May Issue Houston Family Magazine by Houston Family Magazine

May 2021 | Vol. 33 | Issue 5

motherhood appreciation THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU DO

positive peer pressure BOOSTING HAPPINESS WITH FRIENDSHIPS

Youth Runaways LEARN THE CAUSES, SIGNS AND PRACTICE PREVENTION

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TABLE OF CONTENTS 10 HOW MOTHERHOOD MADE ME APPRECIATE MY MOM

From your values to how you raise your own children, your mother has made an impact on your life.

12 POSITIVE PEER PRESSURE

Socialization is an important aspect to a teen's life, see how having friends can boost their happiness levels.

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ON THE COVER

16 YOUTH RUNAWAYS

Learn the causes, signs, prevention and what to do if your child flees.

18 FINDING PURPOSE AT CAMP

We all want our children to be happy and successful. Would you believe that letting them spread their own wings may be the most effective way to do this?

29 A 1970'S KIND OF SUMMER

Give your kids a summer to remember the old fashioned way by planning less and letting kids be kids.

30 KIDDIE SWIM LESSONS

Learn how to get past your child's fears and what to look for in a swim class.

32 SURPRISE MOM WITH A DAY AT THE BEACH

Take off and head down to Galveston for a little sun, great food & relaxation.

34 SOAK UP THE SUN AT KONA KAI RESORT & SPA

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37 WEEKEND WARRIORS

Photo by Pop of Color Photography, Amy Garrett Location: Port Aransas, TX

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IN EVERY ISSUE 5 FAMILY FINDS

7 SUMMER TRENDS

6 PUBLISHER'S NOTE

15 BOOK BITES

Find the perfect gift for mom.

This month we're celebrating Mother's Day, join us in showing our gratitude to mother's everywhere.

Check out our picks for summer fashion

This month it's all about MOM with these book picks from Bluewillow bookshop.

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38 THE BIG TO-DO

Explore all the great things happening in the Greater Houston area.

43 KID AMBASSADOR

Meet this month's HFM Kid Ambassador, Charlotte Bupp.

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Letter from the editor

LET'S CELEBRATE MOTHERS

publisher/editor

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contributing authors Kimberly Blaker Valerie Koehler Chantal Lemieux Sarah Lyons Tish Petty Sandi Schwartz

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As a kid I never left the house without a hug, kiss or a blessing from my mom. That simple gesture served as an invisible shield wherever I went. Now that I am a grown woman with children of my own, I have established the same routine with a few words from the heart before my children climb out of the car, rush off with their friends or go to sleep for the night. The article “How motherhood made me appreciate my mom” is a dedication to the connection we feel with the strong women who came before us and the strong women some of us are raising. Several of our articles in this issue are dedicated to the idea of purpose, commencing with “How children find their purpose”. I think it’s so important to hang on to hope by talking about what the future may hold, especially in these chaotic times. It’s also essential to notice how children process the events of their day, focusing on anything that hasn’t gone quite right, maybe a classmate said something they didn’t like which has led us to focus on Positive Peer Pressure and Youth Runaways how even in the darkness, we can show our children how to find the light. A special toast, hug, gift to all the moms- enjoy Mother’s Day in Galveston Take Mom to the Beach, peruse our gift guide for that special thank you or plan that special getaway and head to San Diego. I hope this issue will serve as a useful companion for the journey ahead. Happy Mother's Day!

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LILY NAIL CELEBRATES INDEPENDENCE FROM SPINA BIFIDA Hailee Nail learned her baby had spina bifida on Aug. 13, 2020, when she saw her obstetrician in Tulsa, Okla., for her 20-week anatomy scan. “My OB/GYN told me that it would require surgery and gave me the names of several centers, but he wanted me to go to Houston,” she says. Nail arrived at The Fetal Center at Children’s Memorial Hermann Hospital in the Texas Medical Center on Aug. 25 and went through a 4-day evaluation with members of the affiliated spina bifida surgery team from McGovern Medical School at The University of Texas Health Science Center at Houston (UTHealth). “Hailee came to us when our clinical trial of fetoscopic repair using the NEOX® Cord 1K patch had just opened,” says Ramesha Papanna, MD, associate professor of maternal-fetal medicine at McGovern Medical School at UTHealth. “Spina bifida occurs when an area of an unborn baby’s spine does not form properly in the womb, exposing a section of the spinal cord and spinal nerves. This results in damage to the baby’s nervous system. Traditionally, all infants with spina bifida have surgery shortly after birth to repair the spinal defect. Today, we can repair spina bifida before birth through in-utero or fetoscopic surgery to potentially reduce the risk of complications and improve outcomes over the course of the baby’s life.” Nail was the perfect candidate for the UTHealth clinical trial of the innovative patch, made of donated cryopreserved human umbilical cord and amniotic membrane. “She was 19, and it was her first pregnancy,” Dr. Papanna says. “She had a myelomeningocele sac, which allows for easier closure of the skin during fetoscopic repair. We offered her open in-utero repair of the defect or the opportunity to enroll in the fetoscopic trial.”

Nail asked a lot of questions and remembers feeling well informed by Dr. Papanna and by Stephen Fletcher, DO, associate professor of pediatric neurosurgery at McGovern Medical School, whose role would be to reveal the spinal cord and sew the patch in place over the small defect on Lily’s lumbosacral joint. She also met with KuoJen Tsao, MD, professor of pediatric surgery at McGovern Medical School and co-director of The Fetal Center at Children’s Memorial Hermann Hospital, who opens the abdomen for the fetoscopic repair. “I decided to go with fetoscopic surgery to give my daughter a better quality of life,” says Nail, who was the first participant in the clinical trial. The surgery was scheduled for Sept. 1. “They opened my abdomen vertically from the top of my belly button to midway down the pelvic bone,” she says. “When they got to the uterus, they drilled three holes in order to insert two instruments and a camera. In the photos they took, you can see the patch being placed and Lily’s skin being pulled together and sewn up.” After the surgery, Nail returned to Oklahoma for 2 months before traveling to Houston again to deliver at Children’s Memorial Hermann Hospital. “My recovery was actually really good,” Nail says. “I stayed in the hospital for 5 days and stayed in a hotel room for 2 weeks after discharge. I went for an ultrasound the first week and second week, then flew home.” Lily entered the world via vaginal birth. “In the end,

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I had to be induced,” Nail says. “Lily is amazing. Her bowel and bladder function are good. She has great leg movement and kicks a lot. I’m absolutely amazed at how awesome this team is. I’m not one for hospitals, but I loved my care before, during and after my daughter’s birth.” Nail and her daughter will return to Houston at 12 months after delivery, in December 2021. As participants in the clinical trial, they will be back for follow-up exams for the next 6 years. “The amazing thing about Hailee is that she was able to go full term with no complications during pregnancy,” Dr. Papanna says. “After we induced her, she had 24 hours of labor and then a baby. Lily’s back looked totally normal. We plan to enroll 15 moms, ages 18 and older, who like Hailee, have a singleton pregnancy, a spina bifida defect of 4 centimeters or less, and no preterm birth risk factors. In the future, we hope to expand the use of the NEOX Cord 1K patch to more severe forms of spina bifida.”

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HOW

MOTHERHOOD MADE ME APPRECIATE MY MOM written by Sarah Lyons

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hen I look back at each important moment in my life: the day I learned to drive, my graduation, my wedding, the birth of my first child, she is always standing in the background smiling and cheering me on. More importantly, she was part of the other not-so-monumental moments in my life like when I got stung by a bee, when the kids teased me, and when I cried my way through my first broken heart. My mom was always there to support me through all the moments, big and small. Now that I have been a mom for a dozen years, I appreciate my mom so much more for the things she has always done with little or no recognition. I now realize the sacrifices she made and the monumental effort she put in. Here are just a few reasons why I appreciate my mom a whole lot more since becoming a mom.

FOR MAINTAINING The mother’s work is never done and it is a thankless job. Taking even one day off means more work for days to come. Moms pick up the same toys, wash the same dishes, and do the same laundry over and over again. Not only do moms maintain the housework but they also hold a mental inventory of all items in the home. Most moms can recall the location of the baby’s favorite stuffed animal, the toddler’s missing shoe, the library books, the stapler, and any other random item a family member may request at any given time. I appreciate the example of steadfastness that my mom gave me for maintaining our home.

FOR MANAGING As moms, we often feel like we live in our minivans. Moms

don’t just transport kids from one activity to the next. They also maintain the family calendar, make appointments, and make sure everyone is in the right place at the right time with the right gear (musical instrument, snacks, sports gear, sunscreen, backpack, and the list goes on). Juggling school and activities in itself is a full time job that my mom (and most moms) manage with ease. I appreciate my mom for being the social planner, taxi driver, and personal assistant to our whole family as we grew up.

FOR ENDURING The first time I dropped my son off at a babysitter’s and watched him cry and reach for me in the window my heart broke. As moms, we endure heartache often as we watch our children learn and grow, succeed and fail, and endure illnesses, hurt feelings, and disappointment. Our heart soars when they meet their goals and sinks when things don’t work out. Motherhood is a roller coaster of emotions that us moms withstand without complaint. I appreciate my mom for her strong support of me even when she was hurting too.

FOR THE UNSEEN There are things moms do everyday that go unnoticed. Moms make sure the football jersey is clean before the next game, check in on a sick kid during the night, drop off a forgotten lunchbox, put puzzle pieces back where they belong, replace toothbrushes, clean out the pantry, email teachers with concerns, volunteer, cook, shop, and so many little things that keep a family going every day. The little things that don’t seem to matter, that most won’t notice, that no one asks for, that moms do just because they want to show their love for their family. I appreciate my mom for all the things she has done that I never thought to thank her for.

FOR LOVING ME ANYWAY Moms love their kids through tantrums, potty training, back talk, and rebellion. There is no doubt that raising kids is trying on the patience, but moms have a way of letting us know that no matter what mistakes we make, they will be there to catch us when we fall. I appreciate my mom for loving me even when I was unlovable.

FOR LETTING ME GO When you become a mother, you are the center of your child’s world. You feed them, change them, and comfort them. The more they grow, the more independent they become. While this is something to celebrate, it can be heart wrenching to loosen the grip on a child and trust them to manage life and all of its challenges alone. It’s scary and new and feels more like a loss of control than anything else, but as you watch your child take on life’s challenges it can be a great sense of pride as well. I appreciate my mom for letting me go, grow, and experience life in my own way.

