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September 2021

16 Extracurricular Activities from A to Z

Find activities that are right for your child by exploring our comprehensive list.

30 Out-of-the-Box Lunches

Your kids will love these healthy bento box ideas!

32 Handling Back-to-School Anxieties

Returning to the classroom can trigger an array of emotions in kids. Here’s how to tackle a few common scenarios head on.

38 What to Ask at Your Child’s Checkup

Questions you’ll want to discuss with health care providers for newborns to teens

40 Mom Friends

5 strategies to make new mom friends—on the playground or online

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Editor’s Note News: What’s happening in the community Child Care: Setting Nanny Up for Success Advice: Ask Dad and Buried Just for Moms: Surviving Back-to-School Season

THINGS TO DO 20 Family Activities Calendar 26 Let’s Go Apple Picking! 36 Back-to-School Shopping Destinations

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18 After-School Activities Directory 34 Education Directory 41 Open Houses & Advertisers’ Index

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eptember is such a bittersweet time of year. The lazy days of summer are winding down and the hustle and bustle of back-to-school is a nagging reminder of vacation’s end. While I dread setting my alarm for 6:30am, I gladly welcome the quiet hours during which I can work peacefully while my children are in school. Similarly, I’ll miss my flip flops and shorts, but fuzzy boots and giant, cable-knit sweaters are a welcome pairing with open windows, cool breezes, and pumpkin-spiced everything. Autumn essentials are truly the silver lining to summer’s end. Apple picking, for example, is a classic family activity for kicking off the new season. Spend a September day picking crisp, delicious apples to take home and bake into pies and jams (or just sit in a bowl on your kitchen table as a decoration—no judgement here!). Flip to p. 26 to find a list of nearby farms where you can collect and enjoy the signature fruit of fall. With the cooler weather comes the start of sports, another welcome sign of fall. My kids have been playing flag football for years, but I’m looking to add something new to their after-school activity lineup. If you’re looking to do the same, check out our roundup of extracurricular activities, starting on p. 16, to give you some good ideas. If your kids are less than thrilled about returning to school—particularly if they’ve been learning remotely for a while—the article on p. 32 offers some super helpful tips on easing your child’s anxieties. And if you’re the one with the anxieties (oh, I’ve been there; trust me), you’ll find some useful advice on making lasting friendships with fellow moms on p. 40. Have you picked out your kids’ outfits for the big day yet? We’re so excited about the first day of school that we’re hosting a First Day of School Photo Contest! We can’t wait to see your adorable little ones all decked out in their first day finest! Sign up for the Scoop (nymetroparents.com/register) and follow us on social (@NYMetroParents) for details! Happy September!

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Jack-O-Lanterns Light Up Long Island New York’s favorite fall event is back—bigger and better than ever! Great news, Halloween-lovers: The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze Long Island will return to Old Bethpage Village Restoration later this month! Arguably the area’s biggest, most elaborate Halloween happening, the Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze has been in Westchester County since 2005 and came to Long Island last year. The Blaze displays thousands of individually hand-carved, illuminated jack-o’-lanterns in an elaborate walk-through experience. Meander through a historic, 19th-century landscape and discover a breathtaking display—all made of jack-o’lanterns—complete with an original soundtrack and synchronized lighting. New for 2021 at Blaze: Long Island, visitors will see an 80-foot circus train and be enchanted by a sea monster and other creatures from under the sea. The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze Long Island will run Sept. 22-26; Sept. 29-Oct. 3; Oct. 6-11, 20-24, 27-31; and Nov. 3-7. Entry is by timed ticket, and tickets are on sale now—starting at $32; $24 for children ages 3-17; free for children ages 2 and younger. For more information, visit pumpkinblaze.org.

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Celebrate Grandma & Grandpa!

Fore! Did you know Sept. 21 is Mini Golf Day? We didn’t either, but what better day to hit the green with your kids?! Sure, they have school during the day, but for a special treat when the school day ends, visit your favorite local miniature-golf course and see who can hit a holein-one! Better yet, make it a friendly competition; loser has to wash the dishes! Visit nymetroparents.com/ mini-golf to find a course near you!

It’s Fall Y’all! Ahhh, fall…the season of pumpkinspice everything, cozy sweaters, and Halloween. Sept. 22 is the autumnal equinox, so celebrate the season by going apple picking (turn to p. 26 for our favorite orchards), go for a family hike (visit nymetroparents. com/hike for our top picks), or peep the colorful leaves in our area (visit nymetroparents.com/leaves for ideas). Whatever way your family chooses to celebrate the season, you’re sure to have fun!

Keeping Babies Safe September is Baby Safety Month, which makes it the perfect time to refresh your baby-proofing needs (and brush up on car seat safety for little ones!). Check out 16 expert tips for baby proofing your home at nymetroparents.com/baby-proof. Got a toddler on your hands? Find five ways to ramp up your safety measures at nymetroparents.com/ toddler-proof. And ensuring your car seat is installed correctly is superimportant. Visit nymetroparents.com/ carseat for what you need to know.

randparents Day is always celebrated on the first Sunday after Labor Day, which is Sunday, Sept. 12 this year. The holiday is a reminder to pause and show appreciation for the wisdom and joy we get from grandparents. It’s a day for celebrating the connections between the generations. Here are some ways to celebrate your parents with your children whether they’re together or apart.

Make tasty treats. The kids can make these treats and enjoy them with grandma and grandpa in honor of their special day. (If they’re apart, they can make the recipe together on Zoom.) Dress like a grandparent. Grandma and grandpa will get a kick out of seeing your child recreate their outfits. Maybe grandma carries a large purse. Or perhaps grandpa is never without a cowboy hat. See what you can come up with. Show the grandparents the creation on Zoom or in person. Watch a grandparent-focused movie together. These family-friendly flicks have grandparents in them. Watch them together in person or virtually. Our picks are The War with Grandpa, Whale Rider, and Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory.

Let kids create a keepsake. Grandma and Grandpa are sure to cherish your kid’s hard work.

Take a virtual visit to their homeland. Go for an online field trip to their homeland. Whether they grew up in NYC or Japan, learn about the city or country’s culture, holidays and more. For five more ideas to celebrate Grandparents’ Day, read the rest of Stacey Feintuch’s article at nymetroparents.com/grandparents.

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New Places, New Programs Music School Opens in Manhasset After getting many requests for lessons on Long Island over the past few years, Further Music School opened a location in Manhasset this summer. Like it’s other locations, the Long Island school offers private music lessons in piano, violin, guitar, vocals, drum, and more, as well as exclusive piano and string ensemble programs—all for children ages 4 and older. Practicing, of course, is a key component in music learning, so Further Music developed an effective solution to motivate students to practice, says Carrie Shi, founder of Further Music School. And Further Music values opportunities for students to advance their skills in performing, so concerts are held twice a year in world-class concert halls, including Carnegie Hall, Steinway Hall, and Opera America. 1180 Northern Blvd., Suite C1, Manhasset; 516-743-3544; furthermusic.com.

Get Lost in a Sunflower Maze

Kids and adults alike have a tough time turning down an outing where you can spend time outside—and snap the perfect Instagram-worthy pictures. Here’s where you can find a sunflower maze on Long Island (and visit nymetroparents.com/sunflowers for locations that are a little further out):

Waterdrinker Family Farm and Garden 663 Wading River Road, Manorville water-drinker.com 631-878-8653 Hours: daily, 9am-5pm Admission: $15; free for children younger than 2. Near the North Fork, this sunflower maze is brand-new. When you’re done, say hello to the barnyard pals or let your future farmer ride on some new John Deere tractors. Practice your putt-putt skills on the 9-hole mini-golf course. If your kid dreams of being a pirate, a monster truck driver, or a train conductor, leave time to play at the wooden playland. Why we love it: The farm welcomes selfies, family photos, dog photos (just bring a leash), and whatever other kind of photo you can imagine.

