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Edna Pace Huey Inspires Others to Let Nothing Hold Them Back Page 10 Photo by Zachary Dailey

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In This Issue Our feature this month is Edna Pace Huey. Although Edna was born without her left hand, she never let that stop her from accomplishing her goals, and she has accomplished much over the last 97 years – graduating college (when most women didn't even go to college, back in the day), earning a master’s degree, being a schoolteacher for almost 40 years and a wife and mother of two sons. Learn more about Edna and how she's inspired others to let nothing hold them back from their Chelsie meets her mom, my beautiful daughter-in-law, goals on page 10. Jordan, for the first time. Photo by Zachary Dailey Have you ever lost out on a promotion to a less experienced coworker? Have you encountered sexism in the workplace? I know I've experienced both when I worked for a corporation. On page 21, we share some surprising reasons why the glass ceiling still exists and ways you can smash through it once and for all. Bremen High School junior Mary House is a leader on and off the soccer field. Not only does she excel as a soccer player, she also plays basketball and has a heavy school schedule with AP classes. As a sophomore, Mary scored 44 goals for Bremen last season for a new school record, and was honored with the title of Class AA Player of the Year in Georgia. Now, she has her sights set on winning the state championship this season. On page 30, Corey Cusick tells us more about Mary and how she plans to help her team capture the state title. Is your romantic relationship dysfunctional? What about relationships with family or friends? On page 42, Sandra Bolan shares how you can ditch the dysfunction and move on to bigger and better things. Some exciting things happened for a few of our friends last month! Ben Chambers accepted a position as communications specialist for the Carroll County School System. Ben brings 20 years of experience to his new position. I know the County is thrilled to have him as a part of their communications team! Jay Gill received the prestigious Volunteer of the Year Award at the Carroll County Chamber of Commerce Annual Gala. This honor, named after Jay’s dad, Jim Gill, recognizes an individual who demonstrates a commitment to community service and a deep level of engagement and passion for volunteerism. Jay is truly a community servant, and this award is well-deserved. Ben and Jay have been champions for West Georgia Woman magazine since the very beginning, and we will always be grateful for their support. Learn more about their accomplishments on page 40. My friends Michael and Andrea Stone with Milestone Investment Management, LLC, have been steadfast supporters of the University of West Georgia for years – not to mention multiple other charitable organizations – and wonderful supporters of West Georgia Woman! Their most recent act of giving was through naming the Michael and Andrea Stone Student Innovations Lounge at the Richards College of Business. Learn more about the Stones' generous gift on page 36. There's much more inside! See you in April! . Take care,

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Breaking Barriers Edna Pace Huey Inspires Others to Let Nothing Hold Them Back

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rowing up as a young girl in Jackson County, Ga., Edna Pace Huey wasn’t like other children her age. And it’s not because she was born with her left arm cut off at the elbow. What set Edna apart was much more than her physical appearance. It was her mindset that there was nothing she couldn’t do. As the youngest of 11 siblings, she had her fair share of chores to do around the house. “I had to do chores just like all the rest of my siblings,” she recalls. “I was able to do everything that my other siblings did. When it was time to do the chores, I had to do them.” And she never complained about it. She refused to let what others saw as a disability prevent her from doing what her parents told her to do. This attitude followed her into adulthood when she decided that it also wouldn’t prevent her from doing what she wanted to do. From graduating high school to earning a master’s degree, her can-do attitude and drive to succeed never failed to impress those around her. Even after spending nearly 40 years as a teacher in Bowdon and Mt. Zion, she continues to be an inspiration. Edna is now 97 years old, and when she looks back at her life, she remembers how normal it all was – despite her “disability.”

Laying the Foundation Edna was born on Aug. 8, 1924. She grew up in Center, a rural community between Athens and Commerce in north Georgia. As a child, Edna’s mother, Ida Collins Pace, never gave her a free pass on chores. Her father, John Pace, also encouraged her to be independent. Even though she was born without her left hand, her parents and siblings saw her as a whole person. And this perception followed her when she started school. She never encountered schoolyard bullies and doesn’t remember anyone teasing her. “I was just accepted,” she recalls. She graduated from Benton High School in 1941 and enrolled in Young Harris College, a two-year college, that same year. She started college the same day the United States declared war on Japan after the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor on Dec. 7, 1941. She remembers being “scared to death” because she had two brothers in their 20s and an 18-year-old nephew who were drafted in World War II.

