Jewish Life JEWISH FEDERATION & FOUNDATION OF NORTHEAST FLORIDA
Our Jewish Experiences
MARCH 2022 ADAR I/ADAR II 5782 JEWISHJACKSONVILLE.ORG
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7 Unlock Greater Giving with a Donor Advised Fund
18 Jacksonville Jewish Center: L'dor V'dor
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9 A Night of Generosity 10 An Interview with Israeli Minister of Diaspora Affairs Nachman Shai
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14 Super Sunday
15 Finding Your Jewish Experience with the American Joint Distribution Committee 16 Birthright, a Jewish Experience
NOSH ON THIS 23 Hamentaschen
19 Thank You, From Rabbi Matuson
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SEE & BE SCENE
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WORTH THE SCHLEP
12 Calling All Young Leaders! 13 WRJ/Temple Sisterhood Plans Women's Seder
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FEATURE
20 Our Jewish Experiences
21 Making the Old, New and the New, Holy 22 "There's No Place Like Home!"
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B'NAI TZEDEK
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COMMUNITY RESOURCES
24 Ari Zetlan
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FAITH & INSPIRATION 25 Be Happy It's Adar!
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LETTER FROM OUR CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER One of my favorite ice breakers at meetings is the question – what is your first Jewish memory or Jewish experience? I love hearing the responses. Some memories bring back longing smiles and laughter while some are recounted with sarcasm and displeasure. Some have their first experiences at an early age while for others it came later in life. But each time, I see how the participants can relate to or how memories resonate among them. There is an immediate shared bond.
Jewish experiences, like those you will read about in this month’s issue of Jewish Life, leave an indelible mark not only in one’s life, but also on one’s family and friends. Some of the strongest and most vocal advocates for activities like attending Jewish Day School, Jewish camping, or organized travel to Israel come from those who have experienced it firsthand. The first podcast I ever listened to was about people’s memories of Jewish overnight camp. Although my camp was not mentioned, nor my boys’ camp, all three of us could relate to every aspect of the podcast. It led to hours of us recanting our own memories.
Drawing on your own experiences, whether it conjures up memories from around holiday dinner tables, youth groups, Day schools, camping, college life, dating, traveling, or lifecycle events, have you ensured that similar memories are made for your children, your family, and your Jewish community? That is one of the many roles in which the Jewish Federation and Foundation can support you. By supporting the Federation and Foundation we help fund programs and initiatives here in Northeast Florida, Israel, and in more than 70 countries worldwide that supplement or create the experiences for the next generation. So, that in a few decades, when asked, they can talk about their most transformational Jewish experience. Your involvement, both in time and with dollars, can impact generations to come. Join us. Let us know what is your first Jewish memory or Jewish experience? Join a committee or if you have not made your gift, please do so today. We are beginning our allocation process so your pledge will help make a difference. Help us be HERE FOR GOOD as we create memories and Jewish experiences for all who want or those who are in need of our community.
Jewish Federation & Foundation Staff Mariam Shpeen Feist Chief Executive Officer mariamf@jewishjacksonville.org Stav Brener Community Shaliach jaxshlichut@jewishjacksonville.org Pat Burke Director, Finance & Administration patrickb@jewishjacksonville.org Savannah Feustel Marketing Assistant savannahf@jewishjacksonville.org Bonnie Hayflick Interim Magazine Editor bonnieh@jewishjacksonville.org Faye Hedrick Director, Young Professionals & Families fayeh@jewishjacksonville.org Rachel Heiser Campaign & Donor Relations Coordinator rachelh@jewishjacksonville.org Jennifer Rensch Foundation Manager jenniferr@jewishjacksonville.org Lauren Rickoff Director, Campaign & Women’s Philanthropy laurenr@jewishjacksonville.org Kellie Smith Director, Foundation kelliek@jewishjacksonville.org
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UNLOCK GREATER GIVING WITH A DONOR ADVISED FUND By Kellie Smith, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida
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Reducing your capital gains and estate taxes
Giving through a donor-advised fund rather than contributing directly to charity has become more popular than ever, with the number of individual DAF accounts reaching one million in 2020 according to the National Philanthropic Trust. One presumable reason for the recent rise in DAFs is the 2017 federal income tax law change which substantially increased the standard deduction. With this change, the donor-advised fund makes even more sense. Typically, one would take the standard deduction when itemizing deductions (including charitable donations) would amount to less; however, with a donoradvised fund, you have the tax advantage of being able to “bundle” multiple years' worth of donations in one year and then choose to allocate those funds over multiple years.
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Designating successors to perpetuate your legacy
A donor-advised fund, or DAF, is a charitable investment account where you can deposit cash, securities, and other assets. These accounts come with a multitude of advantages and allow donors to grow the amount of money they have to give away by investing their contributions, while simultaneously receiving immediate tax benefits from them.
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Simplifying your recordkeeping
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Increasing your generosity
One of the most obvious perks of a DAF account is the ability to organize and streamline your giving through one source and consolidate all your donation records to one tax receipt at the end of the year. Eliminate writing separate checks and simply focus on the joy of giving!
By using a donor-advised fund, you'll avoid paying capital gains tax on the assets you allocate toward it, which may increase the amount available for charity by up to 20 percent. Plus, your deductions might increase—if you bought an asset for less than it's worth today, you can deduct its current market value instead of the original price. You can name your children, grandchildren, or others as successor advisors to your fund. Successor advisors have the privilege of managing your fund after your death and carrying on your charitable values and traditions. How do I get started?
Donor-advised funds are a flexible, efficient, donor-centric form of philanthropy and this opportunity isn’t just reserved for the wealthy. You can open a donor-advised fund with the Jewish Foundation with a tax-deductible minimum gift of $2,500 or $1,000 if you’re under 40. You may make additional contributions of any amount at any time, but no additional contributions are required after your fund has been established. Most importantly, by creating your DAF with the Jewish Foundation you are supporting the growth of our Jewish community through the small, shared fees that we derive from the management of your fund. Your partnership enables us to provide philanthropic education programs to help inform current donors about critical issues within the community and develop the next generation of givers. Opening a fund and creating a legacy within the Jewish Foundation helps to preserve a thriving Jewish Life in Northeast Florida for generations to come.