Lace Up Your Skates! Roller skating isn’t just a great way for kids to be active. It’s also a fun, inexpensive pastime the whole family can enjoy. So, spend some time at one of these roller rinks:

United Skates of America 1276 Hicksville Court, Seaford unitedskates.com 516-795-5474 Hours: See website for schedule Cost: $13.50; $5 skate rental; special events may have different pricing. This classic facility for roller skating also offers an arcade and a menu of pizza, hot dogs, and wings. Check the website for each daily public skate session and special offers.

TWA Roll-A-Rama TWA Hotel at John F. Kennedy Airport, 1 Idlewild Drive, Queens twahotel.com/runway-rink 212-806-9000 Hours: Friday, 4-8pm; Saturday-Sunday, 12-8pm Cost: $20; $16 children younger than 12 The TWA Hotel’s rink is located on the tarmac and promises plenty of retro fun. Tickets are sold on a first-come, firstserved basis. Don’t forget to check the website to see if the rink is closed for a private event before heading out!

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Setting Nanny Up for Success

7 tips to ensure you and your new caregiver are on the same page Courtesy Mommybites.com

police departments. Have the contact list available as soon as the nanny starts and post a few around the house. There’s no reason for a nanny not to call for support if needed if the list is handy.

PROVIDE EMERGENCY MEDICAL INFO

Be sure to write a letter authorizing a nanny to bring a child to the doctor or hospital if needed. And provide your nanny with a copy of the child’s insurance information. It’s good to do that ahead of time so it’s there when they need it.

ongrats! You’ve found the perfect person to care for your children. Now what? Aside from the necessary paperwork for household employees, there are things you’ll want to do to ensure your new nanny is set up for success. Michelle Brown, who has been in the NYC child-care industry for almost 15 years, shares seven helpful tips to ensure you and your new nanny are on the same page from the start of the relationship.

GET YOUR NANNY THE TRAINING THEY NEED

Look into the trainings that are available for nannies. Decide which ones would be most important for your children’s needs—CPR, swimming safety (if around a pool), first aid, food allergy, administering medication. It’s always good if parents pay for the training so it doesn’t have to come out of the nanny’s pocket. Remember: The training is for your child’s benefit.

CREATE AN EMERGENCY CONTACT LIST

Include the parents’ phone numbers, work information, and information for other relatives and/ or good friends who live locally and could be contacted in case of an emergency. Include your pediatrician’s phone number, other specialists (if applicable), and ambulance, fire, and

MAKE YOUR PREFERENCES CLEAR

It’s helpful when families make their preferences clear from the start. For example, some families are okay if their nanny sits down when the child sleeps, while others would prefer that the nanny do light housekeeping. Some families provide lunch for their nanny while others prefer that the nanny help themselves to what they can find in the fridge. Talk to your nanny at the beginning so you can be on the same page.

MAKE SCHEDULING NEEDS CLEAR

It’s best when parents are very honest and vocal. If your nanny will be caring for an infant, provide a set schedule they should follow. And if your nanny is caring for an older child, make sure to outline any programs, lessons, playdates, etc. your child might have.

MAKE FOOD LIMITATIONS KNOWN

Train your nanny on what your child should and should not eat. It’s best to test any new foods with your child when you are with them. After all, it’s not ideal to have your child try a new food with the nanny and then they have an allergic reaction.

IT’S YOUR HOUSE AND YOUR RULES

Nannies should make sure they and the kids follow the household rules set by the parents. But if a nanny sees something that is not working, they should tell the parents. For example, if there’s a switch that could be dangerous and needs child proofing. When your nanny warns you about something or suggests a change, please be receptive.

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feel you. I also have two kids, ages 10 and 5, and they generate an almost supernatural amount of dirty clothes. At the risk of sounding like a bad parent, my kids aren’t even particularly active. They prefer to play video games, read books, and build LEGO sets to going outside. My 5-year-old is downright dainty! The dude won’t eat Doritos lest his fingers get yucky, let alone go in the backyard and dig. And yet, somehow, he still needs three outfit changes a day! This was one of the hidden perks of quarantine. We all mostly sat around in our pjs and had a lot less laundry. No, my kids didn’t get to see their grandparents, but I wasn’t spending my nights halfwatching Tiger King because I had 800 pairs of socks to match up. We live in Brooklyn, and despite our (small) backyard, we don’t have a ton of space. My wife and I share a closet and a dresser, and we manage—mostly because neither of us has bought new clothes in a 1½ years. Meanwhile, my kids have continued to accrue new outfits. It’s like they’re feeding their clothes after midnight. Among them, they have countless superhero shirts, 11 pairs of jeans (and every pair inexplicably has holes in both knees even though we bought them last week), multiple bathing suits, and tons of hand-me-downs from other families who actually buy namebrand clothes for their kids. As a result, my 5-year-old has more hip outfits than I do. It’s almost like he’s the Cher of Brooklyn, switching into a new outfit as he goes from “I Got You Babe” to “Believe.” Despite your claim that you aren’t looking for advice—and the fact that we are in the exact same boat, so I have none to give—this is an advice column. I feel obligated to offer some sort of solution. So here you go: If you want to have less laundry, have fewer kids! I know, that’s not funny. But I honestly can’t think of any other way for parents to lessen the laundry load. Maybe just buy a set of potato sacks that can be re-worn and tossed out instead of folded. Which reminds me: No, I will not do your folding for you. It’s the worst part! Our advice column features the wise and humorous commentary of Mike Julianelle (aka @DadandBuried), a 40-something influencer with a popular podcast who lives in Brooklyn with his wife and two kids.

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Extracurricular Activitiesfrom A to Z

Find activities that are right for your child by exploring our comprehensive list. By Stacey Feintuch

xtracurricular activities are important for kids. They help younger ones explore their interests, talents, and passions as they build teamwork and problem-solving skills. Plus, taking part is a way to make new friends, and build upon existing friendships. For the older set, extracurricular activities can be interesting (and good to have for college applications!). It can be overwhelming to choose one or two activities, especially if your child is unsure how they like to spend their time. Below are tons of ideas to inspire you and your child to take advantage of free hours after school. See if your child has tried something that’s on the list or if something new is appealing.

AFFINITY GROUPS These groups allow kids to meet with others whose identity is just like theirs. Groups are out there for those who identify as LGBTQ+, persons of color, or certain ethnicities like Greek or Irish. These groups can provide a safe space for your child and provide service activities.

MEDIA For kids who love communication, media-oriented activities might be up their alley. They may want to join a group focused on print media, websites, or broadcasting. Exploring these areas can help them learn new technology, and create and build a portfolio for college applications and jobs. • • • •

School or local film projects School or local magazine/journal School or local newspaper School literary publication

MUSIC For the musically inclined, opportunities like playing an instrument or singing in school or in the community can nurture their talents.

• Chorus/choir at school, in the community, or with a religious organization • Chamber music group • Concert band • Ensembles • Instrument lessons • Jazz band • Marching band • Orchestra • Singing lessons • Start their own band

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School or local radio station School or local television channel School or local website Yearbook committee

PERFORMING ARTS If you have an aspiring thespian in the house, performing arts may be a good fit. They can try out for plays, or if they prefer to stay out of the spotlight, work behind the scenes making costumes or building sets.

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Comedy club Choreography Film club Miming Puppetry Theater group at school or in community

POLITICAL INTEREST AND SPEECH Some clubs and teams are intellectual. Kids who like to

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keep up with current events might like debate or political clubs. Student council may be a good choice for those interested in weighing in on school decisions that impact them.

Kids can participate in sports teams at school, through your town, or join travel club teams. They can start as early as toddler and preschool years and play in middle school or high school.

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Debate club Foreign affairs club Forensics team Mock trial club Model Congress club Model United Nations Political affiliation club Student government/council

SPECIAL INTERESTS If you and your child can’t find a club for their interests, help your child start one or join a group online.

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Boy Scouts Chess club Entrepreneurship club Future Business Leaders of America (FBLA) Girl Scouts Horticulture Model railroads Quilt making

STEAM PROGRAMS If your home is filled with LEGO creations, STEAM programs may be a good fit. These activities are based in science, technology, engineering, art, and math.

