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Family heals thanks to local Jewish community support By Rachel Dranetz
When Hurricane Michael hit the panhandle last year, many families were devastated by the destruction inflicted throughout Northern Florida. Fortunately, there were many people who came forward to help, including within the Jacksonville Jewish community. Hurricane Michael was the first Category 5 hurricane to strike the contiguous United States since Andrew in 1992. At least 74 deaths were attributed to the storm, which caused an estimated $25.1 billion in damages. After seeing the news coverage of the devastation and knowing that the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville would know what to do, a local community member contacted the office, seeking a way to make a difference for a family impacted by Hurricane Michael. Kellie Smith, director of the Foundation, connected with reputable nonprofit organizations on the Gulf Coast to identify families in need and worked alongside the social service agencies to ensure a great match. The Hester family in Marianna, Florida, was identified to be in great need. Their entire home and many of their belongings were destroyed in the hurricane, and Kaitlin Hester was just weeks away from giving birth to her second child.
See HESTER, p. 12
Elior and Itamar Lubliner present Hilary Rotenberg and Susie Menaged of Jewish Family & Community Services with their first grant award for E.P.I.C. Program at Martin J. Gottlieb Day School and Torah Academy.
Leah and Samantha Zimmerman present Faye Hedrick of the Jewish Federation with a grant award for the BRIDGES Leadership Initiative to help cultivate the next generation of our Jewish communal leaders.
Young philanthropists distribute first installment of NextGen Grant Awards By Kellie Smith
Over the last 20 years, the B’nai Tzedek Young Philanthropy Program has made grants from their collective funds via a voting process with local agencies and synagogues. Earlier this year, our local Jewish agencies, schools and synagogues were asked to submit a program needing funding. A blind ballot was created with the program missions and goals that was then distributed to all fund holders by mail. In addition, a web page was set up so fundholders or interested parties could
review the grant proposals in full. More than 300 young fund holders voted for the top three programs they felt our community needed most. The ballots were tabulated and the winners announced in late spring 2019. The winners for this voting cycle were the Jewish Community Alliance for Just Like Me, a theatre program serving hundreds of children that teaches justice and celebrates diversity, Jewish Family & Community Services for E.P.I.C. (formerly known as Inclusion), a program done in partnership with
our Jewish day schools that offers individualized support services for students and families, and the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville for the BRIDGES Leadership Initiative, a program developed by rGEN which will help educate and grow tomorrow’s Jewish leaders. These agencies are receiving $5,000 a year for three consecutive years for their proposed programs. Our fund holders are looking forward to the success of these incredible programs
See PHILANTHROPISTS, p. 5
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Janet Husney was a new bride when she came from Brooklyn to Jacksonville more than 60 years ago. She and her husband, Murray, raised three children here, and now have more than a dozen grand and great-grandchildren. Known for her hugs and positive attitude, she’s very grateful for the help that she and her family receive from the Jewish community. “I was on the giving end. Now I’m on the receiving end,” said Husney, who is one of the hundreds of local Jews receiving assistance and support from Jewish Family & Community Services.
See HUSNEY, p. 12
Partnership2Gether jewish teens and seniors come together for a night of painting and friendship. Janet Husney pictured, far left.
RABBINICALLY SPEAKING
Tasting G-d in the New Year
Jonathan Lubliner, Jack F. Shorstein Senior Rabbi, Jacksonville Jewish Center
The limits of language force us to talk about our relationship with G-d in terms of sensory experiences, e.g., hearing or touching G-d. But can one “taste” Rabbi Jonathan G-d? The Psalmist thinks we Lubliner can: “Taste and see how good the Lord is; happy is the one who takes refuge in G-d” (Psalm 34:9). Rabbi David Altschuler, the 18th century author of Metzudat Tziyon, a commentary on Scripture, explains that in this context the word “taste” means to experience G-d’s qualities in some cognitive fashion. Still, I prefer the literal meaning. The Torah teaches us to “Eat, be satisfied, and give thanks to the Lord your G-d for the good land which He has given you” (Deuteronomy 8:10). Satisfaction in eating is inextricably linked to the taste of what we eat. If we savor G-d’s bounty and are grateful, we are tasting how good G-d is, so to speak. The idea of eating meditations comes from the Buddhist tradition, but it strongly echoes values built into Judaism. The goal is to deepen one’s awareness of the ordinary miracle of eating by making the experience a mindful one. Taking the
See RABBINICALLY SPEAKING, p. 12
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FEDERATION NEWS Energy of time: the doors are open to you now BY MINDY RUBENSTEIN
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The Hebrew calendar is like no other calendar that exists in the world today. It does not progress from past to future in a linear fashion as does the Western calendar. It is cyclical, recalling events from history and drawing their energy upwards, says Rabbi Simon Jacobson in his book 60 Days: A Spiritual Guide to the High Holidays. We are in the midst of Elul and approaching Tishrei, the two most powerful months on the Hebrew calendar. [Elul, the current Hebrew month, precedes the High Holidays, and is a month of spiritual preparation. Tishrei, the holiest month of the year, contains the monumental holidays of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and Sukkot, as well as the lesser-known holidays of Shemini Atzeret and Simchat Torah. These two months embody the energy of renewal after destruction, rebirth after loss, the energy of love and forgiveness, of empowerment and joy, says Rabbi Jacobson. Elul and Tishrei capture the story of life itself. They certainly capture the story of my own life. Each night as I curl up in the darkness with my son as he goes to bed, I say the Shema prayer with him and marvel at how we end up back in the same place each night, doing the same things despite a hectic day. Here we are again, I think to myself. Time seems to slip away as I watch him grow, and I’m reminded of that each night as I send him off to sleep after the completion of yet another day. Did we do something today that matters? Am I on a path of growth as a mother
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and a Jewish woman? While it’s nice to have routines, it’s easy to get caught up with life and forget to take stock of our mission here and to appreciate the little moments. The Hebrew month of Elul, the last month of the Hebrew year, is considered the month of self-reflection and accounting in preparation for the New Year and the High Holidays. It is never too late, destiny can be changed with prayer, and forgiveness is always possible. Change breeds change. If you change an attitude, it will ignite other changes in your life. Now is the time. Elul is a month when the doors are open, so to speak. Choose the most important things you want to change – maybe it’s a relationship, a psychological pattern, your job, your home or your parenting style. Do you want to try to be more present, to live in the moment and to have more gratitude? Write down what you want, set your intentions, and ask G-d for help. Unprecedented doors are open to us now, opportunities that do not come very often, Rabbi Jacobson says. Now is the time. I would love to hear about your journey of self-reflection and growth during the High Holidays and any time of year. Email me at mindyr@jewishjacksonville.org.
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On the eve of September 29, we will celebrate our Jewish New Year with family and friends. My family and I wish all the members of our Jewish community a happy and healthy New Year! It continues to be my honor and privilege to serve as the executive director of our Jewish Federation. The work accomplished, the services provided by our local and overseas agencies, local synagogues and Jewish schools, is significant. The volunteer and professional leadership and our clergy work in partnership to make Jacksonville a great community. While it is customary at Passover to say, “Next year in Jerusalem,” I want to take the poetic license to express this at the time of our High Holidays, because we have two wonderful opportunities next year to journey together to Israel. Federation is sponsoring two journeys, two missions to Israel in 2020: On April 21-28, we will have our second Women’s Mission, and from July 19-29 we are having our second Interfaith Mission. Each of these trips is designed to showcase Israel today and offer participants the chance to delve deeply into the history, sights, sounds, flavors and energy of our Jewish homeland.
During both trips, participants will enjoy 5-star hotels, veteran guides, and culinary excellence throughout the country – Tel Aviv, Jerusalem, our Partnership community of Hadera – with programming to bring the past, present and a glimpse of the future to life. The Women’s Mission includes the wonders of the Negev, and will showcase programming specific to life in Israel today for Jewish women. The Interfaith Mission includes the beauty of the North, and will showcase Christian and Jewish historical sights. We are so fortunate that Rabbi Elizabeth Bahar of Congregation Ahavath Chesed and Pastor Kyle Reese, deputy director of OneJax Institute, will be joining as scholars in residence on the interfaith trip. We have earned a reputation for doing a super job in bringing members of the community to Israel! The itineraries are terrific, and what is provided is nearly all inclusive. I invite everyone to join with us and take advantage of these opportunities to experience Israel in 2020. Thank you and again. Happy New Year! To learn more about the Women’s Mission, please contact Lauren Rickoff at (904-224-1406 or laurenr@ jewishjacksonville.org). And to learn more about the Interfaith Mission, please contact Alan Margolies at 904448-5000 ext. 207 or at alanm@jewishjacksonville.org.
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Israel Partnership: Letter from mother expresses gratitude for Israel teen exchange program Good Evening, Two months ago, a friend of mine, Nitza Gerber, called me and said, “Oh Nehorai, I heard that you will be in the delegation to Jacksonville this July. You and your team are so lucky!” I asked her, why? She said, “The people at the Jacksonville community are so warm, loving and generous. You will have fun there.” Well, I can tell you this; the first thing I’m going to do when I arrive in Israel is call Nitza and tell her, “Nitza, my dear, you were definitely right!” It is not common that people from the other side of the ocean open their homes, hearts and wallets to people they’ve only just met. The students and I never take this for granted. We feel that our visit in Jacksonville was so important; it created new connections Nehorai Arbel– Israeli Chaperone, Sol Reuveni, Liel and new friendships. I hope we managed Nachman, Yoav Amos and Mark Tsyperson to bring to Jacksonville a taste of our life in Israel. For us, coming to Jacksonville is constant support. the climax of the Partnership2Gether activiA big special thank you to my partner in ties. The warm welcome we received from crime, Jill Abel, the Israel Partnership Directhe American teens, the host families and tor. Jill, you have done so much work on members of the Federation, was amazing and every detail for our visit, and you have built a really showed how much they care about this great program. Thank you so much. personal relationship. Personally, this was my And also, thank you to the Board for being first time in the United States. This was also supportive to the Hadera-Eiron Partnership. the case for the teens; we had never crossed Thanks to you too, my brother Rotem, the the ocean before. Community Shaliach. You are a great guy I would like to thank you in my name and I envy you for your amazing work. and on behalf of the students, for the warm To ALL of our host families who made us welcome and the amazing experience that feel so welcome every day since we came to we had here with you guys. I hope that next Jacksonville: Irit and Oren Salzman, Alyse time you hear about Israel you will also be and Alan Nathans, Nancy and Rich Davis, reminded of the people, not just the things and Jenn and Lon Neuman. Thank you very you hear about on the news. This is the idea much to you all. of our partnership– that there is more to To my hosts, the amazing Osher FamIsrael and the Jewish communities in North ily– Manya and Tal. Thank you very much, American, and that there are people with a lot I could not have asked for more! You have of love and commitment for their country and been very generous to me. for each other. We hope we managed to bring And last, to you, the American teens: Stav, this idea to you all. I just want to end by Arin, Josie, and Benjamin, and if I may add saying a great big THANK YOU for all that also little Lily. To all of you guys, if you have your community is doing so that our visits a chance to come to Israel, please see our here in Jacksonville will be a success. region as your second home where you will I would like to thank the Jewish Federabe very welcome. tion of Jacksonville and Executive DirecThank you very much and G-d bless you tor, Alan Margolies for his leadership and all!
Trip to Argentina and Uruguay By Iris Kraemer
Members of our Jacksonville Jewish community recently had the unique opportunity to visit the Jewish communities of Buenos Aires, Argentina, and Montevideo, Uruguay. Jewish Federation of Jacksonville President Iris Kraemer, her husband Mark, and Director of Campaign and Women’s Division Lauren Rickoff participated on the seven-day Jewish Federations of North America’s Financial Resource Development Mission, which included representatives from more than 20 other Federations. Argentina is home to the largest Jewish population in Latin America, and it was there that Federation’s Overseas Partners, The Jewish Agency for Israel (JAFI) and The Joint Distribution Committee (JDC), have built and main-
tained Jewish life for decades. Through a combination of training sessions and site visits, participants learned about and witnessed the tireless efforts made possible through Federation funds to ensure the continuity of the Jewish people in this region of our world. “We felt privileged to share these experiences with 115 of our volunteer and professional leaders from Federations around the country. Together we will bring the stories to our respective communities so that we may continue to support all Jews who are in need,” Kraemer said. “We returned to Jacksonville enthusiastically ready to share all that Jacksonville’s federation donors have made possible for our Latin American brothers and sisters.”
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Communal Endowments for Community Futures Question: “What is a communal endowment and how does it impact the community?” To start, what exactly are “endowments?” Endowments may generally be described as asset accounts that are invested in equities or bonds, or other investment vehicles and set aside so that the original assets (known as the “corpus”) grow over time as a result of income earned from interest on the underlying invested funds. Creating an endowment may be an important strategy to set aside funds for the future and can be an assurance of financial sustainability. The corpus may also be added to over time. Endowments are commonly used by large institutions, such as universities and hospitals, but also may play a role in any charitable nonprofit’s financial management or revenue strategy. Endowments are not the same as reserve funds – an endowment implies that some or all of the use of the endowed assets are restricted in some way. Most endowments are designed to keep the principal corpus intact so it can grow over time, but allow the nonprofit to use the annual investment income for programs, operations or other purposes specified by the donor(s) to the endowment. The corpus of an endowed fund is generally not used to fund annual operating expenses, although they can if designated by the donor. Instead, the goal of most organizations with endowments is to allow the corpus to grow without withdrawals so that the underlying corpus increases in value over time, and the interest earned is available every year for the stated purpose of the endowment. Communal endowments are collective nest eggs to fund unmet needs of a community and what’s more, they also have positive non-financial effects that can transform a community’s future. Communal endowments are a powerful means of building capacity – they work much like a permanent collective savings account, where community leaders determine how to distribute the earnings and or interest. By raising and managing a wide range of communal permanent endowment funds you ultimately build capacity to fund and serve your community. These invested endowments generate streams of revenue to support charitable activities within the areas served by Jewish Federations nationwide. Jewish Community Foundations and Federations around the country are joining forces and moving into the communal endowment strategy to better meet the needs of local agencies, schools, synagogues and global Jewish needs as determined by the JDC. While they are established as donor-service organizations, community foundations occupy a central, grounded and non-partisan position in a community. In addition to building endowments and making grants, they can convene community stakeholders, foster unique partnerships, broker technical assistance, leverage other resources into play, build bridges, and foster “unprecedented conversations” among people, places and organizations.