A DAF maximizes your giving power by utilizing a taxContact Kellie Smith, Foundation Director, at KellieK@ free, long-term investment strategy. Like any investment, jewishjacksonville.org or (904)512-3796 to open a donorthe money has the potential to grow while it sits in the advised fund and unlock greater giving today! This article is fund. You choose from a variety of investment options only intended to be a general overview of some donation according to your own risk tolerance and monitor your considerations and is not intended to provide tax or legal balance and activities online at any time. guidance. In addition, all gifts to donor-advised funds are 7 irrevocable. Please consult with your tax or legal advisor.
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MASA ISRAEL JOURNEY: THE JEWISH EXPERIENCE By Savannah Feustel, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida
In our lifetime, many of us in the Jewish Community will take one, if not several, Jewish Federation missions and/or trips to Israel. Our goal in mind? To see impact, to leave impact, and to make an impact back at home. Today, the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida supports this goal, by continuing to fund and support Masa Israel Journey. Masa Israel Journey is a joint project of the Government of Israel and the Jewish Agency for Israel, which is one of the Federation's overseas partners. Masa Israel Journey offers various experiences over the course of four to twelve months. These experiences include multicultural studies, volunteerism, and professional development opportunities for mid-career adults. These programs, currently available to our Northeast Florida Jewish community include, but are not limited to internships, study-abroad programs, professional training bootcamps, and MasaTech the “elite career relocation program that places tech professionals from around the world with leading, cutting-edge Israeli tech companies.” (www.masaisrael.org)
One community member who benefited from Masa Israel Journey is Israel and Overseas Associate at Jewish Federation of Baltimore, Sarah Jacobs. Growing up in the Northeast Florida Jewish community, Sarah participated in the Onward Israel Masa program. Through this program, Sarah was able to build her resume, make new connections in Israel, and further embrace her Judaism through service, study, and fellowship. “My personal experience with Masa showed me solidarity with those of my Jewish faith. 8
Professionally, I developed a further, in-depth understanding of what being Jewish and continuing our traditions and work in Israel means to me.”
Sarah also attributed the opportunity as vital to becoming a more empowered Jewish woman and to supporting her work in promoting the next generation of Jewish leaders. “Throughout my youth and into my career, I have always believed that our own paths in Jewish life look nothing alike, but my experiences in Israel drove the process that brought me here today. I thank the Federation for providing many young people the opportunity to pursue their varied interests and love for our local community and Israel," said Sarah. If you or someone you know is interested in an immersive experiences in Israel, or around the world, please contact our office at info@jewishjacksonville.org or (904) 4��-5000.
A NIGHT OF GENEROSITY
By Faye Hedrick, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida The Young Professionals & Families Division is proud to announce Sarah Eisenman, Chief Community and Jewish Life Officer for the Jewish Federations of Sarah Eisenman, Chief Community and North Jewish Life Officer America will be here for this year’s signature evening for young philanthropists. Sarah is leading JFNA’s efforts to expand and reshape engagement in Jewish life across North America. Sarah asserts, “I’m so excited to be joining Northeast Florida leaders for what will be an engaging night thinking about the big trends driving Jewish life today, their own local priorities, and how together we can reshape the Jewish future.”
The event was generated after a conversation about philanthropy and legacy between both lay leaders and Federation professionals. These topics, near and dear to both the Sisisky family and Trager family's hearts, were the beginning of an event for our community that has left a mark.
This year’s Night of Generosity Chair is Sophie Rothstein and the committee includes Shylie Bannon, Samantha Holtzman, Jeff Rood, Haley Trager, Erin Rogozinski Weintraub, and Joe Young. Together, the committee has been working with Sarah Eisenman to plan for an evening you won’t want to miss. The program will be held at the home of Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida Board Chair, Jennifer Plotkin, and her husband, Richard.
Kindly respond by Thursday, March 24 at www.events.idonate. com/nightofgenerosity2022 or reach out to Faye Hedrick at (904)512-3797 or Fayeh@jewishjacksonville.org to attend.
*A suggested minimum gift of $11� to the Jewish Federation & Foundation's 2022 Annual Campaign, payable through 12/31/22, is required to attend.
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AN INTERVIEW WITH ISRAELI MINISTER OF DIASPORA AFFAIRS NACHMAN SHAI First Published by Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA)
Israeli Minister of Diaspora Affairs Nachman Shai sat down for a wide-ranging interview last month with JFNA. Shai served as Director General of Federations’ office in Israel and Senior Vice President of United Israeli Minister of Diaspora Affairs Jewish Nachman Shai Communities (UJC) before being elected to the Knesset more than a decade ago, serving first as a member of the Kadima Party and then being re-elected as a member of the Labor Party. In the interview, he discussed how Israel can improve its efforts to reach out to the North American Jewish community, especially to the members of the younger generation who feel less of a connection to the Jewish State. He also discussed his views on the controversy over prayer at the Western Wall, Kotel.
Q: What do you think are the most important tools for connecting North American Jews, particularly the younger generation, to Israel?
A: The best way is for them to visit the country through Taglit-Birthright, MASA, and other programs. If we can’t get them to come here, then let’s reach out to them wherever they are, especially on college campuses. We have at least three national organizations—Hillel, Chabad, and Olami—who are running programs on behalf of the Ministry of the Diaspora. We haven’t done enough on the digital front, through what I call digital dialogue. It’s the 10
most important challenge of my present position—not to lose the young generation, but to gain their confidence and attention, to bring them into the system either while they are in university or after graduation. That’s the best investment in the future of the North American Jewish community and even for the Jewish world as a whole.
Q: Can you explain a bit more about what you think needs to be done in the digital or social media space?
