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92 38 / BAYOU ARTIST For Annie Richardson, Art and Life Are Forever Influencing Each Other 54 / THE TOWN JEWEL Michelle McCarty is a First-Grade Teacher with an Eye for Great Design and a Passion for Giving Back 82 / FLOWER POWER Rebecca Rabb Harrison Has Tapped into the Sublime Power of Flowers, and She is Eager to Share it with the Monroe and West Monroe Community Through a Sky Blue French Flower Cart 92 / HEARTLAND Find Inspiration This Fall from Textiles and Prints Straight from the American Heartland

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112 / FUEL EFFICIENCY Great for Your Car, but Not Your Metabolism. How Your Cardio Routine is Hurting Your Ability to Lose Fat

159 / ASK ERIN Erin Love’s List of Wardrobe Essentials 162 / THE FASHIONABLE LIFE Shelia Carroll’s Life in Fashion Never Took Her Far from Delhi, but Then Again, It Didn’t Have To

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118 / GOOD TIME HAT LINE Sarah Chestnut’s Company, Good Time Hat Line, is Inspired by People, Places, Music and Stories

136 / REVELATION IN LEATHER Chad Geis and the Team at Surgeon Revelation are Redefining What it Means to be a Surgeon – One Accessory at a Time 150 / BAYOU EATS Athena Restaurant is an Authentic Mediterranean Cuisine Restaurant Serving a Variety of Greek and Lebanese Dishes Unique to Northeast Louisiana

168 / LUXE We’ve Teamed Up with Area Boutiques to Bring You Stunning Dresses with Major Luxe Appeal 176 / GIN MONSTERS The Louisiana Rock Trio, Gin Mobsters, is Releasing Their First EP, Silver Ghosts 190 / STYLE & SUBSTANCE The Esoteric and the Earnest – and These Ten Ladies Have “It” in Spades WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 5


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CHOOL IS IN, FOOTBALL season is about to kick off and fall trends are showing up in our local boutiques. I love fashion, but I also love yoga pants. If my daily wardrobe consisted of what I wore during production week, I would definitely be a candidate for “What Not to Wear.” Thankfully, I have some amazing advertisers who always help me out when I walk in their stores. We are celebrating these fashionable people – from boutique owners to community leaders – in this month’s style issue. We’ve picked ten ladies with Style and Substance – the esoteric and the earnest – and these ladies have “It” in spades. Special thanks to Jay Howell for letting us shoot in his beautiful downtown building. See this on page 189. I love it when I just “run into” a story. Recently, I attended a St. Francis Foundation fundraiser and one of the items in the silent auction was a bag made by Surgeon Revolution. It was a beautiful canvas and leather bag, and I bid on it. I didn’t win, but it prompted me to google the company when I got home. To my surprise, there was Eva Edinger and Joshua Mitchell in videos on the website. I reached out to Eva to get contact information for the company’s owner and was surprised to learn he was based out of Choudrant, LA. I knew Chad Geis’ story of Surgeon Revolution would be perfect for this month’s issue – and, I was right. Read about his journey on page 136. There are a few women in Northeast Louisiana who have an unmistakable, ageless style, among those is salon and boutique owner, Sheila Carroll. I’ve known and loved Ms. Sheila for over two decades, in which, I don’t believe that she’s aged a bit. Her signature style entails bold statement jewelry and crisp white button down tops. She is one who

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stands confidently in the unanimous list of women that many may consider style icons. Her impeccable taste and perfectly executed style is what makes her this month’s BayouIcon. Read her story on page 162. This month we pulled off two beautiful fashion shoots thanks to the talents of Kelly Moore Clark and Taylor Bennett. I must confess that when I showed up on location at our Heartland shoot (page 92), I immediately turned around and went home to grab my snake boots. Taylor had us trekking around the woods, through poison ivy and snake country to capture his vision. Kelly and our model, Sydney Franklin, had no problems navigating the terrain, while Meka, Melanie and I hung back to make sure everything was ok in the less snakey parts of the woods. In our Luxe shoot, Karlee Malone models beautiful luxe looks perfect for this year’s Black and White Ball benefitting the Children’s Advocacy Center on September 15th. Special thanks to Penny Hakim for letting us shoot at her exquisite home. See it on page 168. We hope you enjoy reading this month’s issue of BayouLife Magazine. Thank you for always supporting local businesses.

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PUBLISHER Cassie Livingston cassie@bayoulifemag.com EDITOR Maré Brennan mare@bayoulifemag.com ART DIRECTOR Melanie Moffett melanie@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING MANAGER Ashley Hubenthal ashley@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Amanda Singley amanda@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Brooke Hogue brooke@bayoulifemag.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Dan Chason Kenny Covington Shannon Dahlum Lou Davenport Michael DeVault Marcia Donald Dr. David Finley Cindy Gist Foust Lori French J. Marshall Haynie April Honaker Paul Lipe Erin Love

Meredith McKinnie Dr. Timothy Mickel Guy Miller Evelyn O’Neal Thomas Ritter Vanelis Rivera Cathi French-Roberts Delia Simpson P. Allen Smith Beatrice A. Tatem Phil Trahan Judy Wagoner

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Brad Arender Andrew Bailey Kelly Moore Clark Scarlett Garcia Sarah McElroy ON THE COVER Karlee Malone swirls in a gorgeous gown from Eleven 26 – ready for The Black and White Ball that benefits The Center for Chidlren and Families Photography by Kelly Moore Clark

IN THE HEARTLAND, PAGE 92 photo by Kelly Moore Clark

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10th Annual Think Pink Tea Celebrate Life with the Healing Power of Love and Togetherness

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N HONOR OF NATIONAL BREAST Cancer Awareness Month, recognized annually in October, Glenwood Regional Medical Center will host its 10th Annual Think Pink Tea on Friday, October 19th at the West Monroe Convention Center. This widely popular and well-attended event helps to spread the important message of early detection while celebrating the lives of breast cancer survivors in an empowering way. It is a wonderful time to gather with friends to celebrate life and the healing power of love and togetherness. Attendees will enjoy a delicious light lunch and a variety of teas along with optional shopping for beauty, skin and bath products, cosmetics, home décor, jewelry, apparel, accessories and more! The highlights of the event will feature live music, a special performance by Twin City Ballet dancers, cancer survivor recognition and door prize drawings. All breast cancer survivors will receive a special gift compliments of Glenwood. Due to limited seating, reservations are required. A $15.00 admission includes the program, luncheon, shopping privileges and tea. Payment is due when reservations are made. Tickets may be purchased online at www.glenwoodregional.org under Events & Classes. For more information, call 318-3298590. GLENWOOD BREAST HEALTH CENTER Center of Excellence. Centered on You. The Glenwood Breast Health Center has been recognized as a Breast Imaging Center of Excellence by the American College of

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Radiology and is a participant with NQMBC. We believe women deserve to be empowered to actively participate in decisions about their care and treatment. We are committed to equipping patients with knowledge and encouragement throughout their treatment journey. SERVICES INCLUDE: • Digital and analog mammography • Ultrasound • Guided mammotome biopsy • Guided needle aspiration • Vicor vacuum biopsy • Guided needle local biopsy • WOW Yoga and Pilate Classes 3D MAMMOGRAPHY 3D mammography is a revolutionary screening and diagnostic breast imaging tool designed to improve the early detection of breast cancer. It is an FDA-approved, advanced technology that takes multiple images, or X-rays, of breast tissue to recreate a 3D picture of the breast, unlike traditional mammography that only takes a single image. Two of the top benefits are improving the early detection of breast cancer and providing peace of mind due to greater clarity and accuracy. This increased accuracy reduces the number of callbacks, sparing women the inconvenience, anxiety and expense of coming back for further imaging. The multiple images of breast tissue slices give radiologists clearer images which makes it easier to detect breast cancer, even in dense tissue.

WALK-IN MAMMOGRAMS For Added Convenience Busy women shouldn’t neglect their health. We’ve made it easier to stay in check by offering walk-in screening mammograms to allow them to take care of their gynecological and mammogram exams all in one day or to stop by when it’s convenient for them. Once the screening is complete, the images are evaluated by a radiologist who reports directly to the patient’s provider. Patients receive a letter with the results, or a call to schedule additional testing within ten days. All screening mammograms require a physician’s order. BREAST PATIENT NAVIGATION PROGRAM Help along the Journey Glenwood’s Breast Patient Navigation Program provides patients with seamless and timely coordination of their clinical, educational and supportive needs, as they progress through breast cancer diagnosis and treatment. This service is provided free of charge to all Glenwood breast patients. For more information about Glenwood’s breast health and women’s services, call 877-726-WELL (9355) or visit www. glenwoodregional.org.

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Alumni Spotlight ULM Alums: Josh and Leslie Culp

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EMLINE OWNERS, JOSH AND LESLIE CULP, MET AT ULM through mutual friends. Josh, a graduate of Mandeville High School, transferred to ULM and majored in business administration. A commuter student, Josh was a member of ROTC and the Louisiana National Guard. His focus was clear, get through school and out into the world. Leslie, a graduate of Farmerville High School, never considered attending college anywhere else. ULM had been a family staple for generations. Her mother, Roslyn Smith, worked under Dr. Nick J. Bruno, then Vice President of Business Affairs. Her older sisters both graduated from ULM, Brandi Smith Mashaw in nursing and Jennifer Smith Williams in education. Her grandmother, Foye Smith, also retired from ULM. Leslie began in 2001, majoring in social work, though her interest in psychology resulted in Leslie switching her major shortly after. Both Josh and Leslie admit it wasn’t until their second degrees that they really dove into their classes and got the most out of their college experiences. Josh remembers Dr. Bruce Walker, a professor for many of his business classes. Walker helped the curriculum make sense. In Walker’s human resource classes, he emphasized ethical business practices and the importance of hiring the right people for the right jobs. Walker’s positive attitude and overall demeanor stuck with Josh, and he still sees Dr. Walker around town today. Leslie’s favorite psychology professor was Dr. Joseph McGhan. He taught her life skills and how to deal with people. Leslie uses those skills in her relationship with her husband, raising their two-year-old son Jack, and giving advice to friends. Dr. Ava Pugh took a more personal approach, was always understanding with her students. Leslie remembers the hands-on activities and emphasis on visual learning in her class. Leslie still uses the flash cards she made in Pugh’s class with little Jack. She also enjoyed classes by Dr. Shalanda Stanley and Rhonda Mann and feel that they played a key role in her success in education. Josh returned to ULM after five years in the Army, this time for an MBA. He had originally joined the National Guard in 1997 to pay for college and he just reached his 20th year a few months ago. In the military while in college, Josh was able to practice leading as he learned leadership skills in class. He had more control over his own education with more requirements. He understood, “What you put in is what you get out,” and he graduated in 2010. When Josh and Leslie married in 2013, the honeymoon period was swift, as Josh was deployed the following July. Having previously worked in Shreveport for Family Care 10 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Services, where Leslie met with parents of children with disabilities, she knew she wanted to get back to teaching. Her sister Jennifer and she would always “play school” as kids, and Leslie knew where her heart was. So with her husband thousands of miles away, Leslie enrolled again in August, this time in education. Leslie formed strong bonds with her friends in education, the relationships filling the void left by Josh’s absence. Many of her credits from her psychology degree transferred, so the transition was simple. She was able to focus all her attention on school and make new friends during the process. When Josh’s sister, Natalie Schauf, was looking for an opportunity after graduating, Josh and Leslie decided to open the boutique, Hemline, a company Natalie had worked for in Baton Rouge. The collaboration blended the trio’s talents. Josh had the eye for business, Leslie had perfected her people skills, and Natalie had the retail experience. Natalie was instrumental in the couple’s decision to launch the store and in its success thereafter. When Natalie married and welcomed baby Harper in 2017, Leslie took on managing the store full-time, with Josh’s help on his days off from the military. Today, Hemline owes some of its most noteworthy employees to ULM. Many have worked at the boutique before pursuing professional degrees post-graduation. As business owners, Josh and Leslie stay involved in the community and are supporters of all things ULM. Leslie loves seeing ULM students come in the shop searching for outfits for campus events. Josh and Leslie’s time at ULM has come full circle. The institution gave the couple education and experience twice over, and now they’re reinvesting that commitment into their community. The skills learned through class, tutelage and social interaction play heavily into who and what they’ve become. Both hometown products, Josh and Leslie believe in ULM and its community. The ULM Alumni Association reaches, connects and celebrates alumni and friends to build lifelong relationships and commit to the university’s missions of academic freedom, scholarship, diversity, excellence, integrity and service. We represent alumni who honor the traditions of our university and who share a sense of achievement and pride. We create a network of professionals, establish scholarships and advocate for our University through community engagement. Members of the Alumni Association support countless initiatives, and annual memberships are just $35. To learn more or to become a member, please visit our new alumni network at ulm.edu/alumni. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 11


Fizz, Fruit and Fun The Scoop on Sparkling Hard Seltzers

BY DELIA SIMPSON, CRAFT BRAND MANAGER, CHOICE BRANDS, INC.

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OOKING FOR AN ALTERNATIVE TO beer or wine? If you follow the trend of non-alcoholic sparkling waters, you know that they’ve exploded in the last few years. There are now several options for alcoholic seltzers, as well. They are light in flavor and even lighter in carbs and calories. Think vodka-soda, but with no alcohol burn at the finish. Lighter than alcohol, bubblier than wine and lower in calories than either, it’s no wonder that spiked seltzers are one of the most rapidly growing styles of ready-todrink beverage available. Here is the skinny on some of the hottest brands and flavors on the market. With just 100 calories and 2 grams of carbs per serving, Truly Spiked and Sparkling is crafted with simple, naturally gluten free ingredients and contains alcohol made from cane sugar. It is available locally in Wild Berry 6 pack cans, Colima Lime 6 pack cans, and Citrus Variety 12 pack cans. Wild Berry is made with strawberries, raspberries and marion blackberries. Colima Limes, which are grown in volcanic soil, give the lime version an extra juicy and refreshing kick. The Citrus Variety Pack contains Colima Lime, as well as three other delicious citrus flavors. Yuzu Lemon is full of lemon tartness and fragrant Yuzu, a Japanese citrus fruit. Sicilian Blood Orange is bright and exotic, like the fruit it is made with. Grapefruit and Pomelo combines two zippy fruits for one fantastic citrus flavor. For more information, visit trulyspikedsparkling.com and follow the hashtag #livetruly. Smirnoff Spiked Sparkling Seltzer is another exciting new beverage option. While

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not gluten free, it clocks in at a svelte 90 calories and 1 gram of carbs (that’s 1.6 grams less than Ultra). The hottest new flavor, without a doubt, is Raspberry Rosé. Available in the variety pack as well as in 6 pack cans, it pairs the aroma of raspberry candy and a rosé backdrop with the taste of juicy fresh raspberry with floral and jammy undertones. It’s the perfect alternative for wine drinkers who are looking for a refreshing change. Get ready to say, “Rosé all day!” In the variety pack, along with Raspberry Rosé, are Watermelon, Berry Lemonade and Cranberry Lime. Each is a crisp, dry seltzer with a hint of fruit and just a kiss of sweetness. For more information, visit smirnoff.com/en-us/ice/smirnoff-spikedsparkling-seltzer. While these sparkling sippers are all delicious on their own, they also make great mixers for cocktails and spritzers. Here are a few of our favorite recipes. Truly Sicilian Spritz 4 oz Truly Blood Orange 2 oz Pinot Grigio (or any other Dry White Wine) 0.5 oz Elderflower Liqueur Combine all ingredients in a Wine glass with ice and stir for 10 seconds. Garnish: Slice of Blood Orange Truly Italian Margarita 1 oz Silver Tequila 0.5 oz Campari 0.5 oz Grand Marnier 0.5 oz Fresh Lime Juice

0.5 oz Simple Syrup 4 oz Truly Colima Lime Combine all ingredients, except for Truly, in a shaker and shake with ice. Strain into a Double Rocks glass (14 oz) and top with Truly Colima Lime. Garnish: Salt Rim and Lime Wedge Spiked Watermelon Cooler 1 oz Vodka 2 oz Fresh Watermelon Juice 0.5 oz Fresh Lime Juice 4 oz Smirnoff Watermelon Spiked Sparkling Seltzer For watermelon juice, simply cube fresh watermelon, puree in a blender and strain through a fine mesh sieve. In a martini shaker combine vodka and watermelon juice. Shake with ice until well chilled. Pour into a martini glass and top with cold Smirnoff Watermelon Spiked Sparkling Seltzer. Garnish: Wedge of Fresh Watermelon Be sure to like Choice Brands on Facebook and follow us on Twitter and Instagram to keep up with local happenings and new product releases. In addition, you’ll find links to beer related articles, fun recipes and much more! Find us at facebook.com/choicebrands, twitter.com/choicebrandsinc, and instagram. com/choicebrands.

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The Shoes We Wear More Than a Fashion Statement BY BEATRICE TATEM, PH.D., LPC-S, NCC, ACS

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HE “SHOES WE WEAR” ARE MORE than fashion statements, more than an obsession, more than accessories. The “shoes we wear” can be statements of value, identity, our view of self and where we want to go in the world. The shoes we choose to wear can reflect our cultural practices, our religious beliefs, our mindsets, our personality type, our lifestyles and work styles. Shoes can be indicators of the environments we navigate, our ages, our gender and our expectations. Footwear was originally created to serve the practical and functional purpose of protecting our feet. Shoes have always held a significant place in human culture. From the nursery rhymes, fairy tales and stories we have heard, “There was An Old Woman Who Lived In A Shoe,” “Cinderella” and the wonderful “Wizard of Oz” where shoes were presented as objects that held transformative and magical powers to the current popular culture of the athletic shoe, the “shoes we wear” often takes on meaning early in our lives and remain a part of our lives. The shoes we wear can reflect the life we have experienced and the life we hope to live. The “shoe” can be seen as a metaphor for life stages or challenges. In essence, our shoes figuratively depicts the personal journey we each take in life. Shoes are often used as measurable milestones throughout our lives. For example, a child’s readiness for school is often measured in their ability to count, say their ABC’s, recognize their colors and whether or not they have mastered buckling and tying their shoe laces. Perhaps, too young to remember, most can recall hearing stories of wearing our parent’s oversized shoes and walking around with an empowered feeling

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of being big and grown. Shoes are often used symbolically, as markers of success. Consider when taking a new job one is reminded of the shoes they will need to fill. I can recall a young client disclosing about the “shoulders on which she stood” and wondering how she would ever fill the shoes of her elders, mentors and those she revered. In time, she would come to appreciate the fact that due to the path her predecessors laid and the footsteps she had taken, she now had her own shoes to fill and ultimately wear. Consider the paths and roads you have walked down in your life and the various shoes you have worn along the way. Where have they taken you and where are they going to take you? How do your shoes reflect you? How do you decide on the shoes you wear? Whose shoes are you trying to fill? Are the shoes too big to fill? What paths and roads will you take in the future and what shoes will you wear? It is said shoes symbolically represent our approach to life. Shoes are often associated with stepping out, moving forward, going places and at the same time separation and departure. Shoes are seen as being under us when we stand, affecting how we stand and helping us to stand tall and erect regardless of our actual height. Some suggested approaches are: Enjoy and appreciate what life has to offer. Avoid waiting for the other shoe to drop or the feeling of “what’s next?” Put yourself in others’ shoes, unlace yours. Practice being empathetic and understanding; consider walking in others shoes. Live simply, walk humbly and love unconditionally. Stand tall in your shoes for what you believe, run for the cause and then relax in your flats. Be mindful of what you

wear. The type of shoe you wear influences how you move and physically feel. Put on your walking shoes and take steps towards living a satisfying life. It has been said, shoes say a lot about a person. Know what your shoes say about you. Are they tired and worn looking or polished and well maintained? The power of the shoe is in its purpose, its function, its symbolism and its history. There is a wide variety of shoes designed for specific activities. They reflect our sense of style whether it be high fashion or simply our personal preference. Whether you wear Birkenstocks, clogs, oxfords, heels, flats, Vans, mules, sandals, running shoes, tennis shoes or boat shoes, wedges, pumps, sling backs, ballet shoes, Crocs, slippers, house shoes, cowboy boots, oxfords, orthopedic shoes, Timberlands, stilettoes, peeptoes, slides, platforms, loafers, Dr. Marten’s boots, steel toe boots, espadrilles, golf shoes or wing tips. Putting aside their role as fashion accessories, it is clear that shoes have the ability to transform the wearer physically, aesthetically and emotionally. Regardless, of the style, whether shoes are worn-out or pristine in appearance, pointy toed or round toed, flats or heels, designer or off brand, expensive or inexpensive, casual or dressy, our destiny is not determined solely by the shoes we wear, but the steps we literally and figuratively take in them. For more information about counseling services and outreach programming, contact Dr. Tatem at Wellness Initiatives, LLC 1900 North 18th Street, Suite 414, Monroe, La 71201, 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail.com. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 15


Washington Wine and Spirits A Few of Our Shop Favorites

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APPY SEPTEMBER FROM ALL OF US HERE AT Washington Wine and Spirits! This month we are going to talk to you about a few of our shop favorites/hidden gems that we think are under the radar, and you should know about them. The Russian Standard Original Vodka is based on a recipe from 1894, where they use hard winter wheat and water drawn from Lake Ladoga, one of the largest freshwater lakes in the world. In a new state-of-the art distillery, this vodka is distilled four times then filtered four times through charcoal. Russian Standard Gold is the new gold standard in vodka for a true connoisseur with a unique hint of ginseng, extracts of Siberian golden root and spice notes. The bottle is beautifully embossed and has real rose gold foil on the label. Russian Standard Platinum employs a proprietary silver filtration system, known for its unique natural refining values. This exclusive process produces an extraordinary silky smooth vodka with an ultraclean finish. The modern and refined taste profile of Russian Standard Platinum and its citrus aroma makes it perfect to taste on its own or as an excellent base for any cocktail. Next up, we have the masterminds behind Wild Turkey and Russell’s Reserve, Mr. Jimmy and Eddie Russell. Dubbed the “Buddha of Bourbon” and “The Master Distiller’s Master Distiller” by his industry peers, James C. “Jimmy” Russell knows Bourbon like he knows breathing. For an astounding 60 years, Russell has been making whiskey at the Wild Turkey Distillery in Lawrenceburg, Kentucky, and today, is the longest-tenured, active spirits Master Distiller in the world. Growing up five miles from the distillery, he followed his father, who taught him the traditions and techniques of Bourbon craftsmanship. From his first position at the distillery sweeping floors, he reached the apex of his career as Master Distiller in the 1960s learning how to make Bourbon the right way, from the inside out and everything in between. No job too small, no task too tedious. On June 5, 1981, Eddie Russell, the youngest of the three Russell children, joined the family business, as he took his spot on the lowest rung of the ladder at the Wild Turkey Distillery. These two have combined to make some of the world’s best whiskies, including the Russell’s Reserve Single Barrel Bourbon, Russell’s Reserve 10 year old Bourbon, Russell’s Reserve Single Barrel Rye and the Russell’s Reserve 6 year old Rye. These whiskies are a great value and a great

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example of how Kentucky whiskey should be made. You can taste the history and tradition of this storied first family of bourbon from the first sip to the last drop in your glass. Lastly, we are going to tell you about two wine varietals that we feel are overlooked in this market but fit perfectly with our cuisine in this area and with the steaks from Doe’s Eat Place. Syrah, also known as Shiraz, is a dark-skinned grape variety grown throughout the world and used primarily to produce red wine. The style and flavor profile of wines made from Syrah is influenced by the climate where the grapes are grown with moderate climates tending to producing medium to full-bodied wines with medium-plus to high levels of tannins and notes of blackberry, mint and black pepper. Zinfandel is a variety of black-skinned wine grape that is grown in over 10 percent of California vineyards. The grape typically produces a robust red wine and the grape’s high sugar content can be fermented into levels of alcohol exceeding 15 percent. The taste of the red wine depends on the ripeness of the grapes from which it is made. Red berry fruit flavors, like raspberry, predominate in wines from cooler areas; whereas, blackberry, anise and pepper notes are more common in wines made in warmer areas. Both of these varietals are happiest when paired with beef, pork or game. Stop by and pick up a bottle of Rombauer Zin or DuMol Syrah next time you bag a deer or hit your limit with ducks or throw a Doe’s Eat Place steak on the grill! Don’t forget that Washington Wine and Spirits now offers the Doe’s Eat Place uncooked steaks for you to take home for your next backyard BBQ and tailgates! So stop on by and get your steaks, wine and spirits all in one stop! 6 oz Filet - $9.75 14 oz Bone-In Filet - $39.99 20 oz Ribeye - $21.24 1.5 lb T-Bone - $20.99 2.5 lb Porterhouse - $39.98 2-5 lb Sirloin - $9.99/lb

10 oz Filet - $16.24 1.5 lb Bone-In Strip - $20.99 2 lb Bone-In Ribeye - $35.98 2 lb T-Bone - $27.98 3 lb Porterhouse - $47.97

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Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School Focusing on a Well-Rounded Curriculum THE YEAR AHEAD As summer vacations come to an end and the school year gets in full swing, we become more focused on our visions and plans for the future. The vision of JGS School remains constant in that we strive to instill a love of learning and a love of God, self and others. We are focused on maintaining a secure and challenging environment that nurtures our students to accomplish their personal and academic goals. We believe a well-rounded curriculum helps our students excel academically, socially and athletically. Our annual giving campaign, the JGS Annual Fund, began its fourth year on August 1st and is off to a great start. The JGS Annual Fund provides much needed funding for our growing school in the form of teacher compensation, tuition assistance, campus security and maintenance, and technology purchases. We pray for continued success thanks to our loyal patrons who faithfully support JGS school and our mission. We are already planning our 4th Annual Fall Festival celebration slated for Saturday, October 27th at 5:30 p.m. on the JGS playground. We welcome our community, friends, families and parishioners to join us for this family friendly event. WHAT’S NEW FOR 2018/19? JGS School has recently become Google Classroom trained. Teachers and students will begin using G Suite for Education in the classroom for providing and monitoring homework assignments, increasing student participation, learning online research techniques, citing online documents and much more. Our school has 3 C.O.W.s 18 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

(computers on wheels) with 25 laptops each and Google Chrome books accessible to all students. We are expecting the arrival of another 3 C.O.W.s, which will give us one-toone student/device capability for grades 4-6. These new advancements greatly enhance our ability to provide each individual student with the technology needed to excel in today’s learning environment. We are excited about our newly formed archery team in grades 4-6. Mrs. Kathy Terracina and Ms. Laura Maclin, NASP (National Archery in Schools Program) certified teachers, will be leading our program, which is aimed at improving educational performance among students through focus, self-control, discipline, patience and life lessons required to be a successful student and adult. Students will be eligible to compete at district, regional, state and national levels. STEM PROGRAM JGS is extremely excited about partnering with the Cyber Innovation Center to bring our students a cutting-edge, quality crosscurricula that will enhance their learning process. STEM is an educational program developed to prepare primary and secondary students for college and graduate study in the fields of science, technology, engineering and mathematics. We will continue to expand on our already successful STEM program. Last school year, students tackled projects each month including completing a roller coaster design module based on the National Integrated Cyber Education Research Center (NICERC) curriculum. The students used the Engineering Design Process to complete

the roller coaster project. Mrs. Katherine High, JGS 5th grade teacher, provided the instructional method and let the students run with their imagination and creativity. SPORTS ACTIVITIES JGS offers many sports including Tackle 1 and Tackle 2 football, 3rd-6th grade baseball and softball, 2nd-6th grade tennis, kindergarten-6th grade cross country running, 4th-6th grade boys’ and girls’ basketball, cheerleading, NYRR Rising Runners, Boy and Girl Scouts, a 4-H program and a new archery program. JGS is beginning its second year of 4-H spearheaded by Mrs. Ashley Hays and Ms. Laura Maclin. JGS School was the recipient of the Ouachita Parish 4-H Rookie of the Year Award for 2018. The 4-H program introduces subjects related to agriculture, livestock, health, citizenship and leadership. There is an activity for every personality available at JGS. We are extremely proud of all the accomplishments our students make on and off the field and hope to continue our success in the classroom and on the field in the coming school year. Families who may be interested in finding out more about Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School are encouraged to visit our website, www. jesusgoodshepherd.org or contact the school office directly at 318-325-8569 to schedule a tour with our principal, Mrs. Lisa Patrick. Tours are given every Tuesday at 9:00 a.m. and by appointment. Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

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Zinnias IF THE SUMMER HEAT IS WEARING OUT YOUR GARDEN, ZINNIAS WILL SAVE THE DAY ARTICLE BY P. ALLEN SMITH

Zinnias are perennials that attract butterflies and beneficial insects to your garden (photo by Kelly Quinn).

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eptember has rolled around; the dog days of summer are still in full effect. If your garden is anything like mine, it’s starting to show a little wear and tear, responding to some extreme summer heat and drought. The bloom is off my roses -- literally -- and most other flowers in the garden are a little crispy around the edges. Everything, that is, except the zinnias. Zinnias are one of those rare flowers that not only laugh in the face of heat and drought, but also put on such a colorful, glorious display, the rest of your summer garden will be embarrassed. Their large, petaled faces come in all shades of pink, yellow, orange, red and purple, making a garden loaded with zinnias look like it’s full of large, colorful lollipops. And the pigments are so rich and clear -- it’s exactly what the eye is searching for on a sweltering August day. This bold annual has been in cultivation for hundreds of years and originates in the southwestern United States, Mexico and Central America, which explains why it’s such a great performer in hot, sunny locations in the garden. Flowers last for such a long time in pristine condition that zinnias are sometimes known by the common name “Youth and Old Age.” Gardeners have a great sense of humor, don’t we? Look around, and you’re likely to see zinnias everywhere in a garden, starting at the front of a garden bed at 6 inches tall, all the way to the back, standing at a stately 4 feet tall, and everything in between. And butterflies? Zinnias attract butterflies like moths to a flame. Regardless of which form the zinnia flower comes in, from singles, doubles and ruffles to dahlia and cactus forms and small pompoms, they make perfect landing pads for monarchs, swallowtails and other butterflies. This nectar-rich flower is a must-have for all butterfly gardens. You can start zinnias by seed indoors 4-6 weeks before the last average frost date for your zone, or wait and sow them directly in the garden when the weather warms. It’s an incredibly easy plant to grow from seed -- great for children and beginning gardeners -- and I’ve even had zinnias sow themselves from seed that appeared on stems from the previous year. Or stop by your local garden center and pick up a sixpack or two. In fact, I plant zinnia seed directly in the soil successively every two weeks in patches at Moss Mountain Farm (Zone 8a) as a late as August; always ensuring plenty of blooms in early fall and through October. The only disease issues to keep an eye out for are possibly leaf spot and powdery mildew. The main culprits are too much water, high humidity and poor air circulation. During the height of summer, water at the base of the plants, so that leaves remain dry and let them dry out between waterings. Pick up and discard brown, fallen leaves, and 20 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Zinnias come in a rainbow of colors. Even green! (Photo by Allen Smith)

Zinnia elegans ‘Magellan’ -- Considered a dwarf variety, ‘Magellan’ reaches 12-14 inches tall, with double flowers. This variety has a tidy, uniform growth habit, so is perfect in containers and window boxes. Zinnia elegans ‘Thumbelina’ -- A true dwarf at only 4-6 inches tall, ‘Thumbelina’ is a great selection for the front of the border or as part of a container planting display. Zinnia marylandica ‘Profusion’ -- Exceptional disease resistance and a compact, uniform habit make this another really popular variety. Plants reach about 18 inches tall and can spread to about 18 inches wide. These qualities make this variety a great selection for garden planting en masse. Zinnia angustifolia -- Also known as creeping zinnia, this plant features narrow leaves and is often used at the front of the border, reaching about 12 inches tall. Z. angustifolia is even more robust than Z. elegans, so you’ll often see it in mass plantings.

Above: As the farm enters the fall season, I like to take the last bit of opportunity to enjoy my beautiful Zinnias; Top Left: Zinnias are a very rewarding flower and perfect for bouquets and arrangements (photo by Donna Evans).; Bottom Left: Zinnias come in all shapes and sizes, they are a must have for every garden (photo by Jason Masters).

space plants so that there’s enough room for good air circulation. If necessary, treat affected plants with a fungicide, such as Neem oil. But honestly, I think the zinnia’s overwhelming flower power is enough to overcome any spots or blemishes you might encounter. Some of my favorite zinnia varieties include: Zinnia elegans ‘Cut and Come Again’ -- These 3-feet-tall double flowers feature blooms about 2-1/2 inches wide. And as you might guess, they make great cutting flowers, producing new flower buds throughout the growing season. Zinnia elegans ‘State Fair’ -- The classic zinnia and my gold standard variety. Plants reach about 2-1/2 feet tall, and flower heads are an amazing 5-6 inches across. You can see these blooms from a mile away. Zinnia elegans ‘Benary’s Giant’ – The go-to zinnia for the cut flower industry, ‘Benary’s Giant’ has luscious, dahlia-type flower heads and extra sturdy stems. Plants reach about 3 feet tall, with blooms 5 inches wide.

Seed Sources for Zinnias

Garden Trends

Rohrer Seeds

Halifax Seed

Twilley Seed

Park Seed

Harris Seeds

This is just a small sampling of the many zinnias available, and there are new varieties being introduced every year. Just let some of the names entice you: Whirligig Mix, Peppermint Stick, Red Spider, Queen Lime with Blotch, Persian Carpet and Raggedy Ann. My fingers are twitching for a seed catalogue, and I hope yours are, too.

P. Allen Smith is an author, television host and conservationist with a passion for American style. His show “Garden Home” airs on LPB, KLTM, KLPA and AETN. Check your local listings for “Garden Style.” Smith uses his Arkansas home, Moss Mountain Farm, as an epicenter for promoting the local food movement, organic gardening and the preservation of heritage poultry breeds. He created his farm to serve as a place of inspiration, education and conservation and provides visitors from around the country with tours of his property, which may be booked at pallensmith.com/tours.

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Bayou Pages NIGHTSTANDS & COFFEE TABLES Three Seminal Books to Change the Way You See the World

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hink about the world around you for just a second. Go just a little deeper. Close your eyes and just think about how you see the world. What is around you? How far away are the objects? Can you press out past the French doors to the patio? What’s beyond that fence? If you’re like most people, there’s a pretty good chance you visualized the world around you in pictures, and you measured the distance to the big oak tree in the time it would take you to walk to it, and you contemplated the placement of everything around you in relation to everything else in the room. Put another way, you imagined a photograph of your space and said to yourself it would take you about thirty seconds to walk to the tree, and on the way, you’d pass the coffee table beside the sofa, through the doors to the patio, and across the back yard. Even the yard gets a spatial reference. But what if we could see our world differently? These three books will help you do just that -- see the world through the eyes of someone else, filtered through a deeper understanding of the idea of time and the relationships shared by any number of seemingly unrelated objects and concepts. Hold on to your brain pan, because the universe and everything in it bears little resemblance to what you think. A Thousand Crossings by Sarah Greenhough and Sarah Kennel; photos by Sally Mann Sally Mann’s work has long been a lightning rod for controversy. At the same time, she’s become one of the most sought after, celebrated photographers of her generation, on par with Annie Liebowitz and Didier 22 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

REVIEWS BY MICHAEL DEVAULT Massard. In A Thousand Crossings, authors Sarah Greenhough and Sarah Kennel take readers into the world Mann sees, as Mann sees it. Filled with hundreds of Mann’s most well-known plates and images, Greenhough and Kennel chart Mann’s development as an artist and photographer. The authors also take readers inside Mann’s experience of the controversies surrounding her photo essays featuring her children and recount how Mann’s works were the subject of court cases and public fury. The result of this no-holds-barred look at Mann and her career create an intimate, moving portrait of an artist and a mother, at once torn between recreating the world as she saw it and defending that vision to an audience who didn’t understand it. A Thousand Crossings is that rarest of air -- a coffee table book filled with beautiful, haunting images that also just happens to be a page turner. The Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli Readers familiar with the writings of Carlo Rovelli, a theoretical physicist and popular science columnist, will know what they’re in for when they pick up his latest book, The Order of Time, a deep dive into the nature of time -- both in the layman’s sense as well as the scientific sense. For, in Rovelli’s deft hand, the two are one and the same. Through a series of brief, easy-tocomprehend essays, Rovelli takes the various notions of time -- a measure of the passage of time, as we understand it; time as a scientific measure; and “time” as an integral part of Albert Einstein’s “spacetime” paradigm -- and disassembles each until, at last, readers are left

with a profoundly reshaped view of both time and the universe itself. With The Order of Time, Rovelli underscores the reputation he built with Seven Brief Lessons in Physics, a master illuminator of the hidden, the occult workings of cosmology, from the largest of galaxies to the tiniest aspects of the quantum workings of a quark. Be prepared, because you’ll quit trusting that watch on your wrist by about page 12. Convergence: The Idea at the Heart of Science by Peter Watson Ever since Anaximander first began categorizing the world around him into discrete, definable observations, scientists have continually narrowed their fields of vision, specializing in ever-smaller divisions of the natural world. But for the last 150 years or so, “science” has taken a turn in the opposite direction. This is the story of Convergence: The Idea at the Heart of Science, by Peter Watson. With the deft hand of a master investigator, Watson unpacks scientific achievement of the last century and a half and demonstrates just how much science is growing together, rather than apart. Biologists are now fascinated with the quantum world, and physicists have realized the quantum world, as we see it, is as much defined by the how of “we see it” as it is by the what of “what we see.” Told partly as a history of discovery and as a mystery, Convergence is sure to challenge how you think about science and the investigations scientists conduct. Watson’s work is an important look behind the curtain of one of the most revolutionary ideas since Einstein’s Relativity.

