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14 Winner Wonderland Giveaway

Find out what prizes we’re giving away this holiday season and how to enter!

16 Adjusting to In-School Learning

Tips for helping kids find their footing in the classroom this year

18 Hosting Holidays: A Thankless Task

One mom’s humorous take on why she prefers not to host families for the holidays

38 The Rise in Kids’ Illnesses

With health guidelines relaxing, common colds and infections are back. Here’s what to look out for and how to boost kids’ immunity

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6 Editor’s Note 9 News: What’s happening in the community 12 Nanny: Celebrating Holidays with Your Nanny 13 Advice: Ask Dad and Buried 40 Just for Moms: Mom’s Night In!

THINGS TO DO

20 Christmas Tree Farms 22 Holiday Happenings in NYC 24 Family Activities Calendar

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It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year!

s it just me, or does it always feel like after summer ends you barely have time to blink before the holidays arrive? Whether you’re the type of person who puts up a Christmas tree the day after Halloween, or someone who won’t even acknowledge the season until you’ve finished your last slice of turkey, I think we can agree that “the most wonderful time of the year” tends to sneak up on us. I’m a tree-goes-up-Thanksgiving-weekend person myself, so I’m planning to put the roundup of farms on p. 20 to good use very soon. You can select and cut down your own holiday tree (or have someone do it for you if you’re not a saw expert). It’s so fun! When you’re ready to start your shopping, go to nymetroparents.com for our favorite outlet malls in the area and check our calendar for upcoming holiday fairs and vendor events. While you’re there, see a list of local toy drives and donation opportunities to help those in need this season, find out where take photos with Santa or even set up a Zoom call with the big guy (oh, technology), plus a whole lot more holiday fun. And go to nymetroparents.com/register to sign up for our weekly newsletters and be the first to know about all the holiday happenings near you! As a special treat to all our amazing readers this season, we are hosting our very first Winner Wonderland holiday giveaway. We’ve stacked up more than $8,000 in prizes that we’re giving away to more than 25 winners! That means your chances of winning are bigger than the Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree! Okay, maybe not that big, but still pretty huge. So, flip to p. 14 to check out all the sweet stuff you can win, and then head to nymetroparents.com/winner-wonderland to enter. Good luck! Happy Holidays!

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All Aboard for Holiday Fun!

The Patchogue River Christmas Boat Parade returns with a new theme for 2021. Sail into the holidays with the return of the Patchogue River Christmas Boat Parade in late November! A Long Island holiday tradition since 1994, the parade was canceled last year due to the pandemic. This year it’s back in full festive force with a new holiday theme: A Christmas Movie! The Patchogue River Boat Parade features many boats and yachts decked out for the holidays in breathtaking light displays and decorations. See Santa and his reindeer, Christmas trees galore, Disney characters, and so much more as the boats shine bright and drift along the water. There will also be DJ music and lots of vendors—perfect for spur-of-the-moment shopping. Parade watchers can see the event from two designated viewing locations, or head to the waterfront restaurants that line the river, making it a great evening for dinner with a view! Anyone especially excited for the event can check out a special free preview of the decorated boats at Off Key Tikki restaurant, 31 Baker Place, on Saturday, Nov. 20, 5-9pm. The Patchogue River Christmas Boat Parade, sponsored by @Yachtfindersonline, is free and will set sail Sunday, Nov. 21 at 6pm along the Patchogue River. There will be free viewing at Sandspit Park (Davis Park Ferry Terminal) and the Fire Island National Seashore Headquarters at Watch Hill Terminal. For more information, visit patchogueboatparade.org.

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Take a Hike! Throw together some trail mix and get out your hiking boots—it’s time to celebrate Take a Hike Day on Nov. 17! Whether you hit the trails with your toddler in the morning or go on an after-school adventure with your teen or tween, hiking is a great physical activity for all ages. You might even see some native (and adorable!) wildlife. Visit nymetroparents.com/hike to find a trail near you!

Giving Back The holiday season is a wonderful time to give back to others. There are many ways children and families can help those in need this year. You can volunteer at a soup kitchen, start a fundraiser for an important cause, even help raise puppies to become guide dogs! Visit nymetroparents.com/volunteer to see many ways you can make a difference in your community.

Write Away! Here’s something to jot down: November is National Novel Writing Month, making it a great time to encourage your kids to write, especially creatively. Writing is a skill that will benefit your child in every aspect of their lives as they grow up. Visit nymetroparents.com/write to get tips on finding online resources to help kids get starting in writing or sharpen their skills. 10

here’s nothing like seeing how happy a child is when they unwrap a holiday gift. But shopping for kids’ toys can be tough, especially for relatives and family friends who aren’t parents. What should you consider when it comes to safety? How do you know if a toy is safe and age appropriate? Here are some tips for both parents and non-parents on how to pick out toys that are fun and safe for kids to use.

Look for toys that match a child’s age, skills, and interests. Review the safety guidelines, a basic yet very important step when it comes to shopping for kids. Don’t forget to see if toys need additional accessories (like batteries that aren’t included), so you can be prepared to give a child the best play experience once they open the box, says Marianne Szymanski, president of Toy Tips, a toy-testing and research company. Say no to magnet toys. Don’t give toys that have exposed magnets to children who put things in their mouth. “Consider both age and ability but stay clear of toys—especially vintage toys—with unenclosed magnets,” Szymanski says. “This is a safety hazard.” Give an experience instead. Consider giving show tickets or lessons for an activity the child loves. This is a great way to avoid any safety-hazard pitfalls. That said, kids need something to open and use right away, and tickets can be pretty boring to unwrap. “Gifting a kids’ cooking class? Also give an apron and rolling pin with the gift card and let the dramatic play commence,” says Chelsea Milkman, founder and CEO of The Dough Project and former NYC preschool teacher. Just make sure the items are designed for kids when you purchase them.

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New Places, New Programs Knox School Announces New Head of School Virginia Riccardi was recently announced as the new head of school at Knox School in Saint James. A faculty member for more than 10 years, Riccardi introduced and built several educational programs throughout her tenure to improve students’ academic experience. She established the school’s first-ever dual enrollment courses for college credit and increased course offerings for advanced placement students. According to staff, Riccardi’s transformational leadership style and ability to share responsibilities equally with her team have allowed her to build trusting relationships, resulting in the community being able to speak from one voice and accomplish the shared goals of the school. 631-686-1600 x414; admissions@knoxschool.org.

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How to Celebrate the Holidays with Your Nanny Follow these pro tips to make the season happy—and enlightening—for all. By Sue Downey

olidays are an important time for your family and your nanny, but taking the time to think ahead, discuss, and plan properly will help ensure your nanny feels appreciated and knows your expectations during the holiday season. This time of year can be hectic for all, so making a plan in advance will show your nanny just how much you care!

CELEBRATE TOGETHER BUT KNOW WHAT YOU WILL SHARE AND WHAT YOU WILL KEEP PRIVATE. A nanny feels like part of your family, and it’s natural to want to share some holiday joy. The key here will be to let your nanny know when there are rituals or events that are just for family. Having a quick conversation before feelings get hurt will save everyone disappointment. On the other side, be understanding if your nanny wants to keep family life and work life more separate.

SHOW INTEREST IN YOUR NANNY’S CULTURE.

Use this opportunity for your child (and you) to learn of other faiths, cultural celebrations, and ideas. Ask your nanny if they are

happy to share some of this with you as a family. Show enthusiasm to embrace what is important to your nanny.

TALK ABOUT THE NUTS AND BOLTS.

Around the holidays there will be excess family in the house, crazy schedules, and more stress. It is a good idea to check in with your nanny a few weeks in advance. Discuss any changes to the schedule, requested time off, and how to handle extra people in the home. In general, open the lines of communication. Find a way to laugh together through this often-stressful time.

HOLIDAYS ARE A TIME TO SHOW APPRECIATION.

It is common for nannies to get a bonus or gift (or both) around the winter holiday season. A small homemade or thoughtful gift from the kids and another gift from you will show your nanny you appreciate their hard work all year long. If you choose to do a bonus, it’s usually one or two weeks of weekly pay. Other options to consider are a few days of paid time off, points to use for travel, or even gift cards to a favorite store or restaurant.

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Ask DadandBuried Last year, we skipped our traditional family Thanksgiving because of COVID. But my family is vaccinated, and it’s been a long time since we’ve all been together, and I’m excited to host. Am I crazy? —Johnny, Bay Ridge

ast fall, I fielded a question about dealing with family members’ opposing political views at Thanksgiving. I’m not exactly an optimist (I’m not sure even optimists were optimistic about much in 2020), but in my response to Marielle from White Plains, I was able to find the silver lining in COVID-19. It basically boiled down to “don’t invite anyone to your house in the middle of a freaking pandemic!” COVID was the perfect excuse to avoid obnoxious Uncle Rufus! It seems crazy to refer to last Thanksgiving as “peaceful,” given the tumult at the time, but if you were cautious, shared your turkey with your inner circle, and only dealt with your in-laws online, it probably was. A year later, things are improving (knock on wood!). Numbers are going down, many of us are vaccinated, and suddenly hosting a big, traditional Thanksgiving dinner seems a little less scary. For better and worse. There will be fewer glitchy Zoom calls to troubleshoot, the kids will get to hug Grandma, and Aunt Carol will bring back her famous sausage bread. On the flipside, the highways and airports will be slammed again and those problematic family members you blissfully avoided last fall are going to be back in your living room. Suddenly, you have no excuse not to invite Uncle Rufus, and you can’t use bad Wi-Fi to avoid a political argument when the person arguing is sitting across the table from you. Still, I say get the extra chairs out and have yourself a good time! The occasional contentious argument or need to recite from Snopes.com is nothing you’re not used to, and they’re a small price to pay for the privilege of breaking bread with family and friends again. Dinner might not be quite as quiet as it was last year, but it will be more normal, at least by pre-COVID standards. That’s something we can all be thankful for.

Our advice column features the wise and humorous commentary of Mike Julianelle (aka @DadandBuried), a 40-something influencer with a popular podcast who lives in Brooklyn with his wife and two kids.