THIS MOTHER’S DAY, TAKE NOTICE OF THE HARD WORK MOMS DO EVERY DAY. ACKNOWLEDGE THE LITTLE THINGS THEY DO, THANK THEM FOR ALWAYS BEING THERE, AND HUG THEM TIGHT BEFORE YOU LEAVE.

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POSITI E —PEER PRESSURE—

HOW FRIENDS CAN BOOST HAPPINESS written by Sandi Schwartz

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We often hear about the many negative aspects of peer pressure and worry that our children’s friends could push them down a path of troubling behavior like bullying or drug use. Fortunately, there is a flip side to peer pressure if harnessed in the right way, as friends can play a major role in building our children’s happiness. Positive peer pressure occurs when friends try to influence others to do something positive, proactive, or productive. This encouragement improves the behavior and attitude of the individual, leading to positive change and growth.

BENEFITS OF POSITIVE PEER PRESSURE Positive peer pressure can influence both thoughts and actions. When children are inspired to think more positively about themselves, their entire life improves. They can overcome negative self-talk and low self-esteem, allowing them to live happier, more productive lives. Our kids’ friends can be a great support to them as they face challenges, try out new things, and explore new ideas. These friends can provide the kind of relationship and support that only a peer can give them. They accept them for who they are, which can help our kids feel more confident and comfortable in their own skin. These friends can also serve as a positive role model to push our child to gain new experiences, and ultimately be a better person. Tackling new tasks can be hard for kids since it takes courage and confidence. For some, it is easier if they have a buddy who serves as a mentor to help them along the way. Having this type of peer support can also help kids overcome their fears, whether it is trying out for a sports team or giving a presentation in front of the class. We cannot always be there to support our children, so it is wonderful when they have a group of friends who can fill that role throughout their day. A friend who provides positive peer pressure also

helps direct our kids on a path that leads to better choices. For example, if a child is bullied at school, he may want to retaliate and start a fight. A friend with positive peer characteristics would encourage the boy to take a few deep breaths, walk away, and tell a trusted adult about the incident. This is the type of friend parents dream of, because the situation could easily go in another direction where a peer pushes our child to fight and then he ultimately ends up being suspended from school, or even worse, seriously injured. Our kids will surely face difficult situations, so having friends who provide moral support and encouragement can truly make a positive impact on their lives.

EXAMPLES OF POSITIVE PEER PRESSURE Friends who make healthy choices for themselves may encourage our kids to do the same. Whether it is studying for a test, joining a club after school, or choosing not to smoke or drink, certain friends can provide this much needed positive peer pressure. Here are some additional examples of how positive friends can be a good influence on our kids.

FITNESS HABITS. Staying active is important to our children’s physical health and emotional well-being. When kids sit around all day inactive, they can struggle in

a variety of ways from health issues like elevated sugar levels to depression. A friend who prioritizes fitness can be a positive influence on our kids, inviting them to go for a bike ride, take a fitness class together, or play a game of ball. Friends who encourage others to join or try out for a team sport can be valuable. Not only do team sports help our kids stay fit, but they also help build camaraderie and a healthy social outlet.

COMMUNITY SERVICE. When we serve others in the community, it can improve our own happiness. Many schools now encourage or require students to commit to a certain number of community service hours, which has spurred many creative kindness projects. Some kids have started their own charities and engaged friends and family in helping others. This type of friend can be a huge influence on our kids to get more involved in volunteering. If they see others taking part in a volunteer project, it may inspire them to join in and give back, too.

ENDING GOSSIP. Gossip can get out of hand, especially as kids get older in middle school and high school. Spreading hurtful information about others can make their lives miserable and cause a great deal of pain. It is extremely easy for our kids to spread gossip without stopping to think about the consequences for the person

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being bad-mouthed. If our kids spend time with friends who focus on more important and interesting topics other than gossip, that is a huge win for everyone. That type of friend is the perfect example of someone exemplifying positive peer pressure.

WHY POSITIVE FRIENDS ARE GOOD FOR OUR CHILDREN’S WELL-BEING Scientific research from the world of positive psychology indicates that one of the most critical components of happiness is the relationships we have with others. Happiness experts Ed Diener and Martin Seligman compared the happiest to the least happy people. Their research found that the happiest individuals were highly social and had the strongest relationships. Actually, good social relationships were necessary for people to feel happy. Additionally, research led by Robert Waldinger at Harvard University that followed the lives of people for more than 75 years concluded that relationships are the key to a happier life. The happiest and healthiest participants in the study maintained close, intimate relationships. According to Waldinger, the people who tend to be more isolated than they want to be from others are less happy, their health declines earlier, and they live shorter lives than

By surrounding themselves with friends—especially happy ones—teens can significantly reduce their risk of developing depression and improve their ability to recover from it. people who are connected to others. It is not about how many friends we have, but the quality and stability of those relationships throughout our lives that really matters. On the other hand, depression is one of the most common mental health issues in the United States. According to the Anxiety and Depression

Association of America, two out of 100 young children and eight out of 100 teens may have serious depression, causing them to feel discouraged, sad, hopeless, unmotivated, or disinterested in life. One of the best ways for our children to overcome feeling blue is to spend time with their friends. Because of positive peer pressure, a caring, upbeat friend can help improve their mood. In a recent study, scientists found that happy friends can help teenagers beat depression. Feedback from 2,000 American high school students was analyzed to investigate whether the moods of students influenced one another and if this could impact levels of depression among teens. They found that depression does not spread among peers, but a healthy mood (not feeling depressed) actually does. By surrounding themselves with friends—especially happy ones—teens can significantly reduce their risk of developing

depression and improve their ability to recover from it. In addition, positive friendships were much more effective than using antidepressants.

WHAT THIS MEANS FOR PARENTS Children look to imitate their peers from an early age. Studies show that happiness is contagious, so we can hope that our children surround themselves with cheerful friends. A Harvard Medical School study found that one person’s happiness spreads through their social group even up to three degrees of separation, and that this effect can last as long as a year. They actually determined that having a happy friend can improve our likelihood of being happy by 15%. It is critical that we pay attention to the type of friends our children are attracted to. If there are any red flags, we can redirect them to more positive

E A R LY LEA RNING . The building block of future leaders.

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choices—friends they can look up to and who inspire them to become the best person they can be. We can also instill the importance of building positive relationships by doing the same in our own lives. Our children are watching how we interact with our spouse, friends, neighbors, and colleagues and will mimic our behavior. If they see us arguing all the time with others, this could impact how they interact with their own friends. Finally, we can build a positive community for our children from a young age by participating in group activities such as playdates, team sports, community service projects, neighborhood gatherings, and other relationship-building events. Sandi Schwartz is a freelance journalist and mother of two. She has written extensively about parenting, wellness, and environmental issues. You can find her at www. ecohappinessproject.com.

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Celebrate Mother’s Day

This month we celebrate MOM! Valerie Koehler, owner of the Blue Willow Bookshops, shares some of her favorite reads. Visit BlueWillowBookshops.com

Little Bear

Mom is My Home

A Pho Love Story

Meet Little Bear, a friend to millions of children, and Mother Bear, who is there whenever Little Bear needs her. This is a great beginner reader.

Peek through the die-cut holes to guess where each mommy animal will find her baby, then turn the page and the pictures transform into the answer.

For years, the Mais and the Nguyens have owned competing pho restaurants. Can Bao and Linh find love in the midst of feuding families and complicated histories?

Can You See My Mommy

The Mothers

When Enola Holmes, sister to the detective Sherlock Holmes, discovers her mother has disappeared, she quickly embarks on a journey to London in search of her.

A butterfly, snail, and ladybug tell readers about their mommies. As children turn the peek-through pages, they’ll help each baby find their mommy!

Grandmas Are Greater Than Great

Maud and Grand Maud

Set within a contemporary Black community in Southern California, Brit Bennett’s mesmerizing first novel is an emotionally perceptive story about community, love, and ambition and a secret.

by Else Homelund Minarik

Enola Holmes: The Case of The Missing Marquess by Nancy Springer

by James Solheim

Everyone has two grandmas, and every grandma has her own two grandmas. This cycle continues going back through time and history--all for you to be you!

by Roger Priddy

by Rebecca Davies

by Sarah O’Leary

Maud loves the weekends when she stays at her grandma’s house when Grand-Maud shares treasures from her own girlhood.

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by Loan Le

by Brit Bennett

Call Your Daughter Home by Deb Spera (Park Row Books)

Three women in 1924 Branchville, South Carolina unite to stand up to the terrible injustices that have long plagued the small town, finding strength in the bond that ties women together.

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YOUTH RUNAWAYS Causes, Signs, Prevention and What to Do If They Flee written by Kimberly Blaker

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A staggering one in seven kids between the ages of 10 and 18 will run away, according to a report by the National Conference of State Legislatures. More concerning, it’s a spur of the moment decision for more than seventy percent of runaways, reveals the National Runaway Safeline. For that reason, parents often see little, if any, clue their child might go missing. So, be aware of the causes and signs to watch for and take preventative measures. Also, learn what to do if your child does flee.

RUNAWAY CAUSES Kids run away for numerous reasons. Many suffer from verbal, physical, or sexual abuse. Even when the situation isn’t abusive, kids who run away often feel neglected and lack financial and emotional support at home. They also may experience frequent conflict with their families. Other kids who run away may have drug or alcohol addiction problems or are trying to escape the addictions of their own parents. Teen pregnancy puts girls at high risk of running away. Also, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transexual teens often runaway as a result of family rejection. Foster kids frequently run back to their own families, and mentally ill youth are at high risk as well. Finally, some kids run away merely because they don’t like their parents’ rules.

SIGNS YOUTH MIGHT FLEE Warning signs that a kid is planning to flee aren’t always present. Even when there are signs, most of these behaviors can be attributed to so many causes, parents often don’t realize their child is considering running away. But there are some telltale signs.

The most obvious is when a teen threatens to do so. While it may be an attempt to manipulate in the heat of an argument, threats should be treated as a serious warning sign. Your adolescent may also start hoarding money, and valuable items might disappear from the house. You might notice your child keeps a bag or backpack filled with clothes. Your teen may also become more secretive or start staying away from home as much as possible.

