December Edition - Northeast Florida Jewish Life Magazine by JewishLife Magazine

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A PUBLICATION OF THE JEWISH FEDERATION & FOUNDATION OF NORTHEAST FLORIDA

DECEMBER 2020 - KISLEV/TEVET 5781 VOL. 33 NO. 26 | jewishjacksonville.org

Dr. Abe and Marjie Rogozinski and grandsons, Quinn and Cobie and Zeke and Alexi Rogozinski are looking forward to Hanukkah.

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LETTER FROM OUR EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

s we usher in December, Hanukkah is just ten days away. May we all agree that the light shining from our menorahs will brighten up this final month of one of the most challenging years in recent memory? I’d like to take a few moments to share some good news from which to draw the most positive, brightest light as we move towards 2021. Our incredible Jewish home, River Garden, was named by Newsweek Magazine as the best home for the aged in Florida! As we’ve previously reported, a group of Jewish community volunteer and professional leaders have met via Zoom, most mornings, during these past nine months. Our group joins together to express our congratulations to the leadership and staff of River Garden Senior Services. I’d like to acknowledge the executives of our local partners. They deserve kudos for all their hard work during these extremely difficult times. I also want to express my appreciation to the outstanding staff at Federation who pre-pandemic were working together to help build community and have been innovative and dedicated at an even higher level now. The end of this year marks three years since the merger of the Jewish Community Foundation of Northeast Florida with our Federation. We continue to prove ourselves worthy of the trust the community gave to us at that time. In February 2021, we will

launch our first ever Jewish community planned-giving endowment campaign. Together with our major recipient organizations, we plan to raise permanent funds to secure and ensure the future of our Jewish community. We have not traveled together to Israel in a very long time. I am excited to announce that we have reserved hotels and hired a guide for our “Together Again in Israel” trip, November 1 – 10, 2021. Participation will be limited to 40 people and no deposit will be required at this time. If you are interested to learn more about this mission to Israel, please let me know. At month’s end, Isabelle Balotin, our Shalom Jacksonville director, will retire. Izzy has been such a shining light for Federation with an inimitable personality, touching the lives of many during her tenure with us. Read more about her remarkable talents on page 32. Finally, I want to share with the community that I have informed our board of directors of my retirement for December 31, 2021. At that time, I will have worked as Federation’s executive director for nearly 32 years. What a great run! The experience to partner with the best volunteers, staff and colleagues in our Jewish community has been, and continues to be, such a blessing! It is my intention to make the next 12 months even more nurturing for all we touch through our Federation and Foundation. Wishing everyone a happy and joyous celebration of our Festival of Light, Hanukkah!

Alan Margolies

Jewish Federation & Foundation Staff

Alan Margolies Federation Executive Director alanm@jewishjacksonville.org

Lauren Rickoff Director, Campaign & Women’s Philanthropy laurenr@jewishjacksonville.org Kellie Smith Director, Foundation kelliek@jewishjacksonville.org Faye Hedrick Director, Young Professionals & Families fayeh@jewishjacksonville.org

Pat Burke Director, Finance & Administration patrickb@jewishjacksonville.org Val Battini Finance Specialist valb@jewishjacksonville.org

Mitzi Saul Marketing and Communications Manager mitzis@jewishjacksonville.org Isabel Balotin Director, Shalom Y’all shalomjax@jewishjacksonville.org Jill Abel Director, Israel Partnership jilla@jewishjacksonville.org

Jennifer Rensch Campaign Coordinator jenniferr@jewishjacksonville.org

Stav Brener Community Shaliach jaxshlichut@jewishjacksonville.org Charlie DuBow Marketing & Communications Intern charlied@jewishjacksonville.org Ellen Cohen Wilcox Sales Representative ellenw@jewishjacksonville.org

Cover photo: Dr. Abe and Marjie Rogozinski and grandsons, Quinn and Cobie and Zeke and Alexi Rogozinski are looking forward to Hanukkah.

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CO-CHAIRS COOK TOGETHER AND LEARN SO MUCH MORE By Lauren Rickoff, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida

“Participating in these cooking demos with Erica and sharing these recipes virtually with the community has been a tremendous amount of fun. It also is a way for me to continue the tradition and to pay tribute to the amazing women in my family who taught me my family’s history, as well as the Jewish people, through the food put before me,” said Shylie. This month, the two will cook Leah’s recipe, “Atayef” featured on page 25, and will be posted to social media on December 2. Their past cooking demos can be found on the Jewish Federation & Foundation’s Facebook page.

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Co-chairs Shylie Bannon and Erica Jolles show-oﬀ their Jam and Poppy Seed Noodle Kugel.

Over the past few months, an attorney and a realtor have been cooking together to create delicious culinary creations in anticipation of the 2021 Women’s Philanthropy Champagne Brunch on January 10. Co-chairs Shylie Bannon and Erica Jolles are an unlikely pair. Shylie’s favorite thing to do is to try new recipes and Erica readily admits that she doesn’t make new dishes often. Yet during this time, they have successfully created wonderful meals together using recipes from renowned Jewish cookbook author and upcoming Champagne Brunch speaker Leah Koenig. Shylie’s love for cooking began as a young girl, while visiting her grandmother in Israel. Some of her favorite memories are enjoying the traditional foods she made from scratch. When she went away to college and, later, law school, she became the resident chef for her friends, using family recipes to share home-cooked meals. It was special for her to share her family’s history over the dinner table. Later, she became inspired by shows like “Top Chef”, which gave her the confidence to be more adventurous and improve her skills.

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RIVER GARDEN FOUNDATION CHIEF DEVELOPMENT OFFICER ANNOUNCES RETIREMENT By Kari Bell, raised millions of dollars River Garden Senior Services and thousands of friends in

support of River Garden and Kathy Osterer, a 22-year its mission to the community veteran of River Garden, has during Osterer’s tenure as announced her plans to retire chief development officer. at the end of 2020, after River Garden CEO Mara rewarding and fulfilling tin Goetz says, “It has been a career. privilege working with Kathy “River Garden will always over these last 22 years.” be so important to me and I Goetz adds, “Kathy is a am very proud of all that we passionate advocate for River have accomplished together. Garden’s mission, vision and values and we are now I could not have asked for finer people to have worked a better and more financialwith,” Osterer said in a letter ly secure care community because of her.” to past Gala Chairs. “This will give me the opportuJeanine Rogozinski, nity to work on my mental health, improve on my phys- Chairman of the Board for the Foundation shares these ical health, and to take time to count the many blessings fond remarks: “In 2007, Kathy called me to chair the that I have in my life.” annual Foundation Gala. I had only been a member of Osterer has been involved with the River Garden the committee a short time, but she had faith and confiFoundation since 1993, dence in my abilities. That when she joined the first was the beginning of our Gala committee. In 1995, Osterer chaired the Founda- beautiful friendship.” tion Gala that brought the Rogozinski continues, late comedian Alan King to town. In 1998, she formal- “Kathy is a tremendous and dynamic leader, one who ly accepted the position as never meets a stranger and Foundation Director, and always finds a way to make later advanced to Chief Development Officer. Thanks River Garden important to to her leadership, the impact everyone. My working with of the Foundation has grown Kathy and the leadership at River Garden developed significantly over the years. into a passion and a necesNotwithstanding a monusary purpose in my life that mental capital campaign in 2010, golf tournaments and I didn’t even know existed. It has been an honor and a galas, the Foundation has

Thank you, Kathy Osterer! Your service to River Garden and its residents has been remarkable. We celebrate you and all you've done for our community. Mazel Tov on this next chapter.

privilege to work with Kathy and her legacy and presence will have a lasting impact upon the organization.” Sandy Zimmerman, current Foundation board president, adds, “I have worked closely with Kathy over the past 22 years. First as a donor, then as co-chair of the capital campaign in 2010, and now as President of the River Garden Foundation board. There is no person more dedicated and

capable as Kathy. It has been my pleasure to work with her, and I am excited for Kathy to move into the next phase of life, enjoying more time relaxing with her family and friends.” River Garden has begun a search for Osterer’s successor.

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THE LOVE OF HANUKKAH TOUCHES A PRESIDENT

Regardless of the degree of religious observance of our Mitzvot, we all love Hanukkah.

Sixty-nine years ago, David Ben-Gurion lit the first Hanukkah candle in a symbolic and moving moment with the 33rd President of the United States, Harry Truman, together with the diplomat, Abba Eben. When you light your Hanukkah Menorah, it's not just you. You are not alone. You are accompanied by all our ancestors from the Maccabees until modern times. Those "festive lights" bear testimony to the Rock of Ages. You are part of something unstoppable and awesome.

