

I’ve always had a special place in my heart for St. Jude and on August 31, 2005, it became shockingly apparent as to why. Most of my family lives in south Mississippi and they were in the middle of Hurricane Katrina at that time. My brother called that morning and by the tremble in his voice, I imagined what I thought would be the worse news to me at that time. I assumed his home or my parents’ home had been destroyed by Katrina. I was wrong— the news was much worse. My brother was calling to tell me that they were fine after the hurricane but Julia, my 2 ½-year-old niece, had just been diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia (AML). I could almost feel the pain in my brother’s voice. As a parent, there is no greater pain than losing a child and no greater fear than not being able to save them. Danny Thomas, a father himself, knew this fear and founded St. Jude with the hope that no child will ever be denied treatment for such horrible diseases based on race, religion or their family’s inability to pay.

Julia and her family arrived at St. Jude on September 1, 2005 and because of the heroes of St. Jude, Julia, our hero’s, “No more chemo party” was held on January 26, 2006 and today Julia is a happy, healthy and very active seven year old. Our entire family was touched during Julia’s journey at St. Jude and the family received a form of treatment too. Counselors were there around the clock to give my brother and sister-in-law the encouragement they needed.

Julia’s big sister, Maggie, was given the love and guidance she needed to help her understand and cope with her fear of this new chapter in her life. Target House became their home-away-from-home and the girls quickly adapted to their new fun environment; they even became regulars in the arts and craft room where you never run out of glue and glitter! All of this treatment, housing and support is given to each family regardless of their ability to pay. It cost about $1.4 million dollars a day to make this possible and that is primarily covered through public contributions from each of us.

With Father’s Day a few weeks away, consider remembering dad with a gift in his honor or memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. Happy Father’s Day to all the great men blessed enough to be called “Daddy.” Some dads we are blessed to have with us now on earth and others we have forever in our hearts.

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contributors’ page

Lesley Harris Colvett is pleased to www.haljaffe.com

rejoin At Home Tennessee magazine. Her 10-year career in magazines began promptly after graduating from the University of Missouri – Columbia School of Journalism as editor of RSVP magazine, where she covered countless parties in Memphis. Most recently, she was one of the founders of by invitation Kansas City, a social magazine in Kansas City. Lesley is proud to bring social pages to Tennessee!

Stephenie Ward is a registered dietitian who partners with clients of various medical and fitness backgrounds at Germantown Athletic Club. Her clinical experience includes pediatrics, cardiovascular disease, lifecycle changes, diabetes, obesity, eating disorders, osteoporosis and athletes desiring improved athletic performance. Outside of work, Ward enjoys training for triathlons, playing the violin, cooking and spending time with her family of five.

Becky Fox is a certified personal trainer, nutrition consultant and owner of the Knoxvillebased personal training and boot camp company, Fox Fitness. Becky enjoys helping individuals lose fat and tone their bodies through fun, efficient and challenging workouts. She has written for various publications including the Knoxville News Sentinel.

Becky is an Optimum Nutrition sponsored fitness model who can be seen on the covers of Power Systems and Magazine Blu. You can learn more about Becky by visiting her sites at foxfitness.com or womenathomeworkout.com.

Stephanie Alexander

is a wedding and event planner and owner of You’re Invited Events in Nashville. Stephanie specializes in social events throughout the state of Tennessee.

Helping her clients carry out their vision and truly making each event unique is her passion.

She earned an MBA from the University of Memphis and a BBA in marketing and Spanish, and her extensive business background allows her to approach each event with the client’s budget and timeline in mind. Stephanie is also an avid entertainer, chef and baker and loves expressing her creativity through do-it-yourself projects. You can learn more about Stephanie by visiting her website at yistationery.com or her blog at yievents.blogspot.com.

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Great Gifts for Dad Celebrate your dad this Father’s Day with a gift that is sure to impress.

Turtleson Shoes Available at the Oxford Shop

615.383.4442, theoxfordshop.com

John Medeiros cufflinks www.johnmedeiros.com

Leather Excursion Travel Case redenvelope.com Penguin Wine Opener Available at Kitchen Extras, 731.660.7936

Fable Designs Rings available at Taylor Jewely 731.668.0057, taylorjewelry.net 20 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

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Wilson & Bow Fine Custom Neck Ties www.WilsonandBow.com

Personalized Grilling Tool Set redenvelope.com

Elsa Peretti Padova Bottle Opener Tiffany & Co., Tiffany.com

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The Fashionable Man With all the great new fashions hitting the shelves for summer, there’s no reason your man’s look shouldn’t sizzle this season.

Peter Millar Shorts available at the Oxford Shop 615.383.4442, theoxfordshop.com

Southern Proper Summer Collection available at Coachman Clothiers 865.690.5805, coachmanclothiers.com 22 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

Martin Dingman Pierson Pennyloafer available at Coachman Clothiers 865.690.5805, coachmanclothiers.com

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Smathers and Branson Needlepoint Belt available at the Oxford Shop 615.383.4442, theoxfordshop.com

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Isaac Mizrahi and Little Big Town

Co-chairs Pamela Kurio- Poe and Troy Solarek (left to right)

Celebrating Music and High Fashion Recently, fashion designer Isaac Mizrahi showed his fall 2010 collection at the Nashville Symphony’s Fifth Annual Spring Fashion Show, an event benefiting music education. With performances by country music group Little Big Town, a cocktail party, dinner and a silent auction, the evening was an all-around success. TEXT Nikki Aviotti | PHOTOGRAPHY Nikki Aviotti

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n a warm April evening, Nashville’s finest gathered to raise funds and celebrate high fashion at the Nashville Symphony’s Fifth Annual Symphony Spring Fashion Show. Featured on the runway was the fall 2010 collection of fashion designer Isaac Mizrahi, who teamed up with retailer Guy Mayer for the event. The show was emceed by country group Little Big Town.

The evening’s proceeds benefited the Nashville Symphony and the Thor Johnson Scholarship fund, named for former Nashville Symphony music director.

The scholarship provides 12 school-aged students in Middle Tennessee an opportunity to advance their music education. “This cause is very meaningful to me,” said Mizrahi, who has a background in performing arts and is directing a production of Stephen Sondheim’s “A Little Night Music” in St. Louis opening June 6. “I think the beginning of art is music. I respect so much musicians.”

The evening, co-chaired by Troy Solarek and Pamela Kurio-Poe, took a full year to plan. The Nashville Symphony’s courtyard, where a pre-show cocktail party was held, was decorated in a palette of pale greens and whites and was accented in floral arrangements by the Tulip Tree. A silent auction was also held during the pre-party, during which guests could bid on items from Tiffany, a trip to Fashion Week in New York, an evening for 12 with Titans General Manager Mike Reinfeldt and a “Many Will See” necklace by Amanda Urrego.

Little Big Town’s Kimberly Schlapman and Karen Fairchild both donned sparkling Mizrahi ensembles from the collection and appeared with bandmates Jimi

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Westbrook and Phillip Sweet. “I love fashion because it’s kind of like music,” Fairchild commented. “It’s a self-expression. It’s quite an honor to be able to wear his [Mizrahi’s] collection and be a part of this.”

Because music is such an important part of the band member’s lives, the group felt the need to contribute to the cause. “We just wanted to help out in the small way we could,” Schlapman said.

The fashion show took place in the Laura Turner Concert Hall, where models from the Nashville area glided along the catwalk in looks that included day and evening wear featuring fur, sequins, tulle and exposed zippers. “A lot of things inspire me,” said Mizrahi of his collection and shows. “This show we did in New York, I was inspired by the idea of sprites and fairies living in Central Park. I like the idea of that kind of urban fairytale.”

Before the show, Mizrahi playfully commented on Schlapman and Fairchild’s outfits, exclaiming, “Oh my God, where did you get those gorgeous dresses?”

His light-hearted banter continued on stage before the show began, when the barefoot designer half-joked, “Anyone who wears my clothes, I love them!”

Although this was his first time visiting the country music capital, Mizrahi said, “I’ve always been fascinated with the idea of Nashville. There is something about it [country music] that is more direct and pure.”

The show ended with a standing ovation and was followed with an acoustic performance by Little Big Town including popular hits like “Bring it on Home,” “Stay” and “Vapor.” The crowd then poured out of the show and made its way to an outdoor tent where dinner was served as the evening wound down.

Trends for the Fall Most of Isaac Mizrahi’s fall 2010 collection consisted of day and evening dresses.

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Fur! From hoods to jackets to scarves, fur was present on the runway.

Tulle!

Two big trends as seen in Mizrahi’s collection are sparkles and tulle, sometimes in the same piece, as shown above.

Sparkles!

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Grooming Gear

Women may be more prone to indulging in beauty products, but they’re just as important for men. Make sure to pick up some of these great items to suprise the man in your life. Who knows, he might really enjoy the pampering, and you’ll love the way he smells after spritzing Zegna Colonia cologne. For summer travel, this men’s kit will be just what he needs. And don’t forget about a clean, close shave! Treat the man in your life this month to the great grooming products that he probably (or at least that’s what he’ll tell you) never knew existed TEXT Nikki Aviotti

Burt’s Bees Aftershave burtsbees.com

Zegna Colonia cologne zegnaparfums.com King of Shaves Azor shave gel and razor shave.com

emergin C liquid gel cleanser emerginc.com

Ole Henriksen men’s kit, including facial scrub, on-the-go cleanser, hair wash and skin creme olehenriksen.com 26 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

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Whole Body Wellness You’ve been incorporating cardio and a clean diet into your fitness regimen, but don’t forget about the allimportant stretching. This June, loosen up your muscles and learn the difference between good and bad fats.

Good Fats vs. Bad Fats TEXT Stephenie Ward, RD, LDN, Germantown Athletic Club

Focus on Flexibility Activity for All Ages Stretching is a great practice for people of all ages (even kids should be stretching) and has tons of benefits. These include reduced muscle tension and stress, increased flexibility and range of motion in your joints and increased circulation of blood to various parts of the body. It can even help prevent injuries and decrease muscle soreness post-workout. Stretch after you’ve warmed up your muscles to prevent injury.

Make it a Habit Becky Fox of Knoxville’s Fox Fitness suggests making it a habit to stretch after every workout, but reminds that this doesn’t have to take too much time—five to 10 minutes of stretching is plenty. “Focus on stretching all the major muscles of the body, especially the ones you worked that day,” she says. Hold each stretch for 15-30 seconds and repeat for tight areas. You can even stretch after cleaning the house or after any activity that requires moderate movement.

Muscle Management While stretching is beneficial to everyone, those with back pain should definitely consider learning more, since back problems can be caused by flexibility issues. In these cases, stretching and strength training in certain areas can go a long way, Becky says. “Oftentimes, issues like back pain are postural imbalances which can be corrected with stretching of tight muscles and strengthening of weak muscles,” she explains.

Tight hamstrings can also cause lower back pain.

(Check with a sports massage therapist or personal trainer to pinpoint your problem areas.)

Bent over a desk all day? Make sure to stretch your chest often as it gets tight from slouching.

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People often assume that fat in food equates to fat deposits in your body, an incorrect assumption that leads to poor eating habits and can result in malnutrition. In fact, fat is an essential nutrient that stores and provides energy and when consumed in appropriate amounts, fat operates as a reliable energy source, protects vital organs, promotes wound healing, contributes to mental functioning and promotes hormonal balance.

