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LET’S ALL SPREAD THE LOVE

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IT’S FEBRUARY AND LOVE IS IN THE AIR. IT’S THE

Some of my most memorable Betty White

SEASON WE TURN TO OUR LOVED ONES AND

moments are listed below. Those of you who share my

EXPRESS OUR ADMIRATION. Whether its romantic

admiration of Betty won’t need much context. If you

love, familial love, or great fondness of our friends,

do, a quick Google search will lead you to these bits:

neighbors, and business colleagues, it’s a perfect time

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of year to demonstrate our feelings and let others know just how much they mean to us. It’s easy. Make it happen with a personal visit, phone call or even a text - and yes, Hallmark has a card for it too. But maybe we can take it one step further in 2022. What about those with viewpoints in opposition of our own? Or family members or disagreeable neighbors with whom we’ve experienced a falling-out? During a time in our country when there’s so much division, let’s have the LGBTQ+ community

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set an example that our world will be a better place when we lead with love. “You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” While this quote can’t be attributed to Saint Valentine himself, I’ve always found it to be true. We can’t change others, but we can change our own outlook and actions by approaching all personal interactions with love and compassion. Our world recently lost our beloved Betty White

The Great Herring War Golden Girls • Dusty Muffin Saturday Night Live • Every Elka One-Liner Hot in Cleveland • Sue Ann’s Bedroom Mary Tyler Moore Show • Adam & Eve Tonight Show with Johnny Carson • “I’m Still Hot” Music Video Luciana • Beer Pong with Jimmy Kimmel Jimmy Kimmel Live • Playing herself Ugly Betty What were your favorite Betty White moments? •

at the age of 99. This Golden Girl was the living embodiment of kindness, love, and tolerance. Imag-

In addition to our tribute to Betty White, through

ine the impact on humanity if we all channeled our

the eyes of Stan Zimmerman, someone who knew

inner Betty White this Valentine’s season.

and worked with her, I hope you’ll find love and inspiration from several of our other feature stories

“I just make it my business to get along with people so I can have fun. It’s that simple.” -Betty White

in this issue of Metrosource as well. From love and marriage chronicled in a reality TV show, to finding passion and success in the acting world, to conquering childhood setbacks and serving as a mentor to others, our writers have captured many positive and interesting insights from some high-profile members of our LGBTQ+ community.

Betty White always had the ability to put a smile on so many faces, whether playing one of her mem-

Wishing you love and happiness.

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self on a game show or talk show. I can’t remember a time when she wasn’t on television making me laugh, from my early childhood through now. May she rest in peace knowing she made the world a brighter place.

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14 SILVIA VASQUEZ-LAVADO QUEEN OF THE SEVEN SUMMITS

20 MICHAEL URIE GOING TOE-TO-TOE WITH THE BEST

38 90 DAY FIANCÉ COVER: Michael Urie Photography: SINEM YAZICI @sinemy Styling: MICHAEL FUSCO @mikeystyles for Exclusive Artists Grooming: CHELSEA GEHR @chelseagehr for Exclusive Artists using Kevin Murphy Photo Assistants: CHRIS CARROLL @chriscarrollphoto & AMY E. SILAHTAR @amysilahtar

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CULTURE 7 THE SCOPE

Author David Perry Brings You a Suspenseful Thriller in Upon This Rock

TRAVEL 28 The Sunny Side of Life Three Getaways to Beat the Winter Blues

HEALTH ENTERTAINMENT 10 Remembering Betty White with Stan Zimmerman

44 Get Red Carpet Ready Glam Up Your Grooming for that Next Event

VIEWS 32 It’s Game Night! These Board Games Are Your Ticket to Excitement this Season

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4 EDITOR’S LETTER Welcome to 2022 Let’s All Spread the Love

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BY DAVID EUGENE PERRY $18.95 AUTHOR DAVID PERRY BRINGS YOU THIS SUSPENSEFUL THRILLER FULL OF TWISTS AND

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from page 1, as a gay American couple become amateur sleuths to investigate a mysterious suicide of a cleric in the scenic Italian town of Orvieto. San Francisco business executive Lee Maury and his husband Adriano come to Orvieto to soak in the city’s beauty and rich history, but Lee becomes fascinated with a local tragedy, the suicide one year earlier of Deacon Andrea, a much-loved candidate for the priesthood. Growing obsessed with learning the truth behind Andrea’s death, Lee and Adriano stumble upon a conspiracy of terrorism, human trafficking, and a plot to destroy one of the Church’s most sacred shrines - all somehow linked across 500 years to Renaissance Pope Clement VII, who escaped to Orvieto after the sack of Rome in 1527. Before they know it, Lee and Adriano’s dream vacation becomes a race to save innocent lives - and not get killed in the process. Armistead Maupin calls Upon This Rock an elegant, twisty thriller in which a gay couple investigates a mysterious suicide in a scenic Italian hill town. It’s not hard to imagine that this book could do for Orvieto what Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil did for Savannah.” Upon This Rock is a wild ride that you should enjoy from beginning to end. Paperback or Kindle available on Amazon or at booksellers nationwide. METROSOURCE.COM

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MULTI-PLATINUM ARTIST RYLAND JAMES WELCOMED IN THE NEW YEAR WITH A BRAND NEW SINGLE TITLED, “I GIVE EVERYTHING,” VIA UNIVERSAL MUSIC CANADA AND REPUBLIC RECORDS. The track comes after a year of self-reflection and immense

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personal growth for the Deseronto, ON native who not only came to terms with who he is but embraced himself with pride. James commented,“I’m thrilled to be putting this song out into the world as the first of a new era in my artistry. This is truly the most exciting time I’ve experienced in my career and personal growth thus far. That being said, there’s so much to come in terms of visuals, sounds, stories, and an overall heightened sense of creativity for me.“I Give Everything”is a song I wrote early on in my relationship about falling in love for the first time. I was completely immersed and infatuated with the intensity of the feelings I was experiencing, but I was also fearful of losing myself in the process somehow. The lyrics embody that push-pull between the simultaneous acceptance of and resistance to pure passion.” The critically acclaimed artist continues his rise to stardom and has no plans of slowing down. In his short but impressive career James has garnered two JUNO Awards nominations and high praise from critics including Billboard. His smash hit single “In My Head” from his debut self-titled EP reached platinum certification in Canada, while his catalogue has garnered over 89 million global streams in just a short amount of time. “I’m just a communicator,” he explains.“I try to explain my truth in a way to help you discover your truth. I hope to be a leader. I want to encourage you to be your most honest and powerful self, by doing the same. Those are the core pillars of my existence.” Listen here: https://rylandjames.lnk.tt/IGE.

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GETTING CURIOUS WITH JONATHAN VAN NESS

NETFLIX (PREMIERED JAN 28TH) THIS NEW NETFLIX SHOW IS A SPINOFF FROM THE PODCAST OF THE SAME NAME, WHERE THE QUEER EYE STAR EXPLORES A VARIETY OF TOPICS, QUESTIONS, AND LIFE EXPERIENCES. Jonathan tells us in the trailer,“I am going to be embarking on a new

journey of learning more ... of opening my mind, learning new perspectives.”The official synopsis from Netflix provides the following information:“Getting Curious with Jonathan Van Ness is an unabashedly smart and quirky exploration into topics and questions that make Jonathan curious. From skyscrapers to bugs, or from gender identity to snacks, each episode follows Jonathan as he meets with experts in various fields to uncover complexities in a wide range of subjects.” Labeled ‘the outrageous one’ of Queer Eye’s next gen Fab Five, Van Ness is breathing in the thrill of exploding expectations. He’s put his entire life on display - including bouts with addiction, childhood sexual abuse and his status as HIV-positive. And now he’s doing his level best, with no apparent skeletons left in the closet, to simply enjoy being Jonathan again. In his recent memoir Over the

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Top: A Raw Journey to Self-Love makes clear, Van Ness’ path into the limelight has been anything but straight. He writes that from a very early age,“identifying male and female in the same day is something that has always been possible for me.” But don’t ask him to pretend being anything other than himself. “I can’t even do a straight accent - it’s not in my repertoire.” With what seems like several lifetimes of experience under his belt, Van Ness is comfortable in a place of grace: learning about himself and others. Getting Curious brings that experience to light.

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BETTY WHITE WITH STAN ZIMMERMAN BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ STAN ZIMMERMAN’S FIRST BIG GIG AS A FRESH NEWBIE IN THE BIZ, WAS WRITING FOR SEASON 1 OF THE GOLDEN GIRLS. While cutting his teeth on

what would become one of the most iconic televisions show in history, he would have the opportunity to see the Emmy-winning leads work their craft. His memories of the read throughs, the episode tapings, and the styles of Bea Arthur, Estelle Getty, Rue McLanahan, and Betty White are forever etched in his mind. For Stan, losing Betty White wasn’t just about saying goodbye to the Golden Girls legacy, it was about losing a true professional in the industry.

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My first introduction to Betty White was her appearances on her husband, Alan Ludden’s, game show, Password. She was always so funny and quick with a quip. And wickedly smart. Also, you could tell they really enjoyed being around each other. (Much different from my parents’ interactions.) Betty White was a touchstone for audiences worldwide. For eight decades, she would be in our homes - a part of our everyday lives. She became like a member of our families. But luckily without all the baggage. And it is so amazing that at 99 years old, we still wanted more of her. She somehow made us believe she would live forever. No matter the time of day, Golden Girls is playing on one station or another.Young generations are learning the one-liners and bonding with the characters. Older generations who grew up watching Golden Girls are falling in love all over again as fans find a little bit of each “Girl” in them. It has been a wild ride watching new generations discover Golden Girls. It still speaks to audiences because at the end of the day it is flippin’ funny. The producers asked us to create real stories, but not in a “Facts of Life special episode” kind of way. Honest, but never to forget the funny. And when you have (creator) Susan Harris’ brilliant creation of those four characters, played by those four actors, it is comedy gold. Die-hard fans know that Betty White was originally picked for the role of Blanche. A complete departure from any role she’d play in the past, the director wanted to try something different. He asked White to read for Rose. And the rest is comedy history. She may have been a little naïve, but Rose had a unique wisdom and lots of heart. People responded to Rose’s innocence and rooted for Rose. She loves life and is honestly curious about the world. And she is so good natured - just like Betty. Also, audiences wanted to protect her from getting eaten alive by the sharp tongues of Dorothy, Blanche and especially Sophia. When we saw in the pilot that Rose liked to tell long stories, we jumped on that. Then we had the other characters kid her about that. I remember sitting around the writers’ room when we decided we should name her hometown. A lot of suggestions were thrown around. We landed on St. Olaf, which went on to have a life of its own.

If you’ve seen some of the bloopers and outtakes from the Golden Girls vault, you can see Betty White playing with the audience. Her lifelong desire to connect with people (and animals) would become her brand. I have never seen an actor connect with a studio audience more than I did with Betty. In between takes, she would talk to them, joke with them, even flirt. That was so different from Bea Arthur’s style. Bea wanted to stay in character. Betty could turn it on or off more easily. Supposedly, that got under Bea’s skin. Stan’s debut episode would feature Betty heavily. Writers would pitch their ideas quickly, and after a series of “no’s” Stan and his writing partner, James Berg, were leaving the room when Stan threw out the idea of Rose’s mother coming to visit. The producers loved the idea and gave it the green light. “Rose’s Mother” episode is also known as “Blanche & the Younger Man.” We had it changed to for two reasons. One, we got the writing gig by initially pitching a story about Rose’s mother coming to visit. And two, to

be quite honest, we did not think anyone would vote for an Emmy with the title of “Blanche & the Younger Man.” They didn’t vote for either title, so what do I know? Although we did get a WGA nomination for Best Episodic Writing of Comedy. It was our first major Hollywood event and our agents told us to bring a woman as our date. They put us at a table right in front of the presenter’s podium. So naturally, I thought we won. All four Golden Girls presented that evening. But we lost. I was so nervous all evening, I couldn’t eat. I don’t think I could have formed words for an acceptance speech anyway. My favorite line is not a line Betty said but was in a beautifully touching scene with Rose and her mother Alma, played by Jeanette Nolan. Her mom says, “Stopping me from living, isn’t going to stop me from dying.” I love that whole scene, but especially Betty’s poignant response. What was it like hearing Betty White read his script for the first time? METROSOURCE.COM

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Stan learned something different from each of the women. He became remarkably close to Estelle Getty who knew right away that Stan was “family,” to which Stan thought she was talking about Jewish when she was actually talking about being gay. In Hollywood in the ‘80s, in the midst of the AIDS crisis, coming out – even for a gay friendly show like Golden Girls – was career suicide. While not as close with the other women, he still learned plenty while collaborating with Betty. I learned to keep going. And keep smiling. Life will throw you many obstacles, but it’s how you deal with them that shows what kind of person you are. She always had a curiosity about life. At every stage of her life. And not take herself too seriously. Just look at the way she played with Ryan Reynolds. But I mean … who wouldn’t? Newbie actors can learn a lot from Betty. To always be prepared and know your lines. And the minute you walk on a set, or the studio lot for that matter, have a positive attitude. Be nice to everyone. And why wouldn’t you be? She wasn’t doing it to kiss up to people or to get her next job. She genuinely loved humans. And animals, of course. Stan’s favorite Betty White memory? That is the amazing thing about Betty and her career. It is hard to pick one memory. As someone who grew up with her on The Mary Tyler Moore Show, I loved every second she walked on screen as Sue Ann Nivens. Then I was in shock on the sound stage of Golden Girls, standing between Betty and the studio audience and hearing them laugh at her saying words that we wrote. Then years later, to see her still delighting studio audiences between takes on Hot in Cleveland. She made a little gay boy from Detroit’s dreams come true. Betty had that entertainment flair and comedic