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RIVER GARDEN HEBREW HOME RANKS #1

By Kari Bell, River Garden Senior Services

US News & World Report unveiled its 2020-21 ratings of top nursing homes on Tuesday, October 27, 2020. Only 3 Jacksonville agencies were designated as ‘high performing’ in both short-stay and long-term care. “River Garden has River Garden Hebrew Home earns #1 ranking from long-been a recipient of awards for excellence. We appreciNewsweek and ‘Best Nursing Home’ designation from US News & World Report. River Garden Hebrew Home remains ate every acknowledgement, and are thrilled to share it with on-track as a premier care destination for seniors, according our supportive community,” says Mauri Mizrahi, Associate Administrator. “Our staff dedicates themselves every day to to the latest rankings by both Newsweek and US News & being the best and they deserve a round of applause for this World Report. success.” In early October, Newsweek released its second-ever “River Garden is proud that Newsweek and US News ranked list of nursing homes, naming River Garden the #1 provider in Florida. This is the second year that Newsweek & World Report have recognized our longstanding comhas published this list. Last year River Garden was rated #2 mitment to excellence in elder care,” said Martin A. Goetz, by Newsweek. The rankings are based on information from CEO. “COVID-19 has stressed our nation’s health care three specific measures: 1) Recommendations from medical system and none more so than providers like River Garden,” Goetz added. experts (nurses, administrators, therapists and physicians); The full lists and additional details on the rating meth2) Nursing Home performance based on CMS data in three domains (health inspections, staffing, and quality measures); odology can be found on the websites of each publication. and 3) Documented COVID-19 practices. According to Newsweek, the list is designed to recognize senior care organizations that stand out for their dedication to excellence in resident care.

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FAMILY FOUNDATION CREATES JUSTICE THROUGH GIVING By Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation

Founded in Jacksonville, Florida in 2013 by Dr. Raissa Frenkel, Dr. Lazar Finker and their children, Eugene Frenkel and Steven Finker, The Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation works to fund charitable foundations, initiatives and projects that align with the Jewish concept of “tzedakah,” or creating justice through giving.

In keeping with this mission, the Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation takes a special interest in causes that have the potential to foster long-term social change in the areas of education, child welfare, medical research, religious development, environmental sustainability and support for first responders and law enforcement.

Steven Finker, Lazar Finker and Eugene Frenkel of the Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation.

Hebrew language classes, and an on-campus gathering space for Jacksonville university students.

In 2019, ongoing grants from the Finker-Frenkel Helping to support Jewish Family Foundation helped to provide Chabad of Southside community organizations local to Northeast Florida is with a brand new, $2.9 million community center, one of the Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation’s central The Finker-Frenkel Chabad Center. The center was goals. As such, the Foundainaugurated with a perfortion is an active partner of mance by violinist Itzhak Chabad of Southside, a Perlman and a visit from Jacksonville-based Jewish community center, preschool former Israeli Prime Minisand synagogue that provides ter Ehud Barak. The new weekly Shabbat services and 10,000 square-foot building is equipped with a student dinners, holiday programming, Jewish day school and lounge, a library, a full-fea-

tured kosher kitchen for Shabbat and holiday meals, a kosher café, a dining hall, an activity room and a preschool. The Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation also partners with several other Florida-based Jewish organizations, such as the Miami Beach synagogue Temple Beth Sholom, the Chabad Russian Center of South Florida, the Miami Jewish Health Foundation and, of

course, the Jewish Federation of Northeast Florida. As a family-run organization, the Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation is devoted to passing down this tradition of giving for generations to come. Learn more about the Finker-Frenkel Family Foundation at: www.finkerfrenkel.org.

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HONORING HAZZAN JESSE HOLZER

By Marsha Pollack & Marilyn Garber, Jacksonville Jewish Center Sisterhood

The Torah Fund campaign was first launched in 1942 as a scholarship fund. In 1963, it combined with the Mathilde Schechter Residence Hall campaign that The Jacksonville Jewish Center Sisterhood will honor provided housing for undergraduate students. Since Hazzan Jesse Holzer at its then, Torah Fund has become first Virtual Torah Fund a vital source of support for Event - "Hats Off To The the Jewish Theological Haz" - on Wednesday, Seminary (NYC), from January 13, 2021 at 12 which Hazzan Holzer noon. graduated, as well as the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Event chairs, Marsha Pollock and Marilyn Garber, Studies (Los Angeles, CA) and the Schechter Institute invite you to a beof Jewish Studies (Jerusahind-the-music look at the lem). multi-talented Hazzan Holzer. Friends and family A minimum gift of will reveal interesting facts, $18.00 is requested for fun memories and endearing attendance by those who stories about “The Haz”.

have not contributed to the 2020-21 Torah Fund Campaign.

Mail checks made out to "Torah Fund" to: Gayle Bailys 10767 Waverly Bluff Way, Jacksonville Florida, 32223.

For information about this year’s Torah Fund Campaign -“B’Yachad - Together”, contact Diane Rothstein, Center Sisterhood Torah Fund Chair, dcr723@gmail.com

MAJOR GIFTS EVENT PROMISES A VERY DIFFERENT LOOK AND FEEL By Lauren Rickoff Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida

Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida’s annual Major Gifts event promises to have a very different look and feel this year. The special evening will take place virtually on Monday, December 14 at 7:00 p.m. Major donors who give a minimum of $5,000 to the 2021 Annual Campaign will participate in a Zoom game to locate the “Chosen One”. Attendees will watch as local friends put their Jewish connections and geography to the test.

Haley Trager, Major Gifts Chair

"Our Major Gifts event is a night for our largest donors to celebrate alongside philanthropic peers who

share their passion, and who understand they are needed now more than ever," says Haley Trager, Major Gifts Chair. "Our major donors are at the heart of our annual campaign. We are grateful for their generosity and support." Major donor Susan DuBow will serve as one of the emcees for the event. “In this challenging time when it is not practical to be together indoors, we are going to test one another’s ‘Jewish geography’ from the comfort of our own homes. All one needs to participate is a cell phone and a good sense of humor!" Serving on the Major Gifts event committee, in addition to Susan DuBow, are Diane Rothstein, Fran Selevan and Kimberly Sisisky.

To register, go to events.idonate.com/MG��. For more information about the event and the Federation’s annual campaign, contact Lauren Rickoff at 904.224.1406 or laurenr@jewishjacksonville.org.

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SEVEN YEARS OF LUNCH AND LEARNS: A Nourishing and Inspirational Journey

By Ken Jacobs, GrayRobinson, P.A. Managing Director Etz Chaim Synagogue

“I always look forward to the downtown Lunch and Learn programs with Rabbi Feigenbaum. He’s an inspiring teacher, and it is very enjoyable to listen and learn with a small group of friends each month.”

“I’m sorry Rabbi, but it’s just not going to work.” This was my inauspicious response during my initial meeting Whether it’s to discuss the deeper meaning of an upcomwith Rabbi Avi Feigenbaum seven years ago. The Rabbi ing holiday, explore everyday ethical issues, or obtain had just outlined his vision for an ambitious new project – personal growth, Rabbi Feigenbaum facilitates these interacmonthly Downtown Lunch and Learns featuring kosher tive discussions with enthusiasm and passion. As frequent food and Jewish learning. attendee and sponsor Rachel I explained to Rabbi FeigenShyken puts it, “Not only is baum, who had just moved the food delicious, but he to Jacksonville to join Etz presents powerful and Chaim as their Education insightful information over a Director, that we had very short period of time. It attempted similar efforts in is a great reminder to take a the past, but that they were step back and appreciate all essentially “one and done” that life has to offer.” after the enthusiasm quickly Similarly, Faye Hedrick waned. Undeterred, the relays that “I love the feeling Rabbi explained that we I leave with after one of would try just one in my Rabbi Feigenbaum’s Lunch downtown law office, and and Learns! His excitement Rabbi Avi Feigenbaum and Gene Wolchock bring the food for Lunch see how it goes from there. is contagious. I leave with a and Learn into the JCA different and special underThe very first Lunch and standing than I came with!” Learn in October 2013 seemed like it was doomed before it even started, as Rabbi Feigenbaum’s daughter Huvi was In addition to providing a nourishing kosher meal free born just a few days before it was scheduled. When he of charge, these monthly sessions are open to men and nevertheless showed up to my office with lunch that day, I women of all denominations and backgrounds. The asked, “Rabbi, what in the world are you still doing here? programs have been held in various locations through You know we could have postponed this!” partnerships with the JCA, JFCS, River Garden, as well as several individual hosts and sponsors. As frequent host Ben That was the beginning of a remarkable seven year Marsh explains, “I feel honored to host Rabbi Feigenbaum's journey of uplifting and engaging programs, which have lunch and learns, as I feel it's a mitzvah to allow the comnow expanded to multiple locations throughout Downtown munity another opportunity to learn Judaism from a man and Mandarin. It is not often that we have an opportunity so very passionate about Jewish education. . . After each during the hustle and bustle of our hectic workdays to session my belly is full of delicious food and my brain is pause and reflect on how to bring meaning to our lives, but full of new knowledge!” Similarly, host and sponsor Paul Rabbi Feigenbaum’s sessions allow us to do just that. One of the initial hosts and sponsors, Mike Abel, explains that, LUNCH AND LEARNS, cont. pg. 14 11

