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261 summer staples The best dresses, skirts, tops, bags and shoes
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46 essential summer accessories
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star ford’s 10 style commandments
75 new section: Sex, relationships and guys — we’ve got it all 78
it’s wedding season! True love stories, what to wear + an etiquette guide
58 BEAT THE HEAT The tips and products you need to protect your skin
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56 beauty bulletin Eyebrow threading, red lipstick on the rise, teeth-whitening strips, and more 58 CHEAT SHEET Skin Care news and notes, plus the best sunscreens
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P. 23-49 the hottest trends: sheer, fringe and oneshouldered pieces; this season’s covetable extras; reinventing your classics, plus more
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14 editor’s obsession The JAYE fashion team falls in love with the tribal accessories trend 16 LUST, LOVE, LOSE Your go-to guide for the trends to buy, hold on to and get rid of 20 NO PAYNE, NO GAIN Fashion Editor Christina Payne shares her style tips for summer weddings
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102 to the max Maxi dresses are still the fashionable frock for fashionistas this season
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50 STAR POWER Star Ford, this month’s cover stunner, shares her summer style commandments 78 EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT SURVIVING WEDDING SEASON Our first annual wedding package includes Q&As with a soon-to-be wed woman and a newlywed, plus tips on etiquette and more 84 COULD THE RECESSION BE GOOD FOR US? Devin Thomas explores the potential future benefits the crippling economy could produce
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61 scoop Denzel Washington’s new movie, this month’s must-see movies, must-hear music, our new Culture Club feature, plus more 66 BECAUSE COLLEGE IS MORE THAN THE CLASSROOM Onikeh Brown finds a new passion in photography and refocuses her career aspirations 69 digest The many facets of Facebook, Obama on student loan regulations, style on a budget, plus more
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Dating deal breakers By Jacquline Smith
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The Regulars 9 Memo from Mike 13 Speak Your Mind 11 Masthead 122 Horoscope 124 Shopping Index 126 ‘Till We Meet Again
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help find the ideal hairstyle for your face shape 120 health headliners Tips on healthy eating for the college students, the 411 on HPV, Internet addiction affecting mothers, plus more
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76 Too tired for sex; plus North Carolina’s new measure on sex education in public schools
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dreams do come true Last year when I told my dad I was launching an online magazine, he simply said, “Oh okay, son,” and continued reading his Sunday newspaper. I sulked down the stairs wondering why his response was so blasé, and went back to reviewing mock-ups of our launch issue, which debuted last June. When my dad and I talked again, I asked him if he thought I’d be successful editing this magazine, and his reply changed my life forever: he looked me straight in my eyes, and said, “There’s nothing I don’t think you can do. So, when you tell me things like you’re starting a magazine, it’s no surprise, because I know that you’re destined for greatness.” From that moment forward, there’s not too much I don’t think I can conquer academically, professionally, or with this magazine, and this, our one-year anniversary issue, represents that. Don’t get me wrong: we’re all about bringing you the best fashion, beauty and entertainment news you need to stay in style and on trend, but we also understand that college is more than the classroom, and frankly, not all dreams are reduced to academia. So as we enter the dog days of summer, think of the dreams you have and how you’re going to reach them. And if you get discouraged, remember one thing: you’re destined for greatness. Thanks for coming along for the ride this past year, and buckle up for year two. In the meantime, have a ball reading the issue.
Clockwise from top: Onikeh Brown, JAYE associate editor, shares her story about finding a passion for photography after persuing a career in print modeling. Read all about it on p. 66; cover girl Star Ford shows off her long, lean shape in this season’s metallic trend and must-have skinny jeans (read Ford’s style commandments on p. 50!); Ford with her best girlfriends Tasia, Kari and Allison; Ford’s all smiles as looks back on how far’s she’s come!
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editors’ obsession why we love it: ■ We fell in love with this bag when we saw it on the runway — after all, it’s bright enough to wear this summer, but the mustard yellow color transitions into fall and works well with the earth tones that are mainstays when the temperature drops. Speaking of dropping, that’s what our jaws did when we saw the price tag on this stunning carryall. Luckily, we can admire from afar and continue to invest the four-plus thousands into our education. Hey, you can’t blame us for dreaming! $4200, Marc Jacobs Collection; eluxury.com.
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Lust, Love, Lose Your go-to guide for the trends you gotta get, need to keep and should stow away
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Cardigan $667, Inhabit; chickdowntown.com.
Shorts $128, Humanoid; lagarconne.com.
Sandals $149, Bebe; bebe.com.
Top $87, Day Birger et Mikkelsen; my-wardrobe.com.
Skirt $50, Principles Petite; debanhams.com.
Bangles $15.50, American Eagle; ae.com.
Long Blazers: Opt for outerwear made from soft, thin, fabrics, not heavy ones this jacket was constructed from.
Gaucho Pants: With summer’s crop of miniskirts, shorts, and dresses, it’s OK to retire this past-due trend for a while.
Suede Bags: Stay in style this season with carryalls made of materials like python and patent leather. In the meantime, hang up the suedes until fall.
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While prepping for three weddings this summer, Fashion News Director Christina Payne rounds up her top tips for stepping on the scene in style. Here, she shows you don’t have to be the bride to still be a bombshell
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aren’t actually in the wedding, we stylish gals still want to be our own little belle of the ball. The runways are the most effective inspiration for any occasion. I can find any look I want to achieve, just by saving my favorite collections to my desktop to use for future reference. Knee-bearing dresses were all over the spring runways, in light fabrics and flowy silhouettes. For a more
sophisticated look, labels like Tracy Reese, Chloe, BCBG, Derek Lam and Diane von Furstenberg quench my thirst for feminine elegance, with girlish flair. For a hint of edge and a lot of courage, labels like Thakoon, Jill Stuart, Betsey Johnson and Jason Wu give me just what I need. Try these looks for any wedding setting, from day to night, outdoorsy to churchy, sophisticated to a little edge.
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pril brought showers, May welcomed flowers, and in June get ready for lots of weddings! I received three wedding invitations in the mail, in a three-month span, sparking a bit of anxiety on what to wear to these shindigs. One was in the evening; one was outdoors, and the other was in a church. Even if we
Jumpsuit $168, French Connection; usa.frenchconnection.com Pumps $39, Newport News; newportnews.com. Clutch $95.50, HOBO International; endless.com. Necklace $24, Arden B.; ardenb. com.
Jumpin’ for Jumpsuits A jumpsuit screams modernity and feminine sophistication. Dare to wear this simply elegant look with a pop of color and statement accessories. This look works for any occasion, day or night. 18 JAYE | JUNE 2009
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Dress $29.80, Forever 21; forever21.com. Sandals $302, Kate Spade; couture. zappos.com. Pin $.99; Wet Seal; wetseal. Belt $9.80, Forever 21; forever21.com. Clutch $198, Abas; shop. nordstrom.com
Feminine Frock This look is perfect for a church setting. Try a classic neutrals with trendy accessories like exotic-skin prints and bright, summer colors.
Bright is Right! Looking for an on-trend get-up ideal for an day wedding? Bright, vivid colors and metallic extras create an effortlessly chic look perfect for rooting on the bride-to-be.
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Dress $80, Topshop; topshop.com. Sandals $130, Michael Kors; jildorshoes.com. Clutch $12.99, Target; target.com. Earrings $6, Wet Seal; wetseal.com.
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jaye no payne, no gain Trail Blazers Perfect for the outdoors, a menswear-inspired blazer paired with a printed dress calls for nothing more than simple accessories, and a lot of confidence!
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Dress $44.50, Delia’s; store. delias.com. Sandals $225, Michael Kors; shop.kitson. com. Jacket $358.50; Twenty8Twelve; my-wardrobe. com. Belt $9.80, Forever 21; forever21.com. Clutch $54, Star 50; ebags.com
Satin Sensation Satin texture? Check. Sky-high heels? Yep. Statement accessories? Of course! And when you put it all together, you’ve got the perfect look for an evening wedding.
lanvin
Dress $44, Dorothy Perkins; stylefinder.com. Shoes $300, Alexander McQueen; footcandyshoes.com. Clutch $137, Juicy Couture; eluxury.com. Necklace $12.80, Forever 21; forever21. com.
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TheIN Thing
Summer’s here and it’s time to upgrade your closet with the season’s essentials. Fringe details, asymmetric must-haves, butterfly motifs and sexy sheer staples take your look from woe-is-me to wow in an instant >>
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the in thing $118, Something Else; lagarconne.com.
$24.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
$55, Elle Macpherson; shop-journelle.com.
style in a snap Grab skinny trousers, sky-high pumps and last season’s boyfriend blazer for a sleek look ideal for your summer job or internship.
make the trend yours
Sheer Thing
$895, Alexander McQueen; net-a-porter.com.
See-through fabrics possess the right amounts of sexiness and wearability essential to catapult you to style Nirvana this summer
$26, Go Jane; gojane.com. $40, New Look; newlook.co.uk.
$19.50, Wet Seal; wetseal.com.
$19.80, Forever 21; forever21.com. $25, Peacocks; peacocks.co.uk.
$24.50, Old Navy; oldnavy.com.
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$94, Miriam Ocariz farfetch.com.
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$1095, Christian Louboutin; net-a-porter.com. $280, ACB; net-a-porter.com. $40, Rare; oli.co.uk.
On the Fringe
Subtle details, like fringes, on classic pieces update your look and give you ample options for all of your summer $725, 3.1 Phillip Lim; net-a-porter.com. occasions $355, Maje; net-a-porter.com. $45, Savoir; littlewoodsdirect.com.
style in a snap Opt for cool-girl casual and pair these sandals with denim cutoffs and a t-shirt, or boho-chic with a maxi dress and piles of bangles.
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$24.99, Aeropostale; aeropostale.com.
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$14.99, Wet Seal; wetseal.com. $750, Zimmermann; zimmermannstore.com.
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style in a snap Great things come in threes, and this oneshouldered frock is proof — at under $20 a piece, you can grab all three of these without breaking the bank.
$70, Topshop; topshop.com.
$19.50, American Eagle; ae.com.
$80, Warehouse; warehouse.co.uk.
Show Some Skin Asymmetric numbers amp up the red-hot factor ten-fold and answer all of your nothing-to-wear-ongirl’s-night-out emergencies on the double
$21.99, Charlotte Russe; charlotterusse.com.
$495, Zimmermann; zimmermannstore.com.
Marc Jacobs
$75, Warehouse; warehouse.co.uk.
$1950, Lanvin; mytheresa.com.
$45, Oli; oli.co.uk.
$80, Oasis; oasis-store.com.
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$185, T-Bags; net-a-porter.com.
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$15.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
$164, Alexander McQueen; net-a-porter.com.
$35, Miss Selfridge; missselfridge.com.
Butterfly Bliss
$13.99, Ami Clubwear; amiclubwear.com.
Butterfly motifs make it easy to infuse your wardrobe with nature’s wonders without looking like you’ve spent the night camping out in the woods
$317, Twenty 8 Twelve; farfetch.com.
Diane von Furstenberg
$35, New Look; newlook.co.uk.
$50, A Wear; awear.com.
$19.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
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The JAYE Summer Accessories Guide
The Bold & The Beautiful Accessories have the power to transform an outfit from simple and casual to bold and beautiful. Whether it’s a necklace, bracelet or a pair of shoes, this summer, let your extras do the talking. Out with conservative and small and in with the big, bigger and biggest! >>
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the in thing $10, Asos; asos.com.
The JAYE Summer Accessories Guide $295, Alexis Bittar; chickdowntown.com.
Earrings
$445, Eric Beamon; net-a-porter.com.
$78, Juicy Couture; shop.nordstom.com.
$40, Topshop; topshop.com.
$5, Wet Seal; wetseal.com. Zac Posen
what to wear with them....
$29.99, Jules Van Patten; modcloth.com.
$13.99, Go Jane; gojane.com.
$58, Arden B.; ardenb.com.
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$45, Miss Selfridge; missselfridge.com.
