November 2019
An exclusive magazine serving the residents of Chatham, New Jersey
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Meet the Klein/O'Briens: Still a Family
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Families matter to the attorneys at DHKW, who recognize that family law cases require sensitivity and financial sophistication. DHKW provides both support for the emotional and psychological impact of divorce and the expertise to plan for their clients’ financial wellbeing. DHKW has vast experience in negotiating, mediating, arbitrating, and litigating cases involving divorce, custody, parenting time, alimony, division of assets, and liabilities, as well as domestic violence and appeals. The firm’s partners include former and current chairs of the Essex and Morris County Bar Associations’ family law committees, a former Morris County Bar Association president and Morris County Bar Foundation president, and a current officer of the New Jersey State Bar Association’s Family Law Executive committee and the Morris County Bar Association. Three of the firm’s partners are New Jersey court-approved mediators and three are AAML-certified family law arbitrators. Phyllis S. Klein, Esq. and Stephanie Frangos Hagan, Esq. Donahue, Hagan, Klein & Weisberg, LLC 44 Whippany Road Morristown, New Jersey 07960 (973) 467-5556 pklein@dhkwlaw.com and shagan@dhkwlaw.com www.dhkwlaw.com
Dear Residents, As we celebrate family during the Thanksgiving season, we bring you a story about love, compromise and respect with the Klein/O'Brien family. Although Phyllis Klein and Brendan O'Brien are divorced, they are still a family with their sons Sam and Tristan. The Klein/O’Brien family’s arrangement is nothing short of admirable. Meet them on page 6. Should your child take the SAT or the ACT? Our education expert contributor Rick Michalak provides some guidance on page 21.
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"Roth vs. Traditional IRA – Which is Right for You?" writes Chatham Wealth Management, our wealth management expert contributor. Find the firm's recommendations and advice on page 13. Dr. Oleh Slupchynskyj, our cosmetic non-invasive and invasive skin procedures expert contributor, finds that most if not all his patients just want to look a little fresher, not so tired, glowier, and healthier—but they don’t want to look “done.” There are many secrets that do not require a surgical procedure. Healthier, better-looking skin (no matter what your age) is possible. Turn to page 15. Choosing a child care center is one of the most important decisions you will make for your child. Karen Fusco, director of Child Care Services at the F.M. Kirby Children’s Center of the Madison Area YMCA shares some insights on page 17. Turn to page 9 to read a Q&A business profile with Salerno Duane General Sales Manager Mike Salerno. We have milestones to share! The Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township is celebrating it's 60th anniversary--page 16. Chatham Methodist Preschool is celebrating 50 years--page 22. Wishing you a blessed and wonderful Thanksgiving! Stacey and John
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EDUCATION Breakaway Prep Test Prep & College Admissions Rick Michalak, Owner 268 Green Village Rd, Suite 2, Downstairs, Chatham, NJ and 18 Bank St. Downstairs, Summit, NJ 07901 973-457-1150 • rickm@breakawayprep.com breakawayprep.com
ACUPUNCTURE Morgan Reade, NJ Advanced Acupuncture Downtown Madison 6 Green Village Road, Madison, NJ 201-400-2261 www.njadvancedacupuncture.com Morgan Reade L.Ac., M.S. Morgan is Board Certified through NCCAOM (National Commission for the Certification of Acupuncturists and Oriental Medicine). As a practicing Acupuncture Physician he perfected his acupuncture skills on a broad spectrum of patients including sports injuries, autoimmune thyroid, digestive and infertility. He is dedicated to the preservation and advancement of the art, science and practice of Oriental Medicine in an ethical manner, enhancing the health and well-being of the general public and his patients.
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FAMILY DENTISTRY Dr. Jacqueline S. Reid DDS 390 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-635-9456 www.jacquelinesreiddds.com Since 1998 our office has proudly provided high quality dentistry in Chatham and surrounding areas. Services include all aspects of modern dentistry as well implant restorations and prosthetics, cosmetic restorations. Dr. Reid is on staff at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital as director of the dental residency training program.
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LEGAL: DIVORCE MEDIATION AND LITIGATION Phyllis S. Klein, Esq. and Stephanie Frangos Hagan, Esq. Donahue, Hagan, Klein & Weisberg, LLC 44 Whippany Road, Morristown, NJ (973) 467-5556 pklein@dhkwlaw.com and shagan@dhkwlaw.com www.dhkwlaw.com Legal disputes involving marriage and children are among the most difficult situations a family can face. Phyllis Klein and Stephanie Hagan have been practicing family law for over 30 years. Their goal is to help clients through this challenging experience with compassion and understanding- advocating for favorable resolution through negotiation or mediation whenever possible, but always with total preparation to litigate successfully, if necessary.
ORTHODONTICS Dr. Barbara Fodero, DDS, MS Chatham Orthodontics 33 Main Street, Chatham, NJ 973-701-2200 www.chathambraces.com Dr. Barbara Fodero has provided orthodontic treatment for children and adults for over 17 years. She earned her dental degree from the University of Michigan, graduating first in her class, and continued there to complete three years of training in the specialty of orthodontics.
