Ruby march 2016 by RUBY magazine

Special Easter Issue!

Ruby for Women A voice for every Christian woman MARCH, 2016 www.rubyforwomen.com

It’s March! Not quite spring yet but there is a hope and a promise in the air of new life. This month we celebrate Easter, and remember the death, burial, and resurrection of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Join us as we celebrate the love of our Lord! Please visit us on the Ruby blog at http://www,rubyforwomen.com and let us know how we can be an encouragement to you today! We would love to hear from you. Contact us at editor@rubyforwomen.com

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It’s the REAL Thing! Nina Newton, Sr. Editor

Footprints in the Mud: Mom’s Superpowers Beth Brubaker, Asst. Editor

New Equation Search Puzzle Beth Brubaker

Recipes for Spring Vintage Mama

On That Day Nells Wasilewski

Your Word Sharon L. Patterson

What’s on Your Mind? Toni Samuels

Breaking Down the Walls Jewell Utt

Snow Out Of Season Christy Brunke

Little Girl Mended Niki Krause

Consider Your Ways Lynn Mosher

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Senior Editor: Nina Newton Assistant Editor: Beth Brubaker Poet-in-Residence: Keith Wallis Feature Writers: Lynn Mosher, Katherine Corrigan, Sharon L. Patterson, Carol Peterson, Gloria Doty, Sarah Johnson, Miriam Jacob, Michelle Lazurek, Cynthia Knisley, Heather King, Lanette Kissel, Donna B. Comeaux, Linda McKee, Toni Samuels, Ifeoma Samuel, Alisha Ritchie, Kathleen Katt Luce, Mia DeBruyne, Joan Leotta, Nells Wasilewski, Cindy J. Evans, Ifeoma Samuel, Jonathan Lawrence, Jewell Utt, Frances Gregory Pasch, Amy Lignor, Rejetta Morse, Norma Mezoe, Kathryn Ross, Rhea B. Riddle, Mary Dolan Flaherty, Jean Ann Williams, Toni Samuels

Ruby for Women is an online Christian women’s magazine that offers words of hope, inspiration, and encouragement to women everywhere. Knowing that every woman has a story to tell, we seek to give a “voice to every Christian woman,” from all walks of life, of every age, from all around the world. For advertising inquiries, please contact Nina Newton at editor@rubyforwomen.com If you would like to share your story with Ruby for Women, please email our Assistant Editor, Beth Brubaker at bethaatruby@aol.com Also, please visit our blog at www.rubyforwomen.com where you can connect with other Christian women. Ruby for Women 1 65 S. Niles St. Columbia City, IN 46725 editor@rubyforwomen.com

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The Last Hours of Christ: A Disciples Betrayal Lanette Kissel

Bring a Cowboy Home Gloria Doty

WHOOSH! Joan Leotta

The Abandoned Barn Nells Wasilewski

White Gloves Cindy Knisley

Be-YOU-tifully YOU-nique Mary Dolan Flaherty

Just Claire Jean Ann Williams

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Vintage Easter Cards Vintage Mama

Winter Memories Rejetta Morse

Kids’ Korner Carol Peterson

Our Conqueror Frances Gregory Pasch

New Equation Search Answer Key

Mark Twain Wisdom Puzzle Answer Key

Down the Lane Puzzle Answer Key

Meet the Ruby Writers

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Mitzy & the Trouble with Bubbles Aaron Field A Slice of His Story: St. Patrick Kathryn Ross

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How the Irish Saved Civilization by Thomas Cahill Review by Kathryn Ross

Mark Twain Wisdom Puzzle Beth Brubaker

The Clock Keeps Ticking Nells Wasilewski

Let Father Carry You Norma C. Mezoe

I Love You Norma C. Mezoe

History of Hymns: “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” by Helen H. Lemmel

Just Claire by Jean Ann Williams Book Review by Nina Newton

When We Pray for One Another Sharon L. Patterson

Lose Weight, Get Fit & Change Your Life Carol L. Doyel

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Credits and copyrights

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The Last Hours of Christ: A Disciples Denial Lanette Kissel

Lose Weight, Get Fit & Change Your Life – With 4 Powerful Principles 2 by Carol L. Doyel

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March 2016

It’s the REAL Thing! Nina Newton, Sr. Editor

That’s what the nurse at our doctor’s office told me last week when I brought Gracie in with a 101.4 temperature. After checking all of her symptoms, which included headache, fever and chills, and all-over body aches, the nurse informed me that this was the “real” influenza.

If you are facing a time of change or uncertainty in life, it is important to remember that He alone is the One who never changes. We can run to Him for safety, stability, and security. The things of this life will never remain certain, and we will always be disappointed if we expect to find joy and peace by obtaining just one more “thing.” Perhaps it is only after you have discovered that earthly “treasures” are truly meaningless without the eternal reality of God’s presence that one can finally let go of those things.

Real or not, we’ve been passing it back and forth from one member of our family to another since right after Christmas. So it is definitely “real” to us! Being incapacitated in one way or another for several weeks has given me some time to reflect on the other realities of life. It is challenging at times to keep everything in perspective, especially when you are faced with uncertainty and anxiety. I am grateful for God’s Word reminding me of what is “real” in this life, and it is not the day-to-day difficulties and struggles. They are temporary (although many of our challenges will be life-long, we have eternity to live with His perfection and peace) – and it is good to be reminded of the “real” things.

I am reminded of the old hymn, Turn Your Eyes upon Jesus, and the comfort found in those words: O soul, are you weary and troubled? No light in the darkness you see? There’s light for a look at the Savior, and life more abundant and free. Turn your eyes upon Jesus, look full in His wonderful face, and the things of earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of His glory and grace. ~ Helen H. Lemmel Although the past several months have been rather overwhelming, and frequently discouraging, 5 I am trying to remember to turn my eyes upon Jesus because He is the REAL thing!

Footprints in the Mud: Mom’s Superpowers by Beth Brubaker, Assistant Editor My mom had them. Your mom had them. And for those of us who have children, we also have them. Superpowers. Our kids suspect we have super abilities, but they don’t know- at least until they become parents themselves. Until then, I have no problem letting them wonder. I’ve compiled a small list: Bionic Hearing: Who else can hear their child opening a forbidden candy bar in the basement under a desk, while she’s folding laundry on the second floor? Who also can hear their child’s cryand the exact location of said cry- in a crowd of fivehundred people? X-ray Vision: Only moms can see what a child is holding behind their backs- and can discern which child was feeding the dog broccoli when Mom’s back was turned. Moms see everything. ESP: Moms know the kids did something- we just don’t know what…yet. All Moms need to do is look into their children’s eyes to not only find out what was done, but who did it. Spidey Sense: Moms know the instant their child is in trouble- or when they’re about to get into trouble. Why are our kids surprised when we show up or call at a crucial moment? Moms know you’re hurt - or up to something! Ninja Stealth: This one is my personal favorite. Kids can be in the middle of mischief and never know Mom is standing there - sometimes for several minutes. Kids don’t have a clue what moms heard or saw, but moms find out, via ESP. It’s especially fun when they’re doing something silly and turn around in shock to see Mom standing right there, grinning her face off and taking videos.

Super Strength: Moms are the only people capable of getting the house clean, making lunches and dinners for the entire family, and still go to work, all the while suffering from pneumonia, a three hundred degree fever, a sprained knee and a broken arm- and still manage to get everywhere on time. Our kids have no idea just how awesome we are- at least until they have their own kiddos. Maybe you have some of these superpowers. Maybe you have all of them. And maybe, just maybe, you have abilities I failed to list here. If that’s so, I’d love to hear about them! But all of those superpowers weren’t just developed from nothing; God gives us each and every one. Moms are phenomenal people, but God is the real superhero- because He’s given us everything we need to raise these little munchkins into His followers. When you think about it, we’re all His sidekicks! I like being a sidekick. Let the Big Guy handle all the really tough stuff- we moms can do a lot, but we can’t do it all. I don’t want to. I’ll just stand by and do what He asks, and be the cheerleader when He takes over. And just remember, that apron is really a cape - worn backwards!

New Equation Search Puzzle by Beth Brubaker

Create an equation by finding a numerical expression in the grid for each number shown below. Use any combination of adjacent numbers and operations. The hidden phrases can go to the right or down.

Answer Key on page 56

From all around the blogosphere with Vintage Mama

Shortcut Carrot Cake from Kraft Recipes Carrot cake is the perfect dessert for any time of year, but especially in the spring when we just love to think about bunnies and carrots! This one is a “shortcut” recipe made from a cake mix with a few goodies added in to make it extra delicious. You can find the complete recipe on the Kraft Recipes website.

Beehive Cupcakes from Grace’s Sweet Life How cute are these adorable bright yellow and white cupcakes??? It would be so much fun to make a batch of these Beehive Cupcakes with the kids to celebrate spring. The complete recipe can be found at Grace’s Sweet Life.

