Mompreneur Red Carpet Edition Credits
LaDawn Black David Oliver Judi Emm Trisha Goodman Stacey Virgo Di-Anne Di Re Monica Stowe Catherine Woyee Jones BET Honors PR Guru, Anthony Dew The Word According to Shelia
Mompreneur Tribute Mothers are resilient people. Oftentimes, we don’t fully fathom the countless sacrifices that our parents made, until we ourselves become one, or serve as a surrogate parent to a child. Now that my mother is no longer physically with me, reflecting upon our time together has sharpened my perception of what it means to be a “Mompreneur.” My mother was big on picture taking, keeping up with dear friends, respecting arts education, and had an entrepreneurial spirit. When I was a child, I didn’t realize that when we drove up to a piano student’s home, or when someone sat down on my mother’s piano bench to take a lesson, the side money that she kept hidden in a small metal safe made her a business woman—a mompreneur. She didn’t get rich teaching people how to play the piano, but she did offer a rich experience. Recitals marked someone’s achievement. There was always a slice of cake or a cup of punch shared amongst friends and students, after it ended. Another highlight was watching her play a complicated classical piece by memory. Chopin’s Fantaisie Impromptu has always been my favorite. The one thing that I now realize is that mom had a circle of talented entrepreneurs that she networked with. I find myself doing the same thing. I now understand that achieving success is a community effort. Sure, not everyone will support our ventures. However, if we are dedicated, resilient, and persistent, someone will help us to walk our journey. I appreciate being afforded an opportunity to honor a group of women who manage to do what many of our mothers and ancestors did. They push to accomplish their goals, even if the ride gets bumpy. Plus, they do it while simultaneously nurturing those who depend on them at home. That’s why I would like to recognize them by sharing some of the great things that they do. While fine-tuning the contents of this issue, an opportunity to cover the BET Honors came my way. I felt incredibly blessed to capture exclusive content with fellow entrepreneurs and freelancers. I was particularly interested in finding out things that I didn’t know about highly successful people, so that I could share what I learned with you. So, this issue will serve as an opportunity to feel inspired, but it’s also inclusive of a bit of red carpet flavor! David Oliver is an actor who always reminds me of the importance of studying and knowing a prospective craft. He shared valuable insight from another perspective for readers who want to know what show business can really be like. Last but not least, LaDawn Black, Baltimore’s favorite radio personality, offers wisdom about her walk as a mompreneur. Our usual contributors will add literary and business ambiance. Without further adieu, now that the inauguration buzz has somewhat quieted, let’s begin this monthly journey to a new place on Grove Street. Best regards,
Andrea, Mompreneur and Editor-In-Chief Grove Street
LaDawn Black
Radio and TV personality/Author/Relationship Expert
LaDawn Black’s Baltimore based nighttime radio show can be heard on 92Q five nights a week. If you’ve ever had the pleasure of hearing it, it’s easy to understand why she was named Best Radio Personality by the Baltimore City Paper. The industrious native from Washington, DC wears a multitude of hats. Ms. Black is also a TV personality, author, and relationship expert. Her talent is both diverse and extraordinary. LaDawn’s upbeat, pleasant personality further adds to her appeal. For those who have not read LaDawn’s fiction title, Tease, a collection of steamy short stories, happens to be her favorite. “It has elements of what I love in a great book: diversity, humor, a great city, sexy, and characters that you feel you know personally,” Ms. Black explained. Other accolades to her credit include hosting the number One relationship show in the Baltimore/ DC market, working as an online coach for top media outlets, and AOL Black Voices naming her book, Stripped Bare as one of the top 10 best nonfiction books. I pondered how a wife and
mother of three could simultaneously balance work and family responsibilities. By the way, Ms. Black is the mother to new twins. LaDawn still lives by basic principles that keep her centered. She said, “Honestly, I have the same issues as any working mom: very little personal time, juggling responsibilities and generally feeling short on time. However, I have a huge gift of doing something that I love, and I have had opportunities and experiences that many would kill for. I wouldn't trade the "grounding" that being a mom brings to working in the entertainment industry. No matter how many important people you meet or cool things you get to do, there are still four people (including my husband) that still rely on me for the basics. My family keeps me balanced and thankful.” Ms. Black began her radio career through an opportunity to promote her self-published relationship guide. After sending her book to 92Q for an interview request, another opportunity blossomed from her proactive leap of faith. “I did the interview and the Program Director at the time liked what he heard and asked me to do the show once a week with the host. When that host moved on, he hired me. I am a marketing/ PR professional. Radio was totally new to me,” Ms. Black remarked. LaDawn’s success with Stripped Bare indicated that she was equipped to handle her new position in Charm City. Imagine selling twenty-five-thousand copies of a self-published book. That’s exactly what she did. Her marketing and PR skills enhanced her ability to get her project out in front of people, in addition to securing a position at a popular radio station. Additionally, the next opportunity entailed landing a traditional publishing deal. “Having a record of sales and a daily tool to talk to hundreds of thousands of listeners a day led to a mainstream publishing deal with Random House and loads of opportunities with national publications, radio shows, and television shows. It definitely placed me in the realm of "expert" and I haven't looked back.” Ms. Black’s opportunities have continued to sprout. Be sure to keep an eye out for LaDawn on television. Currently, she is a rotating expert for a brand new national talk show. “The Bill Cunningham Show is a brand new national talk show that is provocative and often hilarious. It tries to aid people in crisis. I am one of the rotating experts for the show. A producer saw a clip of me on another show and reached out, and I have had a wonderful run with them.” In the near future, the Baltimore resident will bring her expertise to fans through another new venture—a relationship series. Be sure to receive updates and information at www.ladawnblack.com. “I am launching a four part series to get people in better love shape in 2013. We get started in Baltimore on February 9th with "Needs vs. Wants." These seminars are for everyone: men/women/ single/attached/gay/ straight, etc. Forty-five minutes of information and fun to get you to take control of your love life.” In closing, I asked LaDawn, “What would you tell other women business owners?”
