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Some couples just seem to be made for each other. LIFE’s Vintage Newsmagazine asks three of those couples the secrets to their marital success.
Love isn’t just for the young, but older adults may face challenges navigating the modern dating scene. Don’t despair; try these tips to find companionship.
Who doesn’t love a happy ending? Take a look at some of the best “rom-coms” through the years with our guide to the genre.
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22 Romantic Restaurants for Your Valentine Take your sweetheart out to eat at one of these area restaurants known for good food and romantic surroundings. Make date night a night to remember. BY LINDSAY MORRIS
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6 Letter From Eileen 8 Looking Back 10 Caregiver Corner Building Bonds Through Caregiving 12 Medicare & You Get Free Help From LIFE Senior Services Tax Assistance Program 23 LIFE PACE 24 Valentine's Day Gifts for Him & Her 25 LIFE on the Road Embrace These Romantic Getaways 27 LIFE EDU 28 Legal Matters Considerations for Marrying Later in Life 30 Mindbender & Puzzles 31 Puzzle Partners 32 Bunkering With Books 33 Noteworthy 34 Share Your Time & Talent 35 Business Directory 36 Writer's Symposium 37 Classifieds 39 Vintage Friends
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Letter From Eileen Dear Vintage Reader, Happy February! This is our “Heart to Heart” issue, focusing on all things love. Whether you are celebrating a long-time relationship or are searching for a new one, this issue will hold something for you. Valentine’s Day can bring lots of fun, but may also bring the pressure of expectations. It can be challenging to encapsulate so much emotion into a special dinner, a grand gesture, or a single day.
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I think music is a great way to celebrate all types of love. Sending a song to each child or grandchild that evokes your special relationship is more fun than candy. If you are single and celebrating “Galentine’s Day,” sharing an evening comparing (and critiquing) each other’s playlists can be good for some lively conversation and laughter. Maybe you will be on your own this Valentine's Day. How about making a playlist for yourself ? Look back over the years and choose a favorite song from each decade. Or find those songs that express your love for life, like Louis Armstrong's "What a Wonderful World." If you are in a new relationship, building or sharing a playlist is a great way to get to know each other. If you are in a long-term relationship, gifting your partner a playlist is like adding a soundtrack to your life together. It’s a gift that will last longer than chocolate and can grow as we find new songs that express how we feel.
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I am still working on my playlist gifts, but here are some starters for my husband: • "Fly Me to the Moon," Frank Sinatra • "You Belong to Me," Jo Stafford • "Let’s Stay Together," Al Green • "How Long Will I Love You?" Ellie Goulding • "Home," Blue October Let me know what you think of my list, and please share yours! With Love,
Vol. 36, No. 8 EILEEN BRADSHAW President & CEO of LIFE Senior Services, LIFE PACE & Vintage Housing
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Looking Back
Two young couples are all dressed up on July 23, 1949.
Couples pose during a Junior Assembly Dance in Tulsa, circa 1955.
HEART CONNECTIONS Tulsa Historical Society & Museum 2445 S. Peoria Ave., Tulsa All photos courtesy of Tulsa Historical Society & Museum
A photo of Leone G. Finch Garalene Vandever Haworth and William "Bill" Haworth attend taken at Lake Eola Park, attached the Law Fraternity Dance at the University of Oklahoma in as a Valentine for her grandson December 1952. Grant K. McCullough on February 14, 1930.
This Month in History FEBRUARY 4, 1826: “The Last of the Mohicans” Published "The Last of the Mohicans” by James Fenimore Cooper was one of the earliest distinctly American novels, and the second of a series called the “Leatherstocking Tales.” Cooper was born in 1789 in New Jersey. His first novel, modeled on the style of Jane Austen, wasn’t successful. His second was influenced by the popular historical writings of Sir Walter Scott. It became a bestseller, and Cooper earned the title, “first major American novelist.”
FEBRUARY 10, 1957: Laura Ingalls Wilder Dies
On this day in 1957, children’s author Laura Ingalls Wilder died at age 90 in Mansfield, Missouri. Much like the stories she wrote, Wilder was born in a log cabin in Wisconsin, on February 7, 1867. She eventually became a school teacher in South Dakota where she married homesteader, Almanzo Wilder. Wilder published her first novel, “Little House in the Big Woods,” in 1932.
FEBRUARY 15, 1898: The Maine
Battleship Explodes
A massive explosion of unknown origin sank the battleship, USS Maine, in Cuba’s Havana harbor. The explosion killed 260 of the approximately 400 American crew members aboard. An official U.S. Naval Court of Inquiry ruled one month later that the ship was blown up by a mine, without directly placing the blame on Spain. Subsequent diplomatic failures to resolve the incident led to the start of the Spanish-American War in April 1898.
FEBRUARY 22, 1980:
The U.S. Wins “Miracle on Ice” The underdog U.S. hockey team, made up of college players, defeated the Soviet Union’s defending gold-medal team before a sold-out crowd at the XIII Winter Games in Lake Placid. The Soviets had won the previous four Olympic hockey golds. The U.S. team went on to defeat Finland 4-2 to clinch the gold. The victory was later memorialized in the 2004 film, “Miracle,” starring Kurt Russell.
FEBRUARY 25, 1870: First Black
U.S. Senator Sworn In
Hiram Rhodes Revels, a Republican from Natchez, Mississippi, was sworn into the U.S. Senate, becoming the first Black man to ever sit in Congress. Revels was a college-educated minister who earned several accolades in his lifetime. He helped form African American army regiments for the Union cause during the Civil War, started a school for freedmen, and served as a chaplain for the Union army.
FEBRUARY 28, 1953: DNA Helix Discovered
Cambridge University scientists James D. Watson and Francis H.C. Crick announced the discovery of the double-helix structure of DNA, the molecule containing human genes. The two men received the Nobel Prize in 1962. Controversy arose after it was revealed the two men made use of X-ray photographs taken by fellow DNA researcher Rosalind Franklin. Franklin died of cancer in 1958 without knowing the role her photos played in the breakthrough. © www.loc.gov/collections/today-in-history
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CAREGIVER CORNER
Building Bonds Through Caregiving BY DEE DUREN, MANAGING EDITOR
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inding ways to stay connected safely has been one of the many challenges of the last two years. Many families have struggled with decisions – and opinions – about what behaviors are safe. When a vulnerable older adult is involved, the stakes are even higher.
because you have the intention to make things better. You find you’re on the same team, connecting around the same goal which is to do what we can to maintain the quality of life for our parents and ourselves. It becomes a bonding experience.”
Denise Brown is a professional caregiving coach and the author of several books on caregiving, including “The Caregiving Years” and “Take Comfort: Reflections of Hope for Caregivers.” She has been working with family caregivers since 1990 and began helping her parents in 2004 after her father was diagnosed with bladder cancer.
CRISIS AND CAREGIVING The survey also reflects that the caregiving role is demanding. Nearly 8 of 10 of the respondents said they experience increased stress and anxiety while having less time for themselves. More than half say their role as a caregiver has impacted their other life responsibilities including work. But even those experiences can build a stronger relationship, according to Brown.
Brown knows that serving as a family caregiver can increase stress between an aging loved one and caregiver. But she also shared that many caregivers feel a stronger bond with their loved ones, as shown in a recent survey conducted by LifeStation medical alert monitoring company and Age of Majority, Inc. The survey found that 39% of caregivers surveyed
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DENISE BROWN Professional Caregiving Coach and Author not only feel a stronger bond with the loved one they’re caring for, but also respect their aging loved one more. “I think it speaks to the intention of the relationship,” Brown said. “You are caregiving
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“We are there during a crisis. We help them up from a fall. We go to the hospital with them. You look back and say, ‘wow – look what we did to help another person,’” she said. “It’s a profound experience to be able to stay and help during a crisis. We can still find a blessing, something that is improving, despite the stress.”
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Brown said some of the most important tools for managing the stress of caregiving include patience and acceptance. A caregiver watches as someone they love changes, losing abilities, health, and independence. It’s important to recognize and adjust to the aging adult’s current status. “If we’re in the past about our loved one's abilities, we get impatient,” she said. “If we’re meeting them where they are today, we find more acceptance and patience.” TECHNOLOGY THAT HELPS Many caregivers worry about what could happen when they’re not there to help. One answer could be some of the new wearable technology that means assistance is available 24/7 at the push of a button. Brown, who is now a spokesperson for LifeStation, said research shows that 60% of caregivers believe a medical alert device would help give them more peace of mind. Brown’s father wears the Sidekick, a pendant that goes anywhere he does. The Sidekick Smart is a new watch that functions the same way as the pendants. Stephanie Smith of HALO Medical Alarms in Tulsa agrees the newest technology can give caregivers and their loved ones more independence while remaining safely connected. Her company offers a mobile pendant with a speaker that connects to a call center. “It’s really freed up a lot of caregivers because they know their loved one can press the button and connect with the operator. If they fell and their cell phone flew away from them, they still have that button around their neck,” she said. The device can be rented by the month for temporary needs or longer for ongoing concerns. One caregiver in Broken Arrow was afraid to travel because her father would slip out of his wheelchair and not have his cell phone with him, according to Smith. Now he can connect to an operator who calls one of several people on his contact list or requests emergency services if needed. “It’s been a big relief for that situation,” she said.
TREATMENT WITH DR. JAMES WEBB
It started with a car wreck when I was 25, and my back just kept getting worse and worse. I didn’t know how long I could keep working. I saw a lot of doctors, but the outlook was depressing. I was on a lot of pain medicine. Today if you’re depending on pills, you’re part of the opioid crisis. But I could still barely move, barely walk. I had to convince myself to get out of bed every morning. I was tired of living like that, tired of hurting. My primary back doctor was at his wit’s end trying to get my back better, and he sent me to Dr. Webb.
What procedure did you have done?
He’s done epidural steroid injections. You’d think they’d hurt, but they didn’t. He did ablations that helped. He found spinal fractures which no doctor had ever found. He’s performed kyphoplasty which basically glues bones together, and it’s worked great.
What was your experience like?
Dr. Webb’s office is a one-stop shop on anything and everything you need to help your back. Dr. Webb is awesome. I love the guy, but it’s not just him. His whole staff is wonderful – considerate, caring, thorough. You’re not just a number going in there. It’s very refreshing that way. He draws your blood, checks your hormones and vitamin levels. He helps the whole patient.