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Writers Note: Stan Zimmerman tours with An Evening on the Lanai, a “Girls” clip and story sharing show with tales that even the most die-hard of fans have never heard before. Stan is also putting all his memories together from his years in the industry for his upcoming book, The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore. In addition, he makes appearances around the nation at conventions and even the sold-out Golden Girls cruises. A passion project Stan has been working on for years is Silver Foxes, a male version of Golden Girls and homage to his first big gig. A reading of his show included Leslie Jordan, Bruce Vilanch, George Takei, and Cheri Oteri. You can follow Stan on Instagram: ZimmermanStan

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It was completely terrifying to be at our first table read. Not just because four comedy icons were going to be reading our first script for the show, but also the producers and staff had worked on so many iconic TV series. Arriving at Sunset/Gower for that reading, you could feel the pressure in the rehearsal room. I later learned that Bea was concerned about the age of the writers. Meaning me and my writing partner, James Berg. We looked even younger than we were. She did not see how we would be able to write for mature characters, especially women characters. The script got a lot of laughs at that table. And there were also some very heartfelt, tender moments as well. Even Bea cracked a smile. We could finally breathe. But not for long, because they wanted us to write another episode, which ended up being “Adult Education.” Years later, his relationship with Betty White and this episode would come full circle. The last time I saw Betty was in 2014. I got to spend two weeks with her as I shadowed the director on Hot in Cleveland for a couple of episodes. The producer of the series, Todd Milliner, was also on the board of Celebration Theatre, the longest running LGBTQ theatre company in the United States. They wanted to have a benefit for the theatre with the cast of HIC reading a Golden Girls script. He asked me if I had any suggestions of which they should use? I snapped back, “Are you nuts?! You have to do one of mine, like ‘Blanche & the Younger Man’.” It was a night I did not want to end. And the weird thing is, Betty refused to read the part of Rose. She insisted that she play Dorothy. I wonder what Bea Arthur would have thought of that!

timing. What would Stan say to her if he had the chance? I would thank her for giving so much of her life to making us all laugh. She could have stopped with The Mary Tyler Moore Show, or with Mama’s Family, or then again with The Golden Girls. But she didn’t. She went on to do so much more, including hosting Saturday Night Live. But I suspect Covid was too much for her. Supposedly, the last time she was seen outside of her house was January 2020. Without the ability to make people laugh, which I believe gave her air, she couldn’t go on. But I refuse to be sad, she wouldn’t have wanted that. Why else would she choose New Year’s Eve to leave us? She wanted a time when all were gathering and could be talking about her. And toasting her. I know I did that night. Not as much as Andy Cohen, but I still had a glass of vodka in her honor. Betty White will live in our hearts forever. ■

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BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ SILVIA VASQUEZ-LAVADO BECAME THE FIRST PERUVIAN WOMAN TO SUMMIT MOUNT EVEREST, AND IN 2018 SHE BECAME THE FIRST OPENLY GAY WOMAN TO CLIMB THE SEVEN SUMMITS, THE TALLEST MOUNTAIN ON EACH OF THE SEVEN TRADITIONAL CONTINENTS. As a win for diversity, she has held her own against

all odds in an environment saturated by wealthy, white men who can afford the funds necessary to climb. For Silvia, climbing was bigger than media glory or personal bragging rights. Her childhood in Peru both formed and destroyed her and after fleeing, she spent years searching for her identity, overcoming sexual abuse, alcoholism, and deep loss. Her hot-off-the-press memoir, In the Shadow of the Mountain, (to hit the screens in a film starring and produced by Selena Gomez) is a visceral and intimate retelling of her journey from a lost girl to the accomplished mountaineer who overcame a multitude of life-threatening climbs, both on a mountain and in her life. As she puts it, “Some people are drawn up the mountain for glory; others are pushed up by pain.” As a Peruvian child, she was raised in warfare both from the political tides of Peru as well as in her own home.

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SELENA GOMEZ IS ONE OF HOLLYWOOD’S TALENTED, DRIVEN, AND GENEROUS LEADERS. HER OPENNESS AND VULNERABILITY ARE QUALITIES I TRULY ADMIRE, AND I KNOW SHE WILL BRING THEM FORWARD IN THE ROLE.

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It was chaotic. We were in the midst of a civil war caused by the resurgence of a communist terrorist movement called The Shining Path, which created a lot of uncertainty, economic chaos, and fear. And personally, for me, I had to endure many years of sexual abuse by a person whom my parents trusted. All that chaos and lack of safety made growing up not fun at all. As she heartbreakingly details in her book, her father also physically abused her and her mother. Words of love and moments of celebration were often paired with a beating. The beauty of her heritage was marred by machismo sensibility, class system, and the cultural ignoring of violence in the home. Coupled with the years of sexual abuse that went unconfronted filled Silvia’s psyche with self-esteem and emotional issues. Her home was no longer a home. After I was able to tell my mother about my abuse, we went to speak with a psychiatrist who convinced my mother it would be best to send me away from Peru. Hence, I came to the US with an undergraduate Institute of International Education-Fulbright scholarship for molecular biology. Communication was challenging because I came as an 18-year-old, with Spanish engrained as my primary language. It took me a while to translate everything from Spanish to English, it also took me a long time to assimilate into the culture. The amount of independence that exists here was something I was not used to. That independence would be a double-edged sword. She would explore her sexuality by secretly frequenting gay bars, looking for companionship, looking for love, looking for intimacy, in ways that she did not fully understand. It would also be her entry into the world of alcohol.

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My solution for my trauma was always to run away, hoping that it would fade away. In college, drinking without control was a wonderful way to suppress the feelings. However, once I left the protection of college, I was daunted by the memories, the scars, and the fear. It didn’t help that my first job was with Skyy Vodka, where drinking was heavily encouraged. In addition, when I came to terms with my sexuality, the lack of support from my parents, my family, and my lack of acceptance and self-judgment also pushed me to find solace in drinking. She details her sober journey quite candidly. She is not a 12-step activist and does not pretend to be a saint when it comes to alcohol. Her story is often shared by members of the LGBTQ community trying to find their identity in the nightlife or solace from trauma in a glass. Getting sober for me has not been a linear journey. I’ve “fallen off the wagon” too many times to count. Just as I completed the last of the Seven Summits, I went through an excruciating heartbreak due to my drinking (which led to, almost, my 2nd DUI). That was the last straw for me to take full accountability. Per the advice of a dear friend, I started taking a meditation class, Compassion Cultivation Training, and that was indeed the expert healing that allowed me to stay sober,

now three and a half years and counting. I practice the CCT meditations daily, and they have been the most fantastic medicine my soul needed. Silvia’s inspiration to take to the mountains was not typical. It came from her first Ayahuasca experience. Ayahuasca is a South American psychoactive brew that is used as ceremonial spiritual medicine and comes from the indigenous people of the Amazon basin. Fitting that an experience cultivated by her culture would also be the spark for her to overcome the bonds of that same culture. It was my mother’s idea, and it changed my life. It allowed me to connect to the root of the deepest pain inside of me and gave me the inspiration to be on this journey. I followed the strict diet and restrictions to have my body ready, and it truly allowed me to unlock the trauma inside my subconscious. In my memoir, the whole Ayahuasca chapter is so beautifully captured. I cannot wait for you all to read it. At the time she started her Seven Summit journey, fewer than 200 hundred people had successfully accomplished the feat, with very few being women. Her mission began, though her climbing experience left much to be desired. It was nonexistent. Even though I come from a mountainous country, and my parents’ heritage is of the mountains, my exposure to them growing up was minimal. The first time I went to the base of Everest was my first whole hiking experience.

In Silvia’s words, seeing Everest is to experience awe: It is that sense of being both small and a part of something so much bigger than our smallness. Awe is the gateway drug to healing trauma through nature. Awe must be experienced. The first time I went to the base of Everest, I promised that I would return to climb the mountain under two conditions: 1) return as a seasoned mountaineer so that I would not put anyone in jeopardy; and 2) return with a social cause. By climbing the Seven Summits, I figured that I would get the appropriate experience and exposure to become a mountaineer who could attempt Everest. She met those conditions and has used her platform to found Courageous Girls, a non-profit dedicated to healing and empowering survivors of violence and abuse through adventures in nature. Through providing guided treks to the base camp on Mount Everest, they provide young women who are victims of sexual abuse an opportunity to share their stories and prove to the world, and themselves, that nothing can hold them back. Her first climb would provide a life lesson: The most shocking understanding has been to learn how far your legs and feet can take you. My favorite quote and mantra from Lao Tzu claims, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” That has been the most shocking finding in climbing for me.

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The lesbian vegetarian allergic to gluten, in close quarters and grueling conditions with only men as her companions and her sexuality buzzworthy, made her journey that much more isolating. Her book recounts her moments where she defeatedly gave her will over to the fate of the mountains, just to find strength for the next step. Mountains have taught me that brute strength and ego do not guarantee a summit. Many of the risky situations I had to endure, such as fear and doubt, have led me to ignore the menial things, i.e., the homophobic chatter. When your life is literally hanging by a thread, you learn to ignore what won’t keep you safe. To know that I am climbing for myself has been a fantastic fuel. Once, a homophobic guide derailed my chances of making it to the summit in one of my expeditions. I could not control the outcome, yet I remember feeling this rage because I knew he did it because he was homophobic. It was tough to accept at the time, but it was humbling to learn how it is so important to keep pushing for representation. I also turned all that negative energy as the impetus to return even more prepared, and I was able to summit on my next try. Many of us in the LGBQT+ community, who had little support, have learned to develop a sense of resilience that has helped us survive. I love how we can take this powerful skill and apply it to other areas of our lives!

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After the long road to being proud of her sexuality, it was imperative for the world to know that a lesbian did this, a lesbian fought the odds and won, a lesbian outlasted several homophobes who could not even finish the journey. We still live in our world, in which being who we truly are can be deadly. So, for me, to declare that I’m the first openly gay to complete the Seven Summits is about representation. Until we have entirely accepted gayness worldwide, we need to celebrate all our gay brothers and sisters who are trailblazing their way through many barriers. I am incredibly proud to have seen how being an openly gay mountaineer has inspired many people in my country (which is traditionally relatively closedminded) to come forward. It brightens my heart when I get letters from people from all over the world who tell me that my story has inspired them to embrace their true identities. Completing the Seven Summits was a lone journey. Yes, she met people on the way, but clinging to the rocks, buffeted by the icy winds and freezing temperatures, she was alone with her loss, her abuse, her strength, and her passion. What did she learn the most from her climbs? That you are unable to control everything. To embrace the acceptance of delays and setbacks. And to know that you will always have a difficult day, and it’s ok to experience them and continue your journey the next day. To each summit, she took a picture of herself as a young girl, pigtails and all. That picture and what it represented was originally an object of scorn, she wanted to be the farthest from her past as possible. It took climbing the Summits for her to love that little girl and to come to terms with her sexual abuse. A copy of that picture is now on every one of the Summits. Her story is a source of inspiration for the young women she takes to Base Camp of Mount Everest. The women she mentors have survived human trafficking, being sold and brutalized by their families. Her advice to sexual abuse survivors is constant. FIRST, to know that what you have gone through is not your fault. You are whole and beautiful and have your entire life ahead to embrace the light in your heart. When you kickstart the healing

process, self-acceptance and self-love are the first qualities to emerge. By working on our healing, we will also open ourselves to have the capacity to give love. Providing love into the world in all its forms is what heals everything. Being in nature helped me accept and start my healing, nature has always been accepting of who I am, and I know for any survivor, you will see the difference it can make in your life. When asked about the proudest moment of her life, it isn’t even climbing that final summit. I am so proud to bring my memoir In the Shadow of The Mountain into the world. I am incredibly proud of how raw, honest, vulnerable the book is. It is a powerful testament about reclaiming our voice and power, especially when we are willing to surrender and touch on our deepest vulnerabilities. Writing this memoir was the most challenging experience I endured. I think for many of us, sharing something that can be so painful could be the equivalent of trying to boil the ocean. Luckily, I had incredible guidance and mentorship that helped me on every single step. I’m also quite fortunate to work with such a fantastic therapist who specialized in somatic therapy and helped me dive deeper into so much of the pain. As a result, I spent many of my sessions last year analyzing the areas of trauma that were difficult to retrace and find meaning. The book is a page-turner. Starting in the middle of a perilous climb and spreading out like a skillfully woven tapestry, Silvia’s life unfolds in an intoxicating blend of childhood memories, her youth in sexuality, and her climb up the mountain. Included in American Booksellers Association as Independent Booksellers’ Debut Pick of the Season, Elle magazine included Silvia in their Nine Latinx Women Changing the World, and she has been lauded by the LGBTQ media. Of course, Hollywood would come calling. My literary agency has an agreement with WME to share their upcoming book proposals and for them to evaluate the possibility for media development. The head of the book-to-film division fell in love with In The Shadow of The Mountain while it was still on a book proposal format, and that is what kickstarted this incredible “Cinderella mountainous ride!” The Hollywood Reporter and Variety led in the trades with the fact that Selena Gomez was producing as well as starring in the biopic. Selena Gomez is one of Hollywood’s talented, driven, and generous leaders. She is a fierce human rights activist who has taken an enormous risk to take on a story that most traditional publishers and media houses were too scared to touch. Her openness and vulnerability are qualities I truly admire, and I know she will bring them forward in the role. In the current, heated environment where the movement for gay to play gay is fierce, does Silvia have any trepidation in Selena playing her? To me, actors are a master of their craft, and their ability to embody and portray somebody who is not them is part of their science and their craft. With my limited exposure to this world, it would feel quite limiting if we only allow straight actors to play straight roles and gay actors to play gay roles. We will be unfairly boxing them. This is part of a more extensive conversation. My memoir and story are not just about climbing mountains and being gay. It is a story about healing, about self-acceptance, about finding who you are when the world has stripped you of your identity. The heart of my story is healing and is not about healing alone, but healing in the community.