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MARTIN J. GOTTLIEB DAY SCHOOL MEETS THEIR BUDDIES By Edith Horovitz, Martin J. Gottlieb Day School

Middle School students at the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School had their first meeting with their “buddies” at the Coves and River Garden Senior Services on Friday, October 30th. Students sent their buddies a “buddy box” with a special introductory letter and a framed picture before the opening session. On Friday they played “Getting to Know You” Bingo in a Zoom meeting as an ice breaker for the year’s worth of activities to come. It’s all made possible by a grant awarded by a national non-profit to The Martin J. Gottlieb Day School’s Mitzvah Program which was selected to participate in the interactive Better Together in a Box program. Better Together in a Box is designed to encourage meaningful interaction between young and old in a COVID friendly way. The 6th, 7th and 8th grade students under the direction of Director of Jewish Life, Edith Horovitz are participating in the

program with residents of River Garden and The Coves. The Martin J. Gottlieb Day School is grateful for being chosen to participate in the Better Together in a Box program. Faced with the restrictions of the pandemic, this grant allows the Day School Mitzvah Program to continue the longstanding relationship that has existed between middle school students and River Garden. Participating in the Better in a Box program provides the structure for doing so. It will allow the students to study Jewish values with respect to the elderly while developing relationships with specific partners. These relationships have always been important but are even more significant as the elderly in our community deal with isolation that is the result of the pandemic. We look forward to sharing with the community how this year-long program positively impacts our students.

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KOLLEL HOSTS FIRST EVER SHABBAT EXPERIENCE

Meeting new friends.

At our pre-Shabbat socializing and cocktails.

The Kollel is fortunate look forward to engaging the prayer book in years and for and grateful to have hosted entire community in more others it was a revival of learning and Jewish their weekly prayers. Every- this beautiful event and we The Jacksonville Commu- one left feeling energized KOLLEL HOSTS, cont. pg. 41 nity Kollel hosted the first and ready for Shabbat. ever Shabbat Under The Following the prayers, we There’s Still Time to Support the Stars for Young Professionals stepped into the courtyard and Families and it was a for our socially distanced JFCS Holiday Gift Giving Program! huge success! Building upon shabbat dinner. the worldwide initiative By Donna O'Steen, known as the “Shabbat We approached the Jewish Family & Community Project” which brings tables that were elegantly set Services together Jews from all walks in honor of the shabbat and of life – across the spectrum began to sing that traditional We still have children and of religious affiliation – to shalom aleichem followed by families available for sponsorship! celebrate this day of rest, we kiddush. We began the meal hosted an immersive Shabbat and in moments all of our Every year, Jewish Family & Community Services’ experience. doubts and concerns melted (JFCS) Holiday Gift Giving program helps over 1,600 away. We laughed, we sang, children, seniors and Holocaust survivors. This year, the Over 20 participants we shared stories and words need is especially great! joined us at the Kollel’s of Torah and most imporlearning center on Crown tantly we spent time with To sponsor a child or senior for the Holidays, please Point Rd for some cocktails our friends – both new and contact Donna O’Steen at dosteen@jfcsjax.org. You can and conversations. We lit the old. Not even 6 feet of table choose to sponsor a child or senior by going shopping shabbat candles and joined can keep two Jews from and purchasing gifts selected by the client. If you do not together for a lively kabbalat connecting over what has have time to shop, you can make a monetary donation shabbat service led by the been for thousands of years earmarked for Holiday Gift Giving Program and we will Kollel rabbis. For some it the hidden power of the do it for you! Visit jfcsjax.org/donate and make your was the first time opening a Jewish People – Shabbat. donation today. By Joey Hamaoui, Jacksonville Community Kollel

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BEQUESTIONS WITH KELLIE SMITH The pandemic’s devastating financial impact on low-income communities has created an increased strain on nonprofit resources as charities stretch their dollars to serve more people. Some long-established charitable organizations have directly responded to the pandemBy Kellie Smith, Jewish ic by starting their own Federation & Foundation of emergency Covid-19 proNortheast Florida grams, such as food pantries expanding their services to meet the greater need. Given “Why is year-end charithis year’s unprecedented table giving so important circumstances, you may want this year?” to give extra consideration when deciding where your Year-end giving may redonations will have the quire some additional plangreatest impact. Doing things ning in 2020, and now is at the last minute is stressthe time to decide who will ful – and we’ve already had be receiving your charitable plenty of stress this year. No contributions. The global matter how much you give, Covid-19 pandemic has know that every gift counts greatly affected charitable or- and all gifts are needed more ganizations in various ways, than ever. so it is especially important that you don’t wait until the While laws have shifted last minute. There is a bigger around Required Minitax deduction for charitable mum Distributions (RMD) donations in 2020. and Qualified CharitaLUNCH AND LEARNS, cont. from pg. 11

ble Distributions (QCD) requirements, 2020 also has ushered in many other changes to tax law in relation to charitable giving. The COVID-19 pandemic and resulting CARES Act, the $2.2 trillion economic stimulus bill passed in March, made some modifications that are intended to incentivize Americans to give. The CARES Act allows individuals and corporations to deduct a higher percentage of income for charitable donations, so you can give more and save more on taxes. This new tax rule applies only to the year 2020, and there are certain guidelines, so you should consult your tax advisor for details. The CARES Act allows you to deduct up to 100 percent of your gross adjusted income for people who itemize deductions. Normally, this deduction is limited to 60 percent of adjusted gross income. Meanwhile, corporations can deduct up to

25 percent — up from 10 percent — of their taxable income if used for charitable giving. In addition, thanks to the CARES Act, for those who don’t itemize their deductions, there’s a new “universal deduction” that allows for a charitable deduction of up to $300 per person. These new benefits pertain only to cash donations. Property and other physical assets don’t qualify. In short, end of year giving is more important than ever. Decide which causes are most meaningful to you, give what you can, take advantage of the incentives and focus your contributions to make the maximum impact. This column is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal, tax or ﬁnancial advice. When considering gift planning strategies, you should always consult with your own legal and tax advisors.

Reed finds the programs to be “very informative, in a good lives. We are also truly appreciative all of our sponsors and communal setting,” and sponsor Jim Richman considers hosts, who are too many to mention here, that have helped them to be “an invaluable resource to our community.” to make these programs possible. The recent challenges of COVID-19 have not deterred Mazel tov to Rabbi Feigenbaum and on his persistence our Lunch and Learns, which are currently broadcast on and devotion in translating his vision into a wonderful ZOOM, and simultaneously held in person at the JCA for reality for seven years in Jacksonville! We are extremely socially distanced lunches. For more information, please grateful to his tireless efforts each month to provide a contact Rabbi Feigenbaum at rabbifeigenbaum@etzchaim.org. delightful oasis of meaning and inspiration in our daily

Individual retirement accounts Naming the Federation as beneficiary of your IRA or making a Qualified Charitable D i s t r i b u t i o n f r o m I R A a s s e t s i s a n e a s y, tax-wise way to support the vital work of the Federation today and tomorrow.

How does it work? For Tomorrow - Name the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida (JFF) benefi ciar y o f your IRA. Distributions from your traditional IRA are taxable at ordinary income rates. In addition, with limited exceptions, IRA inheritors other than your spouse must take those distributions within 10 years rather than over their anticipated life expectancy. To spare your heirs what could be a sizable tax bill, name the JFF as beneficiary of your IRA and pass other appreciated assets to your loved ones. What are the benefits? The JFF pays no tax on your IRA distributions, so the full value benefits the community, whereas if you name your heirs as beneficiaries of your traditional IRA, they will owe tax on every withdrawal. If, instead, you leave assets such as appreciated stock or real estate to your heirs, the assets will receive a stepped-up basis, and your heirs will pay no tax on appreciation that accrued during your lifetime.