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Adjusting to In-School Learning Tips for helping kids find their footing in the classroom this year By Marie Holmes

he luster of the first day of school has surely worn off by now, and families have settled back into the daily grind—including some facets of pre-pandemic life that we may not have missed, like early mornings and traffic jams. It’s a challenging transition for everyone. Kids who were kindergarten students in the spring of 2020 had only six months of regular instruction before moving into lockdown, and now they’re in second grade. So, it comes as no surprise that some of these kids are showing signs of stress. We spoke with an educator and a psychologist about ways to support your child during this school year.

TALK WITH YOUR KIDS. More importantly, listen. Your

first source of information about your child’s life is your child. It’s particularly important now to keep the lines of communication open, emphasizes Amanda Fuhrman, who teaches third, fourth and fifth graders in Edison, NJ. Dedicate time for your kids to talk to you when they know they’ll have your full attention and ask open-ended questions. “They tell you the truth very often when you leave it open for them to tell you,” Fuhrman says. For example, instead of saying, How excited are you to be back at school? Ask: What happened that was exciting today? Follow up by asking them to tell you more, or ask how something made them feel, and don’t forget to thank them for sharing with you. “If we don’t know what they’re thinking, then it’s really hard to help them,” Fuhrman says.

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Ph.D., a child and family psychologist in Pelham, says that one of the things parents should expect to see, whether their kids are flourishing with the structure school offers or feeling anxious about the separation it requires, is some degree of restraint collapse. This refers to the phenomenon of kids melting down when they get home after holding it together all day at school. During the day, Dr. Bren explains, “they’re following the rules, they’re doing all the things that they’re supposed to do,” but then there’s a sudden release of those restraints “as soon as they’re home with that safe person.” This can be helpful to remember in the moment when your child’s behavior takes a turn. “The fact that they do it with us, while hard to receive, really shows how safe they feel with us,” Dr. Bren says. “Sometimes us doing a good job looks like our kids melting down with us.”

PROVIDE A BRIDGE BETWEEN SCHOOL AND HOME. In anticipation of restraint collapse, Dr. Bren suggests

giving kids 20 minutes of undirected time, and your full attention, upon returning home for the day. Put your phone away for these minutes and simply be with your kids, following their lead. “That twenty-minute upfront investment of your time will pay off in spades for the rest of the night,” Dr. Bren says. “You’re filling them up a bit and that’s going to go a long way.”

CREATE FOCUSED OPPORTUNITIES FOR YOUR CHILD TO SOCIALIZE OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL. If

your child is experiencing social anxiety after a year spent learning remotely, playdates can be a helpful way to flex those relationship muscles. When using playdates as a tool to strengthen social skills, Dr. Bren recommends limiting them to about 45 minutes and providing the structure of an activity. In these cases, she says, it’s also important to end on a high note. If things are going well, rather than pushing them further, say something along the lines of, “This is so great! Let’s do this again.”

ESTABLISH AND MAINTAIN ROUTINES. “I’ve seen a lot of kids struggle with the structure of school,” Fuhrman says. Accustomed to attending school in their pajamas while lying on the couch, simply getting dressed and out the door is a big change for kids. If getting ready in the morning is a struggle, try making a checklist, with pictures for younger children, of what your child needs to do before they leave the house in the morning: brush teeth, get dressed, eat breakfast, put homework in backpack. This way, instead of repeatedly telling them what to do, you can just ask what’s next on the list. Laying out clothes and even setting the breakfast table the night before can also save

valuable early morning minutes. You can make a similar checklist for bedtime routines. “The more that they’re held accountable at home, the more they’ll do at school,” Fuhrman says. Dr. Bren adds that predictability, routines, and structure can give kids something to hold onto when so much feels in flux. “Think of shaking up a snow globe,” she says. “Anything we can do as parents to give anchors to our kids while that snow is flurrying is helpful.”

DON’T OVERSCHEDULE—LEAVE ROOM FOR DOWN TIME. It can be tempting to sign up for activities

every day of the week now that after-school programs are back in session, but Dr. Bren believes it’s best to keep commitments to a minimum. “I recommend parents pick one sport and one other thing, maximum. Don’t feel compelled to over-enrich your child,” she says. Unstructured down time also gives kids a chance to decide for themselves what they would like to do, offering a counterbalance to a day of being directed by adults.

KEEP OR MODIFY SOME PANDEMIC COMFORTS. The return to school is mostly an enormous

relief for parents, but it also marks the end of an era that, while challenging, may have provided rituals that helped your child feel secure. Nightly dinners may no longer be possible with commutes and athletic practices, but perhaps you can all sit together at the table on Saturday and Sunday or have family breakfast instead. Daily midday walks won’t work, but evening or weekend strolls might take their place.

Education DIRECTORY Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, Lower Level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com • info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School offers children, ages 18 months to 6 years, a well-balanced and enriched curriculum that includes traditional subjects, art, and music. it is located on an estate-like setting with an outdoor playground and nature walks. Classrooms are fully equipped and spacious.

Holy Child Academy

25 Store Hill Road, Old Westbury 516-626-9300 holychildacademy.org • admissions@hcali.org Holy Child Academy is Long Island’s only premier, independent Catholic school for children of all faiths—toddler through eighth grade. Our creative educators help each child develop a joy for learning by seamlessly integrating a traditional curriculum with technology, fine arts, music, theater, and athletics.

Huntington Learning Centers

Baldwin, Bay Shore, Carle Place, East Northport, Flushing, Lynbrook, Manhasset, Massapequa, Miller Place, Patchogue, Plainview, Smithtown huntingtonhelps.com Huntington is the premier tutoring and test prep provider, including SAT, ACT, and state tests, for kindergarten to 12th grades. The company prides itself on personalized attention and proven results. Founded in 1977, Huntington’s mission is to give every student the best education possible. Tutoring is available in-center and online.

ENCOURAGE PLENTY OF SLEEP. One of the greatest

advantages to remote school was that it allowed students to sleep in and greet the day more rested. Make sure your children’s bedtimes are earlier to accommodate early-morning wake-up times and set screen-time limits to discourage scrolling before bed, as this can make it harder to fall asleep. With families spending the day apart again, knowing what’s going on in your child’s life, and how to help, requires intent and attention. “You have to be really tuned in to your kid now,” Fuhrman says. Knowing that you’re there to listen and offer support may be just what your child needs to help them weather this transition. If your child is exhibiting behaviors that concern you, don’t hesitate to reach out to your school’s counselor or social worker, or your child’s physician. If you believe your child may be in danger of harming themselves, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for English, or 1-888-6289454 for Spanish. You can also text SIGNS to 741741 to reach the Crisis Text Line.

Marie Holmes has written for “Good Housekeeping,” “Cosmopolitan,” “The Washington Post,” and other publications. She lives in Upper Manhattan with her wife and their two children

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Hosting Holidays:

A Thankless Task By Jeannine Cintron

“I’ll have Christmas at my house. You can do Thanksgiving.”

his is the exact conversation I have with my family every year when the holidays approach. Somehow what was once a treasured time to celebrate special days with loved ones has morphed into a violent game of hostess dodgeball, where we all desperately attempt to avoid being pelted by the dreaded holiday hosting obligations. If my grandmother were still alive, I wonder if she’d be the type who would happily host every occasion from A to Z, force-feeding us endless mozzarella-covered entrées and homemade Italian pastries. I bet she would have been that grandma, no questions asked. In fact, she would be downright insulted by the mere suggestion of someone else hosting. Unfortunately, my sweet grandmother passed away in 1987, and thus the hosting wars began. 18

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But I did Thanksgiving last year and I “ undercooked the turkey and almost got everyone sick! Why can’t our cousins ever host? They always come here with one cheap little bottle of wine, stuff their faces, and then have the nerve to ask for leftovers!

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As a kid, we mostly ping-ponged between my mother’s house and my aunt’s. We have a small family, so the options were always limited. Now that I’m an adult and can cook a turkey all by myself (well, sort of...), I’ve been added to the short list of hosts. I have to say, it’s been a cranberry sauce-and-gravy-soaked nightmare. It’s not that I don’t love seeing my family. We’re spread across Staten Island, Brooklyn, and New Jersey, so it’s always a pleasure to get together and make up for lost time. But it’s never a picnic for the flustered hostess du jour. While everyone else is catching up, sipping wine, and nibbling appetizers, the hostess is chained to a hot stove. Sweat covers her brow and oven mitts fly off her busy hands as she simultaneously chops, preps, fries, roasts, sautés, braises, and mashes—all while quietly praying the food won’t be cold and tasteless by the time it gets to the table. Even if dinner is perfectly warm and delicious, there will always be a few unhappy campers. It’s impossible to please everybody. In my family, some people don’t eat meat, some people seem to only eat meat, and some are on a never-ending low-fat, low-carb, low-calorie, low-taste diet. One relative refuses to eat anything with garlic or onions (don’t ask me why he married into an Italian family), another can’t eat anything chewy, and at least two people are lactose intolerant. That’s not even counting all of the picky kids! Hosting is a costly endeavor as well. Even if you’re fortunate to have family members who contribute, pot-luck style, bringing home-cooked dishes of their own creation instead of cheap wine (I’m looking at you, cousin Jen!), you’ll still be stuck with a hefty grocery tab. Even when you try to keep it simple, it always adds up.

Then, after all the shopping and pre-cooking is complete, you’ve got to whip the house into shape. There’s always that one painfully rude relative who never fails to point out the dust on the fan blades or the loose Cheerios under the kitchen table. Who needs that? So after the turkey goes in, the mop and broom come out. I clean before the sun comes up whenever I’m hosting because anyone with kids knows how easy it is to wash floors with kids running around. Sure, it’ll probably be a mess again by dinnertime, but at least I tried. And if Rude Relative points out the rogue potato peel on the floor by the garbage, I’m hiding it in her food. Your own family doesn’t help the situation at all. The kids’ instructions are simple: get dressed, stay clean, and stay out of the way. You enlist your husband’s help with the seemingly simple task of keeping them occupied all day. And maybe he does—until football starts, of course (I mean, at least set the table first, hun!). After a while, the kids are chasing each other around the kitchen, sticking their fingers in the food, messing up their holiday outfits, and whining because Daddy shut off their cartoons to watch sports. You’re 10 seconds from losing your mind and no one seems to care. If you’re anything like me, you’re already burnt out long before the guests arrive. You’ve been scrubbing since dawn, cooking since Tuesday, and dreading it all since the day you agreed to host. But, like the perfect hostess you are, you grab an apron, dole out some welcome hugs, and power through the exhaustion. And you (somehow) do it all with a smile because you’re a total rock star. They say there’s no place like home for the holidays. But I respectfully disagree.