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Coding Engineering club Math club Robotics Video game development

• Baseball and softball • Basketball • Bodybuilding • Cheerleading • Climbing • Cycling • Dance • Fencing • Football • Golf • Gymnastics • Horseback riding • Hiking • Hockey • Ice-skating • Lacrosse • Martial arts • Ping-pong • Skateboarding • Skiing • Soccer • Swimming • Tennis • Track and field • Volleyball • Water polo • Yoga

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After-School Programs DIRECTORY Advanced Academic Programs

55 Northern Blvd., Greenvale 516-484-1789 advancedacademicprograms.com info@roslynacademicprograms.com We offer enrichment programs for school-age children in mathematics, physics, chemistry, robotics, programming, engineering, languages, music, and art. We also offer Standardized Test (ACT, SAT) and Subject Test Preparation for high school students. We teach children to master new skills, quickly and easily, in problem solving, engineering, coding, and design.

Further Music School

1180 Northern Blvd., Suite C1, Manhasset 516-743-3544 110-06 72nd Ave., Suite MD2, Forest Hills, Queens 718-544-8886 furthermusic.com info@furthermusic.com Founded in 2007, Further Music School is one of the largest and well-recognized music schools in New York, with more than 5,000 students currently enrolled. Our locations in Queens, Long Island, and Manhattan, provide music lessons in piano, violin, guitar, and vocal to all ages and levels.

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Hofstra University, Hempstead 516-463-6535 hofstra.edu/saltzman-center Hofstra University’s Reading/Writing Learning Clinic provides literacy support to children and youth in a safe and supportive environment. New York state-certified teachers incorporate students’ experiences with literacy in innovative ways to help them develop their strengths as readers and writers. Individual or small group instruction available. Remote options also available.

171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-558-2266 soccershots.com/longislandwest liwest@soccershots.com Soccer Shots is the premier intro to soccer program in the United States and Canada. Our caring team positively impacts children’s lives through best-inclass coaching, communication, and curriculum. Our expert-approved curriculum is age-appropriate and aligns with New York State’s early childhood education standards. Visit us at soccershots.com/liwest.

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1000 Shames Drive, Westbury 516-333-6300 lsperformingarts.com Our mission is to help children and young adults learn and grow while doing what they love and participating in various genres of dance and performing arts. Regardless of whether you are new to dance or a seasoned competitor, you will feel at home at LSPA.

Music Institute of Long Island

90 Plandome Road, Manhasset 516-627-7052 milimusic.com miligirls@gmail.com Celebrating our 31st year, consistently voted No. 1 Best Music School on Long Island and the North Shore. Programs include violin, viola, cello, guitar, piano, voice, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, and tuba. Instructions in Traditional, Suzuki, and ABRSM methods for ages 3-99, beginner-college level. Now offering chess class!

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WHEN: Through Sept. 4: Tuesday-Sunday, 1:30pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy this musical adventure, ripped from the pages of Mo Willems’ beloved, and award-winning children’s books about Gerald the elephant and Piggie. WANT TO GO? $14 museum admission, plus $9 ticket or $12 theater ticket only. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

WHEN: Sept. 11-19, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Garden of Eve Farm’s most famous festival, with 25 vendors featuring a wide variety of garlic inspired foods, crafts, music, and just plain organic garlic to eat and plant, Garlic Eating Contest, and more. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Long Island Fair WHEN: Sept. 3-5, Friday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Traditional country fair of civil war era, featuring harvest events and activities, brass band, concerts, pony rides, magic, and puppet shows. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 seniors ages 60 and older; $10 ages 5-12. 516-572-8409. lifair.org.

25th Annual Community Mosaic Street Painting Festival FREE WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 5, 12-5pm WHERE: East End Arts Gallery, 133 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Join all the artists, musicians, and lovers of the arts for this day-long celebration of the arts with activities and entertainment. WANT TO GO? 631-727-0900 x303. eastendarts.org.

Pumpkin Harvest WHEN: Sept. 25-26, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Harbes Family Farm, 715 Sound Ave., GPS: 25 Sound Ave., Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: Pick your own pumpkins, listen to live music, and more! WANT TO GO? Free admission to the farm; $21.95 admission to Barnyard Adventure. 631-298-0800. harbesfamilyfarm.com.

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“Jurassic Park” Outdoor Movie Night WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 25, 5:30-9pm; film begins at 6:45pm WHERE: Science Museum of Long Island, 1526 N. Plandome Road, Manhasset AGES: All WHAT: Spend a dino-themed evening with activities, food trucks, and screening of Jurassic Park. WANT TO GO? $15 children; $10 adults; $5 members. 516-6279400. smli.org.

St. Marks Egyptian Festival WHEN: Sept. 17-26, Friday, 6-9pm; Saturday, 12-9pm; Sunday, 12-6pm WHERE: St. Marks Coptic Church, 90 Woodbury Road, Woodbury AGES: All WHAT: Explore a variety of interactive cultural displays as well as traditional live Egyptian entertainment. WANT TO GO? Admission is free. 516-367-1328. facebook.com/ SMCEgyptianFestivalLI.

Fall Festival WHEN: Sept. 18-Oct. 24, Saturday-Sunday and Columbus Day, 10am-6pm; last admission at 4pm

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WHERE: White Post Farms, 250 Old Country Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy unlimited hayrides, hay activity, family shows, and more! WANT TO GO? $32.95. 631-351-9373. whitepostfarms.com.

Bellmore Family Street Festival WHEN: Sept. 23-26, Thursday, 6-10pm; Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 10am-11pm; Sunday, 10am-9pm WHERE: Chamber of Commerce of the Bellmores, 2700 Pettit Ave., Bellmore AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family out for live music, carnival rides, and more! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; additional fee for carnival rides. 516-809-5892. bellmorechamber.com.

Draw Out! Arts Festival FREE WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 26, 12-5pm WHERE: Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a broad array of activities designed for all ages, including watercolor painting and collage. WANT TO GO? 631-351-3250. heckscher.org.

The Discovery Pontoon Cruise WHEN: Through Oct. 27: daily departure times depend on tide WHERE: Ward Melville Heritage Organization, 51 Shore Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Cruise through beautiful West Meadow Creek, where a naturalist will explain and highlight the wildlife along the 88-acre wetlands preserve and narrate the natural and human history of the area! WANT TO GO? $35; $25 children ages 3-6; $5 children ages 2 and younger when purchased in advance. 631-751-2244. wmho.org.

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WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 4, 11am-12pm WHERE: Sweetbriar Nature Center, 62 Eckernkamp Drive, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Learn about birds of prey and their incredible ability to adapt in the wild. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children younger than 12. 631-979-6344. sweetbriarnc.org.

WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 4, 9am-12pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park between Gillette and Candee Avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: Spend the day surrounded by nature and help maintain the gardens of The Common Ground. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

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WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 26, 3pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, Jeanne Rimsky Theater, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Traditional Paraguayan dance ensemble includes the traditional bottle dance and other pieces. WANT TO GO? 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

WHEN: Sunday, Sept. 12, 11am-4pm WHERE: Main Street, Port Washington Boulevard to Mackey Avenue, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Visit craft vendors, stop for a bite to eat, and enjoy live entertainment, art activities, and more! WANT TO GO? 516-883-6566. pwcoc.org.

13th Annual Westhampton Beach Festival of the Arts FREE WHEN: Sept. 4-5, Saturday, 10am-6pm; Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: The Great Lawn, 35 Main St., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy an outdoor gallery of original handmade art by artisans from across American in painting, jewelry, photography, mixed-media, sculpture and more. WANT TO GO? eventbrite.com/e/13th-annual-westhampton-beach-festival-of-the-arts-tickets-164203636497.

Taste the World Food Festival WHEN: Sept. 3-6, Friday, 3-9pm; Saturday-Monday, 11am-8pm WHERE: Tanger Outlets Deer Park, 152 The Arches Circle, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: Whether it’s the food, live music, beer and wine lounge, local artist tent, virtual reality experience, rock wall, or kids’ section, there is something for everyone! WANT TO GO? $6; free admission for children 10 and younger. Discount available for multiple day entry. 631-242-0239. tangeroutlet.com/deerpark.