LaDawn replied with wise advice. She informed, “Never ever give up! There are no bad business ideas. Sometimes your timing is off or maybe you can't step out there as big as you initially thought, but you can truly do anything. The biggest thing for me has been to keep my dreams away from people who could not nourish them and to never ever be afraid to ask someone who has done what I have aspired to do—how did they do it? You'd be amazed how willing people are to share information and sources when they know you are about your business.”
David Oliver
Entertainer/Actor/Video Editor/DJ / Office Guy
“The top two tips for entertainers are: 1. Learn what it is specifically you want to do, and what it takes to be it. 2. Go out and research it again on how to make it into a real career.” David Oliver, a native Washingtonian, has been in the entertainment industry for five years. He’s more than qualified to render the advice described above. Although he’s a working actor, he still catches the bus to get to acting auditions. “Its nasty sometimes…smelly,” he remarked. In June of 2010, Mr. Oliver was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. Regardless of challenges that he must work through, he doesn’t give up on his passion. David Oliver is still confident and inspires other hopefuls. In addition to having several busy careers of his own, he assists individual artists and creative talents on an independent level. David Oliver is also an active participant of the Arts and Humanities Council. He remarked, “People need to get involved. This is free money. Millions of dollars go out every year through the arts.” David did stipulate that getting the right information before applying for a grant is critical. The entertainer and actor explained that his career began as the result of a hunch. Nevertheless, he follows his own advice and masters his passion. Mr. Oliver studies his craft with great intensity. David always obtains the “real facts and figures” to stay focused in an industry designed to give what he describes as “a whole bunch of rejection and obstacles, to prevent a person from doing what he or she wants to do.” Like many, David Oliver found his passion accidently. His pursuits began with music, dance and he evolved into a hype man. Eventually, his martial arts talents helped him to land an opportunity to showcase his talents. From there, his career took off.
When I asked about his recent projects, David explained, “Feb. 2nd on the Discovery Channel is a TV show called Deadly Sins. There’s an episode called I Killed For A Sex Change. I play one of the killers. Also, I did a Reunite wine commercial. For the military, I did an industrial film called That Guy. It shows girls and guys the bad side of drinking and alcoholism.” Mr. Oliver’s other acting credits span from a Toyota commercial, Simple Life 3 with Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie, Bad Girls Road Trip with Missy Elliot, to a couple of reality shows and commercials that he’s done over the years. David has proven that he’s learned the difference between confidence and arrogance. Confidence is a must in this industry. However, he is realistic about the whimsical nature of the entertainment industry. David’s strategy of balancing acting with the day job that he has held on to for 10 years is well planned and structured. His perspective is that, in this economy, an artist can do both. “Some people have become successful off of viral videos, blogs, you name it. It’s just about sacrificing the extra time. You don’t work 24/7. It’s impossible. There are times when you can take a quick nap here and there, so you don’t get sleep deprived. You stay focused. You have to pick and choose your moments to be creative or brilliant. As long as we get out eighty hours done within a two-week time frame, we’re good to go. Plus, I get to work from home three days out of the week, so it gives me room to do other things with my acting. I work double time the next day to make up time I took off. The only thing it impedes on is time hanging out with my family. I still keep an outstanding level at my day job and an outstanding level with my managers and agents. I still do a lot of stuff in the community.” When I asked Mr. Oliver about the perceived glamour of the entertainment industry, he informed, “What they may see on E News and Extra is surface—there’s no glamour to it. At the end of the day, you still have to deal with rejection, taking someone else’s vision and making it a part of you. It’s difficult to get your mind wrapped around someone you don’t know in under a minute.” Another notable point is that the audition process can be costly, when travel and lodging is involved. Although David is a working actor, he must still pay for accommodations and travel, at least initially. “You have to be a money maker for yourself, and the other people, in order to get money for traveling back and forth to auditions. Usually the only time they pay for those things is when you’re acting on the project. They need to know if you can carry the weight, and do you have the drive to carry a project like this.” For those who believe that acting auditions always involve standing in front of a director, think again. “You never get to the director first. You have to take the information from the client and hope they give you the right information before you come in. A lot of times, you get the words right then and there, which they call sides and do a cold read. If they gave it to you five minutes ago, you have to know it like they gave it to you five hours ago. You have to learn your lines almost instantaneously. Then, I get there only to be in the room for about two minutes with them. Sometimes I wait longer to go outside than when I’m in the room.” Many parents often wonder if landing their children in commercials could be lucrative, or offer a solution to saving for college. In regards to minors working in the industry, David Oliver
recommends that parents should wait until their children are at least fifteen or sixteen years old, so that they are emotionally equipped to handle work demands, and are more capable of handling rejection. “Until they turn eighteen, you have to be there to legally sign off. In some cases, these kids are never taught the right way to handle the business. Make sure they understand. They have to be focused, know their talent, and do it over several times. A lot of grown people can’t handle this and rejection, let alone a small child.” Would you like to wish David Oliver good luck on his next audition, or see what he’s up to next? Please find him on Facebook. Send him a message or comment on his status at Davidetheoh Oliver. Check out some of his video clips: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srvwkfsRNeA http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BTkjJu_GfbI&NR=1 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UL4Fx-CfTdQ&feature=youtu.be.