A: One of the conclusions from last summer’s conflict with Hamas was that we weren’t doing enough in this space. I wasn’t yet a government minister—I was a visiting professor at Duke University—but I was watching it from a distance and I was very upset. They said that we “lost” the social media war. There is no reason why Israel can’t develop ideas, content and technologies to reach out to every target group in the world, including in North America. My students are totally dependent on their devices; if they don’t come to us, then we need to come to them. We may not always be able to convince them, but at least we can present them with the facts of whatever situation or crisis we’re dealing with. We are teaching Israeli culture, history, and, of course, how to combat antisemitism. We can help North American Jewish communities to prepare themselves for any kind of antisemitic attacks, whether verbal or physical. Q: You worked for a number of years as the head of the Federations’ Israel office and then you worked for the UJC, the predecessor organization to JFNA. What was the most important thing that you learned during that period? A: I learned more than anything the strategic importance of the relationship between Israel and the North American Jewish community. I realized that we have to invest a lot on both ends. On the Israeli side, we need to form relationships with Israeli politicians and other leaders so that they can understand better the relationship between American Jewry and Israel. We have also led a number of delegations of members of the Israeli media to the United States. There’s a mix of
arrogance and ignorance on both sides that we need to overcome to find better ways to communicate with each other. Q: What is the importance of Federations to your work in Israel?
A: Federations have been one of the key reasons for Israel’s success. It’s a glorious story of friendship and love between North America and Israel. In all of Jewish history, there has never been a success story like that of the Jews of North America. And we appreciate very much your continuing support—not just financial support, but political support as well. We need two-way communication, not just from North America to Israel, but from Israel to North America. We are asking not just what you are doing for us, but what we can do for you through our knowledge and know-how. I was the only government minister who visited Surfside after the building collapse. I delivered a message of sorrow and comfort. When we are in trouble, you come to help us, and when you experience dark days, we are there to extend our hand to you and say that we are together.
Q: Do you have any information on when the Kotel compromise may be implemented?
A: There are growing political pressures on both sides to implement Netanyahu’s outline for the Kotel from January 2016. It’s time to move forward. But what’s the best timing? It’s time to look at this and say, ‘Enough is enough’ and adopt this compromise. This is my position and I’m not a single voice in the government—I’m one of many who would like to see this coming soon.
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CALLING ALL YOUNG LEADERS! By Beth Milograno Berry, Jewish Community Alliance
The Davelines say those experiences afforded them many career opportunities, like performances on stage with Disney and on Broadway. Today, Andrea and Adam are proud co-owners of MOD Productions, where the entrepreneurs offer writing workshops and support to budding artists wanting to transform their work onto the big screen. “Being a camp counselor gave us valuable theatre and production experience,” says Andrea. “It taught us how to connect better with people and how to tell stories to connect with the families in the audience.”
Imagine a summer job that is entertaining, fun and extremely rewarding; a position where valuable life skills are promised to improve daily. As summer camp counselors, the young leaders at our Jewish Community Alliance (JCA) nurture their future careers every day.
“I became more responsible as a counselor which prepared me for the future. You must think outside of yourself to always be able to respond to the children in your care,” explains Jessie Friedman, a JCA camp counselor from 2017 to 2020 and graduate of the University of Florida. Jessie is now a Psychometrist, which means she administers and scores neuropsychological, psychological, personality and academic tests for patients in need.
It doesn’t take long to find former JCA Summer Camp counselors with promising careers. Andrea and Adam Daveline who were Theatre Camp specialists are now married, have three children, and live in Los Angeles. Having grown up at the “J”, Adam worked several summers as a camp counselor, then brought his girlfriend Andrea home from college to enjoy the same professional experience.
“As college students, we were both looking for experience in the arts, and Shelly Hughes at JCA gave it to us by providing us with amazing creative liberty to connect with children at the J,” says Adam. 12
The JCA is hiring problem solvers who use their management skills to inspire and help others succeed. Young leaders, join us for the perfect summer experience! JCA Summer Camp counselors hired by April 1, 2022, who work at least eight weeks of our camp will receive a $400 bonus at the end of their seasonal employment. Email your resume to Nancy Green via nancy.green@jcajax.org.
Our JCA is thankful for the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida and their continuous support of our JCA Summer Camp programs. Each year, we receive a portion of camp scholarship funds from The Sol & Hilda Goldman Early Childhood and Summer Camp Endowment Fund and The Coplan & Goldman Families JCA Camp Scholarship Endowment Fund at the Jewish Federation & Foundation. These generous funds provide thousands of dollars in scholarships for summer camp and early childhood education at the JCA so that we never have to turn anyone away for the inability to pay.
WRJ/TEMPLE SISTERHOOD PLANS WOMEN’S SEDER By Fradell Serpe, Congregation Ahavath Chesed
Please join us in celebrating our freedom and helping us to fulfill the imperative that no one is free until all of us are free. The Women of Reform Judaism (WRJ), and Congregation Ahavath Chesed (The Temple) Sisterhood celebrates women at this year’s annual Julie R. Spitzer Memorial Women’s Seder on Sunday, April 10 via Zoom at 2:00 P.M. Rabbi Julie Spitzer, who attended The Temple Religious School through Confirmation, was a woman of action. She wrote the definitive book, "When Love is not Enough: Spousal Abuse in Rabbinic and Contemporary Judaism," which was published in 1995. Through her actions, Rabbi Spitzer exposed domestic violence within the Jewish community empowering women to overcome abuse and rebuild their lives. The WRJ/Temple Sisterhood supports the effort to end domestic violence by contributing the proceeds of the Women’s Seder to Hubbard House, a comprehensive shelter for victims of domestic violence in Jacksonville. Over the years, WRJ/Temple Sisterhood has donated more than $70,000 to Hubbard House. Using a Haggadah, beautifully compiled by Cantor Carrie Barry, WRJ/Temple Sisterhood celebrates the actions of courageous Jewish women throughout history. The Haggadah will be screen shared with all participants. We will be honoring past Sisterhood presidents. Women’s Seder Co-Chairpersons are Fradell Serpe and Marcia Weinstock.
Each participating household will be able to pick up a Seder plate prepared by Sisterhood with the ritual Seder plate items prior to our Zoom. All women who attend, indeed continue the tradition of action and service to the community. All donations go directly to Hubbard House.