Selena will not be the only person in the film. And my dream is to have a genuinely ultimate diverse cast and team to bring the story forward. For example, it would be amazing to have a gay actor play my mom because our relationship was so fractured during my lifetime. In her own right, my mother was a victim of her circumstance, her own culture, our upbringing, and her belief system - same with my father. It would be something if gay actors could play those characters. By bringing my memoir into a film, we could bring the story out to as many people as possible and not just to represent gay people, but to represent immigrants, to represent the abused, to represent the survivors of some of the most horrific crimes that can be perpetrated against another human being. And if we were to focus on saying that the most important thing here was simply to have a gay person play the role of me, we would be missing a much more significant part of the story. Her book will be translated in German, French, Korean, Japanese, Spanish, Polish and Czech, and possibly more languages. She wants to get her story out there to inspire people to climb their own Everest, whether physically or internally. As if the debut of her book and the film were not enough, she is off to tackle the grueling skiing of the North Pole in April, and the South Pole at the end of the year. For her, there is no summit that cannot be reached. ■

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MICHAEL

URIE

GOING TOE-TO-TOE WITH THE BEST BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

From being thrust into a school production of Fiddler on the Roof because there were no other boys around, to being a mainstay in entertainment who has appeared in about every medium - stage, TV, film, web series, viral videos, Michael Urie has seen the evolution of LGBTQ representation in the biz. Making his first splash in Ugly Betty as Marc St. James (in a role that was originally supposed to have a very brief stay) to his most recent film, Netflix’ gay holiday rom-com Single All the Way, he has been at the forefront of making openly gay actors part of mainstream Hollywood – he, himself, coming out during his run on Ugly Betty.

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ANY TIME JENNIFER COOLIDGE WAS ON SET, EVERYONE WAS LAUGHING. THE ONLY OTHER PERSON I HAVE WORKED WITH WHO MADE THAT MANY PEOPLE ON A SET THAT HAPPY WAS BETTY WHITE.

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PLAYING THOSE LONG SCENES WITH MERCEDES RUEHL AS MA EVERY NIGHT WAS LIKE GOING TOE-TO-TOE WITH A PRIZEFIGHTER.

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Hailing from Texas, entertainment would be part of his blood early on by making feature films with his friends at home, writing reviews for his middle school paper, and seeing the touring big Broadway productions, including an early memory of seeing Cathy Rigby in Peter Pan. His free time was spent, shall we say, eclectically? I played alone with action figures a lot! But I didn’t make my GI Joes battle, I would reenact disaster movies I loved like Jaws or The Poseidon Adventure or The Towering Inferno. I renamed my GI Joes to be actors I liked: Richard Dreyfuss, Dustin Hoffman, Gene Hackman were all in my rep company. I also went through a major Batman phase - at one point I had five Batman posters on the wall and life-size cutouts of Jack Nicholson and Michael Keaton as the Joker/Batman my bedroom looked like a Blockbuster. After attending community college in Texas, he was accepted to Juilliard’s prestigious Drama Division. He was a long way from home, or was he? New York was a culture shock, but it felt that I was suddenly where I was meant to be. The first day I stepped foot in New York on a school theater trip, on a hot smelly summer day a block from the Port Authority, I knew I was home. When we got to the hotel, our teacher announced he was going from theater

to theater to drop letters off confirming talkbacks he had arranged and asked if anyone wanted to tag along. To my astonishment, I was the only one who took him up on it, and we spent the next half hour running from stage door to stage door. Seeing the proximity of theaters in midtown blew my mind. Juilliard would open his eyes to a whole new world of acting and the different methods of teaching that went with it. It was always fascinating which students thrived in which classes - the classic beauties would have a breakthrough when they covered their faces in masks class, a great singer might struggle filling the room with their speaking voice. I waltzed into our clown class thinking I was funny, but it was my classmates who usually opted for drama who excelled. I ended up doing my best work using my imagination to create worlds from nothing, exercises where we’d be given an impossible prompt and be told to go with it “save the children” where we imagined being soldiers in a war-torn land escaping with children in tow; another where we studied a portrait in a museum and created a whole life from it. I’m sure my years alone playing with GI Joe prepped me for that! METROSOURCE.COM

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While at Juilliard, he studied Shakespeare, Jacobean drama, and commedia dell’arte and earned the John Houseman Prize for Excellence in Classical Theatre. He would return to that style in 2018 to play Prince Hamlet in the Shakespeare Theatre Company’s production of Hamlet in D.C. to critical praise. Studying the classics early on gave him the acting fundamentals that we would build his career on. I use the same technique for every role and utilize the various aspects of training as needed. We spent hours on voice and speech and combat in school, which was invaluable playing Hamlet in an 800-seat theater without a microphone, but not so needed in a movie scene whispering in bed like in Single All the Way. But I did have a few scenes all alone without dialogue - which harkened back to our “private moment” exercises from school. In Torch Song, I had emotional monologues with a thick Brooklyn accent in a big space and found my voice needing to project like in Shakespeare. Without the breathing exercises we labored over in movement and voice class, I wouldn’t have had the breath support to talk non-stop and bounce around the stage for 100 minutes in Buyer & Cellar. Temping and odd theatre jobs would keep him barely afloat before Ugly Betty came into the picture. Michael ingratiated himself to the cast and crew during his guest spot and became one of the most recognizable faces of the cast. A true Hollywood story of Michael’s is the time we went to buy his first car in Hollywood and instead of bringing pay stubs and tax returns, he showed the salesperson his picture on the ABC website. His character on the show would evolve from villain to the bestie everyone wanted, that evolution to fan favorite was a team effort. It was organic - impulses and ideas we’d throw out on set would become part of our characters. I remember in Episode 3, Becki Newton and I had a four-line exchange in a scene where we just kept improvising more lines. After that, the writers started giving us runs like that back and forth. Vanessa and I had so many scenes together in her office. We would often come up with different ways to play physically, or variations on how we circled a desk. But the arc of Marc over the four seasons is a testament to the great writers we had - fleshed out relationships with Vanessa, America, Mark Indelicato, and of course Becki - I couldn’t have complained if I’d tried. Urie is among the top names that come to mind when talking about accomplished out actors. Reveling in our current boom of LGBTQ representation in film, it is easy to forget the climate that existed when

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Ugly Betty premiered over 15 years ago. Urie’s career almost wasn’t. When we were doing Ugly Betty there were very few out gay actors and now there are lots! I was urged not to come out and not to play any more gay roles, but coming out and playing gay roles has been a huge boost to my career. Imagine if I had turned down every gay role since Marc St. James. I wouldn’t be on your cover! I also think there was a sense among the ‘powers that be’ back then that queer stories could not be mainstream - that straight people just wouldn’t be interested. That seems to have changed. Single All the Way could not have made Netflix’s top ten in so many countries and globally with just queer viewers! Michael’s personality has remained down to earth. Talking with him is like sharing gossip with a bestie at happy hour, with his positive take on life, that’s just a little bit sassy. He knows full well how the business works and that acting jobs are never a constant. After Ugly Betty he went back to his musical theatre roots and made his Broadway debut in How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying. Stealing the spotlight from his co-star Nick Jonas, his performance was charming and electric. He then starred in the brilliant one-man play Buyer & Cellar, for which he won the Drama Desk Award for Outstanding Solo Performance. (Writer’s note: This is the first time I saw Urie live, immediately after seeing his performance, I went back to the box office and bought a ticket for the next night - it was that brilliant.) In the production, Michael commanded the stage and painted a very real world that was both compelling and a master class in acting. You learn a lot about yourself alone onstage for over 600 performances - especially about how your brain and body work when you are up there. Being able to have so many at-bats taught me volumes about what you can and cannot plan for on stage. Going totally blank, audience disruptions, food poisoning ... I finished Buyer & Cellar ready for anything. His next powerful performance was in Harvey Fierstein’s Torch Song revival on Broadway. An important piece of theatre and LGBTQ history, the original production made headlines and inspired conversations about our community in mainstream media and even gave us future Golden Girls star Estelle Getty. Torch Song was wildly ahead of its time when it first opened. When it premiered, the idea that a gay man would have a foster child was like science fiction and that a mother would say heartbreaking things to her son about being gay was commonplace. In our production, audiences didn’t bat an eye at me METROSOURCE.COM

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being a dad and every night would audibly gasp at what Mercedes Ruehl said to me. Above all the legends, gay icons, and A-listers Michael has co-starred with, sharing the stage with Mercedes Ruehl would leave an indelible mark. Playing those long scenes with Mercedes Ruehl as Ma every night was like going toeto-toe with a prizefighter. I was certainly star-struck when I met her. But, what every diva/icon/superstar I have worked with has in common is - they love the work. I am put at ease knowing that we will gel because of the love of the work. Michael pops up everywhere. From big studio projects to vlogs, podcasts, and friends’ viral social media videos, he is not a snob when it comes to taking a gig and supporting the artistic community. Even COVID couldn’t keep him still. It is much harder for me to say no than to say yes. By the time I am asked, it means someone has gotten excited about me in a role, and that excites me. On the rare occasion I say no, it’s probably because I can’t actually do it due to scheduling or because I think someone else should be doing it. I try to stay busy, so when the pandemic began, I went stir crazy very quickly. I had several projects shelved, some go away completely and with so many people and organizations suddenly struggling, projects in our living room - most of which were benefits or fundraisers were super fulfilling.

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Michael appeared in Broadway’s Chicken & Biscuits, a comedic telling of a family’s gathering for a funeral. In Broadway’s mission of representing minority voices, Urie was the only white actor of the cast. The production marked the Broadway debut of playwright Douglas Lyons as well as a large number of the cast. Unfortunately, the production was cut short due to COVID. We were having such an incredible time and the audiences were unbelievable. I loved performing that play with those actors. We played Circle in the Square Theater, which is in the round, so the audience was all round us and at times (during the church service sections) participating. Alive every night, spontaneous, and oh so joyful. Over the past couple of years, we have seen a shift in the beloved TV holiday movie season. Mixed couples, racial diversity, and same-sex stories have become part of the culture. One of the most popular holiday films of this past winter was Netflix’s Single All The Way, starring Urie, Philemon Chambers, Kathy Najimy, Barry Bostwick, and Jennifer Coolidge with Michael starring as a gay man returning home for the holidays with a pretend boyfriend. We’ve all done it, right? I was impressed by Chad Hodge’s script. I had never read a Christmas rom-com about gay people and I couldn’t put it down. A lot of people have reached out to me saying how much it meant to see a movie like that with a gay protagonist finding love. And I had not realized how much playing the gay romantic lead was going to mean to me.

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His favorite moment from filming Single All The Way? I mean, any time Jennifer Coolidge was on set, everyone was laughing. The only other person I have worked with who made that many people on a set that happy was Betty White. But my favorite memory was on the last day of shooting. We shot the last moments of the movie where our heroes finally kiss, and shooting this final catharsis on the last day of the shoot was so dreamy! Our crew (mostly straight, entirely French Canadian) burst into applause when we kissed - they were so invested, and we were all so proud of the job we’d done. That was the first moment I realized this movie might appeal to a wider audience. If we could get gruff Québécois gaffers to applaud two guys kissing, we were really on to something! We have seen a lot of gay characters in lead roles as of late. Does Urie think this is a trend that the media is capitalizing on, or does he think mainstream entertainment is truly becoming inclusive of the LGBTQ community? I think the latter! Mainstream Christmas romantic comedies are a wonderful way to show the world they can watch an LGBTQ love story and enjoy themselves, root for the protagonist, and maybe even relate to the characters. Will there be a Single All The Way 2? OMG so many possibilities! I would love to check back in with this family every Christmas, see who is meddling and who is single - maybe a wedding, a baby, another Christmas Pageant with Aunt Sandy … So many possibilities! Michael’s real-life rom-com is with his partner, Ryan. The two have been together for more than

13 years. How did they meet? We met on sort of a blind date. We were set up by a friend, but it didn’t quite materialize until two years later when another friend introduced us. The second time, the timing was right. With Michael’s busy schedule, traveling, studying lines, and doing activist work, how do they maintain a healthy relationship - for 13 years? We are super honest about our feelings every step of the way. We’ve both supported each other’s careers and know the ins and outs. Ryan knows when we are in a public situation I need out of and vice versa, and we can communicate with a look or a gesture. Riding high on the success of Single All The Way, Urie will next be seen on the big screen in a blissful combination of his musical theatre prowess and always enjoyable screen work. I can’t wait for people to see Jersey Boys, which we shot over the summer with Nick Jonas as Frankie Valli. As one of my favorite musicals, it was a dream to be in and see Des and Sergio’s creative process. People are going to flip! Nick was born to play Frankie. And his message to his fans? Oh wow. No one’s ever asked me that! I guess I would say thank you for liking the work - I love making it, and love making you laugh, cry, and feel. ■

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OF LIFE

THREE GETAWAYS TO BEAT THE WINTER BLUES BY PAUL ZAHN

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Thompson Hotel - photos by Nick Hall