Opt for Omega Dietary fat provides essential fat-soluble vitamins such as vitamins A, D, E and K, which promote healthier bone density and skin. Dietary fats are categorized into saturated fats, polyunsaturated fats, monounsaturated fats, Omega-3 fatty acids and Omega-6 fatty acids. Foods containing a high amount of saturated fat such as butter, margarine, processed/hydrogenated oils, animal flesh, fried foods and tropical oils should be consumed rarely.

Opt for food choices that contain Omega-3 and Omega-6 fatty acids such as vegetable, canola or flaxseed oils, tuna, salmon and nuts. Recent studies show that the consumption of Omega-3 fatty acids plays an important role in brain function, blood pressure, cancer prevention, insulin response and aging. Consuming appropriate amounts of Omega-3 fatty acids is considered a heart-healthy practice and may even reduce risks or symptoms of many autoimmune diseases.

Favored Fats It is recommended that 20 to 30 percent of the total calories consumed in your diet come from fat. On a 2,000 calorie diet this would be 45 to 65 grams of fat each day. As noted, all fats are not created equal. When you are not able to review nutritional information a good rule of thumb is to consume more “soft” fat such as canola, flax and olive oil rather than “hard” fat such as lard and butter.

Here are suggestions on choosing foods that offer healthier fat options: •Limit intake of fried foods, butter, ice cream, cookies, chips, mayonnaise and other processed foods.

•Choose fat-free or low-fat dairy products.

•Select lean meats such as turkey, fish and chicken over beef and pork.

•Salmon, fish, walnuts, flaxseed, soy nuts, tofu and oils such as flaxseed, canola and olive are good sources of Omega-3 fatty acids.

•Sprinkle ground flaxseed on cold cereal or blend into smoothies or pancake batter.

•Smart Balance Omega Plus Spread is a healthier alternative to butter.

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Stretching is very important to keep the body limber and muscles balanced and to help prevent injuries. Be sure to stretch only when you are warm. A great time to do this is at the end of your workout. Hold each stretch for 15-30 seconds. You should not feel pain when stretching but rather a slight pull that may be a little uncomfortable. Stretches can be repeated, especially for really tight muscles.

TEXT Becky Fox | MODEL Becky Fox

Upper Back Stretch: (Stretches the rear shoulder, middle back, arms and hands.)

Interlace fingers and turn palms out away from you.

Push hands away from the body at shoulder height, slightly rounding the back. Feel the shoulder blades separate in the back and try reaching out in front of you as far as you can.

Chest Stretch (Stretches the chest and front of the shoulders.)

Make sure shoulders and toes are pointed forward. Clasp hands behind back, making sure arms are extended. Press arms away from your body, feeling the stretch through the front of your chest and shoulders.

Quad Stretch (Stretches the quadriceps muscle or the front of the thigh.)

You may want to stand close to a wall for support.

Stand up tall and grasp your right foot with your right hand. Pull your heel toward your buttock, trying to point your knee toward the ground. Hold.

Repeat on the left side.

Hamstring Stretch (Stretches the hamstring muscle or back of the leg, top of the calf and back of the knee.)

Stand and straighten your right leg out in front of you pointing your toe up. Gently bend forward from the hips, placing hands on your left knee for balance, until you feel the stretch in the back of your right leg. Repeat on the left side.

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Understanding Pediatric Cancer Research has found that nearly 38,000 childhood cancer deaths have been averted in the last 30 years thanks to new treatment strategies, improved drugs and clinical trials. However, pediatric cancer is still the leading cause of death in children. So where exactly do we stand when it comes to battling pediatric cancer? Learn some of the basics here. TEXT Virginia Steele | PHOTO courtesy of dreamstime.com

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t the center of most homes in Tennessee is a child. The family’s world revolves around this unit; its daily schedule, work, recreation and more become closely interwoven parts of the parents’ and children’s busy lives. It is hectic and demanding at best, but worth it all.

But what happens when a child becomes seriously ill? The balance of home life is immediately disrupted and the lives of all family members are changed forever.

Tennesseans are fortunate, having several renowned children’s hospitals across the state with excellent reputations for delivering quality cancer care. In Memphis, families from around the globe travel to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, a leading institution recognized worldwide for pediatric cancer research.

But what is childhood cancer and what is involved in caring for a child with cancer?

Incidence Pediatric cancer is a rare disorder.

However, it is still the leading cause of death in children, more than AIDS, cystic fibrosis, diabetes and asthma combined. It affects approximately one in every 10,000 children, meaning there are at least a few cases found in almost every school district in the country. There are approximately 10,500 children younger than age 15 and 3,700 adolescents ages 30 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

15-19 diagnosed each year.

Over the past 20 years, the incidence of pediatric cancer increased by approximately 12 percent, mostly due to improved detection. The rate of most childhood cancers has been stable although the incidence of melanoma in children is quickly increasing.

What is childhood cancer?

Cancer is a term for multiple diseases in which abnormal cells divide without control and can invade nearby, as well as distant, tissues.

Cancer cells spread to other parts of the body through the blood and lymph systems. When cancer cells spread (metastasize) and develop tumors in other body sites, these tumors are referred to as metastases.

Some tumors are benign, meaning they do not invade surrounding tissue or spread to other parts of the body. A benign tumor may grow, but it remains in the same place.

There are several predominant types of childhood cancer: leukemia, tumors of the brain and nervous system, the lymphatic system, kidneys, bones and muscles are the most common childhood cancers. There are a few cancers that are very rare.

Diagnosis Sometimes early symptoms of cancer might be detected by a doctor at a child’s regular checkup. However, some of the symptoms such as unexplained fever, swollen glands,

frequent infections, anemia or bruises are also associated with other conditions not cancer-related. As a result, it is not uncommon for doctors and parents to suspect other childhood illnesses when cancer symptoms first appear. It is important to be diligent in returning with a child to see his or her physician if ordinary symptoms persist or continuously reoccur.

When a physician does suspect cancer, the child should be immediately referred to a medical specialist in children’s cancer. These specialists are known as pediatric medical oncologists. This doctor will conduct the necessary tests to correctly identify the cancer if present and the stage of the disease as well as evaluate the anticipated progression. Once these factors are fully understood, a treatment plan is recommended by the medical team and when accepted by the family, treatment begins.

Treatment/Research The treatment course for cancer in children can include several approaches used independently or collectively, such as chemotherapy— medical drugs capable of killing or controlling cancer cells; radiation therapy—the use of ionizing radiation to kill cancer cells; and surgery in order to remove cancerous cells or tumors. The treatment required is determined by the cancer type and severity, along with the child’s age, weight and physical condition.

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self treatment options and today there are additional new therapies including stem cell transplantation, targeted therapies and promising vaccines. Numerous clinical trials are underway and each day discoveries are made furthering physicians’ abilities to treat childhood cancer and restore children to long and productive lives.

In all cases, the primary goal when treating kids with cancer is to cure them. This takes precedence over most other aspects of care. Today there are many new medications and therapies which provide children greater comfort and a higher quality of life while undergoing treatment for cancer.

Whatever therapy is prescribed, they all have difficult side effects and consequences. The challenges families face are enormous while the child undergoes therapy and recovery. Fortunately, as pediatric cancer treatments have become more readily available, so have the available support systems for the patient, his or her parents and, equally importantly, the patient’s siblings.

Outcomes Recent findings reported in April by the America Society of Clinical Oncology show an estimated 38,000 childhood cancer deaths have been averted in the past 30 years due to improved drugs, treatment strategies and clinical trials. While substantial gains have been made against most forms of childhood cancer, newer targeted agents are still urgently needed.

“While childhood cancer has been one of the success stories of modern medicine, with nearly 80 percent long-term survival, approximately 2,000 children still die from cancer every year,” said Dr. Malcolm Smith, associate branch chief of pediatrics at the National Cancer Institute’s Cancer Therapy Evaluation Program. “We continue to look for new ways to reduce that number.”

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Pinehurst Resort

Resort at Paws Up

Ultimate Man Getaways This summer, escape with the whole family (including the dog) to a luxurious tent city and lodge in Montana or join your best buddies for an extreme angling adventure in the Amazon. Whether it’s luxury you’re looking for or just a relaxing day on the golf course, At Home Tennessee has an ultimate destination for you. Andrew Abernathy | PHOTOGRAPHY courtesy of Resort at Paws Up and Pinehurst, LLC

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he constant cycle of business suits, deadlines and never-ending meetings can put the working man in serious need of a vacation. Whether you’re looking for a fishing weekend with the boys, a chance to regain your peace of mind at the golf course or a rugged family escape that even includes the dog, there’s no reason this summer vacation can’t be a gift for Dad too. So to help you in your efforts to shake the Tennessee soil off your shoes this Father’s Day, we’ve pulled together some ultimate man vacation destinations, with a few things for the whole family in the mix.

Extreme Angling Kiss those large mouth bass and blue gills goodbye—it’s time for some extreme fishing. For those seeking a taste of adventure and the best fishing in the world, World Wide Angling and its sister company Amazon Angling, based out of Memphis, offer both the experienced fishermen and ambitious amateur the chance drop his briefcase and pick up his passport and fishing gear.

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excursions in nine countries—including but not limited to Belize, Brazil, Canada, Costa Rica, Mexico and Venezuela—each trip is based off the experiences of the company’s president Dave Caywood who, when not flying planes around the U.S. for FedEx, spends his time hunting out the next sportsman escape. “I probably turn down 20 places for every one that I accept,” he says. “Sometimes I’ll use a destination for three or four years then get rid of it for whatever reason. You know there’s a lot of politics in the Amazon with permits, and there are issues with the indigenous populations who control some of these rivers.”

Essentially, Caywood acts as a fisherman’s travel agent guaranteeing a good rate and a solid excursion, but he tags along for some of the more challenging trips. He introduces clients to his international fishing partners, who maintain the facilities and provide clients with essentials.

For those seeking the most adventure, Caywood recommends what he calls a Brazilian, “falling water,” river destination. “The Amazon is very calm in some places, but the further up you go, the rougher the water gets,” he notes. “There are different

levels of indigenous people but we go into the heart of Indian country.

Sometimes we’ll hire as much as 20 natives to run the boats. These guys have never seen anything other than a hand line in their lives. So many of them love working with us that the chief will come in and exchange the guys as soon as we get them trained.”

However, if you’re searching for the biggest bang for your buck, Costa Rica tops the list. “It’s easy to get to, and I’ve even put together a deal where you go and rent a house, and a cook comes in for you,” he says. “You can shore fish for marlin, dorado and sail fish. Compared to a lot of other trips you can get down there and back for not a lot of money.”

Wilderness Luxury In what was once a cattle ranch in the heart of some of Montana’s most picturesque landscape, the Resort at Paws Up offers either the single adventurer or the entire family the chance to be rugged by day and pampered at night. This luxury wilderness resort, now in its fifth year of operation, offers a range of activities including horseback riding, ATV

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travel excursions, fly fishing, bird hunting, rock-rappelling and clay shooting. And all that is topped off with top-notch wine and seasonal cuisine prepared by chefs with local ingredients. Did we mention all packages include three meals a day and airport pickup?

With 25 lodges—a select number of which are dog-friendly and come with a personal electric golf cart—guests can choose to stay in luxury, or opt for a more naturalistic approach and stay at Paws Up’s tent city where after a long day of hiking, riding and fishing, visitors can spend the evening sleeping on a mattress-outfitted cot with the sound of the nearby river and the smell of chefs preparing gourmet confections in the background. And for those looking to be pampered all day, spa treatments, a full fitness and yoga tent and a star light wagon ride make up quite the romantic itinerary.