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MEET THE KLEIN/O'BRIENS: STILL A FAMILY By Stacey McEvoy
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Photos by Christine Loy Photography and courtesy of the Klein/O’Brien family amily provides love, support, guidance, laughter and, let’s face it, some tears at times. At the end of the day, most people agree that family is everything. Families also come in different arrangements. The Klein/O’Brien family’s arrangement is nothing short of admirable. Phyllis Klein and Brendan O’Brien have been divorced since 2009 and both live in Chatham. They are the parents of Sam, a sophomore at the College of Charleston and Tristan, a Chatham High School senior. “From the beginning, we told our kids that we are still a family- Mom and Dad and two kids. That has not changed just because we are not a couple and don’t live in the same house,” says Phyllis. The pair have continued to parent well because they share information and consult each other on decisions. They work through disagreements just like married parents- they talk and then compromise or make concessions. “We have very different personalities. However, what makes it work is that we genuinely like and respect each other and we have similar value systems. Also, we appreciate our relationship and recognize that it could easily fall apart if we don’t take care of it,” says Phyllis, adding, “In an intact, happy marriage, you can afford to lash out because you know you have the good will of the marriage that can survive it; but in divorce you have to be more carefulyou need to stay calm, choose your words and, if venting is necessary, vent elsewhere.” A family law attorney for more than 30 years, and a partner in Donahue Hagan Klein & Weisberg, LLC, in Morristown for 23 years, Phyllis’ primary practice is in divorce mediation. Divorce mediation is a cooperative process in which an impartial third party (the mediator) meets with both spouses, with or without
their attorneys, to assist them in reaching a mutual agreement. The idea is that there is a better way to resolve a divorce than battling in an adversarial context. Instead of litigating first and then trying to possibly settle, the mindset is to try and settle first and litigate only if you must. Phyllis is proud of her success rate in efficiently resolving issues not only for clients who have chosen to mediate from the start, but also for those who have been unable to resolve matters in the court system and seek mediation later in the process. Phyllis believes her success results from her tenacity and blunt and common sense approach. “Litigation is such a negative process,” says Phyllis. “It’s expensive, both emotionally and financially, and it can take years. The hardest part of divorce is being in limbo; limbo is a terrible struggle for spouses and it is worse for children who find themselves in the middle and out of sorts, even in the most amicable of divorces. Many divorcing people suffer from a misconception that if they can get their day in court to tell their story, they will somehow come out on top; but, they don’t realize that they have no control over what the judge will decide. In mediation, you need to compromise, but you actually have a say in that compromise, which gives you far greater control. As a mediator, Phyllis always projects a positive mindset. “Clients, particularly those who choose mediation after having battled for a while in the litigation trenches, often think I can’t settle their matter. I always tell them they are wrong, that it is not rocket science. There’s always a resolution. If we don’t find it, a judge will—so why don’t we try to find it?” Phyllis advocates for respect between couples who are divorcing or divorced. She advises clients to try to keep their emotions in check when communicating with the other parent. “Make that a practice. If the relationship is tenuous, you don’t have the luxury to express anger to the other parent because the ramifications could be devastating. And, never disparage the other parent to the children or fight with the other parent in front of your children when you are divorcing or are divorced. The children have already been forced to experience ‘broken’, an experience that they did not ask for, so you have to avoid making it worse. We put our children on this Earth and we owe them as peaceful an upbringing as possible,” she says. Acknowledging that not every divorce situation can be as amicable as hers is, Phyllis says she has learned to have reasonable expectations of clients who come to her practice.
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“I just demand civility and reasonableness. Parents need to try to get past or at least put aside their hurt or anger. Parents should appropriately greet each other when they exchange their children and be flexible with parenting arrangements. They should use kind words to and about each other. They should share information and help each other out, just like parents who are married. You don’t have to have kumbaya, but it should be peaceful, respectful and courteous,” she says, noting that her personal experience with divorce has made her a better family lawyer and a better mediator. Brendan and Phyllis are always welcome at each other’s homes. “Each of our homes is one of our family’s homes,” she says. “Brendan comfortably walks into my house and it is not unusual for me to come home and find him in the house hanging with the kids. I’m moved by that.” In fact, over the years, it has not been uncommon for the family to dine together and share holidays and birthdays, sometimes with their extended families who, because of the way Brendan and Phyllis treat each other, continue to treat Brendan and Phyllis as family members. They have attended together virtually all of the children’s school and sports functions, have made college visits together and have attended many professional sporting events as a family, including hockey games and an annual trip to the U.S. Open. They even took their sons on a family vacation to Hawaii the spring break before Sam left for college. It went so well that they are planning a trip to England before Tristan heads off to college next fall.
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Phyllis and Brendan still share many of the same friends so they attend the same parties and gatherings in town. People know they don’t have to choose. “Our friends compliment Brendan and me on how we handle ourselves and our family,” says Phyllis. “In fact, other divorcing couples have told me that
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RESIDENT FEATURE they use our family as a model. Truthfully, that’s bittersweet. Clearly, I appreciate that we have not done our kids a service by getting divorced, but I do think we have done things in the best possible way.” Reflecting on Sam and Tristan, Phyllis says that other than immediately after their separation, she and Brendan never felt that the boys were struggling with the divorce. To the contrary, the boys perceive them as a unit. “One time, when Tristan was getting frustrated because I wasn’t agreeing with him on a particular issue, he said he would call his dad. I said go ahead, I’m interested in hearing his opinion. Then Tristan said, ‘Forget it, there’s no point- Dad’s going to agree with you anyway!’” Another time, “Our babysitter was driving Sam’s carpool and she got into a fender bender. The car was one that Brendan and I jointly used, but it was in Brendan’s name. I was on the phone with Sam as he looked for the registration for the police officer and I heard him say, ‘I’m on the phone with my mom but it’s my dad’s car but it’s OK because my parents get along really well.’ What Sam said made no sense, but my heart just swelled. These are examples of my windows in that all was reasonably well,” says Phyllis. “Brendan and I are human and we are imperfect, just like every other set of parents,” says Phyllis. “We don’t think or talk about how to function in divorce. We just function the best we can as parents in a family, just like everyone else. Isn’t that the goal?”