El Arco - photo by Michael Westman

CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO For those seeking a respite from the winter weather woes, look no further than Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. Cabo San Lucas offers a delightful combination of warm weather, spectacular seaside scenery and a bustling nightlife scene. Vacationers can enjoy day-long excursions hiking, snorkeling, exploring quaint Los Cabos or simply sipping margaritas on the beach or at the pool. The Cape, a Thompson Hotel, is the perfect sanctuary for that winter rest and relaxation trip. The pristine hotel is situated along the coveted Monuments Beach - a destination beach favored by surfers because of a tricky left-handed break right off the coast. The property also boasts the best views of the famous El Arco, the limestone arch synonymous with Cabo. The Cape features rooms with unobstructed views of the Sea of Cortez, and has one, two and three-bedroom villas, as well as four, two-story penthouse suites with plunge pools and private rooftops. For the extra

high roller, the hotel has a Surfer Villa - a two-story suite perfect for private events or even a beach wedding. Each guest room offers outdoor terraces, many with hanging daybeds which are perfect for lounging with a book during the day and star gazing by night. Copper bathtubs, leather and wood accented by blue tiles blend together for the perfect relaxing atmosphere. The property combines an elevated urban aesthetic with a Baja-meets-Southern California surfer vibe. Guests can enjoy two pools, including a stunning infinity pool with a swim-up bar or wade in the pool built within a natural rock formation. To take the zen getaway one step further, the Cape’s intimate spa has a private outdoor cabana for spa goers to enjoy a calming spa treatment with ocean vistas. There is no shortage of food and beverage options at The Cape. Guests can sip Palomas on the rooftop lounge and garden and enjoy breathtaking views of both the city and sea. Award-winning Chef Enrique Olvera crafted a delectable assortment of culinary delights at the hotels renowned restaurant Manta. A signature dish that earns rave reviews is their Peruvian-style grilled octopus. Following a luscious meal at Manta, guests may enjoy a sunset stroll on the beach as a perfect finale to a relaxing day. No trip to Cabo would be complete without an oceanic adventure. Head down to the marina and for less than $100, you can find several half-day snorkeling tours. Why not plunge into the warm waters off the tip of Baja where the Pacific Ocean meets the Sea of Cortez? You’ll be able to bump fins with angelfish, rays, parrot fish and other colorful sea life. Most include all the snorkeling gear you will need, but the towel. Many offer snacks, open bar, and will stop at several spots along the picturesque coastline including the renowned El Arco. METROSOURCE.COM

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Biking in the Vineyards. Hotel E Exterior Side Aerial View - courtesy photos

SANTA ROSA, CALIFORNIA Nestled in Sonoma County in Northern California, Santa Rosa is a hidden gem known for its wineries and plethora of opportunities for outdoor adventures. Santa Rosa is an ideal spot for the food and beverage aficionado wanting to explore the culinary delights of wine country. The wine lover can venture out to enjoy over 400 vineyards in one of the greatest wine producing regions in the world and sample the flavors of Sonoma Wine Country. One of our favorites is located just a 10-mile drive from Santa Rosa in the quaint town of Graton. Nestled in the rolling hills you will find Marimar Estate Vineyards & Winery. Heralded for their chardonnays and pinot noirs, this Catalan-style wine producer offers elevated tasting experiences complete with Spanish tapas on their sunny patio. However, the city does not stop at just wineries. Santa Rosa is home to its own FeBREWary - a month long celebration of all things beer. The breweries in the town offer exclusive, limited releases of their beers including brews with cult followings like Pliny the Younger. Fans even camp out overnight for a tasting of the coveted Pliny, available at Russian River Brewing Company. The event offers a Beer Passport for the FeBREWary attendees. Once fully stamped at the various locations, beer lovers win a revered FeBREWary Olympic-style medal.

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Outdoor explorers can experience an aweinspiring hike through the stunning Armstrong Redwood Forest, hit the links on lush golf courses, enjoy kayaking the Russian River, bicycling through the rolling hills, and perusing the local goods and produce at Santa Rosa Original Certified Farmer’s Market. Travelers can stay at Hotel E - one of Santa Rosa’s new luxury boutique hotels. Santa Rosa is tucked between the Mayacamas and the Sonoma Mountains, and Hotel E is a stone’s

throw from the quaint downtown Old Courthouse Square. Santa Rosa also plays host to Sonoma County Pride which is the largest Pride festival in Northern California, outside of San Francisco. The main parade and festival takes place in the Old Courthouse Square in downtown Santa Rosa in the late spring. For a schedule of events visit www.SonomaCountyPride.org There is truly something for everyone in this town which makes it a perfect winter getaway.

THE BIG ISLAND, HAWAII Why not venture to Hawaii on a trip inspired by the hit television show, The White Lotus? Hawaii is a perfect escape from the hustle and bustle of everyday life with a robust array of options throughout its five main islands. The Big Island is a must-visit spot with plenty of opportunities to enjoy the magic and beauty of Mother Nature and experience the local culinary scene. Located on the majestic Kohala Coast, The Fairmont Orchid Kona Hotel is an ideal spot on the Big Island to have a fabulous getaway. The resort is surrounded by 32 oceanfront acres of pristine exotic gardens, waterfalls and white sand beaches. Guests can enjoy relaxing activities like sunrise canoe voyages, floating yoga, tennis at the 10-court pavilion or golfing on their worldclass golf course. Hawaii is known for its culinary delights and The Fairmont features a variety of dining options on property with six restaurants including the award-winning dining spot, Brown’s Beach House. Try their melt-in-your mouth filet mignon with tempura Maui onions, cheddar ulu mash, grilled broccolini and wasabi crème fraiche! A standout feature of the resort is a Spa Without Walls – the ideal sanctuary to enjoy spa services either in a private oceanfront villa or at a secluded waterfall hut. Guests can channel their inner Jennifer Coolidge and spend the day at the spa to rejuvenate from the stresses of everyday life. The spa treatments integrate ancient Hawaii traditional healing arts with locally made spa products and a relaxing natural therapeutic environment.

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The resort has a sunset torch lighting ceremony to commemorate the success of the day and segue into a peaceful evening. The resort’s Luana Lounge provides the idyllic spot to enjoy live music nightly, delicious Mai Tais, and a space to showcase the work of local artists. No trip to Hawaii is complete without a luau and The Fairmont Orchid Kona Hotel crafts an unforgettable luau steeped in tradition with a menu featuring locally sourced food like their kalbi beef, fresh poke, and kalua pork. After dinner and tropical

drinks, you’ll enjoy hula dancers under the stars. Those with an adventurous spirit can experience snorkeling with manta rays - at night! You read that right. Led by a local guide, you’ll take a short cruise out to the manta site, where you’ll watch the beautiful Hawaiian sunset before dipping into the water to watch the majestic manta rays up close. It’s an incredible encounter with nature, plus an item to mark off your bucket list. Why not say aloha to Hawaii and good-bye to the stresses of everyday life? ■

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IT’S GAME NIGHT! THESE BOARD GAMES ARE YOUR TICKET TO EXCITEMENT THIS SEASON BY JEFFREY JAMES KEYES DURING THE COOLER WINTER MONTHS, THERE IS AN INCREASED NEED FOR

pick up a few board games and have them on hand to create a bit of extra amusement whenever you need it. Games inspired by movies and television are a prominent theme in our current roundup, with titles like Jaws, Back to the Future, and even The Queen’s Gambit becoming popular. And as a nod to nostalgia, order the new Blockbuster game. Tonight is “game night” y’all. Fire up that popcorn, open a bottle of wine, and clear the table, because we have some games to play in 2022.

BACK TO THE FUTURE: DICE THROUGH TIME (2020) Ravensburger Players: 2-4 $39.99 Oh no! Biff stole the DeLorean and went on a joyride through time. Navigate through 1955 and 1985, as you team up with Doc and Marty to “repair the space time continuum before time paradoxes unravel the very fabric of the universe.” Get in the hot seat of the time machine in this fun new board game to complete events, return items, and help restore order by getting the DeLorean in the “Ready Zone” at 10:04 p.m. Is the future in your hands? There is only one way to tell. Back to the Future: Dice Through Time was designed by Ken Franklin, Chris Leder, Kevin Rodgers with artwork by Matt Taylor.

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INDOOR OPPORTUNITIES FOR FUN AND RECREATION. So, what better time to

BLOCKBUSTER (2019) Spin Master Ltd., Big Potato Players: 4+ $19.99 If the 2020, Netflix documentary The Last Blockbuster gave you nostalgia for blue polos, fresh popcorn, and the golden age of video rentals then we have a board game for you! Blockbuster is a new game for anyone that has ever seen a movie. Split up into two teams and go head-to-head in a quick-fire buzzer battle. Round two is basically ‘movie charades with a twist’ in which the player who won round one picks up six movie cards, gives the hardest three to their opponent and keeps the rest for themselves. The game features 200 classic movies and contains 60 category cards, and a replica of a Blockbuster parking lot. Wow! What a difference!

CARDS AGAINST HUMANITY (2009) Cards Against Humanity LLC Players: 3+ $25.00 Known as a party game “for horrible people,” Cards Against Humanity, could be considered a new classic game. Each round, one player asks a question from a black card, and everyone else answers with their funniest white card. Each pack comes with 500 white cards and 100 black cards as well as a booklet with game rules and some preposterous alternate rules. Looking to shake up your “CAH” playing? The Red Box offers a 300-card expansion and there are a wide variety of new expansion packs and decks including the Pride Pack, College Pack, an Ass Pack (you heard that right), and a Nasty Bundle featuring a collection of packs that’s “too nasty to sell in stores.”

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CATAN 3D EDITION (2021) Asmodee Players: 3-4 $300.00 Catan first came out in 1995, and in the game, players are settlers on the island Catan. Each player competes to see who can build up their civilization faster. Your settlements grow up from fertile grain fields and your cities are tucked into the sides of majestic mountains. The Catan 3D Edition is based on terrain tiles hand-sculpted by the game designer Klaus Teuber himself. The terrain is hand-painted, and game pieces intricately designed and then antiqued to give them a historic feel. Catan 3D is a great buy for the Catan player in your life, or if you want to upgrade your worn-out set. Catan is best for 3-4 players, and it can take between 60-90 minutes to complete. If the $300 price tag is too steep, the regular version retails at $55 and it is widely available at local and online retail stores. There is an extension pack so you can play with 5-6 players, as well as the Catan Seafarers and Catan Cities & Knights Game Expansions.

ENCHANTED FOREST (1981) Ravensburger Players: 2-6 $25.99 Ravensburger’s Enchanted Forest is a stunning game in which players go on a treasure hunt in the land of fairy tales. Theater queens might think of Sondheim’s Into the Woods a bit as they search through famous fables and stories for hidden treasure along the way. In 1997, the Wizard of Oz adopted a four-player board game, and this is essentially the same game through a different “enchanted forest.”The game, which won the 1982 Spiel des Jahres award, has been around for a while, but the updated design is just as elegant.

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JAWS (2019) Players: 2-4 Ravensburger $39.99 Relive a cult classic with this suspenseful tabletop strategy game, designed by Prospero Hall. In Jaws, one player menaces the island of Amity as the infamous great white while the other players go on the hunt as Brody, Hooper, and Quint. If the players kill the Orca they win. On the other side, if the shark attack is successful Jaws is victorious. This game is perfect for not only any movie lover, but anyone looking for a fun way to entertain dinner party guests or have the neighbors over for good old-fashioned fun. It is always Shark Week somewhere!

PANDEMIC (2008) Z-Man Games Players: 2-4 $44.99 In Pandemic, players assume the role of skilled members of a disease-fighting team working together to keep the world safe from outbreaks and epidemics. A little on the nose? But here’s one way to proactively work together to find a cure. Matt Leacock designed the game, first published in 2007 with artwork by Josh Cappel, Christian Hanisch, Régis Moulun, Chris Quilliams, and Tom Thiel. Pandemic is the first game in a series, which includes Pandemic: On the Brink, Pandemic: In the Lab, Pandemic: State of Emergency, Pandemic: Hot Zone - North America, Pandemic: Fall of Rome, and more. It is only a matter of time before they launch Pandemic: Coronavirus, isn’t it? The fate of humanity is in all our hands, but why not save the day at game night with your friends?

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THE QUEEN’S GAMBIT (2021) Asmodee Players: 2-4 $29.99 The Queen’s Gambit Netflix miniseries took the world by storm in 2020, and the Asmodee’ s fun board game gives players the opportunity to experience chess like the extraordinary Beth Harmon (without having to set foot in an orphanage). In the game, each player has their own gambit piece they move across the chessboard, with each turn planned three moves ahead. In the series, Beth’s ability to envision chess moves on her ceiling enabled her to clear her opponents’ pieces from the board and defeat them. In the game, you compete with other players to claim pieces and points from the board. Designers Rebecca Bleau and Nicholas Cravotta designed the game where in each turn, you can move your “Gambit” like a different chess piece. Channel Beth to outwit your opponents and win the game!

THE CASTLES OF BURGUNDY (2011) Ravensburger Players: 2-4 $49.99 Looking to go castle hopping? Step into the shoes of an influential 15th century French prince in the Loire Valley of High Medieval France and do whatever it takes to make your empire flourish. Choose your path wisely, and execute strategies for academic progress, agriculture, trading, and city development. If you are someone who likes strategy and are up for a challenge, this game for you! Stefan Feld designed this game, carefully executed by artists Julien Delval and Harald Lieske. It is gorgeous, and good fun to play.

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TELL ME WITHOUT TELLING ME (2021) Spin Master Ltd. Players: 4+ $19.99 If you think Cards Against Humanity is tame, Tell Me Without Telling Me is the perfect option. You’ll need the right (or wrong) group of people to play this NSFW charades party game in which you split into two teams and alternate rolling the die and flipping on the timer to“show not tell”and let your team guess in categories such as people, traits, things, places, and NSFW. Don’t shy from the risqué or taboo in this game which is perfect for a Fire Island or Puerto Vallarta late night on a guy’s trip with your crew. If you know, you know, but do your friends? Break all the rules with #TellMeGame.

