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s the City of New Orleans back on track since Hurricane Katrina? I attended Mardi Gras 2010 for the first time and what an awesome feeling it was! If you have never visited the city of New Orleans before Hurricane Katrina, you would never have known that there had been such a disaster. As I walked the streets of New Orleans during Mardi Gras, I saw thriving businesses and millions of excited people. Many of the people that I spoke with were native New Orleanians, a people with a love and passion for their city. As a visitor, I could feel that love. I have visited lots of major cities but have never experienced the pride and love of a city from their people like the people of New Orleans. You would never have known from this Mardi Gras weekend that this was a city that has experienced major destruction not very long ago. You can see and feel the expounding need of the people to get their city back, bigger and better than it was before. I would like to think that the New Orleans Saints winning the 2010 Super Bowl added more pride to the events held during these Mardi Gras festivities, not only in New Orleans, but through the surrounding cities. Two weeks after the Super Bowl win you not only have the best pro-football team in the world, but you also have one of the best festivals in the world to go along with that. Well, to answer my opening question, “Is the city of New Orleans back on track since Hurricane Katrina?” Not only are they coming back, but they’re coming back stronger with a pride and feeling of love for their city that probably has never been felt before! God Bless you all in the city that was counted out!

WILLIE STEWART CEO/ PUBLISHER

FROM THE EDITOR-IN-CHIEF The Power of Words

s a writer, I understand the enormity and power of the written word. As a speaker, I also understand that the spoken word is equally persuasive. I have only recently become aware that even when we say things in jest or nonchalantly, that our words have the ability to manifest into reality. Have you ever casually mentioned to a friend that you haven’t seen someone in a long time and then they call you out of the blue? Maybe you had a difficult test you had to take and you were feeling unsure about whether you’d pass it. You may have even said to someone or out loud to yourself, “I know I’m going to fail,” and you actually did. A few months ago, I felt the beginnings of a cold coming on. I took some medicine to try to ward it off and it helped, but I still had a cold. However, what I didn’t do is say out loud that “I’m sick with a cold.” Did my cold run its course? Yes it did. However, it didn’t run my life! I refused to give in and become “sick.” There were a couple of days that I didn’t feel so good and gave my body the extra rest it needed. However, I really believe that had I openly acknowledged and “whined” about my cold, the universe would have given me exactly what I was complaining about and then some! Yes, I got the cold that I didn’t want to acknowledge anyway, but my point is that I chose not to give it more power than it had by continually talking about it. I’m not saying that we should never talk about the things that hurt us, frighten us, disappoint us or make us feel bad, physically or emotionally. Talking is good therapy and we should express those feelings. I do try to remember, though, that the power of words is enormous and reverberates into God’s universe like a boomerang. If we speak defeat and fear without countering it with words of resolution and determination to overcome, then we become victims. Always choose to speak life, love, victory, power, healing and wellness. Those are the things that I want to boomerang back to me!

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Publishers Notes Up and Coming Trendsetters Educational Trends Health and Fitness Trends Commentary Business Trends Trendsetters Spotlight Trendsetters On The Move Business Trends Inspirational Trends Commentary Inspirational Trends Beauty and Fashion Trends Real Estate Trends Global Trends

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Female Powerhouse in America Mixing Love and Business Male Powerhouse in America Activating Your Life The Startini Report

Sybil Wilkes

Black Heritage Festival Pageant

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“Fly Jock” Tom Joyner joins Yolanda Reynolds as Trendsetters to Trendsetters Magazine’s selection of Male and Female Powerhouses in America.

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The Real Who’s Who By Ava Simone Collier

could easily speak to you about the accomplishments and professional successes of Yolanda Reynolds, the Associate Publisher of Who’s Who in Black Atlanta. Who’s Who is an annual publication celebrating the accomplishments and contributions of Atlanta’s movers and shakers in the black community. I could tell you that she received the Who’s Who Publishing Company Leadership Award and recognized by Cingular Wireless as Minority Entrepreneur of the Year and selected by Women Looking Ahead as one of Georgia’s Most Powerful and Influential Women in Business. Her accolades and achievements go on and on. Who’s Who chronicles the positive achievements of African Americans whether it’s in their careers or in the community. Yolanda said that this publication also serves as a book of role models for African American kids to see people who look like them who are excelling in avenues other than sports and entertainment. Yolanda went on to state that kids can be inspired to be anything they want to be. She explained that kids can refer to the Who’s Who book as a source of reference. “It gives me great joy to serve as the Publisher because when my kids go back and look at these books, I’m sure they’ll be so proud to have these kinds of resources to read about people who’ve opened up doors for them in Atlanta.” Soon into our conversation, I realized that this was more than just about her professional achievements. It was about her personal victory and her indomitable spirit to overcome adversity. In December 2004, Yolanda Reynolds had a massive debilitating stroke. “I couldn’t sit up in the bed and I had to learn how to walk and write again. My face was twisted. I still give

God, ‘Why me?’ Now I say, ‘Why not me?’ I have a story to tell.” Yolonda says she had never imagined that she would have had a stroke at such a young age. “God sent me through that for a reason. Everyday I see what that reason was. My life is so unbelievable now and I live it by ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.’ I really believe when I put God first in everything that I do, everything else will be alright. Yolanda humbly says that she is not the perfect person or has the perfect life, “With God on my side and the leader of my life, I know that I can push on.” Yolanda admits that she is still somewhat challenged on her left side but confidently states, “I still feel like I’m just as beautiful and got it going on like any other sista!” And she does! To look at this beautiful lady, you’d never know she’d had a stroke. Her energy, determination and resilience are evident. Yolonda told me that this story is important to tell because it is not about Who’s Who in Black Atlanta. “When I had my stroke, after I saw how I was shut down, I said to God, ‘No, not me! Ms. Yolanda Reynolds, the Publisher of Who’s Who! Not this woman who was always on the move, going here, going there!’ We need to get over ourselves and love one another, spend time with family and friends. Do things that make you happy!” Yolanda states she’s trying so hard to lead her life differently. She states that she is glad to be able to share her story in hopes of touching someone else. “People think that if they don’t have money, a car or a nice roof over their heads that they can’t make it. The truth is, if you don’t have Christ in your life, none of that other stuff means anything anyway.

FEMALE POWERHOUSE God all the honor and praise for this. He changed my life tremendously by having a stroke; It made me a better person, a better friend, mom and business person.” She continued, “There are so many things that I now realize are more important.” In the hospital for two months, Yolanda says that she gained a new perspective on life. “Just to be able to go outside and see the flowers blooming or hang out with my friends doing fun stuff. Life is too short to be stressed and involved in “mess” or in relationships that are not good for you. Stress kills you! I had to find balance in my life. When something is of God, it takes you to the next level. The devil comes to kill, steal and destroy. I was angry in the beginning. I used to ask 6

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Without Christ there’s no real happiness.” She stated that people often ask her how she does what she does in regards to her busy and hectic life as an Associate Publisher. “It’s not about me. I don’t know how to do anything, even though I’m a college graduate. It’s God who gives me the direction in all that I know how to do.” Yolanda stated that she has a wonderful earthly mother and father who were loving and supportive throughout her recovery. “My father couldn’t stand to see me in the condition I was in after my stroke. He told my mother to take the check book and pay whatever is necessary to make sure that I had the best medical care.” She continued, “Although money was not a www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

problem for my parents, this was one time that no amount of money could help me, not even the doctors could help. Only the good Lord could bring me through this situation.” Yolanda says that no amount of money, power or prestige can help you like God can. “God can shake you down from everything! When you’re so full of yourself, you can’t hear from God. When we take the focus off of ourselves, we can hear from Him. When I celebrated my last birthday, I turned five years old because it’s like a rebirth to me. It’s been five years since I’ve had my stroke. That’s a reason to celebrate!” ■

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he Black Heritage Queens represent the Black Heritage Festival of Louisiana throughout the state and other regions. The festival is a celebration of cultural, community, education and diversity. It is held the first weekend in March in Lake Charles, Louisiana. Come and expand your awareness at two days of festivities full of food, fun and excitement in honor of the rich heritage of African-Americans. Our festival Executive Director is Ms. Stella Miller. One of the highlights of the festival is the pageant, which was 8

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held on February 20, 2010 at the Lake Charles Civic Center in Lake Charles, Louisiana. This year at the pageant the contestants performed a tribute to the late Michael Jackson. Pageant Committee members include Ms. Cynthia Metoyer, Pageant Director, Ms. Debra Perry, Assistant Director, Miss. Benita January, Co-Director, Mr. Christopher Metoyer, Ms. Ashley Broussard Chambers and Ms. Paula Armelin, Pageant Choreography. For more information visit us on our website at www.bhflc.org or email cynthiametoyer@bellsouth.net www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

Deb Miss Kaylynn Hebert

Youth Ambassador Mariah Mouton

Tiny Miss RoNaysha Stevens

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DR. LESLIE ASHLOCK ATLANTA, GA

An Educational Alternative

By Dr. Leslie Ashlock

EDUCATIONAL TRENDS

ost recently, I have encountered more at-risk youth within the ages of 15–19 who are still in the 9th grade. The more I interviewed students in this predicament, the more I saw the need to create an educational alternative to help them to graduate from high school. Although I have had many conversations with students who are older than their peers and having trouble passing 9th grade, there is a group of students within this at-risk group who realize that they have made some serious mistakes and really want another chance at graduating with a regular high school diploma. Unfortunately, many of their academic and behavioral challenges at this stage involves embarrassment and shame because they are generally older than their classmates and everybody knows it. In some educational environments, students are taunted and made fun of because of their academic status. I have found that

SOLID FOUNDATION SCHOLASTIC PROGRAM, INC. ADDS HIGH SCHOOL COMPLETION PROGRAM FOR AT-RISK YOUTH “Some of these students will tell you that they have been playing and not taking school seriously, while others still just don't get it.”