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Cut Your Own Christmas Tree These farms on Long Island are our top picks for finding the perfect tree! By Barbara Russo

ure, you can head to a local shop and pick out a Christmas tree in a short amount of time, but why not make a day out of it? Gather up the family and head out to one of the tree farms in our area for some holiday fun! Cut your own tree–or pick out a pre-cut beauty–and indulge in decadent hot chocolate as you enjoy the spirit of the season. As with any family outing, it’s best to call in advance to confirm hours, availability, COVID-19 policies before you go.

Elwood Pumpkin Farm 1500 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington elwoodpumpkinfarm.com • 631-368-8626 Hours: Saturday-Sunday, 10am to dark; 20

Monday-Friday, 3pm to dark. Pre-cut lot remains open daily until 7pm. Price: Call for information A 20-acre farm in western Long Island that offers trees in a variety of sizes. Bring your own saw to cut your tree, or the staff can cut one for you. Pre-cut trees are available. Staff will help you tie your tree to your car.

Matt’s Christmas Tree Farm 305 Weeks Ave., Manorville mattschristmastreefarm.com • 631-875-1465 Hours: Nov. 26-Dec. 24, Wednesday-Monday, 8am-4:30pm Price: $14 per foot Walk through 10,000 trees, all ranging in height from 2-foot table toppers to

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8-footers. Tree varieties for sale include Norway, blue, white, and Serbian spruce, and balsam fir. Bow saws and netting available. Loading and tying assistance provided. Live trees in pots or burlap balls are also for sale. Staff is also available to dig a tree for you from the field, weather permitting. Candy canes available for kids. Potted trees are also available.

Mike’s Christmas Tree Farm 323 Weeks Ave., Manorville 631-874-3551 Hours: Through Dec. 24: daily, 8am-4:30pm Price: Trees start at $14 per foot; prices vary by species There are thousands of trees to choose

from at this farm, including Norway, white, and blue spruce. Fresh wreaths available. Tree wrapping and saws provided.

Shamrock Christmas Tree Farm 20685 Main Road, Mattituck shamrockchristmastreefarm.com 631-298-4619 • 631-298-4118 Hours: Opens in late November; daily, 9am-5pm Price: Call for information. Pre-cut trees, handmade wreaths, and crafts are for sale. Douglas firs range from 5-9 feet tall. Pre-cut firs are available. Ornaments, nutcrackers, tree toppers, and more available in the gift shop. No pets allowed.

Tilden Lane Farm 43 Wyckoff St., Greenlawn tildenlanefarm.com • 631-533-5960 Hours: Nov. 27-28, Dec. 4-5, and Dec. 1112, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-3pm Price: All trees $75 This year, the farm has a limited supply of cut-your-own trees. Pre-cut trees are available. Hand-made wreaths are for sale.

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Zuhoski Farms

812 Sound Ave., Calverton lewinfarm.com • 631-929-4327 Hours: Wednesday-Monday; 9am-4pm; call to confirm when trees will be available. Price: Approximately $45 Located on the scenic historic North Fork, this cut-your-own Christmas tree farm on Long Island offers Douglas firs and Norway and blue spruces. A tractor ride out to the field and back is available, but customers may choose to walk out and carry back their trees. Staff wrap the trees and provide rope and twine for tying onto your car.

12025 Oregon Road, Cutchogue zuhoskitreefarm.com • 631-734-5036 Hours: Season starts Friday, Nov. 26. Open daily, 9:30am to dusk Price: Call for information A mainstay since 1924, this farm lets customers browse 15 acres of trees to find the perfect one. Pre-cut trees are also available. Santa will be visiting the farm on the Friday after Thanksgiving and weekends through Dec. 12, 11:30am-2:30pm.

Santa’s Christmas Tree Farm

123 N. Country Road, Miller Place cartertreefarm.org • 631-331-4699 Hours: Nov. 20-Dec. 19, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-4:30pm Price: Call for pricing Cut your own tree at this farm that offers a crop of Scotch pine, white fir, and white, blue, and Norway spruce trees. Trees range in height from 3-10 feet. The farm provides tree wrapping for most trees but bring rope to fasten the tree to your car.

30105 Main Road Cutchogue santaschristmastreefarmli.com • 631-735-9242 Hours: Daily, 10am-5pm. Trees can be cut starting mid-November. Price: $90 This 30-acre farm offers thousands of Douglas firs to choose from, most of which are 6-7 feet tall. You can also visit with friendly farm animals, sip hot cocoa, and browse the Christmas Shop.

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10 activities you don’t want to miss this holiday season in the city here’s a lot going on in NYC to bring holiday cheer to kids and kids-at-heart. From The Nutcracker and other holiday shows to tree lightings, ice-skating, holiday light displays, and holiday windows, there so much to see and do, it can be dizzying (in a good way, of course!). Consider this your cheat sheet of can’t-miss list of holiday fun in the city—events we’re taking our own kids to!

95th Annual Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade FREE WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 25, 9am-12pm WHERE: Starts at West 77th Street and Central Park West, then east on Central Park South, then south on Sixth Avenue, then west along 34th Street, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: See a spectacular showcase of giant balloons, fab floats, exciting performers, more fun. As always, if you don’t want to head into the city to see it in person, you can view it on NBC. WANT TO GO? 212-695-4400. macys.com.

'Twas the Night Before...by Cirque du Soleil WHEN: Dec. 9-27, See website for schedule WHERE: Hulu Theater at Madison Square Garden, Seventh Avenue at 32nd Street, Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Cirque du Soleil’s first-ever Christmas show is a flurry of holiday cheer and rip-roaring fun. WANT TO GO? $50 and up. 212-465-6741. msg.com.

Christmas Spectacular Starring The Radio City Rockettes WHEN: Through Jan. 2, 2022: See website for schedule WHERE: Radio City Music Hall, 1260 Sixth Ave., Midtown, Manhattan 22

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AGES: All WHAT: The Christmas Spectacular is a one-of-a-kind tradition where the magic of Christmas in New York comes alive. WANT TO GO? $49 and up. 212-465-6000. rockettes.com.

Lightscape WHEN: Nov. 19-Jan. 9, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave., Crown Heights, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the beauty of nature in winter on this enchanting trail animated by lights, colors, and sounds. You’ll be dazzled by showstoppers like the Winter Cathedral tunnel, Fire Garden, and Field of Light, and more. WANT TO GO? $34; $18 ages 3-12; free for children 2 and younger. 718-623-7200. bbg.org.

NYC Winter Lantern Festival: Illuminate the Farm WHEN: Nov. 25-Jan. 9, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park, Queens AGES: All WHAT: See a dazzling display of festive holiday lights and handmade lanterns in the shapes of flowers, tractors, your favorite

farm animals, and many, many more. WANT TO GO? $24.99; $29.99 (Dec. 23-Jan. 2, 2022); $16.99 ages 3-12. nycwinterlanternfestival.com.

NYBG GLOW WHEN: Nov. 24-Jan. 2, 2022, see website forschedule WHERE: New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: See thousands of dazzling LEDs, illuminated plant stories, and whimsical, picture-perfect installations. And while you’re here, don’t forget to see the Holiday Train show! WANT TO GO? See website for details. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

Holiday Lights WHEN: Nov. 19-Jan. 9, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: During the evenings, the park comes to life with holiday cheer as immersive light displays, animal lanterns, and animated light shows sparkle across the zoo. The celebration is complete with festive entertainment, seasonal treats, and holiday music. WANT TO GO? $39.95; $34.95 seniors 65 and older; $24.95 ages 3-12. 718-220-5100. bronxzoo.com.

Brooklyn's Largest Menorah FREE WHEN: Nov. 28-Dec. 5: Sunday, Nov. 28, 4pm; Monday-Thursday, 6pm; Friday, 3:30pm; Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, Dec. 5, 5pm

WHERE: Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Park West and Grand Army Plaza, Prospect Heights, Brooklyn AGES: All WHAT: Be there for the lighting of the largest menorah in Brooklyn with live music, hot latkes, and gifts for children. WANT TO GO? 646-298-9909. chabadparkslope.com.

A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage WHEN: Dec. 21-24, Tuesday, 7pm; Wednesday-Thursday, 12:30pm and 7pm; Friday, 11am and 3pm WHERE: The Palladium Times Square, 1515 Broadway, Times Square, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Join Charlie Brown, Snoopy, and the whole Peanuts gang as they sing, dance, and learn the true meaning of Christmas! WANT TO GO? $23.50 and up. 212-496-7490. acharliebrownchristmaslive.com.

New York City Ballet: George Balanchine's The Nutcracker WHEN: Nov. 26-Jan. 2, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: David H. Koch Theater, 20 Lincoln Center Plaza, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the season with the exquisite costumes and magnificent sets of this beloved production. Tchaikovsky’s iconic score will transport you to a land of twirling snowflakes, leaping candy canes, waltzing flowers, and more. WANT TO GO? $89 and up. 212-496-0600. nycballet.com.

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ThanksGLOWing WHEN: Wednesday, Nov. 24, 6-8pm WHERE: Sky Zone Deer Park, 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Get your holiday weekend started a little early this year with a visit to Sky Zone for Thanks-GLOW-ing! WANT TO GO? $33 for 60 minutes; $36 for 90 minutes; $38 for 120 minutes. 631-392-2600. skyzone.com/deerpark.

Westbury AGES: All WHAT: This all-new production features some of the greatest holiday songs of all time performed with the world-renowned cast of Cirque Musica. WANT TO GO? $39.50-$189.50. 516-334-0800. thetheatreatwestbury.com.