TICKET TO RIDE (2004) Days of Wonder Players: 2-5 $54.99 Ticket to Ride is a popular cross-country train adventure game where players collect and play matching train cards connecting cities and claiming railway routes throughout North America. In the game, players gain points for each route, and the longer the routes, the more points earned. Each game contains one board map of North American train routes, 225 colored train cars, 144 illustrated cards, five wooden scoring markers, and a rules booklet. The game, designed by Alan R. Moon, created by artists Cyrille Daujean and Julien Delval, is part of the Days of Wonder portfolio, and takes about 30-60 minutes to play. The game won the 2004 Spiel des Jahres, the Origins Award for Best Board Game of 2004, as well as many other awards.

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90 DAY FIANCÉ GETTING ‘REAL’ WITH

KENNY & ARMANDO BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

IN THE WORLD OF REALITY TV THAT CELEBRATES DRAMA QUEENS AND STEREOTYPES, TLC’S 90 DAY FIANCÉ: THE OTHER WAY CELEBRATES A REAL-LIFE LOVE STORY, THE FIRST SAME SEX MALE MARRIAGE OF THE SERIES, WHICH IS BUILT ON TRUST, UNDERSTANDING, AND OVERCOMING LIFE’S CHALLENGES.

Kenny and Armando’s emotional journey was captured in Season 2 of the popular TLC show which included an emotional coming out, cultural homophobia, loss, and a storybook wedding. Regardless of an age difference, language barriers, distance, or circumstance, these two fought the odds and have quickly become reality TV’s favorite couple. Both: Although we were at first apprehensive about being the first [male] same-sex couple on the franchise which was a hidden weight on our shoulders, we were so surprised how 95% of feedback was so positive, supportive, and loving for us. Of course, you have the occasional homophobia that plays a part, but we learned to focus on the positive. It was a beautiful thing to see that our love story touched so many people’s hearts. We received multiple messages about how we changed views on same-sex couples and marriage because they saw a true love story between two men. Our reality helped so many parents and families accept their children because they realized they too can have a normal loving relationship, and that love is just love. Kenny and Armando, separated by different countries, found each other in an online, single parent support chat group. Armando had been dealing with the unexpected death of his wife and raising his daughter, Hannah, while having to hide his sexuality from his family and his daily life. Kenny, a single dad from the beginning, had raised three triplet daughters, a son,

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and was actively involved in helping to raise his grandson. Despite the 25-year age gap, the two instantly connected. Kenny: I could feel Armando’s kindness, sweetness, and giving nature almost immediately. Armando: Kenny’s sense of humor really stood out to me. I was going through tough times, and the way Kenny made me laugh was a shining light in my life at the time. Just like a Hollywood movie, the two decided to finally meet and spend some time face to face. The rest, as they say, is history. Both: We were still friends at the time. We had no agenda, and we spent a few days together as friends. But we both knew when we parted ways to go back home that something magical had happened, and this was just the beginning.

I SAW THE WHOLE FILM CREW ARRIVE AT MY HOUSE. IT WAS THEN I ACTUALLY THOUGHT, “WHAT THE HELL DID I GET MYSELF INTO?”

As time went on, the couple’s relationship grew, via Facetime, text messages, and subsequent visits until they hit a fork in the road. Kenny made the difficult decision to leave everything he knew behind, including his family, to be with Armando and Hannah in Mexico. In Kenny’s lifetime, he had never come across someone with whom he had such a connection or felt such an unconditional love. Kenny was a fan of 90 Day Fiancé and after he decided to move, Season 1 of The Other Way premiered. The Other Way is a spin-off of 90 Day Fiancé that features Americans leaving the country to be with their future spouses. Casting for Season 2 was underway, and Kenny brought it to Armando’s attention. The two did their research, applied, and within months were cast on TLC’s global show that has since changed their lives. While never capitalizing or dramatizing Kenny and Armando’s emotional journey, the show did share some intimate moments. The visceral reaction of Armando’s conservative family to his coming out was intense, despite an earlier attempt by Armando to come out years prior. Armando decided that he would no longer be tied down by what others believed was the right way to be or live. To add to his reveal, he also told the family that he was taking Hannah and starting a new life with his partner, hours away. Over 1,000 miles away, Kenny’s goodbye to his family was equally as devasting. As he drove away, sobbing, with his family, looking lost and broken, our hearts broke with them. How can such love come from such pain? But that is what their story was all about, fighting for love and taking the

journey forward, no matter the cost. Not just an inspiration for relationships, their experience is an inspiration to anyone that lacks the courage to live life to the fullest as their own true self. Not yet celebrities, the choice to put their lives and families on camera was a difficult decision. Kenny: It was a lot of back and forth on deciding whether to do it or not, but I concluded that our love and relationship were worth showing to the world. Even with all our differences, the best relationships can come about. Armando: I am a quiet and private person, so there was a lot for me to consider. But I thought this would be a wonderful way for others to see they’re not alone. Coming to terms with one’s self and the coming out process was important for me to show, to hopefully help others. The couple would watch every show as it aired and got to see how the rest of the world was going to witness their story. Where editing and forced situations in reality TV are commonplace, there was nothing faked or performed. You were seeing raw experiences and feelings and, for once, it wasn’t based on stereotypical gay drama. What did the couple learn the most about themselves from watching the show? Kenny: Realizing how this brought out a lot of emotions that I never knew I had. A rollercoaster of feelings that played out on screen. It made me more in touch with my emotions and made me realize even more how I cannot worry about what others think of me. I have realized I have to be true to myself and who I am.

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Armando: Reliving everything through the screen has been healing. Seeing the growth I’ve had within myself has been amazing. I am a stronger person, more confident, and sure of who I am from doing the show, and all along with Kenny’s help. Both: The whole experience made us stronger as a couple. From day-to-day life, raising Hannah together, even wanting to expand our family. We realize we are a great team together, and we can accomplish anything we set our minds to. One of the most compelling arcs of their story was the evolution of Armando’s family. Coming from an ultraconservative, machismo cultivated Mexican culture, being gay can leave you abandoned by your family, your friends, and even result in death. The tears, the awkward silences, fear of the unknown, hugs, and ultimate unity showed the world a glimmer of hope for the LGBTQ community in the future. In a culture where feelings are not often talked about and differences in one’s self are not often celebrated, Armando’s journey showed there can be light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how difficult the journey. The cameras being there gave Armando courage, perhaps it was Kenny’s unwavering, if challenging, support, or perhaps it was just time for Armando to live his life.

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Armondo: It did not really hit me, what I was getting myself, into until I saw the whole film crew arrive at my house. It was then I actually thought, “What the hell did I get myself into?” But at that point, it was too late to back out, so I realized I just had to be myself, put it all out there, and live my reality. My family to this day does not fully grasp the reach around the world that 90 Day Fiancé has. They have actually never watched the show. However, the whole experience made my family open up to each other in ways we never had, and as my sister realized, “This whole experience has brought our family closer together.” What is Armando’s advice for others still struggling to come out? Armondo: As Kenny taught me, once you come out (even though everyone might not be there for you), on the other side, the world opens! Coming out is terrifying, but truly being free to be who you are is an indescribable feeling, and you will for sure be a happier person for it. Kenny’s coming out was during a challenging time in gay history. And though his coming out was different than Armando’s, it was no less stressful. Kenny: When I was 19, I moved away from my hometown of Toledo, Ohio, which was very conservative and closed-minded. It was 1982 and I moved to Florida where I found myself, and embraced that I was gay. I started living my authentic life. I was tired of hiding who I was from my family back in Toledo. So two years later, I wrote an eight-page letter to my parents and came out. Luckily for me, they were accepting. At the time, the AIDS epidemic was hitting the gay community hard. They were concerned with how that would affect my life. Thankfully, I personally was not affected by it, as so many of my close friends. It helped me move forward to be my authentic self and to always stay true to myself and live a positive life for those who did not get the chance. One of the most undeniably loving characters in Kenny and Armando’s story is Hannah, Armando’s daughter. Not only is she adorable and so mature for her age, but she also exemplified unconditional love from the perspective of a youth untainted by societal or cultural phobias. She instantly responded to Kenny with open arms and an open heart. Some of the most emotional moments are seeing Hannah’s face light up when she finds out Kenny is coming to

live with them, or her tears of happiness when she finds out that Kenny and Armando could finally marry. Now Kenny and Armando are adjusting to raising Hannah together, captured in an amusing moment when Kenny and Armando first question the other’s style in giving into Hannah’s wants. Armando: I had to get used to co-parenting. Taking someone else’s thoughts into my parenting style. As an only child, I was used to giving in a lot more, so we had to adjust and meet in the middle on how we would move forward as parents together. Kenny: Raising four children very close in age, I had to be stricter and more military-style. It took me time to adjust and ease up on raising an individual child. Kenny’s children also play a big part in their story. Supporting your father’s choice to pack up and leave, to a different country, with someone whom they had never met was not easy, but they did support, they did show up, and they did embrace Armando and his family as their own. What have the couple learned the most from their kids? Both: Seeing through our kids eyes, children and the younger generation are much more accepting and open-minded. Kenny: I learned that even now, living miles

apart, in a different country, the bonds you have with your children never go away, and the love is always there. We are even closer now, and that just shows that parent-child bonds transcend distance. Armando: Seeing firsthand the unconditional and sincere love. Learning and growing from that to be more like our children. A jarring and terrifying moment during the show occurred when Kenny’s daughters came to visit, and they went out to dinner in their new neighborhood. Out of nowhere, homophobic slurs were uttered by other patrons on their way out. In an instant, the bubble of happiness and love was popped as the reality came to reality TV, showing how dangerous being out can be and how much more work there is to do in combating hate. But the two didn’t let that stop them. Armando went from being afraid to showing Kenny public affection to kissing and dancing with Kenny at the wedding in front of his family and the whole community, with fireworks no less! Kenny and Armando’s first attempt at applying for a marriage license was denied, due to them being same sex. They fought the system which resulted in same-sex marriage being approved in their area. Kenny: We have met a lot of great people and surrounded ourselves with open-minded

caring people. We put ourselves out there as a normal loving couple, and most people seem accepting of us. Armando: At first, I was terrified. But I quickly learned I had to be fully proud of who I am. I had a confidence boost that has allowed me to live my life without worry, and that has played a positive role in my life to no longer concern myself with what others think of me. The couple has settled into married life and keep busy. Armando currently works for an architectural design firm, and Kenny started a small property management company. They also created their online Kenny and Armando Shop, www.KennyandArmando.com with a line of Pride and household items that have their distinctive touch. After work, they enjoy family with afternoon park outings and beach walks with their cuter-thanwords new puppy in tow. They continue filming “Pillow Talk”, a fun behind-the-scenes for TLC. Who knows where else the two may pop up on TV. Although Kenny has settled in, there are still growing pains. Finding a barber to maintain his signature coif was an issue, as was becoming accustomed to Mexican life. What has been the hardest adjustment? Kenny: All the conveniences of life in America with everything at your fingertips METROSOURCE.COM

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– whatever one needs is around the corner. The language barrier has been a struggle for me as well as Mexico’s lack of acceptance of our same-sex relationship. Being away from my kids is still an ongoing struggle. I miss them terribly, and in addition to my four children in Florida, I now have two grandkids I wish I could see grow up day-to-day. That has not gotten any easier. But Kenny and Armando are making it work, turning their long-distance fairy tale adventure into the reality of day-to-day living, getting used to each other’s habits and quirks and having to adjust. As the two showed us, change is not always easy, but the result can be rewarding. The biggest keys to a healthy marriage? Both: Always putting the other first, going beyond, and giving 51% more to the other. For us, a sense of humor is key, and enjoying

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even the smallest things in life. Learning how to “fight” right and hashing out differences quickly. Going from single fathers to becoming TLC’s sweethearts came with a lot of press, global exposure, a social media boom, and even an exclusive wedding spread for People magazine. But don’t expect them to turn into Kardashians. Both: We’ve stayed grounded and living our everyday normal lives raising Hannah. It all has been an amazing experience that, more than anything, has been humbling and made us better people to be a light in our families and be positive role models to others. They have used their high-profile status for good, supporting their local community, more specifically the Eunime orphanage in Mexico, a center for the unwanted of Mexico’s youth, those affected by HIV.

of expanding our family, we started doing research on orphanages with the possibility of adoption. Many were opposed to speaking with us because we are a samesex couple. One, in particular, was open to speaking with us and only houses children living with HIV. When we met with the director and children, we instantly fell in love and realized that even if we could not adopt, we knew it was our mission to help these children. They were all so kind and loving, and we decided to raise money for them. With the help of the 90 Day universe, we raised $25,000 via GoFundMe. We were so elated to help these children and it demonstrates what good can come out of the show and proves what kind and generous hearts are out there. With their social media flooded by messages of love and hope, what is their message to their fans? Both: We do not like to call them fans! We refer to them as supporters, because they all have been huge supporters of our relationship, our families, our love story, and Armando’s coming out process. We really want to thank you all for always having an open mind and seeing through a lot of the noise of 90 Day Fiancé to connect with us. For all the showing of love and affection that has brought joy to our lives, we truly thank you. You all have put a smile on our faces. ■ You can stream Season 2 of TLC’s 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way Follow Armando and Kenny on IG: @Kenneth_90Day and @Armando_90Day

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GET RED CARPET READY GLAM UP YOUR GROOMING FOR THAT NEXT EVENT BY JEFFREY JAMES KEYES IT’S A VERY 2022 CONUNDRUM, THAT BIG SWANKY EVENT YOU HAVE BEEN PREPARING FOR MAY HAVE MIGRATED TO ZOOM. You have your ring lights

ready but need to groom and pamper so you look camera ready. If you are in a pinch for time you can drive to the nearest MAC or Sephora to pick out some goodies to prep and pamper, but this might be a great opportunity to step up your game and invest in some high-quality products to make sure you look like the star that you are. We found some incredible products for you to be “Red Carpet Ready” either inperson or online. Don’t be afraid of a little makeup for your Zooms blue lights and that big round ring light takes no prisoners. Remember to get enough sleep, drink plenty of water, and moisturize, moisturize, moisturize, to look like the best version of you.

