Houston Family Magazine August 2023

GETTING MIDDLE SCHOOL READY

NO STRESS BACK TO SCHOOL MORNINGS

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

8 7 TIPS FOR FINDING THE PERFECT PRESCHOOL

Written by the Rebecca Hastings

10 GRADE READY! GETTING YOUR KIDS READY FOR MIDDLE SCHOOL

Written by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

12 10 WAYS TO PREPARE YOUR TEEN (AND YOU) FOR HIGH SCHOOL

Written by Rebecca Hastings

16 SIMPLE WAYS TO REDUCE BACK TO SCHOOL ANXIETY

Written by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

18 MAKING GOOD MANNERS COOL AGAIN

Written by Sandi Schwartz

20 TAKING THE STRESS OUT OF BACK TO SCHOOL MORNINGS

Written by Sarah Lyons

22 5 BENEFITS OF AFTER-SCHOOL ACTIVITIES

Written by Christina Katz

26 10 SANITY & MONEY SAVING TIPS TO SURVIVE BACK-TOSCHOOL SHOPPING

Written by Christina Katz

30 BRING HISTORY TO LIFE: FIELD TRIP IDEAS FOR HOMESCHOOLERS

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MAYOR'S BACK 2 SCHOOL FEST

Saturday, August 5, 2023 - 8:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m., or until supplies

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The Mayor’s Back to School Fest Presented by Shell is designed to help economically disadvantaged Houston-area elementary school students and their families as they prepare to return to school. In addition to distributing 25,000 backpacks with school supplies, the event will feature onsite health screenings to include: dental screenings and sealants, vision screenings, and routine immunizations. The event also connects families to a wide range of health and social services offered by community agencies. There is a continued need for assistance with basic school supplies and health screenings for Houston-area students. Once again, the Mayor’s Back to School Fest Presented by Shell is prepared to help fill in these gaps.

More info, https://www.houstontx.gov/btsf/

TAX FREE SHOPPING

This year’s sales tax holiday begins Friday, Aug. 11, and goes through midnight Sunday, Aug. 13.

The Comptroller encourages all taxpayers to support Texas businesses while saving money on tax-free purchases of most clothing, footwear, school supplies and backpacks (sold for less than $100) during the annual Tax-Free weekend. Qualifying items can be purchased tax free from a Texas store or from an online or catalog seller doing business in Texas. In most cases, you do not need to give the seller an exemption certificate to buy qualifying items tax free.

The sales tax exemption applies only to qualifying items you buy during the sales tax holiday. Items you buy before or after the sales tax holiday do not qualify for exemption, and there is no tax refund available.

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PRESCHOOL 7 TIPS FOR FINDING THE PERFECT

written by Rebecca Hastings

We were running errands when one of my teenagers shouted and pointed, “Look! It’s our old preschool!” Soon my other two teens were chiming in, “I loved it there!” and “That was my favorite school. Do you remember when...” And just like that, we were walking down a memory lane of craft projects, field trips, and even that time when the teacher helped with a loose tooth that just wouldn’t budge. It made me happy that my kids remembered their days there as fondly as I did. Finding a preschool may seem stressful but when you focus on the right things, you can find the perfect place for you and your kids.

HERE ARE 7 TIPS TO HELP YOU FIND A PRESCHOOL YOUR KIDS WILL REMEMBER:

TALK TO KIDS

At the park, at the library, at your friend’s house. Find out what the kids loved doing on a given day or what their favorite thing is about preschool. Ask to see their latest project. Most kids will be thrilled to share their expertise. You can learn a lot from kids if you pay attention.

TALK TO PARENTS

See what schools they love and why. Find out if they are friends with other families there. Ask about the teachers that make it great. The most important thing is to talk to real people. Don’t rely on social media for accurate information.

CONSIDER THE SCHEDULE

Does the school have a schedule that works for your family? It is essential that the days and hours align with your family schedule, but also with your child’s preferences. There are schools with two day a week programs and schools that meet five days a week. Some meet for two hours while others are the whole day. Think about what you and your child would benefit from.

ASK ABOUT EDUCATIONAL PHILOSOPHY

Every school has a unique approach. Some schools focus heavily on academics while others focus on social skills. Some schools stress nature-based learning while others focus on the arts. Don’t get caught up in what these approaches are called, but think about your child and how their interests line up with what the school offers.

TALK MONEY

It is essential that the cost works for your family. Consider tuition costs as well as extras like fundraisers, field trips, and parties. Be bold about asking these questions before you choose a school so you are not stressed later about unexpected expenses. Finding a school that your family can afford will create a less stressful environment for you and your child.

FIND OUT ABOUT PARENT INVOLVEMENT

Ask how much parents are expected to be involved and make sure it is something you are comfortable with. Some schools ask for parents to volunteer during the school day on a regular basis while others only invite parents for holiday and year-end programs. Extras like fundraising or events can also be a requirement. Find out what is expected so you know if you can participate at that level.

ASK TO OBSERVE

See if there is a good time for you and your child to visit during the school day. Watching the school in action is one of the best ways to discover if it will be a good fit. Chat with some parents at drop-off or pickup. Observe the kids as they work together. All of it fits together to create the atmosphere your child will be learning in.

Finding the perfect preschool doesn’t have to be stressful. Be realistic about your family’s needs and how they match up with the school. With these simple tips, you can discover a learning environment that will be perfect for your child.

GRADE READY!

written by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

There are few transitions more important than the one from elementary to middle school. Kids go from being, well, kids to becoming adolescents with all that entails. How do you prepare them for the academic and social challenges of middle school? Here’s what the experts say:

VISIT THE SCHOOL

Going to middle school often means literally starting at a new and unfamiliar school, and that can make any kid anxious. You can help ease the transition, Alicia Trautwein, a parenting coach and author of the wellknown blog, The Mom Kind, says by making it a priority to visit the school with your kids on back-to-school night. She suggests that parents let their kids explore the school on their own by having them walk around with a schedule so that they can find all their classes, look for their locker and practice their lock combination, and go outside to get a feel for the area. “By helping them get comfortable with the school hallways, classrooms, and environment,” Ms. Trautwein says, “they can be more prepared for the transition.”

DEVELOP ORGANIZATION SKILLS

In middle school, the day suddenly gets much more complex than what they’ve been used to in elementary school: there are many more courses, taught by different teachers, and often in classrooms on different floors of the building. This requires good organization skills. Marion Wilde of Great Schools, an education think tank, goes so far as to say that “organization is the key

to middle-school success.” How can you help your kids organize themselves better? The experts at KidsHealth, a major healthnews site, suggest that parents buy binders, folders, and notebooks for each class, teach their kids how to use a personal planner, and encourage them to make daily to-do lists of assignments.

… AND TIMEMANAGEMENT

An important part of organization is timemanagement. Ms. Wilde suggests that parents teach their kids to estimate how long each assignment will take to finish, and then help them divide up the work over the number of days allotted for each assignment to create smaller, more manageable chunks of work and a realistic schedule. Ms. Trautwein adds that parents should help their kids create a daily schedule, which includes morning and evening routines, homework and study time, extracurricular activities and time with friends, and some alone time where they can unwind and de-stress. Ms. Trautwein says that having such a schedule will teach your kids accountability: they’ll become “more accountable for their time and the things they need to get done.”

HELP WITH HOMEWORK

Homework is much more demanding in middle than elementary school; kids are often expected to do 1-2 hours of homework every day. Experts agree that parents should encourage their kids to take ownership of their homework. Ms. Wilde suggests that parents ask lots of questions as a way of guiding their kids: “Where do you think you should begin? What do you need to do next? Can you describe how you’re going to solve this problem? What did you try that didn’t work? What did you try that did work?”

Cynthia Tobias and Sue Acuna, co-authors of Middle School: The Inside Story, agree that parents should act more like consultants who ask probing questions than as authority figures ready to offer the solution: “If your child’s grades slip, ask questions to find out why it’s happening and help him think through a plan to correct the problem.”

DEAL WITH FRIENDS

In middle school, kids often start to develop deep and intimate friendships and, as with all relationships, these friendships sometimes go sour. How do you help your kids deal with friendship issues? Two of the best approaches are: 1) being emotionally available for your kids, and 2)

helping them to brainstorm possible solutions. Michelle Icard, author Middle School Makeover and many other parenting books, says that sometimes the best approach is simply to be there for your kids ready to listen to whatever they have to say: “Your reassuring presence in their lives might just be enough.” Ms. Tobias and Acuna add that parents should let their kids know that they’ll always be there for them: “At this age, what they want from you is what you want from a friend or a spouse: to be listened to, understood and taken seriously.”

If the issue is more serious and/ or your kids are clearly troubled by it, try to help them come up with possible solutions. Just as with homework, however, don’t try to solve their issues but instead help them come up with solutions. “Running into friendship trouble can make tweens feel helpless,” Ms. Icard says, “but coming up with personal solutions is a great way to restore feelings of capability and confidence.”

Tanni Haas, Ph.D. is a Professor in the Department of Communication Arts, Sciences & Disorders at the City University of New York –Brooklyn College.

10 WAYS TO PREPARE YOUR TEEN (AND YOU) FOR

high school

written by Rebecca Hastings

I walked into the huge doors of the high school, overwhelmed by emotion. It was all mixed up – joy, excitement, fear, pride, worry, disbelief. My daughter was oblivious to it all. As she walked beside me she had her own feelings, but she hid hers beneath a cool smile, chatting with her best friends. We were walking into her high school orientation. This was her first glimpse at the next four years of her life. It was my first glimpse of how fast time had truly gone.

There are big transitions we face with our kids when they’re little.

First steps, potty training, the first day of kindergarten. So many milestones in such a short time. As they get older the milestones are harder to see.

There’s driving and first dates and graduation. All of them monumental in their own right. If we rush or blink too much we might miss some of the other things: middle school, first dance, first A, first F. They’re all part of a lifetime of steps on the way to adulthood.

My oldest starts high school in the fall. And this feels like a big deal. Even in middle school, I was able to reason through how she’s still a kid and life might be going fast but we’re in the middle.

High school feels so much bigger, older, and more like getting ready for goodbye. This shift feels complex for both of us. We are doing our best to feel ready. But not by looking at grades and course selection.

Here are 10 things that will help you both prepare for the transition to high school.

START GETTING READY NOW.

If you have a toddler you don’t need to start buying her a high school backpack or prom dress, but you do need to start thinking about the trajectory of your child’s life.

So often we are busy trying to survive the day or get through the stage they’re in, but knowing they will get through it and move on is helpful.

Still, we need to think for a moment about high school.

What are you hoping your son or daughter will know before she goes?

What do you want her time to look like? How many activities will he do?

How will you preserve family time as she’s embarking on more independence?

Even in elementary school, we thought about how our time would look as a family. We decided our kids could do one activity at a time. When my oldest was in second grade she wanted to try dance. She knew that meant she had to stop gymnastics to try it. This helped her understand the value of time, and it helped us keep our family priorities in check.

We don’t need to plan their courses for high school the day they enter kindergarten, but our decisions can help set the whole family up for success as they grow.

These things are not meant to scare you, but to remind all of us that they will grow and we can prepare for that.

Think about your school experiences. Picture it all. Did you have a locker? Did you fall in love? What class was insanely hard? Walk down memory lane. Seriously. Now file it in the back corner of your brain.

Your teen doesn’t want to hear story after story of your experience. Even your elementary school children will tell you to keep your stories to yourself. He’s living his own life. Your experience will never be his experience. He’s breaking free and you, his parent, could never understand what he’s facing.

At least that’s what he thinks.

You don’t need to completely discard your experience. But only share pieces when it seems right and wanted. One or two short stories from your experience will go a lot farther than talking about your experience so much your child tunes you out.

FIND SOMEONE THEY CAN RELATE TO.

