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FEATURE 22 Love Connection

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DEPARTMENTS NOTED 9 Out of the Box 12

What creativity really is—and how to develop it in your child

Ask the Experts / Sound Advice

When should you get a cell phone for your child and more advice from parenting experts

REAL MOMS 15 Mom Next Door / Cristina Lynch Mexican heritage is woven into every thing this fashion entrepreneur does, from designing dresses to raising her two children

18 Briefs / Culture Club

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choose who drew the scene better. (Spoiler: The kiddo always wins.) One day, we were drawing a farm. I drew a barn, lots of grass and a cow. At least, I did my best to draw a cow. Grayson’s barn and animals were quite satisfactory, particularly considering his age; I enthusiastically praised his efforts. He looked at mine and gave it a “4 out of 10,” then mentioned something about the dog in my picture. I explained that it was a cow. “Really?” he asked. “Well, then it’s a 0 out of 10.” I’m not an artist, admittedly. But this drawing was a new low even for me. It was so ridiculous that I posted it to Facebook and jokingly wrote that I was accepting bids on the “masterpiece.” The comments ranged from “That udder looks infected” to “I see a cat that should be charged with indecent exposure.” Trust me, you don’t want to see it. Fortunately, as we put together this issue of DFWChild, I was reminded that creativity comes in many forms. It can be found in beautiful clothing—and you don’t even have to be the designer; you can feel more alive just by wearing it. (Check out our interview with Mom Next Door Cristina Lynch, founder of Mi Golondrina, a line of artisan-embroidered dresses and tops, p. 15.) Creativity can be found in the way we think about a variety of challenges and problems, and in our resiliency to do better next time. (See our story about how to develop real creativity in your child, p. 9.) You can fill your life with all forms of culture, art and imagination without ever taking marker to paper or paint to canvas. Read on for a lot more ways to do that this fall, from cultural road trips we promise the kids will love (p. 70) to restaurants and markets that will make you feel transported to another country (p. 18). After more than a year and a half of COVID-19 stress, masks, economic hardship and depressing news reports, we all deserve to find ways to bring color and joy and inspiration back to our lives. I hope this issue sets you on the right track. Cheers,

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HINK ABOUT THE CREATIVE TYPES you know. Who comes to mind? Probably someone talented at drawing or painting; maybe a friend or family member who dances or plays an instrument. Some form of the arts, almost certainly. But to help kids thrive, we need to get a little more, well, creative with how we think about creativity. Experts stress that creativity isn’t just about the fine arts, or other forms of expression. Creativity is in how we reach that final product—so it may manifest differently than you expect. THE RESILIENT CHILD

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trying to get around legal limits, but that from 6 to 17, find that movement and working aside, those are all qualities that are useful a smaller, more basic task can help their brains no matter what our child’s hobbies and gifts. reset and see things differently, which in turn That’s because creativity is problem-solving, helps to foster more outside-the-box ideas. according to Jason McCoy, a licensed Jacinto says that developing creativclinical social worker, play therapist and art ity can begin in infancy, with eye contact, instructor in Denton. “A child who practices talking to your baby and reading to your finding different solutions for problems feels baby, even if they cannot comprehend the more confident that they have what it takes story or book. “Books like First 100 Words to meet a difficult situation and overcome or Pete the Cat are a good start, or even a it,” says McCoy. “You will see [creativity] in picture book with no text. You can just look a kid who can handle failure and is resilient. at it [with your baby] and describe what That’s the good stuff.” you are seeing.” Jacinto says Frisco mom Summer these activities help grow the Rose says enrolling her neural pathways that foster son, Hudson, in a theater creative play. class in elementary As they grow, advises When it comes to toys or school was beneficial in McCoy, parents can adopt games to boost creativity, many ways she did not three creativity-building early childhood expert expect. “He struggled a habits. “I would say the Antonia Jacinto suggests little bit with confidence, first step is to praise the the more primitive, the and he was more shy process instead of the outbetter. “Books and puzzles and reserved,” Summer come,” he says. “Instead of are great,” she shares, recalls. “We were looking praising the final product, “and so are sensory toys for an interest for him. highlight the effort.” such as water tables and Sports wasn’t his forte, so In lieu of offering how sand or dry rice. Anything we tried theater.” Hudson you would approach a that is open-ended so flourished on stage and in problem, offer your child that they can be imaginalife. His mother continempathy, McCoy suggests. tive as they play. And of ues, “It’s given him much “Acknowledging the struggle course pretend play with more confidence.” and then asking questions your child is a great way This makes sense, using the phrase ‘I wonder’ to help kids be more creaccording to Antonia is a great tool. So you might ative, as parents model Jacinto—early intervention say, ‘I wonder what would how things work.” specialist with My Health, happen if you tried to do this This brings with it the My Resources (MHMR) a different way?’” He says question of devices, and if of Tarrant County— empathy, patience and allowscreen time is a total crebecause creativity touches ing the child to work within ativity killer. “You know, on every developmental the limitations of the situation it doesn’t have to be,” system in one way or is where the creative problemJacinto says. “If parents another. “I work with solving begins to take root. can sit down with their kids on overall developThat means that as much child and watch together ment,” she explains, “and as you may want to steer your and then dialogue about creativity is part of their child down a different road, what they are seeing, it can emotions, their movements don’t take over the activity. work for them and not and for sure their language “Let them struggle, because against them.” and how they socialize. It’s that is where they get creall connected.” ative,” McCoy explains. “If a kid is trying to draw a person, they will erase THE CREATIVE PROCESS it a few times and try again and again. We see So how do we develop creative thinkers? We that and we have the urge to jump in and fix generally think of the fruits of creativity as it. If you try to fix it, you’ve robbed them of a being tangible achievements. Instead, shift chance to come up with a creative solution.” your thinking to the fruits being the struggle That can be practiced from the time and the process, where creativity is born. your kiddo wakes up in morning through Dallas mom of five Juleeta Harvey has when they fall asleep. “It can be done in any been thinking about the creative process as a format, any medium, any subject, by simply means of general problem-solving for some asking your child to think of a different way time. “I find if my children are fixating on a to do something,” McCoy points out. “So if problem—like a problem with a friend, let’s they are putting on their shoes, for example, say—I try to first listen, then if they remain you could be silly and say ‘I wonder if you stuck [after talking about it, I] ask them to could do that standing on one foot?’ You’ll pause and do something else for a moment. know it’s working when it seems like they Go for a walk or sweep the floor, as a way to are getting a lot of ideas. When the ideas change things up.” Her sons, ranging in age start flowing, creativity is happening.”

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Amy Hurlburt and Reagan Vermillion, licensed professional counselors at The Well House in Southlake Q: What’s an appropriate age to give my child a cell phone? A: While cell phones offer a great deal of convenience and connection, not all children are ready for the responsibility that comes with technology ownership. There are no strict age guidelines; instead, we can look to the child’s maturity when making the decision. Here are five questions to help you know when your child is ready for a cell phone: Why does my child need a cell phone? There are a lot of creative technology options out there beyond the traditional cell phone. Search for the right device for your child. Tip: “Because everyone else has one” is probably not a great reason to buy a phone for your child. How responsible is my child? Do they lose things easily? How do you want to handle replacement or repair? How impulsive is my child? Will they purchase games at will? Will they post and share inappropriate pictures? Tip: Set expectations before giving your child a device. Get familiar with the various ways to safeguard your child’s device from unwanted purchases and experiences. Does my child understand how to safely use the internet? Do you understand how to install safeguards on the device? This is an ever-changing landscape. School resource officers are a great resource for parents who want to know the most current best practices. How much control do I need to have over the device? Technology ownership can be a continuum. For example, you can give limited access to a cell phone (maybe when

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Amy English, clinical therapist with Coppell Family Therapy Q: When my child wants my attention, he punches my leg or arm. How can I get him to be less physically aggressive when he wants attention? A: When kids begin to seek your attention in inappropriate ways, using the words “stop” and “don’t” generate negative reinforcement of the behavior. Instead, limit the attention you give your child in that moment by stating your expectation—the behavior you do want from the child—in a neutral tone and with no eye contact. Of course, it’s best to be proactive with both expectations and consequences—telling them, “If we need attention, we wait patiently,” or, “If we use our hands in an unkind way, then we have a tech time-out.” If a kiddo chooses to continue to hit, ignore them in the moment, then later discuss the expectation and the negative impacts of their behavior, first by asking the child their perspective. “How would you feel if a friend punched your leg for attention?” And implement the previously discussed consequence. If the behavior continues, and it appears to be more impulsive versus noncompliant, parents can work with kiddos on nonverbal cues, such as the parent tugging their own ear or touching their own nose, as a reminder. If you have a parenting question that you’d like our experts to answer, message us on Instagram @dfwchildmag or email us at editorial@dfwchild.com.

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DFWCHILD: TELL US MORE ABOUT HOW MI GOLONDRINA CAME ABOUT. EVEN AS A TEENAGER, YOU WERE JOURNALING ABOUT STARTING A FASHION AND LIFESTYLE COMPANY. CRISTINA LYNCH: Coming from a very

entrepreneurial family, I think that’s probably just what I knew. For example, my mom and her sister started a clothing business. My aunt sells iron candelabras. Beautiful things, so I saw that. I worked for Oscar de la Renta’s sales team after college, and I can’t remember what season it was, but there were these gorgeous embroideries. There were so many little things that came together for Mi Golondrina, but that was a big aha moment—seeing beautiful embroideries on couture dresses and remembering that I had seen gorgeous embroideries growing up, but they weren’t necessarily on luxe fabrics. I think that’s really what got my wheels turning. C: WHERE DOES THE NAME MI GOLONDRINA COME FROM? CL: At my

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C: YOUR MOM’S HERITAGE WAS YOUR INSPIRATION—YOU MUST HAVE A VERY SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP. CL: Yes, she’s taking my daughter to ballet

right now! I have three brothers, so my mom is also kind of like—not a sister, but we’re really close. She’s warm and creative, one of those people that lights up the room. She comes up with the best ideas for Mi Golondrina and is constantly thinking about how to make things better. It’s nice to have somebody who keeps me on my toes.

C: HOW DOES YOUR OWN CHILDHOOD INFLUENCE HOW YOU PARENT? CL: I get emotional thinking about it,

because it’s the biggest gift my parents have given me. They are extremely loving and have supported me so much. I know many children don’t have that. Just showing love is really important to me, and there being no doubt in my child’s mind that I’m proud of them all the time, no matter what’s going on. Family time is huge—having dinners together at home, all being around the table. We had a beautiful home growing up. My mom did such a good job putting art everywhere, and I don’t think she ever thought too much what was kid-friendly and what was not. She just created a beautiful space and made sure we had fun in it. I hope to do the same. I also think about these vacations we went on. Even when we financially couldn’t do as much, we would drive to national parks. I think it’s really important to learn about new places, new cultures, and do it together. C: HOW IMPORTANT IS IT TO SHARE YOUR HERITAGE WITH YOUR OWN CHILDREN? CL: That means so

much to me. It’s how I was raised, and [Mexican culture] is such a beautiful part of my life. I love how family forward the culture is. I speak to my children in Spanish. I want them to go to Mexico with me and play and meet the artisans we work with, now and through the years. C: WHAT’S YOUR FORMULA FOR BALANCING HOME AND WORK? CL: When I started my company, one per-

son said, “You’re going to work so much. Do you not care about family?” I was like, “Wow, you really don’t know me at all—the reason I started Mi Golondrina was so I could have a business and a family.” I’ve always looked forward to having two children, and hopefully more, honestly. I worked really hard early on knowing that, hopefully, I could have a more flexible schedule one day. What’s so fun is that my kids come with me to the showroom. Mom guilt is real, though. [There are times] when you’re doing something else and want to be with your kids. But knowing that I’m going to continue working, I just spend as much time with them as I can. We take them everywhere and wouldn’t want it any other way.

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Krys Boyd, Dallas mom of four young adults and the host and managing editor of KERA-FM’s Think talk show, shares her top 4 podcasts for busy mamas.