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Q & A WITH SALERNO DUANE GENERAL SALES MANAGER MIKE SALERNO By John White
Mike Salerno, General Sales Manager, Salerno Duane Chrysler, Dodge, Jeep & Ram
Mike, tell us about Salerno Duane? Salerno Duane has been in Summit for over 30 years and now on our 3rd generation of family in the business. In all we have four dealerships, with two in Summit – Chrysler, Dodge, Jeep, Ram and Ford. Tell us how you got to your current role as general sales manager? It’s been 15 years of working in multiple jobs from auto detailing, doing inventory in the parts department and selling my first car at 19. Over that time I also graduated from Mendham High School and went to Penn State. I always knew I wanted to be in the family business. How do you like to approach the sales process at the dealership? We just want to treat people right by listening to their thoughts, find out what
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they want, their needs and concerns. We are not looking to steer them in the buying process. We gain folks' trust by listening to their needs. Our reviews are strong – and we are community driven, word of mouth key for us. We look to treat people right. And my goal as GSM is to be value driven and make the shopping experience a success and fun at the same time. The goal is also to make people want to come back to you when the time is right for them. Key things folks should know about your Service Department & Body shop? Our Service Department is the most intricate part of the business. If you treat people well there and provide adequate updates on peoples vehicles, it'll make people come back and continue to do business with you. Curtis, our service manager, is well aware of that. The body shop is something I really want to start promoting more throughout our community. Chris is a master at fixing any type of vehicle. If you are in the unfortunate situation that you need work done to your vehicle, we are here to fix it as soon as possible, and if requested ahead of time, we can even provide you with a loaner vehicle. What’s a product trend for Chrysler, Dodge, Jeep & Ram? FCA (the parent company) has listened to Americans and tailored their product line with the main focus being on SUVs. Key among them is the new 2020 Jeep Gladiator, a new body style Wrangler in
2018, a redesigned Cherokee in 2019, and a redesigned 2019 Ram 1500. What do you do in your spare time? I’m a big sports fan: Giants, Yankees, Knicks (unfortunately) and Rangers. Avid golfer as well, a member at Morris County Golf Club. Big picture goals in your role as GSM? Promote the Salerno Duane name within the community, continue strong ties with Summit and surrounding neighborhoods – like Chatham & Madison! Treat people right, grow the Salerno-Duane brand and continue the tradition as a third generation car dealer.
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CALENDAR OF EVENTS Sun., Nov. 3 PASTEL AND ACRYLIC ART SHOW WITH PAM GOSNER @Library of the Chathams Time: 2:15 p.m. Opening reception, sponsored by the Friends of the Library www.chathamlibrary.org Tues., Nov. 5 BOOK TALK WITH LISA TOGNOLA @Library of the Chathams Time: 7 p.m. Chatham resident Lisa Tognola will speak about her recent novel ”As Long As It’s Perfect.” Lisa is a freelance writer and former humor columnist at The Alternative Press. www.chathamlibrary..org Wed., Nov. 6 JERSEY LIGHTENING: A STORY OF BOOZE, APPLES AND LOCAL HISTORY Time: 7 p.m.
@ Library of the Chathams Maressa McFarlane of the Morris County Parks Commission will speak about the history of the alcoholic beverage, Apple Jack, and its production in New Jersey. www.chathamlibrary.org Wed., Nov. 6 & 20 GEN Y AND OTHER JOB SEEKERS NETWORKING GROUP @Library of the Chathams
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Mon., Nov. 11 & 25 CHATHAM BOROUGH COUNCIL MEETING @Chatham Borough Hall Time: 7:30 p.m. www.chathamborough.org Mon., Nov. 11 WORLD WAR I – THE GREAT WAR 100 YEARS AFTER @Library of the Chathams Time: 7 p.m. Tom DeStefano, an instructor of history at Bergen Community College, will present a lecture on the causes of Word War I, how the United States became involved, the Zimmerman Telegram, the role of trench warfare and how new military weapons affected the outcome of the Great War. www.chathamlibrary.org Tues., Nov. 12 STILL TIRED: LEARN “THE ABZ’S OF SLEEP”
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Sun., Nov. 10 BUSINESS OF YESTERDAY (CHATHAM TOWNSHIP HISTORICAL SOCIETY) @Chatham Township Municipal Building Time: 2:00 p.m. Kevin Doherty will be highlighting some of the local businesses that served and supported the Township, Green Village, Madison and Chatham Borough back when all businesses were locally owned and the shopkeepers knew your name and where you lived. www.chathamtownshiphistoricalsociety.org
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@Chatham Township Municipal Building Time: 7:30 p.m. www.chathamtownship-nj.gov Mon., Nov. 18 “IS YOUR YOUNG ATHLETE AT RISK FOR AN ACL INJURY RUINING THEIR SEASON? LEARN PREVENTION MEASURES” @Professional Physical Therapy and Training (within the Madison Area YMCA) Time: 7:30 p.m. Free, but registration required. Call 973-270-7417 www.professionalptandtraining.com/ seminars Tues., Nov. 19 “GET YOUR LIFE BACK FROM BACK PAIN” @Professional Physical Therapy and Training, (within the Madison Area YMCA) Time: 7:00 p.m. Free, but registration required. Call 973-270-7417 www.professionalptandtraining.com/ seminars
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Are you a bit rusty with your Italian language skills? Luciana Santoriello and Frank Foca will moderate Italian discussion groups. www.chathamlibrary.org Wed., Nov. 13 FAIRMOUNT COUNTRY CLUB LADIES ANNUAL CHARITY EVENT @Fairmount Country Club Time: 7:30 p.m.
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appy Fall Ya’ll! Fall fun continued for the Chatham Newcomers & Social Club in October. As new friends and old gathered, we had some very memorable events. Here are some highlights: October started off with a lively Oktoberfest held at the Chatham Township Volunteer Fire Department. We raised a glass to “prost” and had some great food, games, drinks and dancing! Monthly book club included a wonderful discussion about My Brilliant Friend, a Neopolitan novel, by Elena Ferrante. Light bites and drinks added to the gathering! A visit to Wightman Farms in Morristown is always a special fall treat and a favorite children’s event among our members. Ladies' Night Out at Club Pilates in Madison. This special family day included hayrides, pumpkin picking and a corn maze. Of course, the day wasn’t over until all enjoyed a hot apple cider and donut. It was also “Game On” with the ladies! We had a fantastic showing for a good old fashioned game night at CNSC member, Shannon Newman’s home. The ladies got to show off their competitive side and an amusing time was had by all. Big winners all around! Joining and registering for events like these is easy and can be done online: https:// www.meetup.com/Chatham-Newcomers-and-Social-Club/events Even if you’ve been in town for only a few days or for many years, we have many new as well as seasoned Chatham residents in our membership. Annual fees are $45/FAMILY. Also check out our website at https://www.chathamnewcomers.com, follow us on Instagram (search: chathamnewcomerssocial) and like our Facebook page (search: Chatham Newcomers and Social Club) to see our upcoming events and photos.