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DERMALOGICA DAILY GLYCOLIC CLEANSER www.dermalogica.com $35 Dermalogica revolutionized the skin care industry when it jumped into the marketplace back in 1986. Jane Wurwand developed the products which excluded common irritants, including SD alcohol, lanolin, mineral oil and artificial colors and fragrances. The Daily Glycolic Cleanser, which is a gentle yet effective formula that works to cleanse away brightness blockers that build up on the skin, became available in August 2021. Perfect for getting up close and personal on camera, this cleanser is surely an asset to any makeup artist’s toolkit. Glycolic Acid works with a soothing blend of calendula extract and jojoba seed oil to condition and replenish the skin with each wash.

DIOR DIOR HOMME DERMO SYSTEM ANTI-FATIGUE FIRMING EYE SERUM www.dior.com $62 Can you get more glam than Dior? Founded on December 16, 1946, in Paris, The House of Dior has gone on to play significant roles both in the fashion and beauty industries. The Dior Innovation Center has launched the first dermatological treatments designed exclusively for men. Created in conjunction with the Harvard Medical Center, Dior Homme Dermo System now offers the latest in skin care technology. Dior Homme Dermo System Anti-fatigue firming eye serum both soothes and tones your “window to the soul” while diminishing dark circles and puffiness. Apply in the morning and evening, and whenever you need a little boost of Dior glam.

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THANKS TO ITS VAST CULTURAL OFFERINGS, THERE IS NEVER A DULL MOMENT IN NYC. AFTER TWO YEARS OF ON-AGAIN, OFF-AGAIN CLOSURES, THOUSANDS OF ENTERTAINMENT VENUES ARE WELCOMING BACK ART LOVERS FROM AROUND THE WORLD. HERE IS WHERE WE’LL BE

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A wise woman named Alicia Keys once referred to New York as“a concrete jungle where dreams are made of” and it is an apt description, indeed. With entertainment venues on nearly every corner, it’s easy to see why so many aspiring artists come from far away to make a name here (and then return regularly once they have carved a place among the stars). When former Mayor Bill de Blasio’s Office of Media and Entertainment commissioned a nightlife study in 2016, it found that there were more than 2,400 spaces where such magic happens – from Broadway theatres and concert halls to piano bars, cabaret rooms and comedy clubs. Many of these spots took a hit over the past two years when gatherings were on hold, but that number is growing once again, and New York City has reemerged its merry old self (give or take a few new safety protocols and COVID-19 vaccination requirements). So go ahead and let these streets make you feel brand new – we know the bright lights will inspire you. Let’s hear it for New York, and for all these amazing performances, productions and museum exhibitions that are finally back in full swing.

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February 12, 2022 Carnegie Hall 881 7th Ave. New York, NY 10019 Flying Lotus is a name people associate with largescale music festivals and expansive studio work – the Grammy Award-winning producer, composer and rapper played Coachella, Bonnaroo, and Governors Ball, just to name a few. The BRAINFEEDER Records label boss also worked on cuts for Radiohead front man Thom Yorke as well as the late Mac Miller, Kendrick Lamar, and Thundercat. Now fans will have a chance to experience a special electroacoustic set from a master of the experimental sphere as part of this year’s citywide Afrofuturism Festival, and within a venue globally lauded for its unmatched acoustics. Prepare to get lost in something darkly beautiful. Get tickets at www.carnegiehall.org METROSOURCE.COM

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Through February 13, 2022 Various Restaurants The restaurant industry just overcame its most challenging period in recent history – between government shutdowns, supply chain issues and rising food costs, the fine dining landscape became even more cutthroat than it already was. In 2021, Winter Restaurant Week was a to-go affair, but now hundreds of dining rooms are open again and eager to tempt fully vaccinated guests with decadent three-course prix fixes for only $39. Try new creations from celebrity chefs like David Chang and Marcus Samuelsson or tickle your tastebuds with unique flavors from across the globe with trendy Asian fusion spots or upscale French bites. Reservations opened on January 11th, but you can still snag a seat at a stellar eatery between now and February 13th. Plus, this year’s dates coincide with those of Broadway Week, which means two for one tickets to the best shows in town are also on the menu. Grab your reservations and Broadway tickets at https://www.nycgo.com/restaurant-week and https://www.nycgo.com/broadway-week.

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PLAZA SUITE ON BROADWAY Previews begin February 25th, 2022 Hudson Theatre 144 W. 44th St. New York, NY 10036 Real-life power couple Matthew Broderick and Sarah Jessica Parker return to the stage for the first time in two decades in the Broadway revival of Neil Simon’s beloved on-stage rom com, Plaza Suite. The highly anticipated production is directed by Tony Award-winning actor, John Benjamin Hickey, who some of you may remember for his portrayal of Felix Turner in The Normal Heart. That is a lot of star-power to pack into a single evening or matinee. Get tickets at www.plazasuitebroadway.com.

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REZZ: SPIRAL TOUR March 4th & 5th Terminal 5 610 W. 56th St. New York, NY 10019 The girl in the swirling glasses is back with a North American tour to celebrate her darkly downtempo third studio album, Spiral. First championed by Deadmau5’s Mau5trap label more than seven years ago, REZZ’s brand of bass-blasting electro music has since spawned a cult all its own. Known to her devout followers as “Space Mom,” this prodigy-turned-trailblazing producer continues to break boundaries with her trippy and menacing take on dance music. Prepare to be hypnotized by her intoxicating visuals when she stops off at Terminal 5 this March, and don’t forget to catch opening sets from other queer tastemakers on the bill such as Wreckno (performing March 4th). His career went into hyperdrive after Medusa, his rap fueled groove with GRiZ, became the unofficial anthem of Pride 2020. Get tickets and check out her full tour schedule at http://officialrezz.com/tour/.

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2ND ANNUAL OUT LOUD! QUEER MUSIC FESTIVAL March 5th DROM NYC 85 Avenue A New York, NY 10019 Artists like Aviva Jaye, Julia Weldon and Russell Elliott are just a few names you will find at this year’s Out Loud! Queer Music Festival featuring artists spanning genres from jazz to folk. Witness acts that have been touted by Tidal, Billboard and other leading industry outlets before they blow up, and then stick around after the headlining sets for a special afterparty featuring DJ Tikka Masala hosted by the fine folks over at Hot Rabbit. For tickets visit https://www.hotrabbit.com/.

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Previews Begin March 10, 2022 Hayes Theatre 240 W. 44th St. New York, NY 10036 Patrick J. Adams (Suits), Jesse Williams (Grey’s Anatomy), and Jesse Tyler Ferguson (Modern Family) star in the Tony-Award winning dramedy about a mixed-race center fielder who comes out as gay, much to the surprise of his teammates and fans of his beloved baseball team, the Empires. Richard Greenburg’s pioneering play first opened off-Broadway in 2002, and now director Scott Ellis is bringing the still-poignant production about the prejudices that permeate America’s favorite pastime back to life with an all-new cast and a refreshing perspective. Get tickets at https://2st.com/shows/take-me-out.

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Through March 12, 2022 MoMA 11 W. 53rd St. New York, NY 10019 To say Sophie Taeuber-Arp was ahead of her time is an understatement. She began her journey as an applied arts teacher at the turn of the century before emerging a key player in the Dada movement. In the years after she took an awe-inspiring multidisciplinary approach that saw her continue to produce textiles, paintings, sculptures, and expansive murals, often spotlighting her keen interest in abstract geometry. Living Abstraction features more than 300 works and is the first US exhibition in nearly four decades to cover her extensive career. Last seen at the Tate Modern in London, Living Abstraction finds its temporary home in midtown through March 13th. Buy timed entry tickets at www.moma.org.

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TIG NOTARO: HELLO AGAIN March 20, 2022 The Beacon Theatre 2124 Broadway New York, NY 10023 Comedian and writer, Tig Notaro, brings her inimitable brand of deadpan storytelling to The Beacon theatre this March. The queer artist became an underground stalwart years ago but has since gained notoriety by way of her 2015 HBO standup special Boyish Girl Interrupted and later, her 2018 Netflix hour-long special, Happy to Be Here. The past decade hit her with a cancer diagnosis that shifted her signature take on observational comedy into something personal and reflective. The transformation was well received, landing her Emmy and Grammy nominations in the time after. Experience a taste of her offbeat punchlines at one of the city’s most iconic live performance venues this spring. Get tickets at www.beacontheatre.com. Tig by Robi

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J. WORRA, TRUTH X LIES AND REMNIQUE March 18, 2022 Elsewhere (Zone One) 599 Johnson Ave Brooklyn, NY 11237 Who loves house music? Get your fix from a slew of the scene’s most fierce, and at one of the city’s most inclusive venues to boot. Chicago-based queer producer, J. Worra, brings her award-winning talents to Elsewhere’s famed Zone One with direct support from local up and coming bass house duo, TRUTH x LIES, and the always eclectic, Remnique. Techno titan Ellen Alien will be tearing it up in the main room on that same night, so you know this beat-filled hang is destined to be stellar. https://www.elsewherebrooklyn.com/

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MARTHA WAINWRIGHT: STORIES I MIGHT REGRET TELLING YOU March 29, 2022 City Winery - The Loft 25 11th Ave. @ Hudson River Park New York, NY 10011 Pop into The Loft at City Winery and share an intimate evening with the celebrated vocalist, Martha Wainwright (sister of Rufus and daughter of Loudon, in case you didn’t know that already). During this up-close-and-personal performance the talented wordsmith will read from her moving new memoir Stories I Might Regret Telling You, as well perform songs from her forthcoming fifth studio album Love Will Be Reborn, a deeply personal collection of tunes in which she explores the pangs of loneliness and what it means to embrace the light after a period of time defined by sorrow. Grab a glass of house wine available on tap, and snack on a cheese board as you get to know one of indie music’s royal family members on a whole new level. Get tickets at www.citywinery.com.

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STEPHEN SONDHEIM THE UNOFFICIAL POET LAUREATE

WELP, THE COVID GODS GIVETH AND THE COVID GODS TAKETH AWAY. Broadway was “back in business,”

and then the Omicron variant reared its infectious head and New York City plunged back into uncertainty. On the bright side, with tightly enforced vaccine and mask mandates, a condition for Broadway attendance, theatres have remained a safe destination for audiences. It has been, however, something of a quagmire for producers with cast members testing positive left and right. Most shows have had to cancel multiple performances as Omicron moved through casts with numerous principals and understudies out of commission for 10 days at a time. Some shows could not withstand the additional draw on resources and, as of this writing, both Ain’t Too Proud and Thoughts of a Colored Man have posted closing notices. Taking a different approach, Mrs. Doubtfire has gone on a temporary hiatus, with performances scheduled to resume March 14th. It remains to be seen how quickly we can come out of this latest COVID setback. But since there are not a ton of new shows opening and the few that are could potentially wind up getting pushed out a month or two. I am going to devote this issue’s column to our recently departed unofficial poet laureate of musical theatre, Stephen Sondheim, who died on November 26th. Mark Harris said it best, for Vulture, on the breadth and depth of Sondheim’s impact: “If it is true that, when Marlon Brando died, Jack Nicholson remarked that every other living actor just moved up one place, the image seems inadequate to mark Sondheim’s passing, at 91, after a long and astonishingly productive life. If anything, it means that the question of who America’s greatest living musical-theater artist is can finally be asked and lead to an interesting discussion, because for the first time in decades, the answer isn’t obvious. With Sondheim, there was no list of people waiting to move up one. He was his own list — and his measureless influence lives in the work of just about everyone who survives him.” So, what then, was so great about Sondheim? There is a lot of talk about what a perfectionist he was, exacting in his attention to detail. Also, he was known as a moral and caring man concerned with the future of the theater and young artists. So, he was a good person and very professional? I do not think that quite explains the widespread fanaticism. It has occurred to me lately the answer may lie in the connection between those two aspects; his artistic excellence and ethical devotion.