Would you refer him?
I’ve been going through this for 20 some years, and Dr. Webb is the first one who has gotten me out of 95% of my pain. He has changed my life; he gave me a life. I would recommend him to anybody that has given up hope, thinking “I will be like this for the rest of my life. This is just what I have to deal with.” If you give him a chance, he can help. I’ve never felt better in my whole life.
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LIFE Helps Medicare Beneficiaries Save $3.2 Million
MEDICARE & YOU
Get FREE Help From LIFE Senior Services Tax Assistance Program BY KATHY JONES, MEDICARE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM SUPERVISOR
Tax season is here, and LIFE Senior Services is pleased to offer free tax filing services for those aged 60 and older who have an adjusted gross income of $58,000 or less for the 2021 tax filing year. From February 7 until April 15, our trained and IRS-certified volunteers will be available at our site to assist with basic income tax preparation with electronic filing. This year we will be providing in-person tax preparation at LIFE Senior Services’ Central office, 5950 E. 31st St. in Tulsa, just west of Sheridan Road. To ensure the safety of our tax preparers and our clients, we will limit the number of clients in the building. Appointments are required and can be scheduled by calling (918) 664-9000, ext. 1189.
After Scheduling Your Appointment
Make sure you gather all required documents and information to bring with you to your appointment. You will need to have: • Proof of identification (photo ID) • Social Security cards for you, your spouse, and dependents • An Individual Taxpayer Identification Number (ITIN) assignment letter may be substituted if you do not have a Social Security number • Wage and earning statements (forms W-2, W-2G, 1099-R, 1099-Misc) from all employers • Pension Income and IRA Distributions (forms 1099-R, RRB-1099, CSA-1099) • Interest and dividend statements from banks (form 1099)
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• State Tax Refunds (1099-G) • Copy of your 2020 federal and state returns • Proof of bank account routing and account numbers for direct deposit • Health Insurance Exemption Certificate, if received • Forms 1095-A, B, and C health coverage statements
NOTE:
To file taxes electronically on a married filing joint tax return, both spouses must be present to sign the required forms.
When you arrive for your appointment, you will park in the north parking lot facing 31st Street. Please stay in your vehicle and wear a mask for the checkin process which will be done while you are in your vehicle. A volunteer will meet you at your car, ask you important COVID-19 screening questions and ask you to complete your tax intake form. It is important to ensure that you have the documents listed in this article for your appointment. Once you have been checked in, your intake paperwork has been completed, and a tax preparer is ready, you will be escorted inside the building where your temperature will be taken. You will then be escorted downstairs where a tax preparer will begin working on your return. Once the tax return is complete, it will be filed electronically and a copy will be printed and given to you.
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The team at LIFE’s Medicare Assistance Program looks forward to helping Medicare beneficiaries every year as they compare Part D prescription drug plans. This year the MAP team helped clients save more than $3.2 million by enrolling them in Medicare Part D for the first time or by helping them switch plans to save money on their 2022 prescriptions. MAP education and counseling for Medicare beneficiaries and their representatives are available year-round at no charge.
Basics of Medicare Seminar If you are newly eligible or soonto-be eligible for Medicare, this seminar is for you. We’ll take you through the parts of Medicare and give you the information you need to make informed decisions about your coverage options. Reservations are now being accepted for the 2022 seminars listed below: • March 16 • April 20 • May 18 • June 15 • July 20 • August 17 • September 21 LEGACY PLAZA 5330 E. 31st St., Tulsa 10 a.m. – 12 p.m. Call LIFE’s Medicare Assistance program at (918) 664-9000, ext. 1189.
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C R E AT I V E W AY S to Tell Your Grandchild
‘I LOVE YOU’ BY KIMBERLY BLAKER
Valentine’s Day is a perfect reason to show your grandchild just how much he or she is loved. Try these creative ideas to show how much you care on Valentine’s Day and throughout the entire year.
EDIBLE IDEAS HEART-SHAPED LUNCH – Use a large, heart-shaped cookie cutter to make heart-shaped sandwiches, toast, and other treats. Your grandkids will love the shape and that you've eliminated the crust. A CUPFUL OF LOVE – Give your grandchild a
“World’s Greatest Grandson/Granddaughter” or “I Love You” cup. Then use it whenever you serve hot cocoa or graham crackers and milk.
DO LUNCH – Pick up your grandchild from school for a surprise lunch date. Hit his or her favorite fast-food joint, go on a picnic, or have lunch together in the school cafeteria. (If you choose the latter, make sure your grandchild won't mind or be embarrassed.)
Cassandra, cute, caring, creative, crafty, curious.) When you finish the poster, laminate or frame it so they can hang it in their room. POETRY PRAISE – Give your grandchild a poetry book written especially for grandsons or granddaughters that offers encouragement and a new understanding of your love for your grandchild. Don’t forget to add your personal inscription inside.
DO IT TOGETHER LOVE IS SILLY – One thing kids love and do best is act silly – so loosen up and join in the fun. If being silly isn’t your style, take a few lessons from your grandchild, and practice up. Letting loose is a great way to reduce stress and to let kids know they're fun to be around.
THE WRITTEN WORD
A CLASS CONNECTION – As kids grow, together-time becomes increasingly rare. Decide with your adolescent grandkid on an activity or A POET AND DIDN'T KNOW IT – You hobby the two of you would enjoy together. Sign up don't have to be a poet to write a poem for your grandchild. If poetry isn't your thing, look up simple for a class or set a regular schedule for the activity. Then mark it on your calendar. children's rhymes. Then make revisions, especially suited for your grandkid. Poems can be serious or A TRIP DOWN MEMORY LANE – Flip fun, but either way, your grandchild will love them. through photo albums or watch family videos Snail mail surprise. Kids love to get mail, so why not together, and reminisce about favorite holidays, send a card, letter, or postcard? vacations, and family times you’ve had together.
SAY IT WITH EMAIL – Send your grandchild an email with a link to a fun website or a funny animated e-greeting. With the abundance of entertaining websites and free e-greetings, you can send something new every day of the year. ALPHABET FUN – Make a poster portraying
your grandkid’s characteristics. Put their name at the top. Then list as many positive descriptive words as you can that begin with your grandchild's initial. Use a thesaurus to find oodles of words. (Example: www.LIFEseniorservices.org
EVENTFUL GIFTS – Buy tickets to a concert, ice show, or sporting event your grandkids have been dying to see. But keep it a surprise. On the day of the event, just say you're all going out for dinner or some other concoction. Then catch your grandkids by surprise when you arrive at your actual destination.
GIFTS FROM THE HEART FLOWERS FOR HER – Cut fresh flowers for your granddaughter, to brighten her room and her day. RACE CARS FOR HIM – Clip sports cars from magazines for your grandson, and post them on a bulletin board he can hang in his room. ENGRAVE YOUR THOUGHTS – Have a necklace or bracelet engraved for your grandchild. Be sure to include his or her name, your sentiments, and who it’s from. VAN GOGH IN THE MAKING – Sift through
your grandchild’s art collection, and select a piece to display. Then matte, frame, and hang it in a room for everyone to see. PHOTOS SAY A THOUSAND WORDS –
Choose several pictures of your grandkid from infancy through the present. Then use crafting scissors and trim them into different sizes and shapes. Overlap and tape them to the backing of a frame using double-sided tape. Then add matting and frame the collage. IT’S IN THE WRAPPING – Don't wait for a special occasion to give your grandchild a gift. Kids love presents, so the next time you pick up something for your grandchild, wrap it as a surprise. Don't forget the ribbon (so it takes longer to unwrap), and include a small gift card that says how much you appreciate her. SCRAPBOOKING FUN – Put together a memory scrapbook of your grandchild. Use photos, locks of hair, vacation postcards, and ticket stubs. Dedicate each page to a special holiday, event, or theme. Include dates and any details you remember, along with cute sayings and stickers to fit the themes.
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Happily
Ever Af ter COUPLES MADE FOR EACH OTHER BY KAREN SZABO
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hen you first get married, it seems everyone shares their marriage tips, like “never go to bed angry” or “don’t forget romance.” Of course, that’s easy during the honeymoon stage. But what about 20, 30 – even 50-plus years down the line? What do those couples whose marriages last decades know about keeping love alive and staying together through better and worse? We asked three couples who are “MFEO” – made for each other – to share the secrets to their marital success. While their love stories are unique, they all have a few things in common. All three couples say they just knew they’d met “the one” and were all married within one year of meeting each other. And, while there have been days of wine and roses, they all acknowledge that marriage takes work. Another common thread is that they say divorce has never been an option. 14
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Carol and David James A FOUND AT IO N O F FA M IL Y
Dr. David and Carol James met at Will Rogers High School in the late 1950s, although they didn’t start dating until they were both in college. “He was older and dating Anita,” Carol explained. Anita happened to be former Miss Oklahoma Anita Bryant. But they had broken up, and Carol’s best friend invited her to a drive-in movie – with a surprise guest: David. It was love at first sight. “We were married six weeks later,” David said. The couple will celebrate their 62nd anniversary in August. Both Carol and David point to their families as providing the strong foundation for their marriage. “We were blessed with wonderful parents,” Carol said. “They instilled in us the value of hard work, dedication, and loyalty.” “And there were no divorces in either of our families,” David added. “They were married for life and that’s carried over to us and our children. Seeing our kids be successful is one of the best things about our life together. The one thing you want for your children is to choose a partner who makes them happy.”
They are both quick to point out that it hasn’t always been easy. “You have to work at it every day,” Carol said. “You have to try to be on the same page and communicate. We talk about everything!” Like all couples, the James have had their share of highs and lows. They say the toughest time has been over the past few years when David experienced a series of serious health issues including a stroke, cancer, and complications from knee replacement surgery. “I didn’t expect it – of course, nobody does,” Carol said. “It changed our lives. There were a lot of tears and fear, but also a lot of support from our family.” “We’ve had a great life,” David said. “We have nothing to complain about and a lot to be thankful for.” Carol agreed. “We’ve had a wonderful life. It’s been a great journey and we’re grateful for all the good times.” HAPPILY EVER AFTER, continued on page 16.
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HAPPILY EVER AFTER, continued from page 14.