Maybe it’s a cousin or an older sibling. Maybe a family friend that’s a few years older than they are. Find people you trust to speak wisdom into your child’s life.

Ideally, they are no more than 10 years older than your child. This is the perfect window for your child to look up to them and still listen to them. Beyond that, they’re just old (at least to a fourteen-year-old.)

My daughter has an aunt in her early twenties. Her aunt and I could say the same thing to her, but it would mean more coming from her aunt because she relates to her differently.

Start building that relationship now, while they are young. Start bringing people into their lives for them to look up to. Paving those paths of communication now will pay off when those hard-to-discuss issues come into their lives.

You’ll both be grateful to have these trusted voices in his life as he walks through these years.

GIVE THEM RESPONSIBILITY.

This is the perfect time for kids to try new things and become responsible. High school years are the final practice for adulthood.

Learning responsibility begins right now – at whatever age they are. According to Jessica Lahey in her book, The Gift of Failure, “children are starved for responsibility.”

Right now, your 3-yearold can help to bring the silverware to the table and lay the napkins on the table. Your 6-year-old can be taught how to wash towels. Your 12-yearold can run into the store for you and pick up a gallon of milk and some bread.

“Kids flourish when they are given responsibility,” Lahey goes on to say. Encouraging them to take more responsibility is healthy and gives them a chance to make

mistakes while you’re there to help them through.

Having opportunities for things to feel hard or to fail or to work through a problem with a friend are all essential life skills. And right now, you get to be their backup.

If they fail, they will learn. And Jessica Lahey reminds us that failure is one of the greatest teachers kids could have.

BUT LET THEM BE KIDS.

While we do want our children to be responsible, the goal isn’t to make them act like they’re 40.

My son asked for Legos for Christmas last year. He’s 12 and I hesitated because I wasn’t sure he’d use them. And if he did, it wouldn’t be for long. I knew his Lego days were numbered. As I thought about it, I chose to buy the Legos. Why? As long as my son wants to play, I want to encourage him to do that.

Does your teen still love collecting Legos? Keep giving them birthday presents. I know, they won’t play with them like they used to, but if they want to hold onto their childhood for a little longer, let them.

Does she still want to snuggle up and watch a movie with you? Say yes every chance you get.

Just a few more blinks and they’ll be moving out to live at college or on their own. Make the most of these years while they’re still kids.

The best way is to lead by example. Be silly. Sing really loud in the car, have a water balloon fight, and challenge them to a game of HORSE at the basketball hoop. They may roll their eyes, but that little kid inside will secretly love it.

THINK ABOUT TIME.

This is one of the hardest things for teens to navigate, mostly because they don’t even know it’s happening. Time management is a skill they will need for their whole life.

Scholastic has a great guide that takes you through teaching your kid about time management. You can start just by talking to your 3-year-old about how time works. Talk about the changing of the seasons or create a picture schedule to help them work out what happens in a day.

When they reach grade school you can teach them how to read a clock and give them set time amounts for things like eating breakfast or doing homework. As they get older you can help them work through setting homework priorities or planning out a big project.

In high school, talk about courses available and which ones make the most sense time-wise. Would a study hall be helpful during the semester they’re taking that Honors course? Maybe having a break for an art class will help him focus when he’s in Biology. Help them think about their school day beyond cramming in all the classes they can.

After school time is even more important to think about. It’s tempting in high school to do all the things. Sports? Yes! Clubs? You bet! Driver’s ed? Absolutely. A job? Of course! With so many opportunities it’s hard to know how the puzzle pieces will all fit.

Talk about their time. Help them plan time for homework and activities and family. But also make sure they understand the value of free time. Again, the best way to do that is to model the behavior. Take breaks and have space in your day good and healthy.

LIGHTEN UP.

It feels like everything is higher stakes once you hit middle school. And when they hit high school? Boom! We hit another level. Suddenly, it’s all about getting into college. And there is merit in that. But it’s a lot of pressure.

Find ways to navigate when your child needs to be pushed and when to back off. And start now, before they are in middle school. Back off on sports. Lighten up around grades. Be a gentle supporter around homework.

In all likelihood, the school is doing quite a bit of pushing. While we need to help our kids be responsible, we also need to give them opportunities to relax.

We can be the soft place to land when the world is pushing them on to succeed and do great things.

We can show our kids to be serious and focused while maintaining opportunities to lighten up.

FOSTER RELATIONSHIPS.

Middle school and high school can be a wild ride when it comes to friendships. There is no shortage of hormoneinduced drama during these years. Finding ways to encourage solid, healthy friendships can be a lifeline for your child.

Make opportunities to have kids over. Start as soon as they start to make connections in preschool or elementary school. Make your home a safe space to have fun with peers.

As they get older, take time to talk with your child about his or her friends. Remember this is not a time to try to dig up problems. Rather, these conversations offer opportunities for your child to talk with you. Special Time is a perfect tool to use for creating space for your child to confide in you.

Laying this foundation is essential when he or she encounters a problem. Your child will feel more comfortable talking with you, allowing you to help him.

SPEND TIME TOGETHER.

Making time to be together is something that you will appreciate, as your child is getting older. But your child will appreciate it as well. Your availability is key to her feeling secure as she faces these transitions.

Remember, she may appear to be independent and capable of conquering the world, but she still needs your presence, support, and advice.

This can and should be enjoyable for both of you. From reading the same book to letting them plan a day for the two of you, there are a variety of ways to make this fun. Find what works for you and your teen.

I like to have dates with my kids. I take one of them out for lunch at their favorite restaurant or we go to the museum or the park of their choice. It doesn’t have to be an elaborate and expensive affair. Just something that tells them they are special.

WHAT’S NEXT?

There may be moments for your teen (and for you) that feel overwhelming. It’s easy to look at high school as one giant thing you both have to face. When either of you feels overwhelmed the best place to start is with what’s next.

When my daughter made her freshman schedule, she struggled to decide whether to keep taking band. She felt pressured to stick with it but also wanted space to try new things. Instead of thinking about band for four years, we talked about whether she wanted to do it for the first semester.

So often we lump high school together as one unit. Looking at the pieces, the years, the semesters, we can break things down and focus on the decision right in front

of us instead of a four-year decision.

We don’t need to figure out what they’re going to do for a senior project the first day they walk through the door their freshman year. Just look at the next thing and face that together.

2-MINUTE ACTION PLAN

Think about the stage your child is in. Look at all the pieces of where he or she is right now and begin to think about the trajectory toward high school. Don’t use this as a planning time, rather, use this as a time to consider the stages to come and the challenges and joys you will face together.

What is one responsibility you can give them today?

Look at your daily schedule. When can you fit in some Special Time? When can you take them out on a date?

ONGOING ACTION PLAN

How are they doing on time management? What can you do to help them become more conscious about time? How can you help them determine their priorities?

How are you balancing the goal of giving them responsibility while letting them be kids? How can you do better?

Think about your own school experiences. How can you keep yourself from oversharing?

Who is someone in your family or friend circle that your child can relate to? How can you help to build the relationship between them?

Also, give yourself time and space to think about your feelings as your child gets ready for high school. Acknowledge your emotions and thoughts to help you both through this exciting process.

SIMPLE WAYS TO REDUCE BACK TO SCHOOL ANXIETY

written by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

A lot of kids feel anxious at back- to-school time, after a long summer full of fun. They’re often the most anxious when they’re about to go to a new school, are going through a transition year from elementary to middle school or middle to high school, or when a best friend has moved away over the summer break. What do you do to make your kids less anxious and more excited about the upcoming school year? Experts agree on the following:

TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT THEIR ANXIETIES

If you suspect that your kids are experiencing back-toschool anxiety, talk them about it. Instead of sitting them down for a formal affair, talk about their anxieties as a natural part of your endof-summer conversations. As Caroline Miller of the Child Mind Institute puts it: “Kids often say more when there’s less pressure to ‘have a talk.’” Ask open-ended questions that you know will get them to speak, listen carefully to how they respond, and acknowledge their anxieties no matter how exaggerated they may seem. “When children know they can share their

observations or challenges, and their parents will listen,” says Dr. Laurie Hollman, a child psychotherapist, “they go to school with the parents’ calm, steady voice in the back of their minds.”

STAY POSITIVE AND PROJECT CONFIDENCE IN THEM

When you talk to your kids, stay positive and let them know that you’ve confidence in them. As Dr. Kurt Smith, a counseling psychologist, puts it: “Your enthusiasm will be noticed and remembered.” Focus your conversation on how well everything turned out in previous years, and assure them you’re confident about this year, too. It can be helpful

to recount your own back-toschool experiences with anxiety and how you overcame them. “Kids love to hear stories from their parents’ childhood,” says Dr. Joan Munson, a clinical psychologist,” because it helps normalize any difficult feelings they’re experiencing.” You can also help them normalize their feelings, Dr. Munson says, simply be reminding them “that all children have these fears and they’re not alone.”

PRACTICE SCHOOL-DAY ROUTINES

You can help ease your kids’ anxieties by having them practice their school-day routines, like waking up in the morning at a specific time,

getting dressed, packing the school bag, eating breakfast, and travelling to school. Dr. Lynn Bufka, a clinical psychologist, says that practicing school-day routines will instill in your kids “a sense of mastery over the situation” and “will help them feel like it’s more under their control.” Indeed, research shows that kids who prepare in advance for the upcoming school year are less anxious and do better academically.

ENGAGE THEM IN ROLE PLAY

It’s helpful to role play the school-related situations that make your kids the most anxious. “The best way to

gain mastery over worries,” says Katie Hurley, a licensed social worker, “is to practice taking control over worrisome situations.” This can be anything from riding the school bus to participating in class discussions. “If you discover that your child’s afraid of riding the school bus,” says Dr. Munson, “set up an area in the house and do a ‘pretend’ ride to school.” Similarly, “if they’re afraid to ask the teacher questions, do role plays together on how to speak up in class.”

ARRANGE PLAY DATES WITH CLASSMATES

It’s a good idea to arrange play dates with your kids’ friends, especially if you know that those friends are likely to be their classmates during the upcoming school year.

“Play dates before school starts,” says Dr. Hollman, “can help prepare them to be with their classmates in an unpressured setting.” Dr. Munson agrees: “If your child hasn’t seen school friends over the summer, it isn’t too late to invite them over to help your child get re-acquainted with them and excited for school. Visits to the park, pool, or movies with old friends - and new ones, too - can make your child feel more comfortable when they encounter their peers at school.”

MAKE THE FIRST SCHOOL DAY SPECIAL

The first day of school should be treated like a special occasion. “Letting them

choose what clothes to wear or breakfast to have,” says Dr. John Piacentini, a child psychiatrist, “can provide a sense of control and excitement about school.” But don’t assume that this will magically reduce all your kids’ anxieties. Dr. Munson emphasizes that parents ought to “set aside a time in the evening to discuss how their child’s day went and to listen to any concerns.”

DON’T BE ANXIOUS YOURSELF

Try to control any anxieties that you may experience yourself. Anxiety is contagious, so if you’re anxious, your kids can get anxious, too. As Ms. Hurley puts it, “if you appear overwhelmed and anxious on the first day of school, your child is likely to follow your lead.” Instead, Dr. Julia Burch, a child psychologist, suggests that you “try to model the calm behavior you’d like to see in your child.” If you stay calm and focus on all the great things your kids are about to experience, they’ll end up getting more excited than anxious about the upcoming school year.

Tanni Haas, Ph.D. is a Professor in the Department of Communication Arts, Sciences, and Disorders at the City University of New York – Brooklyn College.

goodmakingmanners cool again

written by Sandi Schwartz

Have you noticed that kids these days do not have the best manners? When I used to volunteer at my daughter’s school at lunchtime, I rarely heard the children saying please and thank you, although they are certainly not shy about requesting more ketchup or cheese for their plate. Sometimes I like to give them a manners nudge by serenading them with the phrase “more cheese please?”.