Easter Egg Hunt from Kraft Recipes Your “Little Ones” will be delighted with this sweet Easter Egg Hunt dessert! It looks like a garden, complete with cookie crumb “dirt” layered over chocolate pudding, green-tinted coconut grass, with jelly beans and marshmallow bunnies popping up all over. Find the complete recipe on the Kraft Recipes website. 9

Rustic Berry Cream Tart from Kraft Recipes Here’s another early spring recipe that is easy as . . . pie! Using a ready-made pie crust, vanilla pudding, mixed berries, and Cool Whip, this Rustic Berry Cream Tart would make a delicious dessert for your Easter dinner. Find the complete recipe on the Kraft Recipes website.

Bunny Cake Pops from Kraft Recipes The kiddos will jump for joy when you bring out these adorable Bunny Cake Pops. Super easy and lots of fun, these cute cake pops are made from frozen pound cake and then decorated with bunny ears, eyes, and nose. Sweet treat for spring! Complete recipe can be found on the Kraft Recipes website.

Peanut Butter Bird’s Nests from La Choy Here’s a fun recipe to make with the kids – Peanut Butter Bird’s Nests made from La Choy Chow Mein Noodles, peanut butter, marshmallows, and tiny candy Easter eggs. So cute you might not want to eat them . . . but once you do, you’ll want more than one. The kids will love making them AND eating them! Complete recipe can be found on the La Choy website.

Bunny Bottom Pudding Cookies from Kraft Recipes You start with just a regular ol’ sugar cookie recipe combined with lemon pudding and cream cheese, and then decorate the cookies to look like little bunny bottoms peeking out from between the carrots and green beans in Mr. McGregor’s garden. You can find the recipe for the Bunny Bottom Pudding Cookies on the Kraft Recipes website.

On That Day by Nells Wasilewski On that day, an agonized cry came from the cross-A veil as dark as sin covered the sun and cast three crosses in shadow. Wind licked at the bloody body nailed to the center cross. Earth shook until its core erupted. Rocks burst apart scattering pieces of triumph. The temple curtain ripped from top to bottom, granting safe passage directly to the Father. Jesus offered up his spirit the last breath escaped. Darkness was devoured by the Light, and salvation was complete. 11

Your Word by Sharon L. Patterson “Father, every time I sit down to eat Opening your Word to sit at your feet, My mind is calmed, my spirit fed; My thoughts exchanged for yours instead. Suddenly, I sense the fullness of what I read As it reaches every place of my soul’s need. Even the places my feelings have shut down inside Are quickened back to life as I choose to abide In the quiet place of communion and prayer Where you meet me with sustenance and tender care. You are my bread, my cup of life, At your table, peace overtakes my anxious strife. I am awed at the goodness of my meal It will sustain me no matter the troubles faced or what I feel. Thank you for food that fills my spirit, fuels my soul… That even has the power to make my body whole. I’ll be back, perhaps several times today For nothing else satisfies quite the way You Do.

What’s on Your Mind? by Toni Samuels If you’ve ever asked that question to your boyfriend or husband, you’re familiar with the look of panic, bewilderment or anguish that can spread over a man’s face. It’s probably one of their least favorite questions, right up there with, “Honey, do you think we should stop and ask for directions?” But I have to admit that it’s not a question I like to ask myself either, because often I’m quite shocked by what’s there. Anger … doubt … worry … fear – these intruders have all plopped themselves down on the couch in my mind from time to time and tried to make themselves right at home. Just the other day, as I reviewed my list of 2016 goals, I felt a sense of despair start to creep up on me. What if I don’t save and invest the amount of money that I’ve targeted? What if I don’t reach my goal weight this year? How will I feel if I don’t complete and submit my book proposal by the end of spring? Why is it so difficult for me to meet a nice guy, when So-and-So seems to have no problem? And on and on it went. As I fell deeper into that line of thinking, I noticed that I felt worse and worse. A dull headache. Apathy. Procrastination. The blahs. That’s when I knew it was time to redirect my thoughts. One of the biggest areas in counseling today, both Christian and secular, is called cognitivebehavioral therapy, which helps people learn not to simply let their thoughts guide them, but also to change their thoughts from negative to positive. Our thoughts and our ability to direct them are tremendously powerful. This isn’t a new idea, though.

A great deal of how we feel, what we accomplish and how we invest our lives is supported by some ancient words of wisdom: Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things … And the God of peace will be with you. (Philippians 4:8, 9b, NIV) As I elevated my thoughts, my energy level and sense of expectancy rose as well. So, have I mastered this yet? No exactly. But I’m making progress. And whenever I think about where I am on my “Goals for the Year” list, I ask God to help me clear out the clutter of any negative thoughts. Is anyone else up for some mental “spring cleaning” so we can fully live out God’s purpose for us with “the mind of Christ” (1 Corinthians 13 2:16)?

Breaking down the Walls by Jewell Utt

Recently, I spoke at a retreat in Vermont. I attempted to prepare four meaningful sessions for a diverse group of women. I wasn't sure how to tackle these extremes, but God knew each heart. It turned into a weekend where I learned and received more than I offered. I saw Christ revealed through people in ways our walls usually prevent.

The message and music that weekend fell on soft hearts that God had prepared beforehand. The retreat was a great experience, but the Rescue Mission left the deepest impact on me. Seeing how God worked through willing people who build bridges rather than walls was remarkable.

The retreat was attended by the rich and poor: in spirit, Biblical knowledge, finances, and life experiences. I witnessed women, whose lives would rarely cross, praising the Lord together.

The multi-faceted mission is funded and staffed by numerous churches of all denominations. Putting aside their differences enabled them to do a mighty work for a common cause; to reach out into their community and help their fellow man by meeting tangible needs.

Recovered addicts, church goers, community members, and rehab residents stood side by side with no walls or haughtiness between them. They understood Christ is not a respecter of persons and that He loves and values each one of us.

Christ was not burdened by man-made formality or church ritual. Nor should we be, especially when we are acting as His hands and feet. Let's break down the walls that separate us.

Experiencing the presence of God in this tangible way made me grateful He brought me along for the ride. I was humbled by His mighty power. The next blessing was to experience the ministry of the pastor and his wife. My husband and I were invited to stay at their home instead of a hotel and we soaked up their example. One worked as an extension of the next, serving together in their community. Too often we see leaders who are hesitant to serve outside of the church walls. But it was evident this couple had the gift of hospitality and a love for people, as their effects were far reaching. Great insight came on our last day. The pastor took us to a Rescue Mission where he volunteers several days a week--despite the long distance from his home. As a result, women from the center traveled out for the retreat. They were accepted and accepting of the differences because that was the example set forth by their Shepherd.

But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near by the blood of Christ. For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, 15 by setting aside in his flesh the law with its commands and regulations. His 14 purpose was to create in himself one new humanity out of the two, thus making peace. Ephesians 2:1315 (NIV)

Little Girl Mended by Niki Krauss No little girl should ever have to learn about sexual abuse at the hands of her father. But I did, and I survived. This is my story. Little Girl Mended is both a story of abuse and a story of redemption, spanning more than fifty years. From the loss of innocence at age seven, through ten-plus years of abuse, fortyfive years of silence, and finally—well into my fifties—coming to understand that healing is possible. My walk through recovery coincided with a deepening of my relationship with Jesus Christ. Through that relationship I came to experience the Father’s love—a love I couldn’t fully understand while viewing everything through the distorted lens of incest. In this first-person narrative, I examine painful memories and difficult emotions, allowing myself to feel for the first time in my life. As I grapple with shattering hurt and long-buried pain, I come to realize there can be no healing without surrender. It’s not in my strength that I find healing, but in my complete surrender to Jesus Christ. The power found in the pages of Little Girl Mended is there for you, too—whatever the circumstances of your own life’s story. Come along and claim it.

