SGL Weekly Contents
Editors Letter on Page 3
Ask Nathan: Abuse on Page 4
Willing to Receive Oral Sex But Not to Give It On Page 5
Wendy is On Fire on Page 6
Editor’s Letter
Thank you so much for all of the love and support that everyone has showed the magazine within the last week. We have been inundated with well wishes from readers old and new from around the world. Continue to spread the word about us to all of your family and friends. If you would like to contribute the magazine please send all inquires to sglweeklymag@gmail.com and also join us on www.sglliving.ning.com. In this issue we talk about abuse with our life coach Nathan 7 Scott. We also talk about being selfish in the bedroom. We have the queen of radio and now television Wendy Williams talking about life and her new daytime Talkshow. Enjoy! Cleavester Brooks Editor In Chief sglweeklymag@gmail.com
Ask Nathan
I have a 21 year old daughter who has a girlfriend that beats her. The girlfriend’s parents, knows this and they have told me to get my daughter away from her. But I don't know how to address this situation. Dear Confused Have you considered having a conversation with both women together and confronting the situation dead on. Bring all parties together in one room and include a mediator. Find a professional that deals with domestic violence. Take action for what you believe in before someone gets seriously injured.
Willing to Receive Oral Sex But Not to Give It Dear Zane, I am only fifteen years old and while I realize that I am a little too young to be reading your books, they are so interesting to me. I do not do the things that are said in your books but they do open my mind to new things that I would like to experience when I get older. Not only that, but your books do teach a valuable lesson. Well, the ones that I read so far. I am writing to you because I am young and confused. Today’s generation is growing up so fast and they want to try all of these things because they are influenced by their surroundings. I am one of these people. Recently, I lost my virginity to a boy that I had known for some time. I realize that is young, and everybody says this, it just happened. I am not in love with him; I know the difference between love and lust, so you could say I am in lust with him. I told him that I would not have sex with anyone else until I am eighteen. The problem is that he wants me to perform oral sex on him. I have had my vagina eaten before and it was good. I would like him to do it to me, but he has refused unless I do it also. I understand that and I do not like refusing his wishes but that’s something that I will definitely not engage in until I get married. Yet, he constantly asks me every time that we have sex. I miss having my pussy eaten and I went to a person’s house. He did it but also wanted to have sex with me. I was not having that. I am so confused. I am not addicted to sex and I do not like doing it behind my mother’s back, but I do like it a lot. The boy is kind of older than me. I think that all of this is going to blow up in my face soon. I have a gut feeling and I am not sure what it is; it is just bad. So what do you think I should do? Cut sex off until I am old enough to take responsibility and all the extra stuff that comes with it? Or stay with my one person that I have sex with and find someone else to do what I miss? Also, can a person that has so many sexual fantasies stay away from sex for so long? Signed, Young and Confused Dear Young and Confused, Always follow your gut. It never lies. Be thankful that you have not ended up pregnant and count your blessings. You are not prepared to become sexually active. You are curious and that is normal but like you said, there is much responsibility involved. First of all, having oral sex can give you HIV. I seriously doubt that young man used a dental damn when he ate your pussy. Apparently there have been at least two who have gone down on you. The man you are with, who is older, is not going to settle for not having blow jobs. He has made that clear. Nor is he going to please you orally, which is fair. The person who is eating you out is not going to go without sex for long, either. You are playing with fire. Do not put yourself in the position to be raped. That might be the bad thing that you sense. Men—especially younger men—do not like women to play games with them sexually. Your best bet is to concentrate on your education and hold off on sex, until you realize what you truly want. As for the fantasies question, many people start fantasizing about sex years before they engage in it—myself included. You do not have to act upon those feelings just for the sake of doing something with random men. Blessings, Zane
Wendy is On Fire An SGL Weekly Interview We have listen to the lady with the blonde wigs for 20+ years on radio and now our girl Wendy Williams is coming to daytime 5 days a week with the best in daytime talk and she sho can dish it with the best of them. If her 6 week preview last summer didn't prove anything I don't know what did. She had the best of the best on Vivica Fox, Nas, James Denton, Lisa Limpnellie, Aubrey O’Day, Sunny Anderson and so much more. Having conquered the radio and publishing worlds, what made you decide to take on television as well? It was a natural progression for me. I'd done some TV appearances before and gotten bitten by the TV bug. I'd been asked to guest host or appear on other shows in the past, but I really wanted something where I could just be Wendy. When Debmar-Mercury called ... and we started talking, it seemed like everything fell into place really quickly -- this was just the right time and the right opportunity. Who is your personal role model? My mom. My mother is a little fireball of energy and great health. She's in her 70's and struts around in Tory Burch, looking fantastic. Her nails are always done up and she knows just the right Hallmark card to send for just the right occasion. Her laughter is infectious; her cooking is amazing and the way she takes care of everybody around her and always makes time to have a perfect manicure -- she's just phenomenal! You've been extremely open about your personal life and shared some very intimate things about yourself on television. Why do you make it a point to be open and comfortable with your audience? My thing is dialogue -- let's talk about it. I've had a series of miscarriages, and I only talked about it on the radio, because I was forced to one day. Then I found out about all these women who've had miscarriages. I was the one to expose that my husband cheated on me in my 2001 autobiography. I exposed it. It was the first time I'd ever been cheated on in my life, and I was devastated! You know, he's in the book talking about it. It is what it is -- it happened. You need to keep yourself together for you and the next man. We worked it out and we're still together today. I know that I'm not alone in my experiences, so it's nice to share with the audience and connect with them. Also, I'm beyond the point of being embarrassed by things that might have embarrassed me horribly when I was younger; younger meaning, 10 years ago, 20 years ago -- I'm beyond that. You're very candid -- is that something that comes naturally to you or is it something you've learned to be over the years? T.M.T.F.T.L. -- that's the code in my family for "too much, too fast, too loud." I was [always] the one saying something inappropriate. I was always talking too loud, and talking too much, and too fast and I was always this candid. My original family -- my mom, my dad, my brother, and sister -- they know I was born to do this. And you know what else they know? They know that any one of the five of us could have done the same thing. What is your best advice for women who are juggling their roles as professionals and mothers? Make sure that your boyfriend/husband/significant other are on the same page as you, understanding what it takes to make your life right, because if they don't understand it's not gonna work. Also, stop lying to one another. Stop trying to be perfect and lying to your friends, acting like it's perfect, because it really scares them. It's not perfect. Women try to lie and say their husbands are the best and their children are the best and they are able to manage career and work. No they aren't! If you could set the record straight on one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I'm not as judgmental as people think. I'm going to, of course, lower my lids or twist my mouth if I feel as though something is ridiculous, but I'll hear you out -- variety is the spice of life. There are all kinds of people in this world. If you could have anyone as your first guest on July 13th who would it be? Oh, I don't want to sound clichè and say Michelle Obama, because I feel as though she'd be a great conversationalist but I don't think that she's a giggler. But the best guests aren't always the A-listers, but people who are great storytellers and have something interesting to say. Sometimes those people are the celebrities, but it can also be a make up artist, bartender or limo driver. Limo drivers have ALL the good stories. Make sure you check your local listings for the Wendy Williams Show. Interview Courtesy of Wendyshow.com
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