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I REMEMBER making “quiet time” a part of your daily schedule a r t i cl e by PAUL L I PE

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the teacher who was largely responsible for and hundreds of pages from those selected books. This reading was NOT developing in me a love for reading. It was my good fortune to sit nearly as interesting as the books of fiction which I had grown to love. under her instruction in both the sixth and eighth grades. During those However, this did teach me to read rapidly, hitting the “high spots.” In formative years in my life, she introduced me to the pleasures that can addition, I absorbed some data that otherwise I would have missed. For instance, there have been several times when, while watching a quiz come from the pens of great writers. Her method was subtle but very effective, for I am confident that show on TV, I have been able to answer some inconsequential question. When my surprised family asked, she influenced not only me but also the “How did you know that?,” my reply great majority of her other students. has been, “Parallel Reading!” This is how she worked her magic: The point is that reading, whether Every day following lunch, she would enjoyable or just informative, is have the whole class sit quietly with important. Our minds are improved, our heads resting on our desks while and our lives enhanced. The person she read us a chapter in a book from who does not spend some time reading a well-chosen list of good literature. is probably guilty of cheating himself Some of my favorites included Tom out of a pleasure he does not know Sawyer, Ivanhoe, The Last of the Mohicans, exists. With our excellent area libraries Treasure Island and A Tale of Two Cities. and the availability of electronic She would read bonus chapters if books, a world of new vistas is open the class had perfect attendance, if to everyone; so turn off the TV and put everyone made “100” on the daily down those mechanical devices -- and spelling test, and (good hygiene is read a book! important) if we all brushed our teeth! Of all the books I have read (or This soon became the highlight of my skimmed), one stands out as the most day at school – not brushing my teeth, “FEW THINGS IN MY LIFE AND VOCATION HAVE helpful and the most influential. That but hearing the teacher read. BEEN AS ENCOURAGING AND BENEFICIAL AS book is the Bible. My conversion dates This practice of my teacher THE SYSTEMATIC EXPOSURE OF MY MIND AND back to the summer between my had other positive affects – because junior and senior years of high school. I appreciated her reading to us, I HEART TO THE TRUTHS OF GOD’S WORD.” At the strong encouraging of my sister, wanted to do my best in my other school-related activities. There is no doubt that my grades were higher I spent that summer attending and working at a Bible Camp in upstate because of my desire to please my reader/teacher. I suspect that my New York. Leaders at that camp, who helped me see my spiritual need deportment was also better for the same reason. As I reflect back on my and who pointed me to the One Who could meet that need, stressed to junior high years, I remember being much better behaved in the sixth me the importance of a regularly, consistent habit of reading the Bible. and eighth grades than I was in grade seven. (My interaction with my That summer, I began the practice of a daily “Quiet Time” and have seventh grade teacher is a completely different story and for another maintained that routine through the years since. Few things in my life and vocation have been as encouraging and beneficial as the systematic day!) My reading habits were also shaped by a professor at Davidson exposure of my mind and heart to the truths of God’s Word. I assume that if you have gotten this far in this edition of “I College, my alma mater. I majored in history, and this particular instructor was a brilliant man and a not-too-boring lecturer. In addition Remember,” you must surely like to read. If I am correct in that to our BIG textbook, the good Doctor assigned what he termed “parallel assumption, let me commend the continued reading of good books, and reading.” This consisted of a long, long list of books that were “parallel” especially the consistent reading of the Bible. I am confident that you to our particular field of study. We were to read and report on hundreds will be greatly benefitted, as I have been. 24 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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St. Francis Medical Center Foundation Be a Part of Something Incredible!

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INCE 2012, THE ST. FRANCIS MEDICAL CENTER Foundation has been dedicated to working to fulfill the mission of caring for those most in need, in particular women and children. At St. Francis Medical Center, we know your child’s health, happiness and access to services and specialized care are what really matter to you when your child needs medical attention. We are proud to be the leader in caring for the critically ill and sick premature babies and children throughout the region. St. Francis Medical Center serves more than 500,000 people across 17 parishes in Louisiana and 3 counties in Arkansas and we understand how important it is for families in times of crisis to have the appropriate healthcare they need close to home. The Foundation works with the hospital to align the identified critical needs with funding to support particular programs and services to ensure a higher level of care, quality, patient experience and positive outcomes for our patients. We are privileged to have the northeast Louisiana region’s only Level III Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU), Level III OB/Labor and Delivery, and dedicated Pediatric Intensive Care Unit (PICU), vital services when it comes to the lives of our women and children and a key area of focus for the Foundation. Because of the generosity of our community and donors, we are able to make a profound impact on the lives of so many throughout the region by assisting to continue to provide the highest level of care to more than 4,000 newborns, mothers, babies, pediatric patients and children annually. Over the last seven years, with the overwhelming support of our community, businesses and individual donors, the Foundation has raised over $3 million for state-of-the-art equipment, advanced technology, new programs and education, and hospital service expansions for St. Francis Medical Center. With the combined funds from our car raffle, annual golf tournament with Thomas Morstead (Punter for the Saints) and his foundation, What You Give Will 26 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Grow, funds, and general donations made throughout the past year, we were able to give back $500,000 to St. Francis Medical Center in support of our women and children’s services with the purchase of the following: customized transport isolette, advanced ultrasound, table top warming cabinet, jaundice meter, newborn hearing screener and NicView streaming camera system. Funds raised from the 2018 car raffle, in conjunction with the money raised through the 2019 golf tournament and general donations, will help us to enhance the level of care for critically ill newborns and pediatric patients by contributing funds toward a newly constructed 6 bed Level II PICU located in the pediatric unit. Along with our extensive pediatric specialists and highly trained clinical staff, this new unit will allow for a more family-centered approach for critically ill children through the latest technology and design in pediatric care. Every donation is a lifesaving gift that allows us to continue to fulfill the critical healthcare needs of our community. St. Francis Medical Center is your hospital and without these gifts, vital technology and specialized services are at risk. Help give life a chance. Visit stfran.com to find out how you can be a part of something incredible! “When our twins were born 13 weeks early, the doctors, nurses and staff of the St. Francis NICU exceeded all our expectations. They truly treated our twins as their own, which helped to ease our fears and anxiety, as well as all other emotions that come with having a child in the NICU. Words can never express how thankful we are for them and how blessed our community is to have such an amazing NICU to care for our children.” – Nick and Whitney Richardson- Monroe, LA

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MISS SPIRIT OF THE OUACHITA On August 4, 2018 Miss Spirit of the Ouachita and Miss Heart of Trenton Organization crowned their new titleholders at the West Monroe Convention Center. Throughout this year these ladies will work closely with the city of West Monroe and the West Monroe/West Ouachita Chamber of Commerce. They will also promote their individual platforms as well as Children’s Miracle Network on behalf of the Miss America Organization! They will also compete at the state level in April and June of 2019. We are so proud of them. Congratulations, ladies! Pictured from left to right are: Gracie Sivils, Miss Heart of Trenton’s Outstanding Teen; Alyssa Garner, Miss Heart of Trenton; Hannah Teutsch, Miss Spirit of the Ouachita; and Anna-Katherine Thompson, Miss Spirit of the Ouachita’s Outstanding Teen.

THE MEKA PALETTE Meka Bennett, celebrity make up artists and resident BayouLife makeup artist, is excited to announce the launch of her very own makeup palette. Meka partnered with Louisiana-based company Fleur de Vie and together to create this fall palette that features four eyeshadows and two blushes. Meka has been in the beauty industry for over 20 years and worked with celebrities including Sadie Robertson, Danity Kane, Kelly Clarkson and more. Fleur de Vie is a plant based skincare and cosmetics company that focuses on restoring the barrier function layer of skin by using ingredients found in nature. The MEKA palette officially launches on September 15 and will be available on www.myfleurdevie.com

LUNCH AND LEARN Specialists Hospital of Sheveport held their Lunch and Learn Friday, July 27th at noon in Monroe. Guests were invited by Dr. Steven Atchison to partake in an educational seminar while lunch was provided, free of charge. The luncheon took place at The Warehouse No. 1 while Dr. Atchison gave his lecture on hip and knee replacement. He also covered how the Mako Robotic arm assisted technology works and the benefits using this machine in a knee or hip replacement surgery. If you are interested in attending the upcoming Lunch and Learn, please call 318.213.3356 or email dware@spechosp.com.

DBK WINS NATIONAL STUDIO OF THE YEAR DBK Dance and Performing Arts was recently named Studio of The Year by StreetzDance at the 2018 National Convention in Galveston, TX. “We are so very blessed to receive such an incredible honor,” says Debbie Bourg, Owner/Director of DBK. In addition, the dancers took classes from professional dancers and choreographers from across the country. DBK dancers received all Platinum ratings in Solo and Group competitions. They were awarded runner-up to the Teen Title with “Carry Me Home,” Choreographed by Mackenzie Salter Grassi and Senior National Champions with “Depth,” choreographed by Brianna Ulven.

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article by Kenny Covington

FISHING

With Kenny

Muddy Water Magic

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like muddy water. While most fishermen would prefer to look for the cleanest water they can find, I like to find the dirtiest water possible. I am a “mudder,” when it comes to most of my bass fishing. With the right mindset and the correct approach, muddy water can create some of the best fishing opportunities you can find. In this month’s “Fishing with Kenny” we are going to talk about some of the dos and don’ts of muddy water bass fishing. First, let’s look at some general things to remember when targeting bass in muddy water. For one, bass in muddy water situations are usually cover oriented. They like to get right next to something or have something over the top of their heads. From a human aspect, it is similar to being in a dark room. The first thing we do is try to find a wall or something to give us an idea of where we are. This one simple thing gives us a sense of security, and a bass is no different. The next thing to consider is that the bass will probably be shallow. This doesn’t mean they all will move to the bank. This simply means that if there is vertical cover like cypress trees, they will pull up to within a foot or two of the surface to do much of their feeding. Or if there are laying logs, they will position themselves directly underneath them, usually on the shallowest end of the log. Shallow is relative to the given body of water and the cover available. The last thing to consider is the body of water you are fishing. While this may not seem important, it can be the most critical aspect when trying to determine how to catch these particular type of fish. For example, if I am on a lake like Caney or Claiborne, both very clear bodies of water, an influx of muddy water changes the dynamics of the lake. Fish in these clear bodies of water are accustomed to feeding by sight and can be hard to catch. But if the water suddenly becomes

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highly stained or muddy, the fish often move to extremely shallow water to feed. I have always believed it’s because bigger bass look for the easiest way to get a quick meal. If you are fishing the Ouachita River, which is almost always a stained water fishing situation, and it turns really muddy, the fish are used to this particular environment, so the bite seldom changes. They are used to living, feeding and reproducing in a fluctuating water levels and clarities, so they adapt quite quickly. It bothers the fishermen more than it effects the fish. One thing to note about fishing shallow muddy water; if you have to choose between fishing grass or wood cover, as a rule I tend to always fish the wood cover first. It seems to be more consistent and the fish more reliable. Fish that relate to grass tend to roam more when the water color drastically changes, but a good thing to remember is to always fish the inside edge nearest to the bank. So now that we have decided where to fish in our muddy water, what lures do we need to use? My first choice when fishing muddy water is a spinnerbait. The muddier the water, the more vibration I want from my lure, so a ½ ounce single #5 Colorado bladed spinnerabait would be my first choice. These fish are feeding by feel, so I want a lure that can be retrieved slower allowing the fish to track it better in the dingier water. When choosing a spinnerbait color for muddy water, standbys such as chartreuse or chartreuse/white are good choices. Other good choices that very few people use are chartreuse/black and a solid purple. Muddy water is also a great time to use the old rubber banded spinnerbait skirts. Because of their water displacement, they seem to catch more fish than the newer silicone ones. My next choice of lure would be a big bulky slow falling jig. I usually flip/pitch with a ½ model 75% of the time, but it seems I get more bites on a ¼ or 3/8 ounce version when the water turns off color. Another thing to remember is that you want bulk, so now is the time to use bigger creature or crawfish style trailers and if possible, I always try to use a jig that has rattles on it. The color of your jig is open to debate, but I have found as long as I stick to darker color patterns, such as Black/blue, Black neon or Texas Craw, I tend to catch fish. Darker colors, a slower rate of fall and bulk up your jigs appearance and you have lure that will catch fish in muddy water. My last choice of lure for all of you potential “mudders” out there would be a squarebilled crankbait. Squarebills come in all shapes and sizes, and the 1.5 version is easily the most popular. When I find a good squarebill bite, I like to experiment with the bigger and smaller sizes to see which lure gets a more consistent bite. Surprisingly, smaller squarebills like the 1.0 can be very effective, even when the water color is at its dirtiest. Much like with my other two lure choices, I keep my colors simple when choosing my squarebills. As long as it has a base of chartreuse or white then you are on the right track. All fluorescent colors are effective, but a solid black lure is also a good choice, because it silhouettes very well in the darker water. Well, it looks like we have run out of space again for another month. Hopefully, we were able to pass along some tips that will make your next fishing trip more productive should you find your favorite fishing hole has turned to mud. Be careful out on the water, and remember to catch one for me! See you next month!

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The Edit

Cathi French Roberts & Lori French

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here are times when you enter a room and you can’t quite figure out what it is that seems perfectly “off.” It can’t be explained. It is not necessarily what it is, but how it is. A room with style and flair that is perfectly not perfect. This interior trick is really not a trick, but is simply the correct edit. When seasons change, we all reach in our closets for that favorite jacket or blouse to usher in the cooler days. You subconsciously edit from the last time you reached that far into last year’s sea of hangers. But as we quickly find out the older we get, the more things change the more they remain the same. As with your wardrobe, you need to edit your home periodically. But just as you wouldn’t dare toss your favorite striped sweater, silk scarf or perfectly fitted denim jacket, a good thing to remember is that fine furniture and accessories are always worthy of remaining in your home. More than simply basics, they are purebred classics that stand the test of time should be treasured. When editing, if a table, chair, lamp or rug needs to go (to storage, to a friend, to a sale), just make sure you are pretty positive it won’t make a comeback, before it is permanently tossed. Just like the oversized boyfriend jacket you wore in high school and the white socks and loafers that are trending again, if it still has personal value or fulfilling aesthetic appeal, keep it in the edit. Sometimes simply re-working a room and merchandising your elements in a new way instantly updates the outdated! Style and inspiration, whether casual or sophisticated, in your closet or in your living room, should evoke a spirit of who you are and what message you are sending to the world. Edit wisely. But maybe more importantly, select future pieces for your home thinking about proportion, longevity, flair and versatility- just like those items you will soon pull out (once again) in the back of your closet.

Five Pieces with Staying Power CORAL

SIDE TABLE

Evoke the essence of the ocean into your living space. Coral décor will always have a place in the home.

A unique side table can be moved from room to room, never losing appeal. Choice a neutral piece with a fun twist.

GRAY ACCENT CHAIR

Like a gray sheath dress, a similar hued accent chair will never be dated. Choose one with sleek lines and staying power.

MIRRORED CUBES

Make a statement that will last a lifetime. Mirrored cubes can be used together as a coffee table, split apart as an accent table, or just as a fabulous addition to any room. No edits needed, these are here to stay.

TORTISE SHELL AND ZEBRA

Take a walk on the wild side. Fur rugs are timeless. Toss them over an area rug for a rich look that lasts. The goldand-brown mottled pattern is everywhere – incorporate tortoise shell into your decor for a natural look.

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Cross Keys Bank

Scott Franklin Elected to Cross Keys Bank Board of Directors

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ROSS KEYS BANK IS PLEASED TO ANNOUNCE THAT Rayville native and Richland Parish Chamber of Commerce Board Chairman, Scott Franklin has been elected to serve on the Cross Keys Bank Board of Directors. With the bank’s recent decision to reinvest in Rayville with a new branch building, and Scott’s fervent enthusiasm for his community, the relationship will be fruitful for everyone involved. Cross Keys Bank Chairman and CEO Michael Vizard stated, “We are thrilled to have Scott Franklin join our Board of Directors.” His sense of community and a proud heritage will add a youthful perspective and energetic enthusiasm that will be of tremendous value. President Shane Bridges and Richland Parish Market President Walter Hillman echoed this and added, “He is going to be an asset to all of us in guiding the bank with his knowledge in all areas of business, especially agriculture.” Scott, a licensed attorney and realtor, was born and raised in Rayville, where he graduated from Riverfield Academy before attending Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge earning a B.S. in Finance. He then went on to earn a law degree from Mississippi College School of Law in Jackson. Scott practiced law for a few years with Hayes, Harkey, Smith and Cascio, LLP in Monroe before making the decision to return to his family’s business. He currently manages a commercial rice dryer and sales office for Holly Ridge Rice and Grain Terminal and farms rice and soybeans with his father and uncles. Courtney Franklin, Scott’s wife, is a practicing attorney who works for the State of Louisiana as an advocate for children in abusive and neglectful homes. He and his wife feel blessed to be the parents of their eight-month-old son, Fred, who Scott describes as his “entire world.” Scott serves as the Vice-President of the Northeast Louisiana Rice Growers Association, 2nd Vice-President of the Louisiana Rice Council, and a member of the United States of America Rice Council, which acts as the steward of grower-funded promotion dollars in rice growing states. He is also a trustee for the Louisiana Agriculture Self-Insured Fund, which provides extremely important workers compensation insurance for Agri-business in North Louisiana at a very low cost to farmers and ag-industry related businesses. 34 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Scott was on the founding board of the Richland Parish Chamber of Commerce, established in 2015. He was first elected Chairman of the Chamber in 2016 and still serves that role today. Scott and the rest of the Chamber Board are avid believers that with unflinching determination, they will “create a life for the future generations that was far better than anything in our past.” His devotion to the Richland community stems from his family origins in Northeast Louisiana. His great-grandfather established deep roots in the community after working hard to provide a future for himself and his family. Scott said, “Everything I am, and everything I will become, I owe to the working people of Northeast Louisiana. My great-grandfather was an orphan who had to jump off of a train in Holly Ridge, LA to find his place in the world. I am indebted for life to this community of wonderful people, who for generations have been our partners and customers.” Scott sees his great-grandfather’s struggles as a motivator for the work he does on a daily basis for the betterment of the community. Scott pointed out that Cross Keys has an impeccable reputation and is recognized statewide in the banking industry. “Its leadership and employees are some of the finest people you can find,” he said. “The bank and I share the common belief that we will create growth in North Louisiana, but only with hard work and by working together.” Founded in 1902, Cross Keys Bank is a community bank in North Louisiana and is a wholly owned subsidiary of BSJ Bancshares, Inc., a single bank holding company with its corporate headquarters in St. Joseph, LA. A bank with a long history of serving communities in North Louisiana, Cross Keys Bank has eight offices across the I-20 corridor from Shreveport to Tallulah. It offers financial products and services including eBanking, cash management services, mobile deposit, commercial lending, agribusiness lending, insurance and investments, as well as mortgage and consumer lending. To learn more, visit www.crosskeys.bank or connect on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

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Bon Temps Classical Pilates Pilates for Couples

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OW DO YOU BOND WITH your significant other? Open lines of communication? Challenge your partner to overcome obstacles? As you start thinking about ways to be more proactive, consider how your other half can help you better yourself. Bon Temps Classical Pilates offers a wide variety of ways to practice pilates! One of our most popular are twoperson sessions made up of couples working out together. Backed with the moral support of your significant other, you can turn Pilates into an activity that allows you to motivate and inspire one another to workout. While exercise boasts obvious health benefits, the whole body benefits of Classical Pilates is also a platform to empower your relationship and rekindle your romance. This movement allows you to connect with your special someone in a way that is incredibly powerful. Exercising with your partner can help you “plug back into your person.” When you raise your endorphins, you are guaranteed to feel better about yourself and your relationship. Pilates fosters mental, physical and spiritual growth while also having the unique ability to help you turn inward toward each other. People who workout with a partner they feel comfortable with are more energetic and happier than those who work out alone. By working out as a couple, you can face the physical challenges together through positive reinforcement. Pilates is a movement that will strengthen your core, provide stability, strengthen your muscles and prevent injuries. This creates a unified goal of being happy and healthy that transcends to enjoying your life together!

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There are many benefits of having a partner while practicing pilates: • Training with a partner has been proven to boost productivity. A study in the Annals of Behavioral Medicine found couples that workout together exercised longer and improved their performance. • Accountability acknowledges that someone else relies on you - in this case your partner. Scheduling your pilates sessions ahead of time forces you to be accountable. That means, always showing up to prove commitment to your partner. • Approaching your session as a team and supporting each other will improve motivation. • Regularly training with your significant other also increases ‘mimicry’ - the phenomenon of matching body language and non-verbal communication. Those you mimic tend to have stronger emotional bonds to each other. • Healthy competition is great for motivation and progress. You don’t need to be perfectly matched for fitness to work out together. Just have fun! Whether you’re looking for ways to pair up with your partner or best friend, Pilates is the perfect way to celebrate the person you love in your life. Studies show that you are more likely to stick with a fitness routine when a partner is involved. Embarking on new healthy habits, like Pilates, is a great way to connect with that special someone. Use the power of two to hold each other accountable and create a healthy lifestyle for your relationship. Let Bon Temps Classical Pilates become a place where you and your partner can engage, make exercise easier,

spend time together and enjoy what you are doing - bond over laughter and pilates! ABOUT US Marcia Donald is the founder and owner of Bon Temps Classical Pilates. Marcia discovered Classical Pilates after an injury that disrupted her regular workout regimine. After being introduced to the health benefits, and subsequent total mind, body and soul transformation, she knew she wanted to pursue this passion. In 2016, she embarked on and completed the rigorous, comprehensive, 600-hour Power Pilates Classical Certification. Marcia is joined by Katie Morstead, a comprehensive Power Pilates instructor. Katie’s teaching style is enthusiastic, creative and playful. Her wish is to is to plant seeds of kindness and love while teaching others to nurture the mind, body and soul connection. The Bon Temps team also includes Sherri Betz, PT, DPT, GCS, PMA®-CPT, CEEAA, a doctor of physical therapy, a PMA Certified Pilates Teacher and an APTA board certified specialist in geriatrics and osteoporosis. Bon Temps Pilates offers a variety of classes and services. The mat classes allow you to develop your skills and invigorate your body, mind and spirit. Equipment classes focus on posture, breathing, balance, core control, mobility, strength and flexibility and can be taken in a group or private setting. Bon Temps also offers physical therapy, using a combination of hands-on treatment with Pilates exercised to heal your pain or movement dysfunction. To find out more about Bon Temp Pilates, give them a call or stop by their studio on Trenton Street in West Monroe! WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 37


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ARTIST For Annie Richardson, art and life are forever influencing each other, and there is a space between where inspiration and creation happen.

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rtist Annie Weinstein Richardson is a collector—a collector of words, papers, calendars and music, a collector of old and new places, ideas and experiences. “Everything relates to something else,” she said, “and everything means something.” As an artist, Annie takes inspiration where she finds it. “The subject matter could be anything,” she said. “It could be travel. It could be a napkin.” When inspiration strikes, it’s like a bird taking flight. “And that’s the intuitive side,” she said. As an example, Annie recalled a time when her son was playing football, and she found herself focused on the shapes created on the field by the various plays. She asked her son to draw some of the plays for her, and a series called “The Game” grew out of those drawings. “I’m really influenced by everything around me,” she said. “It’s about internalizing the experiences you’re going through.” The series was personal for her because of the connection to her son, but something else she loved about the series was that the boys could look at the paintings and see the plays. They could name them, and the paintings sparked conversation for them. She had captured moments of their lives, and she had inadvertently created work

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that not only appealed to the sensibilities of women but also men. For Annie, art and life are forever influencing each other, and there is a space between where inspiration and creation happen. One of her favorite quotes comes from the late Robert Rauschenberg: “Painting relates to both art and life . . . . I try to act in that gap between the two.” Rauschenberg combined methods and materials in fresh ways that led him to become one of the most influential American artists of the last century. Like Annie, he traveled broadly and took inspiration from a variety of people, places and experiences. As a result, his work danced passionately between art and life, fusing the two in innovative ways. Like Rauschenberg, Annie’s passion for art and life allow her to draw elements of both into the gap between, which is where the magic happens. It’s where the things and experiences she’s collected are mixed and transformed. Through painting, ideas and vision become tangible. Annie has been creating for as long as she can remember. With an artist as a mother, she was born with an innate connection to the arts and a desire to nurture it. After studying art at various institutions, including Sarah Lawrence College in Lacoste, France, and NewcombTulane College in New Orleans, Annie completed her Bachelor of Fine Arts at the University of Colorado in Boulder. Of the time immediately following graduation, Annie said, “I didn’t know what area I wanted to go into.” Nevertheless, she continued to foster her own growth as an artist, studying lithography and printmaking at the Cornish Institute in Seattle, Washington. With a range of experiences and travels under her belt, Annie soon found herself back in New Orleans, exploring a new creative venture: filmmaking. In the early 1980s, she worked as a freelance film producer for commercials, documentaries and music videos. Then, in the mid-1980s, love and marriage brought her north to Ruston, Louisiana, and she’s called the Piney Hills home ever since. After moving to Ruston, Annie took a break from art but continued to embrace life and all its colors. She worked for a brief period as a firefighter for Lincoln Parish Fire District 1 in Vienna and even pursued a private pilot’s license. Throughout the 1990s, Annie busied herself raising children, but she started to find her way back to art in the early 2000s. During that time, a friend mentioned to her that Edwin Pinkston, one of Louisiana Tech University’s beloved art professors, would soon be retiring. Annie didn’t want to miss the opportunity to learn from Pinkston, so she enrolled in as many of his classes as she could. Along the way she also took painting classes from Peter Jones and drawing classes from Charlie Meeds. It was a time of intense growth and selfdiscovery that reignited her passion for exploring the dynamics of painting and communicating.

In 2005, Annie’s friend and In addition to including fellow artist, Patricia Tait Jones, a variety of mediums in her suggested that the two of them work, Annie also enjoys learning put together an exhibition of and experimenting with new their work. Annie was hesitant techniques, including photo at first but agreed, and the show, transfers and encaustic painting. called Two Views, which was held As an active member of more at the Bank of Ruston, turned than one group of local artists, out to be a huge success. Annie Annie continually draws on said, “We sold all the paintings.” the knowledge and feedback Afterward, she started to work on of others. “Everyone brings a larger scale and refine her style. something to the table,” she said, She participated in a number of “and everyone has something local and regional exhibitions to say.” These groups, Gallery while also expanding her gallery 210 and Gallery Fringe: An Art representation to include Rohm Experience, get together to have Gallery in New Orleans, Taylor demonstrations, workshops Clark Gallery in Baton Rouge and critiques, and they have and Iris & Co. in Birmingham, been an invaluable source of Alabama. Her success also led information and support. Annie to representation by Deborah attributes her involvement in Smallpage Mooney, her agent, more than one group partly to as well as inclusion in The Scout an insatiable desire to learn new Guide-New Orleans. things. “I don’t want to miss During this period of something,” she said, “and it’s dramatic growth, Annie created all so interesting.” a series called “Echoes of Italy” Although changing methods inspired by her travels to Italy. and inspiration have led Annie’s The grand façades, patinaed work to evolve, she said, “My walls and crackled paint infused voice and conviction remain new life into her work. While in steady.” For Annie, painting is a Italy, she also discovered that way of communicating with the THERE’S NO PRECONCEIVED paint was sold much differently world, but the process is deeply NOTION OF WHERE THE PAINTING than it was in most stores at personal, because her paintings home. Instead of the premixed inevitably contain remnants IS GOING TO GO. IT COULD TAKE tubes of paint that she was of her life. For this reason, TWO SECONDS OR TWO HOURS TO there’s a level of intimacy and accustomed to, there were whole walls lined with shelves of glass MAKE A SINGLE LINE BECAUSE IT’S vulnerability in each piece that jars filled with pigment in every only the work itself can express. GOT TO BE IN THE RIGHT PLACE TO color you could imagine. “It was “My artwork is so personal and like a candy store,” she said. heartfelt,” she said, “and I put my MAKE THE WHOLE THING FLOW.” Annie returned home with sacks heart and soul into it.” There are of pigment in numerous colors times when she paints for hours and began mixing her own only to realize that the work is paints. “The colors were so rich,” she said. “It was a life changing not turning out as she’d hoped. These moments are difficult, and experience that really affected my work, providing a language she may sand down six hours of work, but afterward, she keeps that takes one on a journey.” painting. “It’s like a rollercoaster of emotions,” she said, “and Another major shift in her work occurred when Annie started struggles are inevitable when you’re painting. I think it’s all part using collage, which has since become one of her most distinctive of the process, but it’s the internal vision you have to believe in.” features. “I’m always moving,” she said, “and I’m always picking Because she pours so much of herself into her work, she cares up everything.” It just made sense to incorporate these things into what happens to each piece and remembers where each one her work. One series in particular, “Bayou Blessings,” used Tobin has gone. In the same way, she thoughtfully names her pieces, maps related to her life and to her family’s real estate, oil and gas leaving few untitled. Like the paintings themselves, the titles business. Annie said that what’s so intriguing to her about maps reflect specific times, places, influences and moods. is that they go from one place to another, leading to a destination In her work, Annie said, “Neutral, subtle, monochromatic with a journey along the way. But her work not only includes palettes set the tone and mood while bold and free mark-making maps. Over the years, her paintings have included menus, sheet creates a dialogue, and multiple layers of paint and collage echo music, pages from old books, wine labels (“Labeled Series”), old journeys traveled.” Although every part of her creative process is calendars, dress patterns, yarn, wire and other things that have handled with intention and care, one of her favorite things about struck a chord with her. But her ultimate goal by including these it is that she can get lost in it. There’s a unique balance of care and things in her work is to strike a chord with the viewer as well—to freedom. “There’s no preconceived notion of where the painting stir up an emotional response. is going to go,” she said, “and I never know how long it will take,

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because everything is taken into consideration. It could take two seconds or two hours to make a single line, because it’s got to be in the right place to make the whole thing flow.” Even if she’s doing things around her house that have nothing to do with painting, there’s always a chance Annie will find herself back at the easel painting for hours. In that time, she may also move from one place to another because it’s important that she see her work evolve in variations of light and space, even if that means carrying canvases bigger than she is up and down stairs, in and out of rooms, or in and out of her house. She’s even been known to fall asleep looking at her work as the sun sets. According to Annie, abstract art involves a background in composition and an understanding of the nuances of balance and placement, which make it one of the hardest genres to work in. “You create a dialogue in your painting,” she said, “and all the shapes and contours have to work together.” It’s as though they’re in conversation with one another. In fact, at the height of her creative process, there may be multiple overlapping dialogues and monologues happening at once. “The movement of line is so important,” she said. “Random mark making and gestural expressions create the monologues and dialogues inside the painting, and each element adds layers that become apparent only as you take the time to explore.” In those moments, there’s an interplay between elements inside the painting, elements outside the painting, as well as elements of history, experience, knowledge and memory. “It’s almost like monologues within dialogues,” she said. But for Annie, internal tools help her filter through the voices. “I just have faith in my imagination and intuition,” she said. “It’s my way of saying who I am, and the monologues carry elements of surprise and emotion. The work just keeps changing. It goes in different directions. You may start out in one direction, but the surprises and accidents that take form—those create the final narrative. 42 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

You can sit back and look at something and get excited by what’s evolved. It wakes your senses. The monologue is inside and out— nothing withheld—creating a vision with unlimited boundaries.” Two years ago, Annie was part of a group exhibition by the Women’s Art Group (now Gallery 210) of Ruston. The exhibition called “More than Words” took place at the Eastern Shore Art Center in Fairhope, Alabama. Its title was especially meaningful to Annie, because she believes art transcends language and communicates on another level. “It’s a visual call to awaken the senses,” she said. It involves the senses not only in the impact of a finished piece on its viewer but also in the impact of the process on its creator. Annie especially loves the malleability of paint and how you can add things in and take things out in an endless number of ways. “I love that art is limitless,” she said. It’s limitless in the number of directions it can go, the number of stories it can tell, and the number of things it can make a person feel. There are times when painting gives Annie a sense of tranquil solitude and other times when it gives her a sense of unbridled freedom, but in both cases, she said, “It’s such a release—it’s like therapy. I get lost, and it’s such a great place to be.” When a painting is finished and is sent out into the world, each viewer will bring a new perspective to it. “But I’m leaving it up to the viewer to take it and see something totally different than what I see,” Annie said. Her hope is that they will appreciate the layers, the embedded dialogues, the relics of lived experience and the stories they evoke. For Annie, art is about so much more than the work itself. “One of the greatest lessons being an artist has taught me is to experience life and enjoy life,” she said. “There’s so much to see. Art is about life experiences. It can express who we are and where we’ve been. It’s about belief in the journey we’re all on. It’s about exploring. It’s about horizons, faith, intuition, discovery, life lessons and all the elements of surprise.”

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Historical Impressions

THE BESPOKE FASHION OF IMPERIAL CHINA

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hen we want or need some article of new clothing, most of us go to a local store and shop for something that we like from what is available in our general standardized size. We may shop the bargain sales or we may pick something from an expensive line of clothing, but we still buy clothing of styles, cuts and patterns that are chosen by someone else and are manufactured to be sold to the general public. It is for this reason that every once in a while, you show up to some event only to find someone else wearing the same item of clothing. Really??? Blue jeans and camouflage are of course not meant to be included in the previous statement. If you are wealthy enough or particular enough to be willing to incur the cost, the apex of personal fashion is the ability to have tailored clothing made just for you. This is the type of clothing that fits your specific body measurements, has style elements chosen personally by you or for you and is of top quality materials and construction. Clothing that is custom tailored from a scratch pattern that is made for one unique person is referred to as “bespoke” for men or “haute couture” for women). Even with bespoke or haute couture clothing, you are still limited to available fabrics no matter how costly those may be. What if you could have clothing woven in patterns and colors that were reserved just for you and no other person? Such exclusivity was once enjoyed by emperors and kings.

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During the various Imperial Chinese Dynasties, the wearing or even possession of certain patterns and colors were forbidden to all except the Emperor. Imperial patterns were created by both tradition and Imperial approval. The fabrics used were woven of the finest materials and further embellished with hand-sewn embroidery including that of real gold. Imperial robes were made for ceremonial occasions, celebrations, travel, snow, rain and everyday use in private apartments and outdoor areas. Bright yellow fabric and specific red, blue and light blue were reserved for the Emperor’s use or gifting only. Yellow was the color worn for daily use and for festive celebrations. Blue was worn for ceremonies of sacrifice at the Temple of the Heaven, red at the Temple of the Sun and light blue at the Temple of the Moon. The most unique Imperial robes were the dragon robes which were worn only on auspicious feast days. With limited exception, robes that featured embroidered golden dragons with five toes were worn only by the Emperor. The rare exceptions were five-toed dragon robes that were gifted to the King of Ryukyu by the Emperor of China. The Emperor also made gifts of dragon robes to his family and officials and to kings and royal officials of Korea and Vietnam but these featured dragons having three or four toes. In Confucianism, the dragon symbolized the Emperor’s power. In addition to the dragons, other symbols for good luck were embroidered into the silk fabric.

The last dragon robes made for Imperial use were worn by the last Emperor of China, Xuantong, who is better known by his personal name, Pu Yi (or Puyi). Pu Yi was elevated to the Dragon Throne and therefore declared a living god in November 1908, when he was only two years and ten months old. The Xinhai revolution in China brought an end to thousands of years of imperial rule and to the 267-year old Qing Dynasty, forcing the abdication of young Pu Yi in February 1912. Although no longer emperor, Pu Yi was allowed to remain living in the palace in Beijing and to retain his imperial title and be treated as a “foreign” monarch by the new republican government of China. When the warlord Feng Yuxiang led a successful coup in 1924, he evicted Pu Yi from Beijing and stripped him of his imperial titles and lifestyle. From 1925 to 1931, Pu Yi lived in a section of the city of Tianjin that had been conceded to the Japanese government; then with Japanese assistance he moved to Manchuria in late 1931. By 1932, the Japanese had invaded and conquered Manchuria; renaming it Manchukuo. In 1934, the Japanese installed Pu Yi as the puppet emperor of Manchukuo. Pu Yi was captured by the Soviets at the end of World War II and eventually turned over to the new People’s Republic of China as a war criminal. After being “remodeled” by Mao Zedong’s government during a tenyear imprisonment, Pu Yi was allowed to quietly live the rest of his life as a compliant Communist citizen. Surviving Qing Dynasty dragon robes are on display in various collections around the world. You do not need to travel far to see an imperial dragon robe, however. One of Pu Yi’s dragon robes is on display at the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum. Although the exact dates of the robe’s construction and wear by Pu Yi are not documented, it is believed to have taken eight years to make and to contain eight million stitches. The dragon robe of the last Emperor of China may be seen from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday, when the Chennault Museum is open to the public.

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Marsala Beverage

Bud Light Partners with Football Teams Across the State

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OOTBALL IS BACK! THE NATION’S largest beer brand is gearing up for another action-packed football season. Whether it is a fantasy football draft, Saturday College Gamedays, NFL Sundays or Monday Night Football, make sure Bud Light is a part of your gameday tradition. BUD LIGHT In 1982, Anheuser-Busch introduced Bud Light nationally. Bud Light, the most popular beer in the country, is a light-bodied lager with a fresh, clean and subtle hop aroma. Its delicate malt sweetness and crisp finish provide the ultimate refreshment. Bud Light is brewed using a blend of premium aroma hop varieties, both American-grown and imported, and a combination of barley malts and rice. Its superior drinkability and refreshing flavor make it the world’s favorite light beer. Bud Light contains 4.2 percent alcohol by volume (ABV). NATIONAL FOOTBALL LEAGUE This football season, Bud Light will once again be the official beer of the NFL. As a matter of fact, Bud Light has been the official beer of the NFL since 2011 and has renewed its sponsorship through the 2022 Super Bowl. As the partnership with the NFL continues, Bud Light is also committed to partnering with 28 of the 32 NFL teams. Lucky for us, Bud Light and the New Orleans Saints have had an excellent partnership. This season, be on the lookout for Saints branded Bud Light packaging on Bud Light Suitcases and Bud Light Aluminum Bottles.