We look forward to celebrating with you at the Seder on Sunday, April 10.
If you would like to attend via Zoom, contact Fradell Serpe at sedercelebrationofwomen@gmail.com or (516) �0�-3362. RSVPs are required by March 27. Our organization and The Temple express great thanks for the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida for its continuous support.
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SUPER SUNDAY 2022, IT'S GIVE O' CLOCK SOMEWHERE! By Faye Hedrick Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida
On Sunday, February 27, a dedicated group of volunteers called on you, our Northeast Florida Jewish community, and you ANSWERED THE CALL - a call to help meet the needs of our Jewish community in Northeast Florida, Israel, Ukraine, and around the world. Together we raised $92,000 to help those who need it most.
It is because the Federation is here, day after day, year after year, that we can deliver hope and assistance when it is needed. Because of your generous support, we stand ready to help and are Here For Good.
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FINDING YOUR JEWISH EXPERIENCE WITH THE AMERICAN JOINT DISTRIBUTION COMMITTEE By Mariam Shpeen Feist, Chief Executive Officer, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida The American Joint Distribution Committee often referred to as JDC or lovingly as “the Joint” is one of our Federation’s overseas partners. Founded more than 100 years ago, the JDC is the leading global Jewish humanitarian organization, rescuing Jews in danger, providing aid to vulnerable Jews, developing innovative solutions to Israel’s most complex social challenges, cultivating a Jewish future, and leading the Jewish community’s response to global crises. It is with our support, and support of Jewish Federations throughout North America that enables the JDC to have such a transformational impact in our Jewish world.
On Federation Missions, from Israel to Argentina; Morocco to Prague, and more than 50 other countries, participants have visited JDC run programs such as Camp Szarvas in Hungary, Moishe House in Prague, Community Centers in the Former Soviet Union (FSU), and vocational service programs for Haredi Jews in Israel. Mission participants have left enduring impressions which have encouraged them to increase their own financial support to our Federation’s annual campaign, and to be a strong advocate for Federation’s continued support of our overseas partners, Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI), World ORT, and the JDC. But if you are a young adult, you don’t need a Federation Mission to learn more about the JDC and find your Jewish Experience through JDC. There are two amazing opportunities to immerse yourself in the work of JDC.
Insider Connections: Global Virtual Service is an opportunity to virtually engage in service with a community member in need. JDC Entwine volunteers have unique access to help meet the social needs of JDC aid recipients across the FSU, Israel and beyond, including the elderly and teens in the community. You can make an impact by committing one to three hours weekly for one to three months. Knowledge of Hebrew or Russian is a plus! Engage in meaningful service that keeps you and a JDC client connected to our global Jewish community.
The JDC Entwine Global Jewish Service Corps Fellowship (JSC) offers young Jews the opportunity to directly engage with JDC’s global mission while actively fulfilling the value of global Jewish responsibility. Volunteer overseas in a year-long, paid fellowship. Invest in developing Jewish and non-Jewish communities around the world and in your own leadership development – all through a Jewish lens. If you or someone you know are interested in either of these experiences, please contact the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida at (904) 44�-5000 or email info@jewishjacksonville.org.
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BIRTHRIGHT, A JEWISH EXPERIENCE By Lauren Rickoff, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida
how full circle Federation was in my life. His name is Ami Braun and he is a friend I'll never forget,” said Oleg Fortun, another current BRIDGES participant.
Staci Fortun on her Birthright trip to Israel (Far Right).
For more than 20 years, Birthright Israel, a transformational Jewish experience, has become synonymous with travel to Israel. Since its inception in 1999, hundreds of thousands of young Jews have experienced Israel with their peers, connecting to the people, the history, and the culture of the Jewish homeland. This memorable opportunity was founded by philanthropists with a vision to create a game-changer in the Jewish world, a program that would allow young people access to their homeland for free, and connect them to their Judaism. We are proud that our support of Birthright provides a life changing trip for young Jews from ages 18 to 32. In addition, the trip is supported by the State of Israel, the Jewish Agency for Israel, and private philanthropists. The program seeks to ensure the future of the Jewish people by creating a long-lasting connection with Israel, while encouraging participants to take an active role within their Jewish community. Staci Fortun, current BRIDGES Leadership Development Initiative participant said, “Going on Birthright made Israel a community for me. It became more about the people and the friendships than a mysterious place so far away. There is no question that without Birthright, I would not be the same Jewish woman I am today.” Birthright brings Jews from across the world together, making the world feel more connected.
“During the height of the pandemic, the Federation offered a virtual tour of Israel. Little did I know I would be participating in a virtual tour with the same tour guide who led me through Israel on Birthright. It brought to light
As an alum of Birthright, I felt the program had a significant influence on my own life. I returned from my trip committed to my Judaism. I signed up for Hebrew lessons so I would feel more comfortable in synagogue, which led to my Bat Mitzvah at the age of 25. I turned what was a job in Jewish communal work into a career in philanthropic development, and most importantly, my husband and I are raising our daughter to be proud of her Judaism. I hope that she will have the opportunity to travel to Israel one day with her peers.
In addition to Birthright, the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida offers a variety of other Israel and overseas experiences. These include Masa Israel, Entwine, Teen Exchange, and Tikkun Olam. For more information, contact info@jewishjacksonville.org or (904) 4��-5000.
JFCS HOSTS VIRTUAL TOURS TO MARK HOLOCAUST REMEMBRANCE DAY
By Donna O'Steen, Jewish Family & Community Services
Jewish Family & Community Services (JFCS) commemorated International Holocaust Remembrance Day on January 26 and 27 with a special event offering virtual tours of the Frisch Family Holocaust Memorial Gallery.
The online program provided a creative and COVID-safe way to mark this year’s remembrance and help educate the community during the ongoing pandemic. More than 2,200 people watched one of the two programs live, or afterwards on video, including more than 560 students representing 15 different area schools.