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Downtown Riverhead’s Holiday Parade & Riverfront Bonfire FREE

WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 9, 7pm WHERE: NYCB Theatre at Westbury, 960 Brush Hollow Road,

WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 11, 3pm WHERE: Downtown Riverhead, Main Street, Riverhead

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Holiday Princess Tea Party WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 21, 10am, 12:30pm, 3pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Your little Princess will dance and sing with all her favorite Princesses featuring formal white glove tea service with finger sandwiches and sweets. WANT TO GO? $49.95; $44.95 children ages 3-12; $5 children ages 2 and younger. 631-208-9200. longislandaquarium.com.

AGES: All WHAT: Watch the Holiday Parade, warm up by a bonfire, have some hot cocoa, and drop off your wish list with Santa. WANT TO GO? 631-440-1350. downtownriverhead.org.

Magic of Lights WHEN: Nov. 19-Jan. 2, 2022, Sunday-Thursday, 5-10pm; Friday-Saturday, 5-11pm WHERE: Jones Beach State Park, 1 Ocean Parkway, Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: Drive through the winding course to view sparkling LED displays depicting favorite characters of the season, including snowmen, elves, poinsettias, and candy canes! WANT TO GO? See website for pricing. magicoflights.com.

Christmas House Long Island WHEN: Nov. 20-Jan. 5, 2022, Monday-Wednesday, 3-9pm; Thursday, 3-10pm; Friday, 3pm-1am; Saturday, 11am-1am; Sunday, 11am-9pm WHERE: Samanea Mall, 1504 Old Country Road, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Christmas House Long Island offers guests a wondrous 10,000-square-foot multi-room walk-through experience featuring creative lighting and theatrical effects. WANT TO GO? Monday-Thursday: $25; $20 for children ages 10 and younger. Friday-Sunday: $30; $25 for children ages 10 and younger. 516-540-5282. christmashouselongisland.com.

Shimmering Solstice WHEN: Nov. 20-Jan. 9, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Experience an unforgettable walkthrough event of seasonal sights and sounds. WANT TO GO? Peak: $32.95; $17.95 children ages 3-17. Off Peak: $29.95; $16.95 children ages 3-17. 516-333-0048. shimmeringsolstice.com.

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Town of Oyster Bay Chabad: Chanukah Spectacular FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 28, 3:30pm WHERE: Plainview Shopping Centre, 327-392 S. Oyster Bay Road, Plainview AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Hanukkah with vaudeville stunt act David Darwin, plus festive music, Hanukkah foods such as latkes and jelly doughnuts, and classic pizza. The highlight of the event will be the Grand Giant Menorah lighting. WANT TO GO? 516-682-0404. eventbrite.com.

WHEN: Dec. 17-Jan. 1, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts, 71 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: Featuring show-stopping singers, dancers, and performance artistry, this family-friendly musical celebration is literally the "coolest" show for all ages this holiday season. WANT TO GO? $29.50-$71. 631-207-1313. thegateway.org.

LuminoCity Festival Holiday Lights WHEN: Through Jan. 9, 2022: See website for schedule WHERE: Whitney Pond Park, 7 Community Drive E., Manhasset AGES: All WHAT: This immersive experience will take you to a dazzling new world with Lumi, the LuminoCity mascot, as your guide. WANT TO GO? $76 VIP; $38 general admission; $27 children ages 3-12. luminocityfestival.com. LongIslandParent 25 LongIsland

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WHAT: Test out your night vision and discover some fun facts about the moon during this night walk. WANT TO GO? $4. 631-581-1072. parks.ny.gov.

Autumn’s Harvest: An Arts and Food Truck Festival WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 20, 12-5pm WHERE: Great South Bay Brewery, 25 Drexel Drive, Bay Shore AGES: All WHAT: Come ready to shop, eat, and dance until you drop with a lineup of amazing food trucks and a market filled with local artists, crafters, and unique small businesses. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. coloredcolors.com.

Turkey Trot WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 20, 2pm WHERE: Rolling River Day Camp, 477 Ocean Ave., East Rockaway AGES: All WHAT: Dress up in your finest turkey attire for a day of fun that includes races, crafts, snacks, music, and more! WANT TO GO? $8-$25. 516-593-2267. rollingriverturkeytrot2021.eventbrite.com.

Disney Swings with Mariella Price Island Harvest Free Turkey Giveaway FREE WHEN: Tuesday, Nov. 16, 10-10:30am WHERE: Brentwood Public Library, 34 Second Ave., Brentwood AGES: Adult WHAT: It’s free turkey day! Availability is limited, so registration is required. WANT TO GO? 631-273-7883. brentwood.librarycalendar.com.

Long Island Nets vs Raptors 905 WHEN: Nov. 19-20, Friday-Saturday, 7pm WHERE: Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All WHAT: Experience the future stars of the NBA when the Long Island Nets of the NBA G League take on the Raptor 905s! WANT TO GO? $20 and up. 516-231-4848. longisland.gleague.nba.com.

Bethpage Turkey Drive for Island Harvest FREE WHEN: Friday, Nov. 19, 8am-4pm WHERE: Bethpage Federal Credit Union Main Headquarters Parking Lot, 899 S. Oyster Bay Road, Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Make a contactless donation by dropping off frozen turkeys, non-perishable food items (except those in glass containers), supermarket gift cards, or cash donations. WANT TO GO? bethpagefcu.com.

Full Moon Hike WHEN: Friday, Nov. 19, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All 26

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WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 20, 11am WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suit 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy swingin’ arrangements of Disney classics presented by Mariella Price and The Sunny Side Band. WANT TO GO? $26. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Gardening In The Park FREE WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 20, 9am-12pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park, between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: Spend the day helping to maintain the gardens. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

Silk Screening with Exhibition Artist Jeff Scharf WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 20, 12-5pm WHERE: Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: Learn about silk-screening on fabric and paper in this hands-on workshop where participants will design, translate, and print images onto shirts and/or paper. WANT TO GO? $35; $25 members. 631-283-0967. southamptonartscenter.org.

Patchogue River Christmas Parade WHEN: Nov. 20-21, Saturday, preview 5-9pm; Sunday, parade 6pm WHERE: Patchogue River, 150 West Ave., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: See boats decorated for Christmas float down the river. Be sure to visit the night before to vote for your favorite! WANT TO GO? Free for spectators; $35 boat entry. 631-4329088. patchogueboatparade.org.

Family Menorah Workshop WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 21, 2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Compare historic oil lanterns in the museum’s collection and get creative designing a tiled mosaic menorah to light up your home this holiday! WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members, plus admission: $6; $5 seniors 62 and older and children 4-18; free for children 3 and younger and those with active military with ID. 631367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Sensory-Sensitive Performance: Barnaby Saves Christmas FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 21, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: Join Barnaby and his reindeer friend as they set off on their journey to save Christmas in this special performance. WANT TO GO? 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

Annual Candlelight Tour FREE WHEN: Friday, Nov. 26, 3-6pm WHERE: Southold Historical Museum, 54325 Main Road, Southold AGES: All WHAT: Come to this tree lighting and meet Santa in the barn, see demonstrations, enjoy live music, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-765-5500. southoldhistorical.org.

Wantagh Chamber of Commerce 3rd Annual Winter Wonderland WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 27, 12:30-6pm WHERE: Wantagh Preservation Society, 1700 Wantagh Ave., Wantagh AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy shopping, food, and entertainment, and see the holiday lighting. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-6790100. wantaghchamber.wildapricot.org.

Outdoor Adventure with Ranger Eric WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 27, 10-11:30am WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Ranger Eric will lead visitors of all ages on an exploratory walk across the preserve’s grounds. Register at the Gatehouse and meet at Castle Gould’s Clock Tower. Face masks and social distancing are required. WANT TO GO? $16; $6 children; $12 members; $2 member children. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserveconservancy.org.

The Unknown Arts Market WHEN: Nov. 26-28, Friday, 6-10pm; Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm WHERE: Destination Unknown Beer Company, 1 S. Chicago Ave., Bay Shore

AGES: All WHAT: Check out local musicians while shopping from local artists and craft makers right before the holidays. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. eventbrite.com.

Chanukah Experience WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 28, 4:15pm WHERE: Chabad Center for Jewish Life, 2174 Hewlett Ave., Suite 101, Merrick AGES: All WHAT: Park your car and join the walking parade to the Merrick Long Island Railroad Station for a 12-foot menorah lighting, latkas, dancing rabbis, doughnuts, a juggling show, and more! WANT TO GO? $18 suggested donation per family. 516-8333057. chabadjewishlife.org.

Sensory-Sensitive Performance: A Christmas Carol FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 28, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: See a special performance of this holiday classic. WANT TO GO? 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

Peru Andino FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 28, 3pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: Peru Andino performs traditional music and dance. WANT TO GO? 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

MenorahCade FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 28, 3:30pm depart from Chabad; 4pm Hanukkah Celebration WHERE: Chabad of The Hamptons, 13 Woods Lane, East Hampton AGES: All WHAT: Drive through the streets of East Hampton with a menorah on your car during the MenorahCade then take part in the grand finale celebration featuring Hanukkah treats, fun surprises for the whole family, and the lighting of a 6-foot-tall menorah. WANT TO GO? 631-329-5800 x4. jewishhamptons.com.

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Christmas Meet & Greet Walkthrough WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 4, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: United Skates of America, 1276 Hicksville Road, Seaford AGES: All WHAT: Meet favorite characters, including Frosty the Snowman and the Grinch, mail your letter to Santa, and more. WANT TO GO? $10. 516-795-5474. unitedskates.com/seaford.

CKids Chanukah Disco FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 28, 10-11am WHERE: Chabad of The Hamptons, 13 Woods Lane, East Hampton AGES: All WHAT: Boogie down at this glow-in-the-dark dance party complete with cupcake decorating and a dreidel spin-off. WANT TO GO? 631-329-5800. jewishhamptons.com.

Grand Menorah Car Parade & Lighting FREE WHEN: Sunday, Nov. 28, 6pm WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Hanukkah with a Grand Menorah Car Parade & Lighting with live music, doughnuts, latkes, and fun for the entire family. WANT TO GO? 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.

Egg Taking Demonstration WHEN: Through Nov. 28: Saturday-Sunday, 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: See the centuries old process of egg taking and fertilization. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors ages 65 and older; $5 children ages 3-12. 516-692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org.