there are students in this category who would love a second chance to get back on track. Solid Foundation wants to recognize these students and give them another opportunity to do their school work with the hopes that this time, playing is not involved. Some of these students will tell you that they have been playing and not taking school seriously, while others still just don't get it. We are not ready for those. There is another program for them...somewhere. We can usually tell where a student's mind is by conducting a simple in-house interview. All of our students are interviewed prior to acceptance to determine if our program is, in fact, a good fit for the student and for the school. We receive referrals through Alliance for Change as well as Dekalb County Juvenile Court System, particularly Judge Haynes. Solid Foundation High School Completion Program works with each individual student after transcript review to create a program for their individual learning needs in order to transform obstacles and weaknesses into strengths and opportunities. For the student, the outcome is not only improved academic performance, but better self-esteem, greater confidence and a renewed joy in learning to help them to get a fresh start in life. There are other components that make Solid Foundation the ideal program. Please visit www.solidfoundationinc.org to find out more about the program as well as a school visit or feel free to call 770-469-3211. This program is filling up fast. ■

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University Community Academy Charter School Guarantees No Child Will Be Left Behind Super Computer Labs; School-wide Intensive Learning Labs; Tutors and Other Programs Position UCA Students for Success

Lab. UCA is using its stimulus funds to build and equip a new computer lab. Last year UCA had a small computer center with thirty computers; but with the addition of thirty new computers, using the EDUSS Educational Software, students will now get computer based diagnostic test and remediation. The EDUSS Integrated Multidimensional Teaching Assistant is able to take the application beyond the assessment level by producing an automated tutorial for each and every student based on the prescriptive diagnosis of the assessment, giving each student a true 1:1 teacher-to-student learning platform. Ms. Emma Adams is the computer instructor and supervises the computer lab. “University Community Academy uses a classroom management system with individualized tutorial assistance and techniques for building healthy self-esteem, including socialization skills and independent/group critical thinking exercises resulting in academic success,” said Caletha Powell, Executive Director of the UCA Foundation. “We provide parents with a competitive choice for a quality public school education for their children that include a challenging curriculum, small class sizes, certified and caring faculty & staff. There is also convenient before and after school hours, extracurricular activities/programs and an educational program that is comparable to or exceeds that of the ‘better’ schools in the surrounding area,” Powell added. For interviews with UCA officials and more information about the programs at UCA, please contact Bunnie JacksonRansom at 404-505-8188 or at bjr@fclassinc.com ■

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EDUCATIONAL TRENDS

o Child Left Behind is more than just a theme that is printed in a brochure or echoed at a founder’s day speech at University Community Academy (UCA). At this small charter school located in southwest Atlanta, learning it a reality. “We prove every day that every child can learn,” says Guy Cooper, Principal at UCA. “What makes us relevant and effective is that we are strategic in our approach for learning and we work at it every day,” Cooper continued. Going forward with programs in 2010, UCA has a new super computer lab and several operative programs that will continue to insure that students succeed. “As we live in a technological society, we must prepare our students through technology,” Principal Cooper added. UCA teachers on all grade levels and disciplines have made proactive contributions to the curriculum and development of student character. The mentorship program for young men has been successful and is a direct result of the volunteerism of Mr. Joe Smith. Teachers and staff have been the core of all success and will continue to be the driving force of success. An intensive school-wide learning lab to diagnose the level of achievement of each student has been key toward determining how and what each student will learn. Math, science and language arts make up the learning laboratory diagnostics. UCA offers free tutoring for students and uses 90% of its Title I budget to fund this program. Title 1 tutors serve the designated school population on a daily basis. Students are identified based on diagnostic test and progress is measured through quarterly benchmark exams. The pride of the UCA today is the new Super Computer

By Ava Simone Collier

EDUCATIONAL TRENDS

r. Steve Perry is the Founder of The Capital Preparatory Magnet School in Hartford, Connecticut. He is also the principal of this innovative and highly successful school, which proudly sends 100% of their graduates on to attend four year colleges. Dr. Perry and his school were featured on a segment from last year’s Black in America 2 on CNN. I recently spoke with Dr. Perry and asked him what makes Capital Preparatory so successful. “We work really hard to design a school that is capable of sending children to college. We go to school longer, 12 months; we attend school for almost 8 hours a day for 6 days a week. I have a team of very talented professionals whose entire purpose is to fulfill our goal: to send children to college. We let the students know that no one or nothing can stand in the way of their success.” Principal Perry shared that at one time he wanted to be the mayor of his hometown in Hartford, Connecticut. However, he says that it’s his mission in life to educate our youth. “It needs to be done. I’m called to do what I do. Mine is a life that is as typical as many people. I’ve had the opportunity to go to college and graduate school and live a very wonderful life. I’m compelled to extend the same that I have been given to others who don’t have it. Also, I’m inspired because it’s the right thing to do.” Dr. Perry admits that he’s not perfect by any stretch of the imagination just because he is doing something good. “It’s just that I have committed my life to improving the lives of others.” As with many schools, parent participation is not always evident. In his dedication to providing the best opportunities for students to excel, Dr. Perry often picks students up from their homes and drives them to

DR. STEVE PERRY HARTFORD, CT

TO WHOM MUCH IS GIVEN Capital Prep. Although the lack of parental involvement is a disappointment, Dr. Perry reflects on the bigger picture. “All that really means in the end is that those of us who have degrees and certifications to educate just have to be better at our jobs. You don’t need a degree to be a parent, but you do need one to be a teacher and many to be a principal. Our students have an academic family who is unwilling to accept anything less than their best. We have to be expected to pull the heavy weight. To whom much is given, much is expected.” This husband, father and author of five books stated that he does not feel that what he is doing is so different from what many other front-line people do everyday. He explained that there are social workers, church leaders and other concerned citizens who are steadfast in helping our children. He humbly continued, “I want people to understand that whatever time I have left in my ‘15 minutes,’ that there are many others who do what I do. There’s nothing amazing about it. I’m just like so many of us who believe so deeply in our children that they’re willing to do whatever they have to do to make it right. Where you begin in life does not determine where you end. You can determine where you end when you do what you need to do to have the best life for yourself.” To find out more about Dr. Steve Perry and The Capital Preparatory Magnet School, visit www.capitalprep.org. He is also the Education Contributor on CNN. If you missed his segment on Black in America 2, please go to Youtube and type in Black in America 2--Principal Steve Perry. ■ 12

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WHOSE BUSINESS IS IT

HOW YOU RAISE YOUR KIDS?

By Theresa Johnson

TEAR BEAR

t’s true, I have always been an inquisitive person but I was never a nosey neighbor. At least I didn't want to be. But every now and then my eye would notice my neighbors across the street. There were twin boys, age five, a little girl, age 6 and their mother whom I didn't see that often. On occasion, I have looked out the window to see the kids on the porch playing on very cold days but not dressed for the weather. I wondered but it wasn't my business to tell someone how to dress their kids. I had heard their little voices outside on late nights. But who was I to tell their mother her kids should have been asleep before 10:00 p.m. I can remember not going to work one day and seeing the kids outside almost the whole day. Never once did I see them run in and out of the house like my kids did when they were their age asking for something to eat or drink. I wondered, but it wasn't my business to worry about why they didn't look or act like normal children do. The mother worked long hours and I never noticed another adult at the house when she wasn't home. I would see the kids and I thought the babysitter just came and went when I was busy doing something. I wondered, but it wasn't my business to watch her house or her kids. I mean I have my own life to live and besides, I thought the kids were cute but they were bad. I had caught the kids going through my trash can and the little girl giving the boys food I had thrown out. I didn't think they were hungry, just bad, and I told them to stop and go home, but again I wondered. Sometimes when I would give them cookies I would see bruises on their little bodies and once the little girl had a black eye. I told myself that kids are rough and they may have been fighting each other. I wondered, but it wasn't my place or business

to tell their mother she should keep a closer eye on them. There were many times I would hear those kids screaming and crying and their mother yelling at them. The mother looked nice and always said hello when we did see each other. It’s true, I may not have seen her much but I would always hear her yelling at the kids to do this or do that and I would hear her calling them all kinds of names. I wondered, but it wasn't my business to tell her how to raise her kids. Then the night came when the whole street could hear those kids screaming and crying. I just turned my TV up and tried hard to block out the pain in their little voices. But then one by one they became quiet. I thought maybe the mother made them go to bed or shut up. It wasn't long before I heard a different sound. It was the sound of sirens and then I saw flashing lights from police cars. As I looked out that same window I once watched the kids play, I now saw them bring out three little body bags and the mother out in handcuffs. I made it my business to find out what happen. I was told she had beaten those kids to death one by one. Should I feel bad? I mean it wasn't my business to report her because of my suspicion. Or was it, I now wonder? If you know a child is being abused or you have suspicion of abuse, please pick up the phone and call 1-800-4ACHILD (1-800-422-4453) Tear Bear say’s “It’s ok to tell” Let’s stop child abuse! ■

Tear Bear Says “it’s ok to tell” Let’s stop all abuse! NATIONAL HOTLINE NUMBERS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE – 1-800-799-7233 CHILD ABUSE-1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) ELDERLY ABUSE-1-800-677-1116 SEXUAL ABUSE-1-800-656-HOPE (1-800-656-4673) SPOUSAL ABUSE-1-800-228-7395 DRUG & ALCOHOL ABUSE-1-800-729-6686 ANIMAL ABUSE-1-800-799-SAFE (1-800-799-7233)

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By John E. Johnson

JOHN E. JOHNSON, CANTON, OH

“Next we will explore the role of the patent attorney. The patent attorney has various responsibilities…”

hen we say “get in the game,” we’re talking about the necessary steps it takes to bring your ideas to market. PATENTING, PRODUCT DESIGN, ENGINEERING/ PROTOTYPING, TOOL AND DIE/ MOLD MAKER, MANUFACTURING, PACKAGING, MARKETING and DISTRUBTION. Each article brings you up close and personal with the owners of these seven major businesses necessary in bringing your ideas to market. These major players in the business will be only a call or email away from answering questions or helping out with your business. In our last issue, we discussed the need for a production manufacturer. Next we will explore the role of the patent attorney. The patent attorney has various responsibilities. The role they play at times is mind boggling. They have extensive knowledge about the following processes: mold making, product development, manufacturing, packagi ng, distribution, marketi ng/ advertisement, etc. The patent attorney seems to have an uncanny ability to store unlimited information. To state it broadly, the role of the patent attorney is to handle the following: protect you from patent infringement, protection of your company’s trademarks/logo, copy right and protecting you when are ready to enter into your market. He acts as the expert negotiator wherever needed. This becomes a real issue when negotiating licenses, the right to manufacture and market/ distribution of your product. Finding investor’s and the

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key players in your market is an area of expertise that the patent attorney also possesses. The greatest role of the patent attorney plays is writing, filing and negotiating for patents. To me, this ability places them in a league of their own. The writing of claims, as they are called in the trade, and recognizing prior art and their uses are all in the arsenal of a good patent attorney. Their expertise and professionalism tell the true story of a good patent attorney. John Gugliotta, a key member of the Altimus team, successfully prepares patent applications for individuals internationally, with a heavy concentration on small entities from Ohio, Indiana and Pennsylvania, from his offices in Northeast Ohio. Over the past 13 years while applying for patents, he has added expertise in chemical, mechanical, electronic and business systems areas. Gugliotta is licensed to practice law before the United States Supreme Court, State of Ohio Courts, the Federal Northern District of Ohio and the United States Patent and Trademark Office, as well as being a Registered Professional Engineer. Do you have an idea and don’t know how to bring it to market? Then follow Trendsetters to Trendsetters Magazine each issue as John E. Johnson shows you the steps to take your product to market. GET IN THE GAME. INVENT YOUR IDEAS. ■ Please feel free to contact 1-888-375-1022 or altimushygienics@gmail.com to place your order. Thank you in advance for your support.