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Although Bud Light is a massive global brand, with partners like the NFL, a focus of Marsala Beverage is to make sure that Bud Light continues to stay entrenched in the community of Northeast Louisiana. One important reason the Bud Light brand is so successful in this market is the local sports partnerships that we have. Bud Light takes a great amount of pride in being the only malt beverage brand to have partnerships with ULM, Louisiana Tech and LSU. “These universities are the backbone of our communities, and it is important to Marsala Beverage that Bud Light supports them,” says VP of Marketing Tyler Flemister.

valuable for Bud Light in the Ruston market but all over Northeast Louisiana. Join us in raising a cold Bud Light and wishing the best of luck to the Bulldogs this football season.

UNIVERSITY OF LOUISIANA MONROE ULM and Bud Light have had an excellent partnership for over 50 years. This partnership goes as far back as when Marsala Beverage was Budco Distributing. This partnership is something that has a tremendous value to the Bud Light brand in Northeast Louisiana. Over the past eight years Bud Light has been the exclusive beer sponsor of the ULM Warhawks. As the ULM athletic department rebrands themselves this year, Bud Light has many new assets in the market. Please be on the lookout for them this fall. So, grab some Bud Lights and come on out to The Grove to help the Warhawks #DEFENDTHENEST

Locally, Marsala Beverage employs about 100 full-time employees. Marsala Beverage, LP is the largest malt beverage, wine/spirits and non-alcoholic distributor in Northeast Louisiana. Their success is based on the fact that they never lose sight of delivering what is really important – quality products, timely service and a genuine concern for our customers’ needs. Annually, they deliver over 2.4 million cases of beverages to over 700 retail accounts. Please find us at www.marsalabeverage. com or follow us on social media: Facebook: Marsala Beverage Twitter: @marsalabeverage1 Instagram: @marsalabeverage

LOUISIANA STATE UNIVERSITY Bud Light has been the exclusive beer partner of the LSU Tigers for over 10 years. This year something very exciting is happening. The LSU logo will be placed on the Bud Light Aluminum bottle for the first time ever! In fact, LSU will be the only school in the country that will have their logo on a Bud Light aluminum bottle this football season. Geaux Tigers!

LOUISIANA TECH UNIVERSITY Bud Light has been a strong partner of Louisiana Tech’s for over 20 years. The Louisiana Tech partnership is not only

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NELA Dental Moves to Tower Drive New Location, Same Award-Winning Service “Our patients will continue to receive the same TLC they’ve come to expect from us over the years. We are proud to provide exceptional dental healthcare, and we enjoy seeing growth and innovations in our area. We hope this new chapter for NELA Dental will bring new and exciting healthcare opportunities to our community for years to come.” – Dr. Daniel Raymond D.D.S. A DENTIST OFFICE LIKE NO OTHER Located on Tower Drive, NELA Dental’s brand new state-of-the-art, two-story facility will allow current and new patients to receive the highest possible dental care in the area. The two-story, 12,000 sq. ft. building includes fifteen patient rooms which include three surgical suites and five hygiene rooms. The second story offers a nearly 3,000 sq. ft. rooms which include a kitchen, for events, which also leads to a spacious balcony fully equipped with an outdoor kitchen area and TV. The second floor will primarily be used as a classroom for continuing education. In fact, a major teaching event will be hosted by NELA Dental in November. They will host the area’s first, live surgery implant CE for doctors to learn the latest in the dental implant industry. The office was constructed by Armstrong Builders, under the leadership of R.J. Lux. Many of the stunning exterior and interior designs were spearheaded by Carla Costello, Sarah Raymond and Sandy McMillan. The office features light, airy walls with touches of rustic charm. Copper accents are splashed throughout, including a custom sign that greets patients in the waiting area. 48 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

NELA Dental’s goals have always been to improve patient’s dental health, enhance patient experience and invest in the communities they love. The new Monroe facility and Farmerville upgrades allows them to achieve those goals. The dentists and staff at NELA Dental are proud to provide exceptional healthcare and believe these new upgrades will not only enhance their services but also promote growth and innovation in the area. The facility will provide the highest level of dental healthcare services to the area. It also allows for more employment opportunities in the community. IT ALL STARTED WITH HALF A BUILDING The Farmerville office was purchased in June of 2007 by Dr. Costello from Dr. Tommy Ward. A year and a half later the other side of the building owned by Dr. William Roberts was purchased by Dr. Costello. The entire dental office was remodeled by Dr. Costello and “Farmerville Dental” was born. The practice flourished, and in 2009 Dr. Daniel Raymond joined Dr. Costello. Two years later, Dr. Raymond was officially a partner. In November of 2011, Dr. Costello and Dr. Raymond bought an existing practice in Dr. Costello’s home town of Oak Grove, and “Oak Grove Dental” was born. In order to keep up with the rapidly growing practice, the Oak Grove facility was remodeled in 2012 to double its size. As needs grew for a dental office to perform all aspects of dentistry under one roof, Dr. Costello and Dr. Raymond bought

the practice of Dr. Sam Trinca and Dr. David Barker in Monroe, and “Monroe Dental” was born. In 2014, all three offices in Farmerville, Oak Grove, and Monroe changed their name to “NELA Dental.” In 2015, Dr. Emily Wilhite joined the Monroe office and works part-time at the Monroe office. Ryan Rachal, D.D.S. joined the NELA Dental team in 2017. This year, the Farmerville office underwent a large renovation project. The facility was upgraded with new equipment and space to better serve their loyal Farmerville patients. NELA Dental also welcomed two more dentists to their lineup, Dr. Mary Webster Rachal and Dr. Allie Watson. SOME THINGS WILL NEVER CHANGE NELA Dental’s service and commitment to their patients will never change. They are proud to offer personal care that is customized to fit the individual needs of each patient. Everyone’s dental needs and financial situations are different, and they are committed to finding solutions for each patient to get the care they need. NELA Dental accepts most major dental insurance plans and third-party payments and offers flexible financing options. Call one of our three convenient locations in Farmerville, Monroe, or Oak Grove to schedule your free consultation. Stop by and see what’s new at NELA Dental and start smiling today!

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Garden Cro ton If you’re looking for an ornamental houseplant to jazz up your living space, the colorful croton is an excellent choice. This eye-catching plant has major appeal whether you plant it in your garden or bring it inside. Known for their striking appearance, the rainbow-hued croton will a vibrant splash of color to your life. Photo by Kelly Moore Clark. Styling by Taylor Bennett.

plant CARE C H O O S E A LO C AT I O N The croton can be a fussy plant. It’s best to avoid moving it often, as it can go into shock. Put the plant in a sunny space and away from drafts or cold temperatures. WAT E R I N G These plants are somewhat drought-tolerant, due to the waxy coating on their leaves. Wait until the top 2 inches of soil are dry, then water thoroughly. Place in a well-draining container. FERTILIZE During active growing periods in spring, summer and early fall, feed the plant every month by adding a liquid or powder fertilizer to the water before watering. Don’t feed the plant during dormancy periods. PRUNING You don’t have to prune these plants, but if you want to encourage fresh growth, snip off the branches or stems at the desired height. Make sure to wear gloves as sticky, white sap drips from pruning cuts.

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The Best Keeps Getting Better The Wellness Center

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F YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A NEW start, The Wellness Center in West Monroe is stepping up the game! More than just a gym, this fitness and health facility has upgraded, renovated and expanded to bring our community the absolute best. They have listened and have responded to what is needed in this area and gone above and beyond with their remodel. The Open House and Ribbon Cutting for the new additions and renovations will be held Monday, September 17th, from 5:30 to 7 p.m. and will be open to the public. Refreshments will be served and staff will be available for tours of the facility. As an extra bonus, no sign-up fee will be assessed to those joining The Wellness Center during the Open House. A new Women’s Only Floor has been added, along with a remodeled Kid’s Korner and Men’s Locker Room, as well as, an expansion of the current Main Weight Floor! From the young to the experienced, men and women, The Wellness Center has kept everyone in mind with the new renovations. One of the largest and most exciting projects is the newly renovated and expanded Women’s Only Floor. All new Precor equipment was selected specifically with women’s fitness needs in mind. In addition to the new equipment, a large area has been reserved for free weights and circuit training including dumbbells, kettlebells, weighted bars, weighted balls, jump ropes and much more! With its exclusive access to Women, this area provides a quiet and private area for your workout needs. The recently remodeled Kid’s Korner makes it easy and hassle free to drop the kids

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off at a fun, safe location while you workout. The area has gone through a complete renovation that is sure to be a hit with your little ones. The Kid’s Korner is located behind the security doors and is adequately staffed at all times. For the older kids, there is a video game/Xbox station separate from the babies and toddlers. Games, playsets, a chalkboard wall and other activities will entertain your children ages 6 months to 11 years old. They will love it so much, they will encourage you to workout more! For people that find the social aspect of a fitness routine enjoyable, the area that includes the Coffee Bar and small cardio area has been remodeled. This area is now perfect for catching the news or visiting with friends while working out and later enjoying a cup of coffee! A new piece of equipment, the Ergo meter (Upper Body Cycle), has been added to this cardio exercise area for the upper body and provides easy transfers from wheelchairs. Grab a friend and check out this new cardio area. Apart from remodeling and renovating, The Wellness Center has purchased two AirRunner manual treadmills, replaced all existing treadmills with new state-of-the art Precors, added an additional Precor strength training multi-station for the Main Weight Floor, and added five new bikes for the SPIN classes. The new Assault AirRunners completely redefine the treadmill, conforming to your desired speed and can be used by beginner athletes and high level competitors. The Wellness Center is committed to ensuring you have the highest quality workout possible by continuously

updating and improving their facility and equipment. Striving to adapt to the needs of both members and community is their primary focus. The Wellness Center would love a chance to show you the wonderful additions, equipment and facility that they have built to meet the needs of this community. Please stop by the Open House, Monday, September 17th, from 5:30 to 7 p.m., and experience for yourself what this great fitness and health facility has to offer. UPCOMING EVENTS AT THE WELLNESS CENTER NEW BENCH PRESS COMPETITION There are always fun events and contests going on at The Wellness Center. Coming up Saturday, September 15th at 10 a.m., the National Guard and The Wellness Center are teaming up to host West Monroe Bench Mania! A one rep max, men and women, bench press competition with a $20 entry fee. Each participant will receive a WM Bench Mania t-shirt. There will be an overall male and an overall female winner; first, second and third place male and female in all weight classes. Prices include trophies, $100 Wellness Club Cash, customized weightlifting belt and fitness goods. Please register at The Wellness Center or call 318.329.9100. Additional information available on Facebook @ wmwellnesscenter. AQUATIC THERAPY Please see the front desk for more info about aquatic therapy.

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THE TOWN JEWEL

Michelle McCarty is a first-grade teacher with an eye for great design and a passion for giving back. Her jewelry company, Auntie M Jewelry, was inspired by God’s love. ARTICLE BY MEREDITH MCKINNIE PHOTOGRAPHY BY ABIGAIL BERRY, LIGHT+FREE FOLK ichelle McCarty is a product of faith. Her belief in God’s will for her life has led her on journeys unimagined, yet fitting for her talent. Michelle has never considered herself an artist, yet she has been expressing her creativity for years. A Ouachita Parish Public School teacher for the last 20 years, Michelle loves watching her first-grade children learn and grow under her leadership. Her passion is giving back, using her abilities for the greater good and ultimately for God’s will. She began refurbishing old furniture, finding another creative outlet to supplement her income. Looking for something easier to handle, God placed jewelry on her heart, and Auntie M Jewelry was born. Admittedly, Michelle wasn’t even a big jewelry collector, but as most of God’s messages, the vision was clear. She began looking online, determining her style and aesthetic. She didn’t want to make anything she wouldn’t wear. Her goal was to create quality, statement pieces others would recognize. It all started with the prism. Michelle wanted a symbol that shines, a centerpiece to encourage others to find their gifts, spreading their own sparkle. God gives us all gifts, and Michelle encourages others to find and invest those talents for fulfillment and purpose. She uses other mediums in her pieces including: leather, chains, natural gemstones, medallions and elemental coins. Her jewelry is not dainty; she wants the pieces to stand out, and her customers appreciate her artistry and attention to detail. She began naming each piece after women in the Bible, but soon included close friends and family names as her business expanded. Michelle describes her aesthetic as “rustic elegance,” classy additions to any outfit. The timeless, one-of-a-kind pieces caught the eyes of locals at a jewelry show held by Michelle’s brother and sister-in-law. The response cemented Michelle’s belief in her talent and her product. One friend bought a piece for her daughter, saying she knew it was made with love by Michelle’s own hands. Another recognized an Auntie M statement piece on someone’s neck at a party. Michelle knew she had a gift to give and had to make the most of her talent. She created display boards and pitched to a few local boutiques, and then her name was out there. Having only been in business a year, Michelle is amazed and humbled by the positive feedback and God’s blessings.

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In hindsight, Michelle’s connection to jewelry is not entirely surprising. Michelle credits her family’s support with her success. She calls her maternal grandmother, Grace, her guardian angel. She instilled in Michelle a love of poetry, both women being able to express themselves through written words. Grace told Michelle she had the gift of poetry, and Michelle has written since she was 13. She reads at funerals, describing loved ones with the words God places on her heart. She reads at celebrations, like her brother Mickey McCarty’s new house or his Neville Tigers winning the football state championship. Michelle likes making people feel good, and her poems provide enjoyment and comfort for those she cares most about. Her grandmother loved jewelry and had pieces for every outfit. She made her own and sold them at shows and flea markets. Her grandfather Bernard made Native American jewelry, ornate headbands, necklaces and earrings. The gift of creativity goes back through the generations, and Michelle is honoring her grandparent’s legacy with each piece she crafts. Michelle’s parents always encouraged her to follow her dreams, staying supportive throughout Michelle’s life. Her dad exemplified a strong work ethic. Michelle calls her mother, Carol, her best friend. Carol dove into the jewelry-making with her daughter, helping her string pieces, organize inventory and keep up with the demand of her growing business. The mother/ daughter time is an opportunity they’re both grateful for. Michelle’s friend, Pam Garner Moore, has followed her on social media and is helping Michelle get into other venues, like a Mary Kay benefit in Ruston this October. Pam also put Michelle in contact with a boutique owner in Mississippi, who now showcases Auntie M Jewelry in her gift shop, the company’s first venture out of state. Michelle would like to expand into other markets, but all in due time. She knows, “God never gives me more than I can handle.” He puts the right people in her life at the right time: her father’s

on trend, she trusts God to put the creativity in her mind. She’s learned to listen. She doesn’t look at other styles online anymore; her inspiration comes from within. One Instagram post that stood out to Michelle, from another spiritual pioneer, simply said, “Know your worth.” The right people will know the quality of Michelle’s work and appreciate it. When she entered an upscale boutique in Florida, she was amazed to see pieces that looked like hers selling for much more. Made with the same quality products, Michelle realized she wasn’t giving herself enough credit. If God provided the vision and the talent, why wouldn’t he provide the market? She took the number of the boutique and has it on her refrigerator as a goal and a reminder to not cut herself short. Michelle and her jewelry are worth it. When Grace passed five years ago, she handed down a trunk of all her jewelry pieces to Michelle, the initial inspiration for the business long before its creation. Michelle’s nephew always called her Auntie M, first as joke, but then it stuck. The pseudonym was perfect for her business, retaining her name and a connection to family in the title. Michelle basks in the support and sacrifice of her loved ones, and feels the presence of Grace often. She is frequently visited by red cardinals on her porch, and knows it is her grandmother watching over her, saying “She’s a part of me. I can feel her presence.” God’s presence is also constant; she hears his voice often. Michelle is finally feels she is living in high favor, with a teaching job at a new school and a granddaughter on the way, all in God’s time. Growing more comfortable in her own skin and aware of his promises, Michelle knows the opportunities are endless. Auntie M Jewelry has taken off and provided for Michelle both financially and emotionally. It will be what it is meant to be as God’s will is imminent. She knows God is always there and will see her through it all. Michelle has the faith; she has the talent, and she has the purpose.

GOD NEVER GIVES ME MORE THAN I CAN HANDLE. I’M A SURVIVOR. I MIGHT GET DOWN, BUT I GET RIGHT BACK UP.”

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example, her brother and sister-in-law hosting her first showing, her mother helping her keep up the legwork, Pam helping her market Auntie M, and Grace planting the seed of creativity and encouraging Michelle to use her God-given gifts. Michelle is a positive person. She believes in herself, “because God believes in me.” She doesn’t let fear stop her. Through hardships in life, she has learned that when one door closes, God opens another one. She relies on this truth to navigate the twists and turns, insisting “I’m a survivor. I might get down, but I get right back up.” When she attempted to change her style to suit vendors, she learned to stay true to her own vision. The right customers will come to her. They will be drawn to her originality. And while she does recognize the reality of staying

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ARTICLE BY PHIL TRAHAN

This month The Tennis Life offers a self-improvement issue, as four local pros offer their best inside tips on various aspects of our favorite sport. Enjoy the tips and call the authors for more personalized instruction. Then measure your improvement from now until BayouLife October hits your driveway!

Local Pros Offer Insider Tips for Self-Improvement THE SERVICE RETURN It is a myth that the player with the better backhand should play on the ad side of the court in doubles. When choosing which side you and your doubles partner should play on, take into consideration who is the more consistent returner. The player that can make more returns should play on the advantage side because there are more big points on this side, of the court. The deuce side of the court only has one game point. Because you want the better returner receiving the majority of the game points, such as 40/0, 40/30 and all of the advantages, place the better returner on the ad side of the court, allowing him or her to receive serve on the biggest points. – Joel McGregor, 318-512-5757

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court. This will mean that you are hitting the ball forward and you will get the most power from it. Having a good serve can give you power, save you energy and help you achieve the goal of winning 80% of your service games.

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THE SERVE When it comes to the serve, this is one of the most powerful tennis shots. To make it perfect, you need to remember to do several important things: Take the grip as continental grip, put your front foot behind the baseline into a sideways position. Have your toss in front of you, up high, leaving your left arm and head up all the way until you make contact with the ball to not lose your balance. After hitting the ball, finish inside the 60 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

THE FOREHAND Best forehand advice? Having solid ,consistent ground strokes is vital to your tennis game. Knowing when to go on the offensive and put it away and when to roll it deep is the difference between a seasoned player and a intermediate player. Having a big forehand means nothing, if you can’t

rally the ball over the net for the long points. That’s why it’s important to not only practice points but to practice long rallies. An off the ground game to 11 or 21 is made more intense by only starting the point after hitting 4 or 6 balls in play first.

– Tori Fisher, The MAC | 318-547-2754

THE 2-HANDED BACKHAND A good 2-handed backhand starts with the proper grips. Ideally, you want a continental on your righthand and an eastern forehand on the left, as you hold the racket. A successful 2-handed backhand will start with a good shoulder turn, and a good indicator is to see if you can place your chin on your right shoulder. Another indicator is whether your front shoulder is aligned with the net post. As I approach the ball, what works best for me is to really get a good step forward with my right leg far enough that my knees start to bend without trying. Then I make contact with the ball as far in front of me as possible, my arms extended and not opening my shoulders until they naturally open as my follow through is completed.

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Oh, My Aching Feet…

Three Orthopedic Conditions That Happen to Our Feet as We Get Older BY J. MARSHALL HAYNIE, MD

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ROM THE TIME YOU TOOK YOUR first steps until the walk you took this morning, your feet have taken you from one place to another. Having over thirty joints in the feet, it’s no wonder that your feet may begin to show signs of wear and tear with age. Here are (3) common orthopedic problems that occur as we age: OSTEOARTHRITIS The inevitable consequence of wear and tear on the joints is osteoarthritis. Pain in the big toe, mid foot and ankle are often the result of osteoarthritis. You might have stiffness and pain in the morning that gradually improves as you get moving and will worsen again at night. Foot pain and discomfort shouldn’t be something that you tolerate, because you think it is part of getting older. There are many options that can relieve foot pain and discomfort: • Nonsteroidal, anti-inflammatory drugs or analgesics • Orthotics and/or shoe inserts • Physical Therapy and exercises • Braces • Steroid Injections If you are experiencing foot pain, swelling and have limited range of motion, you should consult with your doctor to see what options are available. BUNIONS Bunions are a common deformity of the big toe and can cause significant pain, especially when wearing certain footwear. Age, gender, genetics, ill- fitting shoes, injuries and inflammatory conditions all contribute

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to bunions and increasing pain in the foot. Conservative/ nonsurgical treatments include: • Changing your shoes to shoes with a roomy toe-box • Using specialized padding or tape • Shoe Inserts • Icing the bunion If bunion pain persists and interferes with day to day activities, you may need to consider surgical options and consult with an orthopedic surgeon that specializes in disorders of the foot and ankle. Surgery to treat bunions is typically an outpatient surgery and most patients can walk on their foot immediately following their procedure. HAMMERTOES A hammertoe may begin as a mild foot deformity, but with time, age and ill-fitting footwear or trauma to the foot can progress into something extremely painful. Hammertoes are the result of an imbalance of muscles, tendons and ligaments occurring in in the middle joint of the toe. Typically, the joint nearest your toenail is affected. As these muscles, ligaments and tendons weaken with age, your toesparticularly, the second, third and fourth toemay curl under and form an abnormal bend in the toe(s). Over time, moving the affected toe(s) can become extremely painful and corns and calluses may result due to the toes rubbing against shoes. Treating hammer toes conservatively typically includes: • Avoiding higher heels, pointed toes and choosing shoes with a roomy toe bed. • Custom Orthotics to correct muscle, ligament and tendon imbalance

• Padding Corns or Calluses that form. Try to avoid the medicated over the counter padsthey typically contain small amounts of acid and can be harmful to your skin. • Medications to treat pain and inflammation, like ibuprofen. • Corticosteroid injections or splinting/ strapping the toes may be considered and applied by your foot or ankle surgeon to relieve, pain, inflammation and misalignment. If you have exhausted all conservative treatments for your hammertoe(s), you may consider surgery to correct it. Several surgical treatments of hammertoe(s) are available. Keep in mind that your feet and your ankles bear the brunt of your entire body… all things naturally trickle down to your toes! It’s important to remember to treat foot and ankle pain, before it becomes chronic. Just because you’re getting a little older, doesn’t mean you have to live with foot and ankle pain. If treated early, most foot and ankle issues that result due to aging, can be treated conservatively and efficiently. If pain or discomfort in your feet persists over a week or you’re finding your mobility is affected due to foot and ankle pain, consider an evaluation with an orthopedic surgeon who specializes in disorders of the foot and ankle/lower extremity. J. Marshall Haynie, MD is an orthopedic surgeon specializing in disorders of the foot and ankle/lower extremity. Dr. Haynie’s clinic has two locations in Shreveport and Bossier City. To schedule an evaluation with Dr. Haynie, please call his clinic, Orthopedic Specialists of Louisiana: 866.759.9679. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 63


Just For Kicks Looking for a pair of pumped up kicks? These sneakers will have you running for the stores. From sporty to slip-ons, these coveted shoes are this season’s must-haves. Photography by Sarah McElroy. Styled by Taylor Bennett.

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EIGHTIES REBOOT

These 80’s-inspired looks are back in a big way. From leather minis to crop tops, things are better the second time around. Photography by Sarah McElroy

1. Girlfriends 2 striped top 2. HerringStone’s black leather mini 3. Dot Dot’s Boutique striped multi-colored crop top 4. K-Sera Boutique black lace-up pant 5. Rodéo Boutique denim mini skirt 6. The Nude Nomad Village People record purse

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BEFORE BOTOX

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We Do Style in a Natural Way Not All Injections Lead to Fake Looking Lips DR. GRANT GLOVER, DDS

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OST OF OUR APPREHENSIONS TO LIP INJECTIONS are justified, as we all notice the bad and fake ones.We notice the botched lips, face lifts and other body enhancement procedures, which cause us to be skeptical. We don’t notice the good ones as they look like they are supposed to look…NATURAL! I like Juvéderm’s statement…”Everyone will notice, no one will know!” THE BEST COMPLIMENT IS NO COMPLIMENT! When I do a procedure like cosmetic veneers, crowns, or lip and facial enhancement injections…I want to improve on what the patient has or even correct a problem, but to do so NATURALLY! There is no greater compliment than to please my patients in achieving their goals for their enhancement in such a way that it blends into their face in a way where the problem is corrected, but no one knows. Some of my favorite compliments and feedback from my patients are friends asking them if they have lost weight or changed their hairstyle, as they know something is different and better, but they don’t know what. COMMUNICATION IS A MUST! I watch my patients as they talk and use their muscles of facial expression. So, in addition to listening to what my patients desire, I will make suggestions and we will come up with a plan TOGETHER. NO PLASTIC LOOK IN MY OFFICE! I like to leave some natural lines of facial expression. While some patients want all of their lines and flaws removed, I feel that less is more! We can always add more Botox and Juvéderm filler, as no one will ever say in my office that we did too much. NO EYE DROOPING AT MY OFFICE! While we have to state eye drooping is a potential side effect of Botox, it’s not in my office. I’m highly trained in where to place to prevent this. In fact…I commonly do an eye lift that most women find very appealing.

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WHAT SEPARATES ME FROM OTHER PRACTITIONERS? Communication….Listening to the needs of individual patients to achieve their specific goals. Expertise….I’ve had extensive training and have done hundreds of patients. Gentle….I care about a pleasant experience, painlessly done. Results….All my patients seem to say the same thing, especially after I complete their lip enhancement….They comment on how long and thorough I massage the material into the lips to ensure shape and a seamless feel with no lumps. WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BOTOX AND FILLERS? It can be confusing to patients as to whether they need fillers or Botox. Briefly…Botox inactivates the muscle, thus wrinkles go away. It is most commonly used in the upper part of the face…forehead, frown lines and crows feet. Fillers, like Juvéderm, are mainly used in the lower face removing deep lines below the nose, droopy mouth corners, and of course, lip enhancement. Dr. Glover has over 30 years of dentistry experience in Louisiana. He graduated from Neville High School in Monroe and continued his education at Louisiana Tech University. It was then that he pursued further education in the field of dentistry at Louisiana State University. Patients range in age from 3 to 93. Dr. Glover began improving smiles and building confidence in his patients in 1987 and believes that there are three phases of dentistry: General, Cosmetic and Facial. Your smile is the first thing others notice about you, and a beautiful smile gives you confidence and self satisfaction. SPECIAL: Botox-$10 per unit and Juvéderm-$425 per syringe

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BAG IT UP From furry purses to game day bags, our local boutiques come through in the clutch. Photography by Sarah McElroy.

1. The Fashion of Ruston vintage hobo bag 2. Eleven 26 jeweled clutch 3. Nude Nomad clear bag with chain 4. Girlfriends 2 yellow vegan bag 5. Chanticleers deerhide shoulder bag 6. Rodéo Boutique woven basket bag 7. Hemline Monroe clear snakeskin backpack 8. HerringStone’s structured camel-colored bag 9. Dot Dot’s Boutique fur bag 10. The Fleurty Ginger Boutique foldover bag 11. K-Sera Boutique light pink bag with gold handle

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From left to right: black faux leather belt with silver accents - K-Sera Boutique, black and white python belt - Hemline Monroe, genuine leather belt with turquoise studs and buckle Croswell’s Boutique 139, animal hide belt - Chanticleers, skinny rust-colored belt with gold buckle - Eleven 26

JOINED AT THE HIP A chic belt is a key accessory every stylist and fashionista knows that will elevate fall’s best outfits. Photography by Sarah McElroy. Styled by Taylor Bennett.

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PRIME TIME Color your world with primary colors. From fire engine red sneakers to Bulldog blue tassel earrings, these hot hued items are this season’s must-haves. Photography by Sarah McElroy.

1. Rodéo Boutique blue tassel earrings 2. HerringStone’s red embroidered top 3. Chanticleers multi-colored woven purse 4. Hemline Monroe super skinny Hudson jeans 5. K-Sera Boutique Gameday blue tee 6. The Fashion of Ruston red Superga sneaker 7. The Nude Nomad gold and blue earrings 8. Eleven 26 little red dress 9. The Fleurty Ginger Boutique yellow and white striped top


WILD THINGS Channel your wild side with chic leopard print clothing and accessories. It’s fierce, it’s fabulous and it’s perfect for your fall wardrobe. Find this and more at our area boutiques. Photography by Sarah McElroy.

1. Eleven 26 leopard print dress 2. Chanticleers leopard slide loafer 3. Rodéo Boutique leopard fanny pack 4. Girlfriends 2 leopard and gold wrap bracelet 5. Hemline Monroe leopard mini skirt 6. HerringStone’s long-sleeve fitted leopard top 7. The Nude Nomad calf hair leopard sandal 8. The Fleurty Ginger Boutique open front leopard vest 9. Croswell’s Boutique 139 leopard and gold hoop earrings 10. K-Sera Boutique black and white leopard tank

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90 Years of Quality Service S. E. Huey Co. Designed to Face the Future

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. E. HUEY CO., A LOCAL CIVIL engineering firm, is celebrating its 90th year in business this year and looks to the younger generation for leadership – all to poise the company for continued success in our region. Located at 1111 North 19th Street, the company was founded in Monroe by Stanton E. Huey (pictured above) in 1928 and services clients across the nation through architectural design, land surveying and a full array of civil engineering activities, including site development, utilities, drainage, transportation and structural design. S. E. Huey Co. began as a small engineering firm specializing in surveying and civil engineering. Today, S. E. Huey Co. is led by ten partners: Markley Huey, P.E., P.L.S., S. E. Huey’s son; P. Charles Taylor, Jr., P.E., Chairman of the Board; Jerry Madden, AIA, P.E., P.L.S., Vice-President; Terry Rainbolt, P.E., past President; Donald W. Korn, P.L.S., Survey Supervisor; E. Hunter Lancaster, P.E., President; Robert L. George, IV, P.E.; Don Arrington, P.E.; Brad Anzalone, P.E; and Jon Braswell, P.L.S. The firm has over 30 employees, many of whom have been with the company for over 35 years, lending to the continuity of quality service that has been the company’s hallmark since its establishment. “During the early period, the company had a national reputation with surveying field offices in British Columbia, Hartford Connecticut and in between,” Markley Huey reminisced. “Since this era, we have become more focused on civil engineering but still retain a strong surveying presence and later added architecture.” The company has been the linchpin designer on many of the familiar hallmarks of

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our region, such as the Vantage Building, Ike Hamilton Expo, Downtown RiverMarket, the Penn Hotel renovations, the Pecanland Mall development including its fly ramp and the outlying shopping centers, many units in the Frenchman’s Bend, Belle Point and Thatcher Point subdivisions, I-20 Frontage roads in West Monroe and Rayville, Tower-Armand Connector, and many more. The company has been a vital part ofther difficult projects, as well, such as many road and bridge designs, water systems, pump stations, flood studies, etc. In the early days, the developing firm specialized in land surveying, but through the decades, S. E. Huey Co.’s company expanded its services to include architecture. “We’ve been fortunate to have employees who embrace this mission and clients who believe in our company and the infrastructure solutions we provide,” said former President Taylor. “We’re proud to have been in the ‘people business’ for 90 years and look forward to continuing to build successful, sustainable communities and careers for many years to come,” continued Huey. “This is a special time for the firm. We are standing on the shoulders of my father, employees and loyal clients.” S. E. Huey Co. has a reputation in northeast Louisiana and the engineering community for quality work and depth of knowledge. In addition to notable design work around our region, they excel at military work, having been awarded the Awarded U.S. Army Corps of Engineers’ National Award of Excellence. They have unparalleled experience at Red River Army Depot, Barksdale Air Force Base and Ft. Polk and the Fort Worth/SWD region.

“We are focused on expanding our ability to support clients in our growing north Louisiana region that can benefit from the experience and knowledge of our team. We make full use of the profound talent we have in our region,” current President Lancaster said. “We made it this far because of the commitment to excellence, the instinct of survival and the capacity to diversify. We all have a passion for the firm and helping to improve our surrounding community.” “S. E. Huey Co. has always been committed to engineering excellence, innovative ideas and completing projects on time and within budget,” said former president, Rainbolt. “Through the years, we’ve built a team of mature, experienced professionals whose primary goal is customer satisfaction through comprehensive, progressive engineering options. We attribute our success to the avid dedication to all our clients and look forward to continuing this practice in the future.” “We have always tried to maintain high ethical and professional standards,” continued Huey, “and I am sure my father would be proud of the men and women who carry on the work which he began.” S. E. Huey Co. is located at 1111 N. 19th Street, Monroe, LA, and the company’s web address is sehuey.com. For more information, please contact Renee Arrington at 318.325.1791 or e-mail rarrington@sehuey.com.

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flower power Rebecca Rabb Harrison has tapped into the sublime power of flowers, and she is eager to share it with the Monroe and West Monroe community through a sky blue French flower cart. ar t i cl e by VA NELIS RIVERA ph otog ra p hy by EMERALD MC INTYRE

French artist Henri Matisse reportedly wrote, “There are always flowers for those that want to see them.” This speaks to both the ubiquity of flowers and the pervasive idea that beauty can be found everywhere, as it up to the individual to perceive the beauty around them. When it comes to flowers, especially those that thrive in the warmth of the Louisiana sun, aesthetic appeal is seldom contended— flowers are beautiful! Their beauty transcends the aesthetic. Beauty in these flowers have a way of exalting the mind and spirit.

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sublime power of flowers is what Rebecca Rabb Harrison has tapped into, and she is eager to share it with the Monroe and West Monroe community through a sky blue French flower cart. Parked outside of Traditions on Trenton Antiques in West Monroe, the cart is hard to miss, standing out beneath an apple-red patio umbrella and the whitewash of the shop’s exterior. From afar, the pre-arranged bouquets of mostly zinnias look like an impressionist painting—blurs of orange-red, bright yellow, light pink and deep green. The eye is irrepressibly drawn to the colors, but the closer you get, the fashion of the flowers appeals to your better senses, even if just to admire the delicate complexity of the blooms. “I’ve been growing zinnias for years,” says Harrison, recalling that her grandmother, a child of the Depression, would grow the affordable flower. Inspired by the picturesque and bountiful yards of her grandmothers and mother, Harrison began her own garden once her family, husband Stan Harrison and three boys, Hunter, Bruin and Kenner, moved to a house with three acres of yard. A yard, she attests, that her kids can ride dirt bikes in and still be able to keep out of her flower beds. Except for that one time, she reminisces. About two years ago, she sharpened her green-thumb by taking an hour and a half Master Gardening class with a couple of friends for three months, and now, she has about fifteen flower beds. Shrubbery like azaleas and trees grow in the large flower beds, while the garden beds house the major players: a handsome array of brightly colored zinnias and marigolds. Standing at four feet wide and twenty feet long, the garden beds are the perfect size for Harrison to stand on an edge and still reach the middle for cutting what she considers “happy and bright” blooms. Originally, Harrison is from Ferriday, Louisiana, “born and raised,” but currently she lives in West Monroe, working at CenturyLink, a full-time job that she’s worked and loved for fifteen years. With her boys all grown up now, respectively the ages of 24, 12, and 11, she’s able to immerse herself into an activity that’s called to her. In the beginning, she would make bouquets for herself, placing them around the house enlivening window stills, bedside tables, bathrooms, kitchen and even her office desk. It wasn’t until last December when someone took notice of the unique arrangements and commented, “You should really try to sell those,” that she even considered creating bouquets for purchase. Still, she bought extra seeds and started selling her singular bouquets, cart-less at that point. Selling by Traditions was a practical decision, as she worked there one or two weekends a month purely for her love of antiques. Already bringing bouquets to “brighten up” the shop, the owners didn’t hesitate to let Harrison sell her arrangements. Once she gained regulars, the idea of selling from a French flower cart developed, and her father’s friend constructed one from a picture Harrison sent him. “I didn’t know what it was going to look like,” she says, but the cart is steadily becoming an unforgettable presence and a potential trademark of Antique Alley.

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very Friday, Harrison gets up at 6 a.m., “rain or shine,” to cut her flowers and set forth the task of selecting her blooms. “I’m not a professional flower arranger. I just grab stuff and put it together,” Harrison says playfully. Although she approaches her creations with humility, her bouquets are rustic and fanciful, starting with the attention-demanding zinnias. Everything Harrison grows is from seeds, not store-bought plants, and her zinnias have been growing since April. They thrive in the Louisiana heat and don’t require tons of water. Of the daisy family and notable for their solitary long-stemmed flowers, this annual, sometimes referred to as one of the hardest working summer flowers, comes in a variety of dazzling colors. Distinct in Harrison’s garden is the Queen Lime, robust tightly-packed crimson or fuchsia petals with lime green central petals around a dark red eye. The Art Deco blooms in shades of pink, lavender, red and royal purple. Peppermint Stick, a cream petal splotched with shades of scarlet, makes its way into the bunch as well. The other large and intense button-like blooms are Harrison’s bright orange and yellow marigolds. Accentuating the main flowers are smaller blooms like the Gomphrena, a clover look-alike with pink and white gumball-sized flowers, and abelias, dainty shrubs in the honeysuckle family that bloom aromatic flowers, a favorite of butterflies. Harrison also loves to add herbs to her bouquets, since zinnias are odorless. “I love growing herbs in my house just for the smell,” says Harrison, admitting that she rarely cooks with them. Basil, rosemary, lemongrass, oregano, dill, mint and even chamomile have accessorized her arrangements. Even some shrubs have made the cut, like olive branches and asparagus stems. While unconventional perhaps, her unique arrangements have become quite the Trenton Street buzz. A few regulars have special ordered bouquets, and her record sales time, thus far, has been an impressive forty-five minutes. Though intricate arrangements can be found at flower shops and grocery stores, we can’t always spend fifty dollars on a bouquet. She admits that greenhouse flowers look more perfect because of the controlled environment, but she values the weathered marks of her flowers, saying, “It’s hard to get a perfect flower. I’m not perfect, and you’re not perfect. Everyone has their bumps and bruises. From a leaf with a spot on them. They are pretty to me.” It seems that when it comes to mother nature’s bounty, au naturale is best, especially flowers that have been loved on by bees and butterflies. No Harrison Haven Farm bouquet is like another. Creatively fashioned, each bouquet has its own personality and elements of wildness that can only be exuded by free-growing plants.