JFCS CEO Colleen Rodriguez provided the introduction for each of the two virtual tours, and the gallery’s guest curator, Hope McMath, gave a preview of the new exhibit: Art in the Holocaust. A highlight of the event featured interactive conversations with local Holocaust survivor, Morris Bendit, and two speakers, Irene Jaffa and Gloria Einstein, who are both members of our second-generation group, "Memories of the Holocaust: Sharing Family Stories."
“Almost daily, we meet people who haven’t heard of the Holocaust and don’t understand what happened during that period in history,” Rodriguez said. “We continue to build relationships and come to know our survivors, and encourage them to tell their stories, so the Holocaust doesn’t happen again.”
Donors including the Frisch Family, Florida Blue, The Dr. Larry and Kathy Kanter Art Fund, the Theodore and Pauline Cohen Charitable Trust, and others, allow JFCS to continue to educate the entire community through art. If you would like to learn more about our new exhibit or the Holocaust Education program, visit https://jacksonvilleholocaustmemorial. com. JFCS is a beneficiary of the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida. Their funding helps support several of the programs and opportunities we provide for the Jewish Community.
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FA M I LY, E D U C AT I O N , A N D S E N I O R L I V I N G
JACKSONVILLE JEWISH CENTER: L'DOR V'DOR By Jennifer Smith, Jacksonville Jewish Center
The Jacksonville Jewish Center is pleased to announce our honorees for the L’Dor V’Dor Annual Campaign. We will honor Liat Walker, as the Rabbi David Gaffney Leadership in Education Award recipient, and Edith Horovitz on her Edith Horovitz and Liat Walker retirement after 40 years of service from the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School and DuBow Preschool with the River Garden Community Partner Award. The recognition event will be held at our Spring Celebration on Sunday, May 22 from 12 p.m. until 4 p.m. in Beth Shalom Park at Jacksonville Jewish Center. We look forward to getting the community together outside for fun,
music, food, and more. More information will be coming soon about how to RSVP for the May event. Donations to the campaign can be made at www.jaxjewishcenter.org/ldvd.
The L’Dor V’Dor Annual Campaign benefits the students of the Galinsky Academy, which includes students in the DuBow Preschool, Martin J. Gottlieb Day School, Bernard & Alice Selevan Religious School, and Setzer Youth Education. L’Dor V’Dor helps provide Jewish education and experiences with the highest standards of academic excellence for every Jewish child, regardless of a family’s ability to pay. The Galinsky Academy is a beneficiary of the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida funding, and their support is vital to the continued success of our community’s schools. The Jacksonville Jewish Center is thankful for the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida and their continuous support.
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THANK YOU, FROM RABBI MATUSON By Rabbi Matuson, Beth El - The Beaches
I am no Moses. I make no claims to be, and like him, my rabbinate has been a 40-year journey through the wilderness of uncertain times. I have gained wisdom and learned lessons along the way. Often these lessons were painful, but in time, became sources of wisdom.
Before the pandemic, we gathered to observe Rosh Hashanah. When the time came to deliver the sermon, I wasn't nervous. I had a great sermon: educational, funny, aspirational, and emotional. They were listening and I had them. Then, I made an inappropriate joke. After the service, a gentleman I genuinely respect came up to me. “What you did was cruel. You asked me to follow you, to allow myself to dream, to make the world better. You had me, and then you made that stupid joke. You’re better than that,” he said. I have tried to be better than that.
My father died just before the High Holy Days. I flew to New York, conducted the funeral, flew home, and lead services here. As I walked into the Sanctuary, a gentleman put his arm around me, told me to accompany him to the library. He said, “Rabbi, you are not ready yet. Sit here for a moment, and talk to me about your Dad. Or don’t talk, breathe. Don’t worry, they’ll wait for you. Now, I’ll walk with you to the bima.” Many of you were there and saw the difference one person can make in the life of another and when the community beheld the power before them, they said, Amen. Soon, it will be time for me to find a different way to serve the Holy One. Wherever I go and whatever I do, I will be grateful for the lessons I’ve learned, and thankful for this community who, for 40 years, gave me the honor of calling me Rabbi. Beth El – The Beaches Synagogue is a beneficiary of the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida funding.
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OUR JEWISH EXPERIENCES
This month's theme for the magazine is Jewish Experiences. The Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida celebrates Jewish life by working together with our partner agencies, synagogues, and philanthropists to provide programs and services which build vibrant Jewish community for all of Northeast Florida.
While connecting people of all ages to each other, the Federation brings together people from many generations, backgrounds and levels of observance to celebrate our shared history. Together we are welcoming to all. Enjoy this issue as we bring Jewish experiences through images, storytelling, announcements and events, while we care for and strengthen one another, and build unbreakable bonds within our kehillah, our community.
Brandon Melamed in Israel holding the new Etz Chaim Torah before it went to America.
Kevin Melamed holding the new Etz Chaim Sephardic Sefer Torah during the Jacksonville dedication.
Sarah Jacobs with Or Pravda, who the Jacobs family hosted in Jax through Partnership2Gether.
Travis Melamed as an advisor to NCSY TJJAP trip to Israel, Summer 202�.
Hazzan Holzer during the P2G Educators Mission 20�2 Lynn Maiman during Federation-funded trips to Israel.
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Susan Law celebrating Bubbie Zadie Shabbat with her grandson, Ari Law.
�-year-old Hazzan Holzer and sister at Roman Amphitheater.
MAKING THE OLD, NEW AND THE NEW, HOLY By Rabbi Maya Glasser, Congregation Ahavath Chesed (The Temple)
Our world continues to change and evolve quickly, and so too do Jewish experiences. What we are looking for now, in 2022, might not be Cantor Barry, Rabbi Glasser and Cathy the same as Winterfield observe Neilah at the beach. what we were looking for a decade ago, or even a few years ago before the pandemic. Yet, there are certain Jewish experiences that provide stability by remaining the same, no matter what: lighting the candles on Shabbat, B’nai Mitzvah chanting from the Torah, community members studying our texts and values to find meaning in tradition. As The Temple’s Rabbi, my mission is to facilitate Jewish experiences that allow us both to live fully in contemporary times and also to find meaning through the framework of our heritage. In our modern world, it can be difficult to find relevance in our tradition. But, our people’s history is not merely words in an old book, rather it is a living and breathing code of values and rituals that provide a treasure-trove of meaning for our lives today.