David Oliver is an astute businessman who garners wide respect around the country. Magnificence Productions, based in Washington, D.C., serves as the consulting arm of his endeavors. The number is 202-841-0131. Update: Just before publishing this issue, I was pleasantly surprised to find out that David is in New York filming an AutoZone commercial. Congratulations, David Oliver!
Judi Emm
Author Judi Emm has been described as “A loud voice from the past!” My dear friend is a mother who resides in Ontario, Canada. In 2006, her action-packed women’s fiction novel, Olivia’s Full Circle, was published by AuthorHouse. Olivia’s Full Circle deals with diverse women’s issues. The book begins in England and is set in the 1960’s. Judi captures social issues and rules to live by of that era many years ago, along with the backdrop of feminism, human trafficking, and other doses of drama. The protagonist is named Olivia. Her hedonistic-lifestyle is filled with sex, drugs, disco clubs, and enough mental scars to put a daytime soap opera to shame. Ms. Emm remarked that she has created a new genre. Some readers claimed that it is not a lighthearted journey, although it is surely an interesting and inspiring one. Ms. Emm explained, “Any woman who lived anywhere in the western world during the babyboom generation can possibly relate to it. I really do think Olivia has a global appeal for many female readers. ” Ms. Emm has received ample positive feedback from American readers. The story began in England, moved to Canada, and ended in Australia. Despite penning a novel, that has garnered remarkable book reviews from South Africa, England, America, and various continents and places, publishing Olivia’s Full Circle also marked a personal celebration as well. Ms. Emm is a fighter in every sense of the word. I have to openly say I love my friend’s spirit and determination. What began as a hobby and past time marked a celebration of life and emotional healing. “After surviving
three operations for breast cancer, followed by three months of intense chemotherapy in the year 2001, the following year in 2002 when I was going through my recovery period, my wonderful dad, Mr. Keith Liggins, suddenly died, leaving me feeling very much alone and lost. I was without my wonderful friend, with whom I could no longer talk
to whenever I wanted to about anything, or just needed to hear his kind, caring, loving voice. I last saw my dad at his home in Bamford, Derbyshire, England, a week before I had my first operation in Canada for a small lump that I had found in my breast. A few years after my father’s death, I completely re-wrote the book and did it in honor and loving memory of my dad and the small country pub "THE WHITE HART" that he owned and ran for fifteen years in the Village of Bradwell, Derbyshire, England. Ms. Emm also used the country pub as the place where Olivia lived, instead of the fictional place that she had chosen before her beloved father died. “I also used my dad's character as Olivia’s father. The most rewarding thing about becoming an author was to see all of my enjoyable years of hard work turned into a book, and the really positive feedback that I received in all of the wonderful book reviews. In Olivia’s Full Circle, Olivia's crazy roller coaster life continues in her sequel, Another Full Circle. She is much older and lives on a beautiful horse ranch in western Canada, where she deals with human trafficking and a young fatal attraction by a woman who intends to steal Olivia’s husband.” Judi explained that she dedicated the book to victims of human trafficking and sex slavery. Personally, I loved Judi’s debut book. Just like the author, Olivia is tough. She will not give up her fight, despite what life brings her way. I look forward to reading the sequel. I also appreciate Judi’s contribution to the literary world. She skillfully weaves a tale reminiscent of another time and place, entertaining and inspiring readers while doing it.
“This story is motivational for women of all ages who are desperately grasping for strength and courage while they travel their journey. It is a treasure to have a book that exposes women’s issues of the 60’s, to hopefully avoid a repeat of the shameful attitudes and behaviours of the past.” Linda Follmer…..Florida, United States Of America.
Olivia’s Full Circle can be purchased from Amazon http://www.amazon.com/Olivias-FullCircle-Judi-Emm/dp/142597919X, Barnes & Noble and can be ordered from any bookstore. For further information about the book, please go to Olivia’a Full Circle’s Fan page on Facebook. Pass along information about Judi Emm’s book, say hello, like her page, or purchase a copy of her page-turner.