Chris and Ken Maricle A L IFETIM E O F A DVEN TU R ES
Ken and Chris Maricle met on a blind date while they were attending the University of Oklahoma and within one month decided to get married. They were engaged at Thanksgiving and married that following summer. In 2020, the couple celebrated their 50th anniversary. “We started off with shared values and a vision for what marriage is,” Ken explained. “There was never an expectation of divorce.” “We’re best friends,” Chris added. “I don’t think there’s such a thing as a perfect marriage. It takes work and a lot of communication. It’s a process of give-and-take, and we see each other as equals.” Their faith is also an important part of their relationship. “Christ is part of our marriage,” Ken said. “We’ve learned to depend on Christ and know what we’re supposed to do.” The couple hit a bump in the road in 2011 when doctors thought Ken had stage 3 lung cancer. After removing part
of his lung, they discovered it was a fungus – a condition his father once had, as well. In 2013, Ken retired from his IT career and Chris followed suit the following year. They love to travel and hike and almost always meet people and form new friendships along the way. From the Périgord in France and the Lake District in Britain, to Zion National Park in Utah and every hiking spot throughout Oklahoma, the Maricles truly love spending time together. They also love spending time with their three grandchildren. “We’re most grateful for our family and our children. Our three sons are all married to wonderful women,” Ken said. “One of the best gifts you can give your children is a happy and loving relationship.” “It’s better at this age,” Chris said. “We’re active and healthy; we take walks, go to the gym, hike, travel, and meet friends abroad.” “We’re living the dream – we always have,” Ken added. “People say that sarcastically, but we really are!”
Jodye and Steve Johnson THRO U GH IT A L L
Love was definitely in the air when Jodye met Steve Johnson through her brotherin-law. “That was it for me. Once we met, we were exclusive,” Jodye said. “We got married about a year later, just after Valentine’s Day.” The couple celebrates their 57th anniversary this month.
to Steve’s diagnosis, one of our rental houses flooded with 10-inches of water. That same month, our wonderful property manager died so I had to take care of everything. We got through it, but I never want another year like that again!”
“I don’t have any magic answers on what makes a marriage last,” she said. “It was a forever thing. He’s the love of my life. Once Steve, always Steve.”
Jodye said that when Steve was confined to the house all day, they were more dependent on friends and relatives to help. They recently transitioned from an Adult Day Health program in another city to LIFE Senior Services' Adult Day Health (ADH) in Broken Arrow. “The program is so flexible,” Jodye explained. “I really like choosing the hours, and there’s a nurse, more activities, and lunch. We love that flexibility.”
The couple owned a real estate company and managed rental properties together for 40 years. “We’ve been through everything,” she said. “We always said ‘whatever comes, we’ll handle it.’ And we did – it wasn’t easy, but we did it. We’re totally devoted to each other.” The Johnsons are devoted to their family, as well. “The best times were when our kids were young and in sports. We loved watching them play and doing things with our kids,” she recalled. Steve was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease in 2015. “That year was definitely the hardest,” Jodye said. “In addition 16
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BY JULIE WENGER WATSON
Older adults in search of companionship may find it challenging to navigate today’s dating landscape. Here are some suggestions if you’re ready to play the dating game after age 50.
EXPLORING OTHER OPTIONS
Engaging in meaningful, productive activities with others may lead to a longer life, better moods, and a sense of purpose. In other words, being social is good for your health.
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uman beings are social animals, and our need for companionship – whether romantic or otherwise – doesn't diminish with age. While people crave a certain amount of solitude, social isolation and loneliness can diminish health and well-being, putting you at higher risk for a variety of physical and mental conditions from high blood pressure and heart disease to anxiety, depression, and cognitive decline. Conversely, engaging in meaningful, productive activities with others may lead to a longer life, better moods, and a sense of purpose. In other words, being social is good for your health. For all these reasons, maintaining social connections is important as you age. Unfortunately, many changes associated with aging can make this challenging. A significant percentage 18
of older Americans live alone due to the death of a spouse or partner, or separation from friends and family. Retirement, while often welcome, can also create a sense of isolation, as can a lack of mobility or a lack of transportation. The good news is that you can take steps to find friendship, or maybe even romance. DATING SITES Technology has revolutionized many things, including dating.
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Of course, you can still meet people the old-fashioned way – in-person. Volunteering is a timetested method of doing good and being social. Check websites like volunteermatch.org, or sign up for “Serve Tulsans” at cityoftulsa.org to have volunteer opportunities sent straight to your email. LIFE Senior Services offers Give 5, a program that matches participants with nonprofit organizations where they can make a difference. Find out more at LIFEseniorservices.org.
Technology has
revolutionized many things, including dating. For younger singles, there’s nothing unusual about meeting your match with the aid of technology.
Joining a group to pursue your hobbies or passions is another fun way to meet people with similar interests. Read the classified advertising section of LIFE's Vintage Newsmagazine for group meetings, service events, and social gatherings, like the weekly card game for singles 50 and over at the Buffet Place in East Tulsa. Call Beverly at (918) 272-1049 for more information.
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For digital natives (those who have grown up under the ubiquitous influence of the internet), there’s nothing unusual about meeting your match with the aid of technology. For those of a certain age, this can seem downright weird. Nevertheless, dating sites and apps have become the go-to for finding like-minded companionship. Many sites cater specifically to particular demographics. OurTime (ourtime.com) or Silver Singles (silversingles.com), for example, are reserved for those ages 50 and up. Others, like Match (match.com), can be filtered by age or other preferences. To join a dating site, you usually register with your email address. You may be asked to answer a series of questions about your personality to help you determine what you’re looking for in a partner. You can set interest filters and upload a photo of yourself, too. Once you’ve completed your profile, you’ll start receiving local matches. You can then follow up with private messaging options at your own pace. Pricing structures differ from site to site, but you can expect to pay an average of $20 to $30 each month. Some are free for basic membership, with upgrades available for a cost. Be conscious of your safety and privacy when utilizing a dating site. Although it’s important to share details about yourself on your profile, be careful not to reveal too much personal information. Reputable dating websites will disclose the policies they have in place to protect you, and it’s a good idea to familiarize yourself with them. Keep in mind some safety basics. Internet scams are pervasive, and dating sites are no different. Red flags include being asked for money, being asked to share a compromising photo, or being told to invest in a get-rich-quick scheme. To make sure you’re safe on any in-person dates, use an established dating site, don’t give out extra personal information, tell friends and family where you’re going on the date and with whom, always meet in a public place, and never send anyone money. SENIOR CENTERS Area senior centers, including LIFE's two Senior Centers at East Side and Southminster, make it easy to meet new people. With activities ranging from fitness, pickleball, and line dancing to art, music, and acting along with the traditional table games, there is something for everyone. Friendships develop organically over shared interests and activities. Virginia Scott, 81, and Jack Cowen, 87, first met while volunteering and participating in activities at LIFE's Senior Center at East Side. And their friendship continues to grow. “I wanted to get out of the house. This place really helped me enjoy myself,” Virginia said of her original decision to visit the center. “I come and see people every day and meet new people.” One of those new people was Jack. Neither Virginia nor Jack was looking for a special relationship at the time they met. Rather, according to Jack, it just happened. “I didn't come to the Center to look for companionship. That was probably the last thing on my mind,” he said. “It just happened, as if you were 16 or 18, and maybe that's the way it ought to be.”
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Romantic
THROUGH TH
BY STEVE CLEM he dance of romance has been playing out on the silver screen for as long as there have been movies. The genre of romantic comedies, aka “rom-coms,” are films that use humor in the telling of their love stories. With a happy ending assured, the fun and laughs are in the journey.
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“There are going to be obstacles to the couple getting together,” said Jonathan Kuntz, professor of film history at UCLA School of Theater, Film and Television. “Being from different social classes is a popular setup.” Polar opposites, secrets, lies, misunderstandings, and missed connections are the stuff of rom-coms. “Sometimes the characters don’t know they are fated for one another and it takes a while (um, like the whole movie) for them to wake up to that,” the professor explained. Feel-good flicks have come in and out of popularity through the years. We single out some of the very best romantic comedies, listing the actors stung by Cupid’s arrow.
BATTLE OF THE SEXES
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SCREWBALL COMEDIES
“I'm standing here solidly on my own two hands going crazy.” Katharine Hepburn in “The Philadelphia Story”
With roots in Greek plays and Shakespeare (think “Much Ado About Nothing”), romantic comedies exploded with the “screwball” comedies of the 1930s and 1940s. Screwballs were known for fast-paced action, witty wordplay, and turning established conventions (like male dominance in the workplace) on their ear. In “It Happened One Night,” (1934), renegade reporter Clark Gable trails runaway heiress Claudette Colbert in search of a big story. Feelings develop between the oddly-matched pair during their adventures on the road.
Kuntz says some of Cary Grant’s best work was in screwballs directed by Howard Hawks: 1938’s “Bringing Up Baby,” with Katharine Hepburn, and “His Girl Friday” (1940), a battle-of-thesexes romp with Rosalind Russell. Other great screwballs include “The Philadelphia Story” (1940), with Cary Grant, Katharine Hepburn, James Stewart; “My Man Godfrey” (1936), starring William Powell and Carole Lombard, and “The Lady Eve” (1941), with Barbara Stanwyck and Henry Fonda.
“Well, Nobody’s Perfect.” Joe E. Brown in “Some Like It Hot”
“In the 1950s, romantic comedies became a little more realistic,” Professor Kuntz said. It was the era of Audrey Hepburn, Marilyn Monroe, and writer/director Billy Wilder.
Billy Wilder’s “Some Like It Hot” (1959), stars Marilyn Monroe, Tony Curtis, and Jack Lemmon in what is considered Monroe’s career highlight.
In Hepburn’s first starring role, 1953’s “Roman Holiday,” she won the Oscar for her portrayal of a bored heiress being entertained by an American reporter, played by Gregory Peck. The theme of differing social classes also ran through “Sabrina” (1954). Hepburn, a chauffeur’s daughter, keeps company with her father’s high society employers, played by William Holden and Humphrey Bogart.
Wilder’s 1960 film, “The Apartment," won the Oscar for Best Picture. Starring Jack Lemmon and Shirley MacLaine, this atmospheric satire vacillates between comedy and melancholy. Of course, love wins out in the end!
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In 1961’s “Breakfast At Tiffany’s,” Hepburn played perhaps her best-remembered role as Holly Golightly, a freespirited bohemian living in New York City. Her co-stars were George Peppard and a cat with no name.