For Today - Make a charitable gift directly from your IRA. If you have reached the age of 70, you may make a Qualified Charitable Distribution to the JFF from your IRA. Instruct your IRA administrator in writing to distribute any amount up to $100,000 per year from your IRA directly to the Federation. If your spouse is over 70 and has an IRA, your spouse can make a Qualified Charitable Distribution of as much as $100,000 per year, too. What are the benefits? Even if you do not itemize or you have reached the annual federal ceiling for charitable deductions, a Qualified Charitable Distribution from your IRA to the JFF can save you money. Qualified Charitable Distributions are not deductible, but neither are they subject to federal income tax, (except to the extent that you have made deductible IRA contributions after reaching age 70). Once you are required to withdraw funds, you may count your Qualified Charitable Distribution toward your Required Minimum Distribution for the year. (Congress suspended Required Minimum Distributions for calendar year 2020).

While you may not place your Qualified Charitable Distribution in a donor-advised fund, supporting foundation or private non-operating foundation, you may earmark your distribution:

• To make a current gift to the Federation for the Annual Campaign or a special program or project. • To create a Lion of Judah Endowment (LOJE) or Perpetual Annual Campaign Endowment (PACE). • To establish a special endowment fund to support a field of particular interest to you in the Jewish community or to support the continuing charitable purposes of one or more Jewish agencies.

Note: State tax rules may vary. This material is presented for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal, tax or financial advice. When considering gift planning strategies, you should always consult with your own legal and tax advisors.

To learn more, contact Kellie Kelleher-Smith, Foundation Director: 904.512.3796 | KellieK@jewishjacksonville.org

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WELCOME TO JFCS, BRODY! Chief Brody, “Brody” is a lovable and gentle Aussie with a tail! He has one blue eye and one brown eye. He is patient, friendly and enjoys all human contact. Brody loves people, especially children, and now he will be formally introduced as a co-therapist to assist children, adults and families transform difficult circumstances into healing stories. Brody is all about well-being! “Animals are natural healers. With Brody’s assistance as a trained animal-assisted therapy dog, we will be able to provide added support to our clients who need it most. Together, we will provide a healing environment for children and adults to feel safe with being vulnerable and sharing their own difficult stories,” said Hanson. “We look forward to the stories of healing and success this new journey will bring to us.” He and Karen will be ready to provide cuddles and care Dupont Counseling Group has a new employee! Jewish when Dupont Counseling Group is back in the office Family & Community Services is delighted to welcome our full-time conducting face-to-face therapy sessions. new pet-therapist, Brody. He and his handler, Karen Hanson, If you or someone you know could benefit from AniLMHC will be taking the leash to help JFCS continue our mal-Assisted Therapy, contact Dupont Counseling Group at successful animal-assisted therapy program – the first in 904-394-5706. Northeast Florida - after his predecessor, Patch, moved to another state with his family. WELCOME BRODY, cont. pg. 36

DOCUMENTARY SELECTED FOR FILM FESTIVALS IN FLORIDA, CALIFORNIA AND MOSCOW selection for the following film festivals: Best Shorts Competition, First Coast Film Festival, Central Florida Film Festival, Global Peace Festival, and Moscow Jewish Film Festival. Josh Martino with Feeding Feeding Survivors is also Northeast Florida currently being considered Feeding Survivors, a for over a dozen other film production of Florida State festivals. The film highlights College at Jacksonville’s the remarkable work of Digital Media Program and Feeding Northeast Florida Searching For Identity, along and its partnership with with Jellyfish Smack Produc- Jacksonville’s Jewish Family tions, is pleased to announce & Community Services, in its film Feeding Survivors has order to supply healthy food, been chosen as an official nutrition and dignity to over

100 Holocaust survivors here in Florida, many of whom live beneath the poverty level. Searching For Identity and Jellyfish Smack Productions are pleased to bring this story to the public and raise attention to this

issue around the world. If you are interested in screening the film or would like further information, please contact Lisa@searchingforidentity.org.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING AT BETH EL THE BEACHES SYNAGOGUE! By Rachel Marcus-Mitchell Beth El the Beaches Synagogue Our calendar has filled to overflowing. During our October Musical Midrash with special guest Cantor Ronit Rubin, we explored the meaning of ADON OLAM. We are looking forward to candle lighting, dreidel spinning, latke making, singing and more at our virtual Chanukah celebration December 13th. Congregants have enjoyed virtual weekly services, Torah study and Educational programs with Rabbi Matuson. Beth EL’s Religious School is thrilled that their Tzedakah project will help to replenish 20 local food pantries. Sisterhood has been busy with many virtual events such as BELLES (Beth EL Literary Ladies Enjoying Sisterhood) book club discussion of “Letters to My Palestinian Neighbor”, healthy eating discussions and looking forward to the Hanukah wine tasting event. Brotherhood enjoys the Dinner with the Rabbi discussions. We have been busy!! Please contact Beth El at 904-273-9100 for further information about any of our events!!

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EARLY CHILDHOOD MURDER MYSTERY TEAM BUILDING By Donna O'Steen Jewish Family & Community Services

Last Thursday evening, the Magistrate and FSS hosted an Early Childhood Court (ECC) team building exercise - a murder mystery event. Magistrate Kimber Strawbridge invited the Jewish Family & Community Services ECC team to her home for the event. The evening included refreshments and presented JFCS' ECC Department dressed for the occasion a mystery for the team to solve. The theme was "80's Mall Madness". Each participant was assigned a character prior to the event and was asked to dress like their character. The characters included the rich victim's wife, a teen beauty queen, the victim's hair dresser, a professional shopper, several shop owners, a mall DJ, an investigative reporter, a mall janitor, and a Food Court Manager. Everyone was assigned the role they played and all had a blast dressing for each Lindsey Hackford (pictured second from left), Dependency Supervisor, with the ECC team part. Ultimately, the teen beauty queen, played by our own Hope Lawson, was the perpetrator. She was out for ford, JFCS’ Child Safety over something other than revenge because the mall Director. “It allowed all of us the cases we are faced with owner threatened to cancel to get to know each other on on a daily basis.” the Teen Beauty Pageant. a new and different level. We A great time was had “It was an amazing team all experience so much stress by all! building opportunity for our in our jobs, and this event crew,” said Lindsey Hackwas a great way to bond 17

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JFCS CONGRATULATES ADOPTION SUPERVISOR, REBECCA MARGULIES, ON NATIONAL ADOPTION AWARD home with her family. After thata brief hiatus, Rebecca returned to the organization as Adoptions Coordinator, but was quickly promoted to Adoptions Supervisor where she has excelled.

Last year the JFCS team finalized a total of 125 adoptions! Originally recommended by Judge David Gooding, Rebecca’s nomination was confirmed by Congressman John Rutherford with whom she met recently to discuss her work with JFCS. The Congressman said it was his honor to represent constituents like Mrs. Margulies “who continue to make meaningful differences in the lives of many.” Rebecca Margulies and her family

By Donna O'Steen Jewish Family & Community Services

and honors individuals who have made an extraordinary impact in adoptions, permanency and the welfare of Jewish Family & Commu- children in the foster care nity Services would like to system. congratulate Adoption Supervisor, Rebecca MarguRebecca has been with lies, who has been named a JFCS for 15 years. She 2020 Angel in Adoption. started her career as a case The Angels in Adoption manager and then moved Award is presented each year into the role of senior case by the Congressional Coali- manager for teens in foster tion on Adoption Institute care. After three years,

Rebecca moved to the adoptions unit, where she took on the role of Adoptions Coordinator.

Rebecca is passionate about her work in adoptions and was first recognized by Adopt Us Kids in 2010. She received the Outstanding Caseworker Award for adoptions. In 2013, she and her husband had a daughter and Rebecca left JFCS to be

“There is no one more deserving of this award than Rebecca. JFCS is lucky to have her!” said JFCS Executive Director, Colleen Rodriguez. “Her leadership in the area of adoption has been a blessing and we are proud that she is one of our own. We celebrate Rebecca for receiving this much-deserved award.”

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JOIN YPF AND JFCS TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE FOR CHILDREN IN NEED By Faye Hedrick, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida

The United States is facing the most severe food insecurity crisis since the Great Depression. Food insecurity--defined as a lack of consistent access to enough food for an active, healthy life--has increased by 70% since the start of the pandemic. (Feeding America) Our Young Professionals & Families (YPF) division of the Jewish Federation & Foundation together with Jewish Family & Community Services (JFCS) are fighting hunger and poverty for a local elementary school in our community. In less than two weeks, YPF, through its Food & Clothing Insecurity Campaign, has already made a huge impact. 38 pieces of outerwear (jackets, coats, fleeces, sweaters, and sweatshirts) have been donated, 17 pairs of pajamas, countless bags of groceries, and $1,736 have been raised for direct food relief. We are now encouraging the community to join us! Help YPF and JFCS by donating in one of the following ways:

1. Shop for groceries and drop them off at JFCS, 8540 Baycenter Rd., Jacksonville, FL 32256. Place items in a bag labeled “GWCES" so they go directly to the school (George Washington Carver Elementary School) or we can arrange pick-up from your home or work if needed. Most requested items include: * Cereal * Granola bars or cereal bars * Pasta and tomato sauce * Canned soup * Peanut butter and jelly

2. Make a donation to our local Federation and email Faye Hedrick, fayeh@jewishjacksonville.org to let us know you’re helping assist in this critical need. One hundred percent of your gift will go directly to the school’s food pantry supply list.