High Holidays 5782 WHEN: Sept. 6, 7pm; Sept. 7-8, 9am; Sept. 15, 6:44pm; and Sept. 16, 9am WHERE: Melville & Huntington Chabad Center, 498 Sweet Hollow Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Holiday prayers, conducted with Hebrew/English prayer-books, are lively, engaging, and inclusive. 22

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WANT TO GO? $100 suggested donation. 631-827-6599. melvillechabad.com.

The Great Pine Railway WHEN: Through Sept. 6: Monday, Wednesday-Friday, 11am6pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: See the new G-gauge railroad display, featuring exquisite model trains chugging along a landscaped backdrop. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $14; $12 ages 62 and older and students; $8 ages 7-17. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

East Northport Craft & Gift Festival FREE WHEN: Sept. 10-12, Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 11am-11pm; Sunday, 11am-6pm WHERE: John Walsh Memorial Park, Larkfield Road, East Northport AGES: All WHAT: This event highlights the best of East Northport featuring games and rides, live music, food, sidewalk sales, costumed characters, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-261-3573. eastnorthport.com.

Disney’s “Newsies” WHEN: Through Sept. 11: See website for schedule WHERE: The Gateway, 215 South Country Road, Bellport AGES: All

WHAT: “Seize the Day” and see the stage version of Newsies. WANT TO GO? $24.50-$74. 631-286-0555. thegateway.org.

Guided Nature Walks WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 11, 10-11am WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Explore different aspects of the preserve’s environment, encompassing its unique physical features and wildlife, as well as critical conservation issues and helpful practices to create a healthy, sustainable environment WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members; $5 children; free for child members. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserveconservancy.org.

Dockside Family Festival WHEN: Sept. 11-12, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: Capyree State Park, Ocean Parkway, Babylon AGES: All WHAT: Come out for live music, magic show, pony rides, children’s games, rides on the Moonchaser, food and craft vendors, and educational displays. WANT TO GO? $8 parking. 631-321-2510. parks.ny.gov.

2021 Maritime Festival FREE WHEN: Sept. 18-19, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Greenport Village, begins at 103 3rd St., Greenpoint AGES: All WHAT: With parades, cruises, kayak races, kids’ activities withtreasure chest, DJ, food, and so much more, it’s an event you won’t want to miss! WANT TO GO? 631-477-2100. eastendseaport.org.

Wildwood Fall Festival FREE WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 25, 11am-4pm WHERE: Wildwood State Park, 790 Hulse Landing Road, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: Check out local craft vendors and free activities which include family entertainment, inflatables (weather permitting), and much more! WANT TO GO? 631-929-4314. parks.ny.gov/events/ event.aspx?e=68-30252.0.

Outdoor Adventure with Ranger Eric WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 25, 10-11:30am WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Ranger Eric will lead visitors of all ages on an exploratory walk across the preserve’s grounds. WANT TO GO? $16; $6 per child; $12 members; $2 members per child. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserveconservancy.org.

Raptor Day WHEN: Saturday, Sept. 25, 11am-1pm, 1-3pm, and 3-5pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: Get up close and personal with raptors that can no longer be released into the wild, make crafts, enjoy face painting, and more. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 members; kids free with $7 general admission. 631-854-5579. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Longwood Fair WHEN: Sept. 25-26, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Longwood Estate, Longwood and Smith roads, Ridge AGES: All WHAT: With children’s activities, pet shows, historical re-enactments, live music, and more, there will be something for everyone! WANT TO GO? $5; free for children 12 and younger. 631-9241820. brookhavenny.gov.

Grist Mill Tours & Country Store WHEN: Through Oct. 24: Sundays, 1-4:30pm WHERE: The Stony Brook Grist Mill, 100 Harbor Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Take a tour of Long Island’s most complete working mill and learn about its role in the community over the past 300 years. WANT TO GO? $3; $2 children. 631-751-2244. wmho.org.

Arts in The Plaza FREE WHEN: Through Oct. 30: Saturdays, 10am-3pm WHERE: Kennedy Plaza, 1 W. Chester St., Long Beach AGES: All WHAT: Visit Arts in the Plaza for handcrafted art by Long Island artists, live music, and cultural performances. WANT TO GO? 516-507-8383. artsintheplaza.com.

Annual Apple Harvest WHEN: Sept. 11-12, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm WHERE: Harbes Orchard, 5698 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Pick apples, make your way through a corn maze, and enjoy music, pumpkin picking, and more! WANT TO GO? Prices TBA. 631-298-0800. harbesfamilyfarm.com.

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Elementary-Age Kids “Spookley The Square Pumpkin: The Musical” WHEN: Sept. 25-Oct. 31, see website for schedule WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts at the Smithtown Historical Society, 239 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Watch as Spookley helps all the pumpkins in the patch learn that the things that make you different make you special. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

Disney’s “Beauty & the Beast Jr.” WHEN: Sept. 25-Oct. 31, Saturday, 11am; Sunday, 10:30am WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: See the story of Bell and Beast live on stage. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

Family Yoga in the Garden at Planting Fields WHEN: Sept. 4 and 18, 11am-12pm WHERE: Planting Fields Foundation, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: 3-10 WHAT: Spend your morning at Planting Fields and introduce your children to yoga through an enriching and fun practice that all will enjoy. WANT TO GO? $20 per adult-child pair; $12 per member adultchild pair. 516-922-8666. plantingfields.org.

Swim with Mermaids WHEN: Through Sept. 6: Thursday, Friday, and Monday, 10:30am, 11:45am, 1:30pm, and 2:45pm; Sunday, 10:30am, 11:45am, 1:30pm, 2:45pm, and 4pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Your little one will be delighted to swim with a real, live mermaid, as she navigates the Shark Reef Lagoon. WANT TO GO? $45; $40.50 for members. 631-208-9200 x426. longislandaquarium.com.

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Younger Kids

Construction Zone FREE WHEN: Tuesday, Sept. 7, 4-4:45pm WHERE: Patchogue-Medford Library, 54-60 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 2½-5 WHAT: Build with blocks, use special tool kits, and hear a story at this fun building program. WANT TO GO? 631-654-4700. pmlib.org.

Fitness Friday WHEN: Through Sept. 3: Friday, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City

Kindness Rocks WHEN: Wednesday, Sept. 8, 11am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Create a kindness rock in honor of the 20th anniversary of 9/11 with a message promoting peace in our world for LICM’s Peace Garden. WANT TO GO? Free with $14 museum admission. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Explore creative ways to move your body to stay fit and healthy. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $14; free for members. 516224-5800. licm.org.

“Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! The Musical!” WHEN: Aug. 28-Sept. 17, see website for schedule WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts at the Smithtown Historical Society, 239 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Whatever you do, don’t let the Pigeon star in his own musical production! With a script written by Mo Willems, the creator of the No. 1 New York Times best-selling, Caldecott Honor award-winning Pigeon picture books, and featuring music by Deborah Wicks La Puma (Elephant & Piggie’s We Are in a Play!), Don’t

Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! The Musical! is even more fun than staying up late and having a hot dog party! It’s not easy being the Pigeon—you never get to do anything! But when the Bus Driver has a crisis that threatens to make her passengers (gasp!) late, maybe that wily bird can do something. This outdoor performance will take place at the Smithtown Historical Society. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

Play Time, Learn Time FREE WHEN: Sept. 27-Nov. 18, Monday and Thursday, 2-3pm WHERE: Suffolk County Farm, 350 Yaphank Ave., Yaphank AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bring your little ones to discover an outdoor space that allows for messy play, building, and interactive art exploration as well as a music and movement area. WANT TO GO? 631-852-4610. ccesuffolk.org.

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Let’s Go Apple Picking! These are the top spots to pick your own apples in our area. By Alison Leighton

hen September rolls around, I get excited about one big thing (no, not back-to-school season…): apple picking season! The fall brings us cute boots and sweaters, preparing to cozy up by a fire, and pick-your-own apples! I also think a trip to the farm isn’t complete without a cup of delicious apple cider, followed by homemade treats (I’m looking at you, apple cider doughnuts!) to show the fruits of our labor (ha!). If you’re ready for apples galore, then check out these farms on Long Island, plus two great options in New Jersey that make great day trips. Your family will have a blast picking fresh fruit and checking out the various activities offered at each place, such as petting zoos, corn mazes, or sunflower picking. A few things to keep in mind: Opening seasons are approximate as of the writing of this article since crops are based on weather conditions. Always check the farm’s website or call ahead to confirm availability and COVID-19 guidelines given the ever-changing conditions. And don’t forget proper footwear as fields can be muddy or have uneven ground. Most farms don’t allow pets or picnicking (or any outside food, for that matter).