Public Menorah Lighting FREE WHEN: Monday, Nov. 29, 6pm WHERE: Chabad of Great Neck, LIRR Station, Middle Neck Road and Station Plaza, Great Neck AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Hanukkah with music, dancing, doughnuts, and prizes for all kids. Great Neck dignitaries will light the menorah. WANT TO GO? 516-654-6000. chabadgn.com.

WWE Monday Night RAW WHEN: Monday, Nov. 29, 7:30pm WHERE: UBS Arena, 2400 Hempstead Turnpike, Elmont AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Featuring the 6-man tag team main event: WWE Champion Big E, RAW Tag Team Champions Randy Orton and Riddle vs. Bobby Lashley, AJ Styles, and Omos. WANT TO GO? $26-$206. ticketmaster.com. 28

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A Magical Cirque Christmas WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 2, 7:30pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: Experience an evening of dazzling performers and breathtaking cirque artists, accompanied by your favorite holiday music performed live. WANT TO GO? $43-$103. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Public Menorah Lighting FREE WHEN: Thursday, Dec. 2, 6pm WHERE: Chabad of Great Neck, The Village Green, Middle Neck and Beach roads, Great Neck AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Hanukkah with music, dancing, doughnuts, and prizes for all kids! WANT TO GO? 516-654-6000. chabadgn.com.

Stories of the Stars FREE WHEN: Friday, Dec. 3, 6:30-8:30pm WHERE: Connetquot River State Park Preserve, Sunrise Highway, Bohemia AGES: All WHAT: Come out for a fun night all about constellations and the exciting mythological stories that go along with them. WANT TO GO? $4. 631-581-1072. parks.ny.gov.

Holiday Party for Wildlife and Craft Market WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 4, 3-9pm WHERE: Sweetbriar Nature Center, 62 Eckernkamp Drive, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Bundle up with a cup of hot cocoa, browse local handmade craft and artist vendors, and enjoy short animal presentations, photo ops, and story times for kids. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. Donation accepted. 631-979-6344. sweetbriarnc.org.

Annual Holiday Fair WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 4, 9am-4pm WHERE: Southold Historical Museum at Peconic Lane Community Center, 1170 Peconic Lane, Peconic

Long Island Ballet Theatre presents ‘The Nutcracker’ WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 4, 2pm and 6pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: This classic full-length ballet production features professional and pre-professional dancers from across the Long Island and NYC. This is a special narrated version suitable for everyone! WANT TO GO? $35; $28 children. 516-767-1384. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

AGES: All WHAT: Take photos with Santa and shop for the holidays. Plus, raffles, face painting, crafts, and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 631-7655500. southoldhistorical.org.

Ocean Creature Encounters Drop-In WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 4, 1-3pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Check out real whale bones, shark jaws, and other artifacts from the museum's collections; go on a scavenger hunt; and create an ocean-tastic craft. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members, plus admission: $6; $5 seniors ages 62 and older and children ages 4-18; free for children ages 3 and younger and those with an active military with ID. 631367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Tree Lighting Ceremony WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 4, 5-7pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Watch as Santa Claus lights the Hatchery’s Christmas Tree at 5:30pm. WANT TO GO? $10 suggested donation per family. 516-6926768. cshfishhatchery.org.

Country Parlor Holiday Folk Art & Gift Show WHEN: Nov. 26-Dec. 5, Friday, Nov. 26, 9am-3pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-3pm WHERE: Hallockville Museum and Farm, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Shop Rustic Santas and tree ornaments, holiday home décor, and gifts, plus stocking stuffers including local jams and preserves, hand made all-natural soaps, and so much more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 631-2985292. hallockville.org.

Christmas Craft Fair WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 9am-4pm

WHERE: St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church, 800 Portion Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: All WHAT: Shop crafts and gits, enter raffles, and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 631-7374388. steas.org.

Where Did Everybody Go? WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Sunken Meadow State Park, 25A and Sunken Meadow Parkway, Kings Park AGES: All WHAT: Take a walk around the park to discover some clever and resourceful ways animals survive the colder months. WANT TO GO? $4. 631-581-1072. parks.ny.gov.

Chanukah Wonderland WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: The Chai Center, 501 Vanderbilt Parkway, Dix Hills AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Hanukkah with arts and crafts, games, and activities such as decorating doughnuts, sand art, finding Judah the Maccabee, and making special Hanukkah candles. WANT TO GO? $12. 631-351-8672. thechaicenter.com.

Hot Chocolate and Santa WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 2pm, 3pm, and 4pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: All WHAT: Have hot chocolate and cookies during this Christmas-themed performance, then decorate a Christmas ornament before you meet and take a photo with Santa! WANT TO GO? $20; $10 children and seniors; additional fee for photos with Santa. 631-737-1964. ballet-long-island.square.site.

Brookhaven Town Tree Lighting FREE WHEN: Friday, Dec. 10, 6pm WHERE: Holtsville Ecology Site, 249 Buckley Road, Holtsville AGES: All WHAT: Hang out with costumed characters and enjoy hot chocolate, candy canes, music, and a special appearance by Santa Claus, who will arrive by helicopter to assist in the tree lighting. WANT TO GO? 631-451-5330. brookhavenny.gov. LongIslandParent 29 LongIsland

Santa Brunch WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 10am, 12pm, and 2pm WHERE: Long Island Aquarium, 431 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a delicious buffet brunch, make a special take-home holiday keepsake, and capture a family photo with Santa! WANT TO GO? $59.95; $53.95 members; $29.95 children ages 3-12; $26.95 child members; $5 children ages 2 and younger. 631-208-9200 x426. longislandaquarium.com.

Breakfast with Santa WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 11, 10:30am-12:00pm WHERE: United Skates of America, 1276 Hicksville Road, Seaford AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a full buffet breakfast and meet Santa, Frosty, the Wooden Soldier, Rudolph, Mrs. Claus, and more! WANT TO GO? $22; $18 per child; free for children ages 2 and younger. 516-795-5474. unitedskates.com/seaford.

Festival of Games: Retro Holiday Shopping and Gaming Event WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 11, 10am-9pm WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Boulevard, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Shop local small businesses for retro video games, toys, comics, and collectibles. Plus, enjoy free gameplay in the Arcade Age Exhibit featuring more than 70 arcade classics. WANT TO GO? $20; $15 children 2-12 and seniors. 516-5724111. cradleofaviation.org.

Guided Nature Walks WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 11, 10-11am WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Explore different aspects of the preserve’s environment, encompassing its unique physical features and wildlife, as well as critical conservation issues. Participants must maintain social distancing and wear facemasks. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members; $5 children; free for child members. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserveconservancy.org.

2021 Jingle Bell Run WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 11, 9am WHERE: Hofstra University, 1000 Hempstead Turnpike, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Strut your stuff in your favorite holiday costume while raising money for the Arthritis Foundation. WANT TO GO? $35. 908-347-6040. jbr.org/longisland.

The 42nd Annual Holiday Festival FREE WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 12-6pm; 5:30pm tree lighting WHERE: Stony Brook Village Center, Main Street on the Harbor, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: The 42nd Annual Holiday Festival will feature a Legends & Spies Puppet Procession, Santa listening to children’s wishes, Holiday Train Display, plus carolers and live music before the holiday tree lighting. WANT TO GO? 631-751-2244. stonybrookvillage.com.

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'Tis the Season for Photos with Caring Santa FREE WHEN: Dec. 5-12, Sundays, 10-11:30am WHERE: Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: All WHAT: Come meet Santa during this private photo experience exclusively for children with special needs. WANT TO GO? See website for pricing. 631-724-8066. simon.com.

Elf Jr. The Musical WHEN: Dec. 10-12, Friday, 7pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma

Aglow: A Holiday Experience at the Moran Studio WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 11, 5-7pm WHERE: Thomas & Mary Nimmo Moran Studio, 229 Main St., East Hampton AGES: All WHAT: Discover the origins of many of today’s holiday customs, visit with Santa Claus, enjoy live Christmas music, and a make a small children’s craft. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children younger than 16. 631-324-6850. easthamptonhistory.org.

AGES: All WHAT: See the heartwarming story of Buddy the Elf finding his true family and saving Christmas! WANT TO GO? $18; $9 children and seniors. 631-737-1964. ballet-long-island.square.site.

Breakfast With Santa 2021 WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 12, 11am-1pm WHERE: The Royal Palm, 2143 Boundary Ave., Farmingdale AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the joys of the season with a festive celebration at Breakfast with Santa. WANT TO GO? $40; $22 children younger than 17; $20 additional child. 516-845-1151. eventbrite.com.

Greenland Nursery 6th Annual Community Tree Lighting FREE WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 12, 5-7pm WHERE: Greenland Landscape and Nursery, 292 Town Line Road, Commack AGES: All WHAT: Be there for this special tree lighting featuring Mr. and Mrs. Claus, Christmas music, hot cocoa, and more! Please bring an unwrapped toy for children in need. WANT TO GO? 631-368-7182. eventbrite.com.

Sunday Afternoon Concert: The Rock Underground Holiday Show FREE WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 12, 2-3pm WHERE: Patchogue-Medford Library, 54-60 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: Students from The Rock Underground, Patchogue's new music school, will be performing holiday tunes for your enjoyment! WANT TO GO? ? ? 631-654-4700. pmlib.org.

The Holiday Market WHEN: Nov. 27-Dec. 18, Saturdays, 11am-4pm WHERE: Gallery North, 90 N. Country Road, Setauket AGES: All WHAT: Find a diverse selection of original paintings, prints, photography, ceramics, pottery, woodwork, glassware, artisan created jewelry, handmade crafts, decorations, and clothing. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 631-7512676. gallerynorth.org.

The Nutcracker Act II WHEN: Dec. 15-18, Wednesday, 11am and 12:15pm; Saturday 1pm and 3pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: All WHAT: This 50-minute version of The Nutcracker brings you to The Land of Sweets where there is chocolate from Spain, tea from China, coffee from Arabia, and dancing flowers. WANT TO GO? $18; $9 children and seniors. 631-737-1964. balletlongisland.com.