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Community foundations are the fastest growing sector of charitable contributions in this country and your Jewish Community Foundation is feeling the effects. We have grown by more than 25% in just one year and are working on increasing our presence within our community and around Northeast Florida. Your Jewish Community Foundation is proud of our flexibility as a mechanism and support for local and overseas endowment building. The Jewish Community Foundation is your partner in charitable giving. We offer easy, creative ways to make a significant impact with your tzedakah. Whether you’d like to memorialize a loved one, support a community organization in perpetuity or simply streamline your charitable giving, the Foundation is here to help you and the organizations within our Jewish community achieve philanthropic goals. So, why build communal endowments? Even when local needs and opportunities are well defined and a community’s energy is strong, many Jewish communities of our size can benefit from a solid base of locally controlled, permanent philanthropic assets on which to build their future. Establishing a communal endowment that includes broad and inclusive community representation in its governance and decision-making structure can begin to build a community’s assets and secure its financial future. And so, the nurturing of a Jewish community’s endowments can contribute to building a community’s capacity to make better decisions about—and act on—its future.
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in our community. B’nai Tzedek Young Philanthropy funds are set up as a gift by the parents or grandparents at the time of a child’s bar or bat mitzvah, and the gift is tripled through a partnership between
Mel and Debbie Gottlieb and the Jewish Federation. Young fund holders are given the opportunity to grow their fund over 20 years and convert it to a permanent legacy fund in their name. If your child is interested in participating in this program, or if you’d like to update the information of your child that already has a fund, please contact Emma Pulley at 904-2241405 or emmap@jewishjacksonville.org
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Growth at Torah Academy By Rabbi Shaya Hauptman, Head of School
Torah Academy of Jacksonville welcomed new and returning families for an exciting year back at school. With the influx of new families moving to Jacksonville to join the Jewish community, Torah Academy has witnessed an enrollment increase of 50 percent over the past four years! We are excited to welcome back our dedicated staff and to add some new faces to
Tikkun Olam – If you see what needs to be repaired and how to repair it, then you have found a piece of the world G-d has left for you to complete. But if you only see what is wrong and what is ugly in the world, then it is you yourself that needs repair. – Menachem Mendel Schneerson
the team. Rabbi Eliezer Hildeshaim joined the school as the newest member of the Judaic studies faculty, and Ms. Adriana Rivera assumed the role of assistant teacher to Preschool Director Morah Henny Fisch. With a physical expansion project in the works, Torah Academy is further developing Judaic and secular curriculum offerings. Under the direction of the General Studies Principal Ms. Danielle Boyce, TA has been approved to administer Florida Standards Assessment testing. This coming year will also usher in a new
age of cutting-edge learning, including a focus on STEM offerings. As always, through the continued partnership and the support of Jewish Family & Community Services and the return of JFCS’ Inclusion Specialist Ms. Lauren Lodato and her staff, TA can ensure students receive the academic attention and individualized support they need to succeed. For more information, visit Torah-Academy. com or email Office@Torah-Academy.com.
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Kinder, Taiyereh Kinder: Children, Dear Children By Brandon Melamed
I participated in the TJJAP (The Jerusalem Journey Ambassadors Poland) trip this summer, along with 100 other dedicated and knowledgeseeking NCSYers/JSUers and advisors*. We went to Poland and Israel, but it wasn’t that simple. Going through Poland was crazy, physically, spiritually and emotionally. We explored the horrors of the Holocaust, but we alsp delved into a thousand years of Jewish history. Then, traveling to Israel was incredible. As soon as we landed we visited the Western Wall, and traveling from the lowest low to the highest high was an unbelievable experience. In Poland we visited the main concentration and death camps, including Auschwitz and Majdanek, where so many millions of our brothers and sisters were brutally tortured and murdered just because they were Jewish. Poland also was especially meaningful because I – like many others on my trip – have personal connections to the Holocaust. A big part of my family comes from Eastern European and the Poland/Germany/Russia area, and they were killed in the Holocaust as well. Prior to my trip, I began to study my family history and genealogical background in-depth. My dad shared with me copies of letters written by my great-great-grandparents, who were still living in Europe, sent to my great-grandmother in the United States, on the conditions where they resided. These were some of the last connections they had with one another before the Nazis invaded Eastern Europe. One section from a letter written by my great-great-grandfather in Europe, mentioned how the Nazi soldiers came to their town of Mogilev, Belorussia (present-day Belarus), and took one of his kids away. He went on to say that he hadn’t seen or heard from him in months, and nothing had been reported about him. I find this meaningful because in my family we are all very close and tight-knit, and it’s been that way for generations. We always talk about our lives together and we share everything. Coming from that environment, not seeing your son in months is something truly devastating. You don’t know what has happened to him, you don’t know what the Nazis could be doing to him, and this is in the dangers of World War II Soviet Belorussia, which was under occupation and the harm of the Nazis. 80 years later, we have the privilege to communicate with our family and friends all across the world in seconds, but that was only a dream to those in mid-20th century Europe. G-d forbid something like that ever happened to me or anyone I know, I wouldn’t know how to deal with that. In Holocaust
My whole trip was life changing, but especially Majdanek impacted me. education, teachers are told to never use the word ‘imagine’ because it’s impossible for someone who wasn’t actually there to imagine the horrors of the Holocaust. It’s impossible for me to imagine what my great-greatgrandfather and his family had to deal with back then. This part of the letter is especially meaningful to me because family – whether biological or not – is everything. In Poland during the trip, we went to ghettoes like in Warsaw, to mass graves and cemeteries of Holocaust victims and the earlier Polish Jewish community, and to synagogues. Standing in Majdanek – a concentration and death camp where close to 100,000 Jews were murdered – at the massive dome of ashes was a very strange experience. It was incredibly sad beyond words, and I was staring at the black ash and dust for a while- I don’t know how long. But finally turning around after what felt like forever, seeing the bright blue sky and the green grass, was something truly beautiful. On top of that, I came down from the dome and I rejoined the group of 100 other people on my trip, and singing and dancing our way out of Majdanek with all those beautiful Jewish faces and ‘neshamot’ (souls), was by far one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever seen. My whole trip was life-changing, but visiting Majdanek especially impacted me. The synagogues still standing in Poland are among the most beautiful in the world. The architecture is stunning, the design from hundreds of years ago is completely astounding, and I can imagine only a fraction of how powerful their prayer must’ve been while the synagogues were active. In Israel, we visited the Kotel several times, we went to the Galilee and Tzfat, and we traveled all throughout Jerusalem and Tel Aviv. Being on a Jewish-identity-themed trip, having gone to the Western Wall as much as we did was incredible to fully take in our Jewish pride and the holiness of the site. We went to the beautiful Mediterranean beaches and camped throughout the desert, which was fun as well. We went to various places in Jerusalem, Judea and Samaria to learn about the current Israeli conflict and to advocate for Israel, and overall to be ambassadors for the Jewish people as high school and college-aged Jews. TJJAP really taught me how im-
These side-by-side pictures are me standing outside the gates of Auschwitz and at the Western Wall.
portant respect is, and people having respect in the actions that they do to one another will in turn make the world a better place. Coming out of Poland made it clear just how much destruction can happen due to a simple lack of respect. I feel that simple acts of ‘ahavat chinam’ – literally “free love” – can do incomprehensible things that build up society. I was able to bond with so many other people from all over America and Canada, and we all became brothers and sisters together as we proudly marched out of the camps
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with our heads held high, and as we sang arm in arm together by the Western Wall. I’m so honored to have had the privilege of going on this trip, and having taken so much out of it, I hope that everyone is able to gain such an experience like I did from my adventure. Brandon Melamed, President of Jacksonville NCSY/JSU, Founder and President of Stanton JSU, President of Greater South NCSY/ JSU, Member of StandWithUs Teen Leadership Council *TJJ Ambassadors Poland is a five-
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week program that challenges participants to confront Jewish history and develop leadership skills to impact the Jewish future. *NCSY (National Conference of Synagogue Youth) founded in 1954, has members in the United States, Canada, Israel, Chile and formerly also in Ukraine. *JSU (Jewish Student Union), created in 2002, attempts to create Jewish culture clubs in public schools across the United States. JSU was created to serve a broad spectrum of Jewish teens from all different backgrounds and affiliations.
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Q&A with rGENerosity’s Richard Sisisky and Haley Trager By Faye Hedrick, rGEN Director
The Jewish Federation of Jacksonville’s rGENerosity event is a special evening designed for young professionals in our community each year. The event was generated after conversations about the importance of philanthropy and legacy between both volunteer leaders and Federation professionals in our community who hold these topics near and dear to their hearts. Two of the volunteer leaders who played a special role in this initiative are Richard Sisisky and Haley Trager. Q: Richard, when you and Kimberly agreed to sponsor the event, one of the stipulations you gave was that both of your daughters commit to continuing to host over the next two years. Can you tell us why? Richard: Kimberly and I believe rGEN is important and the growth of young leaders is critical to the long term sustainability of Federation. Having a program which identifies and nurtures the next generation of leaders is certainly deserving of our support. Over the years, we
have tried to show Blair and Kendall that philanthropy is more than just writing a check. It involves giving of your time and other resources as well. Opening your home to a good cause is a great way of demonstrating to others your commitment…especially if you have to juggle this with taking care of a young family and your work at the same time. Q: Haley, why did you suggest there be a minimum gift toward the annual campaign and do you feel like this event has made an impact so far? Haley: Prior to rGENerosity, there were no events held by rGEN that required a gift. We thought it was important there be a minimum gift required to attend because we wanted our young leaders to begin to recognize themselves as philanthropists. There is sometimes a misconception that one needs to be giving at a major gift level to be considered a philanthropist and this simply is not true. With the minimum gift requirement, our active young leaders are now also investing their financial gifts into Federation and this is
something we can be proud of. I think the impact of rGENerosity has been tremendous. We have a larger active young leader constituent and they are giving at a higher amount than before the event took place. The event draws a large crowd each year and has helped recruit new young philanthropists for our community. Q: Did your participating in Federation impact where you are today and how you participate in philanthropy? Haley: Through my involvement with our Jacksonville Federation, I was exposed to not only the needs in our local community, but also, through missions, to the needs overseas. When I was able to fully see the impact Federation has on our local and global community, I was moved to participate at a higher level as part of JFNA’s National Young Leadership Cabinet. Through this group, I’ve had the opportunity to travel to remote places to see our federation dollars at work helping the most vulnerable of populations. I’ve met some of my closest friends both here in Jacksonville and around the world through my
September Jewish Java –
“The Great American Movie Quiz” By Isabel Balotin, Shalom Jacksonville Director Welcome back, dear friends. Please join us as we kick off the new Java season with one of our favorite speakers, the multi-talented Dan Kossoff, a wellknown, local writer, producer, musician and movie critic. The fun begins on Wednesday, September 4 from 9-10:30 a.m. at River Garden’s Cohen Auditorium, 11401 Old St. Augustine Road, with a complimentary bagel brunch followed by a nostalgic and entertaining program. Our movie buff will present “The Great American Movie Quiz.” So, brush up on your movie trivia – titles, actors, iconic quotes, soundtracks, etc. Prizes for the winning answers! Jewish Java is a partnership of the Jewish Federation’s Shalom Jacksonville and River Garden Senior Services. We invite you to join us the first Wednesday of every month from 9-10:30 a.m. Mark your calendars now. Shalom Jacksonville is the official Jewish welcome wagon of Northeast Florida. If you are new to the
community or are newly interested in Jewish life, please contact Isabel Balotin, 904-224-1408 or shalomjax@jewishjacksonville.org. THERE WILL BE NO OCTOBER PROGRAM. Dan Kossoff has written, produced and directed thousands of TV programs, films, commercial and special events throughout his 50 years in broadcast communications. His work ranges from awardwinning documentaries to state legislative coverage; from producing a popular PBS cooking show to running the Jacksonville Jazz Festival. Kossoff also worked as a corporate marketing director and director of creative services. But his side job with the most perks was as resident movie critic for WJCT-TV and Jacksonville Magazine. Dan is past chairman of the Jacksonville and JCA Film Festivals and the Jacksonville Film Commission. He has a BA in communications from the University of Minnesota and studied film criticism and production as a graduate student at the University of Kansas.
Jewish Java update By Isabel Balotin, Shalom Jacksonville Director Your friends at Jewish Java are back after the summer hiatus with a season opener on September 4 that is sure to please and bring back memories of some of the movie classics, actors and memorable lines. Our favorite movie critic, Dan Kossoff, will emcee the morning trivia program. There will not be an October Java as the month is filled with many holiday observances and celebrations. The November 6th Java will feature Judith Fox-Goldstein, a transplant from the beautiful Island of Hawai’i, who will share her journey of transition from “Island Girl” to the big city of Jacksonville. “A stranger in a strange island”, Judith rediscovered her passion for writing and her new found love of art. Now, moving forward with her
“Art Awakening”, Judith takes us on a journey of her art work and how her Hawaiian roots inspire each character she creates. With the theme of cultural diversity and social justice resonating in each piece, Judith gives voice to women through color, design and poetry. Mark your calendars now for this fascinating program. Just a reminder: all Jewish Javas are held at River Garden Senior Services. The program is a partnership of the Jewish Federation’s Shalom Jacksonville and River Garden. The monthly program begins with a bagel brunch at 9 a.m. followed by the program. Please feel free to invite your friends and neighbors. For more information, contact Isabel Balotin, Shalom Jacksonville director, 904-224-1408 or shalomjax@jewishjacksonville.org.
A little bit of light pushes away a lot of darkness. -Jewish proverb
time as a lay leader within Federation. I’ve been inspired by so many young leaders and hope that I can also inspire someone to jump in and really get involved. Philanthropy is not something I do but is now a part of who I am. Richard: I have taken great pleasure and satisfaction from my years as a Federation volunteer. Being able to work with such dedicated lay and professional leadership over the years made the work even more enjoyable. Watching the impact our local and overseas investments have on the lives of so many in need is very satisfying and confirms the importance of the work Federation does each and every day. For me, being a volunteer leader in Federation as part of my commitment to Tzedekah was immensely fulfilling and gratifying. This year’s rGENerosity chairs are Emily and Erik Rostholder. When Emily and Erik heard about this program, they were excited to get involved. At this year’s event you will hear more about why this young couple was inspired to get involved in their Jewish community from a firsthand,
heartfelt and personal story. In addition to hearing from Emily and Erik, we are fortunate and excited to announce Michael Teplitsky, immediate past National Young Leadership Cabinet co-chair, as a guest speaker. Michael is an active leader of The Jewish United Fund of Metropolitan Chicago (JUF) where he served as campaign chair for the Young Leadership Division and was a recipient of the JUF’s Young Leadership Award and is a graduate of the Wexner Heritage Program. You are sure to leave from the evening feeling both more knowledgeable and inspired about the Federation’s impact locally and overseas. This year’s program will be held at the home of Blair Sisisky Sherman and Zachary Sherman on Saturday evening, October 19 at 7:30 p.m. Please reach out to Faye Hedrick, rGEN Director, with any questions or for more details at fayeh@jewishjacksonville.org..