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4. Purchase new or gently used clothing. With the winter months approaching, there is a desperate need for items such as jackets, warm pajamas, and solid-colored sweatshirts in elementary school sizes (5T-14/16 for both boys and girls).

Guidance counselor Anthony Winters asserts, "The fact that we can have a partnership that is able to satisfy one of the most basic human needs for our kids is life-changing." When asked how things were going at the school, Winters expressed that he has a hard time finding the words to show how thankful and amazing it is how we have come together in this way, and he is overwhelmed with gratitude.

The food pantry and clothing closet at George Washington Carver Elementary School has been able to get up and 3. Consider purchasing an item or items off of the Amazon running because of a small group’s support over the past wish list. This will take some of the guesswork out of several weeks. Imagine what we can do when our whole purchasing clothing and various other requested items. community comes together.

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JFCS BOARD SPOTLIGHT: JAMES LAWSON closed its doors and departed James replied, “I am happy from Florida. to be on the board of JFCS. It is a wonderful organizaAfter his American tion that does so much good James Lawson is a Florida General tenure, James went for the Jacksonville commuback into public accounting, nity.” native who has lived in Jacksonville since 1967. He opening a practice with his graduated from Jacksonville wife, Joanne (also a CPA). In his spare time, James After many years and several enjoys ballroom dancing University in 1974 with a mergers with other account- with his wife Joanne, as well degree in accounting. ing firms, James retired. He as world travel. The two now devotes most of his In the business world, hope they can resume both time to being on the board James became a licensed when the COVID-19 panof two non-profits – Jewish CPA and worked in public demic ends. Family & Community accounting for six years Services and Congregation before moving into the James was an avid runner Ahavath Chesed – The private sector. He held for many years, participating various positions in auditing Temple. in many road races including and accounting with Gulf 28 River Runs, several When asked why he has United, and then American half-marathons and one full such a passion for JFCS, General, until the company marathon. Although no By Donna O'Steen, Jewish Family & Community Services

James Lawson

longer a runner, he does enjoy long bike rides several times a week and working out at the JCA. James and Joanne have two daughters; one who resides in New York and the other who lives in South Dakota.

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SHERRIE SAAG LEADS JCA JEWISH CULTURAL ARTS FESTIVAL FOR ANOTHER MILESTONE YEAR Special thanks to San Marco Books and More for partnering with the JCA as our festival book seller. On January This November marked an- 13, 2021 the festival continues with a virtual extension other successful JCA Jewish event, offered in partnership with River Garden, with Rabbi Laura Geller who will discuss her book Getting Good at Cultural Arts Festival, led Getting Older. Advance registration is required. For more for the fourth time by JCA Board Member Sherrie Saag. information or to support the JCA Jewish Cultural Arts Festival, visit jcajax.org/jcafest or contact Lior Spring at lior. During her time as chair, Sherrie transformed the se- spring@jcajax.org. ries into a high caliber array of programs that offer something for every age and stage of life. In addition to being financially self-sustaining, the festival is responsible for Sherrie Saag supporting a year of cultural arts at the JCA, thanks to the generosity of our many sponsors. Sherrie’s leadership began in 2017, and she was awarded the Howard Korman President’s Award by the JCA board at the end of that program year. The award recognizes a JCA bard member who embodies the qualities of innovation, vision and courage. Sherrie’s work to revitalize the festival, which offered both books and films to record crowds, has only grown with each year of her leadership. By JCA Jewish Cultural Arts

“Sherrie has been an awesome chairperson! She is highly motivated, creative and totally engaged. Her enthusiasm for the festival is contagious and the success of the event reflected the leadership she provided,” says Assistant Executive Director Nancy Green. The 2020 festival provided new challenges to this year’s committee, as the programming moved to a virtual platform. Still, the virtual format became an opportunity to further expanded offerings over a two-and-a-half-week event with a prestigious lineup of presenters. This year’s 15 events reached more than 1,500 participants, an increase of approximately 50% when compared to a typical, in-person festival attendance. The festival’s success is a result of Saag’s leadership of our dynamic and engaged festival committee of volunteers.

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WE CAN RECOVER recovered people is elusive because of the absence of a standard definition of coronavirus recovery and an inability to track recovery without a standard definition. We are grateful that many River Garden residents and Coves members who had been diagnosed with COVID-19 have resumed their lives.

By Mauri Mizrahi, River Garden Senior Services

there are a lot of unanswered questions about COVID-19 and we continue to remind staff & families to remain careful especially when planning seasonal or holiday activities with friends & family. The CDC remains the most reliable resource for COVID-19 information. https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/��-ncov/hcp/faq.html

when around people, washing our hands frequently, and maintaining a physical distance of six feet (6’) from others. We are hopeful for a vaccine to be approved soon, and look forward to greater health and wellbeing in 2021.

Based on current coronavirus data, a person who has Our best defense against been symptom free for 24 hours and was diagnosed 10 spreading COVID-19 and days prior, does not pose an protecting ourselves contininfectious risk to others. But, ues to be wearing masks

Millions of people have been infected with COVID-19 and have recovered. The exact number of

UNDERSTANDING THE ARK By Torah Academy of Jacksonville

Parshat Noach really came to life here at Torah Academy. To help the students understand the enormous structural undertaking of the Ark, Rabbi Binyamin Levin, our 2nd and 5th grade Judaic studies teacher, assisted the students in stretching a string across the schoolyard to demonstrate the length of the ark. Because of space restrictions, we were able to create a length one-sixth the length of Noah’s ark. The total actual length was 300 cubits

Students stretch a string across the yard to get a sense of the ark's length.

(or approximately 600 ft., according to some sages). To demonstrate the height of the ark, we suspended a 60ft ribbon from helium balloons.

It was really amazing to see the dimensions of the ark and imagine all the animals boarding two by two.

Helium balloons demonstrate to students the height of Noah's ark.

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MITZVAH DAY IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER! By Rhoda Goldstein, Jacksonville Jewish Center

Our annual Jewish Community Mitzvah Day on December 25 is almost here and because of COVID-19 will be a bit different this year. We need the community’s help and involvement to make this day a success. Here’s how we will be helping: • We plan to cook between 500 and 600 meals on December 24 at Congregation Ahavath Chesed from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. • Packaging also will be on December 24 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. • Delivery is planned for December 25 with pick up beginning at 11 a.m. • We are collecting toothbrushes and toothpaste for our JFCS’s Foster Care program.

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Crafters and sewers, this project is for you! We will be making and donating new cotton pillowcases for children in local hospitals. You can embellish ready-made cases or create new ones. Information at https://caseforsmiles.org/ get-involved/ • We can help Jacksonville by cleaning up trash at city parks. The park facilities will be available for our use during the day. This will be a great time to spend outdoors with friends and family. We will have six to eight adults and unlimited teens and children at each location. We will visit

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ETZ CHAIM SYNAGOGUE'S NEW YOUTH PROGRAM By Gitty Cohen, Etz Chaim Synagogue

Teens study Jewish Philosophy with Rabbi Mendel Sharfstein of Chabad of St. Johns at Cteen U

By Devorah Hamford Chabad of St. Johns County

Chabad of St. Johns is offering a course on Jewish Philosophy for high school students in grades 10-12 in Northeast Florida called CTeen U, a joint initiative of Yeshiva University and the Chabad Teen Network (CTeen).

Students taking the course will earn 2 Elective Private College Credits. But more importantly, they will study the basic tenets of Jewish thought, covering such ideas as, how do we ascertain that the Torah is true? Should I marry for

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Children get a chance to win great prizes. In this program Children Etz Chaim Synagogue have the opportunity to stay connected to the Synagogue recently introduced a new and exciting youth program. and their friends in a safe Children meet virtually way. every Sunday morning for To join the program or an interactive, fun trivia for more information please game related to the weekly email: gitty.etzchaim@gmail. torah portion. Each week com

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SHAKSHUKA By Claire Soria

Claire Soria

When Germany invaded Belgium in 1940, Claire Soria was a small child who lived next door to a Christian couple. To keep her safe from harm, Claire was taken into the neighbor's care to keep her hidden during the war. The couple agreed and Claire remained in their care until World War II was over in 1945.