My husband and I have always made teaching manners to our children a priority in our house. While we do not expect to flash back to the 1950’s and have our children address every adult they meet as Mrs. or Sir, we do ask that they say please, thank you, and excuse me. Sure, it takes quite a bit of training (and sometimes nagging as well) from the time they speak their first word, but we know that having good manners will help them be kinder, nicer, more successful people throughout their lives. This is even more critical now as our kids reemerge into school and other social situations post-pandemic.

REASON FOR THIS TREND

A 2016 survey by the Associated Press-NORC Center for Public Affairs found that 74 percent of Americans think manners and behavior have deteriorated in the United States over the past several decades. Interestingly, clear differences between what older Americans and younger Americans consider to be rude behavior were revealed in the study. For example, almost half of Americans age 18 to 29 think it is perfectly acceptable to use cell phones in restaurants, while only 22 percent of those over age 60 agree. This discrepancy indicates a clear trend in how manners and rudeness have changed over generations.

What is the reason for this change? Experts blame technology and busy parents for this trend. When both parents work long hours and children are raised by other caregivers like nannies

and daycare or afterschool staff, they do not receive the same guidance and skills to help them form good manners. It also seems to be widely accepted that teachers do not need to be responsible for giving lessons about manners. That means it’s up to parents to instill these values with the limited time we have with their children. Also, many parents feel guilty about all the time they spend at work, so they try to act like their children’s best friend instead of their disciplinarian.

Second, technology gets blamed a lot for kids’ lack of politeness. According to Alex J. Packer, Ph.D., author of the book How Rude! The Teen Guide to Good Manners, Proper Behavior, and Not Grossing People Out, today’s electronic devices and social media lead to a culture of rudeness. Communicating in brief snippets with texts and tweets encourages distorts the intended meaning of words and can cause bad manners. Spending so much time on devices also pulls kids away from personal interaction with their peers and adults. This means they are not practicing how to speak to others kindly. Finally, when kids communicate through electronics, they have more freedom to be rude since they can be anonymous and removed from the situation.

WHY GOOD MANNERS ARE IMPORTANT

If it’s becoming widely accepted that manners no longer matter, then why should we care whether our kids have good manners at all? Just because everyone’s doing it, doesn’t mean we should follow the downward trend. Good manners are still critical to a child’s successful growth and their ability to build positive relationships throughout their lives.

At the core, good manners reflect respect for our self and others. When we say please and thank you, we are taking the time to make someone else feel appreciated. Additionally, Dr. Pier Massimo Forni, professor and co-founder of the Civility Project at Johns Hopkins and author of Choosing Civility: The 25 Rules of Considerate Conduct, explains that it is crucial for children to learn to connect civility with strength and determination. This is achieved through character development in the home,

and these positive traits can be applied to other situations in their lives. Our children depend on us to show them how to be trustworthy, considerate, and kind to others so that they can take these skills with them throughout school, the workplace, and in their relationships.

HOW TO TEACH CHILDREN GOOD MANNERS

It’s never too early to teach your children good manners, but you may reach a point that it becomes a major struggle if you wait too long. One etiquette expert suggests teaching kids the basics of good manners by the time they reach eight or nine years old when they completely understand what respect means.

SOME OF THE MAIN CONCEPTS TO TEACH YOUR CHILDREN INCLUDE:

Using nice words. Teach them how to say magic words like please when they ask for something and thank you when they receive something. It is also important that they learn to say they are sorry and excuse me when appropriate. Bottom line—they should try to be as kind as possible to others and treat them as they would want to be treated.

MEAL TIME ETIQUETTE.

Work with your children to develop appropriate behavior during meals and special occasions, such as:

• Put away electronics.

• Wait until everyone is seated and served before eating.

• Use your utensils and your napkin.

• Take small bites.

• Chew with your mouth closed.

• Don't talk with your mouth full.

• Keep your elbows off the table.

• Don't pick food out of your teeth in public.

INTERPERSONAL CONNECTION.

Give them the skills to be able to communicate and connect with others. Some guidelines include:

• Not interrupting others while they are talking.

• Speaking in complete sentences instead of one-word answers.

• Give full attention to someone talking to them, which includes looking them in the eye.

• Be sure to smile to appear inviting and interested in what others have to say.

• If comfortable, shake hands or hug the person.

GOOD SPORTSMANSHIP.

Teach your children to lose gracefully and to always thank their opponent at the end of a game. By focusing on the positive aspects of sports and games like taking turns, learning new skills, playing as a team, and reaching their goals, there will be fewer bad manners when they lose.

You don’t need to invest hundreds of dollars in an etiquette class for your little one like some parents are doing; you really can do this yourself. It’s all about being consistent and modeling the positive behavior. Be mindful of using kind words when you speak to your children and other people like servers in restaurants. If you repeatedly say please and thank you to them, they will start mimicking your language.

You can also use some fun, creative ways to instill good manners in your children.

• Ask them to write real thank you notes after they receive gifts.

• Create a charades-like game by teaching them signals when they need to use better manners, such as tapping the corner of your mouth when they should to use a napkin or putting your pointer finger up to your lips when they need to stop talking and give someone else a turn.

• Make a good manners collage by cutting out words and images that can be hung up as a reminder.

• Read books about manners like: Manners, May I Please Have a Cookie?, My Mouth Is a Volcano!, The Thank You Book (An Elephant and Piggie Book), Penguin Says "Please", Richard Scarry's Please and Thank You Book, Excuse Me: A Little Book of Manners, Manners Time

written by Sarah Lyons

Back to School mornings taking

School mornings can be stressful for both parents and kids. The morning can be very hectic with limited time to eat breakfast, get dressed, gather belongings, and get to school on time. Here are some ideas for families to lower the stress and create a smoother school morning.

Lunch Solution

Packing a healthy school lunch (or multiple lunches) can take up a lot of time in the morning. Get a head start on lunch preparations by starting the evening before. “If my kitchen is clean, I feel like I am ahead of the game. Every night before going to bed I prepare lunches for the next day, put away clean dishes, and reload the dishwasher.” says Kim Burnette, mother of two. By getting a head start the night before, you eliminate a big step, leaving you time for other things in the morning.

Backpack Solution

After the kids have completed their homework, have them pack their backpacks up. Parents can sign permission slips, go through school papers, and gather any supplies needed for school the next day and pack them up. Does your child have their gym uniform and band instrument? When everything is ready the night before, there is less to do on school mornings.

Wardrobe Solution

Check the weather the evening before school so that kids can lay out their clothing and outerwear for the next day. With the coats, hats, gloves, and boots laid out there is less scramble to find everything the next morning. Also try laying out the entire week’s clothing on Sunday. “We have a small plastic set of drawers with 5 drawers that can be purchased in the storage section at Target. We put an outfit for both of the kids in each on Sunday.” says Alicia Dafferner, mother of two from Omaha, NE.

Prep Yourself

Many parents find that if they can wake up before the kids, they feel more refreshed and prepared for a productive morning. This gives them the time to take a few minutes to wake up, enjoy a cup of coffee, or grab a quick shower. Mother of three, Jessi Cole, says “I find that it helps if I get up early and get myself ready before my kids get up. That way, I only have to worry about them.”

Breakfast Solution

Help make breakfast healthier and quicker by planning ahead. Sherry Hoffman, mom of two boys, says “I make several breakfast options that are freezer and toaster oven friendly on the weekends that we can choose throughout the week.” Ideas for freezerfriendly breakfast items include breakfast burritos, waffles, french toast, or muffins. There are also easy to make options like whole grain cereal, yogurt with fruit and granola, or a breakfast smoothie. Many of these items can be prepared the night before to help the morning go smoother.

Early to Bed, Early to Rise

“I have noticed that it makes our mornings much smoother if my kids get enough sleep, so early bedtimes are a must.” says Hoffman. Kids who have a consistent early bedtime are more rested for an early wake up. Rested kids are in better moods and stay on task on school mornings, causing less stress and conflict in the morning.

Eliminate Electronics

With limited time to be prepared for school, it is best to eliminate electronic distractions. Parents and kids need to focus on the goal, which is getting to school on time. Distractions like television, handheld devices, and video games only slow down the process. Remind kids that there will be time for electronics after school, when their chores and homework are complete.

Adjusting to a new school schedule can take awhile, but if parents do their best to prepare the night before and teach kids to do the same, the mornings will run much smoother.

Sarah Lyons has the task of getting her six children to school in the morning. Planning and preparation help her household run smoothly.

5 Benefits of For Happy, Well-Rounded Kids After-School Activities

written by Christina Katz

Parents, do you ever wonder if you may be taking the whole over-scheduling taboo too seriously? For years, parents have been hearing that kids have too many activities, too much homework, too-heavy backpacks, too much screen time, too much sugar...and on and on.

Personally, I find most parents are intelligent, conscientious, and trying to find a healthy middle ground for everyone in the family. Most parents want their kids to have just the right amount of after school activities. The vast majority seem committed to helping their kids become happier, healthier, more well rounded citizens without pushing them into activity overload.

So why not remember a few things kids stand to gain from after school activities instead? Kids can benefit artistically, physically, socially, mentally and personally from after school activities. I contacted a half-dozen after school activity pros, and here are some of the many benefits for kids that we discussed:

FIT, CONFIDENT KIDS.

As Elle Woods reminds us in the film Legally Blonde, "Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy." But motivating kids to get off the couch is not always easy for parents. Your kids are not typically looking to you to motivate them to run some wind-sprints or do a series of gut crunches. They need someone else to step in and motivate them to get moving. This is where after school activities come in, preferably with dedicated, motivating coaches and instructors leading the way. Physical activities increase coordination, inspire discipline, and provide energy outlets for restless kids. So

let another trusted adult be in charge for a change, and enjoy your down time while your kids get more fit.

LIGHTS WHO SHINE.

As much as we would like our kids to carry on our values and ideals, it's really up to them to communicate to us who they are and what they believe. And while we may like to think that our children are born whole and complete, the truth is kids often discover what they are made of after they become immersed in activities that stretch and challenge them. Engaging kids in activities where they feel fully immersed in the experience and are responsible for their own mastery helps kids discover what makes them tick. When it comes to finding an activity for your child, look for outlets that challenge them while providing gradual instruction and skill development.

PART OF SOMETHING GREATER.

After school activities offer kids outlets for expressing their energy within a safe learning context. Feeling part of a group with a purpose is a beautiful thing, so make sure that the space where your child spends time is a safe, fun, and growth-centric. Often kids become as attached to a center, a studio, or a routine as much as they do to a group of peers. When kids go off to their activities, they should feel like they are going to one of

their favorite places - to their home away from home. If this is not the case for your child, then you might want to check out other possibilities.

MEMORABLY CONNECTED.

If there is one thing all after school activity professionals agree on, it's the importance of making memories via meaningful connections. Engaged, smiling, busy children are typically happy children. Whether your child's activity happens in a place rife with variety or in a more specialized space, your child is sure to grow over time, make memories, and understand herself better with regular participation in after school activities. Why not let your kids have the continuity of years of ongoing participation. It's hard to advance up the activity ranks if you dabble in one activity and then another. Give your child a few years in elementary school to try different activities. Then see if they want to commit to an activity or two during middle school. They can always switch to different activities once they get to high school, if they wish.

APTITUDE-RICH.

Some students need extra help to keep up academically, so don't panic if your child turns out to be one of them. Your child may need extra help that addresses specific needs like standardized test preparation or responding to learning gaps. Other kids simply need help becoming

more satisfied students. Tutoring can definitely increase not just aptitude but also enthusiasm. And just as parents don't always make the best coaches, we also don't always make the best tutors, either. Besides, kids often progress faster and more willingly when they work with mentors they don't already know. And good news, raising academic confidence by teaching learning skills in one subject that can pay off in increased academic confidence across the board. So if your child is struggling with critical reading, vocabulary or math skills, why not try a local tutoring service? Your child has nothing to lose and much to gain.