The JAYE Summer Accessories Guide $6, Wet Seal; wetseal.com.
$150, Yarborough; brownsfashion.com. $28, Arden B.; ardenb.com.
Bracelets $545, Alexis Biittar; chickdowntown.com.
$650, Isharya; net-a-porter.com.
$467, Kara by Kara Ross; vivre.com. $34, Banana Republic; bananarepublic.com. La Perla
what to wear with them....
$12.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
$32.99, Paris Blues; tillys.com.
$25.50, Blue Asphalt; wetseal.com.
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The JAYE Summer Accessories Guide $550, Tory Burch; bloomingdales.com.
$44, Topshop; topshop.com.
Bags $18.99, Charlotte Russe; charlotterusse.com.
$89, Nine West; piperlime.com.
$1523, Luella; lagarconne.com.
$27.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
Michael Kors
what to wear with them.... $8.99, Charlotte Russe; charlotterusse.com.
$160, Steven Alan; net-a-porter.com.
$17.80, Forever 21; forever21.com. $24.99, Charlotte Russe; charlotterusse.com.
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$39.50, Gap; gap.com.
The JAYE Summer Accessories Guide $140, Antik Batik; stylefinder.com. $88.95, Sam Edelman; shop.nordstom.com.
Sandals $215, Pour La Victoire; piperlime.com.
$20.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
$39, ASOS; asos.com.
$39.95, Bakers; bakersshoes.com.
Anna Sui
what to wear with them....
$15.50, American Eagle; ae.com.
$34.50, Delia's; store.delias.com.
$24.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
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The JAYE Summer Accessories Guide $12, ASOS; asos.com. $12.50, Delia's; store.delias.com.
Sunglasses $87, Paul Frank; shop.nordstrom.com.
$240, Oliver Goldsmith; brownsfashion.com.
$5.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
Celine
what to wear with them....
$59.95, Bakers; bakersshoes.com.
$295, Rafe New York; piperlime.com. $40, Topshop; topshop.com.
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$150, Rachel Leigh; chickdowntown.com.
$772, Marc Jacobs; brownsfashion.com.
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$5.80, Forever 21; forever21.com. $65, Dorothy Perkins; stylefinder.com.
Necklaces
$16, ASOS; asos.com.
$100, Top Shop; topshop.com.
$60, Miss Selfridge; missselfridge.com.
Andrew Gn
what to wear with them....
$89.95, Steve Madden; shop.nordstrom.com.
$29.80, Forever 21; forever21.com.
$35, Miss Selfridge; missselfridge.com.
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the in thing Left: Actress and Boy by Band of Outsiders Kirsten Dunst models a menswearinspired look from the spring '09 collection. Below: Rag & Bone, known for effortlessly mixing masculine and feminine, shows how it's done.
■ trend report
Menswear Mania
Borrow from the boys and demand respect with your personal style. Christina Payne shows you how
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in the know
he classic saying, “anything you can do I can do better” comes into play with the the menswearinspired trend. There are more independent women in society, now than ever before—causing them to embrace anything that empowers them to look the way they feel, while maintaining their femininity. From vests to loose-fitting trousers, boyfriend blazers and crisp white shirts, in various prints and textures, menswear is making a major influence on fashion from ready-to-wear to department stores.
■ buzz
How the fashion industry is changing society's views on body image Last month, Forever 21 launched a plus-size brand called Faith 21. According to a Women's Wear Daily report, the average American female is a size 14, so the trendy, fast-fashion retailer,is aiming to cater to women of all ages, shapes and sizes. Staying true to its aesthetic of on-trend pieces and affordable basics, the line will be available for the plus-size woman including, skirts, tops, leggings and dresses in normal affordable prices. Tyra Banks's reps announced that the 13th cycle of her hit show, America's Next Top Model, will cater to petite women. "There have been top supermodels in the past that weren't as tall as the industry demands, like
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fashion icon Kate Moss," Banks said. With a height requirement of 5'7'' and under, the show will give short women an opportunity to shine in fashion's spotlight. Widely recognized for tearing down stereotypes and barriers regarding body image and skin color, every season of ANTM, has featured plus-size models and African-American models—several have been season winners and are leading successful modeling careers. The fashion industry is making a conscious effort to shatter the prototypical image of what is socially accepted as beautiful. A plus-size line of one of the top-selling >> A look from Forever 21's new plus-size line, Faith 21.
The rule of thumb is feminine sophistication with a modern edge for. Borrow an old blazer from dad, grab a pair of skinny jeans and platform pumps and you've got a perfect look for day, drawing more emphasis on updating your wardrobe with staple masculine pieces. To get the look, invest in harem pants, boyfriend jeans and blazers, plaid shirts, vests, combat boots, studded accessories, loose-fitted trousers and shorts, white button-down shirts and oversized cardigans. Designers who launched the menswear trend include Richard Chai, Rag & Bone, Alexander Wang, Boy by Band of Outsiders, Chris Benz, Charlotte Ronson, Alexander McQueen, Marc Jacobs and Yohji Yomamoto and William Rast. By Christina Payne
RUNWAY PHOTOS: STYLE.COM. FAITH 21: LATIMES.BLOG.COM.
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the in thing >> click now! Go to jayemag.com for looks from these designers retailers. Topshop With nearly 50 years in fashion, Topshop is one of the most soughtafter brands today. After nonstop speculation, the UK-stationed retailer’s highly anticipated launch in the U.S. finally came to fruition. Located in Soho, the week-long festivities leading up to the store opening included, concerts, gift cards and abundant support from celebrities. Kate Moss’s appearance at the four-level, 40,000 sq. ft. of space, stirred as much of a frenzy as the launch. Jaye Hersch Target and Jaye Hersch, owner of Intuition, a popular Hollywood boutique, are collaborating to launch a collection, named Hollywood Intuition, in July. The line will include trendy accessories including sunglasses, handbags, jewelry, small leather goods, scarves and head gear. “I build my relationships with my customers and they keep coming back because they like my taste. I’m retailers and one of the most successful TV shows offering women under what is considered average height in the modeling industry an opportunity to pursue their dreams present a platform for the average woman to be confident and satisfied with her figure. Body image is one of the most common issues that women face, mainly due to the messages that are constantly fed to them through the media — especially TV shows, advertisements and magazines. Regardless of their health, these messages aim to influence women to maintain a certain weight and be a certain height, causing adverse and harmful results. On the other hand, the media is 42 JAYE | JUNE 2009
very approachable; I’m a working mom. That’s the Target customer. I’m not a designer; I’m actually a shopkeeper,” gushes Hersch. Karen Walker Born in New Zealand, Karen Walker’s designs have gained international acclaim, from California to Hong Kong and have been spotted in Vogue, Elle, W and Nylon and other fashion publications. Considered one of the most influential designers to emerge in the last six years, the label's recurring theme of effortlessness, taking extremes and pushing them together—masculine and feminine, tailored and street, luxury and non-luxury, dark and super-cute — keep consumers coming back for more. Yigal Azrouel Best known as a self-taught expert draper, Yigal Azrouel’s designs are the epitome of modernity and novelty, with attention to detail and an element of surprise. Since he launched his label in 1998, the Israel native is a CFDA member, with reshaping body image through cultural diversity, now more than ever: more women of color on the runways of fashion shows, and landing the covers of premier fashion publications. Beyonce Knowles and First Lady Michelle Obama most recently graced the cover of American Vogue, as well as last summer's famous allblack issue of Italian Vogue featuring Chanel Iman, Liya Kebede, Jourdan Dunn, and veterans like Tyra Banks, Grace Jones and Naomi Campbell. There are more people of color on commercials, in advertisements, shedding a positive light on cultural diversity, and further proving that history does not have to repeat itself.
women’s and menswear collection, as well as an accessories line. Yigal draws inspiration for his collections through his voyages to metro and remote locations through art, culture, architecture, nature and New York City, where he lives. Chloe Founded in 1952, the name Chloe was chosen for the label’s warm, feminine appeal, and its illustrious pretense: “youthful, yet modern in design, slightly audacious in spirit.” The Chloe brand is most widely known for being cutting edge and simultaneously ageless, with a soft, feminine appeal. With several creative directors, like Karl Lagerfeld, Stella McCartney, and most recently, Hannah MacGibbon, the label reigns true to its chic aesthetic. Topshop
■ women and body image
>> Two out of five women would trade three to five years of their life to achieve their weight goals. >> A study found that women overestimate the size of their hips by 16 percent and their waists by 25 percent, yet the same women were able to correctly estimate the width of a box. >> Young girls are more afraid of becoming fat than they are of nuclear war, cancer, or losing their parents. >> 30 percent of women chose an ideal body shape that is 20 percent underweight and an additional 44 percent chose an ideal body shape that is 10 percent underweight. >> The average U.S. woman is 5’4” and weighs 140 pounds whereas the average U.S. model is 5’11” and weighs 117 pounds. Source: colorodo/StudentGroups /wellness/.edu
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Sunglasses $234, Eley Kishimoto, asos.com.
Sundress $78, Arden B., ardenb.com.
Beach Bag $225, Tory Burch, toryburch.com.
Gift card $10-$250, Barnes & Noble, barnesandnoble.com.
Passport $75-100, U.S. Department of State, travel.state.gov.
Sandals $10, Old Navy, oldnavy.com.
Stephanie Taylor's Summer Must-Haves
Swimsuit coverups $100, Topshop, topshop.com.
Now that summer's here and school's out, it's time for our fashion director to stock up on all the essentials to soak up the sun and enjoy all the season has to offer Comfy, cuffed shorts $29.50, Delia's, store.delias.com.
Pedicure Makeover Set $12.50, Ms. Pedicure, kohls.com.
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Tank tops $32.50, Delia's, store.delias.com.
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Little Black Dress (LBD) A must-have in your wardrobe, the LBD provides a clean slate for your paint your ensemble with summer's array of accessories: thong sandals, metallic booties and eye-catching necklaces instantly upgrade your go-to frock. Need a new LBD? This season's crop are adorned with zipper details, one-shoulder shapes and come with bows and versatile enough to be dressed up for day or night.
Survive the summer heat in style by styling classic staples already in your closet in fresh, new ways By Chandler Stephens
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Classic White T-Shirt Stay on trend with of-the-moment stunners like full skirts in vibrant hues, statement necklaces and earrings paired with a basic white tee. Swap a roomy tote for a clutch for evenings — be sure to stick with bright colors! For day, jeans and an oversized cardigan or boyfriend blazer adds instant style to the shirt. Since white t-shirts come at affordable prices, buy a few of them in different sizes to match your various moods: extra-large for a casual look perfect for running errands and form-fitting ones that will look amazing with pencil skirts and sky-high heels. If you're feeling risky, don't stick to just white: go wild and buy a rainbow of colors. >>
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the in thing Denim Cut Offs
1. Shorts $39.50, American Eagle; ae.com. 2. Pumps $22.50, Wet Seal; wetseal.com. 3. Bracelets $25, Dorothy Perkins; dorothyperkins.com. 4. Ring $12, Miss Selfridge; missselfridge.com. 5. Bag $298, Steve by Steve Madden; shop.nordstrom.com. 6. Clutch $179, Marc by Marc Jacobs; shop.nordstrom.com. 7. Necklace $30, Miss Selfridge; missselfridge. com. 8. Top $504, Marc by Marc Jacobs; my-theresa.com.