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VETERANS OF CHATHAM TOWNSHIP
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Contributed by Patricia Wells, Chatham Township Historical Society he Chatham Township Historical Society has limited information on veterans who were Township residents. We want to change that. We want to identify any and all veterans from the Revolutionary War to the present day, whether he or she was born in the Township or became a resident later in life. We are asking the public to help us on this project. Let us know about the Township veterans from your family or from friends’ and neighbors’ families. Do you have stories to share, letters, photographs? We want to hear them and see them. Building a historic record of the veterans of the Township that can be shared now and with future generations is an essential undertaking of the Historical Society. Please join us in the effort. You can contact us through our website www. chathamtownshiphistoricalsocietyor our e-mail at chathamtownshiphistory@ gmail.com. You can also drop us a note at P.O. Box 262, Chatham, NJ 07928. The Red Brick Schoolhouse Museum is open the first Sunday of every month from 2-4 PM. Come talk to us.
Freddie Welsh, World Lightweight Boxing Champion, who ran a Health Farm on Fairmount Avenue enlisted in the army during WWI and used his athletic training skills to help rehabilitate wounded soldiers at Walter Reed Army Hospital. The Knapp Family who lived on Southern Blvd for many years sent four of five sons to two World Wars. Edgar Knapp served in both wars. Sam Averett, who lived at Dixiedale for most of his life enlisted in the navy during WWII, then served in the reserves and the Korean Conflict. Sam’s older brother, Elliott, Jr. also served in WWII.
Green Villager Grace Sweeney of the WACS was stationed in Africa during WWII. Her brothers, Edward, Kenneth, and Walter, Jr. also served. Lt. Edward Nicolai died in a plane crash while serving with the Navy Air Forces in 1943. His niece recently donated his dress uniform cap to the Township Historical Society. Please share any information you have about these and other Township veterans with us.
During WWII, Ervin Hoag, who was Township mayor in 1971 and 1972, fought on the Pacific Front and served in North China as a marine. Madelene Huebner enlisted in the WAVES as a code breaker.
Here are just a few of the veterans we do know of: Louis Noe, who lived in the Noe Farmstead on Southern Blvd, fought with the Continental Army for 6 ½ years during the Revolution. The next family to occupy the homestead sent two sons to the Union Army. William Miller lost his arm at Gettysburg and his brother, Minard, died several years after the war from illness contracted while in the army.
Ervin Hoag, Marine Corps, in Tienen China, 1945 (Courtesy of Chatham Township Historical Society)
John Nicholas, Union Army, 1862-65 (Courtesy of Chatham Township Historical Society)
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Rudolph Knapp, Marine Corps WWI and Oscar Knapp, Army, WWI & WWII (Courtesy of Chatham Township Historical Society)
ROTH VS. TRADITIONAL IRA – WHICH IS RIGHT FOR YOU?
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side from funding your 401K tax advantaged plan at work, individual retirement accounts (IRA) should be used to supplement retirement savings. The question that we often get asked is whether to contribute to a Roth or traditional IRA.
The answer to this question depends on whether you think you will be in a lower or higher tax bracket when you retire than what you are in now. This is difficult to determine since retirement may be many years in the future and you are not sure what the tax laws will be or what tax bracket you will be in. The important thing is to understand how a Roth differs from a traditional IRA. When you contribute to an IRA, you get the tax advantage up front in the form of a deduction from your income tax (subject to phase outs at certain income levels). The assets in these accounts grow with no capital gains tax. When you are 70 ½ years old, you are required to start taking the funds out of the IRA just like you would need to do with a 401K. At this point, any dollar taken out of your IRA would be taxed at your tax rate at the time that you make the withdrawal. When you contribute to a Roth IRA the tax advantage is deferred. The money that you put into a Roth is after you have paid taxes. The assets in the account grow tax free. At no time are you required you take the funds out, and when you do take the money out, there is no income tax paid at that time as you have already paid the taxes on this money up front.
Also, the Roth IRA is more flexible if you need to make an early withdraw (before 59 ½). You are able to take out your original contributions without paying a penalty or tax. However, if you take an early withdrawal from an IRA in most situations you will pay a 10% penalty plus income tax. There are certain income limits that apply to qualify to put money into a Roth, but if you are below those limits and are currently in a lower tax bracket, it makes sense to contribute money to a Roth IRA. This also provides a tax diversification strategy. The 401K and IRA are the same in that income is realized when you take the money out and taxes are paid at that time. So you may think that you will be in a lower tax bracket when you retire, but depending on the size of your retirement plans, pension plans, or other sources of income, your tax bracket may be higher than you think. Alternatively, you will pay no taxes on the Roth and you get to decide when you take it out. And as long as you have income, you can contribute to a Roth IRA. For young people just entering the workforce the Roth IRA is a great option. A combination of a 401K at work and a Roth IRA is a good strategy for your retirement planning. At Chatham Wealth Management, we advise on all aspects of financial planning as well as managing your investments. Please contact us at www.chathamwealth.comif you would like us to conduct a free portfolio review.