RUNAWAY PREVENTION The most important thing you can do is provide your child with acceptance and unconditional love. Your adolescent should feel loved whether receiving straight ‘A’s or failing at school. A gay or pregnant teen needs acceptance from family. If your teen has a drug addiction, make sure your adolescent understands while you hate the addiction, you still love him. Communication is another preventive measure. Show you care by asking your kids how they’re doing or how things are going daily. This can help your child to open up. Make sure your adolescent knows he can

talk to you about whatever’s going on. Teach him how to speak calmly and express himself clearly – and always respond in kind. Also, ask how you can improve the situation enough so your adolescent will want to stay. If your child threatens to run away, ask what’s going on and why your adolescent wants to leave. Then try to address those concerns. Also, discuss the risks involved with running away. They include: • homelessness • the long-term impact of not finishing school • drug or alcohol problems that often develop • the high potential for falling victim to human trafficking committing crimes as a means of survival and ultimately landing in jail or prison

WHAT TO DO IF YOUR CHILD RUNS AWAY • Call your local police and make a report immediately. • Make reports with your sheriff and state police as well as the police stations in neighboring communities.

• Contact everyone your child knows, including friends, parents of their friends, relatives, coworkers, classmates, and school staff. • Try to access your child’s social media accounts, school locker, and thoroughly search their room for possible clues. • Contact their cell phone provider to see who they’ve recently called. • If your teen has a debit or credit card, contact the bank for details of any transactions. • Hire a private investigator. • Call the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children at 1-800-THELOST and the National Runaway Safeline at 800-RUN-AWAY.

Kimberly Blaker is a freelance parenting writer. She’s also founder and director of KB Creative Digital Services, an SEO content agency, at kbcreativedigital.com

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family life | F E AT U R E

HOW CHILDREN FIND

PURPOSE

at camp written by Sandi Schwartz

We all want our children to be happy and successful. Would you believe that letting them spread their own wings—without us by their side—may be the most effective way to do this? Our job as parents is to give our children the tools they need to go out in the world and discover who they are and what they want to become–their purpose in life. A child can only truly grow if given some freedom and the chance to gain confidence by exploring new ideas and activities. 18 | HOUSTON FAMILY MAGAZINE May 2021

THE GIFT OF SLEEP AWAY CAMP What better place for children to begin this process than sleep away camp? Sending children away for camp may seem daunting at first, but if you ask anyone who has spent several weeks bunking with their friends, they will tell you how it positively transformed their life and how lucky they are that their parents gave them that gift. According to Michael Thompson, a clinical psychologist and author of Homesick and Happy, How Time Away from Parents Can Help a Child Grow, “…parents can sometimes seriously impede their children’s development. As a parent, there are many things you cannot do for your children. You cannot give your child confidence, you cannot pick or manage his or her friendships, you cannot always be his or her advocate/agent/manager/ coach. …and most important, parents have a hard time urging their children to take psychological risks.” Thompson goes on to explain how sleep away camp succeeds at doing all these things and how critical it is that children and teens have these experiences. He says that true independence is something parents cannot give their children; they must live it on their own.

BENEFITS OF SLEEP AWAY CAMP There are five invaluable aspects of sleep away camp that can lead children and teens to discovering their purpose:

CONFIDENCE One of the most important benefits of sleep away camp is that children build confidence

and self-esteem while living away from their parents. These positive attributes stem from belonging, learning, and contributing. Camps provide many unique opportunities for children to succeed in these three areas: 1) they belong to their sports team and bunk; 2) they learn from trying new activities and making new friends; and 3) they contribute by helping during meals and serving as team leaders. Camp also provides ways for children to feel a sense of accomplishment. When they succeed, they are empowered and have more confidence when faced with the next challenge. They also learn from their mistakes and failures, which only makes them more resilient in the future. Also, the kind of encouragement kids receive at camp makes it the perfect environment for them to overcome setbacks, try new things, and see improvement. Some camp experiences even allow them to conquer their fears, whether it be learning to swim in a lake or climb a ropes course. Finally, many children will purposely choose to attend camp where they do not know any other campers when they arrive. This special experience gives them the chance to start fresh and explore who they truly are in an unfamiliar environment. All of this confidence building brings them closer to figuring out their interests and goals.

BROADER PERSPECTIVE At camp, children begin to see the world a bit differently. They are away from their comfort zone and exposed to new people and experiences that give them a new, broader perspective. They realize they are part of something bigger than themselves and their immediate family. They meet people from different backgrounds, locations, and

interests. They may participate in community service projects that they would have not otherwise had the chance to do. Sleep away camp is so valuable in how it introduces children to fresh ways of seeing the world and themselves.

COMMUNITY Children benefit from being part of the special community found at sleep away camp. It gives them a sense of belonging, which will ultimately improve their ability to cooperate, contribute, and serve their future communities as caring citizens. Campers also gain new social skills from being in a group setting. They must share a room with others, manage chores, resolve conflicts, communicate effectively, and be kind and accommodating to their fellow campers. Being part of a close-knit community can be challenging at times, but children who learn how to adapt and get along with others will benefit for a lifetime. Peter Scales, Ph.D., a senior fellow with the Search Institute in Minneapolis, says, “Camp activities and group living in a natural environment are the tools used to create camp communities that provide for successful, healthy development… They learn to work together, make choices, take responsibility, develop creative skills, build independence and selfreliance, and gain confidence. All are necessary steps on a child’s path to a healthy, productive life.”

SKILLS Sleep away camp is chock full of unique activities and events that children can’t find anywhere else. Going to camp allows them to learn new skills, whether it be in sports, art, or outdoor exploration. Being exposed to so many new programs enhances their knowledge and capabilities,

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allowing them to get closer to finding what they enjoy most. Camp also helps children become more independent. They learn how to make their own decisions without parents and teachers always telling them what to do. They are expected to manage daily chores, show up on time for activities, and keep their belongings neat and clean. These are lifelong skills that will help them succeed in whatever they do.

SELF-REFLECTION The school year is a busy time, but camp provides a chance for kids to slow down and listen to their own thoughts. Camp is the perfect environment for self-reflection and meditation because kids unplug and soak in the beautiful nature around them. When kids take a break from television, video games, texting, and surfing online, they become more mindful of their surroundings and their own emotions. They are able to focus on the simple things in life, like going for a hike, watching a sunset, singing around the campfire, and talking in depth to their friends. Camp also provides a time for unstructured play. Campers are encouraged to use their creativity to solve problems and have fun. They learn how to keep busy with activities that have been used for centuries, such as swimming and boating in a lake, woodworking, and theater performances. This carefree living gives them a chance to relax and laugh without the pressures of their hectic, overly scheduled lives back home. This change of pace can lead to emotional and spiritual growth. Sandi Schwartz is a freelance writer/blogger and mother of two. She has written extensively about parenting, wellness, and environmental issues. You can find her at www. happysciencemom.com.

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A.D. PLAYERS adplayers.org/2021-summeracademy 713.439.0181 Houston, TX TYPE OF CAMP: Theatre Camp AGES: 3-5, 6-8, 9-11, 12-18 A.D. Players Academy will be “Cruisin’ the Sea!” during Summer 2021! Our literary component will include selections ranging from Dr. Seuss to Shakespeare. Each Academy instructor will incorporate interactive theatre activities to reinforce learning as students build on the foundational performance skills of characterization, expression, creative movement, and ensemble.

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Katy 281.769.2398 Memorial City 713.838.1414 Sugar Land 832.886.4153 The Woodlands 936.271.2259 Woodforest 936.209.2212

713.410.6655 Houston & Conroe

TYPE OF CAMP: Day Camp

AGES: 5-14

AGES: 3-12 Flexibility for your family, FUN for your kids! Drop-in for an hour or stay all day. We have an option to meet every family’s needs this summer. 9AM-4PM, before and after care available.

TYPE OF CAMP: Sports, Day Camp

Alliance Fencing Academy’s summer and winter fencing camps are an opportunity for your child to have fun exploring one of the original and foundational sports of the modern Olympic games while picking up technical and competitive skills that will last them a lifetime.

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TYPE OF CAMP: Day Camp AGES: 6-17 Week-long, hands-on camps delving into Asian traditions, art, and culture. Make your own movie, design comics for the web, learn about animals and fantastic beasts of Asia, and more!

Katy: 713.568.8986 North Houston: 832.698.9821 TYPE OF CAMP: Multi-sport Summer Camp AGES: 8-12 This multi-sport summer camp will include weight training, skills drills, games, and friendly competitions. The kids will learn coordination and teamwork skills as well as be introduced to fundamental resistance training, speed and agility movements in a positive coaching environment. 20 | HOUSTON FAMILY MAGAZINE May 2021

713.204.0770 10 Locations Around Houston TYPE OF CAMP: Full Day, Half Day AGES: 3-5 and 6-12 LEGO I: Campers will learn math and science by building simple machines with lego and K’Nex. Fun themes like circus fun, and transportation. LEGO II: Campers will build working machines and MOTORIZE and PROGRAM them for Motion, Sound, and Lights. STEM PROGRAMS

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CAMP CHAMPIONS

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830.598.2571 Marble Falls, TX

800.968.4332 Multiple Locations Across Greater Houston Area

www.camplanterncreek.com 936.597.8225 Montgomery, TX

TYPE OF CAMP: Academic

TYPE OF CAMP: Overnight, All Girl

AGES: Grades K-6

AGES: 7-17

Camp Invention® is the nationally acclaimed, nonprofit summer enrichment program created by the National Inventors Hall of Fame® (NIHF) for kindergarteners through 6th graders.

Tucked away on 100 acres in the piney woods of Montgomery, Texas, Camp Lantern Creek is a unique all girls sleep away summer camp that was created so girls can find their voice, try new skills, be cheered on whether they succeed or fail, get dirty, push boundaries, love nature and so much more!

TYPE OF CAMP: Overnight AGES: 5-17 Camp Champions has created a tradition of excellence since 1967. With the facility and staff expected from a top overnight summer camp, Champions is distinguished by its focus on building strong kids. One, two, and three-week sessions available for ages 5-17.

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CAMP ALLEN campallen.org 936.825.7175 Navasota, TX TYPE OF CAMP: Overnight Camp AGES: 8-18 Camp Allen provides a fun & unique environment for young people to cultivate friendships, experience personal growth, and learn about the unconditional love of Jesus Christ. Located 1 hour from Houston, Camp Allen’s core values are Spiritual Growth, Positive Identity, Safety, and FUN!