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Weary of looking inappropriate in cut off shorts? Don't be: pair yours with billowy tops and this season's batch of accessories (punky pearl necklaces, metallic bangles and geometricprint rings) create an ideal outfit for easy, breezy days and nights. Grab a bottomless bag for shopping dates with girlfriends, and at night, when it's time to hit the club, opt for a small clutch and pointy pumps. ■
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power ■ In this, our first summer style guide, we couldn’t think of a better cover girl than the uberstylish Star Ford to share her fashion wisdom with you. Here, her 10 commandments — plus, 15 chic musthaves stamped with her approval — that will instantly update your wardrobe and help craft your personal style for now and years to come
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’m a girl and I have insecurities too,” Star Ford, 25, candidly admits. “But I think if you’re going to wear clothes, you might as well rock ‘em.” Her frankness permeates through her academic endeavors as well: “I love fashion so why not have a career that allows me to do both,” Ford, who attends the University of North Texas in Denton and studies broadcast journalism, says with a gentle and relaxed tone that matches her mood during our Friday-night chat. “I’d love to
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work in entertainment and fashion reporting.” Ford, who graduated from Texas A&M University-Commerce in TK and penned a weekly column in The East Texan, A&M-Commerce’s newspaper, seems to be well on her way to success. “This fall, I’ll be interning and it’s always great to make connections because who knows what opportunities can come after that. This past semester, I anchored the Thursday news at UNT and ‘What’s Hot,’ a segment featured the latest news in
entertainment, fashion and other pop culture.” When she’s not in school, Ford spends her time with friends and cherishes the relationship with her girlfriends, whom she’s dubbed “STAK”—the first letter of the first name’s of Ford and her main gals, Tasia, Allison and Kari. “We have so many different characteristics, but we mesh so well,” she says. “I’m very sociable and I love making new friends, but it’s such a blessing to have a group of friends that you know will always have your back >>
jaye cover story body types. In my opinion, there’s a skinny jean and Little Black Dress out there for every size, so purchase basics that fit and build your wardrobe that way.” ■ Thou shall always have balance. “If you’re going to go short and fitted on bottom, make sure you go loose up top—it’s all about proportions. Remember contrast when you’re getting dressed, and you’ll always wear clothes that fit your body.” ■ Thou shall keep hair and nails
and will always be there.” Ford, who describes her personal style as “classy chic—I like to go against the grain, but still look pulled together,” suggests women “do what works for them. Trends repeat themselves — you can walk down the street and see ‘50s-inspired dresses or beat boy styles, so find your comfort zone.” Below, Ford shares her style commandments: tried-and-true words of wisdom. ■ Thou shall keep yourself in mind when shopping. “I know I like to go take chances when I’m picking out clothes and putting looks together, so I keep that in mind when I’m making my purchases. I think that’s what women should remember: the pieces that make them happy and purchase accordingly. ■ Thou shall embrace your figure no matter your size. “Whether you’re big or small, love yourself. What’s great about fashion right now is that it’s accessible for all
Do what works for you. Trends repeat themselves—you can walk down the street and see ‘50sinspired dresses or beat-boy styles, so find your comfort zone.”
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in mind when getting dressed. “I think ladies get bogged down into being concerned only with the clothes they wear. But a bad-ass outfit is a mess if your hair and nails aren’t done. I rely on MAC products—glosses, mascara, eye shadows—for my cosmetic needs.” ■ Thou shall embrace your femininity. “I love being a woman! It’s so great to be able to get your nails and feet done and just be pampered! And don’t think you have to break the bank to feel good: I purchased a quality pedicure kit for $18, and if I’m home on a Friday night, I pop in a movie, pour a glass of wine and show my feet some love!” ■ Thou shall realize that bags and shoes can make the outfit. “I’m sure you’ve heard it before: Accessories can instantly update your wardrobe! I go for oversized boho bags for day, and a grown-and-sexy clutch for evening. I also love wear-
Update your summer look with these stylish picks from our stunning cover girl!
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jaye cover story ing simple outfits like tank tops and skinny jeans with an amazing pair of pumps—instant chic!” ■ Thou shall understand that not matching is the new matching. “Patterns give you the opportunity to have fun with fashion. Mix them up and don’t put yourself into a box when it comes to personal style.”
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Jaye beauty pretty pastels With summer knocking at our door, neutral and earthtoned eye makeup is gradually fading while more vibrant colors slowly arise. However, this season, pastel eye shadows have become one of the more popular — trends that they contain pigments that shimmer on the lid and act a bit like a light for your entire eye area. Try Dior 5-Color Iridescent Eyeshadow (below), $54, dillards.com, contains velvety-soft powder shadows that you can mix, match, and blend to your heart’s content.
It’s Only a Thread Away
Commonly used in India, China and other Eastern Countries, eyebrow threading is a practice of shaping the eyebrows using a cotton thread. The twisting action of the thread traps the hair and lifts it out of the follicle. It’s a very gentle, sanitary, and painless way of removing unwanted facial Hair.In distinction to waxing, the top layers of skin are not peeled or traumatized in the process. The result? A safe, simple, rapid, and highly effective method of hair removal. Because there is minimal chance of irritation, it is very well suited for the sensitive skin.
Women in ancient civilizations applied lipstick to their lips for face decoration and selfexpression. While ruby red lipstick is one that many women assume they cant wear, it is without a doubt the hottest, most classic lip color of the season.
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instant style: Instead of pulling your hair back in a traditional bun, style it in the “twisted-crown style” by placing bobby pins three inches down from the crown of the head, twisting the hair up, tucking strands into the existing bobby pins and adding a few more to secure the look. It’s the new way to dress up a classic updo for a night on the town.
beauty BULLETIN By Randall Upshaw
A Brighter Impression
You’ve only got one chance (the first 27 seconds of initial interaction!) to make a first impression. With a brighter smile, you’ll gain the confidence to use it more often, projecting a friendlier, more approachable aura. If you’re new to whitening, Crest Whitestrips Classic is an enamel-safe teeth-whitening system that provides visibly whiter teeth. Find them at local drugstores.
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Foot therapy
Heel to Toe Conditioning Leg and Foot Therapy, $5.69, sallybeauty.com, A complete aromatherapy spa pedicure line to pamper, revitalize, soften and moisturize rough, tired and achy feet. Aromatherapy, the science of using pure essential oils to create a physical effect by influencing your limbic system, is a natural, simple way to help reduce stress, focus energy, uplift your spirit, reduce anxiety or just relax.
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Summer means fun in the sun, but it’s also time to brush up on your skin care knowhow. Here the essential info you need
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>> Causes of skin cancer
S things to remember when buying sunscreen courtesy of fitsugar.com ■ Select a sunscreen that says broad spectrum on the bottle. These provide protection against both UVA and UVB rays. ■ It should have an SPF of 15 or higher. Remember that sunscreens with an SPF of 45 or higher don’t allow you to stay out longer. ■ Make sure the label says that it contains sunscreen. Some lotions and tanning oils don’t, so they’ll offer no protection from the sun’s harmful rays. ■ On the list of ingredients, it should say one these: oxybenzone, sulisobenzone, avobenzone (Parsol 1789), ecamsule, titanium dioxide or zinc oxide.
did you know? >> In the United States, incidence of melanoma of the skin has increased significantly by 2.9 percent per year from 1993 to 2005 among women. >> According to the latest statistics available from the National Cancer Institute and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC): Cancer of the skin is the most common of all cancers in the United States. >> More than one million cases of non-melanoma skin cancer are diagnosed in the US each year. >> Melanoma represents only 4 percent of all skin cancers in the US, but accounts for more than 75 percent of all skin cancer deaths. >> Melanoma is more common than any non-skin cancer among women between 25 and 29 years old. Source: University of Maryland Medicine Web site
■ Survive the sun with these helpful guidelines... >> Seek the shade, especially between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. Do not burn. Avoid tanning and UV tanning booths. Use a sunscreen with an SPF of 15 or higher every day. Apply one ounce (two tablespoons) of sunscreen to your entire body 30 minutes before going outside. Reapply every two hours. Cover up with clothing, including a broad-brimmed hat and UV-blocking sunglasses. >> Keep newborns out of the sun. Sunscreens should be used on babies over the age of six months. >> Examine your skin head-to-toe every month. >> See your physician every year for a professional skin exam. 58 JAYE | JUNE 2009
Ways to protect skin: ■ If you know you will be acquiring much sunlight, apply sunscreen every two hours or after getting wet. ■ You are usually less attired at the beach and so covering up is recommended even when wearing sunscreen. Sunscreen also wears off with sweat and water.
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From left to right: $40, Cosmedicine; sephora.com. $9.99, Coppertone; drugstore.com. $37, Clarin’s; bloomingdales.com. $15, Burt’s Bees; burtbees.com. $12.99, Caribbean Solutions; target.com. $9.49, Australian Gold; walgreens.com.
adly, skin cancer can take 20 or more years to develop. The Skin Cancer Foundation states that most people receive about 80 percent of their lifetime sun exposure before the age of 18. Just one blistering sunburn in childhood is estimated to double the risk of melanoma later in life. Taking better care now will reduce the risk, but not eliminate the damage already done. The Skin Cancer Foundation states that “UV-A penetrates more deeply into the skin than UV-B, can cause skin cancer, and may suppress the immune system.” Repeated tanning injures the skin and increases the risk of skin cancer. Skin is still affected by UV rays even when the sun is in hiding. You will still need protection from the rays whether sunny or not. Tanned skin is damaging therefore, you are likely to develop cancer of the skin.
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denzel does it again A remake of the 1974 film of the same name, The Taking of Pelham 123 is a high-volume action film with Denzel Washington and John Travolta leading the cast. A group of hijackers, led by Ryder (Travolta), take a subway train and its passengers, promising to kill the hostages if their ransom of one million dollars per hostage is not paid in one hour. Zachary Garber (Washington) tries to negotiate with the hijackers in transporting the ransom money while saving the hostages. When Garber realizes that time is running out, he voluntarily offers his surrender to Ryder and the hijackers in exchange for freeing the hostages aboard the train. – Terin Bufford >> JAYE | JUNE 2009 61
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on june’s movie menu >>
The Proposal
Could you marry your boss? In Andrew’s case, marrying his boss is just another order this unsuspecting assistant had to obey. tennessee How far will you go to save your brothers life? In some cases, you really are your brother’s keeper. Two brothers, Carter and Ellis, embark on a long journey to find their estranged father, who might be the key to saving Ellis’ life after being diagnosed with leukemia. Along the way they meet Krystal (played by Mariah Carey), an aspiring singer, who soon becomes the brother’s guardian angel and accompanies them on their long voyage to find their father and overcome their past experiences. Directed by Aaron Woodley, this inspirational drama is set to release on June 5. 62 JAYE | JUNE 2009
imagine that Eddie Murphy is back on the scene with his comedic genius in Paramount Pictures and Nickelodeon Movie’s summer hit, Imagine That. Murphy’s character is a successful financial executive that seems to have more time for his work than his seven-year old daughter. His confidence is slowly deteriorating which causes his career to take a beating. In lieu of all the chaos, he finds a solution to all is problems in his daughter’s imaginary world. Through her drawings he explores different ways to better his career and it brings a closer bond between him and his daughter. In the words of Albert Einstein, “Imagination points to all we might yet discover and create.”
the proposal: clevver.com. tennesee: sweetmariah.com. imagine that: tribute.ca.
the proposal Could you marry your boss? In Andrew’s case, marrying his boss is just another order this unsuspecting assistant had to obey. When his boss, high-powered book editor, Margaret, faces deportation to her native Canada, she declared that she was actually engaged to her assistant Andrew. Reluctantly, Andrew agrees to participate in her charade, but only if she would agree to meet his family. With the fake wedding, false in-laws, and immigration close by, Margaret and Andrew vow to stay with the plan, no matter how crazy things were. Directed by Anne Fletcher and starring Sandra Bullock and Ryan Reynolds, this romantic comedy is coming to a theatre near you on June 19.
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1. BLACK EYED PEAS The E.N.D. The Energy Never Dies, the album that band leader, Will.I.Am, describes as his model for a project that is living and frequently updated throughout its designated cycle, is filled with “a lot of different stuff, real melodic, electronic, soulful. We call it, like, electric static funk, something like that.” This is the fifth album by the American hip-hop group.