New York magazine’s “The Cut.” This female-hosted and -reported podcast “offers a fresh, diverse perspective,” says Boyd. “The Cut” has explored topics including why we’re burned out and what to do about it, as well as how a woman decides if she wants children. thecut.com/tags/podcasts

Slate’s “Decoder Ring.” Every wonder what happened to all those Segway scooters? Where did mullets come from?What was it about Cabbage Patch dolls that made parents crazy? Why are Americans so obsessed with hydration? Find out with host Willa Paskin. slate.com/podcasts/decoder-ring

“No Stupid Questions.” Delve into human behavior with research psychologist and Grit author Angela Duckworth plus journalist and Freakonomics coauthor Stephen Dubner. Among the (not stupid) questions: When is it okay to tell a lie? How can we stop comparing ourselves to other people? Is there actually value to gossip? freakonomics.com/nsq

KERA’s “Think.” Shorter than the original broadcast, this podcast gives listeners “the best of the show in a 25-minute package,” Boyd shares. Why are women expected to take charge of contraception in heterosexual relationships? How have pets become less like possessions and more like family members? Science, philosophy, culture—Boyd thoughtfully covers it all. think.kera.org/podcast

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Fort Worth area mom of one (plus one on the way!) Ali Dee—a country artist, TV host and western wear designer—ticks off her top spots to dip your toe into her world. Start here. Dee says the Stockyards Championship Rodeo—the world’s first indoor rodeo and the world’s only year-round rodeo— is a “must do.” Stop in the gift shop before moseying into the arena for all the action. Fort Worth, 888/269-8696; cowtowncoliseum.com See the drive, live. Every day at 11:30am and 4pm, see real drovers dressed in vintage cowboy gear ride west down Exchange Street in the Fort Worth Herd Cattle Drive. Fort Worth, 800-433-5747; fortworthstockyards.com/ attractions Dress the part. The General Store & Trading Post is the spot for western gifts and souvenirs such as hats, jewelry, cowboy and cowgirl T-shirts, plus old-fashioned candies, chili mixes and salsas. Fort Worth, 817/625-4061; facebook.com/generalstorestockyards Learn about women of the west. Expanding the definition of a cowgirl, our editors’ pick is the National Cowgirl Museum and Hall of Fame, where you’ll find 243 honorees ranging from writer Laura Ingles Wilder to sharpshooter Annie Oakley and even U.S. Supreme Court Justice (and Texan) Sandra Day O’Connor. Fort Worth, 817/336-2470; cowgirl.net And prove you were there. Get your picture taken with Lonesome Longhorns, Heather Reams’ trained cattle. “You can usually find Ms. Heather outside the Cowtown Coliseum with her gentle giants,” Dee shares. “This photo op alone is worth the visit to the Stockyards.” Fort Worth, 817/300-9082; lonesomelonghorn.com

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Just Like (Her) Mom’s. “When I crave my mom’s cooking, I go here,” says Chef Uno of Nalinh Market, a restaurant inside a boutique Asian grocery store. She loves the authentic Laotian food as well as the house-made sausage, soups and sauces you can buy for home. Irving, 972/721-0444; facebook.com/nalinhmarket

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Asia Central. If you are looking for good—and quick and easy—Asian food (everything from Japanese robata and chicken Thai curry satay to Chinese egg rolls), Chef Uno says her restaurant won’t disappoint. Red Stix Street Food, with one location near SMU and another coming to Farmers Branch as early as November, specializes in grilled skewers that can be added to any dish. Eat the “stix” now or freeze them for later. Dallas, 972/913-4883; redstixstreetfood.com

Italy, Texas. Hit up Jimmy’s Food Store for fresh pasta, Italian cheeses and meats, pre-made sauces, and Italian sandwiches—as good as you’ll find west of New York City. “They have a limited menu,” Chef Uno explains, “but the best part is that it is an Italian grocery store and a blast to the past when you walk in.” She recommends picking up the store’s affordable wines and making a visit to the butcher who will create any cut of meat your stomach desires. Dallas, 214/823-6180; jimmysfoodstore.com Mediterranean Vibes. “The fresh pita is terrific,” Chef Uno declares about Sara’s Market & Bakery—a modern Mediterranean and Indo-European grocer and bakery, which uses a traditional Lebanese brick oven. “When I’m here, I pick up a Mediterranean feast.” The hummus, baba ghanouj and kabobs aren’t to be missed. Richardson, 972/437-1122; sarasmarketbakery.com Straight out of Motown. “[Thunderbird Pies has] the best thick, buttery crust pizzas—or pies,” she shares. “It’s loaded with an absurd amount of cheese—I’m saying this in the most flattering way, of course—and high-quality meats. The Honey Bastard is my favorite.” Dallas, 469/577-1077; Fort Worth (pickup or delivery only), 817/402-0050; thunderbirdpies.com

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Genuine Italian meats, Japanese-inspired barbecue, Detroit-style pizza and more: Dallas-based Uno Immanivong—a first generation Asian American of Laotian descent, chef and owner of Red Stix Street Food, and the mom of a teenager—dishes out her favorite culinary spots.

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Do you love your kids? Of course. But do you show your kids you love them—in the right way for them? Just as couples have love languages, so do children. Here’s how to figure out your child’s language, and speak it loud and clear. WORDS

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my 10-year-old daughter Teagan, as she holds her results out to me. “But I bet you already knew that. Because of how much I ask for Squishies when we go to Target, right, Mama?” “Mine’s quality time. I’d say that’s pretty obvious,” says her twin brother Brylon matterof-factly. “That must be why I always want to have a Mama & Bubba Day.” The scores they tallied come from a quiz in the book The 5 Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., and Dr. Ross Campbell—a follow-up to Chapman’s wildly successful The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts, designed for couples. Most people have at least heard of “love languages,” the five distinct ways that humans are said to give and receive love: words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service and receiving gifts. While Chapman and Campbell recommend giving your children a healthy dose of each language, they suggest that there is typically one area, maybe two, that children respond to on a deeper level than others—and that focusing on those areas enables you to adequately fill their emotional cup. LOVE EFFECTIVELY. We know we love our children, but do they know? And does it really matter how we love them? A 2019 study in the International Journal of Learning and Development showed that children who felt loved responded better to parental discipline. The research also states that children who received affection, closeness and physical interaction with their loved ones experienced better social and emotional development. In other words, by effectively ensuring that your children experience your love, you are molding them into kids who will grow into well-rounded adults. There are five languages, and identifying and practicing effective love for your chil-

dren—that is, forms of love that speak to their personal needs and desires—come down to five intertwined factors. BE SIMPLE. You might assume receiving gifts would be the near-universal love language for children. On the contrary, attempting to make every bonding moment seem like Christmas morning can desensitize them from truly appreciating the gesture. Receiving a gift is no longer an act of love; it’s an expectation. “Small, simple acts go a long way,” says Fort Worth mom of four Katie Crum, who notes that it’s the free things that her kids seem to respond to best, something like braiding her physicaltouch daughter’s hair. “It always comes back to how they need their cup filled, and sometimes that’s just having Mom present for them, right at that moment.” Early childhood specialist Kristin Castillo, program director for Elite Learning in Fort Worth, says that up through age 3, your child’s love language is almost always physical touch. She notes that babies crave the feeling of warmth, comfort and being held that they experienced in the womb. By age 4, a child’s preferences typically begin to develop, and this may cause their initial, instinctual love language to change. “We grow and develop both cognitively and emotionally at a rapid rate from birth to age 9,” explains Sarah Balint-Bravo, a licensed professional counselor supervisor and registered play therapist supervisor who owns Park Cities Child & Family Counseling in Dallas. “Just like we are constantly growing and changing [physically and cognitively], so is the way we display and experience love.” Regardless of which language your child currently “speaks,” the gestures don’t have to be excessive. “All three of my kids love ending their day with words of affirmation,” says Laura Alotaibi, an Allen mother with 10-yearold triplets. “You wouldn’t believe the way their eyes light up, and it was just something so simple. Whispering, ‘I love how helpful DFWCHILD | october/november 2021

you were to the neighbors today; I’m so proud of what a kind boy you are,’ takes 20 seconds, but it means the world to him.” “The baseline answer” for how to show our children love in a simplistic way, says Castillo, “is to be intentional. If you have one hour between school and practice, use that hour to do something with your child that you both enjoy. Sometimes it’s just staying off your phone.” BE SPECIFIC. What one child may perceive as an act of love— say, going shopping and picking out that week’s groceries together (quality time)—another may view as a boring errand. Your child may need to hold your hand while inside the store (physical touch) to feel any kind of connection during the task. To figure out how each of her children craved affection, Crum says she paid conscious attention to what they wanted from her. “Ruby, who speaks quality time, would ask to plan mommydaughter dates with just the two of us, while Reese—who needs words of affirmation—has always loved being praised,” Crum shares. “She would tell us at a really young age that we should tell her we loved her more, or that she likes when we acknowledge how hard she’d worked on something.” Crum observed that her 6-yearold J.Y., who has autism, always felt love in the form of receiving gifts. “Every day since the day he could speak, he says to anyone who walks in, ‘Hi! What’dya bring me?’ Ownership is very important to autistic kids, but even without that, he’s a collector at heart,” remarks Crum, adding that J.Y. keeps items like coins or nuts that have been gifted to him in a special box. “It doesn’t have to be anything big, just a token that tells him, You were thinking of me. That’s what ‘I love you’ sounds like to him.” BE SUSTAINABLE. Whether you have an only child or four (or more), moms are busy—so you may feel you don’t have the bandwidth to devote specific, distinct daily time to this. No matter how packed your schedule, though, intentional love can fit in. “You can accomplish your daily chores and 24

responsibilities and still give your children that designated time that they need,” Balint-Bravo says. “Walking the dog, pulling weeds, cooking together—all those are opportunities to insert any of the love languages and still make sure you’re staying on schedule.” By

filling his cup by just being there and talking to him, and while I’m doing this, I’m keeping my daughter in my lap and filling hers as well.” In this way, Mears is present for her son and showing him love through his preferred language, while also satisfying her 10-month-old daughter’s need for physical touch. I ask my kids the same question after school, even if that’s all the oneon-one interaction I can manage that day. We call it the sad-mad-glad game. I ask them each for a thing that made them sad, a thing that made them mad, and something that made them glad. This gives me a glimpse into their day while also giving each some quality time. It’s something small and sustainable that I am able to practice even on our busiest nights.

“If that’s not your child’s love language, then you’re totally missing the mark.”

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combining tasks, you reduce the risk of feeling burned out later in the day, and your child still feels as if they had their special moment with you. Additionally, the last thing you want is for intentional togetherness to feel like a burden or just another thing to check off. “If doing a certain activity with your children to demonstrate your love feels draining or exhausting, it isn’t realistically sustainable and you should avoid that activity,” notes Castillo, who goes on to suggest keeping a list of things you feel you can do consistently, and then making it a daily habit to choose at least one. Allison Mears, a Dallas mom of two, has found it helpful to not only designate individual time with her children, but to also find ways to show both her children love simultaneously. Mears shares that her 2-year-old feels loved through quality time. “I quickly discovered that it was simply my presence, just me being in the same room,” she says. “I can be playing with him and

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This is especially true if your own love language is receiving gifts. Toys, electronics and experiences like museum memberships can get very costly, very quickly. If your child’s love language isn’t receiving gifts, you can take your child on a full-on shopping spree and they could still end up feeling like they never really connected with you. Similarly, if your own love language is quality time and your child’s is words of affirmation, make sure you are including encouraging words during your time together. “You can spend the entire day running errands and sharing conversation, but did you shower your words-ofaffirmation-child with praise and compliments?” Balint-Bravo asks. “Just because giving quality time is how you feel comfortable showing love, doesn’t mean that it’s what makes your child feel loved … If that’s not your child’s love language, then you’re totally missing the mark.” Balint-Bravo points to a situation she encountered with a child. The child’s love language was physical touch, but that made the parent (whose love language was words of affirmation) uncomfort-

able. “[The mom] had to find things she could do within her own comfort zone that could convey love to her son. Kids pick up on if you’re uncomfortable,” says Balint-Bravo. “You can’t stiffen up when your child hugs you or wants you to hold them, because to them, that’s you saying that you don’t love them back.” Parents must be self-aware enough to identify personal weaknesses or challenges to address in order to fulfill a child’s needs. The mother in BalintBravo’s example settled on massaging her son’s hand. It was a gesture that she was comfortable doing, and one that met her son’s craving for physical touch. Whatever your child’s language, keep in mind that they don’t necessarily grow out of their appreciation for certain acts of love. My twins started fifth grade this year at a new school, and as I was packing their lunch for their first day, I decided to leave out my usual lunchbox love note. Attending a new school is a difficult enough transition, and I figured that since they were the big dogs on campus, a napkin note signed “Love, Mommy” might be embarrassing at a time when it was so important for them to feel like they fit in. When they got home from school, I asked how their day was. All good for my son, but my daughter exhaled slowly and replied, “It was OK.” I asked if something had happened that was bothering her, and after some hesitation, she answered, “It’s just that… I don’t want to embarrass you, but… I think you forgot to include my note in my lunch today.” Embarrassed is right! Had I familiarized myself with her love language sooner, I would have known that, of course, my daughter needed that gift in her lunchbox to feel loved throughout her day. (And you can bet that every packed lunch gets a note from now until graduation!) BE PROACTIVE. Identifying love languages isn’t always so obvious. Castillo says that while it’s unfortunate that so many feel lost or confused on how to connect with their children, it’s not necessarily a parent’s fault. “Today’s society doesn’t put a big enough emphasis

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on establishing that foundation,” she posits. “If it did, so many parents would know how easy it is to show your children you love them using instinct and intention.” “Knowing [your kids’] love languages is not just about saying ‘I love you.’ It helps you positively affect and influence your children,” says Alotaibi. “I think it helps you become a better parent. I know it did for me.”

Love Notes There are online, literary and in-person resources that can help you identify your child’s love language and use it to deepen your bond.