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Multiple Locations throughout Greater Houston

281.580.4298 Houston, TX

TYPE OF CAMP: Day Camp

TYPE OF CAMP: Theater Camp

AGES: 2-10

AGES: 5-18

Get ready for a whole summer packed with excitement, discovery, and adventure. At Camp Curiosity, your child will explore themes through hands-on projects and daily activities. Our all-day camp features healthy meals and snacks. Plus, campers receive a camp backpack, T-shirt, and baseball cap for summer adventures!

Come join us Under the Sea this Summer for a fun,creative, theater arts camp! At the two week long Summer Stock camp for ages 8-18, students will be learning and performing a full Junior musical, The Little Mermaid Jr. complete with costumes, sets, and choreography culminating in 2 performances. In the weeklong Under the Sea Day Camp for ages 5-12, students will be learning the basic building blocks for Theater Arts performances including singing, acting, and dancing culminating in a showcase for parents and friends. If your child loves to perform, this camp is for you!!

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COOKING WITH A TWIST cookingwithatwisthouston.com 713.574.9371 Stafford, TX TYPE OF CAMP: Kids Cooking Camp AGES: 7-16

CORDOVAN ART SCHOOL & YOUNG ARTIST ART STUDIO cordovanartschool.com 281.645.6580 The Woodlands, TX TYPE OF CAMP: Art Camp AGES: 5-16

HMNS SUMMER CAMP hmns.org/education/summer-camp/ 713.639.4651 Houston, TX & Sugar Land, TX TYPE OF CAMP: Academic, Technology AGES: 6-12

One week of culinary learning & fun! Our Kids Summer Camp is designed for kids ages 7-16 who are passionate about cooking and creating culinary masterpieces. We provide a fun, safe & top-notch Cooking Camp led by Chef DeeDee Coleman & other first class instructors. Your kid will learn culinary skills including a multitude of fun & exciting recipes! Register your kid today. Limited space available.

Cordovan Art School is teaming up with Young Artist Art Studio for the BEST creative Spring & Summer Art Camps ever! 10,000 kids & teens have joined Cordovan camps over the past 11 years! Family owned, Over 40 camps to choose from, Ages 5-16, All skill levels, Extended care.

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TYPE OF CAMP: Technology, STEM AGES: 7-18 iCode Computer Science Camps deliver unprecedented creative exploration into core STEAM skills over weeklong experiences. The energy is high as children gain soft and hard skills in our proprietary Computer Science Camps. There is no better way to discover or gain a passion for STEAM education than to immerse themselves in a world of coding, robotics, drones, and design.

TYPE OF CAMP: Adventure, Academic AGES: 3rd-8th grade Get Ready for Some Off-the-Leash Fun! Summer Critter Camp at the Houston SPCA is back and will be held in-person from June 7 – August 13, 2021. There is a variety of 10 week-long day sessions for Campers entering 3rd – 8th grade. Summer waits for no one, and your kids deserve it. So register today!

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From robots and rocket science to mummies and spying, students can participate in a variety of week-long camps at the Houston Museum of Natural Science!

TYPE OF CAMP: Technology, STEM AGES: 7-18 iD Tech is the world’s premier destination for STEM education, with online programs that sharpen students’ coding, game dev, and creative skills, all from the comfort of home. Choose from Virtual Tech Camps, Online Private Lessons, or small-group Semesters. Guided by elite rockstar instructors, your child will have fun, unlock tech brilliance, and join a community of 500,000 aspiring innovators.

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417.266.3000 Branson, Missouri

TYPE OF CAMP: STEAM Camps : Science / Arts / Culinary / Technology/Coding & Programming/Robotics

TYPE OF CAMP: Overnight Camp AGES: 6-18

KIDVENTURE DAY CAMP kidventure.com 713.960.8989 Houston, TX TYPE OF CAMP: Day Camp

AGES: 1st-5th Grade & Kanakuk is a premier summer camp 6th-9th grade experience for boys and girls with locations in Branson and Lampe, Kidventure will offer over 16 Camp Missouri. It’s 5 overnight camps programs across the Houston area. provide children and teens with Each Houston Day Camp program fun, safe and age-appropriate provides each age group with its outdoor camping experiences that custom curriculum, unique camp develop them spiritually, physically, activities, and dedicated adult camp emotionally and socially. Sessions team designed to bring out the very run from May 29 to August 6 with 1, 2 best camp experience for every child. and 4-week options. YMCA-0095 HFM 2021_CampFair_PrintAd_mech.pdf 1 2/18/21 1:05 PM

AGES: 5-12 We encompass all the aspects of Science/Technology/Engineering/ Arts and Mathematics into a powerhouse of diverse curriculum with hands-on experiences.This summer forget boredom and your same old activities!!

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281.565.1388 Greater Houston Area

346.708.2517 Houston, TX

TYPE OF CAMP: Overnight Camp

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AGES: 8-13 & 13-16

AGES: 3-5 & 6-12

AGES: 11-14

Kidventure Overnight Camp has been an experience like none other. Now, more than ever, our kids need camp. The opportunity to rebuild relationships, gain confidence, and dream big has never meant more. Join Kidventure for the summer of 2021 and be part of an adventure that will last a lifetime.

Learning another language has never been so much fun! Spanish immersion in-person camps, and virtual camps in Spanish, Mandarin Chinese, French, German, ESL and Sign Language, as well as our brand new “Build your own camp” ™ program, in which we bring our amazing camps to your home!

Spring Break Camp and Merit Badge Workshops at LSFM – JUST PLANE FUN! For Scouts 11-17. New American Heritage and Electronics merit badges available plus the Aviation merit badge. And don’t forget the Pilot Maker camp for kids 10-13. Visit LoneStarFlight.org for details.

Join us for an action-packed, faith-filled week of summer camp! Located on 1,100 forested acres one hour north west of Houston, Camp Allen provides affordable, over night camping experiences for ages 8-18.

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THE PARISH SCHOOL

RISE AT THE WAREHOUSE

SCHOOL OF ROCK

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713.467.4696 Houston, TX

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Clear Lake 281.218.7625 Sugar Land 832.939.8788 Champion Forest 281.246.4475

TYPE OF CAMP: Day and Overnight Camp Options

TYPE OF CAMP: Day Camp

TYPE OF CAMP: Music, Day Camp

AGES: 2-17 (ages vary by program)

AGES: 5-12

AGES: 5-18

The Parish School educates children who have communication delays and learning differences, empowering them with the tools to succeed. Through a variety of summer programs, campers build self-esteem while developing communication, social and handwriting skills in a safe, nurturing environment.

RISE offers a one-of-a-kind weeklong day camp featuring gymnastics, dance, music, and ninja: 4 camps in 1! Each day our campers cycle through these 4 disciplines, keeping them engaged and active for the whole week. Our camp is open to ages 5-12 and runs 9am-3pm; extended care is also available!

Throughout the year, School of Rock offers music camps and workshops perfect for musicians of all skill levels who play guitar, bass, drums, keyboard, ukulele, and vocals. Call today, or sign up on our website! Rock on!

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713.973.7625 Houston, TX

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ymcahouston.org/summer-camp

936.594.2274 Trinity, TX

Greater Houston Area

TYPE OF CAMP: Day Camp, Rock Climbing

TYPE OF CAMP: Overnight, Adventure

AGES: 7-17

AGES: 5-17

Texas Rock Gym has been offering Climbing Day Camps to Houston youth for over 15 years. Our camps are well structured, run by experienced counselors, and most of all…fun!

Nestled among the tall pines along the shores of Lake Livingston lies one of Texas’s premier camps. Campers take part in choice-based activities in a safe, fun and supportive environment.

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TYPE OF CAMP: Day Camp AGES: 5-15 Offered at locations around the Houston area, our camps place special emphasis on youth choice, achievement and a sense of belonging. Activities may include sports and outdoor games, creative and performing arts, archery, engineering and nature exploration.

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how to give your kids a

1970’s summer written by Sarah Lyons

As the whirlwind of the last few weeks of school fly by, I find myself ready for the long, unscheduled days of summer. Sleeping in, spending our afternoons poolside, and playing hide and seek until the fireflies come out. Realistically, my idea of carefree summer days come from my youth and not from the summers our own kids typically experience. Camps, playdates, and ball games fill up most of our calendars while any free time is consumed by parent-planned educational activities and crafts seen on social media. While these things aren’t bad, it can be a little daunting for parents due to the pressure to plan every minute of their child’s summer.

have declared this summer to be different. My kids will have the kind of summer I had as a child. One that is less scheduled and more free play, less video games and more outside time, and less parent planned and more child created. If, like me, you are tired of feeling pressure to entertain and educate your child every waking moment, use these tips to enjoy your summer, 1970’s style.

DITCH THE EXCESS Today parents often feel the need to sign their kids up for as many camps, clinics, and activities as possible to fill their days. In the 70’s, kids did not spend their days at baseball camp, they played baseball with the neighbor kids in the backyard. They didn’t attend theater and dance camps but instead made up their own show to perform for parents and siblings. Give your kids the gift of free time to play and try things on their own. If kids are away at camps all summer, they

won’t have time to create their own adventures.

Today we love our electronics. It is unlikely that many of us can make it more than a few hours without checking in with social media and responding to emails and texts. Our kids are no different, but limits should be set on screen time to allow kids to experience outdoor play, the joy of curling up with a good book, and allowed time to use their own imaginations. 1970’s kids didn’t have apps, educational or not, to entertain them and fill their days. Instead, they used their imagination to create inventions with recycled trash, build forts with whatever they could find, and cooperate with other kids to create games that could last for hours.

scheduled playdates, meet ups at the park, or specific activities planned. If I wanted to go to the park, I would ride my bike or walk there. If I wanted a friend to come along, I would swing by their house on the way and knock on the door to see if they wanted to join me. My parents had only a vague idea where I was or who I was with and this was the norm. While many parents don’t feel quite as safe giving their child free reign, we can learn from this attitude. Kids do not need us to plan and intervene in their daily activities. Send them outside, have them go knock on a neighbor’s door and ask them to join them. Play in the sprinkler, ride bikes, draw with chalk, drink from the hose, learn to do cartwheels, jump rope, plant flowers, or simply sit in the sun. Go outside and don’t come home until dinner.