Niki Krauss is a Yankee by birth, a Southerner by choice, and a joy-filled lover of Jesus by grace. After twenty-four years of moving around the country as the wife of a Marine Corps aviator, she and her husband of forty years have settled in Charleston, South Carolina. Niki is the former assistant editor for the Marine Corps Gazette, the professional journal of the United States Marine Corps, where she wielded her red pen for fifteen years. As a sexual abuse survivor herself, her most recent passion is leading faith-based support groups for women survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Connect with Niki at http://www.nikikrauss.com. 16

by Lynn Mosher “Consider your ways (your previous and present conduct) and how you have fared.” Haggai 1:7 Amp Here we go a-pondering again! I love to do this. This verse may get printed out and put on my bathroom mirror and refrigerator! The Lord spoke through the prophet Haggai to Zerubbabel, “Is it then the right time for you to live in luxurious homes, when the Temple lies in ruins? Look at the result: You plant much but harvest little. You have scarcely enough to eat or drink and not enough clothes to keep you warm. Your income disappears, as though you were putting it into pockets filled with holes! Think it over, says the Lord Almighty. Consider how you have acted and what has happened as a result!” (Hag. 1:3-8 TLB) According to the Hebrew Masoretic Text, verse 7 says, “Set your heart on your ways.” The word used for set means to put, to place, to fix, to ordain, to establish, to direct, to determine, etc. Heart means inner man, soul, or conscience. The Hebrew word for ways means course of life, mode of action, road, or journey. Let’s ponder that…Set your heart on your ways. Consider how you have fared. Consider how you have acted and what has happened as a result! How have we acted? What is our conduct? We desire more for ourselves than we do for others who struggle with much less. We put other activities and time before that which should belong to the Lord. We do not give God top priority and our lives lack the necessary things to carry on the work for God. God’s house suffers lack of funds because we do not give as we should. Maybe we need a monthly, weekly, or even a daily self-check-up. We should make up a check list and ask ourselves: 17

1. Do I set my mind to go where God is leading me? 2. Do I set my heart on what the Holy Spirit is nudging me to do? 3. Who and what do I put first in my life? 4. Where is most of my time spent? 5. Do I spend time every day in meditation and quiet to study and pray to know Him better? 6. Am I an example of Christ to my spouse, children, other family members, others? 7. Do I exhibit the fruits of the Spirit? Have I matured enough to have any fruit showing? 8. What attitudes or sins do I have hidden deep within that need to be recognized and cleaned out? 9. Do I allow His light to shine in those dark places of my heart? 10. Am I a humble, obedient servant? 11. Am I a reflection of Jesus? Therefore, “let us test and examine our ways” (Lam. 3:40a NLT), for “Our goal is to please Him.” (2 Cor. 5:9 NLT) Joshua, in his last days, called all Israel together to give them some words of advice, exhort them to be faithful to God, and encourage them to continue to love the Lord, “Be very watchful of yourselves, therefore, to love the Lord your God.” (Josh. 23:11 Amp) I pray as Solomon did when he finished building the temple and blessed the assembly, saying, “May the Lord our God be with us…that He may incline our hearts to Him, to walk in all His ways and to keep His commandments, His statues, and His precepts which He commanded.” (1 Kings 8:57a, 58 Amp) “Consider your ways (your previous and present conduct) and how you have fared.” Haggai 1:7 Amp

From His feet, Lynn

The Abandoned Barn by Nells Wasilewski While driving down a country backroad, I came across an old abandoned barn. It sat in varying stages of decay. I pulled off the road, and allowed myself the luxury of imagining how it would feel to be left out in the elements with no one to make repairs or care about my well-being. It was obvious that at one time this barn had been well kept, and was very useful to its owner. It made me sad, but, at the same time, I was reminded of God's promise. He does not abandon us, but it is up to us to make the necessary repairs that keep us useful to our Heavenly Father. We can stay in peak condition by having daily contact with Him. Reading the word and making time to be in His presence assures us that He is with us to the end of time, so we will never be alone. Thought for the day: “No matter what storm you face, you need to know that God loves you. He has not abandoned you.” -Franklin Graham Hebrews 13:5 and (NKJV) let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Prayer: Awesome and Holy Father, thank you for being faithful, and never forsaking us. Help us to seek you out, and follow your example of faithfulness. We pray in the name of your Son and our Savior, amen.

White Gloves by Cindy Knisley Memories of springtime as a young girl evoke images of my mother sitting at the old feather-weight sewing machine on our kitchen table. We girls needed special Easter dresses and my mother always seemed to have beautiful fabric and patterns that were just right or could be altered. She was very skilled at both sewing and adapting. As Easter Day approached there were late night “parties” in our kitchen---pressing darts, setting in sleeves, and measuring and hand stitching hems. Mother was good at measuring as we patiently stood on a dining room chair and she moved slowly around us with pins and a yardstick. Standing still was important! The finished garment was only part of the project. Shopping for a colorful flower-adorned Easter hat, shiny black Mary Jane shoes, and new white gloves was a real treat. Mother in all her frugality usually put aside the cost factor for this special event each year. Of course we could pass the hats down if they hadn’t been sat upon and we usually purchased the shoes on sale, but there was no skimping on the beautiful fresh white gloves. My how times have changed! The popular feather-weight sewing machines are now found mostly in antique shops, little girls wear dresses and shoes made thousands of miles away by folks who don’t celebrate Easter, and white cotton gloves are delegated to magicians. Mother was proud of her girls in their Easter finery as we sat in our usual pew on Easter morning, sang joyful resurrection hymns, and listened to our father’s sermon. She too looked beautiful. However, she would have had trouble pumping gas on the way to church in her pretty white gloves. Yes, some things have changed! 20

Be-YOU-tifully YOU-nique Embracing who you are; becoming who you were made to be. by Mary Dolan Flaherty YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL I’m a word geek. I love to dig into a word and discover-and uncover--hidden meanings. So, in an effort to explain the reasoning behind why I chose these two words-beautifully unique--I set out to learn the meanings of both words, and try to apply them to my life--and yours. This week, I’ll focus on the first:

Beautiful Beautiful is described as having beauty. Okay, I should’ve seen that one coming. More please? Something generally pleasing; something that applies to whatever excites the keenest of pleasure to the senses and stirs emotion through the senses. Beauty is the quality or aggregate of qualities in a person or thing that gives pleasure to the sense or pleasurably exalts the mind or spirit. So...beauty involves both the senses and our emotions. It truly is in the “eye of the beholder.” A synonym of beautiful is lovely, suggesting the graceful, delicate, or exquisite. Okay, here is where, if this were a TV show/movie, the video would come to a screeching halt and the music would squeal. I was never contacted for a photo shoot to be the poster child for grace, delicate-ness or exquisiteness. I’m certain I wasn’t even in the running. I’m pretty sure that delicate-ness and exquisite-ness are not even words, which proves I’m not any of the above. I am goofy and bold. I laugh loudly and chew gum like a cow, and I usually don’t think before I speak, which is not a quality trait for the future Miss Lovely. But since the video is on hold, it might be a good time to add a footnote, sidebar or subtitle:

God thinks I’m beautiful. So I must be lovely. 21

Here’s some proof: You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you (Song of Solomon 4:7). That’s pretty clear, isn’t it? But just in case you need more proof, how about the fact that God made us in His image (Gen 1:27)? Then, God saw all that He had made, and it was very good (Gen 1:31). God, after creating man, stepped back like an artist, stroked his beard, and said, “I like it. I really like it! Let’s put it to press!” For we are God’s handiwork/workmanship/masterpiece… (Eph 2:10). The words are interchangeable, depending on your translation. The point here is this:

You were created by God. Everything God makes is beautiful. Therefore, you are beautiful. Therefore, you--and I---are lovely. It makes no difference if we feel like we are. God says we are. And He does not lie. You are His masterpiece--an artist’s or craftsman’s best piece of work. He crafted you in His studio. Just as an artist takes his time and gives thought to each piece he creates, God does the same. He didn’t just throw you together haphazardly. You are perfection in His eyes. You were fearfully and wonderfully made. Marvelous are His works and that my soul knows very well (Psalm 139:14) Does your soul know this? Do you realize that you are marvelous? Beautiful? Lovely? Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, especially yourself. Don’t focus on your flaws, because the Lover of your soul says you are flawless. If He chooses not to look at them, why do you? Stop berating yourself, and start celebrating who you are, because you are beautiful! Join me next month as I take a look at the word unique and what it means to be beautifully unique. 22

New from author Jean Ann Williams

Just Claire ClaireLee’s life changes when she must take charge of her siblings and depressed mother, and she finds relief in the lies she tells herself and others. Frightened by the changes in Mama, ClaireLee just knows she’ll catch her illness like a cold or flu that hangs on through winter. Deciding she needs to reinvent herself, she sets out to impress a group of popular girls. At the slip of an untruth, she deceives her way into the Lavender Girls Club. Her best friend Belinda will not be caught with the likes of such shallow puddles. ClaireLee drifts further from honesty, her friend, and a broken mother’s love, until one very public night. The spotlight is on her, and she finds her courage and faces the truth and then she saves a life. Just Claire is now available from Amazon.