My goal for the Temple and our local community is, as our sages say, to make the old new and the new holy by demonstrating that there is much relevant richness in our religion. I want to empower all who seek meaning to find it in tradition and to see themselves as part of a sacred community that spans from generation to generation. I endeavor to be a carrier of tradition so that every member of our community finds warm and welcoming access to living a Jewish life and sharing
meaningful Jewish experiences.
The Temple welcomes all who wish to be a part of our community, no matter their background, demographic, or journey to this point. We support our community in accessing the beauty and wisdom of our people in ways that meet them where they are in life. We strive to create sacred space where each member can be fully present, share ideas, learn and pray and manifest divine gifts. Judaism can be a source of strength, comfort and consistency in a chaotic world. We must build community which allows each member to embrace this strength, comfort and consistency, and feel embraced by tradition in return. We are thrilled to be able to build this community in partnership with the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida.
There is always more to learn and experience as Jewish people, as we place The community participates in a service ourselves at at the park the intersection of past, present, and future. At The Temple, as Reform Jews, it is our passion, our obligation and our challenge to bring holiness to the world from our unique position of being inspired by, but not bound to, what came before. Please join us as we explore new ways to find the intersection of tradition and contemporary living that is right for you. The Temple is a beneficiary of the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida.
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"THERE'S NO PLACE LIKE HOME!" By Hazzan Holzer, Jacksonville Jewish Center
I’ve been privileged to see Israel through the eyes of so many people: a precocious six year old, kickstarting his Jewish education while instilling a love of people and country; �9�0s Hazzan at Kotel an archeology-loving 10-year-old who couldn’t wait to see more ruins; a 16-year-old having just visited places of Nazi horror only to find hope in the holy land; an 18-year-old learning of the diversity of Israeli society from Ethiopian and Russian immigrants; a Jewish educator purchasing hebrew one-sies on the brink of parenthood; a parent visiting sites from their childhood with new perspective and appreciation. In one way, these eyes were of one person, me. But, these eyes also tell the stories of others, and their experiences are unique in their own right. All of these journeys pushed the participants physically, mentally, and spiritually. As a child, I was gifted with the opportunity to travel around Israel as much as I was gifted with the chance to just “be” in Israel while lounging, shooting hoops with the neighborhood kids, or experiencing the day to day rhythms of Israeli life. As a teen, I finally got to test my Hebrew chops by tutoring immigrants in math, when the only common language was Hebrew. As an adult, I’ve participated in P2G Educator Missions and led our Jacksonville Jewish Center trips to Israel, creating a platform for learning, exploring and capturing that love to return to Jacksonville.
Israel is constantly growing upwards and outwards. There are so many layers to Israeli history, Israeli society, and Israel’s future. Just as an archaeological site grows and expands as we unearth more of our history, visiting Israel, being part of its awesomeness allows us to dig deeper and appreciate the foundations on which it was formed and the newest layers that add it to its flavor. No two visits are the same. There are new innovations, museums, and experiences. While we may 2222
be inclined to say “been there, done that,” it’s important to think of Israel like the reading of Torah, even if the text does not change, we will have changed each and every time we read it. The stories of those we meet and love have changed. And even if our eyes and hearts have not changed, our life experiences can show us a different angle or perspective, enabling us to see something for the very first time.
Wherever you travel in Israel, there are mezuzot on the door posts of hotels, restaurants and other public spaces. A mezuzah is not only a reminder of God’s presence in our world, but where we come from and where we are going; a reminder of where home is. Life can often feel like a slalom course, back and forth on a hill of life, yet it’s important to recognize the slalom posts on our journey that keep us on course. The last time I left Ben Gurion Airport, as I was heading through the tunnel before boarding our plane, I noticed a mezuzah on the left side of the doorway, the opposite side. As we leave Israel, it’s a subtle reminder that Israel is home. So while we may have been “staying home to stay safe” these two-plus years, it is a Hazzan and Doppelgänger on the reminder that the Northern Border words of medieval poet Judah Halevi still ring true: “My heart is in the East and I am at the edge of the West.” Zoom has been a lifeline, but the stopgap has reminded us that nothing beats the real deal. We crave human connection, seeing the world through our own eyes, in person, weather and health permitting. If you’re interested in seeing Israel for the first or our fortieth time, join us this summer. You’ll feel that unparalleled sense of home and belonging. Jacksonville Jewish Center is a beneficiary of the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida.
NOSH ON THIS
SHARING RECIPES
HAMANTASCHEN
Recipe from Sweeta By Ita and myjewishlearning.com
Each year before Purim, my mother baked hamantaschen with her three daughters. While my mother’s memories of this annual event consist mainly of bickering, I have only fond recollections of that wonderful activity. I hope you will enjoy this recipe as much as I did.
DIRECTIONS 1. Cream the shortening with sugar. Add egg and continue creaming until smooth. 2. Add the vanilla. Stir in the sifted flour, baking powder, and salt until a ball of dough is formed. 3. Chill for 2-3 hours, or overnight. 4. Preheat oven to 375 degrees.
5. Roll out the dough into a thin layer, and cut out circles using a glass cup. 6. Fill each circle with Jelly, then fold in the top corner and pinch tightly into a triangle. 7. Bake for 10 - 16 minutes until the tops are golden.
INGREDIENTS A dash of salt 1 teaspoon baking powder 2 1/2 – 3 cups all-purpose flour 1 egg 1/2 teaspoon vanilla 1/2 cup sugar 1/2 teaspoon of Jelly
B ' N A I M I T Z VA H
R E M E M B E R T H E PA S T A N D E D U C AT E F O R T H E F U T U R E
Mazel Tov to Ari Zetlan on becoming a Bar Mitzvah! Through his participation in Chain of Memory he demonstrates the importance of remembering the past as well as educating the future. Chain of Memory makes it possible for B’nai Mitzvah to remember one of the 1.5 million children who were murdered by the Nazis before being able to fulfill the mitzvah of learning Torah. The B’nai Tzedek Program, with the support of Mel and Debbie Gottlieb, helps young people learn about leadership, service, financial literacy, and long-term investing to use their tzedekah for good. The Gift of Israel Program, designed in cooperation with the Levin family, was established to encourage teens to visit Israel by providing them with a $700 subsidy towards an accredited travel program.