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Author Gary Chapman’s website, 5 LOVE LANGUAGES, provides a test you can take for your child. The quiz is geared to age 9 and up; for younger kids, the site will provide a drawing exercise as well as literary resources for parents and kids. The website’s page for The 5 Love Languages of Children also offers a love languages “mystery game” that kids can do on their own. 5 Love Languages quiz 5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language 5 Love Languages mystery game 5lovelanguages.com/store/the-5-love-languages-ofchildren

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The 5 Love Languages of Children, by Gary Chapman, Ph.D., and Dr. Ross Campbell, is designed to help you identify your child’s language and use it in a variety of ways, including more effective discipline and methods of learning. Campbell, the co-author of the children’s love languages book, also wrote How To Really Love Your Child. This book explains children’s emotional needs and imparts skills and techniques to help your child feel fully loved and accepted. Loving Every Child: Wisdom for Parents contains passages from the writings of Janusz Korczak, a 19th-century educator and child advocate. Korczak believed that understanding children is the key to taking care of them. CLASS ACT

THE PARENTING CENTER in Fort Worth offers classes

for the whole family, with the goal “to help you better navigate your familial and parent-child relationship(s)” through provided parent coaching and education. The Parenting Center, Fort Worth, 817/332-6348; theparentingcenter.org POSITIVE INFLUENCES in Dallas offers a single-day Intensive Parenting Class that condenses 7–8 weeks of curriculum into one 8-hour session. Positive Influences, Dallas, 469/227-7847; positiveinfluences.org For a faith-based option, check out the parenting classes at 316 COUNSELING CENTER in Collin County. There’s also parent counseling and play therapy. 316 Counseling Center, Allen, 469/631-0369; 316counselingcenter.org

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C: WHAT SHOULD PARENTS KEEP IN MIND WHEN SCHEDULING THEIR CHILD’S APPOINTMENT?

DRC: Make the appointment for a day and time when the child will be at their best. If there was a big event at school and you pulled the child out, they may be upset and not in the best of moods for the appointment. For younger children, avoid snack time or naptime. Younger kids do better in the early morning. C: ANY ADVICE FOR FOSTER-

HOW TO EASE YOUR KIDS’ DENTAL ANXIETIES

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from our recent Mom Approved survey, we noticed a common theme among the parents who gushed over their dentists and orthodontists: their kids no longer fear the dentist or dental treatment. Consistent dental care at an early age is imperative in setting up your kids for a lifetime of healthy habits, so we wanted to examine where the scaries come from, what parents can do calm their kids’ anxieties, and what both you and your dentist can do to ensure the best possible appointment. For an expert’s advice, we reached out to Dr. Rita Cammarata, DDS, past president of the Texas Dental Association and owner of Cammarata Pediatric Dentistry Group in Houston. COMMENTS

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experiences at another medical or dental office can trigger this fear, as can dental “stories” from their older siblings or friends. As pediatric dentists, [we] are trained to set children up for success at their dental visits. Colorful, child-friendly offices with videos to watch, video games to

play, and lots of toys and stuffed animals tend to make for a fun, exciting visit to the dentist. Our patients are comfortable in our office’s atmosphere because it is designed with them in mind from the start. We strive to make their visit fun, with the actual exam or treatment being as uneventful as possible. C: HOW CAN PARENTS HELP CALM THEIR CHILD’S ANXIETY BEFORE EVEN GOING TO THE APPOINTMENT?

DRC: First thing for parents to

know is their demeanor while in the office will affect their child, so be positive before the appointment while at home and during the appointment. Prepping the child beforehand on what to expect while in the office can be done by going on the website and seeing pictures of the office. There is a variety of children’s books for them to read or have read to them. Planning a treat to look forward to after the visit can always be helpful. That can be a toy or a visit to the park.

C: HOW CAN PARENTS BE MINDFUL NOT TO TRANSFER THEIR OWN FEARS AND ANXIETIES ONTO THEIR CHILD?

DRC: I think this is the most important part: The parent must be positive about the visit. Don’t let your fear or anxiety show through. Be mindful of your demeanor, and don’t speak of your fears with others while the child is within earshot. They pick up and understand more than we think they do.

DRC: There are three steps to keeping your child’s mouth clean and avoiding cavities: 1) The parent should brush the child’s teeth [until children are old enough to do so on their own, typically around age 7] at least twice a day with fluoride toothpaste and do it effectively. 2) Floss once a day and clean each side of the tooth effectively. 3) Avoid sugars and simple carbs (they are cavity makers) and brush afterwards. C: WHAT ARE SOME TIPS FOR KEEPING KIDS’ TEETH HEALTHY DURING HALLOWEEN?

DRC: We can’t avoid Halloween so let’s enjoy the night, but don’t let it linger. Remember, when it comes to sweets, the number of exposures to sugars is more important than the amount at each sitting, so you are better off having several pieces of candy at once than several small amounts during the day. WHAT DOES MOM APPROVED MEAN? READ ON TO FIND OUT. ➜

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The Methodology for our Mom Approved Surveys OUR LOYAL READERS KNOW THE DRILL: Every year we send

out a survey asking moms (and dads, grandparents and guardians) to nominate their favorite dentists and orthodontists. Why? Because in an area as large as Dallas-Fort Worth, finding a healthcare practitioner you can trust and connect with long-term can be a daunting task. So, we rely

on you to tell us not only who your family’s favorite doctors are but why you recommend them to other moms. Plus, to keep everyone honest, we do not consider nominations from doctors’ coworkers or family members—just moms like you who are purely motivated to brag on the healthcare practitioners who’ve made a positive difference in their lives.

Before these docs reach our final cut, though, we comb through the details to ensure everything’s above board—specifically, we consult the Texas State Board of Dental Examiners. All of the dentists and orthodontists you’ll see in the following pages are good standing with valid, squeaky-clean licenses (meaning no records of disciplinary action).

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We’ve organized the dentists and orthodontists by city—so if you’re in a pinch, you can quickly find the one closest to you. But we have much more information in our MOM APPROVED DIRECTORY at dfwchild.com/momapproved. Visit us online to find contact information for each office, to put a face with the name, and to read more comments about why parents—and their kids—love their dentist or orthodontist.

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DENTISTS ALLEN Baranovitch, Svetlana DDS Bio Dental Toney, David DDS David Toney DDS Family & Cosmetic Dentistry CARROLLTON Hattaway, Shad DDS, FAGD Indian Creek Dental COLLEYVILLE Limosnero, Ronald DDS Heritage Family Dentist Metzger, Keith DDS Metzger Dentistry DALLAS Davies, Jeff DDS Dallas Designer Smiles Martinez, Jayme DDS Kessler Park Dental Navarro, Sergio DDS Sergio Navarro, DDS 28

Ombrello, Jill DDS, AIAOMT Central Dentist Rad, Jay DDS Custom Dental of Carrollton Vanderbrook, Drew DDS Vanderbrook Family Dentistry EULESS Allen, Jennifer DDS Trail Creek Dental

GRAPEVINE Solis, Michael DDS Grapevine Family Dentistry

SOUTHLAKE Sohn, Paige DDS, MAGD Sohn Dental

ARLINGTON Alexander, J. Moody DDS, MS Drs. Alexander Orthodontics

KELLER Casey, Tim DDS Timber Creek Dental

Thorpe, Richard DDS, PA Thorpe Family Dentistry

CARROLLTON Lewis, Rodney DDS Children’s Dental Specialists

LEWISVILLE Chang, Lin DDS 101 Dental and Orthodontics

FLOWER MOUND Kim, Stephen DDS Genesis Dental

MURPHY Glazer, Brittaney L. DDS Glazer Family Dentistry See ad on page 34

FORT WORTH Cook, William DDS Cook & Cordell

PLANO Stelly, Julie DDS Stelly Family Dentistry

Laska, Justyna DDS, PC Justyna Laska DDS PC

RICHARDSON Bunch, Marcie DDS West Shore Family Dental

FRISCO Lee, Clyde DDS Lee Dental GARLAND Musso, Mark DDS Musso Family Dentistry

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Prewitt, Regan DDS Prewitt Dental Group ROCKWALL Hittson, Suzanne DDS Hittson Dental

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COLLEYVILLE Chow, Jose DDS Jose G. Chow Orthodontics COPPELL Henao, Anabella DDS Bliss Orthodontics DALLAS Arango, Luis DDS Office of Dr. Sandra M. Petrocchi and Dr. Luis M. Arango Ellis, Christine DDS, MSD Ellis Orthodontics

ORTHODONTICS ALLEN Ghosh, Jay DDS, MS Creekview Orthodontics Lofgren, Trent DDS Creekview Orthodontics

FORT WORTH Bekish, Daniel DMD, MS Bekish Orthodontics FRISCO Greenberg, Greg DDS RxSmile Orthodontics

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MCKINNEY Ghosh, Jay DDS, MS McKinney Orthodontics Lofgren, Trent DDS McKinney Orthodontics MURPHY Fesler, Michael DDS, MS Fesler Orthodontics NORTH RICHLAND HILLS Delgado, Michael J. DDS, MS Delgado Orthodontics See ad on page 33 PLANO Goldreich, Hilton DDS, MS, PA Goldreich Orthodontics

Rozas, Melissa DDS Melissa Rozas DDS & Associates See ad on page 32 CORINTH Yamoah, Albert DDS Lake Cities Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics DALLAS Bushey, Nicholas DMD Children’s Dental & Orthodontics See ad on page 31 Colter, J. Diane DDS All About Kids Dentistry See ad on page 31

FLOWER MOUND Duffy, Debra DDS, PA Debra C. Duffy DDS Pediatric & Adolescent Dentistry FORT WORTH Barnett, John DDS Kids Stop Dental Indiramohan, Aishwarya DDS Preece, Church & Associates Pediatric Dentistry Jamison, Drew DDS Fort Worth Children’s Dentistry Morrow, Jack DDS, MSD Fort Worth Children’s Dentistry

Jones, Tamara DDS, MSD Willow Bend Orthodontics

Curtis, Ben DDS Children’s Dentistry of North Dallas

RICHARDSON Jones, Tamara DDS, MSD Richardson Orthodontics

Damon, Carla DDS Beyond Pediatric Dentistry See ad on page 34

Lewis, Rodney DDS Children’s Dental Specialists

Patel, Sheela DDS Cook Children’s Neighborhood Clinic Renaissance

Goodall, E. Blair DDS Office of Dr. Sandra M. Petrocchi and Dr. Luis M. Arango

Preece, Stan DDS Preece, Church & Associates Pediatric Dentistry

Harrington, Erik DDS, PhD Preston Hollow Specialists The Dental Ranch See ad on page 30

Warcup, Justin DDS North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics See ad on page 32

Holly, Lara DMD Children’s Dentistry of North Dallas

Williams, Arthur E. DDS Kids Stop Dental See ad on page 33

Kainthla, Priyanka DDS, MS Children’s Dental Care

FRISCO Davis, Mila DDS Healthy Smiles Children’s Dentistry See ad on page 33

ROCKWALL Shaw, Douglas DDS Shaw Orthodontics WATAUGA Shaw, Douglas DDS Shaw Orthodontics

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ALLEN Hunter, Jessie DDS Allen Pediatric Dentistry See ad on page 34 ARLINGTON Chahine, Elias DMD iKids Pedatric Dentistry & Orthodontics Ferguson, Stephanie DDS Park Place Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics Ketchel, Jennifer DDS, MS Arlington Pediatric Dentistry AUBREY Lee, Karrie DMD WindHaven Pediatric Dentistry BARTONVILLE Romney, Nathan DDS Romney Pediatric Dentistry CARROLLTON Train, Terri E. DDS, MS Children’s Dental Specialists CEDAR HILL Martin, Ashla DDS Kids@Heart Pediatric Dentistry COLLEYVILLE Ta, Tuong (David) DDS Pediatric Dentistry of Colleyville COPPELL Louca, Sonia G. DDS Coppell Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 35

King, Silvia DDS Just Kids Dental Kogut, Mark DDS, MSD myKIDSdds Lee, Yosuk DMD The Dental Ranch See ad on page 30 Lindley, Anne DDS Preston Hollow Specialists The Dental Ranch See ad on page 30 Marr, Karina DDS Pediatric Dental Care at Casa Linda Nahatis, Loria DDS Beyond Pediatric Dentistry See ad on page 34 Norbo, Kathryn DDS Woodhill Dental Specialties See ad on page 34 Petrocchi, Sandra DDS Office of Dr. Sandra M. Petrocchi and Dr. Luis M. Arango Ryan, Patrick J. DDS Grin Pediatric Dentistry Shanadi, Arvind DMD Smile Safari Pediatric Dentistry Tujios, Aleco E. DDS, MS Woodhill Dental Specialties See ad on page 34

KAUFMAN Harrington, Erik DDS, PhD Texas Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 30 Lindley, Anne DDS Texas Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 30 KELLER Hoffman, Jeffrey A. DDS Just 4 Kids Dentistry See ad on page 35 IRVING Bui, Tina DDS, MS ABChildren’s Dentistry Curtis, Ben DDS Children’s Dental Centre of Irving Morgan, Robert DDS, MSD Robert E. Morgan DDS, MSD KELLER Mavalli, Mahendra DDS Hiremath Orthodontics & Pediatric Dentistry LAKE WORTH Martin, E. Dale DDS Serengeti Smiles Pediatric Dentistry LEWISVILLE Patel, Krishna DDS Little Smiles Dentistry MCKINNEY Huynh, Christina DDS PebblePath Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics Tenney, Jodi DDS Texas Pediatric Dentistry

Lalani, Zarmin DDS, MS Discovery Kids Pediatric Dentistry See ad on page 35

MESQUITE Harrington, Erik DDS, PhD Texas Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 30

Mitchell, Laura DDS Frisco Mini Molars

Lee, Yosuk DMD Texas Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 30

Rubin, Paul DDS Frisco Kids Dentistry Sentelle, David DMD, PhD, MPH Frisco Kids Dentistry Slaughter III, James DDS, MSD Texas Tiny Teeth Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics GARLAND Ehsani, Sara DDS Pediatric Pro Children’s Dentistry & Orthodontics Preece, Anya DDS, PSM Tiny Teeth Pediatric Dentistry Schwed, Matthew DDS Schwed Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics HURST Ferguson, Stephanie DDS Park Place Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics

Lindley, Anne DDS Texas Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 30 PLANO Harrington, Erik DDS, PhD The Dental Ranch See ad on page 30

ROCKWALL Field, Paul DDS Shoreline Pediatric Dentistry Norbo, Kathryn DDS Woodhill Dental Specialties See ad on page 34 Tujios, Aleco E. DDS, MS Woodhill Dental Specialties See ad on page 34 ROWLETT Pollock, Tera DDS Rowlett Dental Kids SAGINAW Chahine, Elias DMD Saginaw Kids Dentistry Huynh, Christina DDS Saginaw Kids Dentistry Preece, Stan DDS Preece, Church & Associates Pediatric Dentistry SOUTHLAKE Watts, Amy DDS, MS Giggles & Grins Pediatric Dentistry SUNNYVALE Preece, Anya DDS, PSM Tiny Teeth Pediatric Dentistry THE COLONY Yu, Jocelyn DDS The Colony Pediatric and Adolescent Dentistry TERRELL Harrington, Erik DDS, PhD Texas Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 30 Lee, Yosuk DMD Texas Dentistry for Kids The Dental Ranch See ad on page 30 Lindley, Anne DDS Texas Dentistry for Kids See ad on page 30 WAXAHACHIE Aliefendic, Armin DDS Just for Kids Dental WYLIE Kresevic, Valeria DDS Angel Smile Pediatric Dentistry

Lindley, Anne DDS The Dental Ranch See ad on page 30 Ryan, Patrick J. DDS Grin Pediatric Dentistry PROSPER Roberts, John DDS, MS Roberts Dental Ranch RICHARDSON Kainthla, Priyanka DDS, MS Children’s Dental Care Morgan, Robert DDS, MSD Robert E. Morgan DDS, MSD Train, Terri E. DDS, MS Children’s Dental Specialists

To see all our Mom Approved health providers, visit our newly revamped online directory at dfwchild. com/momapproved. You’ll find an interactive map showing which providers are closest to you as well as comments from the local parents who nominated them.

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How often do you get the chance to make a difference in someone’s life? For us, it happens every day… several times a day. Working with children and their parents has given us the opportunity of a lifetime, and we are eternally grateful for it. One might imagine, given the multitude of patients we see, that complacency or a sense of routine sets in. Nope. Every encounter is a new conversation. Every encounter is a chance to understand better what is important in this healthcare relationship. We believe the Mouth is a Window to the Body. We believe every conversation is a window into what works best, for the individual and within their unique family dynamic. Heraclitus once said that “no person ever enters the same river twice, for it is not the same river, and it is not the same person.” This holds

true for our experience. Children grow into young adults, parents show up differently given the joys and challenges of parenthood. We meet our pediatric patients, parents, and families right where they are… in front of us. And to meet this challenge we think we have the best doctors. Drs. Lindley, Harrington, and Lee trained through Fellowships at Baylor, Children’s Health, and Scottish Rite Hospital for Children, arguably one of the best pediatric dental residency programs in the nation. All doctors maintain privileges at Children’s Health. Dr. Harrington currently sits on the credentialling committee at Children’s Health. Additionally, Dr. Lindley was awarded the Richard C. Pugh Award, given to doctors who score in the top 3% of the nation on their board certification exam. Way to go Dr. Lindley!

Dr. Lee lives in Frisco with his wife and two boys. In addition to being a great pediatric dentist, Dr. Lee served his country as a Lieutenant Colonel in the US Army for 12 years. We appreciate your sacrifice and courage Dr. Lee. The Dental Ranch is a special place as are its surgeons. We treat the most interesting, sometimes complicated cases in Dallas. Patients are referred from across the state and from fellow pediatric dentists to tackle some of the most challenging cases. Yet, the biggest impact often comes from the simple cleaning appointment where the child finally feels the trust, and then the feeling of relief from the parent that they have found the place. All relationships are based on trust. Trust is found within the quality of the conversation. Drs. Lindley, Harrington, and Lee look forward to that conversation with you.

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Nicholas Bushey, DMD Pediatric Dentistry 3x Mom Approved Your child deserves a smile they cherish for a lifetime, we are here to make that happen. We are a leading children’s dental practice serving patients throughout the greater Dallas areas. We believe that creating a beautiful, healthy smile should be easy, convenient, and downright fun! Dr. Nicholas Bushey and our experienced dental team are committed to creating a world-class treatment experience for your child. After obtaining his undergraduate bachelor’s degree, Dr. Bushey was awarded the coveted 4-year Health Professional Scholarship for dental school. Dr. Bushey went on to earn his Doctorate of Dental Medicine (DMD) from the University of Pittsburgh School of Dental Medicine, Pennsylvania and later served as a general dentist officer for 5 years in the Air Force. Following his service in the Air Force, Dr. Bushey discovered a passion for pediatric dentistry and went on to complete his pediatric dentistry specialty training at the University of Texas Health Science Center of San Antonio and Children’s Hospital of San Antonio. He spends his free time trying new restaurants, traveling, running, video games and playing with his dogs, Benny and Copper. Dr. Bushey looks forward to helping each child that enters our doors.

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J. Diane Colter, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 9x Mom Approved Dr. Diane Colter’s passion to be the most caring and compassionate pediatric dentist led her to open All About Kids Dentistry, which specializes in treating infants, children, teens and kids with special needs. She loves working with children and has a very caring and compassionate personality. It is of utmost importance to provide outstanding care along with an inviting atmosphere where both the parent and child will have a positive experience. Dr. Colter grew up in Athens, Texas. She completed her degree from Baylor College of Dentistry, where she graduated in the top of her class. She completed a Residency in Pediatric Dentistry at the University of California Medical Center in Los Angeles, serving as chief resident. Dr. Colter is a board-certified pediatric dentist recognized as a Diplomate of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry. She also holds a staff appointment at Children’s Medical Center. Dr. Colter is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, American Dental Association, Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, Texas Dental Association and Dallas County Dental Society. Dr. Colter has also been recognized many times by her fellow dental professionals as a top pediatric dentist in the area as published in D Magazine D Best and Texas Monthly’s Super Dentists. Away from the office, Dr. Colter enjoys spending time with her husband, Dr. Shandon Colter, their beautiful children, Sydney and Landon. Dr. Colter also enjoys traveling, and time spent with friends and family.

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Melissa Rozas, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 9x Mom Approved Dr. Melissa Rozas, a mom herself, knows the importance of making children feel comfortable, safe, and confident in the dental office. She is passionate about creating a positive experience that is not only educational but also, informative and fun! “Clear communication, trust, and setting goals with parents and their children is our mission, and we mix in a ton of fun as well!” Our pediatric dentists and team love seeing patients as infants or by age 1 year. “Seeing babies early in life allows us the ability to teach parents the best way to take care of their child’s mouth and teeth. In addition, we can evaluate for potential problems such as tongue posture, tongue and lip-ties, speech problems and feeding issues.” She says, “there is new research showing how early diagnosis and treatment with many of these problems, is key to giving children the ability to grow to their full potential and thrive at home and school.” Dr. Melissa Rozas is board certified by the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry and she is a Fellow in the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry. She is an active member of the American Dental Society, Texas Dental Association, The Greater Dallas Pediatric Dental Society, the Academy Laser Study Club, and the International Affiliation of Tongue-Tie Professionals.

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Justin Warcup, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 6x Mom Approved Justin Warcup, DDS, is the owner of North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics. Dr. Warcup earned a doctor of dental surgery (DDS) degree at Ohio State University (OSU), where he also was on the dean’s list, served as president of the OSU Dental Entrepreneur Society, and co-founded OSU’s La Clinica Latina to provide dental care to an underserved community. Dr. Warcup is a member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, American Dental Association, Academy of Laser Dentistry, Texas Dental Association, Texas Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, and Fort Worth District Dental Society. Dr. Warcup and his wife have four children. When he is not in the office helping patients or at home enjoying his family, Dr. Warcup serves in leadership capacities with youth groups in the community—where he coaches sports teams, leads scouting groups. “At North Texas Smiles Pediatric Dentistry and Orthodontics, every member of The Smile Team aims to help our patients enjoy their trips to the dentist so much that they look forward to the next visit! We recognize that each patient is special and invaluable, and we celebrate them. I consider it both an honor and a privilege to provide Fort Worth’s youth the highest quality dental care in the best possible environment,” says Dr. Warcup. “I love what I do, and I truly believe I have the greatest job on this earth.”

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Arthur E. Williams, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 2x Mom Approved Dr. Arthur E. Williams has worked at Kids Stop Dental for the past 10 years as a pediatric dentist. He was in private practice in Detroit, Michigan, from 1985 to 2009. Dr. Williams moved to Texas in 2009 and as employed with Monarch Dental as a pediatric dentist. Born in West Palm Beach, Florida, Dr. Williams attended Howard University in Washington, D.C., where he earned a B.S. degree in Microbiology, and a D.D.S. degree from Howard University College of Dentistry. His Speciality Certificate in Pediatric Dentistry was accomplished at New Jersey Dental School, now known as Rutgers School of Dentistry, located in Newark, New Jersey. Dr. Williams loves children and has the philosophy of treating his patients the way he would want his own children to be treated. He endeavors to create an opportunity for a personalized experience for every patient in a competent, and professional dental environment. He is a lifetime member of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry. While proud of his membership at Faith4Life Church, Dallas, he is an avid collector of vinyl albums and compacts discs. He enjoys his vast music collection with his lovely wife Judy, and they reside in Grand Prairie, Texas.

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Mila Davis, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 7x Mom Approved

Dr. Mila Davis is a cum laude graduate of Princeton University. She received her D.D.S. from Columbia School of Dental Medicine in New York City, with specialty training at New York Presbyterian Hospital, Columbia University receiving Certification in Pediatric Dentistry. She was an Assistant Professor for Clinical Dentistry at Columbia University. In Dallas, Dr. Davis taught part time at Baylor College of Dentistry. After rigorous clinical and written examination, she was awarded Diplomate of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry. Dr. Davis has hospital privileges at Children’s Medical Center. She was co-chair of the North Texas Give Kids a Smile Program where dental members volunteer to screen underserved children 5–12 years old for dental decay. Dr. Davis is certified in basic life support and pediatric advanced life support. She is a member of the American Dental Association, American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, and Greater Dallas Pediatric Dental Society. Healthy Smiles Children’s Dentistry 12398 FM 423, Ste. 1900 Frisco, TX 75033 214-436-4774 healthychildrenssmiles.com

Michael J. Delgado, DDS, MS Orthodontics 9x Mom Approved Dr. Michael Delgado believes that healthy, improved smiles can inspire confidence and change lives. His dedication and passion for orthodontics leads to personalized care and successful results for children and adults. Dr. Delgado grew up in the DFW area and has created beautiful smiles here for 15+ years. His favorite part of being an Orthodontist is that exciting moment when a patient sees their new smile for the first time. Delgado Orthodontics

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Brittaney L. Glazer, DDS Family Dentistry 4x Mom Approved “One Doctor. One Office. Your Whole Family” is our motto and we mean it! Dr. Brittaney Glazer is the only dentist you’ll see at Glazer Family Dentistry and we believe that makes all the difference. Her team provides specialized personal care that you cannot always find at a larger dental practice. In 2018, 2019, 2020 and 2021 we were voted “Best Dentist” by the Murphy Monitor, and a 2019, 2020 and 2021 “Neighborhood Favorite” by Nextdoor.com. Read our reviews and come meet us! Glazer Family Dentistry 119 North Murphy Road, Ste. 500 Murphy, TX 75094 214-774-9906 • GlazerFamilyDentistry.com Instagram and Facebook: @GlazerFamilyDentistry

Jessie Hunter, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 7x Mom Approved Allen Pediatric Dentistry has been a “Mom Approved” office since 2012. Dr. Jessie Hunter has been serving families in the Allen and surrounding areas for over 15 years. She is committed to providing a kid-friendly atmosphere that makes her patients feel excited to visit the dentist! Dr. Hunter supports the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry and the importance of finding a dental home for your child by the age of one to establish a long term relationship and ensure a healthy smile. Allen Pediatric Dentistry’s services include cleanings, preventive care, restorations and sedation dentistry. Dr. Hunter and her team specialize in tending to your child’s unique needs and welcome new patients. Allen Pediatric Dentistry 201 N. Alma Dr., Ste. 100 Allen, TX 75013 972-727-0737 • allenpediatricdentistry.com

Loria Nahatis, DDS & Carla Damon, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 5x Mom Approved Doctors Loria Nahatis and Carla Damon are both board certified pediatric dentists who have been recognized as Diplomates of the American Board of Pediatric Dentistry. They are committed to optimal growth and wellness for their young patients, starting from infancy. With more than 25 combined years of experience, they have been national leaders in their field and have been invited to give presentations for the American Dental Association and the American Academy of Physiological Medicine and Dentistry. Their mission is to help children live to their fullest potential by growing skilled, responsible, confident kids for a lifetime of optimal health. Beyond Pediatric Dentistry 8411 Preston Road, Suite 200, Dallas, TX 75225 972-808-6825 beyondpediatricdentistry.com