Save the Date rGENerosity • Saturday, October 19, 2019 • Time: 6:30 p.m. Location: Private Home • Minimum Gift: $118 Major Gifts/Lion of Judah Event • Sunday, December 15, 2019 • 10:30 a.m. Location: Private Home • Minimum Gift: $5,000 Women’s Division Champagne Brunch • Sunday, January 5, 2020 • 10 a.m. Location: TBD • Minimum Gift: $70 A Night Out with Federation • Thursday, February 6, 2020 • 6-9 p.m. Location: Jacksonville Marriot • Minimum Gift: $36 Super Sunday • Sunday, February 23, 2020 • 9 a.m.-1 p.m. Location: Jewish Family and Community Services Lion of Judah Lunch • Tuesday, March 31, 2020 Location: Private home • Minimum Gift: $5,000 Girlfriend Connection • Thursday, May 14, 2020• 6 p.m. Location: TBD
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Jax Second Gen Workshop Series Announces Calendar
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The highest form of wisdom is kindness. – Talmud
If you identify as a child or grandchild of Holocaust survivors, you are invited to become a part of the monthly Jax Second Gen Writing and Discussion Workshop. This year, both daytime and evening meetings are available. You do not have to be a writer to attend. The focus is on attendance and enriching discussion. Because the responsibility of sharing Holocaust survivor parents’/grandparents’ experiences is vital for public understanding, those who chose to write, find their work to be an excellent preparation for public speaking, a special inheritance to pass on to future generations and catalyst for exploring identity.
Two special workshop programs will be featured for the 2019-2020 season.
Nov. 5 and 13, 2019 Through the Lens of Israel: Holocaust Survivorship & Identity, a conversation with Rotem Gabay, Jewish Federation of Jacksonville, Community Shaliach.
January 7 and 8, 2020 Through the Lens of Genealogy: Holocaust Identity, a conversation with Genealogy experts Marla Westberg and Jennifer Grannis.
Mark your calendar: Daytime workshops meets Wednesdays at 11 a.m. at the Jacksonville
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What is the goal of Jax JEWnited? A: The goal is to bring together local Jewish teens from all across Jacksonville and Northeast Florida and help them feel more connected to the community. It is also a way for Jewish teens from different areas to meet each other.
Q: How does it differ from teen programs like NCSY, USY and JSU? A: This program differs from others in that it is inclusive to everyone and is not specific to a school or synagogue. While youth groups are meant for Jews who already know each other to THE The Jewish Federation of Jacksonville andto offer get including together, our event is about meeting people Enjoy all the Cummer Museum has The Cummer Museum and Gardens scavenger and becoming art activities andofaArt museum-wide hunt! more involved in the broader are partnering for the first Annual Jewish Jewish community. Community Day on Sunday, August 25. The in partnership with Q: the Who is it intended for? Cummer will be openComplimentary to the community Event from event is intended for all Jewish high noon till 4 p.m., with a variety of information Cummer Museum of ArtA:&OurGardens Co-chairs: Stefanie Levine and schoolers in Jacksonville, no matter their Jewand projects available to showcase what ourJodi Rogozinski Sunday, 25background. ish local Jewish agencies, schools and syna-August Registration information to follow gogues have to p.m. 12 p.m.-4 Q: What activities will the upcoming event offer. RepreJewish Community Day sentatives from include? Enjoy all the Cummer Museum has to offer including the various at the Cummer A: The September art activities andJewish a museum-wide scavenger hunt!8 event at the JCA (see page orga12 for details) will consist of fun ice breakers 829 Riverside Avenue, nizations will for people to get to know each other, followed Complimentary be available to Event Jacksonville by group activities/competitions to encourage share the work camaraderie. We will be putting the teens with they doLevine and and Jodi Co-chairs: Rogozinski Sunday, August 25, Stefanie people they don’t know. answer any information to follow noon to 4 p.m.Registration For more information about JEWnited, Community partners* questions you contact Zoe Mail at zoemmail@gmail.com. *as ofmight July 1,have. 2019 Kosher food will be available for purchase. “Please come out, have fun, learn someWelcome to our back-to-school edition! thing new, and celebrate all that our comAs it says in Deuteronomy, chapter 6, we are munity has to offer while enjoying the art and commanded to teach our children the mitzvot, and atmosphere at The Cummer Museum of Art and Gardens,” said Faye Hedrick, director of how to live by them. When you teach someone you the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville’s rGEN become like a parent to him or her. This teaching of division. the written and oral Torah has been the ongoing link Community For more information, email Faye at partners* to our survival as Jews throughout the generations. fayeh@jewishjacksonville.org. *as of July 1, 2019
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Summer’s end can be a time of transition, and for many it means settling into a new place, starting new schools or new jobs. For those who have never been a newcomer or if it’s been a long time, it helps to have some tips on ways to make others feel comfortable and welcome. As the Jewish community of Jacksonville continues to grow, with an estimated 200 families moving here each year according to Isabel Balotin, director of the Federation’s ShalomJax program, it’s relatively simple to extend a little kindness to others, especially if they are new. Simple things we may take for granted, like navigating a new place and locating resources, can be a source of stress. “It’s about sensitivity,” says Balotin, who has lived in Jacksonville for decades and helps welcome newcomers by matching them with people and organizations who may
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be helpful. “It’s everyone’s responsibility to grow the community. The only way we can do that is by expanding kindness and hospitality.” It’s simple, and something anyone can do. If you see someone you’ve never met, don’t assume they’re being welcomed by someone else. Reach out and say hello, introduce yourself, ask about them and listen for the response. We may be busy, but it only takes a moment to show a bit of friendliness that can have a lasting impact. “A smile, a handshake, a hug, people remember that,” she says. “One thing that makes people feel comfortable coming up to you – just smile at them. A warm smile breaks the ice.” For those who are new and want to integrate into the community, it’s important to put yourself out there – go beyond your comfort zone. We may get caught in the cycle of – “I don’t go because I don’t know
Back to school…BACK TO SCHOOL?! Our heads begin to reel from the onslaught of ads in the papers and the signs plastered all over Walmart and Target. That very familiar yet uncomfortable feeling wells up deep inside, striking a mixture of fear and relief into every parent’s heart. It’s been a long summer, perhaps too long, and we’ve been itching to see our children get back to their daily routines. Alas, the flashbacks of those late-night emails from the teachers and principals, the temper tantrums and the stressful studying before tests causes us each to begin questioning, “Am I truly prepared to go through another ten months of this? G-d, help me!” But school doesn’t have to be this way. The Torah places great value on education and literacy, while balancing the burden with the understanding that we are to guide each individual child on his or her own path by utilizing the skillsets unique to him or her. When we partner with our schools to ensure that our children’s individual needs are met, and the school creates a warm and personalized environment, those concerns begin to fade. Furthermore, what makes a Torah education so vital to our budding Jewish future is the content of the material combined with the positive influences
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Holocaust Survivor Story: Henry Orlowski – People Need to Know Henry Orlowski’s life has been shattered and shaped by the experiences his family endured during the Holocaust and following World War II. Yet those experiences were almost never discussed in his family’s home while he was growing up. Only right before her death did Orlowski’s mother even tell him about his brother who died as a baby in a Soviet labor camp. “There were many things that weren’t discussed in my family,” said Orlowski, 74, of Palm Coast. “My mother never spoke about the horrors. She just preferred to look at the positive things in life.” Orlowski and his wife Michele say they understand why many Holocaust survivors chose to bury those memories as they rebuilt their lives after the war. They also see more reasons than ever for ensuring those memories and the stories of that time are not lost as the generation of survivors passes. Because of this, Henry agreed to tell the story of his experiences during the Holocaust. JFCS, with support from the international nonprofit Claims Conference, the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville and other private donors, works with and supports approximately 104 survivors living in Northeast Florida. JFCS case managers provide services that ensure Holocaust survivors receive crucial assistance such as reparations, access to food and transportation and emotional support. Orlowski, now retired, works as a substitute teacher in Flagler County. He says he tries to relate his real-life experiences to those he teaches, “but the problem is that when I talk to the kids, to them it’s just old stories,” he said. Orlowski’s family lived in the Polish industrial town of Lodz (pronounced ‘woodge’) before the war. Their neighborhood was walled off with wooden and wire fences and designated a Jewish ghetto following the Nazi invasion in 1939. Lodz’s Jewish ghetto became one of the largest in German-occupied Europe with as many as 210,000 Jews
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living in or passing through during the war. Only about 11,000 of the community’s pre-war Jewish residents survived the Holocaust. German occupiers as well as ethnic Germans who lived in Lodz did all they could to inflict terror and stoke the flames of hatred toward the city’s Jews. All Jews were forced to wear yellow badges. Commerce between Jews and non-Jews in Lodz was banned. Hitler’s propaganda machine spread misinformation that Jews carried infectious diseases. Life in the Lodz Ghetto, renamed Litzmannstadt Ghetto by the Germans, became increasingly brutal in 1940. Like many who lived there, Orlowski’s fam-
ily escaped and traveled to the Soviet border where they paid smugglers to get them across. Inside the Soviet Union, his mother and father were arrested and sent to a labor camp in Siberia, and then to another camp in Uzbekistan, where he was born in 1944. Following the war, Orlowski’s family returned by train in a cattle car to their home in Lodz. It was only then they learned the true extent of the war’s horrors. Many of their loved ones had perished in the ghetto or were killed in death camps. Antisemitism behind the Iron Curtain in post-war Poland remained strong, and starvation was a constant threat for Jews in Lodz.
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Henry was 12 when his family made the long journey to live with his grandfather in Tel Aviv, Israel. Three years later Orlowski, his parents and a younger sister moved to New York City to live with an uncle who had survived the Auschwitz death camp only because of his skills as a carpenter. Orlowski worked and studied hard as a teenager in the Bronx’s Jewish neighborhood. He earned a mechanical engineering degree and launched a successful career. Still, his family’s silence about the Holocaust during Or-
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Mazel Tov, Allie! This summer, Jacksonville teen Allie Bielski competed in the Atlanta Maccabi Games, which hosted more than 1,600 participants from around the world, including participants from Panama, Mexico and Israel. Bielski finished in the final four in the U-16 division, going 5-and-1 in the medal rounds. “This was a once-in-alifetime opportunity for me, and it was a very new experience,” Allie said about the event. “Meeting new people my own age was so cool, because I’ve never really done that before.” Reflecting on her experience at the event, Allie encourages other teens to participate in future Maccabi Games. “If you have the opportunity to join do it. You won’t regret it.”
lowski’s upbringing left a lingering void. Until years later, when he and his wife made a trip back to Lodz. They visited the killing camps and the mass graves. The trip evoked powerful emotions, tears and a deep commitment to help ensure that what happened is never forgotten. “I want people to see and learn as much as they can about what happened,” he said. “So many people today say that it never happened. People need to know the truth.”
Mazel Tov! Harriett and Sheldon Kaplan recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with a beautiful trip to Tuscany, Italy. Born and raised in Jacksonville, they were married August 3, 1969, at the Jacksonville Jewish Center. They are the proud parents of Lee and Kevin, and proud grandparents of Dylan, Kylie and Brooklyn. To submit your lifecycle events, email JJN@JewishJacksonville.org.
Tamar Amar, 97, loving Mother and Grandmother fondly known as Mémé to her grandchildren passed away August 1, 2019. Tamar was born in Morocco and came to Jacksonville in 1965 where she was a member of Etz Chaim Synagogue. She is survived by her son, Charles Ohayon (Jenny), daughter, Rachel Rose (Cliff), grandchildren Ilana Vogel (David), Henry Ohayon (Lilach), Michael Rose, Jeffrey Rose (Jillian), and great-grandchildren Chana, Benjamin and Lily. Mémé was the rock of our family. Her home was our sanctuary, the gathering place for all holidays and special occasions. She prepared incredible meals for us every Friday night. Her house was the favorite destination for everyone from out of town and was a special place where many happy memories were made for over 50 years. She was loved and respected by family, friends, and neighbors alike. Kind and gracious, she had a way of making everyone feel welcome and at ease. She was an inspiration to all of us and will be dearly missed.
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KICK OFF LUNCHEON Tuesday, September 10 – 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. Jacksonville Jewish Center
Helen Hill, PRAZE VP Programs, Advocacy, Zionism & Education
Jacksonville Hadassah kicks off its 2019-2020 year with an opening luncheon to be held on Tuesday, September 10th at 11:30 a.m., at the Jacksonville Jewish Center,
3662 Crown Point Road, Jacksonville. All members are urged to attend. There will be a special welcome for new members, and Liat Walker, Chapter President, will provide updates about Hadassah locally, nationally and in Israel. The keynote speaker is
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David Tucker, Chief Legal Counsel for the northeast region of the Department of Children and Families, who will talk about human rights as a Jewish value in a program titled, “We Answer to a Higher Authority.” As a professional who represents an agency that provides a wide range of services to the underserved and at-risk people throughout northeast Florida, and as a Jewish educator and long-time active member of the Jewish community, David brings an interesting perspective to this
topic. He is passionate about the ethical foundations that underlie everything we believe in as Jews, and how our Jewish values define how we look at basic human rights. Lunch will be prepared by Margo’s Catering. Your check of $25, payable to Jacksonville Hadassah, will be your reservation. Mail checks to: Michelle McCormick, Treasurer, Jacksonville Hadassah, 2677 Isabella Blvd., Jacksonville Beach, FL 32250. For more information, contact Cathy Winterfield, event
chair, at cwinterfie@aol.com or 904-994-7772.