“One brother (Earl) joined the Air Force, and the other one (Clayton) joined the Navy, and my nephew (Frank Jr.) joined the Marines,” she recalls. It was a difficult time for Edna, who couldn’t see her brothers and nephew before they left because she was at Young Harris. It was especially difficult to concentrate while in class or doing her assignments. “It wasn’t easy,” she remembers. As the days and months passed, coping with the fact that she had family overseas risking their lives for others didn’t get any easier. But she was able to get through it. “It was months before they were able to come home,” she says. “After they were able to come home, I was very happy.” After graduating from Young Harris, she got a scholarship to attend West Georgia College, now the University of West Georgia (UWG), in Carrollton. The scholarship was for students who wanted to become teachers. “I always thought I’d like to be a teacher,” she says. So, she hopped on a bus to Bowdon, suitcase in hand, to follow her dream. She didn’t know where she would live, but she knew God had a plan for her, and everything just fell into place. Someone told her about a boarding house where she could get a room. That opportunity eventually led to another, and she was able to secure a job doing laundry for students. While in college, she met her husband, Johnnie

Left, Edna as a young toddler. In spite of being born without her left hand, both her parents encouraged her to be independent. Right, her mother, Ida, never gave her a free pass on household chores. Edna had to do her share, along with the others.

Putting Down Roots

When Edna, left, was enrolled in West Georgia College’s thirdyear program for teachers, she and Johnnie, right, lived on different floors in the same house that was split into apartments. It was a holiday gift exchange that brought them together. Johnnie drew Edna’s name and bought her a box of chocolatecovered cherries. Later, they had their first date at a drive-in restaurant. She and Johnnie were married on April 2, 1948 – four years after she graduated from West Georgia College.

Buiel Huey, who was born and raised in Ranburne, Ala. Johnnie had been living and working in Carroll and Haralson counties when Edna came to Carrollton to complete West Georgia College’s thirdyear program for teachers. At the time, they lived on different floors in the same house that was split into apartments. It was a holiday gift exchange that brought them together. Johnnie drew Edna’s name and bought her a box of chocolate-covered cherries. Edna remembers being “impressed with him” after receiving her gift. Johnnie later asked her out on a date, which she accepted. They ended up going to a drive-in restaurant in Carrollton. As the two got to know each other, they grew closer, and Johnnie never hesitated to stand up to anyone who doubted her abilities. “If anybody said anything about me being handicapped, he would immediately say, ‘She is not handicapped. She does anything that anybody else can do,’” she shares. Edna graduated from West Georgia College in 1944 with a bachelor’s degree in education. After graduation, she served on the alumni association board of directors from 1944 to 1958. Four years after she graduated, she and Johnnie were married on April 2, 1948.

Edna’s first teaching job sent her to Bowdon, where she and Johnnie built a ranch-style home. They’ve lived there ever since. Life in Bowdon was fulfilling for the Hueys. Edna has been Methodist all her life, so it was only natural that she and Johnnie became members of Bowdon First United Methodist Church. While Edna taught students in the local school system, Johnnie, a part-time cattle farmer, worked in the apparel industry. He worked for several companies, including Bremen-Bowdon Investment Company, Richmond Brothers and Sewell Manufacturing Company. Edna’s first teaching job was at J. Smithfield Elementary School in Bowdon, where she taught first through seventh grade. She also taught at Bowdon Middle School, as well as Bowdon and Mt. Zion elementary schools. While she taught a variety of subjects, her favorite was English. “I loved children, and I enjoyed being with them,” she recalls. And her students loved her. Even today, she often meets former students when she’s out in the

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Edna and Johnnie were big supporters of UWG, helping organize Bowdon-focused events for the university's annual fundraising drive, "A Day", and establishing two endowed scholarships with gifts of $100,000 each. Edna and Johnnie's service and support of UWG earned Edna the Thelma Harman Turner Alumni Loyalty Award and Johnnie honorary alumnus status.

Over the course of their lives, Edna and Johnnie were also philanthropists. They became big supporters of UWG, having helped organize Bowdon-focused events for the university’s annual fundraising drive, “A Day to Give West” (A Day). While he wasn’t a graduate of UWG, Johnnie’s service and support of the university earned him honorary alumnus status. The Hueys established the Johnnie B. and Edna P. Huey Endowed Scholarship with a gift of $100,000. It is awarded to a junior or senior undergraduate or graduate student at UWG with a 3.0 GPA or higher. Preference is given to graduate students, and the student must be from Bowdon or Ranburne, Ala.