Rodgers and Hammerstein's Cinderella WHEN: Nov. 19-Dec. 19, Friday-Saturday, 8pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: All WHAT: Cinderella enchants family audiences with its majestic score and magical story. WANT TO GO? $40; $35 seniors; $27 students. 631-226-8400. studiotheatrelongisland.com.

Home for the Holidays WHEN: Dec. 9-19, Thursday-Sunday, 6-9pm; Saturday, Dec. 11, 2-5pm WHERE: Planting Fields Arboretum, 1395 Planting Fields Road, Oyster Bay AGES: All WHAT: Experience the magic of the holidays next to a roaring fireplace, listening to live jazz with a big mug of cocoa in a 1920’s Tudor revival, decorated to fill your heart with the holiday spirit. WANT TO GO? $40; $20 children ages 7-17; $38 seniors; $100 Family (2 adults, 2 kids); free for children ages 6 and younger. 516-922-8678. plantingfields.org.

Madison Theatre Christmas Celebration WHEN: Dec. 18-19, Saturday, 2pm and 6pm; Sunday, 3pm WHERE: The Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Becoming an annual family tradition, this Christmas spectacular will have you singing along to your favorite Christmas tunes. WANT TO GO? $40-$55. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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‘Tis the Season for Pet Photos with Santa FREE WHEN: Nov. 21-Dec. 19, Sundays, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Roosevelt Field, 630 Old Country Road, use mall entrance near Dick’s Sporting Goods, Garden City; Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove AGES: All WHAT: Bring your pets to pose with Santa! Please make sure to have your pet on a leash or in a cage for the safety of all participants. WANT TO GO? Photo packages start at $39.99. 516-7428001. simon.com.

Eglevsky Ballet presents The Nutcracker WHEN: Dec. 18-19, Saturday, 2pm and 7pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Tilles Center for the Performing Arts, LIU Post, 720 Northern Blvd., Brookville AGES: All WHAT: The annual holiday classic, choreographed by Maurice Brandon Curry, features Tchaikovsky’s beloved score performed by the Park Avenue Chamber Symphony. WANT TO GO? See website for pricing. 516-299-3100. tillescenter.org.

Breakfast with Santa WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 19, 10am-12pm WHERE: The Roslyn, Tapestry Collection by Hilton, 1221 Old Northern Blvd., Roslyn AGES: All WHAT: Indulge in a buffet breakfast, take photos with Santa, and tell him your Christmas wishes. Reservations required by Dec. 14. WANT TO GO? $53; $26.50 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-625-2746. events.eventzilla.net/e/ breakfast-with-santa-2021-2138830490.

A Charlie Brown Christmas WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 19, 3pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: All WHAT: Join Charlie Brown as he finds his holiday spirit and learns about the true meaning of Christmas from his friend Linus. WANT TO GO? $18; $9 children and seniors. 631-737-1964. ballet-long-island.square.site.

Victorian Christmas at Moran Studio WHEN: Dec. 1-23, Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-3pm WHERE: Thomas & Mary Nimmo Moran Studio, 229 Main St., East Hampton AGES: All WHAT: Be transported back to the 19th century at this special holiday exhibition featuring festive décor, period clothing, antique postcards, beautiful silver, and period toys. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-324-6850. easthamptonhistory.org.

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WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: Ring in the holiday season with this classic ballet featuring international ballet stars and young dancers from the metro area. WANT TO GO? $25-$50. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

'Tis the Season for Photos with Santa WHEN: Through Dec. 24: See website for schedules WHERE: Roosevelt Field, 630 Old Country Road, Garden City; Smith Haven Mall, 313 Smith Haven Mall, Lake Grove; Walt Whitman Shops, 160 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station AGES: All WHAT: The ultimate holiday tradition is back: photos with Santa! Make your reservation today! WANT TO GO? $39.99 and up. 516-742-8001. simon.com.

Ballet Long Island presents The Nutcracker WHEN: Monday, Dec. 27, 3pm and 7pm WHERE: CM Performing Arts Center, 931 Montauk Highway, Oakdale AGES: All WHAT: Follow Clara as she embarks on a journey filled with brave soldiers, dancing snowflakes, and excitement. WANT TO GO? $40. 631-737-1964. balletlongisland.com.

Cocoa & Crafts WHEN: Dec. 27-29, Monday-Wednesday, 10am-4pm, every 30 minutes WHERE: Garvies Point Museum, 50 Barry Drive, Glen Cove AGES: All WHAT: Join the museum each day for a fun craft inspired by nature, plus enjoy complimentary hot cocoa and an educational film! WANT TO GO? $5; $3 children ages 5-12. 516-571-8010. garviespointmuseum.com.

Frosty WHEN: Nov. 21-Jan. 2, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: Join Jenny and Frosty as they try to save the town of Chillsville from mean old Ethel Pierpot. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

Hampton Ballet Theatre School Presents The Nutcracker WHEN: Dec. 17-19, Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 1pm and 7pm; Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Stony Brook Southampton’s Avram Theater, 239 Montauk Highway, Southampton AGES: All WHAT: The students of HBTS will transport the audience to a land where angels, snowflakes, and flowers dance and Clara saves the Nutcracker Prince from the evil Mouse King. WANT TO GO? $25-$45 in advance; $35-$50 day of show. 888-933-4287. hamptonballettheatreschool.com.

Long Island Garden Railway Society Holiday Display WHEN: Dec. 22-Jan. 2, 2022, Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Boulevard, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: Watch period large scale steam and diesel trains traversing the display containing various scenic vignettes including a drive-in theater, carousel, and a Grumman hanger! WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $16; $14 children ages 2-12 and seniors. 516-572-4111. cradleofaviation.org.

NYC Winter Lantern Festival: A Bug's Night Drive-Thru Adventure WHEN: Through Jan. 9, 2022: See website for schedule WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: A Bug’s Night will dazzle your family as you drive through more than 20 acres of vivid lanterns and holiday lights! WANT TO GO? $34.99 weekdays; $49.99 weekends; $59.99 week of Dec. 24-Jan. 2, 2022. nycwinterlanternfestival.com.

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Younger Kids Play Time, Learn Time FREE WHEN: Through Nov. 18: Monday and Thursday, 2-3pm WHERE: Suffolk County Farm, 350 Yaphank Ave., Yaphank AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bring your little ones to discover an outdoor space that allows for messy play, building, and interactive art exploration, as well as a music and movement area. WANT TO GO? 631-852-4610. ccesuffolk.org.

stART (Story + Art): 10 Fat Turkeys WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 18, 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Listen to 10 Fat Turkeys, practice counting down from 10 to one, and “dress up” your own turkey decoration! WANT TO GO? $14; $13 ages 65 and older, plus: $4 or $3 LICM members. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

Music and Movement WHEN: Through Nov. 24: Wednesdays, 10:30am and 11:30am WHERE: Long Island Children’s Museum, 11 Davis Ave., Garden City AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Enjoy creative movement exercises and interactive singalongs that get little bodies moving to the rhythm. WANT TO GO? $14; $13 ages 65 and older, plus: $4 or $3 LICM members. 516-224-5800. licm.org.

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Elementary-Age Kids Colonial Games WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 27, 10-11:30am WHERE: Connetquot River State Park Preserve, Sunrise Highway, Bohemia AGES: 8 and older WHAT: Take a journey to the past and visit Colonial America! Leave that smartphone behind in modern times and test your coordination with a ball and cup. Join the park for these and many other fun games! WANT TO GO? $4. 631-581-1072. parks.ny.gov.

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Beauty and the Beast WHEN: Nov. 17-20, Wednesday, 11am and 12:15pm; Saturday, 1pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: All WHAT: The classic tale of a young girl who is captured by a beast and grows to love him. WANT TO GO? $9-$18. 631-737-1964. ballet-long-island.square.site.

Hometown Explorers: Once Upon a Farm FREE WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 20, 1-2pm WHERE: Patchogue-Medford Library, 54-60 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Join the library at the Bush Farm for look at the history of Long Island farming. See collections of equipment and tools used on farms at this fascinating living history museum. WANT TO GO? 631-654-4700. pmlib.org.

Thank You Turkey Thanksgiving Paint Event! WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 20, 12-1pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Paint a fun thanksgiving turkey! Step by step painting taught by a certified teacher. All supplies included! WANT TO GO? ? $25 per painter. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Family Wampum Workshop WHEN: Saturday, Nov. 27, 1pm and 2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Discover the ancient craft of Wampum beads and learn what it means to Indigenous Long Islanders. Create a wampum-style beaded accessory of your own to keep. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members, plus admission: $6; $5 seniors ages 62 and older and children ages 4-18; free for children ages 3 and younger and those with an active military with ID. 631-3673418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

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WHEN: Through Nov. 30: Thursday-Sunday, 11am-4pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum of Cold Spring Harbor, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Enjoy seasonal, self-serve crafts. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $6; $5 seniors ages 62 and older and children ages 4-18; free for children ages 3 and younger and those with an active military with ID. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Seashell Celebration & Ornament Workshop WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 1pm and 2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Find out how to identify shells local to Long Island, then decorate a special shell ornament to hang at home. WANT TO GO? $10 or $5 members, plus admission: $6; $5 seniors 62 and older and children ages 4-18; free for children ages 3 and younger and those with an active military with ID. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Family Hour Sunday WHEN: Sunday, Dec. 5, 1-2pm WHERE: Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington AGES: 5-10 WHAT: Children are invited for a family-friendly art experience to explore works of art in the museum and create fun art projects! WANT TO GO? $10 per child. 631-351-3250. heckscher.org.

Princess Tea Party WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 11, 1pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Join the princesses and their friends for a tea party including cupcakes, candy canes, hot chocolate, and more. Plus, take photos with the princesses and Santa! WANT TO GO? $19. 631-737-1964. balletlongisland.com.

Frozen, Jr. WHEN: Nov. 20-Jan. 17, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Frozen, Jr. expands upon the emotional relationship and journey between Anna and Elsa. When faced with danger, the two discover their hidden potential and the powerful bond of sisterhood. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

Clumsy Reindeer Paint Event! WHEN: Saturday, Dec. 18, 11am-12pm WHERE: Key to My Art, 10 W. Oak St., Amityville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Paint a clumsy reindeer to celebrate the holidays! Step by step painting taught by a certified teacher. All supplies included. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-608-9048. keytomyart.com.