The entire community is invited to an
INTERFAITH MISSION TO ISRAEL JULY 19 - 27, 2020 Presented by the Jewish Federation of Jacksonville in cooperation with our two Scholars in Residence: Rabbi Elizabeth Bahar, Congregation Ahavath Chesed & Pastor Kyle Reese, Deputy Director of OneJax
Jewish Business Network (JBN):
An Entrepreneurial Journey with Hanna Moore
By Judith Fox-Goldstein, “Word by Word”
Civic-minded and determined, Hanna Moore is striving to make her mark on Jacksonville. Born in New York City, educated initially at Rutgers University and relocating to England at 21, Hanna arrived on the Jacksonville scene four years ago with her British husband Dave and the youngest of their three children. Hanna’s 30-year journey includes experience in publishing, non-profit leadership, visual arts and graphic design, the Moore music industry and a degree in Urban Design and Community Development. JBN members tuned in during last Hanna’s moving presentation last month. Q. Why did you move from the UK to Jacksonville? A. We shut down our music industry biz and, simultaneously, the charity I was working for wound up. I felt after 30 years I was ready to come back to the U.S. The beaches of Jacksonville were a big draw, and our youngest son needed something different for his education. Looking for ‘my people,’ I stumbled in to Beth El at the Beaches and, of course, JBN. Q. In a few words – what’s your vision? A. It’s pretty simple – I am into
strengthening communities and I want to do this with good, affordable homes. I’d like to have 20-30 apartments to rent by the end of 2020, a mix of re-development and new build. I am a ‘high-risk / high-reward’ person with detailed planning – so – if it goes according to plan, it’ll all be ok – or I’ll be living in Judith’s garage! Q. What has been the most difficult part of your entrepreneurial journey? A. A year after we arrived Dave received a devastating diagnosis. All of my attention turned to navigating his care. My older sons came from the UK to be with their dad. Through it all, Dave and I had our eye on the prize and worked with a few friends to create the foundation of our company – Transatlantic Bridge. He wanted to leave a legacy for our boys and me. Q. Take away and lessons learned? A. Community matters. My new and yet ancient Jewish community here in Jacksonville really stepped up in my darkest hours of my husband’s illness. I am resilient but have learned how to ask for and accept support. I know I can support other women whose lives have been up-ended as I strive to fulfill our shared values of tikkun olam (repairing the world). The next JBN meeting, featuring artist Judith Fox-Goldstein, is Friday, September 13 at 8:30 a.m. at Temple Ahavath Chesed at 8727 San Jose Blvd, Jacksonville. For more information, contact JBN President Zach Cohen at Zach@StJohnsAsset.com or 561312-2324
HIGHLIGHTS TO INCLUDE: • The most important Jewish and Christian Sites throughout Israel • Old Jaffa • The new Museum of the Jewish People in Tel Aviv • Our partnership community of Hadera • Caesaria • Ancient city of Dan • Acco • Golan Heights • Safed • Mount of Beatitudes
• Kayaking on the Jordan River • Nazareth • Archeological finds at City of David • The Western Wall • Shabbat in Jerusalem • Yad Vashem • Massada and the Dead Sea • Mount of Olives • Church of the Holy Sepulchre • 5-Star Hotels • The tastes, sounds, culture and history of Israel
To learn more about this unique opportunity to explore Israel and to learn about these two faiths, please contact Federation Executive Director Alan Margolies, at 904.224.1410 or alanm@jewishjacksonville.org.
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“We are thankful that there are such wonderful people in this world that help out and ask for nothing in return.” – Kaitlin Hester
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Continued from pg. 1 “Our situation after the hurricane was very traumatic,” Kaitlin said. “We walked up the hill and our home was gone. My roof was gone and so was every room. We couldn’t salvage much because the wind took most things, and everything else was wet and had insulation all over it. I even lost all the things I had received at my baby shower.” In addition to the local philanthropist, other families were quick to offer support. Women from the Jacksonville Jewish Center and Etz Chaim Synagogue quickly worked to gather household goods and supplies vital to bringing a new baby home and keeping a toddler boy happy and safe. Within days, three carloads of supplies were on their way to the Gulf Coast for Kaitlin and her young family. With the support of the local Jewish community,
the Hester family was able to move into a new modular home and start to rebuild their lives. Their newest little addition, a baby girl named Alyvia, was born shortly after, more than an hour away in Tallahassee since Kaitlin’s hospital has been closed as a result of the hurricane. Today, the Hester family is living safely together in their new home as they continue to rebuild their lives. They are very grateful for the Jewish community that came together and helped them during their time of need. “We are finally making home feel like home,” Kaitlin said. “We have been through so much, and we are thankful that there are such wonderful people in this world that help out and ask for nothing in return. If it wasn’t for this organization, I’m not sure where we would be, honestly. So again, thank you from the bottom of our hearts.”
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time to recite a bracha (blessing) before biting into food represents a kind of eating meditation that is thoroughly Jewish, but there are other things we can do, too: pick up a single, small piece of food, marvel at its color, texture and fragrance; put it in your mouth and think about the texture and taste as you chew very slowly – Does its flavor change as you are chewing? Do you experience its taste in different ways if it’s moved from one part of your mouth to one another? Consider the chain of creation and all the necessary steps that brought this one small comestible from birth to the moment of its consumption. In a brief paragraph it’s impossible to do justice to the spiritual potential of eating meditations, but I’d encourage you to read Jay Michaelson’s book, G-d in Your Body. It’s a wonderful resource. The flavor of various foods also serve as vehicles of Jewish
HUSNEY
Continued from pg. 1 She worked as an assistant to the director at Mt. Carmel Gardens, which included helping to coordinate their kosher food program. A member of Etz Chaim Synagogue, she enthusiastically explains how JFCS has helped her family over the years, and especially more recently. Jewish Federation of Jacksonville provides JFCS with annual funding, which is earmarked for Jewish programs and services, including those received by Husney. When her kids went to college, for example, she took out a lowinterest loan. The past few years, her husband has faced some medical issues, and JFCS has helped her in various ways, from transportation to food to counseling, as well as with financial assistance. They even helped her get hearing aids. “I would not have been able to get through this rough time without their help,” she
meaning for our various celebrations. On Passover the bitterness of maror and the humble simplicity of matzah are ways to taste the inhumanity of slavery and the blessings of freedom. On Rosh Hashanah, we say, “May it be Your will, our G-d and G-d of our ancestors, that you renew us for a good and sweet year,” immediately after eating an apple dipped in honey; the taste of the sweetness a gastronomic prayer to accompany its verbal counterpart. Just about everyone is familiar with the apple-and-honey tradition of Rosh Hashanah, but you may not know there is a whole list of symbolic foods associated with the Jewish New Year, known collectively as Simana Milta, “Significant Omens.” Each item is eaten after reciting a brief prayer expressing a particular hope for the future. Through word plays on the Hebrew name of the food, its shape or taste, we express our desires for a better world in the year ahead. I have created an updated version of Simana Milta in which I’ve included some of the tradiexplained. She receives food from JFCS’s Meals 4 U Program, a partnership with the Max Block Food Pantry, River Garden and Feeding Northeast Florida. “The food is very good, but it’s not just the meals,” she said. “The people who deliver it are so friendly.” Hilary Rotenberg, Director of Jewish Services, and Allison Ginsburg, her case manager, help connect her with resources. “We provide wrap-around services to Janet so she can continue to live independently and be happy, healthy and safe,” said Rotenberg. “Janet is the perfect illustration of JFCS’s mission of how we help people help themselves.” “They’re very sensitive to clients’ needs,” Husney said. “They were very, very helpful in helping me get some services for my husband.” Her case manager also helps support her during meetings with social workers. “Sometimes social workers speak in a language you don’t understand,” Husney said. “They’ve been there with me for every-
tional wishes, but have composed new ones reflective of contemporary values and hopes. You’ll find them on my web page under the heading of “creative liturgy”: go to rabbilubliner.com. Of course, you may also find the traditional text of Simana Milta in some High Holy Day mahzorim (prayer books). I encourage you to incorporate this easy, brief and fun custom to make your Rosh Hashanah meals more special. Above all, I would urge all of us to make the time to occasionally slow down our eating (Shabbat is a great time to do this), to meditate on the miracle of eating, and to truly focus on the gift of flavor. Gratitude is a fragrant spice all its own; use it liberally and then you will truly taste G-d in the food you eat! Shanah Tovah Tikatevu u’Tehatemu. May we all be inscribed and sealed for a year of life, health and flavors both sweet and savory. thing that I’ve needed. They’ve just been outstanding. I can’t say enough good things about them.” JFCS, which has been serving Jacksonville since the early 1900’s, has programs for people of all backgrounds and ages, and connects people throughout the community. Recently, Partnership2Gether, part of Federation, hosted a group of Israeli teens, and JFCS brought them together with local Jewish seniors for an afternoon of creativity at Painting with a Twist, where they created colorful hamsas. Husney told one of the teens, “You have to have seven hugs a day to be happy,” and asked if she wanted a hug. Another teen saw the heart-warming intergenerational embrace and asked, “Where’s mine?” Janet’s gratitude and loving attitude are contagious. “It’s just amazing what they do,” she said. “They really do fill a gap and go the extra mile. I don’t know if people realize what a gem JFCS is for Jacksonville.”
As part of its annual allocation, Federation provided $269,311 last year to Jewish Family & Community Services. To support the Federation’s annual campaign, visit www.jewishjacksonville.org or email Lauren Rickoff at laurenr@jewishjacksonville.org.
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5 Tips to Get Your Kids Ready for Rosh Hashanah Synagogue 2 Survival Kit
By Chana Novack, Director Ganeinu Preschool
What is your earliest Rosh Hashanah memory? As Rosh Hashanah approaches, let’s create lifelong memories with your children and prepare them (and you!) for a Happy Holiday and a Sweet New Year.
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The Apple of Your Eye
Traditionally we dip a slice of apple into honey during the Holiday meal to symbolize our fervent wishes for a Sweet New Year. Apples are a great tool to get your little ones excited about Rosh Hashanah. Slice an apple crosswise to expose the star at its core. Pour some washable paint into a plate and allow your child to use the apple to stamp “stars” on a canvas of your choice. Be sure to display prominently and make your child the “star” of Rosh Hashanah.
Services can be long and unengaging for small children (see if your syangogue offers a children’s service!). Build up excitement days in advance by packing a Synagogue Survival Kit. Together with your child curate some (non-messy) snacks, Holiday-appropriate reading material and a quiet toy or two.
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Have Some Honey, Sweety
Honey is a very Jewish food item - The Holy Land is associated with milk and honey. Manna tasted like honey. And on Rosh Hashanah we enjoy honey cake and dip apples and challah into the sweet nectar. Did you know that Jacksonville has an annual Honeybee Festival? Take your child to a Honeybee Presentation at a local farm, and stock up on some local honey for the holidays while supporting our local economy.
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Sho-far Away
Listening to the Blowing of the Shofar
is the most important mitzvah of this Holiday. Did you know that for less than $20 you can buy a Shofar on Amazon (beware of any sharp edges!). Coaxing a high note out of the Shofar is not as challenging as you might think. Better yet, see if there is a Shofar Factory near you and witness a shofar being made before your very eyes!
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Pomegranate Adventures
The Pomegranate is more than just an antioxidant rich superfood - it’s a Rosh Hashana delight! The Talmud teaches that every Jew is full of Mitzvahs just as a pomegranate is chock-
full of seeds. Crack one open with your child (careful, they stain everything) count out 20 seeds or so and place them into cupcake holders and see how many you can fill. They are so versatile - throw some over a salad, into your brownie mix or even into your favorite poultry recipe for the Rosh Hashanah meal!
Sweetening Dinner Tables at Rosh Hashanah
1 leek, white part chopped With High Holidays 1 gourd, peeled and chopped around the corner, many 1 carrot, peeled and chopped ½ beet, peeled and thinly sliced Jewish families are al1 pomegranate, seeds removed ready deciding on dishes 6 dates, pitted and sliced 1 apple, chopped to prepare for the feast ½ cup extra virgin olive oil ½ cup Balsamic vinegar* with family and friends. 2 tbs honey Rosh Hashanah is a holi- 1 tsp salt (I like pink Himalayan) Directions day known for the consumption of sweet treats, Preheat oven to 375°F. Put black eyes peas in a small representing the hope for pot and generously cover with water. Boil on high for 30-40 a sweet new year. Here minutes or until soft but not mushy. Rinse and drain. are some creative Rosh Line a baking sheet with parchHashanah recipes that can ment paper and add leek, gourd and carrot. Drizzle with ¼ cup help you sweeten your olive oil and a ½ teaspoon salt. Mix well and put in oven for 35 dinner table this year! minutes or until golden.
Simanim Salad for Rosh Hashanah Recipe from Chabad.org Time 30-60 Minutes
Ingredients
½ cup black-eyed peas 4 oz. butter lettuce
Mix the remaining ¼ cup olive oil with balsamic vinegar (can be substituted with lemon juice), honey and salt in a small jar or bowl. In a large bowl, add the lettuce, beets, pomegranate, dates and apple slices. Add leek, gourd and carrots. Mix with dressing right before serve. Serve warm or room temperature.
Tangerine Sweet Potato Mash Recipe from Chabad.org Time 30-60 Minutes
Ingredients:
4 sweet potatoes, peeled and cut into chunks 3 red skinned potatoes, cut into chunks 1 tangerine, zested and juiced 2 tbs extra virgin olive oil
1 tbs salt, pink Himalayan 4 scallions, chopped ½ cup dried cranberries (optional)
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Continued from pg. 14 Directions: Place potatoes in a large pot and cover with water. Boil for 35-45 minutes until extremely soft. Drain and place back in pot or serving dish. Mash with wooden spoon. Add the rest of the ingredients and mix well. Serve hot or warm.
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Dip the chicken in the egg mixture and then in the breadcrumb mixture. Heat the oil in a heavy skillet and brown the chicken on all sides. Preheat oven to 325°F. Combine 1 cup hot water with honey and orange juice. Place the chicken in a casserole and cover with the honey mixture. Add ginger. Cover and simmer in the oven for 45 minutes, basting occasionally.
Mix crust ingredients and pat into pan (8x12-inch pan suggested). Preheat oven to 400°F. Place apple slices on it. Pour cooked filling over apples. Sprinkle with cinnamon and dot with butter. Bake at 400°F for 10 minutes, and at 350°F for 30-40 minutes.
Honey-Orange Chicken Sweet Apple Crisps Time: 60-75 Minutes
Ingredients
2 eggs 2 teaspoons water 1 cup breadcrumbs/matzah meal 1 tsp salt ⅛ tsp pepper 2, 3 lbs fryers, cut up ½ cup vegetable oil 1 cup hot water ¼ cup honey 1 cup orange juice 2 tbs grated fresh ginger, or ¾ teaspoon ground ginger
Directions Beat the eggs with 2 teaspoons of water. In another bowl, mix the breadcrumbs with salt and pepper.
Time: 60-75 Minutes Contains Dairy
Ingredients
Apples, peeled and sliced Cinnamon Butter Crust: 1 ½ cup flour 3 tablespoons shortening ½ teaspoon salt ⅔ cup milk 2 teaspoon baking powder ½ cup sugar Filling: 1 cup cream ½ cup sugar 1 heaping tablespoon flour
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High HOlidays 5780
Rosh Hashanah September 29 - October 1 Hebrew Calendar: 1st of Tishrei - 2nd of Tishrei Birthday of the universe, celebrating the creation of Adam and Eve and the beginning of the Jewish New Year. Observances include candle lighting, festive meals accompanied by sweet delicacies, and the sounding of a ram’s horn (shofar).
Yom Kippur October 8 - October 9 Hebrew Calendar: 9th of Tishrei - 10th of Tishrei The Day of Atonement, which is a reflective period in which people receive forgiveness from G-d for their sins. For 26 hours, it is customary to fast and abstain from luxury and leisure.