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HE DECADES
RETURN TO ROMANCE
“La-dee-da, la-dee-da." Diane Keaton in “Annie Hall.”
“The ‘60s counterculture killed off the romantic comedy for a while,” Kuntz said. But, the professor added, Woody Allen’s 1977 film, “Annie Hall,” reestablished the romantic comedy. “That film brought the rom-com into the late 20th Century.” There was also a sweet and funny polar-opposites-fall-in-love tale that year with the Neil Simon-scripted “The Goodbye Girl” (1977), starring Richard Dreyfuss and Marsha Mason. Moonstruck (1987) won Cher an Oscar for her portrayal of a 37-year-old widow who falls for her fiancée’s brother, played by Nicolas Cage.
ROMANTIC RENAISSANCE
“I'll have what she's having.”
Estelle Reiner in “When Harry Met Sally.”
Screenwriter/director Nora Ephron defined the genre in the 1990s, creating films filled with humor and heartstring tugs. In her screenplay for Rob Reiner’s “When Harry Met Sally,” (1989), Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan examine whether men and women can just be friends. “Sleepless In Seattle” (1993) with Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan, is a dreamy tale of loss, long-distance longing, and missed connections. “In the 1990s, we have Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks who are almost as popular as Cary Grant, Irene Dunn, and the other early stars of romantic comedies,” Kuntz said. Hanks and Ryan returned for “You’ve Got Mail,” (1998), an internet-era update of another rom-com classic, “The Shop Around The Corner,” (1940), with James Stewart and Margaret Sullivan.
MODERN ROMANCE
If there was an award for the rom-com that added the most phrases to popular culture, the winner might be “Jerry Maguire,” (1996), starring Tom Cruise and Rene Zellweger in an examination of integrity in a cutthroat world. “Show me the money;” “You had me at hello,” and “You complete me,” all came from this one film.
“Marriage is like an unfunny, tense version of 'Everybody Loves Raymond.'”
Paul Rudd in “Knocked Up.”
In the 2000s, great rom-coms are harder to come by. “It’s kind of like the western, which has fallen off tremendously in the 21st century," Professor Kuntz said. “Love Actually” (2003), a British romantic comedy with an all-star cast including Hugh Grant, Liam Neeson, Emma Thompson, and Laura Linney, tells nine intertwining love stories. Although made in the post-9/11 era, this film has the feel of an earlier world – one you might wish to inhabit!
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Then there was Hugh Grant. “Grant became sort of a one-man romantic comedy genre,” Professor Kuntz said. “There were a series of films designed around him.” “Notting Hill” paired Grant with America’s sweetheart, Julia Roberts, in a yarn about lovers kept apart by class and a continent.
Other popular rom-coms, like the ones from writer and producer Judd Apatow – “The 40-year-old Virgin” (2005), with Steve Carrell and Catherine Keener; and 2007’s “Knocked Up,” with Seth Rogen and Catherine Heigl – are aimed at younger audiences. Translation: they contain explicit language and sexual content. “These are difficult times for the rom-com," the professor said. "With today’s fragmented audience, what is comedy to some is offensive to others."
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Valentine
BY LINDSAY MORRIS
The Tulsa area is full of places to take
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1. Mahogany Prime Steakhouse 2. The Bull in the Alley 3. Molly's Landing 4. Stonehorse Café 5. Juniper
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6024 S. Sheridan Rd., Tulsa (918) 499-1919 219 S. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa (918) 592-5151
This Italian restaurant has been in Tulsa for 30 years. With its dim lighting, romantic music playing in the background, and classic Italian dishes, it’s a natural choice for a Valentine’s meal. Their bruschetta, salad, and pizza gorgonzola appetizers are a delightful way to kick off any celebration. The menu offers everything from seafood choices to traditional Italian pasta, steak, chicken, and veal. Be sure to save room for tiramisu, the decadent Italian dessert.
THE BULL IN THE ALLEY
11 E. Mathew B, E. Brady St., Tulsa (918) 949-9803
This restaurant is cloaked in mystery. In fact, you might find it difficult to locate, as it is hidden in an alley in downtown Tulsa. There is no sign indicating the name of the business, simply a green door with a tiny bull hanging over it. 22
This place is swanky. And pricey. We’re talking MAHOGANY PRIME $25 for Crème Brûlée. However, you can expect STEAKHOUSE surroundings and service that are truly impressive 4840 E. 61st St., Tulsa and unforgettable. Typically, at dinnertime, a pianist (918) 494-4043 is playing softly as guests enjoy their meals. Mahogany moved to a new spot on Yale a couple The steaks are delicious, and the potatoes are a side of years ago and still offers the same exceptional, you will want to share. You truly feel like a VIP unpretentious service in an upscale dining when dining at Bull in the Alley, and so will your atmosphere. The servers are true professionals. This Valentine. is a white linen tablecloth kind of atmosphere. MOLLY’S LANDING Mahogany is known for its exceptional steaks and 3700 N. Old Highway 66, Catoosa au gratin potatoes. And you just have to finish your (918) 266-7853 meal with their famous key lime pie. Molly’s has been on historic Route 66 in Catoosa for more than 30 years, serving delicious steaks and seafood. The restaurant is located in a log cabin with eclectic decor. You can come dressed as you are and enjoy an incredible steak dinner. They offer fresh seafood, lobster, and perfectly cut steaks, paired with your favorite wine. Of course, no trip to Molly’s Landing is complete without a stop at the nearby Blue Whale, a beloved landmark along Route 66.
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STONEHORSE CAFÉ
1748 Utica Square, Tulsa (918) 712-7470
This adorable café in Utica Square shopping center has an original menu with everything from handtossed, wood-fired pizzas to Long Island duck breast to king salmon or a burger. They also offer an extensive wine, beer, and cocktail menu. If the weather happens to be nice, this is a great place to sit outside and enjoy people-watching. www.LIFEseniorservices.org
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The variety available at Stonehorse is great – you can dine on the cheap if you just have a pizza and a glass of wine, or you can go all out with caviar, duck pâté, beef tenderloin, and the like. JUNIPER
324 E. 3rd St., Tulsa (918) 794-1090
This unpretentious restaurant in downtown Tulsa serves fresh, farm-to-table food. The menu changes with the seasons to bring guests creative, modern cuisine focused on delicious, locally-sourced ingredients. Chef Justin Thompson, who owns several restaurants in Tulsa, opened Juniper in 2011. If you want the full-blown dining experience, be sure to try Justin’s signature five-course chef ’s tasting menu with sommelier-selected wine pairings. IN THE RAW VU
110 N. Elgin Ave., Tulsa (918) 779-7600
One of the hippest new places with an enviable view of downtown is In the Raw Vu, located inside the Vast Bank building in downtown Tulsa. It has a spectacular view of downtown, and the outdoor patio overlooks ONEOK Field. The restaurant is furnished with ultra-modern lighting and seating. On the outdoor patio, you will find plush outdoor couches, high-top tables and stools, and a cozy fire pit. In the Raw Vu is a great place to watch the sunset, eat sushi, and impress your sweetheart. VILLA RAVENNA
6526-A E. 51st St., Tulsa (918) 270-2666
Villa Ravenna is a cozy restaurant in the Farm Shopping Center serving authentic Italian dishes. Their Lemoncello drink is a must. For a unique appetizer, try the pear gorgonzola. Villa Ravenna offers house-made pasta and several game meats (veal, boar, and venison), along with a wide selection of seafood. It’s dimly lit; Andre Bocelli is always playing in the background, and the service is exceptional.
Meet LIFE PACE Medical Director Dr. Lori Arney. What is your role at LIFE PACE? I am the medical director and one of the primary care physicians at LIFE PACE. I chose to work for a PACE program because I believe it is the optimal method of healthcare delivery. What do you like most about your role? For me, medicine is a calling. I wasn't happy working in a standard medical clinic, where I had 15 minutes to see a patient, diagnose them, and make a treatment plan. For seniors who need more time, more support, and more care: that is where PACE steps in. With PACE, I am the type of physician I feel I was called to be. What is your favorite success story with a PACE participant? I once had a participant enroll, and we ended up enrolling her sister and her brother due to the care she was receiving. They had complex genetic health issues, and we were able to treat them all – and watch them rekindle their relationship. What made you want to do your work with seniors? Seniors have great stories to tell and are often the “forgotten generation." I enjoy the challenge of finding solutions to their complex health issues. I get to know the participants very well and have plenty of time to spend with them. How do you think LIFE PACE helps seniors to stay independent? PACE participants have no copays for office visits or prescriptions. PACE transports them to medical appointments and provides the supportive therapies they need. Seniors must have their physical and social needs met to stay healthy, and that's what the PACE model provides.
BLUESTONE STEAKHOUSE AND SEAFOOD
10032 S. Sheridan Rd., Tulsa (918) 296-9889
Bluestone is tucked away in a nondescript shopping center at 101st and Sheridan, but you will be impressed when you step inside. The restaurant is dimly lit by blue lights and offers live music and dancing on Saturday nights. The service is exceptional, and the menu offers everything from delicious steaks to fresh Norwegian salmon and sea scallops, etc. Be sure to order the fresh garlic mashed potatoes as a side dish. www.LIFEseniorservices.org
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Valentine's Day Gifts FOR HIM AND HER
Deciding what to give your special someone this Valentine's Day? A gift is a great way to express the love and appreciation we feel, whether it’s intended for a longtime partner, a new romance, or your best pal. While there's nothing wrong with the traditional flowers, candy, and jewelry, here are a few other suggestions to please your Valentine.
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Romantic Getaways EMBRACE THESE
You and your special someone will be sure to enjoy the seclusion of these romantic retreats.
RUSTIC ROMANCE – Broken Bow, Oklahoma visitbrokenbowcabins.com • brokenbowchamber.com Broken Bow may not be the first destination that comes to mind when you think of romance. The southeast Oklahoma town has been doing its best to change that perspective, however. Its Chamber of Commerce points to the natural beauty of Broken Bow Lake, Beavers Bend State Park, and the Ouachita National Forest nearby. Average summer temperatures of 80 degrees and abundant natural resources contribute to the area’s growing popularity as a vacation spot for those who enjoy the great outdoors.
The main difficulty may be in deciding which honeymoon cabins to book for you and your sweetheart. Bear Mountain Lodging is a popular choice to celebrate an anniversary or get away from it all. Book a cabin called “P.S. I Love You,” “Rustic Romance,” or “Hidden Hollow Escape.” Boat rentals, fishing, water sports, horseback riding, and golfing are just a few of the adventures available. Broken Bow is about three hours away from the Tulsa area via the Indian Nation Turnpike.