After their son Chuck passed away on June 22, 2018, Johnnie and Edna also established the Charles D. Huey Memorial Endowed Scholarship with a gift of $100,000. Since Chuck worked for the U.S. Postal Service (USPS), they decided that the scholarship recipient must be a USPS employee or the child or grandchild of an employee. And because Chuck loved the families who lived along his postal route and considered them as members of his extended family, special preference is given to students who live on Route 15 in Carroll County. Before starting his career at USPS, Chuck worked at Bremen-Bowdon Investment and Lamar Manufacturing. He began working with USPS in 1995 and worked there until his death. Chuck received several awards over the years, including one for “Outstanding Performance.” The Society to Appreciate Mail Persons (STAMP) also named him a “Distinguished Mail Person.” “He was a sweetheart,” Edna recalls. “He lived just a house between us, and he was always jolly.” He was also a cattle farmer, a job he shared with his father, and he had a large garden, growing fruits and vegetables he cooked and canned. “He enjoyed canning,” Edna remembers. “He had a cabinet full of fruits and vegetables.” After establishing scholarships at UWG, she also wanted to establish one at Young Harris. “I kept telling Johnnie that I felt like I needed to

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establish a scholarship at Young Harris because I was able to get a scholarship there when I first went to college,” she says. So they established a scholarship in their name at Young Harris with a gift of $50,000. The scholarship helps support future education majors. Edna describes herself as fortunate and blessed to have received the assistance she did when she attended Young Harris and West Georgia College. That’s why she and her husband wanted to share that blessing and pass on their good fortune to the next generation of students. Inspired by his parents’ contributions, Michael and his wife established the J. Michael and Katherine D. Huey Endowed Scholarship at UWG with a gift of $100,000. The scholarship helps support future music majors. Michael, a drummer and music producer, Mike, left, and Chuck, right with their parents, Edna and Johnnie. After and his wife, Katy, live in California. They Chuck passed away on June 22, 2018, Johnnie and Edna established own a publishing, production and licensing the Charles D. Huey Memorial Endowed Scholarship at UWG with a gift of $100,000. Since Chuck worked for the U.S. Postal Service (USPS), they company named HueyTunes. decided the scholarship recipient must be a USPS employee or the child Michael began playing trumpet in his high or grandchild of an employee, with special preference given to students school band and has accomplished a lot since who live on Chuck's former postal route – Route 15 in Carroll County. then, including earning 18 gold and platinum Inspired by his parents’ contributions, Mike and his wife established the top 10 awards. He’s also created soundtracks J. Michael and Katherine D. Huey Endowed Scholarship at UWG with a for television shows and movies like Miami gift of $100,000. The scholarship helps support future music majors.

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Before you start blaming the glass ceiling all on sexism, a 2018 study from the University of Chicago Booth School of Business found that women may be contributing to the problem. Chicago Booth Professor Marianne Bertrand found that while there is a plethora of anecdotal evidence that gender discrimination has kept many women from advancing in the workplace, there are additional factors beyond gender discrimination that are holding women back from reaching their full potential. The study results showed there were three main reasons why the glass ceiling persists in excluding women from upper-level, higher-paid positions. 1. The demands of housework, childcare

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The Grass is Greener Where You Water It

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Learning to be content with what you have

great career, accolades, fancy cars, big homes and lots of bling – TV, movies and social media have us believing these things make us happy. Ask anyone who “has it all” if they’re happy, and the answer might be surprising – many, in fact, are miserable. Sure, money buys happiness – for a while – but in the long-term, people who are truly happy and content with their lives have figured out who they are without all the stuff, and have a purpose in life beyond accumulating things. Humans are wired to constantly strive for more, but in doing so, people often ignore what surrounds them in the here and now. So they seek more, not realizing how much they already have. The “grass is greener syndrome” is the thought process that we are always missing out on something better. Instead of embracing the security, satisfaction and stability of our current situation, we often feel there is more, or something so much better out there, and anything less than perfection is unacceptable. Whether it’s our home, relationships, career or physical possessions, there is a consistent lack of commitment, because we're hyper-focused on seeking something better. Many of us place our personal satisfaction – or dissatisfaction – with ourselves on people or things on the outside of us, instead of looking within. The

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Be grateful. Make a list of all you have – family, friends, home, car, job – everything for which you are grateful. Then think about people, some who may even be part of your inner circle, who can only dream of obtaining a fraction of what you have. Doing this helps you appreciate your life as it is now. When you’re feeling miserable, go back and look at your list to remind yourself of the many blessings you have. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else. Using someone else's success as a baseline for your own happiness will never bring you contentment. Don't waste your time envying what others have. Instead, celebrate their success and be truly happy for them, knowing that your own success is just around the corner, or may already be right in front of you. Focus on what went well. At the end of each day, write down what went well. Similar to a gratitude list, it focuses on the positive and helps you realize how good you truly have it, even if you think otherwise. When things go sideways, don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, figure out how it went awry, learn from it and move on, with the goal of not repeating the same mistake twice. Align your goals and actions with your values. Don’t let people turn you into someone you’re not, and don’t compromise your values for others. Your values are what define you. Appreciate and utilize what you already have. Hang out with friends, walk the dog or go to the park with the kids. This also helps you learn to live in the moment and not focus on the past or future. Accept what you can’t change. Be open and willing to accept things in your life as they are, right now. Don’t waste mental and emotional energy on things that are out of your control. You will never achieve complete happiness with an abundance of stuff. You can create a life of less – and still have more. Before buying anything, stop and think, "Do I need it, or do I want it?" Most things people buy are wants, so before clicking “add to cart,” leave it for 24 hours and contemplate how having it will improve your life. If you want to truly be happy, don’t look for it outside yourself, but within. Remember this, and you'll soon realize that the grass is always greener – not on the other side – but right in your own backyard. WGW