Aleco E. Tujios, DDS, MS & Kathryn Norbo, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 7x Mom Approved Woodhill Dental Specialties is the dual-specialty dental practice of pediatric dentists Drs. Aleco E. Tujios (left) and Kathryn Norbo (right) and orthodontists Drs. Jeffrey G. Johnson and Byron M. Schroeder. Recently expanded to Rockwall, TX, their offices have been serving the children and adults of the Dallas Metroplex for over 72 years. With board certified specialists in pediatric dentistry and orthodontics under one roof, their office provides personalized care to their patients from infancy into adulthood. With familiar faces, a compassionate and experienced staff, and a relaxed dental environment, patients often express “they can’t wait to go back and see the dentist again!” Woodhill Dental Specialties 8355 Walnut Hill Ln., Suite 100, Dallas, TX 75231 • 214-691-1172 6519 Horizon Rd., Rockwall, TX 75032 • 469-769-5727 woodhilldentalspecialties.com

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Jeffrey A. Hoffman, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 8x Mom Approved Dr. Jeffrey Hoffman and his staff at Just for Kids have been providing dental care for children in Northeast Tarrant County for over 40 years. Dr. Hoffman’s staff has been with him on an average of 20+ years. In 2016, the office added Olive, the comfort dog, to the staff and she quickly became the talk of the town. Just for Kids Dentistry provides a warm and family-friendly atmosphere that everyone will enjoy. Just for Kids Dentistry

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Zarmin Lalani, DDS, MS Pediatric Dentistry

6x Mom Approved Dr. Zarmin Lalani and staff are passionate about providing highest quality dental care in a fun, friendly and compassionate environment. Creating a strong foundation for a lifetime of healthy smiles begins with positive experiences! Dr. Lalani is board certified, a fellow of the AAPD, and a diplomate of the ABPD. She holds her DDS, Masters, and her Pediatric Specialty Residency certificate from Baylor College of Dentistry. She feels blessed to be able to bring beautiful smiles to kids every day! Discovery Kids Pediatric Dentistry 10710 Eldorado Pkwy. Ste. 140, Frisco, TX 75035 469-365-5437 • discoverykidsdentistry.com

Sonia G. Louca, DDS Pediatric Dentistry 7x Mom Approved Dr. Sonia Louca, a board-certified pediatric dentist, dedicates her practice to infants, children and teens, and offers services that cater to their unique needs. After graduating from Baylor College of Dentistry in 1999, she went on to complete a two-year residency in Pediatric Dentistry. Since 2001, she has enjoyed building healthy foundations for smiles that last a lifetime in Coppell and surrounding communities. Coppell Dentistry for Kids

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Thomas Schlieve, DDS, MD, FACS Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery 3x Mom Approved Dr. Thomas Schlieve is an oral and maxillofacial surgeon practicing at UT Southwestern and Children’s Health. He is the only oral surgeon in DFW with fellowship training in the management of cysts, tumors, and cancers of the mouth and jaws privileged to operate at Children’s Health. He is an expert in the management of wisdom teeth and extra teeth. Dr. Schlieve aims to provide the highest level of patient safety and quality care. UT Southwestern Oral & Maxillofacial Surgery Thomas Schlieve, D.D.S, M.D

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Motherhood may not come with the rush of emotions we’re conditioned to expect. WORDS WENDY MANWARREN GENERES

WITHIN HOURS OF GIVING BIRTH to my daughter Genevieve, I took to Facebook to announce her arrival. The post read, “So in love.” It was a lie I felt obligated to tell. The truth? How could I be in love? I barely knew her. To be sure, my pregnancy was planned and I anxiously anticipated her arrival, but I never felt the bond that books, websites and doctors told me would start while my baby was in the womb. I tried. I rubbed my growing belly and occasionally talked, even sang to her as I had been instructed. But truth be told, I felt more meh about beginning some sort of relationship with someone I had yet to meet. DFWCHILD | october/november 2021

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When Genevieve was born, I wanted to protect and care for her but more out of a sense of responsibility—like nurturing a new puppy or a sick dog—than maternal instinct. Other moms urged me to relish the newborn stage because it goes by so fast, but I hated those early days. Genevieve and I struggled with breastfeeding. A lot. Experts say that by six weeks, breastfeeding should be a breeze. My baby wasn’t even three weeks old at that point. They may as well have told me that things would get easier when she was 17, because three more weeks of what I was experiencing felt like a lifetime. The same way I wanted my golden retriever to quickly master potty training, I wanted Genevieve to figure out nursing. I did what I was supposed to (fed her, changed her and cuddled her) but I didn’t feel like I was bonding with her. I wasn’t soaking in her newborn smells and trying to commit to memory the sounds she made when she slept. No. I was doing my job as her mom and counting the days until my baby was beyond this horrible newborn stage. But I didn’t dare utter these thoughts and feelings out loud. I didn’t want to be judged by my mom, my in-laws or friends. I felt like a horrible mother. Was I missing the mothering gene? According to Cheryl Rayl, a therapist with Grace Counseling in Lewisville, research shows that roughly 20 to 30 percent of new moms lack an immediate emotional attachment to their newborn. “It takes a lot of energy for our bodies to heal after giving birth and for our minds to adjust to the physical changes we’ve experienced,” says Paula Miller, a licensed professional counselor offering virtual therapy throughout Texas. “Having ambivalent thoughts about being a mom is completely normal, because those feelings do pass and become a distant memory— kind of like the pain of childbirth.” Of course, if that feeling doesn’t go away, you may be suffering from postpartum depression (PPD) or clinical depression. Caroline Belanger, a Dallas mom to 3-year-old Fleur, bonded with her baby quickly but carried a tremendous amount of anxiety about being a good mom. Belanger cried a lot and couldn’t seem to shake the sick-to-her-stomach feeling. “Because of it, I wasn’t being the

mom I wanted to be,” she says. Belanger’s husband and mom eventually intervened and advised her to get help from a PPD specialist. “I stopped judging myself, stopped isolating myself and started being better to myself—and a better mom to my daughter,” she shares. But new moms aren’t the only ones who experience negative feelings toward their children. Rayl notes that it’s very common to get annoyed with children, even fantasize about life without them. But feelings like, What have I done? I miss my old life, and I can’t stand my kids, leave us feeling ashamed and awful. Kelly Love, mom to two boys, Brady, 5, and Trent, 3, feels super guilty when she doesn’t love or sometimes even like her kids. “After a long day at work, I just need a little down time, but I have two little dudes who need attention—and sometimes discipline— and there are days when I am not in the mood to handle either scenario,” the Coppell mom confides. She’s entertained the thought, What would my life be like without kids? because it would be so much easier; and she admits that she hates thinking like that. But instead of running for the border, she plans mini escapes, taking advantage of occasional after-work happy hours and dinners to wind down and skip the dinner-bath-bedtime routine at home. “I wish I could be the ever-loving mom, who always gives kisses and hugs and wants to do everything to make her child happy,” Love says. “But I think it’s better to admit my weaknesses, that I sometimes can’t handle my kids and the stress, that I am not always the best mom or that sometimes I wish they weren’t around for a while.” Miller explains that negative thoughts about kids and the fantasies we have about life without kids is our mind’s way of relieving the overwhelming pressures of motherhood—like venting. But when our thoughts go this way, “we feel shame and label ourselves bad mothers,” she affirms. Love can attest to that. As a working mom, she feels guilty even when she’s with her kids about the quality of the time. “On weekends, instead of playing or working on something educational together, I bring them along on all the errands I need to get done before the next week begins,” she says. “I feel like I’m always running around and

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cutting corners as a mom, which then gets me worked up and I stress about all the things I think I mess up as a mom.” Beating ourselves up takes so much energy. I spent a lot of time crying about my insecurities as a new mom. I read way too much on the internet, and in my sleep-deprived state, I convinced myself that I wasn’t doing enough, giving enough or being enough to my newborn baby. Why do we do this to ourselves? Why do we put this kind of pressure on ourselves? “We live in a culture where society thinks we either do too much for our kids or we aren’t involved enough,” says Theresa Kellam, Ph.D., of Luma Psychology in Fort Worth. These cultural taboos, coupled with what we see and read in the media—thanks to blogs, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest—mold the standards by which we hold ourselves, and we have this internal drive for perfection. “We feel guilty when we don’t meet these unrealistic, unattainable expectations, and we’re left feeling forever inadequate,” Kellam explains. It’s never been easier to find examples of what raising a child “should” look like. The media is filled with aspirational (and mostly unrealistic) pictures. Dallas mom Amanda Roberts, who has a 16-month-old son named

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Carter, blames virtual peer pressure for the self-inflicted mom competition she’s unintentionally entered. Her son was the last in his daycare class to crawl and walk, both completely normal according to his pediatrician. “But I find myself scrolling through my Facebook feed, watching friends’ babies reach developmental milestones way before Carter, and it makes me question my parenting, like I’m not challenging him enough, not engaging him correctly,” she laments. The guilt we tend to carry as moms—for whatever reason—is normal but can be overwhelming and emotionally exhausting. It’s time we remove these feelings of inadequacy so that mothering doesn’t become a long exercise in never measuring up. To do so, we have to forgive our faults and actually take care of ourselves first. Mental health experts agree that we have to embrace our shortcomings as moms (we all have them) and refocus our energy to help shed the mother lode of self-doubt we sometimes feel. Here are some healthy practices they recommend for moms at every stage. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHER MOTHERS

Not an easy thing to do. Laura Elpers, a marriage and family therapist with Insights

Collaborative Therapy Group in Dallas, says that you have to change your relationship with what you hear and see. Remind yourself that what you witness on the internet is not necessarily reality. Don’t we feature our proudest mom moments? Most of us don’t post when the kids are fighting and we’re feeling defeated by motherhood. No, we post the fun family baseball game and the perfect day at the beach. “Remember that parenting is not a onesize-fits-all program and that what works for one family might not work for yours,” Elpers explains. “It’s hard to do, but practice celebrating other moms’ victories.” Give that mom who spent the day crafting with the kids a genuine like. Or share heartfelt praise with the mom making meals from scratch. TAKE TIME TO RELISH IN YOUR MOMENTS TOO

We’re all guilty of snapping pictures of the kids with our smartphones so we can instantly share the story with our social media network. “Don’t take photos just to show off what you were able to squeeze into the schedule today,” Elpers advises. “Snap a photo to capture a great moment with your kids and don’t share it with a soul.” OK, maybe email or text it to Daddy and Grandma.

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Stop holding yourself to a standard of perfection. If we really take a look at the standards we’re holding ourselves accountable for, we’ll likely realize that we’re basing our standards on society’s expectations and not our own. “Get clear about what it means to you to be a good mom,” Miller suggests. “If giving your kids more of your time is what’s important to you, then dishes, laundry and a clean house may not be.” REPLACE THE SHOULDS IN YOUR VOCABULARY WITH COULDS

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“It’s hard to be vulnerable and weak,” Miller explains. “So it’s important to find an outlet where you can truthfully discuss the hard stuff and not feel like you’re being judged.” That support comes in different forms. Maybe it’s your best friend, maybe it’s your mom, maybe it’s a professional or maybe it’s a bunch of strangers in an online community dealing with similar issues. I mentioned that breastfeeding was hard for me at first. Really, really hard. I felt so alone in my struggle. I joined an online forum of moms with babies, something I found while searching Facebook groups. It was a safe place where I could ask my questions, vent my frustrations and not be criticized. Moms empathized with me and shared strate-

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gies that worked for them. It was such a sanity saver. It normalized what I was experiencing. FIND SUPPORT GROUPS

Communities offer groups where educators, social workers or mental health professionals lead discussions and offer advice and reassurance. Check your kids’ schools, parenting centers, places of worship, nearby universities, even local government agencies to find groups in your area. See our sidebar for more information. TAKE A TIME-OUT.

Rayl gives this example: “On an airplane, flight attendants tell you to put your oxygen mask on before putting one on your child,” she says. “In order to be the best possible mom, you have to take care of yourself first.” But Roberts feels guilty when she needs a break from her son. “It’s hard to admit that Carter gets on my nerves and that I would rather get a pedicure or go shopping than spend time with him.” She says she doesn’t allow herself the time she knows she needs because she’s afraid of missing one of those developmental milestones that Carter’s peers have already mastered. It’s OK to exercise, read, lunch with friends, do something that’s important to you—and

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doesn’t involve the kids—at least once a week, advises Rayl. “Mothers who don’t take care of themselves and let their worlds revolve around children lose their identity,” she warns. “Then all those motherhood insecurities are exacerbated because they don’t have an outlet.” Mentally, we all need a break and time to refuel. “You need to prioritize this time,” Rayl urges. “Get up an hour earlier or stay up an hour later to carve out your time.” Holly Mason owns MasonBaronet, a marketing firm in Dallas, and has a daughter, Mia, 11. The working mom knows that committing time to herself, her spouse and her friends makes her a better mom. “As much as I want my daughter to feel like she’s the most important thing in my life, I want her to see me as a role model and that to create a positive life-work-family balance, you have to dedicate time to all important aspects of your life,” Mason says. BE PRESENT

Turning off distractions and minimizing the multitasking when you’re with your kids is easier said than done. Believe me. I know. But sit and indulge in child-led play at least once a week. Make a conscious effort to put the phone down and quiet your racing mind.