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FROM CADETS TO RNS: HOW THE CHATHAM EMERGENCY SQUAD SHAPED THE FUTURE FOR TODAY’S YOUNG PROFESSIONALS ENTERING THE MEDICAL FIELD Contributed by Craig Alperowitz, Chatham Emergency Squad
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had no plans to work in the field of medicine - I wanted to be an engineer,” admits Justin Corbitt who graduated from Fairfield University as a nursing major and recently passed the national test to become a registered nurse (RN). Same with Jay Crigler, who graduated from the University of Scranton with a nursing degree this spring and achieved her RN designation the same week as Corbitt in August 2019. “My mom was a nurse, and I wanted nothing to do with that, growing up. I was very interested in the criminal justice system and saw myself in that field.” But for both of these young professionals, all that changed in the Spring of 2013 when they were sophomores at Chatham High School and began volunteering with the Chatham Emergency Squad’s cadet program later that summer. Both became certified EMTs and they learned the ins and outs of pre-hospital patient care, teaching them life-saving skills and setting a new trajectory for both their lives. Sarah Nelson, on the other hand, knew exactly what she wanted. She was accepted into the cadet class of 2009, graduated from Chatham High School in 2011 and studied nursing at Quinnipiac University in Connecticut. “No one in my family was in medicine, but I knew from an early age it’s something I wanted to do and joining the Chatham Emergency Squad made it crystal clear this was going to be my profession.” All three of these former cadets are now working at local area hospitals. Nelson is an RN in the emergency room at Morristown Hospital. Crigler is a patient care technician at Overlook Hospital while she seeks full-time employment as an RN, and Corbitt is an RN at Overlook in the intensive care unit. All continue to volunteer as a certified member of the Chatham Emergency Squad in addition to their work responsibilities. Beginning as an experimental program in 2003, the Chatham Emergency Squad cadet program has since flourished into a more formal program that teaches life-saving skills to students entering their junior year of high school. Cadets join the Sports Medicine/Physical Therapy
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Cadets to nurses: (L-R) Jay Crigler, Sarah Nelson and Justin Corbitt
Squad as high school sophomores and, soon thereafter, earn certification as a New Jersey EMT. After graduation, they are eligible to become full members of the Squad. “Many of our cadets go on to careers in healthcare. No matter their career choice, all cadets who complete the program have a highly developed sense of service,” said Steve Davenport, captain of the Chatham Emergency Squad and co-cadet manager with Nicole DiMaggio. “The pre-hospital training we provide can serve as a springboard for other patient care settings. But even more amazing, we see many former cadets returning to their roots and continuing to serve with the Squad after college graduation. They strengthen the Squad not only by extending our roster but also by virtue of their advanced training.” “Joining the Squad was the best decision I ever made,” said Crigler. “We do an excellent job of caring for and transporting patients to the hospital, but I wanted to be there for the next phase of patient care - and thus, my nursing career was born.” Corbitt agreed. “It opened my eyes to new possibilities and the long-term opportunities are endless," he said. He’s right, actually. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics’ Employment Projections 2016-2026, Registered Nursing is listed among the top occupations in terms of job growth through 2026. The Bureau also projects the need for an additional 203,700 new RNs each year through 2026 to fill newly created positions and to replace retiring nurses. Asked what advice she’d give to today’s high school freshmen and sophomores, Nelson suggests they jump in and learn as much as they possibly can. “Don’t be afraid to go outside your comfort zone; you’ll learn valuable life skills and make life-long friends.” Corbitt and Crigler agreed, both referring to their assigned duty crews as their “second family.” With the foundation of an education provided by the Chatham Emergency Squad, there’s no telling how far these young professionals will fly. In fact, you may have to look to the skies in the years ahead, as both Crigler and Corbitt have aspirations of becoming flight nurses and providing quality care to critical patients needing to be transported via aircraft. And who will meet them at the hospital when they land? Don’t be surprised if it’s Sarah Nelson.
HEALTHIER, BETTER-LOOKING SKIN AT ANY AGE
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By Dr. Oleh Slupchynskyj, Chatham MediSpa r. Slupchynskyj finds that most if not all his patients just want to look a little fresher, not so tired, glowier, and healthier—but they don’t want to look “done.” There are many secrets that do not require a surgical procedure, including Botox, injectable fillers, and every laser imaginable to treat breakouts, sun spots, wrinkles, sagging, and overall dullness. Healthier, better-looking skin (no matter what your age) can be had, Dr. Slupchynskyj explains. Most common non-surgical treatment requested? Botox—this treatment is the gold standard for giving a natural, rejuvenated appearance. Botox treats two types of wrinkles – both dynamic and static. Dynamic wrinkles are visible only when making a facial expression, while static lines are deep wrinkles in the skin that occur after decades of smiling, frowning or raising your eyebrows. Injected into the proper locations, Botox does an amazing job of eliminating both types of wrinkles. Over time, Botox treatments can be used as a preventative measure against static lines. How important is sunscreen? Sunscreen is the most effective preventative and anti-aging product you can use. Everyone should find some form they’re comfortable using, from zinc to UPF clothing. If ever there was a magic bullet for keeping skin from aging, this is it. Ninety percent of the aging we see on our skin comes from the sun. Favorite procedures to do and why? Botox and laser resurfacing. Botox, when performed in a way that does not freeze but simply reduces unnecessary lines, is one of the most effective rejuvenating procedures available today. Laser resurfacing makes my patients’ skin look healthy. The process stimulates our immune system to heal the skin, which improves texture, tone, lines, and pores. I can customize treatment based on the nature and extent of skin damage, skin
type and your individual requirements for recovery time. Some patients may opt for deeper resurfacing for its full effect, while others only require light resurfacing. Best tips for exfoliating - physical, or chemical, or both? I recommend physical exfoliators for more-sensitive skin because you can titrate the intensity up and down based on how much, how often, and how much pressure you use. Chemical exfoliators are less modifiable for sensitive skin but are better at turning over deeper layers of the skin, which will likely benefit those of you needing more brightening rather than just texture improvement. Best skin-care product for the over-forty upgrade? After sunscreen and retinols, I encourage the forty-plus category to use antioxidants topically on a routine basis. Taking them internally is also a good idea. The topical serums, such as Obagi Professional-C, help reduce free radical damage from ultraviolet light exposure and also reduces fine lines and age spots. Don’t’ leave home without.... Sunscreen. You can keep a tube in the glove compartment of your car. Remember to use it on the back of your hands as well. This takes just seconds to apply and will help to prevent photoaging from prolonged exposure (especially while driving) that manifests as brown spots and crepey, leathery skin.