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scoop 3. The Jonas Brothers Lines, Vines and Trying Times This album marks the fourth release for popular trio of brothers, Nick, Kevin, and Joe Jonas. The Jonas Brothers explain that this album shows their growth. “This album is about our journal in songs, mostly all things we’ve gone through, personal experiences we get inspiration from,” says Nick Jonas to Billboard.com. Lines, Vines, and Trying Times is set to release on June 15. 4. Third Eye Blind Ursa Major After about a six-year span of writer’s block, Stephen Jenkins was finally able to finish the lyrics for their upcoming album. Due to the long list of songs, Ursa Major will be accompanied my Ursa Minor, an album containing all the songs that were left out. You can get your copy of Ursa Major in stores on June 23!
culture quiz >>
Test your pop culture knowledge 1. What pop icon, who kicks off her worldwide tour this month, made tickets for 2000 seats per venue available for $20? 2. True or false: Another season of The Hills is slated to be filmed with or without Lauren Conrad, the star of the show. 3. What’s the name of the ‘80s remake that stars Russell Brand as the lead? 4. True or false: TV can make us feel like we have friends. 5. At press time, this Golden Girl favorite passed away. What’s Dorothy’s real name? 6. True or false: MTV is picking up a second season of the CW reality show, Stylista? 7. According to Billboard, which Gossip Girl star signed a record deal with Universal Republic: Taylor Momsen (Jenny Humphrey) or Leighton Meester (Blair Waldorf)? 8. After breaking up with her husband and writing her lead single, “So What” about their relationship, this pop star and her skater boy-toy have gotten back together.
answers 1. Beyonce has lowered prices for the tickets to her show to make the North American tour accessible for all of her fans. 2. True. At MTV’s Upfront presentation to advertisers the network officially announced that The Hills will return for at least one more season. 3. Drop Dead Fred will be remade, although the first one was viewed unsuccessful by most critics. 4. True. A new article from Science Daily, a psychology journal, suggests that watching and talking about favorite TV shows can make people feel less lonely. 5. If you said Bea Arthur, you’re spot on! Arthur was adored for the contributions she made to television, often playing roles that featured strong women. 6. False. But get this: MTV is ordering a new reality competition show about stylists called The Stylist. The format? A group of professional stylists will compete in various challenges for the chance to win agency representation and hopefully jump-start a career. 7. Leighton Meester has signed a deal with Universal Republic through Time-Act Music to release her debut album in the fall. 8. In April, Alicia Moore, better known by her stage name P!nk, said that she and her husband Carey Grant have decided to work things out.
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black eyed peas: rap-up.com. lil wayne: culturebully.com. jonas brothers: disneydreaming.com. third eye blind: above-thefold.com. woman thinking: thefrisky.com.
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Novel notes: must-read books >>
More Than It Hurts You by Darin Strauss More Than It Hurts You is the third novel from the writer of The Real McCoy and Chang and Eng, Darin Strauss. Josh Goldin is a happily married TV airtime salesman with an eight-month-old son. When baby Zack is treated twice for unexplained and severe injuries, the head of a pediatric ICU, Dr. Darlene Stokes, starts to get suspicious. Stokes informs CPS that she thinks Josh’s wife, Dori, suffers from Munchausen Syndrome, whereby they afflict injury to their children deliberately to draw attention to themselves. The Goldins’ consequential battle to keep Zack gives the public grounds to debate about issues ranging from parents’ rights to race since Dr. Stokes is black and the Goldins’ are Jewish. The heart of the story—the untying of Josh’s life and the steady breakdown of his thoughts that ignorance can be a virtue and happiness a choice—is said to be surprising.
The heart of the story—the untying of Josh’s life and the steady breakdown of his thoughts that ignorance can be a virtue and happiness a choice— is said to be surprising.
This just in >> Jada Pinkett-Smith Finds Her Way to the Small Screen in HawthoRNe
Smith), who is a recently widowed, mother of one, and a strong and caring director of nursing at a North Carolina hospital. HawthoRNe foln the land of cable television, lows her life as she juggles her career female actresses are becomand her single-parent ing more and more role without giving dominant. The TNT The show centers up to the constant around Christina network, which is home Hawthorne who is battles she has to to high-powered female endure to serve the shows such as The Closer a recently sick and take care of and Saving Grace, is add- widowed, mother home. According to ing a few more shows to of one, and a TV.com, Senior Vice the line-up, one of which strong and caring President in Charge is a highly anticipated director of nursing of the Content Cremedical drama, Hawat a North Carolina ation Group for TNT, thoRNe, which premieres hospital. TBS and Turner on the June 16th. HolClassic Movies Milywood actress Jada Pinkett-Smith chael Wright said, “John Masius has is making a comeback in cable created a beautifully drawn chartelevision as the star and executive acter, and we couldn’t have wished producer of this newly piloted medifor a better choice to play her than cal drama. The show centers around Jada.” The series co-stars David JuChristina Hawthorne (Pinkett-
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■ In the first edition of the “Culture Club,” a monthly discussion of a pop culture topic, JAYE editors discuss the impact of reality TV on Generation Y, why we love them so much, and if they’d go on one themselves
the hills: celebritybeautybuzz.com. unique: tvgasm.com.
culture club >> Ashley Johnson (Deputy Editor): I love reality TV! To be honest, I love the drama. Robyn Sapenter (Executive Editor): I do too! But I don’t call it reality TV, I call it situational TV — reality isn’t fun. Ashley: So, reality TV isn’t reality TV? Robyn: There’s no such thing as reality TV. I think that if you followed my around and saw my reality, you’d be bored, but in certain situations, I think it’s entertaining. Ashley: I see what you’re saying. Devin Thomas (Articles Editor): Don’t forget about the amount of editing that goes into these shows. I mean, they take a span of days and whittle it down to 22 minutes to make you believe what they want you to believe. And from a production standpoint, reality TV is great, especially because it’s cheap. Michael Jones (Editor-inChief): That’s a really good point! Jillian Risnes (Features Editor): I’m sure I’m not the only one, but I love shows like Bromance and the Real World/Road Rules challenges, but I don’t admit it. I love to hate those shows [laughs]! Michael: Would you guys ever go on reality TV?
“I think we feel like we know reality stars so well that we can help them deal with their problems.” – robyn
fan favorites Most viewers of reality shows have their personal favorites. Take JAYE Executive Editor Robyn Sapenter, for example: Despite constant criticism from friends, she continued to support Unique, the villified cast member of VH1’s For the Love of Ray J.
Jillian: Nope. Ashley: No, I wouldn’t go on a show. Robyn: Hell yeah I would! I’d go on a reality TV show in a heartbeat! Devin: Trust me, if you want to go on reality TV, there’s a spot. Robyn: Well, where do I go [Laughs]?! Michael: Seriously, though I don’t know if it’d be entertaining to watch me go through the day. Especially when I’m editing! I watch CNN all day, go to school, read and try to carve away time to sleep. What’s fun about that? Jillian: I think the reason reality TV has been so successful is because people are stepping out of the box and that makes people want to watch it. Devin: I don’t even think reality TV lives up to itself.To the majority of the world, especially our generation, reality stars are royalty. Robyn: We feel like we have a stake in the lives of these people. Like on For the Love of Ray J, which recently wrapped up, my favorite character was Unique, and my friends gave me such a hard time... Michael: Unique? Girl, shut up! Robyn: Anyway, I think we feel like we know them so well that we can help them deal with their problems. Michael: When we should probably be dealing with our own! ■
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because college is more than the classroom Onikeh Brown, JAYE’s associate editor, had dreams of being a supermodel, but her height (or lack thereof!) got her turned down and looked over. Instead of sulking, she’s found a new passion, took a new look at her career goals and inspired people along the way
Here: Onikeh poses for a snapshot for her portfolio. Opposite page (from top): One of Onikeh’s latest additions to her portfolio; Aydin, Onikeh’s son, walking during his first photoshoot taken by his mommy; Onikeh loves shooting in the natural light, and here, she uses Jack Duffie, assistant to the editor-in-chief.
onikeh overcomes obstacles >>
“In some ways not being a photography major has made the journey that more meaningful. I am learning the rules as I go, breaking some, and making my own.”
■ My dream was always to be in front of the camera on a runway or in a courtroom; however, at a mere 5-foot6-inches, modeling, one of my dreams, have been deferred. Recently, searching for the career path I want to travel has been a great struggle for me. As I come to the end of my senior year at Texas A&M University-Commerce and I prepare to earn bachelor’s degrees in psychology and business, I often jokingly think “what a waste of four and a half years.” You see, I have no desire to get my master’s in psychology. And though I still want to go to law school, I think my current path is to get my MBA and continue the growth of my photography business. Being a single mother of a beautiful 16-month old boy, Aydin Christopher, has giving me the assurance that there is no mountain immovable for me, so I plan to knock down all of the obstacles that stand in the way of my dreams one step at a time. It was sometime in 2008 as I browsed through several photographers portfolios on modelmayhem.com, which is the Facebook and MySpace of the fashion and modeling industry, that a light bulb went off in my head: the true, essential art can be found in photography. Almost instantaneously my passion evolved from canvas to artist and I’ve been molding my path ever since. I knew the ins and outs of the industry from the model’s perspective. With my business savvy and my ability to be able to relate to my clientele, I am able to bring a sense of sincerity and eye for creativity that some may photographers may lack. At the time my light bulb went off however, I was missing one thing, a digital photography camera and several hundred dollars to invest in one. I saved up and managed my money wisely and within two months I was able to buy my first camera. Since then, I think I have
taken over 10,000 photographs. I also lacked the basic training many photographers had in the industry, so I made it my duty to teach myself. If there is a photography Web site, I’ve viewed it; if I knew someone who took good pictures, they became my inspiration, and every photographer I had had the opportunity to shoot with became my mentor. I’ve cleared Barnes and Noble of every photography magazine, manual, and book—I think I even got Photography for Dummies. I’ve immersed myself into the art, and in turn, it has been a humbling experience to be able to network and learn from many exceptional and established photographers already making waves in the industry. Several years ago I never thought I would have found a place behind the camera. I didn’t start off a photography major, and in some ways not being a photography major has made the journey that more meaningful. I am learning the rules as I go, breaking some, and making my own. I have fallen in love with colors and angles and try and incorporate that into every picture I take. I consider myself a natural light photographer, so when the sun is high in the sky, you can find me manipulating the sunrays through my lens in different areas in Commerce. I came into A&M-Commerce with one goal in mind: to get to law school, and though that is still my top priority, I have had the opportunity to journey down so many other paths along the way that were not originally sketched into my blueprint. When I get a compliment, open a message, e-mail, or read a comment favorably crediting my work — writing or photography — it makes me even more driven to become better with my craft; it makes my hard work that much more meaningful, and all my dreams more attainable. ■ JAYE | JUNE 2009 67
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quick hits on current events, happenings & trends
The author warns against posting incriminating information and photos that relatives, ex-lovers and current and future employers can have access to.
Facets of Facebook Family, exes and employers
use our go-to social networking site to keep tabs on us. Robyn Sapenter has the 411
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ike an aging edgy club, the exclusivity of Facebook has become extinct, by opening their doors to the world. Facebook abandoned their fan base of college students earning that rite of passage to log-in to coveted site to become bigger, better, more lucrative website. Original facebookers long for the nostalgia of the old facebook, as they watch their close-knit social network spiral into an open book for anyone to see. Facebook and Families: So you have posted pictures of you drinking at the boat house over spring break—the problem is you told your parents that you would be spending spring break taking courses to catch up. Now your Facebook pictures are hanging up on your parents’ fridge during summer break and serve as constant reminder to your parents of why they shouldn’t trust you. While it is apparent that you lied, it was your aunt, whose sole purpose on Facebook is to gather gossip, who ratted you out.