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" Ingredients 1 chicken breast 1 teaspoon minced garlic 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil, divided 1 lemon, juiced 1 orange, juiced 8 cups spring salad mix 1 avocado, sliced or diced 1 shallot, minced 4 ounces sliced almonds, toasted Kosher salt Freshly ground black pepper

Preparation In a medium bowl, combine garlic, 1/8 cup olive oil, juice of half lemon, juice of half orange, salt and pepper.

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Junior forward a scoring machine for Lady Blue Devils

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from basketball practice to the soccer field or from alk about bringing down the House. soccer practice to a basketball game. Because that is exactly what one Bremen It’s something Bremen head soccer coach Jason High School girls’ soccer standout did during Fields simply takes in stride, understanding that his her sophomore campaign for the Lady Blue Devils star forward doesn’t miss a beat despite her busy last spring, culminating with the program’s first-ever schedule, as she is also a star in the classroom at trip to the Class AA state championship. Bremen High. Lady Blue Devil scoring machine Mary House “She’s a different breed. A really good athlete. ripped off a single-season, school-record 44 goals She’s good at every sport that she plays. But soccer en route to Class AA Player of the Year accolades in is her sport,” Fields says. the state of Georgia, and now “She’s got a couple of Division the upperclassman is back for up keep to got We’ve I schools looking at her and a even more in 2022 as Bremen the hard work to reach it couple of local schools like West sets its sights on sealing the deal by capturing the state Georgia and the ones around us again. I think if we put in are really interested and trying crown this spring. each trust and work the to pull her in.” “We’ve got to keep up the other, we could be at that As the goals continue to hard work to reach it again," find the back of the net, Fields Mary says. "I think if we put in same position again and marvels at Mary’s ability to finish the work and trust each other, hopefully win it all. off shots – in quite creative we could be at that same fashion, at times – noting how it position again and hopefully truly is a thing of beauty. win it all." “She’s really comfortable and composed on the Mary was actually pulling double-duty at the start ball. She’s just a natural goal-scorer. She can shoot of soccer season through January and February. As and turn really quick. She gets on the end of balls in a member of the Lady Blue Devil basketball squad, there were days where she would literally go straight the box that most girls wouldn’t even attempt to try

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to hit or finish,” he says. Although she loves all aspects of soccer, Mary says she’s always had a knack for scoring. She hopes to eclipse the 100goal mark for her career by the time she graduates from Bremen. “I think I’m pretty creative," she says. "I’m pretty good on the ball. I see the field well. I just try to make the most of my opportunities and give my teammates the best chances they can get. “But I love scoring. It’s pretty awesome. Just to put your team on your back and have that feeling is pretty great.” Fields describes Mary as a quiet leader on and off the field, but her game speaks for itself. “I think she’ll probably end up with close to 40 or 50 goals this year. She’ll be our top goal-scorer,” he says. “She’s really just up by herself up top. We play with three central-attacking midfielders behind her, but we depend on her to hold up play and allow our midfield to get involved. But she can pretty much get behind any defense.” When it comes to juggling multiple sports at the same time on top of her

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“I want to get back to the state championship, and, obviously, try to win it. But just getting better every game and working as a family is part of the process of getting there. I believe we can do it.”

school work – she’s also taking AP classes – it’s a matter of having the same mentality in all aspects of her life that she brings to the soccer field day-in and day-out. “It’s pretty tough, I’m not going to lie. But it’s fun being with your friends in both sports,” she explains. “Basketball is faster than soccer, but soccer has always been my favorite ever since I was a little kid.” As the reigning Class AA Player of the Year, Mary doesn’t feel any additional pressure with more of a target on her and her team’s back this season. “I did not expect that to come at all,” Mary says of the award. “I’m just super blessed in my abilities and super grateful for everything.” Mary isn’t sure where she wants to play at the next level just yet, although she is excited to have the opportunity once her Bremen career is in the rearview mirror. She said she isn’t sure what she wants to major in, so that will likely factor in the ultimate decision. But one thing Mary is certain of – she wants to bring a state title back to Bremen before all is said and done. “Get back to the state championship, and, obviously, try to win it,” she says. “But just getting better every game and working as a family is part of the process of getting there. "I believe we can do it.” WGW