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THE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH OF CHATHAM TOWNSHIP CELEBRATES 60 YEARS Contributed by the Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township
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he Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township, a vibrant, multi-generational congregation that celebrates the glory of God through faith, fellowship and service, is celebrating it's 60th anniversary. In the late 1950’s a small group of dedicated people from an essentially agricultural Chatham Township realized a vision of establishing a Presbyterian congregation. The Township was growing and the need for the church was enthusiastically welcomed. The Rev. Dr. Chester M. Davis was assigned by Presbytery to verify the interest and work on the church’s organization. Rev. Davis rang doorbells of every potential household, receiving a sufficiently positive response to forming the new congregation. In 1959, along with the purchase of an 8-acre site, over 200 people signed the Covenant of Membership, thereby establishing The Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township. On December 1, 1969, at a special worship service, 224 charter members were voted into membership by the Presbytery of Morris and Orange. It was the largest church ever organized by the Synod of New Jersey at that time. The land, known as the Merkler property, consisted of a farmhouse and a barn and was purchased for $30,000. While the barn made way for construction of the new church, the farmhouse became the “Church House,” where for several years,
Members of the Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township celebrate at the 60th Anniversary
almost all the church functions except Sunday worship were held. Worship was held in the basement of the Southern Blvd. School until a permanent building could be constructed. Rev. Davis, as organizing pastor, stayed with the congregation until organization was complete and PCCT would be ready to call a permanent minister. The Rev. Dr. Lincoln Griswald became PCCT’s first senior pastor in 1960. That year also marked groundbreaking for the new fellowship hall. The idea was to “better estimate what the size of the sanctuary we shall eventually need” by building the fellowship hall first. Construction was completed in two years. Much of the finishing touches and yard work was done by members. The new building was home to a library, Sunday School
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classrooms, staff offices, a kitchen and space for the many programs and meetings already going on. Within five years, the Women’s Association, adult and children’s choirs, Bible classes and many activities were well underway. Membership was up to 480 members. Since that time, PCCT has had three major construction projects, many have stood at the alter for communion, dedications, weddings, confirmations and strength. Our people, praying and caring together is what makes us a church and gives us strength. We thank the dedication and foresight of our Charter Members 60 years ago. Their foundation will keep us strong for the next 60 years.
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hoosing a child care center is one of the most important decisions you will make. You want your child to be given the structure, support and skills necessary to become confident individuals and learners, with healthy education habits. And, of course, you want the most value with the highest quality. Asking yourself key questions is a starting point. Are the caregivers and teachers qualified and certified, and do they receive ongoing training to be at the forefront of their field? Is safety a priority and does the facility have enough space for playing? Will they learn academics as well as social skills? Will they be happy? Is there flexibility in the program, with extended care or hours that fit your work schedule and your family’s needs? Can your child grow with the program—are there after-school options through elementary school years? Current early childhood education research shows the importance of growth and development from birth to age 3. A high-quality program encourages children’s curiosity, helps them feel secure and accepted, and creates an environment that nurtures growth and development. Children must develop secure attachments with the important people in their lives to gain confidence as learners. The F.M. Kirby Children’s Center of the Madison Area YMCA is the largest high-quality, full-service early childhood education provider in Morris County. A three-star Grow NJ Kids rated school, the Center was awarded a Golden Acorn Award for Excellence from Preschool Advantage this year. The educational and engaging curriculum creates a stress-free learning environment in a social setting. With full-time and parttime programs for infants, toddlers, preschoolers and schoolage children, students are guided through every age and stage of childhood with individualized learning plans and an emphasis on social skills to create happy students with a love of learning. With year-round enrollment, the Kirby Center is not just the school day, or the school year! It’s extended care, before- and after-school programming and specialty programming such as Talking Tots. Teacher longevity, child-centered curriculum, STEM programming, YMCA membership that provides Family Center program enrollment, and a campus with five playgrounds away from busy streets makes Kirby ideal for early childhood education. Partnering with parents to track milestones and share the latest information about early childhood education, the Center hosts seminars about relevant childhood topics. Free bussing is provided to/from local
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RESTORING A FENCE, DISCOVERING HISTORY Contributed by Helen Ann Rosenfeld, Chatham Historical Society
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hen Bill Torppey moved into his home on Fairmount Avenue, he knew he was moving into an area of town rich in history. His house, and the neighboring homes, sit on what was once “Broadview”, the name of the country estate of James Gifford who purchased the land in June, 1900 and lived there until 1930. It was at this time that Broadview was purchased by Chatham’s Mayor Gilbert Hedden who then sold it in 1940 to Mr. and Mrs. J. William Hatt. While they purchased Broadview, they also purchased the adjoining Hamill property, now known as 178 Fairmount. Although he demolished the Broadview mansion, he left the Hamill house intact. An article from The Chatham Press in January, 1941 states, “These two properties together have a frontage on Fairmount Avenue of 700 feet and a depth of over 1,000 feet, consisting of about 15 beautifully planted acres of land.” The article goes on to say it is the “…intention of the new owner to dismantle the Gifford residence and to
The Hamill House showing the restored fence. (Courtesy of Chatham Historical Society).
cut a street through from Fairmount Avenue to Washington Avenue, thus opening up the property for building lots. This is the most beautiful and most ideally located property for development purposes in Chatham.” Mr. Hatt died before he could start the development, but his wife Beryl saw the plan through and developed the parcel into 29 separate housing lots. This new street was named Broadview Terrace in honor of the torn down Broadview Estate.
The early view of Broadview. (Courtesy of Chatham Historical Society)
Broadview before the 1940 demolition. (Courtesy of Chatham Historical Society)
Mr. Torppey didn’t know all this history at the time, but he did know the original wrought iron and stone fence that lined the front of his property and that of many of his neighbors, was in bad disrepair. The stone pillars that stand on either side of his neighbor's driveway have “Broadview” carved into them, marking the original entrance to the mansion. The century old iron fence stretches from 178 Fairmount to the corner of Fairmount and Broadview Terrace. Not wanting “… to let history crumble away,” Mr. Torppey researched where he could hire an ironworks company that would do proper repairs and preservation. After the repairs, many of his neighbors began to ask who he used and they too invested in having their historical, communal fence lovingly repaired.