Leave your dietary restrictions behind for a weekend because whether you’re eating wholeroasted, Carolina-style pulled pork directly off the chuck wagon, or dining at one of the resort’s restaurants like Pomp, an eclectic Americana operation and Tank & Trough, which offers a full-service bar and a menu with a more western flair, you can be sure that offerings will include fresh regional meats, fish and produce. Try the huckleberries; they’re picked right from the surrounding slopes.

“The Resort at Paws Up is a true sportman’s paradise, a perfect mix of luxury and adventure,” says Paws Up spokesperson Jim Nielsen.

“It’s a chance to ‘cowboy up’ and at the end of the day be treated to a five-star meal. Whether you stay in a luxury home or tent, we guarantee a good night’s sleep.”

Golfer’s Paradise Established in 1898 in the North Carolina village by the same name, Pinehurst Resort has been the site of three U.S. opens and is one of the 36 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

travel country’s premiere golfing locations.

With eight 18-hole golf courses, 24 tennis courts and two croquet lawns, this 2,000-acre resort is an idyllic place to live out your golfing dreams or work on your short game at the onsite golf academy, one of the top-25 institutions in the U.S. However, you can expect to do more than swing clubs and racquets all day. The resort, which is scheduled to host the 2014 U.S. Open and U.S. Women’s Open Championship, offers more than 400 luxurious rooms and packages for romantic getaways, fine dining, shopping, sightseeing, spa treatments, do-nothing weekends, and, of course, golf and tennis. But for the ultimate man getaway, the “Buddy Trip of a Lifetime,” package is pretty hard to beat. The escape requires at least eight people and for three days and two nights, Buddy Trip guests stay in a four-bedroom villa with a wet bar and private chef.

On the golf course, each guest is afforded their own caddy and private lessons to perfect their swing.

As for the food in the resort, with eight restaurants and more than 100 culinarians on staff, you can expect quite an array of choices. After a morning on the course, guests can grab lunch at the Tavern, an authentic Scottish-style pub and eatery for a casual lunch, or dine on seared yellowfin tuna and tartar with an avocado salad on the side at the 1895 Grille. Or perhaps an eight ounce filet mignon with a Maine lobster at the Carolina Dining Room is more your speed?

This summer, you can plan your visit around Pinehurst’s seasonal entertainment. For Father’s Day, guests will get the chance to hear and meet bestselling author James Dodson. The Fourth of July celebration will feature live music, fireworks and an array of family-oriented activities. Labor Day kicks off the resort’s 22nd annual food and wine festival where guests can attend seminars and learn from distinguished chefs and wine experts.

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Knoxville Travel Guide

Market Square

With the bustling Market Square district (seriously, you can spend all day there), boutique shopping and tons of great restaurants, Knoxville is one of this summer’s top choices for Tennessee travels. Browse unique artwork, dine on the best hummus you’ll ever taste and explore the downtown area on foot in this adorable city. TEXT Nikki Aviotti | PHOTOGRAPHY courtesy of Knoxville Tourism and Sports Corp.

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hen you think of Knoxville, you may think “Vols,” but there is so much more to this city than its university! Discover the beauty and fun this summer with a trip to this East Tennessee destination.

Fantastic restaurants, lots of outdoor entertainment and great shopping make Knoxville the perfect place to take a long weekend (even if it isn’t football season).

Where to Stay Located within walking distance of Market Square, the University of Tennessee campus and just a short drive from Kingston Pike, the Four Points by Sheraton Cumberland House (fourpoints.com) is the perfect place to stay when in Knoxville. The beds are so comfortable it will be hard for you to convince yourself to get out and explore. Plus, the Cumberland House has been awarded Starwood’s Hotel of the Year and Number One Four Points in North America for overall guest satisfaction two years running.

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downtown Knoxville. Amenities include a 24-hour business center, an indoor swimming pool and Mahogany’s restaurant, where you can dine on a breakfast buffet every morning.

Where to Play To get a taste of the local life, head over to Market Square (knoxvillemarketsquare.com). Shops and restaurants line this outdoor hang out complete with a stage where free summer concerts take place. A grassy area and fountains are great for kids to play, and often people bring their dogs to sit and have a drink or meal on one of the many restaurant patios.

Not to mention, Market Square is a great place to people-watch!

For another fun activity, head down to the Volunteer Landing and Marina. You can rent a paddle or pontoon boat or take a ride on the Star of Knoxville Riverboat.

The Knoxville Zoo (knoxvillezoo.org) promises family fun for all ages with more than 800 animals, camel rides, zoo chats and the “Close Encounters of the Wild Kind” attraction—an opportunity to meet elephants, tortoises, penguins or giraffes. And if you’re visiting with little animal lovers, check out the

Wee Play Zoo for toddlers, pre-school and elementary aged children. Wee Play Zoo is an interactive exhibit that allows children to dress up and play different roles within the zoo, such as zookeeper and concession stand workers.

And don’t miss the University of Tennessee Gardens (utgardens.tennessee.edu). Now through October, noon and twilight guided tours are being offered every third Tuesday.

The gardens are open year round and admission is free.

Where to Eat Have lunch or dinner at La Costa (lacostaonmarketsquare.com), located on Market Square, for a mix of Latino and Southern cuisine. Make sure to try the queso blanco and spinach dip, a delicacy topped off with fried artichokes. Another great choice is the fish tacos. And don’t forget to order a pitcher of house-made margaritas!

La Costa also has a large selection of other specialty drinks, beers and wines.

Another great dining option is the Orangery (orangeryknoxville.com).

The original Orangery opened in 1971 but burned down in 1984. It was rebuilt and reopened in 1986, closed

travel for a period in 2009, but reopened under new ownership in September.

The food at the Orangery is a mix of French and international cuisine, with menu items like the grilled salmon Cobb salad, crepes and braised Carolina grouper. Reservations are recommended.

A trip to Knoxville wouldn’t be complete without eating at the Tomato Head (thetomatohead.com) on Market Square. Six out of six Knoxville frequenters chose the Tomato Head as their all-time favorite eatery in the city. The Tomato Head boasts fresh ingredients and items prepared daily like breads and desserts and features a menu packed with pizza, sandwiches, salads and soups. Try ordering anything with hummus (it’s to die for!), the Oh Boy chicken sandwich or the Vegetarian Sandwich with marinated tofu. And make sure to get a salad— the dressings are made in-house.

Where to Shop Bliss and Bliss Home (shopinbliss. com) are two cute stores located across from each other on Market Square.

Bliss carries clothing, accessories, books and other fun items (think funky initials to hang on the walls and colorful cabinet knobs) while Bliss Home offers a wide range of great furniture and unique artwork.

Lola B. and Obligato are two women’s boutiques located on Kingston Pike that you should visit while on your shopping trip in Knoxville (lots of other boutiques and restaurants are in this area as well.) At Lola B. (shoplolab.com), browse lines like Susana Monaco, Cynthia Steffe and Poleci, and pick up a pair of jeans by Habitual, Rock and Republic or Red Engine.

Obligato (865.558.0822) carries the new Virgins, Saints & Angels jewelry lines and clothing by Splendid, Michael Stars and Alice & Olivia.

For the guys, stop by Coachman Clothiers (coachmanclothiers.com) for clothing, shoes and accessories. Some of the brands this shop offers are Jack Victor, Hart Schaffner Marx, Southern Proper and Mountain Khakis. You can also purchase custom suits, sportcoats, shirts and trousers.

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St. George Island Life is beautiful on St. George Island. The breathtaking beaches and delicious Apalachicola Bay seafood areas are located well away from any potential impacts from the oil spill, as identified by the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration’s daily trajectory maps.

All environmental agencies report the fisheries, wildlife and seafood in the area are safe and there are no alerts.

St. George Island is a 28-mile barrier reef located in the heart of the Forgotten Coast off the Northwest Florida Panhandle. There are no high-rise hotels or bungee cord jumps. In the peak of high season, lucky beachcombers often find themselves on a mile stretch of completely deserted beach sprinkled with shells or gliding in a kayak on the Apalachicola Bay while blue heron and eagles soar. Few family travel destinations combine the tradition, luxury and distinction of St. George Island. There are very few areas that so magically blend daily performances by dancing dolphins with a diverse selection of acclaimed restaurants and trendy shops.

Resort Vacation Properties manages more than 370 private rental homes from beachfront cottages to generous estates overlooking Apalachicola Bay. In virtually every property, assorted amenities abound from pools and hot tubs to elevators and wireless internet. For guests’ convenience, the company provides free long distance calls, complimentary linens and travel insurance included in every reservation. To plan your vacation call 888.678.9022 or visit resortvacationproperties.com and apalachicolabay.org.

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Beaches of South Walton The 26 miles of coastline in Beaches of South Walton are open for enjoyment. Increasing access to the region, air service by Southwest Airlines will began in May to the new Northwest Florida Beaches International Airport.

Nonstop service is available from Nashville and Memphis as well as many other markets.

There are tons of activities for summer travelers in Beaches of South Walton, including sand sculpture demonstrations along Rosemary Beach, new Le Grande Cirque performances in Sandestin, movie nights in Water Color, the Digital Graffiti festival in Alys Beach and many more. At the time of publication, the oil slick in the Gulf remains far from Beaches of South Walton. The Tourist Development Council and its lodging partners are monitoring conditions closely, and developing generous travel policies should any of the beaches be impacted. Beaches of South Walton is a destination located along Northwest Florida’s Gulf Coast and comprised of 15 picturesque beach communities, white sand beaches and emerald green waters. Named as one of the top 12 travel destinations for 2010

by Frommer’s, visitors enjoy an upscale, relaxing escape. For more information visit beachesofsouthwalton.com or call 800.822.6877. For updates on beach conditions, visit bswupdate.com.

Dale Peterson Vacation Rentals Dale Peterson Vacation Rentals is the premier vacation rental source for Northwest Florida’s Gulf Coast. It offers vacation rental homes, condos and cottages available in Navarre, Fort Walton Beach, Destin, the Beaches of South

Walton and Panama City Beach. Voted the best beaches in the South and top family destination four years running

by Southern Living readers, Northwest Florida’s coast is everything a family could want in a vacation. Famous for its sugar white sands and emerald waters, the area is a beach goer’s delight. Here, visitors are right in the middle of fun attractions for the children and the area’s widest selection of restaurants as well as shopping that includes everything from gallery and art boutiques to high fashion shops, antique malls and the nation’s largest designer outlet mall. With its top-ranked golf courses, large charter fishing fleet and bountiful waters, the beautiful Gulf Coast is a sportsman’s paradise. Golfers will find 14 public and semi-public golf courses within close driving distance.

Destin Harbor awaits those who love water sports. For more information call 800.336.9669 or visit destinresorts.com.

Spectrum Resorts Spectrum Resorts, a leader in luxury accommodations along the Alabama Gulf Coast, has implemented a campaign for visitors to support the coast and keep their vacation plans intact during the recent oil spill event, whose effects, if any, are still unknown.

All guests booking through Spectrum Resorts at the Beach Club, Turquoise Place and Caribe Resort will receive a complimentary t-shirt to show their support. The shirts are also available for purchase. A portion of the proceeds will be donated to the Bon Secour National Wildlife Refuge in Gulf Shores which sits adjacent to the Beach Club.

Additionally, Spectrum Resorts is offering a “100-percent vacation guaran-

advertorial tee” and a “no-deposit-required” policy for guests staying at any of its three properties in Gulf Shores and Orange Beach, Alabama.

Spectrum Resorts properties have unique features such as lazy rivers, pools and seasonal entertainment.