LONG ISLAND Hayden’s Peach Orchard 561 Hulse Landing Road, Wading River haydenspeachorchard.com • 631-929-1115 Hours: Monday, 9am-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm. Apple picking season is slated to begin late August/early Septem26

ber, call before visiting to confirm. Cost: $20 fee covers 3 people and the first 10lbs; $2 per additional pound At this orchard, you can pick your own nectarines through late September, peaches through the end of September, and apples through late October. The orchard also has plenty of pre-picked fruits avail-

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able at the farm stand. Visit the website for updates or call for fruit availability.

Lewin Farms 812 Sound Ave., Calverton Apple Orchard: Fresh Pond Avenue, approximately 2 miles east of farm stand lewinfarm.com • 631-929-4327

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Hours: Farm stand: Wednesday-Monday, 9am-5pm; u-pick: daily, 9am-4:30pm; call each day for u-pick availability Cost: Call for u-pick prices. Keep in mind: U-pick fields are cash only; there is an ATM located at the farm stand. Apple picking is slated to begin in late August/early September and may not be available every day. Call daily for U-pick hours, which are weather permitting. The farm provides containers, but you are welcome to bring your own. There is a large variety of you-pick fruits and veggies, depending on the season, including berries, apples, tomatoes, peppers, cucumbers, and pumpkins. Find the u-pick schedule online. Plus, the whole family will enjoy exploring the corn maze! Don’t forget to stop by the farm stand, which sells fresh fruits and veggies, many of which are grown on the farm, and delicious ice cream with the farms own fruit inside!

Milk Pail Fresh Market Market: 1346 Montauk Highway, Watermill U-Pick: 50 Horsemill Lane, Watermill milk-pail.com • 631-537-2565 Hours: Market: year-round, Monday and Wednesday-Saturday, 9:30am-5:30pm; Sunday, 10am-5:30pm. U-pick: Labor Day weekend through October: Friday-Sunday, 10am- 5:30 Cost: $14-$51.45 depending on container size; a bag must be purchased to enter u-pick farm. Pumpkins, gourds, and squash are sold by the piece. Apple and pumpkin picking are this farm’s specialty. The farm has more than 20 varieties of apples during picking season—all ideal for adding lots of flavors to your homemade pie! Plus, there are dwarf trees, which are the perfect height for younger kids to pick apples on their own. And when you’re finished picking, treat yourself to coffee, hot cider, and baked goods at the farm stand.

Wickham’s Fruit Farms 28700 Main Road, Cutchogue wickhamsfruitfarm.com • 631-734-6441 Hours: PYO: Monday-Saturday 10am3pm; Retail Farmstand: Monday-Saturday, 9am-5pm

Cost: Call to confirm pricing Picking fruit here is like making your mark on history: Wickham’s fruit is grown on some of the oldest continually cultivated land in the country! Much of the farm dates from 1661 and a large portion of it has been placed in Suffolk County’s Farmland Preservation programs. Apple picking is estimated to start in late September or early October, and the farm asks that you call ahead to confirm availability. Note: You can only use the containers the farm provides; personal bags, plastics, etc. are prohibited. Wagon rides are available on Saturdays during the apple-picking season; it’s a great way to get to the orchards but also to view the farm! When you’re done picking, try the delicious apple cider, which is pressed from the oldest cider press on Long Island (built in 1902!), and some homemade apple cider doughnuts.

BERGEN COUNTY, NJ Demarest Farms 244 Wierimus Road, Hillsdale demarestfarms.com 201-666-0472 Hours: PYO apples begins Sept. 4; Thursday-Monday, 8am5pm Cost: $7 ages 2 and older, includes free parking and entrance to orchard; $14 for a bag to hold the apples you pick (approximately 1012 lbs.) This farm has it all—pick your own fruit of all varieties, plus a petting zoo, drive-in movie nights, Halloween lights, and more. When you’re done picking, check out the farm store with a bakery, apple cider, flowers, and fresh produce. All pick-your-own activities require advanced, online reservations this year (this allows the farm to manage proper social distancing and COVID-19 regulations). Visits will be limited to your reservation time frame, so arrive promptly at your

scheduled time; late arrivals must still leave at the end of the reservation time frame.

MORRIS COUNTY, NJ Alstede Farms 1 Alstede Farms Lane, Chester alstedefarms.com • 908-879-7189 Hours: Farm Store: daily, 9am-7pm; PYO: daily, 9am-6pm Cost: $14.99-$59.99, depending on how much produce you want to pick. Pre-purchased tickets required. Ticket includes access to pick-your-own areas, a container, the cost of the produce to fill said container, scenic hay wagon rides around the farm, and access to the hay pyramid and mazes. The farm has more than 50 different apple varieties, which allows apple picking season to start earlier here than most farms—you can already find some varieties available and more will be ready later in the season. Call in advance or visit the “What Can I Pick Today” portion of the farm’s website to confirm which varieties are ripe. Check out the corn maze (opening late summer), evergreen maze, and sunflower trail (included with cost of PYO). For an additional cost, you can also cut your own sunflowers! Kids will love the pony rides and the tractor-pulled wagon ride, and you’ll want to come back for the farm’s live music events. It also offers U-Pick for myriad other fruits and veggies, such as blackberries, peaches, blueberries, tomatoes, and eggplants! And before you leave, indulge in the treats found at the Farm Store with homemade ice cream, fudge, apple cider doughnuts, and other desserts. Check out all the fun events and family activities the farm offers, including visits with its farm animals, by visiting the website. Oh, and if you’re coming from out of town, it offers a free shuttle service between the Gladstone Train Station and Alstede Farms on weekends and holidays (reservations required).

Alison Leighton is a freelance writer and marketing specialist and is the founder of Social Parent NYC—@SocialParentNYC on Facebook and Instagram—which hosts events for parents and their babies/toddlers. She lives in Westchester County with her husband and son and spends a lot of time reading Corduroy and wondering why Play-Doh smells so good.

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LUNCHES Your kids will love these healthy bento box ideas!

Compiled by Liz Winchester; all recipes and photographs courtesy Catherine McCord, Weelicious

t’s easy to get in a rut when packing lunchboxes day in and day out. Start the year off creatively with these fun bento box lunch ideas from Catherine McCord, the founder of Weelicious.com. The popular cooking site gives parents ideas about how to encourage kids to enjoy a variety of healthy foods and dishes. A bento box holds a meal for one person. The box has several compartments that store different foods. Bento boxes are available on Amazon.com (what isn’t?), in the Weelicious store. “Bento boxes are an excellent option for kids to bring to school for lunch because they give them the option to make their own choices,” McCord says. “I always let my kids help with packing their lunch, and we make sure to fill each section completely to keep things from moving around during the trip to school. My family and I love that bento boxes are environmentally friendly and easy to clean too!” You may have many of these recipe ingredients in your box of tricks (ie. your fridge!) already. Here are a few ways to use them:

APPLE CHEESE WRAPS Serves 4

Ingredients • 1 granny smith apple • 1 slice lemon • 2 slices cheddar cheese, cut in half • 2 slices deli turkey or ham, cut in half Preparation 1. Slice the apple into ½-inch-thick slices. Rub the apple with the lemon wedge to prevent it from going brown. 2. Slice the cheese into ½-inch-wide slices and the ham/turkey in half or in quarters (it needs to be large enough to wrap around the apple). 3. Place an apple slice and a cheese slice on top of the deli meat and fold over deli meat to wrap.