Temple Bet Yam S’lichot Service, Sept. 14 6 p.m. Wine and Cheese – 6:30 p.m. Erev Rosh Hashanah, Sept. 29 7:30 to 9 p.m. Rosh Hashanah, Sept. 30 Children’s Service – 9 to 9:45 a.m. Morning Service – 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Tashlich – at Treaty Park, following morning service
Erev Yom Kippur, Oct. 8 Kol Nidre – 7:30 to 9 p.m. Yom Kippur, Oct. 9 Children’s Service – 9 to 9:45 a.m. Morning Service – 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. Afternoon Service – 3 to 4 p.m. Yizkor, Neilah, Havdalah – 4:15 p.m. Break-the-Fast following Neilah Sukkot, Simchat Torah, and Consecration Service, Oct. 18 Service – 5:45 p.m.
Sukkot October 13 - October 20 Hebrew Calendar: 14th of Tishrei - 21st of Tishrei Celebrates the gathering of the harvest and remembers the protection G-d provided the Jewish people after fleeing Egypt. Celebrated by praying and eating festive meals in a foliage-covered booth (sukkah). Shemini Atzeret/Simchat Torah October 21 - October 22 Hebrew Calendar: 22nd of Tishrei - 23rd of Tishrei Holidays immediately following Sukkot, celebrating the beginning of the diaspora of the Jewish people, marking the completion and the new beginning of the Torah reading cycle with dancing, festive meals, and prayer.
Chabad of Clay County Sunday, September 29 Evening Service 7 p.m. Rosh Hashah Dinner 7:30 p.m. LOCATION: Chabad Monday, September 30 Morning Service 10 a.m. Shofar Blowing 12 a.m. LOCATION: Fleming Island Library Tuesday, October 1 Morning Service 10 a.m. Shofar Blowing 11:30 a.m. LOCATION: Chabad
Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidrei Service 6:45 p.m. Location: Fleming Island Library Wednesday, October 9 Morning Service 10 a.m. Yizkor Memorial Service 12 p.m. Neilah- Closing Service 6:30 p.m. Final Shofar Blast & Break- fast 7:39 p.m. Location: Fleming Island Library
Beth El - The Beaches Sunday, September 29 – 7 p.m. Rosh Hashanah Eve Monday, September 30 – 10 a.m. Rosh Hashanah Day 1 Tuesday, October 1st – 10 a.m. Rosh Hashanah Day 2
Tuesday, October 8th – 7 pm Kol Nidre Wednesday, October 9th – 10 am Yom Kippur Day Wednesday, October 9th – 4:30 pm Yizkor (Memorial Service)
Chabad at the Beaches
ROSH HASHANAH SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 29 Evening Services 7 p.m. Rosh Hashanah Dinner 8 p.m.
MONDAY & TUESDAY, SEPTEMBER 30 & OCTOBER 1 Morning Services* 9 a.m. Children’s Services 11 a.m. Shofar Sounding 12 p.m. Followed by Musaf Mincha 6:30 p.m. MONDAY, SEPTEMBER 30 Tashlich 6:30 p.m. RSVP for special kids activity Mincha 7 p.m. YOM KIPPUR
TUESDAY, OCTOBER 8 Kol Nidrei Service 7 p.m. Children’s Services 7:15-8:15 p.m. WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 9 Morning Services* 8:45 a.m. Children’s Services 10:30 a.m. Yizkor-Memorial Services 11:30 a.m. Mincha Service-Maftir Yonah 5:15 p.m. Neilah Services 6:15 p.m. Fast Ends- Grand Break-Fast 7:37 p.m. * Please note that doors open at 8:45 a.m. for preliminary prayers. Primary prayers get underway at approximately 10:30 a.m.
Chabad of St. Johns
Rosh Hashanah: Sunday, Sept 29 Services 7 p.m. followed by Rosh Hashanah dinner
Shofar 10:45 a.m.
Monday, Sept 30 Services 10 a.m Shofar 10:45 a.m. Mystical Shofar Blowing & Tashlich in the Park 6:30 p.m.
Yom Kippur: Tuesday, Oct 8 Kol Nidrei Service 6:45 p.m.
Tuesday, Oct 1 Services 10 a.m.
Grow High Holiday Edition & Shofar Blowing 3:45-5:45
Wednesday, Oct 9 Morning Service Yizkor 10:30 a.m. Yizkor Memorial Service 11:30 a.m. Neilah Closing Service 6:15 p.m. Fast Ends and Break-fast 7:38 p.m.
Chabad of mandarin Selichot Saturday Night, Sept. 21 12a.m.
Mincha & Neilah/Closing Service 4:45 p.m. Break Fast 7:38 p.m.
Rosh Hashanah Sunday Evening, Sept. 29 Service 6:30 p.m. Monday & Tues, Sept. 30 & Oct. 1 Morning Services 9 a.m. Monday, Sept. 30, Mincha & Tashlich 5:45 p.m. Tues, Oct. 1 Mincha Services 6:45 p.m.
Sukkot Oct. 13, 14 & 15 Evening Services 6:30 p.m. Oct. 14 & 15 Morning Services 9:30 a.m.
Yom Kippur Tues Evening, Oct. 8 Kol Nidrei 6 p.m. Wed. Oct. 9, Morning Service & Yizkor 10 a.m. Yizkor approx 1 p.m.
Shmini Atzeret & Simchat Torah Oct. 13 Evening Services 6:30 p.m. Oct. 14 Morning Service & Yizkor 9:30 a.m. Mincha followed by Simchat Torah Hakafot & Kiddush 6:30 p.m. Oct. 15 Morning Service 10 a.m. Evening Services 6 p.m.
Chabad of Southside
ROSH HASHANAH Sunday, September 29 Evening Service 7 p.m.
Monday, September 30 Morning Services - 10 a.m. (Free Interactive Children’s services with activities and prizes - reservations required, space limited) Light Kiddush after Services Afternoon Mincha & Tashlich Services 7 p.m. Evening Service 8 p.m. Tuesday, October 1 Morning Services
10 a.m. (Free interactive children’s services with activities and prizes - reservations required, space limited) Light kiddush after services YOM KIPPUR Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidrei Service 6:50 p.m. Wednesday, October 9 Morning Service - 10 a.m. Yizkor Memorial Service approx. 12 p.m. Mincha & Neilah Closing Service 6 p.m. Yom Kippur Ends followed by delicious Break-Fast 8 p.m.
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Etz Chaim EREV ROSH HASHANAH Sunday, September 29 6:30 a.m. Selichos & Shacharis 6:55 p.m. Mincha 6:57 p.m. Candle Lighting ROSH HASHANAH DAY 1 Monday, September 30 8 a.m. Main Minyan in the Wolfson Sanctuary 8 a.m. Sephardic Minyan in the Mirkis Chapel 8:45 a.m. Youth Programs in the School wing 10 a.m. Explanatory Class with Rebbetzin Rena Schochet 10:40 a.m. Sermon with Rabbi Yaakov Fisch 11 a.m. Shofar Service 11:20 a.m. Mussaf 12 p.m. Explanatory Class with Rabbi Avi Feigenbaum Kiddush Following Services 6:15 p.m. Mincha followed by Tashlich Candle lighting after 7:56 p.m. ROSH HASHANAH DAY 2 Tuesday, October 1 8 a.m. Main Minyan in the Wolfson Sanctuary 8 a.m. Sephardic Minyan in the Mirkis Chapel 8:45 a.m. Youth Programs on the School wing 10 a.m. Explanatory Class with Rebbetzin Rena Schochet 10:40 a.m. Sermon with Rabbi Yaakov Fisch 11 a.m. Shofar Service 11:20 a.m. Mussaf 12 p.m. Explanatory Class with Rabbi Avi Feigenbaum 6:55 p.m. Mincha 7:55 p.m. Maariv and Havdalah FAST OF GEDALIA Wednesday, October 2 6 a.m. Selichos with Shacharis 6:40 p.m. Mincha Thursday, October 3 6:00 a.m. Selichos with Shacharis 6:50 p.m. Mincha Friday, October 4 6 a.m. Selichos and Shacharis 6:30 p.m. Mincha
6:51 p.m. Candle-lighting
Saturday, September 21 10th Annual Joint Selichot Program “The Gateway to 5780” hosted by Jacksonville Jewish Center- 8 p.m. ROSH HASHANAH Sunday, September 29 Family Worship- 5:30 p.m. Congregational Worship- 8 p.m. Monday, September 30 Rosh Hashanah Tot Experience- 9 a.m. Rosh Hashanah Congregational Worship- 10 a.m. Luncheon immediately following Friday, October 4 Shabbat Shuvah - Healing Service- 7 p.m.
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SHABBOS SHUVA October 5 9 a.m. Shacharis with Main Minyan 9 a.m. Sephardic Minyan 5:45 p.m. Mincha 6:15 p.m. Shabbos Shuva Drasha with Rabbi Yaakov Fisch 7:50 p.m. Maariv and Havdalah
Erev Rosh Hashanah Sunday September 29 - 7 p.m.
Sunday, October 6 7:30 a.m. Selichos and Shacharis 10:30 a.m. Community Memorial Service at Etz Chaim Cemetery 6:45 p.m. Mincha
Kol Nidre, Erev Yom Kippur Tuesday October 8 - 7 p.m.
Monday, October 7 6 a.m. Selichos and Shacharis 6:45 p.m. Mincha EREV YOM KIPPUR Tuesday, October 8 6:30 a.m. Selichos and Shacharis 2:45 p.m. Mincha 6:45 p.m. Kol Nidre 6:46 p.m. Candle-lighting 7:15 p.m. Sermon with Rabbi Yaakov Fisch 7:35 p.m. President’s Address 7:50 p.m. Explanatory Class with Rabbi Avi Feigenbaum YOM KIPPUR Wednesday, October 9 8 a.m. Main Minyan in the Wolfson Sanctuary 8 a.m. Sephardic Minyan in the Mirkis Chapel 8:45 a.m. Youth Programs in the School wing 10:15 a.m. Explanatory Class with Rabbi Yehuda Applebaum 11:20 a.m. Torah Reading 11:50 a.m. President’s Address 12 p.m. Yizkor 12:30 p.m. Explanatory Class with Rabbi Feigenbaum 4:40 p.m. Mincha 4:40 p.m. Explanatory Class with Rebbetzin Rena Schochet in the social hall 6 p.m. Pre-Neilah Remarks by Rabbi Yaakov Fisch, followed by Neilah 7:46 p.m. Conclusion of Yom Kippur and Shofar Blowing
The Temple September 5 & 25 Preparing for the High Holidays Elul “Stories We Tell Ourselves” Lunch & Learn Workshop Discussions- 12 p.m.
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Sunday, October 6 Tashlich Rafting at Ichetucknee - Led by Rabbi Bahar & Michelle Penson Tomahawk Park - Led by Cantor Barry Cemetery Visits led by Rabbi Goodman King David - 9:30 a.m. Evergreen - 11 a.m. YOM KIPPUR Tuesday, October 8 Kol Nidre Family Worship- 5:30 p.m. Kol Nidre Congregational Worship7:30 p.m. Wednesday, October 9 Yom Kippur Tot Experience- 9 a.m. Yom Kippur Congregational Worship- 10 a.m. Meditation Service- 2 p.m. Afternoon Service- 3 p.m. Yizkor Service- 4 p.m. Neilah Service- 5:15 p.m. Break-the-fast immediately following services
Rosh Hashanah First Day Monday September 30 - 10 a.m. Rosh Hashanah Second Day Tuesday October 1 - 10 a.m.
Yom Kippur Wednesday October 9 - 9 a.m. Yizkor Memorial Service - 12:30 p.m. After haftarah & sermon
5:30 p.m. Mincha Afternoon Service 6:30 p.m. Neilah, Concluding Service Break-the-Fast - immediately following Neilah Shabbat Shuvah Erev Shabbat Services, October 4, 7:30 p.m. Shabbat Shuvah services, October 5, 10 a.m., Sukkot Sukkot services as part of Shabbat services Friday, October 18, 7:30 p.m., & Saturday, October 19, 10 a.m.
Chabad of St. Augustine
Rosh Hashanah Day 1 September 29 Evening Services: 7 p.m.
Rosh Hashanah Day 1 September 30 Morning Service: 10 a.m. Shofar Sounding: 12 p.m. Afternoon Shofar & Kiddush: 6 p.m. Rosh Hashanah Day 2 October 1 Morning Service: 10 a.m.
Shofar Sounding: 12 p.m.
Yom Kippur Night October 8 Kol Nidrei Service: 6:45 p.m. Yom Kippur Day October 9 Morning Service: 10 a.m. Yizkor Memorial Services: 12 p.m. Mincha & Ne’ila Service: 5:45 p.m. Breakfast: 7:40 p.m.
Jacksonville jewish center Sunday, September 29 – Erev Rosh Hashanah Minhah/Ma’ariv: 6:00 p.m. Candle Lighting: 6:56 p.m. Monday, September 30 Shaharit: 7:45 a.m. Torah Service: 9 a.m. Shofar Service: 10 a.m. Kavannah (Alternative) Service: 10:30 a.m. K - 12 Youth Services: 10:00 a.m. Sermon: 11 a.m. Musaf: 11:30 a.m. Preschool Fa.m.ily Service: 11:30 a.m. Tashlikh: 6:15 p.m. Minhah: 6:45 p.m. followed by study session and Ma’ariv Tuesday, October 1 Shaharit 7:45 a.m. Torah Service: 9:00 a.m. Shofar Service: 10 a.m. Kavannah (Alternative) Service: 10:30 a.m. K - 12 Youth Services: 10 a.m. Sermon: 11 a.m. Musaf: 11:30 a.m. Preschool Fa.m.ily Service: 11:30 Minhah: 6:45 p.m. followed by study session and Ma’ariv Wednesday, October 2 – Fast of Gedaliah Fast begins at 6:05 a.m. Morning Minyan: 7:10 a.m. Evening Minyan: 6 p.m. Fast ends at 7:35 p.m.
Sunday, September 16 – Annual Memorial Service New Center Cemetery: 10:30 a.m. Annual Memorial Service Beth Shalom Cemetery: 11:15 a.m. Tashlikh at the Beach (Mickler’s Landing): 5 p.m. YOM KIPPUR 5780 Tuesday, October 8 – Erev Yom Kippur Shaharit: 7:10 a.m. Minhah: 6:30 p.m. followed by Kol Nidre Candle Lighting: 6:46 p.m. Wednesday, October 9 – Yom Kippur Shaharit: 7:45 a.m. Torah Service: 9:30 a.m. Kavannah (Alternative) Service: 10:30 a.m. K - 12 Youth Services: 10:00 a.m. President’s Address: 11:00 a.m. Preschool Fa.m.ily Service: 11:30 a.m. Musaf Service: 11:30 a.m. Rabbi’s Sermon (followed by Yizkor) 1:45 p.m. Yom Kippur Dialogue and Discussion with Rabbi Jonathan Lubliner: 4:00 p.m. Healing Service: 4:00 p.m. Minhah: 5:00 p.m. Ne’ilah Youth Service: 6:00 p.m. Ne’ilah: 6:30 p.m. Fast ends at 7:39 p.m. followed by Ma’ariv, Final Shofar and Break the Fast
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JCA Adult Programs Monet Water Lilies Painting Class Wednesday, Sep. 11 and 18 10 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.