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By Dr. Linda Amerson

rescription drugs have gained a wider acceptance among many consumers over the past decades. Have we become an increasingly druginfected society? There are currently over 300 prescription medications which have a side effect of Alopecia (hair loss) and/or intensifies a scalp condition. Your doctor may not mention Alopecia as a side effect, so do your own research and read the drug manufacturer’s complete warnings. Your pharmacist can provide you with this information even before you fill a prescription. Other resources include medication reference books and searching online. If your research reveals that your medication has a side effect of Alopecia, ask if they could substitute one that does not have a hair loss side effect.

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During a consultation, I consider internal factors as well as external factors to assist with my evaluation. It surprises me in my Trichology Clinic to hear a consumer state that they take the medication because their medical doctor prescribed it and do not have the slightest regard of the possible harmful side effects. Sometimes a consumer will begin to observe other signs and symptoms including: Telogen Effluvium (excessive hair shedding with the hair bulb), Anagen Effluvium (excessive hair shedding of hair in the growing stage); Alopecia (hair thinning or hair breakage); scalp tenderness, burning and tingling sensations, severe itching, change in hair texture, dryness, dullness and crawling sensations, just to name a few. Simply put, your hair and scalp is a barometer of internal and/or external warnings of a temporary health problem, Alopecia, disease or a disorder. Most importantly, in the case of a life-threatening illness or reduction in the quality of life, the requirement to take drugs is inevitable, even

THE FACTS ABOUT DRUG-INDUCED ALOPECIA though they may lead to Alopecia and scalp problems. Each year there are hundreds of new prescription medications released by the FDA. Below is a listing of some medications which contribute to Alopecia.

 All drugs derived from vitamin A as treatments for acne or other condition  Anti-coagulants (blood thinners)  Cholesterol-lowering drugs  Anti-convulsants, including epilepsy medications  Anti-depression drugs  Anti-Fungal medications  Some beta-blocker drugs, and Antigout  Some high blood pressure drugs  Anti-Inflammatory drugs  Hormone replacement therapy (HRT)  Birth Control Pills and the Patch  Male androgenetic hormones and all forms of testosterone  Anabolic steroids Prednisone and other steroids.

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learned early in life that you should never try to be “just like” someone else. My parents taught me to be true to the gifts that God gave me. They said that I could admire and respect what others did, but never try to be just like that person. I was responsible for setting my own realistic goals. Upon graduating from high school, the “Be Like Mike” campaign hit the airwaves. Millions of young men dreamed and desperately tried to be the next Michael Jordan. Unfortunately, this goal was unrealistic for all of them—including LeBron James. No one can be “just like” somebody else, but they can learn from others and set realistic goals that are within their personal reach. After years of being a size 18 and well over 200lbs., I took the initiative to not only lose weight but to help others do the same. In 1998 I became a fitness instructor. By 1999 I became a personal trainer and was a lean size 10. However, I needed to learn more and wanted to do more for the whole person. Upon entering the fitness arena, there were very few people that looked like me and were doing what I wanted to do. However, there was one diamond that stood out: Donna Richardson. She had a mind, body and soul workout which was very similar to what I desired to do. In December 2006 I had the pleasure of meeting Donna Richardson-Joyner. We were both attending a Christmas

party in Florida hosted by Attorney Willie Gary. I was elated to finally meet the world renowned fitness instructor who I admired and who looked “almost” like me. She was African American, beautiful, highly motivating, and full of energy. At the time, the noticeable difference was that I was a full figure fitness CAMELA DOUGLASS instructor. Marriage, two children DAYTON, OH and life had overtaken me and added more weight than I had before. With much confidence and admiration, I kindly walked over to Donna and Tom and introduced myself. I let her know how she had been an inspiration to me on my plight towards fulfilling my vision in health and wellness. I remember sharing that I wasn’t the size that I wanted to be, but I was on my way to getting it back. She encouraged me and let me know that there is room (in fitness) for me too! She was very humble, encouraging, and vibrant. I immediately connected with her and was more driven to set realistic goals for myself. God didn’t design me to be “just like” Donna RichardsonJoyner. However, He created both of us with our own individual purposes. Donna, thank you for being you and for encouraging me to be me. ■

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By Camela L. Douglass, M.S. ED.

“We must expect, trust, and have faith that all things are indeed working together for good.” By Georgeann (Gigi) McCrary

s I see the images in the media of devastation in other lands and hear of the economic ruins of those living in our own communities, I pray that hope is not lost. Hope is essential to improving societal conditions and neutralizing the negative effects of tragedy. Hope must not be abandoned nor orphaned through hopelessness and fear. We must expect, trust, and have faith that all things are indeed working together for good. As with the tulips that poke through the soil and rise in spring, it is my belief that the spirit within every person affected shall be filled and rises again. Have H.O.P.E: Hold On with Optimism, Patience and Expectancy.

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Hold On: Although times may get rough, continue to hold on. See the flicker of hope that remains and cling to that promise that things can and shall get better. Take notice of the acts of kindness and generosity of others from all walks of life that are reaching out to help. It's as if in times of distress we become one unified body to help our brethren. For at our core, we know that as we help others we help ourselves. Hold On. Optimism: Cling to that which is good and see that which is good. Optimism is looking at things in the most favorable light in order to draw that which is favorable unto you. Optimism is the belief in and the anticipation of the best possible outcome for your situation regardless of how things may appear. In essence, have unwavering faith and confidence. Be optimistic. Patience: Sometimes we just have to wait things out. Some things cannot be rushed. It takes time to rebuild. It takes time to develop plans and strategies and then effectively implement them. Patience is defined as endurance and staying or standing power. Will you stand? Can you endure? Yes you can and will. Know that there is a harvest that comes after seed time and a mighty calm that comes after the storm. Have patience yet persevere. Expectancy: Expect things to work out in your favor. Expect for the right people, circumstances and resources to come at their appointed times. Visualize those things that you desire in your mind and believe it in your heart. Let the anticipation of something good, miraculous, and befitting for your circumstance swell inside of you like the belly of a pregnant woman in her final trimester waiting to give birth. In essence, have great expectations. ■

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GEORGEANN (Gigi) McCRARY COLUMBUS, OH

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Teri Miller Barker is a freelance writer from Dayton, Ohio. To view past columns, visit www.thewriteawaycafe.com

By Teri Miller Barker

BLACK HISTORY BEYOND FEBRUARY

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COMMENTARY

“Black History should be celebrated beyond February because we need to instill an ongoing sense of pride and accomplishment in our upcoming generations.”

couldn’t let the month of February get away from us without contributing my thoughts about Black History Month. I listen to Tom Joyner’s show every morning and look forward to hearing his Little Known Black History Facts. I think it’s wonderful that he shares this information five days a week, all year long. When you stop and really think about it, Black History itself has made history. It has evolved since its humble beginnings in 1926 when Carter G. Woodson established Negro History Week. Fifty years later, in 1976, African-Americans, for the Study of Afro-American Life and History, were instrumental in expanding the week into Black History Month. Here we are, nearly 35 years later and I feel it’s time for another Black History expansion. Black History should be celebrated beyond February because we need to instill an ongoing sense of pride and accomplishment in our upcoming generations. With the poor education that some of our children are receiving today, it’s imperative that they understand where we’ve come from and the obstacles that we’ve overcome to be where we are today. Right now, Black History is a cute little 28- or 29-day program for our youth to cram as much African-American knowledge as they can get into their heads, which makes Black History seem like a specialty instead of a necessity. Extending Black History beyond February would help improve the depth of knowledge that our kids have of themselves. Knowing that they have a rich and proud past can greatly improve their self- and race-esteem. In the grand scheme of things, history is history. Black History should be interspersed with any history that’s been made. If history is viewed from a sequential perspective instead of the color of the achiever, then our children, as well as other races, can appreciate our accomplishments as being equally important with the accomplishments of any race that has made an impact on our nation, or even the world. Giving African-Americans a month to celebrate our history perpetuates the segregation we’ve fought so hard to abolish. Don't misunderstand me, I enjoy having Black History Month, so if it never gets an upgrade to wider acceptance, I’ll just continue to post Black History tributes on my website weekly. However, if it does get a much-needed expansion to become recognized year-round, I believe that would help our children to have a stronger sense of equality and a better understanding of who we truly are and what we are capable of achieving. ■ 19