Also by Jean Ann Williams

God’s Mercies after Suicide: Blessings Woven through a Mother’s Heart Jean Ann Williams is a writer and the author of God's Mercies after Suicide: Blessings Woven through a Mother's Heart, a devotional book written following the death of her son, Joshua. You can connect with Jean Ann on one of her blogs: http://joshua-mom.blogspot.com/ http://jeanannwilliams.blogspot.com/

From Julie at the Happy Home Fairy

Here at Ruby for Women we are always searching for the very best articles, blogs, and websites that offer inspiration, encouragement, advice, and wisdom for women of all ages. As a result, our readers are a diverse group of women (and a few men!) from all over the USA as well as several other English-speaking countries. In addition to our Kids’ Korner book reviews by author Carol Peterson, we always like to include fun activities and projects that families can do together. We especially want to offer encouragement to young families, as they seek to instill the truths of God’s Word into the lives of their children. This month we are honored to have Julie from Happy Home Fairy share her “Beyond the Bunny” Easter traditions that will help you and your family celebrate Jesus this holiday season. Please visit Julie at the Happy Home Fairy for even more great ideas and inspiration for teaching children to celebrate the love of Jesus all year long.

Make an Easter Garden Children love to tell stories, so why not help them to tell the story of Jesus on Easter morning? This Easter Garden is a wonderful project to do together, and gives the kiddos a hands-on opportunity to recreate the scene of the Resurrection. The tomb is made from a small terra cotta pot with Matthew 27:59-60 written on it: Joseph took the body, wrapped it in a clean linen cloth, and placed it in his own new tomb that he had cut out of the rock. He rolled a big stone in front of the entrance to the tomb and went away.” Then, on Easter morning, the stone is rolled away with the joyous announcement: “He is not here! He has risen!” Matthew 28:6. What a fun tradition that the children will look forward to for years to come. Visit Julie at the Happy Home Fairy for complete instructions for making your own Easter Garden. 25

Resurrection Eggs Resurrection Eggs are PERFECT for helping bring the Easter story to life with your Happy Buddies. 12 eggs are filled with a different object and Bible verse that help tell the true message of Easter, beginning with a small plastic donkey symbolizing Jesus’ triumphant entry into Jerusalem on Palm Sunday and ending with an empty egg symbolizing Christ’s resurrection. Find complete instructions for creating the Resurrection Eggs with your family at the Happy Home Fairy. Photo credit: https://www.flickr.com/photos/lmilla/4482439862/in/photostream/

The Joy Journey Hebrews 12:2 says, “We must never stop looking to Jesus. He is the leader of our faith, and he is the one who makes our faith complete. He suffered death on a cross. But he accepted the shame of the cross as if it were nothing because of the joy he could see waiting for him. And now he is sitting at the right side of God’s throne.” Visit Julie at the Happy Home Fairy for FREE printables and complete instructions to create a Joy Journey for your family as you celebrate Easter.

The Jellybean Prayer There are SO many fun activities to do with your kiddos at Easter to help them remember the true meaning of the season. All of the ideas and projects at “Beyond the Bunny” will inspire you to take some time this Easter and share the story of Jesus with your family in new, creative ways. This Jellybean Prayer is just one of the many FREE printables available from Julie at the Happy Home Fairy. Some of the others that you will find include Easter Story Cards, Easter Egg Treats, and complete instructions for making a Bunny Service Jar. Be sure to stop by the Happy Home Fairy to see all the amazing ideas for your family! 26

Kids’ Korner by Carol Peterson

Samurai Rising: The Epic Life of Minamoto Yoshitsune by Pamela S. Turner, illustrated by Gareth Hinds (Charlesbridge, 2016) Genre: Teen; nonfiction, history, Asia, martial arts Minamoto Yoshitsune, the most famous Japanese samurai who ever lived, was larger than life. In fact, his life is often referred to as “legend” or “myth.” This new book about Minamoto Yoshitsune, just out from Charlesbridge with extensive research by Turner into the Japanese culture, history and the code of the Japanese samurai, shows teens the facts and a hint of the man behind the legend. Turner does not hesitate to share the obvious violence of this period of Japanese history. She does so, however skillfully and with lively writing perfectly focused on her reader’s age and maturity. Her extensive footnotes, timelines and references reinforce the historical sense. Gareth Hinds, known for his strong illustrations, gives the book a graphic novel feel that teens will appreciate. Usually I review books for young kids here at Ruby for Women. This month’s book is different, addressing the interests of teens and young adults. Homeschooling parents might also be interested in this unique book for its history/social studies angle.

Carol Peterson, Author My mission as a writer is to educate, entertain and inspire–children, their teachers and parents, other writers, and readers of all genres. As a children’s writer I try to “Make Learning Fun” by helping busy teachers address curriculum accountability standards, and encouraging other writers to do the same. You can connect with Carol at her blog, Carol Peterson, Author Carol is a member of the Ruby Book Review Team. 27

A Slice of His Story: St. Patrick by Kathryn Ross Time for the wearin' o' the green this month as we bid (hopefully) a fare thee well to winter white, and look forward to greener grasses and the harbinger of spring—St. Patrick's Day! It is a valuable slice of history we should all know about, so we might make the truth of the day the hallmark of our celebrations. Of greater worth than green beer, beads, and bowler hats. Patrick, himself, wouldn't know what to do with such things. His life was spent on nobler endeavors to the glory of God and the complete captivation of the Irish. He did this, not with the power of the sword—but the power of the pen and God’s Word. Storytelling had always been an important part of Irish culture. There are many tales of olden days and the first peoples who lived on Irish lands. These people were conquered by invaders from Gaul and the mainland. Slowly, the populations of the original inhabitants of Ireland shrunk, driven into the woods and forest lands. They became the “little people” of legend. Whenever something odd happened, the Irish blamed the “wee folk”, the leprechauns, fairies, and elves, as they came to be called. Endless tales of their mischief delighted generations, and inspired the works of classic western literature for centuries.

To tell it best, I’ve included, in this article, scant excerpts adapted from a few excellent books on the subject. Refer to the reference notes at the end of the article and plan to dig deeper for a fascinating look into a life to whom the privilege of literacy, learning, and the church as a whole owes much. Part 1 – The Fall of Rome and the Rise of the Irish Raiders* The world ended in August, AD 410. That was the day Alaric and his band of Germanic Visigoths entered the city of Rome, sacking and looting the capital of the greatest empire the world had ever known. The fall of the city sent a shudder through the Mediterranean lands, but in Roman Britain no one even noticed beyond the swift retreat of Caesar's battalions. Once the barbarians entered the gates of Rome, the Roman army was summoned to defend their capital and left the British Isle with no protection from her enemies. The collapse of Roman power was welcome news to the Irish who made their living raiding isolated British farms for slaves. The capture of young boys was the most lucrative, since they could be broken easily and were useful in the dirty, dull tasks of farm life. The withdrawal of the Roman navy from the Irish Sea made more daring raids possible.

Fanciful stories of fairie folk and little green people of questionable temper have their place in the realms of make-believe. But, truth is often stranger than fiction.

On a moonless night, in late summer, we can imagine that a few boats slip into the narrow waterway separating Ireland from Britain and head for a tempting prize—the rich settlements on Britain’s western coast; a land with scores of poorly protected villas spread across open green fields dotted with sheep.

There is one story belonging to the Irish that has been told for 1500 years which continues to inspire with a pertinent message for us today: St. Patrick’s story.

As the boats near the shore, the sails are lowered 29 from a single mast. Quickly and silently they slip over the side into the water and carefully pull their leather and wood-framed vessels onto the beach.

A few men are left behind to guard the boats—no fires, no laughing, no talking above a whisper. If the boats are discovered and the alarm sounds, the raiders have no hope of seeing their Ireland home again. Their footsteps are muffled as the men march inland through the fields, til at last, in the distance, they see their destination—a modest but prosperous villa of a loyal nobleman. The small two-story building has no more than a dozen rooms. The wall surrounding the structures stand no higher than a man’s neck. Part 2 – Young Patrick is Seized!* The Irishmen quickly move over the wall and through an unlocked gate. Most slip into the servant’s quarters while a handful carefully work up the stairs of the main building into the sleeping chambers of the owners. The young man in the second bedroom has no time to fight back. His parents are away in another town where his father serves on the city council. He is alone on the villa’s second floor with only a few household servants downstairs when the raiders enter his room. They have him gagged and bound before he is fully awake. A chain is fastened around his neck, and along with the villa’s servants he is marched off in line to the waiting boat. Surely someone from the local guard will rescue him. Surely his parents will pay anything to ransom him. He is educated. He is of noble birth, and due to inherit power and position in the city. But the raiders move with swift efficiency, killing any captives who cry out for help or slow them down. There is no hope for rescue. The wild island where he is heading is beyond the reach of civilized Britain. His life of privilege and luxury is over. Patricius, known to later ages as Saint Patrick, is now a slave.