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Favorite Son Concert: Unfortunately, Harrison will not grow anything for the fall, but she has big plans for spring and summer of next year, already with a list of winter chores in hand to get the garden beds ready. She’s hoping to sell for the next six weeks, but nothing she does is planned. “I like having a plan. That’s how I’ve always been. I like having some say so. This, I have zero say so. It’s just patience and watching and just seeing what happens out there,” she says, acknowledging that the true master gardener is mother nature. This year’s gardening experience has been a trial year, because some of her flowers didn’t grow, but she is ready for next season, excited to add a few more flower beds. “Much to my husband’s dislike,” she humors. As long as he is not required to cut flowers, Harrison assures that her husband is incredibly supportive and willing to sell flowers, if she ever is unable to make it. It’s not too early to proclaim that “winter is coming!” So before the chill of fall sweeps in, make your way to Trenton Street on any given Saturday. Harrison sets up at 10 a.m. until her bouquets get sold, which happens consistently faster and faster. “Flowers make people happy. I’m selling bouquets for ten dollars. It’s not much money when you think of it. It’s something you can pay forward,” says Harrison, encouraging customers to buy a flower for someone else. Overall, happiness is priceless, but you can buy someone a little happy, just look for the white sign with black letters that reads: “Fresh Cut Flowers.” You can find Harrison’s blue cart on Saturday’s starting at 10 a.m. at 313 S Trenton Street, West Monroe, LA. Follow Harrison Haven Flower Farm on Facebook and/ or Instagram (@harrison_haven_flower_farm) for updates on blooms and bouquets. If you are interested in special orders, call 318-680-5733.

Operatic Tenor Arnold Rawls to Perform at the Assembly Church in West Monroe On Sunday, September 9, 6 p.m., at the Assembly Church in West Monroe, there will be a triumphant homecoming concert of one of the Twin Cities’ favorite sons, tenor Arnold Rawls. Arnold has in the past few years sung some of his signature heroic roles at the most prestigious opera venue, the Metropolitan Opera in New York City, as well as opera centers in Europe, Australia and the Far East. Adding to the legend of Rawls this year was this: he was in China, singing the major role of Radames in Aida, when he was called by the Met requesting that he return to New York to sing Prince Calaf in Puccini's Turandot in two days’ time! Most singers would not accept such an outrageous challenge , but Arnold did.

Growing up in West Monroe, Arnold Rawls attended West Monroe High School. His singing voice was discovered while singing in church and was further nurtured at the large high school. He attended Northeast (now ULM) and continued his studies in Oklahoma. After receiving his doctorate degree in voice at the University of Oklahoma, Arnold began his singing and teaching career in the 1990s. By 1995, he was singing the leading tenor role in Stockton, California, where the artistic director of the Stockton Opera, our own Mark Ross Clark, was directing Don Giovanni. Clark is now a professor of music and theatre at ULM and the director of the Louisiana Opera. Clark and Rawls have remained friends for over twenty years, with the idea of hosting this concert on

Clark's mind since coming to ULM in 2006. This event will feature Arnold singing some of his favorite songs from a CD he recorded over ten years ago. The songs were arranged by Michael T. Smith, who will be one of the pianists featured in this concert. Added voices will come from the choirs of Arnold's alma maters of West Monroe High School, directed by Greg Oden, and the University of Louisiana at Monroe, directed by Deborah Chandler. Choral arrangements are by Dr. D.H. Clark. Other musical selections will be from a variety of Arnold's favorite pieces, as well as additional favorites by the two choirs. The concert will culminate in one of the most familiar and beloved arias in opera, "Nessun Dorma" by Puccini, supported by the assembled choirs. Admission for the concert is free of charge, but because of limited seat availability, a ticket must be reserved to come to the event. Tickets are available at Fiesta Nutrition Center and online at theassembly.cc/arnoldrawls. There is a $10 suggested donation for the concert, and all proceeds will go toward the Louisiana Opera's production expenses this coming season as well as the Northeast Louisiana Arts Council, co-sponsor of this event. The Assembly will provide free childcare for children under five years old.

bouquets decoded Did you know that plants have symbolic meanings? Take these into consideration for your next Harrison Farm bouquet: Basil: good wishes Chamomile: patience, wisdom Dill: preservation, good spirits Marigold: known as the “herb of the sun,” symbolic of passion and creativity Mint: wisdom, virtue Oregano: joy Rosemary: remembrance, love, loyalty Zinnia: thoughts of missing friends

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Poll Favors Incumbent Judge Stephens Judge Stephens’ Involvement and Hard Work Have Paid Off in Ouachita Parish

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HE ELECTION LAST YEAR WAS for the open position created by the retirement of the late Second Circuit Judge Larry Lolley. The voters chose the most experienced candidate with the broadest range of courtroom experience for the Second Circuit Court of Appeal, Judge Jimbo Stephens. Judge Stephens travels to the Court of Appeals in Shreveport for oral arguments but his judicial office is in Monroe. He supports community events in Ouachita Parish as well as the other four parishes. His community involvement has given many people in Ouachita Parish the chance to get to know him better and learn about his inspirational life story of successfully overcoming obstacles. They have also learned about his courtroom experience, broad knowledge of the law and work ethic that have been an asset in his 130 panel decisions as a Second Circuit Court of Appeal judge. “Obviously, there is no reason to fire Second Circuit Judge Stephens. He is a hard-working, Independent constitutional conservative with the most courtroom experience, knowledge of the law and the demeanor to treat everyone fairly.” – James Jones, Republican In 2017, Judge Marchman lost the race but carried Ouachita Parish 62 percent to 38 percent, but Judge Stephens won the five parish election 52 percent to 48 percent. Now, Judge Marchman’s 24-point lead in Ouachita Parish has changed dramatically and incumbent Judge Jimbo Stephens is leading Ouachita Parish. For more polling information go to this source link: http://winwithjmc.com/archives/8426.

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Judge Stephens serves with eight other judges on the Court of Appeal who work together in panels of three to review cases on appeal from 20 North Louisiana parishes. Shown in the photo are the four women and five men serving on the Second Circuit Court of Appeal. Judge Stephens has a record of being an Independent constitutional conservative who upholds the law and does not try to make decisions based on personal or political agenda. “Jimbo did not let the loss of his hand, at age 11, keep him from becoming a rodeo competitor, an airplane pilot, a farmer and a judge. Jimbo doesn’t give up and has never seen himself as a victim or one who thinks their rights have been violated and uses that as an excuse for their actions.” – Buckshot Sims, Republican “Judge Jimbo Stephens is a true constitutional conservative who does not advocate or attempt to change the law from the bench. We need him on the Second Circuit Court of Appeal to help protect our constitutional freedoms.” – Carmen Sims, Republican “Judge Jimbo Stephens has a record of treating everyone with respect and fairness. As conservatives we need to support his re-election for the Second Circuit Court of Appeal.” – Janna Sadler, Republican “Judge Stephens’ experience has not been limited to one area of the law, he has the best overall experience needed to serve on the Second Circuit Court of Appeal.” – Linda Brooks, Republican

“Successfully overcoming obstacles is an example of how Judge Stephens’ Christian faith and hard work makes the impossible possible. He is an inspiration to everyone and deserves our support for re-election to the Second Circuit Court of Appeal.” – Phil Trahan, Republican “We are blessed by God to live in a country governed by a constitution that protects our freedom and guarantees our right to bear arms. I want my grandchildren to experience the outdoors and learn the values of sacrifice and hard work,” Stephens said. Jimbo and his wife, Faith, have three children and four grandchildren. Faith and Jimbo live on their farm and continue the fifthgeneration of family farming. An avid outdoorsman, Stephens rides, ropes, farms and enjoys fishing and hunting with his grandchildren. He is a member of the National Rifle Association and the National Wildlife Turkey Federation. “This has been a terrific year for our family. We have met so many supportive, encouraging people on the campaign trail. And on the farm, our corn yields have been some of the best ever. Our grandchildren cannot help but marvel at God’s creation as they help and watch the planting, growth and harvesting of the corn and other crops,” said Judge Jimbo Stephens. This five parish First District of the Second Circuit Court of Appeal includes part of Ouachita, Morehouse and West Carroll parishes, and all of Franklin and Richland parishes.

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Riverscape Penthouse The Perfect Space for Your Next Event

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OWNTOWN MONROE IS THE PLACE TO BE THESE days and thanks to Melody Olson, your next special event, party or shower can be held high in the sky in the heart of downtown. Melody is the owner of the Riverscape Condominiums Penthouse and is excited to announce that the 9th floor penthouse will be available to lease for events. Most people remember the space as the pink stucco cottage that sat atop the building for years. Built in 1928 and perched high above the Ouachita River, the building was originally the Penn Hotel and featured 232 hotel rooms and a banquet hall. After years of falling into disrepair, Olson purchased the entire building in 2004. With $2 million in improvements to the structure, the building was transformed into the Riverscape Condominiums. The penthouse space features 2,500 square feet of incredible space. Care was taken to keep the building materials and accents as close to what you would find in a 1928 building as possible, making it a unique building and now, venue. The Riverscape Penthouse is centrally-located in the heart of downtown Monroe. There is plenty of parking available downstairs, making it convenient for guests attending any event held at the venue. Plus, Riverscape Penthouse is located within walking distance of several downtown restaurants including Restaurant Cotton, Planter’s Gastropub, Doe’s Eat Place, Iron Cactus Downtown, Trapp’s, Brass Monkey, RoeLA Roaster and more. Downtown Monroe is also home to several events and cultural attractions that guests could enjoy including the Annual Kiwanis Christmas Parade, Fireworks on the River, RiverMarket, Downtown Gallery Crawl, Downtown River Jam and more. The space is perfect for those wanting a unique setting for: • Holiday Parties • Office Parties • Wedding Showers • Baby Showers • Private Dinner Parties • Retreats • Pop-ups • Corporate Parties • Networking Events 90 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Upon entering the penthouse, guests will step off the elevator and into a warm and inviting space. The foyer space is the perfect way to greet guests as they enter the unique venue, allowing room for decor, photos or whatever fits the occasion. An antique hall tree from the late 1700s was too large to fit in the elevator and was lifted by crane to the balcony. Overhead a large Edison bulb light fixture illuminates the foyer. The space is furnished and has the option to add tables and chairs to accommodate guests. The living area has a plush couch, providing a homey feel for guests. This would the perfect area to have guests visit or a bride open her gifts during a shower. The dining area features a table that will seat six. The kitchen area can service as food preparation and warming station for any meals and dishes provided. Plus, there are dishes and utensils, perfect for a small dinner party. This is also convenient to the host, so they don’t have to worry about providing these items. There is a bedroom space that is free from furniture, allowing room to use a changing room or add tables and chairs to seat additional guests. In the back, a master bedroom features a king size bed and bedroom furniture. The master bathroom features a large, marble walk in steam shower with an aquarium inserted into a wall between the shower and an enclosed water closet. A Kohler Infinity soaking tub is the centerpiece of this bathroom and is filled from an extraordinary ceiling mounted tub filler. With a push of a button, water flows from the ceiling to fill the tub. The pièce de résistance of the entire space is the exterior deck overlooking the Ouachita River. This would be a picture perfect backdrop for joyous celebrations and offers a bird’s eye view of upcoming holiday parades and firework shows. There is generous seating allowing guests to linger longer beneath the stars and just a little closer to heaven. If hosting a party or event at the Riverscape Penthouse, you will have everything you need to make your event unique and memorable and have your guests talking about it long after the event is over. Riverscape Penthouse will provide everything you need to help make your event successful. If you are interested in renting the space, please contact (318) 680-8867 or email olson.melodya@gmail. com to find out more information. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 91


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CHANTICLEERS

This luxurious rust-color blouse strikes the perfect balance when paired with a distressed jean. Add an animal hide belt, peep toe booties with a gold necklace and earrings to finish the look.

Find inspiration this fall from textiles and prints straight from the American heartland. Textured knits, embroidered pieces and rustic colors evoke a folklore spirit perfect for autumn’s arrival. Model: Sydney Franklin, MUAH by Meka Bennett, Styling by Taylor Bennett and Photography by Kelly Moore Clark

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Become the star of your own show in this knitted hoodie poncho. Throw on a pair of flare jeans and these western boots for a ride on the horse or trip to town. Complete the look with this daring cowboy hat made out of Mexican palm leaf straw, leather and stone choker, leather necklace with horn and beaded bangles. 92 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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DOT DOT’S BOUTIQUE

Wrap up this fall in this aztecprint fringe cardigan. Layer it over a comfy white v-neck tee with crochet detailing, and throw on a pair of light washed distressed skinny jeans. A gladiator-inspired sandal, multilayered necklace, gold earrings and a black hat from Good Time Hat Line complete the look.

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THE FASHION OF RUSTON A silky collared pullover is layered beneath a gorgeous embroidered knit cardigan. Paired with a rich brown denim pant and an extra low-cut ivory ankle boot, this look features fall’s biggest essentials. Finish the look with a mini foulard scarf wrapped around the neck and silver statement earrings.

THE NUDE NOMAD

Keep cozy in this knit pullover with long balloon sleeves and an oversized fit. Pair with a faux leather mini skirt with cross front detail and these extra modern ankle boots.

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A short sleeve open front kimono with multicolored embroidery is layered over a flowy, tiered ruffle maxi dress. The look is complete with a turquoise beaded necklace and a elasticized slingback heel.

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THE FLEURTY GINGER BOUTIQUE

A multi-colored striped sweater vest is added over a heathered taupe v-neck tee. A classic cuffed skinny jean, red earrings and a red and gold hoop necklace complete the look.

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Southern Bath & Kitchen

AcuPulse and FemTouch

Laser Treatments for Facial and Vaginal Rejuvenation

Your Partner in Creating your Dream Home

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UMMER IS WINDING DOWN, SCHOOL IS BACK IN session and cooler months are on the horizon. So take a moment. Take a pause with us. Relax. Where do you spend most of your time in your home? The kitchen and bathroom. Making these rooms fantastic is a critical part of building your dream home. For those of us at Southern Bath & Kitchen, your home is a haven – a place where you can unwind, be yourself and enjoy your surroundings. Now, as you take a breather with us, envision what your dream bath or kitchen looks like. Imagine the curves of the bathtub & faucet. That delightful kitchen sink. Gleaming appliances. Helping you take that dream home, this idea, and making it a reality is what we do, every single day! As you’re dreaming about what that bath or kitchen looks like, take a moment and browse through our website at southernbathandkitchen.com. You’ll find great inspiration on design, materials and more. And with details on each of our 40-plus locations in the Southeast right at your fingertips, you’ll be able to find a stunning showroom near you. When it comes time to find that exact piece for the kitchen and bath, you’ll spend time with our superb showroom consultants.

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Schedule a one-on-one appointment to talk through your design project or remodel, and let our team find the products and brands that can help make that concept a reality. While you’re with our knowledgeable showroom consultants, you’ll get to touch and feel the wide selection of products in stock. Whether it’s a farmhouse sink, a free-standing tub, a touch-sensor kitchen faucet, steam units for your personal luxury bathroom, all the way down to knobs and hardware, Southern Bath & Kitchen has everything you need. Whether you’re getting ready to break ground on a new home, knocking down walls in a remodel or maybe just thinking about a future project, come visit us at Southern Bath & Kitchen. Our lowpressure, no-hassle team is ready to help you take that dream kitchen and make it a reality. With fantastic personalized service and unparalleled industry expertise, Southern Bath & Kitchen is here to help. Give them a call at (318) 387-9184 or visit them online at southernbathandkitchen.com.

BY TIMOTHY J. MICKEL, MD, CERTIFIED, AMERICAN BOARD OF PLASTIC SURGERY

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OSMETIC LASER TREATMENTS of the face have come a long way in the last 25 years. Old lasers treated the skin with a solid beam, so after treatment you looked red and burned. New lasers split the beam into hundreds of small beams that leave tiny islands of normal skin untreated - providing safer, gentler and more comfortable treatment. The increased safety and predictability of fractionated lasers has been a huge advance in facial rejuvenation and has revolutionized the growing field of vaginal rejuvenation. One of the newest of these is the dual use AcuPulse/ FemTouch fractionated CO2 laser. The AcuPulse attachment can treat several signs of aging skin: skin discoloration, sun damage, mild skin laxity and fine lines and wrinkles. In my experience, one of the best uses of this laser is to treat radial lines around the mouth. These “lip lines” come from

activity in the underlying muscles – things like whistling, pursing your lips and using a straw. Muscle tension eventually leads to the radial lip lines around the mouth that most women over 50 begin to notice. Unfortunately, there is no perfect treatment for wrinkles around the mouth. Because these wrinkles result from muscle activity, the ideal treatment would include removing the muscle to prevent the wrinkles from coming back. Obviously, this is not an option, since we would have difficulty speaking and eating. So the best we can do is reduce the muscle movement and minimize - but not completely erase - these wrinkles. I’ve found combining the AcuPulse treatments with Botox and fillers works best. All three steps are outpatient procedures handled in the comfort of my office. The laser treatment is done first. The latter two steps,

Botox and filler, can be done six weeks later during the same visit. The fractionated CO2 laser also has a range of gynecologic uses. It can help with mild stress urinary incontinence, vaginal dryness, painful intercourse and vaginal laxity after childbirth. These symptoms frequently occur in a woman’s 30s and 40s and aren’t exclusively post-menopausal. It is important to me that my patients look and feel their best, which means treating issues we see, like wrinkles – and these issues that others can’t see, but that impact how youthful you feel. The FemTouch attachment allows rapid, safe, comfortable, non-surgical treatment for these peri-menopausal vaginal symptoms and has revolutionized laser vaginal rejuvenation. I am proud to welcome Kasey Burks, a licensed nurse practitioner, to my practice. Kasey will not only use the FemTouch to perform vaginal treatments in the comfort and privacy of my office, but can inject Botox and fillers as well. Whether you have peri-oral wrinkles or peri-menopausal vaginal symptoms, call Mickel Plastic Surgery at (318) 388-2050 and set up a consultation to see if AcuPulse or FemTouch is right for you. From surgery to lasers and everything in-between, when it comes to looking and feeling your best, if it works, we have it!

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Munchkin Market

Northeast Louisiana’s Original Children’s Consignment Sale

Bayou Dental Group Dental Implants

BY DAVID D. FINLEY, DDS, FAACD, FAGD

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T’S TIME TO GIVE YOURSELF THE SMILE YOU DESERVE. IF you’ve been avoiding cameras or meals with your friends, you need to call Bayou Dental Group. Our Monroe, LA dentist can give you a smile solution that looks and feels as good as your natural teeth. And Dr. Finley can place and restore your dental implants all in one office.

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ALL IS ON ITS WAY AND THAT CAN ONLY MEAN one thing... The Monroe Munchkin Market Event is just around the corner! From September 26-29th, the Fall/Winter event will once again be held at Pine Grove Church Gym, located at 4300 Loop Road in Monroe. There will be new and gently used children’s clothing (girl’s: newborn to junior; boys: newborn to 18), toys, books, DVDs, baby equipment, furniture and gear, shoes and much more. Monroe Munchkin Market is a small business started by longtime friends and moms, India Gregg and Amie Smith, both of Monroe. “We are moms and know the expense of trying to keep your children clothed. At Munchkin Market, you can buy your child’s whole season wardrobe…one-stop-shop! We help a huge number of families in our community clothe their kids for less and also donate after the sale to help out even more families!” says India. The sale is open to the public Wednesday, September 26th, from 10:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m., Thursday, September 27th, from 10:00 a.m. – 4:00 p.m., Friday, September 28th, from 10:00 a.m. – 7:00 p.m. and Saturday, September 29th from 9:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. On Friday and Saturday, everything marked in RED is ½ price. There is no charge to shop during the public sale! Don’t want to wait? An Early Bird Presale is available for eager patrons from 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. on Tuesday, September 25th for $10. Are you a new mom or mom-to-be? Simply register online at www.monroemunchkinmarket.com and you can shop at 4 p.m. on Tuesday, September 25th. Grandparents are welcome, too! Ever wanted to consign? There are so many perks to consigning with Munchkin Market… now is your chance! With 400+ consignors, our consignors make on average $300-$350. You can’t beat that, and it is safer and easier then meeting up at Target to make $2 from selling on a Buy/Sell/Trade group. Also, you will make more at Munchkin Market than selling at the local children’s resale store! And last but not least, if you consign and volunteer, you get shop FIRST! What are you waiting for? Sign up to consign NOW at www. monroemunchkinmarket.com. You don’t want to miss out on this event. Be sure to follow them on Facebook and Instagram to get in on their awesome contests and much more. Once you experience the Monroe Munchkin Market, you will keep it on your calendar for years to come. For more information about the sale, visit www.monroemunchkinmarket.com, Follow Monroe Munchkin Market on Facebook and Instagram or send an email to info@monroemunchkinmarket.com.

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There are several benefits to choosing dental implants: • T hey are the closest in function and appearance to your natural teeth. • You’ll feel an increase in your self-confidence, when you have a full, beautiful smile. • Because they are not removable, you won’t have to worry about keeping up with your teeth. • Eat all of your favorite foods, regardless of how hard, sticky or crunchy they may be! • Speak clearly and with ease. • There’s no risk of slipping; they are anchored to your jawbone. • This is a long-term solution. With proper care, they can last a lifetime! • Patients with dental implants have had decreases in the amount of bone loss. If you’re unsure about the cost of a full set of dental implants, you might benefit from a denture supported by four or six implants. Trust Your Smile To Our Expert Dental Care Having your implants placed and restored in one office means you’ll receive consistent care throughout the entire process. There’s no risk of anything falling through the cracks, because you’ll have the same doctor and staff from start to finish. We use cutting-edge technology, including cone beam radiography, which takes the guesswork out of implant placement, and digital X-rays that allow instant feedback. After your consultation, Dr. Finley will perform a thorough examination, during which he will: • Check your mouth and bite • Do a 3D scan • Check bone levels • Take measurements for full dental implants The implant is then placed and allowed to fuse with bone. Next, Dr. Finley will take impressions to make the final restoration. Finally, the dental crown, bridge or denture is attached to the implant or implants. This entire process (and healing between procedures) will take a few short months to complete.

Call us now at 318-323-9303 to see how we can make you smile!

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Bring Your Bling and Save the Date The Wellspring Bowl and Bling presented by Trinity Diamonds Direct

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AKE PLANS NOW TO ATTEND THE WELLSPRING Bowl and Bling presented by Trinity Diamonds Direct Saturday, September 15 at Bayou Bowl in Monroe. Bowl and Bling is an EASY and FUN outing with a team of your family, friends or co-workers, where it is not your skill that counts – it’s YOU! Come join the fun as we throw strikes and spares, and more than a few gutter balls! Simply form your six person team, then go to eventbrite.com and search Bowl & Bling, select your team’s bowling time, and register. Afternoon bowling times are available for $300 for a team of six to bowl from 1 – 2:30 p.m., 3 – 4:30 p.m., or 5 – 6:30 p.m. Or, join us from 7 – 10 p.m. for an especially festive evening with music, food and spirits, bowling in the black lights and lots of FUN! Adults Only! A six-person team at night is $600. Please arrive 20 minutes early to get your lane assignment and pick up your free bowling shoes. Bring extra cash for the chance to win one of our fabulous prizes! All proceeds benefit The Wellspring. Since 1931, The Wellspring has served as a community leader in bringing people and partners together to address some of the greatest challenges of our time: violence, homelessness, sexual assault, poverty, mental illness and children facing adversity. The Wellspring also serves as our region’s only accredited Sexual Assault Center, as well as the lead agency in the Family Justice Center of Ouachita Parish. The Wellspring was awarded Program of the Year by the Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Louisiana Foundation Against Sexual Assault in May 2018. Last year, The Wellspring served almost 3,300 persons. A few highlights from 2017 include: • 140 women and 161 children fleeing domestic violence received safe shelter • 137 Veterans housed • 1,519 victims of crime served • 894 homeless adults and children housed • 344 youth participated in positive youth development programs • 980 counseling sessions provided • 542 persons with disabilities served As a 501(3)(c) charitable not for profit corporation, your donation is tax deductible to the fullest extent allowed by law. The Wellspring operates with the highest level of financial accountability and has had three decades of unmodified audits. For more information or to register, call The Wellspring at (318) 651-9314.

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Piriformis Syndrome

Causes, Signs and Symptoms, Treatment and More

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IRIFORMIS SYNDROME IS A CONDITION characterized by hip and buttock pain. Among patients with low back pain, between 5% - 36% of those patients have Piriformis Syndrome. The piriformis muscle runs from the sacrum to the outer hip. It aids in rotation of hip and leg, balance and gait. The condition occurs most frequently during the fourth and fifth decades of life and affects individuals of all occupations and activity levels. It is more common in women than men. Those people who are at greater risk of developing Piriformis Syndrome are: • Runners, joggers, dancers • Commercial truck drivers, bus drivers • Receptionists, managers, bankers, IT specialists • Hair stylists • Bedbound patients CAUSES Piriformis Syndrome can be caused by 1) an anatomic defect with the piriformis muscle or sciatic nerve or 2) trauma to the buttocks leading to inflammation of soft tissue, muscle spasm or both. SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS The most common symptom is buttock pain of gradual onset that increases with sitting, standing or lying for longer than 15 to 20 minutes. Some people have pain in or around the outer hip bone or tingling from the buttocks down the back of thigh, usually stopping above the knee. There may also be tenderness or a palpable mass over the piriformis muscle. TREATMENT AND PREVENTION More than 79% of people with Piriformis Syndrome have symptom reduction with the use of non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs, muscle relaxants, ice and rest. Also included in the plan of care is osteopathic manipulative treatment and physical therapy to stretch and strengthen the muscles of the pelvis and hips and increase range of motion of those muscle groups and joints. Appropriate analgesics (pain medicine) may help relieve neuropathic pain caused by Piriformis Syndrome. As a last resort, surgery may be considered if symptoms are debilitating and persist despite conservative measures. Patients who have or think they may have this condition should call their healthcare provider as soon as possible to discuss treatment options. Sources: www.jaoa.org

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Teal are a different story. I like the Heavi Shot in number 5’s for the best load with an improved cylinder. Some hunters opt for a full choke, but my experience is that you lessen the choke in relation to how the ducks work and how well you can talk to them in on a call. Teal travel in large numbers normally. It is not uncommon to have a group of 30 birds come over your decoys. They fly fast and very differently than a mallard. Teal will almost always make three passes. Let them go two times and be ready for them to be wheels down on that third pass. The call is also very different but can be accomplished even on a standard mallard call. Purse your lips and quicken your cadence to a “kee, kee, kee, kee, kee”...five note call. Always call at their butts and never when they are approaching. Pick out one bird and remember that when teal are shot at, they almost always go straight up. This is a problem, if you have multiple guns with open chokes, as it is not hard to limit out with one volley. Pick your spot. If I am on the right side of the blind, I tell my companions that I shoot the ones on the right and vice versa. This works well, as we don’t have the issue of teal being pulverized due to being shot multiple times. Some of my best and fondest memories have been in a dove field or teal blind. It is a great time to gather kids and friends, as there is a lot of action and it is not a time you have to be still and very quiet. Take the time to share that trip with a friend, veteran or kid. Leave some for the next trip and remember to thank the good Lord for the bounties we enjoy in the great outdoors in Louisiana.

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EPTEMBER BRINGS SOME OF MY FAVORITE THINGS of the year. Football is one, starting to clean out deer stands and planting the last of food plots, and of course, my two favorite things: Dove and teal hunting. Dove season always brings with it the anticipation of being able to grease up the old scattergun and bring home some tasty birds for dove wraps on the grill. But the truth of the matter is that dove hunting for me starts well before that opening day. It starts with the first clipping of the fields, planting, weed control and assuring that the old honey hole is ready to clip for opening weekend. What is most misunderstood about preparing fields for doves is exactly what constitutes baiting a field versus legally preparing it. Doves are a migratory bird, but Louisiana regulations allow manipulation of crops (disking, mowing, burning) to give doves what they want the most. There are three things a dove needs: Food, gravel and water. Food is obvious and can range from sunflowers, millet, corn, milo or my favorite, goat weed. About 8 days before season, the field is clipped to disperse the seeds. After that the field is disked and then controlled burned to further enhance the seeds. Normally, I do not cut the whole field. I have found it better to cut a portion in strips, hunt opening weekend and then save the rest for the broken up splits of season where I can keep fresh seed for most of the year as long as there is no heavy frost. The golden rule is that as long as you don’t reintroduce any type of grain into the field, it is legal. With teal, the legal manner is much different. As a teal is a duck, you cannot manipulate the field. The way we manage this is to not plant in front of our blinds where the majority of shooting takes place. The field is planted and left alone. It is not legal to cut it, run over it with any device including a UTV/ATV. That is considered manipulation. Teal season is normally the second weekend of September, and the hunting can be extremely good, if you have good water, open water and any seeds that the teal are looking to eat. The best areas are open reservoirs, open brakes and, of course, just about any lake legal to hunt in the area. To hunt doves, there is a little more to it than just going to a corn field and sitting down. Doves typically like an area where gravel is close, as they need the gravel to aid in digestion. The second thing they love is water. If you are close to gravel and water with a food source, you are half way there. The other thing in scouting for doves is to scout your prospective field and watch the power lines. Doves will sit on 108 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

these power lines, then swoop down for gravel or food throughout the day. The other thing to scout for is flight lines. A flight line is the typical path a dove takes to move from field to field and from water/gravel and back. These flight lines are typically breaks in the tree line or a road coming into the field. If you find these lines where they cross your field, you have found the sweet spot. Remember, you must be 100 feet from the center line of a maintained road (parish or state) when you shoot. The biggest mistake dove hunters make (and a very unsafe one) is to shoot too heavy of a load. Low brass, ounce and one eighth is plenty with either an improved or modified choke. There is nothing worse than being across the field from someone shooting high brass shells and getting peppered. Safety glasses are a must when dove hunting for this reason. Also never ever shoot below the horizon. Shooting lower than that even with light loads can seriously injure someone. The last thing most important to dove hunters is to be legal. Save some for tomorrow. It is very tempting when you have found a honey hole, to shoot until you run out of shells, regardless of the limit. Stay legal and sober when dove hunting, or Mr. Green Jeans may come see you and ruin your hunting rights for life. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 109


Experience Ruston

Loyal Blue Weekends in Louisiana’s College Town

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HERE ARE FEW THINGS MORE EXCITING than LA Tech Football season in Ruston! It’s a lively time of year when students, alumni, locals and fans from all over the country come together to cheer on the Bulldogs. Loyal Blue Weekends celebrate LA Tech football throughout the community and offer a whole new homegame experience that should not be missed! Loyal Blue Weekends take place every homegame weekend and feature family-friendly activities, spirit groups, pep rallies, outdoor music, tailgating and more football fun. FRIDAY Loyal Blue Weekend kicks off on Friday night in downtown Ruston with Rock the Railroad. Event begins at 6 p.m. with music, food trucks, beer and wine and extended shopping hours. LA Tech spirit groups get the crowd pumped up with some fun and

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interactive performances. Afterward, live entertainment begins on the Railroad Park stage followed by a late-night pep rally. Lawn chairs and blankets are welcome. Locals and visitors alike enjoy the evening festivities as well as catching the Tech Bar Bop Band making special appearances downtown. This event is free to attend and family-friendly! SATURDAY The festivities continue on Saturday as fans are encouraged to shop and eat in downtown before the game. Avoid game-day traffic and stadium lots by parking downtown and taking advantage of the Tech Trolley. This shuttle service will take you to and from Joe Aillet Stadium for tailgating activities and the game, running continuously each hour, completely free of charge! Get there early for tailgating in Bulldog Village, an experience you must not miss during game days in

Ruston. Located right outside the stadium, this interactive fan zone includes live music on the Experience Ruston stage, open tailgates, vendors, autograph signing, free food, activities for the kids and more! SUNDAY End your weekend right on Sunday with brunch! Select local restaurants will host Bulldog Brunch and offering your favorite breakfast items, traditional brunch dishes and more! Among the participating locations are Beau Vines Steakhouse, Champs Sports Bars & Restaurant, Railway Coffee and Mi Casa Taqueria and Latin Restaurant. As you can see, game-day weekends in Ruston are serious business, and we hope you’ll join us for all the fun! For more information on Loyal Blue Weekends or all that’s happening in Ruston and Lincoln Parish, visit experienceruston.com or call (318) 255-2031. How ‘bout them dawgs! LOYAL BLUE WEEKEND DATES September 7-9 October 5-7 October 19-21 November 9-11 November 23-25

Audibel The Hearing Center Revolutionizing the Hearing Industry

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UDIBEL THE HEARING CENTER is Northeast Louisiana’s Audibel dispenser. Cherry Phillips “The Hearing Lady” has been serving this area for over 29 years. At Audbiel, we pride ourselves on taking care of each patient, as if they were our own family member to receive the best possible hearing outcome. We focus on continually serving the hearing needs of the Monroe and Ruston communities, as well as surrounding areas, with dedicated hearing care. We have a wide variety of hearing aid devices to address various needs and fits. Our revolutionary product lines — A4i™ iQ, A4™ iQ and Invisibel™ Synergy® iQ — allow you to be immersed in the world around you like never before. We offer you only the most advanced technology with supreme sound quality and premium features, customized to your unique hearing needs, so you stay

connected to the people and things you love most. With iQ you can: • Stream phone calls, music and more to your hearing aids • Experience more natural hearing and effortless transitions as you go about your day • Enjoy pristine audio and exceptional listening clarity • Preserve peace and quiet while amplifying the important things • Better understand conversations and hear comfortably in noisy places • Choose the style right for you – including invisible and custom fit Other options include receiver-in-canal, behind the ear, completely-in-canal, in-the-ear, invisible products, devices that relief tinnitus, wireless accessories, iPhone compatible devices and more. In fact, this month Audibel

is releasing Via AI, the world’s first hearing aid with sensors and artificial intelligence, which will revolutionize the industry. We are excited about this technology and invite you to come by for a free screening, second opinion, extended warranties and repairs on all makes and brands of hearing aids. You can find out more by visiting www.AudibelMonroe.com or find us on Facebook! MAKING A DIFFERENCE Our mission is to bring understanding among people through hearing care by focusing on awareness, education, protection and treatment, So the World May Hear! At Audibel The Hearing Center, we care about your well-being and the lives of the less fortunate around the world. As a proud supporter of The Starkey Hearing Foundation’s “So The World May Hear” program, we are changing lives through the gift of hearing. Your support through the purchase of Audibel Instruments and your donation and trade in of any model hearing aids goes to the foundation’s programs to provide hearing instruments to children in the most remote and poverty stricken regions of the world.

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FUEL EFFICIENCY GREAT FOR YOUR CAR, BUT NOT YOUR METABOLISM How your cardio routine is hurting your ability to lose fat Article by Shannon Dahlum and Photography by Jamie Dahlum SO YOU WANT TO LOSE FAT. Yep, don’t we all! Time to cut back on calories and get on the treadmill, right? Actually, no. Believe it or not, slugging away on the treadmill, elliptical machine or even the pavement may give you some results briefly, but in the long run, it’s going to actually make you store more fat. Read that again… this is important; your daily cardio session may be triggering you to store more fat! Because we’ve been taught that fat loss is all about burning more calories than we consume, it makes sense that the best way to lose fat is to burn a bunch of calories with long cardio sessions. In reality, it’s just not that simple. Your body is way smarter than those darn calories. Your body is an adaptation machine. Anytime you expose your body to a stimulus consistently, your body will adapt by making it easier to overcome that stimulus. So, the more cardio you do, the more efficient you’ll be at it. Efficiency means being able to do more work while expending less energy. Think about your fuel-efficient car. It can cover a lot of ground without burning much fuel. When you train your body to be efficient at cardio, it means you can cover more ground while burning fewer calories. This is great if you want to be good at running, but not so great if you want to be good at burning fat. You are literally training your body to burn fewer calories. You’re slowing your metabolism down. Top that with a low calorie diet, and you’re giving your body yet another cue to slow metabolism even more. In order to burn more fat, you need to send your body a signal to speed up fuel consumption. What does that? Strength training. 112 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

By lifting heavy things, you’re sending your body the message that it needs more muscle. Because to be efficient at lifting weight (even if it’s your own body weight) you need more strength. The stronger you are, the easier it is to lift heavy things! Your muscles are your engine. The more muscle you have, the bigger your engine is, and the more fuel you burn ALL THE TIME. Think about a classic American muscle car. It burns more fuel just idling than a Toyota Prius does at top speed. Being fuel efficient is ideal if you want to be good at running long distances, but not if your goal is to be good at burning fat easily. I know, I know, I hear you… gaining muscle makes you bulky, right? Nope. This is another misconception. Adding muscle creates shape and firmness. It creates “tone.” The bulky look you’re afraid of is a result of subcutaneous fat (the layer of fat that sits directly below the skin’s surface) covering those firm muscles. So the key here is to decrease the amount of fat below the skin’s surface, not the amount of muscle mass. How? By increasing the quality of the food you’re fueling your body with. The types of food you’re eating determines the type of tissue you’re building. Put simply, junk foods add junk size (fat) while clean foods add clean size (muscle). If you feel like you get “bulky” from resistance training, you need to clean up your diet and focus on feeding your muscle and depleting your fat stores. Most people make the mistake of inadvertently diminishing muscle mass (which slows metabolism) while trying to diminish fat stores. Instead of focusing on losing fat, focus on feeding your muscles! Remember that

those are your engine and to keep it revving, it needs fuel. Eat three to four meals daily and include a serving of protein at each one. Add in a healthy fat at most meals (from avocado, coconut, olive oil, nuts and seeds, etc), and cover the rest of your plate with veggies and/or fruit. Limit simple carbs; these are the junk foods that feed fatty tissue and lead to a “bulky” appearance. The wrong foods create bulk, guys! Not the weight lifting! So you want to be a fat burning machine? Be the muscle car. Lift weights and eat clean, unprocessed foods. Low calorie diets along with long bouts of cardio will turn you into the fuel efficient Prius with the slow metabolism. Does all this mean you should never do cardio? Heck no! Cardio is exercise for your heart, and a strong heart muscle is important, too. Just don’t rely on long bouts of cardio for fat burning. If you love to go on long runs, then do it because you love it! If you take up marathon training solely for the purpose of losing fat, though, you’ll wind up very disappointed. For cardio that’s better in the long run for fat burning, focus on exercises that get your heart rate up and require strength, too. Short sprints rather than long, slow jogs, for example. Hill or stadium sprints, kettlebell swings or a lifting circuit with minimal rest are great options, too. Kettlebell complexes are my personal favorite.