LOVE IN THE LIMELIGHT By Ava Simone Collier

om Joyner, the celebrated and hugely popular syndicated radio morning personality, is married to Donna Richardson-Joyner, health and fitness expert. Tom is also the Founder of The Tom Joyner Foundation, which helps to provide students with scholarships for education at Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs.) Tom is also a major advocate of voter registration and promotes this on air throughout the year. He also encourages his radio audience to seek regular medical care by promoting “Take a Loved One to the Doctor Day.” His purpose is to have a family or friend to accompany another family member or friend to the

doctor for preventative checkups or treatment of already existing health conditions. Donna Richardson-Joyner is dedicated to educating and empowering women, children and families about healthier lifestyles. Currently, her fitness video, Sweating in the Spirit, is the #1 fitness video in the country. In 2006 former President George Bush appointed Donna to serve on the President’s Council for Physical Fitness and Sports. Donna was also inducted into the Fitness Hall of Fame and Essence Magazine named her as one of America’s most inspiring women. “Our official wedding anniversary is on Valentine’s Day so that makes it doubly special for us every year,” says Tom. He and Donna met in 1997 when she appeared as a guest on his radio program. The couple later married in a wonderfully festive, party-like atmosphere in Montego Bay, Jamaica. It was a celebration which included musical guests Gladys Knight, The O’jays, Charlie Wilson and Bootsy Collins. Former Atlanta Mayor, Bill Campbell, Earl Graves, publisher of Black Enterprise, comedians George Wallace and Michael Colyar were also among the 300 guests. The happy couple honeymooned in beautiful Venice, Italy. When I asked Tom about romance and keeping the love alive, he shared “I’ve always tried to surprise her by doing things that are out of the ordinary. One year Patti Labelle cooked us dinner and another year I reunited her favorite group, After 7, and got them to perform.” He and Donna also believe that it’s important to spend quality time together to balance their busy and hectic schedules. “We enjoy just hanging out in Miami on the weekends more than anything,” Tom said. “It doesn’t get much better than that.” There was no doubt in my mind that this loving duo relishes their quality time together, even when it’s not under the most “ideal” circumstances. “Our

MIXING LOVE… home in Miami was a valentine’s gift a few years ago,” explained Tom. “We spent valentine’s night there on an air mattress because it hadn’t been furnished yet. Since Donna is as busy as I am, any time we spend together is premium.” Tom jokingly added, “We have real furniture now!” ■

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ENJOYING THE JOURNEY By Ava Simone Collier

MIXING LOVE AND BUSINESS

on Stokes is the owner of Three Leaf Productions. His wife, Lavita, is the author of A Father’s Love and she also works with him at the office. Together they manage a thriving business, have four children, Laurel, 22, Amber, 19, Ron, Jr., 14 and Sydney, 13 and still manage to have a loving marriage. When I asked him how he makes it work, he explained that mentors are an important part of being successful professionally and personally. “The one thing as I relate to my marriage is that I have an understanding of my goals. I go back to my wedding vows to provide and protect. That’s my number one goal. I have people who I mentor with who have solid marriages who help me to understand what it takes to be a good husband to my wife. These mentors in my life set great examples for me and I follow them.” “Although we take family vacations,” adds Lavita, “Ronnie and I do our getaways; just the two of us so that we can regroup and take care of one another. We get busy with taking care of our children and the business and sometimes you fall short and forget about yourselves. We do ‘date nights,’ we go to the movies and dinner. We understand that in order to make it work, we have to continue to care about each other.” They both agreed that long term relationships take a lot of work. Ron and Lavita have known each other since Kindergarten, began dating in high school and have been married for 22 years. “We also have things that we do individually,” says Lavita. “I have dinner with my girlfriends, he’ll be in the basement in his ‘man cave,’ or I’ll be upstairs watching T V. We still know how to come back as a couple.” Ron spoke about what is necessary to keep the

………….AND BUSINESS love alive. “You have to do the things that you did when you were first dating. When you’re going after the lady that you desire and want, you buy her flowers, write notes, poems and take her out to nice restaurants. Why should it stop once you get married? Continue to do those things that you did when you first fell in love.” I wanted to know how they handled any disagreements that may come up between them at the office. Lavita laughs when she shares that she sometimes tells him to stay out of her office. “I know what my role is so let me do my thing.” She says. “We meet when necessary but when we get home, we don’t bring the work with us. It’s about knowing our roles, both at home and at the office.” Ron adds, “Many people say they couldn’t work with their spouse. It’s not easy but we learn to understand that we’re business owners and that our professional and personal goals are the same even though we may look at things differently on how to get there. It’s not always easy, but it’s fun going through the journey.” ■

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By Ava Simone Collier

A MIXING LOVE AND BUSINESS

rnice says that when she was offered the chance to work in a dialysis unit, she was initially apprehensive and hesitant, but she prayed about it and accepted the position. “I knew that it was God ordained. Instantly, I fell in love with the science of dialysis and also with the clientele. You develop a rapport with them. You look at them and can tell when they’re not feeling well and get to know their family members. It’s not just a job for me, it’s a ministry.” When deciding what type

time, that is a choice to live. We want to make it as enjoyable as we can.” Eric Llewellyn is the Marketing Director for My Father’s House Dialysis Care Facility and Arnice’s husband of four years. Eric is also a chef and a Deacon in their church. When asked what it would be like working together and being married, Arnice stated “I think it will be absolutely amazing! My husband is such a quiet strength and I’ve learned to follow his lead. He is humble and analytical. He’s the headship over my life and I know he has our family’s best interest at heart.” Eric jokes about his wife’s

LOVE IN MY FATHER’S HOUSE of business to establish, Arnice Llewellyn, a Registered Nurse and the owner of My Father’s House Dialysis Care Facility, said, “We knew it would be Christ based.” She spoke enthusiastically about her dialysis facility, “In the dialysis business, which I’m so familiar with, there is a personal piece that is missing in the larger chains that will be intact in My Father’s House. We plan to have live music in our lobby from musicians who want to volunteer. We will show love.” She further stated, “Everyday is not easy. When people come through our doors for dialysis, three times a week, 4 hours each

initial idea on a joint business venture. “She wanted to open up a Christian bank. I sat back and listened. I didn’t know anything about banking and neither did she. I’m good with numbers and I’m a people person.” Eric states he asked, “Why would we go into banking especially when so many were failing?” He laughs as he recalls later saying, “Thank God she took that job at the Dialysis center!” Eric used to own a small pizza shop for a couple of years. “I’m good at meeting people and you get to know a lot of people when you own a pizza shop!” The Llewellyns agree that

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it takes Christ, mutual love and understanding of each other to keep a happy balance. “We go on dates, he loves to cook and I love to eat. We try to stay in love and flirt and have fun with each. Learn to say ‘I’m sorry’ and disagree without being rude or disrespectful. It’s worth the effort,” says Arnice. My Father’s House Dialysis Care Facility is scheduled to open later in 2010. For more information on investment and partners hip opportuni ties, please call 330-309-2605 or e mail at myd i a ylis@yahoo.com. ■

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UP CLOSE WITH THE “FLY JOCK” By: Ava Simone Collier

hhh, Ohhh, Ohhh…it’s the Tom Joyner Morning Show! How familiar is that! We all know the jingle and we all know the “Fly Jock.” I recently had the great pleasure of interviewing “The Hardest Working Man in Radio,” Tom Joyner! Ever wonder how he got that name and why he’s called the “Fly Jock?” Well keep reading and see what Tom shared with me during our interview. T2T: Tom, you still carry the title of the “Fly Jock.” For those who don’t know, tell us how you got that name. No doubt it also led to your other

MALE POWERHOUSE name, “The Hardest Working Man in Radio.

“My show, my foundation, our website, our cruise, our news is un-ashamedly pro black and always will be.”

TJ: I was the morning man in Dallas and the afternoon man in Chicago for eight years…before syndication and satellite deals like we have today that could have made it a lot easier. But instead, I finished my morning gig, rushed to the airport, boarded a flight, landed in Chicago, rushed to the studio in time to do my afternoon radio show, did it, and flew home to Dallas, five days a week. T2T: We love what you do. Please tell us if doing it still makes you happy and glad to get up in the morning and why? And how terrific are the people you work with? TJ: What I do makes me very happy. I get to have fun and make a difference. I can’t think of a better combination. From the top to the bottom, I work with people I love, respect and trust. As I’ve gone from Tom Joyner the man to Tom Joyner the brand, I have had to depend on more and more people to make sure everything my name is associated with really represents me the way I want it to. So, the people who work for me, are me, in a sense. As far as the on air crew goes, I’ve worked with my core group, J., Sybil, and some of the behind the scenes people for many

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years, plus some newer people and we’re a tight team. It makes it much easier to enjoy what you do when you care about and can depend on the people you work with to bring their A-games each morning. T2T: You know that you are a trusted and respected voice in our black communities throughout the country. People, including myself, will tune into your program many times before we go to CNN because we want to know how Tom and the crew feel about what’s going on in any given major situation. What kind of responsibility does that put on you and how do you keep ideas and opinions balanced, unbiased and accurate? TJ: First of all, my ideas are accurate in my mind but I will never claim to be balanced and unbiased. My show, my foundation, our website, our cruise, our news is un-ashamedly pro black and always will be. I think there are enough media outlets dedicated to mainstream media and I’m not mad at them. I watch and support them, too. But when people want to know what’s important to Black America, they tune in or talk to me and I’m very proud of that. I don’t expect mainstream media to do what we do, that’s why we exist.

me how vital it is to give back in your own way. Having come from a small town, Tuskegee, Alabama, where Historically Black Tuskegee University was the heart of our community, I developed a passion for HBCUs. It’s in my DNA. My grandparents, parents, brother, sons and nieces are all graduates of HBCUs. I know first hand what they’ve contributed to this country and the world and I’m committed to doing what I can to keep them vital. This means helping kids stay in school, raising money for the schools and also finding new and innovative ways to make sure HBCUs remain competitive. We are launching HBCUs Online to help even more students get an education by providing a space online for them to get all the information they need to pick the best school and program for them. It’s going to be great when everyone can have easier access to getting a degree from an HBCU. T2T: Tom, my ultimate dream cruise is to go on the Fantastic Voyage! I’m working on it! In the meantime, who’ve you got on the Voyage this year? TJ: We come with it every year and this cruise will be no different. It isn’t just the musical and comedy acts, it’s the

IN AMERICA T2T: We know how important The Tom Joyner Foundation is to you and so many students who are the recipients of your foundation. Please tell me what inspired you to form this foundation? How can our T2T readers help and find out more about it? TJ: The Tom Joyner Foundation is important to me because it was inspired by my mom. She was the one who instilled in

combination of great music, great comedy, great seminars, parties, theme nights and great food. If I were you, I would stop working on it and just go ahead and book the cruise! Shameless plug: It really is the ultimate party with a purpose! Okay, enough procrastinating for me…I’ve got to get my passport for sure now! Thanks, Tom! ■

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ybil Wilkes has been a member of the Tom Joyner Morning Show for years. Each weekday morning, she joins Tom and J. Anthony Brown as they entertain and educate us about the topics that matter to Black America. I had the good fortune to speak with her and find out more about how things work for her on the TJMS. Here’s what she had to say.