Spectrum Resorts added that the area is beautiful right now. The weather is clear, the water is clear; the beaches are white and clean. It was also announced recently that Alabama’s beaches will remain open, in spite of the oil spill. For up-to-date information on Spectrum Resorts visit spectrumresorts.com.

Florida’s Santa Rosa County Santa Rosa County, tucked away in a corner of Northwest Florida, is far from crowded theme parks and packed beaches. Among Florida’s treasured barrier islands, Navarre Beach, located on Santa Rosa Island, is a natural retreat surrounded by protected coastline.

Northwest Florida’s Gulf Coast has been selected by Frommer’s, a popular sources travel guide, as one of the Top 12 Destinations for 2010.

Navarre Beach has an outstanding variety of accommodations. Visitors can choose from gulf-front or soundside vacation homes, town homes or condominiums. Rental Companies on the beach can help find the perfect spot for any vacation. There are also several budget-friendly hotels and motels.

Fishing enthusiasts will soon have a brand new pier to spend the day casting lines for fresh grouper, snapper, and amberjack. The new 1,500-foot Navarre fishing pier—the longest in the state of Florida—is scheduled to open this month.

The area also encompasses two more main vacation destinations: historic Milton and the Blackwater River State Forest, giving this part of Florida its name—Beaches to Rivers. For more information call 800.480.SAND or visit floridabeachestorivers.com.

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Putnam (far right) in the studio with Joan Baez

The Music Maker

How did musician and producer Norbert Putnam end up opening for the Beatles at the group’s first American concert, recording with Elvis and helping pioneer Tennessee’s music scene in general? Well, it all started with three chords, a little fate and a lot of hard work. TEXT Aaron Dalton | PHOTOGRAPHY courtesy of Norbert Putnam, Billy Woboys Photography

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o you believe in fate? If so, then you probably don’t think it’s a coincidence that Norbert Putnam’s father happened to have a giant upright acoustic bass. In 1960, when 15-year-old Putnam’s classmates in Muscle Shoals, Alabama, needed a bass player for their Elvis Presley cover band, they remembered that Norbert had the requisite instrument.

But Putnam had never actually played his dad’s bass. “What makes you think I can learn quickly enough to join your band?” he asked Danny Cross, the fellow who was forming the group. “Norbert, this Sun Records stuff only has three chords,” said Cross. “Surely you can find three notes.”

Well, Putnam figured he could learn the songs after all.

He started playing at sock hops in high school gyms and when he saw how much the bobby-sox girls got excited by the music, Putnam decided he might like being a

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musician after all.

So fate had a hand in launching the storied career of Norbert Putnam. But it was a long way from those high school gyms to the Nashville recording studios where Putnam played bass on literally thousands of recordings in the late 1960s before co-founding DANOR Music publishing company with best friend David Briggs and building the famous Quadrafonic Studio in 1970.

Fate had a hand, but it can’t get all the credit. Turn the clock back to 15-year-old Putnam who came home from school every afternoon, took his bass and played it straight through until 9 p.m. trying to learn all the parts that Bill Black played on the Elvis records.

Putnam was no child prodigy with perfect pitch. In the beginning, he had to sweat it out, hunting for the right notes. “I had to work very hard to get it, but if you play six hours a day from the time you’re 15 until you turn 18, you will become proficient,” he says.

So at this point, you’re thinking

that hard work deserves the lion’s share of the credit for Putnam’s success. But wait a second, because fate is about to walk back on stage. There were plenty of hardworking musicians playing sock hops and fraternity parties around the country on the weekends to make some good pocket money, but not many of them happened to live in Muscle Shoals, where an entrepreneur named Rick Hall decided to produce some records in a studio carved out of abandoned warehouse space. Amazingly, that first song (“You Better Move On”

by Arthur Alexander) made the top 20 list.

Putnam joined the house rhythm section for a new Muscle Shoals studio called FAME (Florence Alabama Music Enterprises), where he soon played bass on an even bigger hit song called “What Kind of Fool Do You Think I Am”

by The Tams.

Two big hits in such a short period of time? Even for a hardworking musician, that sounds a bit like fate. People were suddenly

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Putnam at a recent recording session in Jackson, Tennessee.

coming from Atlanta and Nashville to work with Putnam and the rest of the Muscle Shoals Rhythm Section. Seeing his career in the recording studio take off, Putnam dropped out of college (much to the dismay of his parents). Within a few years, he had moved to Nashville where he and fellow Rhythm Section members David Briggs and Jerry Carrigan amassed a golden reputation and became the most sought after pop-rock studio musicians in town.

In his mid-20s, Putnam was in demand and playing an incredible 600 record dates a year, sometimes as many as four sessions per day.

As exciting as it sounds, it was also grueling work: three-hour sessions, four brand-new songs per session with just two 10-minute breaks to catch his breath. “In those days, we didn’t have multitrack recording. Most everything went down live to three tracks,” says Putnam. “If you played a wrong note, everyone backed off and the band stopped. The whole point of being a studio guy was to

come in and play flawlessly until the singer got the song the way he wanted it.”

So Putnam decided to try his hand at music publishing. He teamed up with David Briggs to form DANOR Music and they constructed a small demo studio for themselves. But as usual, things didn’t work out quite as Putnam had planned.

It turned out that Joan Baez was interested in making a record in Putnam’s studio. Putnam had played bass on four or five of Baez’s earlier records, but now she wanted him to lead the sessions in his own studio. And it gets better. Putnam’s friend Kris Kristofferson who was slated to produce the Baez album offered the project to Putnam instead at the last minute. Putnam stepped into the breach, playing bass on the record from the studio’s control room while producing at the same time. Baez had never sold more than 100,000 records before, but when “The Night They Drove Old Dixie Down” emerged from June 2010 • athometn.com | 43

at home with those sessions, she sold more than a million copies of the song.

A year later, Neil Young, in town for the Johnny Cash television show, dropped in to record his Harvest album with the hit song “Keep Me Searching for a Heart of Gold.” Harvest turned out to be the biggest selling record in America that year, moving five million copies.

In the coming years, Putnam produced multiplatinum records for young Dan Fogelberg and then took Jimmy Buffett down to Miami to record the seminal album Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes. That album produced the still-popular hit single “Margaritaville” and gave Buffett an enduring brand identity.

Putnam went on to pioneer the recording scene in Franklin, Tennessee. His Bennett House studio was the first professional recording studio constructed there in 1980. Within 10 years, the quaint little town became home to more than 60 recording studios.

And then Putnam suddenly gave it all up and retired to beautiful Hilton Head, South Carolina.

But when he grew tired of golf and the beach, he

returned to Middle Tennessee and set about restoring some historic mansions near Columbia. A few years later he received an offer to build studios and develop a music industry studies school at Delta State University in Mississippi. “If you can get me approved, I’ll also come and teach,” Putnam said, reminding the provost that he had dropped out of college. When Delta State reviewed his career, they decided Putnam was so qualified that they made him director of the DMI Music School.

Now Putnam lives in Jackson, Tennessee, in a sweet 1930s home on the city’s old Millionaire’s Row. He and his wife Sheryl, a talented designer, were drawn to the city because of its proximity to both Memphis and Nashville, where they each have grandchildren, and also because the city made such an impression on them for the warmth and philanthropic generosity of its citizens.

Of course you can’t keep a man with Putnam’s talents out of the music business for long. As soon as he moved to Jackson, the president of Lambuth University asked him to design an Entertainment/Music Industry Studies program that has become the col-

at home with lege’s fastest growing focus. Putnam then went up the road a bit to McKenzie, Tennessee, and designed a music studio at Bethel University which formed the cornerstone of a program that soon attracted 300 music industry students.

That’s not everything of course. Not even the half of it. There’s still the little music studio that Putnam built in the basement of his Jackson home, the philanthropic galas he and Sheryl co-chair in Jackson, the record label he’s starting up to produce “trop rock” Gulf Coast music and the tribute album he’s putting together in memory of his friend Dan Fogelberg. How do you sum up the work of a man who has been inducted into the Alabama Music Hall of Fame, was honored by a unanimous state Senate proclamation for his contribution to Tennessee music, who played with Elvis and opened for the Beatles at their first American concert?

You can’t really. It would take a book. Putnam has been working on just such a memoir for about 10 years and you can bet that it will be filled with great stories. But meanwhile, maybe you end with a quick anecdote about Elvis. In 1970, when Putnam

was 28 years old, he was playing bass on some Elvis recordings at the Stax studios in Memphis. Elvis was nocturnal, so the band started recording around 8 p.m. and broke for lunch at midnight.

At one of these midnight meals, Elvis asked Putnam how he got started in the business and Putnam told the story about feeling emboldened enough to play in the high school band by the knowledge that there were only three chords in the Elvis songs the band was covering. Elvis thought this over and said, “You know Putt, if I had been Sinatra, you would never have gotten those complicated bass lines together.”

So maybe Putnam got lucky after all.

The House of Your Dreams Now in its nineteenth year, the St. Jude Dream Home Giveaway has raised more than $177 million for the Memphis-based hospital and research center. Here, get a preview of Tennessee’s Dream Homes in Chattanooga, Nashville and Memphis and learn why your $100 ticket purchase makes all the difference in the world.

Chattanooga

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TEXT Lindsey Phillips | PHOTOGRAPHY Sarah Dobbins (Chattanooga home), Mike Boatman (Nashville home), Norman Gilbert (Memphis home) and Forest Hill Photography (Memphis home)

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Memphis Dream Home 10582 Harvest Oaks Drive Collierville, TN 38017 Tour the Home: Through June 20 Saturdays, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Sundays, noon-5 p.m.

June 21-June 26 10 a.m.-9 p.m.

Hundreds of professionals donate their time and labor to make the St. Jude Dream Home Giveaway a reality.

Below are major sponsors:

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Southern Serenity Homes WMC-TV 5, Memphis KIX 106—Today’s Best Country Wolfchase Honda Lowe’s The Commercial Appeal Crye-Leike Realtors Samuel’s Furniture & Interiors Allstate Regions Circle K Brizo Citizen’s National Bank 1st Floor

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n June 27, ticket holders across the state will have the chance to win one of three St. Jude Dream Homes, brand-new residences valued between $350,000 and $550,000 and located in Chattanooga, Memphis and Nashville.

In addition to the homes, sponsors will also give away a variety of other prizes all worth $1,000 or more such as cars, motorcycles, groceries and vacations.

But the best part? Proceeds from the $100 tickets pool together to make up one of the largest singleevent fundraisers for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital nationwide; the campaign has raised more than $177 million for the facility since Dr. Donald Mack, a pediatric physician who referred the first out-of-state patient to St. Jude, created the giveaway in 1991.

“I like to think of the Dream Home program as a win-win opportunity,” says Alan Johnson, director of the program for ALSAC, the fundraising group behind St. Jude. “It allows donors to give money to a great cause, with the obvious benefit of having a chance to win a beautiful house or another wonderful prize. It allows sponsors and volunteers from all industries and walks of life to be able to contribute in their own way ... The Dream Home project gives the community an exciting project and worthwhile cause to rally behind.”

What started with Dr. Mack and one house in Shreveport, Louisiana has continued to grow

throughout the years, with 32 confirmed homes this year, the most the program has built and given away to date. Next year, Johnson says St. Jude plans to add three to five more homes. “This is inspiring, given the economic situation we are in,” he says. “The fact that we continue to have more builders and developers anxious to support the program speaks volumes about the character and hearts of those in the building industry.”