“Practice living in the moment and not thinking about the future,” Miller suggests. If the house is a mess, for instance, stop mentally preparing your cleaning to-do list while you’re playing Barbie or Legos with the kids. “Thinking even 10 minutes into the future prevents you from being present, can raise your anxiety level and, in turn, make you feel guilty,” she says. You’re supposed to be spending quality time with your child, but in your head you’re vacuuming baseboards instead. KNOW WHEN TO RELINQUISH SOME CONTROL AND ASK FOR HELP

When Mason’s daughter was younger, the after-school care program was a no-brainer. But as Mia got older, her activities multiplied and no longer took place in one location. Mason spent late afternoons and early evenings in the car shuttling her daughter around and running necessary errands to buy kids’ birthday presents and team snacks. Time together felt rushed instead of fun. So Mason hired a full-time nanny to take over pickups, drop-offs and mundane tasks, such as shopping for new soccer shoes. “It took me a long time to get comfortable with delegating, but I had to prioritize because I was sacrificing real, quality time with my daughter,” Mason says.

Society paints a picture that mothering should come naturally and be a blissful, self-sacrificing experience. “The reality is that being a mom is an emotionally challenging, labor-intensive job that you have to learn as you go along,” Miller stresses. It’s a rare mom who never experiences selfdoubt. We need to trust ourselves, cut ourselves some slack, accept our limitations and do the best we can. “There are some things I know that I nail,” Love says. “And there are a lot of things that I know I don’t do so well, but I really love my boys and I think they know that.” And that’s what’s important. It took a little time, but Genevieve and I bonded. As clichéd as it sounds, it happened with that first smile she flashed at me when she was six weeks old (just like everyone said). The first six weeks had really felt like an eternity of struggles to this self-doubting mom, but the first wide grin I got—the one that I knew with 100% certainty wasn’t just gas—made my heart melt. It was Genevieve’s way of saying thank you, my first reward for all my efforts as a new mom. That little smile really did erase those torturous first few weeks. And it was at that moment that I fell madly in love with my sweet baby girl—finally! Originally published April 2015

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RESOURCES FOR NEW MOMS

Don’t know where to look? Here’s some resources to get you started on building your bond with your newborn. UNIQUE FOOTPRINTS is a local, comprehensive, virtual program that brings together the expertise of licensed pre- and postnatal professionals. Behavioral Health Dallas, led by Katie Sardone (see her tips on p. 48), provides the mental health and attachment component; there are also nurses, dietitians, lactation specialists, infant sleep specialists and yoga therapists. You’ll find online classes and other support.

Unique Footprints, info@uniquefootprints.com; uniquefootprints.com For LOCAL SUPPORT GROUPS, one option is to check with the hospital where you delivered or another hospital nearby. For example, Texas Health Plano sponsors a postpartum support group that is currently meeting virtually. Mental Health America of Greater Dallas hosts Mothers & Babies, a 6-week program that includes group formats. For other support groups, check out POSTPARTUM

SUPPORT INTERNATIONAL (PSI). There are more than a dozen specialty support groups that meet virtually with women all over the country; PSI also has a Texas chapter with area support group information.

Texas Health Resources classes, Currently virtual, 877/847-9355; events.texashealth.org/wlp2/classes

setting, Sardone recommends things like a MOM-AND-BABY EXERCISE CLASS . The Little Gym and Gymboree Play & Music are two well-known options with locations in DallasFort Worth. Fit4Mom has fitness programs for moms (bring baby along in the stroller) all over North Texas. Hospitals may also sponsor MOMMY MIXERS and similar events.

Mental Health America of Greater Dallas, Dallas, 214/871-2420; mhadallas.org/mothers-and-babies Postpartum Support International, 503/894-9453; postpartum.net Postpartum Support International – Texas Chapter, Dallas and Collin counties, 972/696-9207 Tarrant County, 817/676-8858 Bilingual Spanish assistance, 713/906-1324; psichapters.com/tx If you’re interested in building connections with other new moms in a more social

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baby,” says Katie Sardone, Ph.D., a psychologist and founder of Behavioral Health Dallas. “Not everybody feels this overwhelming, magical rush of love and emotion after delivery. A lot of people do, but it’s OK either way.” Attachment—a term that describes the relationship between a parent and child—is one area Sardone frequently addresses with patients. Here is her advice for promoting secure attachment: HAVE LOVING INTERACTIONS. Eye contact, smiling at your baby, speaking in a singsong voice, physical touch, rocking your baby, skin-to-skin contact: All these things help you and your baby connect. TRY TO MEET BABY’S NEEDS CONSISTENTLY. One main way to develop a secure attachment is through meeting your baby’s practical and emotional needs quickly and consistently. This helps the child understand that they are valued, loved and will be cared for, which lays the groundwork for a positive sense of self and healthy relationship with parents and others. “A lot of moms do already do this,” Sardone points out. “This is a natural and evolutionary pull that moms have.” THINK FROM THE BABY’S PERSPECTIVE. “So often moms are frustrated because their baby is crying, and they feel like they’ve done all the right things,” Sardone says. “Sometimes in these cases it’s helpful to reframe the situation. Put yourself in your baby’s shoes and imagine what it might be like to be out of Mommy’s safe and secure womb; adjusting to sights, sounds and smells; figuring out how to eat and stay full; how to cope with stomach pain; or how to get the closeness to Mom they want.” By taking this perspective, it can generate needed empathy for baby and help the mom relax. If you’ve struggled with attachment, try not to stress. “I get asked all the time, ‘Have I ruined my child?’” Sardone shares. “The answer is no. You can repair attachment at any age or stage through consistent, loving parenting. We can help provide some guide rails to get the relationship and parenting behaviors back on track.” Signs that you should seek help right away include apathy, numbness, frequent anger, resentment, regrets about having a baby, or observations from others that a mom isn’t treating a baby correctly. Even if you’re diagnosed with depression, Sardone says the prognosis for moms who seek support is very good. If you are caring for your baby as appropriate—and don’t have those worrisome feelings—but still are experiencing a disconnect, Sardone recommends thinking about the big picture. “The reality is, your relationship with your baby is a relationship just like any other, and it can take time to develop that bond,” she says. “If you love your baby and are happy to have him or her, but you’re not feeling the way you thought you would, hang in there. If you feel hopeful about the relationship, your feelings aren’t impacting your functioning or parenting, and you sense that the bond is developing in the right direction, then you’re probably on the right track. Continue to monitor your own thoughts and feelings and reach out for help if things veer off course.”

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TIRED OF HEARING “I’M BORED”? LOOKING TO GET THE KIDS OFF THE COUCH AND AWAY FROM THEIR DIGITAL DEVICES? HERE’S A LIST OF 25 FUN OUTINGS FOR YOUR FAMILY TO EXPLORE IN DALLAS-FORT WORTH.

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Aaron Family JCC

Child-led experiences designed for ages 1–5 to participate with a parent or guardian. Play On Wheels events: Oct. 3 at 10:30am, Oct. 13 at 4:30pm and Oct. 24 at 10:30am. See ad on page 38.

Amon Carter Museum of American Art

Connect with art through activities fit for the entire family! From Itty Bitty Art to Toddler Studios to Carter Playdate, the Carter has monthly events for families of all ages. See ad on page 47.

jccdallas.org/playonwheels 214/739-2737

cartermuseum.org 817/738-1933

Arkansas State Parks arkansasstateparks.com

Looking for new adventures for your family and friends? Come together at Arkansas' 52 state parks and experience endless possibilities. Pick up your free Arkansas State Parks passport at the nearest state park today. See ad on page 13.

Crockett Row at West 7th

Oct. 31: Monsters & Murals Halloween Chalk Art Festival. Dec. 5: Crockett Row's Country Christmas Celebration – Photos with Santa and ReinSteer. Nov. 26– Dec. 19: Thursday–Sunday carriage rides on Crockett Row. See ad on page 69.

Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden

Autumn at the Arboretum with a 'Bugtopia' themed Pumpkin Village, including Mommy and Me Mondays and Tiny Tot Tuesdays children's activities through Oct. 26. See ad on page 7.

Denton County Office of History and Culture

Discover ceramics from Denton County’s past and present in the exhibit Form & Function at the Courthouse-on-the-Square Museum. At the Denton County Historical Park, explore a newly restored 1860s log cabin. Free admission! See ad on page 12.

Epic Waters Indoor Waterpark

Epic H2Olidays, Nov. 27–Jan. 1 — A month-long holiday extravaganza filled with live entertainment, activities and more. Don't miss Breakfast with Santa, Dec. 11–12 and Dec. 18–19, 8–10am. See ad on page 71.

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Fort Worth Stockyards fortworthstockyards.com 817/710-7355

Fort Worth Symphony Orchestra fwsymphony.org 817/665-6000

Fort Worth Zoo fortworthzoo.org 817/759-7555

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Celebrate the season Stockyards style! Saddle up for Red Steagall Cowboy Gathering and Treat Street in October. Then don’t miss photos with Cowboy Santa and spectacular holiday lights. Plus Free Kid Friday at the rodeo! See ad on page 11. The FWSO offers a family-friendly series featuring Halloween Spooktacular, The Music of Harry Potter and When Instruments Roamed the Earth. Your children can also see Santa and snow with Home for the Holidays Thanksgiving weekend! See ad on page 17. Save the dates for festive fun at the Fort Worth Zoo! Boo at the Zoo is back Oct. 29–31. Plus, a new holiday event, Texas Wild! Wonderland, runs every weekend Nov. 27 through Dec. 19. See ad on page 67.

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Gaylord Texan Resort gaylordtexan.com 817/778-1000

Heard Natural Science Museum & Wildlife Sanctuary heardmuseum.org 972/562-5566

Lone Star Christmas at Gaylord Texan will delight guests of all ages with their magical holiday lineup of original shows, musical performances, dozens of larger-than-life Christmas trees, amazing acrobatics, delicious dining, interactive experiences and more! See ad on back cover. Let your imagination run wild as you travel back in time with 11 animatronic dinosaurs and photo op dinosaurs in our nature preserve. Plus, enjoy indoor exhibits, special events, educational programs and more. See ad on page 6.

Irving Archives and Museum

Spark!Lab at Irving Archives and Museum, fun and dynamic experiences allow children to explore the invention process through hands-on activities that combine STEM learning with art, history and creativity. See ad on page 72.

Irving Arts Center

We offer year-round family programs including story times, art classes, free art-filled family fun days, performances, and camps. We have 5 galleries and a sculpture garden you can explore for free. It’s worth the trip! See ad on page 73.

Kimbell Art Museum

Join us for art-filled family fun this fall, including dual-language story times, drop-in studios and more. Sign up to receive free copies of Learning to Look, a publication just for kids. Details at kimbellart.org/kids. See ad on page 21.

irvingarchivesandmuseum.com 972/721-3700

irvingartscenter.com 972/252-7558

kimbellart.org 817/332-8451

North Texas Performing Arts ntpa.org 972/422-2575

NorthPark Center

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Celebrate Halloween safely with NTPA's Second Annual Drive-Through Trunk or Treat at The Shops at Willow Bend! And don't miss the great fall shows including Jekyll and Hyde, Oklahoma!, Descendants the Musical, Fame and more! See ad on page 16. Shop for all the gifts on your list and enjoy your favorite traditions including visits with Santa Claus, The Trains at NorthPark, festive holiday plantings and decor, live music, beautiful lights and more. See ad on page 3. Texas’ #1 Light Spectacular Radiance! is back, bigger and better. Gather family and friends to immerse yourselves in the holiday spirit — with special attractions in Frisco, Ennis, Weatherford and Decatur. Visit radiancechristmas.com for details! See ad on page 4.

Reunion Tower

Breeze into fall with Reunion Tower! Day or night, make the Dallas icon your top family spot. Experience photo ops, telescopes, interactive touch screens and spectacular views for miles in any direction!

The Shops at Highland Village

Our Village Glows, Sat. Nov. 20 from 5–8pm. Santa will arrive by firetruck to light our 65-foot-high Christmas tree. Event will include free hot cocoa, cookie decorating, horse-drawn carriage rides and more. See ad on page 71.

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The Shops at Legacy North shopsatlegacy.com 469/231-8707

State Fair of Texas bigtex.com 214/565-9931

Texas Ballet Theater texasballettheater.org 877/828-9200

Town of Little Elm

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Vetro Glassblowing Studio and Gallery vetroartglass.com 817/251-1668

Oct. 17, Nov. 21 and Dec. 19: The Market at Legacy North (outdoor artisan market). Dec. 12: The Legacy North Pole — Santa and reindeer. See ad on page 17.

Howdy, we have so many activities you’ll need to visit our website to see the list: bigtex.com/plan-your-visit/attractions-events/family-fun. See ad on page 19.

The Nutcracker is returning to the stage! See the beloved holiday ballet at Winspear Opera House Nov. 26–Dec. 5 or at Bass Performance Hall Dec. 10–26. Tickets start at $25. See ad on page 13.

Join us for spooky family fun in Little Elm Park! Pumpkin Hollow is Oct. 14–16. We will have a carnival, a light-up pumpkin trail, a haunted trail and so much more. Join us for some spooky good times. See ad on page 19.

Vetro offers a variety of professionally crafted glass art, ranging from handmade sculptures to small glass art gifts. We give our guests the opportunity to assist in creating their own unique art glass. See ad on page 73.