If you want more guidance with your training program, along with friends to make it fun, come join us at Octane Training! We have indoor classes in Sterlington and outdoor bootcamp style classes in Monroe.

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Paint Your Home with Watercolor Fabrics

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Add Some Art to your Home with Fabulous Fabric ABULOUS FABRIC IS YOUR GO-TO FOR ALL YOUR home fashion needs. Being in business for over 20 years, they can offer not only their expertise, but also can help you bring your fabric visions to life with their custom ordering. From a wide range of different styles, fabrics and textures, Fabulous Fabric will have you and your home covered beautifully. With school back in swing, and fall just around the corner, now is the time to turn your house into a home. One new trend is watercolor fabric, which is a fun way to add a touch of art to your home. If you love color, layered, over-printed and blended looks, you will love this fabric. You can paint your home in watercolor fabric, freshen up that run down couch with a fun new design or add the custom made rug to your living room. With so many options, and friendly design experts, you will be on the edge of your new upholstered seat to throw those holiday parties. Fabulous Fabric doesn’t have just fabric either. They offer custom drapes that can complete the look of any room. Their design experts are a great resource when choosing fabrics for your window treatments. If they don’t have the perfect fabric on a bolt, they also

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have a large selection of cut-yardage to choose from. If you are looking for a more affordable option, Fabulous Fabric also offers ready-made drapes in a variety of lengths and fabrics. Add beautiful tape trim for a custom look without the expense. And window treatments don’t stop at Fabulous Fabric. They also provide custom drapery hardware, French Return rods and even motorized drapery rods. Be sure to check out the sale selection! We have a number of bolts of fabrics for fifty percent off! This the perfect opportunity to practice your sewing skills or finish that project around the house! Stop by and visit Fabulous Fabric today, and let them help you transform your space from drab to fab. Come see their vast selection of bolts in a variety of colors from neutrals to hot hues, like coral and navy, and materials, like vinyl, velvet and leather. Fabulous Fabric is located at 1803 Lamy Lane in Monroe, and you can find them on Instagram and Facebook.

Southern-style Chicken Salad Served From the Heart HICKEN SALAD CHICK,THE nation’s only Southern-inspired, fast casual chicken salad restaurant concept, opened its doors in Monroe, Louisiana on April 25th and has not slowed down since. Located at 1191 Lamy Lane, this location is owned and operated by Monroe natives Ashley Keever, Krista Rhymes and Matthew Miller. Chicken Salad Chick serves full-flavored, Southern-style chicken salad made from scratch and served from the heart. With more than a dozen original chicken salad flavors, as well as fresh side salads, gourmet soups, signature sandwiches and delicious desserts, Chicken Salad Chick’s robust menu is a perfect fit for any guest. The Monroe Chick is open from 10:30 a.m. -8 p.m. for dine-in and carryout orders. Chicken Salad Chick also features a catering

menu with assorted mini-croissant platters, fruit trays, executive-style boxed lunches, and dessert platters. From bridal showers, to teacher lunches, and even a tailgate party, Chicken Salad Chick can tailor your order to fit any occasion. The Chicken Salad Chick concept, born in Auburn, AL, was established in 2008 in the kitchen of founder, Stacy Brown. When Stacy discovered that the local county health department would not allow her to continue making and selling her delicious recipes out of her home kitchen, she overcame that obstacle by launching her first restaurant with the business expertise of her future husband and fellow founder, Kevin Brown. Together, they opened a small takeout restaurant, which quickly grew; the company now has 90 restaurants across the Southeast. Be the tailgate that everyone wants go to

with our Chick Tailgate Specials! Choose from our three different specials based on how many hungry fans you need to feed, and then customize your tailgate special with your favorite chicken salad flavors. Buffalo Barclay with Fritos Scoops and Kickin Kay Lynne with Doritos are always a crowd pleaser! Crazy enough to not like chicken salad? Our pimento cheese makes the perfect game day snack, too! With Chicken Salad Chick, your gamedays will be a touchdown for everyone! From tailgates to bridal showers, let the Chick cater your next event. For information on menu items and store hours, please “like” the Monroe Chicken Salad Chick Facebook page at www.Facebook.com/ ChickenSaladChickMonroe or visit the website at www.ChickenSaladChick.com/ Monroe.

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world for you or your teen. The District Attorney’s office has programs to help your teen, if they are arrested. There are several different steps that you will have to go through if they are arrested included court dates, community service and perhaps jail time. Be supportive of your child during this time—but share the consequences now. Remind them that any drunk driver who causes an accident which kills another person faces up to 30 years in prison.

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Teen Drunk Driving BY THE CHILDREN’S COALITION FOR NORTHEAST LOUISIANA

een drivers are 3 times more likely than more experienced drivers to be in a fatal crash. Drinking any alcohol greatly increases this risk for teens. In Louisiana, 10 percent of the drivers involved in fatal crashes were young drivers (age 20 or younger). This is significant, because drivers aged 15 to 20 make up 9.4 percent of all licensed drivers in the state. Of the 75 fatal crashes involving drivers aged 15 to 20 that were tested, 39 percent (29) were alcohol involved. Novice drivers under 20 years of age have the highest crash risk of any age group on the road. While many teens crash because of risk-taking, most crashes occur because the teen behind the wheel does not have the skills or experience needed to recognize a hazard and take corrective action. Senior Trooper Michael Reichardt has been employed with the State of Louisiana since December of 2003. Prior to that, he worked for Ouachita Parish Sheriff’s Office for 1 ½ years. He has worked in many departments within the State Police, from a road Trooper to Narcotics and to his current position the Public Information Officer (PIO) for Troop F.

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As PIO, he handles all media relations and any presentations and safety discussions requested by different organizations. He partners regularly with the Children’s Coalition on Young Driver Highway Safety Training events and Prescription Take Back Days. Q: What is the most important thing to know about drunk driving? The most important thing that people should know about drunk driving is that if you are impaired and get behind the wheel, the chances of you being involved in a crash significantly increase. These crashes can lead to severe injuries or even death. This is true especially for teens; traffic crashes are the leading cause of death for teenagers. When alcohol is a factor, the chances dramatically increase. Drinking and driving can be a deadly combination. Q: Why is important for parents to talk to the teens about drunk driving? As a parent myself, I think this is one of the most important conversations that you can have with your teen. Research suggests that teens may interpret a parent’s failure to talk about underage drinking as indifference, making them more likely to use alcohol. Most teens don’t think of drinking as a problem; they are just with their friends having a good time. They don’t think about what a fatal crash or an arrest will mean for the rest of their life. Something as simple as a DWI arrest

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Q: What is our community doing to address the problem of teen drunk driving? A: Sudden Impact is a statewide comprehensive injury prevention program for adolescents in partnership with the Louisiana State Police. We hold reenactments of alcohol-related crashes at area high schools and follow up with information. I also work with the Children’s Coalition for Northeast Louisiana Young Driver Program to promote awareness and educate young drivers about the dangers of impaired and distracted driving. Using a state-of-the-art driving simulator, teens are immersed in realistic scenarios of high risk driving behavior that can encourage better driving choices in the future. Presentations take place in high schools located in Ouachita, Lincoln and Union Parishes and three colleges – Louisiana Tech University, University of Louisiana – Monroe and Grambling State University.

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Parents Are the Key, a campaign from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), helps parents, pediatricians and communities keep teen drivers safe on the road. You can download free materials, like a parent/teen driving agreement, and tips about “What Parents Can Do” to make sure yourteen doesn’t become a statistic. https://www.cdc.gov/ParentsAreTheKey/

Mary Barrios, Healthy Living Coordinator at the Children’s Coalition, works with Susan Thompson and Troop F to bring the Northeast Louisiana Young Driver Program to area schools. She also heads up U-ACT a community-based substance abuse prevention program in Union Parish. Go to www. childrenscoalition.org to learn more about programs like Young Driver program, U-ACT and the upcoming Dia de la Familia October 13 in Lake D’Arbonne State Park.

Q: What should my teen do or say if they suspect their driver is drunk? Get out! I talk to teens all the time about what to do, and tell them to make sure they have a plan in case something like this happens. Most teens don’t go to a party to drink alcohol, but if they happen to be pressured into drinking, they may be too embarrassed to call a parent for help. Have a “code word” for your teen to use when they call or text. Something simple like a “toothache” or “headache.” Just know if your teen contacts you and says your “code word” that you need to go get them, because they trust you and need you. This is not the time to interrogate your child. As a parent you will probably be upset and you may say or do things that could make them not call the next time. Q: What should I do or say if my child is arrested for drunk driving? In Louisiana, drivers under 21 years old found to have a blood alcohol level (BAC) of at least 0.02% will be charged with DWI—this is lower than the adult BAC of 0.08. On average, one standard drink of alcohol will increase the average person’s BAC to 0.02% or 0.05%. As a State Trooper, I have arrested several teens for DWI. Just remember, it is not the end of the WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 117


G O O D T I M E H A T L I N E Sarah Chestnut’s hats are inspired by people, places, music and stories—what she calls “the crazy stuff of life”—but each one carries with it a hope and a prayer that the wearer will not only have a good time wearing it, but that he or she will also be blessed by it.

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“I LOVE HOW HATS BREAK THROUGH EVERY AGE, EVERY RACE, EVERY STEREOTYPE. PEOPLE ARE THE EXCLAMATION POINT, AND THE HAT’S THE DOT.” – SARAH CHESTNUT SINCE SHE WAS A LITTLE GIRL, Sarah Chestnut has had a mind for business. When the desire to sell grew strong enough, she started peddling her mom’s silverware to neighborhood children. She charged 25 cents a spoon, and each one came with the promise of adventure. “We were digging to China,” she said. Although Sarah’s mom Denise wasn’t thrilled with her daughter’s first entrepreneurial venture, she and Sarah’s dad, David, have been Sarah’s biggest supporters ever since. In fact, when Sarah started an organic egg business before she was licensed to drive, her parents allowed her to use the car for the sole purpose of delivering eggs. They only put their foot down when her client base expanded beyond the city limits. In the process of launching and growing her egg business, Sarah learned many of the things needed to launch her current endeavor, Good Time Hat Line. When she was getting her feet wet, Sarah’s parents required her to write a business plan and keep track of every transaction. In fact, she said her dad Dave was like Dave Ramsey before Dave Ramsey was even popular. As a result, she grew up learning about money and all the behind-the-scenes aspects of business. But in addition to learning about money, Sarah was learning about people. She grew up in Natchez, Mississippi, and went everywhere with her mom, which meant that her mom’s friends became her friends. According to Sarah, Denise and her friends were an eclectic group that included a strong Christian, a gypsy, an outdoorswoman, and Denise herself, a southern belle. Sarah is thankful for the diversity of this group and said, “I’m a mixture of all those people.” Because of that mixture, she seeks out diversity in her friends and can relate to people from all walks of life. Sarah’s upbringing ultimately created a woman with a clear focus. “When I look at the world, I see business and people,” she said. Since 120 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

graduating with a Bachelor of Science in fashion merchandising from Louisiana Tech University, Sarah has worked to connect her passion for business and people through hats. Hats have been a part of who she is since she was a child wearing a little red hat and navy coat everywhere. The ensemble made her look British, and the effect was so strong that people would speak to her in a British accent. When she got older, she continued to wear hats and had a particular green hat that would spark conversation and garner compliments. She also worked at a western store while in college and enjoyed watching the range of people choose hats. Sometimes a frat boy and a farmer would choose the same hat, and that hat might be the only thing they would see eye to eye on. These experiences have shown Sarah that hats have the power to bring people together. “I love how hats break through every age, every race, every stereotype,” she said. Some people were made to wear hats, and according to Sarah, “They’re the exclamation point, and the hat’s the dot.” But at the same time, some people don’t think they can pull off a hat. Sarah hopes her hats can break barriers for both types of people. She hopes her hats connect people that might not otherwise be connected and that her brand will encourage people to grow and expand their horizons. “Don’t wear a hat unless you want to be talked to,” she said. “If you’re moving to a new town, buy a hat.” Sarah hopes that when people put on her hats, doors will be opened in their life. “That’s literally what I pray for,” she said. “When sewing them, I pray for the person who’s going to wear the hat with every stitch, so it is about hats for me, but it’s more about what the hats represent. I want this brand to be about all kinds of kinds.” Sarah not only prays for her future hat wearers. She’s prayed over her business from the moment it was conceived. The WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 121


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idea came to her during a particularly dark time in her life—a time when she said, “I literally had to sit still for eight months.” In the mornings, she would go to the coffee shop and try to focus on her studies, but she couldn’t. She said, “I couldn’t study, because I kept thinking about these hats.” During this time in her life, it was hard for Sarah to see or hear God. “Sometimes you feel like your life is so rough that you can’t pray about yourself, but you can pray about something else,” she said. “I could pray about the hats.” From the beginning, Sarah wanted to make sure her hats were manufactured in the 122 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

U.S. When she was growing up in Natchez, one of the local mills closed. Afterward, she witnessed the fallout as many families lost their livelihood and several were forced to move. As a result, supporting families here in the U.S. was important to her. Over several months, she prayed that God would connect her with the right person. When she finally convinced a man she called “the hippy hatter” to meet her in Dallas, her world changed. “Walking into the meeting was the first time I felt God again,” she said. Even though it had been difficult to feel separated from God for so long, she said, “The cards I was dealt—I had to have those,

because I wouldn’t have sat still for anyone else. When I walked into that meeting, the cards were shuffling.” When Sarah and the hippy hatter met for the first time, he greeted her with a laugh, which immediately diffused her nerves. According to Sarah, after she’d made her pitch, “He said, ‘This is ridiculous, but I’m old, and I need a little fire around here. Because I’m gettin’ bored and I need some young blood, I’ll take you on.’” He’s definitely proven to be the right person for Sarah and her hat line. “I can send him the craziest idea, and we’ll make it together,” she said. “I wouldn’t want to work with anyone else. He’s really the best.” Through this experience, she’s learned a big lesson. “Even when you’re going through the roughest time, and you can’t feel God, and you feel like He’s put you on the back burner, He may be orchestrating something great. I see that now,” she said. “It’s been the absolute biggest blessing, and I’ve met the best people. If the Lord puts you still, it’s not the worst thing that could happen, because He’s gonna make it worth your while.” In addition to the hippy hatter, there have been a few other key players in helping Sarah get her hat line off the ground, and she’s prayed for them, too. “I wanted it to be God’s timing and not mine,” she said. “I had everything ready, and God sent me Spencer.” Sarah met Spencer Berry four years earlier around 2 a.m., while duck hunting in Russell Sage. At the time, she had no idea he would later play a role in her business. The two reconnected in January of this year, and Sarah learned that Spencer had started his own marketing business. He understood her mission, and she knew he was the right person to take on the marketing for her hat line. “He’s the only person I’ve ever met that loves people the way I do,” she said. Around the same time, two other incredible people reached out to Sarah: Rachel Lee and Rhett Parker. Both were photographers with similar visions, and it was like the stars aligned. Because their parents knew each other, they share the same interests, and they were both born at the same time in the same place, Sarah calls them “the constellation twins.” Of her team, Sarah said, “We’re all night and day different, but we all have the same goals, and we all appreciate diversity.” It’s not uncommon for Sarah and her friends to jump in a car, spur of the moment, to drive to Dallas, New Orleans or some other city, to do a photoshoot with random people on the street. “We’re a rolling circus,” she said.

“I knew I had a circus. I just needed the right people to join, and they make life more fun.” When they get together, a good time is inevitable, but that’s not the whole story behind Sarah’s decision to call her brand Good Time Hat Line. he originally planned to call it Chestnut & Co. but had a lingering feeling that the name was too boring. She wasn’t completely committed to it when she and her team took a trip to New Orleans for a shoot. During that trip, they had planned to get photos of 11 one-of-a-kind hats. While out on the streets, they matched one of the hats with a middle-aged New Orleanian. The woman was game to have her portrait taken but told Sarah, “I gotta finish rolling my joint. Then we’ll take this picture.” Tickled, Sarah looked at her and said, “That is a good time!” It’s something Sarah has always said about anything that gives off positive vibes—from a cup of coffee to a ripped-up, acid-washed jean jacket. “It’s my number one adjective,” she said. Fortunately, one of her friends picked up on it and suggested she use the phrase as her brand name. After trying it out and seeing how it rolled off the tongue, Sarah agreed, and Good Time Hat Line was born. Another important factor in establishing her brand is its logo, which is a full moon. The moon and its phases have special meaning for Sarah. When she was growing up, her cousin Anna Rose used to pick on her, saying she was like the moon, because she went through so many phases. The description fit, and Sarah has continued to identify with it. In fact, there was a point in her journey when she believes God used the phases of the moon to send her a message. She was still in the midst of trying to figure out if she should pursue the hat line, when she received a gift from her dear friend, Faith Green. Faith had painted the

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moon in all of its phases and gave the series to Sarah. “When I opened them up, it was like a slap in the face,” she said. “God did have his hand in this. I just didn’t know it.” Now when she wakes up every morning, the phases of the moon are the first things she sees, and she finds inspiration there. When Sarah meets her long-term goal, Good Time Hat Line will merely be the first in a series of businesses represented through logos based on the phases of the moon. “This is the one I want to be able to learn everything with,” she said, “but I hope when I take my last breath I have multiple businesses.” Sarah wants an empire, and she’s not afraid of the work it will inevitably take to build it. One of her favorite quotes reads, “Opportunity is missed by people, because it’s dressed in overalls and looks like work.” Sarah believes people often think a career in fashion is all about the shows, but it’s not. She said, “I’ve slept on the floor many a night to be inspired by a cool place and to be inspired by the hats. You make a lot of sacrifices, but look at all the opportunities I’ve gained through all this hard work.” She attributes this lesson to Bill Hammond, a man she calls “the Sundown legend.” “Mr. Bill can teach you everything about life you ever needed to know,” she said, “and he doesn’t even know it.” But Sarah is also the type to look for lessons everywhere. “With everything, you have no choice but to learn, and that’s my goal. I want to learn something every day,” she said. “To see God, I have to go see the world. I have to go see people. I’m always looking for inspiration.” Sarah’s hats are inspired by people, places, music and stories— what she calls “the crazy stuff of life”—but each one carries with it a hope and a prayer that the wearer will not only have a good time wearing it, but that he or she will also be blessed by it.

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Life Choices Kicks Off Their 40th Year

Lewis’ Gifts of Shreveport

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Annual Banquet to be Held October 9th

IFE CHOICES PREGNANCY RESOURCE CENTER IS excited to celebrate with their upcoming Annual Banquet at the Monroe Civic Center Banquet Hall on October 9. This night will be full of stories from speakers including Dr. David Uth, Dr. Dennis Swanberg and Al and Kay Robertson and entertainment from the Fabulous Equinox Quintet. The night will also be filled with hope as stories are told from the women and children who have benefited from the organization over the past 40 years. Life Choices is a non-profit organization, primarily funded through the kindness of our community through churches, businesses and individuals. It began in 1979 out of Dr. Meade O’Boyle’s office, offering alternative choices to abortion. Life Choices offers pregnancy tests, ultrasounds and information in a caring and confidential environment. We provide information on choices regarding an unplanned pregnancy. Life Choices also offers ultrasound, counseling, post abortive counseling and abstinence education. In addition, the HOPE program is designed for material assistance throughout the pregnancy and the first year of the baby’s life. All of our services are free of charge. MISSION STATEMENT Life Choices Pregnancy Resource Center, is a mission, in active obedience to Jesus Christ, that saves young women and their unborn babies from the consequences of abortion by: • Equipping people involved in unexpected pregnancy to make life-affirming choices by giving them information on fetal development, adoption, and the procedures and risks of abortion • Educating young people about the physical, emotional and spiritual benefits of abstaining from sexual activity outside of marriage and equipping and encouraging them to live chaste (morally pure) and responsible lives; • Helping people suffering from post-abortion stress to find healing and communicating the good news of salvation through Jesus Christ SERVICES Life Choices of Monroe offers the following services to girls and women seeking pregnancy counseling, abortion counseling and abortions in Louisiana: • Pregnancy tests • Ultrasounds • HOPE program (Helping Others Parent Effectively) • Community resource referrals • One time emergency assistance If you or your business are interested in underwriting this event or hosting a table, please contact Jenny Remsberg, in the office by calling (318) 323-2200.

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Unique Blend of Personal Service and Luxury Products THE LEWIS FAMILY OF LEWIS’ GIFTS HAS BEEN A part of Shreveport, Louisiana’s retail community for over 90 years. The small shop that began as a pharmacy back in the 1920s and was transformed into a gift shop in 1985 grew so much that the family ultimately found a new home and a new 12,000 foot showroom at 5807 Youree Drive in 2008. Today, Catherine Lewis Hobbs is the fourth generation to own Lewis’ Gifts along with her brother Mike Lewis who runs the adjoining café, Biscotti’s. The staff has a combined 259 years of retail experience, and most of them have been with the company for many years. That family atmosphere coupled with impeccable personal service is one of the hallmarks of Lewis’ Gifts. Another signature hallmark is the breathtaking selection. Walking into Lewis’ Gifts transports guests into a world of new options, from the perfect gift that pampers, to graceful home décor. Lewis’ Gifts carries the brands you love, such as Jon Hart, Niven Morgan, Vietri, Juliska, Skyros, Tyler Boe and Bella Notte Bedding in the latest trends, as well as classics you’ll love forever. The bustling store showcases everything from artisan bath products to baby gifts and clothing. They also carry fabulous women’s clothing, accessories, and jewelry. Lewis’ Gifts is the perfect place to take your home into every season. The staff can show you some simple additions in china, flatware and linens for an easy update to your tabletop design. They can help you coordinate throw pillows and matching lamps, as well as home accents for inside or outdoor entertaining. Their candles, scented soaps and gourmet packaged foods will add a welcoming note to your guestroom. Lewis’ Gifts is known throughout the South as a wedding registry destination with full service and attention to detail. Each wedding party receives personal service customized just for them. Lewis’ offers almost everything the newlyweds need to start a new home together. The wedding consultants and staff make it their priority to ensure a timely follow-through and personal experience. Registering your wish list is easy and convenient, whether it is in the store or online! As you enjoy your shopping, plan to stay for lunch! Biscotti’s is located inside Lewis’ Gifts and offers a delectable menu with something to delight every taste. Catering and Meals-to-Go is also available offering sandwich trays, casseroles, sides, salads, dessert trays, soups, pies and cakes. Biscotti’s can handle catering for small families and larger parties. So whether you’re looking for something to spruce up your home for the winter or for the perfect gift to delight and pamper, the staff at Lewis’ Gifts is ready to help. Their convenient location and unique blend of personal service and luxury products will enhance your style and your life.

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DBK Dance and Performing Arts DBK Wins National Studio of The Year

Every Woman’s Boutique Croswell’s Boutique 139 is Now Shipping

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BK DANCE IS EXCITED TO ANNOUNCE THAT THEY were recently named the Studio of the Year by StreetzDance at the 2018 National Convention! “We are so very blessed to receive such an incredible honor!,” said Debbie Bourg - Owner / Director of DBK. This award is voted on by a panel of Judges and Professional Teachers and Choreographers. In addition to performance scores, the students are evaluated in class on work ethics, respect and their professionalism both backstage as well as onstage. “Our entire studio overview is taken into consideration,” said Debbie. “How well we train our students in technique, etiquette, performance and professionalism is all a part of the decision. Our staff members are such wonderful mentors, pouring their hearts into these kids and it shows every time they take the stage whether it’s a national competition, a local festival or community fundraiser!” While at the national convention, the dancers took classes from an amazing faculty of professional dancers and choreographers from across the country. One of the highlights was a musical theater class taught by a cast member from the Broadway Musical Hamilton. Nine of the students were there on full scholarship for classes and five of their routines were “Golden Ticket” winners at Regionals. The dancers received all platinum ratings in solo and groups. They were awarded runner up to the teen title with Carry Me Home, choreographed by Mackenzie Salter Grassi and awarded Senior National Champions with Depth, choreographed by Brianna Ulven. For over four decades, DBK has shared their passion for Dance and the Arts in our community. Well recognized for teaching students to use their talents to give back to those less fortunate is evident in their contribution to so many local charities and events. Many young people have entered the doors of the studio with dreams of becoming a dancer. What they take with them is so much more! Though Dance and sports have many similar benefits, dance is an artform that has been passed down for generations. Like an artist or musician, dancers patiently build their technique and skills upon a foundation that has been established for hundreds of years. The DBK staff are as much mentors as teachers. Each student receives instruction from teachers that share their passion for dance as well as the joy of seeing a student reach their full potential. Strong work ethics, selfdiscipline, respect for self and others are all taught in a loving family environment. The curriculum offers a wide variety of styles and levels which include Classical Ballet, Tap, Jazz, Hip Hop, Musical Theater, Contemporary and Tumbling. They even have Holy Yoga to stretch and strengthen your spirit and your soul. “Dance from the heart and give God the glory!” is the core of our DBK Family. With this foundation, the students grow with us to become more than dancers. They become successful, beautiful human beings. For complete detailed info, please visit us online at dbourgdance.com, Facebook or Instagram.

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ALL IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER! THUS, THE beginning of pumpkin spice, football games, bonfires, school spirit and crisp cool mornings and evenings. Croswell’s has the perfect fall selection unlike anything found in the surrounding areas. Continuously improving and updating the store, clothes, jewelry and shoes, this boutique itself is truly one-of-a-kind. This hidden gem, tucked in it’s own corner just north of Sterlington, is now making it even easier for you to shop at your favorite boutique with out leaving home. Croswell’s Boutique 139 is now shipping via PayPal through their Facebook page. Scroll through their Facebook page and shop your favorite looks. New items are posted to the Facebook page daily, so be sure to follow and check back for different items being posted. Croswell’s is continuously moving forward and growing to finding better ways to provide the women in this area with quality pieces at a reasonable price. A boutique that is more than you would ever expect! Croswell’s Boutique 139 resides in a comfortable 12,000 sq. ft. building. With over 6,000 Fall pieces trickling in daily, you’ll adore everything they have to offer and you’ll be amazed how reasonably priced it is. Boutique 139 has kimonos, colored skinny jeans, dresses, tops and camisoles, just to name a few. With over 60 styles of shoes, Croswell’s has something for everyone. Sneakers, booties, heels, wedges and platforms, this boutique has a huge selection to choose from. With their affordable prices, you will have every reason to come update your wardrobe. Croswell’s Boutique 139 is becoming well-known for their amazing jean selection. With a wide variety of brands and styles, it’s easy to find the perfect fit. Skinny, boot cut, flares, mini flares, distressed; you name it, they’ve got it. They also have missy and junior fit jeans. Something for everyone and just in time for game day. Football season is just around the corner, and Croswell’s is stocking up on beautiful items just in time for cooler weather. Layers on layers are the best thing about fall fashion. They are stocking up on statement tops, which are great for school, work or the stands. The friendly and helpful staff at Croswell’s can assist you is finding the perfect outfit for game day. They have hundreds of new styles available, and it is a great time of year to come see what this boutique has to offer. Separate yourself from all the others and take a trip to this uniquely classic boutique. You can experience the revolution in shopping at 7540 Old Monroe Rd. just south of Bastrop and just 15 minutes from Sterlington. You only have to come in once to shop the experience and you’ll be hooked! For more information call 318-281-4881 or shop their store online on the Croswell’s Boutique 139 Facebook page! WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 127


Simply Lou Walter the Wonder Dog article and illustration by Lou Davenport original drawing, prismacolor on paper

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’m going to do this month’s column a little differently. Dr. Phil says that “even if a pancake is flat, there’s always two sides.” With that said, I’m going to have a guest columnist, Mr. Walter Davenport, give his side to our story. On July 26, “The Brat Pack” and I welcomed, well, I welcomed, a new member to our home. “Walter the Wonder Dog” came to live with us and life has certainly not been the same since. The day before, I received a frantic call from my daughter, Carolyn telling me that their neighbors were moving and that they couldn’t take all their dogs with them. She went on to say there was one that needed ME! He had “anxiety issues” like me and that we needed each other. To quote her, she said, “Mama, I have found you a man. The perfect man for you.” Their neighbors were frantic to find him a new home. I was strong 128 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

at first, politely declining, thinking that the “Brat Pack” would NOT be happy with me bringing home a dog! ( I’d tried getting a dog once, and it just didn’t work out very well with them.) But....then... They sent me his picture..... Oh my word, I am a sucker for a man with salt and pepper hair. And big brown eyes. Big ears and crazy, wild hair. The old song, “Just One Look” came to mind and, of course, I said, “Bring him on over tomorrow!” I had to get dog food, a doggie bed, dog toys! This has been a dog proof house for years! All my “Brat Pack” really likes to play with are Amazon boxes. The next day was the big “Welcome Walter Day,” and I was so ready to meet him in person! I tried to explain to the “Brat Pack” what was going to happen. Yes, I know, I’m crazy. I talk to the cats. (But, they haven’t answered me yet, so I have that going for

me!) Carolyn and Ty brought Walter on over to my house. Oh! He was happy to be here! And, I could tell he was crazy about Carolyn and Ty, so I asked them to be his Godparents! He bounced right up beside me on the couch and hasn’t left my side much since! He also makes every step I make! Yes, it was “love at first sight!” Walter’s original name was, “Beast” but he certainly doesn’t look like a beast to me! He’s way too handsome and charming. I choose to “re-name” him Walter! Ty said he looked like “Walter Matthau” and I had to agree. So not only does he get to be “Walter” he gets to be called “the thief of hearts and the gangster of love!” (from the movie, “Grumpy Old Men”) He loves women and already has a fan club! “Holy Moly!” He really does love every woman he meets and charms them to no end! He’s shameless! Walter had also spent most of his life in a crate. Not that his former owners were not good to him, but they both worked and had very busy lives. I vowed he wouldn’t live in that crate. The one time I put him in it just to get one of the cats to come in, he whimpered, cried and was so sad, I couldn’t stand it. No crate for Walter. He has his own house now! He hasn’t slept a minute in the bed I bought for him. He sleeps with me on the couch, because the Brat Pack have taken over my room as their headquarters now. I don’t know, if I’ll ever get my room back. I have a feeling they are “plotting” their revenge to get me back for getting a dog! How dare I? Being half Boston Bull Terrier and half Yorkshire Terrier gives Walter a real interesting look. He is shaped like a Boston Bull but has wiry, wavy hair. He has whiskers and eyebrows that are stubby and a stub tail. He’s five years old now, and I guess he has “premature” gray hair. But, he is a “cutie patootie” and he knows it! Carolyn says I’ve helped him with his “self esteem!” He is also a very anxiety ridden little dog, and I think he’s already doing better here. I identify with him, I have anxiety attacks myself. It’s not fun. I plan on getting him into being a service dog for me as well as him. He can go everywhere then, even fly. I like having him with me! I guess my guest columnist needs no introduction by now, so, here’s Walter! (I told him he couldn’t cuss, either, because I believe he does!) WOW! I’ve never got to do this before! Dogs don’t usually get to write! But, my Mom did name me “Walter, the Wonder Dog,” so she has a lot of confidence in me! She’s been pretty cool. I get all the treats I want, I don’t have to stay in a crate, she buys me good dog food, let’s me run all over her backyard

and takes me places. so I can flirt with all the women! I’ve hidden a lot of my treats all over the living room. You never know when you might need one on the spur of the moment! When I do get in trouble, it’s usually about those d#*n (oops) cats! They have never been around a dog, let alone one like me! I just want to chase them! I don’t want to hurt them, but, these Brat Pack cats have sharp claws! They’ve got me a few times, but, I’m really too fast for them! Angus and I are okay with each other, and Otis is coming around a little bit. Peanut, the old lady cat, could care less one way or another about me. The main one I am having a hard time winning over is “Lil Rod.” He’s really angry about me being at “his” house. When he is really angry, he sits in the ditch out in front of the house. I think he wants the neighbors to think Mom is treating him badly. That isn’t true, he’s just a little “diva!” We have a lot in common, though. Neither one of us have tails! And, we are both very hard headed! Ah well, maybe in time we will become “the best partners in crime” or “divas in crime!” We are both very dramatic! I discovered squirrels today in the backyard and chased my first one up a tree! He went up a little ways, then, turned around, shook his tail at me and fussed....or he could have been calling me a really bad

name. I’ll have to learn their language, so I can know exactly what I got called. Then, I can bark some “ugly” name back at them! For now, they better be on guard for me! I’m fast and I might just catch one of those rascals! Every evening I help cook supper. That really just means that I stand beside her and eat what ever falls on the floor. I like to think of it as cleaning up! I don’t care for onions or bell pepper, but I really like green beans. She fixes little bowls with green beans for me now, because she said they were good for me! I even get little bites of steak and chicken sometimes, too! I have a “good thing” going! I think I’ve been as good for my Mom, just like she has for me. I protect her, and I’m fierce! I can bark really loud! She used to get lonely sometimes, but she has me now, and I get lots of hugs and kisses! She even sings to me sometimes! I really believe I am supposed to be right here with her! I’ll never let her be lonely again. For me, getting this little dog at a time I really did not need to get him, has been one of the best decisions I have ever made. The last time I made a decision similar to this one, was when Larry was so sick, and one of Paige’s boyfriends wanted to give her a dog, a chocolate lab, for Christmas. I gave in and Duke gave me and Paige, so much after Larry died. It was like he had been sent to us ahead

of time. Now at my age, with all my kids grown and no significant other, this little dog has filled a void I didn’t realize I even had! Unconditional love and companionship, we all need it! Thanks to Walter for writing his side of our story so well. He really is a Wonder Dog! It’s different having a dog and four cats around, but so far we’re “baby stepping” along to “peace and harmony.” No fur has flown, and no blood has been shed, just a lot of growling and posturing! So, with time, I hope, everybody will be friends or at least, just be neutral! Just One Look, 1963, Doris Troy “Grumpy Old Men,” 1993, Warner Bros. Pictures

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Picture Yourself a Phi Mu Louisiana Tech Phi Mu wants you to Go Greek!

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EING GREEK CAN MEAN SO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS to so many different people. It can mean having a support system during the good times and the bad times. It can mean having added opportunities for leadership and character development. It can mean having memories that are made on the dance floor at formal --- or on the volleyball court during Greek Week. It can mean having a bond between people with similar college majors --- or forming new bonds with women of different backgrounds. For some, it can mean continuing a tradition that was previously established by members of one’s own family. Finally, it can mean finding a home away from home. “From the very beginning, Phi Mu has challenged me to push myself. My sisters encourage me on a daily basis to be brave and adventurous. Without their support, I would not be the person I am today.” – Maggie Bagwell, New Member Director “I pledged Phi Mu, because of its Creed. When I went through recruitment as a freshman, it was amazing to see this group of women unite together under the values of their sorority. Being Greek (and being Phi Mu) has changed my life for the better, and it has given me

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three ideals to hold near-and-dear: love, honor and truth.” – Rebekah Lenard, Membership Director “Being Greek and being Phi Mu has given me the opportunity to be the best version of myself. Without it, I know I would still be the same person I am… but because of it --- I simply feel more complete.” – Anna Parker Primary recruitment begins at Louisiana Tech University on September 6th, and the women of Phi Mu – Alpha Lambda chapter encourage you to find your own reason for being Greek! For more information, visit www.latech.edu/greek-life, and follow the hashtag #PictureThisLTU on social media! If you would like to keep up with the Alpha Lambda chapter of Phi Mu, you can follow their social media accounts on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter; the handle for all accounts is @latechphimu. You may also check-out the chapter’s website, which is www.latech. phimu.org.

The Nude Nomad’s Game-Day Guide Voted 2018 Bayou Buzz Best Shoe Selection Winner and Best Women’s Boutique Finalist

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HEN IT COMES TO FOOTBALL rivalries, we may not agree on everything, but we can certainly agree on scoring the perfect game-day look! Here is how to fashionably kick off football season in style: 1. Carry a Chic Stadium Approved Purse Following the lead of the NFL, many universities and concert venues are implementing clear-bag policies. The SEC is no exception. They have a league-wide clearbag policy for sporting events. Instead of reaching for your nearest zip lock bag, invest in a trendy stadium-approved purse! The Nude Nomad has you covered with affordable and chic clear game-day options available in a circular or rectangular shape in luxurious gold or brown leather complete with a tassel accent and sophisticated chain strap.

STYLING TIP: Since you will be carrying your purse from morning tailgates to the final touchdown, we suggest packing lightly. We know it can be easy to overpack for a day in the stadium, so we made sure our game-day purses are just as comfortable as they are stylish. 2. Wear Football-Friendly, Fashion-Forward Footwear Long days cheering on your favorite team can be exhausting, so it is important to make sure your “boots are made for walking.” The Nude Nomad was voted the 2018 Bayou Buzz Best Shoe Selection Winner and has a reputation for carrying some of the cutest and most comfortable styles in town. It is no secret that the right pair of shoes can take a simple outfit and turn it into something special! So, regardless if you are a sneaker gal or love a

pair of fall booties, The Nude Nomad’s wide selection of football-friendly, fashion-forward footwear makes it easy to find something for everyone! STYLING TIP: Remember that comfort is key! However, your style does not need to suffer. Focus on versatile footwear options with padding and support to elevate your game-day wardrobe. 3. Sport Your Team’s Colors Fashion is the best way to show which team you support! Rather than wearing a jersey, kick your outfit up a notch with a trendier option in your team’s colors, such as an oversized lightweight sweater, a luxe velvet tee, a tiger print tank or a comfy and cute dress. These fun pieces are versatile enough to take you from tailgating to winning celebrations! STYLING TIP: Don’t forget to complete the look with comfortable and cute shoes and a chic stadium-approved purse! If you need help getting game-day ready, swing by The Nude Nomad to meet with a personal stylist. The Nude Nomad is a women’s clothing, shoes and accessories boutique located at 222 Trenton Street on Antique Alley in West Monroe, LA, only a few doors down from The Costume Shop. They are open Monday Saturday from 10:30 a.m. - 5:30 p.m.