GO OUTSIDE

LET IT GO

“Go outside and come back when it’s dinner time.” is what my parents would say nearly every afternoon when I was growing up. There were no

Parents today have so much pressure to live up to unrealistic standards. We feel we must provide educational crafts, plan interesting and

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affordable outings, provide well balanced extracurricular activities, all while cooking healthy, organic food, maintaining a clean house, a healthy marriage, and balance our careers simultaneously. The truth is, none of us are able to keep up with it all. The 1970’s parent, while balancing many of the career and family obligations we have today, did not put the type of pressure parents today place on themselves. This summer, take a break from the pressures of social media, enjoy your kids, join them outside, play a board game, have a movie night, lounge at the pool, eat a little (or a lot of) junk food, and give yourself permission to let things go and accept you can’t realistically keep up with everything anyway. The key to giving your kids, and yourself, a 1970’s summer is to unplug, enjoy, and ease up on the pressures we place on ourselves. Let’s just enjoy our kids and enjoy every unscheduled moment because, before you know it, it will be time to head back to school.

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Swim Lessons Getting Past Your Child’s Fears and What To Look For in Classes written by Kimberly Blaker

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So, you’re considering signing up your child for their first swimming lessons? Learning to swim not only provides kids the opportunity to enjoy lots of water-filled fun. It’s essential to their safety. It also helps kids build strength and endurance, is an excellent form of exercise, and builds kids’ confidence. But at what age should they begin taking lessons? Little research has been done on the safety and effectiveness of swimming lessons before the age of four or five. Still, one small study, “Association between swimming lessons and drowning in childhood: a case-control study,” by R.A. Brenner, et al., has been conducted. It found kids between the ages of one and four had an 88% reduced risk of drowning if they had taken swimming lessons. In light of this information, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) has updated its recommendations. AAP News staff writer, Trisha Korioth, explains in, “Some kids have higher drowning risk: Swim lessons add a layer of protection for all:” “All parents and children over 1 year old should learn to swim, according to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). This is especially important if your child is at a high risk of drowning.” Korioth explains that children need to learn at least basic swimming skills. These include how to: • enter the water • turn around • come up to the surface • propel forward a minimum of 25 yards • climb out of the water That said, parents must be mindful that while this reduces the risk for drowning, it doesn’t make children drown-proof. As many experts have pointed out, swimming lessons often give parents a false sense of security. This actually increases kids’ risk of drowning. As it turns out, a substantial percentage of drownings occur in good swimmers and even under parents’ supervision.

That’s because parents often let their guard down when their child knows how to swim. As for the age to begin swimming lessons, many medical experts recommend against it for babies under the age of one. Infants are more susceptible to skin irritation from pool chemicals, swimmer’s ear, and hypothermia when water temperatures dip below 85°F. Also, leaky diapers in the pool increase the risk not only to your baby but to all the other swimmers of contracting a parasite. The nasty Cryptosporidium parasite causes nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, dehydration, and weight loss.

GETTING KIDS USED TO THE WATER As young children grow, they usually come to love bath time. But, as many parents can attest, getting splashed in the face is a whole different ball game. Add to that, a shallow bathtub is far less threatening than a vast, seemingly-bottomless pool. New environments, in general, can also be stressful for children. Some kids are even fearful of water. When kids sense their own parent’s fear of the water, or if the child has had a negative experience with water, this can also add to a child’s anxiety. Try the following to ease your kid’s fears of the water. 1. Provide your child with a variety of water experiences and opportunities to get used to getting their face wet. Let your child wet and wash their own hair. Also, have your child try the shower with you. In warm weather, give your

youngster a kiddie pool to splash around in and a sprinkler to run through. 2. Read storybooks to your child about swimming and swim lessons. 3. Don’t force your fearful little one into the pool. It can ultimately increase your child’s fears. At the same time, don’t make a big todo about your child’s fearfulness, either. Instead, offer encouragement and allow your kid time to warm up to the pool. 4. Offer praise for each step of progress your child makes, even if it’s just dipping their feet in the water. Look for ways to make being in the water a pleasurable experience. 5. Rewards can help. Offer your child an ice cream cone, trip to the park, or small prize on the way home for taking a big step.

WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN SWIMMING CLASSES TRAINED INSTRUCTORS. Claire McCarthy, MD, in “Swimming lessons: 10 things parents should know,” at Harvard Health Publishing, says to look for swim instructors trained and evaluated under the guidelines of a reputable agency. She includes examples such as the YMCA or Red Cross.

INSTRUCTOR’S STYLE. Also, make sure the instructor is child-centered. Teaching kids to swim is different from teaching adults. It requires patience, understanding, and positive reinforcement.

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A WARM POOL. Getting into a cold pool isn’t a pleasant experience at any age. It also makes it harder to focus on learning and get comfortable in the water. Make sure the pool is heated to at least 84°F for children over 6. If under 3, the temperature should be at least 87°F.

SAFETY. Find out the class size and ratio of students to instructors. If you won’t be in the pool with your child, ask about lifeguards, especially if it’s a larger class. Also, do instructors get in the pool with the kids, or do they instruct from the deck? Here are some excellent guidelines for student-teacher ratios based on the American Red Cross Learn-to-Swim program. • Children up to 4-years-old and attended in the pool by their parent, 12:1 ratio • Ages 3-5, with a buoyancy device, 6:1 • Kids 6 and up, 8:1; for advanced classes, 10:1

CHLORINE LEVELS. Ask if the pool chlorine and PH levels are tested regularly. Low PH causes eye irritation. Low chlorine levels can be a health risk. If you’re in doubt, pick up a test kit at a hardware store.

OPEN DOOR POLICY. Make sure parents are allowed some ability to observe if they choose. It can be through a window or at the start or end of classes. When parents can attend the entire class, having additional eyes on the kids adds an extra layer of safety. The problem, though, is it sometimes reduces kids’ cooperation. So decide what you’re comfortable with and what’s best for your child.

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Surprise Mom

WITH A DAY AT THE BEACH!

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Not sure what to get mom for Mother’s Day this year? Does she have everything she needs? How about giving her something she wants? Take off and head down to Galveston for a little sun, great food & relaxation.

BEST BRUNCH SPOTS Start off with a great meal at any one of the following restaurants. Each offers a variety of yummy options to kick off the day.

HEARSAY ON THE STRAND Eclectic Cuisine & Craft cocktails. Too many yummy items to list! (My fave is the Roasted Poblano soup and the Spinich, Jalapeno & Artichoke Dip) HEARSAY ON THE STRAND 2410 Strand St., Galveston 409.539.5914 www.hearsayonthestrand.com

GALVEZ BAR & GRILL Casual seafood in a gorgeous space. Love the Seafood Gumbo and the Cauliflower Tacos – yum!

NUMBER 13

HOTEL GALVEZ SPA

If your family loves steak, here’s the place. Simple & straight forward. This place is all about the taste. Check out their Prime Rib + Eggs and crispy thyme hashbrowns to keep you satisfied all day.

Make her Queen of the Gulf for the day with a 50 minute massage + a 50 minute facial. Starting at $220

NUMBER 13 7809 Broadway, Galveston 409.572.2650 www.number13steak.com

TAKE HER TO THE SPA...AAH Now it’s time for some pampering and time for just her. Show her how much you care by dropping her off at any of the wonderful spas for an hour or so. She will be a new mom when you pick her up.

MOODY GARDENS SPA Give her 2.5 hours of hibiscus bliss starting at $215

HOTEL GALVEZ 2024 Seawall Blvd, Galveston 409.765.7721 www.hotelgalvez.com

MOODY GARDENS SPA One Hope Blvd., Galveston 409.744.4673 www.moodygardens.com

GAIDO’S SEAFOOD RESTAURANT

SAN LUIS SPA

The Coastal Classic since 1911. If you are looking to immerse yourself in all that is Galveston, this is your place. Step back in time and enjoy a delicious cup of bisque + Shrimp & Crab stuffed Salmon! GAIDO’S SEAFOOD RESTAURANT 3828 Seawall blvd, Galveston 409.761.5500 www.gaidos.com

With numerous a la carte items to choose from or Head to Toe Pampering packages, you can’t go wrong. Starting at $125 SAN LUIS HOTEL 5222 Seawall Blvd., Galveston 800.392.5937 www.sanluisresort.com

HOTEL GALVEZ 2024 Seawall Blvd, Galveston Phone: 409-765-7721 www.hotelgalvez.com

FINISH IT OFF How about a cruise out on the water? Galveston Water Adventures offers a lovely spin around the island to take in the beautiful sunset. What a way to end the day as the beautiful sun sets on the Gulf and the light dances on the waves. Not into t with an ice cream cone from King’s Confectionery on The Strand. With so many delectable flavors to choose from, there’s no way to go wrong! GALVESTON WATER ADVENTURES 2100 Harborside Dr Pier 21, Galveston 409.276.6116 www.galvestonwateradventures.com LA KING’S CONFECTIONERY 2323 Strand Street, Galveston 409.762.6100 lakingsconfectionery.com And if either of those options don’t work, you can always take a stroll along any one of the beautiful Galveston beaches. It’s free and you will give her the most precious thing any mother can ask for. Time with her family. To all the mothers out there – we celebrate you! Enjoy your day!