Kids need to feel successful today to become successful tomorrow, and activities can help them experience positive growth gradually. If you don't channel your child's energy, video games, TV watching, and other sedentary activities will always be a temptation. If you want engaged, involved, smiling kids, find them some activities they enjoy. You will be so glad you did.

Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz is grateful for the opportunities she had contributing to school literary journals and newspapers. She also worked off some of her teenage angst on the soccer field, on the softball diamond, and in the school pool.

BOOK BITES

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I Am a Dragon

by Sabina Hahn (Harper Collins)

The frogs are excited when they spot a Very Big Frog in their pond. But when the creature says that he isn't a frog, the frogs insist that he's the one who is wrong.

Red Jacket

by Bob Holt (Harper Collins)

Bob loves his cool red jacket. The red jacket makes other seagulls notice him. But when a wave washes it away, will Bob lose his cool and his newfound friends, too?

Monster Mac and Cheese Party

by Todd Parr (Little Brown)

Monsters bring their favorite mac and cheese dishes to a wacky potluck. Includes recipes for vegan mac and Todd mac.

Back to the Bright Before

by Katherin Nolte (Random House Books for Young Readers)

When 11-year-old Pet Martin's dad is injured in a fall from a ladder, the family’s future is compromised. Pet is determined to fix things with good old-fashioned grit...and maybe a little bit of magic.

Lei and the Fire Goddess by Malia Maunakea (Penguin Workshop)

Twelve-year-old Anna must dig deep into her Hawaiian roots in order to save her best friend and her island from an angry fire goddess.

Viva Lola Espinoza

by Ella Ceron (Kokila)

A young adult novel about a booksmart teen who spends the summer in Mexico City, meets two cute boys, tries to learn Spanish, and uncovers a family secret.

Her Good Side

by Rebekah Weatherspoon (Razorbill)

Awkward teenagers Bethany and Jacob must navigate blossoming feelings after agreeing to date each other as practice for the real deal.

Sing Me to Sleep

by Gabi Burton (Bloomsbury YA)

Saoirse Sorkova, a murderous siren whose very existence is illegal, is forced to work with the prince she hates to hunt a deadly killer--herself. Our quarterly teen subscription box pick!

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10 SANITY & MONEY SAVING TIPS TO SURVIVE BACK-TO-SCHOOL SHOPPING

written by Christina Katz

School is not the only place where children learn. Parents and children can learn a lot about life and each other by tackling the back-to-school preparation process together. Whether you start preparing for back-to-school on July 5th or a few days before the first bell rings, these tips will help you keep you all smiling from start to finish.

CLEAR THE WAY

Try to have each child's room purged of outgrown items and re-arranged to suit their new grade prior to the start of school. Work on this with your child to help start mentally transitioning into back-toschool mode. Pay special attention to etting up a homework station where each child can spread out with homework supplies within reach.

MEASURE EACH CHILD

Don't do a bunch of shopping before you realize how much your kids have grown. Get your tape measure out and check heights and assess chest, waist and hip sizes. Once you get to the shoe store, compare shoe sizes to last year. Don't forget that a pair of feet can be two different sizes. This will also save you time in dressing rooms and help you choose clothes and shoes in appropriate sizes in the first place. Children are often proud of growing but changing sizes can sometimes be unwelcome news for them to discover in the dressing room. Prepare to be a tactful and encouraging presence while trying things on, if you want to avoid upsets, especially during the middle school years.

SHOP AT HOME FIRST

Hand-me-downs may be disappointing to kids, but some items survive the use of older children and are still in good shape for sisters and brothers the next year. Items younger kids may not object to include notebooks, binders, pens, paper, notecards, etc. Collect all the useable school supplies at the end of each school year and keep them in a bin until the new school year starts. If you have a flexible younger sibling, a lightly used backpack or lunch bag may

even be acceptable. But when younger siblings desire items that express their own identify, don't force them to inherit. Donate old supplies instead and start over.

DELAY CLOTHES SHOPPING

Surely each of your children will need a few new things before school starts, but the sales won't begin in earnest until after the first day of school. There is plenty of money to be saved if you can wait to purchase larger items later in the shopping season. Besides, fall fashions are usually for cooler temps that are still several weeks or even months away. This is also a good opportunity to check out how fashions fare at your children's respective schools before you finish shopping. For example, middle school students may no longer wish to shop at a store that was perfectly popular during elementary school. If you do shop early, save receipts and keep tags on clothing until after the first day of school, just in case your child has a change of heart.

CREATE HOMEWORK STORAGE

Setting up a storage system for graded work and art can keep items tidy for each student throughout the year and make sorting papers easier at the end of the year. Middle school students and older can learn how to use an accordian file to store their completed schoolwork. If students are too young for filing papers by class or subject, set aside a plastic bin for each child to toss all schoolwork that has been returned by the teacher. Then at the end of the year, you can sit down with each

child and sift through what to save and what to toss. Only save items your child is most proud of that show academic and imaginative development. And don't save every scrap of paper and artwork in the long run. Display oversize artwork for the summer, then take photos and dispose of it before the new school year begins.

UPDATE THE MEMORY BINDER

Use one 2-inch binder for each child to hold their academic certificates of accomplishment, awards, team photos, participation letters, etc. Keep extra sheet protectors at the ready inside. Store these somewhere where each child can access theirs and when something new is to be added to the binder, let them add it. This gives them a moment to look back over what they have accomplished and reflect on their successes. If you keep this folder updated from Kindergarten through senior year, it will serve as a tangible reminder of their high points, which can boost confidence. Finally, when it's time to apply for colleges or other meritbased programs, the contents of the binder can be put to practical use and may even inspire essay ideas. We use a nice leather binder to make this binder more special than other organizational binders.

WATER BOTTLE SENSE

Many schools either require or suggest that students carry their own water bottles. This is a great habit for children and one that will serve them the rest of their lives. In addition to keeping bodies and minds hydrated, water bottle carrying can discourage the consumption of sugary beverages. However, when it comes to keeping track of water bottles, consider

the ages and levels of responsibilities of each child. In eighth grade, my daughter's water bottle has made it through the entire year for the very first time. Buying a young child an expensive water bottle may not be a good use of your money. Also important: look for water bottles that won't leak. As children get older, bottles will stick around longer and then you can justify spending a bit more.

BECOME A JOINER

Chances are good your school sells clothing and items in school colors with school mascots emblazoned on them. Collecting some branded materials may make your child feel more like part of the school. This can be especially important when starting a new school. However, follow the same rule as clothing shopping and don't purchase school wear until classes start. Kids don't want just any old t-shirt, they want the schoolwear that works best for them whatever that means to them. Perhaps offer to spend a certain amount on school items to be spread out among t-shirts, gym clothes, lanyards, water bottles, etc. throughout the year. Don't forget, while budgeting, school groups and teams usually encourage the purchase of such items to boost camaraderie.

CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES

We often toss this expression around as parents, and backto-school is a good time to put it to use. With my daughter, our biggest debate is typically about brand names. Once she sees the proof that other kids are wearing expensive name brands, she wants them, too. But this is where I draw the line. We don't sacrifice our budget for slick marketing campaigns. I explain to my daughter that she may look for

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the over-priced items at gently used stores but she may not spend even her own money on a $50 t-shirt or a $100 pair of jeans. I can't reconcile these prices with our family's values. Besides, this is a real-life opportunity for us to discuss how marketing and advertising influence consumer spending. Your back-to-school battles may be different, but go ahead and choose them, and use them as springboards for raising your child's awareness on topics that matter to your family.

Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz has been practicing the back-to-school transition for ten years now. She may finally have gotten the hang of it.

Items That Express Identity

Back-to-school time is an opportunity to let each child express individual identity through the items they select for school. Parents, shopping for these items with a practical eye, may be surprised by how much they mean to students. So here's a head's up on the backto-school items that usually matter most to kids. Since you are likely spending the money anyway, why not let them choose their own colors and designs? Don't rush them to choose as they strive to make a good first impression. Whatever items make them feel comfortable and relaxed, within reason, is the path to peaceful agreement.

• Backpack

• Lunch Box

• Sneakers

• Shoes

• Boots

• Workout Clothes

• Underwear

• T-shirts

• Water Bottle

• Jackets

• Phone Case

• Purse

• Hats

GALVESTON Orphans' hOme

exhibiting now at THE BRYAN MUSEUM through January 7, 2024

Galveston Island has no shortage of historic buildings. Many of these architectural wonders, built in the late 1800s, have survived countless storms and have certainly stood the test of time. Over the last century, many buildings have been repurposed as new businesses, residences, and one even became The Bryan Museum. Located at 1315 21st Street in Galveston, the building served as an orphanage for almost a century, providing a refuge for children in need.

Island philanthropist Henry Rosenberg left $30,000 in his will to build a permanent home for the orphans of the island, and the structure was completed in 1895. Chartered as The Galveston Orphans’ Home, it operated for 89 years and cared for more than 6500 children as the first licensed charitable organization in the State of Texas.

Although the orphanage was almost destroyed by the 1900 hurricane, none of the 42 residents were harmed. The children were relocated to the Buckner Orphans’ Home in Dallas, and $50,000 was raised for the repairs and renovation.

Within two years, the building was rebuilt and reinforced to weather future storms. In honor of all the former residents, as well as the adults, organizations, and local businesses that helped to support the Galveston Orphans’ Home, The Bryan Museum is proud to announce our upcoming exhibit spotlighting their stories. The carefully researched presentation includes information from firsthand accounts of life at the orphanage by both former residents and workers, newspaper articles going back 100 years, and recovered records from the daily operations of the home.

Visitors will follow an engaging timeline starting in 1878 through the home’s permanent closure in 1984. Interactive displays, recreated rooms, and video interviews with former residents will help visitors transcend the factual history of the building by sharing stories of the real people who lived and worked here. The exhibit will premiere on July 29, 2023 and be on display through January 7, 2024. Please join us in remembering this important part of Galveston’s history.

Galveston is a rich environment to teach homeschool kids about Texas history firsthand. With a visit to Galveston, the classroom moves out of your house and brings history to life in the places that it happened. And you don’t even need to officially homeschool your children to make the most of the historical locations that you will find in Galveston. This curriculum also works to enhance a vacation or field trip to Galveston, making it more educational.

HISTORICAL PLACES

Galveston has one of the oldest and richest histories of anywhere in the United States. Some of the nicknames it is has been known for include, “The Wall Street of the South,” the “Ellis Island of the South” and even the “Republic of Galveston” for its many different eras.

From the Native Americans who made Galveston their home when the Europeans landed in North America in 1528, to when the French claimed it in the 1600s and named it St. Louis, to when it was charted as Galveston Bay on July 23, 1786, by Jose de Evia for Spanish colonial governor and general Bernardo de Gálvez, Galveston has a rich heritage.

BEFORE YOUR VISIT

• Browse the locations that might appeal to your family:

• Ocean Star Offshore Drilling Rig & Museum

• Pier 21 Theater

• Texas Seaport Museum & ELISSA

• The Bryan Museum

• The Grand 1894 Opera House

• Rosenberg Library

• Download the full Galveston History

Curriculum to get the big picture.

• Choose the activities you are going to do while on the island and build your itinerary.

DURING YOUR VISIT

• Visit the places you choose and complete the worksheets and discussions, where available.

• Take photos and video to document your visit that can be used for projects after your visit.

AFTER YOUR VISIT

• Reflect on what you have learned using the Mind Mapping Exercise.

• Create an article.

IMMIGRATION EXPERIENCES

The Port of Galveston is the second biggest immigrant ports of the 19th and 20th centuries. An estimated 300,000 immigrants entered the U.S. through the Port of Galveston between 1846-1948.