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Innovation Exchange: Michael and Andrea Stone Announce Gift to Name Student Lounge By Julie Lineback

ichael and Andrea Stone witnessed firsthand the impact that philanthropic giving can make in the lives of students. As longtime supporters and friends of the University of West Georgia, they are known for their commitment to creativity and innovation by enhancing the overall student experience. February 14, community members gathered at Roy Richards Sr. Hall, new home to UWG’s Richards College of Business, to celebrate the couple’s most recent endeavor: naming the Michael and Andrea Stone Student Innovations Lounge. “As part of our institutional strategic plan, we focus on fostering a sense of belonging and connectedness for all stakeholders, particularly our students,” says Dr. Meredith Brunen, vice president of University Advancement, during her remarks. “This unique, hospitable space aligns well with that priority, enabling students to build relationships and engage with each other in a stylish, comfortable lounge.”

Designed as a space to foster student creativity and innovation, the naming will activate an environment where students congregate to focus, vision, plan, create dialogue, build relationships and engage with the community. Michael recalls the moment he and Andrea saw the lounge during a tour of Richards Hall at the new building’s ribbon-cutting ceremony last October. “We realized it was an opportunity for us to become more involved with the business school students in a unique fashion,” he explains. “It felt like a perfect fit for us based on our collective backgrounds.” Andrea graduated from then – West Georgia College in 1978 with a degree in fine arts and taught elementary school for 25 years. Michael – who received honorary alumnus status from UWG in 2017 – has worked in the financial services industry for more than 50 years and is the CEO and founder of Milestone Investment Management. “At Milestone, we have a strong culture of

innovation and independence, which, combined with our deep understanding of the community we serve, enables us to bring great ideas to life,” he continues. One such example would be the Michael and Andrea Stone Visiting Artist Series, founded in 2014, and has since hosted critically acclaimed artists and published novelists and poets. In 2018, the couple committed to a five-year sponsorship of the UWG Marching Band, providing scholarship incentives to retain upper-level band members. They also have co-sponsored the UWG School of the Arts’ the Other Night School and the Richards College’s annual Economic Forecast Breakfast. “We are in the midst of elevating and advancing

UWG to ensure we meet the needs of students, industry and the communities we serve in ways that make sense in the 21st century,” Brunen says. “It would not be possible for us to advance the university as rapidly and intentionally without support from alumni and friends like the Stones.” Dr. Christopher Johnson, dean of the Richards College of Business, said such support is critical to advancing the business college’s mission to equip students with the knowledge, skills and abilities necessary to succeed in life. “The enhanced programming supported by the Stones’ generous gift will further activate Richards Hall to be a hub for students and the business community that promotes innovation, entrepreneurship and cross-discipline collaboration,” he says. The new opportunity, according to Michael, enables him and Andrea to connect with UWG in a bold, new way. “We understand the value of doing something for a purpose,” he concludes. “There are advantages to committing deeply to our passion and being thoughtful and constantly striving for excellence. We believe there is a bond connecting us to UWG that’s built on collaboration, shared experiences and a shared mission. This is not paying back; this is giving.” For more information about how you can make an impact by supporting UWG, Michael Stone, founder and CEO of Milestone Investment Management, LLC. and his wife, please visit UWG’s Give West Andrea, are longtime supporters and friends of the University of West Georgia. Learn more page. WGW about Michael and Andrea at www.milestoneinvestmentsllc.com, or call 770.830.0063.

Local Happenings

West Georgia Mental Health Professionals Wellness Meetup Group

This group meets the last Saturday of every month in Douglasville or Austell. For more information, contact Cheryl at theheartmatters@gmail.com or 678.754.5840. Learn more at www.heartmatterswellness.com.

Hope For The Journey This group meets the third Thursday of each month at 6:30 p.m. in the board room at the Tracy Stallings Community Center at 118 South White St. in Carrollton. These events are free to breast cancer survivors or those currently battling breast cancer. Learn more at www.hopeforthejourneywestga.org, email execdirector@hopeforthejourneywestga.org or call 770.214.1491.

Rare Pearls Mentoring and Leadership Program Rare Pearls mission is to enrich and empower the

lives of young girls and women. This group meets the third Saturday of each month at Heritage Baptist Church in Douglasville, from 2:30 to 4:30 p.m. This program is open to all girls ages 7 to 17. For more information, call 770.947.8210, email rarepearls2015@gmail.com or visit the website at www.rarepearlsmentoringandleadership.org.

Nursing From The Heart Breastfeeding Support Group This group meets the third Monday of each month from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. at 500 Old Bremen Road in Carrollton. These events are free to pregnant women and moms looking for breastfeeding support. Free weight checks for your baby will be available. Come and share your breastfeeding journey with us. Please check our website for meeting and event updates at www.nursingfromtheheart.com.