MIDDLE EARTH AWAITS – Eureka Springs, Arkansas estreehouses.com • crescent-hotel.com • thorncrown.com Enjoy the beauty of the mountains but crave a funky, artistic vibe? Eureka Springs, Arkansas, could be the perfect place for you and your significant other. Head east on Highway 412 and get ready for some twists and turns as you approach the only city in America that can boast its entire downtown is listed on the National Register of Historic Places. Architecture buffs will love the mix of Victorian, Queen Anne, and other style homes, some of which are now cozy bed and breakfasts.
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Eureka Springs is known for its quirky, Bohemian feel, art galleries, and other great shopping opportunities. If you’d like to stay at a spot that speaks to the dreamer in your soul, check out Eureka Springs Treehouses, Castles & Hobbits lodging. You can rent a perch among the trees or escape to Middle Earth in a Hobbit Cave. How about your own private grotto with a jacuzzi for two? Other attractions to enjoy on your fantasy retreat include nearby Onyx Cave Park, Thorncrown Chapel, and the ghost tour at the historic Crescent Hotel and Spa.
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FEBRUARY 2022 WILDERNESS RESORT – Table Rock Lake, Missouri bigcedar.com • silverdollarcity.com • branson.com Big Cedar Lodge is nestled in the Ozark Mountains of Missouri not far from the tourist city of Branson and Silver Dollar City Amusement Park. Stay for a weekend getaway or a week in this sprawling resort owned by Bass Pro Shops founder Johnny Morris who calls it “a tribute to the magnificence of nature.” Set on 4,600 acres, Big Cedar Lodge overlooks Table Rock Lake and offers guests water sports, hiking, biking, and golf courses designed by great golfers like Tiger Woods, Jack Nicklaus, Arnold Palmer, and Tom Watson.
If your idea of romance includes country music or a comedy review, take a trip to nearby Branson for a meal and a show. Visit Silver Dollar City Amusement Park to experience the Ozarks of the past. Around 100 craftsmen demonstrate heritage crafts like glassblowing, leather goods, woodworking, and pottery making. Those with a sweet tooth may enjoy the old-fashioned bakery and candymaking shops. Bring your walking shoes or rent a motorized scooter to get around the hilly park. The more adventurous can try one or more of the roller coasters and rides.
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Welcome to Silver Linings – LIFE’s weekly video series that reminds us all that attitude is everything – especially when it comes to aging. Check out LIFE’s Facebook page most Wednesdays at facebook.com/LIFESeniorServices for the programs below.
LIFE’s Tax Assistance Program” “ Wednesday, February 2 Kathy Jones, LIFE’s TAP supervisor, shares information about how seniors can get free tax preparation and filing through LIFE’s Tax Assistance Program. From February 7 until April 15, LIFE’s trained and IRS-certified volunteers will be available to help eligible seniors. Ask SeniorLine” “ Wednesday, February 9 Chelsea Edwards, the supervisor of LIFE’s SeniorLine and Independent Case Management, offers some insights and tips for caring for a spouse with Alzheimer’s disease. Crafting with Roxanne” “ Wednesday, February 16 Join Roxanne as she gives step-by-step instructions for making a farmhouse-style frameless picture frame. You will need a 10 x 16 piece of lightweight wood or foam board; jute or cord at least 4-feet-long; mini clothespins; white or cream-colored acrylic or chalk paint; either a decal that says “family,” black paint, or a Sharpie; small flowers or other small embellishments; a paintbrush, and some photos.
DUDE RANCH ROMANCE – Sand Springs, Oklahoma meadowlakeranch.com Are you a fan of legendary singer and songwriter Sir Paul McCartney? Stay at Meadow Lake Ranch, the bed and breakfast selected by the former Beatle when he performed at the BOK Center in Tulsa. Cabin 2, now known as “Paul’s Cabin,” has a fishing dock right outside the front door. Meadow Lake Ranch is located on 1,000 acres on Limestone Lake in Sand Springs. You and your sweetheart can enjoy a two-person whirlpool, full kitchen, pillow-top king bed, and southern breakfast (just in case the fish aren’t biting).
“Senior Tax Freeze” Thursday, February 23 Tulsa County Assessor John Wright will explain how seniors can save money on their property taxes with the Senior Tax Freeze. Learn what the program entails, its eligibility guidelines, and how to apply for it.
Hiking, horseshoes, and bank fishing are included in the price of your stay. You can also book a Dude Ranch package that includes activities like tomahawk throwing, archery, trail riding, and nightly campfires. Meadow Lake has a private shooting range where an instructor will teach you to shoot an old-fashioned six gun or small-bore lever-action rifle. If the log cabins sound too tame, stay at the ranch's in-ground, bluff-top cabin or Indian teepee.
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Considerations for Marrying Later in Life BY KAREN SZABO
Here’s a to-do list of issues older adults should consider before saying “I do.”
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“During our working years, many of us have acquired a home, retirement benefits, and personal or real property investments,” he added. “We may have children or other family members along with charities and organizations for whom we want to make provision. With a marriage in our latter years, though, people must consider not only how to provide for our current family but for a new spouse, their family, and their estate.”
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If you are tying the knot, here are important questions to consider: 1. WHO WILL RUN YOUR ESTATE?
According to Crain, you need to pick a person to be the personal representative or executor of your estate. You may also need to pick a trustee. “If you choose your new spouse, you should also select a successor representative so if your spouse is incapacitated or unable to handle the estate, you have someone else that you trust to handle it,” he said.
2. WHAT FORMS NEED TO BE UPDATED?
AARP advises those marrying later in life to have separate wills rather than a joint will. Separate wills ease potential complications with the future distribution of property, especially considering that life circumstances can change throughout the years you are married. In addition, Crain recommends creating or updating a power of attorney for healthcare and for finances, and a healthcare directive or living will. Some people also create a living trust. Trusts can get complicated, especially if either of you has children, so enlist the help of a good estate planning attorney. “It is important to have a power of attorney in place in case you need someone to help with your banking and finance needs, along with a medical directive to make healthcare decisions,” Crain said. “So many times, family members dispute who should make financial and/or healthcare decisions – especially if
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you have children and have remarried. If the children do not agree with your new spouse, this can cause complications.” He also recommends creating or updating life insurance policies, retirement accounts, investment funds, and any other financial accounts.
3. HOW ARE YOU GOING TO PAY FOR YOUR EXPENSES?
Crain recommends forming a supplemental needs trust in case one of you must go into a nursing home. That may help you avoid paying your assets for nursing home expenses – and yet still obtain Medicaid to help pay the bill.
4. WHO WILL RECEIVE YOUR ASSETS?
Estate planning is especially important when children from previous relationships are involved because it ensures they will receive what is rightfully theirs. Testamentary trusts that become active upon death could be a way to help you distribute your assets to your family and friends while at the same time providing for your spouse during his or her lifetime.
5. DO YOU NEED A PRENUP?
Many financial planners, estate planners, and accountants advise considering prenuptial agreements when you marry or remarry later in life. “A prenuptial agreement is a written contract to which both parties voluntarily agree that outlines the terms and conditions associated with dividing up financial assets and responsibilities if the marriage dissolves,” Crain explained. “It is especially important if you and your intended have large income or resource disparities, and can help determine what will be left for each of your respective families to inherit if you divorce or when you die.” Crain says many of the same details that go into drafting a prenup are required for an estate plan, so it is a good way to ensure you are providing for your spouse and managing your children’s inheritance at the same time. “Ask yourself these questions: Will your future spouse need to be provided for when you pass? Do they have debts that could possibly make a claim on you or your estate? Will you be expected to provide for the children of your future spouse? These are only some of the many issues which should be considered,” he said. “Whether you have death benefits as part of your retirement plan, have invested for your retirement, or need to know how a marriage in your latter years may affect your estate plans, it may well benefit you to discuss your situation with an attorney who understands estate planning and trusts,” Crain said. “You should be well informed of the changes and consequences of your future marriage while you can plan to best honor your commitments to both your current family as well as your new future family.”
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Recommended Reads
Bunkering With Books TELLING ETHNIC STORIES BY CONNIE CRONLEY An appropriate question for these heightened sensitive times is: Who gets to write the stories? A great uproar arose about a year ago over a book titled “American Dirt” because the book was a story of Mexican immigrants and the author was white. She didn’t have the credentials to write authentically about Mexicans, some said; no, the book was just not well written, others claimed. Literary quality or not, ethnicity is a thin ice to tread.
Hillerman was not a flamboyant writer. He was a devout Roman Catholic; married to his college sweetheart for 60 years; father of six children, five of them adopted; and a generous and anonymous philanthropist. He was honored by the Navajo Nation for authentically depicting the traditional culture, an award he cherished. When he chose to ride in a convertible during a tribal parade, he got the Navajo nickname, “Afraid of his horse.”
"TONY HILLERMAN, A LIFE" I am a longtime fan of the late Tony Hillerman’s mystery novels starring Navajo tribal policemen Joe Leaphorn and Jim Chee. His love for the Four Corners setting radiates in the books as does his reverence for and understanding of Native culture and traditions.
How sad, then, to learn that late in his life he was attacked by ardent Natives for writing about a culture that was not his own and getting rich off of it. He never went on the defense because the critics who mattered most to him were the Navajos who honored him as “Special Friend to the Diné,” and his Navajo readers who told him that his books made them feel good about themselves.
What a pleasure, then, to have James McGrath Morris’s new biography: “Tony Hillerman, A Life.” In this thoroughly researched and well-written book I read about Hillerman’s Depression-era childhood in Sacred Heart, Oklahoma; his World War II military service and battle injuries on the Western Front; and his attendance at the University of Oklahoma on the G. I. bill. The biography also covers Hillerman’s experiences as a newspaper writer in Oklahoma and Texas, as well as a college administrator and professor who pounded away at his craft until, finally at age 62, he became a best-selling author.