By Jewish Community Alliance
Medabrim Ivrit Tuesday, Sep. 3 6:30 – 7:30 p.m.
Learn this impressionist technique to create your own version with Theresa Rykaczewski. The fee is $75 and $50. Registration required.
Join shaliach Rotem Gabay to practice Hebrew. For advanced and intermediate speakers. Advance registration is required.
Israel Election Update with Amir Tibon Tuesday, Sep. 17 7 – 8:30 p.m.
Aneurysm Awareness Wednesday, Sep. 4 6 p.m. Dr. Tra’Chella Johnson Foy, a family physician with Baptist Primary Care, explains the risk factors and symptoms, genetics and treatments associated with brain aneurysms. This is free to the community. Piece of Cake! Painting Workshop Thursday, Sep. 5 5:30 – 7:30 p.m. Painter Theresa Rykaczewski teaches you to paint with palette knives in the impasto style of Wayne Theibaud. The fee is $30 and $20 for JCA valued members. Registration required. Short Story Book Club Tuesday, Sep 10 6 pm Join Kelsi Hasden to explore the short story. The fee is $12 and $8 for JCA valued members or join the entire three-month series for $21 and 14 for JCA valued members. Advance registration required. Keeping Your Pet Healthy Tuesday, Sep. 10 6:30 – 8 p.m. Veterinarian Dr. Craig Sandler shows you how better nutrition can help your pets live longer, happier lives. The fee is $5; JCA valued members are free. Registration appreciated.
This program is co-sponsored by AIPAC and offers a behind the scenes look at Israeli politics with award-winning journalist and correspondent for Haaretz Daily Newspaper Amir Tibon. This is free to the community. Registration appreciated.
ing. This is free to the community. Is It Sinus or Is It Allergies? Tuesday, Sep. 24 6 p.m. Dr. Mary Czerny and Dr. Paul Walker, from Baptist ENT Specialists, help you determine the difference between allergies and sinus issues. This is free to the community. Hydroponic Gardening Wednesday, Sep. 25 1 – 2:30 p.m. Learn this space saving alternative to traditional gardening with Vic Groner of the Duval County Extension Office. Registration appreciated. The fee is $5; JCA valued members are free.
GMOs and the Future of Our Food Supply Wednesday, Sep. 18 6:30 – 8 p.m.
Grater Good: Principles of Pairing Wednesday, Sep 25 5:30 p.m.
Board certified nutritional physician Dr. Steven Nickels explains why GMOs are so problematic. The fee is $5; JCA valued members are free. Registration appreciated.
Learn to pair cheese and enjoy samples. Transportation is included; registration required. The fee is $45 and $30 for JCA valued members. Registration required; limit 10.
Rabbis in the Round: The Power of Choice Monday, Sep. 23 7 – 8:30 p.m.
Handmade Card Making Thursday, Sep. 26 3 – 5 p.m.
Join Rabbis Bahar, Fisch and Lubliner for an inspirational discussion on free will and the power of choice. This is free to the community. Registration appreciated. Hearing Screenings Tuesday, Sep. 24 3 – 5:30 p.m. Angela Johnson, audiologist with Baptist ENT Specialists, performs screenings and check of middle ear function and hear-
Make a one of a kind handmade card using stencils, stamps and watercolors. The fee is $23 and $15 for JCA valued members. Registration required. Tea Towel Workshop Thursday, Sep. 26 6 p.m. Learn the art of embroidery and make a flour sack towel to brighten up your home. All supplies included. The fee is $23 and $15 for JCA valued members.
CELEBRATE SUKKOT WITH THE JCA By Jewish Community Alliance
On Wednesday, Oct. 16 at 6 p.m., the JCA will celebrate the Sukkot Holiday with Pizza in the Hut, a fun, family event. During this holiday, the JCA erects its outdoor sukkah and gathers to carry on the tradition of shaking the lulav and holding the etrog, while learning about this pilgrimage festival. A festive, familystyle meal of pizza, salad and dessert will also be served, and children can participate in Sukkot-themed crafts. Pizza in the Hut is led by JCA Jewish and Family Outreach Director, Dave Flagler, and is free and open to JCA valued members. Registration is required by October 11. For information on this and other family programs at the JCA, call 730-2100 ext. 228.
Attention Jewish teen athletes and artists! Jewish teen athletes and artists from the Jacksonville community can join the Jacksonville delegation for the 2020 JCC Maccabi Games and ArtFest! Youth, ages 12 - 16, can compete in boys and girls basketball, boys and girls soccer, girls volleyball, flag football, softball, baseball, tennis, golf, track and field, swimming,
dance and table tennis. Youth artists, ages 13 - 17, can join specialties in music, theater, dance, visual arts and culinary arts. Jewish teens who are interested in participating should contact JCA Sports and Recreation Director Rio Robinson at 904-730-2100 ext. 250 or rio.robinson@jcajax.org by December 1, 2019.
Jewish Community Alliance HAPPENINGS – 6:30 p.m. The fee is $15 per family and $10 Capoeira Classes for JCA valued member families. This martial art combines fight, acrobatics, For more information or to register for promusic and dance in an elegant form. This Rosh Hashannah around the World Galgrams at the JCA, call 730-2100 ext. 228 or class is on Sundays, Sep. 8 – Oct. 6, 4 – 4:45 lery Exhibition visit jcajax.org. p.m. (ages 5 – 10) and 4:45 – 6 p.m. (ages Shaliach Rotem Gabay discusses diversity 11+). The fee is $48 and $32 for JCA valued Vandroff Art Gallery in Jewish culture and family traditions at a members. First Coast Plein Air Painters are featured wine and cheese reception for this exhibit on from September 29 – September 25. The Monday, Sep. 23, 6 – 7 p.m. Youth Athletic Training reception is on September 8, 1 – 3 p.m. Receive sports specific training on Sundays, Chinese Characters Art Class Sep. 8 – Oct. 27, 11 – 11:45 a.m. (ages 6 Aaron Shelton is featured from September 26 Children, ages 3 – 6 by September 1, 2019, – 10) and 11:45 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. (ages 11 – – October 30. The reception is on September can learn Chinese characters and art in this 16). The fee is $150 and $100 for JCA valued 29, 2 – 4 p.m. class on Wednesdays, Sep. 4 – Oct. 30, 2:15 members. – 3 p.m. The fee is $120 and $80 for JCA Family Shabbat Dinner JCA Fencing Academy Join other JCA families for a festive Shabbat valued members. Champion Coach Princess Rashid teaches dinner and celebration on Friday, Sep. 6, 5:30 By Jewish Community Alliance
JEWISH COMMUNITY ALLIANCE 2019 FEDERATION ALLOCATION: $188, 250
this class on Wednesdays, September 18 – November 13. Call ext. 254 for details. JCA Select Basketball Tryouts Players, ages 8 – 14, can try-out for the team on Wednesday, Sep. 18; girls are at 5 p.m. and boys at 6 p.m. Lacrosse Skills Clinic This clinic, for ages 6 – 12, teaches the fundamentals of lacrosse on Sundays, Sep. 22 – Oct. 22, 11 a.m. – 12 p.m. The fee is $105 and $70 for JCA valued members. Youth Soccer League This league is on Sundays, Sep. 8 – Oct. 27. Call ext. 254 to schedule a make-up assessment.
10-YEAR ALLOCATION TOTAL: $1,927,000
education news
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Family Learning Nights at Michele Block Gan Yeladim In October, Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool and Kindergarten families will participate in an evening of learning with their children and classroom educators called Family Learning Nights. This initiative is part of the school’s efforts to involve parents and families in the learning environment of students. Four Family Learning Nights are scheduled, one for each age group at the school. Children and parents participate in a hands-on session with Michele Block Gan Yeladim educators. These experiences are intended to make learning transparent to families, so they better understand the methods and processes in use at the school. Some of the topics covered include inquiry-based learning and positive guidance. These approaches allow children’s interests to guide teachers in what to focus on during the year. For example, if children observe insects in the garden, this may begin the study of insects, what they eat, where they live, how they survive weather and other topics. Showing parents this way of learning helps them understand their children’s school environment. The session with educators is followed by a dinner for families and teachers prepared by the school administrative team. This is a wonderful time to break bread together, get to know one another and build lasting and meaningful relationships within our school family.
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Michele Block Gan Yeladim hosts parent morning following conference caregivers with valuable skills to take a hands-on role in their child’s education and practical applications for home. Following this year’s workshop, parents will be able to understand the importance of shifting the home culture from “What do I get if I’m good?” to “How do I give of my goodness?” This shift creates a culture that fosters cooperation, willingness and responsibility. The
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Following the Michele Block Gan Yeladim 11th Annual Early Childhood Professional Development Conference, the Parent Morning Workshop on Wednesday, Sep. 25, from 9:30 – 10:30 a.m., offers a free follow-up session where parents review the topics discussed in the previous night’s keynote address. Michele Block Gan Yeladim Parent Workshop provides
workshop will also help parents adding develop a plan for routines, rituals and structures that foster the development of
family and create opportunities for connections and family building.
This event is free to parents of young children. To register, call 904-730-2100 ext. 235 or email ganyeladim@jcajax.org.
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Sheva Lenses at Michele Block Gan Yeladim
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As Michele Block Gan Yeladim Preschool and Kindergarten welcomes a new year, educators are excited to bring the JCC Association’s Sheva Jewish lenses into everyday learning. These seven lenses provide an ethical model for living: Masa/Journey, B’rit/Covenant, Tzelem Elohim/Divine Image, K’dushah/Holiness, Hit’orerut/Awakening, D’rash/Interpretation and Tikkun Olam/Repair the World. They articulate the approach and inspire as much as they inform. Ideally, they manifest daily in each classroom in the structure of time, curricula and environment; the quality of relationships with students, faculties and host institutions; and the partnerships forged with families in the communities. The lenses improve and sharpen the school vision enabling educators to see the world more clearly and in a particularly focused way. Judaism is not exclusively a matter of “what” or “when” in the world of ritual and faith, but includes the deeper matters of “how” and “why” within the totality of lives and relationships to the world as a whole. It welcomes diversity, inclusion, reflection and innovation. Educators start with the question of why they do certain things in the classroom, what is the purpose and what is the meaning to the children? They consider what they want the children to know and feel because of their study together. Using this approach of backward design, Michele Block Gan Yeladim implements these lenses into everyday instruction to make the school a place of early learning excellence and best practices.
Michele Block Gan Yeladim adds new playground equipment BY JCA
Last year, Michele Block Gan Yeladim had a picnic social and fundraiser to raise money for new playground equipment. After careful research, the school has added a spinner bowl to the outside play area. Vestibular stimulation is the input the body receives when experiencing movement or gravity. This circular motion, specifically, is valuable in helping children to regulate arousal levels to enable self-calming, self-regulation and focused attention. To comply with NAEYC Accreditation requirements, the school selected a reputable playground equipment supplier with accommodations to handle the more stringent requirements regarding ground cover, placement and fall zone. This new addition is enjoyed by students of all ages. It is in the perfect spot under the shade of a beautiful bottle brush tree donated to the school by loving families over a decade ago. With the success of future fundraisers, the school plans for more additions to the playground and gardens that will give children the opportunity to learn through outdoor play.
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CHESED PROJECT: Jacksonville Torah High School By Suzie Becker
Have you seen the video of the guy with the cup of coffee? You know, the one at the airport that changed his life. At Jacksonville Torah High School we love coffee and we love positive life changes. That story prompted us to consider the trajectory of how any endeavor can be observed on a different scale. Our theme this year at JTHS is Chesed, acts of kindness. We will be looking at the concept of kindness through various lenses with a unique monthly approach. This year, Jacksonville Torah High School has partnered with Jewish Family &
Community Services to run the Fanny Landwirth Clothing Closet and Max Block Food Pantry. With the help of Colleen Rodriguez and Donna O’Steen, students will inventory, organize and run both entities one day each week. The Max Block Food Pantry serves the entire Jacksonville community. Thanks to food donations of non-perishable food items and monetary contributions, JFCS provides nutritious groceries to those experiencing difficult times. The food pantry also delivers food to over 100 area Holocaust survivors with the help of Feeding Northeast Florida. The Fanny Landwirth Clothing Closet is utilized
by the JFCS case managers for incoming foster children who have been removed from their homes and put into foster care. Many of them are not able to bring anything with them from their homes and their families. JFCS services the needs of foster children and families throughout the Jacksonville area. Both the closet and the pantry are open on a walk-in basis on Tuesday and Thursday from 1 to 3 p.m. As part of our partnership with JFCS, students will also be learning the ways in which chesed is displayed on an institutional level. One of our goals at JTHS is to create future leaders with compassion and kindness,
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who care about giving back to their communities. We would be tremendously grateful to our Jacksonville Jewish community if you follow us along on our year-long PROJECT CHESED as we share what
we discover each month. To learn more about Jacksonville Torah High School, visit www.jaxtorahhigh.com, like us on Facebook, or contact Suzie Becker at SBecker@jaxtorahhigh.com.