Stephen Sondheim, Leonard Bernstein and cast during the rehearsal for the stage production West Side Story. Friedman-Abeles1957 Circling back to COVID for a moment, I was recently dismayed to hear one of my favorite podcast hosts keep referring to the“omnicron”variant, adding an errant n where it does not belong. Amid a media environment rife with confusion and outright misinformation, I expect this podcast host to provide me crucial information I may rely on with life-or-death stakes. If I cannot count on them (not to mention the producers and editors) to be accurate, how can I trust anything they say? The power of Sondheim is derived from his total opposition to that sloppiness, albeit in an altogether different context. Presumably, nothing in Sondheim’s work is accidental - it has all been thought out and has a reason behind it. He was often associated with the credo: “Content dictates form.” Yes, Sondheim’s music can be stunningly gorgeous or infectiously upbeat. Yes, his lyrics can be witty, funny, provocative, or probing. But even more important is the trust he earns from us. As with a seasoned performer who inspires confidence in an audience, (“I got this, I got you. Sit back and enjoy the show.”), Sondheim’s conscientiousness allows us to surrender, to suspend our disbelief and truly take the emotional journey of each song and show. I want to go through all the shows and offer you suggestions of how best to experience them. As bereft as we may be that the great man is gone and no longer writing new songs, the ones he leaves behind are an immense treasure to be relished for

generations to come. I imagine people feeling this way when Shakespeare died. West Side Story (1957) Music by Leonard Bernstein, Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by Arthur Laurents Speaking of Shakespeare, it may be safe to estimate Sondheim is most widely known for this Romeo & Juliet adaptation set in tense 1950s New York City. He often expressed embarrassment over some of the language and imagery he used in these songs to meet Bernstein’s desire for soaring, poetic romance, but audiences have swooned for “Maria,”“Tonight” and “Somewhere” and tapped their toes to “Something’s Coming” and “America” without pause since then. There is no better way to experience West Side Story today than in Steven Speilberg’s spellbinding new film, playing at a cinema near you. Saturday Night (1955) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by Julius J. Epstein and Philip G. Epstein Saturday Night didn’t get produced in New York until Second Stage mounted it Off-Broadway in 2000. The cast recording with Andréa Burns, Lauren Ward, and David Campbell is worth a listen to hear young Sondheim’s unmissable talent in songs like “So Many People,” “A Moment With You,” and “What More Do I Need?” METROSOURCE.COM

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Stephen Sondheim and Ethel Merman in the Columbia Records recording studio session for Gypsy. Production Photographs Collection 1959 Gypsy (1959) Music by Jule Styne, Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by Arthur Laurents The next big show Sondheim worked on was a musical biography of stripper Gypsy Rose Lee that far exceeded the assignment of giving megastar Ethel Merman a solid vehicle. This was a psychological portrait in song, with the lead role of Madame Rose often called“the King Lear of musical theatre,” especially in her 11 o’clock number/nervous breakdown, “Rose’s Turn,” which is as great an example of Sondheim’s gift for character, drama, and irony - not mention rhyme and rhythm - as anything he ever wrote. Listen to the original cast recording or any of the many revivals to hear Merman or Angela Lansbury or Tyne Daly or Bernadette Peters or Patti LuPone or Imelda Staunton put their stamp on it. Or watch the TV version with Bette Midler or the 1962 movie with Rosalind Russell or go down a fabulous YouTube rabbit hole watching clips of brilliant actress-singers like Betty Buckley and Linda Lavin strutting their stuff in various productions. A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Forum (1962) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by Burt Shevelove and Larry Gelbart Sondheim finally had a hit Broadway show featuring his lyrics and music with what has been considered the greatest farce in all of musical

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theatre. The 1966 movie version leaves much to be desired, including most of Sondheim’s songs, but it does preserve on film the original stage performances of legendary comedians Zero Mostel and Jack Silver, as well as Phil Silvers, Buster Keaton and a very young Michael Crawford. If you do not get into it after a few minutes, you might be better off just watching Nathan Lane and the rest of the cast of the 1996 Broadway revival perform the opening number “Comedy Tonight” at the Tony Awards on YouTube. Anyone Can Whistle (1964) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by Arthur Laurents Sondheim’s next show was a flop, but a legendary one with a score treasured by fans across the globe. There is much to recommend in each of the YouTube bootleg videos of concert versions (starring Madeleine Kahn and Bernadette Peters, Patti LuPone and Audra McDonald, and Donna Murphy and Sutton Foster, respectively), but it’s evident this heavy handed, highly 1960s allegory about the residents of a mental hospital escaping into a bankrupt town, is at its best as a recording of Sondheim’s sensitive and scintillating songs like the title ballad,“With So Little To Be Sure Of,”“There Won’t Be Trumpets,”“Everybody Says Don’t,” and “A Parade In Town.”

Company (1970) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by George Furth The 1970s were the beginning of the golden age of Sondheim and the first in his string of collaborations with director-producer Hal Prince. This smart and funny big city musical really put him on the map, winning him the first of his Tonys for Best Music and Lyrics. What was a groundbreaking take on marriage and relationships then is still fresh now and the best way to experience it is to see Marianne Elliott’s acclaimed Broadway production starring Patti LuPone and, in the newly-reconceived-asa-woman leading role, Katrina Lenk. The score is an embarrassment of riches, including“The Ladies Who Lunch,”“You Could Drive a Person Crazy,” “Another Hundred People,” and “Being Alive.” As my friend and podcast co-host Daniel Nolen says, “every song’s a bop.” For the indescribable 1970s flair, the original cast recording, starring Elaine Stritch and Dean Jones, can’t be beat and D.A. Pennebaker’s award-winning documentary about its recording, Original Cast Album: Company, has recently been added to the Criterion Collection for your streaming pleasure. Follies (1971) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by James Goldman A more polarizing show than Company, Follies did not make back its financial investment, although it ran over a year on Broadway and is considered by many fans to be Sondheim’s masterpiece. The vast score contains both period pastiche numbers (like “Broadway Baby” and “Ah, Paris”) wherein the characters (retired follies performers at a reunion) recreate big moments from their long closed revue as well as deep and dark songs conveying the complexity of the characters in their contemporary lives (like “The Road You Didn’t Take,”“In Buddy’s Eyes” and “Could I Leave You?”), some so soaring as to suggest almost a modern kind of everyday opera, and maybe the closest approximation of what a straightup Sondheim song would sound like, minus all the trappings of the individual show styles he took such great pains to adhere to. Best of all, though, may be the songs from the last section of the show when the performance and real-life realms seem to collide, such as “Losing My Mind” and “The GodWhy-Don’t-You-Love-Me Blues.” The best way to take the journey is to watch the documentary about the New York Philharmonic’s all-star 1985 concert of Follies, with great behind the scenes footage and thrilling performance clips of Barbara Cook, George Hearn, Lee Remick, Mandy Patinkin, Carol Burnett and Elaine Stritch.

A Little Night Music (1973) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by Hugh Wheeler This show gave Sondheim his only hit pop song, “Send in the Clowns,” when recordings by both Judy Collins and Frank Sinatra ascended the charts. As even a cursory Google search can tell you, this song has been done by about every singer alive during Sondheim’s life. But still for me none quite get the simple beauty as perfectly as Glynis Johns (who could barely sing!) on the exquisite original cast recording of this truly sophisticated, adult musical comedy. The 1977 movie version starring Elizabeth Taylor is unequivocally abysmal. Pauline Kael famously wrote,“The picture has been made as if the director (Harold Prince) had never seen a movie.”There is, however, a decent YouTube upload of City Opera’s 1990 production as seen on Live at Lincoln Center. Pacific Overtures (1976) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by John Weidman Hal Prince’s innovative, kabuki-style production depicting the Westernization of Japan, failed to deliver another smash along the lines of Night Music, but Sondheim fanatics can argue all night over the merits of their personal favorites from a score that includes “Pretty Lady,”“A Bowler Hat,” “Chrysanthemum Tea,”“Please Hello,” and (my choice) “Poems.” The original production is well preserved on a video made for Japanese TV and available on YouTube. For listening, I’m partial to the 2004 revival cast recording with B.D. Wong, Telly Leung, Francis Jue, Michael K. Lee, and Paolo Montalban. It’s worth noting that by this point in the mid1970s, Sondheim’s reach was wide enough that a revue of his songs, Side by Side by Sondheim (1977), enjoyed a successful Broadway run and U.S. tour following its premiere in London. The original West End cast recording with David Kernan, Julia McKenzie, and Millicent Martin is a delight and a fun sample platter of songs from everything he’d done up to that point, including stuff I’m leaving out of this already lengthy column. Sweeney Todd (1979) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by Hugh Wheeler It is easy to make a case for this as Sondheim’s masterpiece. Hal Prince’s original production earned rave reviews, swept the Tony Awards, then the Olivier Awards in London and immediately instigated debate over whether it was an opera or

Stephen Sondheim, center with its stars, Angela Lansbury and Len Cariou Sweeney Todd. Bettmann/Getty Images 1979 a musical. And indeed, it has been produced by opera houses and symphonies (in addition to theatres large and small) around the world ever since. There are consequently numerous recordings and filmed productions (including Tim Burton’s decent 2007 movie) to choose from, with the best option being the PBS video of the first national tour starring Angela Lansbury and George Hearn, although I am a sucker for Patti LuPone’s thrilling singing in the San Francisco Symphony version from 2001. Merrily We Roll Along (1981) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by George Furth Sondheim and Prince’s final Broadway collaboration was a notorious flop, closing two weeks after opening. You can’t argue with that score, though, probably the most “tuneful” and brassy Broadway sounding songs of Sondheim’s career, including “Old Friends,”“Not A Day Goes By,”“Now You Know,”“Like It Was, “Good Thing Going,” and “Our Time.” It is no wonder so many people have tried reviving this problematic piece over the years, drawn to the story of three best friends making their lives in show business, told backwards from total disillusionment to their wide-eyed beginnings. Filmmaker Richard Linklater has begun work on a film adaptation, in the vein of his Boyhood, with camera work taking

place periodically over two decades to show the characters aging, starring Blaker Jenner, Ben Platt, and Beanie Feldstein. In the meantime, besides the dynamite Broadway cast recording (featuring my favorite overture in Broadway history), head to Netflix for Best Worst Thing That Ever Could Have Happened, original star Lonny Price’s fascinating and moving documentary about the now iconic 1981 production. Sunday in the Park with George (1984) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by James Lapine Creating a show with a director other than Hal Prince for the first time in 20 years, Sondheim won a Pulitzer for this behind the scenes look at artist Georges Seurat’s painting of the iconic A Sunday Afternoon on the Island of La Grande Jatte and then at how a descendant of his might get along in the modern art scene. It was far from standard Broadway fare, even for Sondheim, but critics raved, and Sondheim fans rejoiced at the daring new direction. Certainly, there’s been no more humanizing look at the “art of making art” than this score, including “Color and Light,”“Finishing the Hat,”“Beautiful,”“Putting it Together,”“Children and Art,” and “Move On.” Luckily for us, the original production with definitive performances by Mandy Patinkin and Bernadette Peters was captured on video and is widely available. METROSOURCE.COM

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John Weidman and previous titles include Wise Guys, Gold!, and Bounce), but it never made it to Broadway despite numerous fits and starts that generated two cast recordings, neither of which makes a very good case for the musical. What did play Broadway in addition to multiple revivals of many of his shows was James Lapine’s brainchild, Sondheim on Sondheim (2010), which juxtaposed fantastic interview clips (Sondheim gave good clip!) with live song performances by a stellar cast led by Barbara Cook,Vanessa Williams, and Tom Wopat. There is an excellent cast recording. Another Lapine creation was his HBO collaboration with Frank Rich, Six By Sondheim (2013), which is well worth watching.

Into the Woods (1987) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by James Lapine The gateway musical for most Sondheim fans born after the mid-1970s or so has represented the most accessible iteration of his work given the familiar fairy tale characters and his agile embrace of their milieu. Of course, in the second act when we find out what happens to Cinderella, Little Red Riding Hood, Rapunzel and Jack’s beanstalk, certain audience members may recoil at the dystopian darkness in the piece, but by that time they have already enjoyed a bunch of Sondheim’s most popular songs. There’s Rob Marshall’s mostly great movie adaptation with Meryl Streep, but still the best way to experience Into the Woods is via the ubiquitous full video of the original production, led by Bernadette Peters, Joanna Gleason and Chip Zien, as directed for television by Lapine. Assassins (1990) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by John Weidman Sondheim’s next musical premiered OffBroadway and then didn’t get a mainstem production for 14 years. This revue style depiction of different people who killed or tried to kill the various presidents of the United States (from Lincoln to Reagan) was thought to be too controversial at the time of the first Iraq War. As Classic Stage Company’s recent Off-Broadway revival reiterated, the theme of Americans wanting to

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violently impose their views on the leaders of government and the impact that has on the rest of us couldn’t be timelier. Evoking distinctive styles of American music spanning centuries (from John Philip Sousa to ‘70s singer-songwriters, big spiritual anthems to little parlor ditties), Sondheim delivered a score in top form. The original cast recording with Patrick Cassidy,Victor Garber, Greg Germann and Annie Golden is best. Passion (1994) Music and Lyrics by Stephen Sondheim, Book by James Lapine This uniquely intimate and dark chamber piece - almost an opera with near constant music and no applause breaks - was certainly an odd fit for Broadway in the 90s, opening the same season as Disney’s Beauty and the Beast and the Rosie O’Donnell revival of Grease. But it didn’t matter, by this point Sondheim had been so widely recognized as the master by generations of theatregoers that even the brooding Passion won the Tony awards for Best Musical, Best Book, and Best Score. The fourth Tony Passion won that night was Best Actress in a Musical for Donna Murphy and lucky for us her galvanic, star-making performance (opposite Jere Shea and the late, great, irreplaceable, and ravishing Marin Mazzie) was captured for broadcast with Lapine again directing the cameras. The only musical Sondheim completed after that was Road Show (with a book by

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A few more Sondheim video productions not to miss: • Evening Primrose (1966) Sondheim and James Goldman’s dark and whimsical hour-long musical about people who live in a department store features a lilting score (including “I Remember”) and appealing lead performances by Anthony Perkins and Charmian Carr (known as Liesl in The Sound of Music movie). • A second revue of his work following Side by Side by Sondheim, Putting It Together (1999), as filmed on Broadway with Carol Burnett, although the original Off-Broadway cast recording with Julie Andrews is better. • Sondheim: A Celebration at Carnegie Hall (1992) This is all-star tribute with Liza Minnelli, Patti LuPone, Bernadette Peters, Betty Buckley, Madeleine Kahn, Dorothy Loudon and Glenn Close, among others, is as good as it gets. Sondheim’s go-to conductor Paul Gemignani leads the amazing American Theater Orchestra. • Sondheim: The Birthday Concert (2010) Another one with all the greats including Elaine Stritch at her impish and imperious best plus the New York Philharmonic. ■