Ari Zetlan for Chain of Memory
Ari Zetlan will become a Bar Mitzvah at Congregation Ahavath Chesed (The Temple) on March 26. Ari is currently a high honor roll 7th grader at Patriot Oaks Academy. He enjoys playing basketball, and loves his dog Jovi, and hanging out with his friends. He is always up for any adventure, especially if roller coasters or zip lines are involved. Ari has chosen to dedicate this special occasion to the memory of Carlo D'Angeli. Carlo D'Angeli was born in Milan, Italy, on December 2, 1938 to Mario and Renata. Mussolini had passed anti-Jewish racial laws in November 1938, barring Jews from most professions and public education. Throughout the war, Jews in Italy struggled both economically and emotionally, and everyone knew families with members who had converted, emigrated, or been arrested. Many endured unpleasant antisemitic incidents and it was extremely hard to make a living. When Hitler invaded Italy on September 8, 1941, Carlo was almost five years old. His family was evacuated to the small town of Montecatini-Terme to escape the bombing, but on November 5, 1943, members of the Fascist Militia and the German SS found Carlo, his parents, and his baby brother, Massimo. On November 9, they were shoved into an overcrowded, unsanitary cattle car in Florence. This train, the second deportation train to leave Italian soil, carried at least 400 Jews to the Auschwitz death camp. Carlo's train arrived in Auschwitz on November 14, 1943. Immediately upon arrival, two weeks before his fifth birthday, he was sent to the gas chambers, where he was murdered.
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FA I T H A N D I N S P I R AT I O N
BE HAPPY, IT'S ADAR!
By Rabbi Shira Rosenblum, Jacksonville Jewish Center
Back in high school, I always knew it was Rosh Hodesh Adar when my friend showed up at school with a fun costume or accessory. It could be a feather boa, a jester’s hat, a light-up bowtie…you name it, she wore it! We are taught in the Babylonian Talmud Tractate Ta’anit, “Mishenikhnas Adar Marbin B’Simha,” “When the month of Adar arrives, we increase in joy.” This particular friend took the spirit of this teaching to heart and dressed up every day from the start of the new month of Adar through Purim just over two weeks later. Sometimes she would wear something small that simply
supplemented her outfit and other times she would come in a full-blown costume, ready to spread happiness wherever she went.
Over the years, I have often thought back on this experience and admired my friend for having the courage to wear things that were different and even a little strange, just to make herself and other people happy. Too often we get stuck in the routine of wearing something because it is expected of us or it is deemed “appropriate” for the occasion. This year, I want to challenge all of us to consider adopting this practice of dressing up from the beginning of Adar through the holiday of Purim. Instead of just focusing on one big costume to wear on Purim itself, we could express our creativity by wearing a different costume or accessory every day leading up to Purim as well. We could all use a bit of extra happiness so pull out your costumes and “Be Happy, It’s Adar!” Jacksonville Jewish Center is a beneficiary of the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida.
SEE & BE SCENE Beth El - The Beaches Synagogue, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida, and PJ Library hosted the second of two Beaches Ladies Night Out events. This was made possible by the Jewish Grant Fund of the Jewish Community Foundation which is part of Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida. The event was held at the home of Tulin Ostfeld. The evening featured delicious vegetarian food, and participants shared tips for making this easier in the kitchen. It was a lovely evening that welcomed newcomers to the area and connected old friends.
Karen Rettner and Donna Berger.
Tammy Shumer and Bonnie Yegidis
Eva Grayzel and Rebekah Richmond
Wendy Popkin, Caroline Gruenbaum, and Andrea Moreno-Lackman.
Jenny Lane, Marcy Sandler, Robin Deegan Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida Community Shaliach Stav Brener at the World of Nations event in Downtown Jacksonville.
Comedian Pamela Rae Schuller had a fantastic crowd during her apperance at the Jacksonville Jewish Center, January 29! 26
Congregation Ahavath Chesed enjoys Shabbat Shireinu on the first Friday of every month starting with Tot Shabbat followed by a community dinner and Shabbat services.
Guests: Mindy Grinnan, Ruth & Bernie Nachman, Laura Osofsky, Marcia & Dan Weinstock, Gina & Bob Weston.
Congregation Ahavath Chesed's Tot Shabbat led by Rabbi Glasser & Cantor Barry.
Congregation Ahavath Chesed, Aging True, and the Jacksonville Jewish Center came together in celebration of the Christmas Holiday and the Jewish tradition of mitzvah. The groups worked together to deliver over 400 meals to homebound seniors and disabled residents in North Florida.
Martin J. Gottlieb Day School middle school students created digital prayers to enhance their Tefillah space.
Martin J. Gottlieb Day School middle school student creating the background for her digital prayer.
Students at the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School planted trees and an etrog plant in honor of Tu BiShvat.
SEE & BE SCENE
APPEARANCES AT RIVER GARDEN
Janice Knack joins the Tu B'Shevat seder at The Coves. It was great to see you, Janice!
Members of The Coves enjoyed the company of former COO, Jim Richman, on Casino Night.
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Lori Donley, a 37-year veteran of River Garden, is recognized for her work anniversary. Currently, Donley is the longest-tenured member of staff.
Jerry Seebol and Bruce Horowitz entertain members of The Coves with folk music favorites.
Lorraine Newman enjoys a beautifully handmade blanket from the River Garden Auxiliary.
Friendship Circle at The Beaches mission is to bring friends and smiles to children with special needs. The teenage volunteer with Chabad at the Beaches in Ponte Vedra Beach learns the value of giving, and cherishes the experience of making a difference in the child’s life.