Gertrude's House Breast Cancer Support Group This group meets the third Thursday of each month at 7 p.m. at Lithia Springs Family Chiropractic

at 1758 Lee Rd. in Lithia Springs. This group is open to all survivors, caregivers, supporters, friends, family and those fighting breast cancer. Visit their Facebook page @GertrudesHouse or email them at GertrudesHouse@yahoo.com.

Domestic Violence Support Group There is Hope is a support group for women survivors who have dealt with, or are currently dealing with, domestic violence. This is a private group where women survivors come together and share their personal stories of experience, strength and hope. The group meets the first Thursday of each month from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. at a private location. A ZOOM option is available. There will be guidance for help and resources available as needed. At times there will also be guest speakers. Contact hopefulone807@gmail.com for more information and to obtain the privacy contract with the physical address or ZOOM meeting ID and passcode.

Survivors of Suicide Loss Support Groups Has your life been impacted by the loss of a friend or loved one to suicide? You are not alone. These groups offer peer support for anyone who has been affected by suicide loss. There is no cost to attend. Group meetings in Carrollton are the third Tuesday of each month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at 306A Bradley Street. For more information, contact Ivey Rollins at iveyrollins@gmail.com or call 470.729.0909. Group meetings in Douglasville are the second Tuesday of each month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the First United Methodist Church at 6167 Priestley Mill Rd., Room 226. For more information, contact Terri Johnson at chose2live@aol.com or 770.765.2181. Group meetings in Newnan are the second Monday of each month at 7 p.m. at Crossroads Church, 2564 Hwy 154. For more information, contact Lynn Bradley at 770.301.4890 or email nbll.bradley170@gmail.com, or contact Nancy Bradley at 770.251.6216.

Carroll EMC Donates Bucket Truck for Linemen Training In support of West Georgia Technical College’s (WGTC) newly established Apprentice Lineman Program, Carroll Electric Membership Cooperative (EMC) recently donated a fleet bucket truck to be used for the training of up-and-coming electrical linemen. At one time, individuals interested in linework had to travel outside of the West Georgia area for a certified training program. Now, there is one right down the road. WGTC’s four-week, non-credit course at its Murphy Campus provides students with the necessary skills for an entry-level position in the electric utility industry. The technical school designed the course based off expert input from neighboring electric utilities including Carroll and Coweta-Fayette EMCs as well as GreyStone, Diverse and Georgia Power who saw the need for a local lineman training program. Course instructor, Scott Teal, is a recent retiree of Carroll EMC and teaches those enrolled in the program electrical safety, construction, pole climbing and beginning in the next cohort, bucket truck operation. “Carroll EMC has proven to be one of our most steadfast partners for many years,” said WGTC President, Julie Post. “We are deeply grateful for their continued support with the donation of this bucket truck for our electrical lineman program. It’s through partnerships like this one that WGTC is able to provide pathways for our students to be successful.” Although pole climbing is a required skill to be able to perform, a bucket truck often allows for a safer and much easier way to work on powerlines. Students will learn the features of the truck and how to safely operate the bucket and its controls as well as how to use outriggers. They will also practice simulated bucket truck rescues. Prior to enrollment,

In support of West Georgia Technical College’s (WGTC) newly established Apprentice Lineman Program, Carroll Electric Membership Cooperative (EMC) recently donated a fleet bucket truck to be used for the training of up-and-coming electrical linemen.

students must earn their CDL license. “Electrical linework is one of the most dangerous jobs,” said Tommy Cook, Vice President of Operations for Carroll EMC. “There is no room for error, so linemen need adequate training before going out in the field. WGTC’s program provides them with the basic training they need, and we have had the opportunity to be a part of it and introduce the students to the cooperative.” As a cooperative, Carroll EMC operates with a concern for community by encouraging and supporting the education and training of its Members. The co-op helps shape the next generation of lineworkers through not only monetary and non-monetary donations to the WGTC Apprentice Lineman Program but also by offering the Lineman School Scholarship. Recipients of the scholarship receive funding for the cost of tuition, textbooks and other related fees for their chosen lineman school. Online applications are available at carrollemc.com/scholarships and close March 4, 2022. For more information about the course and enrollment, contact Linda Sullivan at linda.sullivan@ westgatech.edu or 678-664-0516.

West Georgia Technical College. He is actively involved in a number of organizations including the Carroll County Chamber of Commerce and Partners Advancing Student Success. Chambers holds a bachelor’s degree in Communication Arts from Shorter College, GEMA certification as a public information officer and FEMA training on incident command and emergency management for higher education. He is a Bowdon native, and he and his wife, Allison, have two daughters. “My family and I are proud of our roots in the community, and I am excited to join the Carroll County Schools team,” Chambers said. “Effective communication is essential in continuing to build premier schools. We are going to work hard to enhance the great work that is already being done while we identify and implement new strategies to better connect with parents, students, and community stakeholders."