The U.S. government chose Galveston over New Orleans as the ‘new’ Federal Immigration Station in 1906. However, it was never fully realized. A scaled down version was operational by 1913, but it was damaged by hurricane winds in 1915.

Unrestricted entry ended in 1875. Immigrants entered Galveston through Pier 29.

BEFORE YOUR VISIT

Conduct some online research about the immigration that occurred through the Port of Galveston:

• Read about the Galveston immigration database located at the Texas Seaport Museum.

• Read about the Forgotten Gateway: Coming to America Through Galveston Island exhibition that came to the Houston Museum of Natural Science in 2011.

• Read about the Galveston Movement, a program to divert Jews fleeing Russia and Eastern Europe from 1907-1914.

• Read this story in the Houston Chronicle about the immigrants who arrived in the Port of Galveston

• Check out pages 6-23 of the comprehensive learning unit, “Forgotten Gateway: Coming to America Through Galveston Island,” from The Bob Bullock Texas State History Museum.

DURING YOUR VISIT

• Visit the Texas Seaport Museum at Pier 21 and see the exhibition about the immigrants who entered through the port.

• Use the database located in the museum to look up people who may have come through the port. Ask the museum staff for

a demonstration of the database. Use some of the names from the story in the Houston Chronicle.

• Visit the Pier 21 Theater and watch GalvestonGateway on the Gulf movie.

• Visit Seawolf Park on Pelican Island, which served as a former immigration station. There is no formal exhibit, but you can stand where people arrived. The park is also home to tourist attractions, including the WWII submarine the USS Cavalla and one of only three destroyer escorts in the world, the USS Stewart. The remains of the WWI tanker S.S. Selma, the largest concrete ship constructed, can be seen northwest of the park’s fishing pier.

AFTER YOUR VISIT

• Write a story about what it might have been like to be an immigrant through the Port of Galveston or write an article as if you were a reporter from that time covering immigration.

THE BIG THE BIG TO-DO

A curated look at the Greater Houston’s upcoming events and culture offerings.

All events listed are FREE unless otherwise noted. Check out our online calendar at https://houstonfamilymagazine.com/events-calendar/

AUGUST 1

GALAPAGOS TORTOISE ENCOUNTER

Every Sunday and Tuesday through October.

Take the perfect tortoise selfie when you’re up close with some of the Zoo’s longest-living residents, the Galápagos tortoises. During this experience, you’ll have special access into our tortoise exhibit, learning all about these special residents while feeding them their favorite treats. Closed-toe shoes are required. All ages. 10 am. $125 / member, $150 non-member. www.houstonzoo.org

BUFFALO BAYOU PARK WELLNESS WALK

Join Buffalo Bayou Partnership on a free Wellness Walk led by Laura Conely, founder of Urban Paths. Anyone and everyone is invited to walk through the paths of Buffalo Bayou Park while discussing topics including mental and physical health as well as the benefits of being exposed to nature.

Adults. Free. 6:30 pm. ww.buffalobayou.org

AUGUST 3

STAR CLUB MEET-UP : OUTSIDE PAINTING WITH GABRIEL PRUSMACK

PARK AFTER DARK

Enjoy lawn games from Rocket Dog, Gateway Fountains, music, food trucks, vendors, and special park lighting. Free salsa dance classes by Strictly Street Salsa from 7p-10p. All ages. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

SMASHED CLAY & STUDIO

Make handmade pottery using the pottery wheel. No experience needed. BYOB. Book now and choose your project when you arrive.

Thur, Fri, Sat 11a-11p, Sun 11a-9p, MonWed by appointment only. 21+. Projects starting at $54. www.smashedstudio.com

DISCOVERY

DAYS:

ECOEXPLORER

Identify ways that organisms live and survive in their ecosystem by interacting with the living and nonliving elements. Practice your nature journaling skills while we compare the physical characteristics of the woodland, savanna, prairie, and wetland habitats to determine how each ecosystem supports biological communities.

Ages 5-10. 9:30-11:30 am. $15 / class. www.houstonarboretum.org

SUMMER BANDS CONCERTS: GALVESTON BEACH BAND

Galveston Beach Band concerts are a diverse mix of much-loved show tunes, big band numbers, jazz and more. Taking place at the Sealy Pavilion, these concerts are a mixture of family, fun and summer relaxation. 7:30 - 9:00 pm. All ages. Free!

Sealy Pavilion & Moody Northen Plaza www.galvestontx.com

AUGUST 2

NATURE STORY TIME

This is a free drop-in program. Wednesdays at 4 p.m. Currently offering our weekly Nature Story Time. www.naturediscoverycenter.org/

Dress for mess! Please wear sunscreen & bring water. Together with Galveston aerosol artist and muralist, Gabriel Prusmack, we will experiment with multiple painting techniques outside.

Ages grade 1-7. 2:30-4:30 pm. Free. tpwd.texas.gov

ELEPHANT BATH ENCOUNTER

Here’s your chance to experience what it’s like to bathe an elephant! Head behind the scenes to help scrub down one of our elephants with a photo op portunity you can share with your friends and family.

All ages. 12:45 pm. $195 / member, $220 non-member. Every Thursday. www.houstonzoo.org

TINY TREKKERS

Our youngest explorers are invited to join us for the hands-on nature exploration. This program is a perfect way for our Tiny Trekkers to discover more about the natural world around them.

9:30-11 am. 2-4 yo. $10 member / $12 non-member. www.houstonarboretum.org

ROCK THE DOCK

Summer Concert Series every Thursday Night at 7pm!

All ages. Free. 7-10 pm. Every Thursday through August 17. www.kemahboarwalk.com

ASTRONAUT DAYS

Meet an Astronaut, spot a space explorer, get an autograph, have breakfast with an astronaut and more at Space Center Houston’s summer event. Astronaut Days provide multiple opportunities to spot a space explorer, from Astronaut Mission Memories and Q&A sessions to bingo and book signings. Hear stories from a space explorer on a tour at NASA Johnson Space Center.

All ages. Included with General Admission to Space Center Houston. www.spacecenter.org

Join forces with a team of scientists to unravel a corrupt plan and save Jeanie, a Troodon dinosaur, from a terrible fate. Along the way experience some of Jurassic World’s most iconic dinosaurs including Blue the Raptor, Stegosaurus, Triceratops and the mighty Tyrannosaurus Rex!

All ages. Tickets start @ $20. Please visit the website for times. www.nrgpark.com

KAYAKING 101

The Friends of Galveston Island State Park provide a great experience on the water with a guide. Safety, paddling tips, and environmental education given during this active aquatic tour. Please consider reserving your spot for quick instruction, free gear rental, and guided instruction with a trained guide into a protected cove of Galveston Bay. Email Ranger Taylor at taylor.galaviz@tpwd. texas.gov to reserve your spot. Registered participants will be contacted via email so please check all messages and respond in a timely manner.

Adult. 8-9:30 am. Park entry required. tpwd.texas.gov/calendar/ galveston-island/copy2_of_sunsetpaddle-2/2023-08-04

AUGUST 5

BUCKET BRIGADE INTERPRETIVE BEACH TOURS

Saturdays & Sundays

Through September 3, 2023

Join the Bucket Brigade in exploring the creatures and features that make Galveston beaches unique! Tours are educational and fun for ocean lovers of all ages. The beach tours last approximately 45 minutes. First tours begin at 11a. All ages. Free with option to donate. www.artistboat.org

NINJA TURTLES TURMOIL

Cowabunga! Leonardo, Raphael, Donatello, and Michelangelo, the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (TMTN), will take a break from outsmarting villains to visit Children’s Museum Houston. Prepare for mutant mania as these watchmen rumble and tumble their way into the hearts of Houston’s coolest TMNT fans for an TMNT-inspired celebration. Don’t forget your camera! TMNT costumes encouraged!

All ages. 10 am - 6 pm. $17. www.cmhouston.org

TREE ID WALK

Jim McKee, a Master Naturalist, tree lover, and bird watcher will be leading more walks throughout the year to teach us how to identify the trees that live here in Russ Pitman Park. You’ll learn how to use leaf, bark, twig characteristics, and more to identify local trees.

Monthly, First Saturdays from 10a–11a. Adults. Free. www.naturediscoverycenter.com

FIRST SATURDAY NATURE WALK

Join us in A guided Nature Walk that highlights some of the common species of plants and animals representing the three distinct ecosystems present within the park. Stephen F. Austin State Park. 10a-11a. Adults are $5 per person, Children 12 and under are Free. www.tpwd.texas.gov/calendar/ stephen-f-austin/first-saturday-naturewalk/2023-07-01

BOOKS ON THE BAYOU

Join us for a fun, free story time event for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers and their parents/caregivers! In conjunction with this year’s Summer Species highlighting birds, there will be silly stories, rhymes, and songs all related to our feathered friends.

9a-9:45a. 6 months to 4 years. Free. ww.buffalobayou.org

AUGUST 6

CHILDRENS ZOO FARM ENCOUNTER

Learn all about world class animal care when you visit with our animals at the Children’s Zoo Farm. You will have an opportunity to feed and touch Zamir the zebu, get up-close to Fiesta the Llama and get a firsthand look at how animal welfare is at the heart of everything we do.

All ages. 10 am. $65 / member, $90 non-member. Every Sunday. www.houstonzoo.org

THE WOODLANDS CARS & COFFEE FOR A CAUSE

Those who like their morning coffee with a side of fast cars will be pleased to know that The Woodlands Car Club is back with monthly Cars & Coffee for a Cause at Market Street.

All ages. 6:30-10 am. Free. www.visitthewoodlands.com

FAMILY ZONE

On selected Sundays, families are invited to visit the MFAH Family Zone. You’ll find engaging gallery activities with coloring sheets, colored pencils, books, and more. Knowledgeable staff members are on hand to help answer questions about the works of art on view. Meet on the second floor of the Beck Building in Gallery 214. All ages. 1-4 pm. Free with general admission ticket to the Museum. www.mfah.org

FREE SANDCASTLE BUILDING LESSONS

AUGUST 5

Attention budding builders – sandcastle builders that is. Galveston is hosting a free, family-friendly event to help beachgoers create spectacular sandcastles with guidance from a pro. Visitors to East Beach can participate in “Sandcastle Days” to receive free sandcastle-building lessons from a professional sandcastle builder. Lessons are by the water’s edge, straight down from the East Beach Pavilion. Registration is not required. 11 am, 1 pm and 3 pm.

All ages. Free www.visitgalveston.com

AUGUST 7

TEXAS A&M CHEMISTRY ROAD SHOW

Dr. Jim Pennington, chemistry professor at Texas A&M University at College Station helps us send summer off with a bang as he wows the crowd with wild science experiments. You won’t want to miss this explosive experience!

Grades 3-7! Free. 2:30-4:30 pm rosenberg-library.org/events

ANIMAL TALES – SLIMY SNAILS

Join us for a weekly story time featuring some of our favorite animals! Each week we will read a nature-themed book, observe biofacts and/or live animals, and then venture out on the trails for a self-guided hike.

18mo-3yo. 9:30-10:30am. $5 member / $7 non-member. www.houstonarboretum.org

CARDBOARD CREATIONS SUMMER CAMP

Cardboard architects and designers… Design teams will receive instruction is cardboard construction techniques decoration options and then released to create building plans which could include castles, swords, cars, furniture, houses, costumes and ideas yet to come.

Ages 5-10. $150 / child. 9 am. www.galvestoncm.org

AUGUST 8

DISCOVERY DAYS: PLEASED TO EAT YOU!

Search for links in food chains by investigating who is living in the Arboretum’s ponds. Discover what local animals eat and how to classify them as herbivore, carnivore, or omnivore while pond dipping for aquatic creatures.