Part 3 – In His Own Words* I, Patrick, am the most unlearned and the lowest of all the faithful. My father was a deacon, and my grandfather a priest. At the age of sixteen I was taken captive and shipped to Ireland, along with thousands of others. When I arrived in Ireland, I was sent to tend sheep. I used to pray many times each day; and as I prayed, I felt God’s love fill my heart and strengthen my faith. I had to stay all night in a hut on the mountain, looking after the sheep, and each day I would wake to pray before dawn in all weathers – snow, frost, and rain. I remained as a slave in Ireland for six years. One night when I was asleep, I heard a voice speaking to me. It told me that a ship was waiting to take me home. I awoke, and immediately ran down the mountain, and hurried to the coast. I found a ship about to set sail; and although the captain did not want to take me, one of the old sailors smuggled me aboard. I was overjoyed to see my family again, and at first thought I should never leave them again. But one night I had another dream in which a voice spoke to me. The voice implored me to return to Ireland, and preach the Gospel. When I awoke I felt 30 as if I were a slave again – but now God was my master.

Part 4: Ireland’s Legacy to the World Excerpted from How the Irish Saved Civilization* Patrick never thought he'd see the shores of Ireland again. He finished his education and entered the ministry. As he sought the will of God for his life, he knew he must take the power of God's Word to transform . lives, to the people of Ireland—the very people who had enslaved him in his youth for so many years. When he went, he brought with him the fruits of man's literary achievements in addition to the Bible.

Literacy was a tool he used to change the course of a nation, and ultimately the world. Patrick and the men who followed him built great monasteries the length and breadth of this remote and forgotten island called Ireland. They brought light and life to a dark and violent world through love, literature, and learning. But, the rest of the world was in shambles due to the barbarian hordes sweeping across the Roman Empire with their darkness, illiteracy, and uncivilized ways. It is a time in history we now call The Dark Ages. According to historian, Thomas Cahill, they’d “lost almost everything . . . titles, property, way of life, learning—especially learning. A world in chaos is not a world in which books are copied and libraries maintained. It is not a world where learned men have the leisure to become more learned.

It is not a world for which the Latin professor schedules regular classes of young scholars and knowledge is dutifully transmitted year by placid year. As Roman culture died out and was replaced by vibrant new barbarian growths, people forgot many things—how to read, how to think, how to build magnificently.” But, learning was a raging fire across Ireland. Towns grew up around monasteries built by Patrick and his followers. Everyone could come and learn, and rise to greater potential because of literacy and peace. People adopted civilized manners and ways due to Patrick’s influence. Dedicated monks labored to copy books, preserving 1200 years of civilization, recorded history, art, and literature that had been rescued from the marauders in the southern Roman cities across the channel. Here, in Ireland, the very least of nations, these works were hidden, until the day when the world knew better how to steward her wealth. Many of these manuscripts are among the world’s greatest art treasures—made in Ireland, by simple people, with wit and humor that still touch us today. The Irish mastered Latin, Greek, and some Hebrew, as well as their own Irish for writing down their oral literary traditions. “Wherever they went the Irish brought with them their books . . . tied to their waists as signs of triumph, just as Irish heroes had one tied to their waists their enemies’ heads. Wherever they went they brought their love of learning and their skills in bookmaking. In the bays and valleys of their exile, they re-established literacy and breathed new life into the exhausted literary culture of Europe.” 31

How the Irish Saved Civilization by Thomas Cahill

Recommended reading from Kathryn Ross: I can't say enough about Thomas Cahill's How the Irish Saved Civilization! The historical picture he paints of a world in chaos, and how God prepared a land and a man to protect the treasure of the gospel and the literary record of mankind for future generations, has become a "spiritual landmark" for me in strengthening my faith and confidence in a God whose good will towards man cannot be thwarted by the evil in man's heart. As we see the darkness that is now swiftly enveloping our planet, we are on the verge of another dark age . . . in the last age. If you've read the Bible, none of this is a surprise. But, reviewing His Story in His Word and History, there is hope in the Christ that Patrick prayed to surround him . . . "Christ over me, Christ under me, Christ beside me, on my left and my right." "And we know that all things work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them." Romans 8:28 *The following works have been excerpted for this article: Part 1 & Part 2: St Patrick of Ireland, A Biography, by Phillip Freeman, pages xi-xiii Part 3: Celtic Parables, by Robert Van De Weyer, Abingdon Press, page 9 Part 4: Excerpted from How the Irish Saved Civilization, by Thomas Cahill

Visit Kathryn at The Writerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Reverie for more articles on literacy, faith, and the power of storytelling.

Mark Twain Wisdom Puzzle by Beth Brubaker Rearrange the tiles to find the hidden phrase.

Answer Key on page 57.

The Clock Keeps Ticking by Nells Wasilewski Romans 12:10-11(KJV) Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, and serve the Lord. I was contemplating old age, and it occurred to me that growing old is a personal choice. We may not feel as good as we used to, or look quite as good, and we don't have as much energy. What if Moses had given up, and found a rocking chair to while away the hours? Instead, at the age of eighty, he brought God's people out of Egypt, and for forty years led them through the wilderness. Moses lived one hundred twenty years, and served God relentlessly up to the very end. He trusted God to give him the health and zeal that was needed to accomplish the tasks that God required of him. That same trust and zeal is available to all of us if we have faith and continue living actively for Christ. Isaiah 40:31 tells us that we will run and not grow weary; we will walk and not be faint. It is essential to understand that no matter what age we are we never lose our need to be still, listen and search our hearts and minds to determine how we can best serve the Lord. Father, give us spirit and zeal to carry out the plans you have for us. In Jesus' holy name, amen. 34

Let Father Carry You by Norma C. Mezoe

Like a shepherd He will tend His flock, in His arm He will gather the lambs, and carry them in His bosom…. Isaiah 40:11 (NASB) The toddler was taking a long walk with her father, along the beach. At the beginning of the trek, she stated, “I want to walk by myself. I don’t want to be carried!” She walked along, carrying on conversation with her father for quite a distance. She began growing tired and her eyelids drooped with sleepiness. Soon, she was reaching her arms to her daddy. She was ready to yield her independence and allow her father to carry her. He had waited until she asked for help. How often do we behave as this child? We choose to walk alone until we become tired and discouraged. Then we finally lift our arms and our burdens to our Father. He has been with us all along, but has waited patiently until we realize we need him. Loving Father, please help us to always walk with you; either by your side or in your arms. In Jesus’ name. Amen. Published in The Secret Place – Fall 2003 issue.

I Love You by Norma C. Mezoe A father was walking one night with his young son. His son asked a question. “Daddy, what does God sound like?” Father and son walked silently for a few minutes, then the father picked up his son and softly whispered in his ear, “I love you. That,” he told his son, “is what God sounds like.” The father could have used many words in answering his child’s question, but his simple explanation is the perfect reply. Over two thousand years ago, God chose a way to tell the suffering multitudes what he sounded like. Sending his Son into a world filled with pain, hatred and mistrust, he placed Jesus Christ as a baby into a manger and softly whispered to the world, “I love you.” God continues to whisper those same three words to all who will listen in the silence of their hearts. First rights – The Secret Place, published 2/14/91 Reprint rights – Standard, published 9/11/05 Reprint rights – Evangel, published 3/21/10 Reprint rights - The Gem, published 12/16/12

God's Peace by Norma C. Mezoe God's peace, like a river... Continuously flows... And crowds out the sorrow That floods through my soul. The picture, “Peace”, was published online in Sight Psalms on 12/05/15. The poem is first rights

History of Christian Hymns: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Turn Your Eyes upon Jesusâ&#x20AC;? by Helen H. Lemmel Helen H. Lemmel (1863-1961) was born in England but lived most of her life in America. She was a gifted concert soloist, a music teacher at the Moody Bible Institute, and music critic for the Seattle Post. She also worked as director of a woman's choral group that was a regular part of the Billy Sunday evangelical meetings. Helen wrote the words and music of Turn Your Eyes upon Jesus in 1922, to be sung at those meetings. The inspiration for Turn Your Eyes upon Jesus, which Helen entitled The Heavenly Vision, came from the writings of author and artist Lilias Trotter (1853-1928). Lilias Trotter was a brilliant artist whose talent opened the doors to wealth and influence. Her other love was missions. After struggling in prayer for two years, Trotter came to the conclusion that she must lay down her love of art in order to fix her eyes solely on Jesus, and on His calling to the mission field. She subsequently served for more than 38 years as a missionary to Muslims of Algeria. She also authored several books and tracts. The following is an excerpt from her tract, Which Passion Will Prevail? "Never has it been so easy to live in half a dozen harmless worlds at once -- art, music, social science, games, motoring, the following of some profession, and so on. And between them we run the risk of drifting about, the good hiding the best." It is easy to find out whether our lives are focused, and if so, where the focus lies. Where do our thoughts settle when consciousness comes back in the morning? Where do they swing back when the pressure is off during the day? Dare to have it out with God, and ask Him to show you whether or not all is focused on Christ and His Glory. Turn your soul's vision to Jesus, and look and look at Him, and a strange dimness will come over all that is apart from Him." - Lilias Trotter

Read more about the history of Christian hymns at the Share Faith website.