Trisha Goodman Creating Total Wellness
If you are thinking about going green for the sake of your children’s health, as well as your own, consider connecting with Trisha Goodman. This mother saw a need, responded to it, and became a small business owner in the process. Trisha started her business, Creating Total Wellness, in 2009. Back then, Ms. Goodman was a stay-at-home mother who was home schooling her children, and serving as a care provider for her diabetic aunt. Initially, she was in need of energy herself. But now, her health and wellness company has allowed the mompreneur to utilize her business degree while helping others. Her journey as a Melaleuca representative transpired, after attending a children’s health fair that she attended with a group of teenage girls whom she taught at church. Ms. Goodman explained, “I read a vendor’s sign. It read, “Stop poisoning your children.” I have two small children. So, I told myself that I was probably poisoning my children.” That urgent message inspired Trisha Goodman to immediately act. “We always hear about going “green” and being healthy. In our minds, we think it’s a good thing, but we usually never do anything about it. So, I went over and signed up to receive more information about what the vendor was talking about. She called me about a week later and said I was the winner of a gift basket that she was offering. I love winning things, so we set up a time for her to bring my gift. She came over and shared a presentation with me about the company, Melaleuca.” Trish shared that a presentation allows a consumer to comprehend the difference between store laundry detergent, and what is used for fillers. “You will want to try Melaleuca,” she assured. “So many products contain cancer causing agents. Some cause children to have ADHD and some are so toxic they lead to death.” What is Melaleuca? Ms. Goodman explained that it is the botanical name for tea tree oil. “Melaleuca oil is in about 40% of the 350 products the company has to offer. I learned from the presentation how simple it was to convert my home into a “green” home by ridding it of toxins and how to get increased energy from taking whole food supplements that don’t have free radicals. I was excited about being a customer, but then she told me about earning extra income.” Upon using the products, Trisha and her family observed a remarkable difference. “My son and daughter both suffered from eczema. When we changed from the store brand laundry detergent we used and began using the lotion and Melaleuca soap, their eczema cleared up completely. We also got rid of all the store brand-cleaning supplies in our home and the air quality of our home made it much easier to breathe. My son’s asthma and allergy symptoms cleared up almost instantly.” Trisha has now joined forces with a team of five women. Their organization has grown to over two hundred people. Ms. Goodman and her partner also created a small business networking
event. Coffee Connections allows them to network, grow their business, and provide the same benefit to other business owners. Other benefits that Ms. Goodman has observed include earning additional income to contribute to her household, meeting wonderful people, and hearing about how lives have been changed, just because she shared what worked for her family. “I believe we can make small changes in helping the world to be financially, mentally, physically, and spiritually healthy.�
Contact Trisha Goodman: Trishang1@hotmail.com 443-452-8001 Facebook: Creating TotalWellness
Stacey Virgo Virtual Assistant Extraordinaire Florida based Stacey Virgo could easily feel like a business owner’s best friend. This mompreneur has been running Shargo USA for six years. Her fulltime virtual assistant business management and coaching company is well suited for small and medium sized business owner, coaches, speakers, and non-profits. A virtual Assistant can help business owners in so many ways,” explained Stacey. “We remove all the mundane tasks from our clients, so they can concentrate on income generating activities. If you take a piece of paper and write down all the behind the scenes task that you have to do in your business, just to get things completed such as: newsletter set up, receipts, website updates, planning an event, sending and responding emails, these task can take up so much of your time. If you were to hire a Virtual Assistant to handle these tasks for you, it would free up your time to do more in your business.” After customizing a business package best suited to meet a company’s needs, Ms. Virgo is capable of providing support for international and stateside clients. Since she works remotely through the Internet, her clients are able to communicate with her via phone, Skype, fax and text. Stacey Virgo takes her business seriously, but she is also committed to her family unit. Ms. Virgo agrees that she must work more hours, now that she runs her own business. However, a major benefit is being able to set her own hours. When I asked her the primary reason that promoted her to leave the corporate world, she replied, “My children.” “The second thing was that, although it was very nice to get a steady pay check, after being laid off twice, it begins to somewhat get to you and when you realize that the skills you have been using in corporate America can be used in your own business, you can choose the clients you want to work with and be able to make a difference in someone else life by helping them to achieve their goals. It is a rewarding feeling.” The owner of Shargo USA admits that there have been bumps along the way. A business owner must constantly market his or her services, work hours extend beyond 9 to 5, and the competition factor presents an additional challenge. Stacey candidly shared that being a business owner isn’t what she thought it would be. However, she advises that a supportive family can get a person through rough days, when things are not running smoothly. Many mothers struggle to balance family time with work obligations. Ms. Virgo takes time for her devotions, gets her children read and off to school, takes a thirty-minute break, then begins her workday at 9:00 AM and stops at 4:00 PM. After tending to her family, she returns to her office in the evening. Stacey remains equally committed to her clients, even during weekends. When her children aren’t around, she completes chores and Saturday tasks. “There are times when things are not going the way you expected and if you don't have faith you can easily give up and back out. You must have faith to do anything in life.” Although Stacey’s schedule is demanding, Sundays are reserved for church and family time. Self-care is important. Her faith plays a significant role in persevering and spiritual restoration.