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Ingredients • 2 bananas, peeled • ¼ cup peanut butter, divided (you could also use almond or sunflower butter) • 2 tortillas

Ingredients • favorite sandwich bread • peanut butter + jelly • whipped cream cheese + pesto • shredded carrots + hummus • whipped cream cheese + tapenade • whipped cream cheese + ground cinnamon

Preparation

1. Place one tortilla on a flat surface and spread 2 Tbsp. of peanut butter on the tortilla to evenly coat. 2. Place one banana near the edge of the tortilla and roll it up. 3. Repeat steps 1 and 2 with the second tortilla and banana. 4. Slice into ½-inch rounds and serve. Tip: If your tortilla is stiff, you can put it in the microwave in between two pieces of moist paper towel and heat for 15-20 seconds or until softened.

1. Using a rolling pin, roll out the sandwich bread to get it as thin as you can. 2. Spread the piece of bread with your chosen fillings (our favorite combos are listed above). Use the thicker or stickier filling first and then top with the thinner filling. 3. Roll the bread up tightly and press on the seam to seal. 4. Cut into sushi pieces.

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½ cup mascarpone or cream cheese 2 tsp. honey 4 Tbsp. butter, room temperature 8 slices cinnamon raisin bread, sliced from a dense bakery loaf 1 granny smith or other firm apple, cored and thinly sliced 2 Tbsp. light brown sugar A panini press

Preparation 1. In a small bowl with a whisk, or in a mini food processor, whip the mascarpone and honey together until well combined and fluffy. 2. Heat the panini press to medium-high heat. 3. For each sandwich: Spread butter on two slices of bread, flip over, and spread 1 Tbsp. of the mascarpone mixture on each slice, top one slice of bread with apple slices, and close the sandwich with the other piece of bread, buttered side up. 4. Sprinkle brown sugar on top. 5. Grill two panini at a time, with the lid closed, until the filling is warm and the bread is toasted, with a sweet crust, about 3-5 minutes. LongIslandParent 31 LongIsland

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Handling Back-to-School Anxieties Returning to the classroom can trigger an array of emotions in kids. Here’s how to tackle a few common scenarios head on. By Stacey Feintuch

ike it or not, it’s time to say goodbye to the carefree days of summer and say hello to a new school year. Back-to-school stress impacts children of all ages: Younger kids may experience separation anxiety, while older ones may be stressed about increased academic pressure and college applications. During times of transition, anxiety is normal, but it’s usually manageable. Deal with back-toschool stress as a family to help your kids start the school year off right.

CHANGING SCHOOLS Your child once ruled middle school but now they’re at the bottom of the pack as a first-year high school student. Or maybe your child is moving from a day care they’ve known for years. Changing schools can be an adjustment, but you can take measures to ease the transition.

Moving to a new town is hard enough let alone being the new kid in the classroom. Fortunately, starting school at the beginning of the year should help since everyone is in a new situation. Discuss information about the routine. Kids often worry about the little aspects of school. They wonder who will take them to school and pick them up. Or they’re uncertain where to go once they get to school. They may question what they’ll be eating for lunch. Review the school routine with them to ease their minds. Validate their feelings. It’s important for parents to stay positive. If a child is nervous, that’s okay. Say, “I’m so proud of you for going to school.”

Take a visit. Consider visiting the school in advance. Familiarizing kids with the environment can help them feel more comfortable. If possible, attend an orientation or open house, pointing out their classrooms, restrooms, water fountains, and other important places. You may even visit the school’s playground to show what recess will look like.

Share your stories. You were the new kid once, too. Discuss those memories and experiences with your children. Talk about friends you made or a favorite teacher, always staying upbeat and optimistic. And discuss positive aspects of your children’s school, like an amazing playground or extensive library.

Get organized together. Purchase and label supplies. Make sure you’ve submitted all required health and emergency contact forms. Stock your refrigerator with meals and snacks for the first week (check out p. 30 for some fun ideas!). Choose a first-day-of-school outfit, backpack, and lunchbox to get kids more excited about going back. The more organized and prepared you are, the calmer and less stressed you’ll all feel.

Be on time. Don’t stress out your children by running late on day one. Get as much as possible ready the night before, laying out clothing, backpacks, and lunchboxes so everything is set. And allow enough time in the morning to get ready—and take some first day of school pictures!—so you don’t have to rush out the door.

Read about it. A story about school can help ease the jitters. Talk to your local librarian about the right book for your child. Read the tale together and ask your child to share any concerns. Set the tone. Kids pick up on your feelings. That means if you’re nervous, sad, or worried, your kids will likely feel the same. Try not to ask leading questions (“Are you nervous about going back to school?”), which can indicate to your child that there really is something to worry about. Be happy and smile in front of your kids. Save the tears for when you’re alone.

BEING THE NEW KID

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Emphasize that they’re not alone. Remind your kids that they’re not the only new ones at school. Even some teachers are new. Tell them that the teacher is aware of nerves and will do their best to make kids feel more comfortable.

WORKLOAD STRESS For those who spent months out of traditional in-person school due to the pandemic, returning to the classroom may feel scary. They may worry and wonder if they have the skills to get the job done after sitting behind a computer for so long.

Create a homework routine. Predictability and structure reduce stress in kids and reinforce good habits, particularly when it comes to tackling schoolwork. Create a designated homework space in the house away from the chaos. Let the kids decorate and stock the space to make it feel like their special spot. Hit the hay early. No more staying up late catching fireflies or playing video games. Kids need to go to sleep early enough so they’re well-rested for school. Get them into their school bedtime routine a week or two before school starts so they’re back on track before day one. Hire a tutor. If you sense they’re anxious about a particular subject, like math or reading, consider hiring a tutor. A tutor can get them back on track academically and help boost their confidence in the classroom.

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time to chat is before lights out. They often open up and feel comfortable and safe right before bed. It’s when they’re getting 1-on-1 attention and feel relaxed. Be present. Aim to be there for your child right before school starts and during the first few days back to help them feel more secure. If you can’t be there, ask a friend or family member to take on this role for you. Plan something special. Give them something to look forward to—like a trip for an ice cream cone or a visit to a favorite playground. That way they’ll anticipate a fun activity. You can even make it an annual tradition. Emphasize safety measures. We can’t promise our kids that we won’t get sick, but we can express confidence in public health efforts, and that schools have done months of planning to minimize risk and keep everyone safe.

Many kids haven’t had in-person schooling for a full day since March 2020. Perhaps their school had a remote, hybrid, or halfday model. Going to school full time can seem foreign.

Encourage ﬂexibility. We don’t know how “normal” most kids’ schools will be, and plans may be changing up to the last minute. Let your child know the whole family will have to be flexible.

Establish open communication. Let your child know that you’re always available to talk about anything and everything. A good

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Education DIRECTORY Buckley Country Day School

2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com Buckley Country Day School is an independent, coeducational day school providing a superior elementary education to an intellectually capable and diverse student body. Buckley provides the foundation that enables our students to achieve their full potential and excel as educated, ethical, and self-confident individuals. Our graduates are well prepared for secondary schools and beyond.

Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, Lower Level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School offers children, 18 months to 6 years, a well-balanced and enriched curriculum that includes traditional subjects, art, and music. It is located on an estate-like setting with an outdoor playground and nature walks. Classrooms are fully equipped and spacious.

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31 Yellow Cote Road, Oyster Bay 516-922-4400 eastwoods.org East Woods School is a private school for students in pre-nursery through eighth grade. We provide a supportive learning environment that is as nurturing as it is rigorous. Our students are happy, kind, and respectful leaders and they are prepared for their next journey after East Woods.

Everbrook Academy

Everbrook Academy of Glen Head 209 Glen Head Road, Glen Head Everbrook Academy of Smithtown 740 Route 347, Smithtown 866-222-0269 everbrookacademy.com Everbrook Academy is a 21st-century preschool, with a STEAM curriculum. We offer integrated, hands-on learning experiences. Our programs, for infants, toddlers, preschool, and pre-K students, ensure that children are ready for school—and life. Schedule an appointment at everbrookacademy.com to meet with our principal and enroll today.