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soak up the sun at

KONA KAI RESORT & SPA A luxurious family getaway in San Diego, CA

written by Tish Petty | location photos provided by Kona Kai Resort & Spa

f you’re looking for a luxurious family getaway with relaxing private beaches and astounding views, then plan your stay at the Kona Kai Resort & Spa. This stunning beachfront property along San Diego’s most breathtaking strip of land (Shelter Island) features incredible dining, newly renovated rooms and plenty of kid-friendly activities. The Kona

Kai is definitely a must see when venturing to the West coast. The views are breathtaking from every corner of the resort. You have Coronado Island and a naval base just across the water which means there’s always interesting things to see like jets, helicopters, and ships passing through. The resort is also next to one of the most beautiful marinas in all of San Diego. We were stunned

at the miles of mega yachts docked nearby, many of them could only be imagined in our dreams. Once inside the newly renovated hotel, the airy California-contemporary decor is styled with rich blues, neutrals and turquoise accents. We were quickly greeted at the front desk to check in and went over the fun family activities available that include family

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pool, fireside gourmet s’mores and sand castle building on the private beach, complimentary cruiser bikes for exploring, and various games like bean bag toss and giant Jenga spread all over this kid-friendly property. They also have paddleboard, kayak, pedal boat, and jet ski rentals if feeling like a water excursion, or for the health and wellness enthusiast, they offer indoor and outdoor fitness

Quick Facts Located on Shelter Island in San Diego, California 1,468 miles from Houston (21 hour drive time)

Amenities Beach Cruisers Nightly Bonfires Pet Friendly Spa & Fitness Center Vessel Restaurant Private Beach Beach & Pool Cabanas 2 Pool Areas Weddings & Events

Area Activities San Diego Zoo Sea World USS Midway La Jolla Cove Sailing LegoLand And More!

terrace dining newly rennovated rooms

Book Your Stay! www.resortkonakai.com

pool cabanas

bean bag toss

classes as well as pampering treatments at their elegant day spa and salon, SpaTerre. We spent a fun-filled day at the pool overlooking the impressive marina and swoonworthy Point Loma hillside view. Then after soaking in the warm sun, we cleaned up and enjoyed a delectable dinner at their waterfront Vessel Restaurant featuring California

comfort cuisine. Following dinner, we explored the lush tropical gardens and posed for a pic on their massive Instagram-worthy beach chair. We ended the night cozied up near a firepit on the private beach to watch the sunset and the lavish homes on Point Loma all lit up and sparkling alongside the evening sky. With the unimaginable year

we’ve all been living in, I was struggling to decide whether or not a family vacation would be a good idea or not. The thought of airport guidelines and theme park restrictions (just to name a few) drove this mama a bit crazy. However, looking back I had absolutely zero reason to be worried and I’m so glad we went. With enhanced safety measures, it

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exceeded the needs of this worried mama. We had an unforgettable experience in San Diego and our stay at the Kona Kai Resort & Spa was absolute heaven. I can’t wait for our next fun-filled family adventure! Book your stay today! www.resortkonakai.com

Balboa Park

USS Midway Museum Liberty Station NEARBY ACTIVITIES IN SAN DIEGO Located at the tip of Shelter Island right at the Pacific Ocean, just a few minutes away from the San Diego Airport, the Kona Kai Resort & Spa is a dreamy destination for families. Its close proximity to local attractions makes it a fabulous choice if you would like to explore San Diego.

as well as spectacular views of San Diego Bay. Their salmon burger with bacon jam was delicious!

SAN DIEGO STREET ART Street art and amazing murals are all around town. We took a quick car ride through downtown one morning to spot a few of them and had a blast taking pics with these incredible backdrops!

USS MIDWAY MUSEUM

SEAWORLD

The sheer size of this aircraft carrier is mind blowing! Throw in cool interactive exhibits throughout the various decks, 29 restored aircrafts, and personal stories from the exmilitary volunteers, and you’ve got an incredible experience the entire family will enjoy.

Though rides, food and some activities were not open due to the virus, this was still such a fun experience! Some of our favorite activities were the entertaining sea lion and orca shows, the starfish and cleaner fish touch ponds, and of course the gift shops which support a great cause.

THE FISH MARKET Located next to the USS Midway Museum, this waterfront restaurant boasts an incredible seafood selection fresh from the sea to your table

BALBOA PARK Hands down this was my favorite thing to do in San Diego because of the impressive architecture and

gorgeous lush greenery throughout this massive park. (It’s bigger than Central Park!) It’s home to the zoo, museums, open city squares with fountains and vendors, outdoor theater, rose and cactus gardens, koi fish and turtle ponds, and so much more.

LA JOLLA COVE With 70 miles of beautiful coastline in San Diego, this little cove in La Jolla is perhaps the most unique. We could have spent all day here admiring the gorgeous views, finding new wildlife amongst the gorgeous flowing and leafy plant life, and watching the sea lions and their cute pups playing and basking in the sun.

LIBERTY STATION We loved our short visit to the ARTS DISTRICT Liberty Station! It’s a former Navy Training Center that has been converted into parks, great eateries, shops and little attractions like the base’s former chapel and commander’s house. Breakfast Republic is an absolute must and worth the wait. Their

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outdoor dining space is great and the food was awesome. I’m still dreaming about their Jurassic Pork benedict.

KANSAS CITY BARBEQUE We stopped here for lunch shortly after arriving in San Diego and what a fun way to start our vacation. Even though the girls had no clue who Maverick is, the historic piano and other film memorabilia from Top Gun was pretty cool and the barbeque was finger licking good.

OLD TOWN SAN DIEGO If you’re craving some chile rellenos or guacamole, you must set some time aside to visit Old Town San Diego where you’ll find great food, history, and heritage. The atmosphere gives you a glimpse of what life was like in the mid-1800’s. We enjoyed touring the 1825 Casa de Estudillo, one of the finest adobe haciendas in the state, watching a blacksmith in action, and eating at Casa de Reyes.

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CANYON LAKEVIEW RESORT Canyon Lake, TX Cabins starting around $550 (pets allowed) www.canyonlakeviewresort.com

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Port Aransas, TX

Grapevine, TX

Multiple options, condos, townhomes, cottages and single family homes starting around $750 for 2 nights www.cinnamonshore.com

Rooms starting at $185 www.gaylordtexan.com

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KALAHARI Round Rock, TX Rooms starting at $350 + $140 Epic day pass www.kalahariresorts.com

WAHWAHTAYSEE RESORT Kingsbury, TX 1 or 2 bedroom tents or Cabin starting at $350 www.WahwahtayseeResort.com

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the big to do | C A L E N D A R O F E V E N T S

Get ready for a marvelous month with our selection of the best events, exhibitions and things to do. Just an FYI, May is Bike Month. Don’t forget to sign up for our enews and check out our online calendar at houstonfamilymagazine.com.

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All events listed are FREE unless otherwise noted. Don’t forget to check out our online calendar at www.houstonfamilymagazine.com/event-directory/ for even more family friendly activities.

MAY 1 47th Annual Galveston Historic Homes Tour (May 1, 2, 8 & 9) Galveston Historical Foundation opens the doors to Galveston’s architectural history through public tours of privately owned homes. In addition to the tours, there will be numerous special events, allowing guests unique experiences in many of the tour homes and historic sites across the island. galvestonhistory.org Various historic homes, Galveston Various times. All ages

Welcome Aboard the Historic Decks of Two Tall Ships (May 1 & 2) Last Weekend of tours! The 1877 ELISSA welcomes visiting tall ship Nao SANTA MARIA to the Galveston Historic Seaport. The addition of SANTA MARIA to the seaport gives guests a unique opportunity to see how ships of different eras operate and how much of the art of sailing remains unchanged. galvestonhistory.org Various times, tickets are limited. All ages

25th Anniversary Celebration Grand Kids Festival

Family Adventure Series: Sachet This Way!

Produced by The Grand 1894 Opera House and designed to introduce children and their families to the arts with a variety of fun, family-friendly activities and live performances, both professional and student performance groups, hands-on activities for children, and a petting zoo. galveston.com

Sachet your way through the gardens as you experience the fragrances of herbs, spices, and citrus. At each plant stop, visit with Mercer volunteers to learn fun plant facts and receive prepared plant material to add to your sachet. hcp4.net/mercer/events

20th and 23rd streets, downtown Galveston 10am-5pm. All ages

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Mercer Botanic Gardens 10:30am-noon. All ages

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Buffalo Bayou Park Cistern. Registrants will be sent the Zoom link prior to the discussion. buffalobayou.org Virtual discussion Noon-1pm. Age: 15+

Brunch & Books Join in for a moderated discussion of the book Homeless by Choice with motivational speaker and author Roy Juarez to learn more about his mission to inspire youth. midtownhouston.com Virtual. facebook.com/midtownHOU 11:30am. Age: adult

Westpoint Lincoln Classic at the Houston Polo Club These players and Ponies are in it to WIN! Check out the MEET THE PROS page in the 2021 Houston Polo Club Magazine, then cheer for your favorite player. Enjoy live music, player parade, expert announcing and a champagne divot stomp at halftime. houstonpoloclub.com

Houston Polo Club 5pm. All ages. Individual tickets for $15.50-$32.50, box seats for 2-20 guests $79-$695

The Woodlands Symphony Orchestra presents A Symphonic Metamorphosis The Woodlands Symphony Orchestra presents A Symphonic Metamorphosis. Tickets are limited due to social distancing initiatives. woodlandscenter.org/

VIRTUAL Teach You Tuesday learn a new craft, skill, or technique. Crafty Glammie will teach us how to create a macrame planter. midtownhouston.com facebook.com/midtownHOU 5:30pm. Age: 10+

Family Storytime & Craft Enjoy a cross-generational literacy experience! Family Storytime, held under the pavilion, features a socially distanced reading followed by a craft that accompanies the book. All craft supplies are included. levyparkhouston.org Levy Park 10am. All ages

MAY 5

Moody Mansion Tours Open for tours every day, visit this fabulously restored turn of the century, 28,000 square-foot, four-story Galveston historic home that was completed in 1895. Guests visit 20 rooms on a self-guided tour that depicts the home life of a powerful Texas family. The Moody’s established one of the great American financial empires. moodymansion.org

Virtual meeting on Zoom 5pm. All ages

MAY 6 Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop Story Time Enjoy Blue Willow’s virtual story time, songs and an art activity every Thursday. bluewillowbookshop.com Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop 10am. Age: Toddlers and preschoolers

Book Reading and discussion with authors Melissa de la Cruz & Robert Beatty Join the discussion with these two amazing best-selling authors. bluewillowbookshop.com Virtual discussion on Zoom. 5pm. Registration is required. All ages

1605 State Highway 87, Crystal Beach Friday & Saturday: $10, Sunday: Free (Age 15 & Under Free All Days). All ages

Music in the Gardens Join Mercer Botanic Gardens for Music in the Gardens. Children partner with their parents and experience rhythm and music principles in a natural outdoor setting throughout the garden. Classes use Kindermusik curriculum’s songs, instruments, and movement to inspire creativity, confidence, and music appreciation in children every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month. hcp4.net/mercer/events/ Mercer Botanic Gardens 10:30am. Age:2-5

Tadpoles Club (5, 12, 19, 26) Every Wednesday bring your preschooler to this interactive program that introduces your child to nature with animals, puppets, walks, crafts, and stories. hcp4.net/jones