Many times, your family knows a lot about you. As a mother would say, “I know you better than you know yourself.” While this may be true, often, parents don’t want to know all these things about their children. Facebook and Relationships: Your relationship status reads “In a Relationship,” with your significant of a year. After login into facebook, you notice that your significant other has a friend request from his ex-girlfriend, the same ex, who told him she would stop at nothing to get him back. This boils your blood, because he knows that his ex is nothing but a pest in your relationship. Still, he brushes off her friend request as a good gesture; while for you it feels like a rekindling of a relationship. A connection to an old flame is not necessarily a big deal, many emotions rise, when such a public display of friendship is established. The act of accepting friendship should be of little importance; heck many of us would not even >>
facts about facebook ■ More than 100 million users log on to Facebook at least once each day. ■ More than two-thirds of Facebook users are outside of college. ■ The fastest growing demographic is those 35 years old and older. ■ Average user has 120 friends on the site. ■ More than 3.5 billion minutes are spent on Facebook each day (worldwide). ■ More than 20 million users update their statuses at least once each day. ■ More than 8 million videos uploaded each month. ■ More than 2.5 million events created each month. ■ More than 25 million active user groups exist on the site. Source: Facebook.com
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Style on a budget: Pile up on the basics to save during rough economic times ucci, Marc Jacobs, Prada, and Yves Saint Laurent: These are just some of the designer lines that have revolutionized the world of fashion. Whether your favorite store is Guess,
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Saks, Forever21, or JC Penney, the concepts created by these designers are engaged, modified, and repackaged for the rack. No matter if the leggings you bought are ten dollars or ten-hundred dollars, the most important thing about style is creating a look and feel that is comfortable to you without breaking the bank. According to the U.S. Trea-
sury, in 2000, teenagers accounted for $155 billion in consumer spending—to put that in context, that is more than the entire country of Mexico exports in goods yearly. In his book Smart Women Finish Rich, author David Bach talks about the importance of investing for women, but takes time out to address the compulsive nature many women have when it comes to spending.
father’s day is june 21. Here are a few stats from the United States Census Bureau: 64.3 million: Estimated number of fathers across the nation. Besides ties and dress
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mind if out significant others spoke with past lovers. It seems the fact of seeing the action just brings an unimportant issue into focus. Facebook and (Current and Future) Employers: Maybe your favorite magazine is Playboy, or you express your views about religion. Maybe you sound off about the stupidity of politics, or your obsession with liquor; each of these issues are socially considered unacceptable to
talk about outside of good friends and church, but are protected by our civil liberties. So, while these subjects may be good enough to blog about, they promote the idea of employers judging you based on subjects that are not necessarily “work appropriate.” This is like giving a private investigator a key to your house, your pin number, and all you email passwords. The part of your world that you don’t mind sharing is now judged constantly and sometimes unfairly. Facebook has changed the way we connect with people. While they are trying to make ways to combat the “open as a book” views our lives, much progress still has to be made. In the mean time, the facebook addiction is growing, which means more and more people will have access to personal information. Keep in mind, facebook may seem like your own personal side of the world, but it is still a website listed on the World Wide Web, and as information is gathered, it is disseminated around the globe instantly; with no way of stopping it. Remember, some of your life should be private…keep it that way. – Robyn Sapenter
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college students & financial aid
“The idea here is simple. Most Americans spend far too much money on impulsive purchases that really don’t need to make. Set a ceiling. I suggest $100, but it can be whatever amount that makes sense to you. Then give yourself 48 hours to think about it.” The same ideology is expressed in the book, Young, Fabulous, and Broke by financial Wizard Suze Orman. Dubbing the 20-something
generation, Generation Broke, Orman describes the financial burdens for young spenders. “Between skyrocketing housing prices, outrageous tuition bills, and less than great job market, Generation Broke will still charge up five pairs of designer jeans that they cannot even afford.” The solution? Spend smartly! Identify classic pieces for your closet, and invest properly. >>
In a report by Kent Klein, posted on Voices of America, President Barack Obama is repeating his call to change the way the government helps students pay for college. He said the student loan system needs to be fixed, to help more low- and middle-income students afford college. “In a paradox of American life, at the very moment it has never been more important to have a quality higher education, the cost of that kind of education has never been higher,” he said. Mr. Obama wants the government to stop paying private lenders to make student loans, and stop guaranteeing those loans with taxpayers’ money. “Yet, we have a student loan system where we are giving lenders billions of dollars in wasteful subsidies that could be used to make college more affordable for all Americans.”
shirts, items high on the list of Father’s Day gifts are tools such as hammers, wrenches and screwdrivers. 159,000: Estimated number of stay-at-home dads in 2006. >>
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Every woman’s closet should contain a white shirt, the perfect jeans, black slacks, the classic coat, and a little black dress. These essentials should be designer, true investment pieces, because they are timeless. These items will not last a lifetime, but they will last and should be treated with care. These basics will carry you from trend to trend, by providing a starting point for your closet. They should fit nicely, and should be replaced or duplicated yearly. By the time you are 30, you should have four to five variations of the “basics” in your closet. Brands to know for basics: Calvin Klein, Bananna Republic, Christian Dior, Michael Kors Trendy items are the exact opposite. Trendy items will change with the seasons, and should not be more than $50.
These hip pieces should be pared also the more up-to-the-minute complimentary accessories. From jewelry to shoes, chic items can not be half-way pulled together. The look must be complete! Brands to know for trendy Items: Betsy Johnston, Arden B, BeBe, Guess As a shoeinsta, I cannot think of a better fashion investment than shoes! Shoes should be timely and timeless. Black pumps are a must. Since shoes endure a natural wear-and-tear, they should be a moderate expense with a price tag of $50 to $100. There are, however, times where shoes should be the accessory piece. In these instances, which should be within reason, make the investment in good high quality shoes. Brands to Know for shoes: Aldo, Guess, Joan and David, Marc Jacobs. – R.S.
“Between skyrocketing housing prices, outrageous tuition bills, and less than great job market, Generation Broke will still charge up five pairs of designer jeans that they cannot even afford.” – Financial expert Suze Orman, pictured above
■ Too much skin is too much skin, no matter what the thermometer says. Beware of UVB: uncovered, voluptuous bust. Your brain is the B you want to show off. ■ An overlayer top really adds presence, authority, and modesty to a business look. A cotton-blend twinset or unstructured shirt jacket are cooler alternatives to a suit jacket in semi-casual situations. ■ Under a suit jacket, consider wearing a dressy t-shirt instead of the traditional silk blouse. The cotton knit fabric absorbs body moisture and helps you stay surprisingly cool. ■ For a tee to qualify as dressy,
it should be made of fine quality fabric; the neckline should be finished with binding, instead of more casual ribbed trim. It should also have a shaped armhole, and no logos. ■ Consider a business dress like a sheath dress or tailored dress as an alternative to a suit. Look for a solid color and reasonably firm fabric, like a wrinkle-resistant linen. Sleeveless dresses would require a jacket or sweater, but a short-sleeved one should be fine alone. Wrap dresses can work, too, provided they aren’t too low-cut or tight. ■ Most professional offices still expect nylons with a dress or
Source: EmploymentBlawg.com.
skirt, even in the summer. Resist the temptation to ditch the hose, even if your company’s dress policy does not explicitly require them. ■ Companies are becoming more accepting of backless or open-toe footware, but flip-flops, Birkenstocks, and Crocs don’t make the cut. Toe-post sandals (what used to be called “thong” sandals) are usually too skimpy to be office appropriate, but a conservative peep-toe is fine. ■ Do remember to care for your feet before you bare them. Your nails should be painted a subtle, natural color (think reds and corals, not hot
pink or lime green), and your heels shouldn’t be cracked or flaky. ■ The fashion world has attributed magical properties the color black. It magically absorbs the sun’s rays, and can cook you alive during the summer. Consider a mid-gray or khaki suit instead, or even ivory. You can also punch up your summer outfits with vivid but professional tops. Salmon, turquoise, and purple can be great summery touches. ■ Women’s jewelry is a great way to “summerize” a look. Consider turquoises necklace as that packs a punch or color, shows some style.
26.5 million: Number of fathers who are part of married-couple families with children younger than 18 in 2006. 2.5 million: Number of single fathers in 2006. ■
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Dating Deal breakers
To get the most out of your relationship, Jaqueline Smith suggests having non-negotiables to live and date by veryone has their pet peeves, something that they just can’t put up while in a relationship. Dating deal breakers vary from person to person, and vary within each relationship. While one small deal breaker may not force you to block your new beau’s number, a combination of some of these deal breakers may just push you over the edge.
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■ Smoking…when you’re not a smoker. Kissing a smoker, when you hate the taste of cigarettes, can be horrendous if you usually steer clear of smoking. Even if your beau vows to pop a breath mint before leaning in for a kiss, their hair and clothes will still reek of smoke. If it’s early on in the relationship, this may be a potential deal breaker. Remember, quitting smoking is hard, so don’t expect your partner to necessarily jump on the quitting bandwagon. ■ An addiction to gaming. Dating someone who is addicted to nonstop gaming can be very obnoxious. Playing video games for four hours a day may be fun, but it shouldn’t be
an everyday thing…unless you’re 12. We’re in college now, and there definitely is a lot of free time to game. There are much better ways to spend one’s time than playing World of Warcraft for hours on end. Namely, some time for your significant other. ■ Negative attitudes. Constant whining and complaining is a definite turn off. Always having a negative outlook on life will only bring your outlook on life down. It’s better to surround yourself with positive people with upbeat, positive personalities. Ditch that negative Nancy! ■ A person who argues just for the sake of arguing.You know those people who are always >> JAYE | JUNE 2009 75
Sex Ed: Take Your Pick NC measure allows parents to choose curriculum
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n April, the North Carolina House narrowly approved a bill that would allow parents to choose their children’s sexeducation curriculum. In a report penned by Benjamin Niolet published by McClatchy-Tribune News Service, the bill requires parents of children in seventh through ninth grades to choose between the current abstinenceonly curriculum and a “comprehensive” course of instruction. “I believe there is a health crisis in North Carolina concerning our teens with respect to pregnancy and sexually transmitted infection,” said Rep. Bob England, an Ellenboro Democrat, physician and co-sponsor of the bill. “One important way to bring these numbers down is education.” If a parent or guardian makes no choice on curriculum, children would receive neither course of instruction. School officials would have to make course materials available for review before parents had to choose. The new curriculum would open the door for children to be taught about masturbation, sexual activity short of intercourse and about families that have two mothers, two fathers or other combinations, said Rep. Paul Stam, an Apex Republican and the House minority leader. The bill does not establish the actual curriculum, although it does outline principles the state would have to teach.
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arguing over everything? If they do that with friends, they’ll definitely do it in a relationship. People who argue just for the sake of arguing like to push people’s buttons. In a relationship, they’ll push as many of your buttons as possible to test how far they can push you. These types of people are just plain aggravating, so don’t even waste your time, or your breath, arguing with them. ■ Someone who takes things way too seriously. Life is supposed to be enjoyed. When you’re with someone who’s constantly sweating the small stuff, you may lose sight
of how much fun life should be. Everyone should be able to laugh at themselves sometimes, and realize that everything isn’t a life or death matter. Spontaneity in a relationship keeps things fresh. So find someone who can life in the moment and isn’t worrying about every little detail. These are just some of the many dating deal breakers that people should watch out for. However, everyone’s tastes are different and not everyone is looking for the same things in a relationship, so make up a list of your own dating deal breakers to date by. *
Too tired for sex? B etween classes, meetings, sidestep a huge argument by not community service and opening that Pandora’s box. Agreestudying, there’s ing that they are too not a ton of idle time tired becomes an easy “The problem in the lives of college of pointing the answer.” women—and if you finger of blame If you and your partner at being tired is are “too busy” to get ask today’s working that it woman, surely they’d busy, Read says, “It all usually covers tell you life gets more starts with a heart-toup for other fast-paced when you things that have heart talk outside the throw careers and fam- gone wrong in bedroom, such as: “This ilies into the equation. the bedroom.” is our extremely busy But could you be too situation for the next six busy and exhausted for months. What can we do sex? sexually, and how can According to a National Post we stay connected even if we aren’t report by Trina Read, it’s not usuhaving as much sex as we’d like?” ally the “being tired” that’s stopping you from wanting sex. Read suggests couples use exhaustion as an excuse to keep from having to discuss real problems. “The problem of pointing the finger of blame at being tired is that it usually covers up for other things that have gone wrong in the bedroom: lack of communication, buildup of resentment, boring sex ... the list goes on and on. It’s easier for a couple to
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* Editor’s note: This story, written by Jacqueline Smith for College News, first appeared on collegenews.com on April 15, 2009. To view the original piece, click here: http://www.collegenews.com/index.php?/dating/dating_deal_breakers_78698/.