Just Claire

by Jean Ann Williams Book Review by Nina Newton Just Claire by author Jean Ann Williams is a touching, poignant story of a young girl facing life’s challenges, feeling alone and vulnerable. Caring for her family during her mother’s illness, ClaireLee attempts to face her fears and insecurities by becoming one of the “popular” girls in her school. The journey ClaireLee takes to be part of the Lavender Girls Club leads her to become someone she really does not want to be, and she is confronted with difficult choices. More than anything, ClaireLee just wants her mother to get well, and she wants her life back to normal. And she discovers that trying to become part of the “popular” girls group is not at all what she thought it would be. Facing the reality of losing her friend Belinda who wants nothing to do with the Lavender Girls Club, ClaireLee must decide who she is and how she will confront the other challenges in her life. Eventually she realizes that she must be honest with herself and others, and this enables her to be brave in the midst of a crisis. Just Claire is a sweet story that will help middle grade readers recognize that they are not alone as they struggle with challenges in life. Jean Ann Williams is a storyteller who captures not only the imagination, but draws the reader into the life of her characters. Just Claire reflects the heart of the author, and it will touch the heart of readers everywhere. For families who long to share life truths with their children, Just Claire is a beautiful, thoughtful, and inspiring book. Jean Ann Williams is an author and blogger, and she is a frequent contributor to the Ruby for Women magazine. Just Claire is available from Ruby’s Reading Corner. You can connect with Jean Ann on her blog,

When We Pray for One Another by Sharon L. Patterson I just went through one of those weeksâ&#x20AC;Śyou know what I mean. There were some circumstances that summoned fears I did not know I had; feelings that were all over the map, and uneasiness that seemed relentless. Certainly, there was little control over anything that was happening in my family. As a believer, I have strong faith in prayer. I love to pray as an intercessor in the closet alone or gather in unity of hand-holding corporate prayer with my fellow believers. Nothing is as invigorating in nature, effective in touching the heart of God, or more productive in bringing heaven-needed answers to earth. But last week, I was reminded of one of the most precious things that happens when we pray for one another. Physically, my strength was zapped. Spiritually, my faith was at a whisper level not a valiant warriorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cry. I asked others to pray for me and my family. I needed the closet warriors and the gathered believers. Shortly after, an iron-like blanket lifted off my inner being, my physical strength revived, and my faith soared far above a whisper. Their prayers carried me until I regained what was needed to stand, and their encouragement lifted my discouragement. Circumstances did not alter quickly, but transformation from hopeless to hopeful did. I am used to being among those called to pray for others. How I love to launch faith-filled requests to the Lord on their behalf. I understand what it takes to keep believing in spite of the circumstances that do not change. Now, however, I have a heightened sense of knowing just how powerful the experience of being the one prayed for really is. Gratitude is all over my heart. So, if you happen to experience one of those weeks or seasons soon, I want to pass on the great blessing of what takes place when we pray for one another! 40

Lose Weight, Get Fit & Change Your Life – With 4 Powerful Principles by Carol L. Doyel I developed a program called M.O.V.E. that covers 4 powerful principles to help you lose weight, get fit and change your life! For me it all started back in 2009-2010, when I found myself at my heaviest weight and in a funk. It might not have seemed like I had a significant weight problem, but according to weight charts and a biometric test I took, I was considered obese (20 or more pounds overweight for my age and height). That shocked me – so I made a decision in April 2010 to start exercising on a regular basis. I began walking laps around our block, and then moved to a nearby track. I started walking for short periods of time a couple of times a day. As I became more motivated I started to sprint for 13 minutes interspersed with walking, which eventually led to running a lap, then two, and overtime I worked up to running 3-4 miles at a time. I also followed a low sugar, low carb diet and within a year I lost 22 pounds. But the greatest change I experienced was not necessarily the weight I loss, but my attitude, mental clarity, and enthusiasm which all increased significantly. It was during that time that I launched my online women’s magazine, LivingBetter50.com. I was so inspired and had such a sense of vitality that the creative ideas seemed to flow. And I had the energy to actually do the things that I wanted to do. I’ve always known how important exercise is and how living a healthy life can extend and improve the quality of your life, but what I discovered is that exercise and wellness effects every area of our life – and is a key component to our overall success. Just as the Bible states in 3 John 1:2: “Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in health, even as your soul prospers.” This is God’s desire and design for us as believers of the Gospel – To prosper and experience divine health, just as our soul prospers. 41 After photo August 2014

So I decided to write a little book about the four principles that I applied in my own life; a couple of them are methods I have used for many years to accomplish my personal dreams and goals. In my book I cover the four principles of M.O.V.E. as well as the importance of moving more, which is critical to overall vitality. The acronym M.O.V.E. is based on principals that most diet books and programs do not include or cover. These are significant, yet simple principles that can help you succeed at not only losing weight and getting fit, but achieving any goals that you set your mind and heart to. Today, if you want to experience a greater sense of wellness, vitality, and change your life – I want to encourage you to take the first step towards a life changing journey.

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Get up put on something comfortable to wear and your walking shoes, take a pad and pen (invest in a small journal that is special and that you can write down your life goals and dreams), get in your car if you need to, drive to a beautiful spot, take a looooong walk, and then sit down and write down your dreams and goals.

The key is to have a BIG “why” and to get motivated and stay motivated, which I cover in by book “Lose Weight, Get Fit & Change Your Life- With 4 Powerful Principles.”

Carol Doyel is Editor-in-Chief and Founder of LivingBetter50.com. She is a graduate of The Full Gospel Bible Institute and has a passion for women’s ministries, issues and lives. She and her husband of 26+ years have three grown kids and four grandchildren. They currently reside in southern CA. Her desire is to inspire women to live better physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually. 42

The Last Hours of Christ: A Discipleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Denial (through the eyes of the apostle Peter) by Lanette Kissel

I had been angry when Jesus had made that statement. How could He be able to foresee that I was destined to deny Him thrice? How could this possibly be? I knew that I had served Jesus well. I had been his true and faithful friend. I simply would never deny the Christ. I would be faithful to the bitter end. I had always been the rock, the disciple who was confident and strong. My world had shattered when they arrested Jesus. How could everything have gone so wrong? I had panicked when the question was asked, and I had instinctively lied. When asked if I was with the Man named Jesus, I had immediately denied. I had spent much of my life following Jesus. Now had all that devotion been lost in one brief moment of panic and cowardice? How much had that one moment cost? If what Jesus had said came true, if He really arose again and livedâ&#x20AC;Ś Would Christ find it in His heart this fallen disciple to forgive? After seeing the newly arisen Christ, after recovering from the initial shock, I pledged my life to serving the Savior knowing I again could become that rock. Image from Wikimedia Commons, public domain, painting by Robert Leinweber, 1921

The Last Hours of Christ: A Discipleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Betrayal (through the eyes of the apostle Judas) by Lanette Kissel

How can I sit here and sup with Him? How can I look Him in the eye? I can tell by the way He looks at me that He knows He is going to die. I have consorted with His enemies and the plans have already been made. They have put a price upon His head and thirty silver pieces I was paid. I never should have talked with them, should not have listened to their lies. I never should have allowed myself to become the instrument of His demise. I have committed a truly unforgivable sin in betraying Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s only Son. I too will be departing this world, for I cannot live with what I have done. For I know that my name shall be the one that history shall hate. I was the one to betray the Christ. Such was my terrible fate.

Bring a Cowboy Home by Gloria Doty Relationships are never easy, especially when everything seems to be conspiring against you. Louisa Crowder is a successful businesswoman from Chicago. When she meets Cal Frasier, a handsome rancher from Magnolia, Texas, it feels like someone’s lit a match on a forest fire. The only problem: Everything seems to stand in their way. With the opinions and objections of their adult children, their totally different lifestyles, secrets from their pasts, and their completely opposite views of their faith in Jesus Christ, can Louisa and Cal fan the flames and find happiness, or are their obstacles too insurmountable to overcome?

Gloria Doty is a published Christian writer, author, speaker and blogger. She has 5 children, 13 grandchildren and 7 greatgrandchildren. She currently lives in Fort Wayne, Indiana with her adult autistic daughter, 1 dog and 2 cats. She has had various occupations and experiences in her lifetime. She writes about the lessons learned at: www.gettingitrightoccasionally.blogspot.com and www.writingbygloria.com Her recently published book, Not Different Enough, tells the everyday experiences of life with her daughter, Kalisha, and their 30-year journey with autism, Asperger’s and intellectual disabilities. She has published a book of devotions with her sister, Jeanette Dall, titled: A Bouquet of Devotions. She has been published in various magazines and is a regular contributor to the quarterly devotional Hope-Full Living, as well as a member of the Ruby Blogger Team and a regular contributor to the Ruby for Women magazine. Gloria‘s latest book is the first in a series of three contemporary Christian romance novels. Bring a Cowboy Home is now available from Ruby’s Reading Corner.