9:30-11:30 am. Ages 5-10. $15 / class. www.houstonarboretum.org

SUMMER BANDS CONCERTS: GALVESTON BEACH BAND

Galveston Beach Band concerts are a diverse mix of much-loved show tunes, big band numbers, jazz and more. Taking place at the Sealy Pavilion, these concerts are a mixture of family, fun and summer relaxation.

7:30 - 9:00 pm. All ages. Free!

Sealy Pavilion & Moody Northen Plaza www.galvestontx.org

AUGUST 9

FAMILY NATURE NIGHTCREEPY CRAWLIES!

Come for a night of family fun at the Center complete with themed paper and food crafts, a brief guided nature walk in the park, and an engaging, interactive presentation by Head Naturalist Eric Duran with live animals and specimens.

6:30-8 pm. Ages 3+. $12. www.naturediscoverycenter.org/

AUGUST 10

TINY TREKKERS

Our youngest explorers are invited to join us for the hands-on nature exploration. This program is a perfect way for our Tiny Trekkers to discover more about the natural world around them.

9:30-11 am. 2-4 yo. $10 member / $12 non-member. www.houstonarboretum.org

LUNCH & LEARN: BIRDFRIENDLY SPACES

Join us downtown at the Sunset Coffee Building (1019 Commerce St.) during your lunch hour to learn all about birds in your neighborhood, how to identify them, and ways to provide a safe environment for a variety of bird species. Guests are welcome to bring a lunch.

THE BRYAN MUSEUM BOOK CLUB

The Bryan Museum Book Club is a monthly group who studies books about Texas and the American West. Our primary focus is non-fiction works, with the occasional fictional work included. The club meets on the second Thursday of every month in the Library at The Bryan Museum.

3p-4p. All ages. Free. https://thebryanmuseum.org/

ROCK THE ROW SUMMER SERIES

Experience Hughes Landing on scenic Lake Woodlands with live music Thursday evenings! Rock the Row features local and regional bands playing a variety of favorites from pop and rock to country during the spring, summer, and fall.

7p-9p. All ages. Free. www.thewoodlandstownship-tx.gov

AUGUST 11

BLOCK PARTY PLAYTIME!

Join us for a creative and collaborative play experience that will help prepare your child for school readiness. Engage with your child as you create and build with a variety of building blocks! Registration required.

Ages 18 mo-5 yo. 10:15-11am. Free. Central Library, Jesse H Jones Building www.houstonlibrary.org

AUGUST 12

THE INFINITE FORCE

May the force be with you! Galaxies will collide when members of the 501 Legion pay a special visit to Children’s Museum Houston and become part of an infinite intergalactic saga. Travel to a galaxy far, far away to meet with Star Wars-inspired characters. A galaxy far far away comes to the Museum! Come and meet some iconic characters for this special Star Wars-inspired event! Costumes encouraged.

All ages. 10 am - 6 pm. $17 / person. www.cmhouston.org

PROFESSOR SUDS

ROCKIN’ BUBBLE SHOW. Professor Suds and his assistant bring whimsical music, magical lighting, and wondrous bubble creations that will make even the most serious viewer relive the magic of bubbles. This show has something to blow everyone away at the Rosenberg Library.

All ages. Free. 2:30-3:30 pm. www.rosenberg-library.org/events

TRAIL MIX

Features live music, magic, and more! Join us trailside as AndyRoo takes you on an adventure through the AndyRooniverse along with magicians Dave and Jake Rangel. Enjoy unique hands-on pop-ups and giveaways to amp up the

BAT BOAT TOUR AUGUST 11

Sail the scenic waterway on a 90-minute, guided tour from downtown to Waugh Drive Bridge and back to watch the emergence of the 250,000+ Mexican free-tailed bats that live under the bridge. Our knowledgeable guide will share details about the bats’ eating patterns, behavior, and contributions to the bayou’s ecosystem. Space is limited, and boat tours fill up fast. Boat departs 45 minutes before sunset. Ages 4+. $30. www.buffalobayou.org

fun! Sessions are outdoors, weather permitting. 10a-11a. All ages. Free. www.themkt.com

AIA SANDCASTLE BUILDING COMPETITION

Day 1 (August 12, 2023) -

Competition Day

Competitors are hitting the sand and building for five intense hours as they fight to maintain the structural integrity of their sculptures. The competition is considered one of the world’s largest amateur sandcastle competitions and draws thousands of spectators to watch teams vie for the coveted Golden Bucket Award.

All ages. Free. 9 am - 4:30 pm.1923 Boddeker Rd, Galveston,TX, 77550. www.visitgalveston.com

BIRDING WALK AT TONY MARRON PARK

Discover the diversity of birdlife with a guided walking tour along Buffalo Bayou at Tony Marron Park (808 N. York Street). Expert guides will help you spot and identify a variety of species and share fascinating insights into their behavior and habitat.

We encourage you to wear comfortable shoes and bring water and binoculars. Limited binoculars will be available. All ages. 9-10:30 am. $5, 12- free. www.buffalobayou.org

STORYTIME AND CRAFTS: FOODCHAIN!

Join us for a story about armadillos and make a macaroni armadillo to take home! Come listen to a story at the Nature Center about our “digging-est” residents, armadillos! Then you’ll be able to make a macaroni armadillo to take home.

All ages. 11 am-12 pm. Free. Brazos Bend State Park. tpwd.texas.gov/calendar/brazos-bend

AUGUST 13

AIA SANDCASTLE COMPETITION

Day 2 (August 13, 2023) - Bonus Viewing Day.

By popular demand, the Galveston Park Board is working to help teams maintain the event’s sandcastles overnight for beachgoers to take in these architectural marvels (with potentially smaller crowds). There are also free sandcastle-building lessons in conjunction with this viewing.

All ages. Free. 9 am - 4:30 pm.1923 Boddeker Rd, Galveston, TX, 77550. www.visitgalveston.com

AUGUST 14

BABY STORYTIME

Stories, rhymes, movements, and songs that will engage you and your baby. Develop your baby’s social, motor, and literacy skills while having fun! Intended for children ages 0-18 months and their caregivers. Registration is required and will open two weeks before the event. Babies (0-18 months). 10:30-11:30 am. Free. Ring Neighborhood Library. www.houstonpubliclibrary.org

AUGUST 15

FAMILY STORYTIME & CRAFT

Join us for a cross-generational literacy experience! Family Storytime features a story followed by a craft that accompanies the reading. All craft supplies are included as a part of this free program. All ages. 10 am. Free. www.levyparkhouston.org

AUGUST 16

CHILDREN’S BINGO

Bring the kiddos and join our Levy Park team for Children’s Bingo! This 30-minute program is a fun way for children to practice their letters and numbers while earning prizes. Levy Park provides the Bingo cards, markers, and prizes. B-I-N-G-O!

4:30p. Ages 4 to 12. Free. www.levyparkhouston.org

AUGUST 17

BLANKET BINGO AT MARKET SQUARE PARK

This popular park favorite is back! Join us for an exciting new season of Blanket Bingo, benefiting Market Square Park and Buffalo Bayou Partnership. Bring your blanket, lawn chairs or snag one of the tables at the park for a night of fun, music and great prizes! $10 admission (cash only) includes one bingo packet (approx. 9 games). Additional games and daubers can be purchased for $1 each. Packets will go on sale at 6 PM. All ages.7 pm. www.buffalobayou.org

GLOW RIDE

City Lights, Summer Nights & Glowing Bikes! Join Island Bicycle Company every third Thursday as we ride into the night “Glow Ride” style. 6:30p-9p. All ages. Free. www.islandbicyclecompany.com

AUGUST 18

JAZZ+: A SUMMER SUNSET SERIES

Experience live and local jazz every third Friday this summer on The Lawn. Houston’s talented jazz artists will showcase a fusion of genres over three acts. All ages. 7-10 pm. Free. www.memorialcity.com

FAMILY BAT CHAT AND NIGHT HIKE

Join our colony! Come learn all about our friends who fly at night: bats! We will learn all about bats, what makes them so special, and even do some bat crafts. Around sunset, we will begin our night hike. We will be bringing our bat monitors to see (or hear!) who is flying around above our heads! We should be done with our hike around 9:30.

All ages. $10 / person

www.naturediscoverycenter.com

PARACHUTE PLAY TIME

Parachute Play Time is back! Join the British International School of Houston on the third Friday of every month with fun craft activities and games - don’t miss out on the big parachute! It’s sure to start your Friday off right!

All ages. 9-11 am. Attendance is $6 per child.

www.citycentrehouston.com

AUGUST 19

ALL ABOUT BEES

Did you know there are over 1,000 species of bees in Texas? In this class we will learn about native bees, discuss why they are declining, and learn what you can do to help. You will get to taste different varieties of local Texas honey and each family will make a bee home to take home!

10am-12 pm. All ages. $30 member / $40 nonmember / $20 child ages 5-12 (per person)

www.houstonarboretum.org/event/ possums-popsicles-2/

FLEA BY NIGHT

Treasure hunt for one-of-a-kind vintage, handmade, recycled, and local goods and enjoy live music and food trucks. All ages. 6-10 pm. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

SCUDERIA EXOTIC CAR SHOW

Join us on every third Saturday of the month for a collection of Exotics,

European/American-JDM Classics and much more!

All ages, 8-10 am. Free. www.shopatmarketstreet.com

STORYTIME AND CRAFTS: ARMADILLOS!

Join us for a story about armadillos and make a macaroni armadillo to take home! Come listen to a story at the Nature Center about our “digging-est” residents, armadillos! Then you’ll be able to make a macaroni armadillo to take home.

All ages. 11 am-12 pm. Free. Brazos Bend State Park.

tpwd.texas.gov/calendar/brazos-bend

AUGUST 20

ZUMBA BY TINY FITNESS

Join the party and sweat with Tiny Fitness to rhythms from around the world!

Ages 16+. 9 am. Free. www.tinyfitnesshouston.com

CANDLELIGHT:

A TRIBUTE TO TAYLOR SWIFT

Candlelight concerts bring the magic of a live, multi-sensory musical experience to awe-inspiring locations like never seen before in Houston. Get your tickets now to discover the music of Taylor Swift at the Lone Star Flight Museum under the gentle glow of candlelight.

7p and 9:15p. 8 years old or older. Anyone under the age of 16 must be accompanied by an adult. Seating is assigned on a first come first served basis in each zone. Tickets start at $45. www.candlelightexperience.com

AUGUST 21

DNA DISCOVERIES

Did you know that DNA stores every single detail about your eye color? Learn more about DNA through this exciting hands-on camp. Campers will be engaged through different hands-on activities such as designing 3D DNA models and performing DNA extraction on fruit!

Ages 5-7. 9 am–3 pm. Please see website for pricing. www.thehealthmuseum.org

SUMMER BANDS CONCERTS AUGUST

15

Galveston Beach Band concerts are a diverse mix of much-loved show tunes, big band numbers, jazz and more. Taking place at the Sealy Pavilion, these concerts are a mixture of family, fun and summer relaxation.

7:30 - 9:00 pm. All ages. Free! Sealy Pavilion & Moody Northen Plaza www.visitgalveston.com

FAMILY STORYTIME

Join us for a socially distanced, indoor storytime featuring books and activities for everyone in the family! Encourage your family’s love of reading through this cross generational literacy experience. Registration is required and will open two weeks before the event. Ages 3-10.