Unfortunately, both of Claire’s parents lost their lives after being deported to Auschwitz. Other family members were killed as well during the Holocaust. Claire moved to the United States at age 13 to live with family and she has been a resident of Palm Coast ever since.

Although Claire recalls the aroma of the delicious preserves her mother cooked when she was young, she unfortunately has been unable to duplicate these delicious recipes. It was not until she got married and got to know her motherin-law who moved to the United States from Tunisia that Claire learned how to prepare traditional dishes.

"The recipe I want to share with you is called Shakshuka. This Middle Eastern dish feeds two people, but can be doubled. The leftovers keep well in the refrigerator. Pair it with bread. This dish is my family's favorite," said Claire.

INGREDIENTS For the sauce: 2 to 3 Tbsp Vegetable Oil 1 Small Onion (chopped) 1/2 Medium Red Bell Pepper, diced 3 Ripe Medium Tomatoes, diced 1 - 6 oz can of tomato paste (optional, but adds color and richer taste) Salt and pepper 1/2 Tsp Cumin 1/4 Tsp Turmeric Parsley (this is optional and can be placed on the Shakshuka as garnish once cooked) 2 Large Eggs – poached on surface when 24 shakshuka is done

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1. Heat oil in a medium skillet over medium heat. 2. Add onions and sauté’ until golden brown. 3. Add red pepper to mixture and sauté for an additional two minutes. 4. Add tomatoes, salt, and spices, sautéing for a few more minutes before adding a small can of tomato paste. 5. Cover and simmer over low heat for approximately 20 minutes. 6. Remove lid and crack two large eggs on top. Cover until eggs are poached. Enjoy!

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(Fried Sweet Cheese Pancakes) from Leah Koenig’s The Little Book of Jewish Desserts INSTRUCTIONS

1. Make the syrup: Combine the water and sugar in a small saucepan and set over medium-high heat. Bring to a boil, stirring often to dissolve the sugar, then turn the heat to medium and cook until the syrup thickens, about 10 minutes. Remove from the heat and stir in the rose water and lemon juice. Let cool completely. (Syrup can be covered and stored in the fridge for up to 2 weeks.) Photo by: © Linda Pugliese 2. Make the pancake batter: Whisk together the flour, baking powder, yeast, sugar, and salt in a large bowl. In a small Try something new for your festive Hanukkah meal! Atayef bowl, whisk together the egg and 1 ¾ cups of the milk until fully (Fried Sweet Cheese Pancakes) from Leah Koenig’s The Little Book of Jewish Desserts. Leah is the featured guest speaker at the combined. Pour the milk mixture into the flour mixture, and whisk until fully combined and free of lumps. The batter should Women’s Philanthropy Champagne Brunch on January 10, 2021. be just slightly thicker than heavy cream. If necessary, add up ¼ You can register at https://events.idonate.com/cb�� Syrian, Egyptian, and Lebanese Jewish communities are partial cup of milk, 1 tbsp at a time, until the desired consistency is reached. Cover the bowl and let rest for 1 hour. to these dainty pancakes, which get filled with either mild cheese 3. Meanwhile, make the filling: Stir together the ricotta, or chopped nuts, fried until crisp, and then drenched with fragrant syrup. They are relatively labor-intensive and taste best eaten fresh mozzarella, sugar, and vanilla in a medium bowl until fully from the frying pan. Don’t let this recipe overwhelm you! Check combined. Cover the bowl and refrigerate until needed. 4. Cook the pancakes: Heat a large sauté pan over medium out the Jewish Federation's & Foundation’s Facebook page for a heat and lay a large kitchen towel on a flat surface. Once hot, demo of this recipe by the event co-chairs, Shylie Bannon and turn the heat to medium-low and brush the pan with a little Erica Jolles. vegetable oil. Working in batches of 3 or 4, pour 2 tbsp of the batter at a time into the pan, making small circles. Cook, undisMakes about 30 small pancakes turbed, until bubbles form on the top and the surface is just short of completely dry, 1 to 1 ½ minutes. Do not flip. Immediately INGREDIENTS transfer the pancakes to the towel and fold the towel over to Syrup lightly cover the pancakes (to keep them from drying out). Cook 1 cup water the remaining batter. If the bottoms are getting too dark before 1 1/2 cups sugar the top sets, nudge the heat down a little. 1 tbsp rose water or orange blossom water 1 tsp fresh lemon juice 5. To assemble the atayef: Hold one of the pancakes, cooked-side down, in your hand and scoop a rounded tablespoon Pancakes of the cheese filling into the center. Fold one side over to the 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour other to make a half-moon, pressing the edges tightly to seal. 1 tsp baking powder Continue with the remaining pancakes and filling. 1 tsp active dry yeast 1 tbsp sugar 6. Line a large plate with paper towels. Add oil to the large 1/2 tsp kosher salt sauté pan until it’s about ¼ in deep and set the pan over medium 1 large egg, lightly beaten heat. Place the filled pancakes in the pan and fry, turning once, 1 3/4 to 2 cups milk until golden and crisp on both sides, 1 to 2 minutes total. (It is Vegetable oil for greasing the bowl and frying okay if they open up a bit during the frying process.) Transfer to the prepared plate to drain. Drizzle with the syrup and serve Filling immediately. 2 cups full-fat ricotta 4 oz fresh mozzarella, grated on the large holes of a box grater 2 tbsp sugar 1/2 tsp vanilla extract 25

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HANUKKAH IN ISRAEL By Helen Hill & Yvonne Cohen Hadassah Jacksonville

We sat down with Jax Shaliach, Stav Brener, a few weeks ago to discuss – what else? Israel!

In preparing for an upcoming program with Stav, we first asked him to describe what it’s like in Israel during Hanukkah and we compared some of the differences between the holiday in Israel and the holiday in the USA. The first sign that Hanukkah is coming, he told us, is that you start seeing sufganiyot everywhere. The production and sale of these sweet, fried yeast-dough delicacies can start as early as September, certainly right after Sukkot. Sufganiyot stands start popping up in the malls and on the streets. They are in bakeries, grocery stores, convenience stores -- you can literally buy them anywhere. Not only can you get plain, powdered sugar or jelly-filled sufganiyot – today, Israeli bakeries make more expensive, specialty versions as well, stuffed with a variety of creams, dulce de leche, cappuccino, and truffle to name a few. Some are topped with various extravagant toppings, from coconut shavings and tiny vials of liquor to meringue and fruit pastes. Other holiday preparations start in the schools. Children begin to make their own chanukiyot (note: these 9-branch candelabras are not called menorahs in Israel, as that is the word describing the 7-branch candelabra associated with the Temple). After they make their chanukiyot, they bring them home and most families gather around every night to light the candles. This is an intimate family holiday; however, families often gather on one of the nights of Hanukkah with their entire extended family. There may be business, or work related, get-togethers during the holiday as well. These celebratory gatherings are warm and happy and always include singing and lots of food.

Stav Brener talks with Hadassah about Hanukkah - and a lot more

Unlike here in the States, gift giving is not part of the holiday. Grandparents may give money to the kids – but presents are not part of the celebration. Interestingly, because it is not a religious holiday per se, some secular families discontinue the home celebration after their children have grown. “That doesn’t mean they discontinue eating sufganiyot”, he added.

Of course, our discussion went to COVID and how the pandemic is going to impact Hanukkah this year. It was then we decided to open up the conversation with the community.

Hadassah is joining with the Jewish Federation & Foundation and the JCA to take an in-depth look at whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s happening in Israel hospitals, in politics and even in educational institutions. How has Israel been coping with the pandemic, what types of changes and accommodations have Israelis had to make, and how are Israelis dealing with these changes? We hope you will join us on December 8, at 12:00 Noon when we will have a virtual conversation with Stav on the topic, "How is Israel dealing with COVID?" Bring your lunch, bring your questions, and join us as we learn together. RSVP to Stav at jaxshlichut@jewishjacksonville.org.