Barnaby Saves Christmas WHEN: Nov. 20-Dec. 26, Saturdays, plus Dec. 24 and 26, 11am (no performance Dec. 25) WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: As Barnaby and his reindeer friend set off on their journey to save Christmas, they meet new friends along the way and learn the true meaning of Christmas, Hanukah, and the season. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

A Christmas Carol FREE WHEN: Through Dec. 26: See website for schedule WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Follow the miser Ebenezer Scrooge on a journey that teach-

es him the true meaning of Christmas—past, present, and future. WANT TO GO? 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

Star Quest WHEN: Dec. 11-31, Thursday-Sunday, and Dec. 26-31, 11am-4pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Hunt for star constellations with a spyglass to navigate your journey. Solve puzzles to find your reward! WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members, plus admission: $6; $5 seniors ages 62 and older and children ages 4-18; free for children ages 3 and younger and those with an active military with ID. 631-3673418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

New Planetarium Show: Birth of Planet Earth WHEN: Through Jan. 8, 2022: Tuesday-Sunday, 2pm WHERE: Cradle of Aviation Museum, Charles Lindbergh Boulevard, Garden City AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Birth of Planet Earth tells the twisted tale of our planet’s origin and explores some of the greatest questions in science. WANT TO GO? $5, plus admission: $16; $14 children ages 2-12 and seniors ages 62 and older. 516-572-4111. cradleofaviation.org.

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Tweens & Teens Laser Engraved Pens FREE WHEN: Thursday, Nov. 18, 2:30-4:30pm WHERE: Patchogue-Medford Library, 54-60 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Learn to engrave pens using the laser engraver in the Makerspace. Children younger than 12 need an adult present. WANT TO GO? 631-654-4700. pmlib.org.

Peter White Christmas with Mindi Abair & Vincent Ingala WHEN: Friday, Nov. 26, 8pm WHERE: The Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Contemporary jazz lovers eagerly await this annual holiday concert. WANT TO GO? $45-$95. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

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Winter Activities DIRECTORY The Argyle Theatre at Babylon Village

34 W. Main St., Babylon 631-230-3500 argyletheatre.com boxoffice@argyletheatre.com The best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear! Bring the whole family to see the iconic holiday favorite ELF The Musical brought to life onstage Nov. 11-Jan. 2, 2022. Use Code: PARENT for $10 off (discount valid off individual, premium mainstage tickets only).

Gateway Playhouse

215 S. Country Road, Bellport 631-286-1133 thegateway.org boxoffice@thegateway.org Featuring two-time Olympian Nancy Kerrigan and World Class Figure Skaters, the Holiday Spectacular on Ice is literally the “coolest” show for all ages. This family-friendly musical celebration brings holiday songs to life while emphasizing the beauty, grace, and artistry of figure skating. Dec. 17-Jan.1, 2022.

Gazillion Bubble Show

New World Stages, 340 W. 50th St., Midtown, Manhattan 212-239-6200 gazillionbubbleshow.com The “unbubblievable” international hit for the whole family! Bubble lovers of all ages are delighted with an “incredibubble” experience and may find themselves inside a bubble! Mind-blowing bubble magic, spectacular laser lighting effects, and amazing bubble artistry make you smile, laugh, and feel like a kid again!

Landmark on Main Street: Jeanne Rimsky Theater

232 Main St., #1, Port Washington 516-767-6444 landmarkonmainstreet.org allison@landmarkonmainstreet.org Landmark on Main Street in Port Washington offers exciting holiday shows all month long including

Long Island Ballet Theater Presents The Nutcracker on Dec. 4 and Cherish the Ladies: A Celtic Christmas on Dec. 12. Learn about all our shows online at landmarkonmainstreet.org or call for tickets at 516767-6444.

Long Island Nets Basketball Games

Nassau Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale 934-948-2546 longisland.gleague.nba.com Catch us from the jump this season at the Long Island Nets and experience the future of the NBA right here on Long Island. The NBA G League affiliate of the Brooklyn Nets offers affordable prices and family-friendly fun. This unforgettable experience starts at $20. The season runs November-March.

Madison Theatre at Molloy College

1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre 516-323-4444 madisontheatreny.org kmarino@molloy.edu The Madison Theatre Christmas Celebration is a mustsee celebration for the holiday season. This fun-filled show brings the excitement of family parties, friends playing in the snow, and Santa’s workshop all coming to life on the stage! Madison Theatre is your home for the holidays! Call for tickets 516-323-4444.

New York Botanical Garden: Holiday Train Show

718-817-8716 nybg.org ticketingsupport@nybg.org The Holiday Train Show is back at the New York Botanical Garden, featuring model trains zipping past famous New York landmarks like the Statue of Liberty, Brooklyn Bridge, Rockefeller Center, and other favorites—each delightfully re-created from natural materials. Now through Jan. 23, 2022. Get tickets at nybg.org.

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Rescue Rue

DR2 Theatre, 103 E. 15th St., Union Square, Manhattan 212-239-6200 rescuerue.com When a dog named Rue wishes for a “Happily Ever After,” she embarks on an emotional journey of self-discovery and belonging. Rue meets new friends and enemies alike on the street and at the pound before finding her “Furever” home, realizing that life is about finding happy beginnings, not endings!

Soccer Shots

171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-558-2266 soccershots.com/longislandwest liwest@soccershots.com Join us for winter season at Soccer Shots! Youth soccer for children ages 2-8. Weekday and weekend options available, as well as indoor and outdoor programs. Come out and play, stay healthy, and have fun. Enroll at soccershots.com/liwest.

Urban Air Lake Grove

3147 Middle Country Road, Lake Grove 631-861-4125 urbanairtrampolinepark.com/ locations/new-york/lake-grove Fly 30 feet in the air on our Sky Rider, build muscles on our climbing walls, navigate next level obstacles on the Ropes Course, and whirl in our Spin Zone bumper cars. We’ve been voted “Best Gym in America for Kids” by Shape Magazine! Reserve tickets in advance at urbanairtrampolinepark.com.

Gateway Playhouse

Midtown, Manhattan gazillionbubbleshow.com

Huntington Learning Center

Multiple locations across Long Island huntingtonhelps.com Landmark on Main Street

Port Washington landmarkonmainstreet.org

Uniondale longislandnets.com

Madison Theatre at Molloy College

Rockville Centre madisontheatreny.org

New York Botanical Garden

Soccer Shots

Nassau and Suffolk counties soccershots.com/liwest

Lake Grove urbanairtrampolinepark.com

School-Break Camps

Seasonal Events

Open Play Sessions

Family Activities

Drop-Off Activities

Birthday Parties

Babysitting Nights

Day Trip Destinations

Babylon Village argyletheatre.com

The Argyle Theatre

Urban Air Lake Grove

The Bronx nybg.org Rescue Rue

Long Island Nets

Union Square, Manhattan rescuerue.com

After-School Programs

Bellport thegateway.org Gazillion Bubble Show

ACTIVITY TYPE The Whole Family

Ages 13 and Older

Ages 9-12

Ages 4-8

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Ages 3 and Younger

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health

The Rise in Kids Illnesses

As COVID safety guidelines loosen, common colds and infections are back. Here’s what to look out for and how to boost kids’ immunity. By Gina Lamb-Amato, M.D.

ince the COVID-19 pandemic lockdown, common childhood viral infections were, until recently, seen at a much lower rate in the pediatric population. COVID-19 preventive measures like lockdowns, mask-wearing, social distancing, staying inside, and cleaning surfaces at an increased frequency, prevented common respiratory and gastrointestinal viral infections from spreading in children. Now that children, for the most part, are not in lockdown and the above COVID-19 preventive protocols have become more universally relaxed in the U.S., pediatricians are seeing an uptick in respiratory and gastrointestinal diseases.

WHAT’S GOING AROUND? RSV infections, which cause respiratory and pneumonia illnesses in babies younger than 1, started being diagnosed this spring and summer and continue to be a threat. Before the pandemic, RSV was mainly seen in the winter months. During the pandemic lockdown, RSV and other viruses including influenza A, influenza B, norovirus (aka the stomach bug), and parainfluenza (a virus that causes colds, bronchitis, and other illnesses) were at much lower levels than pre-pandemic lockdown. 38

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DECREASED IMMUNITY Children’s social and school life were extremely restricted when schools, preschools, nursery schools, and day care programs were shut down. Normally, babies and children develop their immune system by being exposed to viruses, bacteria, fungi, and other microbes. When babies and young children play in the dirt with other kids, they are exposed to microbes, which helps them develop and regulate their immune systems. They further develop immunities to different childhood diseases when they enter school or a day care setting. The lockdown’s strict hygiene protocols, along with being kept at home, prevented children from exposure to microbes and the opportunity to develop their immune systems. Since very young children have not been exposed to non-COVID-19 infectious diseases like colds and the flu, they have not developed and increased antibodies to these illnesses. Therefore, children do not have the strong immune system they would have normally developed. This means kids are at risk for having decreased immunity to pediatric infectious diseases. Another reason for decreased immunity is that many kids did not get the immunizations they needed during the lockdown.

