Shooting off one’s mouth

by Gwendolyn Ann Smith

In British Columbia recently, an elementary school track meet became something very different.

A 9-year-old girl was preparing to take part in a shot put event when a man spoke out about the girl’s participation. The man, Josef Tesar, has claimed that he privately spoke to officials, while the girl’s parents and other present claim that he made a much larger scene.

“She was standing in line and all of a sudden, this man comes out of the crowd,” one of the girl’s mothers, Heidi Starr, told the New York Post. “He stops the entire event and says ‘This is a girl’s event, why are boys allowed to throw?’”

The 9-year-old wears her hair in a short pixie cut.

“If she’s not a boy,” Tesar is reported to have said, “she is obviously trans.” Tesar’s wife was reportedly not above the fray either, accusing Heidi Starr and her wife, Kari, of being, “genital mutilators, groomers, and pedophiles.”

Tesar also demanded documentation that the 9-year-old was assigned female at birth.

In spite of some questions as to who said what, Tesar has remained adamant on one thing: his right to question a child’s gender identity. “I am not apologizing for that question that I asked. I think personally I have a right to ask questions, and I always will for the rest of my life,” he said. He further claims that the child’s parents were the ones trying to “satisfy an agenda.”

Over the last few months, we have

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From page 2 joined Bonta at the news conference. She said, “It goes without saying that this Pride season feels a lot different than others,” referencing the homophobic and transphobic rhetoric that has ratcheted up in recent months, as seen a rise among the right in the U.S. and elsewhere to press the idea that transgender girls and women are attempting to infiltrate women’s sports in order to, I suppose, take advantage of some innate masculinity to, I guess, win fortune and fame.

Of course, women’s sports have always been known for their lucrative prizes and high levels of celebrity. Particularly, I suppose, for 9-year-old shot put competitors in British Columbia schools.

Additionally, both those of us who are transgender, as well as our allies, have been painted with the same words the the Bay Area Reporter has reported.

The United States Department of Homeland Security issued guidance last month warning that “individuals or events associated with the LGBTQIA+ community” could be targets of “lone offenders and small groups motivated by a range of ideological beliefs and personal grievanc-

Starrs were smeared with. Legislators across the United States, for example, have sought to interfere with parental agency, removing trans children from supportive households by arguing that gender-affirming care – itself not including hormonal treatments and surgical interventions in young children – is a form of child abuse. Likewise, simply acknowledging that LGBTQ people exist has fueled book bans and “don’t say gay” bills, with their proponents claiming that the mere acknowledgment of queer identities is “grooming” children into underage sex. It really doesn’t, to me, make much es,” particularly in the aftermath of the Club Q shooting in Colorado Springs last November that killed five people and injured 25 others last November.

(The shooter, Anderson Lee Aldrich, pleaded guilty to a raft of charges, including five first-degree murder counts, June 26 and was given five consecutive life sentences plus more sense. Probably not to you, either.

The thing is that after months of this constant drumbeat, there are a large number of people caught up in the hysteria – and not just in places like Republican Governor Greg Abbott’s Texas or GOP Governor and 2024 presidential candidate Ron DeSantis’ Florida. It doesn’t matter how blatant and ridiculous the lies: many have long been primed to believe in such, and our dysfunctional mainstream media is not at all interested in pushing back against this right-wing narrative.

So now this long campaign against transgender people, the larger LGBTQ community, and even our allies and supporters has led to a non-transgender 9-year-old being berated by an adult man at a track meet.

I want to say I told you so. Any time you focus on who is or isn’t transgender, it is never just transgender people affected. Bathroom bans rarely cause transgender people to be kicked out, but more commonly cause non-transgender women to be challenged in their local restroom stalls. Gender conformity is wielded against us all.

For that matter, I think this very story would have read very differently if the 9-year-old in question were transgender. Would the stories have been nearly as sympathetic if she had been assigned male at birth, even though, at age 9, there’s simply no physical advantage supposedly being exploited? Would the narrative, rather, framed the parents or even the child as the villain of the tale, or even attempted to present this as some time by the judge.) “It is heartbreaking that once again our community is experiencing a surge of hate crimes in the Golden State,” Menon said. “Hate speech leads to violent actions and LGBTQ Californians are experiencing that. The domino effect is clear and we cannot allow this to continue putting lives at risk.”

“For all LGBT people, we are grateful for the continued support of Attorney General Rob Bonta and for his commitment to ensuring LGBTQ+ people – especially our trans siblings – grow up in a California that welcomes them,” Menon continued.

The numbers show that people are most likely to be victims of hate crimes at their own homes, residences or driveways, on the street, in a parking lot or garage, in school, or at a house of worship.

Rabbi Ken Chasen of the Leo Baeck Temple in Los Angeles said, “Frankly, California’s Jewish community did not have to wait until the report was released. We experienced the increase in hatred directed at us with our own eyes and their own ears.”

sort of “both sides are bad” argument?

The day that Tesar decided that a 9-year-old child shouldn’t be allowed on the field, the shot put competition was moved to the other side of the field, away from him. Nevertheless, the girl, obviously shaken, did not place in the event.

Tesar is now barred from future competitions and, as of this writing, remains under investigation by the Kelowna Royal Canadian Mounted Police for possible discriminatory actions. He may also be losing his own spot in sports history as an inductee into the Prince Albert Sports Hall of Fame as a wrestler and coach.

As I said, this sort of anti-transgender mania will never be contained to just trans people; it will affect us all. No woman will be safe from being challenged in sporting events, in bathrooms, or anywhere in public life. Anyone who shows support for transgender people will face the same sort of accusations as the Starrs, which, in turn, will press the more timid from supporting us at all.

Those of us who are trans, of course, will end up ostracized from public life. Many of us may even end up dead, either from our own hands or others.

This event should be a wake-up call. We can choose to let things grow even worse, or we can fight back. Cowards like Tesar should be told, firmly, to go back to their caves.t

Gwen Smith knows very little about shot put, and is happy to keep it that way. She can be found at www.gwensmith.com

Jewish people were the most targeted religious group; and the fourth most targeted group in total, following the Black, gay male, and Latino communities. There were 228 reported anti-Jewish hate crimes in 2022 compared to 33 anti-Muslim and 23 anti-Catholic hate crimes, No. 2 and No. 3 among religious groups, respectively.

Chasen said members of his congregation were targeted with “hate baggies” with literature accusing Jewish people of “masterminding the COVID agenda.”

“It’s been shown again and again and again throughout Jewish history that anti-Semitism doesn’t exist in a hate vacuum,” Chasen said. “When a society permits any minority population to be targeted with hate, any minority population will be targeted with hate.”

Forty-one of the 2,120 hate crime events were in San Francisco, the report shows. One hundred and ninety-one were in Santa Clara County and 109 were in Alameda County. t