WORTH THE SCHLEP Congregation Ahavath Chesed Exploring Judaism March 2 6:30 - 7:30 p.m. 8727 San Jose Blvd. Jacksonville Led by Rabbi Glasser, we will discuss questions regarding religion, culture, spirituality, and more. There is no cost, and all are welcome! Congregation Ahavath Chesed Purim Carnival March 6 11 a.m. - 1 p.m. 8727 San Jose Blvd. Jacksonville Come in costume and enjoy our carnival games, art stations, game truck, magician, food and prizes. $8 per person (Under 3 years old included with adults).
Come hang out with Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida Shaliach Stav to drink coffee, eat Israeli snacks and talk about Israel! Advance registration is required. Please call (904) 730-2100 ext. 228 or visit www.jcajax.org. Women’s Philanthropy Connections! March 10 7 - 9 p.m. Join us each month for a fun and interactive program for women to connect with other women throughout Northeast Florida! March 10, hosted by Suzie Becker, Martini Mishigas. RSVP here: https://events.idonate.com/ mishigasmadness
JCA Community Hamentashen Bake March 6 1 - 3 p.m. 8505 San Jose Blvd. Jacksonville
Lion of Judah Lunch: Celebrating the 50th anniversary of the Lion of Judah March 10 12 p.m. Epping Forest Yatch Club
JJC Rabbi Series - When the WW East Meets the WW West March 7 7 - 8:30 p.m. 3662 Crown Point Rd., Jacksonville
Congregation Ahavath Chesed Wine & Cheese March 11 6:30 - 7 p.m. 8727 San Jose Blvd, Jacksonville
Join Rabbi Lubliener for When the “Wild Wild East Meets the Wild Wild West” and Western Movie classics.
JJC Purim Carnival 2022 March 13 12 - 4 p.m. 3662 Crown Point rd.
JJC Presents the New York Cantors March 8 7:30 - 9:30 p.m. 3662 Crown Point Rd., Jacksonville Tickets are $25. RSVP at https:// jaxjewishcenter.shulcloud.com/ form/2022cantorsconcert.html JCA Cafe Israeli March 10 7 - 9 p.m. 8505 San Jose Blvd. Jacksonville
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JJC Stories of Music March 14 & 21 8 p.m. 3662 Crown Point rd. Israeli Music in the US: The 60s with Hazzan Jesse Holzer. Register at https:// bit.ly/storiesofmusic-22 JCA, The Berman Family JCA Concert Series: Albert Cano Smit March 20 3 - 5 p.m. 8505 San Jose Blvd, Jacksonville
Advance registration is required. Visit jcajax.org to register online or call (904) 730-2100 ext. 228. Beth El, Not Your Ordinary Passover March 20 4 - 6 p.m. 288 N. Roscoe Blvd. Ponte Vedra Beach In this session we will all bring a Passover dish to share, and have modern ‘kosher for passover’ wines to sample. Discuss your cultural inspiration for your traditional or modern dish. Cost is $10 per person. Congregation Ahavath Chesed Adult Ed Zoom Programs March 23 7 - 8 p.m. Rabbi Richard Address will discuss Jewish Grandparenting. Zoom link here: https://bit.ly/3BodDjK JCA, Cultural Arts Festival Extension Event: Joshua Jay March 24 7 - 9 p.m. 8505 San Jose Blvd, Jacksonville Advanced registration is required at www.jcajax.org PJ Library “One Good Deed” Book Walk at the Temple March 27 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. 8727 San Jose Blvd, Jacksonville Join the PJ Library at Congregation Ahavath Chesed - The Temple for the "One Good Deed" Book Walk. Contact Melissa Williams at Mgwilliams@jfcsjax. org for more information. YPF Night of Generosity March 31
COMMUNITY RESOURCES
HELP ACROSS NORTHEAST FLORIDA
River Garden is the go-to resource for high-quality adult care in Jacksonville. Honoring our Jewish traditions, the dedicated staff, leadership and volunteers are all committed to a best-in-class experience. Whether it is for you, your spouse, parents or friend, be sure to request River Garden.
PJ Library, the award-winning free program for books and music is open to all families with Jewish children in Jacksonville. If your children are between the ages of six months and eight years, they are eligible. Please sign up now by going to pjlibrary.org/communities/ jacksonville or calling Melissa Willams at (904) 394-5724.
JFCS, in partnership with Margo's Catering, is pleased to bring you our meal program Meals4You. Meals are delicious, nutritious, convenient and delivered right to your door. Jewish dietary laws are observed. Call Nicole Andrews at (904) 394-5810 for more information.
T ORAH A CADEMY OF JACKSONVILLE
Every Tuesday from 3:15 to 4:15, Torah Academy hosts a free kosher food program sponsored by the USDA for children under 18. The program helps provide food during these trying times. For more info, contact shorowitz@torah-academy.com.
Through a partnership with GO GO Grandparent and a grant from the Community Foundation for Northeast Florida, JFCS is now offering immediate rides through our Call2Go program. Riders will no longer have to call to book transportation. They will now be able to use an "on demand" service available at their fingertips! GO GO Grandparent will have booking agents available 24/7. When a client calls, the agent will book, monitor and stay available to the client until the ride is complete. Riders MUST pre-register with Nicole Brown at (904) 394-5724 and have a cell phone (texting is not necessary) to use this service.
Admissions (904) 886-8420 Adult Day (904) 288-7858 Home Health Care (904) 288-7851 Outpatient Rehab (904) 886-8454 The Coves (904) 292-2683 Volunteers (904) 886-8429 Foundation (904) 886-8430 MAIN (904) 260-1818
Searching for identity hosts writing workshops for second and third generation holocaust survivors. Meet monthly in a confidential and judgement-free setting, in-person/ online, to explore experiences, capture important stories and explore identity. RSVP at www.searchingforidentity.org/ writing-workshops.
Call2Go is available to those in need of transportation to attend synagogue, medical appointments and other important outings. A sliding fee scale is available. Don't be deceived by the name. . .you don't have to be a grandparent to use the program. Call Nicole today!
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