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Hear those wedding bells? It’s that time of the year, so while you’re searching for the perfect dress to wear to your BFF’s nuptials, read Q&As by a married reader, a bride-to-be, plus, wedding guest dos and don’ts, and a quiz to figure out if your guy is Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now By Jillian Risnes
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wedding season The Engaged JAYE Lady: Kelsey Werbig
■ Fiancé’s Name: Brandon Posma ■ Wedding Date: December 5, 2009 ■ Age: 23 Q: How is wedding planning going? Tell us all about it! A: It’s good. It’s extremely overwhelming. There are so many things I never thought about. I thought I had it all planned out in my head. And, I realized how much I didn’t have done. Like the cake. I never thought about what I would want my wedding cake to be like. As far as 78 JAYE | JUNE 2009
everything else goes, I have a few important pieces picked out. I found my dress, so I am going to get that ordered. I’ve picked out the bridesmaid dresses. I’m meeting with different photographers and looking around for the perfect invitations. There is still so much to do; it’s really astonishing. Q: Do you have advice you have for girls planning their own wedding? A: Take your time if possible. Shop around for everything, even the small stuff. The first photographer I found, I thought I would use without a doubt. Then, I met with her, and I decided we weren’t going to work well together. And, I don’t want to spend my wedding day stressing over my
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photographer. Also, I fell in love with these bridesmaid dresses; they were quite pricey though. I went online and found them substantially cheaper. Being an employee of a small family-owned business, I generally like to purchase from the local small businesses. But, when you are saving so much money on the dresses how can you not order them offline? Q: How did you know this was going to be the one? A: I don’t know. I don’t know how to explain it. I just knew. I found myself putting off other people to spend time with him. I couldn’t wait for 5:00 to roll around at work, so I can go see him. I want to do everything with
him. There is really nothing I want to do without him. My girlfriends will call and want to hang out. I just don’t want to leave his side. I think another big factor was that in most relationships that lovey-dovey feeling goes away a little bit. With him, I never got over the butterfly feeling. Q: What do you think marriage will be like? A: I hear it’s going to be a lot of work. I hope not! I really don’t know what it will be like. I know I am really excited to come home every night and have someone to make dinner for. I’ll probably spend Saturdays cleaning and doing laundry; I enjoy doing the things housewives do. Otherwise, I’ll just spend a lot of time with my best friend! Q: Do advice you have for girls trying to find and land the one? A: Always be yourself. Don’t keep any skeletons in your closet, because that usually doesn’t turn out well. Also, sometimes you can’t sugar coat things; it’s important to just put out there what you have to say whether your significant other is going to like it or not. That’s really important when trying to find out if you’re compatible with someone. A relationship can’t be successful when you can’t communicate or when either of you is hiding something from the other. Q: Where is the honeymoon? And, how did you pick the perfect spot? A: We haven’t booked anything yet, but we’re leaning towards Punta Cana in the Dominican Republic. We talked about it. We thought about going on a cruise, but that is something we have both already experienced. I went to Punta Cana when I was a junior in high school, and it is really amazing. More importantly, it is one of the only places that has a perfect climate year-round which is important since we’ll be there in December. Many other tropical climates can still be quite chilly that time of the year; we learned this from a friend that spent their whole honeymoon wearing jeans. I want to be able to put on a bathing suit and lay on a warm beach with a drink and my perfect guy. Q: What plans do you have for your marriage in the next five years? A: We will probably stay where we are for now. We both work for family-owned businesses, so we’re really happy where we are now. I think if I change jobs it will be to a stay-at-home mom! We are planning on having our first child within the first two years. I can’t wait to have babies; I so look forward to being a mom! >> JAYE | JUNE 2009 79
“In most relationships that lovey-dovey feeling goes away a little bit. With him, I never got over the butterfly feeling.” – Kelsey Werbig, pictured here with fiancé’ Brandon Posma
The Married JAYE Lady: Brianna Peterson
■ Maiden Name: Bulgarelli ■ Husband’s Name: Kelly Bryce Peterson ■ Date Married: TK ■ Age: 23 ■ Kids: Kaden, 3 1/2; Gavin, 5 Months Q: Tell me how it felt when you were walking down the isle, approaching that man... A: Surreal! It felt like a dream. It’s hard to believe, at that moment, that everything you’ve shared as a couple was coming down to this. It’s strange to actually live the fairy tale that you dreamt of growing up as a little girl. I should probably mention how terrifying it is to walk down an aisle with everyone staring at you!
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Q: How it is being a new wife? A: Being a new wife is fun. It’s a good feeling knowing you’ve found the one person you’re going to be with for the rest of your life. It certainly changes the way you look at life. I think I learn something new everyday about my husband, who I thought I already knew everything about! Q: How is it living with a man, one you can’t kick out when he gets too messy? A: Ha! Well I could definitely wring his mother’s neck for babying him so much all the way to the ripe age of 24, but you just deal with it. In the grand scheme of things, messiness is such a small trade for all of the love you share. I have to admit, I still get on his case quite often, with hopes that someday, before we die, he’ll learn to put his dirty clothes in the dirty clothes hamper...not on the floor where
he took them off. And it feels great to know that at the end of the day, you’re going home to the man you love. Q: With your husband already having a son, how did you prepare yourself knowing when you say “I do,” you would become a mother as well as a wife? A: It’s definitely a huge feeling of responsibility. I mean, I went into this knowing what I was in for. You just have to take it day by day, learn to take people’s advice, communicate extra well, and do your best. I’m lucky to have such a wonderful husband who supports and appreciates everything I do for his son. As for being a wife on top of it, everyday is a learning experience. Nothing in life comes with instruction manuals. You just do what you have to do to get by and take care of the people that you love. Q: How do you make sure >>
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20 dos and don’ts for wedding guests... ■ Do RSVP as soon as possible. ■ Don’t make dietary requests unless they have been solicited. ■ Don’t ask the bride to be a bridesmaid. There may be circumstances beyond her control, so don’t take it personally if she doesn’t choose you. ■ Don’t feel obligated to bring a gift to the engagement party. ■ Don’t pester the happy couple with all of your prewedding questions. Ask members of the wedding party, or consult their wedding Web site. ■ Don’t ask for help with your hotel bill. Even if you’re flying in from the opposite
coast, the couple isn’t required to pay for it. ■ Do purchase items from the gift registry and make selections based on your relationship with the couple. ■ Do send a gift even if you can’t make the wedding. ■ Don’t bring a guest unless the invitation specifically says you may do so — that includes children. ■ Don’t wear white. Ivory is okay. So is black. * ■ Do bring a shawl or a pashmina if you have a strapless dress (unless the wedding is outdoors in the summer). ■ Don’t bring your gift to the ceremony. You have up to one year to send something (although it’s best to
send it as soon as possible after the wedding). ■ Do wait for a cue from the wedding or venue coordinator if you are late and the processional or ceremony has already started. ■ Do remember to turn off your cell phone during the ceremony. ■ Don’t take photographs during the service — your flash may interfere with the professional photographer. ■ Do remain respectful even if you do not take part in the religious ceremony. ■ Don’t go crazy at the buffet table if there are a lot of guests who have not eaten yet. ■ Do wait for the bride and groom to dance before you
hit the floor, even if music is beckoning. The couple gets the honor of the first dance. ■ Don’t just talk to your date. Engage the people at your table in polite conversation even if you don’t know them. ■ Do write or call the bride and groom to ensure that your gift arrived safely if you have not received a thankyou within two months. * Editor’s Note: For more tips on what to wear to all of the weddings on you schedule, reference “No Payne, No Gain,” Fashion News Director Christina Payne’s monthly style column on p. 18. Source: GoodHousekeeping. com
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“You have to cherish every second you have alone. You have to be sure to continue working on your relationship, otherwise everything will fall apart.” – Brianna Peterson, pictured here with Kaden, 3, Gavin, 5 months.
to show him as much love as possible? And, how do you position yourself as a stepmother? A: Anybody who is in my position knows that it is one of the hardest roles to play. I try my hardest to be supportive and give him tons of attention and positive reinforcement. I can’t control what kind of home he lives in with his other family, but I can try my best to make our home a loving place and a fun and safe atmosphere for him. On a different note, the inconsistency in lifestyles does make normal milestones much more challenging. For example, potty training, sleeping habits, and so on. All you can do is love them and hope that it pays off in the end. Q: You have a new baby boy. Tell 82 JAYE | JUNE 2009
me how pregnancy is? A: Oh boy. Pregnancy, in my mind, is best described as a really cool disease. Hah. In the beginning, it’s a rush. The only thing you can think of is the baby. As the months go by, your body changes in ways I can hardly describe. Things get bigger, you can’t see your toes, you tend to eat some strange things, and your relationship with your husband becomes much more real and very comical! It’s a really cool feeling to know you’re “growing” a baby. Q: Children, especially a baby can really soak up a lot of time and energy. What do you do to keep “magic” and relationship alive with your husband? A: Haha...oh boy. How do I say this
PG-13? You learn to get really “creative.” You have to cherish every second you have alone. We try our hardest to have one night a week dedicated to just “us.” You have to be sure to continue working on your relationship, otherwise everything will fall apart. We talk on the phone every chance we get, and as long as we both don’t fall asleep as soon as we hit the pillow, we try to catch each other up on everything that happened with each other during the day. You really have to take advantage of naptime! Q: What advice do you have for new or soon to be brides? A: DON’T BE A BRIDZILLA. There is a way to make your day special without turning into a monster! Take all the help you can get, and if possible, share it all you can with the people who are special to you. Take a ton of pictures because when the festivities are all said and done, that’s what you have to remember it by. Q: And advice for new or soon to be wives and moms? A: Wives: hold onto you socks! Your temperament will be tested. Learn to never go to bed angry. Talk it out. Don’t bottle up emotions; it leads to blowouts and resentment. Learn to cook...everybody will appreciate it. Separate your darks and whites, and don’t put your husband’s jeans in the dryer on high heat. Men don’t appreciate form fitting jeans. Remember to keep it fun. Keep flirting. Communication is key. Moms: Don’t be afraid to voice your opinion, but also know your boundaries when it comes to step-parenting. Remember that you are an “extra.” You are there to help out, support, and add whatever you can to make this child’s life better. Your husband MUST back you up, and you must come to an agreement on how this child will be raised.
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wants to be left on his own. c. Rarely. You’re more of an after-hours or weekend couple. 6. Would you compromise or sacrifice something important to be with him? a. Yes, you understand that relationships are built on compromise. His happiness is your happiness, and vice versa. b. Maybe, depending on the compromise. c. Probably not. The word ‘sacrifice’ isn’t one you use that often. 7. Do you see yourself having a future with him? a. Absolutely. You can’t imagine ever being without him! b. Maybe, although admittedly you have caught yourself doodling your name with his surname attached! c. No way! You’re not that serious at all this is probably just a hook-up.