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270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley 516-676-0393 fa.org At Friends Academy, we achieve educational excellence by committing to the highest standards of learning. Our welcoming community is strengthened by our Quaker values, empowering our students to inquire, reflect, and engage in their classrooms and the world. Our students learn and live with purpose to achieve greatness without sacrificing goodness.

Lawrence Woodmere Academy

336 Woodmere Blvd., Woodmere 516-374-9000 lawrencewoodmere.org admissions@lawrencewoodmere.org Lawrence Woodmere Academy (LWA) is a coeducational, non-religious, college preparatory school with a more than 100-year history of academic excellence. LWA comprises preschool through 12th-grade students. The school culture is marked by global perspective within a school community, with a mission distilled into three core values: truth, integrity, and service.

Little Sponges Child Learning Center

1000 Shames Drive, Westbury 516-595-7900 littlesponges.net At Little Sponges, we use a variety of age-appropriate activities and school district curriculums to help each individual child reach their potential. The program meets the changing needs of individual children by providing a safe and appropriate environment that is both challenging and stimulating.

Temple Sinai Early Childhood Center

425 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-8708 mysinai.org/ecc ldayan@mysinai.org Temple Sinai Early Childhood Center is a safe, supportive, and positive environment for play-based learning and exploration. Inspired by Jewish values, our curriculum fosters curiosity, confidence, and growth. Our team is dedicated to helping each child reach their greatest potential. Most importantly, our classrooms are filled with learning, laughter, and love.

The Hagedorn Little Village School, Jack Joel Center for Special Children

750 Hicksville Road, Seaford 516-520-6000 littlevillage.org jon.feingold@littlevillage.org The Hagedorn Little Village School is a nonprofit school highly regarded for providing outstanding educational and therapeutic services for children with a wide range of developmental disabilities. HLVS provides year-round programs and services, including diagnostic evaluations and treatment, early intervention, a preschool, an elementary school, SEIT, and related services.

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SHOPPING DESTINATIONS These outlets and malls in our area are one-stop shops for your kids’ back-to-school clothing and accessory needs. By Barbara Russo

he good news: Kids are going back to school in-person after more than a year of remote and hybrid learning. The not-so-good news? It’s time for kids to trade in those comfy sweatpants and pajamas for clothes that can cut it in the classroom. It may have been a while since you’ve done back-to-school shopping for the kids, but don’t worry- we made it easy for parents with our guide to local shopping malls and outlets on Long Island. Our list aims to make the shopping experience a fun and easy one. It has malls that offer lots of online deals and discounts to see in advance of your trip, personal shopping and concierge services, and food courts and restaurants when you need to take a break and refresh. Each destination has stores that sell clothes and accessories for kids of all ages. (But don’t forget to pick up a little something for yourself, too!)

Americana Manhasset 2060 Northern Blvd., Manhasset americanamanhasset.com 800-818-6767 Hours: Individual store hours may vary. Call the stores directly or check the website for more information. Located approximately 20 miles from Manhattan, this upscale shopping area features more than 60 luxury and con36

temporary shops. Notable fashion retailers that carry children’s lines include J. Crew, Brooks Brothers, and Ralph Lauren. The outlets have a Personal Shopping Suite, located within the storefront concierge, available by appointment only. The suite features an appointed reception area and lounge, and three spacious and private rooms. Shoppers can review clothing, accessories, and gift selections with expert personal shoppers.

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greenacresmallonline.com 516-561-1157 Hours: Monday-Saturday, 10am-9pm; Sunday, 11am-7pm Stores on-site include anchor Macy’s, Best Buy, Charlotte Russe, The Children’s Place, and Dick’s Sporting Goods. Visit the mall’s website for Kids Club, where kids learn through activity pages and craft videos. Also check the website before your visit for current and ongoing sales.

Roosevelt Field Mall 630 Old Country Road, Garden City simon.com/mall/roosevelt-field 516-742-8000 Hours: Monday-Thursday, 11am-8pm; Friday-Saturday, 10am-9pm; Sunday, 11am-7pm One of the largest shopping malls in the

country, Roosevelt Field has more than 200 stores, including The Children’s Place, JCPenney, H&M, and J.Crew. Take a break from shopping by choosing a restaurant from the mall’s extensive list that includes a variety of sit-down and grab-and-go dining options. Participating shops also recognize military discounts; see the website for a full list.

Sunrise Mall 1 Sunrise Mall, Massapequa sunrisemallny.com • 516-795-3551 Hours: Monday-Saturday, 11am-8pm; Sunday, 12-7pm This two-level mall has more than 50 retailers. Shops include Cohen’s Fashion Optical, Dick’s Sporting Goods, Kids Foot Locker, Claire’s, and Macy’s. And don’t forget to check the website to see what current sales are happening!

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What to Ask at Your Child’s Checkup Questions you’ll want to discuss with health care providers for newborns to teens By Stacey Feintuch

heckups at the pediatrician and dentist are crucial to ensuring that your child is healthy, hitting developmental milestones, and getting the proper vaccinations. These well visits are an ideal opportunity to pepper your doctor with questions about your child’s health. Since your time with your pediatrician and pediatric dentist is limited and precious, bring a list of what you want to ask on a notepad, smartphone, or tablet. This will ensure you won’t forget anything. List the most pressing questions at the top. That way, if you run out of time, at least you got the important questions answered first. Record answers so you can remember them later, too. Here are a few questions to ask at your child’s pediatric well visit, grouped by age.

• How do I get my child to stop sucking their thumb or using a pacifier? • When should my child’s baby teeth come in? When should they start to fall out?

AGES 1-4 • When and how do I wean off bottles? • What should I be doing to keep my child safe? • How do I maintain consistent nap, nighttime, and bedtime routines? • What foods should my child be eating? • Which behaviors are typical and which require a doctor’s visit? • Which vaccinations are given when? • What milestones should I be looking for and when? • How can I prepare my child for day care or school? • Do you have any potty-training tips? • When should I turn my child’s car seat around? When should I switch to a booster seat?

NEWBORN TO 1 • How long should it take for the umbilical cord stump to fall off? How should we be treating the umbilical cord? • How much and how often should baby be feeding? How long should a feeding take? • Do you have any tips to get baby to burp? • What should baby’s sleep schedule look like? Where should baby sleep? What’s the best way to soothe a baby to sleep? What measures should I be taking in regard to safe sleeping practices? • How often and where should we bathe baby? • What milestones should I be looking for and when? • How many wet and soiled diapers should baby have? • What vaccinations are given and when? • When and how do I introduce solids? Milk? • What safety measures should I take for baby proofing? 38

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AGES 5-10 Kids these ages go for a checkup once a year. Ask about: • A health condition your child may have (like allergies or asthma) • Changes in mood or behavior • Problems in school, either academically or socially • Is my child up to date on vaccines? • How should I discipline? • How much physical activity should my child be getting? • Is my child’s weight healthy? • How can I help my child eat a healthy diet? How do I help a picky eater?

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AGES 11-13 • Should my child get the HPV vaccine? Should my child get the COVID vaccine? • What do I need to know about puberty when it comes to my child? • Do you have any advice on discussing issues like sex, drugs, or smoking with my child? • What hygiene habits are important for children at this age?

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DENTAL CHECKUPS Oral health is important at any age. After all, it impacts overall health. Here are some questions you can ask at your child’s first dental visit and beyond: • How is my child’s overall dental health? • What toothpaste and how much of it should my child be using? When should my child start to use a fluoride toothpaste and mouth wash? • When should my child begin flossing? • When should my child get his first X-ray? • When should my child get sealants? • Does my child have enough space for adult teeth? • Do I need to see an orthodontist for a consultation? Stacey Feintuch is a freelance writer for print and online publications based in Bergen County, NJ. A mom to two boys, you’ll find her at the baseball diamond on the weekends.

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5 strategies to make new mom friends—on the playground or online By Marie Holmes

hether you’re in the early weeks of maternity leave or preparing your child for middle school, having mom friends who relate to what you’re going through can be a lifeline. Who better to understand the sleepless nights with a teething toddler or screen time negotiations with a grade schooler than someone experiencing the same thing? With many adults now fully vaccinated, and schools set to open this fall, there are more opportunities to meet other parents and spend time nurturing meaningful friendships.