SIMPLY SYBIL By:

T2T: Sybil, you always appear calm, collected and confident. How much pressure are you under to be the “voice of reason” many times on the show and to have to explain all those “big” words to Tom and J? SW: I thank you for the compliment. I really try to be myself each morning so there is never any pressure to be anything other than what I am. I love “doing” the news and bringing topics to the table. But I also love to laugh and have fun, which is where Tom and J come in. There is nothing like a fun, lively workplace!

T2T: You’re not just smart and beautiful, but you hold Ava Simone Collier your own with the crew of men. You are easy for most black women to relate to and identify with. Why do you think that is?

FROM THE TOM JOYNER MORNING SHOW: J. Anthony Brown, Tom Joyner and Sybil Wilkes

SW: Thank you again. I hope that I do represent for Black women. I love being a black woman and we are a diverse and wonderful group, but I know that we are not always represented fairly. So while I can’t speak for every black woman, I do try to speak my mind. My sista-circle keeps me grounded and in touch as well. There’s many a day or night spending time with my girls over a glass (or bottle) of White Zinfandel and talking, laughing and crying over our lives and coming up with solutions to save the world! But no matter how many answers we think we have, J. Anthony Brown doesn’t always make it easy on a sista! T2T: Sybil, what did you do before the TJMS? Were you previously in broadcasting?

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SW: Was there life before the Tom Joyner Morning Show? I did work in radio before moving to the TJMS. My first radio job was in Southwest Florida at a small station in Ft. Myers. It was a great time of learning the radio business in a very handson setting. From Ft. Myers-Cape Coral, I moved to Charlotte, NC. I did an overnight shift and news on the morning show. I returned to my hometown of Chicago and eventually met and started working with the legendary Fly Jock, Tom Joyner. I was the traffic reporter on his afternoon show when he was “Fly Jocking” between his morning show in Dallas and Chicago. He invited me to be a part of his history-making syndicated radio show and here I am! T2T: I was reading a few of your blogs. I especially liked the one about “Are We There Yet?” How’s Team Sybil and the State Farm 50 Million Pound Challenge going for you? Overall, what kind of feedback are you getting from others? SW: Weight will always be a challenge for me and I will have to watch my weight every day of my life…so the 50 Million Pound Challenge was a perfect fit for me. Whether Team Sybil is with State Farm, another company or stands on its own, I will also be a part of a group working to get “My Sexy Back.” With my schedule, it’s a struggle for me to maintain a healthy lifestyle by eating and exercising properly. But I don’t think I’m alone. Admittedly, I fell off the wagon during the holidays and now I’m trying to get back into the healthy swing of things. I love hearing from others about how they are doing and making use of the tips they share. I have yet to meet anyone who says he or she has completed a weight-loss program alone. It truly is a team effort. T2T: Does the Fantastic Voyage ever get “routine” for you or does it keep getting better and better each year? How much really stays on the ship? SW: There is no way in the world that the Tom Joyner Fantastic Voyage could ever be routine. One year is different from the other just as the first day of the cruise is as different from the third day as it is from the last day on board. Just like the song says, “It just gets better with time.” But thanks to new and improved communication devices, not much that happens on the ship can actually stay on the ship! ■ www.TRENDTOTRENDMAG.com

“You are responsible for your own personal and professional growth and development, PERIOD!”

INVESTING IN YOU: IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY By Chiquandra Cross

BUSINESS TRENDS

recently had a conversation with a client. I was really bothered by her lackluster response when I recommended that she purchase a couple of books prior to the start of our coaching sessions. I wanted her to read “The Shack,” because of a few recent conversations we had about her relationship with God and feeling somewhat out of sync with her church. I wanted her to read the success classic, “Think and Grow Rich” so that she would be able to understand the Law of Attraction and make a connection between desiring success and actually achieving success. As a coach, I want all of my clients to experience the best lives that they can. It bothers me tremendously when people hem and haw about wanting to be successful and live a life they love, but they are unwilling to do any work to get there. You are responsible for your own personal and professional growth and development, PERIOD! If you are unwilling to invest in yourself, how can you expect someone else to invest in you? Developing yourself personally and professionally is important in order for you to make improvements in the following areas:

Identifying your strengths and weaknesses Decision making Work/Life Balance Transform negative thought and behavior patterns Build relationships Expand your networks

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We both want her to be successful; the only difference is in the process. I understand that there is a systematic process to achieving success and it starts with will and determination; however, it does NOT stop there. You must be willing to commit to something, express that commitment with action and start your journey. Success is not going to show up on your doorstep, walk in, make itself at home and then sit around waiting on you to tap into it. You can develop yourself personally and professionally by attending no or low cost networking events and seminars or signing up for continuing education credits at your local community college or university. You can also join local civic clubs, trade and professional associations and mastermind groups. The opportunities are endless and you will be amazed at what shows up for you when you show up for SUCCESS. If you view your own development through the eyes of an investor, you will soon appreciate and recognize the numerous opportunities that are available to you. Empower yourself to maximize your capacity by investing in yourself…the returns will be PRICELESS!!!! ■

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“I took $50.00 and turned it into a business…”

TRENDSETTERS SPOTLIGHT

By: Ava Simone Collier

AN UNDAUNTED DREAMER

arien McDowell says he doesn’t consider himself a success story yet. “I don’t think I’m a success story until my business is actually able to hire others. Once I’m able to help other young black men and show them how to get into this field,” he says. The field Darien is speaking about is asbestos, lead, mold and insulation. Darien McDowell is the owner of McDowell Business Environmental Services and Insulation (www.mbesi-llc.com.) Darien explained that although his dream of being an entrepreneur has just recently come true, he has had this vision for himself since he was a child. “I was motivated at 10 or 11 years old. I would always walk around and practice my signature. I always wanted to have my own business.” Darien’s story is inspirational because he was detoured on his journey. That detour landed him in the Lancaster Prison in Ohio for three years on a felony drug charge. “At the time, I had been working through the union and was laid off. I was a single father with a daughter to support and bills to pay. Although I worked, I had friends who sold drugs.” Darien states that after being laid off with no prospects of another job right away, and out of desperation to make ends meet, he took a chance at a high risk opportunity. “I took $50.00 and turned it into a business. My intention was make enough money to get my life together and get out.” It wasn’t long before Darien’s new “business” caught the attention of law enforcement and he was arrested and eventually sentenced to three years in prison. While in

prison, Darien says that he spent his time being productive. “I had never been in any trouble like this before. I got my GED in prison and joined the dog training program and took business management college classes also.” Darien says he was involved in sports while incarcerated. “I ran the basketball, soccer and softball programs. Eventually I became in charge of all the sports there, sort of like a sports director.” Darien’s entrepreneurial spirit was undaunted, even behind bars. This was evident in his participation in the prison’s Honor Dorm Program, which allows model prisoners to work outside of the “fence” and earn money. Although things were tough when he was released in 2006, he persevered. “When I got out of prison, I had $75.00 in my pocket that they gave me. I had to make it last until I found work. I got two jobs and saved my money.” He eventually found another job working as an asbestos supervisor under a local union. After being laid off from that job in May of 2009, he was inspired to follow his longcherished dream of owning a business. “I knew people from different unions after working in asbestos removal since 1984. I told a friend of mine that I was going to have my own business and the opportunity came up to do so.” He continues, “I started MBESI in July, 2009. I went from prison with $75.00 to my name, then being laid off and getting a little $400-a week unemployment check to owing my own business.” Darien may not think of himself as a success story yet, but it certainly feels like one to me. ■

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Circle of One Marketing

S TRENDSETTERS ON THE MOVE

uzan McDowell is the President & CEO of one of the most widely respected minority-owned businesses in South Florida, Circle of One Marketing. The Circle is one of a handful of Florida based Black owned advertising/marketing agencies that can provide a full service platform, inclusive of creative design, public/ media relations, community outreach, media buying, on-line outreach and event management. Following an illustrious 19 year career in radio and newspaper sales, in 2001 Suzan founded Circle of One with the vision to create a creative, resourceful and diverse full service marketing agency. The Circle is effectively changing the status quo by

SUZAN McDOWELL pushing South Florida to the next level of modern multilayered, customer obsessed marketing management consultation. Experts in the African-American and Caribbean markets, Circle of One has grown into a real corporate player in South Florida. Past and current clients include The Miami Dade Chamber of Commerce, The Alliance for Digital Equality, Burger King Corporation, The Orange Bowl, The Children’s Trust Miami Heart Gallery and more. www.circleofonemarketing.com The Circle’s highest profile project is Jazz in the Gardens, which has become one of the hottest music festivals in America. Circle of One has been the marketing agency of

record since its inception, assisting The City of Miami Gardens to grow the festival from 1,800 attendees in 2006 to an expected 55,000 people in 2010, at the 5th Annual Jazz in the Gardens, March 20th & 21st at Sun Life Stadium! McDowell loves this project because she says, “The City allows us to use the breadth of our creativity; branding, creative design, cross promotions, public relations, event marketing and social media.” Jazz in the Gardens, hosted by Tom Joyner, features John Legend, Mary J. Blige, Robin Thicke, Boys II Men, Teena Marie, Melanie Fiona, David Sanborn, Joe Sample, Cassandra Wilson and K’Jon. www.jazzinthegardens.com ■

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By Ava Simone Collier says that people don’t understand why some children act out in school. Many times these children have a lack of validation at home. She further stated that many young girls who are promiscuous are seeking love that they did not receive from their fathers. “Seventy percent of African American children are born out of wedlock. Fathers need to understand the role that they play in their children’s lives. If he’s not there, they look in other areas. So many young men join gangs because the gang leader gives the boy the validation that he should be getting from his father.” “So many women grew up without a father and wanted that father’s love. That’s why so many women choose to stay in abusive relationships because they equate any love with love. ‘Even if he beats me, he still shows me love.’ ” Lavita is passionate when she speaks about the need for fathers to be present in their children’s lives. She said, “Proverbs 17:6 says ‘Children’s children are crown of old men and the glory of children is their father.’ ” Lavita feels that this proverb speaks about children representing the greatest treasure that a man can have and that the child is eternally connected to that parent biblically. “It’s never too late to be the father that you are capable of being to that child.” To purchase a copy of Lavita’s book, go to her website: afatherslovebook.com. Also you can find it on Barnes and Noble and Amazon websites and at Ambersbooks.com ■