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HOME. “Every time we drove by my dad would

say, ‘you know, that would make an amazing cheese shop’,” she remembers fondly. Skoulatos admits she is not sure what became of that specific retail space, but she did stumble upon a similar one in 2013 just next door to her apartment on Cooper St. in Inwood – a discovery that sent her career journey veering down an exciting new path. Now she is running the snack show at her own 322-square foot specialty store in Manhattan’s northernmost neighborhood. It’s aptly named Inwood Gourmet, and it’s proof that good things come in small packages. “I went from fashion to food,” she explains of her start working as a children’s wear design director. “I knew all about merchandising, buying capacity and sales. But at the end of the day when you’re selling a product, you’re selling a product; instead of children’s outfits, I’m now doing cheese.” Delectable local dairy is just one of Inwood Gourmet’s offerings. “I want to give people everything they need to host a cocktail party, minus the alcohol,” she explains. Thankfully,

there’s a full liquor shop just off the 207 St. subway stop for those seeking libations. And at Inwood Gourmet, would-be revelers will find everything to accompany a fine 2018 Rosé, like crackers, jams, and locally cured charcuterie from Charlito’s Cocina, as well as fresh vegetable boxes sourced via the farm co-op, Zone 7. “I’m Greek so obviously food has always been very important to me,” she says with a laugh. In homage to her rich heritage, she also carries an array of Mediterranean staples like flaky spanakopita and imported olives. “To be successful, you have to be new, fresh and different and that’s what I bring to my store,” she explains passionately.“I try to bring in a new product every week. Whether it’s a new vendor or a new flavor, I pride myself in bringing in products you won’t find up here otherwise.” Some of those unexpected goodies might be a vegan “cheese” from a Brooklyn purveyor or handmade mugs and serving dishes crafted by Nick Park, a New York-based pottery maker and member of the LGBTQ+ community. Visitors can also expect to see rotating works from other tri-state based artists and photographers like Carla DeVore (@ carladevorephotography). While waiting for a colorful charcuterie board or gift basket built

by Skoulatos herself, foodies just may find something beautiful to hang upon their walls at home. Consider that another perk! “If you don’t want to travel, allow me to provide,” she says smiling.“I only allow three in the shop at one time to ensure we’re able to give everyone an intimate shopping experience when they come.”If it’s not Skoulatos behind the register ringing up the trappings of a tasty Friday night, it may very well be her mother or her father – the same man who inspired her to follow her dream of opening a cozy neighborhood cheese shop back when she was just a girl. ■

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BARRACUDA Cool music, cute crowds, wild drag shows and talent competitions hosted on the tiny stage in the rear. 275 W. 22nd St. at Eighth Ave., NYC 212-645-8613

BOXERS CHELSEA Big gay sports bar with games on flat-screens, pool tables and a smoking patio. A pizza oven dispenses mouth-watering pies, but the bartenders are even hotter. 37 W. 20th St. between Fifth and Sixth Aves., NYC 212-624-5942. boxersnyc.com

THE EAGLE This dark and cruisy leather-and-Levi’s clubs boasts a great rooftop deck and popular events for specific fetishes. 554 W. 28th St. between Tenth and Eleventh Aves., NYC 646-473-1866. eagle-ny.com

GYM Popular after work sports bar with plasma-screen TVs broadcasting games, a pool table and a basement dugout. 167 Eighth Ave. between 18th and 19th Sts., NYC 212-337-2439. gymsportsbar.com

EAST VILLAGE/LOWER EAST SIDE THE BOILER ROOM A throwback to the days when the East Village was for the punky and funky, this no-frills lounge is popular with the college set, attitude-free, and rocks with an eclectic mix of music and scruffy pool players. 86 E. 4th St. at Second Ave., NYC 212-254-7536

OSCAR WILDE

Glittery Centaurs and other enchanted-forest motifs distinguish this cozy lounge in way-west HK with theme parties and guest DJs. 500 W. 48th St. between Tenth and Eleventh Aves., NYC 646-648-3897

Boasting NYC’s Best Happy Hour seven days a week, this way uptown outpost of the gay bar phenomenon always offers incredible eye candy. 3820 Broadway at 159th St., NYC. boxersnyc.com

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WEST VILLAGE

When not serving vodka sodas in glass steins, bartenders jump on the bar for boot-scootin’ to Achy Breaky-type tunes. 793 Ninth Ave. at 53rd St., NYC 212-713-0481. flamingsaddles.com/nyc

HARDWARE Enjoy cheap drinks at the front bar and fun tunes on the rear dance floor when live performers like Jan Sport, Marti Gould Cummings, Brita Filter and Paige Turner aren’t on stage. 697 Tenth Ave between 47th and 48th Sts., NYC 212-924-9885. hardware-bar.com

INDUSTRY Big venue with couch-filled nooks, a game room with a pool table, and industrial design that’s a nod to its parking-garage past. Tina Burner and Kizha Carr shake things up. 355 W. 52nd St. between Eighth and Ninth Aves., NYC 646-476-2747. industry-bar.com This neighborhood fixture attracts tourists, locals and theater pros from both sides of the footlights with strong drinks, cheap prices and friendly staff. 656 Ninth Ave. at 46th St., NYC 212-307-1503

POSH A mixed bag of Hell’s Kitchenites and the occasional celeb spill out onto the sidewalk as this lounge spins pop and dance tunes. 405 W. 51st St. at Ninth Ave., NYC 212-957-2222. poshbarnyc.com

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This upscale boy boîte had places to perch on multiple levels, but a kickin’ sound system makes it unlikely you’ll settle down. 369 W. 46th St. at Ninth Ave., NYC 212-333-2554. ritzbarandlounge.com

EAST VILLAGE CLUB CUMMING Willkommen to this sassy, performance-based club from Alan Cumming, Benjamin Maisani, Darren Dryden and Daniel Nardicio. Picture backstage at a Berlin nightclub where anything goes from Drag Race viewing parties to (of course!) cabaret. 505 E. 6th St. between Aves. A and B, NYC 212-777-2555. clubcummingnyc.com

THE COCK Longtime late-night haven for naughty go-go boys and those seeking debauchery from the naughty to the nightlife glitterati. 29 Second Ave. between First and Second Sts., NYC

NOWHERE Ultra-mellow East Villager with distressed décor, a pool table and what may be the smallest back room ever. 322 E. 14th St. between First and Second Aves., NYC 212-477-4744. nowherebarnyc.com

PHOENIX Find folks enjoying video games, a pool table, a jukebox and the diverse crowd in an exposed-brick space with an uncomplicated vibe. 447 E. 13th St. at Ave. A., NYC 212-477-9979. hoenixbarnyc.com

HELL’S KITCHEN/MIDTOWN WEST ATLAS SOCIAL CLUB Josh Wood, Benjamin Maisani, Pablo Raimondi, and Asi Mazar hit a home run with this HK hotspot, where celebs like Andy Cohen, Anderson Cooper, and Cher have made cameos. 753 9th Ave. between 50th and 51st Sts., NYC 212-262-8527. atlassocialclub.com

BARRAGE This HK lounge has au courant accouterments and outrageous drinks. Late happy hour from 11pm to midnight is the perfect time for a discount. 401 W. 47th St. at Ninth Ave., NYC 212-586-9390

BOXERS HK This outpost of the Chelsea sports bar features a large ground floor, basement game room dubbed The Dog Pound, and big rooftop patio. 742 Ninth Ave. at 50th St., NYC 212-951-1518. boxersnyc.com

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Home to the local lesbian crowd (and a few boys), this small, unpretentious bar features a capricious décor heavy on fish. 281 W. 12th St. at Fourth St., NYC 212-243-9041. cubbyholebar.com

THE DUPLEX

Downstairs at the city’s oldest continuing cabaret/piano bar, the staff performs while serving. Upstairs is a more traditional boy bar and an intimate room that books cabaret acts. 61 Christopher St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-255-5438. theduplex.com

THE HANGAR

Manly neighborhood bar with a diverse crowd. 115 Christopher St. between Bleecker and Hudson Sts., NYC 212-627-2044

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Acclaimed mixologist Johnny Swet sets the scene at this cocktail lounge, ironically situated at the former headquarters of NYC’s Bureau of Prohibition. The gastropub is a tribute to its great Irish namesake and displays a collection of related relics. 45 W. 27th St. at Sixth Avenue., NYC 212-213-3066. oscarwildenyc.com Sexy Chelsea hangout where G Lounge used to be with ondustrial décor and sexy staff drawing all kinds of men (especially local muscle bears). 225 W. 19th St. between Seventh and Eighth Aves., NYC 212-929-1085. rebarchelsea.com

CUBBYHOLE

Kings of NYC nightlife joined forces for this fab yet unpretentious watering hole right where you can dance all night every Friday and Saturday. 859 9th Avenue., NYC 646-892-3313. risebarnyc.com

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THERAPY The modern duplex draws a fierce crowd to weekly shows by legendary performers like Pixie Aventura. Don’t miss Paige Turner’s infamous Sunday night Slurp show. 348 W. 52nd St. between Eighth and Ninth Aves., NYC 212-397-1700. therapy-nyc.com

EAST SIDE THE TOOL BOX This two-level dive bar with a cozy downstairs hosts parties with DJs and go-go boys on Friday and Saturday. 1742 Second Ave., between 90th and 91st Sts., NYC 212-348-1288. thetoolboxnyc.com

THE TOWNHOUSE Two levels of mature gents and their younger fans swaying to live songs from the Jerry Herman oeuvre. 236 E. 58th St. between Second and Third Aves., NYC 212-754-4649. townhouseny.com

UNCLE CHARLIE’S After a remodel that put its piano in the center of the action, this effervescent lounge is once again going strong with live entertainment and multiple bars. 139 E. 45th St. between Third and Lexington Aves., NYC 212-661-9097. unclecharliesnyc.com

UPPER WEST SIDE

Popular lesbian lounge with a multicultural crowd. 438 Hudson St. at Morton St., NYC 212-924-3347.henriettahudson.com

JULIUS’

On a normal night, the city’s oldest gay bar is a comfy place for cheap drinks, burgers and fries. Once a month, Mattachine turns it into a crowded, rowdy dance party with excellent vinyl music. 159 W. 10th St. at Waverly Pl., NYC 212-243-1928. juliusbarny.com

MARIE’S CRISIS

Old-school sing-alongs are on tap at this long-running piano bar. Stop in and “sing out, Louise!” 59 Grove St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-243-9323. mariescrisis.us

MONSTER

Sheridan Square stalwart where fab guys and dolls sing along to show tunes upstairs while DJs spin for a diverse crowd downstairs. 80 Grove St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-924-3558 Open Mon-Fri, 4pm-4am; Sat & Sun, 2pm-4am. monsterbarnyc.com

PIECES

Bop to retro dance tracks or laugh at drag queen antics like Ms. Vodka Stinger’s B-Movie Mondays. 8 Christopher St. at Sixth Ave., NYC 212-929-9291. piecesbar.com

ROCKBAR

For boys who prefer fur, there’s this butched-up bar with a fist-pumping soundtrack, cheap drinks and very sexy parties. 185 Christopher St. at Weehawken St., NYC. rockbarnyc.com

STONEWALL

Daddies, faux thugs, and girls who like girls rule this two-story birthplace of gay pride. Every night offers a different theme, e.g. drag shows, karaoke and beer blasts. 53 Christopher St. at Seventh Ave. South, NYC 212-488-2705. thestonewallinnnyc.com

TY’S

Ye Olde Boy Bar serves a loyal and friendly Christopher Street clientele — NYPD and Firemen especially welcome. 114 Christopher St. between Bleecker and Hudson Sts., NYC 212-741-9641. tys.nyc

OUTER BOROUGHS & BEYOND ALBATROSS

Homey Astoria bar with a pool table and jukebox. 36-19 24th Ave. at 38th St., Astoria, NYC 718-204-9045. albatrossastoria.com

SUITE This adorable spot attracts Columbia gays with leopard-print lamps, leather banquettes and drag entertainers. 992 Amsterdam Ave. between 109th and 110th Sts., NYC 212-222-4600. suitenyc.com

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ICON ASTORIA

Beefcake dancers and NYC nightlife legends flock to this unassuming Astoria watering hole for great beats and impressive drag. 31-84 33rd Street., Astoria, NY 347-808-7592. iconastoria.com

Columbia boys and neighborhood cubs converge at this Morningside watering hole for Topless Tuesdays, karaoke nights, and local drag queens. 955 West End Avenue between 107th and Duke Ellington Blvd., NYC 212-531-4759. thewestendlounge.com

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UPTOWN

B-burg bar with a spacious patio. 559 Lorimer St. at Metropolitan Ave., Williamsburg, 718-599-4444. metropolitanbarny.com

ALIBI LOUNGE Popular Harlem bar that’s a great spot for after work. Bring some cash for the jay-dropping go-go boys on Man Crush Mondays. 2376 Adam Clayton Powell Blvd. at 139th St., NYC 917-472-7789.

Popular with lesbians, this long, dark bar has a jukebox and an outdoor garden. 363 Fifth Ave., Park Slope, Brooklyn 718-788-0924

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Mixed cocktail bar with eclectic entertainment and a big back deck. 63 Montrose Ave., Brooklyn 347-987-3101. therosemontnyc.com

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