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1910 map detail showing the Broadview Estate. (Courtesy of Chatham Historical Society)
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OUT & ABOUT: SEASONAL EVENTS IN DOWNTOWN CHATHAM Contributed by Kara Sibilia, MyChathamNJ the Reasoner Park Gazebo, showcasing Chatham Borough as a go-to place for holiday spirit. Ladies’ Night Out & Late Night Thursdays
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he holidays are upon us, and it’s a magical time of year in Chatham Borough. From spectacular decorations and shopping, to holiday events that will warm your heart, Chatham has something for everyone this season. Holiday Lights The festivities kick off November 21st with a community favorite: “White Lights of Chatham”. This is the Borough’s 7th year running the white lights – a tradition that wouldn’t be possible without the generosity of its volunteers and donors. The Mayor, Borough Council, local businesses and residents provide financial support; volunteers from the Town & Country Garden Club, MyChathamNJ and the Northern NJ Girl Scouts decorate community planters and
While you’re out enjoying the white lights, make sure to take a stroll down Main Street during “Ladies’ Night Out”. On November 21st, participating Chatham retailers will stay open as late as 9 p.m. offering light refreshments, free gift-wrapping and exclusive deals. Vicky Anello of Quartet states, “(Chatham’s Ladies’ Night Out) is one of our favorite events because it kicks off the holiday season - everyone is in such a festive mood, excited to shop locally while enjoying great promotions.” Quartet is offering 20% off your entire purchase (excluding original art, barware and personalization). “Pour HoMMe will be open until 7:30 p.m. and will have refreshments and free gift wrapping,” notes Pour HoMMe’s, Margarita Murray. Many stores are also providing specialty vendors. Carolyn Cherry of Purple Aardvark comments, “One of our amazing artists will be here personalizing her handmade ornaments!” Ellen Eppie of Scooch A Mi says, “Scooch will bring in artisans to showcase their creations especially for this evening.” In addition, late night Thursdays will continue every Thursday through December 19th.
“Small Business Saturday is a great day to support the businesses in Chatham. We will have helpers to assist customers with choosing their (holiday) purchases.” Purple Aardvark will also offer customer perks. “We always love Small Business Saturday. Our first day in business was Small Business Saturday 2016!” notes Purple Aardvark’s Cherry. Quartet will be offering 20% off your entire purchase until 12 p.m., Pour HoMMe will be giving $20 off apparel purchases over $100. But, adds Pour HoMMe’s Murray, “There will also be more exclusive offers that day, so stop by the store to take advantage of some great deals!” Tree Lighting & Santa’s Arrival Join your neighbors and friends for another beloved Chatham tree-dition – a visit from Santa and the annual tree lighting. Sponsored by Turpin Realtors, this year’s event takes place on December 7th at 5 p.m. at the Reasoner Park Gazebo. The Chatham Police Department will escort Santa to the gazebo in a restored, classic police cruiser. Photo ops, fun giveaways, youth performances and free candy canes will ensure a festive night out.
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Amanda Davis Zalis, holding son J.D., was as young as Amanda’s second son Donovan, held by her husband Jeff Zalis, when Amanda’s Dad Jeff Davis first started volunteering and giving back in Chatham. The family business Specialized Auto Craft located at 19 Ogden Street in the Borough has been operating for more than 40 years. Debbie and Jeff Davis are pictured with their daughter and son-in-law. Jeff Davis continues today to volunteer his time, talent and expertise. He refurbished the Borough’s iconic clock adorning Reasoner Park by dissembling the clock and painting all sections including the gold leaf accents in his shop's spray booths in 2017.
A concept launched in 2010 by American Express, Small Business Saturday ® encourages post-Thanksgiving shoppers to support local merchants. The idea of “shopping small” serves as a reminder to think about your hometown entrepreneurs, because supporting local economy creates a thriving community. Quartet’s Anello notes, “We have been successful because of the tremendous support from the local community and the Shop Small movement. We are very grateful for this and make it a priority to give back to our community through participation in local fundraisers and contributions to local charities.” This year, on November 30th, Small Business Saturday comes to Chatham, and will continue each Saturday thru December 21st. Several neighborhood stores are offering incentives for shoppers. Scooch A Mi’s Eppie remarks,
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Chatham Borough Farmers’ Market (CBFM) Don’t forget to prep your Thanksgiving table with a visit to our farmers’ market. The CBFM’s last day for the season is Saturday, November 23rd, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. at Railroad Plaza.
EXPERT CONTRIBUTOR want to do well is true. It is not like the tests our kids take in school. The current version really isn’t that far off from the test that we took in the 70s, 80s, and 90s. It looks different but the testing methodology remains intact.
SHOULD MY CHILD TAKE THE SAT OR THE ACT?
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The ACT is written by...the ACT. ACT is based in Iowa City, Iowa. There has always been a bit of an East Coast bias in favor of the SAT and against the ACT. Because the SAT is written in Princeton, NJ (that’s where the Educational Testing Service is based), there has been an assumption that it’s a smart kid test. Because the ACT is written in Iowa, the perception is that it must be written by farmers. It’s not. It’s written by a group of educators and has actually been around since 1959. The ACT is actually a more comprehensive exam that contains a range of problems that can be considerably more challenging than the problems on the SAT. But the ACT tests students in a much more straightforward manner than does the SAT.
The SAT is written by the Educational Testing Service and is administered by the College Board. Almost everyone in town who has kids at the high school took the SAT in high school. For years, it was the only game in town. Everyone remembers the crazy vocab words, tricky math problems, boring reading passages, etc. One big change with the current version of the test is that, for the most part, vocab no longer is part of the test. It’s only reading comprehension, grammar, and math. One thing that remains a constant though is that the SAT is a tricky test. The idea that you need to know how to take the SAT if you
The ACT used to be a test that was the dominant test for colleges in the midwest and the south while the SAT was the dominant test on the coasts. About eight years ago, that was no longer the case. And today, any college or university in the United States that takes the SAT also takes the ACT. Rutgers will accept the ACT from a Chatham student as readily as it will take an SAT. And that’s why I think it’s a good idea for students to try one of each to see which one works better for them. Once your student has taken both and you decide which one is better, focus on that test. As with everything college admissions related...play to your child’s strengths.
Contributed by Rich Michalak, owner of Breakaway Prep LLC ne of the questions that I hear the most is: What test should my child take - the SAT or the ACT? I would always recommend that a student should try one of each before they decide which one to prep for. Chatham High School gives students the opportunity to take a PSAT and a PACT during sophomore year. That’s a good start in the decision making process. Here are some other things to consider:
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CHATHAM METHODIST PRESCHOOL CELEBRATES ITS 50TH ANNIVERSARY
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Contributed in Vannessa Adamo hatham Methodist Preschool is excited to kick off its 50th anniversary with a series of yearlong celebrations.
The school, which was founded in 1969, started as an outreach program for the United Methodist Church members felt the need for an additional school in Chatham to accommodate preschoolers that offered more than just babysitting services— somewhere children could play, create and grow.