Jewish summer camp scholarship recipient shares her experiences By Aiden Smolensky, 8th Grader at Martin J. Gottlieb Day School
This summer, thanks in part to the Len and Judy Elikan Promising Leader Summer Camp Scholarship, I had the opportunity to go swimming, rock climbing, horseback riding, dancing, play sports, and time travel. Um, time travel? Yeah, I guess that’s what makes Camp Stone so special. From the moment the bus approached Camp Stone in Sugar Grove, PA, I was transported back to Israel in 1948 when the Jewish homeland had just become a state. Each summer Camp Stone has a theme connected to Israel and all programs and experiences are centered around the theme. Summer 2019 was Moshevet haMedina - creating the Jewish state, where we experienced memorable events in Jewish history between the years 1948-1979. At the beginning of the summer, one day became Operation Magic Carpet Yemenite Jews being brought to the new state of Israel in 1949 and 1950. We discussed the situation during shiur (learning groups), and watched a skit about the event. Throughout the day, A Whole New World was playing over the loudspeaker so campers could get into the mood of Operation Magic Carpet. During shekem (canteen), the Roshei Moshava (heads of camp) announced the camp would be joining the Yemenite Jews in the tents they lived in when they first arrived in Israel. Which meant...we were going on an overnight! Another experience was an eyeopening recreation of the IDF’s capturing of Har Habayit- the Temple Mount. As a night activity, each division tried to make their way to Har Habayit (aka the Cheder Ochel aka the Dining Room), by working together to help each other get access. Certain divisions were scouts, some were map makers and others were training military soldiers. A few snuck in through the forest and tried to knock down the barrier to allow others to enter. Everyone needed to stay quiet to make sure no “Jordanians” armed with water balloons could find us. It was very exciting that everyone made it to Har Habayit. We danced and sang together while the shofar was sounded and celebrated with joy of now having the Temple Mount in our possession. The famous recording of “Har Habayit b’yadenu”- The Temple Mount is in our hands - was played over the loudspeaker for everyone to hear. On one of the last days of camp, the big news in shiur was Anwar Sadat and Menachem Begin worked out a peace plan. Right before lunch, a limo
pulled up to camp. Why would a limo be here? Who is in it? A few moments later a staff member dressed as Anwar Sadat stepped out of the limo to meet with “Menachem Begin”. It was a very special moment in Jewish history because Israel finally had a peace plan with Egypt - and Camp Stone got to witness it. That night there was a carnival to celebrate the Peace Accords signed with Egypt. Food and fun is the perfect way to celebrate at Camp Stone. Not only does Camp Stone have an incredible time travel program, but there is another unique part of camp which is a hands-on place to learn more about the summer’s theme. This is the Camp Stone Village. Each summer the Village gets a new name to represent the time period campers are studying. “Talpiot” was selected as the Village name and is the neighborhood in Jerusalem with many businesses, warehouses, and factories. The Village has many special activities such as glassblowing, blacksmithing, woodworking, and baking in a brick oven. In addition to these special crafts, the Village has a real planetarium, firstaid instruction, and a workshop about water filtration. Each activity is fit to represent the time period we are studying. I created some interesting pieces to help solve Israel’s greatest challenges. In woodshop, I constructed a planter box with its own drip irrigation system. This represents Israel’s drip irrigation technology which has helped the agricultural world tremendously. In the planetarium, I learned about the purpose behind Israel’s satellite project to gain military intelligence. We then discussed the potential of both earth and space satellites for military purposes. To survive in the wilderness, making food and finding clean water are extremely important. In blacksmith-
ing, we welded and riveted our own personal can-grabber to take a can off a hot stove or fire. Personal filtration straws were made to provide clean water. Israel has figured out how to filter even sewage water safely. Israel’s desalination technology is used for a large part of its own water supply and has been adopted by other countries around the world. To remind us of this, we created engraved salt bowls in the glassblowing shop. All the wonderful projects created in the Camp Stone Village have a meaningful connection to the theme of Moshevet HaMedina. Reliving Jewish history was extremely educational, and creating useful tools in The Village was exceptionally cool while also practical. BUT if you really want to know what makes Camp Stone special, it is the beautiful Shabbatot each weekend. Kabbalat Shabbat- the welcoming of Shabbatis such an extraordinary time singing and dancing with friends. Not just Kabbalat Shabbat, but from Friday evening to Saturday night, the feeling of everyone coming together as one
and rejoicing for the holy day of rest is palpable. One of my most favorite parts of Shabbat is the singing leading up to Havdalah. This special singing before Shabbat ends is a time to reflect on the week, the amazing friendships made at camp, and what it means to be part of the Jewish people. Each time I am singing with a few hundred other Jewish kids, it’s hard to explain the feeling of being surrounded by so many Jewish kids just like me. We are all one people and it is unbelievable. I am very grateful to have been a recipient of the Len and Judy Elikan Promising Leader Summer Camp Scholarship. If you have been to Jewish summer camp, you know how amazing it is. If you haven’t, you should definitely consider it, and for adults please consider helping a Jewish child go. If not for the amazing activities, the very cool projects, or the “time travel”, then just go for Shabbat. It just might be the best experience of your life. I am so thankful for the opportunity to have been at camp this summer and I can’t wait to go back!
education news DuBow Preschool: New Year, New Curriculum By Brian Pargman
One of the oldest and most established preschools in the Jacksonville area is starting the 2019/2020 school year with a brand new curriculum. The Creative Curriculum by Teaching Strategies will be introduced this Fall in all DuBow Preschool classrooms. According to the publisher’s website, “The Creative Curriculum helps teachers encourage children to make and test hypotheses, develop skills for using technology, explore their world and the people in it and engage their creative thinking skills.” The most important goal of an early childhood curriculum is to help children become enthusiastic learners. This means encouraging children to be active and
This past summer, members of the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School leadership team (Brian Pargman, Amanda Watsky, and Raquel Scharf-Anderson) traveled to Chicago to attend the Leadership Academy at the Kellogg School of Management for Nonprofit Management at Northwestern University. This three-day workshop covered many topics including: Conflict Resolution; Inspiring Leaders; Financial Statements for Decision Making and Stakeholder Management. “I firmly
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creative explorers who are not afraid to try out their ideas and to think their own thoughts. “We believe strongly in this new curriculum. It will bolster the already robust opportunities for teaching and learning that we offer children in our classrooms every day”, said Assistant Head of School for Early Childhood, Karin Hallett. Teachers were provided training on the new curriculum prior to the start of the school year so they would be prepared and ready to welcome the children back to school. To learn more about The Creative Curriculum at DuBow Preschool or to see it implemented in person, please contact Admissions Director, Amanda Watsky at amanda.watsky@mjgds.org.
Leadership Team Takes Advantage of Professional Development Opportunity By Brian Pargman
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believe that professional development is critical for our leadership team so we may stay abreast of the latest trends, concepts, and best practices in private schools. Ultimately, our most important stakeholders–our students– will benefit directly from this wonderful opportunity that was provided to our leadership team,” shared Raquel Scharf-Anderson. The leadership team returned from Chicago with new ideas and creative energy that is already being applied to this coming school year.
Staff unites to remedy preschool roof collapse July 22nd was a slightly different day for the children and staff of DuBow Preschool and Camp Ki Tov. Early in the afternoon, a small portion of DuBow Preschool’s roof gave way. The sprinkler system was damaged, which caused water to spread throughout the Preschool and into a section of Martin J. Gottlieb Day School. The Jacksonville Jewish Center reacted immediately and called an industry expert in restoration to the site as well as two engineers.
The engineers concluded that the damage was isolated to this section of the roof and that the rest of the Preschool as well as the other buildings that comprise the Jacksonville Jewish Center are structurally sound. While this was an inconvenience to many, the restoration company worked handin-hand with Jacksonville Jewish Center staff to ensure Camp Ki Tov and Preschool classes could resume as quickly as possible. Having only been in her role for less than a
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Exhibit Ends on September 30
PJ Library
PJ Library, the award-winning free program for books and music is open to all families with Jewish children in Jacksonville. If your children are between the ages of six months and eight years, they are eligible. Please sign up now by going to pjlibrary.org/ communities/jacksonville, or calling Whitney Kuvin at 904394-5724.
If you have not seen the exhibit, “The Rescuers: Portraits of Moral Courage in the Holocaust,” in the Frisch Family Holocaust Memorial Gallery at Jewish Family & Community Services, time is running out. At the end of the month, the exhibit will be leaving JFCS to go to Boca Raton.
For more information or to schedule a tour of “The Rescu-
ers,” contact Gail Furman at 904-394-5723.
New and Yummy Partnership: UF Health Family Nutrition Program and JFCS Jewish Family & Community Services has been collaborating with the Family Nutrition Program at the University of Florida to offer healthy eating resources to our Max Block Food Pantry clients. Since the beginning of June, Program Coordinator Alex Lanture has brought healthy food samples and recipes to JFCS families.
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JFCS in partnership with River Garden is pleased to bring you our meal program, Meals4You, from our kitchen to yours. Meals are delicious, nutritious, convenient and delivered right to your door. Jewish dietary laws are observed. Call Whitney for more information at 904-394-5724.
Alex sets up in the lobby of the Max Block Food Pantry in JFCS’s Allison Stein Robbin Building every Tuesday and Thursday from 1-3:00 p.m. and offers the delicious goodies with a smile! The clients have enjoyed delicious black bean brownies, pasta alfredo, coleslaw and guacamole with chips just to name a few.
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JFCS is now using a Lyft product called Concierge, which allows JFCS to arrange rides on behalf of its clients, including the ability to schedule rides up to a week in advance. Lyft has also partnered with GreatCall, a senior-focused cell phone company, which will help seniors use Lyft without having to navigate the smart phone app. Anyone using a Jitterbug phone can now simply press ‘0’ and arrange a ride with the company. To learn more or schedule rides, please call Whitney Kuvin at 904-6609268.
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Dupont Counseling also accepts some insurance plans.Therapists work with children, adults and families. Thanks to Federation funding, Dupont provides approximately 60 clients per year from the Jewish community for six free sessions. For more information, contact Dupont at 904394-5728.
JEWISH FAMILY & COMMUNITY SERVICES 2018 FEDERATION ALLOCATION: $269,311
Applications are now being accepted for Jewish Educational Loan Fund (JELF) interest-free loans for higher education -- including college, graduate school and vocational programs. Jewish students in the Jacksonville area who will be in school during the period of January through August 2020 can apply for an interest-free loan through September 30. JELF, in partnership with the Jewish Family & Community Services, helps Jewish Students reach their academic goals. To qualify, the applicant must be:A permanent resident of FL, GA, SC, NC or VA (excluding the greater DC area) but can go to any U.S.-accredited school. - Enrolled full time in a program leading to a degree or certificate and in good academic standing - A U.S. citizen or have lawful immigration status - Have a designated cosigner - Able to demonstrate financial need (2019 FAFSA application required) The funds help pay the educational and living expenses that other financial aid doesn’t cover, such as travel, rent, food and books. Students and their families can apply online at JELF.org.
JFCS Launches Staff Wellness Program Jewish Family & Community Services has launched an employee wellness program. The program, called Wellness Warriors, was created to encourage self-care and health in staff. In a poll taken by Hylant (JFCS’ benefits broker), health and wellness were two of the most important things to JFCS employees. JFCS is collaborating with Florida Blue to provide health screenings, nutritional coaching, financial health and preventative medical evaluations at no cost to the company or our participating employees. The Wellness Committee is planning a “Wellness Day” for 2020, which will include fun wellness activities like pounding, meditation, yoga, stress management, in-office massages and team building exercises.
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A Different Kind of Storytelling This summer, River Garden embarked on a storytelling adventure. Our project began with interviews of residents, who shared fun memories and life experiences. We asked about special vacations and life-defining years. Special thanks to volunteers Ken Goldman and Rachel Dranetz who have been busy interviewing and writing. Here are two of their mini-memoirs for you to enjoy.
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The travel continued to Baden, Germany (“a lovely resort town”) and Lake Lugano, Switzerland, before the pair returned to Luxembourg for the flight home. The pair celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary in 2016. A year later, Bob passed away at the seasoned age of 96, may his memory forever be a blessing.
in consequence for holding tight to her beliefs. In those days, Jewish people would even change their name to something more common, in order to be hired by big companies. Winifred faced The Hayflicks’ 50th-andiscrimination at every turn, but through the niversary celebration was insults, and the conflicts, and the judgment, she an event to remember. not only persevered, but flourished in the face of In 1996, Bob and adversity. Janice Hayflick flew Winifred cherished every moment with her to Luxembourg, friends and family, deeply. She strived to apprerented a car and ciate every little happiness that came her way. toured much of EuShe worked hard to help sustain her family, My Best Year rope for two weeks. By Rachel Dranetz, with selling eggs for 12 cents a dozen, sewing clothes Janice, 92, recalls Coves Member Winifred Libby and helping out the family business however she details of the trip like could. it happened yesterday. It’s 1940 in Brockton, MasShe loved to drive; her brother would fix up Bob, a decorated World sachusetts, and just an ocean old cars and then toss her the keys. One of her War II veteran, was advenaway Hitler and Mussolini were greatest joys was when she got her license and turesome, Janice said. gearing up for what would she was finally able to take the cars off her From Luxembourg, the come to be one of the family farm and out into the world. The Hayflicks – 1946 most horrific wars Hayflicks drove into France – Her father had also taught her to Lyon, Mars, the French Riviera. in history. Alongpaint, a passion that she would Adjacent to the French Riviera was the Italian side mounting tensions come to nurture for years Riviera. Next stop was Florence, “a beautiful from abroad, America to come. Winifred always city!” had problems of its managed to find joy in her On to Rome! “The Vatican was an amazown to deal with. The life. ing experience,” Janice said. “The cathedral is Depression blanketed Despite whatever beautiful… magnificent artwork including the the country, and many life had thrown at her, Michelangelo masterpiece.” people were strugWinifred was a bright and Venice “was one of my favorite places,” gling just to make outgoing young woman Janice added. “No cars are allowed in Venice. ends meet. who never let her circumWe had to park at the edge of the city and walk Winifred Libby was stances define her. Yes, she or rent a bicycle with two seats in the front and a a young girl who found was a Jew, but she was also driver in the back.” hope in dark places. Even an American and this was her While in Venice, the pair rode in a gondola at 16, she constantly fought home. Winifred wasn’t about to let along the famed Grand Canal. “I loved the against prejudice for being anyone else tell her otherwise. Winifred Libby – 2019 canals, the museums, the beautiful outdoor conJewish— losing friends, neighcerts, the whole atmosphere.” bors and even job opportunities
By Ken Goldman, with River Garden resident Janice Hayflick
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Barbara Safer (L) passes the Auxiliary’s presidential gavel to Mimi Kaufman (R).
On June 11, the River Garden Auxiliary held its installation of officers for 2019-2020. Barbara Safer, a past president, was installed as chairwoman. The newly elected officers are: Mimi Kaufman as president, Nancy Mizrahi as treasurer, Michele Steinfeld as membership vice president, Ellen Rubens as fundraising vice president, Betty Fastenberg as recording secretary, Jennie Bermudez as
financial secretary, Sandy Selwitz as social secretary, Marilyn Mass as corresponding secretary, Ruth Nachman as parliamentarian, and Shirley Bielski as past president. Following the installation, a celebratory cake was gifted to the Board by the executive staff of the Home. River Garden Auxiliary will hold its opening meeting and luncheon ($10) on Tuesday, September 24. For more information contact Margo Ruby 904-733-7922.
Partnership2Gether Visits at The Coves By River Garden Senior Services
On July 24, 2019, The Coves at River Garden welcomed the P2G Israeli Teen Delegation on our campus. This program of the Jewish Federation and the Jewish Agency for Israel is designed to cultivate people-to-people relationships in a variety of social atmospheres, and our members at The Coves enjoy their annual visits. It’s a wonderful time to make new friends, reminisce about trips to Israel and talk about ancestral history. Plus, it’s always fun to meet new people.
Alberta Marks (Right) and Betty Barnes (Left) enjoy visiting with the teens.