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Northeast Louisiana Celtic Festival

Saturate Your Senses in the Sights, Sounds and Tastes of Our Celtic Heritage

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HE WEST MONROE-WEST OUACHITA CHAMBER OF Commerce will host the Celtic Festival presented by The City of West Monroe on Oct. 6 at Kiroli Park. Organizers are proud to carry on the tradition as the longest running music festival in northeast Louisiana. “This year marks the 15th anniversary of the Celtic Festival,” said founder Doyle Jeter of Enoch’s Irish Pub. “The festival exists to preserve the rich Celtic heritage, traditions and lore of the region.” A great lineup of Celtic artists along with surprise guests, featuring traditional Irish and Scottish music is scheduled. Traditional music fans will hear from festival favorites, including Mairtin DeCogain, Don Penzien, Emerald Accent, Tony Davoren and many others. Irish dancers will entertain the crowd in the afternoon. Chef Pat Nolan will serve Shepherd’s pie, Scotch eggs, and sticky toffee pudding. The Scottish Society of the Louisiana Highlands will be on hand selling Heiland Coo burgers. Some festival favorites return including: TD’s jambalaya, Will’s Cajun corndogs, and Johnny’s pizza. Guinness draft, Smithwick’s and a few pints will be served in the beer garden. “The day promises to be one you will thoroughly enjoy!” said Director and co-founder, Tom McCandlish. “The festival features a

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wide diversity of performers and styles, and all vendors are selected with great care.” Magic can be found in the special activities set up just for the wee ones! There are games and Celtic crafts provided by Arrow Public Art. Later in the evening, and new for this year, Ouachita Green and Centric Federal Credit Union will host a viewing of the children’s movie “Brave” at the amphitheater located in Kiroli Park. The Chamber shares the event with “Brave the Shave” hosted by St. Baldrick’s, a children’s cancer research fundraiser for St. Jude. Special thanks to the City of West Monroe who will once again serve as the presenting sponsor, along with Kiroli Park. Joining them as festival sponsors will be Dr. Jeffery R. Counts, Atty. E. Orum Young, Johnny’s Pizza, Matt’s Music, P3 Promotional Products and host hotel, Home2Suites. Media sponsors include 90.3 KEDM, KTVE10 and Lagniappe Broadcasting. The festival will open at 10 a.m. on Saturday, October 6 and continue until 9 p.m. that evening. There is a $5.00 per person entry fee to the park with children 10 and under gaining free admission. For more information or inquiries on vendor booth space, please call the WMWO Chamber of Commerce office at 325-1961 or visit the events tab at www.westmonroechamber.org.

Reclaim Your WellBeing And Sexuality Now Offering Pellet and Shockwave Therapy BY JUDY WAGONER

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OTHER NATURE PLAYS A DIRTY trick on men and women with the passage of time. Just as we begin to enjoy our lives as empty-nesters, our bodies seem to change overnight, as we cope with night sweats, ballooning weight, fuzzy thinking, aching joints, loss of stamina and libido. What’s happening to cause these symptoms? With aging comes the plummeting of our hormone levels, which wreaks havoc on our bodies! Women are accustomed to the fluxes of hormones. It’s been the story of their lives. It all begins with their first period. If they experience pregnancy, their world is really turned upside down, as hormone levels rise and then quickly drop after birth. As they approach menopause, the changes can be even more severe. This is when the reproductive system is preparing to shut down. This decline of hormone levels, along with the subsequent breakdown of the body, is nature’s way of making sure you

don’t live forever, making room for the next generation. While not as disruptive as menopause, men’s sex hormones also decline at mid-life and earlier. It’s called Andropause. Testosterone is the main culprit of their symptoms. After age 30, most men begin to experience a gradual decline in testosterone, falling one to two percent a year. Low testosterone leads to reduced libido or sex drive, quality of life, well being and overall health. It corresponds to obesity, metabolic syndrome, diabetes and high blood pressure. It can create symptoms of brain fog, depression and lethargy. Also, cardiovascular disease and heart attacks are higher in men with low testosterone. The good news is you don’t have to suffer and resign yourself to the infirmities of advancing age. A simple solution is to replace your lost hormones with human identical hormones, which are available to both men and women.

Human identical hormones have the same molecular structure as those produced by the body. They look identical to your own hormones — estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, thyroid, growth hormone and insulin. They’re taken from natural sources, such as soybeans or yams, and are more easily absorbed by the body than other types of hormone replacement therapy. They come in the form of creams, pellets, pills, injections and patches. Dr. Victor Zuckerman, a Diplomat in the American Academy of Anti-Aging, and Medical Director at Professional Laser Center, has been prescribing Hormone replacement therapy for almost a decade. He is now offering testosterone pellet insertion for both men and women. Dr. Zuckerman implants the tiny pellets under the skin near the hip, where they slowly release a stable, steady, optimum dose of testosterone over the course of three to six months. We are also offering Extracorporeal ShockWave Therapy for the treatment of Erectile Dysfunction or to improve Sexual Performance. Hormone replacement therapy can change your life! It is YOUR MOST POWERFUL WEAPON in the war on aging. For more information or to schedule an appointment with Dr. Zuckerman, call 318-3619066. For a list of all of our services, please visit our website at www.professionallaser.com.

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D ’A R B O N N E N AT I O N A L WILDLIFE REFUGE

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’ARBONNE NATIONAL WILDLIFE REFUGE was established in 1975 to protect bottom-land hardwoods and provide habitat for migratory waterfowl during the winter. The National Wildlife Refuge System defines its mission in part as follows: “...to administer a national network of lands and waters for the conservation, management, and where appropriate, restoration of the fish, wildlife and plant resources and their habitats within the United States for the benefit of present and future generations of Americans.” They also state, “The wildlife and habitat vision for national wildlife refuges stresses that wildlife comes first; that ecosystems, biodiversity and wilderness are vital concepts in refuge management; that refuges must be healthy and growth must be strategic; and that the Refuge System serves as a model for habitat management with broad participation from others.” The system manages more than five hundred forty national wildlife refuges covering over ninety-five million acres and is the world’s largest collection of lands set aside specifically for fish and wildlife. In recent years approximately thirty-eight million people visited national wildlife refuges, most of them doing so to observe wildlife in their natural environment. D’Arbonne Refuge is an ideal place for witnessing the wonders of the natural world. Bottom-land hardwood forests serve as a transition between the swamp and the hardwoods on higher ground that do not easily tolerate water covering their root systems. During the rainy wet season, the ground more closely resembles a wet swamp than the soil found in a dry forest. Bayou D’Arbonne, which is considered one of the most natural and scenic streams in the state, meanders through thirteen miles of this seventeen thousand acre sanctuary. This preserved space has impressive stands of American bald cypresses and rare species of hardwood trees including the national record mayhaw tree, a species found in wetlands with fruit that makes delicious jelly. Within the landscapes that make up this marvelous refuge are swamps and sloughs, plus a plentiful number of streams and rivers. A multitude of wildlife, such as the American alligator, bald eagles and red-headed woodpeckers, find a safe habitat here. Other creatures who call this place home include deer, bobcats, foxes, rabbits, squirrels, wood ducks, tree frogs and numerous others. An 134 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

array of oxbow lakes and creeks within the boundaries make the refuge a popular fishing destination. There is an aggressive habitat management plan monitored by the federal government that includes controlled burning and planting food sources for sustaining the wildlife population. The refuge is located northwest of West Monroe, and it crosses the line between Union and Ouachita Parishes. An abundance of subjects is available for landscape and wildlife photographers, as well as ample activities for sportsmen. Hunting is allowed free of charge, but it is a walk-in site only. No vehicles of any kind, including ATV’s, are acceptable in the D’Arbonne Refuge. During the wet season, hiking into the area can be quite difficult, and with few landmarks to be found, carrying a compass or an GPS is highly recommended. On the Union Parish side of the line, an overlook has been built which is ideal for observing nature. A high vantage point from this structure provides a view of Saline Lake. In the dry season, the water level of the lake remains low, but during the late fall and winter months, the lake is flooded. At that time of year, numerous ducks and other waterfowl frequent the area. The overlook faces east offering superb views of sun and moon rises. During dry months, the

meadow below the structure is the place to be for anyone interested in striking stands of wildflowers. In the wet season, the refuge becomes an overflow area for the Ouachita River. High water levels, which usually occur between January and May, can inundate up to 87% of the acreage. Ideal terrain for wetland dependent wildlife is provided by these flooded woodlands. Silt, along with other particles, are filtered from the water by interaction with the forest and the soil. This moisture dependent timberland helps neutralize pollutants and it recharges the underground aquifers with fresh water. But after the flood recedes, a surreal landscape is created. During autumn, the watermarks on the trees left from the deluge are accentuated by a ground covering carpet of fallen oak leaves. One twisted tree amid a large grove of straight trees facilitated a focal point for a photograph of this phenomenon. This wildlife refuge features astounding scenery throughout the year. This site is a very short drive from my West Monroe home, and consequently, I frequently find time to enjoy searching the area for photographic subjects. In spring, the fresh green foliage brings hues that are vivid, and these tones are especially accentuated soon after dawn. In fall, the first light of the day provided dramatic back-lit

illumination to a field of black-eyed Susan’s which were located immediately below the Saline Lake observation stand. D’Arbonne Bayou itself becomes breathtaking with rising mist and the still air of daybreak. Early mornings, whether at dawn or shortly thereafter, are my favorite times to explore the area. Here, as well as other places throughout Louisiana, marvelous vistas can be seen and unexpected events may happen that are unforgettable. Many of the most vivid memories of my life were created while visiting wild places. On a late November day, after I had roamed through the refuge for several hours, a dense fog rolled in and the landscape took on an emotionally dramatic appeal. I hurried to the overlook and took pictures until the sun went down. The outcome resulted in photographs that I felt captured the thrill that was experienced that afternoon. Not every trip into natural places can bring with it an unexpected moment. Nor should a photographer expect to find a splendid composition on every outing. What would be the reward if the challenge brought easy results? It is those rare occasions and special discoveries that continue to beckon me into the exceptional places of this state.

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REVELATION IN LEATHER Chad Geis and the team at Surgeon Revelation are redefining what it means to be a surgeon – one accessory at a time. Article by Michael DeVault Images courtesy of Surgeon Revelation

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t’s hardly where you’d expect to find the mind behind one of the hottest new brands to come out of north Louisiana since Duck Dynasty. Chad Geis is sitting in a modified log skidder, a massive, multi-ton piece of machinery he uses for operations that promote and enhance forest growth. But once you hear the story of how he came up with the concept of Surgeon, a manufacturer of highquality leather accessories and bags Chad sells through the website www.surgeonrevelation.com. it’s the “revelation” part that underscores why his position at the controls of this beast of a machine makes perfect sense. It was one of these industrial monsters that led to his transformation, as he tells it. “It really was this simple,” Chad tells BayouLife, of the moment just a few years ago when the idea first struck him. “I was in the shop working on one of our machines that was broken. I was dirty, tired and covered in oil, really questioning what I was doing and my significance in life. You see, I left a very professional and respectable corporate job several years earlier to start this business. At that particular moment, my life did not look how I thought it would, when I resigned from a job many people would have given anything to have. I remember thinking, I could close this business, return to school and I could become a doctor, as that is a very respectable career. Maybe, I could even become a surgeon. After all, I’m pretty good at fixing that are broken.” As I stared at the thousands of hoses, wires, gears and individual parts that made up the broken machine I was working to repair, I thought to myself, “I already am a Surgeon, I’m just a machine Surgeon.” That was the revelation. Over his career in forestry, Chad had developed a deep knowledge of the intricate workings of numerous machines. He knew how to troubleshoot the machine problems, how to repair or replace damaged components, and when a machine was simply beyond repair. The skills he had developed were very to those of a surgeon, only his patients weren’t flesh and blood, they were metal and hydraulic fluid. The word “surgeon” got under his skin. “That name -- Surgeon -- rolled around in my head for a decade,” he says. “What it started to become as it grew was a soul-searching event.”

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“THAT NAME – SURGEON – ROLLED AROUND IN MY HEAD FOR A DECADE. WHAT IT STARTED TO BECOME AS IT GREW WAS A SOUL-SEARCHING EVENT.”

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had a brand. -- a brand he and his wife wanted to become an outward expression and an internal reminder of the choice everyone can make to positively impact the world through their unique gifts and the knowledge we are all created with a purpose. What he didn’t have was a product to attach it to. Meanwhile, he continued to build his forest management business, owning and operating equipment used in establishing new stands of timber and the growth promotion of existing forests. During that time, he met a lot of people and he started to notice a habit each of them shared. “Two things you find out in the first moment you meet a person: what’s their name and what they do,” he says. “Subconsciously, what we’re doing whether we realize it or not, is sizing up the person. We’re judging the kind of person we think they are based on societal perceptions.” Along the way, people tend to take those judgements and use them to categorize and organize the people they’ve met. Certain categories receive a higher position than others, he realized, and that’s where “surgeon” came back into the story. “We give a level of respect to a

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surgeon, because we know what it takes to become one, as well as the impact such an occupation has on other people’s lives,” he says. “There are years of sacrifice, hard work and developing skills that make us sit back and admire them.” Very quickly, “surgeon” became about more than just medical elites for him. Chad understood that the word could have a profound impact on people in all walks of life, and Surgeon took its next steps. “It’s about recognizing the work people put into what they do and saying, ‘It’s not about a title,’” Chad explains. “It’s about how you go about living your life. When you do something well, when you do it to the best of your abilities, it makes a difference.” In that recognition, Chad believes others are able to profoundly impact the lives of the people they encounter. That recognition isn’t just reserved for the highly educated or those with lucrative careers in skilled industries. He recounts a story from a few months ago when he stopped at a travel center late one night, (“You know, the big fancy westernthemed ones in Texas,” Chad says). There he encountered a young man cleaning the restroom. It struck him how clean it was and the care the young man put into his work. He paused and complemented the individual, who he found was working to attend college to become a physical therapist. The attendant thanked him and stated that no one had ever before taken note of him or what he was doing, and he really appreciated the word of encouragement. “The whole message of Surgeon is a little abstract until you start applying it,” Chad says. “You make our world and the lives of others better by applying a sense of God-given purpose to everything you do.” About the bag, and there is a lot to say about the bag that launched the brand, but we’ll get to that, even the first product itself has a backstory. Chad, you see, is a private pilot who’s spent a lot of time in airplanes or hanging out with other pilots. Each pilot carried some version of a satchel or briefcase, and each one was vastly different. “If you were to dig through someone’s bag, you’ll find out what their life is like real quick,” he says with a laugh. A person’s bag, which Chad occasionally refers to as a “life bucket,” can be orderly, neat, chaotic or a mix of it all. The bag can contain their work, their personal life, and any number of other items that illuminate a part of who they are. Sitting with one of his pilot friends, Chad had another revelation. “I thought, ‘Why not put it on a bag?’ It was that complicated,” he says. Surgeon had the beginnings of its first product -- a messengerstyle laptop bag, crafted from leather of the highest quality and 18 oz. waxed canvas. Sourcing vendors and selecting the best materials proved to be grueling for Chad and his wife. They designed a bag, looked at prototypes, and then made their first order. That’s where the story takes a fork in the road that, usually, leads small startups to failure. “I’m a little bit OCD and a perfectionist in everything I do,” Chad says. “My parents raised me to do whatever I’m going to do the best I can -- or not do it at all.” As he tells it, Surgeon ordered 80 of the first bags and, almost immediately, he knew they’d never sell a one of them. Somewhere in the process after placing the initial order, Chad and his wife met several individuals who informed them there were better ways to do it, and those people also made valuable suggestions. “We gave them all away,” he says of the first batch of Surgeon Revelation bags. The bags went to clients of his forestry business, friends, associates, even people he met on the street -- quite literally. There is a man known only as “Catfish,” and he busies himself fashioning crosses out of grapevines on a street corner in Shreveport. Always sitting on the same corner, Catfish is there, making his crosses and distributing them to people who inquire about them. The crosses exhibited an attention to craftsmanship that impressed Chad, but Catfish himself impressed him even more. He explained to Chad, how several years ago he lost his wife and daughter, and he felt God had led him to do this for people. Catfish has been told people have his crosses

in countries all over the world. “What he’s doing out on that corner, making these crosses, minding his own business, doing what he can to pay his bills and make something for someone else?” Chad says. “As far as I’m concerned, he’s a surgeon.” Today, Catfish has a Surgeon bag, compliments of Chad and the Surgeon team. He knew they were starting to build something with a lot of potential, and he knew that potential needed work. Part of the work lay with the design and features of the bags themselves. “Everybody that received one saw it and said the bags were amazing,” he says. “But there were enough little things about it that I knew we still needed to work on it. I wasn’t going to start a new business venture with something that wasn’t my best.” He went back to the drawing board, figuratively speaking at first. He’d see a bag he liked and take from it the design elements that stood out. Then they’d make a prototype. Along the way, the drawing board became literal. One afternoon, he came into his office and noticed an employee passing an idle moment doodling a drawing of toolbox in the workshop. Philip Elliot was a former Marine who had once been in a Sunday school class Chad taught years ago. He’d since joined Chad’s forestry operation, but as Chad stood over the young man, watching him draw the toolbox with great detail, he knew there were better uses of Philip’s talents. “That was the initial open door to bring Philip into the bag business,” Chad says. Philip has an “über-obsession” with detail and ultra-functionality, which is evident in each of the products offered by Surgeon. Through a process working with new suppliers and visiting the actual leather tanneries, they first replaced the original material, a widely used chromium/vegetable leather. Combination chemical/oiltanned leather has the potential to leave behind residues on clothing

and car seats, hardly the impression one wants to leave after a power business meeting. Instead, they moved to a 100% vegetable-tanned, full-grain leather, a change that came by way of Anna, another member of the team, who works remotely from Italy. “When you use 100% vegetable-tanned leather, the lifespan is far longer than anything you can get by any other process,” Chad explains. Additional innovations followed -- more pockets, a better strap -- and with each iteration, they moved closer to the product they knew they could make. Finally, the finished bag arrived and the brand launched. Philip explains the logic behind their products. At the heart, it’s a dogged attention to utility. Every feature has to have a purpose behind it. “We love pockets around here,” Philip says. “We’re pocket-crazy, because they’re how you organize your things.” What at first seems like a simple statement really grows as Philip unpacks the concept behind the tiny, zippered pocket that’s just the perfect size for a handful of breath mints -- though that’s not what that pocket is for. “When I go on photo shoots, or if I’m moving photos or files between computers at work or home, I use SD cards,” Philip explains. “They’re small, they pack in a lot of storage, and they’re fast. But they’re also easy to lose or break.” Philip realized they needed a pocket that was big enough to hold a few SD cards but not so big that you thoew in your cell phone, a set of headphones or the multitool you carry with you all the time. That way, the SD cards were accessible and protected against both loss and damage. There are pockets for business cards, pens, a laptop, a notebook and a myriad of paper. Whatever the need, chances are there’s a pocket. That same attention to utility drove the creation of their other products, including one of the most popular of Surgeon’s creations: the Tablet Organizer. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 139


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riginally called the Workbook, the leather Tablet Organizer is aimed squarely at professionals in the field. Inside the fully zippered enclosure, a paper note tablet on the right-hand side is situated perfectly for note-taking. Behind it, there is space for keeping papers organized. Opposite, there are spots, for business cards, pens and pencils, and the kinds of accoutrement one expects to find in a portfolio. What lies behind that, though, is truly innovative. The Tablet Organizer doesn’t get its name from the notepad on the right. The name comes from the padded, zippered compartment behind the left-hand side, perfectly designed to hold a tablet PC or small laptop computer. Finished with optional handles, the Tablet Organizer is the perfect “grab and dash” for a businessman, a salesman, a plumber, or even in the field, working the northern Louisiana’s Piney Woods. Which is kind of the point of the brand. It’s not just for the ultra-chic or wealthy. Surgeon is about every surgeon from all walks of life. And that’s why they’re branching out into other accessories, as well. On the horizon, Philip touts a number of new and exciting products they’re about to launch. A full leather women’s tote with key attention to organization, a durable yet rich looking waxed canvas and leather duffle bag, a key wallet to holds your keys as well as your cards and cash. They have a front-pocket wallet/card holder, as well, and redesigned straps for some of their signature products. Chad is quick to share credit with his team for the rapid growth of the brand and its list of products. But he’s also not one who easily forgets the impact people have had on

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his own story as he seeks to empower people like Philip and Anna, and their social media coordinator, Lindsey, to grow in their pursuits, both professional and personal. It’s a lesson he learned from Carl Milko, an old friend of his. Chad credits Carl with making one of the biggest differences in his adult life. After college, Chad went to work selling products used in the forestry industry. He developed a reputation for friendliness, customer loyalty and knowing how to treat his clients. Along the way, he met Carl, and when it came time for Chad to step out with his first business of his own, it was Carl who stepped up. Chad, who was in business with his brother Dallas for many years, had the drive, ideas and the ability. What they lacked was capital. “Carl signed a million dollar note to assist in the growth of their forestry business,” Chad says. “We offered Carl and his business partners, Bill McAlister and Jim Carlton, a percentage of the business, which Carl turned down. We also offered a portion of the profits, also declined. Beyond paying the note on the loan, Carl and his partners had no demands of Chad. “He never wanted anything in return for it. He just wanted to make sure that, one day, I did it for someone else. He was paying it forward. That’s a key element of what set me on the path to making a difference in people’s lives.” For Chad, success isn’t about the number of products the company sells or the amount of dollars they make on each one. “If I can make a positive difference in someone’s life, and who knows what the effect of that will be, then that’s a measure of success for me,” he says. “It may not be the world’s measure of success, but it’s mine.”

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Cotton Country Shoot Out Junior League of Monroe to Host Second Annual Event

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HE JUNIOR LEAGUE OF MONROE IS EXCITED TO announce their second annual Cotton Country Shoot Out! This is a sporting clay shooting event and will be held on Saturday, October 6 at the Cottonland Gun Club in Mangham, LA. The funds raised from this event will go toward many worthy local causes, focusing on Women and Children at Risk in our community. This has been the main focus for the Junior League of Monroe for over 80 years. The Junior League of Monroe is an organization of women committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women and improving communities through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. If you or your company is interested in sponsoring the event or signing up to participate, you can contact Samantha Combs, the chair of the event. She can be reached by calling 318-355-2464. The Junior League of Monroe recently kicked off their year with a Back to League social and Kendra Scott pop up event, with a portion of the proceeds from jewelry purchases benefiting the organization. The league has several exciting things planned for the upcoming year, and the board is ready to lead another group of women as they give back to the community. This year’s board members include Cydni Hanks, President; Meghan Sharp, Vice President; Jennifer Donald, Communications VP; Joann Powell, Community VP; Allison Earl, Financial VP; Brittany Hayes, Assistant Financial VP; Kathryn Bagley, Corresponding Secretary; Lauren Voorhees, Membership Development VP; Kelli Cole, Planning and Research VP; Ashanti Jones, Advisory Planning Chair; Melissa Kiper, Nominating and Placement Chair; Kelsey Laudenheimer, Fund Development VP and Terri Arthur, Sustainer Advisor. Cydni Hanks is excited to serve as the organization’s 88th President. “I am incredibly passionate about the Junior League,” said Cydni. “Since joining the League as a Provisional in 2008, I have had the honor to serve under and alongside some very impressive women that I now consider lifelong friends.” Her goals for the upcoming year include continuing to revitalize our presence within the community with our focus of Women and Children at Risk and engaging with other non-profit organizations where partnerships make sense and align within our three impact areas: Health Education, Financial Literacy and Education and Job Training. Since 1930, members of the Junior League of Monroe have devoted countless volunteer hours to meet the needs of the people and organizations of our community. Community leaders have always looked to the JLM for leadership in starting new community programs. As a result, the JLM has often been the catalyst that turned an idea into a successful program that benefited many in our area. Here are a few examples of programs that we have started in recent years: CASA - Court Appointed Special Advocate, Teen Screen, Shots for Tots, Teen Court, Operation Abstinence and Project Child.

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Northeast Imaging Now Providing Advanced MRI Imaging Service in Monroe

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HEN YOUR PHYSICIAN PRESCRIBES AN MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging) to assist in diagnosing medical conditions, a new outpatient imaging center in Monroe is now at your service. Using advanced MRI imaging technology operated by experienced and certified imaging technicians, Northeast Imaging provides MRI services in a convenient, nearby and safe setting. Offering fast appointment scheduling, Northeast Imaging is locally-owned and operated and offers more affordable MRI pricing options than found in hospital imaging. “We bring to our clients the highest quality MRI imaging technology coupled with a staff that is focused on the needs of our MRI patients,” states Jana Whatley, Marketing Director of Northeast Imaging. “Our outpatient setting allows for easy access to our center and our ability to schedule appointments with short notice makes getting the imaging results back fast which is of real benefit to the referring physician,” Whatley added. Northeast Imaging performs MRI imaging of a broad range of body sections including spine, neck, pelvic areas, brain, the vascular system, musculoskeletal among other areas. The GE MRI technology found at Northeast Imaging is among the highest quality systems available and allows for high resolution images to be obtained and provided to the referring physician. Once images are obtained, radiologists with Northeast Imaging read and interpret the results and provide their findings to the physician or other referring party. The MRI imagery obtained along with the interpretation of the radiologist provides the referring physician a tremendous tool to use in the diagnosis and ultimate treatment of their patient’s medical condition. All MRI technicians at Northeast Imaging are certified by the American College of Radiology (ACR) and imaging results are interpreted by experienced radiologists. All staff of Northeast Imaging practice a high level of customer service, being sensitive to the patients schedule, concerns and comfort. They are also centered in providing the results back to the referring physician or others as quickly as possible. Northeast Imaging prides itself in offering an affordable MRI service and accepts most insurance coverages as well as special cash pricing options, all to meet the needs of the customer. MRI imaging appointments can be obtained by calling 318-5704985 during the center’s office hours of Monday - Friday from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. More information on the service can also be obtained at that number.

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Engagement Party Jana Whatley and Brandon Elkins were honored by friends and family with an engagement celebration on the evening of June 23, 2018 at the home of the groom’s aunt and uncle, Chrissy and Darrel Evans. In true Southern fashion, guests were greeted on the front porch with a cool lavenderinspired cocktail and received by the bride and groom as well as their parents, Nelly and Jeff Elkins and Cathy and Bill Whatley. Thurman’s provided a wonderful array of hors d’oeuvres, and guests were treated to entertainment on the patio by Bill Boles, Paul Amy and Mary Honeycutt. The backyard and pool area were decorated with beautiful white globes of various sizes, all glowing at sunset. Flower arrangements of various tropical varieties were created by Gregory Hudgins and placed throughout the home. Everyone joined in a toast to the couple after kind words of advice from the fathers of the bride and groom. The couple will be married Saturday, October 6, 2018.

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ETALS AND PEARLS IS THE GO TO PLACE FOR ALL things floral. From parties to prom, all things wedding and stylish décor, and gifts galore, Petals and Pearls has it all! The locally-owned and operated floral shop is conveniently located on Hwy 165 North in Monroe but can have flowers delivered to anywhere in the world! No matter the occasion, their designers can create a beautiful, eye catching fresh or silk floral arrangement that is customized just for you! They offer traditional and contemporary floral design styles that are perfect for birthdays, anniversaries, getwell, new baby, sympathy, holidays or just because. Flowers aren’t all they offer, Petals and Pearls is excited to announce some new things you can find in their shop. To kick off their fantastic merchandise, they are now offering a new line of stylish, classy and fashionable clothing for ladies. Their motto isn’t about what age you are, it’s about the style that you love! No matter the age, you can find something that fits your personality. The friendly staff at Petals and Pearls gives you the experience of a unique boutique, and with the affordable prices you can even pick up jewelry and accessories to complete your entire look!

As if the new clothing line wasn’t enough, Petals and Pearls is now carrying dōTERRA Essential Oils! dōTERRA, meaning the “good earth,” oils are all natural and universally renowned for their health and healing properties that have been substantiated repeatedly by literally thousands! From skin issues to respiratory challenges and beyond, dōTERRA oils are a great choice. They are also great for cooking! These products are 100% pure and plant based. Try them once, and you’ll never be without them. Another exciting addition is the Petals and Pearls Men’s Corner. This area is full of fun finds and gifts, perfect for the “hard to buy for” guy in your life. With fall just around the corner, it is a perfect season to check out the new merchandise at Petals and Pearls. Not only are they a one stop shop for gifts and florals, you can shop their new expanded inventory and find something perfect for you! Stop by their convenient location in Monroe, visit their website or find them on Facebook and Instagram!

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Louisiana Pain Care Ribbon Cutting Louisiana Pain Care is expanding it’s services to the Ruston area. On Friday, August 3rd at 2pm they held the grand opening and ribbon cutting for the new clinic in the Northpointe Center on Farmerville Highway. Guests were invited to tour the new facility and meet Doctors Ledbetter, Forte and Gordon, the only board-certified, fellowshiptrained pain management specialists in Northeast Louisiana. Artist, June Null, helped decorate the new clinic with her artwork and came out to show her support at the grand opening. Louisiana Pain Care would like to thank everyone that attended and showed their support. They look forward to serving the Ruston Community.

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Some of the services we provide at our clinics are: • Newborn Care • Baby and Child Check ups • Walk-ins Welcome • Well Child Visits • Sick Child Visits • Ear Infections • Immunizations • Sports Physicals • Head Start Physicals • Pediatric Obesity • Ages and Stages Questionnaire • ADHD Screening • Modified Autism Checklist • Nutritional Counseling • Physical Therapy • Occupational Therapy • Speech Therapy • ABA Therapy

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BayouEats Athena Restaurant is an authentic Mediterranean cuisine restaurant serving a variety of Greek and Lebanese dishes unique to Northeast Louisiana. article by VANELIS RIVERA, styling by TAYLOR BENNETT, photography by BRAD ARENDER

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On the more traditional side of Athena’s fare is the baklava, a sweet Old World dessert made of layers of filo dough filled with chopped nuts and sweetened with syrup. Enjoy the desserts with a delectable shot of espresso of Greek/Lebanese coffee served in an elegant saucer boasting traditional Middle Eastern patterns.

THE SIMPLICITY OF THE MEDITERRANEAN DIET AS WELL AS ITS EMPHASIS ON FRESH INGREDIENTS AND COLORFUL EATING IS WHAT MAKES ATHENA RESTAURANT A FOODIE HOT SPOT IN NORTHEAST LOUISIANA The section of Sterlington Road that parallels the University of Louisiana at Monroe (ULM) is an affluent food strip lined with college student fast food favorites, fried chicken stops, hometown BBQ feel-good, sandwich pit-stops, an Asian-fusion hole-in-thewall and a sports-centric bar and grill. Pocketed in a small, reserved retail center is an alternative lunch and dinner option that may cut the monotony of your quick-stop go-tos. Athena Restaurant is an authentic Mediterranean cuisine restaurant serving a variety of Greek and Lebanese dishes unique to Northeast Louisiana. Cultivate your tastebuds with a flavor of two rich cultures intertwined. Most are not unfamiliar with Greek food and Greek culture, but Lebanese food may leave you thinking—Leba-what? Lebanon, a sovereign state in Western Asia, is bordered north and east by Syria and south by Israel, while the island of Cyprus neighbors west across the Mediterranean Sea. Culturally, religiously and ethnically diverse, Lebanon inspired most of the dishes on the restaurant’s menu. Athena is family-owned and managed by Issam Jaber. Issam’s father, Imad Jaber, is Lebanese and traveled to America in the 1980s, while Issam’s mother, Rasha Jaber, is from Iraq and came to America as a little girl. Issam’s parents met in college while attending Tulsa University. They later settled in Monroe, Louisiana to start their 152 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

family, now a total of five children. In 2010, the Jaber’s bought Athena from its former owner. At the time, Issam, the family’s second-eldest son, was attending Louisiana State University, but in 2012, Issam took the role of owner and manager, transforming the menu to meld with a more authentically Mediterranean flair. His mother created all the recipes, incorporating the family’s heritage and the region’s palatable characteristics. Further assuring the authenticity of their meals, the restaurant gets most of its Mediterranean ingredients from Dallas and New Orleans, instead of settling for whatever the local stores may have. A family-owned restaurant means a family-run kitchen. Mostly, family in the kitchen keeps meals as genuine as possible, not only in preparation but also in execution. Issam’s brother-in-law, a “full blooded Lebanese,” lived in Lebanon his whole life, until he moved to Monroe two years ago to be the main chef and run the kitchen. Issam’s younger sister, Rima, is a server and helps him run the front, while she attends graduate school at ULM. Younger brother Abdallah is also a server at the restaurant but only part-time, since he will start his freshman year at ULM this fall. Mom and dad poke in to help Issam run the restaurant every once in a while, but Issam leads full-time. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 153


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thena moved to its new space in December of 2014. The locale offers a front patio dining space canopied by a black arched tarp. Walking in, you’re met with a fully stocked bar, back-lit with bright string lights. Able to seat eight, the bar lines the right wing of the restaurant. Beers on tap include Michelob Ultra, Stella Artois, Flying Tiger and Amber Abita. A versatile drink menu is available, including specialty drinks and wine selections. Three flat screens surround the bar area, perfect for lounging on game nights. A warmly lit, spacious dining area is complemented with sepia and apricot toned walls and minimally decorated with Mediterranean-inspired art deco, including classic paintings, two lifesize Grecian statues and two attractive crystal chandeliers. Three booths are available and about ten tables that can be arranged to fit the size of any dinner party. Opening the menu at Athena’s may be daunting at first. “I’ve never had that food,” you may think. Or thoughts of, “That’s weird. I can’t pronounce that,” may force you to explore the options in their ‘American Flair’ section of the menu, but BayouLife wants to guide you through Athena’s menu in order to inspire your palate, and perhaps, coax you into trying dishes that you won’t need to pronounce correctly in order to enjoy. Because the Ottoman Empire, now Turkey, ruled most of the Mediterranean region between roughly the 14th and early 20th century, the culture of the region is well traveled and shares a common history that includes overlapping cuisine. Greek cuisine is often considered lighter than most Turkish and Lebanese dishes, which typically are more spicy and savory. Either way, the region of the Levant, eastern Mediterranean expanding from Greece to eastern Libya, relies on what archeologists term the “Mediterranean triad”—wheat (in the form of flatbread), olive oil (soaked into bread or drizzled on dishes), and grapes (made into wine or vinegar). The simplicity of the Mediterranean diet as well as its emphasis on fresh ingredients and colorful eating is often sought-after by health conscious diners. You may notice that the sampler platters are referred to as mazza (also spelled mezze). It’s a traditional manner of eating, similar to tapas, where small dishes are shared among a table, placing emphasis on communal eating. The Athena sampler pulls from the appetizer section of the menu, where there are a few familiar foods you’ve probably crossed before. Athena’s hummus, arguably a staple of the region and a quickly growing Western favorite, is made fresh daily. This dip is made from chickpeas, a touch of garlic, lemon, and a sesame oil dressing called Tahini, made from ground hulled sesame. Another traditional dip is the baba ganoush (baba is the Arabic word for “father”) made from eggplant with a touch of garlic, lemon and Tahini. The Grecian dip, also known as tzatziki (pronounced “tsah-see-key”), is a sauce made out of sour cream, cucumber, olive oil and garlic. Enjoy all three dips with warm pita slices, a flatbread that’s soft and slightly puffed. The falafel is a great vegetarian option, as versatile on the menu as an appetizer, sandwich or main dinner plate. Stemming from colloquial Egyptian Arabic meaning “pepper,” falafel is a deliciously seasoned patty prepared from ground and dried vegetables. The handrolled grape leaves, also referred to as dolam, stuffed with meat and rice can also be served vegetarian. If you’ve seen My Big Fat Greek Wedding, then you’ll recognize the word moussaka. As an appetizer, it is served as a vegetable baked with onions, spices, garlic and tomato sauce. As a dinner special, it is served with layers of sliced eggplant, thinly sliced potato and stuffed with ground beef, topped with mozzarella cheese 154 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

and specialty spices. A new appetizer option, kibbe, Lebanon’s national dish, is a meat pie made from finely minced meat, bulgur or burghul (cracked wheat), minced onions and Mediterranean spices. Most people skip over the salad options of a menu, but two distinct Lebanese and Greek salads are worth your attention at Athena’s. The Lebanese bread salad, fattoush (a word combined from Arabic and Turkish), is made from toasty bites of pita bread mixed with fresh garden vegetables, an age-old recipe. Tabbouleh, the world famous Greek salad, is made of finely chopped parsley, tomatoes, mint, onion and seasoned with olive oil, lemon juice, salt and pepper. Meat enthusiasts are bound to love the dinner specials. According to Issam, the chicken shawarma plate is what customers most often come back for. Shawarma is an Arabic word for “turning” and most likely refers to the cooking method of the meat, which is commonly packed-down slices of meat on a vertical spit and grilled for as long as a day, rotisserie style. The chicken shawarma plate is served with hummus and rice. The gyros plate (from the Greek and pronounced “yee-ros”) is lean lamb and beef seasoned with oregano and broiled on the vertical grill, served with hummus, rice and salad. Other meat options include a 12 oz. ribeye steak aged 21 days and marinated in a special blend of spices, a filet mignon wrapped in turkey bacon, another filet mignon cut chateaubriand style, and two lamb chop dishes. A familiar word on the menu will be kabob (also spelled “kebab”). These skewered delights are served with rice pilaf, hummus, feta salad and pita bread. You get to choose from chicken, beef, lamb, shrimp or kefta, which is fresh ground beef, finely chopped onions and parsley mixed with Middle Eastern mild spices. Kefta pockets are also available as a dinner special. Out of the five dessert items on the menu, the apple pie skillet and fresh baklava are customer favorites. The apple pie dessert is served straight out of the oven on a fajita-size skillet and topped with vanilla ice cream. It’s perfect for sharing with a friend! On the more traditional side is the baklava, a sweet Old World dessert made of layers of filo dough filled with chopped nuts and sweetened with syrup. Though the baklava is not made in-house, it is shipped in from one of the premium distributors of authentic Mediterranean pastries in the country based in Michigan, called Shatila Bakery. Enjoy the desserts with a delectable shot of espresso of Greek/Lebanese coffee served in an elegant saucer boasting traditional Middle Eastern patterns. You won’t want to leave Athena’s without exploring the graband-go mini market, featuring Turkish mineral water, mango juices, Lebanese coffee, Lebanese rose water, Italian olive oil dipping mix, bottled pine nuts and grape leaves, among other curiosities. So the next time you drive on Sterlington Road, look out for the black sign reading “Athena Restaurant: Mediterranean Cuisine.” Let the gold bust of Pallas lead you into a savory exploration of dishes that have traveled across continents and stood the test of time. Athena Restaurant is located in 1530 Sterlington Road and is open for business 11 a.m. to 9 p.m. Monday through Thursday, 11 a.m. to 10 p.m. Friday and Saturday, and 11 a.m. to 8 p.m. on Sunday. Call them at 318855-8153 to take advantage of their new pick-up window or to find out about catering options. Follow them on Facebook for posts about specials.