MEMBERS OF THE COVES AT RIVER GARDEN SHARE FAVORITE HANUKKAH MEMORIES My childhood recollection of Hanukkah is that it was treated as a more serious holiday, with prayers over a menorah containing bright orange candles, some practical gifts for me [the only child] and a little gelt. Emphasizing the Hanukkah story with my children and then grandchildren gave meaning to the holiday. Shopping for each other and presenting the eight days of gifts for the little ones was fun. Family dinner and the Hanukkah play at Solomon Schechter school made for a celebratory week enjoyed by everyone. - Rhoda Kagan

Armed with two electric fry pans and a large quantity of Latke mix, we made our way to Congregation B'Nai Israel. We were very enthusiastic and began the chore of providing the main source of our celebration: Latkes. At one point a personâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s head appeared at the kitchen door: It was a congregant with a complaint. Guess what? Apparently we were taking too much time and not producing the latkes fast enough! Would you believe?! - June Meinstein

I expect my memory of Hanukkah is a little different. As a Catholic, I attended a Brooklyn NY school where at least 90% of the students and teachers were Jewish. City Our closest friends and neighbors were schools could not shut down, so those of us Christians and we kids did all of the holithat showed up were regrouped into rooms days together. It was a wonderful way of by grade, with whatever teachers were sharing and learning about our customs. available. Of course, that was a blast! In the afternoon we all - Rose Lynn Plotkin gathered in the auditorium for a movie or something "educational." Sometimes we went home early. Then, when It is December in the Catskills Mountains all schools shut down for Christmas, we all got a break of New York and winter is in full swing. We again, including my Jewish friends. - John Donnangelo decided to have a Chanukah party at our little synagogue in the village of Fleischmanns. My husband and I volunteered to make Latkes for all who came.

My favorite memory of Hanukkah What’s my favorite Hanukkah memory? involves my grandfather who was the Nothing elaborate, in fact, looking back neighborhood Rabbi. My fondest memory is quite paltry: One single chrome Menorah, going to his home. Back in those days we six children standing around, each one had oil burning lamps, and I was always lighting their own candle and Daddy’s warm present at my grandfather's house where we and protective hand cradling each of the use such lamps. That was a long time ago. children’s, guiding them to their light. Today those are my warm memories. - Sylvia Lubliner Each year, a brand new box of Crayola crayons - 8 colorful ones, as we crack open the box, the scent wafts through the air, sitting on the steps, we begin to color in We always got eight gifts -- one each our crisp new Hanukkah coloring book. - Cheryl Fisch night. The gifts always started small, and my parents made it a crescendo. Each night the gift got better than the night At the time there was a program on TV before. I was a teenager and wanted a dedicated to children called Ding Dong record player badly. Anyway, that year I School with Miss Frances. During one got my record player on the last night. Hanukkah, the first grade class at Solomon After I was married and mother myself, we did the same Schechter was invited to participate in the thing with our boys. When the older one was three, his program explaining about Hanukkah. All father walked in with a sled. (We lived in Pennsylvania at went well until my daughter Susan decided to say somethe time.) Ira, my husband, was so excited to see our son thing which was, “Christmas is my favorite holiday!” Larry's reaction. Larry looked at the sled and said, “What's - Louise Leve that?” - Evelyn Peck

THE MIRACLE OF COMMUNITY DURING THE MIRACLE OF LIGHTS brainstorm about a mitzvah project to spread a little happiness to Coves residents. That was all I had to say.

By Faye Hedrick, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida

When it comes to a village, this community continues to be just that. I recently experienced the kindest series of events that can only be described as bashert, destiny, or all the planets aligning. Whatever you call it, without some sort of divine intervention, there is simply no other way to describe what unfolded to make for the sweetest Hanukkah Happy bags for our community members at the River Garden Coves and for some of our local Holocaust survivors. I was standing in for one of the Coves volunteer shoppers and met some of our volunteer shopping regulars. Since March, these volunteers have grocery shopped on a weekly basis for the Coves residents. One of these kind volunteers is Marcia Grado. Marcia made my day! She asked me if there were any other volunteer efforts she could help our Federation with during this inconvenient time in everyone’s life. I mentioned that our Young Professionals & Families (YPF) members were beginning to

Marcia first thanked me for being a part of the Federation and knowing Isabel Balotin who helped welcome her to our community at least ten years ago. She then offered to hand-make

Marcia Grado

George Washington Carver Elementary School. She also gave a similar reply as Marcia, “Let me know if there is anything else our students can help you with.”

I happened to be typing up an enclosure card to include in these Hanukkah Happy bags and the old teacher in me was thinking, this would be a great activity for students to practice their letter writing skills and it would be nicer to receive a handwritten holiday message than my cookiecutter greeting. So I asked Edith if her students would be willing to handwrite them. Without thinking twice she replied that they’d love to.

The sweetness continbeautiful crocheted pouches ues….Later that afternoon, that can be used as a pill Gabrielle and Yohay Levi, container, dreidel holder, or along with their precious whatever the heart desires. daughter Aliza, were stopShe showed me a sample and ping by the Federation office. I immediately took her up Gaby and I were introduced on her offer. She was ready and she said, “Let me know to begin the project and also if there’s anything I can knew some other women help with.” I mentioned the project we were working on who’d be happy to help. and that we’d like to include After shopping, I spoke a small hand sanitizer, gelt, and a dreidel in each bag, with Martin J. Gottlieb and I was having trouble Day School and DuBow finding small bottles of Preschool’s Director of Jewish Life, Edith Horovitz. sanitizer. She called me later Edith mentioned that the to let me know that she and school had already collected her husband found several bottles and she scooped enough food to fulfill the commitments they made for them up for us already. What Thanksgiving. They would a mensch! like to send their additional goods to the current And later that day, I mentioned our project to my food drive YPF is doing in mom and she said she had collaboration with JFCS for

about 50 little dreidels extra from last year when she spoke to my daughter Milly’s class, and she was happy to give them to us.

Shortly after that, I called the Jacksonville Jewish Center to see about getting the gelt at a discounted rate because maybe, just maybe, there was a chance there were extra this year because not as many people were shopping. I spoke to Tracy Hilbert, Director of Membership and Federation’s BRIDGES Leadership Development Initiative Participant, who promptly replied, “Wait, this is for River Garden and Survivors and it’s called a ‘Hanukkah Happy’ bag? I’ll call you right back.” She called me back quickly to tell me that the Jacksonville Jewish Center Sisterhood would like to donate the gelt. As I went to make a list of what we still needed, I realized because of the generosity of our community, we didn't need one thing more. We had everything to bring a lot of joy. I called to let Marcia know and she replied, “It was our pleasure to give back to our Jewish community during this bizarre and special Hanukkah.”

Like Marcia, I too am proud to be a small part of this. From my family to yours, I wish you all a Happy Hanukkah, the miracle of lights, and the miracle of community this season.

JEWISH FEDERATION & FOUNDATION BOARD MEMBER FOCUS: DAVID S. LOEB, MD By Kellie Smith, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida

Dr. David Loeb

Driven to service by his grandfather’s influence, Dr. David Loeb joined the Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida’s (JFF) board in July of this year while simultaneously being named president of the Jewish Family and Community Services (JFCS) board. He continues a family legacy. His father was on the board of JFCS in New Orleans, and his grandfather stressed the importance of Jewish philanthropy and involvement.

Growing up the eldest son with two sisters in New Orleans, he felt family pressure to attend Tulane but was compelled to move away from home. He attended Brown University in Providence where he graduated magna cum laude. Even though with these high honors, his mother questioned whether he would be accepted to medical school and thought becoming an accountant would be a better fit for him, he attended medical school at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical School in Dallas. Ultimately, he ended up working at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. In the early years of Mayo Clinic Florida, Dr. Loeb relocated to Jacksonville in 1991 to begin building a practice. “We felt like pioneers in a new place, and it was hard work, but we had a cohesive team and strong leadership. I am so proud of how Mayo Clinic has grown into a trusted resource for the entire region and beyond.”

It was clear his grandfather was an influential part of his life, having deeply ingrained values of integrity and giving to others and who set an example by serving his community in New Orleans. His grandfather, a lifelong member of an Orthodox shul who had escaped the Ukraine and emigrated to the U.S. in the early 1900s continues to motivate and inspire Dr. Loeb. He recalls his grandfather always putting money in the tzedakah box and wanting to do for others. As a result, Dr. Loeb and his family have been heavily involved in the community. He is an engaged volunteer and donor who has given 20 years of service to the Jacksonville Zoo and

the world. As we see more divisiveness and animosity from so many world and health events, people tend to look for people to blame. I believe this has helped fuel the rise in anti-Semitism, and remember my grandfather telling me that if Jews don't help Jews, no one else will. It is my turn, and I feel very committed,” he said.

‘If we as Jews don’t support Jewish agencies, no one will.’

Gardens, including serving as board chairman. Other During our interview, board contributions include Dr. Loeb shared that he is vice-chair of The Bolles honored to represent JFCS When Dr. Loeb was School, Brown University on the JFF board and is asked what connected him Sports Foundation, and a committed to bringing with the mission of JFCS, he founding member of the Jewish philanthropy closer said it was “the tangible way Beaches Community Fund of together with the primary that the agency helps all peo- The Community Foundation goal of preserving Jewish life ple, regardless of religion where he served on the in Northeast Florida, and and solely based on need.” Coordinating and the Grants continuing the Jewish He went on to say, “there is Committee. tradition of helping others. this voice inside my head He believes it is a critical and it’s my grandfather, “I felt very fulfilled in time for the Jewish commu- telling me ‘if we as Jews this secular world. But I nity to build endowment don’t support Jewish agenbecame concerned about funds and secure our future. cies, no one will.’” what was happening around

Sons Philip and Robert Loeb at the Western Wall in Jerusalem. A moment Dr. Loeb will always cherish.