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Is he the one, or should you drop him like it’s hot? 1. When you think about your special guy, you... a. Smile, and instantly feel better. b. Realize he never called you at lunchtime and suddenly feel anxious. c. Remember the fun time you had a few weekends ago with his mates. 2. Be honest: Do you feel completely comfortable when you’re around him? a. Yes. You know each other’s flaws and it doesn’t worry you one bit. b. Sometimes. You’re mostly honest with each other but there are some past mistakes better left unsaid. c. Not really. You don’t feel confident being yourself and you worry he might not like the real you. 3. Have you ever felt threatened by his
relationships with other girls? a. Never, you are completely trusting of each other. They’re just his friends! b. You accept his other female friendships but still find the idea a little difficult to be 100% cool with. c. Nah, you both love to flirt and make each other a little jealous! 4. Has he ever bought you a gift for no particular reason? a. Definitely, he is always going out of his way to make you smile. b. He wooed you with gifts in the beginning, but not so much now. c. No. He buys plenty for himself though. 5. Throughout the day you know what he is doing... a. Constantly. You guys both call, text and e-mail to keep in contact. b. Sometimes, but often you feel he just
Results Mostly As ■ Look out! This could very well be Mr Right. You are in a happy and meaningful relationship and you’re not afraid to shout it from the rooftops. Trust and comfort are important indicators that your partnership will go far, and this guy certainly wants to stick around. Remember, part of what makes a relationship work is having your own life, so revel in your alone time too! Mostly Bs ■ He’s definitely got potential. While you are both committed, there are some issues surrounding your relationship based on trust and security. Eventually, if you do want to make him your Mr Right, you’ll have to resolve them, or move on. Or maybe you’re destined to have some fun with each other while it lasts, and that’s perfectly fine as well! Mostly Cs ■ Hello Mr. Right Now! At the moment this relaxed relationship totally suits you. You both enjoy flirting and hanging, but there are NO plans for the future. This can be fun as long as you both understand that it’s not serious, otherwise someone could get hurt. From youth.yahoo.com. JAYE | JUNE 2009 83
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could the recession be good for us? For months, we’ve had to scale back, survive with less, and endure countless reports on jobs being cut or shipped overseas. But could there be an upside to the economic downturn? When the markets bounce back, could we better off thanks to the lessons we’ve learned over the last year? Devin Thomas searches for and provides the answers ■ Eat your peas, wash behind your ears, look both ways before crossing the street. We’ve heard them all our lives from our parents and teachers, you know, those typical and rational examples of what’s good for us. Recently, we’ve been fed a new set of life principles: cut back on spending, take any job you can get, and be wary of investments. These too seem like well-intended tidbits from an older generation watching their life savings wash away in the year-long financial flash flood. 84 JAYE | JUNE 2009
Now that’s not to say people haven’t been seriously affected by the recent turn of events. Many people have had salaries cut, millions have been laid off, and, in other cases, families have lost their homes. In the very worst situations, marriages have failed as a result of the additional strain. College graduates and young professionals are finding it harder to land a job due to a boost of out-of-work competitors with much more experience; companies are scared to invest money into a world of uncertainty. The auto indus-
try is on the brink of bankruptcy, and as far as the banks go, well, that’s just another headache in itself. So, it’s doom and gloom, right? The end of the world as we know it. Well, it may be the end of the world as we currently know it, but it’s certainly not the end of the world altogether. Life will go on after this, and take it easy: the United States of America will continue on as a sovereign nation. Of course, things will need to change. People will need to reconsider their financial lifestyles. But, stop >>
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8 major benefits from the recession ■ The rebate check. By now, most Americans have received a check from the IRS, possibly for $300, maybe $600, or even $1,200 or somewhere in between. ■ Undervalued stocks and bonds. Dips like the one we’re experience are perfect opportunities for long-term investors to pick some good values company by company or buy the overall market through a low-cost index fund. ■ Lower interest rates. Kiplinger says that as the Federal Reserve lowers the federal funds target interest rate, opportunities are available for those with good credit ratings to borrow cash as needed. ■ New tax breaks. This year, you may have owed less to the IRS thanks to a new deduction for private mortgage insurance, an extension of
the sales-tax write-off and a boost in the alternative minimum tax exemption amount. ■ Falling house prices. Even though at the moment, there are more people trying to sell homes then there are buyers, this is still a benefit to young adults looking to settle down and purchase a home. ■ Higher retirement account limits. Kiplinger suggests using the rebate check to turbocharge your retirement savings. This year, you can invest $5,000 (or $6,000 if you’re over 50 years old) in a Roth, Traditional IRA, or a combination of the two. If you have a 401(k) you can contribute up to $15,500 (plus another $5,000 if you’re over 50). These limits will continue to increase, too. ■ Help with college bills. Got student loans? If
you’re a teacher or if you work in public service, you may be able to receive grants. Those with high debt and low income will benefit the most. ■ New rollover option. If your adjusted gross income is $100,000 or less, you can now roll over your 401(k) directly into a Roth IRA without having your funds go through a Rollover Traditional IRA first. Not only that, but if your income is above the $100,000 threshold, just wait until 2010 when the income limit disappears. For any funds in your 401(k) from a pre-tax source, you will owe tax when you roll over into a Roth IRA, providing early tax income to the government, possibly to help pay for expensive programs like Social Security. ■ Source: ConsumerIsCommentary.com.
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jaye an upside to the downturn and take a deep breath in, because it’s not the apocalypse. Now breathe out, stop over-stressing, because worry will does not add time to your life. It may, however, give you premature wrinkles. Whether you have a western-religious background, spend your days meditating with Buddah, or just think The Secret is really interesting, they all share a common denominator: the power of positive thinking. Thinking positively not only reduces stress, it can also lead to many other positive effects. When you see the silver lining, you project hope. Hope is essential in times like these; in my opinion, people need hope as much as food, water, and shelter. Finding the sunny side of the situation can be tough. So, to get you started, here are a few benefits of a recession: ■ Save the trees: Check out your snail-mailbox, you will find that its contents are a little thinner this year. In the past year, credit-card issuers cut their mailings to current customers by nearly one-third—19 percent since last October says Chicago-based research firm, Mintel Comperemedia. Also, according to the research firm comSocre, traffic to online coupon sites is growing rapidly with page views up 38 percent to 281 million in March compared to the previous year. The cut-back in paper usage is a benefit of the recession because companies nationwide have learned to save a penny here and there, which means fewer trees will be cut down— see even the recession’s gone green! ■ Smaller waistlines: With gas prices rising, falling, and then rising again, hitting the pavement is becoming the savvy way to travel. Whether jogging, riding a bike or just strolling to the nearest bus stop, people are increasing their daily dose of exercise. Europeans have embraced this mode 86 JAYE | JUNE 2009
Always one to lead by example during the recession, Michelle Obama spends an afternoon planting a vegetable garden at the White House. The first lady kills two birds with one stone: excercises while planting the garden, and using the healthy veggies in the meals made for her family.
of transportation for years—take a vacation to France and you’ll be amazed at their average sizes! Along with burning a couple extra calories walking to work, starting a garden will cut down that grocery bill. Regular gardening provides cardio and strength training; it improves flexibility and relieves stress. These health benefits help fight heart attack, type-2 diabetes, obesity, high blood pressure and osteoporosis. Who knows, Americans may come out of this fiscal decline looking better than when they went in! ■ When you wish upon a star: Did you know Disney was started during an economic downturn? As were about half of the 30 companies that make up the Dow Jones industrial average, including Microsoft and Hewlett-Packard. And, don’t forget about Burger King, CNN, FedEx, MTV, GE, and the Wikipedia Foundation—they were all started during a recession. This can be a
great time to start a new business; rent is down, wages are cheap and the cost of goods and services can be found at a discount. If you have an idea or a dream, this just might be the time to take a leap of faith and make it happen. This can be a very scary time and no one is ignoring the very real ramifications of the situation. But instead of joining in on the constant worry, be the change people need to see. Spread hope to your friends. Provide support and love for your families. Encourage people to keep their heads up and minds open to the different opportunities life can bring. You may not be able to get someone their job back or put money in their pockets, but you could put a smile on their face. And a smile could brighten a day. That day could change a week. That week could alter their perspective on that month. Together, we could make this one of the best years in American history. ■
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The spur-of-themoment events — impromptu BBQs, unexpected blind dates, impulsive shopping sprees with the girls — are what make summer so fun. What else? Easy, breezy maxi dresses and figure-flattering swimsuits >> JAYE | JUNE 2009 89
Make a splash is summer’s hottest swimsuits and accessories. Here, swimwear for every figure
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>> Wide Shoulders Wear bikini bottoms with ties, belts and sashes to draw attention downward; avoid plunging necklines or bikini bottoms that are too small. Top, $49, bottom, $41, Local Motion; sandals, Cocobelle, $135; earrings, $7.80, Forever 21.
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>> Big Bust Opt for halter-top bikinis that tie around the back and neck; avoid strapless bandeau-top bikinis. Top, $35.50, bottom, $25.50, Alloy; bracelet, $7, Blue Banana.
>> Short Legs/Torso Suits that are cut high on the thigh are best for this body type, and try one-pieces with plunging necklines; avoid boy shorts and skirted bikinis. Swimsuit, $510, La Perla; caftan, $1907, Halston; sandals, $26.99; Ami Clubwear.
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>> Long Body Boy shorts are best for your body type; avoid vertical stripes in dark/solid colors. Top, bottom, $29.50, Delia’s; anorak, $148.50, 3.1 Phillip Lim; sandals, $750, Christian Louboutin.
>> No Waist Try a bikini with a belted waistline, or with rings, ruffles and bows at the hips to draw attention to your hips and waist; if you’re small on top, try a strapless bandeau top; avoid solid-colored swimsuits and horizontal striped one-pieces. Top, bottom, $29.50, Delia’s; tunic, $517, Ann Demeuleester; earrings, $15, Miss Selfridge.
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>> Small Bust Look for ruffled bikinis with a triangle or bandeau top, and always incorporate bright colors; avoid tops with too much fabric or poor fit. Top, $44, bottom, $40, Roxy. Necklace, $30, Avalaya.
>> Plus Size Suits with strategically placed cut-outs, deep V-necklines, and dark, cool colors are perfect for your shape; avoid too much coverage (too much fabric) and stay away from white, neon, and thicker textiles.
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>> Pear Shape Wear tankinis, or a one-piece with draping around the waist; avoid tiny bikinis and solidcolored one-pieces. Swimsuit, $100, Jantzen; cutoff shorts, $24.95, American Eagle.
>> Pear Shape Eye-catching detailed bikini tops and a darker colors on the bottom work best for your shape; avoid boy shorts and bottoms that are too detailed.
Top, $39.50, Billabong; bottom, $29.50, Delia’s. JAYE | JUNE 2009 99
>> Full Bottom Mini-skirted bikinis work perfect for a larger bottom; avoid boy shorts, skimpy bottoms, ruffles and details at the hips. Top, bottom, $29.50, Delia’s; cuffs, $235, Vivre.
>> Hourglass Rejoice: ANY classic-styled suit will flatter your figure!
Swimsuit, $246, Paul & Joe; caftan, $2295, Michael Kors.
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to the max The maxi dress is having a moment. Take yours to the next level with statement accessories —think thong sandals and sky-high heels, cuffs in silver and gold, and bags fit to carry all your summer essentials Fashion editor: Stephanie Taylor
Dress, $49.50, Delia’s; bag, $79.Melie Bianco; sandal, $12.80, Go Jane; cuff, $395, Eric Beamon; earrings, $4.80, Forever 21.
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Dress, $27.80, Forever 21; Bracelet, $75, Amrita Singh; Sandal, $99, Fergie; Clutch, $32, Nica.
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Dress, $52, O’Neill; sandal, $235, ASOS; bag, $988, Marni; bangle, $6, Wet Seal; earrings, $18,Aldo Accessories.
Dress, $29.50, Wet Seal; sandal, $29.50, Gap; clutch, $118, Hobo International; bracelets, $25, Topshop; earrings, $39, ASOS. JAYE | JUNE 2009 107
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Nude makeup tip #1: Make sure skin is moisturized. Apply a light moisturizer and eye cream.
little makeup, big impact Get hip to summer’s gotta-know trend: nude, barely there makeup. For inspiration, look no further than Hollywood’s hottest to show you how it’s done! >> By Ariel Burke
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Nude makeup tip #2: The key to achieving a natural look is to give the allusion of a flawless complexion. Therefore concealer is a must to cover any skin discoloration and under eye circles.