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riginally a bustling steamboat settlement, Columbia is a perfect venue for this Museum on Main Street exhibition, “Water|Ways,” produced by the Smithsonian Institution. The Schepis Museum nestles alongside the Ouachita River in downtown Columbia on Main Street, just a few blocks from U.S. Highway 165. Museum hours are 10 a.m. - 5 p.m., Monday-Saturday, and 1-5 p.m. Sunday. Admission is free to the exhibition, which is sponsored by the Louisiana Endowment for the Humanities, along with the Walton Family Foundation. The Smithsonian’s "Water|Ways" exhibition dives into water—an essential component of life on our planet, e nv i r o n m e nt a l ly, culturally, and historically. Water often serves as a source of peace and contemplation, and even acts as a sacred symbol for many faiths worldwide. Artists and authors are inspired by the power and grace embodied in water. The exhibit also examines the practical role that water plays in society, especially in the United States. Availability of water affected settlement and migration patterns. Access to water and control of water resources have long been a central part of political and economic planning. Human creativity provides new ways to protect water resources and renew respect for the natural environment. A variety of special events supplement the static exhibit, highlighting the role of water locally, especially the Ouachita and its tributaries. Scheduled events are as follows: October 4 – 11 a..m. at the Caldwell Parish Library: Deleana Beckley will present history and readings from local diaries written many years ago.; and 5:30 p.m. at the Schepis Museum: Zach and Marie Keahey will share a talk given by Jack Keahey on the history of the Ouachita River, given originally on a trip on board the Delta Queen. Jorenda Stone will also give a presentation on the upcoming “Year of the River 2019,” commemorating the first steamboat plying the Ouachita River. October 10 – 5:30 p.m. at the Schepis Museum: Professor Trey Berry will present “The Expedition 1804-1805,” the journals of Dunbar and Hunter Expedition, describing native people, geology, weather, flora and fauna, as well as investigating hot springs along the Ouachita waterway. October 13 – 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. – downtown Columbia: Fishnet making, the Art of Bousillage, and the EARA Keel Boaters reenactment will be exhibited. The Keel Boaters will also exhibit on October 14. CONTINUED ON PAGE 175

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ULM’s The Pursuit On Thursday, August 14, the new Bayou Pointe event center was packed as the ULM Athletic Foundation hosted its annual event, The Pursuit. Sponsored by BancorpSouth, the event was hosted by North Louisiana native and long-time sports announcer, Tim Brando. President Nick J. Bruno gave a preview of the upcoming year. Director of Athletics Nick Floyd spoke about the 2018-2019 athletic season, and Coach Matt Viator shared his plans for the 2018 football season. The crowd was decked out in maroon and gold and enjoyed delicious food from Waterfront Grill, Catfish Cabin and The Fieldhouse Bar and Grill and spirits from Marsala Beverage and Souther Glazer’s Wine and Spirits.

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absolutely wear your LBD to a cocktail party, I suggest that you choose something different that can fill in the blanks. q The LBD – The little black dress is a staple piece. I have a casual LBD and a cocktail LBD. I suggest the same for my clients. q A sheath – This will cover any professional meetings, funerals, etc. that arise. q The shift – Whatever the sheath dress doesn’t work for, this shift dress will. Shifts are perfect for weddings, showers, etc. q The sundress – Think flowy and fun for this essential.

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words, it could be lace, scalloped, ruffled, etc. q The versatile tee – Most people will choose a white versatile tee, but I chose a black versatile tee for my wardrobe. You do you. q The printed – Stripes, floral, checkered, etc. You may want to get more than one printed top and in different silhouettes to better be able to mix and match. q The manly (with a feminine twist) – This could be your crisp white buttondown, chambray, plaid, etc. Just make sure it has, or you add, a feminine edge to it. q The tunic – Update to the color or print that is on trend each year. q The layering tee (or tank) – Not to be confused with a camisole. Camisoles are frequently unseen while a layering tee is visible under layers q Camisoles – Get one in black, white and gray for sure, but add colors as you need them. Also, be sure that you update your white camisoles every few months as they discolor. Camisoles are a must for creating a smooth silhouette under your clothing.

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q The skinnies – I recommend a good pair of medium-rise, dark rinse skinny jeans and one pair of distressed skinnies. q The black pant – I prefer an Audrey Hepburn style slim black pant, but choose whatever you are most comfortable in. q The faux leather – A faux leather legging and a faux leather pencil skirt will both work wonders for up leveling your wardrobe! q The maxi – A wardrobe would definitely not be complete without a maxi skirt or dress in the mix. Choose one that can take you from the beach to dinner in a jiffy. q The unexpected – Grab a pant or skinny that adds a pop of color or pattern to your wardrobe. Just make sure it works with all of your other essentials, and you are good to go!

ESSENTIAL DRESSES

q The maxi – As mentioned above, everyone needs a good maxi dress in their wardrobe, and your best bet is to choose one that is versatile. The best dress for your buck will be lined. q The cocktail – Don’t confuse this with your LBD. Although you could

q The leather moto – This jacket will always be a staple and will never go out of style! Invest in a high-quality faux leather and save more animals. ;) q The blazer – A khaki or gray one would be my choice. Make sure to choose one that gives you plenty of room for layering, so nothing too fitted. However, choose one that has some shape to it and isn’t completely straight-lined. q The cardi – If you only have two cardigans in your wardrobe, I would choose a long, tunic length one and a typical, waist length one. These two will mix and match perfectly with everything else in your wardrobe. q The faux fur – I have a faux-fur collared sweater for this essential. A full fur jacket can be overwhelming on my frame, for instance, so choose what fits your body type better. q The military – This style of jacket will be your best friend (next to the cardi). It can be paired with so many items to create a comfy outfit for any occasion. q The vest – I suggest a more causal vest and one that could be used to elevate an otherwise plain outfit. q The warmer – Of course you need a jacket that simply keeps your warm. Puffer jackets are a great essential.

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q The flat knee-high – Maybe something similar to a riding boot that can be a bit dressy as well as casual. q The bootie- I would say a black bootie would be perfect. q The casual sneaker – Such as Tom’s or Converse.

q The tennis shoe – this one will be worn to actually walk, run and/or work out. q The pump – I would choose a peep-toe and a closed toe pump. Black and nude and/or a punch of color . q The wedge – The most comfortable way to elevate your style. q The flat – Choose something other than a flip-flop style. The point is to choose something that can be worn with jeans or a dress. q The dressy – A strappy, gold or silver, open-toe shoe is what I suggest. Essential Purses q The everyday – A medium-sized tote or shoulder bag in brown, gray or black is perfect. q The work bag – This bag should be larger than your everyday. as it will need to carry a laptop, books, planner and your other work essentials. You could choose a color that represents your business or personal style for this. q The clutch – choose one that will work with your LBD and your cocktail dress. q The cross-body – You will need this for any outing that you may need to be hands free for – shopping trips, traveling, etc. q The beach bag – this speaks for itself. Be sure to get one that can be cleaned up easily. q The stadium approved – If you plan on going to any concerts or ball games, you will not be allowed to enter without a clear purse or something that is no bigger than a small wallet. Be sure to check the rules and regulations of the specific venue that you will be attending.

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q The diamond earring – And it does not have to be real. You just need some realistic studs. q The hoop – Choose one in gold or silver or both! Whatever your preference q The long necklace – This should be something that is simple and versatile. For instance, a long cross necklace will go with everything! q The statement maker – Turquoise is a great stone that goes with everything and will add a touch of interest. q The everyday – I love to wear my small “E” necklace. It represents my name as well as my children – Eli and Everly.

q The cuff – A wide cuff will elevate any outfit. q The stackables – Choose a set of bracelets that will stack next to each other well and will go with everything. You can mix metals, too. Get a stack of gold, silver, and the popular rose gold and you will be prepared for anything! q The drop – These should be a fun pair of earrings that will work dressy or casual. I have a pair of pearl drop earrings that is my essential drop. q The watch – Your apple watch is ok, but have a dressier one in your jewelry box, too. Choose one that is two-toned if you can only afford one nice watch.

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q Sunglasses – Everyone needs a good pair of well-fitting sunglasses. Invest in a designer pair and get an inexpensive pair! q The easy belt – Grab a thin to medium width belt that is reversible. The times you need one may be few and far between, but they will arise! q The sun catcher – Find a brimmed hat that will keep the sun out of your face when needed. q The scarf – I suggest a winter scarf and a thin scarf that can be worn around your neck or as an accessory attached to your purse, bag or other item. q Gloves – I love wearing faux leather gloves in the winter. Not only are my hands warmer, they add a bit of excitement to any outfit! q Opaque tights – These are great during the winter for layering with your tunics and shorter skirts q A strapless bra q The boy short – I wear these under thin dresses and skirts to smooth out visible panty lines, etc. q The signature scent – Just don’t go overboard with the squirts – one to two is just enough to leave a slight fragrance in your wake. If you have all of the above essentials in your closet, I would say that you are set for anything! When a need arises to add another item to your wardrobe, make sure you make smart decisions, so you don’t waste money and valuable closet space. Maintaining a well-curated closet does take a bit of effort and upkeep, but it is well worth it!

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Rotary Celebration Monroe Rotary recently celebrated 100 years of services and held a celebration cocktail party and banquet at the Bayou DeSiard Country Club to celebrate the once in lifetime anniversary. Sixty year members mingled with new members while viewing memorabilia collected over the past century. President Leah Sumrall shared proclamations by Monroe Mayor Jamie Mayo, US Senator Bill Cassidy, US Representative Dr. Ralph Abraham, and from Rotary International. Past President Roger Johnston was emcee for the evening and presented past reflections ,while others provided special presentations. Keynote speaker Dr. Thomas Karam of LSU’s E. J. Ourso College of Business spoke on personal branding and entertained the crowd with stories about working with some of LSU’s most prominent athletes, including Shaquille O’Neal. Incoming President Michael Echols closed out the event with a champagne toast to the past, present and future of Monroe Rotary.

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THE FA S H I O N A B L E LIFE Shelia Carroll’s life in fashion never took her far from Delhi, but then again, it didn’t have to By Michael DeVault Photographs by Brad Arender

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helia Carroll has spent most of her time carving out a special place in the heart of Delhi. The pair of vintage houses she envisioned together, renovated, and transformed into a growing fashion concern have become destinations for women, of all ages from throughout the Delta region, in search of that certain something that pulls it all together. The business she operates is New Attitude Hair Design and Boutique La Cour, a pair of businesses that are at the heart of how many of Shelia’s clients define themselves. For more than 30 years, Shelia has reshaped how women buy fashion and create their styles. “You don’t have to live in a big city to get great care,” says Shelia, who adds that her customers come from as far as 200 miles away. “You can still have a sense of great style in a small area and have people come to you for that.” Speaking to her as she tells her story, it’s easy to assume she’s from Delhi, born in the Delta and just never left. But that would be an incorrect assumption, as one soon learns. She’s been here a long time, and the region is home – it’s where she attended school, started a business and raised her son, after all – but her story begins like many others, far away. Shelia was born on the windswept prairies of Lubbock, Texas. Economic mobility in the Texas panhandle frequently meant relocation, and that’s exactly what her father did when she was still an infant, moving the family to Mississippi for a job as a cattle truck driver, a job he held for 50 years. Cattle was big in Mississippi then, but it was even bigger in Louisiana, and so when she was three, the family moved again, this time to the rural farming community she’s remained in ever since. Ironically, as Louisiana natives, the job also put both parents closer to their family. Her father was a hard worker, and like many in the field, he held down two jobs for a long part of his career. “He worked for a company here locally and also one out of Jackson, Mississippi,” Shelia recalls. “In those days, it was a great living.” She recalls Delhi as a quiet community full of people, who took an interest in one another. However, she also credits her mother with much of that sense of community. “This is a quaint little area where everyone of course knows everyone,” she says. “But my mother was the kind of woman, who took care of everything from A to Z. Plus, she made it a point to look after the elderly and the young in the neighborhood.”

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“It is great to be inspired by others, although it is important to add your touch to create your own unmistakable style.”

THEIR HOME WAS FULL OF PEOPLE, and their yard was a beehive of kids’ activities. It was a time when children in rural communities could still “free roam” in relative safety. The worst thing that might happen was a scraped elbow or banged knee. “It was a unique, fun, safe time,” Shelia says. “We could walk anywhere, go anywhere, do anything.” When it came time for Shelia and her friends to attend school, they all enrolled at Delhi Elementary, one of three schools on the single, parish-wide campus. Early on, Shelia felt she was different than most of her classmates. She was drawn to beautiful things; such as color, texture, make-up, hair, and fashion. She exhibited a keen interest in creativity, which was not always suited for most class-room settings. “From first grade till graduation, I felt as though I was a square peg in a round hole,” she says. “Certain things really caught my attention. Like finding an innate pleasure in flowers, a particular smile, the kindness people exhibited to one another.” After graduation, early Fall, Shelia married. A move that cemented her commitment to the community and placed her on the path that would lead to New Attitude. She was employed by the Hopson Brothers at their local drug store, where she learned the ins and outs of working a small business. And while she found the work at Hopson Brothers rewarding, her entrepreneurial spirit longed for something more. What that “more” was, however, was anybody’s guess. So, she did what any God-fearing individual would do. She prayed about it. “I was like, ‘God, what do you have for me? I’d like to teach. I’d like to be a nurse. I love makeup and hair. You just show me the way,’” she recalls praying aloud. “Within a week and a half, I was enrolled in Bastrop Beauty School.” In the 1970s and early 1980s, Bastrop Beauty School was the premier cosmetology program in Louisiana, known far and wide for producing 164 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

cosmetologists of exceptional skill. Perhaps that’s why Polly Rundell, a Delhi hairstylist, approached Shelia less than two months into her training. “She told me that, when I finished beauty school, I had a job waiting,” Shelia says. But Shelia told Polly she was still working while attending beauty school, which meant it was going to take her longer to graduate. That didn’t matter. “It took me 18 months to finish school, then I worked for Polly for two years.” Polly’s salon was situated in the shopping mall in Delhi, one of the busiest retail areas in Richland Parish. Being a young, driven, and talented hairstylist in such a location proved to be a boom, and with those first two years at Polly’s Shelia’s popularity grew. Her career was well on its way when Polly offered her another unmissable opportunity. Within a few months, Polly and her husband planned on relocating. “She had been doing hair for a very long time, and she was getting ready to retire and move away with her husband,” Shelia says. “I’d already built a really strong clientele in that first two years, a real blessing.” Polly offered Shelia the opportunity to purchase the salon when she left. Shelia leapt at the opportunity. Now just two years out of beauty school, she owned a thriving salon in a busy retail center. For four years, having as many as five stylists, she continued to grow the salon from its spot in the mall. But, she could see, the space was reaching the end of its time. That’s when a small house came up for sale. By then, a lot had changed for Shelia. She had divorced and four years later, remarried. Her son was growing up quickly, and it was time to take the next step professionally, as well. She also had a vision of what she wanted her salon to look like and what the future held for her brand. She and her husband purchased the house and set about transforming it. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 165


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Over more than 30 years in business, Shelia has learned a thing or two about women and the styles they choose -- and the styles they’re hoping to choose. “Nothing should ever wear you,” she says. “You should wear it.” The person defines the clothes, not the other way around. Shelia and her staff specialize in honing in on each individual personality that walks through the doors, learning about them and then helping them move just beyond what they’re used to. “You give them the space to step outside the box a little bit, with gentle recommendations, without being pushy,” she says. For some, that means stepping into something they’ve never considered wearing before, and then taking them to hair and makeup to complete the new look. She knows what she sees, and she knows how they’ll see themselves after the process. “That’s the beauty of it,” Shelia says. “It’s not all about the hair and the makeup and the clothing. It’s about what it does, that something special that can lift someone up, and inspire their own hidden creative strong force within them.”

5 THINGS NO WARDROBE SHOULD BE WITHOUT Shelia Carroll has spent a lifetime working to hone her craft and develop not only her unique style, but also the look and feel of the wardrobes of hundreds of women. Here are the five things she says no wardrobe should be without: 1. Red Lipstick - A classic that looks good on almost every woman, red lipstick is powerful! It’s an essential addition to your wardrobe, even though it’s makeup. It’s the finishing touch, Shelia explains, on any number of looks. “That, to me, is a piece of a wardrobe.” “We completely gutted it, inside and out, so that it would be more conducive to what I wanted,” she says. The new facility provided state-of-the-art stylist amenities, a spacious atmosphere for her and her team and it also offered her something else. Shelia explains. “I’ve always had a love of makeup and clothing from early on inspired by my Mother’s sense of style and attention to detail,” she says. “I always knew I wanted to own my own business -- whatever that was. And since I loved working with people, with fabric, makeup, and hair, I started my clothing and jewelry business in one room of my salon.” That one room, filled more than 20 years ago, was the nexus. She put in a jewelry cabinet and four antique chifforobes filled with fashionable clothing and accessories. Two years later, the boutique was doing a brisk business, and Shelia knew they needed more space for her clientele. The house next door was vacant and available, and she began to ponder the possibilities. “I remember knowing that, if I bought the space beside me, we could move it, attach it and make the boutique,” she says. “Within a week and a half of buying it, we had movers coming to move the house and connect it.” The renovation doubled her square footage and also increased her parking by more than double. With the new square footage, Shelia set about building a boutique unlike any other in the Delta region. She named the new clothing and accessories shop Boutique La Cour, after her mother’s maiden name. “LaCour meaning a gate, 166 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

like a gate opening up,” she says. “I took that as your heart, opening up and showing you what you can do for others.” Boutique La Cour and New Attitude Hair Design are service businesses that “make people feel good,” Shelia says. And she’s worked hard to make sure the space itself extends that inviting atmosphere. “My clothes cabinets are from back in the 1930s, and they’re absolutely gorgeous,” she says. “Most everything back there is antique, vintage and has that wonderful feel.” The “feel” she describes -- inviting, warm, gracious, comfortable -- is a vital part of the business’s longevity. It helps that Shelia has an eye for clothing and fashion trends, and she manages to accomplish what few other small boutiques can. She stays current with the times and does so without falling into the “every other boutique” trap. “It starts with what catches my eye,” Shelia explains. “It’s not just the normal run of what’s popular. It is great to be inspired by others, although it is important to add your touch to create your own unmistakable style. I knew I had to hone in and make my boutique different, in all aspects; clothing, jewelry and shoes! They just had to be unique, something unexpected in a small town.” Shelia explains her style selections further, adding that she’s worked with sales reps to ensure both selectivity and exclusivity. On top of that, she selects each piece in the lines she carries. “I like to choose classic looks, as well as fun unique pieces that aren’t on every shelf in every store,” she says. “Then, how you pull them all together is really key, as well.”

2. Something Black and White - Another classic look that’s timeless and elegant, a black-and-white ensemble can be dress-up or dress-down, depending on accessories. “You can do anything with that. You can make a family out of those two colors.” 3. Great Pieces of Jewelry - Here is where women can make their ensembles shine, Shelia explains. Every wardrobe needs a healthy mix of vintage cameos, Chanel chains and bold statement pieces. Also, don’t scrimp on the pearls. “Pearls can go with your pajamas!” 4. The Great Pair of Shoes - A self-professed “shoe-aholic,” Shelia owns countless pairs, high heels, classics, flats, you name it. Shoes speak to the individual, and your taste in shoes can define your look and your attitude. “When I’m buying shoes, what makes a pair to me, is how it makes me feel. Shoes make me feel something.” 5. Attitude - Everything is meaningless -- from the dress, the pants, the shoes, the jewelry -- if you don’t wear the right “attitude” to go with it. “You’ve got to have attitude. It has a lot to do with everything.”

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This year’s Black & White Ball benefitting the Children’s Advocacy Center is right around the corner, and we’ve teamed up with area boutiques to bring you stunning dresses with major luxe appeal. Special thanks to Penny Hakim. Model: Karlee Malone. MUAH: Meka Bennett Styling: Taylor Bennett, Photography Kelly Moore Clark

Rodéo Boutique

This little black dress is simple and sleek. Rose gold ankle-strap sandals add a hint of sparkle, and celestial drop earrings with crystalwork add a punch of drama. Accessorize with a round beaded and stone clutch. 168 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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Hemline Monroe

This elegant jumpsuit is the perfect look for an evening out. Dress it up with a large geode statement necklace, fringe earrings and beaded bracelets. Add black leather studded sandals to kick things up a notch, and complete the look with a metallic crossbody clutch.

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This sassy fringe dress has a party-ready look that’s ready for wherever the night takes you. A darted sleeveless bodice tops a curve-loving, bodycon mini skirt with fringe and crochet lace detailing throughout. Peep toe heels and mother-of-pearl beaded tassel earrings complete the look.

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K-Sera Boutique

Slip into this sexy number from K-Sera Boutique. This perfectly fitted little black dress features an invisible zipper, and a self tie bow that can be done in front or the back. Accessorize with a black clutch with bow, gold and pearl hoop earrings and a nude open toe heel.

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If you ever wondered what would happen if Cleopatra wore pearls, look no further. This tulle dress comes with a bold pearl embellishment on the neckline, back, and waist. Make sure to put your hair up and flaunt your dress. Accessorize with gold and pearl earrings, pearl bracelets and knot tie heels.

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Water|Ways: Continued From Page 155 October 18 – 5:30 p.m. at the Caldwell Parish Library: Tana Trichel will show the film “Mounds,” commissioned by the Walton family. She will also share information about the mounds at Poverty Point and other areas. Mr. Bob Meredith will also share the history of the mound located on his property in Columbia. October 25 – 5:30 p.m. at the Caldwell Parish Library: John Stringer will show the film “Diversions,” also commissioned by the Walton family, about the effects water has on property, crops, etc. November 1 – 5:30 p.m. at the Schepis Museum: Dr. Bob Eisenstadt of ULM’s Office of Economic Research will present a program on his economic impact study of the Ouachita River from Arkansas through Louisiana. Greg Richardson of the Caldwell Parish Port Commission will add information on the impact the Port has on Caldwell Parish. November 8 – 5:30 p.m. at the Schepis Museum: David May from the Corps of Engineers will present a program on water safety and recreation. The Schepis Museum building, built in 1916 by architect and Italian immigrant John Schepis, has housed the museum since 1993. John Schepis designed and built the unique building to honor his love for his new country and his old. He and his wife, Rosa, a grand opera singer, had immigrated from Sicily around the turn of the century. The building resembles Italian palazzos of the 15th Century. The two statues crowning the top, handcrafted by Schepis himself, represent President George Washington, draped with an American flag, and Christopher Columbus, draped with an Italian flag. Longtime residents of Columbia recall Rosa opening all the windows and doors upstairs, where the Schepis family lived, while she played piano and sang. Visitors to downtown can still hear recordings of her piano playing most weekday afternoons, 3:30-4:30. The Schepis Museum operates under the leadership of the Schepis Foundation Board of Directors, with one full-time curator and many dedicated volunteers. The Friends of the Schepis hold several fundraisers each year. The Museum hosts artistic and historical exhibits every two months as well as art workshops, theatrical productions, and other events of regional interest. The Water|Ways exhibit is traveling to various Museum on Main Street locations throughout the United States during 2018-2019—the Schepis Museum is honored to be one of those sites. More information on the exhibit is available at https://www. caldwellparishla.com/water-ways-exhibit. Its Twitter site is https:// twitter.com/SchepisMuseum16. On Facebook, the pages are facebook. com/Schepis-Museum and facebook.com/EverythingCaldwell/ . YouTube videos are available at https://www.youtube.com/channel/ UCH5NxugM2k6_0o6AthFYzyg?view_as=subscriber WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 175


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he music genre of classic rock inspires us to think of legendary players like Led Zeppelin, the Rolling Stones, Janis Joplin and the Beatles. It’s the music of the baby boomers and generation X, the soundtrack of monumental socio-political movements and the battle cry of music festivals at their dawn. While classic rock certainly isn’t dead, and per the definition of classic, it may never die, the music seems to belong to a bygone era that thrives in nostalgia rather than embark upon and celebrate the present. This begs the question: Can classic rock grow alongside contemporary rock-and-roll composites? The verdict is still out, but the Louisiana rock trio, Gin Mobsters, is willing to test the waters, starting with the release of their first EP Silver Ghosts. DJ Grissom is twenty-two years old and rocks a fire-red beard and Led Zeppelin-inspired tattoos. He’s the lead singer, guitarist and songwriter of Gin Mobsters. In a way, his band was in the works, while he was merely a toddler, in the form of his dad’s band, Bluezcatz. Currently, his father Joe Grissom is his drummer; he grew up in Start, Louisiana and started playing when he was twenty-three, because a couple of his friends, half-joking around, said to him: “Man, you should get you a set of drums.” He then taught himself how to play. DJ had a much earlier start in the music scene thanks to Joe’s encouragement. “I got pictures of him on my knee holding drumsticks,” says Joe. DJ recalls his father teaching him to play drums, when he was about three years old. “We were around the blues a lot,” says DJ, recalling roadie-ing with the Bluezcatz for gigs in cities like Memphis and Clarksdale. Inspired by the band’s guitar player, DJ taught himself how to play the guitar, starting with acoustic then moving on to electric. “You could see his eyes sparkling watching us perform,” says Joe. When DJ was about thirteen, he sat on stage with the Bluezcatz in a Coney Island gig and played a few songs, etching his way to his own center stage. After the dissolve of Bluezcatz, father and son kept jamming at their home for years, their passion of music never ebbing. DJ even began performing solo, The Louisiana rock trio, Gin Mobsters, is releasing their releasing two albums which first EP, Silver Ghosts – a testament to the staying power of he recorded in Nashville, classic rock-and-roll. Article by Vanelis Rivera Tennessee: 6 Days (2014) and Photography by Andrew Bailey and Scars (2016). The duo didn’t locally perform live, because they could never find a bassist—that is, until 2017. William “Will” Pipes, from Rayville, Louisiana and a seasoned guitar-player, had a serendipitous meeting with DJ at a hardware store. Will went to the store to acquire copies of DJ’s solo CDs per a friend’s recommendation. When he found out that father and son were seeking a bassist, he asked to join in. The first time the trio practiced, they had a page full of nearly forty tunes in a matter of thirty minutes, and the crazy idea that they may be onto something was swirling in all of them. “The rest, as they say, is history. Everything has been falling into place since then. Almost as if it was meant to be,” says Will, further commenting that to him the band’s spirited energy feels like a train pulling away from a station. “The chemistry was instant, when we started playing together and making some noise,” concludes Will.

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“DJ HAS A PRETTY ACTIVE IMAGINATION AND A REAL LOVE FOR THE BLUES AND THE LORE AND LEGEND THAT OFTEN SURROUNDS THE HISTORY. IT WOULD BE AN UNDERSTATEMENT TO SAY THAT HE LOVES MUSIC AND PERFORMING, BECAUSE IT’S CLEARLY PART OF WHO HE IS.”

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– WILL PIPES, ON HIS BANDMATE, DJ GRISSOM The trio soaks up each other’s energy with such synchronicity that Will attributes their opportune collaboration fated, kind of like their band name. It’s another inheritance from father-to-son; the name was created before DJ was born by Gray Martin, the former guitar player in Joe’s band. Another curious connection is that Will’s family has always been in the cotton gin business, a fact that only solidifies the destiny of his involvement. The name Gin Mobsters has a hard bite to it that elicits ideas of lawlessness, bootlegging and winding backcountry roads, a vibe pervasive in the tracks of their upcoming EP.

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want to go, is where I want to go” and “If you want to find me, I’ll be somewhere between heaven and hell.” “Reminds me of the blues feel,” says DJ who wanted the song to resemble “Hellhound on My Trail” (1937), song by Mississippi Delta bluesman Robert Johnson. “I first heard the music to that when I was fifteen years old,” says DJ in reference to the song “Blood on the Streets,” one of the two ballads of the album with the heaviest lyrics. When it comes to ballads, there’s nowhere to hide. The lyrics tend to take precedent, and they better be saying something that captivates and impacts. DJ accomplishes this with lyrics like, “She always felt like a loaded gun, but was already too late to run.” This song was intended by Gray to be part of a trilogy that accompanies the second ballad of the album “Devil Knocked on My Door.” Though Gray never finished a third song, DJ wrote the lyrics to both songs without thinking they were going to go together. Yet, the lyrics of both maintain a pervasive dark undercurrent of navigating chaos, facing one’s shortcomings and the pang of what’s left behind—hence the silver ghost. “He has a pretty active imagination and a real love for the blues and the lore and legend that often surrounds the history,” says Will about DJ’s songwriting. In “Blood on the Streets,” DJ tells a dark story about a girl and her misfortunes. In the song, he alludes to the title of the album in the lyrics, “silver ghost dancing in the night,” explaining that the girl in the song was turned into a silver ghost. This voracious three-man band, aside from resembling what you would imagine gin mobsters to look like—bandanas, felt hats and an edgy presence—brings the “classic rock vibe out” in Silver Ghosts. While DJ laments that young listeners don’t research the origins of the music they now like, the band is hopeful that their EP and live performances serve as ambassadors to the kind of music that’s experienced first and listened to after. “I’m hoping that people that see us get an interest in this kind of music,” says Will, referring to classic rock. He credits the band’s direction to DJ’s contagious enthusiasm by saying, “It would be an understatement to say that DJ loves music and performing, because it’s clearly part of who he is.” DJ and the Gin Mobsters are to be taken taken seriously musically in spite of their down-to-earth demeanor. They’re eager to show that as for the Gin Mobsters and their house, rock abides. If you get a chance, don’t miss out on experiencing the Gin Mobsters light through nostalgic and modern dance rock. Their songs curl like cigarette smoke and invoke emotion with inspired attitude. Follow the Gin Mobsters on Facebook to get notified about gigs and the release date of Silver Ghosts. Email them at grissomd@rocketmail.com or call DJ Grissom at 318-334-9565 if you’re interested in booking the band. 180 SEPTEMBER 2018 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

On Thursday, July 26, Levee Gallery held the artist reception and exhibition closing for Bernard Mattox and his show, “Chasing the Thing: The River Fugue Series.” Bernard’s statement about this series says, “Though solitude is not the direct theme of the work, it is the guidepost and first principle of having lived the last 27 years in the deep woods, some 40 miles from the place of my birth in N.O.L.A. I am more archaeologist than artist, forever excavating and resurrecting the strata of images from my own interior life, so what and where is the sources rarely litters of narrative in the traditional sense. The imagery in dreams is collective and available to all and you could fill the Astrodome with books that have attempted to interpret and account for them.” On Thursday, August 2, the Levee Gallery hosted a pop up event to coincide with the downtown art crawl at the historic Baker Building. The show featured new paintings and sculpture from a variety of artists including: Michael Eble, Jessie Hornbrook, Conner Burns, Ralph Townsend, Ann Johnston Currie, Robin Hamaker, Megan Singleton and more.

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FASHION FORWARD The Bayou-kidZ Style Experts Give Their Top Picks article by Cindy G. Foust

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Halle: Homecoming dresses, fancy clothes Alli: Clothes, shoes, jewelry Claire: Clothes, shoes, jewelry (you stole my answer, Alli) Oh, and people who have their own sense of style Emma Grace: Expensive and fancy clothes and high heels Anna Claire: Brand names and expensive clothes Angel Grace: Books, pictures, and movies about fashion, like Sharpay Cindy: Isn’t that a permanent marker? Six sets of eyes look at me like I have a unicorn head. Moving on...

My distinguished panel of experts includes the following: Halle (age 12), Alli (age 13), Claire (with an “E,” she says) (age 13), Anna Claire (age 13), Emma Grace (age 12) and Angel Grace (age 13). This panel consists of lovely young girls full of braces, giggles and lots of confident input. I will say they might have rolled their eyes at me a few times, for instance, when I ask them what in the cat hair IT makeup was, but I recovered quickly and said “Oh, I thought y’all said BIT makeup! Of course I know what IT makeup is! DUH. (insert my own eye roll here).” However, they were very excited to be first-time contributors, like I was Anna Wintour of Vogue Magazine and made this interview very informative. When you hear the word fashion, what do you think of first?

What are some current trends right now? Halle: Birkenstocks, jeans, shirts and Scrunchies, lots of Scrunchies Alli: Work-out stuff like Lululemon, Scrunchies, American Eagle jeans Claire: Adidas shoes, off-the-shoulder shirts and Kate Spade mini-backpack Emma Grace: Michael Kors purses, anything Nike, Kendra Scott, all of Cara’s clothes Anna Claire: Tory Burch shoes, Kendra Scott earrings and bracelets, beaded bracelets Angel Grace: Steve Madden shoes, Kendra Scott, anything from HerringStone’s Cindy: I thought Scrunchies went out with bellbottoms? Scrunchies were to the 80s what bellbottoms were to the 70s. Group: Mrs. Cindy, are you drinking?

Well, besides Mrs. Cindy’s? Group: (Simultaneously, without having to think about it) Savannah LaBrant! She inspires us! Cindy: Mine would have to be Cher… wait, is she still alive? Wait, nobody said Kim Kardashian? Group: You know who Kim Kardashian is? Cindy: (Now it’s my turn to say, “Well, DUH!”) (And I’m secretly relieved they don’t admire someone who broke the Internet by balancing a champagne glass on her bare bottom.) What are your favorite shoes? Halle: Birkenstocks Alli: Uggs, I love my Uggs Claire: Birkenstocks Emma Grace: Steve Maddens Anna Claire: Platforms Angel Grace: Adidas tennis shoes What are some things in your closet that will have you ready for fall? Halle: Uggs and all my sweaters Alli: Uggs and my sweaters Claire: MY NEW ALTERED STATE SWEATER AND CARA’S BOOTIES! (Yes, she’s screaming) Emma Grace: Loft sweaters and my Uggs Anna Claire: My Loft sweaters Angel Grace: My Sherpas and my Uggs Anybody still wear smocked dresses? Anybody? Group: What’s a smocked dress? Cindy: (Devastated…we’ve let them down as parents) Flats or heels? Group: (Simultaneously) HEELS!

What’s the best thing your mom has ever told you about fashion. Halle: You always have to iron your shirt. Alli: Your clothes must always match. Claire: You must always accessorize. Emma Grace: Don’t color block. Anna Claire: You must always match your clothes. Angel Grace: Make sure you straighten the back of your hair. Cindy: Never leave home without clean feet, clean hair and clean underwear. Group: (Six sets of eyes on me, thoughtful silence) Mrs. Cindy, no one leaves home without clean underwear, that’s just sick. Do you ever pay attention to way boys are wearing? Group: DUH! Mrs. Cindy, like for real, of course we do! We like it when they wear Hulk shirts or their football jerseys, but we only pay attention to their shirts. Cindy: (SIGH OF RELIEF) What are the rules of fashion…the do’s and don’ts? Group: (Collectively) 1. Do NOT wear Bermuda shorts. YES! That’s a huge one. 2. Do NOT wear socks with sandals. 3. Do NOT wear bellbottoms. 4. Do NOT wear loose jeans. 5. DO wear belts. 6. DO tuck your shirt in. 7. DO wear CROCS. 8. DO make sure your toes are painted when you wear sandals. Cindy: I didn’t think this list could make me feel worse about my own fashion choices, but sadly, it does.

In one word, your favorite fashion item. Halle: Tarte makeup Alli: Kendra Scott anything Claire: IT cosmetics Emma Grace: Lights, Camera, Lashes Tarte mascara Anna Claire: Bad Gal Bang mascara Angel Grace: My dipped nails Cindy: Makeup seems to be a must. Group: (Shocked) Well of course… makeup is life! So, there you have it, readers, advice straight from some of our BayouLife children. Who knew Bermuda shorts were out, by the way? And just so you know readers, I wasn’t always such a fashion mistake, there were years that I subscribed to the trends with my Peter Pan boots and linebacker shoulder pads, just somewhere along the way the wheels came way off the wagon and suddenly I found myself sitting in Dollar General trying to figure out what shade of foundation I needed. Any questions, readers? Just send them in to our office, and I’ll pass them along to the panel, and who knows, Cassie might ask me to write a feature using these fashion experts (as she secretly hopes some of their advice will rub off on me.) And if you don’t think the Internet and social media affects our kid’s buying decisions, this interview certainly opened my eyes to that! So, happy first month of fall, readers, which I hope will be filled with food, fun and family. Oh, and I’ll be back next month with more fashion tips like “How to Paint Your Nails for Halloween” and “Thanksgiving Day Beauty Tips” (that one has me stumped already.)