In addition, Stacey Virgo has earned her place among innovators in her field. The Empowered BizPreneur Movement is a three-month-old endeavor that affords entrepreneurs a chance to encourage, support, network, and promote themselves online. Stacey’s radio show provides additional exposure to members and other guests. “The radio show actually was not a part of my business plan. It was just something I liked to do and wanted to help others. As I began to work on the different elements of the show, it began to fall right into my business. I was now being able to connect with other wonderful business owners and I was now able to provide a service to them. The radio show has been evolving since its conception where we will be using our radio show sponsors and guest to begin doing workshops, building collaborations and increasing exposure,” she added. The show airs on Thursday at 7 PM EST. Visit www.blogtalkradio.com/tebradio for more information. The Empowered BizPreneur Movement is an online group where new members would be welcomed. If you are interested in it, or consulting with Stacey Virgo about your business needs, please be sure to note the information that follows. Stacey Virgo SHARGO USA: www.shargo.us www.facebook.com/shargousa www.linkedin.com/in/shargo www.twitter.com/shargousa shargo@shargo.us Tel: 321.282.1892 The Empowered BizPreneur Movement Stacey Virgo - Founder & Host https://www.facebook.com/groups/Empoweredmovement/ The Empowered BizPreneur Radio
info@tebmovement.com
Di-Anne Di Re
Author/ Business Communication Coach/Trainer Di-Anne Di Re of Media Resources Enterprise is also based in Florida. For two and a half years, she has offered consulting, training, public relations, workshop, spokesperson, and video production services fulltime. Additionally, she is an author and news contributor for Fox 35. After working in her field over twenty years, Ms. Di Re was inspired to start her own business. She observed that businesses needed to learn how to communicate with the public effectively. Today, Di-Anne is passionate about helping individuals and businesses to improve their marketing, public relations, or overall communication. Although the industrious mompreneur finds it rewarding to help others prosper and find their purpose professionally and sometimes personally, it’s easy to question how she manages to offer so many wonderful services while raising four children. “I can say with certainty that being a mother is a full time job, especially since I have four daughters, but if a mother is passionate about a certain field and would like to pursue their passion that would lead to their purpose in life, I would definitely encourage it. Raising children is very rewarding. However, if you can juggle both, even it is on a part time basis, why not do it?” Di-Anne stated that her book has helped grow her business—especially her speaking and training services. Expose Yourself: Business Guide To Public Communication is a valuable resource tool that can be purchased online at www.mediaresourcesenterprise.com or www.diannedire.com. Di-Anne Di Re’s contributions in news also compliments her other professional endeavors. “I am grateful for the opportunity. Ever since I can remember my passion has been people and communication. I have always been in the field of communication one way or another and I think is because my interest has always been in helping achieve goals,” Ms. Di Re stated.
Strong leadership skills have helped Di-Anne to establish herself as an industry leader. On the other hand, she offered wonderful tips to those who may just be just beginning. Many new business owners wonder how to land a first client. “My advice would be that after you have branded your business and created marketing materials, I highly recommend visiting networking groups and professional organizations such as your Chamber of Commerce, and specialty groups that would be the target market in your area. Distribute your business cards and marketing materials. Also, we must not forget to network and interact online and join online groups that could help you grow your business.� Di-Anne Di Re Business Communication Coach and Trainer Author/Speaker www.diannedire.com info@diannedire.com www.mediaresourcesenterprise.com Media Resources Enterprise PR/Marketing/Video Production www.mediaresourcesenterprise.com info@mediaresourcesenterprise.com PO. Box 4931 Winter Park, FL. 32792 407-579-9903 Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/diannedire LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/diannedire
Monica Mathis-Stowe
Author Monica Mathis-Stowe’s Where Did We Go Wrong? was released April 1, 2012. From the second she decided to publish her book, she knew that the venture was going to involve her entire family. Her husband attends every book signing and/or event with her. He passes out cards and guides people to her location. Monica explained that since her spouse was always a better cook, now he does most of it. She also added more to her son’s chores. That’s what I call teamwork. It’s refreshing to know that some family units are strong in a time where we hear a plethora of stories that are not positive. Ms. Stowe stated, “In order for me, wife and mommy, to stay sane and healthy, I needed to delegate. I’m not ashamed to ask family and friends to help me when I’m feeling overwhelmed.” The Stowes remind us that successful mothers need support at home, and that women also deserve to realize their dreams, while acknowledging their passions. Monica embarked on an exciting writing journey to show the positive side of true friendship between women. After accomplishing her goal, life has not slowed down for the Prince George’s County mother since. When she’s not pounding the keyboard crafting her next novel, she works full-time as an investigator in the metropolitan Washington area. “My life is ruled by three things: my husband’s work schedule (he’s a firefighter), my son’s school calendar, and my day planner where I combine their schedules with mine. It’s a juggling act at times, but it keeps me focused and helps me stay organized,” says the mompreneur. Apparently, it works for her fabulously. Ms. Mathis-Stowe was named Best New Author of 2012 by the DJ Gatsby Book Club. Her novel was also awarded Best New Book of 2012, by the Future Bestselling Author’s Group and AAMBC. “It was all unexpected and greatly appreciated, but seeing the pride on my family’s face was priceless,” she said. Ms. Stowe’s relationship with her girlfriends inspired her to write Where Did We Go Wrong? The sequel, Where Did We Go Wrong Again? released on January 25, 2013.