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Nude makeup tip #3: For this look, foundation is essential to cover any blemishes. For minimal coverage, you can use a tinted moisturizer and for full coverage you can use a moisturizing foundation.
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Nude makeup tip #4: Avoid any products that make the skin appear chalky such as matte foundations and sticks. The skins glow should appear natural. Select blushes that resemble the natural color of your cheeks.
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Nude makeup tip #5: On the lids use a natural color that doesn’t shimmer. Apply one coat of mascara to the lashes. And the lips? Apply clear or nude gloss without shimmer. The color should be similar to that of your lips.
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the perfect match Finding the just-right hairstyle for you is a cinch when you find a ‘do that aligns with the shape of your face. Here, the most common types and the looks that work best for them By Ariel Burke
The Perfect Muse: Rihanna Round Face: The face is generally as wide as it is long with curvilinear lines and has no angles. Round faces should avoid bobs and fringe style haircuts. The hair should be worn be flat on the sides and higher on the top. You want to give the illusion that your face is longer than it is in reality. JAYE | JUNE 2009 115
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The Perfect Muse: Gwyneth Paltrow Oblong/Rectangular Face: The face is longer than it is wide. The cheek line is long and straight and the nose is sometimes long. The idea with this shape is to make the face appear shorter by choosing styles that give the illusion of width. This can be created with chin-length bobs, curls, or waves. 116 JAYE | JUNE 2009
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The Perfect Muse: Jessica Simpson Square Face: The face is almost as wide as it is long. It has a broad forehead and a strong jaw line. This shape is complimented by longer hairstyles with face-framing layers. If hair is a short or medium length add curls, waves, or volume to make the face appear longer. JAYE | JUNE 2009 117
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The Perfect Muse: Victoria Beckham Heart Face: The face is narrow at the jaw line and is wide at the forehead and/or cheekbone. A chin-length bob is ideal for this shape. Avoid short, full styles and styles that put to much emphasis on the crown. Also styles that are extremely slicked back. 118 JAYE | JUNE 2009
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10 tips to healthy eating for the college student
>> As college students typically we’re busy: We are on the run looking for internships, job opportunities, and maintaining an aboveaverage GPA. We don’t have time to actually cook a healthy or decent home cooked meal. We like what is quick, cheap and easy to attain. So, a lot of times McDonalds and other fast food places or restaurants is where we resort to for our daily meal. A long with quick meals comes quick pounds. Below are 10 healthy tips to eating for a busy college student. You will learn how to avoid the 15 pounds you luckily didn’t gain your freshmen year but caught up with you in your final years.
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■ Eat a good breakfast. When there isn’t time to sit down and enjoy your morning meal, grab a bagel, piece of fruit, and some juice. Most of these items can be easily stored in your dorm room. ■ If you must eat fast foods, choose wisely. Limit high fat offering like french fries, fried
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■ According to Centers for Disease Control, genital human papillomavirus (HPV) is the most common sexually transmitted infection (STI). The virus infects the skin and mucous membranes. There are more than 40 HPV types that can infect the genital areas of men and women, including the skin of the penis, vulva (area outside the vagina), anus, and the linings of the vagina, cervix, and rectum. Most people who become infected with HPV do not even know they have it. The Gardasil vaccine has been introduced, which can now protect females from the four types of HPV that cause most cervical cancers and genital warts. For those who choose to be sexually active, condoms may lower the risk of HPV, if used all the time and the right way. Condoms may also lower the risk of developing HPV-related diseases, such as genital warts and cervical cancer. But HPV can infect areas that are not covered by a condom—so condoms may not fully protect against HPV. So the only sure way to prevent HPV is to avoid all sexual activity. Individuals can also lower their chances of getting HPV by being in a mutually-faithful relationship.
chicken or fish sandwiches and watch out for salad dressing. ■ Keep healthful snacks on hand so if hunger strikes during a late night study session, you won’t be tempted by vending machine candy, chips, or ice cream. ■ Eat plenty of foods that are rich in calcium. People in their early twenties need to be build up stores of calcium in their bodies to prevent osteoporosis in later life. ■ If you need to lose weight, do it sensibly. Starvation and/or diets that offer a quick fix usually backfire and are harmful. ■ Use sugar sparingly and consider sweetening coffee, tea, cereal and fruit with diet sweeteners instead. ■ The dining hall salad bar can be either an asset or a detriment to you diet depending on how you choose from it. Of course, leafy greens, raw vegetable and fresh fruit are beneficial. ■ If you drink alcohol, keep in mind that it supplies calories but no nutritional value. ■ A light beer, a glass of wine, or an ounce of liquor each has about 100 calories. There are also many health problems associated with drinking alcohol. ■ Drink lots of water. Your body needs at least eight glasses a day, and if you exercise vigorously, you may need more. To remind yourself, carry a water bottle along to class and keep it handy during late night study sessions. ■ Remember, food is a lot more than nourishment for our bodies. Take the time to enjoy and savor it.
show me the funny! According to new research, women rate funny guys as more intelligent than guys who are not so funny. The research was presented at the British Psychological Society Annual Conference in Brighton, England in April.
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This JUNE, Geminis are warned to look past the negative thoughts, and be grateful for the listeners that surround them Leo July 23-August 22 Your ruler, the Sun conjunct Mercurius in Steenbok and against the Cancer Full Moon as this month opened! Others will accept your authority — thus about which play? Speak with the definition and stilt border. The New Moon and your liniaal on the Steenbok/Aquarius cusp courageously you at your narrow allies. Expect at the work too late with little progress that night. The dawn brings promised Light!
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From knowhoroscope.com Gemini May 21-June 20 Your ruler, Mercurius, prior to the Sun in Steenbok as he self against this Full Moon. Your thoughts can appear more gloomy and devotion at the human can a little bit “unfun”. Your presentations on the work spot ring close authoritative as this cycle. With new moon, your ruler has moves to progressive Waterman and is an addition on your Sun sign beautiful. It will encouraging to know that you have the ear of others! Cancer June 21-July 22 This Full Moon, your ruler, in trine to Uranus as he is self against the Steenbok Sun. Use humor diffuse difficult emotional situations on this moment. On New Moon, the ruler is on the Steenbok/Aquarius cusp demonstrate to lead and to innovate your fortune at the same time! This is your layer biorhythmic cycle. Get many rest and prioriteren best! Calm night. Single a
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Virgo August 23-September 22 Your ruler is in Capricorn this Full Moon and is an addition on your plate. Your feeling for discipline and the organization becomes strengthens. Make new decisions over who you can count on in you live and that you cannot. On New Moon, the ruler is in innovatieve Waterman. The administration and the procedures will become examined the ride competition advantage. Make certainly that the best ideas its gedocumenteerd! This serves all! Libra September 23-October 22 YOU will become removed when your ruler, Venus, leaf practical Steenbok and moves in pleasant Aquarius begin this month. If you the victim of a number of disappointments in your personal relations — take heart! Contracts and legal questions can prove challenge on this moment. Delay can have a GOOD thing! On New Moon, you find verfrissing in the clear faces you off! Shake the from! Scorpio October 23-November 21 On Full Moon, as well of your rulers its in arc shooter although Mars is on Sabik! The emphases by this configuration
is a clear interest for international trade and politics. Media exaggerations and presentations can you from on an apt line! By new moon, Mars has moves to her elevated position in Steenbok. You will play it safely, but provocative ideas and the taking away illusions initiate. Sagittarius November 22-December 21 This Full Moon shows your ruler, Jupiter in arc shooter in square Uranus in Fish. You feel the difference between own spontaneity and impulsive powers want that you on to step THEIR whim! A mixed bag, certain to be. On New Moon, a structured surroundings, claustrofobisch feels. The busier hold you yourself how better. Deal with your morale first! When the others! Capricorn December 22-January 19 Many sun-Happy Returns, Steenbok! Your ruler, Saturn, is back in all Leo month! By Full Moon is in trine as well Mars and Pluto. These nearby and far in time and distance will resonate in your heart. Love and honor who stood through you is seen. On New Moon, you will understand of the variety of that you off. Enjoys the heat! Teach and learn again! Aquarius January 20-February 18 This whole month, your ruler, Uranus, is in Fish and the kwadratuur of Jupiter! Expects the unexpected as it goes the precipitation — in spite of where you live! Exercise large care or you now fish, ski snow or floating house from festiviteiten! Caution has been offered! Stakes of as well good intuition and healthy mind. Safety is a problem, as well on the work and home. On New Moon, a shift in vistuig for
lighter times. Pisces February 19-March 20 Your ruler, Neptune, is in all Aquarius month. It is a tremendous time round blend imagination and intellect. Sudden blinks by inspiration practically can be applied. On New Moon, Neptune and Venus are cushion in the Heavens! Music and the love in all its forms large joy and elevation of the mind bring can. It is a fantastic time to go on the dream holiday or escape at a spiritual retraite! Enjoys the natural high! Aries March 21-April 19 Your ruler, Mars, is conjunct Sabik, the Fire Rigid this Full Moon. Quick energy has in mind release via fight or flight! Hold your temperament in reins can become as this an utmost destructive power. On New Moon, the new ruler is in Steenbok and raised. Enough cannot be said for self-discipline and organized protocol. Passion can cool down as a consequence of a pre-garrison with responsibilities. Others recognize. Taurus April 20-May 20 This Full Moon, your ruler, Venus, is on the Steenbok/ Aquarius cusp. Venus is a little bit cold in Steenbok and takes vague the love in the form of obligation. If it moves in Waterman, take the time after thinking rarefied your own thoughts and show a kind answer on many. On New Moon, Venus is kissing Neptune in Waterman! Mind, heart and inspiration synergize as a money fine work of art. Exercise your fidelity!
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Till we meet again Morsels of pop culture to tide you over for the month
June Fox Broadcasting passed up the opportunity to air recent news conference by President Obama. Instead, the network chose to premiere a new episode of a crime-drama Lie to Me starring Tim Roth. According to an Los Angeles Times blog, there have been reports of complaints about giving free airtime during the recession. “Dad just doesn’t get it. He’s just like, ‘Suck it up and get over it! You’ll find another one! There’s more fish in the sea and he wasn’t that goodlooking anyway!’ He actually did say that once,” Miley Cyrus to Hello magazine on her dad, Billy Ray Cyrus, and his approach to dealing with her boyfriends, including her ex, Nick Jonas.
Look out for the Gap’s 1969 Premium Denim Collection (right) coming this fall, spearheaded by Patrick Robinson, the brand’s executive vice president of design. To all you travelers out there, be leery of traveling to Mexico! At press time, there’s been enormous buzz about a very contagious disease called swine flu. According to Yahoo!News, the disease is spreading rapidly in the U.S.
Mickey D’s versus Mickey C’s? A McDonald’s franchise made an attempt to sue a Malaysian-based restaurant called McCurry’s for allegedly infringing on their trademark and lost. Tyra Banks spent many days this past April in court testifying against a fan who stalked and threatened Banks and members of her talk-show staff. A few stats about stalking from aardvarc.org: ■ A little over 1 million women are stalked annually in the United States. ■ 1 in 12 women will be stalked in their lifetime. ■ 77 percent of females know their stalker. ■ 87 percent of stalkers are men.
World-renowned supermodel Naomi Campbell speaks out against racism in the fashion industry. Campbell believes the industry gives precedence to “blonde, blue-eyed models,” over equally-beautiful black models. Other industry experts encourage fashion designers and editors to look at all minorities, not just AfricanAmericans, citing the spending power that rests in many minority groups.
According to YahooNews! Studies show that there are far more quitters than actual Twitters: More people are canceling accounts than actually using the communication service.
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wheelchair: news.yahoo.com. mcdonald’s: insidenewyork.com. fox logo: tvsnob.com gap denim: news.yahoo.com. twitter: innavoblog.com. campbell: lilith-ezine.com.
Ninety-one protesters were arrested at the White House, including some people in wheelchairs (right), while urging President Obama to support legislation that would give people with disabilities, who are in need of long term care, alternatives to nursing homes.
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