The homes are constructed primarily (and in some cases, exclusively) using donations of land, materials and labor at no cost to St. Jude. This year, the average donations per house nationwide have actually increased, according to Johnson.

Tennessee’s three homes are built by Chattanooga’s Pratt and Associates, Nashville’s Southern Land Company and Memphis’ Southern Serenity Homes, all of which have participated in the past and have been named St. Jude Builders of the Year.

“A Dream Home builder usually emerges based on their passion for the project and their interest in the mission of St. Jude,” Johnson says. “Their passion and the passion of our other local partners is often what energizes the community and makes the project a success.”

Each home represents not only a unique style, but also the dedication of hundreds of local professionals involved. The homes are open for tours through June 26, and tickets are available at a number of local outlets. For more information visit stjude.org.

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Memphis The 2010 Memphis Dream Home, located in Collierville’s Harvest Oaks Subdivision, is an English Tudor-style house consisting of 4,632 heated square feet. It was built for the third consecutive year by Southern Serenity Homes and custom designed by Ed Yendrik of Classic Home Designs. The two-story Memphis house includes five bedrooms, four baths, an office, media room, bonus room and playroom as well as a three-car garage and covered back patio.

“The home features an open floor plan layout that has the kitchen area open to the den with a beautiful stone fireplace,” says Greg Bridgers, who owns Southern Serenity Homes with Kevin White. “The kitchen is comprised of appliances that any chef would die to have.”

These appliances include a 48-inch six-burner gas oven with a griddle and two ovens, as well as an oven/microwave combination. Cabinets by Blue Ribbon Cabinetry coupled with Ferguson appliances make the room a stylish area in which to entertain.

The kitchen opens into the formal dining room and looks out over the living room where hardwood floors and a stone fireplace

by Elegant Stonework blend with “clam chowder” painted walls, creating a classic atmosphere.

The master bedroom is outfitted in burnished brandy-colored paint and leads into the luxurious master bathroom, which connects to a 200-square-foot walkin closet.

While the home is valued at $540,000, Bridgers says the structure is actually worth more, due to the upgrades that some of the suppliers added this year.

For example, Quality Insulation upgraded the St. Jude Dream Home to an eco-friendly Icynene insulation, “an open cell foam that is sprayed onto the exterior walls and rafters that contributes to a healthier, quieter and more energy efficient building,” explains 50 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

Russ Laney, associate director of construction for the St. Jude Dream Homes. “It greatly reduces infiltration in the home, eliminating drafty windows and exterior walls. The net effect on low utility bills varies by application and region, but can contribute fifty percent and more reduction in energy used which translates directly into lower utility bills.”

Other environmentally conscious details include a hot water circulating pump with energy efficient tankless water heaters done by All About Plumbing.

Southern Serenity’s involvement with St. Jude began in 2008 when the builders constructed a home worth $580,000 in the Wolf River Ranch Subdivision. The Memphis home sold 12,500 tickets that year, raising $1,250,000 for St. Jude and earning Southern Serenity a St. Jude Builder of the Year award. “They also donated $25,000 of their own funds toward the purchase of the lot,” says Alan Johnson, director of the Dream Home program for ALSAC, the fundraising group behind St. Jude.. “It was apparent in their initial interview and is apparent still when they address the community, that they have a passion for our cause and are dedicated to making a difference. Beyond that, they build a beautiful house designed for the family, with innovative amenities, outstanding finishes and excellent quality.”

This year, Bridgers says they have a goal to sell 13,000 tickets. While the 2010 home is complete and ready for tours, Southern Serenity is already planning for next year. “We are looking forward to continuing our relationship with [St. Jude] in the future,” says Bridgers says. “Once visiitng the hospital, anyone that has a heart would feel impelled to be involved with an organization as great as St. Jude. Kevin and I have been fortunate enough to meet a lot of these children that were told by other doctors that there was nothing else they could do for them, yet St. Jude was able to find a cure for their disease.”

Tickets are available at Crye-Leike Realtors, Regions, Lowe’s and Samuel’s Furniture & Interiors.

PHOTOGRAPHY Forest Hill Photography

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Nashville Dream Home 105 Fitzgerald Street Franklin, TN 37064 Tour the Home: Through June 20 Saturdays, 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Sundays, noon-5 p.m.

June 21-June 26 9 a.m.- 9 p.m.

Hundreds of professionals donate their time and labor to make the St. Jude Dream Home Giveaway a reality. Below are major sponsors: Fox 17, WZTV Nashville Southern Land Company 98 WSIX Greater Nashville House & Home digiChart Regions American Signature Furniture Brizo Westhaven Golf Club Jet’s Pizza Renew Spa Boutique NashvilleNightOut.com McLellan Style Ferguson Bath & Kitchen Gallery Stites & Harbison, PLLC Nashville Sympony

PHOTOGRAPHY Mike Boatman

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Nashville Located on a corner lot in Franklin’s Westhaven neighborhood is the 2010 Middle Tennessee St. Jude Dream Home, a Classic Revival-style structure featuring an expansive, two-story wraparound porch and lush southern landscaping.

The home was built by Franklin’s Southern Land Company (SLC Homebuilding), the same builder that has constructed Nashville’s St. Jude Dream Homes since 2004.

“The Dream Home gives Southern Land Company an opportunity to assist a great organization dedicated to helping children, but it also gives our employees the chance to get involved in charitable giving beyond just writing a corporate check,” says Jim Cheney, vice president of communications for SLC Homebuilding. “It’s a hands-on endeavor and has become a source of pride for our entire company and its partners.”

This year’s home is a 3,174-square foot house valued at $550,000. Along with three bedrooms and three-and-a-half baths the structure features a spacious bonus room upstairs with access to the porch, a three-car garage, a formal dining room and a study.

The master suite, located downstairs, is complete

with double-vanities, ample closet space and an elegant marble shower and bathtub.

A light color scheme and dark hardwood floors flow throughout the house, giving it a modern-yetfunctional feel, a quality mirrored also in the home’s open floorplan. “We shoot for floorplans that are accessible to the broadest audience,” Cheney explains.

“The Dream Home Campaign is appealing to lots of different people who have different likes and dislikes. SLC Homebuilding tries to find a good balance between innovation and practicality, and the designers dress up the interior.”

Outside, a stone walkway weaves through blooming flower beds and ends at a fire pit, creating a relaxing outdoor retreat bordered by a privacy fence and providing a great spot in which to enjoy the property’s flowering trees, hedgerows and other landscaping.

Maple custom ceiling height cabinets with a butler’s pantry and wine cooler in the kitchen make the space not only a casual family gathering spot but also functional for entertaining.

In an effort to build green, the home also features low-flow faucets from Moen, compact fluorescent light bulbs, programmable thermostats, increased r-49 insulation in the attic, a recirculating pump and LP TechShield roof sheathing, Cheney says.

feature While each of SLC Homebuilding’s Dream Homes has varied in architectural period style and size, Cheney says the company always likes to focus on modern floorplans, traditional elevations and dense horticulture. “SLC is highly innovative and considered a visionary in communities they are in,” says Alan Johnson director of the Dream Home program for ALSAC, the fundraising group behind St. Jude. “Their developments and products are very unique, community-centered and luxuriously finished.

SLC Homebuilding has been awarded St. Jude Builder of the Year as well as Campaign of the Year and the Middle Tennessee market has held the record for ticket sales (and funds raised) for the last three years.

While the current record for ticket sales is 16,000 tickets, the Middle Tennessee market is aiming to sell 17,000 this year.

“It is also apparent when you speak with them [SLC Homebuilding] that everyone on their team is engaged with the mission of St. Jude,” Johnson says. “They all contribute ideas and leverage their relationships to make the campaign a success. They think outside the box and have the ability to energize those around them to become involved and get excited about the campaign.”

Cheney says he hopes this Dream Home provides St. Jude with as much as $1.7 million in research funding this year. “I also hope it makes people feel that there is a lot of benevolence in this part of the country and people have the ability to be very selfless when it comes to something bigger than themselves,” he says. “I want St. Jude to know that they can count on Middle Tennesseans long-term.”

Tickets are available at Regions bank locations and American Signature Furniture locations.

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Chattanooga The 2010 Chattanooga St. Jude Dream Home, located in the Overlook community just a short drive from the downtown area and Hixson, is a 3,688-square-foot residence constructed by Pratt and Associates in the company’s signature Craftsmanstyle of architecture.

The home’s construction began in January and was completed on May 7, a process that Win Pratt, associate vice president of Win and Associates, says was “impossible not to want to participate” in. The company had participated in the Dream Home Giveaway the previous year and was eager to work with St. Jude again, as well as many of the same vendors from 2009.

“Building this beautiful home for St. Jude is a very enriching and rewarding process,” Pratt says. “The homebuilding industry even through the recent ups and downs has provided for us and participating in this fundraising event is a great chance for us to give back to the community and help other families in need.”

Valued at $350,000, the two-story home is composed of five bedrooms and four baths with the master suite and three of the bedrooms and bathrooms

located upstairs. An additional bedroom and bathroom are downstairs, as well as the kitchen, breakfast nook, formal dining room, living room and study.

Other features include a game room, a bonus room, a covered front porch, a two-car garage complete with a mudroom, Brizo (the Dream Home Giveaway’s first national sponsor) plumbing fixtures, Mohawk Aladin carpet and James Hardie Color Plus Siding.

“We just wanted to build a nice quality home that represents the core beliefs and values of our company like all the homes we build,” Pratt says. “I feel certain we accomplished that.”

The kitchen is equipped with Frigidaire appliances and is accented with Giallo ornamental granite countertops and antique painted white cabinets with a mocha distressed glaze. It looks out over the living room, outfitted in Sovereign Pacifica Maple Saddle Engineered hardwood flooring, which runs throughout the downstairs of the of the home. All of the residence’s bathrooms, including the spacious master retreat, are done in Romanza ivory tile.

The Overlook community, also built by Pratt and Associates, will soon feature a community pool and cabana, adding to the appeal of the already convenient location. The neighborhood is also located near the Northgate Mall, Chattanooga Airport and Hamil-

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This is Pratt and Associates second experience building the Chattanooga area’s St. Jude Dream Home. Last year, the company won St. Jude Builder of the Year for its work on that house.

“We built the 2009 Dream Home and had such a great experience we decided to participate again,” Pratt says. “We were able to cooperate again with most all the same gracious trade partners and vendors that donated labor and materials last year, so this year has been a breeze.”

Russ Laney, associate director of construction for the St. Jude Dream Homes, says the program enjoys working with Pratt and Associates because of the company’s attention to detail, emphasis on quality of construction and the uniqueness of personal style. “Each home has its own character and appears to have been custom designed just for that lot, yet tastefully complementing the entire community’s feel,” Laney says.

The company, which builds homes and subdivisions in areas including Tennessee, Mississippi and Georgia, also has an excellent reputation, another quality factoring into the Dream Home Program’s decision to work with Pratt and Associates, according to Laney.

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$1,000 during the June 27 giveaway. But remember— even if you don’t win a new home or prize, the price of your ticket goes to an excellent cause. “St. Jude is an awesome organization,” Pratt says. “They do such wonderful things for children and their families that are suffering from serious illnesses with open arms and lots of love. I would encourage all to come out, check the house out and purchase a ticket. You can rest assured that your ticket purchase is for a good cause much less not bad odds to win a brand new Pratt home.”

Tickets for the Chattanooga Home are available at Trust Federal Credit Union and multiple Lowe’s locations including Lowe’s of Athens, Lowe’s of Chattanooga, Lowe’s of Cleveland, Lowe’s of North Chattnooga, Lowe’s of Kimball and Lowe’s of Dayton. You can also purchase them online or by calling 800.750.6962.