11 am-12 pm. Free. Tuttle Neighborhood Library. www.houstonlibrary.com

AUGUST 22

SPLATTER ROOM AT

PINSPIRATION

Experience the Jackson-Pollock-Inspired Splatter Room™! Suit up in protective gear and fling paint at a canvas to create a unique masterpiece. The Splatter Room™ can only accommodate up to 6 guests at a time (call for large group options). Date-night packages available. Dates/Times vary. All ages. Pricing depends on the projects chosen. www.pinspiration.com

AUGUST 23

BIRDS EYE VIEW PONTOON BOAT TOURS

Climb aboard our pontoon boat tour for a unique and immersive experience observing birds in their natural habitat along Buffalo Bayou. Birding guides will take you on an informative, relaxing, and scenic journey that allows you to spot a variety of birds from a unique vantage point. We encourage you to bring your own binoculars. Water, wine, and light snacks will be provided.

6-7:30pm. Ages 4+. $35/$25 for BBP and Houston Audubon Members www.buffalobayou.org

AUGUST 24

GET FIT THURSDAY AT URBAN SOUTH HTX

Urban South HTX in Arts District Houston welcomes visitors for Get Fit Night each Thursday. The weekly event begins with Run Club Nite at 6:15pm, followed by yoga at 7pm. All participants will receive one free draft pour of their choice and can enjoy $2 off on all 10- and 16ounce pours. Adult. 6:15 pm. Free https://urbansouthbrewery.com/ taprooms/houston

AUGUST 25

Peter and Wendy – Family Dance Theatre

This dazzling performance takes a fresh look at the classic Peter Pan tale through the company’s signature athleticism, daring physicality, and theatrical whimsy. Featuring the music of Two Star Symphony and Paying tribute to J.M. Barrie’s beloved story, performances on aerial silks and trapeze by Peter and Tink provide a magical approach to the story. All ages. 8 pm. Free. www.milleroutdoortheatre.com

FREE FITNESS FRIDAYS: BOOT CAMP

Get a free full-body workout each week, courtesy of Cida Fitness!

Adult. 9-10 am. Free. Sugarland Town Square www.sugarland.com

AUGUST 26

TRACE OF TIME

Trace of Time is a journey of musical discovery and cultural connections, from spirituals to the evolution of the tango. Program showcases music by Adolphus Hailstork, Astor Piazzolla and Latin Grammy-winning composer and bandoneon performer Hector Del Curto. Featuring Texas’ premiere tango duo Hugo Patyn and Celina Rotundo.

All ages 8:30 pm. Free www.milleroutdoortheatre.com

STORYTIME AND CRAFTS: FIREFLIES!

Join us for a story about fireflies and make your own firefly magnet. Come and learn about everyone’s favorite glowing bug! These awesome little bugs help to light up the summertime night sky and put a smile on everyone’s face. Come enjoy a wonderful story and make your very own firefly magnet with glitter to take home with you! Meet at the Nature Center for this fun program!

All ages. 11 am-12 pm. Free. Brazos Bend State Park. tpwd.texas.gov/calendar/brazos-bend

FROGGY NIGHT

We love frogs! Summer nights wouldn’t be the same without their croaking, chirping, and trilling – but unfortunately, many frogs are in trouble. Join Dr. Cassidy Johnson to explore the amazing world of Houston’s frogs and learn how people are working to save these strange and wonderful creatures. Enjoy Saint Arnold Brewing Company beer and light bites during the presentation, and then head out on a night hike to listen for amorous amphibians on the trails.

10am-12 pm. Ages 16+. $35 member / $50 nonmember www.houstonarboretum.org

AUGUST 27

KAYAK/SUP RENTALS

We have kayaks and paddleboards for all ages and abilities! We offers single, tandem, and fishing kayaks, as well as adaptive paddling equipment. We also offer beach services cabana/umbrella rental, Ebikes and bicycle rental. Times vary. All ages. Prices based upon rental time. www.texascampcompany.com

HOUSTON MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCE –BODY WORKS

The Houston Museum of Natural Science comes to Levy Park to offer an opportunity to learn firsthand from Museum experts. Encounter real specimens

and artifacts from the Museum collection in an intimate, educational atmosphere. All ages. 2 pm. Free www.levyparkhouston.org

AUGUST 28

ZUMBA BY TINY FITNESS

Join the party and sweat with Tiny Fitness to rhythms from around the world!

Ages 16+. 9 am. Free. www.tinyfitnesshouston.com

AUGUST 29

FAMILY MOVIE

Sit back, relax, and enjoy watching a movie that’s fun for the whole family! Now showing: Dumbo All films rated G-PG. Registration recommended. All ages. 11:30 am- 1 pm. Free. Jesse H Jones building. www.houstonlibrary.org

BILINGUAL FAMILY STORYTIME

Join us for entertaining stories, rhymes, and more in English and Spanish. For babies, toddlers, preschoolers and their parents/caregivers. We combine fun with language exploration activities that will enhance a young child’s literacy skills which are important for a strong, growing reader. Registration is required.

Ages 3-10. 10:15-11 am. Free. Park Place Regional Library. www.houstonlibrary.com

AUGUST 30

CHESS CLUB

Join us for Chess Club to play with friends, learn new skills, and have fun. Chess teaches critical thinking and problem-solving skills along with socio-emotional learning opportunities for youth of all ages and is a great way to make new friends. Don’t know how to play? We can teach you!

Ages 10+. 4-5:30 pm. Free. Young Neighborhood Library. www.houstonlibrary.org

AUGUST 31

TEEN CRAFT

Get your craft on at the library with other teens! Geared for teens ages 13-18. Registration is required and will open two weeks before the event.

3-4p. Teens (13-18 yrs). Free. Park Place Regional Library. www.houstonlibrary.org

BABY STORYTIME

Stories, rhymes, movements, and songs that will engage you and your baby. Develop your baby’s social, motor, and literacy skills while having fun! Intended for children ages 0-18 months and their caregivers. Registration is required and will open two weeks before the event. Babies (0-18 months). 10:30-11:30 am. Free. Hillendahl Neighborhood Library. www.houstonpubliclibrary.org

FREE DAYS

HOUSTON MUSEUM DISTRICT

EVERY THURSDAY, MANY OF HOUSTON’S MUSEUMS OFFER FREE ADMISSION.

CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF HOUSTON

5-8pm • 1500 Binz St. www.cmhouston.org

**FREE Admission for Bank of America cardholders the first FULL weekend of the month.

HEALTH MUSEUM

2-7pm • 1515 Hermann Dr. www.thehealthmuseum.org

MUSEUM OF FINE ARTS, HOUSTON

10am-9pm • 1001 Bissonnet www.mfah.org

**FREE MFAH admission Saturdays & Sundays for all kids 18 & under with a library card

HOUSTON MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCE

2-5pm • 5555 Hermann Park Dr. www.hmns.org

BUFFALO SOLDIERS NATIONAL MUSEUM

1-5pm • 3816 Caroline St. www.buffalosoldiermuseum.com

HOUSTON MUSEUM OF AFRICAN AMERICAN CULTURE

6-8pm • 4807 Caroline St. www.hmaac.org

HOLOCAUST MUSEUM HOUSTON

2-8pm • 5401 Caroline St. (Free Thursdays thru August 24th) www.hmh.org

FREE WEDNESDAY THROUGH SUNDAY

MENIL COLLECTION

11am-7pm • 1533 Sul Ross Street www.menil.org

FREE THURSDAY WITH RESERVATION

CISTERN HISTORY TOURS, HOUSTON

1-5:30pm • The Water Works at 105 Sabine Street • Age: 9+ www.buffalobayou.org

FREE TUESDAY THROUGH SUNDAY

CONTEMPORARY ARTS MUSEUM HOUSTON

Tuesday-Friday 10am-7pm, Sat.10am-6pm, Sun. 12-6pm

• 5216 Montrose Boulevard www.camh.org

CENTER STAGE

CENTER STAGE

AGATHA CHRISTIE’S THE MURDER OF ROGER ACKROYD

Alley Theatre

July 21 – August 27, 2023

One of Agatha Christie’s best-known novels and voted the best crime novel ever by the British Crime Writers’ Association is turned into this murderous mystery for the stage. This twisty whodunit features extraordinary characters who holds secrets about blackmail and murder that only the detective Hercule Poirot can solve in the all-new adaptation.

Start Times vary. Adult. Tickets start at $27.

www.alleytheatre.org

PRESENT LAUGHTER

Main Street Theatre

July 15 – Aug 13, 2023

By Noël Coward

Noël Coward’s totally-irresistible and semi-autobiographical comedy follows a self-obsessed actor in the midst of a mid-life crisis. Forever indulging his love for wine, women, and sleeping late, the London theatre’s favorite leading man suddenly finds himself caught amongst doting ingénues, obsessed playwrights, secret trysts, and unexpected twists. A marvelously comic exaggeration of the life that whirled around Coward in his heyday.

Thur–Sat at 7:30p and Sun at 3p. Adults. Tickets: $39 – $59 www.mainstreettheatre.com

SEUSSICAL

Midtown Arts and Theater Center

August 11-13, 2023

DIXIE’S TUPPERWARE PARTY

The 1894 Grand Opera Galveston

August 5, 2023

Dixie Longate is the fast-talking, gum chewing, ginger-haired Alabama gal who is bringing your grandma’s Tupperware party into the 21st Century. Audience howl with laughter as Dixie demonstrates the many alternative uses for the iconic plastic kitchen staple. Filled with outrageously funny tales, heartfelt accounts, audience participation and a little bit of empowerment and homespun wisdom, Dixie’s Tupperware Party leaves your heart a little bigger and your food a little fresher.8p. All ages. Tickets start at $35. Not suitable for children under 16.

www.thegrand.com

HOUSTON SHAKESPEARE

FESTIVAL

Miller Outdoor Theatre

MUCH ADO ABOUT NOTHING

August 1,3, 5, 2023

MACBETH

August 2, 4, 6, 2023

Houston Shakespeare Festival returns to Miller Outdoor Theatre with a tale of two romances. Quick-witted Beatrice spars with the perpetual bachelor Benedick, and their battle of words ignites sparks! Will their playful banter be enough for them to resist falling in love?

Meanwhile, young friends Hero and Claudio fall instantly in love. But will false accusations and broken promises spoil their happy ending?

www.milleroutdoortheatre. com

PETER

&

WENDY

Miller Outdoor Theatre

August 24, 2023

This dazzling performance takes a fresh look at the classic Peter Pan tale through the company’s signature athleticism, daring physicality, and theatrical whimsy.

Featuring the music of Two Star Symphony and Paying tribute to J.M. Barrie’s beloved story, performances on aerial silks and trapeze by Peter and Tink provide a magical approach to the story. A multigenerational cast of dancers and aerialists, featuring the ODP professional company and ODP2 (pre-professional dancers ages 14-18), sets the ingenuity and imagination of children at the heart of this performance for family audiences.

8 pm. All ages. Free. www.milleroutdoortheatre. com

THUNDER KNOCKING ON THE DOOR

Stages Houston

June 16-August 6, 2023

NIGHT COURT –THE LAW FILES

Hobby Center for the Performing Arts.

August 16-19

With themes and characters from The X-Files, Stranger Things, Men In Black, and She-Hulk: Attorney at Law, The Law Files will also feature the greatest hits of the 80’s and 90’s from a wide variety of artists and styles. This year will be the debut of Night Court’s new director, Dr. Bobby Linhart, who brings decades of award-winning theater experience to our company and most recently back to back Tommy Tune Awards for Best Director. Tickets start at $45.

www.thehobbycenter.org

JAGGED LITTLE PILL

Theatre under the Stars

August 29 – September 10, 2023

Joy, love, heartache, strength, wisdom, catharsis, LIFE—everything we’ve been waiting to see in a Broadway show— is here in the exhilarating, fearless new musical based on Alanis Morissette’s world-changing music Various time. Adults. Tickets start at $40. www.tuts.com

The Cat in the Hat tells the story of Horton, an elephant who discovers a speck of dust that contains the Whos, including Jojo, a Who child sent off to military school for thinking too many “thinks.” Horton faces a double challenge: not only must he protect the Whos from a world of naysayers and dangers, but he must guard an abandoned egg, left in his care by the irresponsible Mayzie La Bird. Although Horton faces ridicule, danger, kidnapping and a trial, the intrepid Gertrude McFuzz never loses faith in him. Ultimately, the powers of friendship, loyalty, family and community are challenged and emerge triumphant. August 11,12, 7:30 pm, August 13 2pm. Student 12- $20, regular seats $40, premium seats $65. www.matchouston.org

The blues and fate collide at the crossroads of temptation. This bluesy show is an intoxicating musical fable filled with humor, heart, and the extraordinary music of three-time Grammy Award winner Keb’ Mo’. In a small Alabama town, a mysterious blues guitar-playing stranger arrives at the door of the Dupree family, bringing a challenge for the offspring of his late rival. The stranger’s bargain pits family legacy against a tempting future. But what started as a deal with the devil turns into a love story for the ages. Part family reckoning, part epic love, and all blues, Thunder Knocking on the Door brings soul to Stages.