Ben Chambers Named Communications Specialist Carroll County School System is pleased to announce that Ben Chambers will be joining the 24STRONG Team as a communications specialist. Chambers will be serving at the District level and will report to Director of Partnerships and Communication, Charity Aaron. “We are very excited that Ben is joining our communications team. He brings a wealth of knowledge and experience in marketing, community engagement and strategic planning,” shared Aaron. Chambers’ duties will include managing multiplatform marketing campaigns, district promotions, events and activities. Additionally, he will serve as the liaison between school administrators and the director of partnerships and communication. Superintendent of Carroll County School System, Scott Cowart, commented, “Adding this position to our communications team provides us with the opportunity to strategically plan for growth in our schools and the communities we serve. We are passionate about being a leader in innovation and creativity as we engage with Carroll County families. Ben’s background in working in education coupled with his strong community relationships will continue to advance our communications initiatives and will support the district’s vision of being premier.” Chambers is a seasoned communications professional with 20 years of experience in local public service. He most recently served as the director of public relations and information for

Ben Chambers will be joining the Carroll County School System as a communications specialist.

Jay Gill Honored as Volunteer of the Year The Carroll County Chamber of Commerce named Jay Gill, Senior Vice President of Member and External Relations for Carroll Electric Membership Cooperative (EMC), the recipient of the James A. Gill Volunteer of the Year award at its annual gala event. The Volunteer of the Year honor, named after Gill’s father, recognizes an individual who demonstrates a commitment to community service and a deep level of engagement and passion for volunteerism. The award recipient also serves as an inspiration to others and has made a significant impact as a result of their involvement in the local Chamber and the business community. Gill, who serves in many leadership roles, has followed proudly in his father’s

Jay Gill was able to celebrate his honor as Volunteer of the Year with his father Jim Gill (center), sister Shannon Gill (left) and mother Cheryl Gill (right). Also pictured, Kirby Butler, back left.

footsteps while still forging a path of his own. “Taking the incredible example of servant leadership that has been modeled for him by his father, Jim Gill, Jay has made immeasurable contributions to the Chamber and our community,” said Kirby Butler, Senior Vice President, Commercial Lender at United Community Bank and 2020 Chamber Board Chairman. “Jay is an outstanding leader and a selfless volunteer.” Gill currently serves on several local boards including those of the Development Authority for Carroll County, Carroll County Chamber of Commerce and the University of West Georgia Athletic Foundation. His past service commitments were to the Carrollton Parks and Recreation Board, Carroll County Planning and Zoning Commission and the Boys and Girls Club of Carroll County. Also, Gill is a member and past president for the Carrollton Rotary and Carroll County Sertoma clubs. In addition to his community role, Gill is responsible for leading member services, community relations, corporate communications/public relations, government relations, key accounts and agribusiness at Carroll EMC while assisting the co-op with its broadband project rollout. He has been with the cooperative for 11 years, and prior to that, he was in banking and finance for nearly 14 years. “Jay is an invaluable asset to the cooperative, Carroll County and beyond,” said Tim Martin, President and CEO for Carroll EMC. “His generosity of time and effort to serve beyond expectations is what makes him so deserving of this award.”

Carroll EMC Selects Walter Harrison Scholarship Semifinalist Carroll Electric Membership Cooperative (EMC) has selected graduating senior of Central High School

Jackson Burns as its semifinalist for the Walter Harrison Scholarship. Burns will compete against semifinalists from other Georgia co-ops for one of fourteen scholarships. The $1,000 scholarship can be applied to academic expenses at any accredited two- or fouryear university, college or vocational-technical institute in Georgia. To be eligible, students must be accepted or enrolled in an undergraduate program and complete both an application and autobiographical sketch referencing future plans. Grade-point average, academic standing, scholastic honors and financial need are also considered when determining a student’s eligibility. Having already completed one year of college through dual enrollment, a program that allows high school students to take college courses and receive credit, Burns is well on his way to receiving a degree in biomedical science. He plans to attend the University of Georgia in the fall with hopes of becoming a doctor. “My desire to be a doctor comes from truly wanting to help others,” Burns explained in his application. “I think a career in medicine is one of the best ways to help people by not only saving lives but also by enhancing lives and preventing illness.” This year, 14 Walter Harrison Scholarships will be awarded to students with exemplary academic records. A scholarship committee comprised of directors, managers and key staff at Georgia’s 41 EMCs seeks to award scholarships to remarkable students who may otherwise not be able to afford college. “I am grateful to be a semifinalist for this scholarship,” said Burns. “Being part of a large family, I feel obligated to seek out resources that will help pay for college. Local scholarships are a great place to start, and I am honored to be selected by Carroll EMC.”