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THE PAW PATROL EXPERIENCE

Through October 30 CAMP DALLAS

Join the pack of brave pups in this immersive experience celebrating the recently released PAW Patrol: The Movie. The exhibit is packed with family challenges and skill-based activities throughout Adventure City, such as grabbing a fire hose to help

Marshall douse an out-ofcontrol fireworks display at City Hall. $15 per person. 214/612-0451; camp.com/ paw-patrol

TOWERS OF TOMORROW WITH LEGO BRICKS

Through April 24

PEROT MUSEUM OF NATURE AND SCIENCE, DALLAS

Certified LEGO professional Ryan McNaught constructed

20 iconic skyscrapers from half a million blocks for the Perot’s recently opened exhibit. Crane your neck upward to take it all in, then let the kids summon their own engineering skills by building towers with colored LEGO bricks in the construction area. $28 for adults; $19 children; and free for children under 2. 214/428-5555; perotmuseum.org

JURASSIC WORLD: THE EXHIBITION

Through January 2 GRANDSCAPE, THE COLONY

With dates now extended through New Year’s, you’ve got another chance to experience this highly-rated exhibition of lifelike animatronic dinos—a towering Brachiosaurus, the hybrid Indominus Rex, and a seriously huge but not too

scary T. rex—straight from the blockbuster franchise. Tickets from $29.50 for adults; $19.50 for children; free for 2 and younger with a parent. 972/668-2222; jurassicworldexhibition.com

GRACE FOR PRESIDENT

October 2–17

CASA MAÑANA, FORT WORTH

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things to do 1970s Saturday morning cartoon series that taught civics, grammar and math to generations. Look online for the child study guide for fun lessons, activities and song lyrics so you can start singing along to “Just a Bill” and “Conjunction Junction” with your own kids before the show even starts. $15. 972/304-7047; coppellartscenter.org

passes are required (starting at $60) and allowing up to 15 people per vehicle. Bring your chairs and picnic within your “parking pod” or catch a free shuttle to the new 1.5acre Landing Zone for kids activities, simulators and food vendors. 800/318-9268; allianceairshow.com

TURNER’S MODERN WORLD

All you foodies out there, listen up. Kid chefs Mikey and Malia (pictured), from MasterChef Junior seasons 6 and 7, demonstrate their recipes live on stage alongside adult chefs Noah and Suu, also MasterChef alums. Expect audience participation and messy challenges in this family-friendly show that’s a must-see for fans of the hit TV culinary competition. Tickets from $32. comericacenter.com

Opens October 17

KIM BEL L A R T M USEUM, FORT WORTH

Children’s Theatre, thirdgrader Grace enters a tough schoolwide election against the boys in her attempt to shatter the proverbial glass ceiling—and also discovers what “proverbial” means. She’s got a lot to learn about the world of politics as she’s thrown into a series of campaign events, pep rallies and service projects to turn her classmates into voters. Tickets from $19. 817/332-2272; casamanana.org

FRIDAMANIA

October 9

FORT WORTH BOTANIC GARDEN

Come dressed in your best iteration of famed Mexican artist Frida Kahlo (floral headband, unibrow, shawl) to help set a new record and for a shot at winning the costume contest during the Casa Azul Party for kids activities. (The adult fest starts at 7:30pm.) Frida Fest continues in the garden where Fort Worth Opera stages its children’s opera about Kahlo on Saturday and Sunday. Free with general garden admission: $12 adults; $6 children; free for 5 and younger. 817/463-4160; brit.org

SWEET TOOTH HOTEL: REWIND

Opens October 16

WATTERS CREEK, ALLEN

Be kind and rewind (please and thank you) at Sweet Tooth’s latest exhibit, showcasing 10 installations and seven emerging muralists, painters, graffiti and fiber artists. Rewind features a fullblown vintage video store full of VHS tapes, a Rainbow Cave room, and a reboot of some favorite rooms from previously sold-out exhibits. 66

$20 for adults; $15 for children; free for kids under 2. 888/850-8718; sweettoothhotel.com

WATER LANTERN FESTIVAL

October 16

PANTHER ISLAND PAVILION, FORT WORTH

Send. Your. Worries. Sailing. Everyone gets a rice paper lantern to decorate—write your name, your hopes for the future, thoughts commemorating a lost loved one, whatever you want. At sunset, illuminate them with provided LED candles, and set them afloat. The event follows a “leave no trace” policy and promises that staff will clean up all the lanterns afterward. Registration from $35.99 in advance. waterlanternfestival.com

BUTTERFLY FLUTTERBY & FALL ROUNDUP October 16

GRAPEVINE BOTANICAL GARDENS AND NASH FARM

These two kid-friendly events occur simultaneously and are only a quarter-mile away from the other. So if the weather’s nice out, you could first join the garden’s morning butterfly parade honoring the migration of monarch butterflies (wear your costumes!) and then take the short walk alongside Ball Street’s paved sidewalk to the farm for hands-on activities and wagon rides. The farm event is $3 for 3 years and up; free admission for parade and butterfly release. 817/410-3185; grapevinetexasusa.com

SCHOOLHOUSE ROCK LIVE!

October 16

COPPELL ARTS CENTER

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Works by J.M.W. Turner (1775–1851), the English Romantic landscape artist known as the Painter of Light, debut inside Kimbell’s Piano Pavilion. Download the Kimbell app for the audio tour, and visit on Oct. 24 for a free screening of the 2014 biopic Mr. Turner. $18 for adults; $14 for children; free for children under 6; half-price on Tuesdays and after 5pm on Fridays. 817/332-8451; kimbellart.org

BELL FORT WORTH ALLIANCE AIR SHOW

October 23–24

FORT WORTH ALLIANCE AIRPORT

The U.S. Navy’s Blue Angels, whose reputation precedes them, headline this civilian air show, operating for drive-in viewing for a second year. There’s no general admission per person, but parking

MASTERCHEF LIVE!

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November 6

HISTORIC DOWNTOWN CARROLLTON

All the kids events are free at this family and music fest, and we mean all of them— the bungee trampolines and inflatables, the zip line, the giant slide and carnival games, the crafting. The face painting and balloon twisting booths shut down at 6pm, and rides and games at 7pm, but you’ll want to stay after dark if you’re fans of headlining band Blue October. FREE carrolltonfestival.com

POTTED POTTER

November 12–13

COPPELL ARTS CENTER

This is mischief (un)managed: A cast of two actors—both British—acting out scenes from all seven Harry Potter books in 70 minutes, playing 360 different characters, with a fire-breathing dragon and a Quidditch game to boot. Creators Dan and Jeff first came up with this touring parody show in 2005 while waiting in line for the midnight release of the sixth book. $29. 972/304-7047; coppellartscenter.org

DINOSAUR SAFARI

October 30

Opens November 13

After its inaugural event was postponed back in July, the world’s largest rubber duck is headed back to Fort Worth to launch the new nonprofit called the Kindness Duck Project. Don’t miss your chance to see the inflatable, 60-foot-tall mama duck and her 10-foot baby duck, Timmy—and support great causes. FREE kindnessduck.com

Welcome to the Jurassic jungle inside River Legacy’s Discovery Room. Its newest traveling exhibit, on loan from Omaha Children’s Museum, features animatronic dinosaurs including a T. rex, velociraptor and a triceratops. Kids can hop inside a kid-size safari Jeep, uncover realistic

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things to do equally worthy characters, like Forky from Toy Story 4. Tickets from $33 and required for age 2 and older. 972/912-1057; disneyonice.com

HOT WHEELS MONSTER TRUCK SHOW LIVE!

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November 13–14 DICKIES ARENA, FORT WORTH

This one’s for your kids who love to race their Hot Wheels cars across the living room floor. This touring monster truck exhibition debuts three new trucks, including 12-foot dino-inspired Mega Wrex, and opens up the Crash Zone Pre-Show Party so you can see the trucks up close and meet the drivers. Tickets start at $34. Crash Zone passes are $5 per person. 817/402-9801; hotwheelsmonstertruckslive.com

HALLOWEEN SPOOKTACULAR

October 16

BASS PERFORMANCE HALL, FORT WORTH

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There’s dressing up for the symphony and then there’s dressing up for a costume party at the symphony. Don your spookiest costumes (or cutest!) for this Fort Worth Symphony Orchestra concert designed just for littles, lasting about one hour. Come early to enjoy the kids’ activities and crafts in the lobby. Tickets from $12. 817/665-6000; fwsymphony.org

BASS PERFORMANCE HALL, FORT WORTH

Through October 31

November 16–21

The feline frenzy that is Andrew Lloyd Webber’s famous musical—inspired by the 1939 children’s book by T.S. Eliot—follows a tribe of junkyard cats as they gather for their annual Jellicle Ball, introduce themselves, and accept one outcast cat back into their inner circle. If you’ve never experienced it, you’re missing meowt. Tickets start at around $50. 817/212-4280; basshall.com

DISNEY ON ICE: LET’S CELEBRATE

November 24–28

ALLEN EVENT CENTER

Mickey and Minnie Mouse once again warm our hearts with their ice-skating spectacular featuring many of your kids’ favorite princes, princesses and other nonroyal but

PUMPKIN NIGHTS HOWELL FARM, ARLINGTON

Ten-foot jack-o’-lanterns, a 40-foot flying dragon, the world’s largest pumpkin guitar, a life-size pumpkin pirate ship—need we go on? Yes, we do! There’s also a wall of monstersize pumpkins, and more displays with more than 5,000 handcarved real and synthetic pumpkins at this special exhibit. Tickets from $14; free for children 3 and younger. Advance tickets are required. pumpkinnights.com/dallas

AUTUMN AT THE ARBORETUM: BUGTOPIA

Through October 31

DALLAS ARBORETUM

Insects—both real and floral—are taking over the arboretum through Halloween. Come see the bees, ants and more larger-than-life

➽ DISNEY ON ICE:

insect topiaries on display as part of the Pumpkin Village, and let the kids enjoy insect encounters each day of the week. Free with general admission: $17 adults; $12 children; free for children under 2. $3 additional for children’s adventure garden. 214/515-6615; dallasarboretum.org

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TRICK OR TREAT THE SQUARE

October 30

FRISCO SQUARE

Meet at Simpson Plaza—the public park space at Frisco Square—on the Saturday before Halloween for an afternoon of spooky family entertainment. There’ll be carnival games, inflatables, horse-pulled wagon rides around the center and, of course, people-watching, so be sure to wear your cutest, scariest or most elaborate costumes to score compliments and, hey, maybe even a few extra pieces of candy! FREE 214/872-1054; friscosquare.com

THANKSGIVING DALLAS YMCA TURKEY TROT

November 25

DALLAS CITY HALL

On Thanksgiving morning, join in this show of goodwill in support the YMCA of Metropolitan Dallas’ community health programs. The 1K has been paused for this year, but all ages can join the 5K or 8-mile runs for $37 and up. The $15 Tot Trot registration for kids 5 and younger includes their own racing bib and shirt, and all ages are welcome at the free family zone with bounce houses, face painting and photo ops with the giant turkey. 214/954-0500; thetrot.org

CHRISTMAS HOLIDAY AT THE ARBORETUM

Opens November 9

DALLAS ARBORETUM

When “The 12 Days of Christmas” aren’t enough, the arboretum gives you 53 days. This new season of exhibits and entertainment features the return of its glass-encased gazebos inspired by the “12 Days” holiday song, the Europeanstyle Christmas Village, the 50-foot-tall musical tree and lots more. Daytime

admission: $17 adults; $12 children; free for children under 2. Come on select evenings for 12 Days of Christmas at Night, with nonmember pricing starting at $15 for adults and $13 for children. 214/515-6615; dallasarboretum.org

Choose your seats online for your preferred view of the theater-in-the-round. $28 adults; $15 children. 817/284-1200; artisanct.com

THE TRAINS AT NORTHPARK

This performing arts theater welcomes people of all ages and with all types of noses to join the reindeer games in this holiday musical starring Rudolph, Santa and Mrs. Claus, and sidekicks Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, and Yukon Cornelius. Follow their adventures around the North Pole and then around the world. Tickets from $19. 817/332-2272; casamanana.org

Opens November 13

NORTHPARK CENTER, DALLAS

RUDOLPH THE REDNOSED REINDEER

Opens November 20

CASA MAÑANA, FORT WORTH

This 34-year tradition continues with its dual purpose: entertaining children with an elaborate, 1,600-foottrack model train exhibit and raising vital funds for the Ronald McDonald House of Dallas. Stop by this secondfloor exhibit on your next shopping trip to NorthPark. Tickets available on Nov. ENCHANT CHRISTMAS 1: $10 adults; $5 children; Opens November 26 free for children under 2. FAIR PARK, DALLAS $1 off at Tom Thumb Not seen in North Texas and Albertsons. since 2018, this Handpainted railcars holiday experialso for sale. ence is back for 214/631WHEN DO YOU more magical START LISTENING TO 7354; nights at the CHRISTMAS MUSIC? thetrainsatFair Park northpark.com 36% 64% Esplanade. after after Halloween Thanksgiving SCROOGE THE Join the search *according to @dfwchildmag's MUSICAL for Santa’s Instagram poll Opens missing gifts November 19 lost inside the ARTISAN CENTER Christmas Light THEATER, HURST Maze and slip What is the holiday season on rented blades for the ice without our annual lesson skating trail. Take note: This is from Ebenezer? Witness him no mere rink but a path that reach his ephiphany—that winds in and around a forest life is short and you should of trees lit with millions of be nice to people—in this twinkling lights. Tickets from musical version of Charles $20 for adults and from $19 Dickens’ A Christmas Carol, for children; free for under 2. presented by the Artisan’s 833/362-6445; Main Stage company. enchantchristmas.com