Wed-Thu 7:30p, Fri 8p, Sun 2:30p. Tickets start at $30. www.StagesHouston.com

HEAD OVER HEELS

Theatre under the Stars

August 4-6, 2023

A hilarious, exuberant celebration of love, Head Over Heels follows the escapades of a royal family on an outrageous journey to save their beloved kingdom form extinction—only to discover the key to their realm’s survival lies within each of their own hearts. Various time. Adults.

Tickets $30. www.tuts.com

AIACOMPETITIONSANDCASTLE

August 12-13

Come to Galveston and experience over 60 teams competing to win the prestigious Golden Bucket Award. The AIA Sandcastle Competition is a fundraising event for AIA Houston and ArCH Foundation as well as one of the top five revenue-generating events for the City of Galveston.

Competition Day

Competitors are hitting the sand and building for five intense hours as they fight to maintain the structural integrity of their sculptures. The competition is considered one of the world’s largest amateur sandcastle competitions and draws thousands of spectators to watch teams vie for the coveted Golden Bucket Award.

Bonus Viewing Day

By popular demand, the Galveston Park Board is working to help teams maintain the event’s sandcastles overnight for beachgoers to take in these architectural marvels (with potentially smaller crowds).

About AIA Sandcastle Competition

Every year, over 60 teams put their eyes and shovels on winning the prestigious Golden Bucket Award.

Firms begin months in advance generating ideas, developing designs, and assigning duties. On the day of the event the teams, stretched along the beachfront, meticulously sculpt their piles of sand and work non-stop for five hours. While the building and awards takes place on Saturday, the best time to view the structures is the Sunday of the event. Avoid the crowds and bring the family to enjoy these architectural marvels at your own pace on Sunday plus, enjoy free sandcastle building lessons.

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MUSEUM OF FINE ARTS HOUSTON

www.mfah.org

Tues.-Wed. 10am-5pm., Thurs. 10am-9pm., Fri.-Sat. 10am-7pm., Sun. 12:15-7pm. $19 adult; $16 senior 65+, $12 children 13-18 and students (19+) (children 12 and under free).

FREE every Thursday 10am-9pm

EXHIBITS: YAYOI KUSAMA: AFTERMATH OF OBLITERATION OF ETERNITY

Yayoi Kusama (Japanese, born 1929) was living in New York when she created her first Infinity Room in 1965. Engaging the viewer directly, through reflections that project into an infinite distance, these installations combine aspects of Minimalism’s clean use of industrial materials with ritual and performance. Kusama returned to Japan in 1970, and subsequent works became increasingly personal. She marked her 80th birthday with Aftermath of Obliteration of Eternity, which references the annual Buddhist Tōrō nagashi (Water Lantern) ceremony honoring one’s ancestors.

Ongoing

HOUSTON MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCE

www.hmns.org

9a-5p Mon-Sun

$25 adult, $16 children 3-11, senior 62+ and college students FREE every Thursday 2-5pm

EXHIBITS: THE ART OF TEXAS STATE PARKS

For the first time in the Texas State Park Programs history- and in celebration of the centennial- the Texas Parks and Wildlife Department commissioned 30 notable Texan artists to paint scenes from over 30 parks across the state.

Ongoing

THE HEALTH MUSEUM

www.thehealthmuseum.org

Hours: Mon.-Sat, 9a-5p, Thurs 9a-7p, Sun 12-5p

Admission: $10 adult, $8 senior 65+, free for children under 2 FREE on Thursdays 2-7p.

EXHIBITS: VETERAN VISION PROJECT

Arizona State University student and photographer Devin Mitchell created the Veteran Vision Project to capture the diversity of veterans and their experiences. His powerful photos, which have received significant national acclaim, contrast veterans in uniform and in poses that reflect their life after military service.

YOUR BODY YOUR AIR

Breathe in. Breathe out. Air pollutants are substances in the air that can have a negative effect on our health. Your Body, Your Air explores four common types of air pollutants and their sources in the Houston area, as well as the effect these pollutants have on our bodies and our communities. Together we can work towards healthier air, healthier bodies, and healthier communities.

HOLOCAUST MUSEUM

www.hmh.org

Tue–Wed 10a-5p, Th 10a-8p, Fri–Sat 10a-5p, Sun 12p-5p

Adults $22, Seniors (age 65 and above)

$16, AARP Members $16 Active Duty Service members and their families Free through Labor Day through the Blue Star Museums Program. Ages 0 – 18 Free Free to all on Thursdays from 2 to 8pm through August 24, 2023.

EXHIBITS:

“I’LL HAVE WHAT SHE’S HAVING”: THE JEWISH DELI

This exhibit explores how American Jews imported traditions, adapted culture and built community through the experience of food. In addition to showing how Jewish deli forged an entirely new, quintessentially American cuisine by combining Central and Eastern European dishes with ingredients abundantly available in the United States, the exhibition traces the larger arc of the Jewish experience in the US during the twentieth century. Neon signs, menus, advertisements, fixtures, historical footage, film and television clips and

SHARKS! THE MEG, THE MONSTERS, & THE MYTHS

Houston Museum of Natural Science

We’re gonna need a bigger exhibit hall. Debuting on a floor all to itself is Sharks! The Meg, The Monsters & The Myths. We’re making your dreams come true and bringing you up close and personal with live sharks for a hands-on experience that will be – dare we say – jawsome. You’ll get a chance to touch a shark and discover what makes these creatures unique – from bait balls to bioluminescence. Further immerse yourself in the world of sharks as every order of shark known to mankind is represented within the exhibition, including a life-size model of the ancient behemoth, the Megalodon. And don’t forget to pick up a few Megalodon teeth of your own in the island shop.

Dates/Times Vary. All ages. Child $27, Adults $35 www.hmns.org

CALENDAR!

artifacts illuminate how delicatessens evolved from specialty stores catering to immigrant populations into the beloved national institutions they are today.

May 5-August 13

PEARL FINCHER MUSEUM OF FINE ARTS

www.pearlmfa.org

Tues-Sat 10a-5pm

Admission is free!

EXHIBITS:

MAIN GALLERY: “ELEPHANT & PIGGIE IN WE ARE ART!”

(A Mo Willems exhibition), organized by The Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art in Amherst, Massachusetts.

Elephant & Piggie have entertained millions of children with their hilarious escapades that impart valuable lessons on manners, empathy, emotions, and— most importantly—friendship. This free exhibition features 75 works including original illustrations, color digital renderings, early sketches, dummy books and more, as well as a cozy reading area for families to enjoy these wonderful stories together.

June 3 - September 2, 2023

THE MENIL COLLECTION

www.menil.org

Wed - Sun 11a-7p

Closed Monday and Tuesday. Free Hours: Always free!

EXHIBITS: THE CURATORIAL IMAGINATION OF WALTER HOPPS

Once dubbed “the marvelous mad maven of modern art in America,” Walter Hopps (1932–2005) estimated that he had curated some 250 exhibitions in his 50+ year career. Hopps’s impressive curatorial record constitutes the framework of The Curatorial Imagination of Walter Hopps, which features more than 130 artworks by 70 artists, The show will explore the influential curatorial vision of Hopps, the Menil Collection’s Founding Director, as well as his distinctive approach to exhibition making and appreciation for a variety of 20th-century art movements. It features drawings, paintings, photography, and sculpture, ranging from the 1930s to the early 2000s.

Mar 24 – Aug 13, 2023

CONTEMPORARY ARTS MUSEUM HOUSTON

www.camh.org

Tues - Wed 10a-7p, Thu 10a-9p, Fri 10a7p, Sat 10a-6p, Sun 12p-6p Closed Monday, New Year’s Day, Thanksgiving Day, and Christmas Day Free Hours: Always free!

EXHIBITS:

JORDAN STRAFER: TRILOGY

HOUSTON CENTER FOR CONTEMPORARY CRAFT

www.crafthouston.org

Open Tue- Sat 10a-5p.

HCCC is closed on Sunday and Monday and the following holidays: New Year’s Day, Memorial Day, Juneteenth (June 19th), July 4th, Labor Day, Thanksgiving Day, and Christmas Day.

EXHIBITS:

GABO MARTINEZ: THE LAND OF FLOWERS

An exhibition of ceramics and printmaking named for the mythical, flower-filled paradise, known in Nahuatl as xochitlalpan. Influenced by her upbringing in Guanajuato, Mexico, and Texas, Martinez’s vibrant work centers a reclamation of indigenous identity through craft production, using materials and motifs with ties to prehispanic cultures. Her vividly glazed terracotta vessels and large-scale prints are inscribed with motifs like the flower, a deeply significant symbol in the poetic tradition of Nahuatl speakers, known as In xochitl In cuicatl (Flower and Song).

June 3-September 9

LAYLA KLINGER: HOT HOUSE

COLE GALLERY: “KEITTOODLES” BY BETH BRUBAKER

Enter a world of color and imagination with “Keittoodles” by local artist and retired teacher, Beth Brubaker. This exhibition will feature more than 50 pieces in an interactive environment where children can explore the Land of Keittoodles and their Colorworld.

June 3 - September 2, 2023

Both perversely pleasurable and pleasurably perverse, Jordan Strafer’s videos are absurd, fantastical, humorous, and, at times, violent meditations on power and the uniquely human capacity to inflict violence, be it physical, psychological, or both. The artist’s first solo museum exhibition, Jordan Strafer: Trilogy presents Strafer’s recent trilogy of videos PEP (Process Entanglement Procedure) (2019), SOS (2021), and PEAK HEAVEN LOVE FOREVER (2022), alongside a selection of related works on paper by the artist.

July 28, 2023 - November 26, 2023

Hot House features contemporary lace creations and larger-than-life electroluminescent installations by the Brooklyn-based fiber artist, Layla Klinger. Born in Tel Aviv, Klinger (they/ them) works with fiber, light and electric currents to investigate intimacy, erotic compulsions, and beauty as merit. Using electroluminescent wire and playing with code, Klinger creates large-scale, light-emitting, bobbin lace installations, which generate incredible variations in light patterns. The works are displayed in dark rooms, and Klinger says the holes in the lace become defined not by the physical reality of the wires but by the light. “Through activating different light configurations, the holes become unstable: splitting, expanding, appearing, and disappearing.”

June 3, 2023 - September 9, 2023

CALLING ALL GAMERS

AUGUST 25-27, 2023

LOOK, LEARN & GET HANDS-ON REGISTER NOW!

If you &/or your kids are gamers, then you don't want to miss this event!

Enjoy one-of-a-kind experiences for all ages, ranging from tournaments, virtual reality, board games, interactive pods, and more. You will be able to watch teams battle, meet Esports Pros and visit vendor booths to see the latest in gaming gear and technology. Games are appropriate for all ages!

If this sounds like a slam dunk for you and your family, get your passes online before they sell out! Day or weekend passes are available. Passes start @ $20 online at www.galvestonesports.com.