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Planning Underway for 2019 Gala By River Garden Senior Services
Saturday, November 16, we’ll be enjoying ‘A Night in Shanghai’ at the Marriott Sawgrass ballroom. Organized by dedicated volunteers led by Chairs Rebekah Selevan and Talie Zaifert, the annual gala and silent auction is our flagship fundraising event, raising thousands of dollars to directly benefit the residents of our home. Nearly half of the people we serve depend on government support—which does not cover the full cost of the care they need and deserve. A special thank you to our Premier Gala Sponsor – SunTrust – and the sponsors that have already committed to our event. Sponsors of the Gala enjoy benefits that include name recognition, reserved seating for the dinner and value of knowing you are supporting an organization that honors our mothers and fathers. For more information, visit our website or contact Kathy Osterer, Chief Development Officer, at 904886-8430 or kosterer@rivergarden.org.
Synagogue News
The Stories We Tell Ourselves
By Congregation Ahavath Chesed
Maharal of Prague said, “All the month of Elul, before eating and sleeping, a person should look into his soul and search his deeds, that he may make confession.” Rabbi Elizabeth Bahar, Senior Rabbi at Congregation Ahavath Chesed (The Temple,) invites the entire community to begin the work of self-reflection at two community-based workshops, each scheduled over the noon hour. The first discussion will be held on Thursday, September 5, from noon to 1 p.m. at the Raymond James Building, located at 245 Riverside Avenue. The Community Foundation is hosting this workshop, which will be held in the Riverside Conference Room on the lower level. Lunch can be purchased at Akel’s Deli located next to the
conference room or you are welcome to bring your own. The second workshop, scheduled for Tuesday, September 25, from noon to 1 p.m., will be held in Conference Room B at the SE Regional Library,
“Earth’s crammed with heaven, And every common bush afire with G-d, But only he who sees takes off his shoes; The rest sit round and pluck blackberries.” - Elizabeth Barrett-Browning
located 12259 Deerwood Park Boulevard. Brown bag lunch is encouraged. “While I hope you will participate in both workshops, everyone is welcome at just one, if that better fits your schedule,” explains Rabbi Bahar. This poem (left) by Elizabeth Barrett-Browning is one of the texts which will be used to stimulate thought and conversation. Rabbi Bahar will encourage contemplation on a deep and long forgotten truth – our collective memory and stories are preserved in our sacred text to help us reach our highest potential. They are, in the words of Abraham Joshua Heschel: “An occasion when the heart surprises the mind.” RSVP is appreciated. Contact The Temple at 904-7337078 or rsvp@TheTempleJacksonville.org.
Beth El Upcoming Programs By Beth El
The Beth El Sisterhood is hosting a movie night on Sunday, September 8, with a viewing of Shanghai Ghetto. Stripped of possessions and rights, German and Eastern European Jews flee to an unlikely destination to avoid persecution from the Nazis. “Shanghai Ghetto” recalls the strange but true story of thousands of European Jews fleeing for their lives who journeyed to the other side of the world to form a settlement in the Japanese controlled
Shanghai.This documentary depicts an incredibly moving portrayal of a rich cultural life, bravely constructed under enormous hardship. The movie night is open to the community and will begin with a wine and cheese social. For more information, contact Vickie Kennedy at vickie@ bethelbeaches.org or at 904273-9100. On Sunday, October 20, beginning at 9 a.m., Beth El will host Eva Grayzel, a motivational speaker and interactive storyteller specializing in Jewish Folklore. She has been
on the UJC Speakers Bureau, performed at the 92nd St. Y in NYC, the Houston Jewish Arts Festival, Philadelphia’s Israel Independence Day Parade, Allentown Symphony Orchestra’s Children’s Series as the resident storyteller, and OffBroadway in her one woman show, “Beating The Odds: A Story NOT Silenced by Oral Cancer.” Ms. Grayzel is the author of two children’s books in the Talk4Hope Family Book series. The event is free and open to the entire community. For reservations, call Beth El at 904-273-9100.
Center Sisterhood to host cooking demonstration Sept. 18 By the Jacksonville Jewish Center
Join Jacksonville Jewish Center’s Sisterhood on Wednesday, September 18 at 6:30 p.m. at the Center for “Healthy You: Simple Ways to Living Well,” a cooking demonstration on how
to prepare some delicious and healthy New Year’s dishes and cocktails. The event is $10 for Center Sisterhood Members and $15 for non-members. Visit jjcsisterhood.com/rsvp or your check is your reservation.
SELICHOT: THE GATEWAY TO 5780
By the Jacksonville Jewish Center & Congregation Ahavath Chesed
Join members of Congregation Ahavath Chesed and the Jacksonville Jewish Center for our 10th annual joint Selichot program, on Saturday Evening, September 21, as together we view Bad Day at Black Rock starring screen legend Spencer Tracy. Director John Sturgis’ powerfully tense and fast-paced Hollywood classic tells the story of one small town’s struggle with prejudice and xenophobia at the end of World War II. Though released
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nearly 65 years ago, the film offers a timely lens through which to explore how we grapple with our fears about “the other.” Following the program, we will usher in the Days of Awe together with the haunting melodies and solemn liturgy of the Selichot service led by our clergy: Rabbis Elizabeth Bahar and Jonathan Lubliner, Hazzan Jesse Holzer, and Cantor Carrie Barry. Our evening begins at 8:00 P.M. with a dessert reception by Margo’s Catering, followed by the film & discussion at 8:30 P.M. with our evening ending with Sleihot service at 10:30 PM.
Acting from love is greater than acting from fear.” -Talmud, Sota
SAVE THE DATE: Communitywide multigenerational Mega Challah Bake Nov. 6
at the Beaches. All women ages 12 and older are invited to once again come together to discover the art of making and blessing challah while learning about challah’s unique connection to women. The hosts will be teaching the best braiding techniques and the meaning behind the biblical ritual of making challah. Beginning at 7 p.m. at Congregation Ahavath Chesed, the cost of the program is $10 per person. RSVP to jaxmegachallahbake@ gmail.com or on Facebook at JaxMegaChallahBake. Sponsorships are available.
Hundreds of women from throughout Northeast Florida will gather for the fourth annual Mega Challah Bake on Wednesday, Nov. 6. Joining other major cities around the world, including Toronto, Miami, Los Angeles and Hong Kong, Jacksonville is proud to once again be part of this worldwide event, an evening of Jewish pride, unity, inspiration and Challah baking. The local partnering organizations for the event include Federation Women’s Division, Congregation Ahavath Chesed, Jacksonville Jewish Center, Etz Chaim, Chabad of Northeast Florida and Beth El
First Congregation Sons of Israel, a conservative egalitarian congregation, will hold Selichot service at 7 p.m. on September 21, led by Rabbi Joel Fox. After the service, installation of congregation officers will be conducted by Iris Kraemer, president of Jacksonville Jewish Federation. Rabbi Dov Kentof will officiate at the installation of Rabbi Joel Fox as part-time rabbi for the First Congregation Sons of Israel, the “Oldest Synagogue in the Nation’s Oldest City”. The congregation is located at 161 Cordova Street in historic St. Augustine. For more information, call 904-829-9532 or email fcsi1924@gmail.com.
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On Sunday, September 15, kids will gather with Chabad of St. Johns to experience Rosh Hashanah through an interactive farmers market. “We wanted to do something different,” says Dini Sharfstein, youth director of Chabad of St. Johns. While the Jewish New Year is well known for its long services and serious prayers, they wanted to “let kids experience the fun side of the holiday.” Kids will get a fresh start to the year by visiting each stand at the Rosh Hashanah market. As they go from booth to booth, they’ll explore the holiday’s culinary themes with unique recipes— round artisan challah, apple mocktails, carrot cake pops and a holiday fruit salad. “Jewish holidays are rich with symbolism,” says Dini, who is also
the educational director of the Grow after-school program. “This experience brings kids on that sensory journey.” At each booth, kids use personalized tote bags to collect marketplace finds—unique recipe cards that they’ll turn into a special holiday keepsake. It’s an organic learning process that brings the local goodness of Rosh Hashanah to life. The Rosh Hashanah Farmers Market is brought to you by The Jewish Kids Club at Chabad of St. Johns, an initiative that inspires children to make a meaningful impact in their communities through educational programs that explore the richness of Judaism. It will take place at Publix at 2750 Race Track Rd. in St Johns. Sign up at www.JewishSJohnsCounty.com/JKC. For more information, email Dini@ JewishSJohnsCounty. com or call 904701-4422.
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Eleven-year-old Evelyn Martin won first prize in Temple’s annual Bubbe’s Bake-Off By Congregation Ahavath Chesed
During the Temple’s annual Bubbe’s Bake-Off, participants of all ages entered the contest and had their desserts judged on taste, appearance, originality and texture. Sixteen contestants entered the contest, many of them with years of experience. But it was the underdog, an unknown eleven-year-old student and member of the Temple Family, that surprised everyone. Eleven-year-old Evelyn Martin, daughter of Julie and Tony Martin, won first place with her lemon blueberry bundt cake. Second place went to Sarah Fraden for her chocolate cake, and third place to Joyce Braun for her raspberry chocolate cake. Honorable mentions were also awarded to two young bakers -- Eli Barry, age eight, for his cookies, and Jacob Schreiber, 14, for his grandmother’s carrot cake. Before entering the Bake-Off, Evelyn was told by her grandmother to realize that she’s going up against some very
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seasoned bakers, and not to be disappointed if her entry didn’t place in the top tier. Evelyn said it didn’t make any difference, she wasn’t doing this for the prize, but because she loves to bake. It wasn’t until one of the judges came up to her and asked her for her name and what she baked, that she came to learn she had won first prize. Her first reaction was, “Really? Are you sure?” Then,
when the MC announced the winners of Bubbe’s Bake-Off with Evelyn having won first prize, it become real! Evelyn’s whole family, her mom and dad and her big brother David, are so proud of her and excited for what’s to come. She has big plans for the next Bubbe’s Bake-Off and is excited to continue to share her baking prowess with her Temple family.
Why Carol and I are staying in Jacksonville.
Since I announced my stepping down as Executive Director, numerous Center members have approached Carol and me and wished us a Mazel Tov on my retirement. The question is usually followed with “ Are you staying in Jacksonville or moving?” YES, Carol and I are staying in Jacksonville and staying as active members of the Center and active members of this warm and welcoming community. From the moment we arrived in town we were welcomed and made to feel at home. Many families invited us into their homes for dinner and made a conscious effort to acclimate us into ‘The Center Family’. We are thankful for their kindness. Over the past years we have made new friends and enjoyed the opportunity to learn about a rich Jewish community that goes back into the mid-1800s. We have
learned that the Jacksonville area has so much to offer and we are still exploring surrounding sights and communities. Carol and I love to discover new places and enjoy trying new and different cuisines. There is one overwhelming reason that we are staying in Jacksonville, and it’s not the weather. The one main reason we are permanently residing here is THE JACKSONVILLE JEWISH CENTER. It is the Rabbis, the Hazz and you. Thank you for inviting us and welcoming us and for making us part of The Center Family and your family. We hope to enjoy our new home for many years and we will see you around the building for simchas, holidays and numerous social events and educational programs. B’Shalom Gilbert and Carol Kleiner Retired Executive Director of the Jacksonville Jewish Center.
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Free Sukkot Dinner Under The Stars open to the community
Chabad at the Beaches will host its annual Sukkot Dinner Under the Stars. The Beaches largest sukkah will take place Wednesday October 13 at 7 p.m. at the Aaron and Blanche Scharf Chabad Center in Ponte Vedra Beach. following a short prayer service. “Year after year, people from all over Ponte
Vedra and the Beaches area joyfully celebrate Sukkot together with us,” says Rabbi Nochum Kurinsky, co-director of Chabad at the Beaches “Every year more and more people join, and every year we expand the sukkah.” The event, open to all who live in or visit the area, will begin with a short service followed by a lavish dinner in the newly expanded sukkah. There is no cost for the dinner. To RSVP, visit Chabadbeaches. com or email Chabad@ ChabadBeaches.com.
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During TIR, students in grades four and above have the opportunity to pick their chug (elective). Opportunities for learning include looking at holidays through a Creative Arts or STEM lens, writing a class siddur (prayer book), or learning about Jewish middot (values) and texts through mysteries and puzzles like an escape room. Lastly, Temple will be hosting many outings and events planned for children of all ages. Beginning with our TIR Open House to celebrate the New Year and to meet Evan, to the new Tashlich experience, tubing together at Ichnetucknee Springs is on Sunday, October 6. The three Youth Groups are planning for brand new events and recreating some favorite old ones. Families look forward to hosting gradelevel Shabbat dinners and JAFTY First Fridays. Your calendars could be full of meaningful events filled with friendship and community. We hope you plan to spend some time with our youth. Remember, age is only a number. “Let us never know what old age is. Let us know the happiness time brings, not count the years” – Ausonius
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for grades 9-12. He will serve as Madrichim coordinator on Sunday mornings for our teen mentors. Evan will collaborate with Michelle Penson on Youth services during the High Holy Days. He will collaborate and program for kids of all ages. With Cantor Barry’s arrival came many discussions about worship, TIR, t’filah and b’nai mitzvah. Cantor will help to lead two t’filot on TIR Sunday mornings, the first for Pre-K-3rd grade and the second for 4th-7th grade. She will introduce Temple’s congregants and guests to four music filled youth services this year called Shabbat Shireinu, literally “our voices”, featuring students singing their hearts out in some of their favorite songs. Important to mention, Cantor Barry will also be working with our b’nai mitzvah, including the slight revision of the program for “Mitzvah Projects” for each student. Tot Shabbat will become Mini Minyan. It will be held on many second Fridays of the month from 5:30-6:30 p.m. Rabbi Bahar, Cantor Barry and Michelle Penson will be programming the activities, songs, blessings and prayers for this fun-filled monthly ritual.
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“The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of the child into old age, which means never losing your enthusiasm”– Aldous Huxley The team at Temple is hard at work planning for another year of TIR (religious school), youth and family programming, and fun activities for all. Our goal is for our youth to find their connection to Judaism, their peers, our community and our history. Michelle Penson, her amazing faculty and tireless volunteers have made many positive changes in Michelle’s first two years. Hold on to your hats! Here is a snapshot of what is coming in 2019 and 2020. Evan Taub, Korman Youth Director, will begin on August 21, 2019. Evan is a recent graduate of Syracuse University, grew up in Ocala, Florida, and recently spent his summer at URJ Camp Coleman as the Unit Head for Kesher (rising 9th graders) and Kochavim (rising 5th graders.) Evan had time to get to know many campers from Jacksonville. He is enthusiastic about joining the team at Temple. He will lead activities for three youth groups: B’yachad for grades 3-5, Jr. JAFTY for grades 6-8, and JAFTY
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