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avita Stokes is speaking passionately about her book, A Father’s Love. “The book is my story. It’s about me not having a father in my life. I want to show fathers the important role they play in their children’s lives.” In A Father’s Love, Lavita shares intimately about her life without a father and its impact. “It’s always been a passion for me to put the father back in the family. I grew up without a father in my life. I was raised by my grandmother. My mother was in and out of the house sporadically. When she was there, she wasn’t present mentally.” Lavita explained that it affected every being of her life by not having her father around. She states that the most positive male in her life when she was growing up was her grandmother’s brother. “Uncle Ernest became the father that I never had.” “Even if he can’t be in the home, a father still needs to be in a child’s life,” Lavita continues. “Fathers shape and mold who we become and how we see the world in general.” She f ur t h e r stated that as children, we are always seeking validation from our fathers. “Some of the statistics available show that eighty five percent of children who have behavioral problems live in fatherless homes.” Lavita

By Stacy Lattisaw Jackson

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STACY LATTISAW JACKSON WASHINGTON, DC

“I’ve heard it said that women are more in tune with their feelings and more sensitive than men.”

motions respond to actions and events in our lives. Emotions are good and God given, but we must never be led by them. Being led by our emotions often causes bad decisions resulting in consequences. Sometimes we say “If it feels good, then do it.” However, the decisions we make will always affect our future. I’ve heard it said that women are more in tune with their feelings and more sensitive than men. I would agree with that. We are more likely to act on feelings before we’ve applied our minds to the issue at hand. One of our prayers everyday should be “God, control my mind, will and my emotions.” Most of us will have less guilt, frustration, loneliness, and insecurity if we were more thoughtful in our planning instead of acting hastily and impulsively. When we have internalized truths

But through it all, Job did not sin nor did he let his emotions get the best of him. Job’s wife obviously became emotional during his suffering. She said to Job, “Why don’t you just curse God and die.” Job’s response was “You foolish woman, though he slay me, yet will I trust Him.” So we see that Job wasn’t moved by what he saw or felt. Job was not moved by his emotions. He kept his peace and held on to his faith. God honored Job’s faith and in return God blessed him with even more than he had lost. The question is how do we manage our feelings and emotions? We simply pray and ask God everyday to control them. We can’t imagine God’s emotions, but we can grasp glimpses of David, who was a man after God’s own heart. We can say with accuracy that our emotions are a part of God in us. Gen. 1: 27 tells us that we are made in God’s

that we believe with our minds and our hearts, they function as the foundation of our actions. Sometimes, as a result, our actions cause us to suffer consequences that are self-inflicted. When we study the book of Job, we see that Job walked upright before God. Though Job suffered, he brought none of this upon himself. He lost his children, his finances, his friends deserted him and he even became sick.

image. We might say that we are patterned after God. Let’s be glad that we have feelings and be glad that we can cry. Don’t be ashamed of the tears because God collects them in a bottle. And for some of us, He has big jugs. Accepting that our emotions are good and God-given is the beginning of feeling good about our emotions! ■

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Tracy Washington is a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist, Speaker, Author & Life Empowerment Coach and can be reached at Tracy@FashionYourSoul.com.

GRIEF: The Misunderstood Emotion By Tracy Washington

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They claim they “know how you feel,” but in actuality every relationship and experience is unique...

ere we are at the last round of court hearings, meeting with attorneys to settle division of property – this day marks the end. I’m glad it’s over. As I sat in the lobby of the courthouse completely stunned, the reality that my life was about to change forever hit me like a ton of bricks. I’m tired. I’m tired of fighting. I’m sitting across the table from a stranger. How did this happen? After this day I don’t have to be concerned with this mess. But I’ll be lonely; the intimacy that we once shared is gone. The dreams and plans that we made are gone. I feel like a hollow shell that was once filled with hopes, dreams and expectations. All I feel now is uncertainty. According to the Grief Recovery Handbook written by John W. James and Russell Friedman, the definition of grief is “the conflicting feelings caused by the end of or change in a familiar pattern of behavior.” Loss is something that we all experience in our lives at one time or another. It’s unavoidable. The pain experienced by loss can be devastating, leaving us with unanswered questions and lifelong emotional pain. You can’t describe to anyone exactly what you feel because they can’t understand it. They claim they “know how you feel,” but in actuality every relationship and experience is unique to that individual. No one really knows how you feel but you and sometimes we don’t even know how we feel. The overwhelming aspects of grief can make it difficult to sort out our own emotions. Grief is an emotional response to loss; it is not intellectual. Since most of us were socialized to divert our feelings to our intellect with phrases like, “Don’t feel bad, she’s in a better place,” we tend to try to use that idea to deal with all of our emotions. The net result is that we try to heal our emotions with our heads, which is something like shopping for milk in the hardware store. Logical reasoning does not lessen the pain of a broken heart. The heart screams out to communicate what it feels but the brain informs us that if we tell the truth, we will be judged or criticized for expressing what we truly feel. An internal war ensues and we try to reason away the pain, but that rarely works in the long run. When we’re allowed to express our true feelings in a non-threatening, non-judgmental atmosphere, we’re more apt to tell the truth and rid ourselves of emotional baggage. Grief is not about the head, it’s a matter of the heart. ■

Richard M. Thompson is a freelance writer and can be reached at thmpsnmic@gmail.com.

By: Richard M. Thompson

he planet we live on is nothing more than a collection of rocks, dirt, water and air in the most simplistic definition. The Earth, as we call our home, travels through space rotating on its axis once a day at a speed of approximately 1038 miles per hour at any

ing to fulfill their duties properly. Our earth supplies us with finite resources; air, water, minerals and other natural resources that we, as a human race, have depended on for our survival for thousands of years. Mankind has been appointed by God to be His steward over His creation, our home, earth. We were not to harm His creation, our home, by spewing

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EARTH, OUR HOME spot on the equator. In addition to the rotational speed of the earth spinning on its axis, the earth also is speeding about 66,660 miles per hour in its revolution around the sun once every 365 days. Because of certain laws of physics, we do not even realize how fast our home is traveling through the universe. There is also a tendency for mankind to forget that he is just a steward of and a passenger on the good ship Earth. A steward is someone whose main responsibility is to manage the property of the owner. A steward does not own any of the property, though the steward may benefit from any increase in value from their successful management of the property. Likewise, if the steward is careless in managing what was entrusted to him, the owner has the right to impose severe consequences on the steward for fail-

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toxic chemicals into His rivers, lakes and oceans in the name of commerce. Nor were we to pollute the atmosphere, diminishing the quality of the air we breathe. As stewards of His earth, we are not supposed to do irreparable harm to his creation nor was it His desire that we fight amongst ourselves for the limited resources provided to us because of greed, selfishness and even religion. We must realize that we cannot continue damaging the only home we have by polluting our only sources of water, air and land. Manâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s continued deforestation of our rain forests and destruction of our wetlands causes the natural ecosystems to be out of balance which can have devastating consequences in times of heavy rains and storms. Earth is the only home we have. Let us begin to heal her by doing whatever is necessary to restore the ecosystems that sustain our lives. â&#x2013;

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By: Angela Thomas

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he Word declares, “Seek and ye shall find” (Matt. 7:7). There is a blessing waiting for us. When we seek Him, we make a conscious decision that is necessary for bringing us into the realm of the spiritual. Some levels of blessings are never received unless they are diligently sought. God knows what it will take to bring us to a place of searching. He sometimes allows us to go through a situation for a purpose or ministry. We all have flaws; some are hidden while others are visible. God can heal and speak to us without uttering one single word. God’s healing can take every past hurt, painful experience, situation or circumstance in your life and bring you to complete freedom. Everything we go through is just building and molding us for Christ. Without our fears of loss, there would be nothing gained. Without having intuition and knowledge, there would be no existence of ignorance. Without making an effort to change, we shall never find peace of heart and mind that dwells within. We all long to learn and explore the truth that exists and dwells within. The reflection in the mirror does not show what is truly within. It only shows traces that may have traveled from within and now shows

itself on our skin. The truth within will give us strength to do and overcome our doubts and fears. What better gift to give yourself than to live in the new and present freed moment. No relationship in life can be more successful than what we are willing to learn about ourselves through it. The moment we turn our backs on what the reflections give us to see about ourselves, we not only walk away from what we need to see, but also from the better person we could be. Why are we only willing to learn the lesson at hand? Stop. Decide what you want in life and go for it! Whether it is to be healed, restored, saved, or set free, go for it. Just take one step at a time and see what God can do through you and bring out of you! It may appear that He is not there, but He is. God has equipped us with everything we need for life and Godliness. We need not walk in selfish gain or greed, but out of the nature of our true heart. ■

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Barbara Campbell is the founder of Joy Keeper, a faith based nonprofit corporation dedicated to improving the quality of life for breast cancer patients. To learn more, visit www.joykeeperassistant.org

MY DATE WITH CANCER PART 4 By Barbara Campbell

INSPIRATIONAL TRENDS

G BARBARA CAMPBELL SAN ANTONIO, TX

“My faith tested once again, but this time I am prepared and because I have to be strong…”

rowing up in South Central Los Angeles, I was like most raised in a home with strong religious beliefs, being taught right from wrong and to fear the Lord, for He was mighty and powerful. Being a typical young woman with my own way of thinking and dreams to pursue, I positioned worshiping God last on my list of priorities. So when I had my first encounter with cancer thirty years ago, I did not know how to handle it, so my journey began. I then had to reacquaint myself with God and get prepared for things to come. He had to show me that He was the author and finisher of my life and that there was a purpose for my existence. But that purpose had to become a realization to me. I had to understand that through my walk with God I had something to offer, words of encouragement, an ear to listen or shoulder to cry on. Now, I may never know whose life I touched doing those things, but I can appreciate and be thankful for my blessings knowing that I did what was asked of me through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. “It is more blessed to give than receive.” As I progressed through the years of adolescence, young adulthood, marriage

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and child rearing, once again I came in contact with CANCER! But this time much closer to home and dear to my heart; my daughter has CANCER! My faith tested once again, but this time I am prepared and because I have to be strong for her, I remind myself that I have faith in what God can do. I tell myself that He will move obstacles out of your way and bring you peace at your darkest hour. The bible tells us that “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. By faith, we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was not made out of things that are visible.” Hebrews 11:1, 3 ESV. So as I watched the hospital staff begin preparations for my daughter’s six hour surgery, I began to pray a prayer of faith, for strength and the words of encouragement that I will need to now say to my child as she prepares to be operated on. As I wait, I observe Chantal laying there on the operating table, in high spirits, having made her peace with the Lord. I’m inviting all readers to “My Date with Cancer!” Please look for the continuation of this story in the T2T May/June 2010 publication. ■

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Teri Miller Barker is a freelance writer from Dayton, Ohio. She is currently a grad student and English instructor at Wright State University. To view past columns, visit www.thewriteawaycafe.com.