Monica is a lifelong learner. “I love taking classes that help me with my literary venture. It could be writing, marketing, social media, etc. If I think it can help me become a better businesswoman, I register. When I’m not taking a class or writing, I feel incomplete.” Monica’s family still comes first in her life. “As a published author, I want to promote my work as much as possible, but I also have to take into consideration that I’m a wife and mother. If a promotional event conflicts with my duties as wife and mother, I have to forego it. My family always comes first, but at the same time, they make sacrifices for me because they know how important being a published author is to me.” “Where Did We Go Wrong? follows the romantic relationships of best friends Gabby, Maxine and Joy. They protect each other at all costs, even if it means keeping secrets that turn their lives upside down. Gabby has no boundaries when it comes to getting what she wants. She pulls out every trick in the book to keep her daughter’s married father out of their lives, but keep his money in her bank account...Maxine lives for her family but when her husband’s excessive spending lands them in more debt than they can handle, the stress takes a toll on their perfect marriage...After Joy’s loyalty to her controlling mother causes her to lose the only man she’s ever loved, she marries a man she barely knows. After her wedding, she quickly realizes she made the biggest mistake of her life and it puts everybody she loves in danger. Unfortunately, someone will have to pay the ultimate price with their life. Where Did We Go Wrong? left readers asking, “Who got shot?” Where Did We Go Wrong Again? continues immediately after the shooting,” Monica explained. Monica Mathis-Stowe is a talented writer who will surely be penning novels for many years to come.
Trailer link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2j4Mpj3suHI Website link: http://www.monicamathisstowe.com/ purchasing link: http://bit.ly/wdwgw Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/authormonicamathisstowe Twitter: https://twitter.com/MMathisStowe
Catherine Woyee Jones
“We become so that others can become.”
Names: Catherine Woyee Jones and Jason Lockamy (Mother and Son) Location: Raleigh, North Carolina Book Title: Beyond The Scale Release Date: July 20, 2012 What inspired the book? The book was inspired by the overwhelming response to my 120pound weight loss journey. I have a picture of myself on the fridge from when I was thinner a few years ago. That made me realize that I can get to that point again because I have been there before. Then, I asked myself if I really need those cookies (or whatever it is you might like) and reminded myself that I don't need the junk food more than I wanted to be in a size 7. It’s all a mind game. Once you take a few minutes to think about things before you eat them, you will realize that you really don't need to eat the garbage. What has the feedback been? Great! I was featured on the Yolanda Adams Health and Wellness tour and Oprah's Favorite Things 2012. I now blog for several doctors on weight loss and family life. Are you now in the fitness industry? No. My background is in mental health. I am the Executive Director of The HUUMAN Initiative, which is a nonprofit for girls. I partner with trainers and nutritionists, teaching healthy living to low income families between the ages of 1217. I am also a motivational speaker. What do you feel moms and busy people can do to maintain a healthy lifestyle? Get enough sleep. Follow a healthy diet. Eat a variety of foods with an emphasis on whole grains, low-fat dairy products and lean protein, as well as fresh fruits and vegetables. Eat at regular intervals throughout the day and incorporate at least one fruit or vegetable into each meal. Complete 30 minutes of cardiovascular exercise five days a week and strength training exercises two days a week. Achieve work-life balance. Take time out of each day to relax with such activities as
reading or writing in a journal. Spend time with friends outside of work. Encourage a healthy home environment. This requires more than just a clean house. It also includes your relationship with others within your home and structural issues, such as ventilation. If you live with other people, foster healthy relationships with those people or take steps to sever unhealthy relationships. Is the book a diary, a how to read or other? This book is a diary and how-to resolve. What were your son's results? He lost about 60 pounds. He also became a three-sport athlete, a leader in the community, and leader at school. What was the first small change that you made? Portion control and removing sugar from my diet. Did you have help? No, I just formulated a plan and stuck to it. Facebook: Catherine Woyee Jones Website: www.catwoyeejones.com Twitter:@woyeejones
BET Honors Red Carpet Coverage
Mint Condition “We were never gone. It’s a beautiful continuation. It’s great to be performing tonight, and to be doing something with BET, the station we’ve been looking at. It’s our first time; we love it.” --Stokely, Jeffry, Rick, Odell, Brandon, Lawrence On their new album: “Everybody who hears Music@ The Speed of Life loves it. Go to Mintconditionmusic.com. Hopefully, people get hip to this music.” On new projects: “We have an unsung episode coming up. It won’t be like any other.”
A’Yanna Crawley 2009 Season II Winner of BET’s Sunday Best 2012 Stellar Award New Artist of the Year
“I was born and raised in Washington, DC. I’m humbled, grateful, and blessed. I come from the streets. I had it rough a little bit. I could’ve gone down as a statistic but I rose to the occasion. I do outreach work for young ladies and women between the ages of 18-35. I have a foundation called THE PROMISE. I have this thing— you don’t have to be naked to be noticed. I’m teaching them etiquette, how to look good. I sing from my soul.”
Jeanette Jenkins Hollywood Fitness Trainer to Alicia Keys, Pink, Kelly Roland
“I’m based out of Los Angeles. Kelly Roland is like a bestie now. We’ve been training together for three years. Kelly’s a sweetheart. She inspires everyone around her. You never know what friend she’s going to bring to a session. If you can stick to a healthy meal plan, come Friday night, hello, cocktail hour! Go right back on Sunday.”
Russ Parr, D.C. based morning show host On Sandy Hook:
“You can’t take anything for granted. You can be here today, gone the next. I don’t believe teachers should be armed in schools, but you don’t know who has a weapon.” “35 & Ticking is doing really good, but my new movie, The Undershepherd deals with the black church.” “Always have positivity.”
Michael Lockwood (Husband of Lisa Leslie)
On meeting his wife: “A buddy of mine introduced me. A good man needs a good woman. We had to bring it together.”