Director Amy Crandall with students
Anne Fullarton, a Chatham Methodist Preschool (CMP) board member, was on the original committee in 1969 and fondly remembers the group purchasing classroom furniture and playground equipment from a nearby school that was closing. Student registration took place at a committee member’s house on Tallmadge Avenue with a line of parents down the street. For the first few years, tuition was $20 a month--a bargain by today’s standards!
High School class and my son being in the weddings of friends he attended preschool with.” Today CMP has 81 students enrolled through six classes that range from an “almost 2’s” class to kindergarten enrichment. Director Amy Crandall is supported by a teaching staff of 13. The school has grown with the community and the needs of its students. This evolution includes research-backed teaching techniques like creative curriculum, an approach that emphasizes active and hands-on learning through experiences. In the past few years, there has also been a move toward incorporating STEAM (science, technology, engineering, art and mathematics) into lesson plans. Generations of children have walked the halls at CMP. Currently, there are a handful of students whose parents are CMP alumni. Katie (Daggett) Bealer and Rachael (Grywalski) Welz both attended in the 1980s and had such happy memories that they wanted their children to have the same experience. Bealer and Welz fondly remember circle time songs, the spacious rooms where children learned through play, and all of the nurturing teachers that made each day special. Bealer’s mom, Susan Daggett, sent her three children to CUMNS, served as a board member for four years, and was
The school started with a class of approximately 16 children in a room that is still used today. By the fourth year, a second class of students and additional teachers were added. The program focused on story time, art, music and play. “In 1987, I remember being put in charge of my neighborhood preschool search,” said Peggy Melvin, retired CMP and Milton Avenue School teacher. “Six families attended the school with us taking turns with carpooling. The relationships created in those early years spanned decades with one child going on to be valedictorian of her Chatham
The original school handbook. Interesting elements noted include tuition of $20 a month, due in two month increments, and the school following the Chatham School District snow day policy. Students learned of a snow day by six blasts on the fire siren at 7:00 a.m. or two local AM radio stations.
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To commemorate the 50th anniversary, artist Ingrid Hoerrner, a former student, created a retro inspired logo that’s reminiscent of pop culture and art in the late 1960s.
then recruited to teach. Last year, Susan completed her 32nd year teaching at the School, and has countless joyous memories from her time in the Blue Room. “Preschool is a time that many of us remember fondly,” said Crandall. “Each member of the CMP team is passionate about their jobs and we are so lucky to be the ones that get to shape young minds and foster a lifelong love of learning. It’s a chance to build social and academic skills in an environment that is caring, positive and exciting.” To commemorate the 50th anniversary, artist Ingrid Hoerrner, a former student, created a retro inspired logo that’s reminiscent of pop culture and art in the late 1960s. The logo will be featured on student t-shirts, and school spirit days will be done throughout the year for the children. Additionally, the school will be holding a fundraising event at Centercourt Athletic Club in April to celebrate the anniversary. Proceeds raised by the school in 2019 and 2020 will go toward funding new playground equipment.
Members of the CMP teaching staff, September 2019
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10 QUESTIONS WITH. . . . CHRISTINE ROSOWICZ
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By Elizabeth Guckian
his month, our “10 Questions” feature is with Christine Rosowicz, founder of the lifestyle blog The Pembrooke Place. Christine has lived in Chatham with her family for 24 years, and is originally from Rockaway, N.J. With her degree in English and her experience working for New Jersey Monthly and New Jersey Bridemagazines, Christine combines her excellent writing skills and creativity with a keen sense of observation, sentimentality, and appreciation for the little things in life. Check out https:// thepembrookeplace.com for a series of delightful musings, recipes, and home décor tips. You can also follow The Pembrooke Place on Instagram and Facebook. What do you blog about and why do you love blogging?
My blog is a lifestyle site showcasing recipes, decor ideas, and a category called Inspire which features books, profiles, and stories. A personal narrative provides the common thread for all the posts as well as a focus on simplicity in life. I enjoy writing the blog as well as photographing the features because it provides a creative outlet for me and brings something positive into the lives of my readers.
Do you follow any other bloggers, and if so, what are some of your favorite blogs?
When, how, and why did you start your blog?
What are your goals for the future of your blog?
I began my blog September 2018. I have always enjoyed writing, and for years many friends encouraged me to find an outlet to write. I had thought a lot about starting a project where I could write and use my background as a food editor and stylist. The theme for the blog stems from one of my favorite passages in literature from The Color Purple by Alice Walker. I talk about it on the “About" page on the blog.
I am planning on a wonderful gift guide for the holidays—gift ideas for all types of people with a convenient link to order. I hope to increase readership, but to simply have followers eager for the next post is considered success for me.
What has been your favorite blog post so far? That’s like asking me who my favorite child is! They are all special in some way, and so many are inspired by living in Chatham and the wonderful people I have known here. If I had to pick one though, probably “Isabel’s Mac and Cheese.” I think the narrative is powerful, and it’s the best Mac and Cheese recipe!
I love Scary Mommy. One minute you can laugh out loud and another find yourself crying over a story.
What are your favorite Chatham restaurants and stores? T.M. Ward because it’s the quintessential small town store, and I love being greeted by the wonderful smell when I enter. I think Chatham Hardware is special because it’s rare to see a little store like this on a Main Street anymore. I have a soft spot for Charley’s Aunt because I love Irish Pubs. Also, Kenny and Linda were amazing when my husband and I ran three St. Baldrick's fundraisers there. What has been your fondest memory of raising your family in Chatham? Honestly, all of it. The community in Chatham is amazing. The friends I made here are now my family. There are so many posts on the blog about living on North Summit Avenue. But my favorite memories stem from the Fourth of July festivities; I even wrote about this idyllic day on the blog. What's your favorite food to make? Anything Italian. I grew up in an Italian family, and it’s at the core of my cooking. If you were shipped to a deserted island for 6 months, what album, book, or movie would you bring? It would have to be a book, and I’d choose Gone with the Wind because it’s long, and Scarlett O’Hara is my favorite literary character. What’s at the top of your bucket list? Seeing the Grand Canyon.
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