Moody Mansion, Galveston 10am-5pm 7 days/week. All ages

Jesse H. Jones Park & Nature Center 10:30am-1pm. All ages

“Time no Longer” Virtual Discussion

Nature Discovery Center and Story time

Time No Longer” is the newly commissioned sound and film installation in the

Join the author and illustrator of the New York Times best-selling Mother Bruce, which received the E. B. White ReadAloud Award and the Ezra Jack Keats New Illustrator Honor. bluewillowbookshop.com

The 3-day event will feature a host of live music performances, great food, art, a crab gumbo cookoff, crab races, carnival auction, food trucks, a fun run, and more. Galveston.com

Library Grab Bag

MAY 4

The Bruce Swap discussion and book reading with Ryan Higgins

Texas Crab Festival (May 7-9)

MAY 3

Rosenberg Library, Galveston Membership is required. All ages

Nature Discover Center Tues.-Fri. Noon-5:30pm, Sat.-Sun. 10am530pm, story time Wednesday at 4pm. All ages

MAY 7

Cynthia Woods Mitchell Pavilion 6pm. Age: Adult

This is the perfect solution for an avid reader. If you’re vacationing in Galveston or are a resident on the island, simply fill out the form below, indicating any preferred authors, genres, or subjects, and library staff will put together a mixed bag of titles from our shelves, especially for you! rosenberg-library.org/grab-bag

for nature story time which can include live animal encounters and a simple craft. naturediscoverycenter.org

Larry’s Old Time Trade Days (May 7,8,9) Enjoy a day of browsing and shopping at Larry’s Old Time Trade Days and Antique Mall in Winnie. As the largest flea market in southeast Texas, Larry’s offers just about anything. larrysoldtimetradedays.com Exit 829 on Interstate 10 All day. All ages

Mommy Morning Off at the Galveston Children’s Museum Take a few early morning hours to yourself to enjoy a leisurely walk, stop at a coffee shop on Post Office Street, peruse the art galleries and antique shops that line the historic downtown area. The kids will have a blast in the open playtime session supervised by GCM play experts every Friday morning. galvestoncm.org Galveston Children’s Museum 9:30-11:30am. Potty trained kids only.

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Mother’s Day Around Town Mother’s Day Brunch at Moody Gardens Bring your special person for brunch to Moody Gardens. Savor a spectacular buffet, Omelet Station, Carving Station, Seafood Display, Assorted Fruits, Cheeses, Desserts and more! Seating times are scheduled for every 30 minutes, starting at 11am with the last set for 2pm. moodygardens.com

Relish Restaurant & Bar Take mom out for a Brunch extravaganza. Executive Chef Dustin Teague has reimagined the menu to include new dishes such as Buttermilk Pancakes with macerated berries, whipped cream, brandied pecans, bacon or sausage, Smoked Salmon Plate with cream cheese, smoked salmon, cucumber, red onion, caper, dill and sourdough toast and Baked Eggs with pomodoro sauce, Italian sausage, basil, parmesan and grilled sourdough. relishhouston.com

Mother’s Day Weekend at Bayou Bend Bring the family to Bayou Bend for Mother’s Day, when moms get in free all weekend. Enjoy music on the terrace, an art-making activity, and more. mfah.org/visit/bayou-bend-collection-andgardens/education-programs-bayou-bend

Bayou Bend Gardens Saturday, May 8, 10am - 5pm, Sunday, May 9, 1pm – 5pm. All ages

Mother’s Day at the houston Polo Club: PONIES AND PETALS CUP Special Mother’s Day match! Ladies BEST HAT CONTEST, door prizes by American National, champagne divot stomp at halftime, expert announcing and player parade. houstonpoloclub.com

Houston Polo Club 5pm. Get individual tickets for $15.50-$32.50, box seats for 2-20 guests $79-$695. All ages

the big to do | C A L E N D A R O F E V E N T S Front Lawn Film Nights: ‘Minari’ Get a bit of fun and fresh air, bring a chair and a blanket! Nominated for six Academy Awards, including Best Picture. A tender and sweeping story about what roots us, Minari follows a Korean American family that moves to an Arkansas farm in search of their own American dream. asiasociety.org

MAY 9

Nature Discover Center Tues.-Fri. Noon-5:30pm, Sat.-Sun. 10am530pm, story time Wednesday at 4pm. All ages

MAY 13

Movie night: Nine to Five

Market Square 8pm. All ages

Mozart + Piazzolla’s Four Seasons (May 7-9) Concertmaster Yoonshin Song lights up Jones Hall with Astor Piazzolla’s tango-infused response to Vivaldi’s Four Seasons, and the Symphony’s Jonathan Fischer, Mark Nuccio, Rian Craypo, and William VerMeulen are featured in Mozart’s Sinfonia Concertante in E-flat major. houstonsymphony.org Jones Hall and Live streamed 2:30pm, 8pm. Age: adult

Sunshine Center Mother’s Day Market

Explore the Sunshine Center’s first ever Mother’s Day Market and choose the perfect gift basket for that special mom in your life or even for yourself. The Center is a day hab for adults 18 & up that have developmental delays. galveston.com

Every once in a while, there are discussions, podcasts and meetings that get you talking afterwards for days. Check out the discussions on topic in the Bryan Museum’s series: Hidden History. This month the focus in on Barbara Louise Smith, said to be the best soprano voice of anyone in her class. thebryanmuseum.org Virtual from the Bryan Museum 7-8pm. Registration is required.

1726 21st Street, Galveston 10am-4pm. All ages

Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop Story Time

Concert in the Park: Quartet for the End of Time”

Enjoy Blue Willow’s virtual story time, songs and an art activity every Thursday. bluewillowbookshop.com

DACAMERA Young Artists perform Olivier Messiaen’s iconic Quartet for the End of Time, which serves as the soundtrack for the installation in the Cistern, Time No Longer. buffalobayou.org

Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop 10am. Age: Toddlers and preschoolers

MAY 14

Chanel Cleeton and Renée Rosen will appeal virtually to discuss their new novels The Most Beautiful Girl in Cuba and The Social Graces. bluewillowbookshop.com

MAY 8 Good Grades at Moody Gardens Visit the rainforest, the aquarium and discover other educational attractions. Present a report card from within 30 days with nothing less than a B and receive free admission into one educational attraction. moodygardens.com Moody Gardens All day 7 days/week. Some restrictions apply.

Virtual discussion on Zoom 7pm. Registration is required. Age: 16+

MAY 11 First Tuesday at the Houston Zoo You’ll need a ticket to enter the gates, so get them early. Houstonzoo.org Houston Zoo Various times. All ages

Nature Discovery Center and Story time Visit the discovery rooms and enjoy the outdoor trails and play area. Plan to stay

From the largest pythons to the smallest frogs, Jones Park staff and volunteers will teach participants about the amazing world of reptiles and amphibians. hcp4.net/jones Jesse H. Jones Park & Nature Center 1-4pm. All ages

VIRTUAL Family Capoeira Join us for a virtual Family Capoeira class, a unique Afro-Brazilian martial art that develops discipline, coordination, strength, and rhythm. Instruction is provided by the Brazilian Cultural Institute. midtownhouston.com

Live Stream 11am. All ages

13th Annual Galveston Island Beach Revue (May 14 & 15) Galveston’s official kick-off to summer returns! Bring the family to the historic Seawall Boulevard to enjoy the Pageant of Pulchritude and Splash Day, classic cars, vintage vendors, live music, and the crowd-favorite Bathing Beauties contest. galvestonhistory.org Galveston Seawall and beach Various times depending on the activity. All ages

MAY 16 Virtual Family Days: Shaping Our World Once a month, enjoy free family fun for all ages, and learn about a variety of topics. mfah.org/visit/bayou-bend-collectionand-gardens/celebrate-spring-bayoubend Virtual celebration 2-3pm. All ages

Garden Cruisin’: Tour de 4 (May 14 & 28) Who doesn’t enjoy a leisure walk through the gardens, where you can experience the beauty and tranquility that thousands of plants, flowers, and trees provide? Discover the newly opened Creekside Ramble and Storey Lake area. hcp4.net/mercer/events/ Mercer Botanic Gardens

MAY 12

Reptile Open House (May 15 & 16)

Gather the whole family and see where the music takes you in this special Family, enhance your experience with fun, family-friendly online activities! houstonsymphony.org

Chanel Cleeton & Renee Rosen: Discussion and book Reading

Miller Outdoor Theatre 8pm. All ages

MAY 15

Musical Short Stories

MAY 10

For the first time in over a year, Houston Ballet and the Houston Ballet Orchestra are performing LIVE! Join Houston Ballet for an evening of dance, music and film as they reflect on the creativity of the past year. milleroutdoortheatre.com

Pasadena fair grounds Friday May 14th 3pm – midnight, Sat. May 15th 10 am – midnight, Sun May 16th 10 am - 6pm All ages. Tickets $5-$10/day

Virtual 10-11am. All ages

Buffalo Bayou 5:30-7pm. All ages

Houston Ballet Reignited (May 7 & 8)

performances. strawberryfest.org

Hidden History of African American Texans: Barbara Louise Smith

Asia Society Texas Center 8pm. All ages. $40 for a pod lawn seating which seats 4.