On his wife being honored: “I’m really proud of her. She has a number of awesome accomplishments, but BET honors what she does that’s not so public. She does a lot for the community, a lot for kids, a lot for young girls who are coming up and need a positive image. ”
“I’m an airline pilot—a captain of a 767, and a real estate investor. We run a basketball academy together. Our kids are five and two. They do commercials and print.” Note: Mr. Lockwood is also the author of Women Have All The Power: Too Bad They Don’t Know It.
Lisa Leslie On meeting her husband:
“It was God’s plan. He’s definitely found a good woman then, right?”
Bishop T.D. Jakes On 2013: “I think all of us have personal goals that we want to meet as individuals to be the best person we could be, so I want us to be encouraged to meet those goals and be relentless. Measure your progress with yourself and keep moving forward.” On Sandy Hook: “We need greater protection on every level for our children at the most innocent times in their lives.”
Beverly Bond- Celebrity DJ Founder of Black Girls Rock, Inc.
B Smith- “Food, fashion and fun, TV, products at Bed Bath and Beyond.”
Advice to young people: “I would tell young people to follow their dreams, but one of the most important things is whatever it is they want to do, do their homework. I did the homework before I did what I’m doing. You have to put out there what you want and make it happen. Find the right people to help you. Be the best you can possibly be. That’s what I did.”
Debbi Morgan- most recognized as Angie on All My Children
“We’re about to start all over again. We’re going to be doing a web series. It’s going to be very historical. This is the wave of the future with the Internet.” Note: Yes, All My Children will be online!
Kem - Singer/Songwriter/Producer
“I’m just glad to be participating in a tribute to Bishop T.D. Jakes, who is my spiritual mentor. He’s been very good to me over the years—personally and professionally. “ “A highlight of my career was singing My Funny Valentine with Chaka Khan. I’ll be recording in the spring. There are collaborations, but I can’t speak on them right now.” To the youth of Chocolate City: “Stay strong, be encouraged, and stay true to yourself.” Interesting point: Kem’s promotional material stated that he used to play the piano in a homeless shelter nightly. He was in and out of drug rehab and shelters, and also waited tables. Look at him today!
Jimmy Jam/ Terry Lewis On their look:
“We wear the suits. The suits don’t wear us.” Message to youth: ”Always keep music in your life and enjoy it.” On the BET Honors performance: “We’re taking a trip down memory lane to 1983. Reminisce. The SOS band.” On what they look for in talent: ”I guess you would call it that “It Factor.” It’s a combination of style and talent. It’s a whole lot of things. You just know when somebody has it.”
Roland Martin –CNN /TV1/Tom Joyner Show
“It’s good to see friends and support black media. I was in that a longer time than I’ve been in mainstream. I’m based out of DC.” On politics:
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“ want to see targeted initiatives.”
Wayne Brady
“To be successful in anything, especially this business, you just gotta be you. Don’t change what you do. If what you do works and it feels good, eventually you will rise. Positivity rises. Talent rises. Perseverance.”
Debra Lee President and Chief Executive Officer of BET Networks
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PR GURU ANTHONY DEW
Anthony Dew (Left) Jessica Dew (Middle) and Anthony Murrill (End) attended Russell Simmons’ 2nd Hip-Hop Inaugural Ball as media professionals.
“The most powerful tool to build your brand is networking.” Anthony Dew, PR Guru It’s very exciting and fun to be on any red carpet to establish yourself as a major player in the game. What do you do after gaining access to a high profile event? When you arrive with a pocket full of business cards, smile with a positive attitude, put on your game face. Now, you’re ready to get your name HOT! Introduce yourself to everyone who is there. Get their business card. Let them know what you do and the value of your services. Then, on to the next one. Networking with purpose allows you to stand out in a crowd. What do I mean? I mean connect with as many people as possible. The most vital component is the follow-up. If you don’t follow up most people won’t take you seriously. If you don’t, why should they? The key to networking is to monetize your “connects into dollars” for your company. That’s the name of the business game. How does it work? 1. After the event….organize your contacts…add them to your database. 2. Send them a thank you email with pictures. 3. Establish a meeting to discover business opportunities face to face. 4. Give them a call….no later than three days after. 5. Friend request them on Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn. The Motivational Factor “The most successful people are those who don’t focus on the distractions of daily life.”