HOW TO MAKE NEW MOM FRIENDS If you find your social skills a bit rusty after many months of social isolation, you’re not alone. Luckily, more places to meet other parents are now opening up, and many of them provide natural conversation starters. And there’s no need to abandon the virtual world entirely. Even if you’re ready to meet in real life, there are still lots of opportunities to make new mom friends online. Download a friend-finding app. Peanut follows the model of popular dating apps: You upload a photo and add some basic info, like your kids’ ages, then pick a few descriptors that fit you—examples include crafty, outdoorsy, military, and LGBTQ+. You then swipe up or down on profiles of local moms with shared interests. Join a neighborhood-specific parent email listserv or Facebook group. If the idea of putting out a call for friends in these places is too intimidating, you might find the baby bouncer you were looking for instead, as well as a friendly conversation with the mom who’s selling it. Strike up a conversation at pickup or drop-off. If your child comes home singing the praises of a classmate, why not let their parent know when you see them at morning drop-off? If everyone is a new face, you can always ask their child’s grade, class, or name to get the conversation started. Fundraisers and school events provide other natural on-ramps to more meaningful talk. If you’re off to grab a coffee after drop-off, ask them to join, and if you’re off to the playground after pickup, do the same. Introduce yourself at the playground or park. No matter how old your child is, the more time you spend in your local park,

the more familiar faces you’re likely to find. Introduce yourself to the mom you see pushing their stroller every day or sitting near the sandbox. Ask their kid’s names and ages, which street they live on, or which school their children attend, to get the ball rolling. Ask for a favor. It may seem counterintuitive but asking for help can forge a friendship. Maybe you’re at the playground and you need a Band-Aid or a wipe, or you’re going to be late for pickup and need someone to watch your child for a few minutes. Perhaps you’re looking for someone to feed the cat over the weekend. The great majority of parents are eager to help. After all, they know what it’s like trying to juggle responsibilities. Afterward, let them know you’re happy to return the favor, and invite them for a coffee, or glass of wine, as thanks.

SOCIALIZING IDEAS Once you find a new pal or two, what’s the plan? Indoor playdates won’t be in full swing again until kids are vaccinated, but there are plenty of other ways to connect, with or without the kids, both online and in person. Plan a coffee date or happy hour. Invite a few new friends to a mom’s night out at a local bar, or plan to grab coffee together after preschool drop-off. Nail salons, pottery studios, and paint bars offer other possible activities to pursue. Turn to old-fashioned texting. If a night out on the town isn’t in the cards yet, texting can still provide you with camaraderie. Maybe you just want to know that someone else is up feeding the baby at 2am, or that you weren’t the only one who forgot to send in the recorder today. A group text can be a quick, convenient way to reach out when you need some mom-to-mom connection. Get moving. Organize a stroller walk, a mom’s run club, or take a group hike on a nearby trail. It can feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day to make and keep social connections, but the rewards are well worth the effort. You get to feel less isolated, and at the same time you are modeling healthy friendships for your children. The whole family benefits when your reserves, and sense of humor, have been restored.

Marie Holmes has written for Good Housekeeping, Cosmopolitan, and others. She lives in Upper Manhattan with her wife and their two children.

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ABA Psychological Services P.C....................................................................................27 Hagedorn Little Village School .....................................................................................25 Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech.......................................................................35 Path 2 Potential ...........................................................................................................33

EDUCATION

Buckley Country Day School ..........................................................................................3 Countryside Montessori School ...................................................................................29 East Woods School ........................................................................................................5 Everbrook Academy of Glen Head .................................................................................2 Friends Academy ...........................................................................................................7 Hofstra University / Saltzman Center ...........................................................................18 Lawrence Woodmere Academy ...................................................................................29 Little Sponges Day Care...............................................................................................13 YMCA of Long Island ..................................................................................................15

Open Houses DIRECTORY Buckley Country Day School

2 I.U. Willets Road, Roslyn 516-627-1910 buckleycountryday.com Opening The Eyes and Awakening the Mind. Learn more at our upcoming open house: Sunday, Oct. 24, 2pm.

Friends Academy

270 Duck Pond Road, Locust Valley 516-676-0393 fa.org Come visit us today. Join our extraordinary school tomorrow. Please check our website for upcoming virtual and in-person open house dates!

Lawrence Woodmere Academy

336 Woodmere Blvd., Woodmere 516-374-9000 lawrencewoodmere.org admissions@lawrencewoodmere.org Please register online at lawrencewoodmere.org for our upcoming virtual open houses or contact admissions for an in-person tour: 516-394-1827 or admissions@ lawrencewoodmere.org.

Temple Sinai Early Childhood Center

425 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-8708 mysinai.org/ecc ldayan@mysinai.org Private tours are available by appointment. Please contact us to learn more.

FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT / EVENTS / OUTINGS

Wildplay Jones Beach ..................................................................................................44 Gabby’s Dollhouse.......................................................................................................43 Landmark on Main Street Inc ......................................................................................37

FITNESS

Saf-T-Swim ..................................................................................................................19

HEALTH

American Lung Association ...........................................................................................8

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MUSIC

Further Music and Media Group Inc. ...........................................................................19

RESEARCH

American Lung Association ...........................................................................................8

RETAIL

Once Upon a Child ......................................................................................................35

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Soccer Shots ................................................................................................................39 Super Soccer Stars .......................................................................................................35 Wildplay Jones Beach ..................................................................................................44

THEATRE

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Keeping kids’ items labeled to avoid germy mix-ups is going to be top of mind for both parents and schools. Mabel’s Labels are a great quality product and they really do help to keep items from getting lost or mixed up. If you’re like me, you have 62 types of skincare in your possession, half of which most likely reached their expiration date. Enter: Fresh Chemistry. Each set of the innovative skincare brand comes with a serum base and the active add-ins are kept separate. Once you mix them in, the super potent, high-performance skincare delivers maximum results with every use. Genius!

SurvivingBack-to-School Season By Zlata Faerman

hile summer can be a relaxing experience for kids (hello, no school!), it can add a lot of stress on us parents. We fill the days with activities and coordinate schedules, while simultaneously working, cooking, housekeeping, and taking care of ourselves. No wonder back-to-school season is a welcomed event for us! This coveted fifth season is not for the faint of heart though. It takes a lot to prepare for the return to school. These picks are ways you can reduce the upcoming stress of sending your kids back to school…and look great doing it! Keep bacteria and other pollutants at bay with Xlear, a saline nasal spray. The doctorbacked product contains xylitol, an ingredient in many fruits and veggies, which moisturizes, reduces tissue inflammation, and naturally opens airways. It’s a must-have for any mama and her family.

You can’t take care of your family unless you’re taking care of yourself (you know what I’m talking about, Moms!). Nurish by NatureMade offers a personalized assessment factoring in your age, diet, wellness goals, and more. Then, each month, a 30day supply of your custom grab-and-go supplement packs are shipped to your door. It can’t get any easier than that!

Homework can feel like a chore for kids, but supplemental learning shouldn’t. Osmo, the STEAM brand that builds handson play and learning experiences, helps nourish the minds of children by unleashing the power of imagination, so you’ll feel good about your kid on the iPad after school or on weekends.

Newly launched, Prep & Go is a full system of leakproof containers to take meals on the go. Perfect for school lunches, they come in a variety of sizes with unique features, divided containers (hello bento box!), and perfectly portioned snack sizes. The modular design makes them simple to stack in the fridge. When not in use, they are perfectly organized in my cabinets.

If getting your little ones to brush their teeth in the morning and at night is a huge hassle, consider a BURSTkids Sonic Toothbrush. My son loves how *fun* it is to brush, and I love how easily he can do it by himself.

September 2021 | nymetroparents.com

Staying nice and organized is half the battle when it comes to life, let alone the school year. I’m loving all of Erin Condren’s planners. Seriously, I can’t get enough! They offer complete customization, from layout to coil color. And the kids’ planners have stickers, colorful calendars, creativity spreads, and more to keep it interesting. They’re a great step in helping kids gain time management and organization skills.

Long Island Parent, September 2021

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