The mission of St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital is to advance cures, and means of prevention, for pediatric catastrophic diseases through research and treatment. Consistent with the vision of our founder, Danny Thomas, no child is denied treatment based on race, religion or a family’s ability to pay.

At Home Tennessee would like to give special thanks to all of our photographers, who donated their time and talents to this special project. Thanks to Mike Boatman, Sarah Dobbins, Norman Gilbert and John Terry of Forest Hill Photography.

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A Taste of Tennessee Barbecue From hickory smoked ribs to special dry rubs sans wet sauce, Tennessee has every kind of barbecue you could ever crave. At Home Tennessee has compiled a sampling of some of the state’s greats, so make it a point to stop by these joints —you might discover a new favorite! TEXT compiled by staff | PHOTOGRAPHY Courtesy of Dead End BBQ and Buddy’s Bar-B-Que

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e all know the Volunteer State has no shortage of barbecue joints. But with every kind of pulled pork and barbecue sandwich you could ever crave, where does a hungry Tennessean start? While there are tons of other mouthwatering restaurants located all across the state, At Home Tennessee has compiled a sampling of favorites from Memphis’ classic Rendezvous ribs to Knoxville’s Dead End BBQ, and lots more in between. So unbuckle your belt, sit back and enjoy some of the state’s tastiest comfort foods.

Buddy’s Barb-B-Que When Buddy’s Bar-B-Que (buddysbarbq.com) first opened its doors in 1972, a Tennessee tradition was born. Celebrating more than 32 years of serving the Volunteer State real hickory smoked barbecue, Buddy’s has become a local favorite for even the toughest critics.

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LaMuriel both acquired a fine taste for authentic barbecue growing up in Alabama and when they couldn’t find what they were looking for in Knoxville, they decided to make their own.

Still using the same recipes today, including LaMuriel’s famous Lemon Ice Box Pie, Buddy’s Barb-B-Que continues to flourish and serve its bona fide barbecue to millions. Buddy’s offers a variety of dinners, sandwiches, side dishes, breakfasts and desserts to its hungry customers. Singer and actress Dinah Shore even insisted she needed the recipe for the restaurant’s famous hushpuppies for her cookbook. Still family-operated by the founder’s children and grandchildren, Buddy’s Barb-B-Que continues to serve up the food that made it so popular in the first place. Multiple locations, 865.588.0051, buddysbarbq.com

Cajun Cookers Owner Darrell Hicks opened this barbecue joint 35 years ago after entering a barbecue contest. (He eventually went on to become the Memphis Grand Champion and World Champion in 1987 and 1988.) Originally located in Jackson’s Old English Inn, Hicks moved Cajun Cookers to Humboldt in 2009. With dishes such as the boneless/skinless bacon-wrapped chicken thigh, smoked and seasoned with Italian

dressing, it’s no wonder that Cajun Cookers has been the featured caterer for 18 years at the Arkansas Gaming and Fishing Foundation Hall of Fame Banquet, a spot Governor Mike Huckabee secured. Hicks has also catered several events at the home of Sam Walton and about 15 years ago, catered an event for 13,000 people at the Wal-Mart shareholders meeting.

The barbecue recipe is unique because it is dry with no wet sauce, but with special seasoning that brings out the natural flavor of the meat. Hicks is planning to open a new location of Cajun Cookers on Old Medina Road in the near future. 18 Three-Way Lane, Humbolt, 731.668.1571, cajuncookers.net.

Corky’s Ribs & BBQ What started with one Memphis location and a 1950s-inspired vision (which included lots of neon, exposed brick and servers in white collared shirts and black bow ties) in 1984 has flourished to include locations in seven states, all serving up hickory smoked ribs and (literally) hand pulled pork. This barbecue restaurant has racked up tons of local and national recognition; it has been named home to the best barbecue sauce four years in row by Southern Living and was featured on Food Network’s “Best of

food BBQ,” among other accolades. With a menu dotted with trophy symbols to indicate award-winning dishes like the Bar-B-Q Pork Sandwich, the Memphis Style Loaded Potato and Bar-B-Q Nachos, it’s no wonder this Memphis barbecue institution has gained such popularity. These authentic dishes are even available for shipping or you can stop by a restaurant for to-go orders and catering options. Multiple locations, corkysribsandbbq.com

Dead End BBQ Don’t let the name fool you. Founded at the end of a dead-end street where locals frequently gathered to enjoy barbecue, Dead End BBQ has served barbecue lovers a vast menu of some of the best dishes in the state for more than a decade. The restaurant has competed in several barbecue competitions and continues to receive national accolades for its recipes. The fullservice eatery offers visitors a menu filled with award-winning pork, chicken and St. Louis cut rib plates, signature sandwiches, salads and unique side dishes such as the Red, White and Bleu Slaw and Macaroni and pimiento cheese. The restaurant also offers cooking classes for those who want to perfect their own barbecue cookouts. Be sure not to pass up Dead End’s “Smoked Wings Wednesday” where you can enjoy 50 cent wings from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m.

Both locals and visitors from afar come to Dead End for its homemade tastes and friendly atmosphere. 3621 Sutherland Avenue, Knoxville, 865.212.5655, deadendbbq.com

Germantown Commissary As a highly acclaimed barbecue joint in the Memphis area, the Commissary has served its famous hickorysmoked, slow-cooked barbecue and ribs for more 25 years. Perfecting the authentic Memphis-style rub, the Commissary has attracted multiple celebrities like Faith Hill, Tim McGraw, Jimmy Buffet, the Eagles and Jack Nicklaus to name a few.

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food Playboy.com’s list of America’s Best Barbecue. The menu consists of a traditional barbecue fare including its famous dry-rubbed ribs (all you can eat on Mondays), barbecue shoulder, smoked sausage, tamales and a list of delectable desserts (try the caramel cake!) that no one can pass up on. Be sure to try a barbecue sandwich plate including slaw, baked beans and a deviled egg. The Commissary also offers full-service catering that can feed anywhere from 10 to 10,000 people. 2290 South Germantown Road, Germantown, 901.754.5540, commissarybbq.com

Jacks’ Bar-B-Que Winning awards such as “Best Sauce on the Planet” in 2004 at the American Royal Barbeque Contest and taking first place at the National Barbeque Conference and Expo in 2008, Jack’s Bar-B-Que in Nashville has earned some bragging rights. The restaurant has even been written up in The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, Southern Living and USA Today. Owner Jack Cawthon started this barbecue joint in a concrete block building on the corner of 1st Avenue and Broadway; he now owns two locations in the city. Offering “pit-to-plate”-style barbecue, Jack’s hickory fare is smoked for 18 hours. And with six sauces to choose from—Kansas City Style, Tennessee Original, Texas Sweet Hot, XXX-911 (a mix of Tennessee and Texas styles), Carolina Style and the horseradish-based Music City White Sauce—you can sample a range of smoked treats right in Music City. 416 Broadway, Nashville 615.254.5715; 334 West Trinity Lane, Nashville, 615.228.9888, jacksbarbecue.com

Rendezvous In 1948, Charlie Vergos expanded his diner’s menu from ham and cheese sandwiches to ribs after discovering a coal chute in the diner’s basement. Since then, people have been pouring in from all over Tennessee to get a taste of Memphis’ good old fashioned barbecue. Rendezvous has won its share of awards as Southern Living named Rendez70 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

food vous the Best Barbeque Restaurant and Esquire listed it as one of the Top 5 Best BBQ Joints in America among many other honors and awards.

Rendezvous has also been featured on the Travel Channel, the Food Network and the Today Show. So what should you order at Rendezvous?

Well, you shouldn’t visit without trying the “World-Famous Rendezvous Charcoal-Broiled Pork Ribs,” but as the menu suggests, the restaurant also serves “Other Good Things” such as beef brisket, charcoal-broiled chicken, lamb riblets and red beans and rice.

52 South 2nd Street, Memphis, 901.523.2746, hogsfly.com

Sugar’s Ribs Located in Chattanooga, Sugar’s Ribs is for serious barbecue lovers. Owners Lawton and Karen Haygood, who also run Boathouse Rotisserie & Raw Bar and Canyon Grill, bought and remodeled the old Pancake Man Restaurant, opening Sugar’s in 2007. Sugar’s prides itself on serving freshly cooked, old fashioned barbecue that tastes like it might have come from your own backyard. This Chattanooga favorite has earned multiple local awards for best barbecue, best take-out and best East Ridge restaurant.Some of the barbecue joint’s signature meals include moist-on-the-inside, crunchyon-the-outside spare ribs, chopped pork, rotisserie chicken, brisket and homemade sweet sausage. For sides, try fresh corn on the cob, grilled okra, dill potato salad or grilled cornbread sticks. 2450 15th Avenue, Chattanooga, 423.826.1199, sugarsribs.com

Nikki Aviotti, Janna Herbison, Lauren McDermott, Lindsey Phillips and Katja Zurcher contributed to this article.

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This Father’s Day, cook up something special for your main man.

This dish from Chef Matthew Crone combines local ingredients and simple techniques for an end-product that showcases sophisticated Southern fare. Don’t forget to check back next month for another step-by-step recipe from chefs at L’ECOLE Culinaire in Memphis.

PHOTOGRAPHY Nikki Aviotti

The garnishes pictured are four sugared apple cubes speared on rosemary and small fried onions.

Grilled Newman Farms Country Pork Rib Eye with Caramelized Apple Jus and Creamy Delta Grits Pork Rib Eye If your pork is flat, try tying it with string to create the “lollipop” effect.

1 pork rib eye 2 cloves garlic 1 pinch rosemary Salt and pepper to taste 1. Pan sear on high heat in a liberal amount of canola oil, garlic, salt, peppercorn and rosemary until browned.

2. Roast until internal temperature is about 145° (about 10-15 minutes.)

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When searing the pork rib eye, stay away from using extra virgin olive oil—it burns too quickly. Chef Crone recommends sticking to a liberal amount of canola oil.

1 shallot, roughly chopped 1 sprig of thyme 1 apple cored, chopped and sautéed ¼ c. brown sugar 1 c. red wine 4 c.beef broth 1 pinch of rosemary Salt and pepper to taste 1. For the sauce, sauté the shallots, thyme and apple until golden brown or (caramelized) add red wine and reduce until almost dry.

2. Add brown sugar and let melt. Add beef stock and rosemary then reduce by 2/3. Strain and reserve for later.

Caramelized Apple Jus

To keep your grit cakes from falling apart, batter them in flour, egg yolk and then more flour before pan frying them.

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2 apples. cored and chopped 2 Tbsp. garlic powder 2 Tbsp. brown sugar ¼ c. balsamic vinegar

food 1 pinch of salt 1. Core the apples and chop it into ½ inch cubes.

2. Sauté on high with a small amount of oil until golden brown. Add in the sugar and let it melt and begin to color, then add in the balsamic vinegar and reduce slightly until thick.

Creamy Delta Grit Cakes 1 c. Delta Grind stone ground grits 3 c. whole milk 1 c. heavy cream 1 Tbsp. garlic powder 1 Tbsp. onion powder 2 whole eggs 2 oz. cream cheese Salt and pepper to taste 1. Place milk, cream, onion powder and garlic powder in a large sauce pot. When the mixture comes to a simmer add in your grits, constantly stirring to prevent sticking.