Anthony Dew, PR Guru Telephone 443-932-2059 Email: Anthony_Dew@aol.com Services include: Media Relations, Talent Management, Media Training Strategic PR Management
The Word According to Shelia
Shelia E. Lipsey Author/Acquisitions Editor/Speaker I love doing what I do. I love using my imagination to weave perfect stories about imperfect people. I love the God-given ability I have been endowed with to live my dreams now. I enjoy everything about the literary industry, even the good, and the not so good. You see, in life we cannot have good without bad. We cannot enjoy sunshine if we never experience rain. We cannot know what up is if we have never been down. How can you tell someone else to keep going when you have stopped? Whatever it is in life that you have a desire, or a passion to do, then by all means do it. Almost every day, I try to encourage someone to live their dreams now. Many times, we have heard that we should chase our dreams. I used to believe that chasing my dream was the only way I could be able to live my dream, until I realized that the dream is already within me. I do not have to run after it or chase after it. Do not get it confused with blessings, because God does say that blessings will run us down and overtake us. I’m not talking about blessings; I’m talking about your dreams, your desires, and your talents. I understand that I need only fertilize my dream, feed my dream, cultivate my dream then I can live my dream. You too can live your dreams now. You do not have to waste your time running after something that is already yours. This is why I commend all the authors, the mompreneurs, the BET Honorees, the marketing gurus, and every one that we have highlighted in this month’s edition of Grove Street. These are the kind of people who know and realize that they carry within them seeds of greatness. Therefore, they do great things. You can too. I commend the founder of Grove Street, Ms. Andrea Blackstone for her vision, for her tireless efforts to make a difference in the literary industry. It can be tough, and it can be a dog-eat-dog industry, but you can rise above every obstacle if you simply do not give up. I contracted polio at the age of two years old. Since then I have had to overcome one obstacle after another. I have been subjected to teasing and bullying. I have been poked and prodded by countless doctors, many who experimented on me as a little black girl. I have endured harsh racism and prejudicial treatment. I have had approximately fifteen to twenty surgeries over the years, some that, when I was but a little girl, left me in the hospital for months on end, separated
from my parents and siblings. Yet, my mother and my father told me I could do anything anyone else could do, and I could do it better if I so chose. I developed a ‘Can Do’ spirit and attitude. You can have that same “Can Do” attitude. I refused to accept anything less than the best of whatever I set out to accomplish. What I have learned along my journey of life is that there is nothing I cannot accomplish without a little hard work, perseverance, and of course my faith in God. I know that nothing is impossible for me. I am not only an author; I am a mother, a grandmother, a soon to be great grandmother. I am an acquisitions editor at a publishing company that I helped form (Bonita And Hodge Publishing Group LLC http:/www.bonitaandhodgepublishing.com) I am a speaker. I am special; I am God’s Amazing Girl. I believe in myself. I believe that there is so much more for me to accomplish in life, so many more dreams and desires that are still within me just waiting on their time to be birthed. I want you, whoever you are, wherever you are, to remember that greatness starts with YOU. Your setbacks are merely setups for you to make a great comeback. Your mess-ups are part of what you need in order to get better at whatever it is you are designed to do and become. One of my favorite poems, (I used to recite in church as a child) is “I’m Determined To Be Somebody Someday” by William Herbert Brewster. One of the stanzas says” There’s no royal blood coursing through my veins No great family background for me remains. My living conditions have been kind of bad, I haven’t the chance that others have had… But in spite of the things that stand in my way, I’m determined to be somebody someday. Little did I know how true that poem was for my life. And, it’s true for you too. You may not come from royalty, but you are of a royal priesthood. You may have suffered some bad breaks, but you are an overcomer. The victorious cannot become victorious if they have never been a victim. In closing, remember that you are somebody. You have what it takes. You are already blessed with all the dreams you can ever dream inside of you. Now allow them to give birth and watch how high you soar! God bless you in your endeavors. Shelia E. Lipsey, God’s Amazing Girl http://www.shelialipsey.com http://www.twitter.com/shelialipsey LIKE me on Facebook Shelia E. Lipsey Readers http://www.pinterest.com/shelialipsey You can find a list of my books by going to my website or simply Google me!
“The whole thing is just like watching a film. Only it’s as though you always get in ten minutes after the big picture has started, and no-one will tell you the plot, so you have to work it all out for yourself from the clues.” —Terry Pratchett http://www.terrypratchett.co.uk/
The Editor-In-Chief Speaks Once again, I hope that you enjoyed your monthly trip to Grove Street. I have been juggling more than ever. Somehow, I added blogger, book reviewer, and e-zine publisher to my list of things to do. You make time for what you really want to do, and I miss writing books, blogging, and staying in the industry loop, so I’m trying to increase my presence again. Like Terry Pratchett and Grove Street guests remarked, accomplishing goals is a process. I plan to share more about what’s going on in my world another time. The inauguration dust settled a bit before publishing this edition, but next month Grove Street will be divided into two mini issues. Come see us again, and you’ll immediately understand why. I would also like to extend special thanks to LaDawn Black for taking time out of her extremely busy
schedule to participate in this edition of Grove Street. Please remember to pass along the word about her new ventures, titles and appearances. I appreciate each guest sharing their experiences with readers—from the first to the last. Author Shelia Lipsey always plays a role in helping to make things run smoothly. I greatly appreciate all that she does. Thanks, Shelia! Anthony Dew is a true public relations guru. Please remember his tips that he puts to use for his clients every day. He’s only a phone call away. Thank you for your professional guidance, Mr. Dew. I know firsthand that you’re one of the best at what you do. We now have a Facebook page, so please join Grove Street there https://www.facebook.com/grove.street.12177 . Feedback and support is greatly wanted. Would you like to subscribe? Please do @ The Reader's and Author's Nook. That landing page will offer snippets and tidbit that link to the e-zine. It would be much appreciated if you share our information with friends or fellow readers. You may like us through Issuu, too. Please email feedback to velocitydmv@gmail.com or Dreamweaverpress@aol.com. I want to know how we’re doing with the content we’re offering. Each issue of Grove Street is brought to you, compliments of Surge Marketing Group, LLC. www.surgemarketinggroup.com is the place where you can find an array of creative publishing and marketing professionals. Best wishes,
Andrea Editor–In-Chief
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