Bring your blankets and watch this office satire about three female secretaries who decide to get revenge on their tyrannical, sexist boss by abducting him and running the business themselves. marketsquarepark.com

for nature story time which can include live animal encounters and a simple craft. naturediscoverycenter.org

Pasadena Strawberry Festival (May 14-16) The Strawberry Festival is back! There are some of our favorite events and contests programmed for the whole family, and don’t miss out on the live

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USPA OFFICERS CUP presented by ENGEL & VÖLKERS HOUSTON Two teams battle it out in this heart pounding USPA tournament! Check out the Meet the Pros page in the 2021 HPC magazine, and cheer for your favorite player! Enjoy expert announcing, live flamenco guitar music, champagne divot

May 2 02 1 stomp and WORLD CLASS polo. houstonpoloclub.com

Houston Polo Club 5pm. Get individual tickets for $15.50$32.50, box seats for 2-20 guests $79$695. All ages

MAY 17 Waugh Bridge Bat Colony Witness the intriguing dusk-time flight of thousands of bats that emerge from under the Waugh Bridge. This evening event will provide information and views of more than 250,000 magnificent flying mammals that call the Waugh Bridge home. buffalobayou.org/calendar Waugh Bridge Sundown. All ages

MAY 18 The Festival of Eid, a virtual celebration (May 18-30) Celebrate Islamic culture and the Muslim community. Eid al-Fitr marks the end of the holy month of Ramadan, and is an occasion of peace, joy, and festivity. There are many events planned, so be sure to check the daily calendar. https://www.facebook.com/ asiasocietytexas/ Virtual celebrations 4pm unless otherwise noted. All ages

VIRTUAL Children’s Story Time Looking for something to do from the comfort of your home. Have a children’s storytime with music from AndyRoo & the AndyRooniverse. facebook.com/midtownHOU/ Midtown Park 11:30am-1:30pm. Age: 1-6

Gear Up: The Science of Bikes The Health Museum

Virtual performance 10am. Age: 15+

MAY 19 Music in the Gardens Join Mercer Botanic Gardens for Music in the Gardens. Children partner with their parents and experience rhythm and music principles in a natural outdoor setting throughout the garden. Classes use Kindermusik curriculum’s songs, instruments, and movement to inspire creativity, confidence, and music appreciation in children every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month. hcp4.net/mercer/events/ Mercer Botanic Gardens 10:30am. Age:2-5

Movie Night: Coming to America Prince Akeem (Eddie Murphy) is the prince of a wealthy African country and wants for nothing, except a wife who will love him in spite of his title. To escape an arranged marriage, Akeem flees to America. marketsquarepark.com Market Square 8pm. All ages

Nature Discovery Center and Story time Visit the discovery rooms and enjoy the outdoor trails and play area. Plan to stay for nature story time which can include live animal encounters and a simple craft. naturediscoverycenter.org Nature Discover Center Tues.-Fri. Noon-5:30pm, Sat.-Sun. 10am530pm, story time Wednesday at 4pm. All ages

MAY 20 Blanket Bingo Bring your blanket, lawn chairs or snag one of the tables at the park for a night of fun, music and great prizes! marketsquarepark.com Market Square 8pm. All ages

Kinder HSPVA Theater Department presents Electra (May 20-22)

Discovery green Registration is required, visit the website for the link. Age: 13+

Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop Story Time

This virtual performance tells the story of a circus strongwoman uses her fame to fight for female voting rights. milleroutdoortheatre.com

MUSEUM OF FINE ARTS HOUSTON

Enjoy Blue Willow’s virtual story time, songs and an art activity every Thursday. bluewillowbookshop.com Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop 10am. Age: Toddlers and preschoolers

Pompeii: The Exhibition

Temporary Hours of Operation

The exhibition tells the tale of the lost and forgotten city of Pompeii, hidden until its rediscovery more than 250 years ago. Peruse the 150 precious artifacts on loan from the unparalleled collection of the Naples National Archaeological Museum in Italy.

Monday- closed except selected holidays, Tuesday – closed

BODY WORLDS & The Cycle of Life

mfah.org

Wednesday 11am-5pm, Thursday 11am-9pm, Friday & Saturday 11am6pm, Sunday 12:30pm- 6pm

Hockney-Van Gogh: The Joy of Nature Two visionary artists, separated in time and space, are united by a shared fascination with nature. Through June 2021

Electrifying Design: A Century of Lighting Over the past 100 years, the field of lighting design has been a catalyst for technological and artistic expression. Through May 2021

HOLOCAUST MUSEUM

hmh.org

Hours: Mon.-Fri. 9am-5pm., Sat. 10am5pm., Sun. 12-5pm

The Theatre Department of Kinder High School for the Performing and Visual Arts (HSPVA) brings an all-female cast to Discovery Green for a radical new adaptation of Sophocles’ classic Greek tragedy, Electra, a story about grief, revenge, and the violence that generations inherit. discoverygreen.com/electra

Houston Grand Opera presents Katie: strongest of the Strong

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Notorious RBG: The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg Like the book, the exhibition offers a visually rich, entertaining, yet rigorous look at RBG’s life and work. Through archival photographs and documents, contemporary art, media stations, and playful interactives, the exhibition tells the parallel stories of RBG’s remarkable career and the efforts she joined to expand “We the People” to include those long left out of the Constitution’s promises. Through July 2022

HOUSTON MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCE

hmns.org

9am-5pm Mon-Sun

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Experience a breathtaking encounter with the inner workings of the human body and see the effects of poor health, good health and lifestyle choices. In addition to showcasing the wonders of human development, the 100+ preserved human specimens – including whole-body plastinates – demonstrate the complexity, resilience and vulnerability of the human body in distress, disease and optimal health. Through September 2021

THE HEALTH MUSEUM

www.thehealthmuseum.org Hours: Mon.-Sat. 9am-5pm., Thurs. 9am-7pm., Sun. 12-5pm

Admission: $10 adult, $8 senior 65+, free for children under 2 FREE on Thursdays 2-7pm

GEAR UP: The Science of Bikes This interactive exhibition tells the story of the bicycle from inception to present day. Visitors learn how bikes work; what the history/evolution of the bike is; the science and technology behind the machine; and how bikes have impacted our culture. Through May 21, 2021

Brain: the world inside your head Designed to appeal to audiences of all ages, BRAIN employs innovative special effects, 3-D reproductions, hands-on learning activities, and interactive technology to delve into the inner workings of the brain, including its processes, potentials, and mysteries. Through September 6, 2021

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MAY 23 Island Wedding Show at Moody Gardens

The Menil Collection Located in the heart of Houston, this impressive collection is located in several buildings nestled between pocket parks and outdoor sculptures, a perfect setting for picnic lunch. Menil.org Menil Collection 11am-7pm every day. All ages. Stroller friendly.

MAY 22 Jean Laffite Revealed Lecture and Book Signing Jean Laffite Revealed takes a fresh look at the various myths and legends surrounding one of the last great pirates. galvestonhistory.org

1859 Ashton Villa, 2328 Broadway, Galveston 2pm Tickets are $10 per person or free for Galveston Historical Foundation members.

Bike Skills Rodeo This family-friendly event is for youth with balance, tricycle, or training wheel bikes with up to 16-inch wheels. Activities include a helmet check and multiple stations to improve bike handling, trail etiquette, and traffic safety skills. Each participant will receive a map of local cycling trails accessible from Mercer. hcp4.net/mercer/events Mercer Botanic Gardens 9am-noon. All ages

Exploring Dendrology: The Study of Trees Learn how to apply botanical terms while identifying trees, using a take-home tree identification guide. hcp4.net/mercer/events/ Mercer Botanic Gardens 9-11am. Age: 13+

Monthly Volunteer Workday Houstonians, ages 9 and up, are invited to join Buffalo Bayou Partnership for community-wide volunteer days at Buffalo Bayou Park happening the third Saturday of each month. buffalobayou.org Buffalo Bayou 8:30-11:30am. Age: 9+

Screen on the Green: Mulan A Chinese maiden disguises herself as a man so that she can fight invading Huns. During an ambush, Mulan proves herself to be a brave and fearless leader. Discoverygreen.com Discovery Green 5pm, 8pm. All ages

Take care all of the details: The dress, the flowers, invitations, the music, cake and the menu, the linens - there is so much to consider. You will find the options and experts at this Wedding Show to help you plan it all. moodygardens.com Moody Gardens Convention Center Nonn-4pm. Tickets are $10/person

Baylor Medicine Stratos Integrated Health Classic Watch the thoroughbreds and pros race for the goal! May the BEST PONIES AND PLAYERS WIN! Enjoy Live music, world class polo, pony bounce and champagne divot stomp at halftime. EXTRA special trophy presentation and door prizes. houstonpoloclub.com Houston Polo Club 5pm. Get individual tickets for $15.50$32.50, box seats for 2-20 guests $79$695. All ages

MAY 24 Sheldon Lake Kid Friendly Nature Walk Come out for a 2-3 hour nature walk at Sheldon Lake State Park, only a half hour away from the Houston city center. With old fish ponds, a hawk tower, and large tracts of forests and prairie, this park is the perfect place to get up close and personal with nature. tpwd.texas.gov/state-parks/sheldon-lake

10am530pm, story time Wednesday at 4pm. All ages

MAY 27 Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop Story Time Enjoy Blue Willow’s virtual story time, songs and an art activity every Thursday. bluewillowbookshop.com

Prelude Concert Series Join us for our Prelude Concert Series! This 45-minute music experience is geared toward babies, toddlers, preschoolers, and the grownups who love them! levyparkhouston.org Levy Park 4:30pm. All ages

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Virtual Blue Willow Bookshop 10am. Age: Toddlers and preschoolers

MAY 28 Family Movie Night: Dora and the Lost City of Gold Come over to Levy Park for Family Movie Night sponsored by Texas Children’s Hospital featuring Dora and the Lost City of Gold. levyparkhouston.org Levy Park 8pm. All ages

MAY 29 Palm Beach Opening Day Summer is on its way and while many places are still following Covid-19 safety protocol, your family can still have some fun, in a safe way, so grab your bathing suite and sunscreen and head to the beach. moodygardens.com Palm Beach at Moody Gardens All day 7 days/week. All ages.

VAQUEROS CUP presented by ASPEN SNOWMASS THIS IS AS GOOD AS IT GETS!! 6 Chukkers of thrilling world class polo, only ONE team can WIN! Enjoy great polo, live music, a champagne divot stomp at halftime and door prizes by HPC. houstonpoloclub.com Houston Polo Club 5pm. Get individual tickets for $15.50$32.50, box seats for 2-20 guests $79$695. All ages

MAY 31

Sheldon Lake All day, every day. All ages

MAY 25 Tough Broads Out at Night Book Club Tough Broads Book Club meets the fourth Tuesday of each month at 7:00 p.m. This month’s book will be The Mothers by Brit Bennett. bluewillowbookshop.com Virtual, meeting on Zoom 7pm. Age: Adult

George Observatory If you haven’t already been, GO! Undergoing an extensive makeover that lasted 2 years, you can finally go back to exploring the galaxy. hmns.org/george-observatory George Observatory Dusk. Age: 6+

Table Tennis Meet Up Grab a paddle and get ready to play! This casual meet up is perfect for beginners, novice players, and those who may be looking to have fun and learn more about the game of table tennis. Paddles and balls are provided. levyparkhouston.org Levy Park 1pm. Age: 10+

Levy Park 10am. All ages

MAY 26 Nature Discovery Center and Story time Visit the discovery rooms and enjoy the outdoor trails and play area. Plan to stay for nature story time which can include live animal encounters and a simple craft. naturediscoverycenter.org Nature Discover Center Tues.-Fri. Noon-5:30pm, Sat.-Sun.

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