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ASHLEY DOUGHTY ABLE

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shley Doughty Able believes women’s roles in America have come a long way and are forever changing. She thanks the strong, bold women who paved the way to allow women more opportunity for advancement. Ashley’s mother, Penny Doughty, was one of those pioneers, creating a successful business in what was then a man’s world, yet balancing her role as a single mother of three daughters. Ashley is grateful for the culture shifts that make her lifestyle more accepted and respected. As Business Development Officer at First National Bank and host of Louisiana Living, alongside her roles as mother and wife, Ashley is motivated in her career, but knows her family is most important. Ashley is married to Marc Able, has two teenage daughters, Lily and Amelia Thomas, and two step-teenagers, Dianna and Travis Able. Before her mother passed away, all of her questions to Ashley were about her role as a mother, a daily reminder for Ashley that motherhood is primary. “A woman can be an executive, own her own business, make lots of money, but it’s not worth missing your children grow. Those special moments, rehearsals, games, they are fleeting, and taking the time to focus on milestones is essential.” Ashley believes in random acts of unknown kindness, such as feeding people at homeless shelters, visiting with the lonesome, providing a Christmas for needy children and volunteering for the American Red Cross to install smoke alarms in homes. “They are acts, many times anonymous, that can change lives for others. I don’t feel the need to share with the world what I’ve done. Sometimes I don’t even think to share them with my family. God knows and that is what is important.” Persistence is something Ashley learned early, volunteering as a news anchor for overnight cut-ins at KNOE. It got her foot in the door, and that extra effort proved substantial, as being a reporter was a hard position to acquire at that time. In college, Ashley thought, “I’m going to be BIG.” She wanted to move to a big city, be a big name, but that all changed after she had a family, and she realized she could be “big” right where she was. She is most proud of her children, their strong personalities, kind natures, determined minds, their witty comebacks and adventurous spirits. Ashley wants to be remembered for her wisdom, being there when her children and future grandchildren ask, “What would you do?” Their inquiries will cement her most valuable and fulfilling role, motherhood.

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ara Brewer describes herself as “a complete goofball,” and her energy radiates in the first moments of meeting her. She doesn’t take herself too seriously. Humor is empowering; she is able to see so much in life as “an SNL skit.” We are all bombarded with negativity in some form every single day. And while the struggles we face and the current events of today are indeed serious, life is meant to be enjoyed. Humor is usually paired with confidence, and those who learn to laugh at themselves have others gravitating to them. It’s a strength, one Sara relies on. When she walks in a room, she wants people happy to see her. She shares her inner light and encourages her three kids, now adults, to do the same. Being genuine is a trait lost on many, though quickly recognized. Sara finds our culture more inclusive of women and their viewpoints. We’re being heard. Seeing others in the same boat, sharing our stories is empowering, and there’s “strength in numbers.” Seeing women validated makes her proud to be a woman at this moment in history. Her story is not one of perfection. She admits failed relationships shaped who she is. Across the board, for women of all ages, “Bad love is not better than no love.” Some of her best memories were post-divorce with her three kids crammed into a tiny apartment. You make the most of what you have, and sometimes less makes you appreciate it more. Sara is from Monroe, raised her kids here, and started a business here with her now husband Robert, partners and investors. Flying Tiger Brewery is in the heart of downtown and thriving. The flagship endeavor shows the willingness of Monroe’s citizens to follow passion. Sara admits Monroe is a jewel. It is just in need of people willing to see its potential, keep it polished and take it to another level. And while a business endeavor is a risk, they believe it will make it, and that Monroe will “keep drinking beer.” Sara is most proud of her children and the adults they have become. All three possess “huge hearts” and a sense of humor that Sara has always exhibited and appreciated. She’s learned to “let toxicity go,” focusing on the good, relishing in the laughs, and making the most of the present. “Don’t become something just because someone else wants you to, or because it’s easy; you won’t be happy. You have to do what you really, really, really, really want to do, even if it scares you.” - Kristen Wiig

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hristie Echols enjoys seeing women living as “authentically as possible.” She relates to a feminist perspective, wanting an equal opportunity to compete in her field, but has learned to celebrate being a primary parent. She’s found peace with both the sacrifices and blessings that come with it. She shares that she has an intense passion for her work; however, her family is her greatest source of pride. She’s found that the sacrifices she’s made to prioritize her family have better positioned her to be of value to her community. “I’ve learned the hard way that if you are too overworked to be kind to you kids, spouse, or the neighbor you bump into, you aren’t really making the world a better place, even if your work is for the betterment of your community.” She appreciates the examples of both men and women prioritizing family. Working in a male dominated field, she makes a conscious effort not to hide away her role as a parent but to set an example that, even in the workplace, we should embrace all the important roles we play. Christie isn’t afraid of forging her own path and encourages younger women to do the same. When Christie didn’t fit into the

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profession she was educated for, she found a different opportunity to express her passion. She listened to her inner voice and took a chance. Christie spent a decade becoming an architect, but in a field where overtime is the norm, she didn’t consider it a fit for her “mommy years.” Now as an architect-developer in Downtown Monroe, she is able to express her creativity while giving back to her community. As a college student she always said, “Austin or Boston.” But after her brother’s illness, she knew she wanted to stay close to home. Visiting downtown Monroe with her parents, she could see the lifestyle she wanted “painted over Monroe’s existing cityscape.” This included walkability, culture, beautiful buildings and an intimate sense of community. Christie loves working with others who share her passion for revival. The opening of the Baker Building was a collaboration of seven creative people. Christie wants the area to be a “mecca for creativity, the heart of the city.” While she loves her work, it is really her relationships with family, friends and community members that matter most.The career risks she’s taken to protect those relationships have paid off; An emphasis on balance and fulfillment is Christie’s authentic life.

It’s the time for women to shine, and Talitha Elliott shines bright. People are more open to women having drive, power, and opportunity, all that women have to offer. Talitha is capitalizing on her strengths and is encouraged by the appreciation of her efforts. She didn’t let society’s sometimes antiquated view of a woman’s limitations stop her drive. Married with a seven-month old son, Talitha began Chiropractic school; she became pregnant with twins a year into her coursework. Breastfeeding inbetween classes, Talitha wanted her kids to see Mommy working and investing in them. She does it for her kids. Getting accepted meant a move to Dallas, and Talitha experienced a moment of hesitation and self-doubt. Her dad said, “Time is going to go by, whether you’re in school or not - might as well chase a goal.” Talitha wouldn’t be the same person without proving to herself that she could do it. She has since opened her own clinic, New Health Chiropractic, in Monroe. Now the responsibility of the business rests on her shoulders, but being the boss allows her the freedom to make her own choices with her time. She stepped out on faith, boosted by the confidence of having faced challenges head-on. She sees more doors opening as a result of her willingness to try. And she is no stranger to failure. With all the demands of family, Talitha admits she failed her boards the first time and moved back to Monroe. She could have given up, accepting defeat, but that’s not who Talitha is. Hardship is her sweet spot. Digging back in and passing her boards even further cemented her confidence and her faith. She now walks in her truth. Her patients say she is, “not like a regular doctor.” She brings that light with her wherever she goes. Talitha is a good neighbor, using her business and her platform to educate the community. She’s a firm believer in, “what you put in comes back to you,” and serves as an active member of Monroe’s Junior League and Alpha Kappa Alpha. She loves the smalltown feel of Monroe and is proud her four kids can grow up here. With three of them being girls, she encourages them to work hard and stay focused, reminding them they can accomplish anything. Talitha is proof her advice rings true. She is proud of her family and being an accomplished African-American woman in business.

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my Robinson is proud to be a woman in 2018. Our culture has shifted, giving women more choices over their own lives. Whether they choose motherhood, a career, both or neither, Amy likes seeing women control their own stories. Flipping her own script was a risk Amy is proud she had the courage to take. She left a salary with benefits to purchase The Paper Market in Monroe with the hopes of improving the store and providing herself a more flexible schedule to focus on her family. Being her own boss and managing others has taught Amy about herself. She’s learned to embrace her own weaknesses and rely on the talents of her employees. Amy always liked being in control, but she has learned to roll with the punches, learn from her mistakes and keep moving forward. Many of Amy’s employees are in college, and she tells them it’s “okay to not know exactly what you want to be.” One of her girls changed her major three times, and Amy reminded her it’s okay. Just focus on finishing the degree. “The person you are now will change.” Your wants, desires, goals will evolve with time; and staying determined will ensure you land where you belong. Amy encourages women to invest in their community. “Wherever you are, find time to contribute to one organization or cause, bettering where you live.” You will learn from others while making your community thrive. We all want a city that welcomes new families and businesses, and giving back ensures the best chance for your community to grow. Amy is a lifetime member of the ULM Alumni Association and The L Club and is involved with First United Methodist Church. She is encouraged by the societal shifts for women, particularly the emphasis on self-care. “There was a time when I thought I could do it all, but I’ve learned I can’t do it all at the same time.” Women can’t be caregivers without taking care of themselves. She wants to be remembered for how she treated others. Whether it is her family, her employees, customers or even strangers, she believes everyone deserves kindness, love and respect. Alongside her husband Brian, and their children: Grant, Connor and Kate, Amy exemplifies her own version of womanhood, having both a career she loves and a family she has time for. Amy has forged her own path and widened it when necessary.

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lberta knows that being a woman means being gentle, yet strong and willing to use her knowledge, compassion and drive to serve her family and community. Women juggle multiple titles such as mothers, wives, employees, business owners, community volunteers; the list is endless. Alberta believes multitasking and work/life balance was created for women, by women. Her purpose of being a change-agent that impacts and guides individuals, organizations and businesses to reach their full potential is something she lives by daily. It is clear Alberta has a drive to serve her community. As a Sunday School Superintendent, President of Christopher Youth Center, Member of Ouachita Business Alliance, ULM Foundation Board and University Health Conway Board, she has been blessed with the opportunity to make a difference while working with people from different backgrounds, cultures, socioeconomic statuses, personalities and beliefs. Alberta enjoys seeing the immediate difference her contributions of service and time makes and strives for the continued success of her community. Alberta is no stranger to hard work and dedication. She currently serves as VP of Organizational Strategy & IT Initiatives for North Louisiana Economic Partnership and oversees the company wide initiative to recruit and support technology companies. She also is the owner of ABG Counseling and Career Consulting LLC where she provides Strategic Planning, Organizational Effectiveness, Training and Development, and Upper Management & Leadership Coaching. Her years of experience across various career industries have prepared her to embrace change, digging in when the tide shifts. Having worked for the state, higher academia, a fortune 500 company, nonprofits, and as a business owner equips her with the knowledge to succeed and the connections to make big moves. Her advice to college girls is simply, “know who you are, live authentically and be willing to do what it takes to succeed, through Christ.” Trust me, you will live your best life sooner than you think, so slow down, breathe life in through your nostrils and blow it out softly while enjoying the ride. Life has given Alberta a wonderful family she is proud of: two amazing boys, Toby Jr. and Jacob, and her “caring, supportive” husband Toby Green. She is also a seasoned career woman and entrepreneur, endeavors that compliment her personality and home life. She is not afraid to seek and do it all, several steps at a time. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 195


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achel Davison is proud of her role, though she didn’t come into it lightly. In college, she was convinced she wanted to go to dental school, but she realized what you set your mind on at a young age does not determine who you become. After a degree in biology and chemistry she landed a marketing job, then opened her own business, and is now a full-time mother. She never thought she’d be here and wished she had considered all options of study, particularly something she could do from home. The decision to sell her business, Sue Paperie in Ruston, is one that she feared. She worried without an outlet, she “may lose her mind.” But the fear didn’t last long; she knows she’s needed at home.

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With the culture shift, staying home is not always a popular choice, as if the opportunities for women outside the home have to be seized. But the purpose is choice. Rachel always intended to keep working, but it was hard to leave her first child. With the support of her husband, absent of pressure, and a respect for the business she created, she knew where her heart was. She “didn’t want to give the business less than it deserved.” And she refused to shortcut her family. Now the new owners of Sue Paperie are carrying on her vision and giving it the time and attention the business needs. She feels blessed to have been able to experience both worlds. Her mother, Susan, the namesake of her store,

taught Rachel to smile and laugh and to remember to do something she enjoys. She remembers her mother reading on the porch, and how much she cherished that time. She and her husband Thomas are advocates for MedCamps and Lifehouse, Thomas serving on the board. She knows the community she invests in will be the one her children inherit. She strives to teach her daughters Olivia and Lilly to be kind and loving, and ultimately, “fight for what they believe in.” She encourages others to give back if in a position to do so, whether in their own community, church, or wherever they’re needed. Rachel invests her time in her girls, where she is most needed, and surprising even to herself, most fulfilled.

isti Cordell appreciates the current diverse landscape available to women. They’re revered as doers, multi-taskers, planners and negotiators. Women are finding their place in the corporate workforce and being respected while doing so. Misti would tell her college self to worry less about the logistics and what makes a “career.” There is always an opportunity to learn new a new skill set. Be a problem-solver, a doer. “You’ll always find a place in the world.” Be willing to work hard and jump in when needed while keeping your values and upholding your integrity. In order to move up, you first have to be willing to move outside of what is comfortable. Also, listen to the thoughts of others. You may not always agree, but there is opportunity to expand your own thought process. Misti takes risks every day. When she quit her pharmaceutical job to be a “stay-at-home mom,”(THE hardest job I ever had), her resume expanded. She started her own design business, working on four St. Jude dream homes. She has led the PTOs at both Lexington and St. Frederick High School and has served on many boards including MedCamps and Mercy Ministries. She ventured into politics, working for the current attorney general and is now employed as a Key Accounts manager at St. Francis Hospital. She embraced the unknown and asked tons of questions. Misti makes a point to always do what she can when she is asked. Humility is also a good trait. There is no task too big or small no matter what your “title” may be. At some point, she would like to see that her efforts made real and positive changes that will live well beyond her. She strives encourage other women and has a vested interest in her community. She is most proud of her two boys, John and Hank, and her husband, Hardeman. The boys have big hearts, and they’re thinkers. Hank, she calls her “strategist, holding adult conversations better than most adults.” John is empathetic, adventurous and a problem-solver. Misti and Hardeman are teaching them integrity and to find their gifts in life. Chase your dreams, and know that they won’t always fit in a box. No matter how life twists and turns, each new opportunity is one to be seized. Failure is a given, but when you pick yourself back up, growth is inevitable. “Continuous effort-not strength or intelligence- is the key to unlocking our potential.” Winston Churchill

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elia Simpson insists the best thing about being a woman in 2018 is “it can mean whatever you want it to mean.” It’s a good time to be a woman. They are involved in all facets of society and politics. Seeing other women rise in each professional level, embracing their achievements and their power is encouraging for all of us. Delia is particularly proud of being a businesswoman in a male-dominated industry. As Craft Brand Manager at Choice Brands, beer is her product. Going to national meetings for bigger breweries, Delia sees how few women there are by comparison. Working for a smaller company, every person’s role is essential, so no one gets lost in the shuffle. Navigating the dynamic has not been without challenges, but as the industry evolves, so does she. She’s confident in what she does, what she knows and how she performs. She would encourage college women to worry less about what others think of them. Being proud of your accomplishments is not conceited, but confident. Success looks different for everyone. If you do what you love and it makes you happy, that’s success. Delia took a risk moving to Jacksonville, Florida, at 23. She stepped out of her comfort zone in a brand new place, knowing no one. It taught her to stand on her own and trust her abilities. After ten years, moving back to Monroe was just as scary. She worried that she would regret it, that it may be a step backward. But with her newfound wisdom, she wasn’t the same person in Monroe she was before. Embracing her hometown, Delia knows the importance of investing in her community. In her line of work, helping to develop and expand our culture is key. Bringing new things to Monroe encourages people to stay here. With so many women involved in the community development, it provides a great atmosphere, with more ideas and perspectives. Delia is proud of Monroe thriving and its people seeing the potential in their town. Delia values humor and hopes people will remember her as kind and generous spirit. She likes making people laugh. Most of her memories of friends and relatives revolve around funny stories that are still told at family gatherings. Her grandmother’s poems and her mother’s quirky sayings are treasured family heirlooms. She hopes to leave the people she loves with the kind of stories they can laugh about over a beer… and that those stories lose nothing in the telling.

ulia Letlow says it’s an exciting time to be a career woman. “It’s inspiring to see women finding their voices, expressing themselves, encouraging one another.” Julia believes having mentors is instrumental. Women need to see ambition up close, be encouraged by those who are paving the way. Julia finds mentors in all aspects of her life. Whether it be family members, friends, or other career professionals, having that support, people in her corner, pushing her to succeed has helped her. She has learned lessons from her mentors through their willingness to openly share obstacles that they have faced and how to navigate around them. When they speak, Julia listens. Being a career woman is a role Julia has had time to master. Being a mother is new. Julia admits, “The village concept is not there anymore.” While motherhood is beautiful and fulfilling, it is also emotionally and physically consuming. In our time sensitive world, women must make the effort to reach out and cultivate those relationships; ask for help when we need it. We can’t do it all alone, and fortunately, we don’t have to. Julia now calls Start, Louisiana home, and she has found the most tight-knit, welcoming community that has enveloped her in its warmth. As her responsibilities have increased, she’s

learned to embrace the kindness of her family and neighbors and lean on them. While society encourages college students to focus, Julia recognizes the importance of seizing youth and freedom as a gift. “Soak up every second; enjoy being young. Date all the boys, and don’t take yourself too seriously.” It only gets better; finding contentment in the present while chasing your goals is essential. Live in the moment, even while working toward the future. Julia is not afraid of risks. Her biggest one was moving to Tampa, Florida, for graduate school. She grew more in those three years, outside her bubble, becoming a more wellrounded woman. She met people unlike herself, cementing her belief that varying perspectives enrich our souls. She has carried those people and those lessons with her. Failure inevitably happens, stinging her competitive nature. But behind failure comes humility, grounding us. Julia and her husband Luke will share that wisdom raising their son Jeremiah. An emphasis on ambition, seizing moments, and the hope to leave this world a better place than when she found it are the fabric of Julia’s story.

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Fig Delight Crust: 1 c sugar 1/4 tsp salt 1 stick butter 1/2 c chopped pecans

Topping: 8 oz cream cheese 1 c powdered sugar 8 oz cool whip

Filling: 1 qt fresh or frozen figs 1/2 - 3/4 c sugar Crust: Cut butter into flour and salt until coarse. Add pecans. Press into 10” square baking dish. Bake at 350º for 15-20 minutes. Filling: Cook figs with sugar until tender. Let cool and then mash or put into blender. Spread over crust. Topping: Mix cream cheese and powdered sugar until blended well. Fold in cool whip. Spread on top of figs. Cut into squares or bars and refrigerate.

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RELATIONSHIPS

Meredith’s Musings The Black Dress |

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the camera that is social media let me know she and her beloved had gotten married in Vegas, spur of the moment. Having just been engaged myself, and wanting something low key, I messaged her. Her elopement was sudden and everything she hoped it would be, and it was set. Boyfriend and I would do the same. Even though she wasn’t there for our nuptials, as no one was, she was a part of them, and that was okay, too. She gave me the idea. And I was thankful. When key people from our past play a part in our present, it seems fitting. Weeks later, post-nuptials for us, and even more weeks post-nuptials for my friend, I was cooking lasagna on a Monday night. I was giving my sauce the obligatory time it needs, and I opened Facebook. The first post to pop up was funeral arrangements for my friend’s husband, and I gasped. I never met him. It didn’t matter. She loved him. She, this girl who was kind to me at an age when kindness seemed overrated, she loved him. And my heart broke. I knew I had to go to this visitation. They had been married less than two months. When I arrived at 6:04 for a 6-8 visitation; it was packed, as it often is when the young leave us too early. I came alone, though a friend had offered to accompany me; I needed do this by myself. I waited in line. I signed the book. I felt guilty for the sparkling rock on my finger, and not because it was sparkling, but

because my husband was still breathing. Then I reminded myself it wasn’t about me, as I often have to do. I saw her, in her appropriate black “widow dress.” She looked beautiful, but that’s not what I saw at first. I saw the girl at the corner of the fence in the seventh grade looking for a friend. I saw her as I first saw her. She looked lost just as she had years before. I was four people back in line to hug her, and I noticed after each hug, she kept looking back at the casket, as if reminding herself that he was dead, reminding herself why she was there. Her mother hugged me first, and said, “Come back and visit.” What she meant was, “I know why you left. Please come back.” And then my friend and I made eye contact. I glimpsed a sparkle amongst her tears. Or maybe I just hoped I did. Her arms encircled me. My friend almost collapsed onto me. I chanted “I love you” over and over and then silence. There’s never anything to say. Cognizant of the long line behind me, I tried to pull back, but she wouldn’t let go. I was holding her weight, because she needed to rest. It was twenty minutes in to a two hour visitation, and she needed to rest. She felt she could on me. So I held her. For the 45 seconds she needed, I held her. Within five minutes, I was back in my car. I was balling on my steering wheel. I cried for my friend. I cried for her loss, though it sounds cheap to even call it just a loss. I cried, because my husband was at football practice. I cried, because she had to wear that beautiful black widow dress. She had to stand in that black dress, when everything in her wanted to collapse. I cried, because I didn’t have to stand there for two hours and comfort people when I needed the comforting. I cried, when I looked down at my bright dress of red and green and yellow. I hadn’t even thought about how my dress would seem alive next to hers. I cried for the harsh hand she’d been dealt, the hand she didn’t deserve. I cried, because I knew I could cry to my husband later, and not just cry about him. And most of all, I felt guilt, because I was glad it wasn’t me. I had dodged fate. I was the lucky one, the “superior one” again. And while I’ve never been more thankful to not be wearing a black dress, I’ve never felt more ashamed.

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Calendar of Events For a full list of event happenings in Northeast Louisiana, see our website at www.bayoulifemag.com September 1 Faith Family Fireworks Faith Family Fireworks is back! Join the Duck Commander crew and Robertson family for their 3rd Faith Family Fireworks. This year it will be better than ever with fun for all ages and admission to their newest attraction, Duck Commander the Tour. Venue: Duck Commander Warehouse Hours: 9:00 a.m. – 8:00 p.m. Cost: $15 at gate, $10 online Phone: 318-387-0588 September 7-9 Loyal Blue Weekend Come out to celebrate LA Tech football! The weekend begins with Rock the Railroad on Friday with live music, food and drinks, and a latenight pep rally. Festivities continue on Saturday with downtown shopping, free trolley to the stadium, tailgating, and the Bulldogs taking on Southern University. Finish the weekend right with Bulldog Brunch at select local restaurants. Venue: Downtown Ruston; Joe Aillet Stadium Hours: 6 p.m. Friday, 10 a.m. Saturday, 9 a.m. Sunday Cost: Free to attend Phone: 318-255-2031 Big Creek Trade Days Browse hundreds of vendors with clothing, accessories, home decor, homemade furniture, antique and vintage items and much more! Venue: 327 California Plant Road, Dubach, LA Cost: $5 for parking Hours: Friday-Saturday. 9 a.m. 5 p.m.; Sunday 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Phone: 318-680-1304 September 8 Driven Desires 2018 Car show for local car, truck, and bike enthusiasts to come together for a great time while helping local families effected by Muscular Dystrophy. Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe

Hours: Roll in 9:00 a.m., Show Time 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Cost: Pre-Registration: $30. Day of Prices: $35 in the Arena $20 Outside $5 for spectators; Kids 5 and under free Phone: 318-329-2225 Battle: A Training Event BATTLE is a women’s conference that prepares women to go to war for their loved ones, to look down their pews at church on Sunday mornings and realize who needs guidance, loving wisdom and biblical truth. Women will be prepared for the task of helping these precious family members—to teach and disciple each one of her family and friends to know Christ and his saving power, love and grace. Through Bible study, worships and training—women at the Battle conference will leave the day with a prepared battle plan ready to do the work God has given her to do! Venue: First West, 500 Pine Street, West Monroe Hours: 9 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. Cost: $20 (includes lunch) Phone: 318-322-5104 Goat Yoga at the Farm Not your usual yoga class! Goat Yoga at the farm is for people of all ability or no ability at all. It is lots of fun! This event will be outside so dress appropriately. Please bring your yoga mat. Class will be taught by Yogi, Elizabeth Griffon. Pre-paying guarantees a spot. Limited spots available. **Disclaimer: Class could be interrupted at any moment by baby goats wanting a cuddle! Venue: Double BB Farms 1816 Stubbs Vinson Road, Monroe Hours: 10:00 a.m. - 11:15 a.m. Cost: $20 Phone: 318-355-1824 A Night With Heroes Gala A once in a life time chance to experience a historic military tradition, at the Vantage Tower in historic downtown Monroe, LA., and enjoy an evening of food, fun, dancing

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and entertainment. You can dance the night away to music provided by the Louisiana Jazz Quartet of West Monroe. Participate in a silent auction featuring some of the finest items, services and experience anywhere. Dine on a fabulous meal provided by a local culinary chef, and enjoy the fellowship of those who gather to honor our heroes. Let Our H.O.M.E. to help raise support for veterans and veterans’ families. Hours : 6:00 - 9:00 p.m. Cost: Couple Tickets: $87.50, Individual Ticket: $100 Address : Vantage Tower 130 Desiard St, Monroe, LA 71201 Phone : (318) 324-0001 September 9 Favorite Son Concert: Operatic Tenor Arnold Rawls and Friends The Assembly Church in West Monroe will host a triumphant homecoming concert of one of the Twin Cities’ favorite sons, tenor Arnold Rawls. Arnold has in the past few years sung some of his signature heroic roles at the most prestigious opera venue, the Metropolitan Opera in New York City, as well as opera centers in Europe, Australia, and the Far East. Added voices will come from the choirs of Arnold’s alma maters of West Monroe High School and the University of Louisiana at Monroe. Admission for the concert is free of charge, but because of limited seat availability, a ticket must be reserved to come to the event. Tickets are available at Fiesta Nutrition Center and online. There is a $10 suggested donation for the concert, and all proceeds will go toward the Louisiana Opera’s production expenses this coming season as well as the Northeast Louisiana Arts Council, co-sponsor of this event. The Assembly will provide free childcare for children under five years old. Venue: The Assembly West Monroe 102 Blanchard Street, West Monroe Hours: 6 p.m.

September 9-12 Rhea Lana’s of Monroe Huge Children’s Consignment Event Join Rhea Lana’s of Monroe for the most exciting Children’s Consignment Event in the ArkLaMiss! Shop thousands of highquality, like-new and boutique children’s clothing, furniture, baby gear, toys and more- as well as juniors clothing and maternity items at 70-80% off retail! Barak Shrine Temple, 6620 Frontage Road, Monroe (half a mile down from Sam’s Club) Hours: Visit monroe.rhealana.com for full schedule Cost: SALE DAYS - OPEN TO THE PUBLIC Free admission, No pass needed Phone: 318-355-4805 September 11 September 11th Memorial The Chennault Aviation and Military Museum is partnering with the Northeast LA Delta African American Museum to present a memorial service. Venue: Northeast Louisiana Delta African American Heritage Museum 1051 Chennault Park Drive, Monroe Cost: Free Phone: 318-342-8889 September 13 Ladies’ Night Out Ladies, it’s a night out just for you! Leave the men at home! Shopping, Fashion Show, Music, Food, Drinks and more! Not just that, but when you purchase a ticket, you are also supporting SOS Pets of Ouachita’s nonprofit mission to build a modern new Ouachita Parish Animal Shelter! Venue:Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 5:00 - 9:00 p.m. Cost: $8 Phone: 318-329-2225 Drake White at the Revelry of Ruston Country music’s Drake White will be performing live at the Revelry!

Venue The Revelry of Ruston Cost: $10 Early Bird, $15 in advance, $20 day of the show Hours: Doors open at 7:00 p.m. Must be 18 to enter. Phone: 318-255-1008 September 13-16 and 20-22 Mel Brooks, Young Frankenstein Frederick Frankenstein finds when he inherits his family’s estate in Transylvania, he also gets a hunchback sidekick - Igor, as well as the instant desire to bring to life a creature to rival his grandfather’s. Eventually, of course, the monster escapes and hilarity abounds. A monstrously good entertainment! Venue: Strauss Theatre Center 1300 Lamy Lane, Monroe Hours: 7 p.m. Thursday Saturday, 2 p.m. on Sunday Cost: $30 for Adults $10 for Students Phone: 318-323-6681 September 15 Super Saturday Super Saturdays include gardenbased activities for children and adults, early childhood activities in the outdoor learning center, community health fair in the parking lot, seminars for parents of children 0-18 in main hall, and volunteer opportunities in the garden and in the community. Super Saturday is part of the revitalization effort in downtown Monroe and will coordinate with compatible third Saturday events as well be a meet up for United Way 211 volunteer opportunities both in the garden and in the community. Venue: Children’s Coalition for Northeast Louisiana 117 Hall Street, Monroe Hours: Gates open at 9:00 and close at Noon Cost: Free Phone: 318-323-8775 West Monroe Bench Mania Men and Women’s bench press competition sponsored by the Army National Guard. You must be 14 years of age or older to compete. Venue: The Wellness Center 3215 Cypress St., West Monroe Hours: 10:00 a.m. Cost: $20 to compete Phone: 318-329-9100 Goat Yoga at the Farm Not your usual yoga class! Goat Yoga at the farm is for people of all

ability or no ability at all. It is lots of fun! This event will be outside so dress appropriately. Please bring your yoga mat. Class will be taught by Yogi, Elizabeth Griffon. Pre-paying guarantees a spot. Limited spots available. **Disclaimer: Class could be interrupted at any moment by baby goats wanting a cuddle! Venue: Double BB Farms 1816 Stubbs Vinson Road, Monroe Hours: 10:00 - 11:15 a.m. Cost: $20 Phone: 318-355-1824 The Wellspring Bowl and Bling Come join the fun and throw strikes and spares to benefit The Wellspring in Northeast Louisiana as Trinity Diamonds Direct presents the first ever Wellspring Bowl and Bling. Get your team together and enjoy this fun day! Venue:Bayou Bowl, 101 Horseshoe Lake Road, Monroe Hours: 1:00 - 10:00 p.m. Cost: $50 a person, $300 a team, $600 for an entire lane Phone: 318-325-2062 The Black and White Ball Dress up in your finest for The Black and White Ball to raise money and awareness for The Children’s Advocacy Center (CAC). This is a night full of live music from Rockin’ Dopsie Jr. and the Zydeco Twisters, decadent cuisine and fabulous prize opportunities at the beautiful Bayou DeSiard Country Club. Venue: Bayou DeSiard Country Club 3501 Forsythe Avenue, Monroe Hours: 7:00 p.m. Cost: $100 Phone: 318-398-0945 September 20 Rock N Box at the Food Bank Join the Food Bank and Hidden Tracks for a rocking night of volunteering! Volunteers will sort and box food to help our hungry neighbors while jamming to live 90’s rock from Hidden Tracks. Minimum age 16. Volunteers should be able to lift 25 pounds. Wear closed toed shoes and comfy clothing. This event always fills up quick, so reserve your spot today! Register at https:// rocknbox2018.eventbrite.com *This event is free but donations are always appreciated!* Venue: Food Bank of Northeast CONTINUED ON NEXT PAGE WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | SEPTEMBER 2018 207


Louisiana, 4600 Central Ave, Monroe Hours: 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. Cost: FREE Phone: 318-322-3567 The Unafraid Indie Film The Unafraid is a featurelength documentary that follows the personal lives of three DACA (Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals) students in Georgia. This film is brought to you by the North Central Louisiana Arts Council and Southern Circuit Tour of Independent Filmmakers. Venue: Dixie Center for the Arts Cost: $5, $3 for students Hour: 7:00 p.m. Phone: 318-255-1450 September 21 12th Annual Golf Classic Monroe’s Chamber of Commerce and Progressive Bank present the 12th Annual Golf Classic. $500 per 4-person Golf team or $150 per individual. Includes: Golf Cart and Green Fees, Range, Lunch, Snacks, Beverages, Gift Bags and Door Prizes. Venue: Frenchman’s Bend Golf Course, 1484 Frenchman’s Bend, Monroe Cost: $500 per 4-person Golf team or $150 per individual September 21-30 2018 Ark-La-Miss Fair Join the fun at the 2018 ArkLa-Miss Fair for two weeks of food, animals, rides and more! You are sure to find something for the whole family to enjoy! Venue: Monroe Civic Center, 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Cost : Admission Prices $5 Adults $3 Children (2-11) Tickets and Wristband prices vary. Phone : 318-329-2225 September 22 Goat Yoga at the Farm Not your usual yoga class! Goat Yoga at the farm is for people of all ability or no ability at all. It is lots of fun! This event will be outside so dress appropriately. Please bring your yoga mat. Class will be taught by Yogi, Elizabeth Griffon. Pre-paying guarantees a spot. Limited spots available. **Disclaimer: Class could be interrupted at any moment by baby goats wanting a cuddle! Venue: Double BB Farms 1816 Stubbs Vinson Road, Monroe

Hours: 4:00 - 5:15 p.m. Cost: $20 Phone: 318-355-1824 20th Birthday Celebration! Celebrate our 20th year at The Children’s Museum! Activities will be happening all day long including: Make and take party hat, paint the Beetle Bug, build a LEGO mural of the Museum, enjoy some of our biggest cake ever, take photos in the Selfie Station and PLAY! The evening will be a separate event featuring TROUT FISHING IN AMERICA at 6:30 p.m. (additional fee, see below) Venue: Northeast Louisiana Children’s Museum 323 Walnut Street, Monroe Hours: 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Cost: $6 per person Phone: 318-361-9611 Trout Fishing in America Concert Come celebrate 20 years of family fun at The Children’s Museum! Fun activities all day are scheduled and Grammy nominated and awesome duo, Trout Fishing in America, will perform in the evening! Tickets are $6 per person for ages 1 and up. Venue: Northeast Louisiana Children’s Museum, 323 Walnut Street, Monroe Hours: 6:30 p.m. Cost: $6 per person Phone: 318-361-9611 ULM Warhawks Vs. Troy Trojans Join in on the fun and head to Malone Stadium to watch the ULM Warhawks take on the Troy Trojans! Venue: ULM Malone Stadium Hours: 6:00 p.m. kickoff Cost: $22-32 September 24 Celebrate Fall Full Moon Walk Join a ranger for a guided walk the day after the first day of Fall! Venue: Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Refuge 480 Richland Pl Drive, Monroe Hours: 6:45 - 7:45 p.m. Phone: 318-387-1114 September 26-29 Munchkin Market Fall/Winter Sale Kids Consignment Event Munchkin Market is Northeast Louisiana’s original children’s consignment sale. This sale is the perfect way to purchase clothing, toys and gear for your growing kids! Hours : 10:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m. Cost : $10

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Venue: Pine Grove Baptist Church 4200 Loop Road, Monroe, LA 71201 Phone : 318-325-7719 Website: munchkinmarket.com September 28 9th Annual ANGUS United Way Golf Tournament Come and enjoy the 9th Annual ANGUS Chemical United Way Golf Tournament. Last year the tournament was a tremendous success with great food, plenty of prizes and lots of fun. Most importantly, they raised $27,000 for the Northeast Louisiana United Way! This year the tournament will have 2 FLIGHTS with a shotgun start at 8 a.m. and 1 p.m. Prizes will be awarded after the tournament. There will also be door prizes, a silent auction, and all the food and drinks you could want! Teams are reserved on a first come, first serve basis and the deadline for sign up is Wednesday, September 5th. Venue: Chennault Park and Golf Course 8475 Millhaven Road, Monroe Phone: 318-329-2454 September 29 River Rat Paddle Challenge The River Rat Paddle Challenge will start at the boat ramp on Bayou D’Arbonne near the White’s Ferry Road Bridge and end on the Ouachita River at Trapp’s Restaurant in West Monroe for food, fun and awards. Participants will race (or leisurely enjoy a good time) down a 6 and a half mile stretch of the scenic Ouachita River. Paddling enthusiasts will enter numerous categories for kayaks, canoes, paddle boards and just about any type of paddle craft you can imagine, including classes for individuals and teams, as well as the infamous Spirit of the Ouachita Award. Proceeds of the River Rat Paddle Challenge benefit Horse Assisted Therapy Services of North Louisiana, Inc. (HATS), a 501(c)(3) nonprofit corporation located right here in Calhoun, LA. HATS is a therapeutic horsemanship program offering riding and other equestrian activities to individuals with disabilities. Please be at the boat ramp and ready by 9:30 a.m. for the safety briefing. Venue: Joe-Bob’s Landing 2038 Bayou D’Arbonne Dr, West Monroe Hours: 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Cost: $50 Phone: 318-322-6117

Camp Quality 5K The 5th Annual Camp Quality 5K Race and 1 Mile Fun Run will take place in beautiful Chennault Park. Proceeds from the race go directly to help Camp Quality host summer camps for children with cancer. It is a great, fun event for a great cause. Venue: Chennault Park and Golf Course 8475 Millhaven Road, Monroe Hours: 4:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Phone: 318-329-2454 September 28-29 Louisiana Chicken Festival Join the community of Dubach for the 30th annual Louisiana Chicken Festival! With events ranging from antique car shows, a street dance and a parade, there’s something for everyone to enjoy. Venue: Downtown Dubach Hours: Friday 12 p.m., Saturday 8 a.m. Phone: 318-777-1964 Enjoy your stay in MonroeWest Monroe! We at the Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitor’s Bureau hope you have a great stay here! Please feel free to call us at 800-843-1872 if you have any questions. You may also stop by our offices at 601 Constitution Drive, West Monroe for brochures, coupons and additional information. Visit www.monroe-westmonroe. org for information about events in Ouachita Parish and visit www.rustonlincoln.com for events in Lincoln Parish.

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