2. Cook mixture for about 20 minutes, stirring about every 2 minutes.

3. When the grits have softened enough to eat, turn off the flame and let them sit for 10 minutes then stir in the cubed cold cream cheese and the eggs.

4. When you have mixed the grits thoroughly, place them in to a 9-x-9 cake pan and place in the refrigerator until completely cold or about 30 minutes.

5. When cool, use a round cookie cutter to cut out rounds and or cut into squares. Warm up a sauté pan about half full of oil to about 350° and pan fry until golden brown.

Plating Ladle sauce onto the serving plate and place grit cake over sauce. On top of the grit cake, spoon caramelized apple jus. Place rib-eye on top and garnish.

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2009 winner Brian Gay

The crowd at the tournament

Golfing for St. Jude This month, golfers in the St. Jude Classic tee up to compete in the long-running annual event. Since 1970 the week-long Classic has raised more than $22.5 million for St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, so get ready for a top-notch tournament benefiting a great cause. TEXT Lauren McDermott | PHOTOS courtesy of St. Jude Classic

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his month, don’t miss the 53rd annual St. Jude Classic held June 7-13 at TPC Southwind in Memphis. As one of the oldest tournaments on the PGA Tour, top class golfers from all over the world travel to Memphis for the weeklong event.

Over the years, the tournament has attracted several renowned golfers including Jack Nicklaus, Lee Trevino, Greg Norman, Tom Kite and Curtis Strange. With a prize purse of more than $5.6 million and a winner’s share totaling more than $1 million this year, spectators can enjoy watching their favorite players battle against the course and their opponents. The Classic has benefitted St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital since 1958, when several businessmen from the then Memphis Open gave a $600 check to St. Jude founder Danny Thomas to help fund the building of the hospital.

Early on the winning prize purse started at only $20,000 as Billy Maxwell, the tournament’s first victor, walked away with only $2,800 in winnings.

St. Jude became the sole beneficiary of the tournament in 1970; since then, the event has raised more than $22.5 million for the hospital. Funds raised by the St. Jude Classic help ensure that the hospital continues its research to save the lives of thousands of children and to also keep the hospital’s promise stating that no child is ever turned away because of a family’s inability to pay.

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Over the years, the tournament has attracted the eyes of the nation to Memphis. In 1977, President Gerald Ford started the tournament with the “shot heard ‘round the world,” making a hole-inone during the Celebrity Pro-Am. Most recently, PGA tour veteran Al Geiberger was recognized by Sports Illustrated for “one of the most significant achievements of the century” after he shot a 59 on the longest course on the PGA Tour.

Each year, the St. Jude Classic attracts thousands of spectators, boosting the city’s economy by more than $35 million. More than 1,850 volunteers contribute over 25,000 hours annually in preparation for the event. For those planning to attend, make sure to get your tickets in advance. Tournament-goers can purchase a one-day ticket for $25 ($35 at the door) or buy passes for the entire week for $59 ($90 at the door) in honor of Geiberger’s record.

St. Jude Golf Classic June 7-13 TPC Southwind Tickets available at stjudeclassic.com/tickets

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Treading Water At Home Tennessee contributors reflect on the 2010 flood, rebuilding efforts and the spirit of Tennessee. TEXT Mandi Gaskin | PHOTOS courtesy of Gaylord Opryland and Lenora Bendall

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have always known that Nashville is a great city.

Take a walk downtown on any given night and you will hear the most amazing music both in the bar and on the street. I have always known that Nashville is a friendly city. Just three weeks ago my friend came to visit for the first time from California and upon arriving she was offered both hugs and grits from total strangers. “That’s it, call my realtor, I am moving here!” she exclaimed. But what I didn’t know until the weekend of May 1, 2010, was the integrity and valiancy of the Nashville community. When the water finally stopped falling unmercifully from the sky, the residents of Nashville stepped out into the river that was now their front yard and reached out to help their neighbor who was most in need. When Mayor Karl Dean observed the water levels of the Cumberland River on that Monday and reported that he needed volunteers to help carry sandbags to prevent flooding in the downtown district, 250 people showed up within 15 minutes, ready to work. Businesses began pitching in through cash donations, supplies being donated by hardware stores and even free haircuts for flood victims from local hairstylists. And staying true to the Nashville spirit, the flood also inspired a wave of creativity. Just two days after the waters began to recede, humorous songs were written about Naomi Judd’s buffalo on the loose and clever graphic designers began producing fashionable flood apparel with proceeds going to the victims. Prolific words were written by Nashville’s talented writing community with encouraging slogans such as “We are Nashville” already coined and conjuring emotional belief that we will rebuild and the show will go on.

On a personal level, my house was not damaged by the floods thanks to advantageous landscapes and wellthought-out drainage systems. But in a time such as this, that is not a victory that you celebrate with boisterous words but with modest humility and gratefulness that causes you to hold on to your young ones a little tighter and reach out to those who were not as lucky. And that is just what I did through donations of water, clothing, money and whatever else I could get my hands on. When

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I began loading up tennis rackets and patio cushions my husband paused before saying, “I’m not exactly sure that tennis rackets are on the list of things needed, sweetie.”

“Well, sweetie, I am sure that the people who have lost everything would beg to differ with you,” I replied.

With my pride and enormous ego I would like to tell you that I am a saint and the exception to the rule of giving back, but fortunately for the city of Nashville that is not the case. In the last two weeks, Nashville has been showered (pun very much intended) with donations of every size from both residents and non-residents alike. And not just with tangible donations but with hands-on service and support in rebuilding the city. When CNN’s Anderson Cooper came to Nashville with his television crew a week after the flood he was astounded by the clean-up progress that had already been made as he toured the city and residential areas. And this progress had nothing to do with federal or city government support; Nashvillians didn’t have time to waste waiting on all the red tape to be worked out. No, this progress was made through tried and true southern hospitality of neighbors rolling up their sleeves, putting their own selfish ambitions aside and helping out their community in need.

Yes, I always knew what an extraordinary community that Nashville was; and now thanks to the flood of 2010, the rest of the world knows it too.

Look for more of Mandi’s take on life in upcoming editions of At Home Tennessee and be sure to stop by her blog at freedingo.blogspot.com.

Lending A Helping Hand in Millington The water rose so fast after the second levee (Big Creek) broke and afterward, cleaning out church members’ homes was very sad. One family in Waverly Plantation had insurance on the house, but not on the contents of the home. They had to evacuate their house through a window into waist high water because they couldn’t open the doors.

We cleaned out, threw out and stepped outside for a

community breath of fresh air, only to go back into the muddy mess to fill a garbage bag, or take things from high shelves into plastic crates for storage. During the flood, an elderly couple was awakened by the sheriff’s knock on their door, who told them to gather their identification and get out right then; he was in a boat at there door. That couple was able to salvage a few things that would fit in two pickup trucks, mostly clothes and photos and genealogy they hoped could be saved. Their home was a total loss, and they are relocating to an apartment, with a few clothes. We washed clothes several times to remove the smell and the mud stains.

There were other tense moments, but we found out that our friend who lived in an evacuated apartment had rejoiced when the water receded and she returned to her home to find that it had only made it to her stoop. She was amazed and thankful, since she only had minutes to get out after the second levee had broke. We repeatedly reflected on how lucky we were to only have water breach our own home’s foundation from powerful rain.

Makes you so thankful, and your heart hurts and you just can’t do enough to help.

--Carolyn Bendall is a Millington resident who is helping with the clean-up effort.

Wear Your Love For TN

Billy Reid “Tennessee Love” Tee. .Available at Oak Hall 901.761.3580, oakhall.com Net Proceeds from the sale of this tee go directly to flood relief in Tennessee

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Waiting for Oil Weeks after oil first started pouring into the Gulf of Mexico, multiple attempts to stop the leak from the collapsed BP rig failed and reports on the severity of the disaster were largely contradictory. Here, Ocean Springs, Mississippi resident and writer Steve Burtt reflects on the arduous wait for a solution.

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iving on the Mississippi Gulf Coast, we have grown accustomed to waiting on bad things to emerge from the Gulf of Mexico, but the catastrophic oil spill out there now is something new. True, it is a lot like waiting for a huge, slowmoving hurricane, but we know hurricanes. We know how to recover from a hurricane. We can always rebuild.

But how do you rebuild from something like this? The oil spill threatens the very life blood of the Gulf Coast, our seafood industry, our tourism business and our natural resources including our wildlife, our marshes and bayous, our beaches—everything that defines the Gulf Coast. And the news just gets worse every day.

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that is best described as a diesel scent. That’s the only real effect of the oil spill so far in our neighborhood. If you drive along the beach, you will see long, snaking oil booms along the shoreline, designed to hopefully block the oil when and if the oil makes it to shore. And of course, we hear and talk about it everywhere we go.

Our family includes a number of fishermen, not professional but avidly addicted to the sport, so they monitor developments daily through television and newspaper accounts. The problem is that those accounts are frequently confusing, often inaccurate, sometimes misleading and most of the time contradictory. You never know what or who to believe.

The out-pouring of volunteers here on the Coast has been enormous, but when my wife Donna looked into volunteering to clean up oil-soaked animals, she found out that it required two 12-hour

community training sessions and a commitment of time that just about eliminates anybody with a full-time job. And many of those who have been able to volunteer have been disappointed, because they have not been called up. They are sitting and waiting. We are all sitting and waiting.

Our family normally leases a couple of condos in Gulf Shores, Alabama, for a June family gettogether. A couple of weeks ago, we cancelled those reservations, because the outlook for a water vacation looked gloomy. Then, when it appeared the oil was not in a hurry to invade our beaches, we rescheduled the vacation, still thinking that perhaps we’ve made a mistake. So, even as the marshes of Louisiana are being invaded by the sludge, we continue to hold out hope that our beaches will be spared.

After struggling through a difficult recovery from Hurricane Katrina, the worst hurricane in U.S. history, we feel kind of snakebit here on the Gulf Coast to now have to recover from the country’s worst oil spill. Some of our commercial fishermen were just getting back on their feet when this new threat emerged. We are expecting a surge of new jobs that will be generated by the oil cleanup effort, but believe me, that’s not the kind of jobs any community hopes for.

As I write this, the oil flow into the Gulf has not been stopped, and that continues to be a great source of anxiety for people here on the Coast. Hurricane Katrina came through and left in a day.

The oil spill has been with us more than a month with no end in sight. We search the headlines every morning for some sign of hope.

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Interview with Author Joan E. Aller

Cider Beans, Wild Greens, and Dandelion Jelly Andrews McMeel Publishing, June 2010 TEXT Lindsey Phillips

When author Joan E. Aller moved from California to Sevierville, Tennessee, she immediately fell in love with everything about southern Appalachia, from regular gatherings at local gas stations to the wild turkeys that wander the roads.

Her new cookbook, Cider Beans, Wild Greens, and Dandelion Jelly is the culmination of that fascination with the region.

It includes not only more than 100 traditional recipes but also bits of rich history and stories, photographs and even a small dictionary of common phrases. (Southern Appalachian dialect is an academically recognized language.)

Collected from dozens of bed and breakfasts across southern Appalachia, as well as from some more unconventional sources—a cake recipe in the “Desserts, Cookies, Cakes, and Tea Cakes” chapter comes from a diary entry circa the 1860s—the recipes represent the unique influences of the region’s early settlers.

The majority of the recipes are accompanied by a backstory, like the title-worthy Appalachian Cider Beans, which Aller first tasted at a gas station, or corncob jelly, an old Cherokee recipe. Whip up everything from pepper pot soup, a medley of fresh, in-season vegetables and beef short ribs to Tennessee Black Walnut Cake with this book. It even includes a chapter on beverages with directions on making winter spiced coffee, old-fashioned root beer, mint juleps and dandelion wine.