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fossils from the dig tables and climb on some of the dinosaurs. $10 adults; $7 children; free for 2 and younger. 817/860-6752; riverlegacy.org

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LADY BIRD JOHNSON WILDFLOWER CENTER | AUSTIN

Founded in 1982 by its namesake—the Texas native and former first lady “Lady Bird” Johnson—in the Texas capital city, the wildflower center now spans 284 acres and bursts with wildlife, native trees and plants. You’ll see the variety of fall-blooming flowers, like fall aster and prairie goldenrod, for yourself when you come to play in Fortlandia, a collection of custom forts designed by local architects, designers and artists and open to the public for imaginative play Oct. 4, 2021, through Jan. 30, 2022. The playhouse design from a group called the Masketeers was inspired by discarded masks—a recognizable symbol of the pandemic—which the group has reframed as a symbol of hope and environmental education. You’ll find six forts in the center’s Mollie Steves Zachry Texas Arboretum and a bonus fort along the Ann and Roy Butler Hike-and-Bike Trail at Lady Bird Lake. In addition to the Fortlandia exhibit, kids can play on Fort Build, the wildflower center’s year-round build-your-own-fort nature play area, and on select Saturdays this fall, join free drop-in activities to learn about trees and leaves. Whenever you visit, be sure to pack a picnic to eat al fresco, or grab a bite from the center’s on-site Wildflower Café. Admission is $12 for adults, $6 for children, and free for 4 and younger, and reservations open seven days in advance for daily admission from 9am–5pm. Also included with admission: access to Silvana, an immersive light maze on display for the first time in North America. Starting in December, both the Silvana and Fortlandia exhibits light up at night for the Luminations series. // 512/232-0100; wildflower.org/fortlandia ➽ ABOVE: This secret hideout “Connect” awaits at Fortlandia, the new exhibit now open at LADY BIRD JOHNSON WILDFLOWER CENTER in Austin. // RIGHT: A life-size Dinosaur Bob, one of dozens of STORYBOOK SCULPTURES on permanent display, towers over downtown Abilene.

Stop and smell the roses at these fall travel destinations in Texas and Oklahoma WORDS

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AHHH, OCTOBER. AS THE AIR TURNS COOLER and beckons us outdoors, we can’t help but follow. To make the most of your autumn, think of the new season as a fresh opportunity to explore the world beyond your usual haunts—and beyond Dallas-Fort Worth. Fall head over heels for these underrated travel destinations in Texas and Oklahoma, offering special family events, exhibits and entirely new attractions ripe for exploring this October and November. Plus, you’ll find each of these stops within a 3-hour drive from North Texas, so you can discover the natural beauty, cultural history and imaginative experiences all in one weekend. 70

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NATIONAL CENTER FOR CHILDREN’S ILLUSTRATED LITERATURE | ABILENE

Plenty of happily-ever-afters begin in small towns, but more so than usual in Abilene, the official Storybook Capital of America and home to the National Center for Children’s Illustrated Literature (NCCIL). The museum,

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their imagination Celebrate and grow their inner inventor this Fall at Spark!Lab.

What is Spark!Lab? This unique space offers children and their families an opportunity to create, innovate and problem solve, empowering kids to develop the skills and confidence they need for success today and in the future.

➽ ABOVE: Join in the social dancing, stickball games and more demonstrations at the CHOCTAW CULTURAL CENTER’s Living Village.

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dedicated solely to the artwork Hunt, and uploading selfies of of children’s picture book illusyour findings for points. trators, debuts its latest exhibit Visit on Oct. 23 for From Golden Legacy: 75 Years of Castles to Clouds, a Saturday Original Art from Golden Books evening event featuring a walkon Oct. 14. through dragon experience at Remember those picture T&P Depot, a prince-princess books with the golden foil on procession down Cypress the spine? Visit the literature Street (costumes encouraged), center, open Tuesday through the unveiling of a new kinetic Saturday, to discover more sculpture and a preview of a 3D beautifully illustrated stories storybook mural called Flight than you remember reading as a of the Dragon. The night wraps child. Family Fun Art Saturdays up with an outdoor screening of are on hiatus during the How to Train Your Dragon in the COVID-19 pandemic, so check Adamson-Spalding Storybook back before your visit to see Garden. // 325/673-4586; nccil. whether they’ve resumed. org. 325/677-1161; AMOUS ROS Even more stoabilenecac.org ’S F ES R E rybook characters YL await your arrival outside the museum in the form of bronze sculpEAST tures on display TEXAS ROSE all around town. FESTIVAL | Dr. Seuss characTYLER ters the Lorax, Yertle Your travels the Turtle, and Sam I east of Dallas-Fort Am from Green Eggs and Worth may typically Ham—they’re at Everman Park in halt in Canton (the flea market downtown. Dinosaur Bob? You’ll is legendary), but do yourself a find him towering over Cedar favor by traveling deeper into Street staring eye to eye with an the Piney Woods to Tyler— orange Volkswagen Beetle. where during the 88th annual You can find every one of Texas Rose Festival Oct. 14–17, the city’s collection of public you can witness the colorful storybook sculptures—the largchanging of the fall foliage est of its kind in America, with and roses in bloom. (East new sculptures added each Texas roses peak in two seayear—by visiting the online sons: October and April.) The adventure guide. Turn your weekend-long festival features sculpture-hunting into a friendevents, like the Rose Queen’s ly competition by downloading tea party, in and around the the GooseChase app, selecting Tyler Rose Garden, the nation’s Storybook Sculpture Scavenger largest rose garden with more

than more than 35,000 rose bushes and 500 varieties of roses. An elaborate pageantry of flowerthemed costumes honor the town’s history in the rose-growing industry. Don’t miss the Rose Parade on Saturday, Oct. 16, to see the gowns custom-designed by Jacob A. Climer, the Dallas-native costume designer for opera and theater who now lives in New York. The custom-made gowns for each lady of the festival’s royal court represents a different flower: calla lilies, tulips, hydrangea and so on. Stop by the Tyler Rose Museum to see even more gorgeous flower-covered dresses and headpieces from festivals dating back to 1933. For more nostalgia-meets-familyentertainment, don’t miss the outdoor movie screening of Suspicion, a classic black-and-white film from 1941 starring Cary Grant, and the arts and crafts fair with pony rides and bounce houses in the kids zone, held at a city park with a newly renovated playground—and plenty of roses. // 903/593-6905; visittyler.com

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CHOCTAW CULTURAL CENTER | CALERA, OK

To truly honor Native American Heritage Month as a family this November, you can start by honoring the 14,000-year legacy of the Chahta people with a visit to the Choctaw Cultural Center. Choctaw Nation of Oklahoma’s brand new cultural center debuted in July 2021 in Calera, Oklahoma, a little more than an hour drive north of Dallas, with several interactive attractions and exhibits—each created from the Choctaw perspective— that make visit well worth the miles. Discover a replica of an ancient spiritual mound at the center’s outdoor Living Village, along with traditional dancing and stickball game demonstrations on the field. A giant turtle (Luksi) welcomes families to the Luksi Activity Center, a children’s activity area with traditional Choctaw houses and a miniature forest to explore. The temporary exhibit now on view, Long Ago: Stories of the Choctaw People, delves deeper into the tribe’s history via artistry of oral storytelling and allows you to interact with stories themselves. With a teaching kitchen for learning how to make traditional meals—and the Champuli Café with kid-friendly meal options for when they get hungry— there’s more than enough to fill a day before returning home. Visit the cultural center during open hours Wednesday through Sunday for the regular admission price of $12 for adults, $6 for children, and free for 3 and younger. // 833/7089582; choctawculturalcenter.com DFWCHILD | october/november 2021

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➽ Italian installation artist Massimiliano Siccardi created the IMMERSIVE VAN GOGH exhibition, on view in Dallas, from more than 400 high-resolution photographs of 40 paintings.

VAN GOGH GALORE 3 Ways to Experience the Artist’s Works WORDS ELIZABETH SMITH

“The Starry Night,” “Sunflowers,” “Café Terrace at Night”— There’s no confusing these works as created by any other except Dutch artist Vincent Willem van Gogh (1853–1890), who posthumously earned the world’s recognition as one of the greatest painters. But if you’ve only ever seen Van Gogh’s Post-Impressionist masterpieces on wall posters or screen-printed hand towels, then for the love of all that’s good and wholly artistic, do your family a favor by treating them to one of three local exhibitions—each in varying fashion. An exhibit opening this month in one of Dallas’ prestigious art museums is a bona fide exhibition of priceless paintings, created by the artist during the last year of his life. The other two world-touring installations present Van Gogh’s works in a breathtaking way never seen before in Texas: using 21st-century technology to animate and project his paintings onto walls all around—inside a warehouse-style setting. These latter two are strikingly similar in their style and presentation, so read on to understand what makes each unique.

IMMERSIVE VAN GOGH

LIGHTHOUSE DALLAS Now extended through Nov. 28

844/307-4644; dallasvangogh.com WHY GOGH? Multisensory experience of still-art-turned-animated, plus yoga classes Housed inside the former Masonic Temple, this much-hyped immersive exhibit features elements designed by Broadway set designer David Korins (Hamilton, Dear Evan Hansen). The projections vary by room (three total) with the largest being the second room, where circles projected onto the floor encourage social distancing. The moving images—at times fragmented as they reflect onto various beams and surfaces—make for a feast for the senses. Along with the moving images splashed across the walls and floors, there is choreographed music ranging from orchestral music by Handel to Radiohead’s Thom Yorke. For another level of meditation, sign up for half-hour yoga classes on weekend mornings before the exhibit opens. The $54 fee includes 25 minutes after the class to enjoy the exhibit. KID-FRIENDLY: Kids 5 and younger are free and don’t require tickets. If your children are somewhat sensitive to sounds, considering bringing ear protection so they can more closely focus on the art.

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VAN GOGH: THE IMMERSIVE EXPERIENCE

are $54.50 for adults and $34.90 for children, with priority access to VR experiences. VAN GOGH AND THE OLIVE GROVES

DALLAS MUSEUM OF ART Oct. 17–Feb. 6

214/922-1200; dma.org/vangogh WHY GOGH? Authentic masterpieces rarely on view—think “slow art” Despite the fanciful presentations of the Through Nov. 28 two “immersive” exhibits, nothing replaces vangoghexpo.com; feverup.com standing in the presence of Van Gogh’s actual WHY GOGH? Virtual reality headsets masterpieces. In this traditional museum setand a coloring room for kids ting without the hustle and bustle, patrons Not to be upstaged, this Arlington can more quietly contemplate his life story exhibit of light and sound not only bathes and techniques in this series of 15 works on the walls with floor-to-ceiling digital projeca single subject and track how his technique tions but varies the style by area. In a blend slightly shifts with each canvas. that more closely mimics a museum-style Co-organized by the Van exhibit, with framed images, Gogh Museum in Amsterdam, separate galleries chronicle this groundbreaking exhibiVan Gogh’s techniques and his tion at the Dallas Museum of artistic influences. Interactives Art is the very first exhibiand vignettes give even more tion dedicated to Van Gogh’s context to what was happenimportant olive grove series, ing in the artist’s life. which the artist created during KID-FRIENDLY: As if this his 6-month stay as a selfisn’t immersive enough, put admitted patient at the asylum on a set of virtual reality of Saint-Rémy-de-Provence goggles to walk through Arles, in 1889. France, the city that inspired ➽ Vincent van Gogh, A Walk at KID-FRIENDLY: The DMA eight of Van Gogh’s iconic Twilight, 1889–1890, oil on canvas. On view at the DALLAS MUSEUM offers take-home art kits works. During an 11-minute OF ART throughout the exhibition, a journey via the VR headset, Van Gogh coloring book available at the visiyou’ll travel through eight works and their tor services desk, and kid-focused workshops source of inspiration in “A Day in the Life of in the C3 studio. Educators teach a class for the Artist in Arles, France.” toddlers on Nov. 12, 16 and 19 and for older The end of the exhibition leads you to kids ages 6–12 on Dec. 11, so book your resthe creative workshop for children, where ervations now. Both classes are $8, or $5 for spacious tables and provided crayons DMA members. encourage kids to channel all the inspiration TICKETS: To access tickets for this special they’ve just absorbed into coloring sheets exhibit, visitors must first reserve free genand then project their pages onto the wall eral admission online for a selected date and using a digital projector. then add on a matching exhibition ticket: TICKETS: Admission starts at $36 for adults $20 Tuesdays–Thursdays and $24 Fridays– and $19.90 for children; free for children Sundays; free for children 11 and younger. under 4. Family passes available. VIP tickets ILIES

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situations where it is ok to scream, cry, pout, be frustrated or happy (For example scream- someone scared you, cry- your body is injured or someone said something unkind, frustrated- can’t open a box, etc.)

TICKETS: Adult prices from $39, $29 for children; free for 5 and younger. $99 for VIP tickets include a branded cushion to sit on during the exhibit and to keep.

(formerly Arlington’s Globe Life Park) CHOCTAW STADIUM

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