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After his death in 2008, his daughter Anne Hillerman has continued the Navajo detective series, but I have not read any of them. Yet. “UNCLE REMUS: THE COMPLETE TALES” It was the obituary of children’s book illustrator Jerry Pinkney that told me that he and author Julius Lester have rescued and retold some folk tales and children’s stories discarded as racist. Bravo for them! They are both Black men; white artists could not have done it. As a child, when I heard the Uncle Remus stories about Brer Rabbit, I didn’t think of them as
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plantation stereotypes; I just liked the clever animals. When I read “Little Black Sambo,” I didn’t think it was insulting; I thought he was smarter than the tigers. Lester and Pinkney have presented the books in just that way, positive images and beloved folktales. Gone is the Joel Chandler Harris dialect and center stage are the animals: Brer Fox, the Tar Baby, Sister Goose, Sister Cow, and more. The hero, a small rabbit who saves himself with wit and wisdom, was based on folklore from the West Coast of Africa and a clever hare named Wakaima. For those who want to go deeper, the introduction to “The Tales of Uncle Remus, The Adventures of Brer Rabbit” is a mini-tutorial on authentic folktales, storytelling, and stories on the printed page. Lester says he wrote the books in a combination of southern Black English, standard English, and Black English, so there is a flavor of dialect. “SAM AND THE TIGERS” Illustrator Pinkney remembered “Little Black Sambo” fondly because, in his childhood, it was the only picture book that depicted a Black child. His lush drawings in the retold “Sam and the Tigers” depict a happy, imaginative place where a bright little boy can trick tigers into running so fast they melt into butter, and then people and animals come together to eat all the pancakes they want.
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Theatre Tulsa Celebrates 99 Years Theatre Tulsa is celebrating its 99th season of presenting the magic of live theater. The community theatre will present "Heroes of the Fourth Turning," a play by Will Arbery. Part of Theatre Tulsa's Play Series, "Heroes" is one of two non-musical offerings this season. The play was a finalist for the 2020 Pulitzer Prize in Drama and won several awards including the 2020 New York Drama Critics Circle Award for Best Play. It asks how a country can survive being at war with itself as four young people return to their conservative college town to celebrate the promotion of a college mentor. The characters are described as young Catholic conservatives whose backyard after-party spirals into chaos and clashing politics. The play runs from February 25 through 27, and March 4 through 6 at the Liddy Doenges Theatre at Tulsa Performing Arts Center (PAC). Individual tickets can be purchased at tulsapac.com or by calling (918) 596-7109. Group rates are available at discounts for parties of 10 or more at theatre.tulsa.org/ tickets. Theatre Tulsa is Oklahoma’s oldest and largest nonprofit theater that inspires audiences and provides opportunities for local artists. Its mission is to provide homegrown theatre with professional standards to strengthen Tulsa’s artistic landscape. The organization builds a local community of artists with a vast range of backgrounds and abilities to create art together and share storytelling through live theatre. If you’re interested in getting involved, sign up for an audition at theatretulsa.org. They also welcome volunteers to assist with productions backstage.
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Celebrate Women at Tulsa Women's Expo
TCCL Honors Mystery Writer, Equality Advocate
Attend the 37th annual Tulsa Women’s Expo with a Cause! The Expo is Tulsa's largest two-day women’s event featuring Tulsa Upfront Women and Tulsa’s Women Chefs. Sip, sample and shop through 190 exhibits and enjoy special events on two stages at the Tulsa Fairgrounds.
Tulsa City-County Library (TCCL) African-American Resource Center (AARC) and the Tulsa Library Trust will present the 2022 Sankofa Freedom Award to writer and equality advocate Walter Mosley. Mosley will accept the award in a virtual presentation Saturday, February 12, at 10 a.m.
Tulsa Upfront Women is a panel discussion scheduled for Saturday, February 19 at 1 p.m., moderated by reporter Amy Slanchik of News On 6. Hear from successful women including News On 6 anchor and reporter Chinh Doan; Renae Mayer, M.D.; attorney Jessica Ridenour; and business owners Shelli Jent and Deborah Pejak. There will be presentations by Tulsa’s Women Chefs Nico Albert, Taylor LaTouche, Tylisha Oliver, and Starr Fisher. Other events include a mother-daughter look-alike contest, fitness demos, makeovers, and musical performances. Tickets are available online or at the box office on Expo Days. Get two tickets for the price of one general admission with a Reasor's Reward Card. Tickets are $7 at the box office, $5 online, and children 12 and under get in free. Purchase tickets online at womenslivingexpo.com. TULSA WOMEN’S EXPO Central Park Hall at Expo Square • Tulsa Saturday, February 19 • 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Sunday, February 20 • 11 a.m. to 4 p.m.
Mosley has written more than 60 books recognized for helping readers to understand and appreciate Black life in America, particularly segregated inner-city experiences. He has written in several genres, from plays and screenwriting to mystery, young-adult, and science. He’s best known for the Easy Rawlins mystery series set in Los Angeles during the 1940s to 1960s. Sankofa is a word from the Akan language, which is spoken in southern Ghana and translates as: “We must go back and reclaim our past so we can move forward; so we understand why and how we came to be who we are today.” The Sankofa Freedom Award has been awarded to authors including Anita Hill, Iyanla Vanzant, and Tavis Smiley. The event is free and will be held as a live webinar. Registration is not required. The Zoom link is available at tulsalibrary.org/events. There is also an option to watch the virtual event from inside Rudisill Regional Library. Reserve your seat by contacting new African-American Resource Center Coordinator Larissa McNeil at larissa. mcneil@tulsalibrary.org.
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SHARE YOUR TIME & TALENT To submit a volunteer opportunity, contact Paula Brown at pbrown@LIFEseniorservices.org or (918) 664-9000, ext. 1207.
Be willing to share your blessings. The only riches that last are the ones that are given away. – David Khalil
Knitten' Kittens
This group of dedicated crafters is an integral part of the LIFE Senior Services Textile Arts program. Over the past five years, the Knittin’ Kittens have made and distributed more than 15,000 hats, scarves, and blankets for children and adults throughout the Tulsa community. Two groups meet on a weekly basis at LIFE’s Senior Center at Southminster, located on East 35th Place, one block west of Peoria Avenue. The Tuesday group meets from 1 to 3 p.m., and the Friday group meets from 12:30 to 1:30 p.m. Call (918) 664-9000 and ask for Volunteer Services for additional information.
L IFE's Vintage Guide to Housing & Services The annual Vintage Guide to Housing & Services helps older adults and caregivers find the housing and resources they need. Ever wonder what it takes to get the Guide ready to print? LIFE Senior Services needs volunteers who are comfortable with technology to help update the Guide information. Volunteers are asked to call, fax, and/or email businesses in northeast Oklahoma to verify their services. The listings are free; volunteers are not asked to make sales calls. Training will be provided, and the job can be accomplished Monday through Friday during the day. Contact Carrie Clevenger at cclevenger@LIFEseniorservices.org or call at (918) 664-9000, ext. 1255.
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Activity volunteers are needed to assist and support both the participants attending LIFE’s Adult Day Health (ADH) and the staff overseeing them with daily activities and socialization developed for the program. Volunteers must complete a background check and be able to present their COVID-19 vaccination cards. Volunteers can choose from three locations: LIFE’s Central site at 5950 E. 31st St.; the North site at 902 E. Pine St., and the Broken Arrow site at 3106 S. Juniper Ave. Contact Volunteer Services at (918) 664-9000 for additional information. Training is required.
Senior PALS is a new service opportunity that was created through a partnership between LIFE Senior Services and AmeriCorps Seniors. This program is dedicated to reducing social isolation and loneliness in older adults. Volunteers provide social outreach and vaccine education to seniors by making well-check calls and sending out encouragement care packs. The service area includes Tulsa, Creek, and Wagoner counties. Training is required. Learn more by calling (918) 664-9000 and asking for Volunteer Services.
For more information about these volunteer opportunities, call LIFE's volunteer program at (918) 664-9000.
Give 5 is an innovative, free, civic-engagement program designed for Tulsa residents who are either retired or about to retire. Don’t miss out on our 2022 classes now! Contact Heidi Braver at hbraver@LIFEseniorservices.org.
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THE SOLDIER IN THE ATTIC BY MARY O’TOOLE
Bartlesville resident Mary O’Toole’s essay, “The Soldier in the Attic,” won the non-fiction category of the 2021 Writers’ Symposium writing contest sponsored by LIFE’s Senior Centers and the Oklahoma Arts Council. Mary tells the story of her Uncle Frank, a veteran who returned from the war with what we would now call posttraumatic stress disorder. She reveals his character and the loyalty of the family members who supported him from both the eyes of a child and the understanding of an adult narrator. Mary said she’s working on other sketches of memorable people from her childhood.
2021 Writers’ Symposium Contest Winners DRAWING FROM MEMORY James Laughlin HUMOR Joyce Hanewinkel NON-FICTION Mary O’Toole COOKING CULTURE Gayle Campbell
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The Duke lived in the attic. How my shell-shocked Uncle Frank acquired the manly nickname “Duke,” I never knew, but I did eventually learn why he lived in the attic. He was burly, pugnacious, usually unshaven, silent except for the occasional growl. He muttered “certainly” a lot. We never knew what he was responding to. He was rather unkempt except for that oncea-month arrival of his veteran’s pension when he would dress up – shave, good suit, shirt and tie, polished shoes, derby hat, and a cane. Off he would strut to some bar (probably several bars) in downtown Pittsburgh. I was never fully awake when he staggered in, but I did occasionally hear angry words as his sister (not his wife – he never married) scolded him, and he laughed like a little boy caught in some devilish behavior. Like most young men in our part of Pittsburgh, he enlisted in 1917 as soon as the U.S.
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entered the war. He was assigned to kitchen duty and learned how to be a pretty good cook except for the time he fried dog food, thinking it was hash. He was sent to France. The closest he came to action was when his food tent was bombed. I told my youngest son about this, and he decided to write a story about the bombing incident. He confused World War I with World War II and had the Japanese blowing up the Allies’ food tent. He illustrated the story with bits of tent flying through the air along with arms, legs, carrots, apples, and a stick figure representing my uncle, the Duke. The Duke never read this story, but it would have given him a (rare) chuckle. He was gruff with kids but never mean. He would send us to the store to buy him cigarettes (17 cents to 21 cents a pack) and let us keep the few extra pennies for candy. In response to our “thank yous,” he would mutter “certainly.”