WHOOSH! by Joan Leotta

Illustrated by Rebecca Michael Zeissler A snow day! Share the excitement of waking up and discovering that the ground is covered with snow. Even better, we are snowed in and Dad is home instead of at work! To celebrate, Dad and I are going sledding. The sound of the sled going down the hill at a nearby park (WHOOSH!) guides the tale through the fun and bonding between the child and her dad. His love for her is demonstrated in the smallest ways - in gestures she may not understand now, but will impact her later. In dialogue with both her dad and mom, the child reveals that time with them is indeed the most important thing to her - any day. This book is written from the first person point of view, so that the listener is able to visualize themselves in the role of the child. WHOOSH! by Joan Leotta is available from Amazon.

Joan Leotta has been playing with words since childhood. She is a poet, essayist, journalist, playwright, and author of several books both fiction and non-fiction for children and adults. She is also a performer and gives one-woman shows on historic figures and spoken word folklore shows as well as teaching writing and storytelling. Joan lives in Calabash, NC where she walks the beach with husband, Joe. www.joanleotta.wordpress.com and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Joan-Leotta-Author-and-StoryPerformer/188479350973 46

Down the Lane Puzzle by Beth Brubaker

Answer Key on page 58.

Vintage Easter Cards from the collection of Vintage Mama

Winter Memories by Rejetta Morse The winds of winter blow at God’s command He hides the flowers beneath the fluffy snow To sleep inside the bosom of the earth And wait for spring down in the earth below. The trees stand tall and sleep in the brisk winds And silently the wind blows through their arms. It strengthens them below the winter skies And dreams with hope in spring’s returning charms. The gusty winds calm down at God’s command, The restless howling winds begin to sigh, The blanketing of snow begins to melt The whispering winds are waving now – “Good-bye!” The winter birds start tweeting – “spring is near” And memories of winter disappear.

He sendeth out his word, and melted them: he causeth his wind to blow, and the waters flow. Psalm 147:18

Our Conqueror by Frances Gregory Pasch He was beaten beyond recognition Spat upon, mocked, and abused, Yet He never denied for one moment That He was “King of the Jews.” He had a job to accomplish… It was all a part of God’s plan. Had He chosen not to fulfill it, There would be no salvation for man. So in spite of the jeers and the taunting, The crown of thorns and the whips, He stood still before His accusers And never opened His lips. Though they found no charges against Him He was sentenced to death on the cross. They chose to deny He was “King of the Jews” But ultimately it was their loss. For He rose from the grave, as He promised Having conquered death and our sin. Now it’s our time to make a decision… Deny Him or welcome Him in.

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With Faith Like Hers Bible Study Series by Carol Peterson

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New Equation Search Puzzle Answer Key by Beth Brubaker

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“Nothing so needs reforming as other people’s habits.”

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Meet the Ruby for Women Writers Miriam Jacob is an author and poet in cyberspace, having published a series of E-Books at Lulu.com. She is a book reviewer at CHRISTIAN BOOK DISTRIBUTORS, BARNES AND NOBLE, GOOGLE BOOKS and HARPER COLLINS CHRISTIAN PUBLISHING (BookLook Bloggers). She writes reviews for Christian books, in the categories of literary fiction, non-fiction, poetry and politics. Her articles and book reviews are published on her blog: “AUTHORS FOR CHRIST” Miriam is a member of the Ruby Book Review Team.

Lynn Mosher, Devotions

Since the year 2000, Lynn Mosher has lived with fibromyalgia and other physical conditions. During this time, the Lord placed the desire in her heart to write for Him. Now, armed with God’s purpose for her life and a new passion, she reaches out to others to encourage and comfort them through her writing, giving God all the glory. She lives with her husband in their empty nest in Kentucky. On occasion, their three offspring, who have flown the coop, come to visit, accompanied by a son-in-law and three granddaughters. Visit Lynn at her blog, at http://lynnmosher.com

Katherine Corrigan, Recipes and Crafts Katherine is a blogger at Katherine’s Corner, an artist, designer, tea drinker and hug giver. She has been a contributor to Ruby for Women for five years. She is originally from England. But she has lived in the USA since 1975. She holds a rare dual citizenship with the UK and the USA and is a proud citizen of both. She greets each day with grace, dignity and gratitude. Thanking God for her strength as she continues to encourage others and moves forward despite her physical challenges. She is happily married and has five grandchildren. Blog http://KatherinesCorner.com Blog Graphics at http://BlogArtByKatherine.com Shop http://KeepsakesByKatherine.etsy.com

Lanette Kissel lives in southern Indiana with her adopted Yorkie-Poo, Benjy. She enjoys singing in her huge choir at Crossroads Christian Church. She has been a freelance writer of Christian/Inspirational poetry for twelve years. Recently, she has been writing Inspirational articles and essays, as well as devotions. Her work has appeared in: Mature Living Magazine, Purpose, Live, The War Cry, The Lutheran Journal, The Catholic Yearbook, Silver Wings, Inspired Women Magazine, and others.

Norma C. Mezoe began writing after a crisis in her life.

She has been a published writer for thirty years. Her writing has appeared in books, devotionals, take-home papers and magazines. She lives in the tiny town of Sandborn, Indiana where she is active in her church as clerk, teacher and bulletin maker. Contact at: normacm@tds.net

Rejetta Morse enjoys writing poetry so she can write about God and how He speaks through nature. Writing poetry is a new found purpose and hobby she discovered over recent years which brings her joy, peace, and encouragement. She also enjoys reading poetry and is working to learn more about the craft of poetry. She spends her free time singing with her church choir and listening to gospel music, watching biographical movies, and encouraging other people.

Carol Peterson, Author My mission as a writer is to educate, entertain and inspire– children, their teachers and parents, other writers, and readers of all genres. As a children’s writer I try to “Make Learning Fun” by helping busy teachers address curriculum accountability standards, and encouraging other writers to do the same. You can connect with Carol at her blog, Carol Peterson, Author Carol is a member of the Ruby Book Review Team.

Jewell Utt has served in church leadership for over twenty years. She is the director of a local food pantry and the women’s ministry leader at her church. Her desire is to encourage women through writing, speaking and music. Jewell is a resource speaker for schools, churches, and women's events. She has been married for thirty-four years and has three grown sons. Contact her at: jewellutt@yahoo.com visit her website at: www.jewellutt.com.

Connie Chandler lives in a Hobbit Hole in Fort Wayne, Indiana, where she teaches and serves in international refugee ministry. She loves studying the Bible, trying new things, listening to stories, going on adventures, and drinking hot tea. She sits in a wheelchair because she has a disability that weakens her muscles but not her spirit. She shares the stories of God’s strength and faithfulness in her life on her blog: conniesbowlofcherries.blogspot.com.

Gloria Doty: I am a mother of 5 and grandmother of 13. I have owned a catering business, and a Grade A goat dairy. I have managed a restaurant, worked in retail and was Dir. of Children’s’ Ministries for a large church for 10 years. I have been writing since I was in third grade. I currently write 2 blogs about my youngest daughter, Kalisha, and our journey together through the world of mild mental retardation, autism and Aspergers. Gloria blogs at www.gettingitright-occasionally.blogspot.com

Nells Wasilewski lives in a small southern town, seventy miles southeast of Nashville, Tennessee. After retiring, she began pursuing her lifelong dream of writing. Her writing has been greatly influenced by her faith in Jesus Christ, personal, experience and nature. She has been writing poems, prose and stories all her life. Nells has recently started writing devotionals. Her work has appeared in Haiku Journal, Barefoot Review, Three Line Poetry, Poetry Quarterly, 50 Haikus, Dual Coast Magazine, High Coupe Journal, Ancient Paths, Tanka Journal, Hedgerow and Penned from the Heart. nellswasilewski.weebly.com https://nellswasilewski.blogspot.com

Sharon Patterson, retired educator, career military wife, and leader in women's ministry, has written inspirational encouragement in various forms from greeting cards to short stories, poetry, and Bible studies for over thirty years. She has authored three books: A Soldier's Strength from the Psalms (2007); Healing for the Holes in Our Souls(2008); and Where Is Happy?(2011). She is a contributing author for Chicken Soup for the Soul: A Book of Miracles and Chicken Soup for the Soul: Answered Prayer; also Gettin' Old Ain't for Wimps (Karen O'Connor,2004) and Special Strength for Special Parents (Nina Fuller, 2006). She and her husband Garry live in Round Rock, Texas. They have three sons and five grandchildren.

