A PARENT’S PERSPECTIVE
G N I Y L L U B By Helena Mom of Two
ullying is aggressive, persistent, and intentional behavior involving an imbalance of power or strength. For a young child or teen who is bullied, it robs them of self-esteem, innocence, confidence, self-worth, and equal access to a full education. As a parent of two children, both targets of bullying, I have learned a lot about this topic by doing my own research, talking to teachers and administrators, supporting my children, not losing faith in my belief in the power of kindness, and never giving up. Much has been written about the targets of bullying, but I believe not enough is focused on the bully. Preventing bullying is a community effort where schools, parents and students each play a vital role. Parents must teach tolerance and respect at home. Schools should continue teaching early and often that bullying behavior is a violation of students' civil and human rights. Bullying is not a right of passage. Bullying is abuse. Pay attention to kids’ behavior and take steps to ensure they are not violating others' rights to a safe and healthy community and school environment. ■
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DECEMBER 2010
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