The population of the house diminished over the years. The older people died; the younger people married and moved out until there were only three people in residence – an aunt, a cousin, and the Duke. They had to sell the house and move to smaller quarters. But where would the Duke live? He had caused a lot of disruption in their lives, embarrassment when visitors came. They had a chance to be rid of that unpleasantness; there were several homes for veterans in the area. But instead, they took him with them. He had his own room (it was not in the attic). He had his own bathroom, television, and access to the kitchen. Everyone thought my aunt was crazy. This burden could have been lifted from her shoulders, but she said, “There has to be someone to call the priest when his time comes.”
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BIBLE STUDY
Weekly Bible Reading Session Join us in reading, explaining and discussing the Bible on Tuesday nights 7:00 p.m. CST and 8:00 p.m. EST. Questions are always welcome. Perfect for those who cannot get out of the house. Call (918) 872-1400.
CARPET CLEANING ALL PRO Carpet Cleaning Senior and caregiver discounts. Carpet, furniture, rug cleaning. Pet odor removed and Teflon protectant available. Emergency water extraction. Residential and commercial services. Professional truck mount steam cleaning. Carpet repairs and restretching. Prompt, professional, quality service at a fair price. Certified, insured. Veteran owned and operated. Call Thomas Fink, owner/ technician, for free estimate (918) 636-6303.
CEMETERY LOTS
3 Memorial Park Burial Spaces 3 spaces in Memorial Park, spaces 1, 2 and 3, lot 85 section 35. According to Memorial Park the spaces in this section sell for $2800 each. I will sell these 3 spaces for $1,500 each and I will not separate. Buyer pays for transfer fee. Call (918) 406-3840. Adjoining Plots in Memorial Park Prime location. Priced to sell. Section 12, Lot 185, Spaces 3 & 4 for $3,000. Call Pris (918) 446-0318. Lot in Tulsa Memorial Park Tulsa Memorial Park Cemetery plot for sale. Space 6, lot 67, in section 36. Asking $1,000. Call (949) 969-4564. If you receive a busy signal from your land line, please use your cell phone to call. Memorial Park – Garden of the Apostles Four spaces including vaults at Memorial Park Section 28-Lot V35. Retail value $2,850 each. Will sell all 4 spaces for $8,500. Call (918) 855-2211 or email Bday@cbtulsa.com. Memorial Park Plots For Sale Spaces 5 & 6 Lot 180 Section 37 and spaces 1,2,3,4,5,6 Lot 172 Section 43. Asking $1,000 each. Buyer pays transfer fee. (918) 284-5089.
CLEANING
Window Cleaning & Housecleaning Window Cleaning. House Cleaning. Home, Apartment – move in or move out. Deep
Cleaning. Organization. Light Fixtures and Mirrors. Experienced and Reasonable. Call (918) 404-2575.
DAYTIME CARE Daytime Care For Older Loved Ones LIFE’s Adult Day Health offers convenient, affordable daytime care at three locations in Tulsa and Broken Arrow. For more information, call LIFE’s Adult Day Health at (918) 664-9000.
ESTATE SALES
2MS Estate Sales...Tulsa’s Finest! Downsizing? Estate Liquidation? Let us take the worry away and Maximize your return. No out of pocket expense. We specialize in senior transitions, with over 20 years in the senior housing market. My team includes realtors, moving company, senior housing and attorneys if needed. Please contact Michelle Reed (918) 691-5893 or Atulsa@aol.com also Facebook 2MSestatesalestulsa for a Free consultation.
FINANCIAL/INSURANCE Final Expense Life Insurance Are you overpaying for burial insurance? We are Tulsa Life Insurance Brokers with access to several premium national Insurance companies. We will find you the best coverage at the lowest cost. A+ BBB rating! Call for your free consultation. Mike Corey, North American Senior Benefits, (918) 516-5173. Medicare Assistance Program The Medicare Assistance Program (MAP) at LIFE Senior Services provides accurate information, counseling and assistance relating to Medicare benefits for Medicare beneficiaries, their representatives and persons soon to be eligible for Medicare. Call MAP at LIFE Senior Services (918) 664-9000 or toll-free at (866) 664-9009. Need A New Medicare Plan? The Medicare Supplement Store at Promenade Mall is your “One-Stop-Shop” for Medicare Supplements, Advantage Plans, & Drug Plans. We can give you a quote from top-rated carriers like: Aetna, Blue Cross, Humana, GlobalHealth, UnitedHealthCare, Mutual of Omaha and others. For information, call Bob Archer today (918) 814-5550. True Freedom Home Care Plans These plans cover assistance with meal prep, bathing, laundry,
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grocery shopping, medication reminders and more in the privacy and comfort of your own home. No medical underwriting, no claim forms, no deductible, and no age limits. Platinum, Gold, Silver and Bronze plans available nationwide. Call or text Cindy Johnson at (918) 619-5919 to request a mailed copy of the plan brochure or appointment.
FOR SALE
Stamp Collection Unique US stamp collection. 1945-1982. 20 plus binders of blocks of new stamps. First day covers commemorative issues. Some binders approximately $50 in stamp value alone. Outstanding when reviewed by a Tulsa stamp collector president. If interested, please call (918) 527-3528.
GARDENING/LAWN CARE AAA Lawns & More Total lawn care. Lawn Mowing. Snow removal. Leaf Removal. Gutter clean-up. Specialist in fence/property line lawn cleanup. Stump grinding and small tree work. Dedicated to making your lawn look its best. Insured, honest, experienced and dependable. Veteran-owned. We are a small company with personal service. References available. FREE ESTIMATES. Call Larry. (918) 361-1299. Green Hibiscus Lawn & Garden Services Scheduled garden maintenance (weeding, planting, mulching). Garden bed design and installation. Hedge & shrub trimming. Tree pruning & removal. Leaf clean up. Hauling green debris. Call Charles (918) 636-0298. Kimble Davis Tree Company Family-owned and operated. Specializing in all aspects of tree care: restoration, pruning/ thinning, removal, stump grinding, hedge trimming, firewood available. Serving Tulsa for 25 years. References. Member BBB. Insured. ISA certified arborist. Check us out at www.kdtreeco.com. Call Kimble at (918) 853-5383. Mower Repair / Maintenance All brands – Riders, ZTR's, Walk-behinds, UTV’s / ATV’s. Top Quality work, ASE certified Mechanic. Pick-up and Delivery available. Tulsa and surrounding counties. Maintenance specials include pick-up and delivery 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. Call Scott (918) 519-3869. New Season Lawn & Tree LLC Always accepting new customers. Spring clean-up available.
Mowing, trimming, leaf and debris removal, fence line trim/ cleanup, leaf mulching, flower beds. Tree pruning/thinning and removal. Shrub and hedge trimming/shaping of all sizes. Pressure Washing driveway, decks, siding. ISA Certified Arborist. Fully insured with verified references. Best rates, senior discounts. Free Estimates. Call Todd (918) 639-2262. www.newseasonlawnandtree.com. New Season Tree Masters Specializing in tree removal and stump grinding. Tree trimming service available. Certified arborist on staff. Serving all of metro Tulsa with over 20 years’ experience. Fully insured. BBB accredited. Free estimates. Contact us at info@newseasontreemasters.com or call Todd at (918) 934-4868. www.newseasontreemasters.com.
HOME REPAIR/REMODELING A Handy Helping Hand Professional home maintenance, painting, and improvements. Whether you’re making overdue repairs, sprucing up your home and garden, or optimizing your home’s “sale-ability” potential, call Joe Surowiak with A Handy Helping Hand. Professional results. Competitive rates. (918) 520-0333. Allen’s Handyman Services of Tulsa “Your Home Improvement and Repair Specialist.” 22 years serving Tulsa seniors. “One call can do it all.” 10% senior discount. Insured. All work guaranteed in writing. No pay until job is completed. Plumbing, drain cleaning, grab bars, electrical, carpentry, painting, seamless guttering installation/repair/cleaning. Dryer vent cleaning. Roof, tile and drywall repair. Wood siding/ trim replacement. Deck repair, power washing, staining. Tree trimming. No job too small. For free estimate, call Allen at (918) 630-0394. Big C’s Plumbing Services Your one stop Plumbing Shop! Call us and I guarantee you will never have to call another plumbing company. Licensed, bonded and insured for your protection....Call (918) 855-9216, tell us you saw us in the Vintage Newsmagazine receive an automatic 10% discount....call us now. Bumgartner Plumbing Licensed, with over 30 years of experience. Rates are low and based on the job, not the hour. No service call fee or travel time charge. Senior and caregiver
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CLASSIFIEDS discount. Plumbing service and repair our specialty. Honest, professional service you can count on. Lic. # 82750. (918) 355-4747. Burton Painting Specializing in all aspects of exterior and interior home painting. Staining, sealing, and painting faux finishes. Decks, fences, cabinets and floors. Free estimates. 30+ years of experience. Reliable, courteous, professional service. Fully insured. (918) 378-2858. Dave’s Heat and Air, Inc. Licensed, insured, and bonded. Honest and reliable service for over 30 years. Competitive rates. Specializing in heating and air conditioning service and repair. All makes and models. Residential and light commercial. Tulsa metro area. Family-owned and operated. (918) 437-8101. Doc J’s Heat and Air LLC Avoid costly repairs and breakdowns and save on service, repairs and replacements with our yearly maintenance plan. Mention this ad & get $25 off our Spring air conditioner tune-up service. Financing, free estimates and senior discounts. Call Doc J today (918) 921-4240, docj@docjsheatandair.com. Handyman & Construction Services 30 Years Experience! All Handicap Accessories – grab bars, handicap access abilities; Framing, Drywall, Tape & Bed; Texture & Paint, Plumbing, Electrical, Tile, Laminate & Wood Floors. Free Estimates, Competitive Rates, Professional Service. Call Craig (918) 892-4168. Same Day Services Light Hauling /Light Moving – help you rearrange room furniture, lawns-grass mowing/ small paint jobs/cleanup/ fence repair/light construction/sheet rock tile repair – We are honest dependable. References. Call (918) 313-5230. Scrap Metal Haul Off Free haul off/pick up of appliances such as washers, dryers, refrigerators, air conditioners, hot water tanks and any scrap metal. Call John at (918) 313-4405.