The only thing Dr. Loeb puts before his commitment to service and community is his family. He’s married to Katharine and they have two sons, Philip (24) and Robert (22). The family’s favorite Jewish tradition is during Hanukkah where they light the Chanukiah and recite blessings before exchanging gifts. His family traveled to Israel recently and spent two weeks with a guide seeing both Jewish and Christian

sites. Yet the most memorable moment for him was seeing his sons at the Western Wall. Devoted to the mission and the Jewish tradition of helping people help them-

selves, Dr. Loeb is a committed leader and is looking forward to getting more involved in securing our Jewish future in Northeast Florida.

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Jewish Connector Isabel Balotin Retires after 14 Years with Jewish Federation & Foundation By Mitzi Saul, Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida

“I’d like to thank all the wonderful Shalom Jax volunteers who prepared welcome baskets, visited newcomers, served on committees, local businesses that supported our programs and donated gift cards, the synagogues that shared new names with us, the Jewish schools which encouraged their teachers to participate in our holiday programs, River Garden for hosting our Jewish Java programs, the wonderful and inspiring speakers who donated their time, and most of all, Alan Margolies and the Federation staﬀ for believing in and supporting this program.” She knows everyone. New to town and want to find a synagogue? A Jewish day school? Be a guest in someone’s home for Seder? Isabel Balotin is the one to call. As Federation’s Shalom Jacksonville director, Isabel or Izzy, as she’s lovingly called, has been welcoming Jewish newcomers to the area since May 2006. She founded our community’s first Jewish “Welcome Wagon” for individuals and families to connect people to others, businesses and resources. And at the end of this month, Izzy will be retiring from Federation.

She is an energetic juggernaut. Over the past 14 years, she’s held get-togethers in public places, coordinating details with local restaurants while attracting hundreds of newcomers. She also took them on field trips to Amelia Island, St. Augustine, the Beaches and other places in our area. Isabel’s signature program, Jewish Java, has held gatherings at Panera Bread, Let’s Nosh, Village Bread and River Garden. At Jewish Java, attendees learned from and were inspired by stimulating speakers: gurus and professional leaders in the Northeast Florida region. The region has been her playground and backdrop for memorable programs that created lasting friendships, meaningful Jewish experiences and an appreciation of the natural beauty of our area. And the pandemic didn’t stop her from planning. Her creative virtual programs have taken attendees to the 1950s Catskills, a tour of Africa, birdwatching, speaking Yiddush and learning from a visiting Rabbi about new rituals and prayers.

“I have always felt that each person has value and that each one brings a spark of light to the world.” - Isabel Balotin Izzy is a woman with boundless, creative energy and is passionate about her Jewishness. “I want people to love the Jewish people as I love them. The mitzvah of hachnasat orchim or welcoming the stranger is one of the most mentioned in our Torah. How we treat newcomers makes a big difference in how well they fit in our community. We all need to be welcoming.”

Her journey to Jacksonville in 1971 wasn’t without its challenges. She and her late husband, Allen, a pharmacist, packed up her three children in Ellenville, New York located in the Catskills and moved to Jacksonville. In 1973, they welcomed the birth of their fourth child, Gregory. “When we first moved here, living in the South was a culture shock for me and my family. The Southern accents were hard to understand. I couldn’t get any Kosher food. We didn’t know a soul!”

A neighbor suggested she contact the Jacksonville Jewish Center and Sylvia Shorstein, of blessed memory, came for a visit. Sylvia connected her with Jewish families and shared much about the Jewish community. Soon Izzy enrolled her children in Solomon Schechter Day School where she became an active volunteer. Participating in school activities, she and her family made lifelong friends.

Making connections along the way, Izzy’s volunteer work led to being elected to the Center’s board of directors as membership chairperson. She didn’t realize it at the time but she was honing her hospitality and programming skills. She worked in the Center’s office and eventually became assistant director, then later promoted to executive director. After working at the Center for more than a dozen years, in 1997 she was contacted by a friend from Congregation Ahaveth Chesed to become their executive director. “I was inspired by the acceptance of interfaith families, and their dedication and involvement in Temple life and the community.” In 2002, she left the position to spend more time with grandchildren and to pursue other interests. However, by 2005 she became restless, missed the connections she loved and realized her mission: to help grow the Jewish community. She also had a yearning to work with interfaith families to help them assimilate into the Jewish community. Izzy studied outreach programs in other communities and learned of the Jewish Outreach Institute in New York led by Rabbi Kerry Olitzky. Their methodology of “Public Space Judaism” inspired her to design a plan for her own Jewish community. After meeting with prominent Jewish leaders, and asking friends their opinions, it became obvious that Jacksonville needed a Jewish “Welcome Wagon.”

Once she secured donor support, she presented her plan and budget in 2006 to Alan Margolies, executive director of the Jewish Federation, and “Shalom Jacksonville” was born. The initial donor gift was given as a memorial to Michael

Sue & Mark Kornhauser moved to Jacksonville in �� and became involved with Shalom Jacksonville. Izzy says, "Everytime I greeted a new couple I thought they would like, I'd call Sue and she would immediately invite them to their home." Brenner, Temple past president who had recently died that year. According to Izzy, “Mike never knew a stranger and this was a fitting memorial to him.”

Newcomers, young professionals, or anyone interested in Jewish life have all been touched by Shalom Jacksonville. Long lasting friendships and marriages have taken place. And synagogue memberships have increased because of Izzy’s mitzvah to welcome and grow our Jewish community. Izzy humbly says, “Shalom Jacksonville has never been a job. It’s been a calling.” As she approaches a new chapter in her life, Izzy plans to stay involved. She wants to educate our community about Jewish culture and history, with a focus on antisemitism. She loves to read, write parodies, travel and dance. She’s learning how to play the ukulele and wants to write a book someday. More than anything, she wants to spend more time with her children and seven grandchildren.

In honor of Izzy’s retirement, please consider a donation to the Isabel J. Balotin Endowment Fund. The fund benefits Congregation Ahavath Chesed, the Martin J. Gottlieb Day School and Dreams Come True. Go to https://jewishjacksonville.org/annual-campaign/giving/make-a-payment to contribute. Indicate “Isabel Balotin Fund” in the message field. The Jewish Federation & Foundation Shalom Jacksonville program will continue to welcome Jewish newcomers to our community. Stay tuned for more programs! Please contact Faye Hedrick, fayeh@jewishjacksonville. org for more information.

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IMPRESSIONS OF SAN MARCO By Mitzi Saul Jewish Federation & Foundation of Northeast Florida

It’s been a wild, wonderful ride for the owners of Impressions in Downtown San Marco. Who knew that when Randee Steinberg walked into a charming stationery store in 1986, that she’d be owning the store and working side-by-side with her daughter, Shari Saye, for many happy years? “It was bashert that I stumbled upon Impressions, met the owner who 36

was willing to sell at the time, and later, when I was ready to sell the store, convinced Shari to partner with me,” Randee says. Shari, her husband and then 2-year old daughter moved from Atlanta back to Jacksonville in 2004. They have loved working together and customers loved the idea that a mother-daughter team were running the business, too.

Unfortunately, competitor internet sales and the pandemic—with no more large weddings, parties or showers—have aﬀected their business tremendously. After 35 successful years in business, Impressions will be closing their doors on December 31. Both women believe that everything has a life span, that it’s time to say good-bye and want to thank the Jewish community for years of continued support. “Because of our business, we’ve been fortunate to share in simchas with our Jewish

community. From weddings to Bar and Bat Mitzvahs, what a joy it’s been to help customers with their invitations and see their ideas come to life.” Impressions will be running storewide sales throughout the month of December. They’re located in the Shops on the Square in San Marco at 1957 San Marco Blvd., Jacksonville, 32207. Open Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday: 10:00 am - 4:00 pm.

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December Edition - Northeast Florida Jewish Life Magazine

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COMMUNITY RESOURCES

SEE AND BE SCENE

WORTH THE SCHLEP

THE COVES SHARE HANUKKAH

MEMORIES THE MIRACLE OF COMMUNITY

HANUKKAH IN ISRAEL

BEQUESTIONS WITH KELLIE SMITH

MAKE A DIFFERENCE

ISABEL BALOTIN RETIRES

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L’DOR V’DOR