IMMUNITY BOOSTERS There are many ways to boost your child’s immune system, from feeding and diet choices to encouraging a healthy lifestyle. Breast is Best: For newborns, breast-feed if you’re able. There is colostrum in breast milk, which helps build your baby’s immunity. Wash Your Hands: Have your child wash their hands frequently, especially when they come inside your home and before meals. Have them sing “Happy Birthday,” which is about 30 seconds long and an essential duration to kill viruses, bacteria, and fungi. There are other hand-washing songs and games, such as “Baby Shark,” which is available on YouTube. Stay on Track: Make sure to keep your child up to date with all their vaccines. When children do not get their immunizations according to schedule, they are at risk for childhood diseases. Follow Doctor’s Orders: Please don’t insist on antibiotics if your pediatrician recommends otherwise. Unnecessary, chronic overuse of antibiotics causes antibiotic resistance and weakens the immune system’s response to infections. Then, when antibiotics really are needed, they don’t work as well. Be Good to Your Gut: Excellent nutrition boosts immunity. Probiotics and prebiotics are great for your child’s gut health. » Kefir, sauerkraut, yogurt, and pickles are good sources of probiotics. » Prebiotics, which are plant-based, help stimulate good bacteria to grow in the gut. Plantains, yams, and asparagus provide prebiotics too. Snack Well: Make sure your kids have a varied diet to get all the nutrients they need, such as: » Nuts, seeds, and beans contain zinc, which is one of the most important minerals that boost kids’ immune systems, as well as vitamin E and healthy fats. They support the immune system to function optimally because they have antioxidant properties. » If your child eats meat or animal-based foods, they are good sources of zinc. » Oranges and grapefruits are an excellent source of vitamin C. Vitamin C prevents cell damage, promotes collagen production, and lowers cortisol, which is the hormone that can cause stress. » Blueberries have natural antihistamines, which help reduce inflammation. They have many antioxidants, including flavonoids, which can minimize symptoms of stomach virus and colds. » Apple skins contain quercetin, a flavonoid that decreases

inflammation. Encourage your child to eat the whole apple, including the peel. » Pears also contain vitamin C and anti-inflammatory flavonoids in their peels. Get Cooking: Cook with vegetables and spices, like broccoli, dark leafy greens, garlic, turmeric, ginger, and bell peppers. Leafy green vegetables have vitamins A, B6, C, D (helps with blood clotting), and K; magnesium; and calcium, which help your child’s immune system fight infection. The antioxidants help to detoxify a child’s system from pollution, chemicals, infectious diseases, and high levels of sugar. Supplement if Needed: It is better for kids to boost their immunity through eating the right foods rather than taking supplements. However, some children are picky eaters and the only way to get vitamins and probiotics into them is with supplements. » Keep in mind that supplements are not regulated by the government the way medications are regulated. When you buy vitamins or minerals, these products have not been evaluated for FDA approval. Some supplements contain ingredients and quantities of ingredients that aren’t mentioned. With more and more fortified foods like breakfast cereals, granola bars, orange juice, and even fortified water, your child’s vitamin intake might be excessive with supplements, and can interfere with the absorption of other nutrients. If your child is taking medication for an illness, supplements can interact and have an adverse effect on their immune system. » Supplements will never replace proper nutrition from food. Get creative! If kids don’t consume leafy greens, for example, make zucchini muffins or smoothies! » One supplement to give kids is vitamin D since kids cannot get enough of it from food. The natural way to get vitamin D is through sun exposure, but that is difficult because children often use sunscreen when outdoors. Rest: Sleep is when a child’s body rests, regenerates, and heals. Sleep deprivation is associated with decreased immunity. Move: Exercise builds resilience in children, thereby making them able to fight infectious diseases. Get outside and moving with your kids! Keep Calm: Finally, it is important to reduce stress and anxiety in children to boost their immunity. This can be done through mindfulness activities, yoga, meditation, and deep breathing. Helping children decrease stress is one of the best immune boosters.

Gina Lamb-Amato, M.D., is a pediatrician who has worked in conjunction with Mount Sinai’s pediatric team. She has a master’s degree in child development and child psychology and helps perform consultations and evaluations for children ages newborn to 12. She also runs parent-child playgroups, where play, art, baby massage, and other techniques are used to help children develop optimally. She has training and expertise in COVID-19 and offers consultations for parents to help their children cope with the stress of the pandemic.

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just for moms

In The House

These picks are just what the doctor ordered for a cozy mom’s night in. By Zlata Faerman

all me a stereotyper, but moms are always the most overwhelmed during this time. We’re figuring out who to host for Thanksgiving and what to serve, what presents to get the kids, and let’s not forget about staying on top of the kids' schoolwork and extracurriculars! The most stressful time deserves an evening (or two or three) of doing whatever it is mom wants to do. Personally, I’d be happy binging Netflix shows and devouring LiveKuna’s KunaPops. Here are my top picks for how to spend a memorable and/or uneventful mom’s night in.

I absolutely love to get creative with charcuterie and sharing boards. It’s almost a therapeutic expression of art that I get to eat afterward. My favorite things to include: all of the cheeses, salami, and dark chocolate by Kuli Kuli Foods (trust me on this) piled on a Stryve Biltong Slab (trust me on this, too!). (kulikulifoods.com and stryve.com)

If you haven’t yet heard of Hands Down (@handsdowncookies on Instagram), then you’re missing out! This one-woman show by Alyson Levine makes gourmet, readyto-bake, pre-portioned cookie dough, delivered straight to your door. Prepared fresh with the highest quality ingredients and frozen for peak flavor, Hands Down cookie dough balls are packed by the dozen in vacuum-sealed packages, ready for baking whenever you are. Making these is an actual event in my house and is truly an exceptional cookie experience. A mom’s night in can be pretty awesome if you’re inviting other moms to stay in with you. It’s even better when you don’t have to cook for all of them. Enter: Potluck (potluck.us). With this app, you have the ability to determine who is bringing what. While Potluck helps put the ease on in-person gatherings, you can also utilize it for virtual gatherings.

When I watch TV at night and online shop at the same time, I have no fewer than 30 tabs open, so I like to call this experience “window shopping.” Clothes, shoes, and bags are fun, but my current obsession is Ryan Porter (shopryanporter.com), where I shop custom jewelry for friends, fam, and myself—duh.

Jiggy Puzzles are a great way to wind down after a busy day (week? month? year?). They were created by ex-theSkimm employee Kaylin Marcotte, who used puzzles as her nightly meditation from her demanding work but found many uninspiring. So, Marcotte set out to create a new kind of puzzle—an elevated, modern take on the classic jigsaw—and is supporting female emerging artists from around the world at the same time (jiggypuzzles.com). A percentage of each sale goes to the artist.

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Ear seeds are adhesive seeds that you stick to certain points of your ear. Yinova’s ear seed kits (yinovacenter.com) include crystal and gold, which not only look pretty, but also enhance health and wellness as they stimulate pressure points. They’re a form of auricular acupuncture, which considers the ear a microcosm of the rest of the body. Meaning, you’re able to treat every part of your body through small pressure points in the ear. The ear seeds are said to be effective for treating many chronic conditions. It’s worth a try, right?

Mom-Culture Picks Editor Jeannine Cintron shares what she’s obsessed with this month. WHAT WE’RE STREAMING: WORKIN’ MOMS» You don’t have to be a working mom—frankly, being a mom is leaps and bounds harder than any actual paid position I’ve ever had—to fall in love with Netflix’s side-splitting series about a group of mom friends and their adventures into parenting while clinging desperately to their careers. So if you’re looking for a fun weekend binge, put this one in your queue ASAP.

WHAT WE’RE LISTENING TO: CRIME WEEKLY» What is it about murder that grabs us and keeps us listening long after the kids have gone to bed? Why are the tales of others’ extreme misfortune the key to relaxation at the end of a long day? Don’t ask me! All I know is, I’m far from alone with my crime show obsession, and Crime Weekly with Stephanie Harlowe and Derrick Lavasseur is my favorite by far. The podcast takes listeners down a long and winding path, exploring every available nook and cranny of each case it covers in fascinating detail. As a former homicide detective, Lavasseur offers an investigatory perspective that many other crime podcasts can’t, which is what makes this one stand out amongst the many, many others.

WHO WE’RE READING: TAYLOR JENKINS REID» Daisy Jones & The Six by Taylor Jenkins Reid is one of the most unique books I’ve read in a long time. Fans of the movie Almost Famous will likely tear through the book in a very short time. After finishing it, I quickly ordered The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, which I also devoured, loving its Hollywood-glitz-and-glam-with-a-twist vibe. I just started her latest Malibu Rising, which was touted as a “beach read,” after its June 2021 release date. But I’m sure it will be just as good if I’m curled up in a blanket by the fireplace.

WHO WE’RE LISTENING TO: OLIVIA RODRIGO» Sure, she’s probably young enough to be your kid, but her catchy pop tunes have all the justified angst of Alanis Morissette circa 1996. You’ll find yourself angry with your ex all over again—even if you broke up before Olivia Rodrigo was born.

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index BIRTHDAY / PARTY SERVICES Urban Air Adventure Park......................................................................................... 21

Rescue Rue................................................................................................................. 8 Urban Air Adventure Park......................................................................................... 21

CAMPS

PLAY SPACES

Beth Sholom Day Camp............................................................................................ 17 Countryside Montessori School................................................................................... 7

Urban Air Adventure Park......................................................................................... 21

CLASSES

Once Upon a Child................................................................................................... 13

Soccer Shots............................................................................................................. 18

DEVELOPMENTAL

RETAIL SPECIAL NEEDS

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech...................................................................... 5 Yellow Bus ABA.......................................................................................................... 2

Huntington Learning Center....................................................................................... 8 Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech...................................................................... 5 Yellow Bus ABA.......................................................................................................... 2

EDUCATION

SPORTS

Countryside Montessori School................................................................................... 7 Holy Child Academy.................................................................................................. 13 Huntington Learning Center....................................................................................... 8

Long Island Nets....................................................................................................... 44 Soccer Shots............................................................................................................. 19

FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT / EVENTS / OUTINGS

Argyle Theater at Babylon Village................................................................................ 5 Gateway Playhouse.................................................................................................. 19 Gazillion Bubble Show................................................................................................ 3 Landmark on Main Street, Inc................................................................................... 21 Madison Theatre at Molloy College........................................................................... 23 Rescue Rue................................................................................................................. 8

Argyle Theater at Babylon Village................................................................................ 5 Gabby’s Dollhouse.................................................................................................... 43 Gateway Playhouse.................................................................................................. 19 Gazillion Bubble Show................................................................................................ 3 Landmark on Main Street, Inc................................................................................... 21 Long Island Nets....................................................................................................... 44 Madison Theatre at Molloy College........................................................................... 23 NYBG - Train Show..................................................................................................... 7

THEATRE

TUTORS Huntington Learning Center....................................................................................... 8

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Articles inside

How to Celebrate the Holidays with Your Nanny

Hosting Holidays: A Thankless Task

The Rise in Kids Illnesses