By: Teri Miller Barker

TERI MILLER BARKER DAYTON, OH

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ecently, some friends and I were having a discussion about people who are users. Each of us shared how we feel about people who never have anything to give but are always looking for an opportunity to take advantage of others. One friend made the comment that she’s always been a very giving person but it seems as if she’s never on the receiving end of the generosity and she was “tired of being good.” It reminded me of the scripture in Matthew 5:44 that says, “Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them that despitefully use you.” This isn’t always an easy thing to do because as human beings our first reaction is to want to get back at them and give them a response that is equally as hurtful. But in our effort to be more Christ-like, God has challenged us to show those that have hurt, used or offended us the same love, patience, and forgiveness that He has shown us…unconditionally.

PRAY FOR THOSE WHO USE YOU I’m sure most of us can think of a time when we weren’t even trying to do the right thing or live the right way but God still had our backs. I can think of times in my life when I was not about God’s business but He still protected me. We live in hard, difficult times and many of us are just trying to make it. Nobody wants to be used but, as Christians, we have to deal with life’s challenges the way the Bible instructs if we’re to have a favorable outcome. Galatians 6:9 tells us to not be weary in well doing for in due season we shall reap if we faint not. So, don’t grow tired of treating others good. Continue to do what you think is right and remember to pray for those who use you because God will reward you for your diligence. ■

“This isn’t always an easy thing to do …”

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“When you start making life-altering choices, you must be deliberate about who enters your life and who you remove from your circle of influence.” COLUMBUS, OH

By Carla Daniels Choose you this day….(Joshua 24:15)

o you think about some of the choices you make on a daily basis? Some are so automatic that you don’t even notice that you’ve made a choice. These are not agonizing choices; they are probably done with little or no effort. What about choices that tax your brain? In a 2008 article in Scientific American entitled, “Tough Choices: How Making Decisions Tires Your Brain,” the author, On Amir, looks at research about how choices can exhaust the brain thus affecting your decision making later in the day. This is known as “executive function.” In layman terms: I have often had “brain drain” where after a very cerebral day, I can’t make a simple decision like what to eat for dinner. Like most of you, I have a job that requires me to make a lot of decisions throughout the day. Some days the decisions are easy. There are days when I have to choose to fire someone or which item to do on my “to do” list. These are stressful days and cause me to tax my “executive function.” When you start making life-altering choices, you must be deliberate about who enters your life and who you remove from your circle of influence. Whether your friends stand around and give you direct advice or you have conversations with them, they are influencing you in some

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CATASTROPHIC CHOICES way. Are they yeasayers who encourage you to do the right thing and seek your higher power or are they naysayers who encourage you to blow it off and just do what you want with no regard for the consequences? Pastor Jamal Bryant has a sermon entitled, “I Had to Date Them.” It looks at Judges Chapter 14 about Samson. In it, he says that some people are stinking up your life because they won’t move on or you won’t let them go. When you have a funky life, no one wants to be around you because you stink and that stench is latching onto their lives. You know the saying, “Birds of a feather flock together.” If your friends have messy lives, people will think you have a messy life also. How are you living your life? When tomorrow comes, where will you be when it’s time to stand before your Creator looking back over your life? Will you see moments of an unlived life? A life where you wanted to give up and probably did or where you could have made a choice to follow your dreams, but chose a life less fulfilling because you had obligations and the two would clash? You only live once. What are you waiting for to live it? Carla is a certified NCTI Real Colors facilitator and Gallup Strengths Quest certified. Contact her by email at carla@hmgconsultants.com or visit her website at www.hmgconsultants.com ■

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TRACY HILL-ASHLEY FT. WORTH, TX

‘Chic SkiNotations VOLUME 6

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reetings Trendsetters! I hope 2010 has been treating you well thus far. We’re approaching springtime and many of us are searching for a fresh, new look. It may be a wardrobe upgrade, weight loss, cosmetic

So how does it work? Botox works to relax the contraction of muscles by blocking nerve impulses. The result is muscles that can no longer contract and so the wrinkles relax and soften. It usually takes two to four days to see cosmetic improvement

“TO BOTOX, OR NOT TO BOTOX: THAT IS THE QUESTION” surgery or even BOTOX. Yes, I said it. Today, many men and women are turning to Botox for a wrinkle-free, more youthful appearance. If you have contemplated getting this procedure or just want to know more about it, I have a little information that may help you with your decision. What is it? Botox is a trade name for the neurotoxic protein called botulinum toxin. In large doses, the protein causes a rare paralytic illness often linked to food poisoning. However, the protein is used in cosmetic medicine to treat moderate to severe brow furrow (glabellar lines), uncontrolled blinking, lazy eye, wrinkles and facial creases. These procedures use a small amount of diluted botulinum toxin that enables controlled weakening of muscles.

and the effects tend to last from four to six months. Most patients require retreatment to remove wrinkles and lines as they begin to reappear. However, after each injection, the wrinkles return as less severe, as the muscles are trained to relax. How is it administered? Botox procedures do not require anesthesia and usually take just a few minutes to perform. The protein is injected into the muscle using a fine needle in order to minimize discomfort and maximize accuracy. It is recommended that patients avoid alcohol for about a week before the procedure. In order to minimize bruising, patients should stop using aspirin and anti-inflammatory medications about two weeks before treatment. What are the side effects of Botox? The most common side effect of Botox

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injections is temporary bruising. Other possible side effects include:  Headache  Respiratory infection  Flu syndrome  Drooping of the upper eyelid  Nausea  Indigestion Well folks, now you are armed with most of the information you need to make a fairly good assessment of whether or not this is for you. If Botox doesn’t seem fitting for you, just take up yoga so you can keep those facial muscles relaxed at all times! Best Regards and Beautiful Skin, Tracy, TrāChic Bodywear- President/ Chemist www.trachicbodywear.com 817.235.4085

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DR. DOROTHY FLAKE HOUSTON, TX

Make sure that you keep your wigs and prosthetics away from friction, so always use special tools to comb, brush and dry them. Special storing care is advised. Make sure you keep wigs and hair prosthetics on a mannequin’s head. Use a mannequin’s head preferably covered by or made of a skinlike material. If using a styro foam mannequin’s head, replace it monthly because bacteria will build up even when it looks clean. In cleaning, use a sea breeze type of astringent on the undersurface of the scalp of your wigs or prosthetics every time you remove it and store it. You may experience flakiness or rashes if you are wearing a vacuum fit prosthetic that has no breathability. In this process, a resistant area of skin will be created by your body to adjust. Having a high perspiration level will reduce your best conditions for new growth. If you are an alopecia patient, consult your doctor. Always continue to nurture your best opportunity for new growth.

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he following precautions are used to maintain hair prosthetics and wigs:

PROPER CARE FOR HAIR PROSTHETICS AND WIG CARE 5.

“Having a high perspiration level will reduce your best conditions for new growth….”

Always be very careful when wearing wigs all the time because your scalp condition underneath will not be at a level for potential new growth because your scalp is covered. Also know that alopecia may develop if you continually wear wigs. Try other alternatives. Selecting a full-cranial prosthetic that is breathable allows growing hair to grow as long as it is a non-vacuum. The fit of a hair prosthetic is very important. Make sure it is custom cutting, fitting, styling and coloring. All of these are essentials in the creation process.■

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ain is a Libra and a self proclaimed workaholic which allows her to be a shopaholic. She enjoys going to eclectic, off-thebeaten path shops rather than the malls. “But don’t leave them out,” she says. “I’ll go if you want me to!”

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DO NOT LOSE YOUR HOUSE TO FORECLOSURE By Mechelle Bowser, Foreclosure Realtor

By Mechelle Bowser, Luxury Foreclosure Specialist

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idespread foreclosures create numerous problems for both individual neighborhoods and for the country as a whole. Obviously, on a national level, soured loans have cost companies millions of dollars and in some cases, their very existence. On a local scale, abandoned foreclosed properties that fall into disrepair are magnets for vagrants and criminal activity. Nearby homes also fall in value as foreclosed homes make the neighborhood less desirable to live in. Millions of American homeowners are expected to fall into foreclosure during the next few years. In some cases, there may be no way to save their home. Yet in many other cases, homeowners can avoid foreclosure by talking with their lenders and possibly taking advantage of new federal programs. The first step to avoiding default and foreclosure is to approach your lender and tell them of your situation. If your ability to keep up with your payments is lagging, talk to your mortgage lender before you actually have to make a late payment. In addition to early programs for struggling homeowners, the federal government started a new initiative last October called HOPE for Homeowners, which could save as many as 400,000 American mortgage borrowers. It works like this: a worried homeowner contacts a HOPE representative. The representative works with the lender and voluntarily gets them to agree to write down the loan balance to 90 percent of the current value of the home. Then they refinance the original mortgage into an FHAguaranteed 30-year fixed rate mortgage with predictable monthly payments. As the value of the home appreciates in the future, the homeowner agrees to share some of that equity with the government. In order to qualify for this program, borrowers must be able to fully document their income, occupy the property involved (no investment properties will qualify) and their housing costs after the refinance must total no more than 31 percent of their income. ■

“The first step to avoiding default and foreclosure is to approach your lender and tell them of your situation.” “...the federal government started a new initiative last October called HOPE for Homeowners,…”