Central High School Senior Jackson Burns was selected as semifinalist for the Carroll EMC Walter Harrison Scholarship. Burns will compete against semifinalists from other Georgia co-ops for one of fourteen scholarships.

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Recognize There is a Problem Take a good hard look at your relationship with a third party, such as a therapist or friend, who will tell it to you straight. If you're not sure if the relationship is unhealthy, these are some questions you should ask yourself:

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Is this relationship serving a purpose? Is it negatively impacting other areas of my life? Is it detrimental to my self-esteem? Am I staying out of obligation? Does my partner/family member/friend foster my personal growth? Am I staying because I believe I can change the other person?

The Stages of Letting Go

Letting go of unhealthy relationships By Sandra Bolan

ove is a rush-filled euphoria that can be as addictive as cocaine. But like any drug, love can make you feel equal parts good and bad, as well as impair your judgement. There comes a time when you have to get real with yourself and your partner and walk away. Some signs the relationship no longer serves its purpose is when it’s emotionally or physically abusive, there’s constant criticism, lying or cheating, or emotional starvation. A not-so-obvious sign it’s unhealthy is the relationship exists out of habit. While we think unhealthy relationships are romantically-based, there can also be dsyfunction in relationships with friends or family members.

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Separation. “Let’s still be friends,” rarely works after a romantic relationship goes bust. It may be possible, but you initially need physical and emotional distance from each other so you can grieve the loss. Distance also enables healing. Moving On. You’ve now morphed from “we” back to “me.” Revisit old hobbies you dropped during the relationship. If you felt held back from trying new things like traveling or moving, now is the time to do them. Being single affords you the opportunity to add new chapters to your story. Most important, you need to work on your relationship with yourself. Depending on why the relationship ended, a lot of healing may be required. Remind yourself you’re worthy of love and respect and deserve a healthy relationship. Forgiveness. The end of a relationship often comes with feelings of shame and failure. There’s nothing to be ashamed of, and a broken relationship doesn’t make you a failure. You have to forgive yourself and your former partner. Being empathetic and compassionate with yourself, the relationship and ex-partner is also part of the healing process. Lessons Learned. When relationships end, it’s easy to feel like it was a waste of time. But every relationship teaches you something, and it’s up to you to figure out what that lesson is so you don’t repeat the same mistakes. You can never undo the past, but you can learn from it. It’s easy to get lost in the nostalgia of an old relationship, but if you take off the rose-colored glasses, you’ll be able to see the relationship for what it really is – something you must let go so you can be a healthier, happier you. WGW

Facing the Day: Then and Now By Barbara Koehler

Then (25 years old) I awake after a restless sleep, Cover the curlers with a shower cap. Warm water washes over me As I shave my legs and arm pits. A mirror check reveals one more job: Tweeze those errant eyebrow hairs.

I'll wear a full skirt today To avoid a girdle or corset. Nude thigh-high stockings Held up by a garter belt. Perfect choice for the heels I've picked. How many crinolines will I need? When was the last time they were stiffened By the sugar water treatment? Tight sweater will require the padded bra with the lethal points,

So feared by dancing partners. Back to the mirror now Remove the curlers, tease and spray. Apply foundation and blush, Eyebrow pencil Eye shadow, liner and mascara. Choose the right lipstick color. No time for lip liner. Fingernails could use a new coat. They'll have to do. A quick purse inventory Money, license, car keys. Got all I need I'm ready for the day.

Now (75 years old) Get out of bed and wash my face. Brush teeth. Run a comb through my hair. Put on whatever's nearby Grab my purse. Out the door. WGW

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Kids Korner

By Jordan Dailey Photos by Zachary Dailey

Super Easy Shamrock

Materials Dark green, light green and sparkly green pipe stems – 2 of each color Gold coin (We found ours at the local dollar store) Hot glue gun Glue Sticks Round magnet (optional)

Instructions Twist two of the pipe stems into a four-leaf clover shape. Repeat with the other four pipe stems. Glue each shape together in the center, overlapping the shamrocks in different positions. Glue the gold coin in the center of the shamrocks. If using a magnet, glue magnet to the back of the shamrocks and display on refrigerator.

International Women's Day Doily

Instructions Cut a v-shape out of both ends of the ribbon. Arrange the ribbon in a figure 8-shape, leaving the v-shaped ends out on each side to form the ribbon woman's arms and hands. Glue ribbon in place onto the doily. Glue the heart in the center of the body. Using the marker, decorate as desired. WGW

Materials Paper doily Ribbon (any color – about 10 inches in length) Sparkly heart Hot glue gun and glue sticks Scissors Permanent marker

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