Melissa Zelniker-Presser

lives with her wonderful husband Shlomi and their three children Avery, Collin and Meadow in South Florida. Melissa was born and raised in a Jewish home and later found Jesus at the age of 35. Shlomi, an Israeli Jew, was not far behind, finding the Lord shortly thereafter. Both Melissa and Shlomi are practicing attorneys in the criminal justice field. Their journey is one of brokenness, mercy and redemption. You can read her blog posts at Work for the Cause Not the Applause.

Donna Comeaux resides in Tulsa, Oklahoma with her husband, Glenn. Together, they have two children and five grandchildren. She draws inspiration from her life, the life of others, the news, and her wild and vivid imagination. She is a freelance writer and has written several poems for funerals and weddings, and is in the process of editing her first completed family saga, White Castle. She wrote her second novel, Taken by Choice, and a short story, Selfish Ambition, in 2014.

Michelle S. Lazurek has been a pastor's wife for over twelve years. Whether it is through writing counseling material, organizing ladies retreats or mentoring women in her church, Michelle considers each day an opportunity to find her place in God's story. In 2007, Michelle and her husband Joe planted Praxis Church. Michelle holds a Master's degree in Counseling and Human Relations from Liberty University. She has two beautiful children: Caleb and Leah. Michelle provides tips for busy writers on her blog The Writersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Tapestry: Where Writing and Life Intertwine http://www.michellelazurek.com

Alisha Ritchie is a wife, mother of two wonderful children, Physical Therapy Assistant by profession, and dedicated church member and Sunday School teacher. She resides in the small town of Stanfield, North Carolina, where she enjoys writing, spending time with her children, and ministering to others through her work and small group Bible studies. You can read other devotions she has written on www.christiandevotions.us.

Stacy Flury is mom to two grown daughters, the youngest of which is homeschooled and will graduate next year. She has been married for 32 years and lives in New Jersey. In addition to being a wife and a mom, Stacy is the writer of the blog Anchor of Promise, a support and educational blog for parents with hurting and troubled teens. She is currently writing her first book, Anchor in the Parenting Storms: Survival Devotions for Parents with Teens in Crisis.

Kathleen Katt Luce is a registered nurse, married, the mother of two and grandmother of seven. It brings her great joy to share Christ with the lost and lonely. Over the years she's learned a great deal while facilitating Bible studies. She's found herself on college and university campuses, the beach, the streets, the hospital, the jail and the facility for incarcerated teens, sharing God’s message of love. She is also an online missionary with Global Media Outreach. She has seen countless lives transformed when people turn away from sin and turn to Jesus. The changes God makes are real and lasting. She writes a blog: www.kathleensfaithwalk.com

Ifeoma Samuel is privileged to be a Woman after God’s heart and is happily married to her sweet heart Obiora Samuel. She is the author of the new book My 30 Days Journey To a Fulfilled Life. You can find her blogging regularly at Purposeful and Meaningful You can also connect with her on Pinterest, Google+ and on Facebook.

Cindy Knisley I have been an educator for 24 years in a suburban Philadelphia high school, I have always enjoyed language and writing. Teaching German and Latin trained me to respect the nuances of structure and story as well as the power of words. Three years ago I felt called by God to leave the work I loved in order to support my aging parents. My home is in West Chester, PA, where I tend a "secret garden," enjoy my grandchildren, attend church, and write.

Kathleen McCauley has been an active retreat leader for over 25 years.

She received her professional training as a Campus Minister and retreat leader at the University of Dayton. Kathleen enjoys working with adults in their cultivation of spirituality and personal growth. Prior to her work as a Career Counselor at Neumann University, Kathleen served as a Resident Minister for eight years at St. Joseph’s University and seven additional years giving retreats for local churches and community groups. You can contact Kathleen to learn more about her retreat work at kathleenmccauley1@msn.com

Mary Dolan Flaherty is a quirky gal who loves to encourage people and make them laugh. She writes and speaks with self-deprecating humor and transparency, saying what most people think but won’t admit. She lives in New Jersey with her husband, whom she affectionately calls Hubbles, and has two grown children and two grand-dogs. Mary enjoys hiking, theatre, music, gardening, and traveling and can be found blogging at 62 SonRiseInsights.blogspot.com.

Heather King is a wife to a wonderful husband and a mom to three beautiful girls. A former English teacher, she now lives a life of doing dishes, folding laundry, finding lost toys and mending scraped knees. She treks to the grocery store more times a week than she’d like and struggles to keep up with chores, appointments and the todo list that refreshes itself day after day. In addition to all that, she’s the worship leader at her church in Virginia, a Bible study teacher and women’s ministry leader. You can find her blogging about these times with God at her devotional site: Room To Breathe: http://heathercking.wordpress.com/

Kathryn Ross Kathryn Ross is an enrichment artist, writer, speaker, and independent publisher at Pageant Wagon Publishing with a mission is to nurture the seeds of all good things, innocence, and beauty in the human heart. Her books and storytelling programs engage young and old with dramatic flair as inspirational works and discipleship tools designed to minister to all ages—all at the same time. She lives with her bookseller husband, a storyteller in his own right, and two literary cats. Inspired by the stillness of birdsong and silent reflection, teatime, God’s Word, classic literature, and the arts inform her words with a splash of old world elegance. Timeless truths leap from the page and the stage through Pageant Wagon Publishing and Productions—and new book launch on April 1 of her latest Fable Springs Parables picture book, Bugaboo-Bee’s Bop: Patience for the Prize. Visit her online at www.thewritersreverie.com and www.pageantwagonpublishing.com

Joan Leotta has been playing with words since childhood. She is a poet, essayist, journalist, playwright, and author of several books both fiction and nonfiction for children and adults. She is also a performer and gives one-woman shows on historic figures and spoken word folklore shows as well as teaching writing and storytelling. Joan lives in Calabash, NC where she walks the beach with husband, Joe. www.joanleotta.wordpress.com and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Joan-LeottaAuthor-and-Story-Performer/188479350973

Frances Gregory Pasch’s devotions and poems have been published in devotional booklets, magazines, and Sunday school papers since 1985. Her writing has also appeared in several dozen compilations. Her book, Double Vision: Seeing God in Everyday Life Through Devotions and Poetry is available on Amazon. Frances has been leading a women’s Christian writers group since 1991. You can contact her at www.francesgregorypasch.com.

Toni Samuels By day Toni works in corporate communications at a Fortune 500 corporation, but by night she pursues her true passion: to write for God’s purposes and to point people to Jesus Christ. She is grateful and honored to have the opportunity to begin this new chapter in her life, in which writing is not merely a profession but a ministry. In her free time Toni enjoys music, reading, traveling and beautiful beaches. 63

Keith Wallis, Poet-in-Residence Keith Wallis is an English poet. He is a senior part of the leadership team of Houghton Regis Baptist church. An engineering designer by trade, he brings an eye for detail as well as faith into his poetry. As well as being ‘poet in residence’ at Ruby magazine, he is a moderator at ChristianWriters.com. His blog of ekphrasic poetry is: http://wordsculptures-keith.blogspot.com/ where you’ll also find links to his books and his other blogs. Married to Val in 1970, he has two sons and three grandsons. The eldest grandson is disabled and cannot communicate verbally. Though not an ‘academic’ (school was a disaster!) he was always fond of writing. He began submitting work for publication in the 1980’s after being encouraged by a community writer in residence.

Beth Brubaker, Assistant Editor Beth is a humorist poet and songwriter, and her day jobs include homemaking, writing, and paper and fabric arts. Beth has been a Christian since her early twenties, and has been married to her "Knight In Dented Armor" since 1997. She is the mother of two teenage children and two cats (she still hasn't told the cats they were adopted...Shh!) Her oldest child has Asperger’s, which helps her see things a little differently through his eyes. Beth's passion is the written word, and is developing ways of sharing her brand of humor with the world through poems, songs and stories. She enjoys sharing her struggles and experiences with others, to encourage them to find their own passions and attain what they want out of life- and to find joy and humor along the way. Don't miss Beth's columns and puzzles in every issue of Ruby for Women! You can read Beth's posts on her blog Footprints in the Mud at http://footprintsinthemudblog.blogspot.com or emails her at bethatruby@aol.com.

Nina Newton, Sr. Editor When all of my four older children were in school, I returned to college as a “non-traditional student.” Eventually, I earned degrees in Classics and Philosophy, and a graduate degree in Medieval Studies: History of Theology. After teaching at a small community college in Michigan for seven years, my husband and I were blessed with the adoption of our two beautiful daughters, Gracie and Annie. Gracie is 14 years old and Annie is 13. They were both born in China, and we were able to travel to China two times to bring our daughters home. We live in northern Indiana in a small farming community where I work on Ruby for Women in my home office. I have worked for several years offering my handmade and refashioned garments and accessories in a local boutique under the creative name of “Vintage Mama’s Cottage.” My personal blog is at www.mamaslittletreasures.com 64

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