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By: Jacques Miles

T EQUADOR, SOUTH AMERICA

here is no pure Ecuadorian race just as there is no pure American race. The Ecuadorians are a mixture of Spaniards, Africans and Indigenous people. The mixture of these three cultures with all their history has created the country we now call today Ecuador. History tells us how ages ago people came to the Americas from Europe to claim an al-

LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT THE PEOPLE OF ECUADOR! Ecuador, South America

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ready populated “New World.” We have read about the slaughter of the Natives and the way their land was stolen. These Native Americans lived and prospered such as the Alaskan Eskimos, down to the tribes of North America such as the Cherokees and the Mohicans, down through Central America with the Mayas and Aztecs, down through South America with the Incas and Shuar. These, of course, are only a few of the tribes and nations that governed these lands. However, South America is full of the descendents of such ancient nations. So the questions arise, “Why in North America is it not the same?” and “Why is it rare to see a Native American?” I have put these questions to many and have heard many legends and tales, but the only logical story I have heard has to do with an ancient Inca prophesy. It states, “The Gods will come to us from the sun with their radiant white faces and long beards of wisdom and we must bow down to them.” Fate would have it that the Spaniards and Portuguese arrived fitting this description. Instead of the natives’ fight until their death to protect their land, they welcomed these foreigners with open arms. There was no need for the Europeans to slaughter an already submissive people. Many were made slaves, along with the slaves they brought from Africa and, until this day, there are many direct descendents from Africans and Incas. In Ecuador there are certain places protected by the government and is off limits to people not belonging to a certain tribe. Deep in the jungles these people live the same way they have for thousands of years and anyone who ventured into their land usually never came back to tell what they saw. They have their own laws that are separate from the rest of the country and the government respects their boundaries. These people live the way they always have. There are certain places that are predominately Afro Ecuadorians and they still carry many traditions found only in Africa. Ecuador is very diverse in plant life, in animal life, in its beauty and in its people; these things have made it a truly beautiful place. My name is Jacques Miles and what a special people living life in the middle of the World. ■

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“...we as a people showed that love for one another isn’t a thing of the past.”

COLUMBUS, OH

HOPE 4 HAITI 614 GLOBAL TRENDS

...AND THEY CAME TO THE RESCUE IN JUST A WEEK BY ERICA PARKS

ith the devastation that rocked Haiti on January 12, 2010, we all wanted to do our part, even if it was small, to help out over in Haiti. Most were torn between donating to the relief and putting food on the table for their own families due to the tough economic distress that the U.S is in right now. However, Shene’ Brownlee of BLAKstar Media LLC decided that it was time for Columbus, Ohio to show that they had a heart. She and her partner, Mealee Thomas, reached out to local artists and celebrities and in one week put together an awesome array of artists from all over the city to help raise money. I must say that the city showed up and turned out in a major way. The Hope 4 Haiti benefit concert was held on January 22, 2010 at the legendary King Arts Complex and was packed full of media from local to underground. It was so beautiful to see so many people come out and network for the greater good. Who would have thought that the vision of one person could affect the hearts of so many! The show was hosted by Javier Sanchez, who is one of the founders of R.E.A.C.H Communications. The line-up included artists such as L.E. for the Uncool, Fly Union, The Liquid Crystal Project, Carlotta Penn and reggae group Flex Crew. For the poetry lovers, the benefit featured poetry artists Keith “Speak” Williams and Barbara Fant. The city came out to support the

event even on such short notice and showed that even though some are struggling, we can still do our part to show that we care and that we’ve heard the cry for help. The Hope 4 Haiti benefit concert was able to hand the American Red Cross proceeds of over $2000 and also donated perishable and non perishable items to help out. Just when the world said that we don’t care about one another and, while there are some who believe that we are our own demise, I believe that in a situation like the one that rocked Haiti, we as a people showed that love for one another isn’t a thing of the past. We still have hearts that bleed and I am so happy that I was able to be a part of such a strong movement and was so proud that my city was able to help out in the way that they did. Haiti still has such a hard road to travel and a long way to go before they are even half way up to par to begin living normal lives again. However, to know that people will come together to support each other and to give in situations where they aren’t really in a position to do so really tugs at my heart strings. Love is a beautiful thing but it is even more significant when you can shed tears for those you have never met or even laid eyes upon. Now that is true love from the spirit and the heart. ■

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LIONEL LOCKE AUGUSTA, GA

WHAT’S IN FOR 2010 By Lionel Locke

he New Year always brings forth new styling, fashion and trends. Not only does 2010 bring in refined styling for familiar models, it also brings in several brand new models from automakers such as GMC and Honda. Here are a couple new automotive trendsetters for the 2010 model year. The GMC Terrain GMC has unveiled a new model that most GMC dealerships can’t seem to keep on the lot. The Terrain is a midsize SUV that starts under $25K. The well equipped model, SLE-2, starts right under $26K and comes standard with Bluetooth connectivity, rear view camera for back-up assistance, USB Ports for iPod and MP3 connectivity and a sliding second row to get a few more inches of leg room for your back seat passengers. The all new Terrain is also best in its class for fuel economy. The standard 2.4L engine allows the Terrain to get 22 MPG gallon during city driving, an impressive 32 MPG while cruising the highway or interstate and has a cruising range of 600 miles on one single tank of gas. For those of you who have a budget of $30K, the SLT trim of the Terrain might be your choice. This trim has the same standard options as the SLE with additional options of remote vehicle start, powered sunroof, programmable power lift gate, and heated driver and passen-

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ger leather seats. If you seek more power, an available 3.0L V6 is available for the SLE and SLT trim level. Both engine configurations with FWD and AWD setups and General Motors’ 100,000 mile/5 year power train warranty. Honda Accord Crosstour Honda Motor Company also uncovered the all new 2010 Accord Crosstour. It looks like a cross between a station wagon and a midsized SUV. The Crosstour is Honda’s answer to the Toyota Venza. The base price of the Crosstour is right under $30K and can be purchased fully loaded, including navigation, for around $35K. The Crosstour has a spacious interior cabin with lots of storage options. Standard features for the Crosstour include dual zone and second row climate control, steering wheel mounted cruise and audio controls, one touch power sunroof and heated side view mirrors. The EX-L Trim offers leather appointed seats, Bluetooth connectivity, and USB ports for iPod and MP3 connectivity. Honda’s Satellite-Linked Navigation System is optional for this trim level. The 3.5L V6 propels the Crosstour around town getting 17 mpg and cruises the highways while getting 27 mpg. All Crosstour trim levels are available in FWD or AWD configurations. The Crosstour may be on the pricey side, but you definitely get what you pay for when you purchase a Honda. ■

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By Mechelle Bowser If you have any celebrity news, please drop me a line at thestartinireport@yahoo.com. I would love to hear from you.

ell we have a lot of catching up to do in this issue. Our celebrities have really been busy these past couple of months….

Best wishes for more projects like the movie “Precious.” And congratulations to Mo’Nique for her Golden Globe award in the movie.

According to Forbes Magazine, Jay-Z and Beyonce have been named Hollywood’s Top Earning Couple. They have reported to have made an estimated $122 million dollars this past year.

Well we have some Chili that stayed cool …because usually Chili is hot!! Our Atlanta’s own Chili kept it cool while heart throb Usher did his thing. Reports are now saying that Chili and Usher have rekindled that old flame again. We will have to wait and see… she was real cool through it all…big ups to Chili.

Well Sean Diddy Combs shares his wealth pretty well with his family. Mr. Combs’ 16 year old son, Justin Combs, just celebrated a birthday in January. Well… his gift from dad was a $360,000 Maybach Mercedes. For our “All My Children” soap opera fans, one of our most favorite characters has died. The character, Palmer Courtland, whose real name is James Mitchell, died recently in Los Angeles, California from pneumonia. We all have seen the reality show of Sex Rehab with Dr Drew. Well our newest addition to a Sex Rehab clinic is Tiger Woods. He is reportedly in a sex rehab clinic in Mississippi. Reports also state that Mrs. Tiger Woods has been there to visit. We were all devastated by the earthquake in Haiti. We had some phenomenal people step up to the plate. Our Titanic star, Leonardo DiCaprio, donated $1million to the victims. This is the actor that drives a $15,000 hybrid car everyday. I guess he knows when to be frugal and when not to be. Thanks Leonardo! According to the “Hello Beautiful” blog, singer Trina and NBA player Kenyon Martin have split. Supposedly, Trina does not want this made public because she does not want her fans to think she cannot keep a man after the public break up with Lil Wayne.

Congratulations to our beautiful African American Caressa Cameron (Miss Virginia) who just recently won the 2010 Miss America title. Can you believe Rush Limbaugh was one the judges?? Hot update! Mystical, the rapper from New Orleans, was finally released from prison recently. He was sentenced in January 2004 to six years in prison after pleading guilty to forcing his hairstylist to perform sex acts on him and his bodyguards. Congratulations go out to Beyonce again! She has won six Grammy Awards in 2010. That is the most collected by a female in one night in the Grammy’s 52-year history. Talk about heavy spending, Lisa Raye reportedly admits to spending as much as $200,000 a month to stay in style while she was the first lady in Turks and Caicos. Sean Diddy Combs appeared on Anderson Cooper’s CNN show to announce his future plans to start a business academy. He wants to shed the “Bad Boy” image and showcase more of his business mogul side. The school will most likely open in Harlem.

“Dr. Conrad Murray might not be giving any more ‘lethal injections’ for a long time. Reports from Los Angeles are saying that the former doctor of Michael Jackson may be going to jail. He may be charged with manslaughter. At the time of press, Dr. Murray had not yet been served with the warrant.

We also have to welcome our new Celebrity Trainer in Atlanta, Sean Shumate. The former basketball player is here in Atlanta training some of our best athletes in the city. Sean is located at The Atlantic Station LA Fitness in downtown Atlanta. Give him a call for your celebrity body workout at 404.810.9015..do your body some good.

The movie “Precious” has made history. Lee Daniels has been nominated for an Oscar for Best Director. It is also the first film nominated for best picture directed by an African American.

That’s all for now! Please continue to enjoy our magazine. And remember if you want to share your celebrity gossip with me, email me at thestartinireport@yahoo.com ■ TRENDSETTERS TO TRENDSETTERS | MAR/APR 2010

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