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hat is an Alpha Male? Similar to the Alpha Female, he is known to be self-reliant and confident. They exude confidence and security, which is one of the many factors that makes them so attractive. In addition, the alpha male regardless

of his occupation appears to be so confident that he can make you feel like a million bucks. Understand that no matter how much he may present himself to be, an alpha male has emotions just like anyone else. He may be in favor of hiding those emotions more than others, but they are still there. An alpha male needs love and support just as much as any other person you know or have dated before. In some situations, you may need to pay special care to your alpha partner to keep them reassured, motivated, and focused on their goals. An alpha male without a job, for example, is susceptible to having bouts of depression or anxiety when he doesn’t have the proper support, especially in downtimes.

PROS for Dating the Alpha Male They religiously follow their work ethic and are highly focused. Alpha males can motivate those around them, protective of their loved ones, excellent providers, natural-born leaders, and charismatic. They are a take-charge kind of man who knows what he wants out of life and isn’t afraid to get it. CONS for Dating the Alpha Male Alpha men’s protectiveness and need to control can cause you to lose your selfidentity if you are not strong-minded and strong-willed. Additionally, the alpha males’ dating life can be challenging because they can be so engrossed in their work that their partner can start to feel left out, unappreciated, and as if they are not cared about. What Alpha Males Desire: Most alpha males desire a certain kind of woman. They don’t want a completely passive woman who will do everything they want. They NEED and love a woman who gives her two cents (whether they’ll admit this or not). However, it must be at the right


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