The collection appropriately ends with a “Country Store” chapter that includes multiple recipes for homemade syrups, pear relish, spiced peaches and and pickled produce. And don’t forget the dandelion jelly—according to the USDA, dandelions contain more nutrients than broccoli or spinach.

Chock full of photographs, local lore, recipes and fun facts, Cider Beans, Wild Greens, and Dandelion Jelly would go as well in your kitchen as on your coffee table.

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At Home Tennessee: What inspired you to write a cookbook combining recipes, history and stories from southern Appalachia?

Joan Aller: I was sitting on the back deck looking out over the mountains and just enjoying the peace when I became saddened by the thought that “civilization” was moving in. After seeing what development did to my hometown in California, the thought of lovely farmland being replaced by tourist cabins, retirement homes and fenced in “communities” was just too distressing. It was at this moment that I thought of writing a cookbook, something to preserve what I had come to love about this place. The more I learned about the early settlers, their lifestyles, their accomplishments, joys and tragedies the more this became a labor of love that I felt had to be included. It never occurred to me that the cookbook couldn’t include history, stories and photographs of the region.

AHT: How would you describe the recipes in the book?

JA: There are basically two kinds of recipes in the book: old time recipes from the area, some of which go back to the early 1800s, and recipes from bed and breakfast inns. I wanted to show the diversity available these days.

AHT: How did you gather such an extensive, wide range of recipes and how did you choose which ones would make it into the book?

JA: It took five years. It was quite a process and thank goodness for my editor, Lane Butler! In the end it came down to available space and a good representation of the subject. I like the way it turned out.

AHT: Do you have a background in cooking?

JA: I love to cook, but I wouldn’t call myself a chef. I wanted to make sure that anyone could make the recipes in the book. They are all so simple, but absolutely delicious.

AHT: What was the most challenging aspect of writing this book?

JA: Testing and correcting recipes. Most of the old recipes used lard and I felt that it was important to substitute other ingredients. Lard adds a wonderful flavor to foods, but it just isn’t good for you.

AHT: Is there anything else you would like our readers to know?

JA: This book isn’t just about cooking and hopefully you will find the introduction and the chapter on southern Appalachia interesting. The recipes in the book come from the Cherokee, the Melungeons, the Africans and the European settlers to the region and give the true flavor of the area. The photographs in the book are wonderful. On page three you’ll find a photo that I took of the area around my mountain hollow. The fog-like mist coming up out of the mountains is how the Smoky Mountains got their name. Then there is the little picture on page nine. That old barn and field are at the bottom of my road. There is photo after photo of food and beautiful places to give you some idea of what I see every day.

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June 2010 Through June 17 Opry Country Classics Ryman Auditorium, Nashville 615.889.3060, ryman.com

June 10-13 CMA Music Festival LP Field & Riverfront Park, Nashville cmafest.com

June 3-5 Memphis Italian Festival Marquette Park, Memphis 901.685.1378, memphisitalianfestival.com

June 12 Horticulture Walking Tour Memphis Zoo 901.276.9453, memphiszoo.org

June 4 Sangria on the Southside Clearstory on Main Street, Chattanooga 423.624.8414, sangriaonthesouthside.org June 5 History Day Memphis Cotton Museum 901.531.7826, memphiscottonmuseum.org June 5-6 Town & Country Tour of Homes Franklin 615.591.8500, historicfranklin.com June 6-13 St. Jude Classic TPC Southwind, Memphis stjudeclassic.com June 8-12 Germantown Charity Horse Show Germantown Horse Show Arena 901.754.0009, gchs.org June 9 Marty Stuart’s Late Night Jam Ryman Auditorium, Nashville 615.889.3060, ryman.com June 10-13 Bonnaroo Music & Arts Festival Great Stage Park, Manchester bonnaroo.com 94 | At Home Tennessee • June 2010

June 15 Patty Griffin Ryman Auditorium, Nashville 615.889.3060, ryman.com June 11-12 Today’s Woman Expo Anderson County High School, Clinton 865.457.2559 June 11-19 Riverbend Festival Chattanooga Riverfront 423.756.2211, riverbendfestival.com June 13-20 International Folkfest 2010 Murfreesboro 615.896.3559, mboro-international-folkfest.org June 16-19 Summerfest Riverbluff Park, Ashland City 615.792.2655, ashlandcitytn.gov June 17 Fall Trunk Show Mam’selle, Jackson 731.668.2420 June 17-19 Bluegrass Reunion Summertown summertownbluegrassreunion.com

June 18-20 17th Annual Juneteenth Freedom Festival Douglas Park, Memphis juneteenthmemphis.org June 18 Father’s Day Snooze Memphis Zoo 901.276.9453, memphiszoo.org June 18 Bridging the Gap Mixer Shelby Street Pedestrian Bridge, Nashville jumptojefferson.com June 19-20 Civil War Living History Weekend Ramsey House Plantation Knoxville 865.546.0745, ramseyhouse.org June 20 Father’s Day Lawn Games Memphis Botanic Garden 901.636.4106, memphisbotanicgarden.com June 24-July 29 Bluegrass Nights at the Ryman Ryman Auditorium, Nashville 615.889.3060, ryman.com June 29 Hole with Foxy Shazam Ryman Auditorium, Nashville 615.889.3060, ryman.com

sources 34 Ultimate Man Getaways Worldwide Angling, Memphis, 901.682.2585 worldwideangling.com; Amazon Angling, Memphis, 866.682.2585, amazonangling.com; Resort at Paws Up, Montana, 406.244.5200, pawsup.com; Pinehurst Resort, North Carolina, 910.235.8507, pinehurst.com.

47 The Home of Your Dreams Memphis: Builder—Southern Serenity Homes, Oakland, 901.466.1991 sshinfo. com; Plumbing fixtures—Brizo, brizo.com; Appliances—Ferguson Bath & Kitchens, 901.759.3820; Flooring—Alan’s Flooring, 901.850.2202; Cabinets—Blue Ribbon Cabinetry, 901.309.8995; Light fixtures—Graham’s Lighting, 901.274.6780; Fireplace—Elegant Stoneworks, 901.461.3487. Chattanooga: Builder—Pratt & Associates, 423.757.7687, prattliving.com; Appliances—Frigidaire, frigidaire.com; Plumbing fixtures—Brizo, brizo.com; Nashville: Builder—Southern Land Company, Plumbing fixtures—Brizo, brizo.com. A complete list of sources can be found in each Dream Home, or visit st.jude.com.

75 Guide to Summer Entertaining Garden Gathering: Event planner—You’re Invited Gifts, Paper and Events, Nashville, 615.353.5520, yistationery.com; Photography—Jonathon Campbell Photography, Nashville, 615.613.2834, jonathoncampbell. com; Invitation—You’re Invited Gifts, Paper and Events, Nashville, 615.353.5520, yistationery.com; Tables, chairs, linens and flatware—Music City Tents and Events, Nashville, 615.298.9222, musiccitytents.com; Hostess accessories—Ellen Hays Jewelry, ellenhays.com ;Pickard china, Beatriz Ball serving pieces, glass bird containers, glass beverage dispenser, glass pitcher, bird boxes, topiaries, wheat grass in ceramic containers, wheat grass in wooden boxes, lime green Caspari placemats, all available at You’re Invited Gifts, Paper and Events located at 619 Norris Avenue, Nashville. Location—The Turner House, Brentwood; Photo shoot assistant—Ramona Witzgall Swapping Soirée: Event planner—Soirees, Chattanooga, soireesonline.com; Photography—Holritz Photography, Chattanooga, 423.553.8697, holritzphotography. com; Invitation—Soirees, Chattanooga, soireesonline.com.

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essay

Learning the Ropes Being a father is a learning experience. Joe Leathers shares the story of his family and why he wouldn’t change it for the world. TEXT Joe Leathers, PHOTOGRAPHY courtesy of Joe Leathers

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The author’s family

homas Ronquillio Escobar, that’s the name his biological mother gave him. That “biological mother,” who went to the hospital and told staff, “I’m going to have a baby in a few months and I will not leave the hospital with it,” provided my wife Jane and me with the child we had been hoping for. She referred to him as “it.” Well, “it” is Eli Leathers.

And he is it. He’s a little stud with an awesome spirit and a sweet heart.

Guatemala is a very poverty stricken country, about the size of Ohio.

The average annual income for most is far less than that of an American family’s monthly mortgage payment.

I understand why people have to give children up for adoption—it’s not easy feeding children in that environment. We are talking about merely feeding children, not buying them an iPhone and an iTouch. We’re talking food.

I was on a mission trip in Guatemala City. We visited numerous elementary and high schools throughout the country for a week. We played worship music and shared the Gospel with those who wanted to hear it.

It was awesome. But when I came home, the faces of orphans, thousands of them, haunted me. I remembered their names and their faces. I still have their pictures and I hope they are well.

Jane and I have three biological daughters: Nelly, Gracie and Kate.

Our daughters are high achievers, leaders and their beauty starts inside and works itself out. I thank Jane for that.

We had been trying to have an-

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other child for about a year and a half and it just wasn’t happening. After the Guatemala trip I had shown Jane the pictures of the kids time after time, and one day she said, ”Let’s go get one of those babies!” That was a big “whoa” for me. Would the child be healthy? Would the child resent us for taking him or her from home?

Would the child feel abandoned by his “real” mother and what undesirable behavior could that bring? How would a Hispanic child fit into our family? What would my parents think? Would the child show up at a doorstep for a date and be rejected by a father because of his skin color?

There were these and many other questions that I was asking myself.

Finally, I came to the conclusion that if you ask yourself these questions, you don’t really trust God to do his job. You violate the spirit of adoption.

God doesn’t need my help, so Jane and I took a deep breath and jumped.

The adoption process was tedious, but after about a year we flew to Guatemala City to bring Eli home. When we arrived back at the Memphis airport, family and friends, unbeknownst to us, had gathered to meet us at the gate. It was very emotional.

Awesome and humbling.

Eli changed our lives much more than we could ever have imagined.

Our daughters embraced him and he embraced them with a love that is indescribable.

I will say that we have had a few uncomfortable moments. Once, we were at the beach and an acquaintance saw Eli and commented, “Oh, did you bring your housekeeper’s son?”

“We don’t have a housekeeper, and Eli is our son,” Jane replied.

Bam, Mom bowed up. It was funny and sad at the same time. There have been several other situations like that, one in which I broke a nose. I’m not proud of that but we just smile and move on.

It’s interesting how as a parent, you can learn so much from your children. In our case, we are a bit different because we are five people raised in the South and we have a darkskinned son from Guatemala. But he has a Southern accent that makes me smile. So we are a bit of a novelty item to those who don’t know us. But in our home, we feel like we are just a regular everyday family.

As the dad, I have a serious, sometimes over the top sense of being the protector. Our daughters are 20, 19 and 16. Jane and I have done our best to talk to them candidly about boys, alcohol, drugs, integrity, gossip, modesty and leadership, sometimes to eyes rolling so hard you can hear them rolling.

The bottom line? Being a dad is an awesome responsibility. I take this responsibility very seriously. With the support of a great wife, and even though I have made mistakes as a dad, I am proud to be the father of four awesome children and the husband of an amazing wife. I am a very lucky man. In spite of my efforts to try to be perfect, and as far as I have fallen from being the perfect father, my wife and children are perfect for me. And I am thankful.

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