LEGAL Full Service Estate Planning Law Firm Trusts, Wills, Gift and Tax Planning, Powers of Attorneys and more! With offices in Sand Springs and Tulsa. Discount to Veterans and Retired Teachers. Willing to meet you in your place for no extra charge! Call Penni
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of the Skillern Law Firm at (918) 805-2511. www.skillernlaw.com Need Legal Help? Call Me First. Ramona Jones, Attorney at Law. Why travel when we can do a video conference? Wills, trusts, deeds, advance directives, powers of attorney, probate, divorces, civil, DUI, criminal, guardianships, adoptions and more. Also paperwork for limited scope representation. Credit cards accepted. (918) 585-2255. Protect Your Family. Preserve Your Legacy. Whether you are planning your estate or need help with a loved one who may be financially exploited, South Tulsa Law will represent you effectively and compassionately. We work in all areas of estate planning and probate, trusts and trust litigation, guardianship, and elder exploitation. Call (918) 512-1800 or visit www.southtulsalaw.com. m.
NOTARY
Notary Services Available 24/7 Notary available. Never closed. Will come to your home. Will go to hospitals, nursing homes, private homes as needed. Call Joanne at (918) 282-8230.
OIL AND GAS
Mineral, Oil/Gas Interests Want to purchase minerals and oil/ gas interests. Send details to P.O. Box 13557, Denver, CO, 80201
PERSONAL ASSISTANCE Bobbi and Bob’s Personal & Business Assistance Personally assist in driving to beauty shop, medical appointments, and other destinations; provide accounting, secretarial, and specialized administrative assistance; help with business-related matters; serve as liaison with physicians/ healthcare personnel; resolve Medicare and medical insurance issues. Bobbi Warshaw, MPH and Bob Warshaw, MBA (918) 852-5302, bobbi.warshaw@att.net Compassionate Senior Services We offer a wide variety of services for seniors. Whether it's: Rides, Errands, Meal Preparation, Companionship, or Sitting With A Loved One, we're here to help. We offer competitive rates and Smiles are always free. 24 hour Care Available. Contact Christie at(918) 934-7986. Financial Organizer/Liaison Do you or a loved one need help keeping up with mail, balancing a checkbook, paying bills, making phone calls, organizing or preparing for tax
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time? I can help! I will work with you or act as a liaison between family members. Call or email me to discuss options. Essential Strategy Consulting, LLC. Gwen Stevens (918) 557-5259, esc9315@gmail.com Home Health Services Tulsa’s Affordable Home Care offer’s compassionate, quality home care services to individuals. We provide the following services: bathing and dressing, companionship, exercise, grocery shopping, laundry, light housekeeping, medication reminders, meal planning and preparation, oral and personal hygiene, respite care for family caregivers. Please call (918) 622-7820 and schedule a free consultation!!! Kind Hands Home Care, LLC We are a team of dedicated health care professionals who work hard in order to keep our clients in their homes safely and well taken care of. 12 to 24 hour shifts available. For information please call or message Delia at (405) 714-8016. Ms Pac Ma'am Need help packing or organizing? I can pack boxes for moving, downsizing or decluttering. I can help organize rooms, closets, attics or garages providing you more space. Flexible hours – day or evening. Lots of experience. References available. Jacki (918) 922-9558.
PERSONAL SAFETY HALO Medical Alarms Worried about falling? HALO provides medical alert services for those at home or on the go who may need help in an emergency. HALO allows you to get help at the push of a button which is worn as a necklace or wristband. We offer a variety of choices to best fit your needs. Check out the HALO products at our retail store – T-Town Mobility at 61st & Sheridan (918) 392-0566 or (877) 747-HALO (4256). SAFETY GRAB BAR SUPPLY AND INSTALLATION Including handicap accessories for Residential, Commercial, Decorative, Indoor/Outdoor, Stairways, Bathrooms, and more. Secure your space, whether existing, remodeling or new construction, we handle it all. Call before you fall! Free Estimates. Licensed & Insured with over20 years experience. Grab Bars of Tulsa, (918) 619-7324.
PERSONAL SERVICES Affordable Hairstyling In-Home or My Shop With 35 years’ experience, I can help with all of your hairstyling needs. I will come to your home, the hospital, rehab or you can come to my shop. In-shop special: haircut $7 for first time customers only and perms for $45. Senior special pricing can’t be beat!
Available Tuesday – Saturday. A Mane Event hairstyling, located near 11th and Yale at 937 South Canton. Call Mary Wilkinson at (918) 834-2686. Following CDC Guidelines – masks worn, temperature taken, safe environment. Salon Retro Hair care for men and women, specializing in senior clients. This month’s special – First time customers receive one of the following for $12: Haircut or Style or Manicure. $45 for cut and perm. Pedicures are $20. Very Experienced Hairdressers! Come see us in Midtown at Highland Plaza, 5661 East 41st Street (corner of 41st and Hudson). (918) 742-3440.
PET CARE
Dog Walker The Woof Pack Tulsa: Dependable dog walking services for your four-legged family in Tulsa. Helping you take care of your furry friends when you're out! We offer dog walking and pet pop-ins. Insured. Call or text us at (918) 770-6699. Visit our website at www.thewoofpacktulsa.com. Home Veterinary Care Experience Tulsa’s most convenient veterinary service in the comfort of your own home. Our goal is to develop a personal relationship with each of our clients and patients. Contact us today to schedule your house call appointment. Call (918) 892-9382 or email DrFielstra@gmail.com or visit us at www.homevetcaretulsa.com. SENIOR MOVE MANAGEMENT
SHOULD I MOVE, OR SHOULD I STAY? Can't decide whether to Age in Place, or move? Feeling Overwhelmed? We can help. We are your One Source for Downsizing, Moving, Aging in Place, Estate Sales, Selling Home, Selecting a Community, Etc.
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SOCIAL
Single Seniors (50+) Are you over 50, single, divorced or widowed? We are a fun-loving group of single seniors over 50. We meet every Wednesday, 11:15 a.m. – 4 p.m. at the Buffet Palace, 10934 East 21st Street. We eat at 11:15 a.m., have a short meeting and then play cards. Join us for great fun and fellowship. Questions, call Beverly at (918) 272-1049.
TRANSPORTATION My Driver Transportation Service Let me do the driving. To and from work, airport, shopping, errands, post office, appointments. Also, LIFT VAN transportation available. Able
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to assist getting to and from bed. Senior sitting. Also, small breed dog boarding. 20 years experience. CLEET certified and licensed. References. Member, Better Business Bureau. (918) 491-9929.
VACATION SPOT
Meadow Lake Ranch in Sand Springs! Enjoy spring break in one of our authentic log cabins with fishing & plenty of dude ranch activities! The ranch offers unique venues for weddings, meetings, parties, & more with our indoor spaces & outdoor patios. Visit www.meadowlakeranch. com or give Susie a call at (918) 494-6000.
VOLUNTEER JUST DO IT! If you've been looking for a way you can make a difference, consider joining the Millennium Hospice team as a volunteer. Caregiver relief is so important during this difficult time. Volunteers provide that by sitting with patients for an hour or so. Training is provided. (918) 493-6555. Volunteer for LIFE Discover the variety of volunteer opportunities that LIFE Senior Services has to offer. Whether you want to volunteer within the organization or with one of our local non-profit or public agencies, we can find the best fit for you. (918) 664-9000.
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IN MEMORY OF Karen R. Albert In Memory of Bob Boman William Bailie In Memory of Myrna A. Bailie Mary A. Baxter In Memory of Leomia Foster Susan Blue In Memory of Elisabeth Ham Eddie and Denice Brice Kurtz In Memory of Lewis G. Stephens Tonya Carey In Memory of Jo Ruth Shelley Linda Childers In Memory of Charles F. Childers William Coyle In Memory of Joyce M. Coyle Mary E. Dennis In Memory of H. Stanley Dennis Edith Dodson In Memory of Charles Dodson Bud Evans In Memory of Joyce Evans Francis P. Ferrantino In Memory of Alfonso Ferrantino Theresa M. Finck and Mary Ann Finck In Memory of Theresa Ann Finck Dona Frank Morris In Memory of Judge Joe Ronald and Sharon Gibson In Memory of Margaret Haught Jerry Hensley In Memory of Diane Hensley Norma Hollaway In Memory of Terry DeLozier Donnita House In Memory of Marvin Eugene Gregory Dale Kruggel In Memory of Erwin and Maude Kruggel Patrick and Donna Lemons In Memory of Betty Flynn Ms. Mary Moser In Memory of Florence EH Smith Rod and Susan Nordstrom In Memory of Bill Cheatham Lois O'Neal In Memory of Russell Keith O'Neal Christina Pickle In Memory of John Pickle Carolyn Powers In Memory of Mom Beverly Reekers In Memory of Les Reekers Lillian Reynolds In Memory of Henry Ada Richardson In Memory of Sidney Richardson Gail Rommann In Memory of Pansy Woodward Jeanne Sanders In Memory of Jim Sanders Maureen T. Sands In Memory of Family Wendy Sasser In Memory of Kenneth Sasser Christine Smith In Memory of Troy & Irma Smith John Thomas Smith In Memory of Ben E. Smith Ms. Janet Stutsman In Memory of Georgene Zachery Nancy L. Taylor Payne In Memory of Chock and Flitter Kalvin and Martha Tillman In Memory of Lois H. Gatchell Robert W. Traband In Memory of Earl Tuers Suzanne R. Tumy In Memory of Bob Tumy Stuart B. Ward In Memory of John Walker Ward Dick Webster In Memory of Ardyth Webster James E. Witter In Memory of Barbara Witter Betsy Zeligson In Memory of Joel Zeligson Rev. Richard and Peggy Ziglar In Memory of Beverly Southard Dave Zucconi In Memory of Toni
IN HONOR OF: Ellen Atkins In Honor of Carol Lewis, Sally Saunders and Sally Jones Pat Atkinson In Honor of Helen Jo Harwick Jerry Conrad In Honor of Sally Conrad Shelley and Tom Cooper In Honor of Nancy Covington Anne Ghostbear In Honor of Karen Wilson Emma Kaye Hill In Honor of Pland D Helpers JJ and Alissa Hurley In Honor of Ron and Lindsay Fick Sharon King Davis In Honor of Medicare Enrollment Team Les and Gail Lapidus In Honor of Eileen Bradshaw Paul and Elizabeth Long In Honor of Ruth Nelson Johnney and Loretta Long In Honor of Tony, John & Sonya L. Ken and Peggy Tracy In Honor of Carolyn Stewart and Melanie StewartGoldman Terri Wall In Honor of Ruth Nelson
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